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Speaker 1: So my wife, thirty five female, and I forty three male,

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Speaker 3: Break up. I mean, dude, why are we still here?

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Speaker 3: Six years?

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Speaker 2: You don't have a rule for that abuse.

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Speaker 3: I think my golden rule is if your partner physically

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Speaker 1: So at this point I'm not allowed to go to

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Speaker 1: So but lately she has been increasingly distant, looking for

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Speaker 1: She's been going to bed earlier and earlier, and tonight

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Speaker 1: Yes, I think I might know who it is, and

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Speaker 1: Yeah he's married as well, but obviously that doesn't matter

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Speaker 1: That she's doing this when I'm not allowed to talk

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Speaker 2: This is text book freaking projecting. This is textbook projecting.

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Speaker 1: As it gets like, is she trying to get me

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Speaker 1: She is cheating on you, and the reason she's so

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Speaker 3: Facts.

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Speaker 2: It is classic cheating behavior.

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Speaker 1: Salt Pancakes says, she would literally throw fits if I

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Speaker 3: It was so crazy. Ninety Fiance is a freaking crazy show.

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Speaker 3: That's what EXECC does. Chat would you do you? Would

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Speaker 3: you want us to swipe with you? Or how about this?

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Speaker 3: How about this? Uh, we create dating profiles and you

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Speaker 4: It's just Sam, Yeah, just for Sam. Sam loves to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, probably doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 2: I let Chat control my hinge for twenty four hours.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, dude, that's a bag or video.

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Speaker 3: It actually would be pretty funny, right, Please watch ninety

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Speaker 3: I twenty four female, recently went on a two week

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Speaker 3: vacation asked my friend Sarah to take care of my cat,

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Speaker 3: Whiskers while I was away. I provided Sarah with detailed

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Speaker 3: instructions on how to take care of Whiskers, including feeding

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Speaker 3: him twice a day at specific times. I also gave

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Speaker 3: Sarah a key to my house and made sure she

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Speaker 3: And to be clear, this is an r slash okop

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Speaker 3: show submission from Crocking. Yeah it is, let's use her

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Speaker 3: name Crocing. When I returned from vacation, I was horrified

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Speaker 3: to find that Whiskers was severely underweight and malnourished. I

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Speaker 3: immediately contacted Sarah and asked her why she didn't involve

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Speaker 3: the instructions to feed Whiskers, poor old Whiskers show whis

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Speaker 3: Sarah admitted that she had forgotten to feed him, that

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Speaker 3: bitch and feel terrible about it. I was extremely upset

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Speaker 3: and felt betrayed by my friend. I confronted her again

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Speaker 3: and threatened to press charges for animal neglect. I reminded

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Speaker 3: her that Whiskers is a living being and depends on

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Speaker 3: for survival, and that her actions could have resulted in

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Speaker 3: his death. Sarah apologized profusely and offered to make things right,

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Speaker 3: but the damage was already done. I couldn't trust her

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Speaker 3: to take care of Whiskers again and had to put

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Speaker 3: an extra effort to nurse him back to health. It's

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Speaker 3: a heart wrenching experience. I felt that I was the

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Speaker 3: one being neglectful as a pet owner. In the end,

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm the asshole for getting mad

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Speaker 3: and threatening to press charges, but I couldn't help feeling

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Speaker 3: that way in the moment. Whiskers is my family and

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Speaker 3: I would do anything to protect him, even if it

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Speaker 3: means going against a friend. Am I the a hole? Uh?

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Speaker 1: I mean that's such a shitty thing to do to

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Speaker 1: not feed someone's cat. Yeah, such a shitty thing to do.

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Speaker 1: So so not.

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Speaker 2: The a hole? Uh?

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Speaker 3: Because I mean she like, I mean you have a cat,

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Speaker 3: you kind.

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Speaker 2: Of I do.

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Speaker 1: I also have a sick, decrepit cat. Not decrepit, but

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Speaker 1: uh skinny cat.

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Speaker 2: Dude, that's so fucking annoying. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Sarah didn't take care.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if pressing charges.

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Speaker 3: You think that would be a met a little much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's your best friend and they apologize. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That's a tough one.

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Speaker 1: And it's like the cat's doing better now. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm on the fence. I'm on the fence here.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I would press charges. That might be

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Speaker 3: a little bit much.

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Speaker 2: I already just take them for all their worse.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, might as well turn on your friends. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but no one has turned on anyone because this was

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Speaker 3: Ai John. No, GPT Rhodettes got done, damn it. GPT

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Speaker 3: fool and us once fullness twice. But if you have

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Speaker 3: a real story that you want to submit to our

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Speaker 3: on the show.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you