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Speaker 1: First Date of follow up powered by the Adjucates Injury

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Speaker 2: Kai is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Evie.

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Speaker 3: We went on a date with and really liked.

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Speaker 2: So in a second we'll call her and see if

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Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

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Speaker 2: him another date for first Kai, how long as the

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Speaker 2: bench as you were from Evie?

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Speaker 4: Hi, guys, it's been about two weeks I heard from Evie.

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Speaker 5: We usually are.

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Speaker 6: Very friendly in flirtationous to everyone that.

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Speaker 5: Goes to our constant gym. We do certain backing for

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Speaker 5: us a little bit.

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Speaker 6: But then we decided that we go and grab a

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Speaker 6: smoothie after our workout, so we want to grab the

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Speaker 6: smoothie and that went really well. So then we decided

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Speaker 6: we'd go out and tractually able proper date. So we

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Speaker 6: went to this new topics place in town. We end

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Speaker 6: up patting with each other and we got the Paia

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Speaker 6: and while we went on the.

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Speaker 5: Plane to come out, we decided to after.

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Speaker 6: We ordered, we decided to sit on the same side.

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Speaker 4: Of the booth and we go through each other's phones

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Speaker 4: and we were talking about pictures and videos that.

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Speaker 6: We're talking about, especially our family numbers, and then there

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Speaker 6: was a kiss, which was pretty awesome.

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Speaker 5: So I think everything was going to Quarner plan. But

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Speaker 5: then I have an art doctor, and I.

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Speaker 6: Think it's because I know the shrimp out of the shrimp.

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Speaker 3: Okay, wait wait wait wait wait, So let's talk about

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Speaker 3: the kiss.

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Speaker 2: Then.

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Speaker 3: Was that mutual? Like did you feel like she was

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Speaker 3: given that energy back?

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Speaker 5: Definitely, just to kiss it back.

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Speaker 3: So then where does the shrimp come in?

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Speaker 5: I was mainly a few of the pressing content, my

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Speaker 5: majority of the yea shrimp from the pie. I think

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Speaker 5: that she made.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think that that's the thing that she

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Speaker 2: say something about it?

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Speaker 4: She would give me a look the entire time.

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Speaker 7: So is it that you ate all the shrimper? Is

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Speaker 7: that because you left the girl starving?

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Speaker 5: That's that's that's why I called you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay okay, and you reach out to her and she

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Speaker 2: just said nothing any sense.

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Speaker 3: Well, what was your last interaction? So what did you

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Speaker 7: So basically you sent her a text and said I

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Speaker 7: had a great time and then she responded saying thanks

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Speaker 7: for dinner. And it wasn't the energy that you were

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Speaker 7: looking for.

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Speaker 4: So I texted TV after dinner.

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Speaker 5: I said you a really great.

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Speaker 6: Time I was looking for the next day, and she

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Speaker 6: just responded with, you know, thank you for dinner with

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Speaker 6: the period, had a low energy, woul kind of response.

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Speaker 5: So I haven't done everything from her since then.

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Speaker 3: Okay, have you seen her pros fit?

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Speaker 4: Well, I just been happy, not really, not really, you know,

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Speaker 6: Conversation, just you know, hi, how I at that would

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Speaker 6: be a favorite tea?

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Speaker 3: All right, well we'll see why.

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Speaker 2: We'll plus on come back and then call her and

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Speaker 2: see if some tell us why she's ghosting you, maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date. Okay, okay, all right, plus I'll

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Speaker 2: come back, get your first safe follow up next right

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Speaker 2: in the middle of your first date follow up and

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Kai is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Evie that

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Speaker 2: he really likes. He met her at CrossFit and they

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Speaker 2: went out on a date and he thinks he's not

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Speaker 2: getting a call back because he ate all of the

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Speaker 2: shrimp and the piea that they ordered, and she also

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Speaker 2: needs her protein because you know cross face absolutely, So

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Speaker 2: we'll see if that's the reason. All right, Kai, are

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Speaker 2: you ready to give her a call? Okay, man, here

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Speaker 2: we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, I speak to ev. Please listen. Hey Evie,

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Speaker 3: how are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jubel. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Ev, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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Speaker 3: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 8: Okay, how are you?

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Speaker 3: It's a radio show.

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Speaker 8: I'm confused. Sure have you.

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Speaker 3: Ever listened to the Jebel Show before?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Every one again?

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Speaker 3: Okay, sweet? Thank you? Are you familiar with what a

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Speaker 3: first date follow up is?

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Speaker 8: Oh? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, cool.

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Speaker 2: Well that's the segment where if you ghost somebody, they

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Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the show and

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Speaker 2: ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you from somebody. You have any idea who that

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Speaker 2: would be?

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Speaker 1: Well, I've only gone on one first date recently, so

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Speaker 1: I have a feeling I might know who it is.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, who is that.

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Speaker 5: Is it?

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Speaker 8: Kai?

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Speaker 3: Yes? It is.

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Speaker 2: He told us about your date and he wants to

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Speaker 2: know why you're not calling him back or why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting him?

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Speaker 3: Would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean so like we had a we were

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Speaker 8: having like a pretty good night.

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Speaker 1: Tapas and then like we had this like really good kids, right,

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Speaker 1: and then he got up went to the bathroom, and

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Speaker 1: while she was there, his phone just kept getting messages

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Speaker 1: from someone named v And it was like egg plant

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Speaker 1: emojis and uh like teach emojis.

