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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in.

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Speaker 2: So today I can't remember what were the parts of

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Speaker 2: the book that we were sister, I.

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Speaker 1: Think we're starting on demons, going to imagine. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Just kidding. Tanya isn't gay, Tanya is cool? Is this?

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Speaker 1: She is the coolest, the coolest girl in the world.

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Speaker 2: Well, you knew you were engaged when we recorded the

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Speaker 2: whole cool segment. I did.

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Speaker 1: I did.

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Speaker 2: You had to keep it shut though, trickery, dickery doc.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know where to begin, because we did

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Speaker 2: the four podcast and I was so proud of everyone

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Speaker 2: that we kept it that no one let it slip anywhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's interesting. So everything happened Sunday night. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: so I was like, oh, it's great, I'm gonna go win,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the show and share. I'm gonna do

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Speaker 1: the podcast and share it. But by the time we

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Speaker 1: got home Sunday night, we were like in such a

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Speaker 1: like days. It was so crazy. I was and I

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Speaker 1: wanted to give it its proper like, you know, attention, attention,

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Speaker 1: and we were not We didn't have any photos back,

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Speaker 1: and so I was like, Okay, I'm just gonna sit

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Speaker 1: on this and give it a beat and collect myself

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Speaker 1: because I also didn't sleep, didn't eat, couldn't stop crying.

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Speaker 1: So it was just like a lot of emotions, and

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Speaker 1: so I needed like a couple of days to just

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Speaker 1: like sit on it.

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Speaker 2: I think that was really special. I think I think

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Speaker 2: what we expected of you, and I think even what

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Speaker 2: you expected of yourself, that it would be an instant post,

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Speaker 2: like you get engaged and it goes out to the world. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I liked that it was kind of y'all's for

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Speaker 2: a little bit where you kind of got to process

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Speaker 2: it and think about it and soak it in without

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Speaker 2: feeling like I gotta get up. But I know it

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Speaker 2: killed you kill me.

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Speaker 1: But what's so crazy is my phone was in that

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Speaker 1: locker room the whole night. I didn't have my phone

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Speaker 1: for like four hours, Like.

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Speaker 2: Who am I? Well, yeah, I think you were in

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Speaker 2: a full state of shock.

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 1: I was in a state of shock. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: where I was, Like my I don't know where my

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Speaker 1: purse is, I don't know where anything is. Around seven o'clock.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I think it's closing. I got to

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Speaker 1: kill get my stuff. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Where do you want to begin on this journey?

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Speaker 1: You little trickery, Dickery, mcdockerson. All my friends were in on.

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Speaker 2: This, A lot of nick names there.

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Speaker 1: All my friends were in on this. Yes, that was

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Speaker 1: one of my favorite things. After it all went down,

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Speaker 1: was kind of hearing like the lead up and the

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Speaker 1: build up and like the behind the scenes of it all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a group chat called not Tea because

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Speaker 2: we were so scared that we were going to accidentally

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Speaker 2: text her and get it confused with like other group chats.

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Speaker 2: But it started around the same time You and I

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Speaker 2: went to dinner that night. Remember, like a couple of

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Speaker 2: weeks ago, you and I went to dinner and.

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Speaker 1: I asked you flat out, I said, has Robbie approached

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Speaker 1: you or asked you anything about a proposal? And Becca

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Speaker 1: goes no.

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Speaker 2: I was like, ugh, I was concerned with how easily

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Speaker 2: I lied to her face. It was a little bit

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Speaker 2: concerning for me, but it was so fun because he

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Speaker 2: had texted us like I literally think it was that

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Speaker 2: day and he said, do you care if I read

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Speaker 2: this no friends and soon to be family. I'm very

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Speaker 2: excited to tell you that I am planning to propose

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Speaker 2: to Tanya the weekend of September eighth, so either that Friday,

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Speaker 2: Saturday or Sunday, and wanted you guys to all be

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Speaker 2: there and be a part of it if possible. Details

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Speaker 2: are being worked out, but wanted to check your availability

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Speaker 2: first and talked about like what is going to be

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Speaker 2: followed by a mini champagne celebration, and he's like, love

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Speaker 2: you all and so excited. It goes without saying this

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Speaker 2: is a surprise, so please do not take her off,

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Speaker 2: even though she knows it's coming any day now. So

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Speaker 2: in this chat, it was me, Paulina, Sophia and Brad

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Speaker 2: and Raquel and Robbie. Yeah, and it was just so fun,

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Speaker 2: like trying to coordinate. You had the Jonas Brothers concert, yes,

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Speaker 2: so it was possibly going to be on that Saturday,

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Speaker 1: We were going to go to the show. I'm very

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Speaker 1: glad that plan did not go as planned.

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Speaker 2: And it was just really fun, Like you could tell

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Speaker 2: Robbie was just like so excited and wanted it to

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Speaker 2: be perfect and wanted everyone to be there and wanted

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Speaker 2: it to be what you would want, and it was

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Speaker 2: just it was really sweet, like being a part of

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Speaker 2: something that he was like leading and so excited about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there was well, I don't know, I'll give

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Speaker 1: a cliff notes version of kind of how he did it,

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Speaker 1: but basically what he did was he booked a uh.

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Speaker 4: Podcast, need to do a cliff notes version, Yeah, we

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Speaker 4: have all the time.

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Speaker 2: I've been waiting for them.

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Speaker 1: So he booked as a couple's massage, which we do

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Speaker 1: from time to time. So that wasn't weird in hindsight.

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Speaker 1: It was weird because we had the kids that weekend

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Speaker 1: and he was like, they have some school thing that

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Speaker 1: they have to do with my parents have to interview them,

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Speaker 1: so they're gonna be at my parents' house for an hour.

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Speaker 1: So and I was like, that was a little bit weird,

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Speaker 1: but I didn't think anything of it. Now, in hindsight,

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Speaker 1: I was like, that was really weird. But so we

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Speaker 1: did the couple's massage. We go to the front desk,

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Speaker 1: we check in and the woman's like, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: Our couple's room is like I don't know what she

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Speaker 1: said under construction or water damage or something, so you

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Speaker 1: guys have to go in separate rooms. And I was like, whatever,

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Speaker 1: it's fine. I was really tired from the Jonas brother show.

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Speaker 1: So the night after the day after the Jones Brother Show,

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Speaker 1: out of it. So I go into my couple to

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Speaker 1: of the and the messeuse. The woman hands me a

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Speaker 1: handwritten letter from Robbie, and the handwritten note says, my angel, it's.

