1 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Therapy for Black Girls Podcast, a weekly 2 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: conversation about mental health, personal development, and all the small 3 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: decisions we can make to become the best possible versions 4 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: of ourselves. I'm your host, doctor Joy hard and Bradford, 5 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: a licensed psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia. For more information or 6 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 1: to find a therapist in your area, visit our website 7 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: at Therapy for Blackgirls dot com. While I hope you 8 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: love listening to and learning from the podcast, it is 9 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: not meant to be a substitute for a relationship with 10 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: a licensed mental health professional. 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Order yours today 21 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: at Sisterhoodheels dot com. When it comes to music, Summer 22 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: twenty twenty three has given us everything and more. From 23 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: Janelle Monet ushering us into the Age of Pleasure, to 24 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: Beyonce giving us life with her Renaissance tour, and let's 25 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: not forget I Spice taking us to Bobby Land. The 26 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: question of song of the Summer has never been more complicated. 27 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: Joining me this week to chat all about summer's major 28 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: music moments is returning guest Danielle Smith. Danielle is the 29 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: author of the acclaimed Shine Bright, a very personal history 30 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: of Black women in pop, and creator and host of 31 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: the Spotify original podcast, Black Girls Songbook. Residing in California, 32 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: Danielle is also a contributing writer to The New York 33 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: Times magazine. Today, Danielle shares what makes a good summer song, 34 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: the healing power of summer music, and her favorite releases 35 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: of the past and present. If something resonates with you 36 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: while enjoying our conversation, please share it with us on 37 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: social media using the hashtag TVG in Session, or join 38 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: us over in the Sister Circle to talk more about 39 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: the episode. You can join us at community dot therapy 40 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: for Blackgirls dot Com. Here's our conversation. So good to 41 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: see you again, Danielle. 42 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 2: It's good to see you too. Look at you. What 43 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 2: about those glasses? 44 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: I know right, they helped me to see very well 45 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: and they're cute, very fashionable. So the last time we 46 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: had you here on the podcast, you were talking about 47 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: your then newly released books Shine Bright. So tell me 48 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: what has changed for you since the book and what 49 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: kinds of reaction did you get related to the book. 50 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 3: I honestly could not have hoped for a better reaction, 51 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 3: the amount of support, the amount of feedback, the amount 52 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 3: of love, frankly from people who were glad that the 53 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 3: sort of untold stories of black women in music were 54 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 3: being told in detail, beyond them just being the first 55 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 3: this or the first that that was spectacular. There is 56 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 3: a huge memoir piece in my book that was very 57 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 3: emotional for me. I had a tempestuous childhood. So when 58 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 3: I was on the road with the book, some folks 59 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 3: would just really come up to me and say, yes, 60 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 3: I really did appreciate what you said about Diana Ross 61 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 3: or I really appreciate what you said about Marilyn McCoo. 62 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 3: I really appreciate the stories that you told about Whitney Houston. 63 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 3: But I also appreciate the story you told about yourself 64 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 3: the strength that has been giving me over the last year. 65 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 3: It's been it's just been fortifying. I feel super I 66 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 3: guess lucky, but just mostly just grateful. 67 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 68 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: I love that, and I love that you have gotten 69 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 1: such good feedback, and it felt like you were really 70 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: the only one to write this book, right, Like those 71 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: stories really were advantage point that. I think that you 72 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: had a very unique way of sharing with us. I 73 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: really appreciate it. 74 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 3: Oh, I'm glad that you enjoyed. It just brings me 75 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 3: a lot of joy to tell the stories. I mean, 76 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 3: sometimes it makes me mad because of the content, or 77 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 3: it makes me sad because I know some of the 78 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 3: tragedies that have occurred. 79 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 2: I know some of the. 80 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 3: Meanness and the prejudice that black women in music and 81 00:04:59,240 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 3: black women in john. 82 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 2: Of course, we so often get the brunt of that. 83 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 3: But it still it just brings me so much joy 84 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 3: to tell the stories because there is also that much joy, 85 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 3: that much commitment to excellence, that much ambition, that much 86 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 3: just love in these women and their voices and their work. 87 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 3: So it has been fantastic. I'm so happy you asked me. 88 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, So we brought you back this week, Danielle, 89 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: because we really wanted to have a conversation about summer music, right, Like, 90 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: it feels like that is very much a vibe looking 91 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 1: forward to summer music. So I want to hear from you. 92 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: What is your definition of summer music. Is it just 93 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: a song that comes out in the summer, or is 94 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: it like music that gives you summer vibes? 95 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 2: You know? 96 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 3: Let me just say for me, it's not really a 97 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,239 Speaker 3: song that has to come out in the summer, because 98 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 3: sometimes I feel like songs in the previous eras but 99 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 3: also in this era, sometimes they need some moments to 100 00:05:55,839 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 3: like marinate, They need to kind of bubble under the 101 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 3: big pop scene and sort of become what they're going 102 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 3: to be. To me, it's rarely that a song drops 103 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 3: on June fifteenth and then by July nineteenth it's just. 104 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,799 Speaker 2: The most amazing summer song of the world. 105 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 3: In some cases, like maybe this summer we had Barbie World, 106 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 3: which to me is a supreme, supreme, supreme summer song. 107 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 3: But no, it doesn't have to come out in the summer. 108 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 3: It has to evoke a certain free spiritedness, a certain 109 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 3: this moment is for me and nature. 110 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 2: This is for the sun to touch my skin. I 111 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 2: feel good in that. 112 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:42,679 Speaker 3: So oftentimes, to me, a summer song makes you feel 113 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 3: great about being on a bicycle or being in a 114 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 3: convertible car where you feel the wind in your hair, 115 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 3: or something that's playing out of a phone, or a 116 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 3: waterproof speaker at the beach as everybody's running back and 117 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 3: forth into the water. Those are the kind of things 118 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 3: to me, that mood of summer that makes a summer song. 119 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 2: I love it. 120 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: So you said that you feel like Barbiewell was a 121 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: supreme summer song. What makes it a supreme summer song 122 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: for you? 123 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 3: Okay, So even though I just said it doesn't have 124 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 3: to drop in the summer, I just said, like I 125 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 3: just said that this one kind of did, or at 126 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 3: the very least slate spring, I think, and it just 127 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:30,679 Speaker 3: took over. There's something about the confidence in the song. 128 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 3: There's something about the song that says, yes, I need 129 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:36,559 Speaker 3: a miniskirt one, where's my halter top? 130 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Where's my glowy lotion? 