1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephane 2 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: Never told you production. I heart radio. Today. We were 3 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: so excited to once again be joined by Bridget Todd, 4 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: one of our very favorite human people. Hello, Bridget, Hello, 5 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: thank you for having me back. I'm so excited to 6 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: be here. We're so excited to have you, and some 7 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: congratulations are in order. Thank you podcast Royalty. Well I 8 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: know about that, but I did recently get the news 9 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: that I am a winner of a Shorty Award for 10 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: Best Podcast Miniseries, and I'm super excited about it. So 11 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 1: thank you. Congrats as you deserve because you've worked so 12 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: hard on your series and I feel like we have 13 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: been so blessed for the lack of better terms, for 14 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: having you as a part of a monthly regular I 15 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: can't say it enough. Thank you so much again for 16 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: just christening our feed with your delightful series. Oh please, 17 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 1: I it is my pleasure and it's it's been such 18 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: a fun project to work on and honestly, getting to 19 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: tell the stories of like interesting people who do interesting stuff. 20 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: I think it's just been such a blessing. So thank you. 21 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: I really appreciate it, and thank you for continuing to 22 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: you know, have me on Smiththy to hang out with 23 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: y'all one. You're always a delight and we love having you. 24 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: But to you always bring up such fascinating and worthwhile topics, 25 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: and the one you brought today is one that I 26 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 1: wasn't very familiar with. I had like a surface level idea, 27 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: and reading more about it, I wasn't too surprised with 28 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 1: any of the information, but I didn't know a lot 29 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: about it. So I'm very excited that you brought this 30 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: topic today so that we can all learn more. So 31 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: what did you bring us to talk about? So today 32 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: I really am excited to talk about what's going on 33 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: with at picking. Anybody who's been reading the news for 34 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: the last couple of years probably knows that we're in 35 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: the middle of like what you might think of as 36 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: a moral panic around trafficking. I remember was it last 37 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: year where claims on the platform TikTok went viral that 38 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: the furniture retailer Wayfarer was trafficking children on their online 39 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: site that if you bought, you know, a cabinet that 40 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: had the name Maria, the price was exorbited and that 41 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: meant that you were actually buying a missing person named Maria. 42 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: This was all bunked, This was not true. But these 43 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: claims have been going viral lately, and if you spend 44 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 1: any time at all on the platform TikTok, you've probably 45 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: seen a video that has hundreds of thousands of views 46 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: where young women are talking about kind of almost being 47 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: kidnapped or almost being trafficked. Usually it's like they were 48 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: shopping at a big box retailer like Target or Walmart, 49 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: and somebody got too close to them, or somebody did 50 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: something weird to them, or they went out to their 51 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: car and something weird was on their car, and they'll 52 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: make these videos kind of claiming that this thing that 53 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: happened meant that they were almost targets of kidnapping, like 54 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: a forced kidnapping, and could have ended up being trafficked. 55 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: And yeah, those videos, I can really understand why women 56 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 1: make them, and I don't want to I want to 57 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: be very clear, I'm not like blaming these women. I 58 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: can really understand that they're responding to a genuine feeling 59 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: of discomfort that I think many women feel when we're 60 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: just going out about in our daily lives. But those 61 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 1: videos are actually kind of dangerous because they actually can 62 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: perpetuate misinformation about trafficking that actually silences and harms people 63 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: who are actually being victims of trafficking. So it's something 64 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: that I didn't really know a ton about either until 65 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: downloading TikTok at the urging of my younger cousins. So 66 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: I am a little bit older for the platform, but 67 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: you know, and really sort of scrolling through and being like, wow, 68 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: these videos make it seem as though, if you are 69 00:03:56,400 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: a young woman, anytime you leave your house you should 70 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: be afraid. Anytime you go shopping, you should be afraid 71 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: that it is likely that you will be kidnapped by 72 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: a stranger. And that's just something I think that we 73 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: should be unpacking and and really asking a few questions about, right, 74 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 1: And recently on your podcast, Bridget you dug into this correct, 75 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: that's right. So I have to give major, major shout 76 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 1: outs to one of my favorite podcasters, Michael Hobbs, the 77 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 1: podcast You're Wrong About. If you're not listening to You're 78 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: wrong about, what are you doing with your life? Because 79 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: it's such a good podcast. Cannot recommend it enough. They 80 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: actually have a recent episode about the Dixie or that 81 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: they used to be the Dixie Chicks. Now that's the 82 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: Chicks that is so phenomenal, please listen to it. But 83 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: Michael Hobbs was a guest on my podcast to talk 84 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: about trafficking and trafficking myths, and they have a great 85 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,159 Speaker 1: episode that breaks down where these trafficking myths come from. 86 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 1: So major shout out to them and definitely check out 87 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: their podcast and if you want to hear Michael in 88 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: conversation with me, check out the episode that we did 89 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: because I think it was great. But yeah, I think 90 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: we are living through this really wild time where people 91 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: are anxious. You know, there's the pandemic, there's you know, 92 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 1: political and social unrest, and in times of that kind 93 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 1: of unrest, I think it's not surprising that people look 94 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: for an outside boogeyman who is often like the other 95 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: and so you know, maybe it's a stand in for 96 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,679 Speaker 1: like immigrants or you know, people of color, like trans people, 97 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: like some kind of boogeyman that you need to be 98 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: afraid of. I think in times of anxiety, historically people 99 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: turn to someone to kind of blame their anxieties on. 100 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 1: So it's not surprising to me that we're kind of 101 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: living through this this time where everybody is on edge 102 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 1: and really warning about being kidnapped, being traffic, you know, 103 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: and sort of creating this kind of like moral panic 104 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: around it. Yeah, this episode he brought to this has 105 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,840 Speaker 1: given me a lot to mull over that I've kind 106 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: of been thinking through my head anyway, and I just 107 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: have a lot of complicated thoughts and what we're talking 108 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: about is fairly complicated. And as we're like slowly entering 109 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: back into the world, or at least in my case, 110 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: for like went outside and went somewhere for the first 111 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: time a long time, I've just forgotten that like performance 112 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 1: and weight of just being someone and a woman walking 113 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: around outside, and it felt so suffocating, like I know 114 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: it was before that, but just that kind of sudden difference. 