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Speaker 5: Been a long journey to get here, but we're finally

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Speaker 5: here and your dress, shoes, and makeup are waiting for

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Speaker 5: you in the locker room. Please take your time getting

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Speaker 5: ready and meet me outside on the terrace. So at

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Speaker 5: that point I knew, and it was like the craziest

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Speaker 1: I'm like with this miss Susan.

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Speaker 2: I just like look at her and I was like,

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Speaker 1: And so I went in there and I like opened

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Speaker 1: like specifically for like engagement stuff like I want. It

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Speaker 1: entire time. I didn't stop. And then I walked up

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Speaker 1: and it was four and a half minutes of talking

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, when this is coming to the

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Speaker 1: sure that was Becca's duty. And then he asked me

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Speaker 1: the kids came running out, Sonny came running out. We

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Speaker 1: It was so it was the most craziest feeling, Like

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Speaker 1: It was like so crazy. And then everybody was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like my family, his family, my best best friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I felt that. I was like I

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Speaker 2: just know her brain is like just going so fast

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Speaker 2: right now processing everything. But like the moment you got

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Speaker 2: the letter, well really from the moment your massage got

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like, yeah, yeah, forgot that. She was like,

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Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell is going on in

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Speaker 1: this place? The room's broken, My massage is getting cut.

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Speaker 1: I was like, they better got charges for this. Like

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Speaker 1: I literally was like, this is so weird. But then

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Speaker 1: once I got the no, I like knew, yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was like not even a question.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know if you mentioned this, but the

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Speaker 2: Maybourne where you all went to get the massage, is

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Speaker 2: a very significant place for you.

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Speaker 1: Actually, that courtyard at the Mayborn is where I used

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Speaker 1: to go. And this is what's even crazier. After we

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Speaker 1: got engaged, Raquel was there and she got walked up

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Speaker 1: to us and she was like, I'll never forget ten

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Speaker 1: years ago, Tanya and I used to comb to this courtyard,

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Speaker 1: sit at that fountain and we would pray for her husband,

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Speaker 1: like we would pray for you, and like all this stuff.

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Speaker 1: And this is the exact same courtyard that Robbie parks

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Speaker 2: did you feel like you were going to pass out?

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Speaker 2: Well, I was imagining. I was like, is she taking

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Speaker 1: It's the I've envisioned this, don't like not even being

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Speaker 2: It was really special. And then his mom hugged you,

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Speaker 2: I don't even know if you remember this, it's on

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Speaker 1: While doing this, I know, I've actually been proud of

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Speaker 2: I think this is so special because there's a whole

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Speaker 1: I guess, comfort unity, Like we're one, Like I finally

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Speaker 1: Like this weekend, we're gonna sit down and kind of

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna like streamline all our streaming we could have,

436
00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:58,040
Speaker 1: but it was just like not.

437
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 4: Exactly, I get you that argument, the other stuff you

438
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 4: could let slide.

439
00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but anyways, she's like, when's the what date?

440
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 1: Are we looking at?

441
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 2: Dress shopping bachelorette? She's like, we're streamlining then streaming services. Baby,

442
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 2: I know.

443
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 1: Actually Ali texted us yesterday because they sent us flowers,

444
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,119
Speaker 1: so we said thank them, and she's like, are you

445
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 1: guys gonn have an engagement party? And I was like,

446
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, probably not. We got like way more

447
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 1: important things to do, like streamline are streaming services. Yeah, yeah,

448
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 1: first things first, first, streamline and move those are the

449
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: first things first.

450
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so those are going to be the questions you

451
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 2: get bombarded with, you know.

452
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, just so you're prepared.

453
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's next? When's the date?

454
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 1: No clue?

455
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: What kind of dress do you want?

456
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 1: I know, Brad's like, when are we going dress shopping?

457
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, I just gone engage.

458
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 2: Great person to have on in your squad dress shopping.

459
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, we should take a break.

460
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: Oh.

461
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 4: I did see some great comments on the scrubbing and

462
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 4: Facebook group about this. A lot of them say they're

463
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 4: immediately going out to get calling in the one because.

464
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:11,360
Speaker 2: Oh thank you.

465
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 1: That's what I've been saying this whole.

466
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 2: Time, the ring to really, so let us by your referral.

467
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like Diana. She said her story on the

468
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 4: radio this morning of how he did it and planned

469
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,639
Speaker 4: everything had me sobbing, and my way to drop the

470
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 4: kids off to school and they were like, Mom, are

471
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 4: you okay?

472
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 1: I haven't stopped crying. I haven't stopped. I like it not.

473
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 1: I can't focus at work, I can't focus anywhere. It's

474
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: so crazy.

475
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 2: No, you need like the full weekend to really I

476
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 2: just want to.

477
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 1: Be with him. It was like it was it happened Sunday,

478
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 1: I went to bed and then went straight to work Monday,

479
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,120
Speaker 1: and I've just been working, like I haven't spent time

480
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 1: with him, Like I just want to jump your bones,

481
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 1: lay next to you, like be in the blizz you know,

482
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 1: and like just haven't had that moment yet.

483
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 2: We do need to take a break, but we will

484
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 2: come back because we found out that night that there's

485
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 2: a very important scrubber that was amongst us that night,

486
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 2: and we will get to that when we come back.

487
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 2: All right, we are back with more from the proposal.

488
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 2: Do you know what else you'll have to do? Hashtag?

489
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 1: Hashtag?

490
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 2: Are you all going to do radigar as your wedding hashtags?

491
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: I kind of liked it. I was cute. I always

492
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: thought it would be from yat or sorry from rad

493
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 1: to yad. Yeah, yeah, but radigar is kind of like

494
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:43,400
Speaker 1: more sustinct, sustinct, succinct succinct.

495
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 3: Right, like like short and easy to take.

496
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: So maybe one of those two radigar or from maybe

497
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: maybe all of them? Not no, just want consistent.

498
00:23:54,320 --> 00:24:00,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So do you want to talk about the

499
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 2: duty that I was not only was I put on

500
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 2: music duty, which almost caused me a full mental breakdown

501
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 2: with the speaker almost dying. But before that duty was

502
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:17,439
Speaker 2: put on put onto me. I was told that I

503
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 2: was going to be in charge of photos. Photography.

504
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: So Robbie puts backa in charge of the photos for

505
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 1: the proposal, and bless his heart, I just don't think

506
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,360
Speaker 1: guys think about photographers because I actually remember when he

507
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: planned my surprise, my surprise birthday party.

508
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I told.

