WEBVTT - The One Where Tanya Gets Engaged

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 2>So today I can't remember what were the parts of

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<v Speaker 2>the book that we were sister, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think we're starting on demons, going to imagine. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Just kidding. Tanya isn't gay, Tanya is cool? Is this?

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<v Speaker 1>She is the coolest, the coolest girl in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you knew you were engaged when we recorded the

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<v Speaker 2>whole cool segment. I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I did.

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<v Speaker 2>You had to keep it shut though, trickery, dickery doc.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know where to begin, because we did

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<v Speaker 2>the four podcast and I was so proud of everyone

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<v Speaker 2>that we kept it that no one let it slip anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's interesting. So everything happened Sunday night. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like, oh, it's great, I'm gonna go win,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do the show and share. I'm gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast and share it. But by the time we

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<v Speaker 1>got home Sunday night, we were like in such a

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<v Speaker 1>like days. It was so crazy. I was and I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to give it its proper like, you know, attention, attention,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were not We didn't have any photos back,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I was like, Okay, I'm just gonna sit

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<v Speaker 1>on this and give it a beat and collect myself

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<v Speaker 1>because I also didn't sleep, didn't eat, couldn't stop crying.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was just like a lot of emotions, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I needed like a couple of days to just

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<v Speaker 1>like sit on it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that was really special. I think I think

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<v Speaker 2>what we expected of you, and I think even what

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<v Speaker 2>you expected of yourself, that it would be an instant post,

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<v Speaker 2>like you get engaged and it goes out to the world. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I liked that it was kind of y'all's for

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit where you kind of got to process

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<v Speaker 2>it and think about it and soak it in without

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<v Speaker 2>feeling like I gotta get up. But I know it

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<v Speaker 2>killed you kill me.

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<v Speaker 1>But what's so crazy is my phone was in that

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<v Speaker 1>locker room the whole night. I didn't have my phone

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<v Speaker 1>for like four hours, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Who am I? Well, yeah, I think you were in

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<v Speaker 2>a full state of shock.

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<v Speaker 3>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in a state of shock. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>where I was, Like my I don't know where my

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<v Speaker 1>purse is, I don't know where anything is. Around seven o'clock.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I think it's closing. I got to

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<v Speaker 1>kill get my stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Where do you want to begin on this journey?

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<v Speaker 1>You little trickery, Dickery, mcdockerson. All my friends were in on.

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<v Speaker 2>This, A lot of nick names there.

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<v Speaker 1>All my friends were in on this. Yes, that was

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite things. After it all went down,

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of hearing like the lead up and the

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<v Speaker 1>build up and like the behind the scenes of it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we had a group chat called not Tea because

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<v Speaker 2>we were so scared that we were going to accidentally

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<v Speaker 2>text her and get it confused with like other group chats.

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<v Speaker 2>But it started around the same time You and I

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<v Speaker 2>went to dinner that night. Remember, like a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>weeks ago, you and I went to dinner and.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked you flat out, I said, has Robbie approached

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<v Speaker 1>you or asked you anything about a proposal? And Becca

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<v Speaker 1>goes no.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, ugh, I was concerned with how easily

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<v Speaker 2>I lied to her face. It was a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>concerning for me, but it was so fun because he

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<v Speaker 2>had texted us like I literally think it was that

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<v Speaker 2>day and he said, do you care if I read

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<v Speaker 2>this no friends and soon to be family. I'm very

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<v Speaker 2>excited to tell you that I am planning to propose

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<v Speaker 2>to Tanya the weekend of September eighth, so either that Friday,

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<v Speaker 2>Saturday or Sunday, and wanted you guys to all be

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<v Speaker 2>there and be a part of it if possible. Details

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<v Speaker 2>are being worked out, but wanted to check your availability

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<v Speaker 2>first and talked about like what is going to be

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<v Speaker 2>followed by a mini champagne celebration, and he's like, love

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<v Speaker 2>you all and so excited. It goes without saying this

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<v Speaker 2>is a surprise, so please do not take her off,

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<v Speaker 2>even though she knows it's coming any day now. So

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<v Speaker 2>in this chat, it was me, Paulina, Sophia and Brad

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<v Speaker 2>and Raquel and Robbie. Yeah, and it was just so fun,

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<v Speaker 2>like trying to coordinate. You had the Jonas Brothers concert, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>so it was possibly going to be on that Saturday,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're going to like.

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<v Speaker 1>We were going to go to the show. I'm very

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<v Speaker 1>glad that plan did not go as planned.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was just really fun, Like you could tell

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<v Speaker 2>Robbie was just like so excited and wanted it to

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<v Speaker 2>be perfect and wanted everyone to be there and wanted

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<v Speaker 2>it to be what you would want, and it was

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<v Speaker 2>just it was really sweet, like being a part of

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<v Speaker 2>something that he was like leading and so excited about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, there was well, I don't know, I'll give

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<v Speaker 1>a cliff notes version of kind of how he did it,

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<v Speaker 1>but basically what he did was he booked a uh.

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<v Speaker 4>Podcast, need to do a cliff notes version, Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 4>have all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been waiting for them.

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<v Speaker 1>So he booked as a couple's massage, which we do

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<v Speaker 1>from time to time. So that wasn't weird in hindsight.

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<v Speaker 1>It was weird because we had the kids that weekend

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, they have some school thing that

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<v Speaker 1>they have to do with my parents have to interview them,

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<v Speaker 1>so they're gonna be at my parents' house for an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>So and I was like, that was a little bit weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't think anything of it. Now, in hindsight,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, that was really weird. But so we

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<v Speaker 1>did the couple's massage. We go to the front desk,

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<v Speaker 1>we check in and the woman's like, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Our couple's room is like I don't know what she

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<v Speaker 1>said under construction or water damage or something, so you

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<v Speaker 1>guys have to go in separate rooms. And I was like, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine. I was really tired from the Jonas brother show.

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<v Speaker 1>So the night after the day after the Jones Brother Show,

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<v Speaker 1>had slept maybe five hours, so I was so tired

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<v Speaker 1>after my brisk so I was just really kind of

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<v Speaker 1>out of it. So I go into my couple to

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<v Speaker 1>my you know, to my massage, and I get out

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<v Speaker 1>of the and the messeuse. The woman hands me a

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<v Speaker 1>handwritten letter from Robbie, and the handwritten note says, my angel, it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Been a long journey to get here, but we're finally

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<v Speaker 5>here and your dress, shoes, and makeup are waiting for

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<v Speaker 5>you in the locker room. Please take your time getting

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<v Speaker 5>ready and meet me outside on the terrace. So at

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<v Speaker 5>that point I knew, and it was like the craziest

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<v Speaker 5>feeling of emotion because.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like with this miss Susan.

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<v Speaker 2>I just like look at her and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm getting engaged. She's like, do you want champagne?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, no, I just want to like

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<v Speaker 1>get out there, and she started crying too. She started crying, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And so I went in there and I like opened

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<v Speaker 1>my locker and the dress that he had like picked

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<v Speaker 1>out was this dress that I bought. I bought it

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<v Speaker 1>like specifically for like engagement stuff like I want. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like going to be an engagement dress like for

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<v Speaker 1>a party or photos or something, and he remembered he

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<v Speaker 1>like clocked it, I guess, and remembered that dress. So

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<v Speaker 1>that was hanging in there, and then a pair of

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<v Speaker 1>shoes that I hate, which is fine, and like like

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<v Speaker 1>a nude thong, a nude bra, my pasties, and like

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<v Speaker 1>a bag of makeup. Yeah yeah, And so I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, okay, so I'm gonna trying. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, this is really happening. So I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to like do my makeup and stuff, but that couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>stop crying, Like I was just bawling hysterically. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm just going to forego the makeup. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna, you know, come off. And I can't even

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<v Speaker 1>stop crying to do it. So I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take a shower, get all the oils off me,

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<v Speaker 1>put my clothes on, just like get out there. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I was like I wanted to text all my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was like, it's gonna take too long, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to go get engaged. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll text them after. So I put it on and

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<v Speaker 1>I walk out to the terrace and he's in like

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<v Speaker 1>this little suit and he's standing there, and then just

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<v Speaker 1>lost it again, like I think I just cried the

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<v Speaker 1>entire time. I didn't stop. And then I walked up

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<v Speaker 1>to him and he actually recorded the whole thing on

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<v Speaker 1>his phone right there, and so I actually looked back

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<v Speaker 1>and it was four and a half minutes of talking

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<v Speaker 1>before he actually got down on the knee, which it

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<v Speaker 1>did feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>A long time.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, when this is coming to the

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<v Speaker 1>point matter. He had invisible string playing on loop in

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<v Speaker 1>the background, like a piano or violin version. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>sure that was Becca's duty. And then he asked me

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<v Speaker 1>to marry him, and I was still bawling, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the kids came running out, Sonny came running out. We

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<v Speaker 1>all hugged for a minute, and then everybody else came out.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so it was the most craziest feeling, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you you imagine that feeling your whole life, and then

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<v Speaker 1>when it happens, it's like even crazier than you pictured it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like so crazy. And then everybody was.

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<v Speaker 2>There and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like my family, his family, my best best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>My parents are in Europe, so they were on FaceTime

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like really weird because you want to

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<v Speaker 1>hug everybody at the same time, but like you, I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it was like one hundred and ten degrees

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like dripping sweat and like there's a

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<v Speaker 1>photographer taking pictures and I was like, I look so

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<v Speaker 1>ugly right now. My eyes were like bloodshot and like

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<v Speaker 1>dripping sweat and crying. It was like so it was

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<v Speaker 1>so overwhelming. I can't even in the best way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I felt that. I was like I

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<v Speaker 2>just know her brain is like just going so fast

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<v Speaker 2>right now processing everything. But like the moment you got

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<v Speaker 2>the letter, well really from the moment your massage got

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<v Speaker 2>cut short.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was like, yeah, yeah, forgot that. She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. I don't remember what time. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's she cut it fifteen minutes short or something. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to finish, you know, we're finishing early. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what the hell is going on in

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<v Speaker 1>this place? The room's broken, My massage is getting cut.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, they better got charges for this. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I literally was like, this is so weird. But then

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<v Speaker 1>once I got the no, I like knew, yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like not even a question.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if you mentioned this, but the

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<v Speaker 2>Maybourne where you all went to get the massage, is

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<v Speaker 2>a very significant place for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, that courtyard at the Mayborn is where I used

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<v Speaker 1>to go. And this is what's even crazier. After we

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<v Speaker 1>got engaged, Raquel was there and she got walked up

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<v Speaker 1>to us and she was like, I'll never forget ten

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, Tanya and I used to comb to this courtyard,

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<v Speaker 1>sit at that fountain and we would pray for her husband,

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<v Speaker 1>like we would pray for you, and like all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is the exact same courtyard that Robbie parks

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<v Speaker 1>in every day to go to work. So we were

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<v Speaker 1>in this courtyard passing each other for years before we

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<v Speaker 1>ever met, And so this courtyard's really sentimental to us,

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<v Speaker 1>just like as a couple, we'd go there and we

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like it's like our invisible string. Yeah yeah, wow, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was perfect. And then after all that,

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<v Speaker 1>we went downstairs and had like a champagne toast and

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<v Speaker 1>like some light bits, delicious light bites. I gotta set.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just started pounding champagne like I was like

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<v Speaker 1>pounding champagne on an empty stomach too. Yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling loose.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, you were like exhausted from the night before,

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<v Speaker 2>and then your adrenaline was like through the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Pumping and then champagne. Lots of it, lots of it,

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<v Speaker 1>lots of it. It was just the best day I

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<v Speaker 1>could not have. It could not have been more beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>or more special. It was a perfect day.