115 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 1: But I've been thinking about, Yeah, that that blaming of 116 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 1: the other, the boogeyman and how on in a kind 117 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: of messed up way. That's simpler and easier than talking 118 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: about these systemic issues of sexism and racism and homophobia, 119 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:43,799 Speaker 1: and how not dealing with those because they're difficult helps 120 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: prop up those things like rape culture. Like it's like, 121 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 1: keep your attention on this boogeyman that is pretty rare 122 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: instead of dealing with why do we feel this way 123 00:06:56,200 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: at all? Why is it easy for women to feel 124 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: like they're going to be kidnapped or attacked? So, yeah, 125 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: that's been something on my mind. And then just the 126 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: whole thing with Q and On, which we've been talking 127 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: about also, where that's a big part of their whole 128 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: thing is really selling this idea of protecting children from 129 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: these really unsavory fates and how successful they've been with 130 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: that messaging. So yeah, there's just a lot going on 131 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: to unpack and untangle and what we're talking about today. Yeah, 132 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: I feel like I know that we were talking about 133 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: it before we started recording. We're like, oh and uh, 134 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: I began with don't get me started, which is hilarious 135 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: because Bridget You've got me started. But yeah, one of 136 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: the conversations that you when I are having was about 137 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: the mere fact that they take sensationalized ideas, grow it bigger, 138 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: essentially and make it impossible for regular cases. And I 139 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: say regular in quotes in the aspect of what is 140 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: more common to actually be able to do something or 141 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: get any kind of justice, including things like in rape culture, 142 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: when we see most of the times that victims know 143 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: the air attackers or know the people who are coming 144 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: after them. And it's the same way in trafficking, but instead, 145 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 1: because we have to have this big boogeyman, it gets 146 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: harder and harder to talk about the disinformation and getting 147 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: actual justice. Have you been able to kind of decipher 148 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: how that can be taken down? That's a great question. 149 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I think that you're exactly right. Both of 150 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: you are exactly right. I think that it is so 151 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: much harder and storn ear to say, you know, the 152 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: issue is that quote unquote normal regular men can be 153 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: creepers and can make women feel really uncomfortable just in 154 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: they're just out in public. And that's a problem when 155 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: we need to call that out, or that we live 156 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: in a society where men who are in our own 157 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:56,719 Speaker 1: homes can sometimes be the ones who are perpetuating not 158 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 1: great stuff. And I think it's so much easier to 159 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: be like, oh, here's this boogeyman who's doing it. He's 160 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 1: a stranger in a van with a hat and a mustache. 161 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: Like that's you know, it's so much easier and clearer 162 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 1: cut to point to that, even though the stranger in 163 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: a van is so much less likely to be the 164 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: person who is going to do you that kind of harm. 165 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: And I also think you know, sam as as a 166 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 1: juvenile justice advocate, you and I both know that some 167 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: of the systems that can perpetuate harm against children are 168 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: things like foster care systems, you know, like those systems 169 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: that are there for you know, vulnerable youth. Those systems 170 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: are the ones that can really be perpetuating this kind 171 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: of thing. Yet it's so hard, Like I think a 172 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: conversation about abuse in the foster care system is so 173 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 1: much less exciting and sensational than a guy in a 174 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: van taken style, you know, putting a pillow case over 175 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: your head while you're shopping and putting you in a van. 176 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: Like I can understand why that is what people gravitate 177 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: towards when they talk about trapp I can completely understand it, 178 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: but it doesn't do us anything good because when someone 179 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 1: says to you, you know, oh, this person that I trusted, 180 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: I had this weird experience with them, or you know, 181 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm being groomed. You're we're gonna all 182 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:16,559 Speaker 1: be primed to be like, well, no, trafficking is when 183 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: someone snatches you from a target against your will. It's 184 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 1: not something that you're coerced into or groomed into, or 185 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 1: that someone that you knew could get you involved in, 186 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: you know, over a course of time. And it makes 187 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: us so much more primed to see something that is 188 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: actually really rare and makes it more difficult for us 189 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: to see the thing that is actually happening all around us. 190 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 1: And I get it, I get why that happens, and 191 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: I think it doesn't help that the way that social 192 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: media algorithms work, they really prioritize big moment And so 193 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 1: that's why if you ever are on like Facebook or 194 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: Instagram and you announced a pregnancy or an engagement, your 195 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: post will get lots and lots and lots of likes 196 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 1: because the algorithm knows this is a big moment. The 197 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: same is true for big moments of con it. So, 198 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: somebody making a video about how they were, you know, 199 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: almost kidnapped in a parking lot and you know, thank 200 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,319 Speaker 1: god they weren't, that's gonna get so much more engagement 201 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: and so many more eyeballs than someone being like, hey, 202 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: we need to unpack the gross things that happen in 203 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: our foster care system that are really systemic and bad. 204 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 1: That's not going to get the same out of eyeballs, right, 205 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: And I mean, let's just get down to the breast 206 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: text of it all. Especially when it comes to marginalized communities, 207 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: which is who largely affects, they become no longer the 208 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: victim but the perpetrators. And we've talked about this previously 209 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,599 Speaker 1: when we talked about when they use terms like child prostitute, 210 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: which is a term like, let's just leave that out there. 211 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: But because of that, they have this divide on who's 212 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 1: a victim and who's not. And of course they want 213 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: to and I say they as an overall conspiracy theorists 214 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 1: want to highlight white women. Let's just go ahead and 215 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: say that as the true victims and who need to 216 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: be protected and white children. And we know, and we 217 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: talked about this before the Q and on aspect that's 218 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: kind of what was perpetuated in the media was how 219 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: it differentiated this is a true victim and you see 220 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: this angelic white child or angelic white woman. I say 221 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 1: angelic because you know whatever, versus who truly are the 222 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: victims and who they're willing to see as victims. And 223 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: when we talk about the fosphter care systems, oftentimes they're 224 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: dismissed in general. Do you want to talk about the 225 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: sad orphans? But the orphans they want to talk about 226 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: is again the Annie orphan who seems so cute and 227 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 1: so sweet and so white. You know what I'm saying. 