509
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 1: Him I was like, the only thing that would have

510
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 1: made it the most perfect night was if you had

511
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 1: a photographer, because I was so blown away. I didn't

512
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:40,959
Speaker 1: have my phone and so I had no photos from

513
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: that night. All I had were photos from like some

514
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: of my friends that took pictures, and so I was like,

515
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 1: next time we do, like we have to get photographers

516
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: at every party, blah blah blah. So he uh thinks

517
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: Becca is a great photographer clearly, and put her in

518
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 1: charge of taking photos of the proposal, which is a

519
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: lot of pressure. But I love that you. I took it,

520
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: like you just took it.

521
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't. I was like, in my mind, I go,

522
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 2: holy Molly, like what I can take a decent photo.

523
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 2: But this is the moment she's been waiting for like,

524
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 2: this is gonna be on me, and I was also

525
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 2: thinking I was laughing after the fact because once I

526
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,439
Speaker 2: got to the location, I'm like, where would I have

527
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 2: stood that you would I would have started like giggling

528
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 2: or crying when I saw you would have been like

529
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: all shaky footage. And so luckily, as a side note,

530
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 2: Paul or Sophia stepped in, was like, hey, if you

531
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 2: want me to connect you to one of my photographer friends, like,

532
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: let me know, and he goes, oh, I was just

533
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 2: gonna have everyone take organic like content on their phones.

534
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 2: And I stepped in at that point I go, I

535
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 2: think it's great if everyone takes their photos, but I

536
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 2: think having a photographer to like really capture the moment

537
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 2: is a big deal. And he's like, okay, okay, Yeah.

538
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 2: Was like, thank god Sophia came into that, because I

539
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 2: was just gonna be like, you know what, I don't

540
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 2: want to stress them out. If he wants it to

541
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 2: be like intimate like that, great, I'm decent.

542
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 1: Oh that would have if if the shoe were on

543
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: the other foot and Haley asked me to be the

544
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: photographer for your proposal she wanted I'm just saying if

545
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: she had, I literally would have been like, I'm going

546
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: to pay somebody to do this and like not tell her,

547
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: Like there's no way I would take that responsibility on myself.

548
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 2: I almost was like, do I reach out to one

549
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 2: of my friends who I know like as a photographer

550
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 2: and just be like, hey, I just brought her as

551
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 2: back up and.

552
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: Kid, yeah that's what There's no way I would have

553
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: I would do that.

554
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 2: So the fact was pretty good, So I felt like

555
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 2: I could have done an okay job.

556
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:48,360
Speaker 1: Becca took this like cinematic video of us. Oh that video, well, yeah,

557
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: all your videos that you did were incredible, but not

558
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: really any good photos.

559
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 2: I didn't take any photos correct.

560
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: But your videos were like top notch. Steven Spielberg GESSO, yeah,

561
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 1: tell you, I want to try and post the format

562
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: and when I don't know where. It was the cutest

563
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 1: freaking thing I have ever seen.

564
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 2: It was really fun to make. It was fun. It

565
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 2: was like fun to be in on the secret. It

566
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 2: was fun. All of us felt the same way that

567
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 2: we were in on this like massive secret that we

568
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 2: knew that you were waiting on.

569
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like I guess the night when I went

570
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: to Jonas's brothers Robbie had facetimed Sophia and Paulina to

571
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 1: find what makeup to pack for me, and so they

572
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: recorded that FaceTime, which is so cute because the audio

573
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: is like he's like opening this and she goes, yeah,

574
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 1: yeah take that, bring that, and he goes, yeah, yeah,

575
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: this looks important. And then he's like looking through the

576
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 1: brushes and he's like, which one of these do I pack?

577
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: And it's funny because when I opened all the makeup,

578
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: I was like, this is none of this is my stuff,

579
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 1: Like it was like blush that I don't use the

580
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: wrong brush.

581
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 2: Like. It was very, very fun and Paulina was like,

582
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: how do we do? And Tony was like terrible, it

583
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 2: wasn't any.

584
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 1: Of my idea. Yeah, but luckily I didn't need it

585
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 1: and I didn't use it, so it was but it

586
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: was so cute seeing that.

587
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 2: It was just really I agree with Mark, like the

588
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: thoughtfulnes of like even that, because he could have just, like,

589
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 2: you know, right, just been like, oh, she's fine, she

590
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 2: goes Sanza all the time. But the fact that he

591
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 2: even like thought to do that was so so cute. Yeah.

592
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 2: So after as we were all like downing champagne, which

593
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 2: we had a lot. It was just kind of like

594
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: Robbie's family, Sophia, Paulina, Me and Haley at this point.

595
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, because my so my family lived in San Diego,

596
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: so they had to leave kind of early because it

597
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 1: was a long drive back. And then Brad likes to

598
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 1: go down early, so he like me, yeah yeah, and

599
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: to catch a fly fight to New York. So everybody

600
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: kind of was like trickling out and it was like

601
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: the core and we got I mean, I was pretty

602
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: drunk at that point.

603
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: Well. I would also just like to shout out to

604
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 2: Tanya's sister. She is wonderful. I haven't spent time with

605
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 2: your sister, like I think I met her at the

606
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,959
Speaker 2: live show and that was it. She's just so warm

607
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: and kind and I totally get that has been like

608
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: a full just like safe space for you because I

609
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 2: get it. She's wonderful and the kids are just the angels.

610
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. I feel the same way like she

611
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: is this, Like I always say, my sister is the

612
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: best version of like anybody everybody in my family. She's

613
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: just warm and loving and and even keeled and like this,

614
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: you just feel like when you're in her presence that

615
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 1: she's just like calm and happy and like cool.

616
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 2: Cool. She's the girl.

617
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's the cool one.

618
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 2: Is there's something very calm about Yeah.

619
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: She's the opposite of me, like literally the opposite of No.

620
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 2: I think I imagine that growing like y'all were a

621
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 2: great balance for each other. Yeah, but yeah, shout at her.

622
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 2: And then we're so we're at the table, We're all

623
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: just drinking, laughing, recapping everything, and Robbie's dad goes.

624
00:29:58,480 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: That was so embarrassing.

625
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 2: He like looks erec late me, and he goes, I

626
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 2: remember what you said about uh them after their first date.

627
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: And I was like, what did I say? And he

628
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 2: goes He's like giggling. He's like I remember what you said.

629
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 2: And I'm like what I said? And he's like, no,

630
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 2: what she said? Points to Tania and I'm like, oh,

631
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: all I get. I'm like, oh, he's talking about the

632
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 2: vagina tingles, but I'm not saying that to him. And

633
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, are you talking about when she said she got?

634
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 2: And he's like diet and like giggling, and Tania is like,

635
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 2: what wait, what you heard about you listen to the podcast?