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<v Speaker 2>It was worth the way.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want it to end.

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<v Speaker 4>Every time. The note gets me every time. Do you

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<v Speaker 4>have plans for that note? Will that be in a

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<v Speaker 4>frame somewhere? Will that be at a special place?

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<v Speaker 1>So actually, because I had I didn't even know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I had like a bag somewhere, so I threw it

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<v Speaker 1>in the bag. It got wrinkly, so I know, I

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<v Speaker 1>put it under like two heavy books to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>straighten it out. But I do want to frame it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Yeah, that one gets me every time, me too.

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<v Speaker 4>It's such a classy move. Like when I proposed I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted my surprise to be when I dropped to the knee.

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<v Speaker 4>It's thoughtful and thought out to give you, to let

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<v Speaker 4>you know and have you have kind of your moment

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<v Speaker 4>by yourself and then be meeting you. It's it's really

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<v Speaker 4>a cool way to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>And every woman I've spoken to said they would have

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<v Speaker 3>preferred that, you know, like I wish I had time

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<v Speaker 3>to like get dressed, Yeah, yeah, prepare myself mentally.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking had he done it, I was literally

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<v Speaker 1>wearing like a modern woman tank top and sweatpants and

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<v Speaker 1>tennis shoes. So had he not brought an outfit for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have it would have been a very different

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<v Speaker 1>Uh look, what.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you think she handed you the envelope.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, I'm sorry because like the SPA sucks

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<v Speaker 1>and like this on us or whatever. He yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really think anything. But once I saw his

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<v Speaker 1>handwriting and like I read the first sentence, I knew, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was crazy. And then the thing is like, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know any of anybody, any of you were there.

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<v Speaker 1>And Becca made me this video. It's a four minute

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<v Speaker 1>video and it's kind of the behind the scenes of uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on when I was like getting a massage,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't realize Robbie didn't get one. He just

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<v Speaker 1>like left and started gathering everybody and everything. And so

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<v Speaker 1>she has like video of like Paulina texting the SPA

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<v Speaker 1>girl in there. She's like she's in the shower, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like she's in the shower, you know, and everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>like she's in the shower. Everyone's like freaking out, and

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<v Speaker 1>Brad was like, all I wanted to tell her last

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<v Speaker 1>night when we were at the Jonas Brothers was you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting engaged tomorrow. And actually, when we were after the

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<v Speaker 1>Jonahs brother show, me, Brad, Sophia and Paulina went backstage

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<v Speaker 1>to not really backstage a daughter standing it was like

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<v Speaker 1>whatever in their party and Kevin Jonas was like, where's

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<v Speaker 1>the hubby? When are you guys getting engaged? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you know, I don't know, and they

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<v Speaker 1>said that they were all like dying laughing because they

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<v Speaker 1>all knew it was happening.

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<v Speaker 2>The next day, Oh yeah, we got quotes in the

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<v Speaker 2>group chat. Brad's like Kevin Jonas asked when's the ring

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<v Speaker 2>coming and then quotes Tanya any day now, any minute now.

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<v Speaker 1>And the best part was even during the show, they

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<v Speaker 1>do like this kiss cam where Joe takes the camera

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<v Speaker 1>and he like points it at couples to like kiss

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, And I literally turned to Brad. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this would have been a great way for Robbie to propose.

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<v Speaker 1>And even during the Taylor Swift Show, I was like

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<v Speaker 1>during Love Story, I was like, this would have been

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<v Speaker 1>a great opportunity for Robbie to propose.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we all we all knew you were waiting. Robbie

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<v Speaker 2>knew you were waiting, yes, but Jonas brothers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, we were waiting.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody was on the way. Yeah, it was it was

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<v Speaker 2>so fun. Like, first of all, it was really hot

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<v Speaker 2>that day, like I don't know, there was like an

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<v Speaker 2>extreme heat wave and uh the Beverly Hills.

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<v Speaker 1>Five or six o'clock, so it wasn't in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>It was sweaty.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I bet you just came out of a massage too,

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like a lot of emotions mixed with oils

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<v Speaker 2>and whatnot. But yeah, I felt like we were all

0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:48.360
<v Speaker 2>there was a lot of kids too, so it was

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<v Speaker 2>like try to keep you know, put the kids in

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<v Speaker 2>the bathroom and then and then they're like she's in

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<v Speaker 2>the shower, so everyone would all the kids would come

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<v Speaker 2>out of the shower and start running around. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I had been in charge of the speaker. Robbie like,

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<v Speaker 2>can you bring a wireless speaker?

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<v Speaker 1>So I brought like this was becca thing ever by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>But so I brought a son speaker that plugs in right,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, that way I don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>worry about it being like full charge. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm gonna bring my my real wireless one

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<v Speaker 2>that doesn't need to be plugged in just to be safe.

0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:17.640
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I'm gonna charge it. And it

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<v Speaker 2>was like a last minute because I just had assumed

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<v Speaker 2>the only one I had was the Son's. But then

0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:24.440
<v Speaker 2>I thought about that one, so I plugged it in.

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<v Speaker 2>It got charged to thirty percent. Well we get there,

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<v Speaker 2>there's no plug where they want the speaker to go.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, okay, I have this one. It's on

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<v Speaker 2>thirty percent though, so we start playing the invisible string

0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:37.960
<v Speaker 2>and then they're like, Tanya's in the shower. So I

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<v Speaker 2>like run over to the speaker and turn it off.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, we got to preserve, we have to preserve,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just knew that during the proposal he was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna it was gonna be like both speaker twenty percent.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't do that. I was so stressed, but shout

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<v Speaker 2>out to Bo's like you really really not spalter but

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<v Speaker 2>held it together and so it was so fun, like

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<v Speaker 2>everyone just like in a chaotic headspace because everybody's like.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be quiet, You're not gonna ruin it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, there could have been fireworks going off back there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would have been I was so laser focused

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<v Speaker 1>on him, Like the minute I stepped out on that terrace,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like he was the only thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there could have been kids flying, there could have

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<v Speaker 1>been birds chirping, there could have been like anything happening,

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<v Speaker 1>and it would have been like beelin See.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't sure. I didn't know if you were going

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<v Speaker 2>to come and be like like looking around. So I

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<v Speaker 2>was because we went back and forth were like, is

0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:33.920
<v Speaker 2>she just gonna be in a bee line or is

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<v Speaker 2>she gonna kind of like take it all in, like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and see us all on the side. But

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<v Speaker 2>you were belin laser Yeah, So what were you like,

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<v Speaker 2>did you feel like you were going to pass out?

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<v Speaker 2>When he was talking, like, did you ever feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, this is what was your feelings while

0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:50.080
<v Speaker 2>he was talking? Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I try was really trying to like listen to like

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<v Speaker 1>listen to what he was saying, but I honestly blacked out,

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<v Speaker 1>like it was the weirdest thing, Like it just blacked out.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember bits and pieces of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad he recorded it because then I've been

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<v Speaker 1>able to kind of go back and like, actually hear

0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:09.320
<v Speaker 1>what it said because I fully blacked out.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was imagining. I was like, is she taking

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<v Speaker 2>this in or is she just like in a state

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<v Speaker 2>of being like it's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the craziest thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the I've envisioned this, don't like not even being

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<v Speaker 1>just with him like my whole life, you know what

0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:29.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like you envision that moment and it is

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<v Speaker 1>so much crazier when you're in it than you even

0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:38.679
<v Speaker 1>thought truly, Like I thought was go pass out. I'm surprised.

0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:39.400
<v Speaker 1>I was standing.

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<v Speaker 2>We get over there and Tanya hugs me and she's like, becka,

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<v Speaker 2>help me. I was like trying to fan her down

0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:51.919
<v Speaker 2>and she's like help me, Like I'm sweaty. I'm like,

0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:54.840
<v Speaker 2>you look beautiful. This is so you and your element.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you're glowing. I'm like, no, that is

0:17:57.760 --> 0:18:01.240
<v Speaker 1>perspiration dripping down my body. Like that is not glow,

0:18:01.520 --> 0:18:02.359
<v Speaker 1>that is water.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really special. And then his mom hugged you,

0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:08.560
<v Speaker 2>and this I like held it together. I think I

0:18:08.640 --> 0:18:11.080
<v Speaker 2>was on like an anxious high. But she hugged you

0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:12.760
<v Speaker 2>and she said, she like grabbed you by the face.

0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:14.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know if you remember this, it's on

0:18:14.080 --> 0:18:16.119
<v Speaker 2>the video and she goes, you're my daughter now, and

0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:23.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm so emotional, but it was perfect. Yeah, it was

0:18:23.560 --> 0:18:27.040
<v Speaker 2>like amazing. I just think that you're the most deserving person.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you've wanted it for so long. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna get through this.

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<v Speaker 1>While doing this, I know, I've actually been proud of

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<v Speaker 1>myself because, like I for the first time told someone

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<v Speaker 1>the whole story and didn't cry, and I was like, wow, Okay.

0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:41.240
<v Speaker 4>This is good.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this is so special because there's a whole

0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:50.760
<v Speaker 2>community that's followed this journey from like the very beginning,

0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:56.560
<v Speaker 2>and who's seen themselves in you, who've like longed for

0:18:56.640 --> 0:19:00.720
<v Speaker 2>this love and this moment, you know, and we've all

0:19:00.760 --> 0:19:06.280
<v Speaker 2>been waiting and like cheering it on and being there

0:19:06.320 --> 0:19:10.159
<v Speaker 2>for you when it didn't happen, and I think, like

0:19:10.280 --> 0:19:12.960
<v Speaker 2>for it to happen and come to fruition, it's just

0:19:13.000 --> 0:19:16.040
<v Speaker 2>been like it's been such a beautiful journey that like

0:19:16.960 --> 0:19:19.359
<v Speaker 2>you've been on, but like there's a whole scrubbing in

0:19:19.960 --> 0:19:23.000
<v Speaker 2>community has been on with you, like cheering you on

0:19:23.119 --> 0:19:24.399
<v Speaker 2>from the sidelines.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's just like I think also, like I am

0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:31.280
<v Speaker 5>so happy that it's like I think back about how

0:19:31.440 --> 0:19:35.000
<v Speaker 5>sad I was for so long, you know, like repeatedly sad,

0:19:35.080 --> 0:19:40.200
<v Speaker 5>repeatedly heartbroken, repeatedly defeated, and it's like the fact that

0:19:40.240 --> 0:19:41.879
<v Speaker 5>I'm on the other side of it is just like

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<v Speaker 5>so crazy, Like it's so crazy.

0:19:46.640 --> 0:19:48.240
<v Speaker 1>What does it feel like to be a fiance?

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<v Speaker 2>But the best ever?

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<v Speaker 1>I was telling Robbie, I was like, I literally feel

0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:56.959
<v Speaker 1>like we're in a totally different relationship. Like it just

0:19:57.000 --> 0:20:02.200
<v Speaker 1>feels so different. There's a different level of of safety,

0:20:02.240 --> 0:20:09.760
<v Speaker 1>I guess, comfort unity, Like we're one, Like I finally

0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:12.159
<v Speaker 1>feel like we're one and we've nothing's changed in the

0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:14.720
<v Speaker 1>sense of like we still spend the same amount of

0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:16.639
<v Speaker 1>time together and we're still doing the same things that

0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:19.280
<v Speaker 1>we used to do, but it just feels so different.

