Speaker 1: And we're back with another episode of Separation Anxiety. I
Speaker 1: am your host, Marcus.
Speaker 2: Jordan, and I'm Larsa Pippot and.
Speaker 1: We've got a wide range of topics to talk about today, babe.
Speaker 2: But first, let's have so many things to talk about.
Speaker 2: So I'm super excited.
Speaker 1: I know, let's talk about our summer plans. Though. How
Speaker 1: summer been going on?
Speaker 2: From your perspective, summer has been amazing. I kind of
Speaker 2: don't want to make plans.
Speaker 1: I know. I feel like you were so busy with
Speaker 1: the show. Yeah, and we had to be in Miami,
Speaker 1: but it was like on, go, go go, And now
Speaker 1: you finally have like free time. You've been spending time
Speaker 1: with your kids. Your kids just left Miami and so
Speaker 1: talk about how that was.
Speaker 2: I had the best time. Scotty and Preston were here
Speaker 2: and we basically did dinners. We took them to a
Speaker 2: whole bunch of places. It was really fun, and I
Speaker 2: feel like it's kind of fun that, like I get
Speaker 2: to hang out my kids now and go to clothes
Speaker 2: with them. Yeah, I think I think that's kind of crazy.
Speaker 1: I've talked about this before, but like you have the
Speaker 1: best relationship with your kids you're almost like best friends
Speaker 1: with them. You guys speak every day, and so it's
Speaker 1: kind of admirable that you know your guys' relationship.
Speaker 2: I just love being around them, and I'm so proud
Speaker 2: of them, and I feel like I give them advice,
Speaker 2: like they're like my best friends, you know, my kids,
Speaker 2: my siblings, and I love the fact that my boys
Speaker 2: are so close to my siblings. Like, have you seen
Speaker 2: anything like that before?
Speaker 1: No. I think you've definitely come from a tight knit family,
Speaker 1: and you know, you guys are like like literally all
Speaker 1: best friends. Your sisters calling your sons, and your sons
Speaker 1: hang out with your brother, you know, like your mom
Speaker 1: and dad, you know, speak with you and your sisters
Speaker 1: and brothers every day, and so it's pretty amorable. It's
Speaker 1: pretty amorable. You know. I think my family we more
Speaker 1: we're texters. You know, we text each other obviously if
Speaker 1: there's an emergency or something going on, but we'll call
Speaker 1: or FaceTime. But I just feel like we communicate best
Speaker 1: through texts because we're all at different stages of our lives,
Speaker 1: and you know, we're also busy, so I just feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, we drop note and whenever somebody freezes up
Speaker 1: they respond to it, you know.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 1: Another thing we've been doing, I feel like a lot
Speaker 1: is we've been binge watching shows. God, now that we
Speaker 1: have all this free time, you're obsessed with ninety day Fiance.
Speaker 1: The other way, I love it, and it's it's it's.
Speaker 2: We're going to talk about talk about that, right, we'll
Speaker 2: talk about that show actually.
Speaker 1: But first let's jump into it. So Tom Brady's been
Speaker 1: linked to Bradley Cooper's X she's a Russian model Arena
Speaker 1: and they were spotted being flirting in Tom's car over
Speaker 1: the weekend in La Arena, and the former NFL quarterback
Speaker 1: first sparked dating rumors back in June. And so give
Speaker 1: me your thoughts on it.
Speaker 2: I love them together. I think they're great. Yeah, And
Speaker 2: it's funny because she dated Christiana Ronaldo for a long
Speaker 2: time and I don't think that worked out because maybe
Speaker 2: like he was there and she, you know, she's here.
Speaker 2: But exactly, I definitely feel like they're really cute together esthetically.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like most notably she dated Bradley Cooper.
Speaker 1: You know, she was linked to Yay for a second.
Speaker 1: But you know, I think it's a you know, you're
Speaker 1: an adult, you could date whoever you want. I think
Speaker 1: it's similar to kind of how we met. You know,
Speaker 1: you run around with people in the same circles, you
Speaker 1: see people at events, and you know, gradually over time
Speaker 1: that ends up becoming, oh, let's let's go on a date,
Speaker 1: and so, you know, I don't think that there's much
Speaker 1: there yet, but well, I think it's sparking.
Speaker 2: I think if you're around a type, like if you're
Speaker 2: around the same person and you you open up to them,
Speaker 2: you know, I think it's hard to like date people
Speaker 2: that you don't really like, have anything in common with,
Speaker 2: if you don't have friends in common or like places
Speaker 2: that you like to go. So I think it's definitely
Speaker 2: it definitely makes it easier when you're in the same
Speaker 2: circle of friends and community. Your community is really important.
Speaker 1: I think it's super important. And would it matter to
Speaker 1: you if your partner had been with several high profile
Speaker 1: people before you?
