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Speaker 3: Excuse me? Was it a family member in the black community?

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, she did it.

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Speaker 5: She was like, heah, but you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 5: he's like family. I said that nigga ain't like family.

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Speaker 5: There's family and then there's not family. And I'm not

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Speaker 5: even there. I don't know Hell yet, I've never heard

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Speaker 5: the name. And I live in LA with our son.

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Speaker 6: And you want another man making Sandwichians.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to decisions decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 3: the decisions. It sounded like you was talking to cursing.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 1: You want to say together the decisions decisions.

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Speaker 3: Hey God, welcome to an their episode.

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Speaker 1: Of decisions decisions. I'm your girl, man DYV, and I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna do my aka's today because to be respectful.

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Speaker 2: Don't be respectful of your AKA.

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Speaker 3: Well I'm your girl.

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Speaker 1: Maybe be aka Pagan Marco aka Peg Decigon aka Peggy

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Speaker 1: Buddy a ka ton b Hey everybody, I'm weazy and

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Speaker 1: let the church say. Ay know I grew up a

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Speaker 1: Jewish girl. They're down bad right now.

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Speaker 3: But what we do have in the building is loving,

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Speaker 3: not fetter line.

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Speaker 1: We're more popularly known as keV on stage, not to

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Speaker 3: See. You know what crazy ideas used to think it

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Speaker 2: This is kVA stay.

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Speaker 1: He definitely thought that because my first time seeing you,

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Speaker 3: He's like, I did think you were cave On, but

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Speaker 5: There's also no at this point, if you know me

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Speaker 2: Never met nobody whose last name is stage.

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Speaker 1: You got put in a bostrophe. It could have been

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Speaker 1: you know what, what's quite of black? Are you?

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Speaker 3: What? Are regular black? Regular? Regular traditional black?

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Speaker 1: Actually actually one eighth Mexican. No, technically that's why you

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Speaker 1: I don't care how many people heard the story. By

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I like when church people aren't like two churchy,

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Speaker 7: Sinners to promote U his comedy tour. And when I say,

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Speaker 2: Was in it too, right, No, that's my homegirl Angel.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know why we do that act.

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Speaker 5: all ten episodes will be that day. Believe it's a Thursday.

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Speaker 5: If I'm not mistaken, you can watch it in the weekend.

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Speaker 3: You add it.

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Speaker 2: That's all you got to do.

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Speaker 3: Period. I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 1: Now, Church, here are you bringing? Like, is there any

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Speaker 2: There's zero raunches in the first season.

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Speaker 3: That's why we're making cap runching, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I kissed.

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Speaker 5: I kissed a girl in the first season, not a

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Speaker 5: Her name is Shannie Shockley. She's she had played my

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Speaker 3: Wait, you and your wife have been together that long.

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Speaker 5: Melissa was my my my girlfriend May fifteen, two thousand.

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Speaker 5: I asked her to be well technically, long story short,

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Speaker 2: How do you think you're doing a school like?

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? You want be my girl?

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Speaker 5: And I thought she said yeah, So I started. I

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Speaker 5: I used to do this move where I would like,

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Speaker 8: So I was like, oh so so on May fifteen,

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Speaker 2: I had been championing this all semester.

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Speaker 3: Get the fist.

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Speaker 5: I was like, can I you know? She was like,

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Speaker 5: what Tony was saying. She was like, okay, Tony, I

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Speaker 2: And we have never broken up since.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why that's funny, because I feel like

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Speaker 2: She tried to break up with me in college.

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Speaker 3: Okay, she tried.

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Speaker 5: She literally tried, like me and my homeboys and we

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Speaker 5: I wasn't even a gamer as if like gamers are now.

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Speaker 3: I was like, you good.

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Speaker 5: She was like, actually, I think we need to take

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna I'm gonna go back to my dorm and

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Speaker 2: Had rough patches.

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Speaker 5: Though I ain't gonna hold you, yeah, pandemic rough patch.

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Speaker 3: Now because you're spending too much on together or your board. Uh.

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Speaker 5: she was like, you know we why do you want

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she'd get a nails done, get her hair does.

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Speaker 5: She'll go grab lunch so she could have her day.

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Speaker 5: So now that's not gone. So we're clashing more than

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Speaker 5: we usually do.

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Speaker 3: A pandemic was make or break.

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Speaker 2: One relationship and true story.

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Speaker 5: One day we was into it, deep tension, thick wings

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Speaker 5: wasn't saving it because wings often breaks an argument. Chicken

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Speaker 5: chicken wing, get then be hungry.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't when white people watch stuff and be

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Speaker 2: It's not a black thing.

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Speaker 3: Everybody likes wings.

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Speaker 7: You know what, you know what pisses me all about?

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Speaker 7: You just saying that bro Alex has his fucking dog

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Speaker 3: Like looks like a little chicken wing it does you.

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Speaker 7: Really like chicken? And now you're being stereotypical Count.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, red bone like a chicken. God damn it.

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Speaker 5: So I used to be like, we arguing, like you're

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Speaker 5: hungry with wings, and she'd be like, fun and that

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Speaker 5: would be the ice breaking.

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Speaker 1: What's the flavor of the wings. Of course, you do what.

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Speaker 3: You gotta because if you want to make it back.

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Speaker 2: So one time, I mean, we was into it.

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Speaker 5: We was like walking past each other on the stairs,

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Speaker 5: like one day she was like, I'm gonna leave, Like

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Speaker 3: I just needing to.

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Speaker 2: I was not gonna save us.

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Speaker 5: She booked the hotel room in Simi Valley, which is

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Speaker 5: like way out and she was she, yeah, that's two

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Speaker 5: hours ago. They took They took that evidence like a

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Speaker 3: Not they said the evidence.

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Speaker 5: They were they come from Simmy Valley down and harassed

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Speaker 5: where so she booked the hotel and like she was leaving,

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Speaker 5: and in this moment, I'm like, oh, Like I felt

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Speaker 5: was in my draw I'm two seventy, you know, cities hanging,

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Speaker 2: Over his draws. She goes, pulls her car off the

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Speaker 5: The garage app opens and it is like two am

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Speaker 5: don't leave, like don't nineties R and.

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Speaker 3: B don't there. You got on your knees and everything.

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Speaker 5: I I went out there because I remember her parents

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Speaker 7: Lady, see if they don't beg bitch, you better just

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Speaker 7: go him? Then why not just give.

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Speaker 3: Her the night? No, I'm gonna tell you why.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you why because in the moment of

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Speaker 5: the way she left, it wasn't that right. It wasn't

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Speaker 5: if I let her go. It was gonna be too

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Speaker 5: hard to get her back. And her parents have got divorced,

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Speaker 5: and we talked to them separately, like what is one

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Speaker 5: thing you wish you had done differently? And they both said,

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Speaker 5: and I wish the other person would have fought for me.

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Speaker 5: So I remember being like, I remember that was that black?

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Speaker 2: Forget that all right? I just say I remember. I

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Speaker 3: I remember this.

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Speaker 5: So I remembered that in my head and I was like,

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Speaker 5: That's gonna be too hard because when she goes, then

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Speaker 2: You know you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: This is given me a little info right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend, he said to me when I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I did any space or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, sometimes we just

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Speaker 3: Maybe I'll just stay there tonight.

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Speaker 1: And he was like, are you crazy, Like, no, this

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Speaker 1: isn't what house did you grow up? And when you

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Speaker 1: just think, oh, I'm just gonna go stay up in

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Speaker 1: the rich for the night, know how it works, you

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Speaker 3: We are together.

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Speaker 2: We together.

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Speaker 3: And I used to look at it like, oh, he

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Speaker 1: Say this, I understand because it just gets you kind

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Speaker 1: of used to like separating when you're angry instead of

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Speaker 2: And I totally agree.

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Speaker 5: And I'm not saying that what you're what you're asking

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Speaker 5: need to date to myself, blah blah blah like that,

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Speaker 5: but in an argument to leave in anger for us,

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Speaker 5: for us, it's just for me speaking for myself, speaking

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Speaker 5: for myself, for myself, myself, I felt like this was

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Speaker 3: He didn't even fighting for me.

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Speaker 2: And whether there's you didn't run behind the car, and

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Speaker 2: I would have.

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Speaker 5: I would have wear n four two four, I would

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Speaker 2: But we sat in the car. I cried, She.

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Speaker 5: Cried, We crowed, we crowed, We crowed together, talked to

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Speaker 3: My draw that's a good one. Not only that she

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Speaker 1: If you ever get to the point in the argument

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Speaker 2: And we went in the house and it wasn't even

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Speaker 5: In that moment, right, but it's like it was like

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Speaker 2: We just punting for field position and type thing. We

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Speaker 3: Madden is still in the mid I mean.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna give you a sports analogy because that's how

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Speaker 5: we had to get through that night.

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Speaker 2: And then we went to therapy.

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Speaker 5: Like that's probably the impetus for us going to therapy

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Speaker 5: I was partially my fault.

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Speaker 2: I still was in the mindset.

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Speaker 5: That you know, if you if you had to go

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Speaker 5: to therapy, your relationship beyond repair. But like two and

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Speaker 2: And then we were just like.

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Speaker 3: All right, now, y'all stopped because the therapist.

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Speaker 2: Therapists had a baby.

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Speaker 3: I was on the road.

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Speaker 7: It was just like, I love that you said that though,

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Speaker 7: because like a lot of a lot of couples, yeah,

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Speaker 1: He just interviewed a really dope couple s km il

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Speaker 1: in there a lesbian couple that came on the show

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Speaker 1: and they both both carried their children adopted.

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Speaker 2: On the Wives Kids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, nice, And they talked about how pregnancy changed

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Speaker 1: I just love hearing couples talk about it because I

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Speaker 1: feel like even five years ago, you hear a couple

447
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Speaker 1: going to therapy, like, oh.

448
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Speaker 5: That's the stigma that I had. The thing is I

449
00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:04,240
Speaker 5: went we both went to individual therapy.

450
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Speaker 3: Who was your therapist?

451
00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:06,440
Speaker 1: What?

452
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Speaker 3: Only because whenever.

453
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Speaker 2: It was it was actually an Asian woman.

454
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Speaker 3: Oh that's.

