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Speaker 1: Good morning, Shirley Strawberry, Good morning, Happy holiday. Sorry about

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Speaker 1: she's hot, Yeah she is. She's photo to see a

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Speaker 1: whole lot more of it. Yeah, why change now? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's do this. Let's entertain then, right, all right, all right.

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Speaker 1: Also in uh, in other entertainment news, well, Bill Cosby

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Speaker 1: lost his appeal in the sexual assault case that landed

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Speaker 1: him in jail. His legal team has asked the court

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Speaker 1: to overturn his conviction on three counts of aggravated indecent

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Speaker 1: assault for drugging and molesting Andrea Constant. Uh the way

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Speaker 1: Cosby's team saw it, mount Comery County Court of Common Please,

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Speaker 1: Judge Stephen O'Neill was wrong to let five accusers testify

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Speaker 1: at his retrial, but the Pennsylvania Supreme Superior Court ruled

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Speaker 1: unanimously that the additional accusers established Cosby's a signature pattern

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Speaker 1: of drugging and sexually assaulting his victims. That means that Cosby,

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Speaker 1: who is eighty one years old, will have to serve

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Speaker 1: out the three to ten year sentence that he received. Wow,

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Speaker 1: So let me ask you a question. Does anybody know

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Speaker 1: if his three to ten? Does he can't? Does he

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Speaker 1: qualify parole? Attend he get out for good behavior? I

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Speaker 1: mean at three because you go three to ten. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if he gets out. Talked

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Speaker 1: about the appeal being denied yesterday, So I don't know

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Speaker 1: about the length of time. Ain't none of us? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we did no time. We really don't have no, we

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Speaker 1: don't have no idea. I'm asking my cousins long he's

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Speaker 1: been in It hasn't been a year. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: with a whire. I think, yeah, this past September. I

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Speaker 1: think it was a year. I think. Okay, so I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure. Hmm, all right, what you want us to

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Speaker 1: call him? What time are we're gonna be in Philadelphia?

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Speaker 1: We might will stop back. I'm not I'm not going.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going down down there, down all right, all right, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Time now for the latest the news headlines. Please introduce

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Speaker 1: miss Anne, ladies and gentlemen, miss and Tripp. Thank you

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Speaker 1: very much, everybody. This is a trip with the news.

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Speaker 1: The Republican led Senate Judiciary Committee focused his attention yesterday

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Speaker 1: on the report but the Justice Departments in partial inspected

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Speaker 1: general on why the FBI investigated Russia's possible meddling in

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Speaker 1: our last presidential election in the first place. Michael Harwitz's

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Speaker 1: report concludes that while federal ages made some fundamental and

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Speaker 1: some serious errors in their applications to place the former

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Speaker 1: Trump campaign the AID under surveillance, he said he found

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Speaker 1: no bias against the president. We did not find the

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Speaker 1: documentary or testimonial evidence that political bias or improper maid

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Speaker 1: motivation influenced the FBI's decision to conduct those CS operations.

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Speaker 1: Trump As supporters have claimed that emails between two agents

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Speaker 1: show that the FEDS were against him. However, Harwood says

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Speaker 1: he found evidence of other FBI agents who are very

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Speaker 1: supportive of his White House bid. On another matter, yesterday,

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Speaker 1: President Trump signed an executive order that the President says

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Speaker 1: will target anti Semitism on college campuses. However, that er

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Speaker 1: portly aimed at the boycott, divestment, and sanctions movement over

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Speaker 1: the treatment of the Palestinians. That's a movement that has

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Speaker 1: generated intense controversy on a lot of college campuses, the

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Speaker 1: White House says. The order clarifies that the nineteen sixty

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Speaker 1: four Civil Rights Act applies to acts against Jews, and

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Speaker 1: the order officially classifies Jews as a race or nationality

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Speaker 1: rather than just a religion. Jury selection begins and has

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Speaker 1: begun this week in Maryland and the trial of a

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Speaker 1: white man who, prosecutors say, walk up to a young

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Speaker 1: black man who was a second lieutenant in the army

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Speaker 1: and fatally stabbed him in the chest on the University

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Speaker 1: of Maryland's campus. The victim was Richard Collins the thirty

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Speaker 1: He was a student at Bowie State University. He was

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Speaker 1: visiting a couple of friends at the nearby University of Maryland,

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Speaker 1: when standing at a bus stop, a white man named

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Speaker 1: Sean Urbanski approached him and his friends and reportedly said, quote,

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Speaker 1: step left, if you know what's best for you. Well

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Speaker 1: witnessed to say Collins refused to move, and that Urbanski

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Speaker 1: plunged a knife into his chest and then sat on

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Speaker 1: a nearby bench and waited for the police to show up.

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Speaker 1: Collins died three days after. He died shortly after that,

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Speaker 1: and the action. When he died, it was three days

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Speaker 1: before he was to graduate with his bachelor's science degree,

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Speaker 1: and again he was already a second lieutenant in the

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Speaker 1: US Army. Ubanski's charged with first degree murder and a

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Speaker 1: hate crime. Some upsetting news to report. According to TMZ,

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Speaker 1: Olympic gold medalist and boxing legend Leon Spinks is fighting

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Speaker 1: for his life in a Las Vegas hospital. Now just

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Speaker 1: what's wrong has not been mentioned, but his wife is

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Speaker 1: asking for prayers on social media. Leon Spinks has reportedly

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Speaker 1: suffered from poor health in recent years. He was hospitalized

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Speaker 1: in twenty fourteen with significant intestinal damage after some chicken

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Speaker 1: bones got lodged in him. Somehow he swallowed them. Leon

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Speaker 1: Spinks is in the Nevada Boxing Hall of fame. He's

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Speaker 1: best remembered for upsetting Muhammad Ali in nineteen seventy eight

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Speaker 1: to win the heavyweight title. For a while before becoming

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Speaker 1: heavyweight champ, he was in the Marines and he won

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Speaker 1: a gold in the nineteen seventy six Summer Olympics. And finally,

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Speaker 1: with the addition of the lovely Miss South Africa for

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Speaker 1: the first time in history, Miss Americo, Miss f Usa,

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Speaker 1: Miss Tina Universe, all Black women a lot of respect.