Speaker 2: I don't think so, do you?
Speaker 1: I mean obviously not. I think you've been linked to
Speaker 1: some some you know, notable people in the past, and
Speaker 1: so now I don't think that that bothers me. It's
Speaker 1: just it's just part of the game. I guess.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think. I think it's your past, and
Speaker 2: your past is your past as long as as long
Speaker 2: as when you guys leave that relationship, I think, and
Speaker 2: you leave it respectfully and don't dog each other publicly,
Speaker 2: because I could never be in a situation where I'm
Speaker 2: like dogging someone publicly or be with someone that dogged
Speaker 2: someone publicly, because I think that's the worst.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's why it's important to choose the
Speaker 1: right partner, you know, because I feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes those signs are there, Yeah, even when you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship, and so to be talking down on your
Speaker 1: ex partner or their family, right, I think that's tacky,
Speaker 1: that's kind of that's kind of whack.
Speaker 2: I dated a guy a couple of times, and he
Speaker 2: literally was bashing his ex wife so bad that I
Speaker 2: was like, I could never be with you because you're
Speaker 2: just not Yeah, you know, you're not the right one
Speaker 2: for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Or another thing that I hate is like pillow
Speaker 1: talking when you're in a relationship, Like if someone is
Speaker 1: just constantly telling you somebody else's business or so caught
Speaker 1: up in their ex relationship, Like I think that's a
Speaker 1: big like, no, no red.
Speaker 2: Flag for me, Yeah, I hear you.
Speaker 1: And so if you met somebody who had a history
Speaker 1: of dating prominent people, is that necessarily a red flag
Speaker 1: for you? No?
Speaker 2: I feel you know, you like what you like. Like honestly,
Speaker 2: I feel like that are people that only want to date.
Speaker 2: There's I say that only want to date Ken.
Speaker 1: I was just about to say, I feel like you're
Speaker 1: one of those people that like, if you don't necessarily
Speaker 1: have status or notoriety, then you're not necessarily attracted to them. Me.
Speaker 1: I mean you, I feel like, not necessarily obviously you
Speaker 1: could date a regular Joe Schmoe. But I just feel like,
Speaker 1: who you are seriously attracted to somebody, they got to
Speaker 1: bring something to the table, not necessarily be a celebrity
Speaker 1: or wealthy or whatever, but they got to have some
Speaker 1: sort of status. Be a CEO or you know, a
Speaker 1: high level executive.
Speaker 2: You know what I do? Like what a boss?
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And most often then not bosses
Speaker 1: you know are well known.
Speaker 2: I kind of like bosses. I don't know. I feel
Speaker 2: like I've dated guys that I thought like, oh, he's
Speaker 2: so cute or whatever, and then like I feel like
Speaker 2: it's hard to put people in different situations, right, So
Speaker 2: I think it's hard to put them and like, hey,
Speaker 2: I have to go to this meeting, and do you
Speaker 2: want to come with me? And then they like have
Speaker 2: nothing to say, they just look at you, or like
Speaker 2: it's hard to put people in different situations, like based
Speaker 2: on whol you know, I am, based on who you
Speaker 2: are as far as I did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for me, I never really put much emphasis in
Speaker 1: somebody being a celebrity or you know, high profile. I
Speaker 1: always felt like, you know, my name carries a lot
Speaker 1: of weight, you know, and so I was always bringing
Speaker 1: that into my previous relationships and so you know, actually,
Speaker 1: I feel like when I was younger, I preferred my
Speaker 1: anonymity and not necessarily dating somebody high profile. But I
Speaker 1: guess that all changed with when I met.
Speaker 2: You, I guess. So I love that.
Speaker 1: Anything else you want to add on.
Speaker 2: This topic, No, I feel like I'm at the right
Speaker 2: place at the right time with you.
Speaker 1: So it's all great, same same baby, same same. And
Speaker 1: so Meghan Marco and Prince Harry are allegedly in a
Speaker 1: major feud with the Beckhams. Obviously I know I'm team
Speaker 1: Beckham on this one, but ye, several outlets are reporting
Speaker 1: that a tense conversation between the two couples resulted in
Speaker 1: the end of their friendship. Anonymous sources claim Meghan and
Speaker 1: Harry suspected David and Victoria of leaking information about the
Speaker 1: former royals, and so what do you think about Okay, first.
Speaker 2: Of all, David and Victoria are not leak any type
Speaker 2: of information? Are you kidding me? That's like the craziest thing.
Speaker 2: But I know I'm going to get a lot of
Speaker 2: backlash for this, but I have to keep it real.