636
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm sorry, nobody in this family's let

637
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: us to the podcast.

638
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 2: And Robbie's like, Dad, you're not allowed to listen to

639
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 2: the podcast. And he's like, I'm a scrubber. He's like,

640
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 2: it's the best podcast. I'm a number one scrubber.

641
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: Like what does that even mean?

642
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 2: And Robby's like, no, he means he just listened to

643
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: the one that I was on. And he's like, no, no,

644
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 2: I've listened to since the beginning. So we did a

645
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 2: whole toast where we cheered to him being a.

646
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: Scrubber and he's a doctor and so he was like,

647
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: I am a scrubber. That signs off I'm the scrubber.

648
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: I can't remember something what he said, but it was

649
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: really really funny.

650
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 2: So hilarious and unexpected, and I was like, what else

651
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 2: have you heard on the podcast?

652
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: Me too? I was like, which ones are you listening to?

653
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: Over there? So shout out to our number one scrubber.

654
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: Shout out to my fought nuke soon to be father. Yeah,

655
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: so crazy, it's so crazy. It happened beyoncea era. Yeah,

656
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: he thought I was wearing white a lot before.

657
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we're never going to see her in

658
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: any other.

659
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: Colors. What are those.

660
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 2: All right? We are back. So Mark went to the

661
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 2: Facebook group to see if anyone had any questions for

662
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 2: you about the day, about the proposal, how you're feeling.

663
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: So he's going to read some of those that we got.

664
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, let's see I just posted this, so we'll see.

665
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 4: Did Becker know before we covered that? How did you

666
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 4: keep it a secret all week? That is impressive? And yeah,

667
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 4: that is that is not your style.

668
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: I wanted it. It's more like I wanted to be honest.

669
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: I wanted to look through all the photos and kind

670
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: of like be in it because I did blackout and

671
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,239
Speaker 1: so I wanted to like rewatch the video. And you know,

672
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 1: I was working a lot, like Mondays and Tuesdays are

673
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: my busiest work days, and so I just I knew

674
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: it was going to be rushed, and I didn't want

675
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: to just like rush it. This was like such a

676
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: big deal, so I wanted to look at everything. I

677
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: wanted to like hear what he said when he proposed again,

678
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: I wanted to see everybody come like I wanted to

679
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: kind of like actually experience it without the blackout. So

680
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: that's kind of why I wanted to hold.

681
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 4: In your parents too, you wanted to spend some time with.

682
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: Your parents, Yeah, because they weren't there, so I wanted

683
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: to kind of like send them photos.

684
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 4: And there's the middle of the night when this happened

685
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 4: for them.

686
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like three o'clock in the morning when

687
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: they were on FaceTime. So I did get to like

688
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: see them, which was special when they got to like

689
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: watch it all. But they weren't you know, they were like.

690
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 4: Did Robbie talk to your dad beforehand?

691
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: He did? He? I think it was back in May.

692
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: Actually it was one of my parents sold the house

693
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: and we spent that weekend with them. That's when he

694
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: asked for their permission.

695
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,239
Speaker 2: Did you know that? Did you know that he had

696
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 2: talked to your dad? Uh?

697
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: I knew before the proposal that he had already asked

698
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: for my parents' permission. Yeah, okay, yeah.

699
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 4: Are you planning a twenty twenty four or a longer engagement?

700
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: Probably twenty twenty four. Obviously nothing's been set yet. But

701
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: we don't want a long engagement, but we don't want like,

702
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to do it too quick. I don't

703
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: want to be rushed.

704
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 4: Lauren asks how many times before this did you think, oh,

705
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 4: this is it, this is happening right now, this is it?

706
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: Probably one hundred No, let's.

707
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 2: Literally go through the moments where you're like, this could happen,

708
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 2: because I know they were like multiple Yeah.

709
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: Well they started in December of last year, so December

710
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:21,760
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. Oh wait, twenty twenty two. I thought

711
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:25,879
Speaker 1: maybe around Christmas time. Then I knew it wasn't gonna

712
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: happen for a little bit until around summer. This summer

713
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: is when I really started to feel it.

714
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: On your trip, definitely in.

715
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 3: Paris, I had money down on the Paris Yeah, I

716
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 3: lost money on that.

717
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: Definitely, the Eiffel Tower, I thought for sure. Definitely on

718
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 1: my birthday, I thought for sure. And there was one

719
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: other There was one other time I thought it was

720
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: for sure happening. No, no, but I acted. I was like,

721
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: you really missed an opportunity here. There was one other

722
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: time I can't remember, but I remember it because anytime

723
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 1: I would get my hair done, I'd be like, this

724
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 1: is gonna be my engagement hair.

725
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 2: That for at least a yeah.

726
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: She was like, Okay, at what point are we gonna

727
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 1: just do the hair and not have it be the

728
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 1: engagement hair? And I was like Okay, I guess. And

729
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: actually this last time I went, I was like whatever,

730
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: and it happened. Maybe this is life wor yes, I

731
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: literally was like whatever. I can't keep like bleaching my

732
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: roots every time I come in here. So I was like, whatever,

733
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,479
Speaker 1: just do what you need. And this is the time

734
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:27,280
Speaker 1: I got engaged.

735
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 2: Wait did you when for the ring? Did you know

736
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:31,760
Speaker 2: that he had the ring.

737
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: Before we got proposed, before he proposed?

738
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 2: Yeah? Like how long do you know how long he

739
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 2: had the ring before you propose?

740
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 1: No? But I don't think for very long.

741
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 2: Okay, not for like you you knew like the kind

742
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 2: of the style, or he knew the style that you wanted,

743
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 2: because y'all had gone to Brilliant Earth and did like the.

744
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 1: The whole thing.

745
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 2: Ye.

746
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: Yes, So after I went with you and Paulina, or

747
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: I went with Paulina, and then I went with you

748
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: and Ali ring shopping. Well that was not very productive,

749
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: but I realized I was like, I really don't know

750
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: what I want, Like I was really very stressful and

751
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: so and I think he started a panic because he

752
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: was like, well, if you don't know what you want, like,

753
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 1: how am I gonna know? You know what I mean?

754
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: And so we just went together to Brilliant Earth and

755
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: like tried on. I can't even tell you how many

756
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: rings I tried on. And so he knew that I

757
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 1: wanted either an emerald cut or radiant cut. Those were

758
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,919
Speaker 1: like the cuts that I wanted. And then he kind

759
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 1: of knew like the style that I wanted, So I

760
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: knew it was gonna be a variation of one of these. Yeah,

761
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: but he he chose, He chose, and he chose perfectly.

762
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 2: It is. Can you maybe hold it up to the

763
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 2: give crystal something to.

