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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Doran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Go Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: I saw the story in the New York Post, and

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Speaker 2: as I was reading the story, it got so complicated

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Speaker 2: my eyes were crossing. Okay and okay, I'm gonna read

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Speaker 2: the story to you. And Garrett just brought it to

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Speaker 2: me and reminded me. He said, you know, this is

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Speaker 2: an interesting story. I went, okay. I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: even talk about it on the air because it's so confusing,

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Speaker 2: but I'm going to quit it. Do it anyway. I'm

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Speaker 2: warning you, okay, Okay. If I get the name pronunciations wrong,

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Speaker 2: just my apology. So Zach Wilson, as you know, former

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Speaker 2: Jets quarterback, here's the story, proposals. I'm gonna read it

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Speaker 2: from the Post. Let them let them write it for me.

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Speaker 2: Proposals seem to be all the rage and in a

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Speaker 2: peculiar turn of events, former Jets quarterback Zach Wilson's ex

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Speaker 2: best friend and ex girlfriend got engaged days after Zach

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Speaker 2: Wilson popped the question to his girlfriend. Okay, okay, which

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Speaker 2: is fine, okay, but there's some cross pollination there. Dax

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Speaker 2: Milne is his best friend, a wide receiver for the Commanders,

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Speaker 2: and Abbie gill Or. Gile announced their engagement Monday in

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Speaker 2: a post on the receiver's Instagram account after he popped

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Speaker 2: the question on the beach. The news comes just over

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Speaker 2: a week after Wilson and model girlfriend Nicolette Delano revealed

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Speaker 2: that they had gotten engaged during a vacation in Italy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, are you keeping up with this? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yes? So?

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Speaker 2: The post article goes on to say the timing didn't

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Speaker 2: seem to escape some people's thoughts, considering the controversy surrounding Wilson, Milne,

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Speaker 2: and Gile. Wilson and Gile had been high school sweethearts

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Speaker 2: but split in twenty twenty two, before he came out

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Speaker 2: in July that Gile had moved on to Milne, who

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Speaker 2: had been a longtime friend of Wilson and was roommates

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Speaker 2: and teammates with him at BYU Okay. Some social media

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Speaker 2: users called Gile a homie hopper when it was revealed

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Speaker 2: that she was dating mill and in response, she wrote

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Speaker 2: on Instagram that Wilson was sleeping with his mom's best friend.

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Speaker 2: I think that's the real homie hopper right there. She

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Speaker 2: deleted her Instagram account shortly. So, okay, so we're talking

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Speaker 2: about ex best friends who are now marrying exes, but

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Speaker 2: there's also a mom's best friend.

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Speaker 4: Involved, right, Okay, now it's giving me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here's my point. There's so many, thousands, of millions

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Speaker 2: of billions of people on Earth. They contained all of

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Speaker 2: their drama down to four people, basically, not including the

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Speaker 2: mom's best friend.

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Speaker 4: I know, I get that. People say all the time,

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Speaker 4: there are millions of fish in the sea, why are

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Speaker 4: you right here? But I actually I kind of understand

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Speaker 4: how that stuff happens. Okay, talk about it because it's comfortable.

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Speaker 4: You know these people, You've grown up with them, They

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Speaker 4: know where you come from. You probably know their family

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Speaker 4: and have similar upbringing in general, and it's just easy

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Speaker 4: and comfortable to be with people, you know. They say

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Speaker 4: all the time. After someone passes away, a lot of

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Speaker 4: times person's widow or widower will get with their best

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Speaker 4: friend or.

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Speaker 2: Sibling or sibling.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's a comfort thing.

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Speaker 2: I guess you could also say that, look, you and

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Speaker 2: I are best friends. I introduce you to scary my

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Speaker 2: good friend, and then you guys become good friends, and

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Speaker 2: you totally just I'm out of the picture. So, in

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Speaker 2: other words, you you, you didn't use me. I was

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Speaker 2: basically brought to you in the universe to introduce you

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Speaker 2: to Scary your new best friend.

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Speaker 4: Maybe, so that's.

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Speaker 2: How it works. Okay, I'm okay, all right. But there

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Speaker 2: is a mom's best friend that someone slept with.

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Speaker 4: That's that's the most fascinating part of all of it.

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Speaker 4: I need pictures. I won't to know what mom has

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Speaker 4: to say about it. Okay, are they still friends?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: What's scary?

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Speaker 3: The problem, though, is when you start getting into the romantics,

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Speaker 3: when you start dating one another, it gets really muddy

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Speaker 3: really quickly. Why would you go why why can't you

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Speaker 3: go fishing in the ocean? Why do you want to?

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Speaker 3: Just you just told a puddle I'm saying is but yeah,

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Speaker 3: But then it gets murky because at some point, as

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Speaker 3: the years go by, everyone will have been with everyone

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Speaker 3: in that circle. So it's not a good idea.

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Speaker 4: But you and you.