Speaker 2: There's something weird about Meghan, Like I don't know, I
Speaker 2: just feel like I don't trust her. It just doesn't
Speaker 2: give me like the trust factor. I just feel like,
Speaker 2: I don't know. Like I tried to get into watching
Speaker 2: their documentary. It really was rooting for them, and I'm
Speaker 2: still rooting for them, like I want them to be great,
Speaker 2: but I just feel like there's something that's off. I
Speaker 2: don't know what it is. It's just off, like it's
Speaker 2: like you're doing too much, You're I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's just a yeah, there's definitely a lot of smoke there.
Speaker 1: And I feel like, you know, if you have a
Speaker 1: lot of high profile friends and you know, you're constantly
Speaker 1: in the news for you know, gossip type stuff, then
Speaker 1: nobody wants to hang out with you, you know, and
Speaker 1: so I feel like who wants to you know, Well,
Speaker 1: first of.
Speaker 2: All, the Beckham's starting to talk about anyone? Why would
Speaker 2: they talk about them? That doesn't even make any sense.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I said, I'm team Beckham. We see David
Speaker 1: and Victoria all the time and they're always super sweet,
Speaker 1: and so I'm running with them for sure. Do you
Speaker 1: think alis celebs are starting to turn their backs on
Speaker 1: the Royals?
Speaker 2: I think everyone wanted to believe in them, and I
Speaker 2: think they came to the States and everyone basically welcomed
Speaker 2: them here. Yeah, but I do feel like it was
Speaker 2: just like a publicity stunt, Like all of it has
Speaker 2: just been like a publicity stunt. And I feel like,
Speaker 2: you know, when she said she didn't know who he
Speaker 2: was or his family, it's just so crazy. It's like
Speaker 2: mind boggling to me that you would even say that, Like,
Speaker 2: how do you say that with a straight face?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm crazy. I don't necessarily subscribe to like the
Speaker 1: whole royal family, you know, you know who they are hysteria,
Speaker 1: But I do know I didn't know who.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know who Erry was.
Speaker 1: You know, And so for her to say that, it's
Speaker 1: kind of like I kind of.
Speaker 2: Feel sorry for him. Why because I feel like he
Speaker 2: looks Now, this is my assumption. I don't have no idea.
Speaker 2: I've never met him, I've never been seen them, but
Speaker 2: I just feel like he looks like he's so nice
Speaker 2: and like there's a touch of him that's like kind
Speaker 2: of gullible. I think, well, you.
Speaker 1: Know, I've heard that he has his own wild side,
Speaker 1: or at least had a wild phase, you know, And
Speaker 1: so I don't think you can be I'm sure he's
Speaker 1: been around the block a couple of times, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And at least from what I've seen,
Speaker 1: he's been like head over heell smitten with the girl.
Speaker 2: She's taken him for a run.
Speaker 1: Do you think so? Well? You know, again, I think,
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 2: How you give up your whole family, you give up
Speaker 2: a whole country, and like, what is he getting out
Speaker 2: of this?
Speaker 1: Well, you know, they had a couple of deals in
Speaker 1: a podcast that all fell through.
Speaker 2: I think that that says a lot about a person.
Speaker 2: If every time you're in a business deal things end
Speaker 2: up bad and both parties are not happy. There's a problem.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just you know, sometimes when you're coming from
Speaker 1: a situation like that, obviously leaving the royal family, there's
Speaker 1: certain sensitive topics that I'm sure they don't want to discuss,
Speaker 1: but you know, people want them to go there, and
Speaker 1: so maybe that is what soured their relationships, the business relationships.
Speaker 2: First of all, they told us way too much about
Speaker 2: the Royal family things. I didn't even want to know what.
Speaker 2: You know, I liked him before I knew I was
Speaker 2: going to say.
Speaker 1: Your mom, you know, was a Princess Diana fan, and
Speaker 1: she kind of kept up with it a little bit.
Speaker 1: So you had me watching whatever that documentary was on Netflix,
Speaker 1: and I think that's what we both kind of took
Speaker 1: away from It was like, you know, you want to
Speaker 1: be leaving the royal family, but you're still kind of
Speaker 1: highlighting the hierarchy and you know, the traditions and stuff,
Speaker 1: and so yeah, I just, you know, I don't subscribe
Speaker 1: to all of that stuff. But do you think that
Speaker 1: there's a way that they could repair their image.
Speaker 2: I'm sure there's always a way to repair your image. Yeah,
Speaker 2: of course, I just feel like you have to, Like,
Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like you have to do
Speaker 2: a whole bunch of good stuff and make good with
Speaker 2: the royal family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of smoke there, and nobody wants
Speaker 1: to join the smoking ship, so.
Speaker 2: Exactly, so I'm kind of rolling with you. I feel
Speaker 2: like maybe the Beckhams are distancing themselves because they don't
Speaker 2: want to be a part of the sinking ship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like I said, team David and Victoria m.