455
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Speaker 5: There was a couple of times people the therapists were

456
00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,240
Speaker 5: like knowing who we were, and it felt like that

457
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Speaker 5: you can't know, you can't page, and then I can't

458
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Speaker 5: pour my heart out, you know, and then they like,

459
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Speaker 5: you know, we saw that video. It's like I can't

460
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Speaker 5: our lady was like English second language Asian immigrant. She

461
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Speaker 5: was a beast. Okay, ke bomb, Yeah, I was. I

462
00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:38,240
Speaker 5: was bombing jokes in there. She was not getting none

463
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Speaker 5: of the humor. She would be like, so, why did

464
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Speaker 5: you think that was a time for a joke. I

465
00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,880
Speaker 5: was like, I was trying to like diffuse the situations.

466
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Speaker 5: She wasn't going for none of that stuff. And she

467
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Speaker 5: was very emotion based, and she was the relationship was

468
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Speaker 5: the client. So there would be times where I would

469
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Speaker 5: make it I'd be killing in there like yeah listen,

470
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Speaker 5: and then therapists be on my side and then the

471
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Speaker 5: next time, I I'm getting dogged out and I felt

472
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Speaker 5: like I remember telling him, hey man, it's been like

473
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Speaker 5: three sessions in a row y'all feel like y'all TACTV

474
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Speaker 5: and me, I ain't really getting to talk, you know

475
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Speaker 5: what I'm saying.

476
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Speaker 2: And she was like, oh my bad, and she would

477
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Speaker 2: let me talk and I'd be like, then this what listen?

478
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Speaker 2: Did you know?

479
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Speaker 7: I just liked that you were open to that, because

480
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Speaker 7: I don't think would have made it after my friends

481
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Speaker 7: who have like considered uh therapy for relationships, the man

482
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Speaker 7: wants a black man as a therapist, and it's like,

483
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Speaker 7: you know what I mean, Like men like the partners

484
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Speaker 7: that I know have went through that literally were like,

485
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Speaker 7: I don't want a woman because they're gonna like there's

486
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Speaker 7: a side thing about it. There's an understanding and a

487
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Speaker 7: lot of black men that I know, even seeking.

488
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Speaker 3: Therapy want therapy from other black men, don't.

489
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Speaker 1: I think it's talked about mine with the black like

490
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Speaker 1: neal therapist I had when I had an abusive X.

491
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Speaker 3: Everysode about this. I was only like seventeen to twenty.

492
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Speaker 1: I was in this relationship, and I talked about it

493
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Speaker 1: a little bit in the book, but he's not that

494
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Speaker 1: relevant really in my life anymore. Fifteen years later, it

495
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Speaker 1: was the only time I ever went to a couple

496
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Speaker 1: therapy and there was something he wanted a black man.

497
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Speaker 3: He was so so, so specific. Yeah, we sitting in

498
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Speaker 3: front of the dude maybe he was.

499
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Speaker 1: In his fifties at the time, and I remember he's

500
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Speaker 1: my ex said something to me or did something to me,

501
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Speaker 1: and the therapist peeked. He said, let me talk to

502
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Speaker 1: y'all alone for a second. So he talked to me alone.

503
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Speaker 1: He goes, how old are you? And eighteen or nineteen?

504
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,960
Speaker 1: He was like, listen, I don't know what you grew

505
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,640
Speaker 1: up seeing, but this is this isn't how people that treat.

506
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Speaker 3: You like that love you treat you. Oh.

507
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Speaker 1: Really, you shouldn't be jumping, you shouldn't be asking for

508
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Speaker 1: permission to speak to me. You guys are both in

509
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Speaker 1: a space where you're paying me to give you guidance.

510
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Speaker 3: You don't have to look down. Do you understand that?

511
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Speaker 2: And like you was talking to me, I was right,

512
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Speaker 2: I don't even know.

513
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Speaker 3: I was like, yes, sir, I'm not understanding it right.

514
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:45,639
Speaker 1: He's like, this is your boyfriend, I'm a medical professional, Like,

515
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,159
Speaker 1: what do you think your life is about to be? Like?

516
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 1: So then he says, our conversation can always be private, Okay,

517
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Speaker 1: I said, okay, I walk out the room. We get

518
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Speaker 1: back in the car. After he has his session, he

519
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 1: was like, what the fuck did you tell him? I

520
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 1: was like, I didn't tell him anything. He said, I

521
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,199
Speaker 1: just a lecture about how to be a man and

522
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 1: what men don't do. And we never saw that guy again.

523
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Speaker 1: And I was like, Yo, you either get two. You

524
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Speaker 1: get the black male therapist that holds you accountable for

525
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 1: the Yeah, and you maybe not expect that because you

526
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: expected them to be your dog.

527
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

528
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 1: And it showed me like, damn, I really thought the

529
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: dude wouldn't be ont myself. Women do get very scared

530
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Speaker 1: of male therapists in the couple situations.

531
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Speaker 3: I can see that.

532
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Speaker 5: And we went through we went through like three or

533
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Speaker 5: four until we settled on one. We had, you know,

534
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,439
Speaker 5: we had a white dude, we had a black woman. Uh,

535
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 5: we had a Filipino lady, and then the Asian lady.

536
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Speaker 5: We were like, all right, this doesn't work. We just

537
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 5: don't think therapies for us because it was like, it

538
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,959
Speaker 5: was hard, and your relationship is very tense, so it's like,

539
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,440
Speaker 5: you know, what I'm saying, really got to work. But like,

540
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Speaker 5: even interestingly enough, we had the best sessions when we

541
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Speaker 5: didn't even have like a an argument that week, Like

542
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Speaker 5: I would be like, wellin't gonna talk about.

543
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Speaker 3: It, But of course it'd be the best because now

544
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 3: your brain is.

545
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, then you can go back to something

546
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 5: you didn't When we was connecting dogs, I remember one

547
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Speaker 5: of the best sessions we ever had.

548
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Speaker 2: It was so good because I'd hired this ready guard.

549
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Speaker 5: There was a point in time where comedians were people

550
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 5: were coming up on stage and fighting comedians and I

551
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Speaker 5: ain't no fighter like that, but you know what I'm saying.

552
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Speaker 2: I was like, a nigga, real, what do you mean?

553
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 3: Before Will Smith?

554
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,360
Speaker 5: No, before that, before I mean the DC Young Fly

555
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 5: knocked somebody out, somebody came on stage to Gary Owen.

556
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 5: It was like three or four times, and I was like,

557
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 5: my wife was like we were talking. I was like,

558
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Speaker 5: I'm a provider for a lot of people. She was like,

559
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 5: I'm not saying you can't fight, but like if you

560
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 5: get seriously injured, it impacts a lot of people.

561
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Speaker 3: So I mean you could, you could, You could will yourself.

562
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you could still. Comedians can go up there.

563
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 1: You just gotta know how to talk.

564
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Speaker 3: Manby said. We were gonna get suited. She was like,

565
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Speaker 3: you can't act like I was yelling. You know, we

566
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 3: know we are. When I tell you what she be

567
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 3: acting up, I'd be like, you're gonna get sued. Bro,

568
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 3: they are coming after you.

569
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Speaker 1: Bro Like, no, we didn't get paid and then we

570
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Speaker 1: gotta pay w I mean, I'm like, bitch, that hold

571
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Speaker 1: was my my mama.

572
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Speaker 3: Are gonna get sued?

573
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Speaker 7: That's coming out of your your pots anyway.

574
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Speaker 2: So like we had hired a security guard human Simone

575
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 2: dude that my wife came. She comes.

576
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Speaker 5: He's still friends with him because I want me some

577
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 5: I'm still friends with him. He's great, he's fantastic. I'll

578
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 5: connect you.

579
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Speaker 3: He looks like he got the tattoos, he.

580
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 2: Got all the Simone stuff.

581
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 3: Yes, I want I want everything pack listen.

582
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 2: Yeah he can sing too.

583
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 3: It's great. I don't even listen. The Roman reigns, all

584
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 3: of them. They got me, They got me right now,

585
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 3: maybe they got me. I want the whole family.

586
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Speaker 5: So she was on the road with us and my

587
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 5: brother in lawst my tour manager. I think her her

588
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 5: sister came because my wife always comes to some tour stops,

589
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 5: no matter how many tours. She comes to at least

590
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 5: five ten shows.

591
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Speaker 7: Not Jackie Christie who basketball wise, Jackie Christie went on

592
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Speaker 7: the road with Doug Christy.

593
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:46,239
Speaker 2: Oh no, I know this.

594
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Speaker 7: The thing is like that she was a terrible mom

595
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 7: because she followed him on the road to make sure

596
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 7: he ain't group and.

597
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Speaker 3: The mom was trying to beat her up on TV.

598
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Speaker 3: It was goody.

599
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 2: Is that that he who hit her daughter?

600
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 3: Yes, that's dog Christie's. The daughter was trying to hit them.

601
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I never knew. I didn't that is I

602
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 5: was like, let me say, some things are better.

603
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 3: I just want to say thank you.

604
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 7: You bring so much stuff that shouldn't be my algorithm

605
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 7: into my algorithm the way I look every week for

606
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 7: the performance of the Sea World.

607
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 3: Because of you. I just want to thank you. Okay,

608
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 3: I just want to thank you. Kevi.

609
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 2: I do like to be a repurpose repurpose stuff.

610
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 5: So anyway, after the show, my security guard it was

611
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 5: his first week and my wife was coming.

612
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: So my brother in law sister in law had another car.

613
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Speaker 5: And it's such a simple thing, but it costs such

614
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 5: a divide between us and I got a couple of

615
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 5: comedians and we got to suv my security guard to you.

616
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: She's like six or five, don't tell me.

617
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 3: She was keep describing so long hair, the strong.

618
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Speaker 5: So she's like, We're walking towards the cars and I'm like, Hey,

619
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 5: which car do you want to write in?

620
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 3: Right?

621
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Speaker 5: Because I'm trying not to be overbearing. I'm trying not

622
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,040
Speaker 5: to tell her what to do because I've been like

623
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,120
Speaker 5: I wouldn't say controlling, but I want things my way

624
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 5: and that didn't leave a lot of rooms. This is

625
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 5: something I'm working on, right. So I'm trying to invite her,

626
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 5: but I don't say, hey, ride with me. I say

627
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 5: which car do you want to ride?

628
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 2: Ride in?

629
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 5: To give her the choice. She immediately I ride with

630
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 5: my sister, right, And I was like, nigga, that's it.

631
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 5: We're gonna be arguing for the rest of the night.