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Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to Morning Show. All right, So guys, here's a question

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Speaker 1: for you. Which would you rather live in? Would you

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Speaker 1: rather live in? Which store? I should say, Bed Bathroom

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Speaker 1: Beyond or Home Goods or Ikea? Which one? Oh, so

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Speaker 1: that's a question. Think about that. Here's just a crazy

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Speaker 1: news story. Uh, it's about a runaway kid who was

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Speaker 1: found living in bed Bathroom Beyond, which we think is

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Speaker 1: genius in a bed Bathroom Beyond store. Employees at a Raleigh,

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Speaker 1: North Carolina, Bed bath and Beyond store arrived at eight

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Speaker 1: thirty am and found someone hiding inside the store. The

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Speaker 1: employees called the police to the store. A spokesperson for

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Speaker 1: the Greenville Police department said the boy ran away from

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Speaker 1: home and snuck into the store to camp out. So

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Speaker 1: if you could live in any one of those stores,

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Speaker 1: which one would it be Bead, Bath and Beyond Home

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Speaker 1: Goods or Ikea or any stand? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: hate Bathroom Beyond, you know, I mean, I ain't really

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Speaker 1: worried about that. But you can get confidence pillows. You

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Speaker 1: can wake up making hall fee chairs in now, you know,

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Speaker 1: I kill. We got to put all that together before

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Speaker 1: we later we get this bed and you on the float, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: that ain't no lot, you know, wore your ass out

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Speaker 1: worse similar instructions that I killed. But they do have

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Speaker 1: a restaurant. You got bath towels in there, and they

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Speaker 1: have a restaurant where you can get some meat balls

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Speaker 1: and ice cream. And you got a restaurant, Shirley, I can't,

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Speaker 1: I can't in the store, but you got Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: need a restaurant because you're hungry. You've been in there

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Speaker 1: putting all that mess together, running there hell looking reading instructions.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and then they got that stuff but didn't

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Speaker 1: check yourself. But then I kia got the nerd ahead

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Speaker 1: that stuff where you need that little star Alan Rich

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Speaker 1: oh that the word. Hell is this you've been not

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Speaker 1: lose one? Screw you can't. You better not lose one.

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Speaker 1: It's not gonna snap right up, telling you got bad

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Speaker 1: bathroom beyond store. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's the stick. That

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Speaker 1: was smart. I think that was just yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: it was smart of this kid. You know, but I

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Speaker 1: never heard of this. It's the Core store kind of

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00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 1: you don't know how success. Yeah. They have high hot

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Speaker 1: from high to low end furniture, everything for your home,

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00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: everything for your home. Yeah, and they have snacks and

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Speaker 1: water at the register. Yeah. Up, Legs coming up at

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Speaker 1: thirty four after the hour. Thirteen days till Christmas? Right, well,

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Speaker 1: are you ready? We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Okay, guys, it's December twelfth, already we

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Speaker 1: have thirteen I said, thirteen days until Christmas. Here's a question. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: are you ready? It ain't if we ready. Nephew Tommy ready?

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Speaker 1: Is nephew Tommy ready because he's only got one arm? No,

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Speaker 1: because he's sniff and he got to get work. Oh

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00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 1: don't see this coming. I really did. I thought it

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00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: was because of his arm. That's that's the good part disability.

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00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: I think he the disability to health. You know, some

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00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 1: people say Christmas is for kids. You know you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: by adults. I disagree with. No, Christmas is for everyone.

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Speaker 1: Not disagree to Christmas is for me. Yeah, Jesus is

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Speaker 1: for everybody. Is Jesus to this? Thank you? You know?

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Speaker 1: Well you know it's not a commercialize you know, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I agree with that. I agree with that commercial Let's say,

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Speaker 1: can we do without all the gifts? Yes? Can we

570
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Speaker 1: just enjoy family? Just do it out as Thanksgiving? That's

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Speaker 1: what thanks Giving? Good time. They may be good time

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Speaker 1: going in there and tell that to Jordan this year. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but enjoy family, Jordan. You're asked and decided. We ain't

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Speaker 1: doing all that this year. We're gonna enjoy family, Jordan,

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Speaker 1: gonna look outside your head? What I mean. I don't

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00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: think you should, you know, yeah, and get what you

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Speaker 1: can afford and all of that. I don't think because

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00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 1: that's what makes the stress and all of that. You know,

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Speaker 1: do what you can do for Christmas? Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: think you should do that. That's that's not what the

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Speaker 1: meaning of Christmas is now, all right, But my family

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Speaker 1: told you what the meaning christ was at ten you

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Speaker 1: hate a choice. We had the money for no gifts,

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Speaker 1: so at ten, at ten years old, you had to

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Speaker 1: be about Christmas, just the story of truth, love and Jesus. Yeah. Yeah,

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00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: you're right. They have commercialized that. People feel pressured to

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00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 1: buy people gifts and expensive gifts and all that. I

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00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 1: definitely don't believe in that that you should do that.

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00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 1: That just creates more stress, anxiety and unhappiness. You know,

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Speaker 1: did you get a Christmas list from your market? Mark is?

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Speaker 1: Let to tell you something. Jordan and Sydney printed their

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00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 1: list out and put it on my mirror in my bathroom,

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00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 1: and Nick and then asked me, did you see the list?

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Speaker 1: I said, I don't use that bathroom. Nomba, Nah, I

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Speaker 1: don't use that bad room. It was the hall bathroom.

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Speaker 1: I thought they might have taped it up too high.

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00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 1: I'm not listening to these two at all. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: got my list on the tax so I'm like, okay,

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00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 1: tax stuck Christmas slip. My nephew asked me for some

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Speaker 1: football clease it's a good years good Yeah. Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: gonna get them because he liked football. He just it's

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00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,839
Speaker 1: his first year playing football and he loved football. He said,

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Speaker 1: I just want some football clease. Oh when you don't

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00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,080
Speaker 1: get that last year was it was crazy? What do

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00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: you mean all the stuff he wanted to last year?

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00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 1: Did you be down to football cleats? Yeah, he's maturing. Yeah.

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00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: It's a good feeling to both on both sides to

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Speaker 1: be able to get someone what they want, get them

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Speaker 1: a nice yeah, and to receive a nice gift. It

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00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 1: really is nice. Yeah, you know. Or give back and

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00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 1: help those that are less. Yeah, participate in toy drives, uh,

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00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: coach drives, all of that stuff. Whatever you can do

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00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 1: to give back and to give. It's a season of giving.

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00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 1: That's what it's supposed to be about. It is. And

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00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: fellows side pieces need love. To make sure y'all get

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Speaker 1: them something. They got to have something. Man, don't just

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00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 1: leave him like that. Well he's he's talking. The guy

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Speaker 1: who's talking right now, he's coming up with a prank

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Speaker 1: phone call right after this. Okay, nephew, Tony on the

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00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 1: way in my face, look at my No, she's so

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Speaker 1: done with you. You're listening to coming up at the

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Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after it's

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Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today, subject my old uncle is

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Speaker 1: still a player. But right now the nephew is in

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Speaker 1: the building with today's prying phone. Call. What you got

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Speaker 1: for his nap? Your wife's birthday? Huh? Your wife's birthday.

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Speaker 1: I got to get us some though. What that's great?

628
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: I was so no, I'm not come on, run it

629
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: can do. Let's get this woman some up. Come on, Hello, Hello,

630
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 1: I try to reach Dare. Yeah, what's up? Hey there, man?

631
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: What's going on? Brought us U? Name is Chris Man.

632
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,280
Speaker 1: I work with um. I work with your wife, Sharon.

633
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 1: I think I think I may have seen you at

634
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: one of them, one of the gatherings before man, like

635
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 1: a happy hour we had after worker something. I don't

636
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: know if you remember me or not. Now I don't

637
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: remember you, Okay, okay, okay, cool. Hey listen, man, I

638
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: know Sharon's birthday is coming up, so I wanted to

639
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: if you didn't mind, I hope you don't mind me called.

640
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out and see if you were

641
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: you know, what you were getting up for a birthday.

