Speaker 1: Second, we got an email from a woman named Lisa
Speaker 1: who says she recently got asked out by a really
Speaker 1: cute guy, set up a date, but never actually went
Speaker 1: out on the planned date. Okay, I feel like I
Speaker 1: set up dates at an email. She didn't say the
Speaker 1: name of this guy. But Lisa, you say, cute charming
Speaker 1: man never went out. I'm assuming it's me and Lisa.
Speaker 1: I just I just want to say I'm sorry. I
Speaker 1: guess I was just busy or maybe I forgot I
Speaker 1: don't know, but will you forgive me? There's one That's
Speaker 1: all I could think of it. I'm so sorry, Lisa.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Oh she sounds heartbroken. Heartbroken. I don't
Speaker 1: know I could send you like a signed T shirt
Speaker 1: or something, or did that make things better? How about
Speaker 1: if you just helped me with my real second date situations?
Speaker 1: Here for your anigans, Jeffrey, all right, well, tell us
Speaker 1: about the other cute guy that you want us to call.
Speaker 1: What's his name? His thing is Drew? Okay, okay, name right? Sure?
Speaker 1: All right, if you think so, Jose, that's fine. Where'd
Speaker 1: you meet Drew? I was out on happy hour with
Speaker 1: my friends at work and he was there. With a
Speaker 1: few of my coworkers. We have a mutual friend in comment.
Speaker 1: She's sort of, you know, like nudging me with her elbow. Okay,
Speaker 1: go over there and kind of talk to him a
Speaker 1: little bit. That's so fun. I love that. I like
Speaker 1: how her voice keeps getting higher and higher, and it
Speaker 1: really does in real life. Come on, you know you
Speaker 1: want to. So how did you and Drew, I don't know,
Speaker 1: spark a connection. So we hit it off really great
Speaker 1: over drinks, got one night and he got my number
Speaker 1: from my friend and reached out to me and texting anything.
Speaker 1: He wanted to go out on the date. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: and you were obviously excited what happened from them? So
Speaker 1: he really took charge with the date planning. He said
Speaker 1: he wanted it to be a surprise, and I think
Speaker 1: maybe my friend was sort of like giving him some
Speaker 1: advice on some things that I liked. So I think
Speaker 1: they were like in cahoots. I know, you like people
Speaker 1: into hoots. It's a good sign. Yeah, it means that
Speaker 1: this guy is really interested in you. Okay, So what
Speaker 1: happened The day came and I totally forgot that I
Speaker 1: already had another obligation with my family. Oh so every
Speaker 1: third Friday of the month, we have like a pizza
Speaker 1: board game night, and it's something we've been doing for years,
Speaker 1: and now that my brother and I are both out
Speaker 1: of the house, like, it's a good way to connect
Speaker 1: with our parents. And I mean, but you can ditch one, dad,
Speaker 1: if you do it every month, right, Like you can
Speaker 1: ditch one Thursday. Actually no, I can't because it's sort
Speaker 1: of a mandatory thing. Like I've never missed one, and
Speaker 1: I think that they would be really hurt if I
Speaker 1: didn't show up mandatory family game now, because it's like Christmas,
Speaker 1: it's a mandatory thing. So well, you know, if mom
Speaker 1: and dad are still paying for your car insurance, I
Speaker 1: guess I'm close with my parents, and I a thousand
Speaker 1: percent agree with you. This would be something I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want to miss every month either. Did you reschedule with him?
Speaker 1: I explained the situation, and he was honestly like super
Speaker 1: cool and open about it. He was like, if you
Speaker 1: really want, like I can just come with you. And
Speaker 1: I was like, I mean that's kind of a lot
Speaker 1: for like a first dating Yeah. Wow. Oh he wanted
Speaker 1: to actually go to the family game night. He was
Speaker 1: totally open to it. I told you this guy is
Speaker 1: so into her. I mean, I love families. I'd be
Speaker 1: down too. I don't like a first date. I don't care.
Speaker 1: It's a lot, but I don't. I don't know this guy.