Speaker 2: M okay, let's talk about Megan Fox. She received some
Speaker 2: backlash after she posted a goalfundme for one of her girlfriends.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I saw that.
Speaker 2: I don't know what is the backlash for that, Like,
Speaker 2: if you're posting one of your friends go fundme pages
Speaker 2: to help your friend raise money, I feel like it's
Speaker 2: it's sometimes it's awkward, yeah, because I feel like I've
Speaker 2: been in situations where like one of my closest friends
Speaker 2: broke up with her boyfriend and she had nowhere to go,
Speaker 2: and she didn't want to ask me, and she was like,
Speaker 2: I don't, like I can't afford to like get a
Speaker 2: new place now because I've invested all this money in
Speaker 2: with my boyfriend and I have no furniture, and obviously
Speaker 2: I was like, I will help you, like whatever you
Speaker 2: need to help you, but it's awkward for your friends sometimes.
Speaker 2: So I think that it's like nice to be able
Speaker 2: to post, you know, your a GoFundMe page for your friend.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's like I don't think that's like
Speaker 2: a bad thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I guess why people called her out on
Speaker 1: social media was that she didn't I guess she didn't
Speaker 1: publicly donate herself to the cause. Yeah, And so I
Speaker 1: guess she wasn't among the you know how and gofunding
Speaker 1: you can kind of see the people that have donated,
Speaker 1: and so I guess she wasn't. On the air question
Speaker 1: was promoted.
Speaker 2: Okay, so let me ask you a question. You so,
Speaker 2: if you have five million followers and everyone donates twenty dollars, Okay,
Speaker 2: that's a lot of money, it is, So, I mean,
Speaker 2: isn't that easier for everyone to donate twenty Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I just think people have public outrage
Speaker 1: for any little thing.
Speaker 2: And I think I think everyone takes everything so personal,
Speaker 2: these things so serious crazy.
Speaker 1: I feel like people like to inject themselves into these
Speaker 1: types of topics and you know, hindsight is always twenty twenty.
Speaker 1: People say that they would give, give, give, but when
Speaker 1: it's really that time to give, do they? You know?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Actually,
Speaker 2: like the fact that she posted that for her friend.
Speaker 1: Yeah. One person wrote as if she isn't riches and
Speaker 1: could help their friend immediately. So she responded on Instagram
Speaker 1: and said, hey, whirred those Do any of you have
Speaker 1: the emotional intelligence to consider that maybe she doesn't want
Speaker 1: her celebrity clients donating large sums of money. Has anybody
Speaker 1: ever asked you to donate to GoFundMe?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I feel like, yeah, and did you Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: But I also feel like it's like you can't count
Speaker 2: other people's money, you know, you can't that people have
Speaker 2: a certain lifestyle. You know, people think like, oh, you
Speaker 2: make x amount of money, you have x amount of money,
Speaker 2: but you don't know their lifestyle. Yeah, because I feel
Speaker 2: like a lot of people blow through their money.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true, and a lot of people see, you know,
Speaker 1: the glitz and the glam on social media. I think
Speaker 1: that that's how somebody is living in real life. And sometimes,
Speaker 1: you know, people are playing roles even publicly.
Speaker 2: I mean, look at Housewives. I feel like there's so
Speaker 2: many of the characters on that show that like it's
Speaker 2: hocus pocus. You think they're like living in the city,
Speaker 2: You're trying to keep up with the lifestyle, and then
Speaker 2: literally you're like broke. Right, that's like my fear. Like
Speaker 2: I'm like, I never want to live above my means,
Speaker 2: Like that is not my personality.
Speaker 1: So, Larsa, do you think celebrities or wealthy people in
Speaker 1: general should be expected to help their friends and family financially.
Speaker 2: I think you kind of have an obligation to help
Speaker 2: your family a little bit, like just maybe like teach
Speaker 2: them how to fish, not necessarily give them the fish, right,
Speaker 2: you know. I do feel like you can start a
Speaker 2: business for your family instead of just like giving them
Speaker 2: the money or like help them make better decisions or
Speaker 2: things like that. I feel like I like that and
Speaker 2: your friends. You should be able to help your friends
Speaker 2: if you can afford it, but not enabling them. There's
Speaker 2: a difference.
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I think, you know, family obviously
Speaker 1: comes first, Yeah, but I'm definitely of the notion of,
Speaker 1: you know, got to go and get it out the mud.
Speaker 1: I think you can like you said, you can lead
Speaker 1: somebody to water, but you can't help them drink.
Speaker 2: I don't like a posse, like I'm not one of
Speaker 2: those people that need to take care of all my friends.
Speaker 1: You don't have a big entourage.
Speaker 2: Huh yeah, No, I don't. Even I wouldn't want to
Speaker 2: be with a guy that took care of all of
Speaker 2: his friends because I feel like that's like, it's not
Speaker 2: healthy relationships.
