1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show. 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I had dinner with some friends last night. Another 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 2: friend joined us at the table for a little while. 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 2: We're talking about Thanksgiving. What are you doing for Thanksgiving? 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: Where are you going? What are you doing? And he 6 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 2: has this look in his face where his all of 7 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: his joy in life just melted off his face like 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 2: a melting candle when I brought up Thanksgiving, because he's like, 9 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 2: I'm having it with my family. What's wrong with that? 10 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 2: He said, it's just always always drama. And I said, well, 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 2: you're I'm thinking, actually, you're not alone. Some people I 12 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 2: have to get together with him. They are my relatives, 13 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: and I have to sit there and take it and 14 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 2: be okay. I mean I would, I guess I'm I'm 15 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 2: very lucky. I never grew up with that in my life, 16 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 2: and I refuse to have a Thanksgiving with anyone. I 17 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 2: don't want to have any Thanksgiving with Yeah, sometimes you 18 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 2: don't have that choice, right, Yeah, right of holiday fights 19 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: at the table, politics will be number one this year, 20 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 2: I'm assuming. Yeah, family dynamics, past grievances, can't get over it, right, 21 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: past grievances, past grievances. That would be another another fight 22 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 2: that we passed at the table. Relationships and finances. 23 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, finances, Yeah, don't use phrase monstrous exactly. 24 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 2: Don't use phrases like that wife of yours is why 25 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 2: you don't have any money. Don't use that at the 26 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 2: Thanksgiving table. 27 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: What if they bring them one like you can't stand 28 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: like you're like, why are you still one of that person? 29 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't know. This is why. It's like Thanksgiving 30 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: should be a joyous, wonderful thing, but so many people 31 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 2: maybe not maybe not you, but so many people do 32 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 2: dread it. 33 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: It's funny because it's supposed to be about all your 34 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: blessings and like thanking, you know, being thankful. People want 35 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: to just throw meshed potatoes at each other, pie comes flying. 36 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: I actually have a handful of friends who are doing 37 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving by themselves this year because they don't. 38 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:04,639 Speaker 2: Want to fight with family members. 39 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I want to get along. 40 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 2: Hey, if you know it's the possibility, you know, don't 41 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 2: go down that road. Yeah, you know. 42 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:13,679 Speaker 4: I have a theory. I'm sick for the last few days, 43 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 4: so I was alone that entire time. My theory is this, 44 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 4: I think the reason people are dreading Thanksgiving is because 45 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 4: you are being forced to be with other people. 46 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they were. 47 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 4: Spending so much time alone, right, It's like I don't 48 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 4: want to leave my little comfort zone, which really isn't 49 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 4: that comfortable because you're lonely. But then you're in this 50 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 4: situation where you have these other people and their different opinions, 51 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 4: and boy, you just. 52 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 2: Don't even want to go there with some of those people. 53 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 2: Another dynamic is families. You know, you have in laws, 54 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 2: but you have a couple they're married. Yeah, okay, do 55 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 2: we go to my parents or do we go to 56 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 2: your parents? 57 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: Yep? 58 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 2: Sometimes they have to do both and they end up 59 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 2: eating twice day. 60 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: And you were at my mom's house longer than you 61 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: were at my house, like with my family, like you know, right, 62 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: but I never had that album because you know, my 63 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: mother in law and everybody they live in England or 64 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: in France, you know. So it's like and that's a 65 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: way to do it unless we went there to visit 66 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: like a couple of days after the holidays, and we 67 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: never fought over that stuff. 68 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: And Thanksgiving over there is christmasys, I know, but one 69 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 2: day your sons will be married. Then the decision will 70 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 2: have to be made and you're gonna win that, are you. 71 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: I'm just I would like equal time, that's all. 72 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 3: We don't usually have big fights, but I hate having 73 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 3: to explain myself to extended family. So it'll be like, oh, 74 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,679 Speaker 3: how long have you guys been dating ones? Are you 75 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 3: gonna put a ring on it? Like it's something that 76 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 3: I'm longing for and begging for and it just hasn't happened. 77 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, this is so weird. Don't you want kids? 78 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 2: You should do that? 79 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 3: No? 80 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 2: Oh god, no, yeah. I remember on Thanksgiving where they 81 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: wanted to know why I had a hole in my 82 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 2: ear lobe. Okay, okay, did you get it piercing? Yes? Mother? 83 00:03:55,600 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 2: Oh dag god, look and those other thingsgivings on. So 84 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 2: I want to bring a girlfriend to Thanksgiving? 85 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 4: What'd you say to that? 86 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: I'm sure I can find someone inquired that would love 87 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 2: to come. 88 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 3: I love it. Have you seen like the Thanksgiving packages 89 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 3: that people are selling online where it's like, for two 90 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 3: hundred and fifty dollars, I get one plate of food 91 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 3: and I'll be nice to you and kiss you in 92 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 3: front of your family. For five hundred dollars, I get 93 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 3: two plates of food and I will compliment you and 94 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 3: talk about our future together. 