Speaker 1: Were people for me to talk to you? Okay, So
Speaker 1: what did you say to that suggestion? Well before, I
Speaker 1: guess I had to ask my parents and they were
Speaker 1: a little reluctant at first, but I think they came
Speaker 1: around to the idea after I explained to them sort
Speaker 1: of how he is old? Is this gentleman? I would
Speaker 1: like to father first, get him to sign a permission
Speaker 1: from both of his parents and bring it back to me.
Speaker 1: Dated O, my god, that's a lot. But okay, so right,
Speaker 1: so it's it happened. Yeah, so he met me over
Speaker 1: at my parents' help. Okay, I mean that's committing. It
Speaker 1: shocks me. But you think Jefrey so uncomfortable because maybe
Speaker 1: about bringing someone home to his mom. It's a lot,
Speaker 1: Mom's a lot. I'm breaking out how I was thinking
Speaker 1: about it. So I guess tell us how things went
Speaker 1: Withdrew with your family. I feel like everybody was getting
Speaker 1: along super well. We were laughing, you know, I had
Speaker 1: a couple of glasses of wine. That's awesome. I feel
Speaker 1: like it's hard to be romantic though on a first
Speaker 1: day when the parents are there, like, you can't do
Speaker 1: anything sexy. I think that part of your expectation shifts right, Like,
Speaker 1: so now it's more about getting to know somebody and
Speaker 1: getting to know their family, not necessarily like trying to
Speaker 1: grab her boobs in front of her dad. You but
Speaker 1: looks so good, okay, but keep going. Well, So we
Speaker 1: ended up doing in like a truth or Derek card
Speaker 1: game family that could be dangerous? Yeah, yeahs against humanity
Speaker 1: or anything. What kind of truth or Derek? Questions were asked? Well,
Speaker 1: there was a Derek card that he pulled, and it
Speaker 1: was to box the person getting right in front of you,
Speaker 1: which was my mom. Why is that a card? Was
Speaker 1: it awkward or was it funny? I think a little
Speaker 1: bit of both. Why what happened? I think my mom
Speaker 1: got a little too excited because she ended up like
Speaker 1: knocking him down. She clocked Yeah, did he cry? Was
Speaker 1: he bleeding? Mom tagged dad and finished him off? The
Speaker 1: whole family. Okay, okay, you guys know, I'm what happened.
Speaker 1: He's on the ground. What happened? He got back up,
Speaker 1: and so he got back those and he just brushed
Speaker 1: himself off, and he was a super great sport about it.
Speaker 1: I think, you know, about an hour after that, he
Speaker 1: said that he needed to go home and fix his lip.
Speaker 1: It was just busted open, I'm sure, and your parents
Speaker 1: didn't even want to like help him clean it up there,
Speaker 1: Like that's what you get on family pizza night. Your
Speaker 1: mom felt bad, right, your mom had to have felt bad.
Speaker 1: We're making fun of it, you know. I warned him
Speaker 1: it was his own funeral, literally like a figures. I
Speaker 1: see you're saying in a way, he punched himself in
Speaker 1: the face. So he went home an hour after that,
Speaker 1: And what have you spoken to him since? We've texted
Speaker 1: back and forth a little bit, But it's not like
Speaker 1: the same enthusiast. I mean, we know why, yeah at
Speaker 1: all your mom beat him up and that he's very emasculating.
Speaker 1: Well we should ask you, I mean, Lisa, can you
Speaker 1: think of any awkward moments on the date we're maybe got?
Speaker 1: He's like, no anything, Well, okay, here's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song, We're gonna come back we'll
Speaker 1: call Drew for you and try and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, Lisa, Okay, there is a darkness behind her.
Speaker 1: I can tell. Well, I'll be right after day second.
Speaker 1: If you're just tuning in for the second date update.
Speaker 1: We're on the phone with one of our listeners, Lisa.
