1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the Riddlo and Junior rid 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: of course meaning the ready love officer nephew Tommy and Junior. 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: This is from Jamie and d C. Jamie writes, my 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: wife and I got into an argument because I did 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: not open her car door when we left a party. 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: She only cared because it was in front of this 7 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: new uppity woman she met. I've never opened her car door, 8 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: so what's the big deal? Why was she showing out? 9 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: Mm? 10 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 3: Okay, and you ain't never done it. 11 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 2: I get it, I get what you talking about it. 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: But she wanted, she wanted to stunt a little bit, 13 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 2: so you know you But did she ask you though? 14 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 2: Did she say I want you to give my door 15 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 2: when we get out here to the car. Because it's 16 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 2: not something you if it's not something that you do 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 2: all the time, then of course you don't know that 18 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 2: that she wants this, right, Ladies don't know, We don't know. Yeah, 19 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 2: I try to make sure I was my wife of. 20 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 3: Car all the time, all the time, different areas. It's 21 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 3: just a routine. Yeah. Yeah, he wasn't taught that. I mean, 22 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 3: if he doesn't error right, right? 23 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: So so how does his wife think he's supposed to 24 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 2: know all of a sudden. 25 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: Well, sometimes I think women think that it's just an 26 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 1: ate men. You know, men do certain things for their women, 27 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:21,680 Speaker 1: you know, they opened doors. Yeah, they do these things. 28 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 1: Surely he's seen someone open a door for a woman. 29 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 3: Before at some point in time, Yes. 30 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: In his life. Come on, But for. 31 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 2: You young men out there, that is the most that's the 32 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 2: proper thing to do, is to open the car door 33 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 2: for your lady. Just so you know, that is what 34 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 2: you're supposed to a man. 35 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,559 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, yeah, it could be nice. 36 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you got to say, JR. 37 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. That's right. I don't care 38 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 3: about you. He never opened door. You're supposed to open 39 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 3: the door. And it's your wife. 40 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 4: Don't know how long she being your wife, But if 41 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 4: y'all been married more than two years, that's two years. 42 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 4: She ain't never had her door open. That's a long time. 43 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 4: You should you should always open your wife's door. And 44 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 4: then you just got out the car when it starts 45 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 4: talking to the up of the women. How y'all doing, 46 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 4: everybody doing, how y'all feeling y'all good? 47 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 3: All right? Now, glad to be here where your wife 48 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 3: at in the car. I don't know why she ain't 49 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 3: opened the door. She just didn't even get out. Yeah, 50 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 3: all right. 51 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 2: And when you open the door to a building, you 52 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: let your wife go in first, let your lady go 53 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:20,679 Speaker 2: in first. 54 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 3: That's how you supposed to show it, teacher. 55 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: But a lot of these young guys say, well, how 56 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: she could open the door for me? What what? Yeah, yeah, 57 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: that's stupid. Oh yeah, yeah, that's stupid. Changed times had 58 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: the ball? 59 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 4: Do you even know why you opening the door and 60 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 4: why she why you open it? You don't even understand 61 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 4: why you're doing for safety purposes, sir. Your most prized 62 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 4: possession is out here on the street. It's what if 63 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 4: something happened, put her in the car? Or what are 64 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 4: you going into a building? Put put her in the 65 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 4: building first. You don't know what's happening. That's why you 66 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 4: do it for safety purposes. 67 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 3: That's your course. Why school them, junior. 68 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 4: Well here's another thing too, you need to understand. You 69 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 4: let it get on the elevator first, and you get 70 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 4: off the elevator first, to make sure it's safe. Save us, sir. 71 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 4: There you go, okay, all right, good them all right? 72 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: Moving on, moving on to Celestin Detroit. So that's right. 73 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: My husband and I divorced back in twenty fourteen. We 74 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: got remarried this year, but he still has his house 75 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: and I have mine. I'm okay with the situation, but 76 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: our children's day, it's ghetto to live apart. Should we 77 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,399 Speaker 1: do what works for us or try living together for 78 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: our kids? 79 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 3: Wow? 80 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 2: A lot. I always thought this was a great idea. 81 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 2: I always had. 82 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 3: Always living apart. 