131 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 3: Like? 132 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 2: Where are my girlfriends? 133 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: We need to like coordinate, if not one hundred percent match, 134 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 3: like you know, what I'm saying, Like when she says 135 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 3: that line about where it girls and we're not playing tag? 136 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 3: Every time I hear it, I'm like, it's me odd, 137 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 3: Like it's just that cute. 138 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: Love it, Love it, Yeah, I mean, And of course 139 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: the movie to go over the summer right like, it 140 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: feels like everything was Bobby and I feel like that 141 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: was the perfect songs that go along with the movie. 142 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 3: It really was, and it's so great. Also, just miss 143 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 3: NICKI Minaj are Queen of rap. You know, sometimes it's 144 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 3: so difficult as we all get older in life and 145 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 3: in the game to form partnerships with folks that are 146 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 3: coming up under us. And to see Niki and I 147 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 3: spies just come together like in this it's almost a 148 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 3: perfect record. Like the way they bounce off of each other, 149 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 3: the way they're in sync, just really energy. 150 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 2: Wise, mood wise. 151 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 3: To see that partnership, it does my heart just a 152 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 3: whole lot of good to see that happening. 153 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 1: Love it, Love it. So is there a particular song 154 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: that instantly brings up a summer memory for you? 155 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 3: What's that Roy Ayir song Everybody Loves the Sunshine? 156 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: Oh? 157 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 2: Yes, remember Mary J. Blige sampled it for my life everybody. 158 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 3: So that song, it's always credited as it should be 159 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 3: to Roy Ayers, he's the brilliant musician that created the record, 160 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 3: but the vocals are by a woman named Debbie Darby. 161 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: My life, My life, My life, my life. Don't let 162 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: me get to sing it. But let's not do that 163 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 2: because we're gonna be in a winter song moment with that. 164 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 3: There's something about that Roy Airs Debbie Derby moment, My 165 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: life in the Sunshine. I lived in Brooklyn for a 166 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 3: long time. I lived there for a long time when 167 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 3: I was married, but also when I was single, So 168 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 3: it's something about that energy. 169 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 2: And I think then tied to the Mary J. 170 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 3: Blig song, It's just gonna always remind me of New 171 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 3: York and Brooklyn and summertime really in New York and Brooklyn, 172 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 3: which let me just go on and say in Brooklyn, 173 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 3: and not really even in New York, but like very 174 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 3: specifically in Brooklyn. If you've never spent a summer in Brooklyn, 175 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 3: you're missing like the people, the food, the parks, the 176 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 3: people walking their dogs, the beef patties, the pizza, the 177 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 3: sitting outside with your ice coffee at the cafe. The 178 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 3: saying should we go into the city. Should we go 179 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 3: into the city, and the answer being no, we shouldn't 180 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 3: because Brooklyn is everything. They're looking at the que folks 181 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 3: on the street, folks in their tank tops and their 182 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 3: sun dresses, like it's just amazing. 183 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: The street fair. 184 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 3: There's always a street fair in Brooklyn. It's not a 185 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 3: special occasion. There's always a street fair somewhere in Brooklyn. 186 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 3: So you can always go begetting some dried apricots, you 187 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 3: can go get yourself a corn dog, you can get 188 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 3: yourself a vegan smoothie. And it's just the energy of 189 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 3: Brooklyn and that song, My Life in the Sunshine, it 190 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 3: conjures all that up for me. 191 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: I love it. That's a good one. So you mentioned 192 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: the sampling there, and that's something I love to hear 193 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: more about. So I feel like sampling is something that 194 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: has been proliferated right like the industry, but I feel 195 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 1: like there's a bit of controversy also around sampling. I'd 196 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 1: love to hear your thoughts on sampling and maybe some 197 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 1: of your favorite songs that have sampled another song. 198 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 2: I think it's always tough. 199 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 3: When we were talking about Nicki Minajen I spice it 200 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 3: can be such a challenge really to have a conversation 201 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 3: musically between generations. But I think that hip hop actually 202 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 3: has made it easier, and that even when things could 203 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 3: get salty, like maybe between Will Smith and DJ Jazzy 204 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 3: Jeff and Corn the Gang, who they sampled for their 205 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 3: cuge summer hit Summertime. 206 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: Come On. 207 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 2: Oh you know how much we love Will Smith? Come On? 208 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 2: Come On? 209 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 3: That is like the Black Summertime national anthem. First of all, 210 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 3: Will's in perfect form. He's in perfect form vocally, the 211 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 3: video is perfection. And the way I was just talking 212 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 3: about Brooklyn, that's the way Will is speaking about Philly. 213 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 3: We all love that song and we all love the music. 214 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 2: But the music is. 215 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 3: A huge sample from Cool in the Gang, who have 216 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 3: a song called Summer Madness. In Will's version, there's like, again, 217 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 3: don't get me to mimicking sounds, but there's this long 218 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 3: note right, and then it goes higher and it goes higher, 219 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 3: and it's almost like, how high can it go when 220 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 3: it contributes so much to the mood. 221 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 2: That's cool in the game. 222 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 3: That's all Robert Coobell in his game, And to me, 223 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 3: it's a perfect sampling, a perfect example of DJ jazz. 224 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 3: Jeff and Will Smith, the Fresh Prince probably had heard 225 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 3: that song their whole life. Their parents probably played it 226 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 3: in their homes. They probably heard it on the radio, 227 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 3: they heard it at parties, so it was just a 228 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 3: part of their spirit and soul. So when they say 229 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 3: let's put together a song about summertime in Philly, that's 230 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 3: what they go to. So to me, that magic. Especially 231 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 3: if things are done right and the original artist is 232 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:05,319 Speaker 3: being paid as they should be paid for their creative work, 233 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 3: then I have nothing bad to say about sampling, not 234 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 3: one thing. I love the conversation between generations. 235 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 2: I love it. 236 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 3: It makes hip hop rich, It makes hip hop educational, 237 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,719 Speaker 3: even when it doesn't seem like it's being so. 238 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:22,839 Speaker 2: I am anything of. 239 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: I love that. That's a great example. Are there others 240 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 1: that come to mind for you that you feel like 241 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: are some of your favorites? 242 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 2: Well? I like anything that samples. Frankie Beverly amazed. 243 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 3: And it's funny because Frankie Beverly and Mays they do 244 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 3: not like to be sampled. 