764
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 1: The thing that I think that he was really adamant.

765
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: He wanted a gold He wanted a gold band just

766
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: around the finger. He wanted like a simple gold band.

767
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 1: And I love that he put like platinum prongs around it,

768
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: so you can't really see the prongs, you know what

769
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: I mean? They like blend in Anyways, I can't wait

770
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: to get the what's the wedding band that goes with it?

771
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 2: Just one thing at a time, Tanya, I can't wait

772
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 2: on the jacket, you know?

773
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah? No, that like it. It took my life. I

774
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 1: just again, I was crying like crazy. But when I

775
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: saw it, I like gasped and cried like crazy. All

776
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: my girlfriends came out there, where's the ring?

777
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 2: Can I play the audio of that moment? Oh? You

778
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 2: have it well just from the video I made, but

779
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 2: I I was also going to say that he was

780
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 2: taking photos holding it open for the photographer. Uh huh,

781
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 2: and Pauline and I were like like trying to see it,

782
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 2: and he closed it and he goes Tanya sees it first. Cute.

783
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 2: We're like, dang, that's really cute.

784
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: I did it was like, where was this? Like where

785
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: did you hide this?

786
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:53,240
Speaker 2: Okay, here's the audio. So this is Sophia hugging Tanya.

787
00:37:55,840 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: Wait, it was crazy.

788
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what kind of girl? Where's that kind

789
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 2: of ring?

790
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 1: Cool girl? Cool? But you know what I realized about

791
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 1: an engagement ring. I'm not used to wearing jewelry just

792
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 1: in general, and so I don't know where you're supposed

793
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: to shower with your ring? Are you supposed to like

794
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: do dishes with your ring? Are you supposed to work

795
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: out with it?

796
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 3: Like?

797
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: I don't know the rules. No, see Danielle saying no,

798
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 1: everybody says, don't take it off, and so I was like, okay,

799
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: but I have been taking it off because I don't

800
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 1: want to like get it dirty or anything. But then

801
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: I'm scared I'm going to leave it somewhere. So I

802
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 1: need tips on how to like not lose my ring.

803
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: If anybody knows has little tricks of like little things

804
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: that they leave around the house to put it on

805
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 1: or put it in. I'm very stressed.

806
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 2: I'm stressed for you. I don't even like hearing about

807
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 2: the dishes the disposal.

808
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: But no, I haven't done dishes. I take it off

809
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 1: and put it but I know, yeah, sorry, scariest thing.

810
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 4: They're so scary.

811
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 2: Something stuck down there. I'm like, I know it's off,

812
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 2: but what if it turns on when I grab this thing? Yeah,

813
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 2: I can imagine having that on my finger and doing

814
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 2: dishes confidently.

815
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 1: No, it's very stress it's very stressful. So I'm trying

816
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 1: to figure out like a good system to put in

817
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: place so that that she's protected. And I might name

818
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: her too.

819
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 4: Oh oh yeah, any is that normal?

820
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 2: Any names that might be a specialty?

821
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 1: Right there? Let me tell you, guys calling in the one,

822
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: There many leads for the in the one. No, I

823
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 1: don't know, okay, maybe like mar.

824
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,320
Speaker 2: Man Morri, Yeah, she'd be so honored.

825
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 4: Uh, there are two questions that everyone's asking. So I'll

826
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 4: get to those in a second, but first, this is

827
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 4: a good one from Marina. What advice do you have

828
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 4: for single women in their mid thirties? What helped you

829
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 4: stay hopeful?

830
00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: I knew the whole time, like I knew I meant

831
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: to be married and have a family, Like it was

832
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 1: such a strong desire of my heart, So I knew

833
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: that that was gonna come for me. I just was like,

834
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: dear God, how much longer am I gonna have to wait?

835
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 1: And I feel like the waiting is the worst part.

836
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 1: So it's like I knew it was gonna happen for

837
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: me at some point, but I'm like, you never know

838
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: it could happen in your forties, fifties, sixties, Like I

839
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: had no idea. So knowing that it was gonna happen

840
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: for me made me feel good in that, But it

841
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: freaking sucks, like it's I would go through lolls you

842
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 1: beca knows like I would go through lolls where I

843
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,439
Speaker 1: was just like, I can't do this anymore. I don't

844
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: want to do this anymore, Like when is enough enough?

845
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: Are there any good guys out there?

846
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 2: I even think like in the process of waiting with Robbie.

847
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 2: I think it was so important that you had a

848
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 2: partner who was able to reassure you even when you

849
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 2: felt like frustrated and you were tired of waiting. It

850
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 2: was like he you never felt like he didn't see

851
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,879
Speaker 2: the future with you. It was just like timing. Yeah,

852
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: and I think you that was like a lesson of patience,

853
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 2: which you've talked.

854
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 1: About like love is patient, and my god, I've never

855
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: ever understood that Bible verse more in my life. Love

856
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 1: is patient, love is kind. I was just like, why

857
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: is patient the first word the Bible uses to describe love?

858
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 1: And now I know. And it was kind of the

859
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 1: push and pull of our relationship the entire time. I

860
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: was ready and he wasn't, And so it was me

861
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:25,720
Speaker 1: being patient with him, him giving me grace and my impatience.

862
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: But it all, it all worked out the way that

863
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: it was supposed to do. Definitely not seamless, that's for sure.

864
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 4: All right, here are the two questions everyone wants to know.

865
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 4: First one is when are you moving out of your apartment?

866
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 4: When are you getting rid of it? When are you

867
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 4: officially moving in?

868
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy, there's this weird thing about giving

869
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: up my apartment. That feels like I'm I'm giving up

870
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: my independence, you know what I mean, Like, Oh, I don't.

871
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 2: Know what I get that. I think it's what Carry Bradshaw.

872
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 4: Went through is very much a cairy thing.

873
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was so important for me to live alone,

874
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 1: have my own space, be able to do it by myself,

875
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 1: for myself. And I had that, and now to give

876
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 1: it away, it just feels like I'm close. And I

877
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: know I'm closing a chapter and I'm entering a new chapter.

878
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: And it obviously makes sense, but it's a really weird

879
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: feeling because I feel like I'm officially like closing the

880
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 1: door of my independence in a weird way.

881
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 2: I think it's more so closing the door of being

882
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 2: a single woman. I don't think your independence goes when

883
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 2: you get engaged or married. I think you keep that, yeah,

884
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 2: but I think you merge your life together with someone.