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Speaker 2: And Nate slept with the same person.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that was weird. I was I was first

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Speaker 4: Oh wait a minute, go ahead, and I was sitting

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Speaker 4: at a table with the two of them and somebody

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Speaker 4: else and all three of them it turned out slept

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Speaker 4: with this one person. I was the only one that hadn't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but scary. Let's say that you and I were

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Speaker 2: dating and and you met my circle of friends. I

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Speaker 2: met your circle of friends, and you know we dated,

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Speaker 2: and you know we gave it a shot and it

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Speaker 2: just didn't work out. But you do have a connection

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Speaker 2: with my friend Gandhi, and so can you say, you

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Speaker 2: know what, I really like Kandhi. She really likes me.

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Speaker 2: But I have to eliminate that from the possibilities because

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Speaker 2: she's friends with Elvis. What if a great connection has

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Speaker 2: been has been totally eliminated from possibility because you have

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Speaker 2: this too many fish in the pond rule or whatever.

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Speaker 3: I see where you're coming from. And that's why there's

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Speaker 3: a lot workplace, you know, engagements that happen and things.

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Speaker 3: People get involved with each other at work because they

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Speaker 3: develop these relationships and these connections. However, I feel like

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Speaker 3: you need to take yourself out of it for a

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Speaker 3: second and say I need to make a concerted effort

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Speaker 3: to go outside this circle and do something somewhere else.

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Speaker 4: If that's what makes you happy.

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Speaker 3: Then you might wind up with this situation that we

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Speaker 3: have here.

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Speaker 4: They're all fine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but there's drama that gets involved. There's drama involved.

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Speaker 4: No, there's drama in everything you do in life. Make

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Speaker 4: yourself happy.

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Speaker 2: Look, you know, I'm not saying it should happen like

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Speaker 2: this all the time. But if there is a connection

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Speaker 2: with someone and you feel like I can't, I cannot.

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Speaker 2: I can't see this through because we're all friends. I

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Speaker 2: don't know you're eliminating you could be eliminiting friends in

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Speaker 2: the process. I get that. I love this text. Talk

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Speaker 2: about actual football. No one cares about football players and

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Speaker 2: they're off the field drama. Well, obviously they do. And

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Speaker 2: we don't talk about football on our show. Go listen

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Speaker 2: to ESPN? Can I really ESPN is still a thing?

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Speaker 4: Yes, it is.

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Speaker 1: It is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to hear Elvis Duran talking about football.

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Speaker 2: Get out of here. It's like asking me to talk

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Speaker 2: about gynecological things. I mean, I don't know anything about it.

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Speaker 4: I'd be interested in listening.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know. I'm not going to talk about football.

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Speaker 2: I don't know anything about football. Hello, Lisa, how are

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Speaker 2: you good?

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Speaker 3: How are you doing great?

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Speaker 2: So Gandhi said something that totally totally vibed with you.

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Speaker 1: Gandhi said something that really hit home. My husband died

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Speaker 1: a few years ago and I ended up being romantically

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Speaker 1: involved with his best friend, his childhood best friend that

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Speaker 1: he was best friends with for years, forty years. So

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Speaker 1: I understand where you know, with the comfort. At the time,

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Speaker 1: it was it was kind of an appendage of my husband.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's almost like there's a piece of them that

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Speaker 4: you can still hold on to because they were so close.

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Speaker 2: You also agree that your relationship with his best friend

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Speaker 2: was also independent, disconnected from your husband as well. There

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Speaker 2: had to be something about him that was.

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Speaker 3: All different person exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a totally different person. But you know, it does

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Speaker 1: get a little murky. It gets very murky when you,

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Speaker 1: you know, try to, you know, kind of incorporate the

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Speaker 1: relationship into friend groups and families. It just got you sticky.

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Speaker 3: Well that's right.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, you know, the people that surround you

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Speaker 2: and radiate around you, they don't really truly understand what

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Speaker 2: your feelings are and what your your your deceased husband's

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Speaker 2: best friends thinking, you know, I get that, but then

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Speaker 2: again it turns into a well, I guess we should

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Speaker 2: just cancel all of them as friends and just go

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Speaker 2: live our lives together in quiet.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't know, right which we didn't do. Well.

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Speaker 4: I'm really sorry about your husband.

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Speaker 2: That's terrible.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, like something similar to that. You know, you

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Speaker 4: guys know that I had a boyfriend who passed away

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Speaker 4: tragically while we were dating. And his best friend, who

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Speaker 4: a few of you have met. I feel so close

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Speaker 4: to him in a completely different way than I feel

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Speaker 4: close to everyone. I'm not attracted to him, I don't

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Speaker 4: want to date him, but when he's around, there's this

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Speaker 4: weird feeling like Chad is right there. They have the

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Speaker 4: same accent, they laugh at the same things, they tell

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Speaker 4: the same jokes, and it's like, oh, there's a piece

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Speaker 4: of him that's still living right here in his best friend,

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Speaker 4: and I love him so much.

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Speaker 2: So you see how it could be possible. Absolutely, Maybe

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Speaker 2: not in this case, but in some cases. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: got it, Lisa. How are you today?

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Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm I'm feeling it. It was a very

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Speaker 1: sudden tragedy and taken about seven years to continue to

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Speaker 1: feel and grieve and take care of myself. So I'm good. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Well, listen, thank you for adding to the show and

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Speaker 2: adding your perspective. We appreciate you very much and I

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Speaker 2: hope you have a great day.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate you guys.

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Speaker 2: Take care of there you go.

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Speaker 4: I don't know