642
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure you know we're gonna pitch

643
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: in and get us something at the job. Who want

644
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: to make sure you know we didn't get you know

645
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: you know what you may be uh donna get it?

646
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying kind of like something like

647
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: a grab bag or something like that. Uh No, I

648
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna hit them with no grab bad. I was just,

649
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: you know, like I said, we're just gonna get something.

650
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: We haven't really put our put all the thoughts to

651
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 1: it or what we was gonna get yet. Blue. I

652
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 1: want I personally want to see what you was getting

653
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 1: that way. We don't, you know do Okay? Well, she

654
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: likes money, man, you can you know, give us some

655
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: give up some cash or you know, Starbucks card or

656
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: uh something from McDonald something. You know, Man, don't have

657
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: to be too good. She she don't. You don't have to,

658
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: you know, she she's not that materialistic. Okay, okay, let

659
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 1: me let me let me ask you this so deep.

660
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 1: Do you all know what her size is? Do I

661
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: know what her size is? Yeah? Like clothing? You know,

662
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: do you know what side she wears? Uh? Yeah, I

663
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: know what size she's like, she's my wife. Man, What

664
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: I think this is kind of like I'm getting a

665
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: little bit uncomfortable with this. Man. What what what do

666
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: you do? You think? You know? I don't even make

667
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 1: your comfortable, bro, let me ask you this ship? Do

668
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: you think she She was like, uh do she like

669
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: stuff from Victoria's Secret? Whoa hold up, man, stop right there,

670
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: you're talking about what? No? I like, I said, I

671
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: want what what? What's you? Hey? What's your name again? Man?

672
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: My name Chris? Like? Like I said, how long have

673
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: you been with the company? I've only been there six months?

674
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:06,879
Speaker 1: You know? But like I said, I think I saw

675
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: you at one of the happy y'all I saw maybe

676
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: you just don't remember who I am though. No, no, no, man,

677
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: but you way out of line talking about the size.

678
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: And I'm not comfortable with this at all. Man, you know, okay,

679
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: you way out you weigh out of line? Right? But

680
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 1: what what? What's what? You didn't answer? My question was

681
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: what do you think she liked Victoria's Secrets? That's what

682
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:36,479
Speaker 1: I'm gonna answer your questions. You talking about? Okay, okay,

683
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 1: what's what's But what's the language? Brother? What's what's wrong?

684
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: We brothers? You know? We don't know brothers? You know? Fool?

685
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: How do you get on asking me about my wife's clue? Oh? Okay, okay,

686
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: all right, I can't want to talk about Okay, what

687
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 1: all I'm saying is do you think she gonna like

688
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,919
Speaker 1: the Victoria's secrets? I don't give up? Hey, man, shut

689
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: up with that. Do you know how long we've been together?

690
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: I know this woman says high school. Don't come to

691
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: me with that. Okay. So so I was just trying

692
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 1: to get up. What what? What? What time do you

693
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: guys get off? I'm coming. I leave off as at

694
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: five thirty, but I was gonna leave earlier. I'll be right. Hey,

695
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,320
Speaker 1: we can talk about this faith to face. Hey listen,

696
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get listen what ain't gotta listen to?

697
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get shared of panty? And Bra said, man, okay, hey,

698
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 1: you ain't buying my wife. And she wouldn't even accept

699
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 1: it anyway. Okay, hey man, how how do you get

700
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: this number? How you get this number? I know she

701
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:53,959
Speaker 1: didn't give you this? Let me say, you hout there,

702
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: I've got it from your wife's Sharon, because guess who

703
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: I am? I am you Tommy from this team Harvey

704
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 1: Morten show. Sharon got me to brank phone call you.

705
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: What there is this nephew taught me, brother man, this

706
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: is some bully. This is some real bully. This is

707
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: some straight up bully. Hey man, you ain't white man.

708
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: You know you need to stop with people, you know,

709
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: because you might get you might somebody might be waiting

710
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 1: for you have to work one day. Man, that's totally wrong.

711
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: You ever heard of karma? Imbody gonna play a prank

712
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:43,280
Speaker 1: on your one day? Your uncle is right, somebody's gonna

713
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 1: whoop your This just some out of time. Oh man?

714
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,280
Speaker 1: All right, all right, Darren, before I get man, will

715
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: you please tell the people what is the baddest radio

716
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: show in the land Steve Harvey Show. Y'all man at me, Yes,

717
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: yeah we are. But you know what I want to

718
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 1: give her? Some lingerie y'all man at me. Yes, it's

719
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:24,479
Speaker 1: another man wife, Tommy. It's a birthday gift, Jim I'm

720
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 1: giving Okay, it's a season. It's a season for that

721
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 1: right to be jolly and give jolly sighting it this

722
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 1: season fright for frightening same thing. But you know, I

723
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: don't know the woman's sizes. All I'm saying you can

724
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 1: give his wife sometimes, but you do you know that

725
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:53,800
Speaker 1: the husband can give you something, telling him when my birthday,

726
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: Junior gave me something. If you want to give me

727
00:50:55,719 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: something like your birthdate, death date, same thing. Yes, ass,

728
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:08,839
Speaker 1: whippers are not seasonal, right, I think it a year

729
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:14,240
Speaker 1: year round, see all year round? Just because I bought

730
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 1: us something. Yes, yea, he probably ain't buying hood this

731
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 1: kind of stuff. So you know something, I'm just making

732
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: up a woman. Stop well, I'm wrong at y'all. Well

733
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: up stret so many places. When you jump street out

734
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 1: of the gate, I'll tell you when you went wrong. Tommy,

735
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: your wife's birthday, that's probably when your best let at

736
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: the title. Look, look what when a man when a

737
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 1: man want to be thoughtful, when a man want to

738
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: show that he can't want to be kind, do a

739
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: jesture for somebody to see what happens? What it's right here,

740
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: y'all rolling back up at me? It's wrong with me

741
00:51:54,000 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 1: to get us man's worst day. Yes, junior, it's his

742
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 1: wife's birthday and I'm trying to get her something for it. Law,

743
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:13,719
Speaker 1: what is she wears it? I'm shooting who don't win.

744
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 1: It's not who don't win, who don't win laundry. You're

745
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 1: wasting your time, junior. Yea, I am it's sexy pajamas

746
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 1: who don't win. But he's over here trying to convince us. Yeah, foolishness,

747
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: Yeah you're again, Yes, why you Why y'all can't make

748
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: any contact with me? What I'm talking to you? The title?

749
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:44,359
Speaker 1: Now we're looking at you, You're not looking at up.

750
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 1: Nobody want to know laundry. Everybody just don't. Ain't nobody win,

751
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody wining? Pajamas, nothing, nothing sexy. I rocked my flanner.

