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Speaker 1: my daughter disrespects me. If my daughter disrespects me, that

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Speaker 1: I will validate feelings that you have about certain different

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Speaker 1: So I will listen and validate that. Being said, this

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Speaker 1: But everything is in an open forum for discussion. Where

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Speaker 1: house is balanced with Oh, we're going to Paris Fashion Week, Brinn.

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Speaker 1: influencer gifts. So like influencer gifts come in or pr gift,

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Speaker 1: you feel like it made me feel this when you

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Speaker 1: said that to me, like or the way you said

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Speaker 1: that makes me feel like this right, but not to

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Speaker 1: character assassinate. So don't get into which we all do

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Speaker 1: and I've done. You're spoiled, you're entitled, you're don't get

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Speaker 1: into that because it's character assassination and it like makes

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Speaker 1: the person self loathing and it's just not gonna get

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Speaker 1: you where you need to go. Doesn't mean you have

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Speaker 1: to be touchy feely. How do you feel about everything?

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Speaker 1: I think it's a disgrace that that was said that way,

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Speaker 1: and this is how it made me feel. You know,

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Speaker 1: like you can get into it, but not to like

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Speaker 1: character assassinate the person that does do damage. You know,

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Speaker 1: there's a certain point and there's a little bit of

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Speaker 1: guilt that he said. That is good, like a little

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Speaker 1: bit of guilt on your kid, But too much guilt.

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Speaker 1: I did everything for you, and I wouldn't be here

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Speaker 1: if you know that is it's too far. So there's

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Speaker 1: got to be, like everything else in life, a balance,

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Speaker 1: a balance to the whole thing. So that's where I stand.