228 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: That they don't get the attention and they don't get 229 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: the respect and justice that this conspiracy ideas we must 230 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: fight for these people that don't exist. Why is that? 231 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: I kind of answer your question, but I think you, yeah, 232 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 1: you kind of answered your own question. I think it 233 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 1: is so much easier to believe in this bs bin 234 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: area of sort of perfect victims and anything that does 235 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: not promote the idea of like angelic white kids and 236 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: angelic white women, those are the true victim and all 237 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: that we know that's not true. But I think it's 238 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: politically very convenient to have those folks be the face 239 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 1: of trafficking because it allows, I mean, I hate to 240 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: say this, it allows legislators to make legislation that cracks 241 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: down on other marginalized communities that they already don't like. 242 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: And so if you look at things like Sesta Fosta, 243 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: that was legislation that was purported to sort of crack 244 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 1: down on sex traffickers and made it so that social 245 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:30,079 Speaker 1: media platforms would be held liable if their platforms were 246 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 1: used in support of sex trafficking. But what they actually 247 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 1: did was they conflated consensual sex work and trafficking, and 248 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 1: those are two different things, right, and so but this legislation, 249 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 1: they were all just lumped together. And so this legislation 250 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,079 Speaker 1: that was actually you know that that was purported to 251 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: be legislation to crack down on trafficking, actually one criminalized 252 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:53,439 Speaker 1: a group that's already marginalized, sex workers and to actually 253 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: made trafficking potentially worse because sex workers are people who 254 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 1: actually know the signs of when someone's being traffic they 255 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,079 Speaker 1: know what to look out for. And if you further 256 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: criminalize this community that actually has the tools to speak 257 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: up and say something when they see something that they 258 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: know is not right, if you make it so that 259 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: they can't speak up, you're actually harming people who are 260 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: actually being trafficed. And so I think it's I think 261 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: it is complicated, but I think that you're exactly right 262 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: that there are so many forces, both like politically and 263 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 1: also sort of just culturally and socially that are interested 264 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: in having the victim quote unquote be angelic white children 265 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: or angelic white women, and not the reality that it's 266 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: you know, people who are marginalized, people who are struggling 267 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 1: with homelessness, substance abuse issues, people in the foster care system, 268 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: people who have just recently migrated to the country, you know, 269 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: lgbt Q youth, trans youth, queer youth. Those are the 270 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: people who are most likely at risk. And this idea 271 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 1: that the way that we've allowed largely white, affluent people 272 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: to take up so much space in the conversation around 273 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: what trafficking looks like really does a disservice to the 274 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: people who are actually impact as I it. I know 275 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: bridget you and I have talked about before, would take 276 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 1: it did come out and my dad like called me 277 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: as though this was a documentary and I needed to 278 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: be very concerned. And but that's what we see in 279 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: our entertainment is kind of that idea of like, yes, 280 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: the stranger danger usually white, young white woman. And then 281 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: when you're talking about social media and these things getting 282 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 1: more and more eyeballs, and if you're seeing that over 283 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: and over, then in your mind you think, oh, this 284 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: must be more common than I thought. And then on 285 00:15:56,800 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: top of that. Not only is it often like not helpful, 286 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 1: it's often completely wrong. Oh absolutely that I'm so glad 287 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 1: that you brought that up. First, I want to say 288 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: that my dad did the same thing. The first time 289 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: I was going out of the country. He was like, 290 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: I want to show you this. He called it a documentary. 291 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: He was like, I want to tell you this documentary 292 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: film about about staying safe abroad. And it was taken. 293 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: I was like, this is not a documentary, but I 294 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: do think that it is. This is just my anecdotal opinion. 295 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: I think that we are really consumed by media right 296 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: now that like is about crime, right, Like the popularity 297 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: of things like true crime podcast. I think that women 298 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 1: are being told do not leave your house. It is 299 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: not safe. You could be outside getting your mail and 300 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: someone can snatch you and that will be it, right, 301 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: Like keep your guard up, keep your guard up, and listen. 302 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: I love a good true crime documentary or true crime 303 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: podcast as much as anybody. I am not I love them. 304 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not saying that that that they're bad, 305 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: but I do think that when you're consumed by that 306 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 1: as a as a as a culture, this it kind 307 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,479 Speaker 1: of can warp what you think of as reality. Right, 308 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,719 Speaker 1: So it's like if you are consuming that kind of content, 309 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 1: that that tells you, you know, there's a danger out 310 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 1: there all the time on the backdrop of living through 311 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: a time that is really you know, anxiety provoking with 312 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: the pandemic and all this unrest, Like, I can see 313 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: how that could color how we're thinking about issues like trafficking, 314 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: and yeah, it typically it's one of those things that 315 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: typically when you do any digging or follow up, these 316 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: stories that you see that go viral often are not 317 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:35,399 Speaker 1: what they seem like. The one that's that comes to 318 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: mind right now as this woman Katie sorens In. She 319 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: was a mom influencer who went by the handle Motherhood 320 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 1: Essentials on Instagram, and she went viral. She made this 321 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: video where she said that she had been shopping in 322 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: a Michael's craft store and this couple tried to kidnap 323 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 1: her kids and the video was terrifying. She says that 324 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: she was shopping she overheard these this couple who she 325 00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: described as like looking quote not polished, So I don't know, 326 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: I don't I was like unclear of what that what 327 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:05,880 Speaker 1: kind of coded phrase that was? But and she said 328 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 1: that she overheard them talking about her kids appearance while 329 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 1: she was shopping, and so, you know, if I was 330 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 1: a mom and I heard that, I would be losing 331 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 1: my mind, right, I would be really upset. She then 332 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 1: said that the man tried to grab her stroller with 333 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 1: her child in it, and that she screamed or something 334 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: and somebody walked by, and that they got in their 335 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: car and sped off, and so she made this video. 336 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: She told the police that she did not want this 337 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 1: couple arrested, that she just wanted to make a report 338 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: so that she could spread awareness. She made this video. 339 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:38,159 Speaker 1: The video went viral and got over two million views. 