Speaker 1: She took a guy named Drew to her family's pizza
Speaker 1: game night and this never happens. Yeah, but we actually
Speaker 1: have audio from their first date. Yeah, let's listen. Oh wow,
Speaker 1: that was because that was amazing because while playing Truth
Speaker 1: or Dare, one of the Dare cards said to fight
Speaker 1: the person directly across from you, and for Drew, that
Speaker 1: was Lisa's mom. So mom got out her boxing gloves
Speaker 1: and decked him right in the living room. But then,
Speaker 1: you know, an hour later, Drew decided it was time
Speaker 1: to probably leave and fix his bleeding lipa. So that's
Speaker 1: kind of how the night ended. And Lisa isn't a
Speaker 1: hundred percent sure why your mom beat him up. I
Speaker 1: cannot say that enough. It's very obvious. Is this something
Speaker 1: that happens frequently for you, Lisa? No, I've never had
Speaker 1: this happen before. Oh, only the special guys get this treaty.
Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is, in Lisa's defense, your family
Speaker 1: sounds very fun, very competitive. Okay, maybe a little too competitive,
Speaker 1: and like it just sounds like he got scared off.
Speaker 1: If I was going to say it in a nice way, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just really hope that I can convince him to
Speaker 1: come on another date with me, maybe without the family
Speaker 1: in toe. Yeah, I feel definitely without the family. But
Speaker 1: is he cut to you when he's conscious or unconscious?
Speaker 1: That is not funny? Oh no, no, okay, I'm just
Speaker 1: asking maybe it's time for us to give him a
Speaker 1: call and see what he has to say. You're ready
Speaker 1: to do this, let's do it, all right, So here
Speaker 1: we go. I'm gonna doll the number right now. Hello. Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Drew. Yeah, this is him. Hey, Drew,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? My name is Jeffrey from the
Speaker 1: radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you
Speaker 1: have a second to talk with us? What is this about?
Speaker 1: This is about a segment that we do on our
Speaker 1: show called a second date Update. Have you ever heard
Speaker 1: of that before? Um? No? Like, what's going on? So?
Speaker 1: Here's how it works. If you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and afterwards. If that person isn't calling
Speaker 1: you back, you can email us and we'll reach out
Speaker 1: to your date for you to figure out the reason
Speaker 1: why they've been ghosting. I haven't been ghosting anybody. Okay,
Speaker 1: I know. She did say they were texting back and
Speaker 1: forth a little bit. Okay, well change this girl. Feels
Speaker 1: like you've been a little bit hard to get a
Speaker 1: hold of. Her name is Lisa, I remember Lisa? Okay? Yes?
Speaker 1: And and her family? Yeah, yeah, we heard about her family. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you heard all about that. She told us some of
Speaker 1: the details of what happened to family pizza night, and
Speaker 1: I got to say, props to you, man. It sounds
Speaker 1: like you were really into her if you're willing to
Speaker 1: go to a family fun night at her parents' house,
Speaker 1: like especially last minute. Yeah. I mean when she brought
Speaker 1: it up, it sounded fun, but it didn't turn up fun. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Which part of the night would you say was the
Speaker 1: least amount of fun for you? Probably the punching me
Speaker 1: in the face when punched you. Yeah, and it seems
Speaker 1: so purposeful too, like they set it all up at everything. Well,
Speaker 1: she told us that it was part of Truth or Dare.
Speaker 1: It was one of the dare cards that you drew,
Speaker 1: and unfortunately her mom was sitting across from you. They
Speaker 1: could have easily set it up. It felt like that,
Speaker 1: at least her brother, you know, we went to go
Speaker 1: to the kitchen to go get a beer, and he's like, look,
Speaker 1: if my family's not a fan of you, then they're
Speaker 1: going to kick your acts. What he said? Yeah, wait,
Speaker 1: he actually threatened you when you guys were in the
Speaker 1: kitchen and you didn't think he was being funny. It
Speaker 1: wasn't like a joke. I mean, I didn't think it
Speaker 1: was a joke at the time, but then I was
Speaker 1: laying on the carpet in the living room and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh wait, no, oh wait, maybe he wasn't
Speaker 1: joking anymore. Maybe he wasn't joking. It was super random
Speaker 1: that all of a sudden there were boxing gloves available.