95 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: Wow, my rent to gay, my rent to gay idea. 96 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: You know people are doing it. 97 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I find a nice, good looking gay guy, say 98 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 2: it's your boyfriend, it's your beard, rent a gay. I 99 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 2: don't know what's up, scary, you know. 100 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 5: Even though our entire family all disagrees politically that none 101 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 5: of that at all pals in comparison to what the 102 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 5: what the holiday is about for us now, and that 103 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 5: is togetherness, especially since I lost my mom last year. 104 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 5: So you know, Thanksgiving and holidays have become more important 105 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 5: as I've grown older to spend more time with these people. 106 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 5: So yes, people put out, we put out differences aside, 107 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 5: we don't talk about that stuff. And yeah, we're happy to. 108 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 2: Be there and you should and that's good, you know. 109 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 2: And I'm sure you were somewhat happy even before your 110 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: mother passed away. 111 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 6: Of course. 112 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: Wait, I love bringing that up to the table, the like. 113 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: You know, if Dad was here, you know what he 114 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: would say to this. And I dropped the bomb and 115 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: walk away. 116 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 2: There you go, Hello, Stephanie. Hi, So you're planning on 117 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 2: turning your Thanksgiving with your family into something really fun 118 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 2: and festive. Right, yes, I am. 119 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: I am going to announce my third pregnancy. 120 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 2: Nice. 121 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 1: But they should be happy about that now. 122 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, oh yeah, they'll be very happy. 123 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: It's so I want to announce it on Thanksgiving just because. 124 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 3: It's just like scary just said, at the time of togetherness, 125 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 3: and I don't think we should stress about politics or 126 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 3: anything like that. 127 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: We should have some fun, happy, joyful moments. 128 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 2: I know you should. But even after you make the 129 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: big announcement and then they go into the political fight, 130 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,239 Speaker 2: well what about my baby? 131 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: What are you doing? 132 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? It so just you know what, that's great reasons 133 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 2: to celebrate right at the table you're bringing them a 134 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 2: third Congratulations to you, Stephanie. Thanks for teask before you 135 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 2: to am I the only. 136 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: One that dresses up like as a turkey? 137 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 2: Hold? Thank you very much, Stepanie. 138 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: You want I have a turkey onesie that I wear 139 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: every Thanksgiving to Thanksgiving because it's cute and it's comfortable 140 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: and then I don't have to like get dressed, so 141 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 1: I show up dress like every Thanksgiving, I'm a turkey. 142 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 2: That's kind of dark. 143 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 3: Danielle, you dress up as the thing you're gonna eat? 144 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, well you know, I don't really love turkey, 145 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: so that's okay, but I do. Yeah, And my mom 146 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 1: used to have like a q little Pilgrim outfit back 147 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 1: in the day, and she used to she used to 148 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: wear that to Thanksgiving when she was cooking in the kitchen. 149 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 6: It was so cute. 150 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: We like to dress up in my family. 151 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 2: But it's got a vision, so dress up as a 152 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: turkey fighting about the presidential election? Interesting text coming through 153 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: my mother in law makes me watch to slap her 154 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 2: with a turkey leg? 155 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: What what makes me want? 156 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, am I reading that right? Yeah, it makes 157 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: me want to slaper with the turkey leve. You shouldn't 158 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 2: have food fights. This is all good stuff. 159 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: No, don't waste of food. 160 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 2: Come on, if we celebrated spanksgiving, that would be more fun. 161 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: We just someone pisses you off, spank a living hell 162 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 2: out of their hand. Yeah, look at these people texting in. 163 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 2: I don't want to go. I don't want to be 164 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 2: a part of this at all. Then why are you 165 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 2: doing it? People? Our families don't get along. Therefore we 166 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 2: have to do two Thanksgiving. That's think two Thanksgivings. That's 167 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 2: not unusual at all. Deanna, what's up. 168 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 6: Hey, So this is my first holiday season engaged, and 169 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 6: my fiancee and I both are children of divorce, so 170 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 6: we already had trouble trying to split the time between 171 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 6: two families, and now we've just split the time between 172 00:07:58,840 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 6: four families. 173 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 1: So much are they at least in like, you know, 174 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: close distance to each other? 175 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 2: Oh? Damn? 176 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: You know what? 177 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 2: What's wrong with you saying? You know, we can't do everyone? 178 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: I love you all, but here's what we have to do. 179 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, we're gonna have to do that because. 180 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: Day after, like the you know, the day after, do 181 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: a couple of things. 182 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, go on the next thing and get all the 183 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 3: extra food. 184 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 2: Yeah that's true. I know even though you love him, 185 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 2: let him go his way, you go yours and you 186 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 2: just say we're not we're not married yet. True, but 187 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 2: then what do we do we get married? Well, then 188 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 2: you figure it out, all right? Well, I guess the 189 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 2: overlying theme over the overarching theme here is God, bless 190 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 2: you all the best at Thanksgiving, and I'm gonna have 191 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 2: a good one. They got him hanging out with people 192 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 2: I like, Yeah, and I love so God than it 193 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 2: could be the other way around.