245 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 2: They're a group where they feel like, basically, y'all need 246 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 2: to make your own music, like. 247 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 3: We're fine over here, Like you need to do something 248 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 3: on your own, but it's really hard not to because 249 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 3: Frankie Beverly amazes. It's our life, it's in our blood. 250 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 3: So anything that samples Mays featuring Frankie Beverly, there's just 251 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 3: so many and I'm always listening for it. 252 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: And are you able to typically pick it up pretty easily? 253 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:09,199 Speaker 3: Yes and no, because I think sometimes one hip hop 254 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 3: producers are so smart and they're so meticulous, they might 255 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 3: take the very tiniest bit of a song and that's 256 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 3: why hip hop works. Okay, So now I know one 257 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 3: Diana Ross, I'm coming out and more Money and More Problems, 258 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 3: Am I right? 259 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: Yep. 260 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 3: It's like, if you don't know the Diana Ross song 261 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 3: more Many, More Problems still works, But if you do 262 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 3: know the Diana Ross. 263 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 2: Song More Money, More Problems works on levels. 264 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 3: It also calls people into conversations across generations and across 265 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 3: eras and music. It calls in people who came up 266 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 3: with the Supremes, It calls in people who came up 267 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 3: with Diana Ross as a solo artist, and it calls 268 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 3: up people who were partying with Uptown and Bad Boy 269 00:14:56,680 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 3: Records during the late eighties and early nineteen nineties. So 270 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 3: it functions on levels and it's just something that could 271 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 3: I hear it. Of course I immediately heard it, and 272 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 3: that matters because of the age that I am. 273 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: But also my niece who's thirty years younger, A mean, she. 274 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 3: Doesn't know the Diana russong, but momenty more problems is 275 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 3: everything to her when really her generation is more I 276 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 3: spice than anything. 277 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: So that's why I love sampling as well. 278 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: No, I love that that the intergenerational piece I think 279 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 1: is important. So when you think about like summer music, 280 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: in summer songs, do you feel like there's anybody who 281 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: has had a big career out of primarily releasing songs 282 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: of the summer and summer music. 283 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 3: It is the Southern and Midwest guys. Okay, it's ludicrous, 284 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 3: and it's Nelly for sure. It's Hot in Here. It's 285 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 3: a summer song, like it's a nightclub song. It's a 286 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 3: fraternity or sorority dance song. But it's Hot in Here 287 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 3: is also like a beat song, So Nelly, And then 288 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 3: you think about all those like Ludacris hasn't always been 289 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 3: the most politically correct, so I hesitate to bring up 290 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 3: area codes. But that was a huge, huge, summer song, 291 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 3: Oh My God, Ti and Rihanna, these artists, I feel 292 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 3: like they know how to put their finger on the 293 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 3: pulse of I want to make people dance. I want 294 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 3: people to have on loose fitting clothing. I want people 295 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 3: to be sexy. I want people to feel good. I 296 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 3: don't want people, at least in this instance, to ask 297 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 3: themselves too many hard questions about life. I want them 298 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 3: to be feeling like things can be okay because the 299 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 3: sun is shining. 300 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 2: I look cute. People look cute. 301 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 3: Also, I'm not always listening to Katy Perry, but Katy 302 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 3: Perry and Snoop with California girls and me being a 303 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 3: California girl. Listen, I think not to get on my 304 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 3: homestatee though, what is amazing when I think about a 305 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 3: song from like nineteen seventies from Marlena Shaw, the jazz singer, 306 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 3: California Soul. It's been sampled so many times, it's been 307 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 3: in commercials for Jeep. It's California Soul. 308 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 2: Again. You did not invite me on here for my 309 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 2: singing voice, but California Soul. 310 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 3: I think songs about California, songs about the American West. 311 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 3: Somehow those are easy to get in there as summer 312 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 3: songs as well. 313 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: So I feel like you've given us a bit of 314 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 1: an answer to this question. But like, how would an 315 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: artist approach a song for the summer perhaps differently than 316 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 1: they might a song for any other time. 317 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 3: I don't think it's any easier, But I do think 318 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 3: you have to be intentional as a creator, and I 319 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 3: do think that you have to be a part of 320 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 3: a team, because no matter what the credits say, a 321 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:02,199 Speaker 3: song is a team effort. So rare one in a 322 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 3: million where a song is only one person singer, songwriter, producer, 323 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 3: vocal write. Like, really, almost nobody is all of those things, 324 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 3: even Prince when he said he was. I think when 325 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 3: you're trying to make something for the summertime, you really 326 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 3: do have to say, all this stress that's right here 327 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 3: on my shoulders, I have to create as if it's 328 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:27,160 Speaker 3: not there. I have to create as if the song 329 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 3: is in my face. I have to create as if 330 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 3: I have a glass of prosecco in front of me, 331 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 3: or rose with a little raspberry in it or something. 332 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 2: My toes are. 333 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:43,640 Speaker 3: Done, my nails are done, and I'm just looking at 334 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:47,199 Speaker 3: the waves hitting the shore. Even if the song doesn't 335 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 3: contain those details. It's that mood that it helps infuse 336 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 3: the song with that kind of energy, because a song 337 00:18:56,800 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 3: isn't just the lyrics and the sound. 338 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 2: It's not just. 339 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 3: The lyrics or even the story of the song and 340 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 3: the instruments or the technology. It really is the spirit 341 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 3: of the people that made the record. 342 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 2: Like it still matters. 343 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 3: I always say that there's a lot of math in music, 344 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 3: right there is. Music is a language its own kind 345 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 3: of algebra. But none of that matters without the magic 346 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 3: that is there. And you do hear it in summer songs, 347 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:34,679 Speaker 3: but really in just the best songs where you can't 348 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 3: quite even me, who's been writing about music for decades, 349 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 3: sometimes I will be thinking of a song that I 350 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 3: love so much that it's difficult to write about because 351 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:52,479 Speaker 3: it's hard to capture in words the magic of somebody 352 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 3: else's imagination. And summer songs, man, sometimes they're just so 353 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 3: effervescent and evokace. That's when you just know, like there's magic, 354 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,479 Speaker 3: you know, being in the studio as recording artists, if 355 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 3: you're able to all be together, because so much is 356 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 3: done now via laptop and phone, but a lot is 357 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 3: still done together in a room and I've been in 358 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 3: these rooms where people come in and they're grouchy, or 359 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 3: they're tired because it's early, or because it's late. They're hungry, 360 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:27,680 Speaker 3: they're waiting on food. They have a whole bunch of 361 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 3: stuff in their notes app or a whole bunch of 362 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 3: stuff in a raggedy little notepad. Somebody else is late. 363 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 3: Things we're supposed to have happened that haven't happened. But 364 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 3: somebody plays a note, or somebody reads a couple of lyrics, 365 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 3: somebody changes the lighting in the room. Somebody arrives with 366 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 3: the limit pepper wings, and all of a sudden magic 367 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 3: is being made and it doesn't require as much conversation. 