83 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 2: I've been looking at the house across the street from 84 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: us for the last ten years. Oh to move right 85 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 2: over there and just deal with them when I want to, 86 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 2: I really have. 87 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 3: I thought about it. 88 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: If I could just if the house go back up 89 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 2: and sit cross street, I ain't laying on buying it, 90 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 2: and i'ma move cross street and them kids can just 91 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: go when y'all want to come stay with daddy, y'all 92 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 2: come over here. I'm gonna come over there and cook 93 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 2: for y'all on certain day, and me and your mama 94 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: gonna go back and forth. I just I just think 95 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 2: it's just peaceful. I just really, I did all. I 96 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 2: don't dislike it. And if we did it, if we moved, 97 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 2: if we moved next door to each other, we could 98 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 2: just you know, put a gate between the two fences 99 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 2: and just go back and forth, you know, on them days, 100 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 2: On them days, she getting on my marriage. 101 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 3: You know what, I'm finna go home. I'm not finishing 102 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 3: there and deal with this. 103 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 2: I got ahold of house, a whole nother house. Wow, 104 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: what is you doing over here in my kitchen? What 105 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 2: do you want? Or? 106 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 4: These sounds like some ungrateful children to me? You got 107 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 4: two houses, that's what you had. I wish that my 108 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 4: parents would have thought of this, because when double Leash 109 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 4: she got separated, they didn't create another house, ain't creating bills. 110 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 4: What they did was we had musical rooms around here. 111 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 4: That means my mama took my room. I'll sleep on 112 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,679 Speaker 4: the couch. I wish I had another house. 113 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 3: You had to get dressed in the living room. 114 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: I have. 115 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 4: All my clothes behind the couch. I got no room. 116 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 4: I ain't got no privacy. Everybody in my room watching 117 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 4: TV eating. I gotta wait till everybody get off this 118 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 4: couch so I could just lay down. The company over 119 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 4: Because you got two houses. 120 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: What they're ungrateful? 121 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: Grateful? 122 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 4: They need some more rooms, y'all got plenty of them. 123 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 3: I think it's a. 124 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 2: Great I think it's a great sitcom. My wife lives 125 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 2: next door. I think it's a great sitcom. 126 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: All right, get to working on an Emmy Award winning writers, 127 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Horace in Queens. 128 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 3: Oh, they ain't making no more horror. 129 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: Horrse Yeah, Horace rights. I'm the master of barbecuing, especially 130 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: at my house. My wife threw me a surprise birthday 131 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: dinner and I saw my coworker on my grill. I 132 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 1: was trying to be cool, you, I was trying to 133 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: keep my cool, but I didn't like it at all. 134 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: Am I the only man that feels territorial about his grill? 135 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 2: No, No, you're not. You have no you have every 136 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 2: right to think this way. And my whole party, the 137 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 2: whole night, I would have been my whole My eyes 138 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 2: would have been straight on my grill. 139 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 3: I know. And he is not over there on my grill. 140 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 3: I know. 141 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 2: He not over there on my grill. That's that's I 142 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 2: can't stomach it. I can't even when I even though 143 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 2: when I hire a chef to come cook, even when 144 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 2: I hire a chef to come cook, I'll be looking 145 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 2: like he is on my grill. Well he is messing 146 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 2: this up grill. 147 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 3: Though, just little things and then you're move and stuff 148 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:50,799 Speaker 3: and you just you just just respecting the grill. 149 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 2: It's like somebody come in y'all bathroom and move y'all 150 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 2: make up around. No you don't want that. 151 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah no they won't for y'all. 152 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 4: How about if another woman cooking your kitchen. 153 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 3: Have at it, not yourself. 154 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: I know you're not looking at it when you said that, 155 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: please please. 156 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 3: Please this the wrong today? Yeah, he's the wrong. Two days. 157 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 3: Could care less? 158 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: YEAHSA send me kitchen. 159 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 3: Carl In. 160 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 4: It just pointed out seasons black pep up there. 161 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: And I think. 162 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 3: The oven. Why would. 163 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: I think that? Would be my response? I don't know 164 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: what's in there to enter at your own risk. All right, guys, 165 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: thank you, you're listening. Hardy Morning Show