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Speaker 1: second dat Day. You know what really surprises me? Out
Speaker 1: of all the second date updates we've done, we've done
Speaker 1: quite a few where someone's like I was set up
Speaker 1: on a blind date. I didn't really see the person beforehand,
Speaker 1: and then I showed up and met them and they
Speaker 1: were attractive. The attractive part is what surprises you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what surprises Like. We always get one where they
Speaker 1: say that they showed up and the person is better
Speaker 1: or just as they thought, and nobody's ever. Like people
Speaker 1: get built up in their head that they must be
Speaker 1: going out with like the biggest monster ever, and then
Speaker 1: they show them. They're like, oh, it's not that bad.
Speaker 1: When I used to get set up by friends, I'd
Speaker 1: always show up and be like, that's what you think
Speaker 1: of me? You think I should be with this? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Pretty much. Jenna was set up through friends with a
Speaker 1: guy named Scott, and once again, Scott wasn't as ugly
Speaker 1: as she thought he was going to be Jenna. Yeah, congratulations. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a big deal. So tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about Scott. I met him through friends and I had
Speaker 1: seen kind of a blurry picture of him, like a
Speaker 1: little far away, you know, so I knew he wasn't
Speaker 1: going to be totally ugly, but he was really, really,
Speaker 1: really good looking. When I walked it, I couldn't I
Speaker 1: was shocked. Did you tell him that? Did you say, Oh,
Speaker 1: I saw your picture kind of on Facebook and you
Speaker 1: are way better. You shouldn't take pictures. No, I didn't
Speaker 1: want him to know that. I looked him up. You know,
Speaker 1: what did your friends tell you about him before you
Speaker 1: met him? They didn't say much. They said, you know
Speaker 1: that he's very successful, he's in business, he's nice. That
Speaker 1: was pretty much it. I mean, did you guys have fun? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, we met at a really
Speaker 1: nice restaurant for drinks, which I thought cool, you know,
Speaker 1: not a bar, And he was really attentive. He asked
Speaker 1: me a lot of questions. I felt like he really
Speaker 1: listened to me. It's really funny. I laughed a lot,
Speaker 1: you know, so it went really well. Was there any
Speaker 1: awkward moments at all on your date? No? None at all.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I listened to you guys all the time,
Speaker 1: and I've heard some of the terrible things that have happened,
Speaker 1: But nothing like that happened. No, you know, no one
Speaker 1: passed gas, no one did anything. No one blue snot
Speaker 1: out of their nose like it was totally golden. And
Speaker 1: I really don't understand what happened. You forgot the one
Speaker 1: that happens a lot in second dight updates. Anybody black
Speaker 1: out drunk? No, I kept my drinking to a minimum.
Speaker 1: I should not get to drunk, I swear. So why
Speaker 1: do you think this guy's not calling you back? Then?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe he's used to dating different kinds
Speaker 1: of girls. I'm a little more on the conservative side,
Speaker 1: especially on a first date. You know, I was dressed
Speaker 1: kind of conservatively and so is that well how conservative
Speaker 1: like turtleneck skirt to ankle? Yeah? Well, I mean I
Speaker 1: wasn't completely covered up, so wasn't showing cleavage or a
Speaker 1: lot of leg. Oh yeah, that is a deal breaker. No,
Speaker 1: wonder he's not calling you back? What are you doing? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Is this your first time on a date? Jenna? Look,
Speaker 1: it was a blind date, and if if that's really
Speaker 1: the You know, if a guy likes you, I mean,
Speaker 1: I highly doubt that he was turned off that much
Speaker 1: by you dressing conservatively. But I also can understand you
Speaker 1: being self conscious about it because you dressed for a
Speaker 1: date with what you thought was going to be kind
Speaker 1: of anago. You walk in and he's hot, and you're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, why did I wear that? Yes, that
Speaker 1: didn't cross my mind. I mean I tend to dress
Speaker 1: a little more conservatively on the beginning anyway, or on dates.
Speaker 1: I don't, you know, like to seem so easy, I guess.