368 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 3: People are vibing off of each other, and man, those 369 00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 3: moments you can hear them in summertime. You can hear 370 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 3: them in summer madness. 371 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 2: You can hear them. 372 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 3: Man, what's my other favorite one? Oh my god, lovely day. 373 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 3: Didn't you mention that from Bill Withers? Yes, what I've 374 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:12,440 Speaker 3: been at weddings where they play that when the bride 375 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 3: and groom have just been married and they're walking, I 376 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 3: mean the tears of joy from everyone, and then when 377 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:24,360 Speaker 3: Bill Withers at the end of that record sings that 378 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 3: pure long almost twenty second. Nope, he didn't tell anybody 379 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 3: he was doing that before he did it. The musicians 380 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 3: and stuff didn't know. They had to stay in the 381 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 3: groove in the cut with him. I know they were 382 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 3: looking at it. I don't know, but I can imagine 383 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 3: they were looking at each other like, Okay, what is 384 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 3: Bill on right now? If he's still going? And they 385 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:52,439 Speaker 3: stayed with it, and then we have that classic. We 386 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 3: can't forget How Girl Summer, Doctor joy M. 387 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 1: I mean clearly, clearly. I feel like that has been 388 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: like the summer theme since it came out. 389 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 3: It's so great, and it's also so influential just in 390 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 3: American culture. It's like everything is such and such a summer. 391 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,439 Speaker 3: It's a hot labor summer. It's a hot car summer, 392 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 3: it's a hot mini skirt summer. It's a hot whatever summer, right, 393 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 3: And I don't think Megan gets enough. 394 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 2: Credit for that. Yeah. Yeah. 395 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 1: I also feel like the timing of it was not fair, 396 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 1: because of course it dropped right in the pandemic, and 397 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 1: so I feel like we have not quite had a 398 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 1: summer to fully appreciate Hot Girl Summer since it came out. 399 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 3: True you know, true, yeah, yes, but Meg really is 400 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,880 Speaker 3: her own She is her own kind of genius. 401 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 2: Ah all that she's been through. 402 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 3: I hope she's loving and enjoying her summer really deeply. 403 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 3: One of my favorite favorites, though, is Summertime from Elephis 404 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 3: Gerald and Louis Armstrong when she said, and the living 405 00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 3: is easy when you know and it was no parts 406 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 3: of that, right, but she still had to give us 407 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 3: that so that we could even imagine it and feel 408 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 3: it and have some salve on our souls. 409 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 2: What does she say? 410 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 3: The cotton is high, the catfish are jumping like ladies 411 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 3: and gentlemen. Ella Fitzgerald not quite the beginning of everything 412 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 3: for us, but super close to being that. And she 413 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 3: had her own summer anthem with that song, Summertime. And 414 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 3: if folks haven't heard it, you're missing out. You are 415 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 3: missing out. And also, believe me, so many people have 416 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 3: covered it, and most people, regardless of genre, rise to 417 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 3: the occasion of the song. But Ella's version with mister 418 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 3: Armstrong is the version. 419 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 2: Please start there, Please. 420 00:23:53,359 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 1: Please start there. More from our conversation after the break, 421 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: I feel like there's a very Beyonce tie in here. 422 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: And I don't want us to get too sidetracked, because 423 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,640 Speaker 1: I could definitely spend the rest of this episode talking 424 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: about everything that is Renaissance. But I do feel like 425 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 1: you made a comment just a second ago around making music, 426 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,879 Speaker 1: even when that's not what people are feeling, right like 427 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 1: when the world is crumbling, how artists will go within 428 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 1: to give the public something. And I definitely feel like 429 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 1: that's what Renaissance was for a lot of us when 430 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: it dropped last year and then now this year with 431 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: the tour, like that very much feels like summer music 432 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: for sure. 433 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 3: A gift, yes, a gift to the culture, our culture, 434 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 3: but a gift to the world and the universe. Like 435 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 3: it's an ongoing, never stopping costume party. It's like a 436 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 3: disco ball over the world, you know, like in the 437 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 3: way social media allows us to participate in each other's 438 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 3: joy to get Ready with Me videos of people listen 439 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 3: to me with get Ready for Me videos for a 440 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 3: Renaissance night, Why are people going all the way out? 441 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 3: Like there's this one red outfit that Beyonce has worn, 442 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 3: you know how she loves like a leotard, but it's 443 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 3: a long sleeve leotard and she's gonna give you a 444 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 3: good guarter belt and a boot and all of this. 445 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 3: This one woman I was watching, she is a seamstress. 446 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,919 Speaker 3: She is a tailor, a designer. She created that outfit 447 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 3: for herself, and let me tell you the stuff that 448 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 3: she was using. 449 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:42,920 Speaker 2: I was like, girl, I don't know how that's gonna 450 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 2: hold together. 451 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 3: I feel you, but girl, wear some under it, because 452 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 3: I don't know what's gonna pop out. When she put 453 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 3: that on one, it all held together. But when she 454 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 3: put that on the joy of her looking at herself 455 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 3: and her work in her mirror and sharing that with. 456 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 2: All of us. 457 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,680 Speaker 3: Girl listen, I was like, Beyonce's doing work when she's 458 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 3: not even working, because oh my god, everybody with their 459 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:14,400 Speaker 3: aerodesse and cowboy hats. Many people making them themselves, even 460 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 3: if they're not professionals with a needle and thread. Like 461 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 3: one woman I saw was like, I'm going to renaissance. 462 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 3: I'm not spending all this money though I'm doing advantage. 463 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,160 Speaker 3: I'm doing all vintage, and I'm doing it like from 464 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 3: this one store, so I'm not driving all over town 465 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 3: the way she came out looking, I'm like, I should 466 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 3: have gotten more dressed up. 467 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 2: I saw her in London. 468 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 3: I guess I was at the top of the summer 469 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 3: and I didn't know really how deep we all needed 470 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:52,120 Speaker 3: that until I saw folks dancing at floor level at 471 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 3: the concert in London. I had my fancy seats on 472 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 3: the riser. But at a certain point it's not good 473 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 3: enough to be fancy or renaissance. 474 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 2: You got to go floor. You got to go to 475 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 2: the floor. 