Speaker 1: I feel like that comes in different shapes, in sizes,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Helping out your friends, because
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes it can be a one on one transaction.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it can be, oh, it's a birthday party, birthday
Speaker 1: weekend and there's forty people come in and you know,
Speaker 1: one person gets stuck with the bill or something like that.
Speaker 2: You experience that recently.
Speaker 1: I mean I've dealt with that a lot. But you know,
Speaker 1: I think there's ways that you can help your friends,
Speaker 1: like you said, without enabling them. And then when it's family,
Speaker 1: it's a little more sensitive, you know, and obviously you
Speaker 1: don't want to I mean, depending on the situation, but
Speaker 1: most often than not, you never want to leave your
Speaker 1: family out.
Speaker 2: No for hanging out to dry but you know, what's
Speaker 2: really interesting. I feel like because of this whole backlash
Speaker 2: that Megan Fox is getting, I wonder if other celebrities
Speaker 2: are not going to want to like help their friends
Speaker 2: or other people, you know, publicly and just say hey,
Speaker 2: help my friend on this goalfundme page or whatever because
Speaker 2: you're getting backlash for it.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean for me, it's if you post, you know,
Speaker 1: a GoFundMe and you bring awareness to it, and then
Speaker 1: their in turn becomes new donations made to that GoFundMe
Speaker 1: that maybe wouldn't have been made previously, and I feel
Speaker 1: like you've done your job. You know, you can wipe
Speaker 1: your hands with it, and you know, like you said,
Speaker 1: you brought awareness to it, and you know, now there's
Speaker 1: additional funds in that account, and so now I think.
Speaker 2: That's you know, yeah, I think it's something nice to do.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2: Speaking of Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly, they were
Speaker 2: at a fair in LA and he punched someone in
Speaker 2: the face.
Speaker 1: So he punched someone in the face because there was
Speaker 1: a man in a family there and somebody.
Speaker 2: Said that they complimented Megan Megan was beautiful.
Speaker 1: At and sources say that MGK basically got upset with
Speaker 1: it and slapped the guy. How do you feel about that?
Speaker 2: That was not a good decision.
Speaker 1: I mean I think that there, oh, you know, there's.
Speaker 2: Gonna be there's going to be a lawsuit now because
Speaker 2: it's like.
Speaker 1: You sue everybody. But I don't know. I feel like,
Speaker 1: as a man, there are instances where you need to
Speaker 1: protect your woman, you know what I'm saying, and even
Speaker 1: if it has to get physical, it has to get physical.
Speaker 1: But I don't know, somebody calling your girlfriend beautiful, I
Speaker 1: don't know if that necessarily warrants.
Speaker 2: Maybe it was the way you said it, I mean, yeah,
Speaker 2: could you say it like in a like an aggressive
Speaker 2: way to make someone act a certain way?
Speaker 1: Probably there's definitely ways in tone plays a part of it.
Speaker 1: But still you've got to understand you're in your celebrity,
Speaker 1: You're a highly noticeable person, and especially if you put
Speaker 1: your hands on somebody, then you know there's going to
Speaker 1: be some backlash and fallout. And so I don't know,
Speaker 1: I feel like people, you know, like to compliment you
Speaker 1: and call you beautiful all the time. I don't necessarily
Speaker 1: I've never gotten worked up enough to knock somebody out,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm saying, but if somebody was like, damn,
Speaker 1: she's got a fat ass, or I don't want to
Speaker 1: say that this comment because you know, you know, we
Speaker 1: might talk about this in a block party later down
Speaker 1: the road. But there have been times where people publicly
Speaker 1: have said things about you, derogatory things about you, and
Speaker 1: I've found myself having to hold back, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, and so you know, I don't want to
Speaker 1: get too into the weeds on that. We'll talk about
Speaker 1: that later when we when we do our celebrity block party.
Speaker 1: Do you think mgk's behavior is romantic or is it
Speaker 1: a red flag?
Speaker 2: No, I kind of it's neither, or really I kind
Speaker 2: of feel like it's not it's not romantic because now
Speaker 2: we have an issue, and it's not a red flag
Speaker 2: because I feel like I kind of like it a
Speaker 2: little bit.
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I feel like there's like a happy medium because I
Speaker 2: feel like I like, like, I like when you get jealous,
Speaker 2: but then I would never want you to put you
Speaker 2: in a situation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I think there's like.
Speaker 2: A happy medium where you get where you feel like
Speaker 2: you're being protected and your man is jealous, but at
Speaker 2: the same time, let's not get physically.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't call it or categorize it as jealous. I
Speaker 1: would say he's protective. You know what I'm saying. He's
Speaker 1: trying to protect your space, protect your even mental well being,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And so I wouldn't necessarily
Speaker 1: say he's jealous of this dude at the fair, but
Speaker 1: he's trying to protect his woman, you know.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well you sound like you like it.