885
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 2: That's what this commitment is, you know, it's the merging

886
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 2: of a life together. And I think that's what you've

887
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 2: wanted and waited for. And I think being able to say,

888
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 2: like I did have that time, I did have my

889
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 2: own apartment, I did have my own space, and now

890
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:56,479
Speaker 2: I've merged my life with someone is like the goal

891
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 2: that you meet.

892
00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:00,760
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but it is weird because I do mourn

893
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 1: that life a little bit, Like it's weird. I was

894
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: talking to my therapist about it because I was like,

895
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 1: I have wanted this my whole life, and I'm so

896
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 1: happy and I'm so excited, but it's like at the

897
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 1: exact same time, I'm feeling this weird feeling of I,

898
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: you know, like that my apartment is everything, that every

899
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,919
Speaker 1: morsel of whatever is in that apartment is what I want,

900
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: how I want, when I want. I slept where I

901
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 1: wanted when I wanted to wake up, and like that's

902
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: not my life anymore, do you know what I mean?

903
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: And it's beautiful and I love my life now, but

904
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: it's like I don't know, it's I'm definitely gonna do

905
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 1: some weird ceremony when I leave that place.

906
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 2: Like, well, if you ever need to just come and

907
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: sleep where you want and wake up when you want,

908
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,280
Speaker 2: you can come to my house. Thank you need.

909
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: That, No, when I can, like again, like I know,

910
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: but like waking me up.

911
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: But it's a different life that you're entering, and I

912
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 2: think to want that every now and then is okay,

913
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 2: But I think it's also it's very beautifully symbolic of

914
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 2: the chapter of your life that you're in during that

915
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 2: that part, it's like, Okay, you you served me, Like

916
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 2: you served what I needed to know, and.

917
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 1: Like that apartment is where we spent all of our quarantine,

918
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 1: and like it's really symbolic for our relationships. So it's

919
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 1: gonna be like I think we're definitely gonna have one

920
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: last hurrah there, you know what I mean?

921
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:22,760
Speaker 2: Okay, and then you're taking the furniture to his place

922
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 2: and kind of gonna refurnish and we're not packing up

923
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 2: that stuff.

924
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 1: By the way. Oh yeah, I was supposed to do

925
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:29,880
Speaker 1: this week, but I don't know. I was getting engaged.

926
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 2: Hello, I know, I just thought about that when I

927
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,760
Speaker 2: was like, did he come by and I missed Tony's

928
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 2: taking some of my old stuff?

929
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I am. But I got engaged on Sunday.

930
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:40,760
Speaker 2: So she's been busy.

931
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: I've been not really.

932
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 2: Busy, just distracted, busy in the head.

933
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: Busy in the head, but I kind of always am.

934
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah a lot.

935
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 4: It was sweet from Miranda. She said, I've never cried

936
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 4: more tears of a joy for a couple I don't

937
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 4: even know.

938
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 2: It's so weird. Don't you feel weird when people say that?

939
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 2: Because it's in my mind, I'm like, but you do

940
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 2: know her? But then I'm like, I guess you don't.

941
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 2: But it feels like.

942
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:04,959
Speaker 1: I got the sweetest message from a friend of mine

943
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: that was like, you, she's still single, and she was

944
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 1: just like, I just want you to know that you

945
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: portray or not portray, you are a symbol of like

946
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: a single woman that never settled, that never gave up,

947
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: and that always had faith and it's turned out amazing,

948
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 1: like you have your happy ending. And she's like, it's

949
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: such a important thing for me to see as like

950
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 1: a single woman and like you've you've created this whole thing.

951
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just like a really I'm obviously

952
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: butchering it, but it's a really beautiful message and it

953
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 1: made me feel some type of way because it is

954
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: pretty crazy and I think back on like, oh, like

955
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: think about it, mister Wilsher, doctor, w h doctor, FaceTime

956
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: or screen time, my Arizona guy, all the things. It's like, yeah,

957
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 1: what's his name? Post malone?

958
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 2: Mister Tippler, who is no post malone?

959
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 4: I get confused. Because Secrets has names for these guys

960
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 4: and the podcast.

961
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: Oh oh what did we call him on here? Something nice?

962
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: Because he was a good one.

963
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, we liked him and then we didn't. Yeah.

964
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess forget. It's a lot like it's like,

965
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 1: it's actually a lot of guys. I went through them.

966
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 2: You went on a lot of dates. I mean that

967
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 2: was that was the time of your life? Were you?

968
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 2: I mean that's I think that's true to when people ask, like,

969
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 2: what what do you say to someone in the thirties,

970
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 2: It's like, you put in the you put in your time. Yeah.

971
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: I said yes to all the guys and went out

972
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: with anything that breathed, and not a lot of double

973
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,240
Speaker 1: date like second dates, but a lot of first dates.

974
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

975
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh man, it's a numbers game. It's a numbers game. Yeah.

976
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,320
Speaker 2: Eventually, if you're putting yourself out there, correct.

977
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 4: I'm still I'm still I'm getting to the most commonly

978
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 4: asked question. I'll get to that.

979
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 1: Okay, what's the most commonly asked question. I'll get to

980
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:20,760
Speaker 1: that end.

981
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about We talked about this a

982
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 2: little bit this morning, but Robbie, Dad, Robbie is like,

983
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 2: it makes me want to cry every time I even

984
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 2: think about it, because he is so present in their

985
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 2: lives and you can feel it so much like when you.

986
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know if you're around a lot

987
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 2: of other kids, but I've been around like different versions

988
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 2: of different kids and ages and stuff. His boys are

989
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 2: just like so kind and funny and like I know

990
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:51,240
Speaker 2: how to speak to adults.

991
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: It's like really cute.

992
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 2: But Robbie is a dad. He cares so much about

993
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 2: them and how they've processed this part of y'all's life. Yeah,

994
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,880
Speaker 2: and you were giving a speech at this champagne toast

995
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 2: and he Sebby came up, the youngest and came up

996
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 2: and hugged you, and Robbie just it was like tears

997
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 2: in his eyes, and I was like, what a beautiful

998
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 2: I mean, that's got to be something that you see

999
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:20,399
Speaker 2: that you're like, wow, I mean yes.

1000
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 1: The thing with Robbie is he is so intentional, and

1001
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:27,800
Speaker 1: I think that's why he is the way that he is,

1002
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: Like he will not make a single move in his

1003
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 1: life without thinking through every single little detail. And it

1004
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: like it's very apparent with the kids, like he is

1005
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 1: very thoughtful, intentional, every word everything we do. When we

1006
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: do it is all really really thought out and with

1007
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:48,879
Speaker 1: their best interests at heart, and so yeah, it makes

1008
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 1: me emotional too because he cares about them so much.