632
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 5: Like I knew from that moment. A year later, we

633
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 5: go in therapy and we're talking about this thing, and

634
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 5: my therapist was like, I want to stop you right here.

635
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 5: Let's go back to that moment. If you could say something,

636
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 5: if you could re enact that moment, what would you

637
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 5: tell Melissa. So I'm like, oh my gosh, Melissa, please

638
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 5: ride with me, like I want you to ride with

639
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 5: me to the hotel. She started crying, like she just

640
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 5: really wanted to feel wanted in that moment, in that moment,

641
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 5: and just by me asking her instead of inviting her

642
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 5: and showing her that I want her, it costs such

643
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 5: a like rift in that moment, and only a therapist

644
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 5: could give me, give us the idea to like reenact

645
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 5: the moment, and it was like a healing that part

646
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 5: of our relationship. We didn't realize how how impactful that

647
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 5: was for us. So I think that's a perfect example,

648
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 5: like only a professional could think like that, whatever it

649
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 5: is for for you, And it gave us a lot

650
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 5: of tools to learn how to argue, how to defeat

651
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 5: the problem, not each other, all that type of stuff.

652
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 5: So it was it was super impact. We haven't went

653
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 5: in a minute, but we we still use the tools

654
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 5: now because last night I made her mad.

655
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 3: What'd you do? Man? I just it wasn't enough lemon

656
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 3: pepper on the world. It was a little dry.

657
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 2: I just didn't listen.

658
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 5: I thought she was wrong about something instead of oh,

659
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 5: I would never do that.

660
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 3: And this is the caucasion of me. I love blue cheese.

661
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 2: With them pieces of.

662
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 3: A blue cheese, I don't want red. I want blue cheese,

663
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 3: not ranch.

664
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 7: It was I hate when they like, uh, stereotype me

665
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 7: because they bring the ranch first.

666
00:27:58,160 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, at least.

667
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 2: They just think you're no human beings.

668
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no no no. Blue cheese is elite.

669
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 3: We're not gonna do that, or we're not gonna do it.

670
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 3: Let's get into how churchy are you?

671
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 6: Oh?

672
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 2: Yes, this is great.

673
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 3: It's filthy. You don't know what? Not that. I would

674
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 3: like you to tell us what these fetishes are. How

675
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: churchy are you? Okay? Starting easy?

676
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 2: Spitting?

677
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 3: What would it be during sex?

678
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 5: Were you you spit in somebody's mouth? There's the trick question.

679
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 5: Pet play, pet play?

680
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: This is real?

681
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 3: This is yes, this is real dog being there. No,

682
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 3: that's best reality. Okay, I don't know, no, no pet play?

683
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 3: What do you think?

684
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: Okay?

685
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 3: There we go.

686
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 5: Wait one person acts like the pet Yes, okay, I

687
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 5: don't know, y'all.

688
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 3: And y'all, y'all, you've never you've never, you never?

689
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: Like what are y'all do?

690
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 3: Like? You? Good boy? Good boy? You did you watch

691
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 3: Baby Girl? She was like licking a bowl with milk

692
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 3: and ship. She was acting like a cat. No, he said.

693
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like Halloween is like the real basic

694
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: because you know, if you ca you could act like

695
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: an animal in the bedroom. Though, keV, what animal would

696
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: you be in the bedroom?

697
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 2: Is doggy style?

698
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: Not enough, that's the position, but it got dog in

699
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 3: the world. No, no, no, okay, yeah, good boy? Good boy?

700
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 5: Is that is that pet play? Yeah? You just bark

701
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 5: and like there we look at you.

702
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 3: Why would I do that? Cut cup holding?

703
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 2: Do you know holding?

704
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 5: I know that's when you like to watch your partner

705
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 5: get smashed by somebody else?

706
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, now I don't know why, just like, how

707
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 3: are you like? Yep? No, cuck holding? Why do you know?

708
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 2: I've heard that before?

709
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 3: Okay, you've heard it?

710
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 2: Yes, is a new one.

711
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 3: I want to know where you just heard cut holding

712
00:29:58,040 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 3: because it wasn't in the church?

713
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 2: No, the did he trial? He was watching?

714
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 3: You just learned that word?

715
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I've known before. That's the most recent example.

716
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 3: That's a popular one, like go smash my girl? Yeah?

717
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 3: Do it like that? Okay, I don't know why, but

718
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 3: that's you know, no king.

719
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: Period age play? Now have you ever been daddy Kevin?

720
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 5: No, I guess I'm just I just kept was actually

721
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 5: with an older person, or you act.

722
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 7: For so the real, the real kinky part of it.

723
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 7: There's a king called d l l G Daddy Daddy

724
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 7: donalddle girl or something like that. So basically a woman

725
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 7: may act like.

726
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: A child, but not in the super like let's let's

727
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: all be turned off way and be like daddy comes

728
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: to give you just a voice.

729
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 3: It could be the playful it's.

730
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 2: Still grow up. We don't not grow up.

731
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 5: But people like that baby, No, don't even imitated a google.

732
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 3: Okay, what is an erotic humiliation?

733
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 5: Look like erotic? You smack your meat ontobody's face.

734
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 3: Look at you.

735
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 6: Okay, kill kill, You've advanced here, Wow, you gotta try

736
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 6: to throw your meat on the forehand from here and there?

737
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 3: Okay, but why she's reading a book. I just slaper

738
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 3: with slap it on the forehead.

739
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: So humiliation plays basically like when someone's a submissive mm hmm.

740
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 3: So like you said, like, there we.

741
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: Go, there we go, and uh, I think a basic one.

742
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: Another one would be, oh, this one's pretty crazy, but

743
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:46,479
Speaker 1: what do you think it is?

744
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 3: What the church queer? I just want to see how

745
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 3: church you are?

746
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: Oh?

747
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 2: Got you?

748
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 3: And I think I think you just stepped out the

749
00:31:53,520 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 3: church slept. What do you think querophilia is queerl Q

750
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 3: you I are not queer like that. Okay, come on

751
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 3: the light and route, let's go, Come on author.

752
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 2: Okay, so net.

753
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 3: Questions asking questions.

754
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: Okay, So it's actually the real word for a foot

755
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: in hand fetishes. Oh so involving attraction to the hands

756
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: manicures foot jobs is very okay now at all I

757
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: did not know that at all these fetishes.

758
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 3: What do you think is the one you could do?

759
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 3: But Melissa.

760
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 2: Head playing and being a little childish out, I'm not

761
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: gonna curious.

762
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 3: But you could be a little daddy. You could be

763
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 3: a little daddy KIV.

764
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 2: But am I her father?

765
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: Not? If I her father, it's like sugar daddy hot.

766
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 3: He said, it's gonna splendid state.

767
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: I could bark in the bedroom. I could do a

768
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 2: pet but to.

769
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 3: Be you wouldn't just fu some peek. Yeah, like you

770
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 3: had to go barking.

771
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 2: I can't that feet. Ain't you know you're not a person.

772
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 3: You've never put it in your mouth put it on

773
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 3: my mouth. But I advanced thing.

774
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 5: But I mean they ain't like give me them feet, girl,

775
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 5: like I ain't like, oh no, I forget the titties. Man,

776
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 5: feet is where it's at, and I guarantee them.

777
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: So I used to live above a bar called Lucky

778
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: Jack's back in the day, and this is when, let

779
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: me know, feet niggas really scared me.

780
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 3: So sometimes I wouldn't be home and you know New

781
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 3: York man like that.

782
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 1: So I'm like, hey, would you mind, Like I have

783
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: a package coming and I'll send it to you and

784
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 1: you know, tell him to come and give it to you.

785
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 3: He as long as you come, get you with flip

786
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 3: flop songs.

787
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 5: Oh see, I've seen a video of this woman had

788
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 5: her feet outside the window and the guy was on

789
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 5: a motorcycle and drove by and licked her foot.

790
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 2: What that is crazy, Kevin?

791
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 3: What is your algorithm?

792
00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 5: I'm telling you, well, that's my I thought it was

793
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,239
Speaker 5: just like what the fuck? I am always searching for

794
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 5: something to make a video about.

795
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 3: So what do you search to find? Something?

796
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 5: Like just scrolling my Twitter timeline. I'm not like searching

797
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 5: like typing things in I'm just like scrolling Twitter and

798
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 5: he just licked her foot and just kept on beat.

799
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 3: Shit terrified me.

800
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 5: I don't know why I don't. I mean, my wife

801
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 5: has pretty feet, but I don't. It'll it ain't like

802
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 5: a rottic.

803
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 3: Do you have Wiki feet too?

804
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 1: I'm on Wiki feet and the photos of me and

805
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: my dead grandmother, Kevin, just me and my grandma at

806
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,240
Speaker 1: a nursing home with my foot kicked up in the grass,

807
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: and they rating that.

808
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 3: One in eight point nine. That is crazy. That is

809
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:37,760
Speaker 3: that isthing.

810
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 2: People are in sad insane.

811
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 3: Every every day. I am waiting for the aliens. The

812
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 3: robots are here down.

813
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 7: I'm kind of excited because we were talking about at

814
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 7: the pool yesterday and I was like, oh my god,

815
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 7: if I can make it look like however I want.

816
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,439
Speaker 3: I would love to have a robot nigga like as

817
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 3: my nigga.

818
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 7: And I get to program him to do and say

819
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 7: and all let us you said what you know what

820
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 7: I and all of you guys, because I believe it

821
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 7: was Ai. Everyone has been sending me Jason Momo with

822
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 7: his beard cut off, and they're really like the listen

823
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 7: fellas Fellas, fellas fellows from city.

824
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:24,280
Speaker 3: Just keep the beard, y'all. Keep the beard. It's why

825
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 3: God gave it to you.

826
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 7: God gave you the beard so that y'all could look,

827
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 7: keep the goddamn hair.

828
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 3: On your face. I've definitely stopped off and you were done.

829
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 3: We weren't like, oh wait, you know, oh I'm.

830
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 2: Not gonna lie change changed.

831
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 7: Me and my ex used to get into like he

832
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 7: would come from the barber and I'd literally be like,

833
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 7: now why did you do that?

834
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 1: We didn't like. I was like why did you do that?

835
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: Because I felt away like that's something we should discuss.

836
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 7: And then and then you though, he said, well, you

837
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 7: change your hair color without asking me, And literally we

838
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 7: had a whole like talk about I mean, okay, I do,

839
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 7: but if I'm able to say don't do it, you

840
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 7: can tell me not to color my hair.