340 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: Only she had it completely wrong. After her video went viral, 341 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: people were circulating the picture of this couple around and 342 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: this couple didn't even know there was a problem until 343 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 1: someone told them that their picture was being circulated on 344 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 1: one of those Saved the Children Facebook groups, which is 345 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: pretty scary to These people are kind of wild and 346 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: if they if they think that that they're circulating your 347 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: picture saying that you tried to kidnap a baby, that's 348 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:07,679 Speaker 1: pretty scary. And so this couple completely, you know, cooperated 349 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: with the police. So the couple I feel so bad 350 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 1: for them. They they were like an elderly Latino couple 351 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:16,400 Speaker 1: and they were grandparents themselves, and they said, oh, well, 352 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: this woman she thought that she heard us talking about 353 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: her kids. We were talking about our own grandkids. We 354 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 1: were shopping for our grandkids. And so they were completely 355 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: cleared of any wrongdoing. And this woman is actually now 356 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 1: being charged with giving false information to the police. And 357 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 1: I don't know what was in her mind when she 358 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 1: did this. It's it's possible that she was actually genuinely 359 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 1: afraid or feeling some kind of fear. But I do 360 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: think that when you get social media involved, because we 361 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: know algorithms are poised to make this specific kind of 362 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: content get lots and lots of views, you really got 363 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 1: to be careful. So I'm not I'm not saying that 364 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: if anybody has an experience like this that they should 365 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: not broadcasted to the world via social media, but just 366 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: really think it through, because you could be really endangering 367 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 1: somebody else. Like this couple having their their picture and 368 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: I saved the children Facebook group. That is not a 369 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: safe situation for them, right, And so I think that 370 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 1: people should really be thoughtful about how they talk about trafficking, 371 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 1: because so often the kinds of viral videos and viral 372 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 1: claims that you see about trafficking just aren't true. They 373 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: fall apart under scrutiny, right, And that's the other part 374 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: of this. Let's say it was true, she could have 375 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 1: messed up her case in general and trying to go 376 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: after this because she's already prepped these people into saying 377 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: what they needed to say, so none of this it 378 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 1: was wrong. I remember to this video because they actually 379 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: went all the way through releasing security video showing that 380 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: they had actually stayed in the store when she said 381 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: they ran to buy something. They were at the checkout 382 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,199 Speaker 1: counter talking to the checkout lady, not knowing what's going on, 383 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 1: had no interactions, there was no screaming, Like I remember going, 384 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: why like that wasn't Did she not realize stores have 385 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: security cameras. I'm very confused and what she was thinking 386 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: as well. But in a matter of fact, as many 387 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 1: cases that I've been on when I worked with the 388 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 1: Department Disambling Children's Services, any case of molestation and such 389 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 1: that would have ruined it right there, because it's already 390 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: difficult to prove a case. It is almost impossible to 391 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: get any kind of justice in general when it comes 392 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: to things like that, and has she had done that video, 393 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: had this actually had happened and they had gotten the 394 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 1: heads up, they could have easily just thrown out this 395 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,360 Speaker 1: case because she screwed it up. Let's just be very 396 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 1: honest about that. This is what I think. It's part 397 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 1: of the problem. And I know you you now know 398 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: as you're talking of it is people sensationalized and see 399 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: movies and think this is how it goes. When it 400 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 1: comes to the reality is no, if you do half 401 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,239 Speaker 1: the things that you do in movies, you've already up 402 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: the entire case and there's no justice to be had. 403 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 1: I'm so glad to hear you say this. Michael Hobbs 404 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 1: and I talked about this. I do think that there's 405 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,479 Speaker 1: something about movies and true crime content that is making 406 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 1: us think that, you know, vigilante justice. I need to 407 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 1: hunt down these bad guys, and like I have the 408 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 1: idea of hunting down bad guys sounds cool. I don't 409 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 1: understand why people like why that is something that seems compelling, 410 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: But it's not like the movies. Right. In reality, the 411 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:18,199 Speaker 1: road to justice, unfortunately, can be very tenuous and so 412 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 1: it is not like the movies. I think that this 413 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,400 Speaker 1: kind of content really gives a false impression of what 414 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,639 Speaker 1: the process of seeking justice for this kind of crime 415 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 1: actually looks like. And if people did half the things 416 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 1: that you hear about on movies or that get turned 417 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:34,679 Speaker 1: into life, I mean, I love a Lifetime movie. If 418 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 1: people have half of that stuff, they would actually be 419 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:40,399 Speaker 1: jeopardizing their own case. So not a good strategy to 420 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 1: get your advice from Lifetime movies, as entertaining as they 421 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 1: may be. Those But you know, speaking of not realistic, 422 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,640 Speaker 1: I think a lot of these things are also perpetuated 423 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 1: by urban myth type of posts that we see not 424 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: only on techtok, because I'm not on tektok I'm not 425 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 1: cool enough for that yet, but like on Facebook, I've 426 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: seen so many posts where it says if the cheese 427 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: Have you heard of this one? Y'all? Oh? Yes? So 428 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: apparently there was a woman who stated that she found 429 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,399 Speaker 1: a slice of cheese on her car and because it 430 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 1: can ruin the paint and you can't just pill it off, 431 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 1: she had to sit there and scrape it off. But 432 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 1: she had quote unquote the good sense of calling someone 433 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 1: to help her, and it turned out supposedly there it 434 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 1: was a another car watching her so that when she 435 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,199 Speaker 1: got out to get the cheese off, they could kidnap her. 436 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: Was and it went violent. I don't know if you're viold, 437 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 1: but it went big enough that would be repost this, 438 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,399 Speaker 1: repost this, let everyone know, And I'm just like, what 439 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 1: have I missed something? Maybe I haven't been out enough. 440 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 1: But post like that also perpetuate these types of stereotypes 441 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: or kind of fearmongering. I would guess, oh absolutely. And 442 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: to be clear, this is not new. When I was 443 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: in high school, before social media was ever even really 444 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 1: a thing, I used to hear all kind ends of stories. 445 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 1: You know, somebody is gonna be waiting under your car 446 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 1: with a razor blade to slice your ankles, you know, 447 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 1: the the old story of I mean, I might be 448 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: dating myself. I don't know if if people even know 449 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,679 Speaker 1: the story, but the the urban legend of a woman 450 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: driving at night and a guy is driving behind her 451 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 1: and he keeps flashing his high beams and really, and 452 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 1: so she thinks this guy's this guy is trying to 453 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 1: murder me, And in reality, he's flashing his high beams 454 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:26,479 Speaker 1: to warn her that there's a bad guy in her 455 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 1: back seat. So this is not new, but with social media, 456 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: these things can really go viral. And so it's one 457 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 1: thing if this is an urban legend being passed around 458 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 1: you know, your home room or whatever in high school. 