1009
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: And I feel like the way we approached everything with

1010
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: the kids, it was not necessarily the way I wanted to,

1011
00:48:58,200 --> 00:48:59,959
Speaker 1: Like I wanted to meet them within two months of dating,

1012
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 1: and he was like, no way, you know, And so

1013
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 1: the way that we did everything was very, very slow

1014
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: and intentional and thoughtful. But I feel like we're at

1015
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 1: a place now where because of the way that we

1016
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: did it, it's a beautiful relationship. I didn't force myself

1017
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: on them. It was like a slow roll. And I

1018
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 1: don't try to parent them, like I'm not trying to

1019
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: be a parent. I try and be a friend obviously

1020
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: a little bit of a disciplinarian if I'm there, you know,

1021
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: like put your food in the kitchen and stuff like that,

1022
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: but I'm not like grounding them. They didn't really get

1023
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: grounded or anything. But I'm not really parenting. I'm I'm

1024
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 1: just being a friend and a thoughtful, caring, loving person

1025
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: in their lives. And I think that it's come a

1026
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 1: really really long way because having them be a they

1027
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: were part of the lie. Like and now I think

1028
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: back on it and I'm like, they were telling me, Yeah,

1029
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 1: we have this school project and we have to you know,

1030
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 1: interview me, me and Papa June for school and we're

1031
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: gonna wear this outfit. And like they were like fully

1032
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: in on it. They knew what was going on. So

1033
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 1: the fact that they were involved, they knew. They came

1034
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 1: running out, they were happy. They they got Sonny ready

1035
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 1: like they did all hurt the stuff for Sunny. Like,

1036
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: it's just cute that they were like involved in there

1037
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: and sweet and happy. Yeah, it was amazing and I

1038
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: love that.

1039
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 2: In the caption that y'all posted, Robbie said, like I

1040
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: come in a package of three, you know, like acknowledging

1041
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 2: that is such.

1042
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 4: A How did he phrase it?

1043
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: Uh?

1044
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,399
Speaker 1: He said something like, oh, I'm a three heart package something. Yeah,

1045
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: Like it's not it's not just me. I'm a three

1046
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 1: heart package. Yeah.

1047
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 4: So many questions coming and you know what kind of

1048
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 4: wedding you're going to have? Big small?

1049
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: Oh, I was like mountain chic. Honestly, No, we've like

1050
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: talked about it. Uh, we've talked about it. We've made

1051
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 1: a short list, but like only once and this was

1052
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,720
Speaker 1: even before we were engaged, So I have no idea.

1053
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 4: Was there a moment when you knew he was the one?

1054
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 4: Was there a specific moment where you felt like, oh boy.

1055
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 1: This is yes, Okay, when I got the vagina tingles.

1056
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 4: First kiss, you knew he was it? You were done?

1057
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: If I'm being honest, If I'm being honest.

1058
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, what about something that wasn't a physical reaction, like

1059
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 2: a deep emotional where you were like wow, like I.

1060
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: Some would argue that the physical is triggered by the emotional.

1061
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 2: This feels like it was pretty just physical. Oh, it

1062
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 2: feels like a very physical reaction. What happened to you?

1063
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: How did I When did I know? Uh? Pretty soon

1064
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: into like quarantine. I think when I told him that

1065
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: I loved him, which is like around May we met November,

1066
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: I kind of felt like he was it. But it's

1067
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 1: kind of a lame answer.

1068
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 2: No, I think that I just didn't know. Like I

1069
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 2: have a moment on the where I was on the

1070
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 2: beach with Haley like two weeks after we met, And

1071
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 2: I remember two weeks you knew not like no, sorry,

1072
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 2: not like oh, this is the person going to spend

1073
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 2: my life with. But where I was like, I'm in

1074
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 2: love with this person. And I was like, I remember

1075
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 2: just like us looking at each other, and she had

1076
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 2: the same feeling. Like it was just like a moment

1077
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 2: that I can't describe anything else to it. So I

1078
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 2: didn't know if you had that moment outside of the

1079
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 2: vagina tingles, the VTS, the vts, if you were like,

1080
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 2: had a moment where you were doing something like simple

1081
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, you know.

1082
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: What's interesting and like what I'm so excited about. And

1083
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 1: this is gonna sound so lame, but I was like,

1084
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Speaker 1: I love the fact that I get to like sleep

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00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: next to you every night, and I actually just love

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00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: doing life with him. You know, we have very similar

1087
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: We like to live the same way, we like to

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00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 1: spend our days doing the same stuff, we like to

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00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: eat the same way. Like we very are soulmates in

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00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 1: that way, you know what I mean, Like we just

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00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: love being together and like the fact that we get

1092
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: to be together every day and sleep in the same

1093
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 1: bed is like the craziest thing.

1094
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 2: Sleepovers forever, sleepovers forever.

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00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: It's the best thing ever.

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Speaker 4: All right, you ready, as we're wrapping up here we go, Yeah,

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00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 4: there's gonna be that's right. The most commonly asked question

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00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 4: on the scrubbing in Facebook group.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready for that. I know, I know, I'm gonna

1100
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 2: guess before the question. The most commonly asked question, I

1101
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 2: don't know what it is. Mark's looking at the screen.

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00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 2: That's who is the maid of honor? That that's the question.

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00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 4: Everybody wants to know that. So, Tanya, who is the

1104
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 4: maid of honor?

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00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 1: I meanven started planning the wooding, Oh cop on.

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00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 4: It should be so simple, shouldn't it.

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00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 2: No, it's not. We actually, Paulina and I discussed it

1108
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 2: at the Champagne toast and we were like, I'm I'm

1109
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 2: down to be like just dual made of honor duties,

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00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 2: Like even if like one person is the title, then

1111
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: we both like, you know, just do you know our

1112
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 2: own thing? Wow, you've made this a competition more than

1113
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 2: we have.

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00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 1: There's a competition. What if we throw my sister in

1115
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 1: there too, you know, then.

1116
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 2: There's three that's my dream. We need your sister to

1117
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 2: balance me. Very true.

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00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 4: Sister is the easy one. That way, you don't have

1119
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 4: to make a decision because they can't argue with your

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00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 4: sister being you're maid.

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Speaker 1: Of hont But I can't put that on her.

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00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 2: Well, we understand that that would be the title and

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00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 2: we would take on the duties.

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00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:31,920
Speaker 1: Oh got it? Yeah, Like I can't put that on her.

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00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 2: Was my sister's made of honor. I'm sure she has

1126
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 2: high regrets because I was like nineteen and couldn't do

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00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 2: anything say with me.