0:20:19.320 --> 0:20:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Like this weekend, we're gonna sit down and kind of

0:20:20.960 --> 0:20:23.560
<v Speaker 1>go over a timeline of when to move in, when

0:20:23.560 --> 0:20:25.280
<v Speaker 1>to move my stuff, when I'm gonna like I need

0:20:25.359 --> 0:20:30.440
<v Speaker 1>to put a notice at my Famo hotel, essentially put

0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:35.359
<v Speaker 1>notice in at my apartment and like you know, but

0:20:35.400 --> 0:20:37.639
<v Speaker 1>it's like all these things. We're gonna like streamline all

0:20:37.640 --> 0:20:50.080
<v Speaker 1>of our streaming services and like you know, to Netflix,

0:20:50.119 --> 0:20:52.280
<v Speaker 1>and we have two everything to Netflix, to Hulu to

0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:57.040
<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna like streamline all our streaming we could have,

0:20:57.119 --> 0:20:58.040
<v Speaker 1>but it was just like not.

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<v Speaker 4>Exactly, I get you that argument, the other stuff you

0:21:04.680 --> 0:21:05.399
<v Speaker 4>could let slide.

0:21:05.600 --> 0:21:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, but anyways, she's like, when's the what date?

0:21:10.560 --> 0:21:11.320
<v Speaker 1>Are we looking at?

0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:17.800
<v Speaker 2>Dress shopping bachelorette? She's like, we're streamlining then streaming services. Baby,

0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:18.320
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:21:18.440 --> 0:21:21.639
<v Speaker 1>Actually Ali texted us yesterday because they sent us flowers,

0:21:21.680 --> 0:21:23.119
<v Speaker 1>so we said thank them, and she's like, are you

0:21:23.119 --> 0:21:24.840
<v Speaker 1>guys gonn have an engagement party? And I was like,

0:21:25.040 --> 0:21:28.159
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, probably not. We got like way more

0:21:28.160 --> 0:21:32.480
<v Speaker 1>important things to do, like streamline are streaming services. Yeah, yeah,

0:21:33.280 --> 0:21:37.880
<v Speaker 1>first things first, first, streamline and move those are the

0:21:37.920 --> 0:21:38.800
<v Speaker 1>first things first.

0:21:39.280 --> 0:21:41.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so those are going to be the questions you

0:21:41.359 --> 0:21:42.600
<v Speaker 2>get bombarded with, you know.

0:21:42.720 --> 0:21:44.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just so you're prepared.

0:21:44.600 --> 0:21:48.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what's next? When's the date?

0:21:49.160 --> 0:21:49.639
<v Speaker 1>No clue?

0:21:49.680 --> 0:21:50.840
<v Speaker 2>What kind of dress do you want?

0:21:51.080 --> 0:21:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I know, Brad's like, when are we going dress shopping?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I just gone engage.

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<v Speaker 2>Great person to have on in your squad dress shopping.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we should take a break.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>I did see some great comments on the scrubbing and

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<v Speaker 4>Facebook group about this. A lot of them say they're

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<v Speaker 4>immediately going out to get calling in the one because.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I've been saying this whole.

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<v Speaker 2>Time, the ring to really, so let us by your referral.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I like Diana. She said her story on the

0:22:19.880 --> 0:22:21.840
<v Speaker 4>radio this morning of how he did it and planned

0:22:21.840 --> 0:22:23.639
<v Speaker 4>everything had me sobbing, and my way to drop the

0:22:23.680 --> 0:22:25.600
<v Speaker 4>kids off to school and they were like, Mom, are

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<v Speaker 4>you okay?

0:22:29.480 --> 0:22:32.359
<v Speaker 1>I haven't stopped crying. I haven't stopped. I like it not.

0:22:32.480 --> 0:22:35.240
<v Speaker 1>I can't focus at work, I can't focus anywhere. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you need like the full weekend to really I

0:22:38.880 --> 0:22:39.320
<v Speaker 2>just want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be with him. It was like it was it happened Sunday,

0:22:42.400 --> 0:22:44.320
<v Speaker 1>I went to bed and then went straight to work Monday,

0:22:44.320 --> 0:22:46.120
<v Speaker 1>and I've just been working, like I haven't spent time

0:22:46.160 --> 0:22:47.679
<v Speaker 1>with him, Like I just want to jump your bones,

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<v Speaker 1>lay next to you, like be in the blizz you know,

0:22:50.800 --> 0:22:52.720
<v Speaker 1>and like just haven't had that moment yet.

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<v Speaker 2>We do need to take a break, but we will

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<v Speaker 2>come back because we found out that night that there's

0:22:58.600 --> 0:23:02.680
<v Speaker 2>a very important scrubber that was amongst us that night,

0:23:02.760 --> 0:23:04.920
<v Speaker 2>and we will get to that when we come back.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we are back with more from the proposal.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what else you'll have to do? Hashtag?

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<v Speaker 1>Hashtag?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you all going to do radigar as your wedding hashtags?

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of liked it. I was cute. I always

0:23:32.760 --> 0:23:34.840
<v Speaker 1>thought it would be from yat or sorry from rad

0:23:34.840 --> 0:23:39.000
<v Speaker 1>to yad. Yeah, yeah, but radigar is kind of like

0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:43.400
<v Speaker 1>more sustinct, sustinct, succinct succinct.

0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:47.480
<v Speaker 3>Right, like like short and easy to take.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe one of those two radigar or from maybe

0:23:51.280 --> 0:23:54.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe all of them? Not no, just want consistent.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, So do you want to talk about the

0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:03.000
<v Speaker 2>duty that I was not only was I put on

0:24:03.760 --> 0:24:09.080
<v Speaker 2>music duty, which almost caused me a full mental breakdown

0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:12.639
<v Speaker 2>with the speaker almost dying. But before that duty was

0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:17.439
<v Speaker 2>put on put onto me. I was told that I

0:24:17.480 --> 0:24:20.040
<v Speaker 2>was going to be in charge of photos. Photography.

0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:22.480
<v Speaker 1>So Robbie puts backa in charge of the photos for

0:24:22.520 --> 0:24:25.680
<v Speaker 1>the proposal, and bless his heart, I just don't think

0:24:25.760 --> 0:24:29.360
<v Speaker 1>guys think about photographers because I actually remember when he

0:24:29.440 --> 0:24:31.800
<v Speaker 1>planned my surprise, my surprise birthday party.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I told.

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<v Speaker 1>Him I was like, the only thing that would have

0:24:34.720 --> 0:24:36.359
<v Speaker 1>made it the most perfect night was if you had

0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:38.960
<v Speaker 1>a photographer, because I was so blown away. I didn't

0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:40.959
<v Speaker 1>have my phone and so I had no photos from

0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:42.520
<v Speaker 1>that night. All I had were photos from like some

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:45.560
<v Speaker 1>of my friends that took pictures, and so I was like,

0:24:45.680 --> 0:24:47.480
<v Speaker 1>next time we do, like we have to get photographers

0:24:47.480 --> 0:24:52.160
<v Speaker 1>at every party, blah blah blah. So he uh thinks

0:24:52.200 --> 0:24:55.119
<v Speaker 1>Becca is a great photographer clearly, and put her in

0:24:55.240 --> 0:24:58.199
<v Speaker 1>charge of taking photos of the proposal, which is a

0:24:58.240 --> 0:25:00.560
<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure. But I love that you. I took it,

0:25:00.640 --> 0:25:01.520
<v Speaker 1>like you just took it.

0:25:02.000 --> 0:25:04.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh I didn't. I was like, in my mind, I go,

0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:11.240
<v Speaker 2>holy Molly, like what I can take a decent photo.

0:25:11.359 --> 0:25:14.680
<v Speaker 2>But this is the moment she's been waiting for like,

0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:17.320
<v Speaker 2>this is gonna be on me, and I was also

0:25:17.400 --> 0:25:20.240
<v Speaker 2>thinking I was laughing after the fact because once I

0:25:20.280 --> 0:25:22.439
<v Speaker 2>got to the location, I'm like, where would I have

0:25:22.520 --> 0:25:24.840
<v Speaker 2>stood that you would I would have started like giggling

0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:26.639
<v Speaker 2>or crying when I saw you would have been like

0:25:26.680 --> 0:25:32.320
<v Speaker 2>all shaky footage. And so luckily, as a side note,

0:25:33.960 --> 0:25:36.119
<v Speaker 2>Paul or Sophia stepped in, was like, hey, if you

0:25:36.160 --> 0:25:38.639
<v Speaker 2>want me to connect you to one of my photographer friends, like,

0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 2>let me know, and he goes, oh, I was just

0:25:40.920 --> 0:25:44.920
<v Speaker 2>gonna have everyone take organic like content on their phones.

0:25:45.000 --> 0:25:47.600
<v Speaker 2>And I stepped in at that point I go, I

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:49.720
<v Speaker 2>think it's great if everyone takes their photos, but I

0:25:49.760 --> 0:25:52.639
<v Speaker 2>think having a photographer to like really capture the moment

0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:58.200
<v Speaker 2>is a big deal. And he's like, okay, okay, Yeah.

0:25:59.560 --> 0:26:03.399
<v Speaker 2>Was like, thank god Sophia came into that, because I

0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:04.600
<v Speaker 2>was just gonna be like, you know what, I don't

0:26:04.600 --> 0:26:05.919
<v Speaker 2>want to stress them out. If he wants it to

0:26:05.920 --> 0:26:10.040
<v Speaker 2>be like intimate like that, great, I'm decent.

0:26:10.359 --> 0:26:13.159
<v Speaker 1>Oh that would have if if the shoe were on

0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:15.040
<v Speaker 1>the other foot and Haley asked me to be the

0:26:15.040 --> 0:26:18.560
<v Speaker 1>photographer for your proposal she wanted I'm just saying if

0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:22.560
<v Speaker 1>she had, I literally would have been like, I'm going

0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:25.320
<v Speaker 1>to pay somebody to do this and like not tell her,

0:26:25.440 --> 0:26:28.240
<v Speaker 1>Like there's no way I would take that responsibility on myself.

0:26:28.440 --> 0:26:30.119
<v Speaker 2>I almost was like, do I reach out to one

0:26:30.160 --> 0:26:32.080
<v Speaker 2>of my friends who I know like as a photographer

0:26:32.160 --> 0:26:33.560
<v Speaker 2>and just be like, hey, I just brought her as

0:26:33.640 --> 0:26:34.159
<v Speaker 2>back up and.

0:26:34.200 --> 0:26:37.280
<v Speaker 1>Kid, yeah that's what There's no way I would have

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 1>I would do that.

0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:40.399
<v Speaker 2>So the fact was pretty good, So I felt like

0:26:40.600 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 2>I could have done an okay job.

0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:48.360
<v Speaker 1>Becca took this like cinematic video of us. Oh that video, well, yeah,

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:51.320
<v Speaker 1>all your videos that you did were incredible, but not

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:52.520
<v Speaker 1>really any good photos.

0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:54.760
<v Speaker 2>I didn't take any photos correct.

0:26:54.440 --> 0:26:59.560
<v Speaker 1>But your videos were like top notch. Steven Spielberg GESSO, yeah,

0:27:00.000 --> 0:27:01.440
<v Speaker 1>tell you, I want to try and post the format

0:27:01.440 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 1>and when I don't know where. It was the cutest

0:27:04.240 --> 0:27:05.600
<v Speaker 1>freaking thing I have ever seen.

0:27:05.960 --> 0:27:07.560
<v Speaker 2>It was really fun to make. It was fun. It

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 2>was like fun to be in on the secret. It

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.159
<v Speaker 2>was fun. All of us felt the same way that

0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:15.040
<v Speaker 2>we were in on this like massive secret that we

0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:16.159
<v Speaker 2>knew that you were waiting on.