Speaker 1: But do you think maybe he's hoping for an easy
Speaker 1: girl and that's why maybe? I don't know, I think
Speaker 1: you're making big assumptions about him just because he's hot.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's fair. What that he just wants
Speaker 1: a trampy girl? Yeah, I mean he kissed you at
Speaker 1: the end of the night, right, That's usually leads up
Speaker 1: to something else. Wait, he wants a trappy girl, why
Speaker 1: would he ever try to kiss you or talk? Come on?
Speaker 1: Those guys that want easy girls are always like, hey,
Speaker 1: han's long. Yeah, So how did the date end? So
Speaker 1: after we left the restaurant, we went for a long
Speaker 1: walk just kind of walking around, and then we ended
Speaker 1: up back at my car and he kissed me. Oh
Speaker 1: he even sealed the deal. Yeah wow, And he talked
Speaker 1: to you it all since you guys went out. Well,
Speaker 1: so I texted him and I said like, thanks for
Speaker 1: the nice time and you know, thank you so much
Speaker 1: for the dreams blah blah blah, and yeah he wrote
Speaker 1: back and said, yeah, it was a lot of fun
Speaker 1: and that was it, Like period, that was yeah. Period.
Speaker 1: Did you hit your friends up to see like has
Speaker 1: he said anything? Yeah, And they're just not really responsive.
Speaker 1: They're saying that he's not really saying what happened. You know,
Speaker 1: no one can really get it out of him. I
Speaker 1: guess like he's just turning it down, like I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. I don't know if he's
Speaker 1: saying he doesn't want to talk about it, or maybe
Speaker 1: they're hiding something for me, or if he's just kind
Speaker 1: of brushing it off. You can't get a straight up
Speaker 1: answer though out of anybody. No, it's like everyone's hiding
Speaker 1: something sketch sketchy. I mean, are you feeling like you're
Speaker 1: the butt of a joke or something between your friends group? Well,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm worried about. And that's why, you know,
Speaker 1: I said, I'm just going to call and see because
Speaker 1: this is stupid and it's just killing me. You know,
Speaker 1: I want to know what happened. If I did something terrible,
Speaker 1: then I kind of want to know what it was.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, all right. Brooking Jubil in the Morning Second
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Speaker 1: a lesson to all of the ladies listening right now.
Speaker 1: When you go out on a first date, don't wear clothes. Okay.
Speaker 1: Research has shown that in over seventy percent of first dates,
Speaker 1: they always go better if you wear less clothes. If
Speaker 1: you wear no clothes at all, one hundred percent satisfaction rate.
Speaker 1: That's the problem that Jenna is having. She feels like
Speaker 1: the only reason she's not getting a call back is
Speaker 1: maybe she dressed a little too conservative and the guy
Speaker 1: wasn't really into her. You're ready to go, Jenna, ready
Speaker 1: to call him and get him on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out if that's why. I hope that's not why.
Speaker 1: I mean, you wouldn't want to go out with him,
Speaker 1: if that's why? Right? No? No, I mean I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe possibly I thought the guy was pretty attractive, so
Speaker 1: it would depend. I mean, maybe he thinks, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm a mormtter. I don't know. Maybe he thinks I'm
Speaker 1: just totally conservative. I don't I wouldn't want him to
Speaker 1: have this complete wrong. Well, Jenna, no matter what win
Speaker 1: or lose when we get him on the phone, if
Speaker 1: you get a second date or not, at least you've
Speaker 1: learned your lesson that the next time you go out
Speaker 1: on a date forget the right. No, Okay, still haven't learned. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I can do the second
Speaker 1: date update. Now, all right, I'm gonna dollar phone of
Speaker 1: br Okay, okay, let's do this. All right, here we go. Hi, Scott, Hey, Scott,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the morning. Scott, you there. I don't know who
Speaker 1: this is. Oh you don't, That's what I just said.