Speaker 1: I'm all here, I'm there. I'm from Chicago, you know,
Speaker 1: and so I'm very quick to confront somebody, but uh,
Speaker 1: you know, I think it has to be over the
Speaker 1: right stuff. Yeah, you know, and I think somebody calling
Speaker 1: you beautiful, I don't think that would work me up.
Speaker 1: But if somebody said, yo, she got a fat ass,
Speaker 1: or I wanted to I feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: people's here, you know.
Speaker 2: But I feel like a lot of people know he's
Speaker 2: kind of a bit of a hothead. So I feel
Speaker 2: like people might do things to instigate that and get
Speaker 2: a reaction out of you and end up having to
Speaker 2: suit you.
Speaker 1: So then vice versa. Sometimes people might think you're a
Speaker 1: pushover and try to say something to your girl or
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And then that's I think
Speaker 1: that's even that's even worse, you know, because sometimes those
Speaker 1: guys are just waiting for the right opportunity.
Speaker 2: Well, I think there's two perspective. I think the male
Speaker 2: perspective is a bit different than like the female.
Speaker 1: So do you find it flattering to get comments about
Speaker 1: your partner?
Speaker 2: I mean I like it. I like when people say like,
Speaker 2: you're cute, or you're handsome, or you're fine. I like that.
Speaker 1: So how about this. We were at the nail salon,
Speaker 1: right you made me get a pedicure, and when I
Speaker 1: was out, I walked out to get a smoothie or something,
Speaker 1: and there was this girl who stopped me and was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I love your store. I've been in
Speaker 1: your store, blah blah blah blah. Here's my card. And
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like moving away from her, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, thank you, you know this and that,
Speaker 1: but you know, I could see your eyes are hawking
Speaker 1: me for sure. And then when I came back, because
Speaker 1: actually I went to the cardo graph something and so
Speaker 1: then when I came back, she was still there, and
Speaker 1: the girl was super excited. She was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: she came back take my card, and I'm kind of
Speaker 1: like moving away from her, and she was like what
Speaker 1: did she say? She was like, why are you moving
Speaker 1: so fast? Like, you know, are you nervous?
Speaker 2: And it's not my girlfriends about to come on crazy.
Speaker 1: No, I'm just I'm trying to be respectful, but I'm
Speaker 1: trying to maintain the distance. And so I remember, you know,
Speaker 1: you sitting in Essla, you were a little you know,
Speaker 1: inquisitive about what had just occurred.
Speaker 2: Well, it's almost like I was watching a TV show
Speaker 2: because I had ear I had my EarPods in and
Speaker 2: I was talking to Dana and I was like, what
Speaker 2: is going on? What does this girl want with my boyfriend?
Speaker 2: Like what does she want with Marcus?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: And I was like like I couldn't understand what was
Speaker 2: going on because you were like almost acting like she
Speaker 2: had like Corona or something.
Speaker 1: Like she had. I was trying to slowly move away
Speaker 1: and keep maintaining a safe distance, and I think it
Speaker 1: was noticeable to her, and so she was like, you know,
Speaker 1: why you're so nervous. You can't talk like this and that,
Speaker 1: And I was just trying to be cordial. With the girl, but.
Speaker 2: Don't be overly friendly.
Speaker 1: Then no, I definitely wasn't overly friendly. But I do
Speaker 1: have a friendly you know.
Speaker 2: You do have a friendly bah blah blah.
Speaker 1: I got a friendly Aura and she was very complimentary
Speaker 1: about my store and hoping then we bring one to
Speaker 1: Miami blah blah blah blah. So it was seemingly harmless,
Speaker 1: but okay.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about it. Work though I did get a
Speaker 2: little worked out. It's good. It's good to be jealous
Speaker 2: a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Protective, Yeah, protective.
Speaker 2: Okay. So let's talk about a show that you didn't
Speaker 2: initially like and I kind of had it on so
Speaker 2: much that you had no choice but to buy into it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's talk about it. Okay.
Speaker 2: So it's called ninety Day Fiance. The other way it is,
Speaker 2: it's basically a spin off off Ninety Day Fiance, and
Speaker 2: it's about Americans who fall in love with people from
Speaker 2: other countries and move there to be with them instead
Speaker 2: of bringing them to the United States.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: So, if you fell in love with meved and I
Speaker 2: lived in Lebanon, Okay, would you move there for me?
Speaker 1: I would definitely visit. You know what I'm saying. I've
Speaker 1: never been to Lebanon and backing it. But I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think I love America. Let me get that on
Speaker 1: the record, you know, and so like, I am happy
Speaker 1: to be here, thankful that I'm here. You know. Obviously
Speaker 1: I like to travel outside of the States, but I'm
Speaker 1: super grateful every time I get back to Florida, you know.