752
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 1: If you feel like win some pajamas, I will accept

753
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 1: you as you are. Come out Philadelphia the Holiday comedy

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Speaker 1: Spaces will be in the building Janson The Brown Earthquake

756
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Speaker 1: and hosted by Yours Truly. That's Friday, December to twenty

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Speaker 1: at the met Philadelphia. Take us on set right now,

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00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: All right, there we go. Coming up is the Strawberry

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00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,240
Speaker 1: Letter subject My uncle is still a player? My old

760
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: uncle still a player. Wow, we'll get into it right

761
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 1: after this. I bet he's still bearing lune. You're listening

762
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: to Morning show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

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00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could

766
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,919
Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air right here,

767
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: right now, just like we're doing this one here. That yeah,

768
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: all right, buckle up, hold on tight. We got it

769
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject my

770
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: old old uncle is still a player. Dear Auntie Shirley

771
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,799
Speaker 1: and Uncle Steve. I have a problem with my real

772
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: family members, so I want to be your niece instead.

773
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: Here's my problem. I am a twenty eight year old

774
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 1: woman that was raised by three uncles that were like

775
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,799
Speaker 1: father figures to me, and I'm very close to all

776
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: of them. One of my uncles is getting on my

777
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:25,720
Speaker 1: last nerve though. I'm really close with his daughter, my cousin,

778
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: and she's sick of him too. We grew up staying

779
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: at Grandma's house and we watched my uncles have lots

780
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,879
Speaker 1: of different women around the house. My cousin eventually moved

781
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: out of state, and that's when the problem began. My

782
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:44,280
Speaker 1: married uncle would spend weekends away away from his wife

783
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 1: with his girlfriend, and he would tell his wife that

784
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 1: he and I were going to visit my cousin out

785
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: of town for the weekend. I'm very close to my

786
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:56,720
Speaker 1: grandmother and I love spending time with her. But whenever

787
00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:58,720
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be out of town with my uncle,

788
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 1: I basically have to go into hiding. When his wife

789
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: calls him to check in, he calls me from another

790
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 1: phone and puts me on speaker, and I have to

791
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 1: laugh fake laugh, or talk like I'm in the background.

792
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: His own daughter has to be in on the lie too.

793
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:18,799
Speaker 1: His wife is her stepmother, so she doesn't care that

794
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: he's cheating. She just doesn't want to be involved in

795
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 1: his lives. He even has taken women out of town

796
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 1: with him to visit his daughter, and we'll have these

797
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: women staying in his daughter's house. He is too old

798
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: for these shenanigans. He tried to involve my husband in

799
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,879
Speaker 1: the mess, but my husband told him he's not lying

800
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 1: for him. I'm tired of this mess too, but I

801
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,839
Speaker 1: would never snitch any suggestions on how to get him

802
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: to stop lying. Can an old player change? Please advise? Okay? Nice, Okay,

803
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: since you want to be our niece, here goes. You're

804
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 1: going about this the wrong way. First of all, you

805
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:01,720
Speaker 1: should know you gotta know that you can't change anyone,

806
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 1: especially a good and grown, fully grown man like your uncle.

807
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: What's his incentive to change anyway? I mean, he's got you,

808
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 1: he's got his daughter, and whoever else is on his

809
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: team to lie for him, to cover up for him.

810
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: Life is beautiful for your uncle. Why would he stop this? Why? Now?

811
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 1: For what? So my advice to you is to take

812
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: yourself all the way out of the mix when it

813
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 1: comes to this. Okay, like your husband, who's not involved.

814
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 1: No one's saying you should snitch on your uncle or

815
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: anything like that. But you know, can't you just like

816
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 1: get ghosts disappear When your uncle is calling you to

817
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,880
Speaker 1: lie for him and stuff, can't you just straight up

818
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: tell him no? You said in the letter, you're a

819
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:46,720
Speaker 1: twenty eight year old grown woman. If you're a woman,

820
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: be a woman and tell him the truth. Tell him

821
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:51,879
Speaker 1: you don't want to be involved in this anymore. You're

822
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 1: tired of lying for him. You love him, but you

823
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 1: don't approve of what he's doing, and you don't want

824
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 1: to be involved. All right, That's all you have to do,

825
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:03,399
Speaker 1: That's what a own woman would do. He's not going out.

826
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:06,360
Speaker 1: You're still gonna be family. You're still gonna be family

827
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: and all of that. He's still your uncle, all of that,

828
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: But you gotta put an end to this for your

829
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:15,439
Speaker 1: You gotta change your behavior and tell him, no uncle,

830
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: I'm not doing this anymore. You're on your own, all right,

831
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: That's all you gotta do. Steve Well, First of all, Shirley,

832
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 1: I agree with every single thing you've said. Here is

833
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: the real problem with this. This guy wants to do dirt,

834
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 1: but he needs help pulling the dirt off. Now, like

835
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 1: you told the young lady, she's twenty eight, she's good

836
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: and grown. Remove yourself from this, just like your cousin's

837
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 1: wife did, I mean husband did. He's a man. I

838
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 1: ain't lying for you. Stay out of it. Stop answering

839
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 1: the phone when he calls to put you on speaker

840
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 1: like you in the background. Stop all that. Don't answer

841
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: his calls no more. Tell him listen to me. I'm

842
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 1: done with this. I'm not going to be a participant

843
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: in this any more. Enough is enough. If you want

844
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 1: to do some mess, do it. I'm not gonna tell

845
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: on you or bust you, but I'm not going to

846
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: aid in a bed. I'm not doing that. I ain't snitching,

847
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: but I ain't helping your ass. Either you're too damn

848
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 1: old for this to take your old ass home, not

849
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: stupid old ass out here though, the damn cereal is

850
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 1: tricks is for kids, silly rabbit. That's what it's fault,

851
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 1: not for your old ass. Listen to this. Here's a deal.

852
00:58:53,800 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: This is what you really really need to do. You

853
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 1: need to inform your uncle of this fact right here.

854
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 1: I don't think you're gonna be able to tell him this,

855
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 1: so just let me record this part portion of the

856
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 1: show and play it back for him. Certain if you

857
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: were a real man, any real man would not subject

858
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: the women in his family to this type of foolishness.

859
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 1: What what kind of message do you send to the

860
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: women in the family? Are you kidding me? Man? Your cousin,

861
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 1: your daughter, you're cheating on you on your new wife.

862
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 1: Your daughter don't care because it's his step mom, but

863
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 1: that's probably what got you divorced from the mother in

864
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:46,919
Speaker 1: the first place. You're just old and trifling, man. Real

865
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 1: men don't do this, Pardner. Do what you're gonna do

866
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: and stop dragging these kids into it. What is wrong

867
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: with your nutty ass sitting up in here. You need

868
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:01,240
Speaker 1: people to pull your troops, even a good player. You

869
01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: don't even know how to play by yourself. All right,

870
01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:11,560
Speaker 1: steveng to bust you up. All right, we'll have part

871
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:14,440
Speaker 1: two if Steve's responds, coming up at twenty three minutes

872
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 1: after the hour. Subject my old uncle is still a player.

873
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,760
Speaker 1: We'll be back with part two coming up right after this.

874
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, Here we go. Let's recap

875
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 1: today Strawberry letters. Subject my old uncle is still a player.