Speaker 1: What is this? My name is Jewil. I'm calling from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning the radio show. And
Speaker 1: I'm calling you because you recently went out on a
Speaker 1: date with one of our listeners and they were hoping
Speaker 1: that we could get a hold of you. Why is
Speaker 1: a radio show calling me about a date. Well, we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: So you recently went out on a date with a
Speaker 1: girl named Jenna. Yeah, okay, And so Jenna emailed us
Speaker 1: because you haven't been answering any of her phone calls
Speaker 1: and she thought you guys had a great time. But
Speaker 1: she's wondering if she did something wrong or if there
Speaker 1: was a specific reason that you're not calling her back. No,
Speaker 1: there's no specific just you know, not dig into going
Speaker 1: through with things that you know there's no point too.
Speaker 1: So you feel like there's no point in continuing to
Speaker 1: try to date Jenna. I mean, I just know that
Speaker 1: it's not going to work. Let me ask you. This
Speaker 1: was it because she dressed too conservatively? Right? I know
Speaker 1: that's annoying. No, I had nothing to do with it. Okay,
Speaker 1: she was. She was actually concerned that that might be
Speaker 1: the issue. No, that's that's that's not the reason why. Well,
Speaker 1: if that's not the reason. Why can you kind of
Speaker 1: give us a little bit of information so that at
Speaker 1: least I can tell her, hey, don't worry about the
Speaker 1: way that you dress. It wasn't that. Yeah, you could
Speaker 1: tell her that that's fine, But I mean as far
Speaker 1: as like a more specific thing, it's just kind of
Speaker 1: like one of those things or it's not going to work.
Speaker 1: And really, to be honest, she's cute and everything, but
Speaker 1: I'm looking for a different breed of girl. Different breed
Speaker 1: what does that even mean? We're not breed like who
Speaker 1: don't come like thoroughbread or No, there are some thoroughbreads
Speaker 1: out there. Believe me, I know, I know what you're
Speaker 1: talking about. Scott. Yeah, I mean there are different breeds
Speaker 1: of all kinds of humans. But what are you looking for? Then?
Speaker 1: You know, basically, I'm a guy who works a lot,
Speaker 1: pretty successful at what I do. And you know, is
Speaker 1: she not pretty enough? Nope, she's fine. It's very cute.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. The bottom line is that, like,
Speaker 1: I don't know how to say this, but she's too smart.
Speaker 1: What you said? Did you just say too smart? Yeah?
Speaker 1: That's right, she's too smart. I'm not looking for um
Speaker 1: a smart girl. What that might be that that might
Speaker 1: be the best way to be turned down for a
Speaker 1: date ever, is for somebody to tell you that you're
Speaker 1: too smart. It's like a compliment but then also a
Speaker 1: letdown at the same time. What do you mean you
Speaker 1: only date dumb girls? Well, I mean I wouldn't say that.
Speaker 1: I just want someone who is not as smart and
Speaker 1: someone who's not as ambitious as Jenna. Why would you not.
Speaker 1: I feel like I look for the opposite, and I've
Speaker 1: never had the opposite, so I've had the other thing,
Speaker 1: and trust me, it's not all that's cracked up to be.
Speaker 1: But I feel like I want the opposite. And why
Speaker 1: would you want to be with someone who's not ambitious
Speaker 1: and not smart? Well, like I said, I'm pretty successful
Speaker 1: and I need someone who's going to focus on me
Speaker 1: and not their own career or their own motivation. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: So you just want someone to be home and look
Speaker 1: pretty for you and make you some dinner every once
Speaker 1: in a while. You know, I'm a good looking guy.
Speaker 1: I do really well. Basically, I just am looking for
Speaker 1: some arm candy and there's nothing wrong with that. There
Speaker 1: is because you're treating your woman is a trophy. No
Speaker 1: matter who she is. So there's lots of things wrong
Speaker 1: with there is a ton of benefits. Okay, she gets
Speaker 1: to go on a lot of great vacation, a lot
Speaker 1: of business trips. She gets to be living a good life.
Speaker 1: All she has to do is stand there and look good.
Speaker 1: So that's all you want. You basically want a mannequin. No,
Speaker 1: I don't want to dat a mannequin. But I just
Speaker 1: don't want someone like Jenna, you know. I mean she
Speaker 1: went to Berkeley. I think she got like a double degree,
Speaker 1: which is insane. Oh my gosh, I mean, stop it disgusting.