459 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 1: It's another thing when it can get when it is 460 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: optimized by platforms to get thousands and thousands and thousands 461 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 1: of views and to spread really quickly. And so a 462 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: couple of things to point out about that. Pretty much, 463 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,719 Speaker 1: if you ever hear someone say, oh, this is a 464 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: new tactic that traffickers are using, that should perk your 465 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: ears right up, because it is likely that you're about 466 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,199 Speaker 1: to hear something that is total b s because just 467 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: use common sense. Doesn't make sense that that traffickers would 468 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 1: have some kind of a you know, code that they 469 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: write on your car to signal to another trafficker something 470 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 1: about you. Doesn't make sense that all of this stuff 471 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 1: will be happening in the parking lot of a major retailer, 472 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 1: most of which in this day and age, are being recorded. 473 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: I just you just really, when you think about these claims, 474 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 1: even though they sound very compelling, if you if you 475 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: really give them some thought, it's like, oh, that doesn't 476 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: actually make a lot of sense. So if it doesn't 477 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: make sense, it's probably not happening. Another thing to say 478 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: is that what we know about how untrue information spreads 479 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,440 Speaker 1: on the internet, disinformation is when someone is making up 480 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 1: a story purposely to fool you or to trick you, 481 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: ort to call some kind of harm. They're doing it 482 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:48,400 Speaker 1: on purpose. Misinformation is different because people are spreading information 483 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: that they don't know, you know, is whether or not 484 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 1: it's true or not. They're not necessarily trying to cause harm. 485 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 1: They're probably just trying to warn their community, and they're 486 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: sort of thinking, you know, better safe than sorry. If 487 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,679 Speaker 1: this helps somebody gray, If not, who cares? And I 488 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,640 Speaker 1: can understand why people are sharing information just to sort 489 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: of generally warn people about things they hear. But again, 490 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,199 Speaker 1: it really does add to this this unshrewd idea of 491 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 1: what trafficking really looks like. So, no, putting somebody putting 492 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: cheese on your car is not a way to mark 493 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 1: you as a trafficking victim. Somebody putting a zip tie 494 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 1: or or a something on your car handle pretty much 495 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 1: anything that says that where someone is doing something to 496 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 1: your car as a way to mark you for trafficking 497 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 1: is not happening. And I see so many stories on 498 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 1: local news sites, you know, where people are like, oh, 499 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 1: well this my hometown local news website said that the 500 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,199 Speaker 1: police said that they were investigating. And honestly, this is 501 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,199 Speaker 1: a such a situation where I think people that have 502 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: institutional power, like the police, like journalists, need to take 503 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: a little bit more responsibility and don't just write up 504 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 1: a story and you know, quick publish without really doing 505 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 1: your due diligence, because the police saying they're in estigating 506 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: is different than them saying, yes, this is a confirmed 507 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 1: trafficking attempt. They are correct, right, And so I see 508 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: a lot of hometown local journalistic outlets that you know, 509 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 1: essentially will write an entire article about the fact that 510 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 1: somebody found a you know, bag on their car, or 511 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,640 Speaker 1: or that somebody found a string on their car. And 512 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: I think that we should be asking people that have 513 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: that kind of institutional power whether or not they are 514 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 1: contributing to this this these misunderstandings about trafficking. Right. Like, 515 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: one of the stories that I that I saw that 516 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 1: when viral was this parking lot where someone found a 517 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: flower on their car and they were like, oh my god, 518 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: I'm about to be traffic. And it turned out that 519 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 1: these people have had a wedding or something and they 520 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 1: had all these extra flowers and so they were like, oh, 521 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 1: it'll be nice, and we put them on people's cars, 522 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 1: and so that that wasn't worth it to write a 523 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: whole article about this misunderstanding when you know, the correction 524 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: will never get as much attention as the false claim. 525 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 1: The false claim will go viral, the correction will will 526 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 1: barely be seen by anybody, right, And that's the whole 527 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 1: like clickbait, you know what? What sells um conversation and yeah, yeah, 528 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 1: I I remember when I was in high school, there 529 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,959 Speaker 1: was a rule you weren't allowed to wear shirts with 530 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: your name on them because the idea was someone could 531 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,920 Speaker 1: pretend they knew your parents or they knew your guardians, 532 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 1: and they'd be like, oh, hey Annie, they told me 533 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 1: I can pick you up. But then that's the end. 534 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 1: No one sees you again. And just the idea that 535 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 1: they're like telling this the tons. Okay, I don't know 536 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: that I get it. I totally get it, but a 537 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 1: part of it does feel very like this is the 538 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: society we're in. You have to deal with it. It's 539 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 1: on you to protect yourself. But Okay, we've talked a 540 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: lot about what trafficking isn't. Can we talk about some 541 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: more about what it is? Oh? Absolutely, I'm so glad 542 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 1: that you asked. So this is from a great resource 543 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: called the Polaris Project. They have so much good information 544 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 1: about trafficking out there, so definitely check them out if 545 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 1: you're interested. This is from their site. They say it 546 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 1: can happen to anyone, or is happening in your backyard 547 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 1: are common in the anti human trafficking field. Technically they're true. 548 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 1: Anyone could be trafficked in any community, just as anybody 549 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 1: can be the victim of any kind of crime. But 550 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 1: the real story is why it can happen to anyone. 551 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,400 Speaker 1: Available evidence suggests that people of color and l g 552 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: B t Q plus people are more likely to be 553 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 1: traffic than any other demographic of group. That is not 554 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: a coincidence. Generational trauma, historic oppression, discrimination, and other societal factors, 555 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 1: and any qualities can create community wide vulnerabilities. Traffickers recognize 556 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: and take advantage of people who are vulnerable in certain ways, 557 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: and so trafficking can look like a lot of things. 558 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: Most of the time, it looks like somebody who is 559 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 1: vulnerable because of some issue being taken advantage of, coerced 560 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 1: or groomed. It oft sometimes it can be people that 561 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 1: you know, people that you trust, people in your community, 562 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 1: people in your own house. It is really unlikely that 563 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 1: anyone would be trafficked by a stranger kidnapping them from 564 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: a public place. I want to be clear that I'm 565 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 1: not saying that never happens, but it is very very 566 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,440 Speaker 1: rare instances where that has happened, is you can count 567 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: them on one hand. It is. It is very rare. 568 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: So again, anything could happen to anyone. We live in 569 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: a chaotic world where things can happen, but we need 570 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 1: to be clear about what is more likely and what 571 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: is not very likely. And as Sam said, you know, 572 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,400 Speaker 1: the foster care system is like rife with trafficking, and 573 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: really it's it's situations where someone is vulnerable and there's 574 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 1: a power imbalance. The Polaryer's Project that's a really good 575 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: job of laying this out. So if you are a 576 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: person dealing with homelessness, somebody offering you, you know, a 577 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: place to stay, a place to sleep, that kind of thing, right, 578 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 1: Like we have really really misunderstood the way that trafficking 579 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:46,400 Speaker 1: actually looks in favor of this highly sensationalized view of 580 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 1: people being kidnapped. So, you know, we really need to 581 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 1: be having the conversation of what it actually looks like. 582 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: And oftentimes it's runaways, it's people with substance abuse issues, 583 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: it's lgbt Q youth, people dealing with homelessness. You know, 584 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: folks who are are already marginalized and already dealing with 585 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 1: some of this, some of this kind of tough stuff, 586 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: people in tough situations. I mean, there's a reason why 587 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: a majority of the group of individuals are called at 588 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: risk because it's not just necessarily that they're at risk 589 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 1: of being homeless, it's all of these things that lay 590 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: on top of them. And then, just like you said, 591 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 1: they're either coerce or groomed, and more oftentimes groomed by 592 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: someone they trust and they've built a bond with and 593 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: not realizing that this is something that happens. It flips 594 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: so quick, especially in justice system, especially in politics, where 595 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,960 Speaker 1: it goes from victim once again to the perpetrator. When 596 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 1: we call these victims no longer victims because they refused 597 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 1: to admit there groomed. That happens way more often than not. 598 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 1: I cannot tell you how many cases that I had 599 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: to go through to try to get children out of 600 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 1: bad situations that unfortunately happened to them, because yes, they 601 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 1: got lost in the system, or they got caught up 602 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 1: in one bad thing, and that caused them to think, oh, 603 00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 1: no one cares, like there's this whole level of systemic negligence. Um, 604 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 1: that's the best way I can put it. That happens 605 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 1: that causes us to happen. In their defensiveness, they don't 606 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 1: want to be seen as a victim, so therefore they 607 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 1: don't want to be seen as a victims, so they're 608 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,239 Speaker 1: they're not and I get lost in the system. And 609 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 1: there's this again, that bigger conversation of what does trafficking 610 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: look like? Which harms any possible ability to rehabilitate or 611 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 1: health these youths. So I'm not gonna say bad things 612 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 1: don't happen to women. We know that, but trafficking typically 613 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: art is not number one for women. Let's just go 614 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 1: ahead and put that out there unless there's a whole 615 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 1: different level situation. Not that it can't happen, it can happen, 616 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 1: but when it comes down to who was really victimized 617 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: and groomed, they are going to be younger. So I 618 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,480 Speaker 1: do find it interesting too though, that even though we've 619 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: talked about it throughout history, we've always talked about there's 620 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: always been a fear. Honestly, I guess since the eighties 621 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 1: when we thought all the children were gonna be picked 622 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 1: up and and kidnapped, that this whole level of trafficking 623 00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: really didn't. It felt like it's became more p plitical 624 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 1: in the last five years because of some of these 625 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: conspiracy theories and how it is perpetuated online. Has that 626 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: had more effect or Am I just paying attention more? No, 627 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: it absolutely has. I think that as our political climate 628 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 1: has gotten more polarized, gotten more heated, conversations have been 629 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: politicized in ways that we have not released, at least 630 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: in my opinion, that we have not really seen a 631 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: lot of before, and so particularly with conversations around like 632 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 1: things like you know, sex trafficking and anything involving like sex, 633 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: I think that we have really politicized those conversations to 634 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: a point where it's difficult to really have them in 635 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: any kind of, you know, meaningful or effective way. And 636 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 1: it's not great. You know, it's not it's not great 637 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 1: for people who are actually victimized. Like what, like, why 638 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 1: is it that we have this massive politicized conspiracy theory 639 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 1: Q and on that you know, it's all about you know, 640 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: women and girls being sex traffics and all of that. 641 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 1: Yet Matt Gates is currently is currently being incredibly accused 642 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 1: of sex trafficking. And it's like, so I think that, 643 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,800 Speaker 1: like it goes to show that we have a very 644 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:16,719 Speaker 1: skewed kind of cultural understanding of how we deal and 645 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 1: grapple with these issues. Absolutely, I completely agree. Can we 646 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: talk about the fact that Matt Gates people are excusing 647 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 1: him in so many manners because he first of all, 648 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 1: his interview on Fox is probably one of my favorites. However, 649 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: literally people are dismissing it, saying that he like kind 650 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 1: of that whole level of oh, whish's mature for her age, 651 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,799 Speaker 1: she's underage. Yeah, I think that was honestly, if I'm 652 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 1: being honest, I think with his situation again, I think 653 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,840 Speaker 1: because people are like, oh, trafficking is when you kidnap 654 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 1: a woman or a girl against her will and and 655 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 1: like confine her in some way. What he's doing is 656 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 1: not traffic because X y Z. I think that genuinely, 657 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 1: people have a hard time seeing what he has been 658 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: accused of as anything other than like, oh, well, he's 659 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: a man, he likes younger women. You know, boys will 660 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 1: be boys. And I think that that really does demonstrate 661 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: that we really have a long way to go in 662 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: terms of talking about what sexual violence actually looks like 663 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: and how and where it shows up. Because I think, 664 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 1: I hate to say this, I think a lot of 665 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 1: men that might think of themselves as like progressive good 666 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,359 Speaker 1: guys might agree with that if you really got down 667 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 1: to it, that like paying a woman for sex and 668 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:43,080 Speaker 1: maybe she's underaged, maybe she is being coerced into it, 669 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,879 Speaker 1: maybe she is has been groomed into it. I think 670 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 1: that a lot of people might not see that that 671 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 1: part of like, well, how did they get into the 672 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 1: circumstances as their problem? Right? I think that, like the 673 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 1: way that we talk about those issues, I think we 674 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 1: have a long way to go, and a lot of 675 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 1: people might have more sinister understandings of it than they 676 00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 1: realize because I think, again, it seems like if you're 677 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,960 Speaker 1: not kidnapping somebody, and you can't be doing anything wrong, right. 