876
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: Here's what I think she should do. She's got this

877
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: old uncle, she got three uncles that's been like father

878
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: figures to him. She's got this one uncle that's real

879
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 1: old and keeps cheating on the women in his life

880
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: and uses her, his daughter and other women to help

881
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:56,320
Speaker 1: the lie. Here's what I think you should do. I

882
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: think you should go. You say you got three uncles

883
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 1: that's like a father figured to you. I think you

884
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 1: should go to the other two uncles, explain to them

885
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: what he's doing and say you no longer want to

886
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 1: be a part of this. Could they talk to him

887
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 1: and then let them as men go over there and

888
01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 1: handle it with him. That's all it is to it,

889
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 1: because this don't make no damn sense at all to day,

890
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: the old all over your grandmama house with this mess.

891
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: That's wrong with you? Man? How And I wish I

892
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 1: knew how old he was. But that's enough. That's all

893
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 1: I got to say. It ain't nothing else say. Everything

894
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 1: Shirley said made perfect sense to me. You are too

895
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 1: old for this mess, right, Hill, Go sit your old

896
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: tail down somewhere. Stop dragging these young girls into your mess.

897
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 1: You don't even know how to play anytime. You got

898
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 1: to include young women. And when you're sending the wrong

899
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: message to these girls about how men are their their

900
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:05,840
Speaker 1: heads are messed up forever watching how men function and do.

901
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: Where are we gonna get a grip on that? Are

902
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 1: you dragging these girls into this thing? You should go

903
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:15,480
Speaker 1: over there, simple tell your other two uncles what he's

904
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 1: doing and tell them you don't want to be a

905
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 1: part of it. Tommy, time to step in, Hillamy, Tommy

906
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 1: step hill Oh my god, Steve, what why want to here? Yeah?

907
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 1: You need an old fool to discuss what another old

908
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 1: fool is doing. OK. And that's that's that's the perspective. See,

909
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,479
Speaker 1: I'm talking with too much damn. Since here I'm thinking

910
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,480
Speaker 1: it all to go this way is real sim it's

911
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: cutn't dry to me. Let's go to Tommy, get involved here.

912
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 1: How do you feel about this? Lord? Well, let me

913
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 1: let me first say this to this young lady. All this,

914
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: you want my uncle to be your uncle. That's out.

915
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: You ain't been you. This is about don't first saying

916
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 1: that woman saying I want to be your niece. You're

917
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: not fits to be his niece. I'm tired of everybody

918
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 1: in this whole dog gonna country. Want my own home,

919
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: you tell me every day, So this makes sense. Okay,

920
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: you're dog gonna right. I'm telling everybody that's righting him.

921
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 1: I want you to be my new uncle. Skeep, but

922
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:21,919
Speaker 1: that's not gonna happen. Deal with your own, player, player.

923
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 1: I got enough cousins over here. We don't need no more. Okay.

924
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 1: Now let's get to the letter. Player player, let your listen.

925
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: Your uncle need love too, okay. And he evidently he

926
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:37,520
Speaker 1: not finding it at home with his wife. And I

927
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 1: get that. I understand that, So it fades too. I

928
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 1: get it. I get what he going he going through,

929
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: He going through something. Why y'all don't never have some

930
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:49,959
Speaker 1: compassion when people going through something? People happy at home?

931
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 1: He not happy at home. So if he called you

932
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: on three way and you need to get on speaker phone,

933
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:57,560
Speaker 1: you catch your butt on speaker phone. Hey, you be

934
01:03:57,640 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 1: in the background. Do what you got to do, play

935
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: your role. Okay, y'all to sund like y'all together in

936
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:09,520
Speaker 1: the same room visiting some other family members. So when

937
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: he says, Casey, you're in the background, Yeah, what U?

938
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 1: That's what his wife needs to hear. He needs to

939
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: hear her in the back of you on the background.

940
01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 1: Know that. Wow, I'm amaze. So me you damn right

941
01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: on the side. What is wrong here? I couldn't be

942
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 1: more clear. I want this young lady. When when his

943
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 1: wife calls that phone and he clicks over and clicks

944
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:43,960
Speaker 1: you in on three way and everybody on speaker damnit,

945
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 1: you need to be going for the oscar you have

946
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 1: you better be role is You better be back there

947
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 1: making some noise, make a lot of noise, trying to

948
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: get big mamma together. You know she ain't doing too well.

949
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,439
Speaker 1: It's a lot all of this. It is family. You're

950
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 1: throwing out family stuff every now and then. Keeps you

951
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: come through the phone. Hey, I see how you're doing. Girl.

952
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 1: You know it's rob over, we try and give it

953
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 1: a big mama, and we're going over Claude Enham house.

954
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 1: We're gonna hang out with him. They see how you doing.

955
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'll let do your part. Are you acting

956
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:17,000
Speaker 1: it out? Are you doing this? That's what I was

957
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 1: doing right there. Yeah, the phone, you talk to your Hey,

958
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 1: you know what, we have time to stop, getting hing

959
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 1: to eat. It's just rough over, big mama, getting better

960
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 1: for time and then we're going over rapping them house,

961
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 1: robbing the around call you don't go over and see

962
01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 1: him and make sure they doing all right, and then

963
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 1: we'll be home Sunday evening and something like. I don't know.

964
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:38,240
Speaker 1: We might not get that the money, but we just

965
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 1: it's great slap family. You know how it is by family. Girl,

966
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:43,640
Speaker 1: you need to be in the background doing your part

967
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 1: and scene. That's it down business. Yeah man, you want

968
01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 1: on your plate? All right, I'm talking about here we

969
01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 1: go with that, all right? I know, all right. Listen, guys,

970
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:05,520
Speaker 1: post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey

971
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook. I hope you're happy with

972
01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 1: your nephew Steve, and don't forget to check out the

973
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty

974
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 1: six after the hour, Our girl from the Talk to

975
01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 1: one and Emily Cheryl Underwood. Right after this, you're listening

976
01:06:22,720 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, she is here. Come on,

977
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 1: let's introduce her, our girl from the tuck Tell me,

978
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:32,720
Speaker 1: why don't you do it? All right? I can do that.

979
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 1: That's one of the baddest girls in the land right there.

980
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: She is a fellow comedian and one of the baddest

981
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 1: ones in the game. Ladies and gentlemen, Cheryl Underpo Hey,

982
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: Steve hamy Mon is our family and my bull Junior

983
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 1: Ardwood Heyne going on by the chingawayang, Jilior, So you

984
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 1: know what what are you doing December twenty of twenty

985
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:57,920
Speaker 1: first and twenty second, I will Junior. I will be

986
01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:02,560
Speaker 1: at Philadelphia to met doing the Holiday comedy Jam. Well,

987
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 1: guess what, Tommy, You're gonna have to let Junior start

988
01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:07,600
Speaker 1: the show so he can get in the car that

989
01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna send for him, so he could come over

990
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 1: to DC because I'll be at the DC IMPROGM with

991
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 1: Mike wast That ain't much better. Turnpike into State ride

992
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:20,400
Speaker 1: right there, that's right, Oh, I'm listening to my baby

993
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: and no uber, I need my baby to be transported

994
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 1: in style. I'm gonna send him in the deuce in

995
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 1: the quarter to dive it in the back sun roofs

996
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 1: hop digging the scene with the gates of me Woo

997
01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: Woo and guess West, Sholly and call us. I'm gonna

998
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 1: have all the drinks, right, I'm gonna have that T J.