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00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 1: That's what I w I was hers. I was like twenty.

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00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:43,399
Speaker 2: I don't sorry, you want to redo that?

1130
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, we we.

1131
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 2: Can handle not having the title if you want to,

1132
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 2: but everybody can.

1133
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: Just needs a holder horses, because I do want to,

1134
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 1: Like I don't I'm just going to ask people to

1135
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 1: do things. I'm going to like do a whole ceremony.

1136
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: You think I'm just gonna say, hey, you want to

1137
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: be my bridesmaid like show?

1138
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 2: Maybe you do like like an amaze erase or survivor

1139
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 2: type thing that we battle it out for.

1140
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, could you imagine? I would love that actually.

1141
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:08,920
Speaker 2: But it's like bridal things.

1142
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1143
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 4: Can we end with Tanya's announcement that she has a

1144
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,240
Speaker 4: boyfriend back in twenty twenty when he became.

1145
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 2: Her boyfriend on the podcast.

1146
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,319
Speaker 4: This is from the Morning Show and this was the

1147
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 4: song she did And I think it's so fun.

1148
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 2: He shows up.

1149
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 1: I got no doubt. I have a boyfriend. Holy wow,

1150
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 1: how we meet Jimee. That's how I have a boyfriend.

1151
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 4: Holy cow.

1152
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, that's a ball. I have a fiance.

1153
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,760
Speaker 2: We should rewrite it to like a new song.

1154
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 1: Yeah with fiance, Margert he kind of did, oh well.

1155
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 4: I like in Dance the Night Away, you could do

1156
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 4: something like, uh, I'm a gage, I'm a fiance.

1157
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: Mamma in yeah the fiance.

1158
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 2: I like that.

1159
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:17,400
Speaker 1: Wow.

1160
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:20,439
Speaker 2: Well, scrubbers.

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00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 1: By the way, everything I do now I do with

1162
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: my left hand, and I'm like my computer and I'm

1163
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: like doing my laundry with Ralph?

1164
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 4: Which of these apples?

1165
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,839
Speaker 1: Which one of these is good? Driving my car?

1166
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 2: Like I get it.

1167
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 1: Maren's full full throttle.

1168
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 2: There's gotta be some way we can get in contact

1169
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,919
Speaker 2: with Maren Morris to let her know that the rock

1170
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 2: is named Maren. Yeah, congratulations than you. I speak for

1171
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 2: everybody when I say we could not be happier for

1172
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 2: you and Robbie.

1173
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 1: I'm literally in the clouds. I hope I never come

1174
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 1: off as high. I better eventually will, but I like,

1175
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm out of my body. It's like

1176
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:05,839
Speaker 1: the best feeling ever.

1177
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, we love you. We're so happy for you, and

1178
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 2: no one deserves it more.

1179
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 1: And we're just going to keep celebrat. I mean every

1180
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: week we'll just yeah. Now, Yeah, there's so much planning

1181
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 1: to do, Like I don't even know, Like honestly, I

1182
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 1: don't even know how to plan a wedding. I'm like,

1183
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 1: what do I pick a date? Do I?

1184
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 4: I think that's step one?

1185
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 2: I do think a venue? Do I pick a service?

1186
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 1: I got the guy?

1187
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 4: Step two?

1188
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: Like it's very overwhelming, Like I just don't know the

1189
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: steps of it, Like I need to read like Bride

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00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 1: one oh one or some Actually.

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00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 4: I think picking the venues first because they're going to

1192
00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 4: have the dates available in some day it's not available,

1193
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 4: so maybe your dream venue is.

1194
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: Then how do you know about like weather like.

1195
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 4: California, You're probably fine as long as you don't do

1196
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 4: it in February.

1197
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 6: It depends what's most important? Is the date most important

1198
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 6: or the venue and then you have to go that route.

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Speaker 4: Danielle Romo, producer extraordinaire.

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Speaker 6: Who has in fact married is Mary back to your

1201
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 6: ring question, do not work out with it?

1202
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 4: Really?

1203
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1204
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 6: Especially since like you don't have any hardware around that rock,

1205
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 6: like you will bang it up and you'll like mess

1206
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 6: it up. So don't you can't do that. You can't.

1207
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 6: So my rule is, whenever you take it off, always

1208
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 6: take it off in the same spot so you don't

1209
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 6: lose it. So you always know. Okay, if my ring's

1210
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 6: not on my finger.

1211
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: It's in it's it's yeah, yeah, it's in its home. Okay.

1212
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 2: You know.

1213
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 3: Has a lot of good advice on how not to

1214
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 3: lose a ring is Dean Ungler. We should call him.

1215
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 2: Oh my even I can't even talk to him about

1216
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 2: that hilarious. Is it funny for Kaylin?

1217
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 1: No, it's not funny. It's not funny. It's not funny.

1218
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 1: And I don't want to lose this this maren So. No,

1219
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: I was gonna keep her on my finger.

1220
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 2: Do you have a time of year that you envision

1221
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 2: a wedding A sap?

1222
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you said you don't want to do what it is.

1223
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I don't want to be rushed. I

1224
00:58:57,880 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: definitely want to feel like I'm scrambling to get a

1225
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,680
Speaker 1: wedding done, but I definitely want like a long you know,

1226
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 1: somebody like oh twenty twenty five, Like no, yeah, So

1227
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: somewhere in the middle.

1228
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready for it?

1229
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 1: I'm already. May.

1230
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:13,440
Speaker 2: Don't do it in.

1231
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 1: May because you're a bride. You're made of honor.

1232
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 2: I'm made of honor.

1233
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 1: That's gonna just so. If I get married in April,

1234
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: that will also.

1235
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 2: Be very stressful. But I can we can do it.

1236
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 1: We can do it.

1237
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 2: If that's your dream, we can do that. Okay, we

1238
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 2: can make.

1239
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,439
Speaker 1: Whatever work I'm thinking after May?

1240
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:30,080
Speaker 4: Great?

1241
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, perfect, all right, that's all. If we miss anything,

1242
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 2: you can message us and we'll we'll be back next week.

1243
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, coming back at some point.

1244
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 2: Ready, stay tuned. This might just be a wedding podcast.

1245
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 1: Now. A lot to do, there's like a lot. Yeah,

1246
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that.

1247
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why people do year plus engagements because there's

1248
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 4: so much to do.

1249
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 2: Right, and I'm not sure I enjoy this from a

1250
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 2: find a photographer and videographer that you like because that

1251
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:01,320
Speaker 2: I will be busy that day. That's true.

1252
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: All right.

1253
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 2: We love you somebody, I love you.

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01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:14,600
Speaker 5: You m