841
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 2: Okay, got it.

842
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 7: I wanted just to say as to when he was

843
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 7: gonna fucking cut his head off his face or not,

844
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 7: because now I have to look at you and it's different,

845
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 7: and now I think I'm gonna want back shots more

846
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 7: instead of missionary.

847
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: And grows back. Okay, ship, I don't want to look

848
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: at this missionary. See, look, we're bringing church into I

849
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: was a part of the missions at one point.

850
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember you said that, Yes, you said, you.

851
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 3: Know, just one point was at one point.

852
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, no, no, no, it was like from

853
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: from eight to eleven okay, okay, good, three years okay, ship.

854
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: So anyway, Tree, let's get it to Howie. It's our

855
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: new segment where we basically tried to read you a

856
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: song that you definitely know in.

857
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 3: A poetic nature.

858
00:36:58,280 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 2: Okay, this is great.

859
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 3: So you have to as the song.

860
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: Okay, she has one.

861
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 7: I feel like it's if you don't get it off,

862
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 7: the first goddamn lives provoking your black cart.

863
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 3: All right, I know, read it, read it really well.

864
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: It's like I've got the world in my palms, your

865
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: girl up under my arms. She's fucked up from the charm.

866
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 1: She loved the way that dick stay hard from twelve

867
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: till early in the morning. Fine, bitch, if you're listening,

868
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: you heard me.

869
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 3: I'm strong.

870
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: If you're going through your cycle, I ain't with it.

871
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: I'm gone. You must have heard about them hoes that

872
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: I beat up in my home, my home.

873
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 3: They wasn't telling the truth. Baby, you know they was wrong.

874
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 1: Now I need you, you're just because I'm reading it

875
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: this way the week.

876
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 3: I literally know what a wait?

877
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 2: Where are you from Texas?

878
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 3: This nigga? You should know this. You a southern nigga.

879
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,320
Speaker 2: This More Mexico, New Mexico, Arizona.

880
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 3: Anybody, all right, you want me, you want me to

881
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 3: reread it?

882
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 5: Now?

883
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 3: It's like I got the world of my palm, the

884
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 3: girl of under my arm, she up from the tar.

885
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 5: You the way y'all locked in. I just knew y'all knew.

886
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 3: I knew.

887
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 2: But I tell you, I never heard those words.

888
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 3: I like it like that emotion.

889
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 5: Yes, nigga, I never I I'm talking about. I was

890
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 5: just listening to that on Tiny Deaths like two days. Yes,

891
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 5: all that's my bad. Like, wow, I didn't I didn't

892
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 5: know what Juey was really saying.

893
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 3: I was finding with him. I didn't really know what

894
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 3: I was just. You didn't know nothing. I say slow

895
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 3: motion for me, I was just he was rapping. It

896
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 3: was like the seventh draw, the other draw.

897
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 2: You know what do?

898
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 3: That's what I was saying.

899
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't really like, I ain't rap a lot.

900
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 7: Ask you questions about where I'm driving, you like, I

901
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 7: know all the words that I thought.

902
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 3: He said it so eloquently.

903
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 2: Wanted to for the merits on my black car.

904
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 3: Guys.

905
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 5: I really I already got to need a backer thing.

906
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 5: I got the punking pie going, I got the cigarette,

907
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 5: my grit Stein. Now I got I don't know, slow.

908
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 3: You don't know, mom? You he said it so great.

909
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:34,919
Speaker 3: I didn't think there was a draw at all.

910
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, Julie got a good rap voice.

911
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 3: I was just vibing.

912
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 2: But I didn't listen. I didn't buy the album.

913
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 3: You know. I couldn't listen. Now you know. Oh wait,

914
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 3: they wouldn't let you back in the day. Oh that's right.

915
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 2: I got it. I snuck, but I didn't experience hip

916
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 2: hop away a lot of other people.

917
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 1: But it's second you don't like get excited when the

918
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: girls run for the nine nine in the two thousand,

919
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: that's what that was.

920
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 2: What I was gonna make certain songs, the biggest song.

921
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 5: I'm aware of almost everything, the biggest right, slow Motion

922
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 5: I'm aware of, but I didn't like. I didn't have

923
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 5: that album, so I don't know every song. But then

924
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 5: there was like either rough Rider's compilation.

925
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 2: I know all that.

926
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 5: I had outcast of Southern Playlist and Cadillac Music, so

927
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 5: there's random things I'm really well versed in. But if

928
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 5: it wasn't like a big radio song music videos.

929
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 1: I did make the third verse thinking that the first verse,

930
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, he's gonna get it.

931
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,839
Speaker 3: No, oh god, that was good because the backup song

932
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 3: that I had.

933
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 7: You now that I know well you would have I've

934
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 7: never guessed you would have never guessed it. I don't

935
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 7: think either of y'all is gonna get this. I was

936
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 7: speaking a little a little harder. Okay, picture this.

937
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 1: I'm in my bed, bodies hot, soaking, what thinking about

938
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: the things that I would like to do to you.

939
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 1: I'm open wide when it comes to freaking you.

940
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: Oh, every time I close my eyes.

941
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 1: Absolutely, it's not freaking imagine me, imagine what as can be. Okay,

942
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: between my legs, you're tasting me. Boy, when you get here,

943
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: you know my love will overflow and you ain't gotta

944
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 1: worry about my clothes because I got my T shirt

945
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: and my pants.

946
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:26,479
Speaker 2: I know that song.

947
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 9: I don't know she said all that stuff, but my

948
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 9: T shirt and my panties even Alex, Okay.

949
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: I this was Yeah, it was a little harder.

950
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 5: But yeah, I know, but I didn't know. I'm not

951
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 5: a verse guy, You're not. I'm not listening to the verses.

952
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 5: I'm just I love watched it up.

953
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 3: You're on a sex podcast church.

954
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 2: As I said, I said, it even.

955
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 3: Like pause, but but you go to church, you can't pause.

956
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: Okay, So we have another segment, were really letting out

957
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: and Mandy, we're doing it a little different.

958
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 3: So we have we listen and we judge, and we

959
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 3: do judge. Okay.

960
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 1: Now it's normally a segment where we're like telling you

961
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: some gossip from our friends. But I'm gonna tell you

962
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: when I was judging in the book, Yeah, your.

963
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 3: Wife was about to move a nigga out.

964
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 2: My wife was about to move a nigga in the house.

965
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 3: Excuse me? Yeah, we y'all are y'all are on that

966
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 3: type of sign?

967
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 2: No, not even like that at all.

968
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 4: But wait, was a family member in the black community.

969
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 4: That's really there's a tricky it's tricky. It's so what

970
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 4: happened was not let me move my bro in. Yes,

971
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 4: and that's why that's why I was tripping.

972
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 5: So my son had booked a Little Rascals movie and

973
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 5: we were living in Washington. I took fmla from my

974
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 5: job at Boeing, moved down here to La to live

975
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 5: with him, and like be a. They called mama, your

976
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 5: data your thing, but like you need a parental guardian

977
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 5: to be set right at all times. So I'm down

978
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 5: here for three months.

979
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 2: He should in the movie two months. So I mean

980
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 2: one random day after like rehearsal, my wife called.

981
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 5: She was like, yeah, my, you know, remember I told

982
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 5: you I'm not gonna say his name, but say his

983
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 5: name is Johnny. Remember he told you know Johnny. He

984
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 5: was like, my god brother, he's going through a rough time, like.

985
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 3: My god brother.

986
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, right, because God wouldn't be one thousand percent

987
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 5: her godbrother that I knew for sure, Like I knew

988
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 5: their names, but this wasn't a name I remember knowing

989
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 5: that you ever heard of, never heard of? Right, So

990
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 5: she was like, yeah, my mom told him, because her

991
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 5: mom is like the like mother hen of the neighborhood. Okay,

992
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 5: that's her thing, and she to this day will give

993
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 5: you the shirt off her back. She will make sure

994
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 5: you're okay, you can come live with her, all that

995
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 5: type of stuff. So he was going through a rough

996
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,439
Speaker 5: time with his wife and got I don't know, maybe

997
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 5: got kicked out or whatever the reason was. So she

998
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,399
Speaker 5: was like, yeah, my mom told him he could kind

999
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 5: of stay with us for a while. I was like, no,

1000
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 5: she did it.

1001
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 2: I don't care.

1002
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 3: She was like, yeah, but you know what I'm saying,

1003
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 3: he's like family. I said that nigga ain't like family.

1004
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 2: There's family and then there's not family.

1005
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 5: If you ain't blood related, if it ain't gonna be instant,

1006
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 5: it ain't. You know what I'm saying, not be crash right,

1007
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 5: but that I never heard that nigga in my life.

1008
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 5: And one thousand and I'm not even there. I don't

1009
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 5: know hell yet, I've never heard the name. And I

1010
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 5: live in l a with with our son. And you

1011
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 5: want another man, I haven't making sandwiches.

1012
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 7: Now, let me ask you what would the church want

1013
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 7: you to do?

1014
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,879
Speaker 3: Though I don't welcome there, what.

1015
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 2: Can be outside? She's gonna be all right, and that's

1016
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 2: what I thought.

1017
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 3: I was like, wait, you said that. Yes, I don't care.

1018
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 2: But she was like, but he's gonna be homeless.

1019
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 3: And do you know what this chapter of anything?

1020
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 2: So you'll be dead?

1021
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 3: Bro I care, like you were like, though I'm not.

1022
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:45,399
Speaker 3: I'm Melissa. Oh no, I'm judging broke and her. I'm

1023
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 3: judging her. I trust her. Here. You that's the thing

1024
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 3: when you're like a giver.

1025
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had tip, I've had everybody. I'm telling you like,

1026
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 1: that's me, Like, I'm stay with me. You're in transit,

1027
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 1: like I don't know why to do it. Told me

1028
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: now to be like, you know, looking for places. He goes,

1029
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: you see this little third bedroom here, this little nook

1030
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna put a bed into?

1031
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,919
Speaker 3: Write in This is not where people live.

1032
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 7: No, I want oh, I got a two bedroom now

1033
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 7: and refuse to put a bed in the want you.

1034
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 7: I don't want my last, my last, my last two

1035
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 7: bedroom apartment. Literally, I ended up having like three or

1036
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 7: four friends. I didn't want a roommate. I didn't want anyone.