476 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 3: And when we did, and I was actually able to 477 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 3: dance with folks, see up close people's signs, see up 478 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 3: close people taping each other with their phones. It was 479 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 3: an upside down kind of joy. It really was. And 480 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 3: then when Blue came, we're not even discussing Blues summer 481 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 3: of really becoming herself. You know we all have that 482 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 3: summer too. Yes, yes, we have it at summer camp. 483 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 3: We have it at vacation Bible School, we have it 484 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 3: down south at our auntie's house where we're staying for 485 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 3: the summer. We have it at band camp. Blue just 486 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 3: happens to be having on hers on the Renaissance choir 487 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:54,800 Speaker 3: with her where if you look at her from the 488 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 3: beginning of the tour, she was tentative, just letting the 489 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 3: choreography begin to live in her just figuring out what 490 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 3: she looks the most cute in, just figuring out the 491 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 3: way she's going. 492 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 2: To communicate with the audience. 493 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 3: And when your parents are jay Z and Beyonce, it 494 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 3: does get in your blood, but you still have to 495 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 3: figure out who you are. 496 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 2: And then to see. 497 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 3: Her now, first of all, she looks two winches hollid, 498 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 3: and she looked at the top of the summer. But 499 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:25,640 Speaker 3: oftentimes that happens to us. She's so confident. Now she's 500 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 3: all the way to sassy. Now, yeah she is, am 501 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 3: I wrong? 502 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,479 Speaker 1: No? No, you are not you and not She's very 503 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 1: much living the choreography at this point. 504 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 3: Yes, it's in her now, it's in her DNA. And 505 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,640 Speaker 3: just to see the way she's just beaming. Yeah, And 506 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 3: you know, I'm gonna say that's hard work. She's learning 507 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 3: that too, to come out on stage every night and 508 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 3: do that, even just for the beats that she's out there, Right, 509 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 3: she still has to go through hair and makeup, costume, rehearsals, meetings, 510 00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 3: all of those things. It's the ultimate summer job, right, 511 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 3: And I think, right, it is all right, And I 512 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 3: just feel that we're blessed to witness it and as 513 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 3: private as they can be too with their kids. 514 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 2: I think it's very intentional that they're allowing you. 515 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 3: Imagine if you're a note year old black girl right now. 516 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 1: Yes, those are my other favorite TikTok videos of seeing 517 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 1: moms bring their kids to Renaiss songs and they're so 518 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: excited to see Blue. 519 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: It isn't the best listen if I was nine her 520 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 2: tune right now? Would you ever forget? No? No? That 521 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 2: may be the real summertime jam. Right there is Miss Blue. 522 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 1: Yes, in the Ivy League as they're calling it, it's 523 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: a summer being blue, right, but we're blue the summer blue. 524 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: So there was so many incredible songs of the summer 525 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 1: during your time at Vibe. So you were there from 526 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 1: ninety four to ninety nine, So let me just list 527 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: off some of the summer songs. So we had Janet 528 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 1: Jackson with Any Time, Any Place, Aliyah Back and Forth. 529 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: We had TLC Waterfalls, Mariah Carey, Always Be My Baby, 530 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 1: Monica and Brandy The Boy Is Mine, and Destiny Chow Bills, 531 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: Bill's Bills. Are there any behind the scenes stories or 532 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: moments that you can remember and share from any of 533 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 1: those songs of the summer. 534 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,479 Speaker 3: I don't know if I know behind the scenes of 535 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:27,959 Speaker 3: the actual songs, but I do know what it was 536 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 3: like being in New York at that time when those 537 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 3: songs were out and hot, and a particular one that 538 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 3: I remember, it's not on your list, but it was 539 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 3: Buster rhymes, put your hands on my eyes can see. 540 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:42,719 Speaker 2: Okay, let me tell you something. 541 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 3: And Buster's on tour right now, and I know I 542 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 3: haven't seen it, but I know he's turning it out 543 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 3: every night. He's such a friend, he's such a legend. 544 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 3: But the first time I heard that song, I don't 545 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 3: even think I was a vibey. I might have still 546 00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 3: been in Billboard. There was a record release party for 547 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 3: a Boye to Men, And if you've ever been to 548 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 3: New York, you know what Chelsea Piers is. That's on 549 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 3: the west side of New York. And the party was 550 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 3: supposed to be as parties will be on the yacht 551 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 3: that was docked in Chelsea Piers. 552 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 2: So here I am. 553 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 3: I'm going and it's a very snooty industry party. It's 554 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 3: looking like in my storm. The yacht was supposed to 555 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 3: take us up and down the Hudson River. Then they 556 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,720 Speaker 3: announced we're not going to take the boat out because 557 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 3: of inclement weather. In might rain, it might be too windy, 558 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 3: so we're just going to stay in the dot. The 559 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 3: DJ and it was Kick Capri. He said, I have 560 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 3: a new record, though I don't know if you all 561 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 3: have parted. First of all, this is a boys to 562 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 3: men party. It isn't even like a party where everybody. 563 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 3: It wasn't even a jodasy party. Like. It was a 564 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 3: very bougie, you know, a linen jacket, it's swaying in 565 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 3: the wind type of boys and been party. He played 566 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 3: put your hands where my eyes could see, and I 567 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,479 Speaker 3: think at first we were like, is this a real record? 568 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 3: Like it wasn't that good. I'm not gonna say the 569 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 3: sun came back out, but in my memory, the sun 570 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 3: came back out and listen, folks were taking off their shoes. 571 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,520 Speaker 3: He must have played that song. Every time I tell 572 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 3: the story, it is a different number. He either played 573 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 3: that song four times, eight times, or fifteen times in 574 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 3: a row. I don't remember at this point. But what 575 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 3: I do remember is that I was literally wet with 576 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 3: sweat from dancing. This is name work party. It's not 577 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 3: the type of party that people even dance at there 578 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 3: wasn't a proper dance floor magic like New York even 579 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 3: at that time, I think, and maybe I felt this 580 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 3: way too, because I was a country mouse from Oakland, 581 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 3: California moving to the big city. But those kinds of moments, 582 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 3: to me, are the behind the scenes moments that matter 583 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 3: the most to me, even more than the times that 584 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 3: I've been in the studio, because it's it's one thing 585 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 3: to see people creating, and that's magic and it's a 586 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 3: gift in my life and it's a privilege. But I'm 587 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 3: not really participating except for as a witness when you 588 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,239 Speaker 3: hear it with other people, like we're talking about with 589 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 3: the Renaissance shows and stuff, and you can't help us say, 590 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 3: I'm taking my shoes off because I can't dance comfortably enough. 