Speaker 1: And so I don't know. I would give it a shot.
Speaker 1: I would come visit for sure, but I think moving,
Speaker 1: you know, for love, and I think you're leaving out
Speaker 1: On this show, these people have like just barely know
Speaker 1: they barely know each other, right, you know. They meet
Speaker 1: however they meet, whether it's abroad or here in the
Speaker 1: States or online, and then most often than not, they
Speaker 1: end up somebody ends up the girl ends up pregnant
Speaker 1: or you know, it's unique circumstances that then forced them
Speaker 1: to have to go live to maintain the relationship, you know.
Speaker 1: And so I think for us.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, could you do it? Could you mean I lived
Speaker 1: in Ethiopia, because there is a couple that lives in
Speaker 1: Ethiopia on the show.
Speaker 2: I don't think so.
Speaker 1: So you've seen what it looks like out there, could
Speaker 1: you move? I don't think so you wouldn't moved for love?
Speaker 2: I don't know what I don't I don't know. I
Speaker 2: dated someone in Dubai and I was going back and
Speaker 2: forth to Dubai a lot, and it.
Speaker 1: Was it was Dubai is Dubai right?
Speaker 2: No, it was it was a great experience.
Speaker 1: That's not like where these people are moving. Where are
Speaker 1: some of these.
Speaker 2: They're going to South Korea? South Korea, Colombia.
Speaker 1: Columbia or Ethiopia.
Speaker 2: One Jordan.
Speaker 1: So, like, you know, Dubai, everybody wants to move to Dubai.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I it was fun, but I don't
Speaker 2: know if I could live there like permanently. You know,
Speaker 2: I'm like you, I'm really happy to be American. I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I think, you know, look, they get I think what
Speaker 1: it is is like a K one six months visa
Speaker 1: that they get to go out there, and so you know,
Speaker 1: I got six months in me and we're only through
Speaker 1: season two. I think there's like seven seasons of this
Speaker 1: and so I can only imagine where it all goes.
Speaker 1: But who's your favorite couple relationship on the show? Right now?
Speaker 2: I kind of listen to I kind of love Ari Ari.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, that's the Jewish girl who's dating the Ethiopian guy. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of love them. And I also like assume.
Speaker 1: It and Ginny, right, and.
Speaker 2: They live in there, they live in India.
Speaker 1: They live in India. Yeah, exactly, And so.
Speaker 2: It's amazing what you do for love though you were
Speaker 2: willing to leave.
Speaker 1: I think one of the dynamics that we've really kind
Speaker 1: of watched in season two is that Ari, one of
Speaker 1: the women on the show, is a Jewish girl, and
Speaker 1: she's dating Benjamin, who's Greek Orthodox Greek Orthodox Catholic guy,
Speaker 1: and so they have a baby, they're getting married, contemplating
Speaker 1: getting married, or working on getting married, And so would
Speaker 1: you convert to a different religion for love?
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. I feel like I'm very
Speaker 2: much Christian right now, and I'm really happy that you
Speaker 2: are too.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I feel like I've dated other guys.
Speaker 2: I'm sure you've dated other girls that were a different religion,
Speaker 2: but I don't know, I feel like maybe not sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean for me, I don't think I would
Speaker 1: I would change my religion for love. I mean, I've
Speaker 1: never been in that situation before.
Speaker 2: But you know, maybe you were so in love with that,
Speaker 2: if you were so in love with me, and I
Speaker 2: was a different like religion, you you know.
Speaker 1: Me, I'm a creature of habit, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And so I'm set in my ways and except for
Speaker 1: a few things, I'm not trying to change it.
Speaker 2: Well, we don't know, because we're the same religion right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, So it works out.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's go to our block party. We want to
Speaker 2: invite some people to our block party.
Speaker 1: Block party time.
Speaker 2: So I kind of feel like we need to invite
Speaker 2: Lenny Hotstein to our block party.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I'm listening.
Speaker 2: How do you get engaged so soon? We're not even divorced.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so technically he didn't leave a comment for us,
Speaker 1: but we're blocking him anyway. We're team Lisa and Jody
Speaker 1: in this whole debacle. And so I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think it's.
Speaker 2: It's I think there's like a respect thing, like you
Speaker 2: can't really get engaged if you're still married.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't want to. I don't want to. You know,
Speaker 1: let me play Devil's advocate here, because you've talked about
Speaker 1: when previously on the podcast that when it's over, it's over,
Speaker 1: and whatever timeline is, you know works for you, you
Speaker 1: know works for you. And so now that you know
Speaker 1: Lenny and Lisa are kind of going through this, do
Speaker 1: you have a change in your viewpoint?