0:27:16.600 --> 0:27:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and like I guess the night when I went

0:27:19.640 --> 0:27:22.960
<v Speaker 1>to Jonas's brothers Robbie had facetimed Sophia and Paulina to

0:27:23.119 --> 0:27:25.600
<v Speaker 1>find what makeup to pack for me, and so they

0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 1>recorded that FaceTime, which is so cute because the audio

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:30.480
<v Speaker 1>is like he's like opening this and she goes, yeah,

0:27:30.640 --> 0:27:32.200
<v Speaker 1>yeah take that, bring that, and he goes, yeah, yeah,

0:27:32.200 --> 0:27:34.240
<v Speaker 1>this looks important. And then he's like looking through the

0:27:34.240 --> 0:27:36.439
<v Speaker 1>brushes and he's like, which one of these do I pack?

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:38.639
<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because when I opened all the makeup,

0:27:38.680 --> 0:27:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is none of this is my stuff,

0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:46.679
<v Speaker 1>Like it was like blush that I don't use the

0:27:46.720 --> 0:27:47.840
<v Speaker 1>wrong brush.

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:49.920
<v Speaker 2>Like. It was very, very fun and Paulina was like,

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:52.000
<v Speaker 2>how do we do? And Tony was like terrible, it

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:52.720
<v Speaker 2>wasn't any.

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:54.399
<v Speaker 1>Of my idea. Yeah, but luckily I didn't need it

0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:56.119
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't use it, so it was but it

0:27:56.160 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 1>was so cute seeing that.

0:27:57.440 --> 0:27:59.399
<v Speaker 2>It was just really I agree with Mark, like the

0:27:59.440 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 2>thoughtfulnes of like even that, because he could have just, like,

0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:06.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, right, just been like, oh, she's fine, she

0:28:06.560 --> 0:28:08.879
<v Speaker 2>goes Sanza all the time. But the fact that he

0:28:08.960 --> 0:28:12.919
<v Speaker 2>even like thought to do that was so so cute. Yeah.

0:28:12.960 --> 0:28:15.920
<v Speaker 2>So after as we were all like downing champagne, which

0:28:15.920 --> 0:28:17.359
<v Speaker 2>we had a lot. It was just kind of like

0:28:18.080 --> 0:28:22.520
<v Speaker 2>Robbie's family, Sophia, Paulina, Me and Haley at this point.

0:28:22.440 --> 0:28:24.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because my so my family lived in San Diego,

0:28:24.280 --> 0:28:25.639
<v Speaker 1>so they had to leave kind of early because it

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:29.480
<v Speaker 1>was a long drive back. And then Brad likes to

0:28:29.880 --> 0:28:34.480
<v Speaker 1>go down early, so he like me, yeah yeah, and

0:28:35.080 --> 0:28:37.320
<v Speaker 1>to catch a fly fight to New York. So everybody

0:28:37.400 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of was like trickling out and it was like

0:28:39.200 --> 0:28:43.320
<v Speaker 1>the core and we got I mean, I was pretty

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:44.680
<v Speaker 1>drunk at that point.

0:28:45.200 --> 0:28:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Well. I would also just like to shout out to

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:51.400
<v Speaker 2>Tanya's sister. She is wonderful. I haven't spent time with

0:28:51.480 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 2>your sister, like I think I met her at the

0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:56.959
<v Speaker 2>live show and that was it. She's just so warm

0:28:57.120 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 2>and kind and I totally get that has been like

0:29:01.280 --> 0:29:04.320
<v Speaker 2>a full just like safe space for you because I

0:29:04.360 --> 0:29:08.640
<v Speaker 2>get it. She's wonderful and the kids are just the angels.

0:29:08.720 --> 0:29:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thank you. I feel the same way like she

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:14.280
<v Speaker 1>is this, Like I always say, my sister is the

0:29:14.280 --> 0:29:17.920
<v Speaker 1>best version of like anybody everybody in my family. She's

0:29:18.040 --> 0:29:22.680
<v Speaker 1>just warm and loving and and even keeled and like this,

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.440
<v Speaker 1>you just feel like when you're in her presence that

0:29:25.520 --> 0:29:28.480
<v Speaker 1>she's just like calm and happy and like cool.

0:29:28.640 --> 0:29:30.160
<v Speaker 2>Cool. She's the girl.

0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's the cool one.

0:29:34.920 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 2>Is there's something very calm about Yeah.

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:39.760
<v Speaker 1>She's the opposite of me, like literally the opposite of No.

0:29:39.840 --> 0:29:42.040
<v Speaker 2>I think I imagine that growing like y'all were a

0:29:42.080 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 2>great balance for each other. Yeah, but yeah, shout at her.

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:49.840
<v Speaker 2>And then we're so we're at the table, We're all

0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:57.840
<v Speaker 2>just drinking, laughing, recapping everything, and Robbie's dad goes.

0:29:58.480 --> 0:29:59.400
<v Speaker 1>That was so embarrassing.

0:29:59.400 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 2>He like looks erec late me, and he goes, I

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:06.040
<v Speaker 2>remember what you said about uh them after their first date.

0:30:06.200 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, what did I say? And he

0:30:09.440 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 2>goes He's like giggling. He's like I remember what you said.

0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:14.760
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like what I said? And he's like, no,

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:18.240
<v Speaker 2>what she said? Points to Tania and I'm like, oh,

0:30:18.400 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 2>all I get. I'm like, oh, he's talking about the

0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:23.120
<v Speaker 2>vagina tingles, but I'm not saying that to him. And

0:30:23.160 --> 0:30:25.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, are you talking about when she said she got?

0:30:25.880 --> 0:30:29.320
<v Speaker 2>And he's like diet and like giggling, and Tania is like,

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:33.600
<v Speaker 2>what wait, what you heard about you listen to the podcast?

0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm sorry, nobody in this family's let

0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:37.160
<v Speaker 1>us to the podcast.

0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:40.560
<v Speaker 2>And Robbie's like, Dad, you're not allowed to listen to

0:30:40.560 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 2>the podcast. And he's like, I'm a scrubber. He's like,

0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:50.240
<v Speaker 2>it's the best podcast. I'm a number one scrubber.

0:30:50.520 --> 0:30:51.800
<v Speaker 1>Like what does that even mean?

0:30:51.840 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 2>And Robby's like, no, he means he just listened to

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 2>the one that I was on. And he's like, no, no,

0:30:57.200 --> 0:31:01.640
<v Speaker 2>I've listened to since the beginning. So we did a

0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:04.840
<v Speaker 2>whole toast where we cheered to him being a.

0:31:04.800 --> 0:31:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Scrubber and he's a doctor and so he was like,

0:31:07.440 --> 0:31:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I am a scrubber. That signs off I'm the scrubber.

0:31:10.480 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember something what he said, but it was

0:31:12.600 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 1>really really funny.

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:18.560
<v Speaker 2>So hilarious and unexpected, and I was like, what else

0:31:18.600 --> 0:31:20.080
<v Speaker 2>have you heard on the podcast?

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>Me too? I was like, which ones are you listening to?

0:31:23.760 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 2>Over there? So shout out to our number one scrubber.

0:31:26.720 --> 0:31:32.320
<v Speaker 1>Shout out to my fought nuke soon to be father. Yeah,

0:31:32.880 --> 0:31:40.920
<v Speaker 1>so crazy, it's so crazy. It happened beyoncea era. Yeah,

0:31:40.960 --> 0:31:42.920
<v Speaker 1>he thought I was wearing white a lot before.

0:31:43.560 --> 0:31:45.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, we're never going to see her in

0:31:45.840 --> 0:31:46.440
<v Speaker 2>any other.

0:31:49.400 --> 0:31:51.120
<v Speaker 1>Colors. What are those.

0:32:07.680 --> 0:32:11.440
<v Speaker 2>All right? We are back. So Mark went to the

0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:14.920
<v Speaker 2>Facebook group to see if anyone had any questions for

0:32:15.120 --> 0:32:17.440
<v Speaker 2>you about the day, about the proposal, how you're feeling.

0:32:17.480 --> 0:32:19.280
<v Speaker 1>So he's going to read some of those that we got.

0:32:19.400 --> 0:32:22.680
<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, let's see I just posted this, so we'll see.

0:32:22.720 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 4>Did Becker know before we covered that? How did you

0:32:26.240 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 4>keep it a secret all week? That is impressive? And yeah,

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:30.400
<v Speaker 4>that is that is not your style.

0:32:31.840 --> 0:32:35.440
<v Speaker 1>I wanted it. It's more like I wanted to be honest.

0:32:35.520 --> 0:32:37.680
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to look through all the photos and kind

0:32:37.680 --> 0:32:41.360
<v Speaker 1>of like be in it because I did blackout and

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:44.239
<v Speaker 1>so I wanted to like rewatch the video. And you know,

0:32:44.360 --> 0:32:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I was working a lot, like Mondays and Tuesdays are

0:32:46.640 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 1>my busiest work days, and so I just I knew

0:32:49.760 --> 0:32:51.320
<v Speaker 1>it was going to be rushed, and I didn't want

0:32:51.360 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 1>to just like rush it. This was like such a

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:54.960
<v Speaker 1>big deal, so I wanted to look at everything. I

0:32:54.960 --> 0:32:57.440
<v Speaker 1>wanted to like hear what he said when he proposed again,

0:32:57.560 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to see everybody come like I wanted to

0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:04.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of like actually experience it without the blackout. So

0:33:04.080 --> 0:33:05.480
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of why I wanted to hold.

0:33:06.080 --> 0:33:07.960
<v Speaker 4>In your parents too, you wanted to spend some time with.

0:33:07.960 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 1>Your parents, Yeah, because they weren't there, so I wanted

0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:11.720
<v Speaker 1>to kind of like send them photos.

0:33:11.800 --> 0:33:13.400
<v Speaker 4>And there's the middle of the night when this happened

0:33:13.400 --> 0:33:13.600
<v Speaker 4>for them.

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was like three o'clock in the morning when

0:33:15.600 --> 0:33:17.720
<v Speaker 1>they were on FaceTime. So I did get to like

0:33:17.760 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 1>see them, which was special when they got to like

0:33:19.520 --> 0:33:22.080
<v Speaker 1>watch it all. But they weren't you know, they were like.

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:27.560
<v Speaker 4>Did Robbie talk to your dad beforehand?

0:33:27.680 --> 0:33:31.760
<v Speaker 1>He did? He? I think it was back in May.

0:33:31.920 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>Actually it was one of my parents sold the house

0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 1>and we spent that weekend with them. That's when he

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 1>asked for their permission.

0:33:38.720 --> 0:33:41.239
<v Speaker 2>Did you know that? Did you know that he had

0:33:41.240 --> 0:33:42.960
<v Speaker 2>talked to your dad? Uh?

0:33:43.120 --> 0:33:45.360
<v Speaker 1>I knew before the proposal that he had already asked

0:33:45.360 --> 0:33:48.880
<v Speaker 1>for my parents' permission. Yeah, okay, yeah.

0:33:48.920 --> 0:33:51.920
<v Speaker 4>Are you planning a twenty twenty four or a longer engagement?

0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Probably twenty twenty four. Obviously nothing's been set yet. But

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:58.680
<v Speaker 1>we don't want a long engagement, but we don't want like,

0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:00.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do it too quick. I don't

0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:01.000
<v Speaker 1>want to be rushed.

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 4>Lauren asks how many times before this did you think, oh,

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 4>this is it, this is happening right now, this is it?

0:34:06.480 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 1>Probably one hundred No, let's.

0:34:08.880 --> 0:34:11.440
<v Speaker 2>Literally go through the moments where you're like, this could happen,

0:34:11.480 --> 0:34:13.920
<v Speaker 2>because I know they were like multiple Yeah.

0:34:13.680 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Well they started in December of last year, so December

0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:21.760
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty three. Oh wait, twenty twenty two. I thought

0:34:21.920 --> 0:34:25.879
<v Speaker 1>maybe around Christmas time. Then I knew it wasn't gonna

0:34:25.880 --> 0:34:30.520
<v Speaker 1>happen for a little bit until around summer. This summer

0:34:30.600 --> 0:34:32.719
<v Speaker 1>is when I really started to feel it.