1037
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,399
Speaker 1: But I'm I'm gonna let someone if there's an extra bed,

1038
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 1: it's more than I want.

1039
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 3: I'm going to couch myself to make it. Put a

1040
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 3: TV in there?

1041
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:39,800
Speaker 1: No.

1042
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 5: No, And see Melissa grew up, her grew up with

1043
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 5: foster care children. Her mom was like, I will help

1044
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 5: you bringing people into They were like so they So

1045
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 5: Melissa grew up like that, and that's why I trust her.

1046
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 2: But I don't want that nigga there.

1047
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 5: I don't know that me walking out in a towel

1048
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 5: and appropriate my son mar oh my town just slipping

1049
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 5: and I don't know.

1050
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I was mad.

1051
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 7: I'm actually judging her for even asking. But Mom, I'm

1052
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 7: not mad that. I'm not mad that she's I would

1053
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 7: have said.

1054
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 3: That one thousand percent.

1055
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 5: I was like, listen, like, imagine, I said, a girl's

1056
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 5: just gonna come live with me.

1057
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 3: She was like, but it's not like that, blah blah blah,

1058
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 3: and I trust her.

1059
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 2: Want to be clear, that's my boot. I love you.

1060
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 5: I don't trust that. And your mom is tripping. No,

1061
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 5: everybody go to bed.

1062
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 3: Everybody to wherever that is, wherever.

1063
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 5: That bed is, go there. I'm sorry, bro, we can't

1064
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 5: help you. We had a two bedroom house.

1065
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:48,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, wait bedroom like another prime only one feet

1066
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:48,879
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

1067
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 5: Our bathroom downstairs was in the kitchen, basically like if

1068
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 5: the door closed, but you open the door, you're the

1069
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 5: frigerator to you open the door and the frigerator is

1070
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 5: the first thing you see.

1071
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 2: This house is not shareable.

1072
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 3: What was her response? Did she try to go She because.

1073
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 5: She is a kind and genuine person, she didn't want

1074
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 5: him to be out on the street, but she understood,

1075
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 5: like she didn't really factor how it was gonna make

1076
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 5: me feel and she also grew up.

1077
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 2: Like you got to understand.

1078
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:18,840
Speaker 5: We grew up together, me and Melissa, like from sixteen

1079
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 5: and one of the hardest and one of the best

1080
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 5: thing about over in la is it allowed us to

1081
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 5: grow up for real because we are like heavily influenced

1082
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 5: by our parents, our pastors. We didn't really grow up,

1083
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 5: you know, we black, We're not really telling our parents

1084
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 5: know the stuff. Remember the first within our first month,

1085
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 5: her mother in law, my mother in law, was like,

1086
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 5: I need you this. She had a foster kid and

1087
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 5: she was going out of town. She was like, he

1088
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 5: needs to spend the nine at her house. And I

1089
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 5: was like, no, he's not what. He's like six. She's like,

1090
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 5: can you watch him and spend the night pick him

1091
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 5: up the morning. I was like, no, we can watch

1092
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 5: him and you can pick him up that night and

1093
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 5: we're done.

1094
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 3: She was like why not.

1095
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 2: Why could he spend the night, because I don't he

1096
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 2: my nigga, man, I don't want this hit up house,

1097
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 2: not a six year old.

1098
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:58,240
Speaker 5: No, man, get him out, because if you say yes once,

1099
00:47:58,600 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 5: then you want two kids and then I'm going to

1100
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 5: the weekend.

1101
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 2: Now you don't open the door. Now, you know, I'm

1102
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 2: not that option.

1103
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: You know, we only had one bed as many siblings

1104
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 1: as you.

1105
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,240
Speaker 5: We have the same amount of siblings. She's the oldest,

1106
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 5: two younger sisters. I'm the middle. I had older brother,

1107
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 5: younger sisters.

1108
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 1: Okay, because I'm realizing when people have siblings, they're less

1109
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 1: like little children, are.

1110
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 2: I am?

1111
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 3: Okay? Okay?

1112
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:28,720
Speaker 1: So maybe, oh, I'm noticing that like with dating people

1113
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: with siblings and having friends with siblings, they're I don't

1114
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: want to say less giving, that's a funked up way

1115
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: to put it, but a little more selfish with their

1116
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 1: space in a way that I'm not.

1117
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 2: Are you only child? Yes, you both.

1118
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: No, I'm the oldest, but I noticed it, and I'm like, oh,

1119
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 1: it's because you are sharing a lot. Yes, Like with me,

1120
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, yeah, because I don't have anyone around.

1121
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 3: Right, let's do a sleepover it.

1122
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 5: No, I think where you fall in the birth order,

1123
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 5: how many siblings, doesn't matter. It sets you up minus

1124
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 5: one hundred. I was like, absolutely not. And I don't

1125
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 5: want your mom thinking we can have foster kids and

1126
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 5: this is not We're not an option for you to

1127
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:03,320
Speaker 5: help youngest.

1128
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 3: Youngest children are spoiled. I don't want to.

1129
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm scared to get in the phase where money you

1130
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: gotta start checking.

1131
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 3: My mam all scared, but her.

1132
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 5: Mom respects me. After that, after the foster care kid,

1133
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 5: she was mad at first. She was like, I'm not

1134
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,360
Speaker 5: gonna help you at all, and I was like okay,

1135
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 5: like no, and then like two weeks later she was like,

1136
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 5: you know what, I was wrong, Like I was wrong

1137
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 5: to impose that on you. And she never asked again.

1138
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 5: And after that, Nigga tried to live with us, like

1139
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 5: and I don't think it was Johnny bro you that is.

1140
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 5: That is Nigga try to live with us. Your mom

1141
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 5: just trying to help. And I think he was on

1142
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 5: the West Coast. It was really just like, oh, these

1143
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 5: are the closest people to get him out of this

1144
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 5: tough spot, Motel six.

1145
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:38,439
Speaker 2: They'll leave the lot on for you.

1146
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:42,879
Speaker 3: You know that. Did he end up getting back on.

1147
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 2: His speak to him?

1148
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 3: Oh?

1149
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 5: Not my concern period. And I'm dead serious, I know

1150
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 5: you are. I hung off the phone and I was like,

1151
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 5: I didn't think about that. Man, y'all are tripping. No,

1152
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 5: all right, no.

1153
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 2: I'm not home.

1154
00:49:57,920 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, as a man, I got to protect my house.

1155
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: He could flip. I don't know why he's not. I

1156
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 2: don't know that not now I can't protect you at home.

1157
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 2: And he didn't put his hands on like I think.

1158
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 5: All the worst things, especially if somebody you don't know, right,

1159
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 5: And my son was there, My youngest son was like, two.

1160
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, and not that you care, but

1161
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:20,839
Speaker 3: I would just say, probably a man with terrible dick,

1162
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 3: because for him to not be able to rely on

1163
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 3: any woman, that means his dick was. You thought of

1164
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 3: the worst, and she thought of this. I'm just saying

1165
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 3: the dick was good.

1166
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 7: One of the women that he's ever smashed would have

1167
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 7: brought him in the fact that he had to rely

1168
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 7: on a stranger. It's just ain't gonna lie if he

1169
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 7: fucked me, right, That's what I'm saying. He only gave

1170
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 7: out trash dick his entire life. He deserves me.

1171
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 3: You guys have been don't need to put the kid.

1172
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 2: In to be home.

1173
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 5: She'd be questioning her choices, explaining herself to her friends

1174
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 5: of her family.

1175
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 3: Oh, the friends will talk about her and listen.

1176
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 7: She gonna be like, but that dig big and he

1177
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 7: just need to be here for a little bit till

1178
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 7: he get back on there, let me tell you, and I'm.

1179
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 3: Here to help him.

1180
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:07,800
Speaker 1: A few years ago, maybe four years ago, I fucked

1181
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 1: a homeless nigga.

1182
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 3: Bit not homeless, homeless.

1183
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: You were out with Brianda and we were kicking it

1184
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 1: and there was a very cute dude, very like if

1185
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: you live in New York, you get a very lower

1186
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: east side black guy looks like he's a skateboard looks poor,

1187
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: but he's also wearing Rick.

1188
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 3: Omen So who knew. So he's on me.

1189
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: We're talking in the street and I'm like, by Alex,

1190
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 1: we're going to the Box. And so we go to

1191
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 1: the Box, which is a very hard club to get

1192
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: into New York, and we're vibing. He knows everyone not

1193
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: paying for drinks, but it's not coming to me. I'm

1194
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: just thinking he's lit. That's why we're not paying for shit.

1195
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 1: Take him home, great sex, wake up. I was like, shit,

1196
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: I need some water. He's like, oh, I'll go get

1197
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: it where else in the fridge. He opens the fridge

1198
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 1: and goes, damn, you got a lot of stuff.

1199
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 2: You got milk and cheese and stuff, this garmiment.

1200
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,360
Speaker 3: Mind you, I'm looking at the dog. I'm looking at

1201
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 3: other valuables in the house.

1202
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, god, Dade, I'm looking at the clothes

1203
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: and I'm like some ditch bottom. He's fucking raight. So

1204
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 1: he gets back in the bed. I'm just starting to

1205
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: look at him, and I'm like, what.

1206
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 3: Do you do? You know him? An artist? I told

1207
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 3: him an artist. I'm like, oh no, and where do

1208
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 3: you live? This is the answer.

1209
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: Well, right now, I'm between not too coast west Chester,

1210
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:26,879
Speaker 1: Jersey and.

1211
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 3: Like green Point, that's where he lives.

1212
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 1: You between three neighborhoods that are all within forty five

1213
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: minute drive.

1214
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 3: You don't have all.

1215
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 1: Now.

1216
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 3: Someone says I'm between New York and I'm like, oh no,

1217
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 3: that's about That's what I want to hear you where you.

1218
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,280
Speaker 1: Can go to the post office. Then it gets worse.

1219
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 1: He says, what is that is that? Like your dog's

1220
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: wear kids to I'm like, that's my dog. So he's like, oh,

1221
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 1: my son has something like that. And where does your

1222
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 1: son live? My son's in DC with his mom. And

1223
00:52:58,080 --> 00:52:59,919
Speaker 1: why aren't you there?

1224
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 3: I know that's that's common. Get you home. I ain't

1225
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 3: gonna lie to you'all fucked him again, but.

1226
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 1: I see, look, look.

1227
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,479
Speaker 3: Look at it Alan. Oh my god, the story was going.