678 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: You know. A part of this too is and I'm 679 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 1: going to go out I can say, and I've said 680 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,759 Speaker 1: it before, is this white savior idea that if you're 681 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:35,240 Speaker 1: not rescuing somebody, and when they say rescuing going undercover 682 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 1: vigilanty style and you know, killing all the people's and 683 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 1: rescuing the child, then they're not truly in danger, right, 684 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 1: They're not truly being trafficked, which is kind of that again, 685 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: big conversation. One of the hardest populations to work with 686 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 1: our young people who have been in this situation, not 687 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,839 Speaker 1: realizing they've been in the situation, thinking this is their 688 00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 1: choice because they love someone, or they wanted to help someone, 689 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,279 Speaker 1: or because this is better than being an assist them 690 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 1: that neglects them anyway, that oftentimes people won't recognize that. 691 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: And even still with what's happening, and it can be 692 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:11,080 Speaker 1: trafficking with a specific foster care system in the US 693 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:16,479 Speaker 1: that is taking immigrant children against through misunderstanding or through 694 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: the immigration centers and actually adopting them out against parents 695 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 1: wishes and not even understand that they've been accused of 696 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: this from all over the country, to the point that 697 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 1: children are coming around and found out that the parents 698 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 1: had no idea, they had signed off are relinquishing their 699 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 1: guardianship and pronification rights, and therefore that's a type of 700 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,919 Speaker 1: trafficking that people don't want to talk about because once 701 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 1: again it's just I'm saving them attitude, and it has 702 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,720 Speaker 1: to be this bigger picture of what am I saving 703 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 1: them from? And if you're not grateful for it, then 704 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,359 Speaker 1: are you really in trouble? Like there's just this whole 705 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 1: level of layered conversation within this system that shows once 706 00:37:56,160 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: again a this perpetuated idea has to be hero and 707 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,880 Speaker 1: big and the and the victims have to be on 708 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 1: their nees thanking me type of idea. And or that 709 00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:09,640 Speaker 1: I've made a big splash and rescuing you, which is 710 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: that whole issue of like Q and On, we're rescuing 711 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: the children, were saving the children, which has broken down 712 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 1: this whole conversation. No, you're actually hurting the movement, You're 713 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 1: really killing the movement and in us trying to save 714 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,719 Speaker 1: truly save because who are not being saved? Oh? Absolutely, 715 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 1: And it's time and time again people who do anti 716 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,840 Speaker 1: trafficking work, they say Q and On, all of this 717 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 1: stuff is making their jobs so much harder, And if 718 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:39,840 Speaker 1: you truly cared about trafficking, you would not be doing 719 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 1: something that the people who have been dedicated their lives 720 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,880 Speaker 1: to stopping it has said, no, you're making our jobs 721 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 1: so much harder, please stop. And so I think it really, 722 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,320 Speaker 1: if it's not about stopping trafficking, what is it about? 723 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,799 Speaker 1: If people are continuing this crusade that the people who 724 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,879 Speaker 1: work in anti trafficking work say is making their jobs 725 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,279 Speaker 1: so much harder, what is it about? You know, I 726 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 1: have a lot of questions about that. I don't know. 727 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 1: I don't know the answer, but it is it really? 728 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 1: You have to you have to wonder. I mean, I 729 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 1: guess that's kind of what we talked about with the 730 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 1: Q and on women, and we've talked about misinformation and disinformation. 731 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: A lot of the times when people feel helpless, they 732 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,880 Speaker 1: feel like they have to do something, and unfortunately, if 733 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 1: they truly believe this as a situation, they're going to 734 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:25,239 Speaker 1: take up arms in this fight. And I say that 735 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 1: metaphorically obviously maybe not, I don't know, but that this 736 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 1: is a cause that they decided it's their cause and 737 00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,640 Speaker 1: they're truly willing to fight because you know, we have 738 00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 1: to say keep saying that what they're saying save the children, 739 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 1: and that's the only thing that they cannot get past. Yeah, 740 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 1: if we wanted to save the children, we would be 741 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 1: advocating for things like paid family leave. We would be 742 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:53,040 Speaker 1: advocating for, you know, increasing educational access, would be advocating 743 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 1: for raising wages for parents and caregivers. We will be 744 00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 1: advocating for There will there will be comments sense things 745 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 1: that we will be advocating for that actually would improve 746 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,879 Speaker 1: the lives of children, right like across the board. Yet 747 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,239 Speaker 1: we're you know, talking about you know, Q and On. 748 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,320 Speaker 1: It's like it's like, if we wanted to say the children, 749 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 1: we could talk about fixing our completely messed up immigration 750 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 1: system where children are taken from their parents. There are 751 00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 1: so many different ways that we could actually meaningfully improve 752 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,840 Speaker 1: the lives of children, and I don't think um On 753 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,000 Speaker 1: is one of them. I mean, when we come down 754 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,880 Speaker 1: to it, in Georgia alone and knows all over the country, 755 00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 1: they lost millions to billions of dollars in the system, 756 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 1: in the children's system. So whether it's de facts or 757 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 1: whether it's d JJ, And don't get me wrong, I 758 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,359 Speaker 1: have a lot of problems with the foster care system 759 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,719 Speaker 1: a lot. But what we're also talking about is taking 760 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,640 Speaker 1: the money away from the things that that were good 761 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 1: that try to help the families within their homes instead 762 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 1: of just removing kids left and right, or when we 763 00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,880 Speaker 1: have talked about hey, oh Medicare for all, it's actually 764 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,760 Speaker 1: really helpful and would help these kids get their counseling 765 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 1: that they need. Instead it gets cut and slashed the 766 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,920 Speaker 1: pieces where they can only get it once a week. 767 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,600 Speaker 1: And for the level of what's happening, we're not saving anything, 768 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,239 Speaker 1: and we're perpetuating, once again, putting them out into the 769 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 1: system that does take advantage of them to be trafficked. 770 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 1: So sad, I hate it. Okay, you got or started. 771 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:19,319 Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, but uh, with all of this that 772 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 1: you see, with all the constant do you see anything 773 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 1: that is helping to prevent any of this misinformation being 774 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: sent out? Yeah, that's a great question. Honestly, I it 775 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 1: kind of pains me to say this. I think that 776 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,120 Speaker 1: platforms also, just speaking of the platform TikTok because that's 777 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 1: the one I'm most familiar with at this point, I 778 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 1: think that platforms need to do more across the board 779 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 1: to keep viral inaccurate information from getting shared on their platforms. 780 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 1: But in the absence of that kind of like very 781 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,760 Speaker 1: meaningful intervention, I have been really hardened to see women, 782 00:41:55,920 --> 00:42:00,040 Speaker 1: just regular women content creators on the platform address in 783 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 1: this kind of thing. Um I interviewed this content creator 784 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,360 Speaker 1: on TikTok. Her TikTok name is blood Bath and Beyond, 785 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 1: and she started on the platform making dungeons and Dragons content. 786 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,239 Speaker 1: But now her whole thing is sort of using the 787 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:17,880 Speaker 1: platform TikTok to spread accurate information about trafficking and accurate 788 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,720 Speaker 1: trafficking resources. And so when someone makes a viral video 789 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,200 Speaker 1: about how they found something on their car, she wants 790 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 1: to on the platform where those videos are going viral, 791 00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 1: combat that kind of viral misinformation by giving good resources. 