591 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 3: I'm gonna dance and dance and dance. And I don't 592 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 3: even know you, ma'am or sir. All of a sudden, 593 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 3: we are skipping to my lou together and the sun 594 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 3: is out, it might rain, the wind is blowing, it's summertime. Like, oh, 595 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 3: so that's my best behind the scenes. I mean, I 596 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 3: remember when waterfalls came out. I remember all those moments 597 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 3: Janet Jackson, Anytime, anyplace. All of those were amazing moments. 598 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 3: But what I really remember about those, even more than 599 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 3: working those records as a journalist or an editor, is 600 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 3: when I had the chance to participate and shake my 601 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:56,959 Speaker 3: own group thing. 602 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 2: And I am not. 603 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 3: That girl that is a good dancer. Let me tell 604 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,959 Speaker 3: you something. When music can make me forget that listen, 605 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:05,520 Speaker 3: then that's my song. 606 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,280 Speaker 1: And right very much summer music vibes, then. 607 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 2: That's my song. 608 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:14,439 Speaker 3: If you make me forget any awkwardness that I might 609 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 3: feel about myself or my body or how I move 610 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 3: or any of those things, that's when something becomes well, 611 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 3: that's my song, because that's what it's doing for me. 612 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: More from our conversation after the break. So you started 613 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: off pretty early in this conversation talking about how Barbie 614 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 1: World was a quintessential summer or song. What else about 615 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,239 Speaker 1: music this summer has been special for you? What do 616 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,720 Speaker 1: you think has been special about this summer's music lineup? 617 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:58,000 Speaker 2: It's this other song? What is her name? Gucci? Gucci? 618 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 2: What what it is? Yes? 619 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, wait a minute, Okay, I am too 620 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:10,359 Speaker 3: much in these Instagram streets. If that song soundtracks one 621 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 3: more real. I'm gonna have to fight everybody. But it's 622 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 3: so good though, And then I didn't realize until just 623 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 3: this morning, when I was preparing for our conversation, I 624 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 3: was like, why would love this song so much? I mean, obviously, 625 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:28,360 Speaker 3: Ducie has an amazing voice, has such a sweet, little 626 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 3: confident lilt to it or something like. I love it. 627 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,680 Speaker 3: But I'm like, but what else is it about this record? 628 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 3: And I said him, who produced? 629 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 2: Who wrote? Who produced? So why is it? Somebody name 630 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 2: J White did it? And the thing is, you know 631 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 2: what else? He produced? 632 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 3: Bodak Yellow and I like It from Cardi b Oh wow, 633 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 3: both of those songs are what diamond singles. Mister White 634 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 3: has a little bit of a hot hand right now, 635 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 3: doesn't he clearly? 636 00:35:58,400 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 2: And then he. 637 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 3: Also produced the Savage remix for Megan Beyonce. Oh so, 638 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:09,839 Speaker 3: wait a minute. This is a sweet creative partnership. And 639 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 3: now I think that it's going to be way beyond 640 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 3: just a great summer song because this person has these 641 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 3: diamond credentials and if they work this out right, we 642 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 3: could still be jamming this song three four years from now, 643 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 3: like it's new. 644 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 2: So I love that. What are the other ones? That 645 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 2: I'm loving mine, Oh you know what I love. 646 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 3: And I can't believe I'm saying it because she has 647 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 3: acted a fool on so many occasions. I'm covering my 648 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,080 Speaker 3: eyes because I don't even want to look you in 649 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 3: my eyes right now when I say this, it's that 650 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 3: damn Miley cyrus and that I can I can give 651 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 3: myself flower. 652 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 2: Listen. 653 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 1: It is catchy, isn't it. 654 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:46,879 Speaker 2: Though. 655 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,719 Speaker 3: I am passing the flowers at Trader Joe's, like, I 656 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 3: can give myself some flowers, like seriously, like, and I'm like, 657 00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 3: she goes too far, but she says she can hold 658 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 3: her own hand or something like. 659 00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 2: Girl, you said I stepped too far. I don't want 660 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 2: to hold my own hand now. 661 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 3: But there is something so powerful about I can get 662 00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 3: my own flowers for myself. And I'm a straight girl. 663 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 3: I love getting flowers from my man. It's wonderful. 664 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 2: But it's not everything. It's not everything. 665 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,759 Speaker 3: And to hear it said so clearly, and because it's 666 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 3: the hook the title of the song, you can't hide 667 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:21,920 Speaker 3: from it. 668 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 2: You don't have to look for it. 669 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's a beautiful sentiment for my Honestly, it's 670 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:31,360 Speaker 3: a beautiful sentiment it's so strong and beautiful at the 671 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 3: same time. That's a summer summer song right there. That's 672 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,399 Speaker 3: a skipping down the street song right there. 673 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 674 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,719 Speaker 3: Like it's almost as good as what's my other one, 675 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 3: I'm Walking on Sunshine. 676 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,439 Speaker 2: Y'all can hate on me if you want to. Here's 677 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 2: the thing, I don't care. 678 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,880 Speaker 1: Do We girls have our own individual versions of what 679 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:51,400 Speaker 1: feels like somewhere. 680 00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 2: Right I'm walking on Sunshine and it shot feels up. Girl. 681 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 3: Listen if I look, this is the therapy for Michael Show. 682 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,680 Speaker 3: I've made no secret about the fact that I am 683 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,879 Speaker 3: a depressive, like I'm always dealing with that, and I'm 684 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 3: happy to be able to even say that right now 685 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:13,759 Speaker 3: with a smile on my face, because I used to 686 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 3: not be able to. But sometimes music, and I think 687 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,040 Speaker 3: sometimes that's why it's been such a partner to me 688 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:19,800 Speaker 3: in my life. 689 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,239 Speaker 2: When I hear a song like. 690 00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 3: Walking on Sunshine, it does something to the chemistry in 691 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:28,560 Speaker 3: my body, It does something to my mood. I'm not 692 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:33,160 Speaker 3: saying it's medicinal. I'm not saying it takes the place 693 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 3: of therapy, but I'm saying it will function for me 694 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,759 Speaker 3: as such a boost, though it will function for me 695 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 3: as such a like I'm going through it. I'm going 696 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,000 Speaker 3: through it. I'm going through it, but this is helping 697 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:47,440 Speaker 3: me get through it. And that's whether it's something as 698 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 3: joyous as I'm Walking on Sunshine or Hot Girl Summer. 