1228
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 2: But it's the point you were just making up.

1229
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,359
Speaker 3: Dick is good. You will never be homel. I'm him

1230
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 3: in Paris. He was out there for fashion week. He

1231
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 3: wasn't that broken.

1232
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: Somebody flew him there for art. I'm convinced he was

1233
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 1: selling Dick and art not.

1234
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:28,399
Speaker 3: Here selling good.

1235
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: Well, if it was, you did was better than the

1236
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: art because he had a gallery opening, and I.

1237
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 3: Was Dick was better than the arts. It was not

1238
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 3: a gallery. It was subjective. It was a pop up

1239
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 3: gallery and a coffee shop. And I said, now it

1240
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:44,760
Speaker 3: was given.

1241
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 2: What's the thing where the kids make a macaroni.

1242
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 3: When you have to make something in school? Diorama?

1243
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's what diorama.

1244
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 5: It's like a little like shoe box when you put

1245
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 5: like the planets and stuff, or you got your.

1246
00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 3: Little I did that be phone girl.

1247
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 1: He did some shit with Legos and if anyone's answering,

1248
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna know not the Nigeria good like like legos.

1249
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 1: Bitch that where was his arts and crafts? I think

1250
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: he stole it from his son. Okay, So successful failing, Yah,

1251
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 1: successful failures. That is the name of your book. A

1252
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 1: few things in there. I wanted to highlight to talk

1253
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,240
Speaker 1: about horrible first drink.

1254
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 3: At twenty nine? What the fuck? What was it? What

1255
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 3: the sell us? Shot up?

1256
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 2: Patron, This was in LA.

1257
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 3: I was sure you were about to say I'm a retal, Soary.

1258
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 2: No, No, we was gonna go hard.

1259
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 5: We were super church kids, like I was telling y'all

1260
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 5: and like grew up that like alcohol is sin, sin, sin, right,

1261
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 5: So me and Melissa we're here in La. She would

1262
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:41,760
Speaker 5: come down every other weekend my sod. I was shooting

1263
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 5: little roscuals. But my boys are making videos for Austin TV.

1264
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 5: So we have to shoot two videos and they go

1265
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 5: back home. And also we just missed each other, but

1266
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 5: the company will fly them down. So we're all in

1267
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:55,399
Speaker 5: this little studio corporate housing studio in Burbank, and we're like, we.

1268
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 2: Want to get drunk.

1269
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 8: Man.

1270
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 5: We like we changed in our lives. We didn't we know,

1271
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 5: I gonna believe drinking was a sin, but we didn't

1272
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 5: know how to get started. Got like you know, the

1273
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 5: like single shots. Yeah, patrols. We went to the liquor store.

1274
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 5: We got what.

1275
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 3: Made you shoes? Patrol It was like the bottle.

1276
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 5: It was in the rap songs. They was just I'm

1277
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 5: very gullible. I'm influenced by rap tremendous.

1278
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 3: That my first choice.

1279
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 5: This was twenty twelve, twenty thirteen, twenty.

1280
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 2: That's a good first choice, hennessy.

1281
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 1: Now I'm biologically We wanted to take shots the rock

1282
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 1: like Mexican Mexican. Oh that rock tequila would be the

1283
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: first one.

1284
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, that one Mexico? Did they anything? Did you when

1285
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 3: you had it?

1286
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,839
Speaker 5: So this is what we thought. I think in my mind,

1287
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 5: we thought we was gonna have like an LSD trip

1288
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 5: right off of one shot patrol well not even I

1289
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,279
Speaker 5: guess it was like half a shot technically, because we like,

1290
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 5: oh wait, y'all shared the bottle.

1291
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:52,359
Speaker 2: We poured it into like we puted in Solo cup store.

1292
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 5: Oh so we lights off, boys are sleep reported shots

1293
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:00,879
Speaker 5: half and half cheers were about to get drunk.

1294
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:02,760
Speaker 2: Are you ready ready?

1295
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 5: Okay, we took this this like eleven thirty at night.

1296
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,440
Speaker 5: We took the shot of patron burned down our throat.

1297
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 5: We laid down on the bed and all right, here

1298
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 5: it goes. And I'm like prepared, we're both prepared to

1299
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:19,879
Speaker 5: take an LSD trip and be like who we woke

1300
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 5: up the next morning and we were like, I don't

1301
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 5: think anything happened. So we text her sister, her younger sister,

1302
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 5: who was much more fun. She was like, nigga, what

1303
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:30,399
Speaker 5: what You took half a shot of Patron and laid down,

1304
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 5: like I don't think any You gotta drink and dance,

1305
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:35,839
Speaker 5: and like you gotta be dancing, and like you that's

1306
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 5: you're not You're never gonna get drunk off of half

1307
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 5: a shot of Patron.

1308
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,879
Speaker 2: So obviously we didn't know what we're doing.

1309
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 3: We tried it again.

1310
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 2: We tried it.

1311
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 5: Again, but I mean that we didn't do it just

1312
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 5: like that, Like now, I've been drunk before.

1313
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: But drinking takes activation. That's a good point. Yeah, you

1314
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 1: know you're depressed and you sit in the house. Yeah,

1315
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 1: or like I had my first drink in two months

1316
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 1: because I was just like on a little fitness journey.

1317
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1318
00:56:57,200 --> 00:56:59,440
Speaker 1: So this Saturday I went out in La and I

1319
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:00,200
Speaker 1: was like, it's time.

1320
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 3: Man. Let me tell you, it's like riding a bike

1321
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:05,359
Speaker 3: when you're a party guy. I had three SIPs in Cow.

1322
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 3: I said we should call the drug guy. All the

1323
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 3: drug dive hard.

1324
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,720
Speaker 1: Summer's the festival that's going on this is three SIPs

1325
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: in mescal.

1326
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 3: Care it's ten forty five.

1327
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 1: This is just because you know how they say acid

1328
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: and LSD stays in your spine. Drugs can stay in

1329
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 1: your spine. I think I pulled it back out, so

1330
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: have three SIPs in mescal.

1331
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 3: And I was like, let's call them all you died.

1332
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 3: Let's fucking the music festivals ending.

1333
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 1: There's gonna be a techno rave and he's like, bitch,

1334
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: don't we aren't.

1335
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 3: You gonna work the fuck? I'm like, but we need

1336
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 3: this story for the podcast.

1337
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: Don't imagine if I get the bag, get a little

1338
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: drugs and did I show up?

1339
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 3: I got more to tawn. Did you have you ever

1340
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 3: tried any drugs? Weed?

1341
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 2: Weed is in the book. Okay, I smoked the weeds.

1342
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 3: You smoke the weeds.

1343
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:56,919
Speaker 5: I smoke the weeds one time, one time. One time

1344
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 5: I smoked the weeds. And one time I did an

1345
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 5: edible the full stories in the book.

1346
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 7: Okay, I wanted I had to read you on an

1347
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 7: edible because the first time I took.

1348
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 3: An edible, well it was edible.

1349
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: It was during pandemic and uh, my friend at the

1350
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 1: time shout out to destiny.

1351
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 3: She listens to the pod.

1352
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: She had a guy that put him into like food

1353
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 1: and so this was my So this was my first time.

1354
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 3: I was like, oh shit, this nigga got.

1355
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 1: Cheesecake, he got he had all the things.

1356
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 3: No, Lie and I probably have shared this story on Horrible.

1357
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 7: So I get the cheesecake, but you know, there's no

1358
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:34,479
Speaker 7: it doesn't say how much wheat is in there.

1359
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 3: And the cheesecake was divine.

1360
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 10: So I literally eat the cheesecake anime and literally next

1361
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 10: thing you know, I am in bed holding up.

1362
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 1: I'm in the group chatting now like mind you, this

1363
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 1: is when all the rappers were dying from shit, and

1364
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 1: I said, oh my god, if I die, y'all.

1365
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 3: It was just the cheesecake. And I'm literally hold on no,

1366
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 3: my heart was out of my chest.

1367
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm literally in a fetal position in my bed in

1368
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: this group chat like dog. I'm literally I'm so fucking scared. Finally,

1369
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 1: I don't know what happens. Literally, as I'm laying there, I.

1370
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 7: Just start throwing up exorcist style. That's that's the way

1371
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 7: I know it. When I tell you that whole dobb

1372
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 7: baby I had to go. It was exorcistile just because

1373
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 7: I was still so high.

1374
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:36,439
Speaker 3: I was just laying it. That's how I got un high.

1375
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 3: You have to like purge.

1376
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: The max limit of cannabis in your body, which is

1377
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: it was the max eat dumpsy. But it's only from

1378
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 1: ingesting that the man ship. I was pissed to die.

1379
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 1: So I don't know what Joe motherfucking about. I can't

1380
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: wait to get to that. Part of My favorite story

1381
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 1: was the DUDEO, so let's get us.

1382
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 3: We're gonna believe how to here with ship the way

1383
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 3: that this.

1384
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: Story is breakfast by the way, he's like, I know

1385
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 1: many of you heard this.

1386
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 3: It's one that I tell all the time. Here we

1387
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 3: go again. That's how I felt writing the book.

1388
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,040
Speaker 7: Literally, I didn't want to put that eye peg niggas

1389
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 7: in the book, but literally it was.

1390
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 3: Like, you have to have a chapter about Peggy.

1391
01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 7: Mind you was just gonna be about anal sex, my

1392
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 7: first antal orgasm, and then I was like, fuck, okay,

1393
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 7: it's what the audience want. So I had to fucking

1394
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 7: add the Peggy in there. So it was a whole

1395
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 7: It was a whole period now, so doodoo. There was

1396
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 7: other by the way I want you to do story,

1397
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 7: by the way, like check out the manifestation plan. That

1398
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 7: was great, period and the freaking black women thinking and

1399
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:41,959
Speaker 7: racial tension great.

1400
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 3: But let's end on ship. Let's end on Dodo.

1401
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 7: And then we normally like to ask too how much

1402
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 7: it would take for you to be shitted on?

1403
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 3: But we'll save that for the end. Everyone has a number.

1404
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: We asked it almost every tenous in eight years.

1405
01:00:58,760 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 3: Keeps coming back up.