Speaker 2: Okay, So I do feel like when it's over, it's over.
Speaker 2: But I do feel like when you have kids, like,
Speaker 2: shouldn't you wait till you're divorced before you get engaged
Speaker 2: introduce someone as your fiance? Like when you have kids,
Speaker 2: isn't it like more respectful towards your kids? Your kids
Speaker 2: can see like okay, like marriage is like serious and
Speaker 2: like being engaged again, I'm.
Speaker 1: Just playing that was advocate as the man in the
Speaker 1: right now definitely team Lisa. But you know, yeah, they're
Speaker 1: essentially agreed upon in their settlement, right, It's just a
Speaker 1: formality in terms of whatever is left. It's not over.
Speaker 1: They have not signed it yet, so technically they're still
Speaker 1: legally married separated. But you know, I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: give all the facts out there. And so you think
Speaker 1: that I think you.
Speaker 2: Could have waited like another month or so, like what
Speaker 2: I think he could have waited? Because I do feel
Speaker 2: like when you're divorced, you're like ready to like get engaged.
Speaker 2: Getting engaged is kind of serious.
Speaker 1: Well, what made it sour for me is that, you know,
Speaker 1: it was like three days after Lisa's birthday that this
Speaker 1: whole news kind of came out publicly, and you know,
Speaker 1: she's obviously in Europe right now with Jody, and you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it was just poor timing.
Speaker 1: Out of all of the months, all of the weeks
Speaker 1: in the year, you know, you choose to roll this
Speaker 1: out three days after her birthday. I think it's just
Speaker 1: bad form.
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. Okay, so let's in the next
Speaker 2: person to our block party, they say, wonder what happened
Speaker 2: if he were Adidas or Kangaroos.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny.
Speaker 2: You know, would you be in trouble like by Yeah, you.
Speaker 1: Know, I'm team Jordan obviously it's my last name, and
Speaker 1: so you know, I'm team Nike. I only wear Nike
Speaker 1: and Jordan unless it's like some designer shoe that I'm
Speaker 1: wearing with a suit or whatever. And so yeah, there's
Speaker 1: no Adidas, there's no Kangaroos, there's no New Balance, there's
Speaker 1: none of that in this Jordan household. There's actually several
Speaker 1: shoes in your closet right now that I cannot wait
Speaker 1: to burn or throw in the trash.
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, you can throw them.
Speaker 1: Anything with anything with three stripes has got to get
Speaker 1: out of the house.
Speaker 2: Okay, we can toss them.
Speaker 1: This is another comment from social media.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it says, bro, stay away from the weed.
Speaker 1: Bro, stay away from the weed. I mean the secret.
Speaker 1: You know, there's no secret that I like to smoke. Obviously.
Speaker 1: My dad is a cigar kind of sewer, and so
Speaker 1: I'll just leave it. As you know, I smoke various things, cigars,
Speaker 1: no cigarettes. I do not smoke cigarettes, but I've had
Speaker 1: the occasional jay here and there, you know. And so
Speaker 1: we're blocking this guy just because it sounds like he
Speaker 1: might want to puffle my joint exactly.
Speaker 2: He's hating Yeah, what about that man got that nineteen eight?
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a comment that says that man got nineteen
Speaker 1: eighty eight MJ forehead. And so, if you're not familiar,
Speaker 1: my dad started losing his hair around eighty five eighty six,
Speaker 1: and so you know, there's no cigaret wear hats. I
Speaker 1: think my forehead looks pretty good, you know, I used
Speaker 1: to have braids back in the day, you know, and
Speaker 1: when you have braids, you know, sometimes your hairline receipts
Speaker 1: because they keep yanking on your hair so much.
Speaker 2: But well, all I say is, you're fine, fine.
Speaker 1: Thank you, baby, thank you. And plus there's some Native
Speaker 1: American in my family, so you know, I get my
Speaker 1: mom's dad's hair, not my dad's hair.
Speaker 2: It is actually they do say it is on your
Speaker 2: mom's side exactly.
Speaker 1: So on my mom's side. You've seen my grandfather. He's
Speaker 1: ninety years old, still kicking out all his hair and grays.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think you know, I'm holding on.
Speaker 2: I'm holding killing that.
Speaker 1: I definitely don't have a Stephen Nate you know Stephen A.
Speaker 1: Smith hairline, first of all, who's not exactly now, we'll
Speaker 1: talk about him on that other block party exactly exactly.
Speaker 2: Well, guys, we really enjoyed spending time with you.
Speaker 1: Guys. Yeah, it was fun. You know, I enjoyed doing
Speaker 1: this with you. And we'll get back to our listeners soon.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys, follow subscribe.
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Speaker 2: Peace, se