699 00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,320 Speaker 3: But sometimes we need a little in my life, my life, 700 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 3: mym you know, and that helps as well. 701 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm gonna list of some other summer projects 702 00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 1: to get your thoughts. What about Sexy rids Hood, how 703 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:09,399 Speaker 1: this princiss o Why? 704 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:10,800 Speaker 3: Yes? 705 00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 2: Okay, And that's my whole answer right there. Also why 706 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 2: she's that cute ooh, I love them. 707 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,520 Speaker 1: So somebody else who I think is also really tapping 708 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 1: into the heart of R and B right now is 709 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,399 Speaker 1: Victoria Monique with Jaguard too. 710 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 2: Let me tell you about her. Okay. 711 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 3: First of all, the music again, we go back to 712 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:36,360 Speaker 3: what we were talking about, conversations between generations. She's so 713 00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 3: clearly influenced by the music of the seventies and early 714 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,479 Speaker 3: eighties that if you were actually there, I was a kid, 715 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:46,120 Speaker 3: but still it pulls you in regardless of your age, 716 00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:48,839 Speaker 3: because you can find an entry point like you can 717 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,480 Speaker 3: find it, and then if you're like with her age wise, 718 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 3: you don't have to have heard that music from back then, you. 719 00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:56,920 Speaker 2: Don't have to know who the emotions are. 720 00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 3: You can just be into it for what she's doing 721 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,279 Speaker 3: because it does belong completely to her. Still, I did 722 00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 3: a panel at one point, moderated a panel of black 723 00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 3: women creators, and she was on the panel. And the 724 00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 3: way her human energy, the way she presents in person, 725 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 3: is so chill and calming. It was giving shade, to 726 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:22,840 Speaker 3: be honest, Wow, it was giving sophisticated. 727 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 2: It was a little bit giving. Y'all are lucky you 728 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 2: have time for this. 729 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 3: And I'm not mad at that because she has songs 730 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:29,920 Speaker 3: to write and things to do. 731 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:32,359 Speaker 2: But I say all that. 732 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 3: To say I love the songs, but I also just 733 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,840 Speaker 3: love very much right now, the idea of her. 734 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,080 Speaker 2: I love black women making rhythm and blues. 735 00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,320 Speaker 3: I love black women who understand what pop actually means. 736 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 3: That it doesn't necessarily mean that something has to sound 737 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 3: like a pop song. It means you just going for 738 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 3: the biggest and the most. I hear that ambition in 739 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:59,480 Speaker 3: her music, you know. So she's out of here, So 740 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,440 Speaker 3: see her now before the tickets are a geopop because 741 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 3: they will be so she's that girl. 742 00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 1: Agreed, Yes, agreed. Okay. What about Janelle Monee's The Age 743 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 1: of Pleasure. 744 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,560 Speaker 2: Let me tell you about her, Okay. 745 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:23,960 Speaker 3: Janelle Monee is an alien like the Voice the Chops. 746 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,239 Speaker 3: As an actor, I will never forget her portraying that 747 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 3: scientist in Hidden Figures, the way she was able to 748 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 3: capture the joy of her partner in that film, giving 749 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 3: her those pencils to support her work and the efforts 750 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,920 Speaker 3: that she was making. She didn't go like crazy, like 751 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:48,399 Speaker 3: a cheerleader or anything like that. It was just this 752 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:53,759 Speaker 3: quiet inner joy of like this person sees me. And 753 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 3: I've been in the presence of Jenne Monee and I 754 00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,799 Speaker 3: feel like that's her energy in real life. I feel 755 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 3: like she sees us. I hear it in her music. 756 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 3: I see it in her work in Hollywood. I see 757 00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 3: in the way she runs her business called Wonderland, her 758 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 3: creative collective. In the dancing in the Clothes, We've seen 759 00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,799 Speaker 3: the evolution from the discipline of I will only wear 760 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,719 Speaker 3: black and white. I will only wear black and white 761 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,239 Speaker 3: because I'm not even here to have the surface of me. 762 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:26,840 Speaker 2: I'm not here for that even to be discussed. 763 00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:30,200 Speaker 3: It's just gonna be black and white, and then we've 764 00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 3: seen how she's moved all the way over then to 765 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:36,399 Speaker 3: so much color and so much big design to them 766 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:38,960 Speaker 3: like and also, I'm free with my body. 767 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 2: Now you all won't see my body. 768 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,520 Speaker 3: Y'all can see it because it's all that so again, 769 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,839 Speaker 3: like maybe it's just all the girls whose last name 770 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:47,400 Speaker 3: is gonnaame. 771 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,879 Speaker 1: They're having a moment on it being having a. 772 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,880 Speaker 2: Whole moment completely they are. 773 00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 1: They are okay one more so, what about fly on 774 00:42:57,200 --> 00:42:57,720 Speaker 1: a boss? 775 00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 2: If you wish all the way over my head? No 776 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:01,800 Speaker 2: idea what you're talking about. 777 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,839 Speaker 1: So these are the two little sisters on teach. 778 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,320 Speaker 2: Oh you're about them? 779 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:10,080 Speaker 3: No, I love them girls just to know their name, 780 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,280 Speaker 3: not hello Christ, I'm about to sitity. 781 00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 2: Oh my god, girl. 782 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,560 Speaker 3: They're invited to any girl they can come by right 783 00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:17,280 Speaker 3: now for breakfast. 784 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:21,359 Speaker 2: Are you kidding me? Those girls? And then now they 785 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:22,719 Speaker 2: have to deal with the WNBA. 786 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 3: I use this word a lot of times when I 787 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,840 Speaker 3: speak about black women's work because we don't get the 788 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:30,040 Speaker 3: credit for it. The amount of planning and discipline and 789 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:33,919 Speaker 3: execution that I see in everything that they're doing it 790 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 3: is brilliant. 791 00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 2: It is the commitment. This is the commitment too. 792 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:42,920 Speaker 3: You know how many people probably have told them, Okay, 793 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,120 Speaker 3: you guys have done that, so you guys can try 794 00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:45,600 Speaker 3: something else. 795 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,719 Speaker 2: No, we're doing this. We're doing this till it all 796 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 2: the way kills over and dies. 797 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 3: We are doing this. People love this also, you can 798 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 3: see by the way they are running down the street 799 00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,880 Speaker 3: like bulls. I love to see it. The joy and 800 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:03,960 Speaker 3: the strength get of my way, my way also in 801 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,840 Speaker 3: the black community, to have the nerve to be saying, hello, Christ, 802 00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:08,480 Speaker 3: you know something. 803 00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 1: Somebody's grandma was mad. 804 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:15,719 Speaker 3: Right now, I'm about to sin again. Listen the way 805 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,759 Speaker 3: I love them. And it feels so. 806 00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,680 Speaker 2: I could be totally wrong about this. I do not know. 807 00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:26,000 Speaker 3: It feels so lifted from the first line of a 808 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:32,359 Speaker 3: journal injury, because honey, I think we've all written those 809 00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 3: two sentences at the top of a journal entry with 810 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:41,319 Speaker 3: different words, whether it's greetings Jesus, whether it's a lah, 811 00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:46,319 Speaker 3: whether it's hello Universe, whether it's I'm about to f 812 00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 3: up again, whether it's why am I doing this again? 813 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 3: That sentiment of I'm trying and at the same time 814 00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:01,480 Speaker 3: I don't care. It is so free to be lifted 815 00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 3: from the journal, to be lifted from the interior to 816 00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:11,160 Speaker 3: being the exterior and to be executed with all that physicality. 817 00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,839 Speaker 3: Listen to me, I'm so mad I didn't know who 818 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,359 Speaker 3: they were. And please leave that in there because I'm 819 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 3: dead wrong. 