792 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,840 Speaker 1: And I am so happy to see women taking on 793 00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,880 Speaker 1: this fight to make sure that accurate information that is 794 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,000 Speaker 1: not harming people gets out there and like trying to 795 00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,920 Speaker 1: make it go as a viral asth misinformation. But you know, 796 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 1: in talking to her this kind of came up in 797 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:51,120 Speaker 1: the interview. It is complicated work because people often will 798 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 1: find these viral videos of women talking about finding a 799 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 1: zip tie on their car and tag her in them, 800 00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,280 Speaker 1: and the way that she feels sometimes is that like, oh, 801 00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,799 Speaker 1: people are hagging me because they want me to go 802 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 1: in and be like you're lying, And that's not how 803 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 1: she feels. She's not interested in invalidating anybody who is 804 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 1: sharing their experience, right, and so, but too often that's 805 00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:13,879 Speaker 1: kind of how we think of these things. We think 806 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,439 Speaker 1: of these things as like you know, she said, she said, 807 00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,479 Speaker 1: or like go in there and and call her out, 808 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,880 Speaker 1: instead of like, no, let me provide some resources and 809 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,799 Speaker 1: let me like provide a little bit of perspective. And 810 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 1: so I completely identify with that, because again, I think 811 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 1: there is a temptation to say that women that make 812 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,799 Speaker 1: these videos are looking for attention or they're making it 813 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 1: up or whatever. I don't actually believe that's going on. 814 00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,240 Speaker 1: Just the experience of being a woman out in public, 815 00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 1: you know, as Annie was speaking about at the beginning 816 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,520 Speaker 1: of the episode, can be scary. Men can be creeps. 817 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,879 Speaker 1: Men can get too close to you when you're at 818 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 1: the store. Men can be real creepers. Like we all 819 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,600 Speaker 1: know this, And so I do think that these women 820 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:55,919 Speaker 1: are responding to a genuine discomfort. But because we don't 821 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,640 Speaker 1: have a society where if we talked about the discomfort 822 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:03,839 Speaker 1: that quote unquote regular men spark in women. We don't 823 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 1: have a society that rewards women when we talk about that. 824 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,160 Speaker 1: We don't have a society that rewards women when we 825 00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:12,200 Speaker 1: talk about the threat posed by men in our communities, 826 00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,360 Speaker 1: in our own household. We do not have a society 827 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:17,279 Speaker 1: that rewards that. We do have a society, however, that 828 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,880 Speaker 1: rewards it when women speak up about a boogeyman or 829 00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 1: a stranger or a guy in a van with a 830 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:26,160 Speaker 1: mustache or whatever. That seems to be the thing that 831 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:30,400 Speaker 1: is rewarded and supported when women speak of And so honestly, 832 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,279 Speaker 1: I feel for these women who make these videos. I 833 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,759 Speaker 1: do not believe that they're you know, making them for 834 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,920 Speaker 1: attention or making it up. I believe that we have 835 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 1: a society that is only able to listen when women 836 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,319 Speaker 1: scream at the top of their lungs. And so if 837 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 1: you just said, hey, men, stop being generally creepy and 838 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,640 Speaker 1: leering at me when I'm at the gym and being 839 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:53,000 Speaker 1: generally kind of terrible because women don't like it, no 840 00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,880 Speaker 1: one's gonna listen. But if you say, hey, I'm being trapped, 841 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,359 Speaker 1: I think I'm being trafficked by this guy. I think 842 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 1: it's a totally different story, right, and so it's a 843 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 1: complicated issue, and I really I I think the issue 844 00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:08,880 Speaker 1: is made so much worse by what we take seriously 845 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:10,360 Speaker 1: in our society and what we don't and what we 846 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,600 Speaker 1: choose to listen to and what we choose to amplify. Yeah, yeah, 847 00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,279 Speaker 1: this is UM again. I'm really glad you bought this 848 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,920 Speaker 1: to us this for an episode, because it's given me 849 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:24,040 Speaker 1: a lot to think over because there is also that 850 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:27,399 Speaker 1: whole other layer of especially when I was thinking about 851 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,640 Speaker 1: Q and on and UM, some conservative politicians who would 852 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,560 Speaker 1: by the way they're speaking about some of these issues, 853 00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 1: they are sexualizing young girls and women, and it's like, 854 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if you realize you're doing that, but 855 00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:47,359 Speaker 1: you sort of part of the issue that is that 856 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,839 Speaker 1: fear that women are feeling every day and maybe they 857 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:53,759 Speaker 1: don't realize it or know how to talk about it, 858 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:55,920 Speaker 1: because for a long time I didn't even know. I 859 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,759 Speaker 1: couldn't have named it. But just seeing that layer of 860 00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:04,120 Speaker 1: it where it's just this like constant sexualization and not 861 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,160 Speaker 1: that just seems to be the status quo and we're 862 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 1: cool with it, even in these conversations that politicians are 863 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:16,040 Speaker 1: having about trafficking. Yeah, I saw this viral TikTok where 864 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:17,879 Speaker 1: it was a young girl who had set up her 865 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 1: phone to make a little video in public. It was 866 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 1: it was almost triggering. Have you guys seen it. It's 867 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,920 Speaker 1: like this guy comes up to her and he's like, oh, 868 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:26,680 Speaker 1: is this seat taken? And she's like, no, go ahead, 869 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,440 Speaker 1: thinking that he means take the chair and he sits 870 00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 1: down and she's so uncomfortable. She is so it's so 871 00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 1: clear that she doesn't want to talk to him, and 872 00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,279 Speaker 1: it is so clear that she's feeling creeped out. And 873 00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,840 Speaker 1: I feel like we all know that feeling of do 874 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:42,960 Speaker 1: you just leave me alone? Like this is so weird 875 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 1: and you don't want to be like leave because you 876 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:47,879 Speaker 1: don't know, you don't know what that's what's going to happen. 877 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:51,479 Speaker 1: And the powerlessness that comes with that feeling, And that's 878 00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,200 Speaker 1: the feeling that I feel like we that's the conversation 879 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:57,959 Speaker 1: we don't have, is like, it doesn't have to be trafficking, 880 00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:02,480 Speaker 1: a mere trafficking. It to be harmful and gross, and 881 00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:04,640 Speaker 1: we need to discuss it, even if it's not as 882 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 1: something as intense as you know, almost trafficking. We need 883 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 1: to talk about the thing there's so much more common, 884 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:13,239 Speaker 1: which is dudes being creepy. Yeah. Yeah. And then when 885 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,440 Speaker 1: we do have to we try to have those conversations, 886 00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 1: it's almost always like men and a lot of women 887 00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 1: being like, well you could have just said something, or 888 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,080 Speaker 1: you could have just putting it back on you of 889 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: well why didn't you just leave? Yes, there's so much 890 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 1: to impact here. Thanks as always, Bridget for coming on. 891 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 1: Is there anything else you'd like to say before we 892 00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 1: wrap up? No, just major shout outs to Michael Hobbs 893 00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:43,000 Speaker 1: from You're Wrong about major shoutouts to blood Bath and 894 00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 1: Beyond on TikTok. And also if you want more information, 895 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 1: credible information about trafficking, check out the Polaris Project. They 896 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,920 Speaker 1: have so many good resources and they're such a good organization. Yes, 897 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 1: and you should also check Bridget out. Where can the 898 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,279 Speaker 1: listeners find you, Bridget, Well, you can find me at 899 00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:00,279 Speaker 1: my podcast. There are no girls on the inner Net 900 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,719 Speaker 1: on the I Heart radio network, this very network. You 901 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,960 Speaker 1: can follow me on Twitter at Bridget Murray or on 902 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:08,799 Speaker 1: Instagram at Bridget Murray in d C. 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