1406
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,959
Speaker 5: The short version of the story is that, like many

1407
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 5: things in my life, had I listened to Melissa, this

1408
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 5: would not have happened. Okay, So we were in college,

1409
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 5: and at this time I had an apartment in Tacoma,

1410
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 5: and she she lived with her parents, and but we

1411
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 5: went to school in Seattle. So every Friday we would

1412
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:18,880
Speaker 5: ride the bus together to the Tacoma Dome station and

1413
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 5: I would take her to her parent's house for the weekend,

1414
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 5: drive her back on Sunday. In her dorm, she didn't

1415
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 5: have like a full size refrigerator shed. She had like

1416
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 5: a gallon of dryers Rocky Road ice cream, and she

1417
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 5: had bought it the night before. She was like, I

1418
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 5: was in a Rocky Road mood. You know, I had

1419
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,440
Speaker 5: some ice cream. She like ate in some of it.

1420
01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 5: Then just couldn't fit in her refrigerator didn't have a

1421
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 5: freeze a part, so she just left it on the things.

1422
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 5: She's like, I'll throw it away when I leave. The

1423
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 5: next day hadn't hadn't thrown it away yet, and we're leaving.

1424
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 5: So I get to her dorm to you know, walk

1425
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 5: there to ride the bus and I'm like, oh, snap,

1426
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,200
Speaker 5: I love Rocky Road and I'm gonna have something. She

1427
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 5: was like, oh no, okay, that's that's been sitting out online.

1428
01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 5: I was just gonna throw that away when we left, like,

1429
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 5: don't eat that. And I was like why. She was like,

1430
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 5: it's been sitting out all night, like it's gonna mess

1431
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 5: your stomach up and for whatever. And I took that

1432
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 5: as a challenge.

1433
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 3: Wait, this wasn't about milk.

1434
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 1: I thought you were like ice cream is like I mean,

1435
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, but reading it, I'm thinking, oh, he's lactose.

1436
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 3: No, well he's black, all like we're all yeah, we're

1437
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 3: all lactose. Black thing. I think it's like was sitting

1438
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 3: but also every black person is like those I've heard tolerance. Yes,

1439
01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 3: it's the thing I heard.

1440
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 2: It's actually and we're allergic to dairy. We are drinking shouldn't.

1441
01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:24,560
Speaker 3: And it was crazy.

1442
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 7: I just found out too almond and old milk not healthy.

1443
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:29,959
Speaker 7: We shouldn't be drinking up milk eper milk.

1444
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 3: It's the algorithm. The algorithm said nothing. I said no.

1445
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:38,479
Speaker 1: They said all milk was about too much water.

1446
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 2: They said, oh, Nook, too much water is bad for you.

1447
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:44,320
Speaker 3: Wait on subway takes back to the ship.

1448
01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, but now.

1449
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 3: This makes sense.

1450
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:47,479
Speaker 2: Ice cream.

1451
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 3: We ship after ice cream.

1452
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:52,200
Speaker 2: But if you eat warm ice cream, it'll happen faster.

1453
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:53,959
Speaker 3: You wanted to eat warm ice cream.

1454
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 2: I just really once I saw it, I was like, wait.

1455
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 3: You ate it? I ate before a bus.

1456
01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:02,000
Speaker 5: Before a bus and she was like to prove to

1457
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 5: her that my stomach was made of still because for

1458
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 5: whatever reason, when she told me not to eat it,

1459
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 5: I took it as a challenge. She was like, Kevin's

1460
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 5: gonnas your stomach. And I was like, you know know

1461
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 5: my stomach. I can eat this.

1462
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 3: And she was like I do that well leftovers.

1463
01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: I love like, depending on how many days it's been

1464
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 1: there be like I'll be fine, I'm gonna kill me.

1465
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 3: I do that.

1466
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 1: That's how you felt, Okay, I've done minutes from the.

1467
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 2: Oh Man, it was probably.

1468
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 5: I mean we were getting ready to leave, so it

1469
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 5: was probably no more than twelve minutes.

1470
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 3: How many minutes three on the bus it was.

1471
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 5: Like an hour and ten minutes, and I lasted an

1472
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 5: hour and five minutes. I was on the bus on myself.

1473
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,439
Speaker 5: On the bus, I was almost there.

1474
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 3: This thing like do you even know? You should have

1475
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 3: just walk us through? One of the best lines I've

1476
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 3: ever read in the book.

1477
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm saying it right because I

1478
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: looked out at my backpack and thought about the journals

1479
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:56,880
Speaker 1: in there, and I.

1480
01:03:56,880 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 5: Was I was gonna do it with my backpack. But

1481
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 5: it was like a forty dollars backpack. It was a

1482
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 5: little jan sport. I don't have forty dollars again, Like

1483
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 5: if I do this backpack, I just don't have no

1484
01:04:08,520 --> 01:04:09,439
Speaker 5: backpack no more.

1485
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 2: So I'm not dodoing it in my back.

1486
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 3: But wait, no, you would have had people would have.

1487
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 5: Said, people would have saw me more than people make me.

1488
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 5: I loved that backpaund.

1489
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 3: But didn't start from afart.

1490
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 5: No, So what happened was like I was fighting for

1491
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:26,360
Speaker 5: my life for an hour. Like we get in the

1492
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 5: thing and Melissa went to sleep. She's like all right

1493
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 5: goes to sleep. We start off with no traffic, and

1494
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 5: this is how I'm like, just for like thirty minutes,

1495
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 5: and then I get real hot.

1496
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 2: I start sweating and stuff, and I just can never

1497
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 2: get comfortable.

1498
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:41,440
Speaker 5: And I'm like this, you know, like breathing hard and stuff,

1499
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 5: and the thing is about the human body, which I

1500
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:44,800
Speaker 5: don't understand to this day.

1501
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 3: You don't understand.

1502
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 5: You get close to the bathroom, your mind thinks you're

1503
01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 5: at the bathroom.

1504
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 3: It's terrible.

1505
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 5: The worst thing ever happened is we get off the

1506
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 5: freeway to get to the bus station. There's three red

1507
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 5: lights left, Like if I could just make it to

1508
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 5: these three, like I'm gonna destroy the bathroom to come

1509
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 5: a dumb station, which she already discussing because like a

1510
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 5: stain of still toilet.

1511
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 2: It's like a jail toilet. But I gotta do what

1512
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 2: I gotta do. So I'm there and.

1513
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 5: I'm like, you know, your sphincter, it wasn't sphinxing, like

1514
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 5: I remember, like I have. I'm closing my booty hole

1515
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,600
Speaker 5: as much as I can. Little farts are escaping, and

1516
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 5: every time I like, dude would come a little closer.

1517
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 3: So that way you're making me squeeze my boot right squeeze.

1518
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 5: I'm doing butt kingles and I'm holding it and then

1519
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 5: I remember like a little fark came out and then

1520
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 5: I couldn't close.

1521
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 2: Like it didn't go it didn't go all the way back.

1522
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 2: No morning.

1523
01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, hold on, hold on, hold on, and

1524
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 5: then it just like start like rumbling and I'm trying

1525
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 5: to close and it's not closing. And then it was

1526
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 5: just like oh no, no, oh no, no, no, dude, it's coming out.

1527
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 5: Dude's coming ding, it's coming out, duds coming out, Dude's

1528
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 5: coming out. And then it just like opened and then

1529
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 5: just it was opening and then my butt was open,

1530
01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:00,280
Speaker 5: and then the dude was coming out, and I just

1531
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 5: I kind of at one point, I just kind of

1532
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:06,440
Speaker 5: resigned myself and I was just like I could not

1533
01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:07,240
Speaker 5: hold it anymore.

1534
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 1: Literally, that's the type of dudoo though, like there's no money.

1535
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: I said it had to be solid if I got

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01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 1: shipped on. That's the type of doodoo that I couldn't

1537
01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:16,080
Speaker 1: because I know that was.

1538
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:20,000
Speaker 3: It was just I had had literally the rocky road melted.

1539
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 5: She that's she's sleep almost the whole duration. But when

1540
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 5: I when when it was happening. She she mysteriously woke

1541
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 5: up and she looked at me and I.

1542
01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:36,320
Speaker 1: Was just like, oh, she loves you, loves you.

1543
01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 3: It was like.

1544
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 7: Because you shorted shitted all the.

1545
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 2: Thing, and it was like the full thing.

1546
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 5: So I had wind breakers on that was at the bottom,

1547
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 5: blue wind breakers on.

1548
01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 2: Those are my pants.

1549
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 5: When I stood up, it like it and it clumped

1550
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 5: down and it got doodoo was stuck at my ankles

1551
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 5: and the wind breaker really kept the doodo there. So

1552
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 5: I like doodo on my socks and on my ankle.

1553
01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 5: So I had to like walk to the bathroom with

1554
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 5: dodo ankle.

1555
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 3: That is disgusting. That is discussed true story.

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01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 5: I threw my draws away, I like got the doodo

1557
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 5: out in the like trapped.

1558
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 3: The wind breakers back on.

1559
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 2: I had to go home.

1560
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 3: Wait you didn't. I had to still go home. This

1561
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 3: is at the bus station. There was nothing.

1562
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 2: I'm still the girl.

1563
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 7: Wife didn't ask anybody if they had an extra pair

1564
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 7: of paine.

1565
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 3: Who carries extra pants? You're on a bus, don't people

1566
01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:34,640
Speaker 3: got luggage?

1567
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 2: No?

1568
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 5: This is no, It's like people just coming home to work.

1569
01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 5: It's just a bus. You go to work in Seattle.

1570
01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 5: You come home from work.

1571
01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 1: Sundays last night, and I'm thinking, I'm sure you've told

1572
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 1: this story.

1573
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 2: Oh, it's just my closer.

1574
01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 3: First, like the chocolate Sunday also.

1575
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 5: Making ugh, So I like had doodo everywhere, Yeah, Rocky

1576
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 5: road down your leg, down my leg, And I had

1577
01:07:58,080 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 5: to go to my apartment before I took her home.

1578
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 5: I had to go to my apartment and take a

1579
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 5: shower through all those clothes away, obviously, and she never

1580
01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 5: like she just was like, well, should have listened. She

1581
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:13,000
Speaker 5: never even had to say it. She just had an

1582
01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:16,639
Speaker 5: air about her that was like wow. But I remember

1583
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,720
Speaker 5: as a stand up. I was a young stand up

1584
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 5: and I didn't even have that joke in my thing.

1585
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:22,680
Speaker 5: I would just be telling people that the story at

1586
01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 5: like barbecues and they would be doubling over and laughter.

1587
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 5: And so it was my closer for like a good

1588
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 5: way longer than wow.