0:34:34.600 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 2>On your trip, definitely in.

0:34:35.960 --> 0:34:38.120
<v Speaker 3>Paris, I had money down on the Paris Yeah, I

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:39.040
<v Speaker 3>lost money on that.

0:34:39.280 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 1>Definitely, the Eiffel Tower, I thought for sure. Definitely on

0:34:43.120 --> 0:34:45.799
<v Speaker 1>my birthday, I thought for sure. And there was one

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:48.120
<v Speaker 1>other There was one other time I thought it was

0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:51.880
<v Speaker 1>for sure happening. No, no, but I acted. I was like,

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:55.120
<v Speaker 1>you really missed an opportunity here. There was one other

0:34:55.200 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 1>time I can't remember, but I remember it because anytime

0:34:58.560 --> 0:35:01.560
<v Speaker 1>I would get my hair done, I'd be like, this

0:35:01.640 --> 0:35:02.919
<v Speaker 1>is gonna be my engagement hair.

0:35:04.680 --> 0:35:07.040
<v Speaker 2>That for at least a yeah.

0:35:07.160 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 1>She was like, Okay, at what point are we gonna

0:35:09.280 --> 0:35:11.239
<v Speaker 1>just do the hair and not have it be the

0:35:11.280 --> 0:35:14.640
<v Speaker 1>engagement hair? And I was like Okay, I guess. And

0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:16.520
<v Speaker 1>actually this last time I went, I was like whatever,

0:35:17.440 --> 0:35:20.239
<v Speaker 1>and it happened. Maybe this is life wor yes, I

0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:22.480
<v Speaker 1>literally was like whatever. I can't keep like bleaching my

0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:24.480
<v Speaker 1>roots every time I come in here. So I was like, whatever,

0:35:24.600 --> 0:35:26.479
<v Speaker 1>just do what you need. And this is the time

0:35:26.480 --> 0:35:27.280
<v Speaker 1>I got engaged.

0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:30.680
<v Speaker 2>Wait did you when for the ring? Did you know

0:35:30.719 --> 0:35:31.760
<v Speaker 2>that he had the ring.

0:35:32.840 --> 0:35:35.000
<v Speaker 1>Before we got proposed, before he proposed?

0:35:35.080 --> 0:35:36.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Like how long do you know how long he

0:35:36.760 --> 0:35:38.040
<v Speaker 2>had the ring before you propose?

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:40.720
<v Speaker 1>No? But I don't think for very long.

0:35:40.960 --> 0:35:44.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, not for like you you knew like the kind

0:35:44.160 --> 0:35:46.360
<v Speaker 2>of the style, or he knew the style that you wanted,

0:35:46.440 --> 0:35:50.480
<v Speaker 2>because y'all had gone to Brilliant Earth and did like the.

0:35:49.760 --> 0:35:50.319
<v Speaker 1>The whole thing.

0:35:50.400 --> 0:35:50.480
<v Speaker 2>Ye.

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, So after I went with you and Paulina, or

0:35:53.480 --> 0:35:55.440
<v Speaker 1>I went with Paulina, and then I went with you

0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:58.880
<v Speaker 1>and Ali ring shopping. Well that was not very productive,

0:35:58.920 --> 0:36:00.920
<v Speaker 1>but I realized I was like, I really don't know

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 1>what I want, Like I was really very stressful and

0:36:04.120 --> 0:36:06.360
<v Speaker 1>so and I think he started a panic because he

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:08.239
<v Speaker 1>was like, well, if you don't know what you want, like,

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:09.480
<v Speaker 1>how am I gonna know? You know what I mean?

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:12.520
<v Speaker 1>And so we just went together to Brilliant Earth and

0:36:12.560 --> 0:36:16.080
<v Speaker 1>like tried on. I can't even tell you how many

0:36:16.120 --> 0:36:18.080
<v Speaker 1>rings I tried on. And so he knew that I

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:23.440
<v Speaker 1>wanted either an emerald cut or radiant cut. Those were

0:36:23.480 --> 0:36:25.919
<v Speaker 1>like the cuts that I wanted. And then he kind

0:36:25.920 --> 0:36:28.480
<v Speaker 1>of knew like the style that I wanted, So I

0:36:28.560 --> 0:36:32.960
<v Speaker 1>knew it was gonna be a variation of one of these. Yeah,

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:38.080
<v Speaker 1>but he he chose, He chose, and he chose perfectly.

0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:40.520
<v Speaker 2>It is. Can you maybe hold it up to the

0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:42.279
<v Speaker 2>give crystal something to.

0:36:45.400 --> 0:36:47.800
<v Speaker 1>The thing that I think that he was really adamant.

0:36:47.880 --> 0:36:50.640
<v Speaker 1>He wanted a gold He wanted a gold band just

0:36:50.680 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 1>around the finger. He wanted like a simple gold band.

0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:55.880
<v Speaker 1>And I love that he put like platinum prongs around it,

0:36:55.880 --> 0:36:57.239
<v Speaker 1>so you can't really see the prongs, you know what

0:36:57.280 --> 0:37:00.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean? They like blend in Anyways, I can't wait

0:37:00.440 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 1>to get the what's the wedding band that goes with it?

0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:07.040
<v Speaker 2>Just one thing at a time, Tanya, I can't wait

0:37:07.360 --> 0:37:08.920
<v Speaker 2>on the jacket, you know?

0:37:09.800 --> 0:37:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? No, that like it. It took my life. I

0:37:12.480 --> 0:37:14.640
<v Speaker 1>just again, I was crying like crazy. But when I

0:37:14.680 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 1>saw it, I like gasped and cried like crazy. All

0:37:18.320 --> 0:37:21.000
<v Speaker 1>my girlfriends came out there, where's the ring?

0:37:23.760 --> 0:37:26.080
<v Speaker 2>Can I play the audio of that moment? Oh? You

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:27.880
<v Speaker 2>have it well just from the video I made, but

0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:31.400
<v Speaker 2>I I was also going to say that he was

0:37:31.440 --> 0:37:34.360
<v Speaker 2>taking photos holding it open for the photographer. Uh huh,

0:37:34.400 --> 0:37:37.320
<v Speaker 2>and Pauline and I were like like trying to see it,

0:37:37.360 --> 0:37:41.360
<v Speaker 2>and he closed it and he goes Tanya sees it first. Cute.

0:37:42.360 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 2>We're like, dang, that's really cute.

0:37:44.520 --> 0:37:47.279
<v Speaker 1>I did it was like, where was this? Like where

0:37:47.280 --> 0:37:48.080
<v Speaker 1>did you hide this?

0:37:48.520 --> 0:37:53.240
<v Speaker 2>Okay, here's the audio. So this is Sophia hugging Tanya.

0:37:55.840 --> 0:38:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Wait, it was crazy.

0:38:06.280 --> 0:38:08.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what kind of girl? Where's that kind

0:38:08.560 --> 0:38:08.839
<v Speaker 2>of ring?

0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:11.800
<v Speaker 1>Cool girl? Cool? But you know what I realized about

0:38:11.840 --> 0:38:14.319
<v Speaker 1>an engagement ring. I'm not used to wearing jewelry just

0:38:14.360 --> 0:38:16.840
<v Speaker 1>in general, and so I don't know where you're supposed

0:38:16.840 --> 0:38:18.759
<v Speaker 1>to shower with your ring? Are you supposed to like

0:38:18.880 --> 0:38:20.600
<v Speaker 1>do dishes with your ring? Are you supposed to work

0:38:20.600 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 1>out with it?

0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:21.120
<v Speaker 3>Like?

0:38:21.160 --> 0:38:23.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know the rules. No, see Danielle saying no,

0:38:23.880 --> 0:38:26.360
<v Speaker 1>everybody says, don't take it off, and so I was like, okay,

0:38:26.760 --> 0:38:28.640
<v Speaker 1>but I have been taking it off because I don't

0:38:28.640 --> 0:38:30.759
<v Speaker 1>want to like get it dirty or anything. But then

0:38:30.800 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm scared I'm going to leave it somewhere. So I

0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:35.359
<v Speaker 1>need tips on how to like not lose my ring.

0:38:36.640 --> 0:38:39.319
<v Speaker 1>If anybody knows has little tricks of like little things

0:38:39.360 --> 0:38:41.080
<v Speaker 1>that they leave around the house to put it on

0:38:41.239 --> 0:38:43.360
<v Speaker 1>or put it in. I'm very stressed.

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:45.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm stressed for you. I don't even like hearing about

0:38:45.719 --> 0:38:46.960
<v Speaker 2>the dishes the disposal.

0:38:47.040 --> 0:38:49.480
<v Speaker 1>But no, I haven't done dishes. I take it off

0:38:49.480 --> 0:38:58.399
<v Speaker 1>and put it but I know, yeah, sorry, scariest thing.

0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:00.839
<v Speaker 4>They're so scary.

0:39:01.160 --> 0:39:03.840
<v Speaker 2>Something stuck down there. I'm like, I know it's off,

0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:07.480
<v Speaker 2>but what if it turns on when I grab this thing? Yeah,

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:10.040
<v Speaker 2>I can imagine having that on my finger and doing

0:39:10.080 --> 0:39:11.239
<v Speaker 2>dishes confidently.

0:39:11.400 --> 0:39:13.960
<v Speaker 1>No, it's very stress it's very stressful. So I'm trying

0:39:14.000 --> 0:39:15.880
<v Speaker 1>to figure out like a good system to put in

0:39:15.920 --> 0:39:18.640
<v Speaker 1>place so that that she's protected. And I might name

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:19.040
<v Speaker 1>her too.

0:39:19.400 --> 0:39:21.920
<v Speaker 4>Oh oh yeah, any is that normal?

0:39:22.040 --> 0:39:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Any names that might be a specialty?

0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Right there? Let me tell you, guys calling in the one,

0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:35.400
<v Speaker 1>There many leads for the in the one. No, I

0:39:35.440 --> 0:39:37.759
<v Speaker 1>don't know, okay, maybe like mar.

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:42.320
<v Speaker 2>Man Morri, Yeah, she'd be so honored.

0:39:44.400 --> 0:39:47.120
<v Speaker 4>Uh, there are two questions that everyone's asking. So I'll

0:39:47.120 --> 0:39:48.640
<v Speaker 4>get to those in a second, but first, this is

0:39:48.640 --> 0:39:50.400
<v Speaker 4>a good one from Marina. What advice do you have

0:39:50.480 --> 0:39:52.719
<v Speaker 4>for single women in their mid thirties? What helped you

0:39:52.760 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 4>stay hopeful?

0:39:57.160 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I knew the whole time, like I knew I meant

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:03.560
<v Speaker 1>to be married and have a family, Like it was

0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:06.280
<v Speaker 1>such a strong desire of my heart, So I knew

0:40:06.360 --> 0:40:08.680
<v Speaker 1>that that was gonna come for me. I just was like,

0:40:09.120 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 1>dear God, how much longer am I gonna have to wait?

0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:14.399
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like the waiting is the worst part.

0:40:14.800 --> 0:40:17.040
<v Speaker 1>So it's like I knew it was gonna happen for

0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:18.759
<v Speaker 1>me at some point, but I'm like, you never know

0:40:18.800 --> 0:40:21.200
<v Speaker 1>it could happen in your forties, fifties, sixties, Like I

0:40:21.239 --> 0:40:24.040
<v Speaker 1>had no idea. So knowing that it was gonna happen

0:40:24.080 --> 0:40:28.040
<v Speaker 1>for me made me feel good in that, But it

0:40:28.120 --> 0:40:31.080
<v Speaker 1>freaking sucks, like it's I would go through lolls you

0:40:31.120 --> 0:40:32.840
<v Speaker 1>beca knows like I would go through lolls where I

0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:35.439
<v Speaker 1>was just like, I can't do this anymore. I don't

0:40:35.440 --> 0:40:38.360
<v Speaker 1>want to do this anymore, Like when is enough enough?