999
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 1: Swan Melodyeah, I'm gonna have all the food that Junior like.

1000
01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna have my special eight track love tape.

1001
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:56,920
Speaker 1: It starts with Ladder Hearted tape. Yeah, you will be

1002
01:07:57,080 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 1: riding in the nineteen seventy eight Bonnaville Duce in the quarter.

1003
01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 1: Let's play all the songs that get you in the mood.

1004
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I'm gonna play get you in the mood. Hey.

1005
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 1: But I know what we're gonna be talking about, Junior

1006
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:12,520
Speaker 1: once we get together, because you're a very intellectual young man.

1007
01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:19,600
Speaker 1: Have you been watching the impeachments? Oh yeah, it's hilarious.

1008
01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 1: It ain't it hilarious? I think they got him this time.

1009
01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:25,640
Speaker 1: But no knack mcconnells is gonna let him go. You

1010
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:28,639
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, but you know what we need

1011
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 1: to do, Junior. You know we need to do in

1012
01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 1: the country. What we need to do is make sure

1013
01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:35,880
Speaker 1: the House stay in control of the Democrats. Then we

1014
01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 1: need to have an election to make sure the Senate

1015
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 1: get controlled by the Democrats. They need to hold them

1016
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 1: impeachment articles that they got right now, wait until we

1017
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:47,200
Speaker 1: flip everything in the hands of the Democrats, and then

1018
01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:49,920
Speaker 1: if he do get elected, then we put him out

1019
01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:52,599
Speaker 1: of office. But if we vote and vote the way

1020
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 1: we want to and vote early and often, then it

1021
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 1: may go a different way. Shout out to Joe Biden

1022
01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:00,759
Speaker 1: on top of the Paul's son, I get too excited.

1023
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Bloom Bird, bloom Bird, remember big Bank,

1024
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:09,280
Speaker 1: take a little buck, get them bloom birth being babies.

1025
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:16,759
Speaker 1: Then bye, Junior, by Junior. Merry Christmas, Happy Kuanza Police.

1026
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:19,559
Speaker 1: I have a lot of mistletoe. Matter of fact, I

1027
01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:26,880
Speaker 1: have a mistletoe waistband for you. Oh did a happy holiday,

1028
01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 1: Cheryl Underwood, h thank you so very much. Coming up next,

1029
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 1: Carla's Reality Update. Right after this, you're listening to Steve

1030
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:45,360
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Come on, Tommy, let's go, Let's get it.

1031
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 1: It's that time. She is here. Buckle up, everybody, It's

1032
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:55,120
Speaker 1: that time. It's reality update with who Carla Ferrell? Thank you, nephew. Alright, good,

1033
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 1: yeah you were That was a great introduction. All right,

1034
01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:03,080
Speaker 1: then let's go real Housewives of the Eighth t l Jujia.

1035
01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 1: All right, Marlow she invited the ladies to her wig

1036
01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 1: launch party. So marlow was having a line of wigs

1037
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:24,639
Speaker 1: launch party. Just wig, not w just a hair wig. Okay,

1038
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 1: all right, So Eva, she made it perfectly clear to

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01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 1: Cynthia that she was not going to the event. Eva

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01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 1: also pointed out to Cynthia that Marlowe's wig game is

1041
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 1: not good, so why she putting out a hairline of wigs?

1042
01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:44,719
Speaker 1: So anyway, moment on Junior, the ladies they were chilling

1043
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:47,880
Speaker 1: at the wig party and Candy. She was also trying

1044
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:51,160
Speaker 1: to find out who was the person that allegedly who

1045
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:55,720
Speaker 1: allegedly recorded Cynthia talking about Nini, because Nini told Candy

1046
01:10:56,200 --> 01:11:01,360
Speaker 1: somebody recorded Cynthia in their circle talking about her. So

1047
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:05,880
Speaker 1: Kenny was trying to find out what was it? You was, right?

1048
01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 1: So anyway, moving on Marlow, she had this contest between

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01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 1: Nini and Porscha to see which hair model could you

1050
01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 1: know get this best flat iron look. So they were

1051
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:20,599
Speaker 1: having fun at the party. What shotnut best flat iron? Little?

1052
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 1: Yeah for the wig. They were just having you know,

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01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: doing hair and just playing around and having a good

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01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:30,240
Speaker 1: time with child. Let me tell you, Junior Shire, tim

1055
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 1: is Steve Honey, Kenya more March than the party with

1056
01:11:34,080 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 1: a small band and crashed Marlowe's wig party. Minute, what

1057
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:45,800
Speaker 1: do you mean base a band music? Yes, yes, you're

1058
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 1: not going to show up at my things? She did

1059
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:54,960
Speaker 1: it better believe No, I'm talking about like drumline, like

1060
01:11:55,000 --> 01:12:00,600
Speaker 1: a little small march with the whistle and everything with

1061
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 1: the dramas baby. Yes, so anyway she comes into party.

1062
01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:10,639
Speaker 1: Kenya Moore crashes Marla's winning party to promote her hair

1063
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 1: care product. She has a hair care product herself, Kenya,

1064
01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 1: and it's called Matter. Yes, yes, yes, yes. So Porscha

1065
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 1: was blown away til Porsche fell out and said this

1066
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:25,040
Speaker 1: is straight crazy and insane. She couldn't believe that Kenya

1067
01:12:25,120 --> 01:12:27,719
Speaker 1: crashed Marlowe's party like that. What are you saying, Junior,

1068
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:30,559
Speaker 1: What are you saying? It just matter? It's just a

1069
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 1: great company name. I just yes, they do they really

1070
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 1: really do. But anyway, after all of that, all of

1071
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 1: the drama, all the shade, Nini she left the party

1072
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: because she thought that Kenya it was just too much

1073
01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:49,520
Speaker 1: shade for her to do something like that. And so Kenya,

1074
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:52,120
Speaker 1: you know, Nini has a life coach now, so she

1075
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna go because I don't want to

1076
01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:56,040
Speaker 1: start no mess. I'm trying to do better. So she

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01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 1: left the party. Anyway, Marlow asked for security to kick

1078
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 1: Kenya out the Wig party. Kenya left and felt like

1079
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 1: her mission was complete. She did what she came in

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01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: to do, but she needed help behind whoop for that.

1081
01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 1: All right, So quickly, you guys before we run out

1082
01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 1: of time, have you guys been watching Married to Madison?