1589
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 2: It was a hill.

1590
01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna hold you reading.

1591
01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:36,479
Speaker 1: When you read and laugh, it's kind of embarrassing also

1592
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:40,639
Speaker 1: because shout out to what the fuck was his name?

1593
01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: The social p sorry I want to delta flight. Dude's like,

1594
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:47,719
Speaker 1: oh love horrible, I'm dying laughing.

1595
01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 3: At this dudeo joke and mind you.

1596
01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:51,960
Speaker 1: But I'm reading the book on my phone because it's

1597
01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 1: not out yet. So he's like, girl, text you and

1598
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 1: I was like, do you know you get on stage?

1599
01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 3: And then I said, you never heard about his ship story.

1600
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 3: I'm not joking. Everybody heard that.

1601
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:05,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1602
01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, I read, Yeah, I told you, dog.

1603
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 5: But it's that's I remember. My editor was like, I

1604
01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 5: was like, man, I told this story like and they

1605
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 5: were like, new people are gonna read this. Everybody won't

1606
01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 5: know and there's a level of detail. You guys know

1607
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:25,880
Speaker 5: when writing a book that on stage you can't do

1608
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 5: it in person like they want you to. I'll be like, bro, okay,

1609
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:33,280
Speaker 5: I got to tell you, but it's so good to

1610
01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 5: know that you like, that was a fresh story for you,

1611
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:37,800
Speaker 5: and hopefully somebody else will laugh like you did.

1612
01:09:37,920 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 3: They don't.

1613
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:40,720
Speaker 1: I'm telling you you don't need you could have heard it,

1614
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 1: seen it and helped him punch up the joke.

1615
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:45,240
Speaker 3: They goddamn book is funny.

1616
01:09:45,600 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 1: Tell every oh not God, it's already out, okay, tell

1617
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 1: people where to find it and what you're giving out

1618
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:55,320
Speaker 1: for Successful Failure is out September twenty third, thanks to

1619
01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 1: the ladies here on Decision Decisions.

1620
01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:01,000
Speaker 5: You can now get my Masterclassic if you go to

1621
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,000
Speaker 5: the link of my bio and uh you pre order

1622
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 5: pre order the book. You fill out this form and

1623
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 5: then you'll upload the receipt of your pre order and

1624
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,320
Speaker 5: we will send you a link of my masterclass over

1625
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:16,320
Speaker 5: thirty hours of how yeah, social media, above and beyond. Yeah,

1626
01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:18,600
Speaker 5: I wait, I went hard when y'all said that. I

1627
01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:21,719
Speaker 5: was like, this is great because I got y'all y'all

1628
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 5: think our master class.

1629
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, your masterclass and how to eat out right, oh, how.

1630
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 3: To eat Pussy's that social media but it is that Yeah.

1631
01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:32,759
Speaker 3: Sorry guys, you won't get any sex.

1632
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:34,720
Speaker 5: Tips from keV no, no, no, just tips on how

1633
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 5: to grow on social media for me.

1634
01:10:36,560 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's completely free. And that used to be

1635
01:10:38,280 --> 01:10:39,599
Speaker 2: three hundred dollars, so it's.

1636
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:42,800
Speaker 3: Hell legit value was three hundred dollars. We made up

1637
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:43,280
Speaker 3: our value.

1638
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, we were like, this is worth four hundred and

1639
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 7: ninety nine dollars.

1640
01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 3: Hey, five pounds high five pounds. But since you were

1641
01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 3: the next you put the cost in there.

1642
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 5: Yes, absolutely, and mine was two ninety nine for for

1643
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:56,920
Speaker 5: for some years. And you'll get that free and you'll

1644
01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:58,000
Speaker 5: get the book. It's a good book.

1645
01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:00,479
Speaker 7: Hey, y'all, you helped us do it. We want to

1646
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 7: help Kevy New York Times bestseller. We need I found

1647
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:07,799
Speaker 7: out that like point zero one percent of all authors

1648
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 7: even are able to get that, and we need more

1649
01:11:10,200 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 7: more black zero one zero one.

1650
01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:15,800
Speaker 5: And we don't have Target, y'all, so we can't go

1651
01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 5: into Target and buy him.

1652
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 3: But we say support black owned, woman own. That don't

1653
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:22,000
Speaker 3: hurt you too.

1654
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, that that's what helps you get on the New

1655
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:25,839
Speaker 5: York Times best selling liess more than Amazon.

1656
01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, no, you need them to go.

1657
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 1: Support also kind of makes you feel like, damn, this

1658
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 1: is a good guy.

1659
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 3: I'm glad he got rich. Yes, really like reading it.

1660
01:11:36,880 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 3: And then also finding out your son had the big

1661
01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:39,759
Speaker 3: break first.

1662
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:42,040
Speaker 5: Yes, I had to really say with that I love

1663
01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 5: because I didn't name my son after me because I

1664
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 5: was like, I don't want him to have that pressure.

1665
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:47,000
Speaker 5: And then he booked a movie at five, and I

1666
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 5: should have had my name. I could have been getting

1667
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 5: Google a confusion like he was killing. He was on Nickelodeon,

1668
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:56,719
Speaker 5: he was on Little Rod School at like six and four,

1669
01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 5: and I was like, I should have been you should

1670
01:11:58,439 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 5: have been named after me.

1671
01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 2: He was, I want to in myself after you.

1672
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 3: Now you're doing a step at forty.

1673
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, it took on. It took forty. He did it

1674
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:08,519
Speaker 5: at five and six. So uh yeah, it's a good time.

1675
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 5: It's all my it's my life told from the point

1676
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 5: of view of the failures instead of the successes, because

1677
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:17,559
Speaker 5: it's so much more interesting to tell to me and uplifting,

1678
01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:19,679
Speaker 5: Like we all taken ls, but we're not all talking

1679
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 5: about them, so I wanted to talk about them because

1680
01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:24,040
Speaker 5: it's much more interesting and it tells you how it

1681
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:27,120
Speaker 5: became good at things by being bad at them first.

1682
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 7: Well, I am going to buy a lot of cop

1683
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:34,040
Speaker 7: than you. We're gonna definitely support and it's also.

1684
01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:36,719
Speaker 3: A week's lotter ate unless you if someone we're famous.

1685
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 3: But let's moderate.

1686
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you ever do, when you moderate, when you

1687
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 1: do your book signing, love to come in ask you

1688
01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:44,000
Speaker 1: question I'm doing.

1689
01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 2: I'm not doing a traditional tour. I'm doing a meet

1690
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 2: and greet tour.

1691
01:12:47,560 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 3: That's kind of what that's what we did did it,

1692
01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 3: that's what we just switched to.

1693
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 1: So now like we're doing the bookstores book signings, yeah, instead.

1694
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 2: Of doing because I was doing the like theaters thing,

1695
01:12:57,840 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 2: but it's just it's not.

1696
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:00,840
Speaker 3: The same for a book. You gotta, you gotta.

1697
01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:03,799
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you'll heard someone else say it unprovoked. Yeah,

1698
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:05,800
Speaker 1: canceling our tours, you guys know.

1699
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'all be canceling stuff.

1700
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:13,439
Speaker 3: Well, it will.

1701
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:18,120
Speaker 2: And I don't do meet and greets. I don't like

1702
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 2: to meet people before or after show.

1703
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 3: Well.

1704
01:13:22,479 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 1: Also to make it make sense for the even including

1705
01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 1: the book, we were charging so much and to have.

1706
01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 3: To become a New York ticket.

1707
01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:32,160
Speaker 2: Plus the book, it was a lot.

1708
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:34,720
Speaker 7: And so like for us now like being New York

1709
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:36,639
Speaker 7: Times bestsellers and our audience helping us get there.

1710
01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 3: It's like, no, we want to bet.

1711
01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 2: Y'all still doing it even though you already made it.

1712
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:43,360
Speaker 3: We just did one. This want to make it for

1713
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 3: another week.

1714
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:46,960
Speaker 1: You can make it another week once you're on there.

1715
01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 1: And so now that like you now that people go back,

1716
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:52,840
Speaker 1: like the Jay Hudds and all them are back, We're

1717
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 1: hoping to do traditional they really sex or the name

1718
01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:58,040
Speaker 1: of the book so well, but.

1719
01:13:58,280 --> 01:13:59,960
Speaker 3: All failures are definite.

1720
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:01,519
Speaker 2: K T l A.

1721
01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'll turn out.

1722
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:09,960
Speaker 1: They said NHB by man Wi.

1723
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, they yeah, they you know what.

1724
01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 1: PR put out for us for press. I don't have

1725
01:14:16,680 --> 01:14:20,960
Speaker 1: a hot girl summer. That is what PR pitched.

1726
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:23,560
Speaker 7: Us as because and then the mental health aspect of

1727
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:25,479
Speaker 7: the book we could. They were like, yeah, well you

1728
01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 7: bitches know how to have a hot girl summer.

1729
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 3: Let's lean in that.

1730
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 1: But I will tell you I think that God damn it.

1731
01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 1: Also because we had such a great time to please

1732
01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: let our audience who is looking for something else to

1733
01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:42,719
Speaker 1: listen to, to be entertained by all.

1734
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:45,640
Speaker 5: This stuffing podcast with me and Angel and Josh is

1735
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 5: a good time.

1736
01:14:46,360 --> 01:14:47,320
Speaker 2: The ladies were on there.

1737
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 5: We have a great, great time. If you don't watch

1738
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 5: any other episode, watch their episode. You have a good time.

1739
01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 5: Watch other episodes. I'm on Patreon as well. Studios pull

1740
01:14:57,080 --> 01:15:00,160
Speaker 5: up to that. I've got the churches coming out on

1741
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:02,519
Speaker 5: the twenty first. I have a show called The Hospital

1742
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 5: that I sold the BT.

1743
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:07,679
Speaker 3: I saw that y'all are listening to the next Tyler.

1744
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 1: Parent period to support certain rich people, sir, because they

1745
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:15,560
Speaker 1: really will put jobs.

1746
01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:18,360
Speaker 5: Back into the ye listen, I really to me, it's

1747
01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:22,080
Speaker 5: really about bringing everybody with me, Like I love not everybody,

1748
01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 5: but as many some of them. Yeah, everybody eat as

1749
01:15:25,160 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 5: many people as possibly can. But yeah, if you if

1750
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:30,439
Speaker 5: you invest in to me, I invested in the community,

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