Speaker 1: It's way too motivated. I need someone who's just going
Speaker 1: to be there and be supportive for me and be
Speaker 1: at home and make babies with me. At least you're
Speaker 1: at least you're honest about it, you know, No, no,
Speaker 1: a least no one. He's honest. Well, at least he
Speaker 1: knows what he's getting into, because I'm assuming the girl
Speaker 1: that he's gonna find is gonna be okay with being
Speaker 1: arm candy, and there are people that are good with that.
Speaker 1: So at least you didn't string her along exactly. I've
Speaker 1: just never heard a more selfish, self centered egotistical person
Speaker 1: in my entire life happens. You know what, I think
Speaker 1: You've never heard a more honest man in your entire agree.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, honest successful man that's just looking for
Speaker 1: a hot chick who will shut the f up. Hey, Scott,
Speaker 1: thank you for your time, man, I appreciate it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: no problem. I appreciate your honesty and continued success in
Speaker 1: all of your business ventures. Thank you, dude. But I
Speaker 1: do want to let you know that Jenna is actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening to this conversation. What. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Jenna is on the phone listening. Jenna, are you there.
Speaker 1: I'm shocked. I'm shocked. I'm pissed. I've never heard anything
Speaker 1: so ridiculous in my life. I woke up. It's nineteen fifty.
Speaker 1: What is your problem? Are you serious right now? I
Speaker 1: didn't know you were on the other line, so I
Speaker 1: didn't know you were going to hear all that. But yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how I feel. I just can't believe. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's completely different than the impression that you gave me
Speaker 1: the other night. Well, I mean that was on a date.
Speaker 1: I was being charming. Oh my god, Je, did you
Speaker 1: see any signs of this at all, not at all.
Speaker 1: I mean, why did you let me go on and on?
Speaker 1: Why didn't you tell me right then when I told
Speaker 1: you what i'd do. Je You're interesting and that's really
Speaker 1: really cool that you're so motivated, and I actually think
Speaker 1: that that's good for you, and I'm excited for you,
Speaker 1: and I was interested to talk to you, but that's
Speaker 1: not who I'm want in a relationship. Okay, Scott, For
Speaker 1: the record, I think you are a total of app correction, Jenna,
Speaker 1: you mean successful app You're a misogynistic for brains. What
Speaker 1: is your problem? Do you have? Like no remorse at all.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say to you. You know,
Speaker 1: you've been talking this entire time and I have no
Speaker 1: idea who you are. I don't even know your name,
Speaker 1: but I gotta be honest, it sounds like you're someone
Speaker 1: who's very threatened by me and my success, and if anything,
Speaker 1: I just have sympathy for any girl that may get
Speaker 1: trapped in whatever both you've got going on. Dude, I
Speaker 1: don't know, but you know what, there's a lot of
Speaker 1: girls who would love to go to the South of
Speaker 1: France with me for a weekend at the drop of
Speaker 1: a dime. And it sounds like maybe you'd like to
Speaker 1: be one of those people both. Honey, I can pay
Speaker 1: for my own trip to the south of France, thank
Speaker 1: you very much. Yeah, you probably can with your husband's money.
Speaker 1: You better step down now. Her husband's unemployed, so you
Speaker 1: don't even know what you're talking about. That's actually true. Hey, Scott,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Jenna on a
Speaker 1: second day? I know you don't need it, but we'll
Speaker 1: pay for it. No, okay, Jenna, I'm assuming you don't
Speaker 1: want to gout with Scott again? Absolutely not. No, okay,
Speaker 1: maybe ask your co host if she wants to go
Speaker 1: out on a date with me. Brooke, you want to
Speaker 1: go out on a date with Scott? Never ever, in
Speaker 1: any life would I ever even want to talk to
Speaker 1: him again. All I want to do is kick you
Speaker 1: in the box right now, I'm like furious. You know,
Speaker 1: maybe you should tell your female co host again, whoever
Speaker 1: she is, she needs to learn a lesson and know
Speaker 1: her place. Okay the other woman does, y'all. I'll do
Speaker 1: that for you, hey, Brooke, men are talking broken Juwil
Speaker 1: in the morning,