Speaker 1: All of us were kind of confused about, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: have some in my trunk of my car right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And people work out in their living room and she
Speaker 1: could have just give them Dan like, it seemed like
Speaker 1: they literally set this up. There were two sets of
Speaker 1: boxing gloves in the closet. Her mom grabbed one. Lisa said,
Speaker 1: she's really good don't go lightly, And I was like, what,
Speaker 1: she's your mom? And then all of a sudden, her
Speaker 1: brother brought out this boxing bell dinged it right, and
Speaker 1: then her mom just like went right on in. Wait though,
Speaker 1: was Lisa in on it? Like maybe this is just
Speaker 1: something her family is doing. She seemed like she was
Speaker 1: having a great time. Her mom danced over my late
Speaker 1: like throne body, bro, this is like a plot to
Speaker 1: get Out? Yeah, exactly exactly. This felt like the white
Speaker 1: version of get Out. Well they got you out, it works. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to make this any worse
Speaker 1: for you, but I do need to tell you it's
Speaker 1: about to get a little bit weirder. I told you
Speaker 1: another sucker. Yeah, because Lisa's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and she wants to talk to you. Oh my god, surprise.
Speaker 1: What in the world, what do you mean so embarrassed?
Speaker 1: So wait, you don't think this is weird at all
Speaker 1: that your family and your brother like came up to
Speaker 1: me as I was leaving. He's like, you're a what what? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He was being about it Lisa. Well, and in her
Speaker 1: brother's defense, he wasn't totally wrong. Oh why aren't you
Speaker 1: coming in and apologizing profusely. I really am so incredibly embarrassed.
Speaker 1: They just don't know what to say. I I just
Speaker 1: sort of wish you would have lasted like a minute
Speaker 1: or two longer to earn their respect. What are you
Speaker 1: talking about? They don't mess around. I warned you before
Speaker 1: you came over that it would be your funeral. Isn't
Speaker 1: what you do? How many guys you had your mom
Speaker 1: knocked out? Yeah, that's true. Well, the last person I
Speaker 1: had over for family game nights was my high school
Speaker 1: boyfriend and that was years ago. So wait, this has
Speaker 1: happened before. Your mom has has wanted to box your
Speaker 1: boyfriends in the past. It's sort of like a rite
Speaker 1: of passage. So yeah, they do box. But he lasted
Speaker 1: a lot longer, a lot of stories like how are
Speaker 1: you okay with this? Lisa? She'd be honest. I thought
Speaker 1: my mom went kind of easy on him. She could
Speaker 1: have done way more. Damn, what are you talking about, Lisa?
Speaker 1: You saw her. She was like a tiger that was unchained.
Speaker 1: I don't know, she's still blood in the water something.
Speaker 1: It was quick, but honestly, she held back. Now I'm
Speaker 1: confused why Lisa even called us for help. It sounds
Speaker 1: like she just wants to rub it in this guys.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it's a good sign, right, Lisa.
Speaker 1: Maybe there's still potential Withdrew and your family. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1: I called you, guys, because I really like him and
Speaker 1: I think that there's potential in the future to do better. Okay,
Speaker 1: what do you want me to do? You want me
Speaker 1: to take some boxing lessons? Yeah, she'll take it to
Speaker 1: like a little meat locker. You can punch the little
Speaker 1: things hanging from the ceiling, have a little rocky moment.
Speaker 1: This is so weird. No, I think I'm I think
Speaker 1: I'm good. As soon as you get a ko on
Speaker 1: her mom, then that means it's marriage. What is going on?
Speaker 1: I want this. I hope it is the pay per
Speaker 1: view because this is so weird. Even though you went
Speaker 1: down early. I think my mom really saw something in
Speaker 1: you that night, what blood and fear. I think she
Speaker 1: really saw potential for you and like a future for us.
Speaker 1: Then I think, you know, maybe if you take a
Speaker 1: couple of bocks in classes with her, you'll improve well.
Speaker 1: In that case, we would love Drew to offer to
Speaker 1: send you out for a rematch with Lisa's mom. A date.
Speaker 1: Let them go on a date with Lisa's mine. We'll
Speaker 1: send you out with Lisa one more time, and we'll
Speaker 1: pay for it. What do you say on God's Green Earth?
Speaker 1: I will never do Family Peaks to Night again. Okay, yeah, match, yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess Lisa's brother was right. You kind of our book.
Speaker 1: Oh that's not fair that Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.