0:40:38.719 --> 0:40:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Are there any good guys out there?

0:40:41.680 --> 0:40:44.440
<v Speaker 2>I even think like in the process of waiting with Robbie.

0:40:44.600 --> 0:40:46.160
<v Speaker 2>I think it was so important that you had a

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:49.160
<v Speaker 2>partner who was able to reassure you even when you

0:40:49.160 --> 0:40:51.480
<v Speaker 2>felt like frustrated and you were tired of waiting. It

0:40:51.520 --> 0:40:55.200
<v Speaker 2>was like he you never felt like he didn't see

0:40:55.200 --> 0:40:57.879
<v Speaker 2>the future with you. It was just like timing. Yeah,

0:40:57.880 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 2>and I think you that was like a lesson of patience,

0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 2>which you've talked.

0:41:01.360 --> 0:41:04.640
<v Speaker 1>About like love is patient, and my god, I've never

0:41:05.040 --> 0:41:08.200
<v Speaker 1>ever understood that Bible verse more in my life. Love

0:41:08.239 --> 0:41:10.439
<v Speaker 1>is patient, love is kind. I was just like, why

0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:13.279
<v Speaker 1>is patient the first word the Bible uses to describe love?

0:41:13.360 --> 0:41:16.239
<v Speaker 1>And now I know. And it was kind of the

0:41:16.239 --> 0:41:18.799
<v Speaker 1>push and pull of our relationship the entire time. I

0:41:18.960 --> 0:41:21.680
<v Speaker 1>was ready and he wasn't, And so it was me

0:41:21.800 --> 0:41:25.720
<v Speaker 1>being patient with him, him giving me grace and my impatience.

0:41:27.440 --> 0:41:30.120
<v Speaker 1>But it all, it all worked out the way that

0:41:30.520 --> 0:41:33.600
<v Speaker 1>it was supposed to do. Definitely not seamless, that's for sure.

0:41:34.920 --> 0:41:36.880
<v Speaker 4>All right, here are the two questions everyone wants to know.

0:41:37.680 --> 0:41:40.640
<v Speaker 4>First one is when are you moving out of your apartment?

0:41:40.680 --> 0:41:42.239
<v Speaker 4>When are you getting rid of it? When are you

0:41:42.280 --> 0:41:43.480
<v Speaker 4>officially moving in?

0:41:43.760 --> 0:41:48.560
<v Speaker 1>You know what's crazy, there's this weird thing about giving

0:41:48.640 --> 0:41:53.640
<v Speaker 1>up my apartment. That feels like I'm I'm giving up

0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:56.600
<v Speaker 1>my independence, you know what I mean, Like, Oh, I don't.

0:41:56.440 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Know what I get that. I think it's what Carry Bradshaw.

0:41:59.560 --> 0:42:01.719
<v Speaker 4>Went through is very much a cairy thing.

0:42:02.080 --> 0:42:05.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like it was so important for me to live alone,

0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:09.360
<v Speaker 1>have my own space, be able to do it by myself,

0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:12.759
<v Speaker 1>for myself. And I had that, and now to give

0:42:12.800 --> 0:42:15.400
<v Speaker 1>it away, it just feels like I'm close. And I

0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 1>know I'm closing a chapter and I'm entering a new chapter.

0:42:17.800 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 1>And it obviously makes sense, but it's a really weird

0:42:20.640 --> 0:42:24.200
<v Speaker 1>feeling because I feel like I'm officially like closing the

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:26.839
<v Speaker 1>door of my independence in a weird way.

0:42:27.520 --> 0:42:30.920
<v Speaker 2>I think it's more so closing the door of being

0:42:30.960 --> 0:42:34.200
<v Speaker 2>a single woman. I don't think your independence goes when

0:42:34.239 --> 0:42:38.000
<v Speaker 2>you get engaged or married. I think you keep that, yeah,

0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:40.280
<v Speaker 2>but I think you merge your life together with someone.

0:42:40.280 --> 0:42:42.960
<v Speaker 2>That's what this commitment is, you know, it's the merging

0:42:43.000 --> 0:42:45.239
<v Speaker 2>of a life together. And I think that's what you've

0:42:45.280 --> 0:42:48.239
<v Speaker 2>wanted and waited for. And I think being able to say,

0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:50.400
<v Speaker 2>like I did have that time, I did have my

0:42:50.440 --> 0:42:52.520
<v Speaker 2>own apartment, I did have my own space, and now

0:42:52.600 --> 0:42:56.479
<v Speaker 2>I've merged my life with someone is like the goal

0:42:56.520 --> 0:42:56.960
<v Speaker 2>that you meet.

0:42:57.040 --> 0:43:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, but it is weird because I do mourn

0:43:01.239 --> 0:43:04.719
<v Speaker 1>that life a little bit, Like it's weird. I was

0:43:04.719 --> 0:43:06.120
<v Speaker 1>talking to my therapist about it because I was like,

0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I have wanted this my whole life, and I'm so

0:43:08.160 --> 0:43:10.680
<v Speaker 1>happy and I'm so excited, but it's like at the

0:43:10.719 --> 0:43:14.799
<v Speaker 1>exact same time, I'm feeling this weird feeling of I,

0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:21.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, like that my apartment is everything, that every

0:43:21.040 --> 0:43:23.919
<v Speaker 1>morsel of whatever is in that apartment is what I want,

0:43:24.000 --> 0:43:27.200
<v Speaker 1>how I want, when I want. I slept where I

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:29.359
<v Speaker 1>wanted when I wanted to wake up, and like that's

0:43:29.400 --> 0:43:31.160
<v Speaker 1>not my life anymore, do you know what I mean?

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:33.319
<v Speaker 1>And it's beautiful and I love my life now, but

0:43:33.400 --> 0:43:35.640
<v Speaker 1>it's like I don't know, it's I'm definitely gonna do

0:43:35.680 --> 0:43:37.799
<v Speaker 1>some weird ceremony when I leave that place.

0:43:37.560 --> 0:43:41.040
<v Speaker 2>Like, well, if you ever need to just come and

0:43:41.080 --> 0:43:42.520
<v Speaker 2>sleep where you want and wake up when you want,

0:43:42.560 --> 0:43:44.280
<v Speaker 2>you can come to my house. Thank you need.

0:43:44.160 --> 0:43:46.440
<v Speaker 1>That, No, when I can, like again, like I know,

0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:48.200
<v Speaker 1>but like waking me up.

0:43:48.480 --> 0:43:50.680
<v Speaker 2>But it's a different life that you're entering, and I

0:43:50.719 --> 0:43:53.080
<v Speaker 2>think to want that every now and then is okay,

0:43:53.080 --> 0:43:57.440
<v Speaker 2>But I think it's also it's very beautifully symbolic of

0:43:57.480 --> 0:44:01.000
<v Speaker 2>the chapter of your life that you're in during that

0:44:01.000 --> 0:44:05.000
<v Speaker 2>that part, it's like, Okay, you you served me, Like

0:44:05.080 --> 0:44:07.160
<v Speaker 2>you served what I needed to know, and.

0:44:07.120 --> 0:44:09.840
<v Speaker 1>Like that apartment is where we spent all of our quarantine,

0:44:10.280 --> 0:44:13.759
<v Speaker 1>and like it's really symbolic for our relationships. So it's

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna be like I think we're definitely gonna have one

0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:17.480
<v Speaker 1>last hurrah there, you know what I mean?

0:44:17.560 --> 0:44:22.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay, and then you're taking the furniture to his place

0:44:23.000 --> 0:44:26.799
<v Speaker 2>and kind of gonna refurnish and we're not packing up

0:44:26.800 --> 0:44:27.200
<v Speaker 2>that stuff.

0:44:27.200 --> 0:44:28.319
<v Speaker 1>By the way. Oh yeah, I was supposed to do

0:44:28.320 --> 0:44:29.880
<v Speaker 1>this week, but I don't know. I was getting engaged.

0:44:29.880 --> 0:44:32.200
<v Speaker 2>Hello, I know, I just thought about that when I

0:44:32.239 --> 0:44:35.760
<v Speaker 2>was like, did he come by and I missed Tony's

0:44:35.800 --> 0:44:36.920
<v Speaker 2>taking some of my old stuff?

0:44:37.000 --> 0:44:39.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I am. But I got engaged on Sunday.

0:44:39.960 --> 0:44:40.760
<v Speaker 2>So she's been busy.

0:44:40.840 --> 0:44:42.239
<v Speaker 1>I've been not really.

0:44:41.960 --> 0:44:45.000
<v Speaker 2>Busy, just distracted, busy in the head.

0:44:44.840 --> 0:44:46.960
<v Speaker 1>Busy in the head, but I kind of always am.

0:44:47.200 --> 0:44:47.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah a lot.

0:44:47.880 --> 0:44:50.080
<v Speaker 4>It was sweet from Miranda. She said, I've never cried

0:44:50.120 --> 0:44:52.239
<v Speaker 4>more tears of a joy for a couple I don't

0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:52.680
<v Speaker 4>even know.

0:44:53.960 --> 0:44:57.120
<v Speaker 2>It's so weird. Don't you feel weird when people say that?

0:44:57.160 --> 0:44:58.799
<v Speaker 2>Because it's in my mind, I'm like, but you do

0:44:58.960 --> 0:45:01.640
<v Speaker 2>know her? But then I'm like, I guess you don't.

0:45:01.760 --> 0:45:02.600
<v Speaker 2>But it feels like.

0:45:02.920 --> 0:45:04.959
<v Speaker 1>I got the sweetest message from a friend of mine

0:45:04.960 --> 0:45:08.200
<v Speaker 1>that was like, you, she's still single, and she was

0:45:08.280 --> 0:45:11.320
<v Speaker 1>just like, I just want you to know that you

0:45:11.440 --> 0:45:14.680
<v Speaker 1>portray or not portray, you are a symbol of like

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:20.080
<v Speaker 1>a single woman that never settled, that never gave up,

0:45:20.520 --> 0:45:25.040
<v Speaker 1>and that always had faith and it's turned out amazing,

0:45:25.120 --> 0:45:27.359
<v Speaker 1>like you have your happy ending. And she's like, it's

0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:30.520
<v Speaker 1>such a important thing for me to see as like

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:33.960
<v Speaker 1>a single woman and like you've you've created this whole thing.

0:45:34.000 --> 0:45:35.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it's just like a really I'm obviously

0:45:35.800 --> 0:45:38.279
<v Speaker 1>butchering it, but it's a really beautiful message and it

0:45:38.480 --> 0:45:41.880
<v Speaker 1>made me feel some type of way because it is

0:45:41.960 --> 0:45:44.040
<v Speaker 1>pretty crazy and I think back on like, oh, like

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:49.040
<v Speaker 1>think about it, mister Wilsher, doctor, w h doctor, FaceTime

0:45:49.120 --> 0:45:55.200
<v Speaker 1>or screen time, my Arizona guy, all the things. It's like, yeah,

0:45:55.280 --> 0:45:57.520
<v Speaker 1>what's his name? Post malone?

0:45:59.160 --> 0:46:02.840
<v Speaker 2>Mister Tippler, who is no post malone?

0:46:03.280 --> 0:46:05.600
<v Speaker 4>I get confused. Because Secrets has names for these guys

0:46:05.640 --> 0:46:12.560
<v Speaker 4>and the podcast.