1083
01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 1: All right, So the couples they went on a trip

1084
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:18,080
Speaker 1: to Cabbo and they had a good time. And then

1085
01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 1: the guys they went out to a strip club. Come

1086
01:13:20,960 --> 01:13:25,880
Speaker 1: on Cabo. Yeah, doctor Heavenly's husband, doctor Damon he they

1087
01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:29,400
Speaker 1: were out all night, left dance. So so take a

1088
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:32,559
Speaker 1: listen to when she asked him about it. Let's go,

1089
01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:34,800
Speaker 1: if I go to the strip club, it's not like

1090
01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:37,800
Speaker 1: I cheated, you know, It's not like head sex or

1091
01:13:37,800 --> 01:13:39,479
Speaker 1: something like that or a girl did something to me

1092
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 1: or something like that. That's all me time anyway. So yes,

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01:13:57,360 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 1: it was off the chain and may he call? So

1094
01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:03,200
Speaker 1: we have to go hit me up at lips of

1095
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:05,760
Speaker 1: Bark Carlos social media. We could talk about it on

1096
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:10,120
Speaker 1: a grand Facebook all like kapasa adios. We gotta go

1097
01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:15,840
Speaker 1: to carab we call it. We'll be back. You're listening,

1098
01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 1: all right. So earlier we talked about this kid who

1099
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:25,639
Speaker 1: ran away and he hit out in bed Bathroom Beyond

1100
01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 1: and uh man, what a smart kid, Carolina? Yeah, what

1101
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,640
Speaker 1: a what a smart kid? They got snacks there, they

1102
01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:37,800
Speaker 1: got beds water. I mean, what more do you need?

1103
01:14:38,400 --> 01:14:44,520
Speaker 1: Probably have a TV hooked up somewhere right, So so um,

1104
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 1: we all agreed that Bedbath Beyond was great. But there

1105
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:49,920
Speaker 1: are a bunch of stories out there that I would

1106
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 1: live in. I mean really where I would live? So

1107
01:14:53,080 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 1: many geez shoe stores yes, Walmart, guitar good oh yes,

1108
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 1: Target we know that for what? And shoes and a

1109
01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:17,400
Speaker 1: cooking story that's stupid, junior. What where else would you live?

1110
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:22,920
Speaker 1: You know? What a good story to live in? Christian

1111
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 1: Luberton see a man after my own heart? Many Yeah,

1112
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:33,680
Speaker 1: they got some nice red couters in there too. You

1113
01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 1: can get a nice little I'm sleeping my shoes academy.

1114
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:46,120
Speaker 1: Yea ill thinking about academy. Academy. All right, guys, by

1115
01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:52,200
Speaker 1: victorious secret all three flows of Macy's. I'm in there, Yes,

1116
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:55,679
Speaker 1: all right, we got more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1117
01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:59,360
Speaker 1: Junior Loves Macy's coming up at thirty three minutes after

1118
01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:04,559
Speaker 1: the hour right after this. You're listening to show, all right.

1119
01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:08,200
Speaker 1: So sister Odell is here to wish us happy holidays

1120
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 1: and to tell us about some of her holiday traditions,

1121
01:16:11,439 --> 01:16:15,400
Speaker 1: and maybe she will even bless us with some Christmas

1122
01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:24,240
Speaker 1: caroling of her own, ladies and gentlemen. Sister Odell, Oh

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01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 1: me by rappa, I'm going rapa well. Well, good morn

1124
01:16:37,360 --> 01:16:45,720
Speaker 1: is everywhere, Lord Jesus, Such a blessed holiday. You know

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01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 1: it's my favorite holiday. You just pushed me a such

1126
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:54,440
Speaker 1: good chill with everyone and everything. Hey Cally, Hey, sister Odell,

1127
01:16:54,439 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 1: Happy holidays. How you doing today, Shirley? I am doing well,

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01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 1: Sister Odell. I love the holidays. Merry Christmas to you

1129
01:17:06,240 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 1: me too, And that's real sweet ag Hey boy with

1130
01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:14,800
Speaker 1: that high boys, mors is though there steal up there, yeah,

1131
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: steal up there, real high boys, you got there. Well,

1132
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:20,840
Speaker 1: might as well say hi to the happiest one on

1133
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 1: the show, funk Christmas. Hey, look, hello, good morning, good morning,

1134
01:17:34,280 --> 01:17:37,400
Speaker 1: mornny morning mornings to everyone. So what can I do

1135
01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:40,040
Speaker 1: for y'all today? What did you want? Any special requests?

1136
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:43,880
Speaker 1: I mean giving holiday spirit to move well, since your O'Dell.

1137
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 1: First of all, I know you have some holiday traditions,

1138
01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:50,320
Speaker 1: like you know, when you open your gifts on Christmas

1139
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:52,760
Speaker 1: or what do you do Christmas Eve? Putting up your tree?

1140
01:17:52,840 --> 01:17:55,439
Speaker 1: Things like that. You know, what what do you Yeah,

1141
01:17:55,479 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 1: what's your Christmas like? And then you know, if we

1142
01:17:58,520 --> 01:18:00,639
Speaker 1: have time, and I hope we did, maybe you sing

1143
01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:05,519
Speaker 1: song you know most well, you know, sweetie, most of

1144
01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:08,680
Speaker 1: my family is separated, you know, going on waves in

1145
01:18:08,680 --> 01:18:11,680
Speaker 1: the head, chills and everything. So if I try to

1146
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:14,080
Speaker 1: see all on my j be on the plane all day,

1147
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 1: so some of us come over, you know, spencial time. Women.

1148
01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:24,920
Speaker 1: I push my tree up right after Thanksgiving though, oh yes, yes, ma'am, yes, ma'am.

1149
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:27,840
Speaker 1: So I don't actually put it up myself. I ask

1150
01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:32,799
Speaker 1: people's Oh okay, oh wow, I didn't know that. Well,

1151
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 1: when you get people all right, coming up our last

1152
01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 1: break of the day, and of course some inspiring closing

1153
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:42,559
Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only our leader, Steve Harvey.

1154
01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:46,719
Speaker 1: Right after this at ninety nine, you're listening to Steve

1155
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:50,240
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Steve, we're here, uh, at the last

1156
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:53,439
Speaker 1: break of the day. Just one more thing. You're closing remarks,

1157
01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:56,679
Speaker 1: What do you have for us to day? Steve? Well,

1158
01:18:57,040 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 1: I think I should talk about dreams because it's such

1159
01:18:59,800 --> 01:19:08,760
Speaker 1: a major component to your success. Dreams are such an

1160
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 1: important component to success. You can't underplay dreams. See let

1161
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:22,919
Speaker 1: me tell you something. Education is necessary for certain fields

1162
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 1: and professions. You want to be a doctor, a lawyer,

1163
01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 1: a dentist, a pilot, a scientist, a teacher. Education is

1164
01:19:35,400 --> 01:19:43,200
Speaker 1: so necessary for many professions in this world. But there

1165
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 1: is nothing, and I repeat, there is nothing more important

1166
01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:56,040
Speaker 1: than your dreams. Your dreams have value. Your dreams wake

1167
01:19:56,120 --> 01:20:00,280
Speaker 1: you up in the morning. The dreams give you hope.

1168
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:05,000
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not saying education doesn't do that. But

1169
01:20:05,240 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 1: education don't wake you up in the morning. It's what

1170
01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:12,760
Speaker 1: you dream and hope of becoming with the education that

1171
01:20:12,800 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 1: wakes you up. It is your dream that causes you

1172
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:20,679
Speaker 1: to even get an education. If you want to fly

1173
01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:27,200
Speaker 1: a plane and that's your dream, your dream will cause

1174
01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 1: you to do the things necessary to accomplish the dream.