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Speaker 8: And tow emojis and I'm at least.

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Speaker 1: Five just in the time that he was in the bathroom,

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Speaker 1: So like, I don't know Louvie is, but it sounds

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Speaker 1: like he's kind of got something going on already.

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Speaker 8: And I just I felt so uncomfortable after that. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: and then he just didn't mention them, like I don't know,

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Speaker 8: it felt like he just left his.

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Speaker 1: Phone out on the table like he would see Loo

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Speaker 2: Okay, he thought, the reason you're not calling him back

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Speaker 2: is because he hate all the shrimp out of the

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Speaker 2: paa Wow.

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Speaker 8: I mean yeah, he did do.

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Speaker 2: That, and that was dumb, but like, okay, so it

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Speaker 2: said he was getting texts that seemed like from another girl.

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Speaker 1: I mean five, ye a lot of egg plant emojis.

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Speaker 3: A lot We should ask him about that, don't you?

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Speaker 3: Thank you?

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Speaker 8: Oh, that's right. He's here, right, Yes.

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Speaker 5: He is.

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Speaker 3: Guy's on the phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Hi.

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Speaker 4: Hey, hey, maybe this is kind of awkward, but I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm a little bit mortified and I'm going to kill

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Speaker 4: my friend there, the one that was setting all the

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Speaker 4: emoji text messages, Jim, it's my friend, Dick.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he's he was. Basically, he knew that I was

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Speaker 6: in ev for a while, and he was trying to

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Speaker 6: be encouraging by sending those messages in order to let

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Speaker 6: me know exactly what I should do and atomically speaking,

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Speaker 6: everything goes well on a date. But I uh, not

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Speaker 6: that I don't appreciate his input, but I kind of

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Speaker 6: be encouraging and and and be friendly. But I don't

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Speaker 6: I don't think he knew that she was going to

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Speaker 6: see the messages from him.

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Speaker 4: Uh, okay, I'm going to kill him the next time.

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Speaker 5: I see him.

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Speaker 4: But it was nothing sexual between and somebody else. It

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Speaker 4: was mainly sexual between me.

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Speaker 5: And me and my buddy.

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Speaker 8: Okay, so.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't another girl, but it was your friend like

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Speaker 1: convinced we were going to hook up, Like, is that

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Speaker 1: why you went out with me?

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Speaker 8: Because we were like sure we were going to hook up.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't going out with you because I was students,

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Speaker 5: we're going to look up. I was going out because

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Speaker 5: I wanted to go out with you. That the whole

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Speaker 5: walking up thing is just a bonus on You're the

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Speaker 5: main You're the main goal here is to go and

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Speaker 5: have a good time with you, because I'm coming to you.

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Speaker 4: A goal.

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Speaker 1: Come on, like a guy like you at the gym

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Speaker 1: only has one agenda and friends.

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Speaker 8: Just like the or Vicy or whatever his name is.

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Speaker 8: I knew you were too good to be true when

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Speaker 8: I went out, right, like, if that's all you're interested in, Like,

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Speaker 8: that's not what I'm here for.

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Speaker 5: That's not all I'm interested in you.

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Speaker 6: That's just my friends and dumb idiots, and it's decided

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Speaker 6: to send very very dumb text messages when I wasn't.

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Speaker 8: At the table.

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Speaker 5: But I am not into you for that, that's just

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Speaker 5: a bonus. I'm into you for everything that you are

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Speaker 5: and everything that you can be, and especially all the

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Speaker 5: conversation that the having on the last day connections are

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Speaker 6: So yes, I can understand that you might be a

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Speaker 6: little upset and confused by the messages, but that's the.

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Speaker 5: Lasting on my mind.

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Speaker 6: And you're also your your squad game is like insane,

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Speaker 6: like you can squat so much and I think it's

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Speaker 5: So it's it's also that's not a bonus's child.

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Speaker 6: It at some point in time, after an apology dinner

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Speaker 6: on those lines, okay, well, doing an ice cream after two.

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Speaker 4: And also you get to eat all the shrimp tonight.

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Speaker 6: You get all the shrimps, and wherever we go, I

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Speaker 6: will make sure that they feed you at least eat

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Speaker 6: extra shrimp.

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Speaker 5: Just to make sure that I have to make it

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Speaker 5: for the last time.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, is like out there, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go on another date with Kaile?

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Speaker 3: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 9: I bill don't know if I totally believe you yet,

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Speaker 9: but you can buy me shrimp interes. Yes, I will

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Speaker 9: go on a second date, but you are on probation.

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Speaker 3: That sounds like you said yes to shrimp. Okay, well, congratulations, Kyle,

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Speaker 3: you got another date.

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Speaker 4: This is exactly and I appreciate all that help.

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Speaker 5: This is exactly how I thought it would.

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Speaker 4: Joe, thank you so much.

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Speaker 7: Just tell Victors, Okay, okay, yeah, I want to see

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Speaker 7: those texts, though.

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Speaker 6: I will definitely show them to I'm gonna do a

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Speaker 6: little bit of editing so that would not as grad

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Speaker 6: because of you.

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Speaker 4: But I will make sure that you see them.

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Speaker 8: Jubile's first date follow up