0:46:09.920 --> 0:46:13.319
<v Speaker 1>Oh oh what did we call him on here? Something nice?

0:46:13.320 --> 0:46:14.360
<v Speaker 1>Because he was a good one.

0:46:14.280 --> 0:46:21.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we liked him and then we didn't. Yeah.

0:46:21.600 --> 0:46:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I guess forget. It's a lot like it's like,

0:46:26.239 --> 0:46:28.799
<v Speaker 1>it's actually a lot of guys. I went through them.

0:46:29.280 --> 0:46:30.719
<v Speaker 2>You went on a lot of dates. I mean that

0:46:30.800 --> 0:46:32.520
<v Speaker 2>was that was the time of your life? Were you?

0:46:32.600 --> 0:46:35.799
<v Speaker 2>I mean that's I think that's true to when people ask, like,

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 2>what what do you say to someone in the thirties,

0:46:37.560 --> 0:46:40.560
<v Speaker 2>It's like, you put in the you put in your time. Yeah.

0:46:40.640 --> 0:46:43.000
<v Speaker 1>I said yes to all the guys and went out

0:46:43.040 --> 0:46:46.000
<v Speaker 1>with anything that breathed, and not a lot of double

0:46:46.080 --> 0:46:48.240
<v Speaker 1>date like second dates, but a lot of first dates.

0:46:48.360 --> 0:46:48.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:46:48.920 --> 0:46:54.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Oh man, it's a numbers game. It's a numbers game. Yeah.

0:46:54.200 --> 0:46:57.320
<v Speaker 2>Eventually, if you're putting yourself out there, correct.

0:47:12.760 --> 0:47:15.480
<v Speaker 4>I'm still I'm still I'm getting to the most commonly

0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:16.520
<v Speaker 4>asked question. I'll get to that.

0:47:16.840 --> 0:47:19.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's the most commonly asked question. I'll get to

0:47:20.040 --> 0:47:20.760
<v Speaker 1>that end.

0:47:20.800 --> 0:47:23.560
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to talk about We talked about this a

0:47:23.600 --> 0:47:26.719
<v Speaker 2>little bit this morning, but Robbie, Dad, Robbie is like,

0:47:28.000 --> 0:47:29.600
<v Speaker 2>it makes me want to cry every time I even

0:47:29.600 --> 0:47:35.600
<v Speaker 2>think about it, because he is so present in their

0:47:35.640 --> 0:47:37.640
<v Speaker 2>lives and you can feel it so much like when you.

0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:40.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't I don't know if you're around a lot

0:47:40.040 --> 0:47:43.800
<v Speaker 2>of other kids, but I've been around like different versions

0:47:43.840 --> 0:47:46.560
<v Speaker 2>of different kids and ages and stuff. His boys are

0:47:46.600 --> 0:47:50.040
<v Speaker 2>just like so kind and funny and like I know

0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:51.240
<v Speaker 2>how to speak to adults.

0:47:51.239 --> 0:47:52.759
<v Speaker 1>It's like really cute.

0:47:53.120 --> 0:47:57.600
<v Speaker 2>But Robbie is a dad. He cares so much about

0:47:57.800 --> 0:48:03.360
<v Speaker 2>them and how they've processed this part of y'all's life. Yeah,

0:48:03.400 --> 0:48:06.880
<v Speaker 2>and you were giving a speech at this champagne toast

0:48:06.960 --> 0:48:09.520
<v Speaker 2>and he Sebby came up, the youngest and came up

0:48:09.520 --> 0:48:12.040
<v Speaker 2>and hugged you, and Robbie just it was like tears

0:48:12.080 --> 0:48:14.759
<v Speaker 2>in his eyes, and I was like, what a beautiful

0:48:14.960 --> 0:48:16.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's got to be something that you see

0:48:16.880 --> 0:48:20.399
<v Speaker 2>that you're like, wow, I mean yes.

0:48:20.760 --> 0:48:25.520
<v Speaker 1>The thing with Robbie is he is so intentional, and

0:48:25.560 --> 0:48:27.800
<v Speaker 1>I think that's why he is the way that he is,

0:48:27.840 --> 0:48:30.000
<v Speaker 1>Like he will not make a single move in his

0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:34.360
<v Speaker 1>life without thinking through every single little detail. And it

0:48:35.000 --> 0:48:37.560
<v Speaker 1>like it's very apparent with the kids, like he is

0:48:37.800 --> 0:48:41.359
<v Speaker 1>very thoughtful, intentional, every word everything we do. When we

0:48:41.440 --> 0:48:44.200
<v Speaker 1>do it is all really really thought out and with

0:48:44.440 --> 0:48:48.879
<v Speaker 1>their best interests at heart, and so yeah, it makes

0:48:48.880 --> 0:48:52.160
<v Speaker 1>me emotional too because he cares about them so much.

0:48:52.360 --> 0:48:56.000
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like the way we approached everything with

0:48:56.000 --> 0:48:58.080
<v Speaker 1>the kids, it was not necessarily the way I wanted to,

0:48:58.200 --> 0:48:59.959
<v Speaker 1>Like I wanted to meet them within two months of dating,

0:49:00.040 --> 0:49:02.360
<v Speaker 1>and he was like, no way, you know, And so

0:49:03.560 --> 0:49:05.680
<v Speaker 1>the way that we did everything was very, very slow

0:49:05.719 --> 0:49:09.000
<v Speaker 1>and intentional and thoughtful. But I feel like we're at

0:49:09.000 --> 0:49:11.319
<v Speaker 1>a place now where because of the way that we

0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:15.080
<v Speaker 1>did it, it's a beautiful relationship. I didn't force myself

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:18.600
<v Speaker 1>on them. It was like a slow roll. And I

0:49:18.640 --> 0:49:20.520
<v Speaker 1>don't try to parent them, like I'm not trying to

0:49:20.520 --> 0:49:22.719
<v Speaker 1>be a parent. I try and be a friend obviously

0:49:22.840 --> 0:49:24.960
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a disciplinarian if I'm there, you know,

0:49:25.080 --> 0:49:27.799
<v Speaker 1>like put your food in the kitchen and stuff like that,

0:49:27.840 --> 0:49:30.120
<v Speaker 1>but I'm not like grounding them. They didn't really get

0:49:30.160 --> 0:49:34.160
<v Speaker 1>grounded or anything. But I'm not really parenting. I'm I'm

0:49:34.200 --> 0:49:37.840
<v Speaker 1>just being a friend and a thoughtful, caring, loving person

0:49:37.880 --> 0:49:39.680
<v Speaker 1>in their lives. And I think that it's come a

0:49:39.760 --> 0:49:42.799
<v Speaker 1>really really long way because having them be a they

0:49:42.800 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 1>were part of the lie. Like and now I think

0:49:45.120 --> 0:49:47.000
<v Speaker 1>back on it and I'm like, they were telling me, Yeah,

0:49:47.040 --> 0:49:49.359
<v Speaker 1>we have this school project and we have to you know,

0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:53.319
<v Speaker 1>interview me, me and Papa June for school and we're

0:49:53.320 --> 0:49:55.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna wear this outfit. And like they were like fully

0:49:55.600 --> 0:49:57.080
<v Speaker 1>in on it. They knew what was going on. So

0:49:57.120 --> 0:49:59.399
<v Speaker 1>the fact that they were involved, they knew. They came

0:49:59.480 --> 0:50:03.360
<v Speaker 1>running out, they were happy. They they got Sonny ready

0:50:03.840 --> 0:50:05.759
<v Speaker 1>like they did all hurt the stuff for Sunny. Like,

0:50:05.760 --> 0:50:08.440
<v Speaker 1>it's just cute that they were like involved in there

0:50:08.520 --> 0:50:12.600
<v Speaker 1>and sweet and happy. Yeah, it was amazing and I

0:50:12.640 --> 0:50:12.960
<v Speaker 1>love that.

0:50:13.320 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 2>In the caption that y'all posted, Robbie said, like I

0:50:16.719 --> 0:50:19.680
<v Speaker 2>come in a package of three, you know, like acknowledging

0:50:19.719 --> 0:50:20.440
<v Speaker 2>that is such.

0:50:20.239 --> 0:50:21.239
<v Speaker 4>A How did he phrase it?

0:50:22.080 --> 0:50:22.200
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:50:22.400 --> 0:50:25.399
<v Speaker 1>He said something like, oh, I'm a three heart package something. Yeah,

0:50:25.520 --> 0:50:27.520
<v Speaker 1>Like it's not it's not just me. I'm a three

0:50:27.560 --> 0:50:31.000
<v Speaker 1>heart package. Yeah.

0:50:31.040 --> 0:50:33.040
<v Speaker 4>So many questions coming and you know what kind of

0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:35.440
<v Speaker 4>wedding you're going to have? Big small?

0:50:35.680 --> 0:50:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I was like mountain chic. Honestly, No, we've like

0:50:41.680 --> 0:50:45.640
<v Speaker 1>talked about it. Uh, we've talked about it. We've made

0:50:45.680 --> 0:50:48.040
<v Speaker 1>a short list, but like only once and this was

0:50:48.080 --> 0:50:50.720
<v Speaker 1>even before we were engaged, So I have no idea.

0:50:51.800 --> 0:50:54.480
<v Speaker 4>Was there a moment when you knew he was the one?

0:50:54.640 --> 0:50:57.080
<v Speaker 4>Was there a specific moment where you felt like, oh boy.

0:50:57.000 --> 0:51:03.360
<v Speaker 1>This is yes, Okay, when I got the vagina tingles.

0:51:02.200 --> 0:51:04.279
<v Speaker 4>First kiss, you knew he was it? You were done?

0:51:04.320 --> 0:51:07.120
<v Speaker 1>If I'm being honest, If I'm being honest.

0:51:07.000 --> 0:51:11.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what about something that wasn't a physical reaction, like

0:51:11.760 --> 0:51:14.399
<v Speaker 2>a deep emotional where you were like wow, like I.

0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:18.320
<v Speaker 1>Some would argue that the physical is triggered by the emotional.

0:51:20.320 --> 0:51:25.000
<v Speaker 2>This feels like it was pretty just physical. Oh, it

0:51:25.080 --> 0:51:28.040
<v Speaker 2>feels like a very physical reaction. What happened to you?

0:51:31.960 --> 0:51:35.080
<v Speaker 1>How did I When did I know? Uh? Pretty soon

0:51:35.080 --> 0:51:37.080
<v Speaker 1>into like quarantine. I think when I told him that

0:51:37.120 --> 0:51:40.400
<v Speaker 1>I loved him, which is like around May we met November,

0:51:40.719 --> 0:51:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I kind of felt like he was it. But it's

0:51:46.000 --> 0:51:46.880
<v Speaker 1>kind of a lame answer.

0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:49.640
<v Speaker 2>No, I think that I just didn't know. Like I

0:51:49.680 --> 0:51:51.680
<v Speaker 2>have a moment on the where I was on the

0:51:51.680 --> 0:51:53.799
<v Speaker 2>beach with Haley like two weeks after we met, And

0:51:53.840 --> 0:51:56.960
<v Speaker 2>I remember two weeks you knew not like no, sorry,

0:51:57.040 --> 0:51:58.759
<v Speaker 2>not like oh, this is the person going to spend

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:00.920
<v Speaker 2>my life with. But where I was like, I'm in

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:03.120
<v Speaker 2>love with this person. And I was like, I remember

0:52:03.200 --> 0:52:05.600
<v Speaker 2>just like us looking at each other, and she had

0:52:05.640 --> 0:52:07.400
<v Speaker 2>the same feeling. Like it was just like a moment

0:52:07.480 --> 0:52:11.120
<v Speaker 2>that I can't describe anything else to it. So I

0:52:11.160 --> 0:52:12.960
<v Speaker 2>didn't know if you had that moment outside of the

0:52:13.080 --> 0:52:16.600
<v Speaker 2>vagina tingles, the VTS, the vts, if you were like,

0:52:16.920 --> 0:52:19.440
<v Speaker 2>had a moment where you were doing something like simple

0:52:19.560 --> 0:52:20.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, yeah, you know.