1175
01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:35,800
Speaker 1: That's why I tell people educators in all, if we

1176
01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:39,400
Speaker 1: spent more time talking to our children in our school

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01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:43,280
Speaker 1: system about their dreams and visions, we could reduce the

1178
01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:46,719
Speaker 1: dropout rate. But what we're doing is we keep talking

1179
01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 1: to kids about the education, and we're not talking about

1180
01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 1: the kids for the reason for the education. You gotta

1181
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:56,200
Speaker 1: get your education, because you got to finish school. Finish

1182
01:20:56,280 --> 01:21:00,160
Speaker 1: school for what we have. Got to take time. I'm

1183
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 1: out to talk about the dreams and visions. I tell

1184
01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:05,439
Speaker 1: parents all the time. If you're not talking to your

1185
01:21:05,520 --> 01:21:10,679
Speaker 1: kids about dreams every ninety days, that's a mistake. Man,

1186
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:15,519
Speaker 1: that's a mistake because young people change more often than

1187
01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:19,840
Speaker 1: you think. But if you're not revamping your dreams every

1188
01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:23,400
Speaker 1: ninety days as an adult, you're making a mistake because

1189
01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:26,960
Speaker 1: guess what you change also now you know may not

1190
01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:29,600
Speaker 1: change as often as your children, because you become a

1191
01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: little bit more subtle when you're older. But you've got

1192
01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 1: to refurbish these dreams. You gotta dust them off, you

1193
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 1: gotta keep reminding yourself or what the purpose is. Because

1194
01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:42,120
Speaker 1: the dream provides purpose. You wake up in the morning

1195
01:21:42,160 --> 01:21:45,839
Speaker 1: because of what you dream to be. You get excited

1196
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:48,639
Speaker 1: when the lawnclock, get our goals off because of what

1197
01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:53,720
Speaker 1: you dream to be. Man, don't let nobody fool you. Now,

1198
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:57,080
Speaker 1: listen to me. I'm gonna say this again. Education is important,

1199
01:21:57,200 --> 01:22:01,840
Speaker 1: and it's critical to certain things in life, but you

1200
01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:05,800
Speaker 1: can actually make it in this world without one. Now,

1201
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:08,200
Speaker 1: do you need to have some basics under your belt.

1202
01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:11,439
Speaker 1: I strongly suggest you do. And I'm not saying at

1203
01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:15,200
Speaker 1: all that you don't need school, because you do. School

1204
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:18,599
Speaker 1: offers you a way to become well rounded. That's the

1205
01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:21,360
Speaker 1: thing that school does for you a great deal. It

1206
01:22:21,479 --> 01:22:24,599
Speaker 1: not only educates you, it gives you social skills. It

1207
01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:27,200
Speaker 1: teaches you how to be well rounded. It teaches you

1208
01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:31,200
Speaker 1: to adapt, It teaches you the tool of memorization. So

1209
01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:33,800
Speaker 1: I'm not knocking it at all. But what I am

1210
01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:36,439
Speaker 1: saying to you, if you are like me in any

1211
01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: way and you're just not a school person, what you

1212
01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:43,920
Speaker 1: gonna do? You can still be something. If you've blown

1213
01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:47,719
Speaker 1: your education opportunity in life, you can still be something

1214
01:22:48,200 --> 01:22:50,799
Speaker 1: if you just don't feel like you can do school again.

1215
01:22:51,120 --> 01:22:54,000
Speaker 1: You can still be something, because the scripture says a

1216
01:22:54,040 --> 01:22:58,040
Speaker 1: man without a dream or vision shall perish. I'm old

1217
01:22:58,120 --> 01:23:01,439
Speaker 1: the Bible inside out. I don't know if I didn't

1218
01:23:01,439 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 1: go to theology school anything, so I can't quote it

1219
01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:10,400
Speaker 1: like people can oftentimes. But I don't really don't recall

1220
01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:15,000
Speaker 1: ever going to Sunday School or any service I've ever

1221
01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:18,360
Speaker 1: been to and read a scripture about how necessary your

1222
01:23:18,479 --> 01:23:23,679
Speaker 1: education was. But I have seen repeatedly that a man

1223
01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 1: without a dream or vision shall perish. See the reason

1224
01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:30,599
Speaker 1: you'll die without the dream of the vision, because without

1225
01:23:30,600 --> 01:23:34,559
Speaker 1: the dream of the vision, you'll give up hope. You've

1226
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:39,200
Speaker 1: heard so many people saying, keep hope alive because it's necessary.

1227
01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:43,519
Speaker 1: The dream, the vision. What you see for yourself, your

1228
01:23:43,600 --> 01:23:48,080
Speaker 1: hope for tomorrow, that impossible thing that nobody else can

1229
01:23:48,120 --> 01:23:52,080
Speaker 1: see except you, that thing that floats around in your imagination,

1230
01:23:52,160 --> 01:23:55,320
Speaker 1: that keeps pushing you to make you think that's something

1231
01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:59,280
Speaker 1: out there other than this. For me, If you wake

1232
01:23:59,360 --> 01:24:01,679
Speaker 1: up in the morning and then you keep saying yourself, man,

1233
01:24:02,080 --> 01:24:04,320
Speaker 1: that's got to be more to my life than this,

1234
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:09,639
Speaker 1: that's because it is. That's because it is your visions

1235
01:24:09,680 --> 01:24:12,920
Speaker 1: and dreams are out there. And let me tell you

1236
01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:18,519
Speaker 1: something else. You got to make your dreams and visions

1237
01:24:18,720 --> 01:24:26,560
Speaker 1: so big, so big that it causes you to overcome

1238
01:24:26,760 --> 01:24:29,720
Speaker 1: all of your fears. See, the fear of failure is

1239
01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:31,920
Speaker 1: in number one cause of failure in this country because

1240
01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:34,760
Speaker 1: people are afraid to fail. But you have to have

1241
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:40,320
Speaker 1: dreams and visions so big that it just overcomes all

1242
01:24:40,360 --> 01:24:44,080
Speaker 1: of your fears. You've got to want something so big,

1243
01:24:44,200 --> 01:24:48,240
Speaker 1: so dynamic to happen in your life. Man, that You've

1244
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:52,280
Speaker 1: got to make this happen, and the fear is secondary

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Speaker 1: to all of it, and it will cause you to

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Speaker 1: push through. You've got to dream of something so outstanding

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Speaker 1: that in order for it to have to in order

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Speaker 1: for it to happen, you absolutely have to have God's help.

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Speaker 1: If you're dreaming of only stuff that you can accomplish yourself,

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Speaker 1: I got news for you. You You ain't dreaming big enough.

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Speaker 1: Start dreaming big. Increase your dreams. They would change your life.

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Speaker 1: It would change your perspective, it would cause your hope

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Speaker 1: to grow. All right, those are my closing remarks. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: all right, yeah, y'all have a good one. Hey, can

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Speaker 1: I say, have a great weekend. I'll be working all weekend,

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Speaker 1: but y'all have a good war for all. Steve Every

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Speaker 1: legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated.

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