820 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what. I know that song, though 821 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,759 Speaker 2: you do. I know that song and I live for it. 822 00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, okay. So this may be a hard question. 823 00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: So what would you say, definitively is your song of 824 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:33,919 Speaker 1: the Summer for twenty twenty three. 825 00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,400 Speaker 3: It wasn't released in the summer, but people are playing 826 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:41,080 Speaker 3: it like it was and it's kill Bill From says. 827 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 1: I, Oh, I'm still that Okay. 828 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 3: I'm so mature. I'm so mature. I wrote about her 829 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,279 Speaker 3: for the New York Times magazine. I visited her at 830 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:55,400 Speaker 3: her home in Malibu. To get there, unless you know 831 00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 3: a secret way that I don't know, you have to 832 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 3: ride up Pacific Coast Highway. 833 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:02,719 Speaker 2: It's literally named. 834 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 3: Always as one of the most beautiful highways in the 835 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 3: entire world. And to me, that song just evokes just that, 836 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:17,280 Speaker 3: driving up Pacifico's Highway with the top down, having done 837 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:21,879 Speaker 3: something that you probably shouldn't have and you're a little 838 00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:25,480 Speaker 3: bit chastising yourself, but you're all the way enjoying yourself. 839 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,719 Speaker 3: There's something about Scissor's voice two in general, but particularly 840 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:33,480 Speaker 3: in this song, in her songwriting that's just kind of fearless. 841 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,040 Speaker 3: I could see how that song could be written and 842 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 3: it could not be say, chosen for the album that 843 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,600 Speaker 3: it sounds maybe a little goofy, a little unfinished, little 844 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,480 Speaker 3: rough around the edges. And that's just why it is 845 00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:47,439 Speaker 3: such a summer song. 846 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,960 Speaker 2: It's just free. It's just free. 847 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:53,040 Speaker 3: It's another one, and it's so great for black women's 848 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:56,080 Speaker 3: singers right now, that the things that we struggle with 849 00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:59,680 Speaker 3: the most, things that again we just commit to our girlfriends, 850 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 3: maybe over brunch or in our group chats or in 851 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,760 Speaker 3: our journals, whether you're typing them or writing them down. 852 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,319 Speaker 3: These feelings that people feel like, well, do black women 853 00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 3: even feel that way? 854 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 2: Y'all are so strong. Y'all just get it, y'all get 855 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 2: things done. 856 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 3: You guys, just manage situations are coming from our partners. 857 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,560 Speaker 2: Well, you don't need me because you've got this. Sure. 858 00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:28,000 Speaker 2: It's all true, and it's a lot. It's a lot. 859 00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 3: So to see these innermost feelings coming out that aren't 860 00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:39,239 Speaker 3: even necessarily about the other, right, but about a black 861 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:42,720 Speaker 3: woman's own self and own heart. Those are the songs 862 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,880 Speaker 3: that I'm responding to. Whether it's as we just mentioned, 863 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:49,000 Speaker 3: Hello Christ, I'm about to sin again, or whether it's like, 864 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:53,360 Speaker 3: you know, you just keep somebody's car, honey, not that 865 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 3: I know anything about that, and you've got away with it, and. 866 00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,280 Speaker 2: You know you're wrong, you know you're wrong. 867 00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 3: You're like, I'm so mature, You're being sarcastic with yourself. 868 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 3: But at the same time, it's like, I was mad, though, 869 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 3: and you did do that to me. And I'm not 870 00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 3: saying it's writer or it's okay to quote Whitney Houston, 871 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 3: but what is okay it's for black women to be 872 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:20,040 Speaker 3: saying how they feel about themselves. So often we're singing 873 00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,920 Speaker 3: about I miss you so much, I'm gonna love you forever, 874 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 3: I'm want to jump on the midnight train to Georgia, 875 00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:33,200 Speaker 3: come back to me child, anytime, anyplace. And all these 876 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,440 Speaker 3: are beautiful songs. I could listen to them in a 877 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 3: row right now, be happy for the rest of the day. 878 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,279 Speaker 3: But sometimes what's missing is us singing about how we 879 00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,080 Speaker 3: feel about ourselves. 880 00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:45,640 Speaker 2: And it's happening now. 881 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,399 Speaker 3: I think a lot of the energy of rap and 882 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,719 Speaker 3: women in rap is spilling over into women in R 883 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,640 Speaker 3: and B in black pop. 884 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:58,560 Speaker 2: That I'm talking about me, what's going on with me? 885 00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:03,960 Speaker 3: Good, bad or otherwise mature or immature, and it's delicious, 886 00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:04,800 Speaker 3: it's heartening. 887 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:09,040 Speaker 1: I love that. That's a beautiful answer. So Danyelle will 888 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,640 Speaker 1: remind the community where we can stay connected with you. 889 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,320 Speaker 1: It is your website as well as any social media 890 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:15,520 Speaker 1: channels you want to share. 891 00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,480 Speaker 2: I am Danielle Smith and that is spelled d A 892 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 2: and y E L. Smith. 893 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,000 Speaker 3: You can find me at what remains of Twitter. You 894 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:26,000 Speaker 3: can find me on Facebook, but I'm there rarely. If 895 00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,480 Speaker 3: you really want to find me, come on over to Instagram, 896 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,080 Speaker 3: come on over to threads, come on over to spill, 897 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:34,240 Speaker 3: come on over to Spoutable. I'm there either as Danamo 898 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,320 Speaker 3: Da n A m O, which is my high school 899 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 3: nickname Danamo because I was such a little Dynamo if 900 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:44,319 Speaker 3: you can imagine, and you can also find me. Just 901 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:49,719 Speaker 3: google Danielle Smith and shine Bright and you will find 902 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,320 Speaker 3: the thing that I'm most proud of, which is my book, 903 00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,040 Speaker 3: Shine Bright, which is a very personal history of black 904 00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 3: women in pop music. It was named by Pitchwork as 905 00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 3: the music book of twenty twenty two, and it's the 906 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:03,360 Speaker 3: nearest and dearest thing to my heart. And if you 907 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,239 Speaker 3: want to hear my voice talking so much mess as 908 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,719 Speaker 3: I'm talking here with Doctor Joy, you can also just 909 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 3: go to Spotify search Black Girl's Songbook and you can 910 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 3: hear my podcast where I'm always telling stories about black 911 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 3: women in music and also about myself as a black 912 00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:20,800 Speaker 3: woman in music, as the former editor in chief of 913 00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,200 Speaker 3: Vibe and Billboard and all the many things that I've done. 914 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,359 Speaker 1: Indeed, we will be sure to include all of that 915 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,360 Speaker 1: in the show notes. Thank you so much for spending 916 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:39,080 Speaker 1: more time with us today. Always talk so fun. I'm 917 00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,239 Speaker 1: so glad Danielle was able to join us once again 918 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:44,239 Speaker 1: to share her expertise. To learn more about her and 919 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,840 Speaker 1: her work, or to grab your copy of Shine Bright, 920 00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,960 Speaker 1: visit the show notes at Therapy for Blackgirls dot Com 921 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:53,000 Speaker 1: slash Session three twenty three, and don't forget to text 922 00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,360 Speaker 1: two of your girls right now and encourage them to 923 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,440 Speaker 1: check out the episode. If you're looking for a therapist 924 00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:01,720 Speaker 1: in your area, check out our therapist directory at Therapy 925 00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 1: for Blackgirls dot Com slash directory. 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