0:52:20.520 --> 0:52:22.640
<v Speaker 1>What's interesting and like what I'm so excited about. And

0:52:22.680 --> 0:52:24.680
<v Speaker 1>this is gonna sound so lame, but I was like,

0:52:25.239 --> 0:52:27.720
<v Speaker 1>I love the fact that I get to like sleep

0:52:27.800 --> 0:52:31.160
<v Speaker 1>next to you every night, and I actually just love

0:52:31.520 --> 0:52:34.520
<v Speaker 1>doing life with him. You know, we have very similar

0:52:34.920 --> 0:52:37.040
<v Speaker 1>We like to live the same way, we like to

0:52:37.120 --> 0:52:39.319
<v Speaker 1>spend our days doing the same stuff, we like to

0:52:39.360 --> 0:52:42.680
<v Speaker 1>eat the same way. Like we very are soulmates in

0:52:42.680 --> 0:52:44.000
<v Speaker 1>that way, you know what I mean, Like we just

0:52:44.160 --> 0:52:46.520
<v Speaker 1>love being together and like the fact that we get

0:52:46.520 --> 0:52:48.640
<v Speaker 1>to be together every day and sleep in the same

0:52:48.640 --> 0:52:50.399
<v Speaker 1>bed is like the craziest thing.

0:52:50.640 --> 0:52:52.960
<v Speaker 2>Sleepovers forever, sleepovers forever.

0:52:53.080 --> 0:52:55.080
<v Speaker 1>It's the best thing ever.

0:52:57.400 --> 0:53:01.200
<v Speaker 4>All right, you ready, as we're wrapping up here we go, Yeah,

0:53:01.200 --> 0:53:05.160
<v Speaker 4>there's gonna be that's right. The most commonly asked question

0:53:06.440 --> 0:53:08.160
<v Speaker 4>on the scrubbing in Facebook group.

0:53:08.520 --> 0:53:13.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm ready for that. I know, I know, I'm gonna

0:53:13.120 --> 0:53:19.040
<v Speaker 2>guess before the question. The most commonly asked question, I

0:53:19.040 --> 0:53:20.880
<v Speaker 2>don't know what it is. Mark's looking at the screen.

0:53:21.040 --> 0:53:26.360
<v Speaker 2>That's who is the maid of honor? That that's the question.

0:53:26.800 --> 0:53:31.160
<v Speaker 4>Everybody wants to know that. So, Tanya, who is the

0:53:31.239 --> 0:53:31.920
<v Speaker 4>maid of honor?

0:53:32.239 --> 0:53:35.480
<v Speaker 1>I meanven started planning the wooding, Oh cop on.

0:53:35.640 --> 0:53:37.640
<v Speaker 4>It should be so simple, shouldn't it.

0:53:45.400 --> 0:53:50.120
<v Speaker 2>No, it's not. We actually, Paulina and I discussed it

0:53:50.360 --> 0:53:53.040
<v Speaker 2>at the Champagne toast and we were like, I'm I'm

0:53:53.080 --> 0:53:55.920
<v Speaker 2>down to be like just dual made of honor duties,

0:53:56.000 --> 0:53:58.120
<v Speaker 2>Like even if like one person is the title, then

0:53:58.120 --> 0:54:01.759
<v Speaker 2>we both like, you know, just do you know our

0:54:01.800 --> 0:54:07.200
<v Speaker 2>own thing? Wow, you've made this a competition more than

0:54:07.239 --> 0:54:07.600
<v Speaker 2>we have.

0:54:08.040 --> 0:54:10.040
<v Speaker 1>There's a competition. What if we throw my sister in

0:54:10.080 --> 0:54:11.239
<v Speaker 1>there too, you know, then.

0:54:11.160 --> 0:54:14.520
<v Speaker 2>There's three that's my dream. We need your sister to

0:54:14.640 --> 0:54:17.879
<v Speaker 2>balance me. Very true.

0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:19.719
<v Speaker 4>Sister is the easy one. That way, you don't have

0:54:19.760 --> 0:54:21.920
<v Speaker 4>to make a decision because they can't argue with your

0:54:21.960 --> 0:54:23.000
<v Speaker 4>sister being you're maid.

0:54:22.880 --> 0:54:25.520
<v Speaker 1>Of hont But I can't put that on her.

0:54:26.239 --> 0:54:28.640
<v Speaker 2>Well, we understand that that would be the title and

0:54:28.680 --> 0:54:29.920
<v Speaker 2>we would take on the duties.

0:54:30.080 --> 0:54:31.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh got it? Yeah, Like I can't put that on her.

0:54:32.239 --> 0:54:34.120
<v Speaker 2>Was my sister's made of honor. I'm sure she has

0:54:34.239 --> 0:54:37.120
<v Speaker 2>high regrets because I was like nineteen and couldn't do

0:54:37.160 --> 0:54:39.200
<v Speaker 2>anything say with me.

0:54:39.560 --> 0:54:41.400
<v Speaker 1>That's what I w I was hers. I was like twenty.

0:54:41.480 --> 0:54:43.399
<v Speaker 2>I don't sorry, you want to redo that?

0:54:44.520 --> 0:54:46.279
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, yeah, we we.

0:54:46.200 --> 0:54:48.480
<v Speaker 2>Can handle not having the title if you want to,

0:54:48.480 --> 0:54:49.319
<v Speaker 2>but everybody can.

0:54:49.200 --> 0:54:50.960
<v Speaker 1>Just needs a holder horses, because I do want to,

0:54:51.000 --> 0:54:52.600
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't I'm just going to ask people to

0:54:52.640 --> 0:54:54.360
<v Speaker 1>do things. I'm going to like do a whole ceremony.

0:54:54.360 --> 0:54:55.680
<v Speaker 1>You think I'm just gonna say, hey, you want to

0:54:55.680 --> 0:54:57.680
<v Speaker 1>be my bridesmaid like show?

0:54:58.239 --> 0:55:01.200
<v Speaker 2>Maybe you do like like an amaze erase or survivor

0:55:01.280 --> 0:55:03.520
<v Speaker 2>type thing that we battle it out for.

0:55:03.680 --> 0:55:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, could you imagine? I would love that actually.

0:55:07.640 --> 0:55:08.920
<v Speaker 2>But it's like bridal things.

0:55:09.080 --> 0:55:09.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:55:10.200 --> 0:55:12.680
<v Speaker 4>Can we end with Tanya's announcement that she has a

0:55:12.719 --> 0:55:15.240
<v Speaker 4>boyfriend back in twenty twenty when he became.

0:55:15.040 --> 0:55:16.960
<v Speaker 2>Her boyfriend on the podcast.

0:55:17.120 --> 0:55:19.319
<v Speaker 4>This is from the Morning Show and this was the

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<v Speaker 4>song she did And I think it's so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>He shows up.

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<v Speaker 1>I got no doubt. I have a boyfriend. Holy wow,

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<v Speaker 1>how we meet Jimee. That's how I have a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>Holy cow.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Yeah, that's a ball. I have a fiance.

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<v Speaker 2>We should rewrite it to like a new song.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah with fiance, Margert he kind of did, oh well.

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<v Speaker 4>I like in Dance the Night Away, you could do

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<v Speaker 4>something like, uh, I'm a gage, I'm a fiance.

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<v Speaker 1>Mamma in yeah the fiance.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, scrubbers.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, everything I do now I do with

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<v Speaker 1>my left hand, and I'm like my computer and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like doing my laundry with Ralph?

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<v Speaker 4>Which of these apples?

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<v Speaker 1>Which one of these is good? Driving my car?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maren's full full throttle.

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<v Speaker 2>There's gotta be some way we can get in contact

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<v Speaker 2>with Maren Morris to let her know that the rock

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<v Speaker 2>is named Maren. Yeah, congratulations than you. I speak for

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<v Speaker 2>everybody when I say we could not be happier for

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<v Speaker 2>you and Robbie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm literally in the clouds. I hope I never come

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<v Speaker 1>off as high. I better eventually will, but I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm out of my body. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>the best feeling ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we love you. We're so happy for you, and

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<v Speaker 2>no one deserves it more.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're just going to keep celebrat. I mean every

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<v Speaker 1>week we'll just yeah. Now, Yeah, there's so much planning

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<v Speaker 1>to do, Like I don't even know, Like honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know how to plan a wedding. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do I pick a date? Do I?

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's step one?

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<v Speaker 2>I do think a venue? Do I pick a service?

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<v Speaker 1>I got the guy?

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<v Speaker 4>Step two?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's very overwhelming, Like I just don't know the

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<v Speaker 1>steps of it, Like I need to read like Bride

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<v Speaker 1>one oh one or some Actually.

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<v Speaker 4>I think picking the venues first because they're going to

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<v Speaker 4>have the dates available in some day it's not available,

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<v Speaker 4>so maybe your dream venue is.

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<v Speaker 1>Then how do you know about like weather like.

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<v Speaker 4>California, You're probably fine as long as you don't do

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<v Speaker 4>it in February.

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<v Speaker 6>It depends what's most important? Is the date most important

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<v Speaker 6>or the venue and then you have to go that route.

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<v Speaker 4>Danielle Romo, producer extraordinaire.

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<v Speaker 6>Who has in fact married is Mary back to your

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<v Speaker 6>ring question, do not work out with it?

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<v Speaker 4>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Especially since like you don't have any hardware around that rock,

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<v Speaker 6>like you will bang it up and you'll like mess

0:58:12.000 --> 0:58:14.280
<v Speaker 6>it up. So don't you can't do that. You can't.

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<v Speaker 6>So my rule is, whenever you take it off, always

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<v Speaker 6>take it off in the same spot so you don't

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<v Speaker 6>lose it. So you always know. Okay, if my ring's

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<v Speaker 6>not on my finger.

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<v Speaker 1>It's in it's it's yeah, yeah, it's in its home. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Has a lot of good advice on how not to

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<v Speaker 3>lose a ring is Dean Ungler. We should call him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my even I can't even talk to him about

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<v Speaker 2>that hilarious. Is it funny for Kaylin?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's not funny. It's not funny. It's not funny.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't want to lose this this maren So. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna keep her on my finger.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have a time of year that you envision

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<v Speaker 2>a wedding A sap?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you said you don't want to do what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, I don't want to be rushed. I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely want to feel like I'm scrambling to get a

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<v Speaker 1>wedding done, but I definitely want like a long you know,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody like oh twenty twenty five, Like no, yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, are you ready for it?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already. May.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't do it in.

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<v Speaker 1>May because you're a bride. You're made of honor.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm made of honor.

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<v Speaker 1>That's gonna just so. If I get married in April,

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<v Speaker 1>that will also.

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<v Speaker 2>Be very stressful. But I can we can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>We can do it.

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<v Speaker 2>If that's your dream, we can do that. Okay, we

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<v Speaker 2>can make.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever work I'm thinking after May?

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<v Speaker 4>Great?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, perfect, all right, that's all. If we miss anything,

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<v Speaker 2>you can message us and we'll we'll be back next week.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, coming back at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>Ready, stay tuned. This might just be a wedding podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Now. A lot to do, there's like a lot. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's why people do year plus engagements because there's

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<v Speaker 4>so much to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, and I'm not sure I enjoy this from a

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<v Speaker 2>find a photographer and videographer that you like because that

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<v Speaker 2>I will be busy that day. That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>We love you somebody, I love you.

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<v Speaker 5>You m