Speaker 1: What up, y'all.
Speaker 2: Welcome to this week's episode of Cheeky's and Chill. Thank
Speaker 2: you all for tuning in, and believe me, you're going
Speaker 2: to want to listen to this episode because let me
Speaker 2: introduce myself as Jinnay Sanchez. Woo.
Speaker 1: I'm a married woman now, you guys.
Speaker 2: I am married, and I want to talk to you
Speaker 2: guys about everything, well not everything, but most of everything
Speaker 2: that happened in my wedding. So let's get started, okay, guys. So, yes,
Speaker 2: I am now Jinney Sanchez. And yes, I'm going to
Speaker 2: change my last name. That is one of the biggest
Speaker 2: questions that I have been getting the past few days.
Speaker 2: Are you going to change your last name? Are you
Speaker 2: going to hyphen it? No, I'm going to change it,
Speaker 2: you guys. I'm just waiting for the marriage certificate and
Speaker 2: I'm going to go with it because he deserves it
Speaker 2: and that's it and I'm happy to do that and
Speaker 2: I can't wait. I'm actually thinking if I should had
Speaker 2: a middle name since I don't have a middle name.
Speaker 2: But that's a conversation I have to have with my husband.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, husband, it's so crazy. Still still, it's
Speaker 2: so weird.
Speaker 1: Like coming out.
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's beautiful, but it feels like just
Speaker 2: foreign obviously. But anyways, I'm very proud. So I'll keep
Speaker 2: you guys updated on when I change my name and
Speaker 2: if I decide to do a middle name or not.
Speaker 2: And I'm not going to say the middle name yet
Speaker 2: until I figure that out, but I have the idea already.
Speaker 2: I already know what I want. So yes, I am
Speaker 2: changing my last name and now talking about that now
Speaker 2: that I am a married woman. Let me tell you
Speaker 2: guys a little bit about the wedding. We got married
Speaker 2: in Vegas. I'm sure you guys have seen some videos
Speaker 2: a little bit of footage on social media, but it
Speaker 2: was in Vegas, and I wanted it very small and
Speaker 2: intimate and very close, just family. It was just gonna
Speaker 2: be family, very immediate family. And then it just started
Speaker 2: trickling into like really close friends and then I just
Speaker 2: have to like stop it at a point because it
Speaker 2: was just getting out of control and what a media
Speaker 2: and I wanted the most was like not to spend
Speaker 2: a lot of money. We wanted it to be very
Speaker 2: intimate so we didn't feel overwhelmed on our day because
Speaker 2: usually when you have events where you have parties, like
Speaker 2: you're hosting and you have to go say hi, you
Speaker 2: never get to enjoy the damn party. And that's one
Speaker 2: thing that was very important to Emilio. He's like, I
Speaker 2: want to enjoy my wedding day. I want you to
Speaker 2: enjoy it. I want to enjoy you. I want us
Speaker 2: to be present. And it was exactly that. It was
Speaker 2: so perfect, you guys, so beautiful. It was hot as
Speaker 2: hell in Vegas.
Speaker 1: It was like one.
Speaker 2: Hundred and eight I believe, but the days prior to
Speaker 2: that it was like one hundred and eighteen, one hundred
Speaker 2: and twenty. So I was really scared. We did decide
Speaker 2: to have because it was like, you know, July and
Speaker 2: it was going to be very hot. I wanted a
Speaker 2: evening ceremony, so we did get married at seven o'clock.
Speaker 1: Of course, I was late. Okay, I didn't want to
Speaker 1: be late, but.
Speaker 2: I was late, and then I was so stressed out
Speaker 2: because I was gonna be late. But then I was like,
Speaker 2: Emillion knows who he's marrying, Like he knows. I'm not
Speaker 2: like this inconsiderate person that's like, okay, I'm late and
Speaker 2: I want to be late.
Speaker 1: And if everyone. That's not who I am. You guys.
Speaker 2: If I'm late, it's always because something happened, Like it's
Speaker 2: just honestly, I'm not even like lying. So yes, I
Speaker 2: was what ten minutes late to my wedding, and I
Speaker 2: felt really bad because I kept thinking about the guests.
Speaker 2: I was like, they're sitting outside. It was like pullside
Speaker 2: you guys. It was like about eighty people and it
Speaker 2: was only able to be fifty and it became eighty.
Speaker 2: So I was worried about the guest. I was worried
Speaker 2: about a milia on his suit and I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, it's gonna be hot. So anyways, just
Speaker 2: moments before, I think like I was calm the entire
Speaker 2: day a Milio and I.
Speaker 1: It was my idea.
Speaker 2: I told him, look, let's not sleep in the same
Speaker 2: room the night of the wedding so that we can
Speaker 2: miss each other. So I got a room at a
Speaker 2: separate hotel. And he wasn't too happy about the idea,
Speaker 2: but he went with it. And I think it was
Speaker 2: really nice that we did that because we spent a
Speaker 2: few days or should I say, couple days together and
Speaker 2: we went to the spa the day before the wedding,
Speaker 2: and we like hung out and we drank a tiny bit,
Speaker 2: not a lot, because we're like, we want to be
Speaker 2: fresh and feel fresh. So the day of the wedding,
Speaker 2: I woke up in my room, he woke up in his,
Speaker 2: and the whole thing was, We're just going to text
Speaker 2: each other good morning, and I'll see you at the altar.
Speaker 2: And that's basically what we did. He texted me first
Speaker 2: and he was like, good morning. I can't wait to
Speaker 2: marry you. I love you so much, I can't wait
Speaker 2: to see you so cute. And then I responded, I
Speaker 2: said a good morning, my love. I'm excited, can't wait
Speaker 2: for you to be my husband, and I'll see you
Speaker 2: at the altar. And then I sent him two songs,
Speaker 2: and the two songs were I'll meet you at the altar. Bye.
Speaker 2: I forgot the name of the damn group. It just completely.
Speaker 2: I drew blink, meet me at the altar with your
Speaker 2: watdress that song right, And then I sent him the
Speaker 2: Shania Twain song There's Still the One, the only one
Speaker 2: to Dream.
Speaker 1: That song. I'm sure you guys have heard it.
Speaker 2: So I sent him those two songs, and then after that,
Speaker 2: Silence and Mind you, and Media is a type of
Speaker 2: man that asks me at least every hour, babe, are
Speaker 2: you good.
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Are you hungry? Did you eat?
Speaker 2: You want me to send you a coffee. He's so attentive,
Speaker 2: and I am with him too, like, hey, babe, I
Speaker 2: love you. I miss you even after like three and
Speaker 2: a half years. You guys like, we're like that, and
Speaker 2: I hope it stays that way. God please bless our marriage.
Speaker 2: I could just keep praying that because I know it's
Speaker 2: not going to be easy, but I just love what
Speaker 2: we have built together. So I just wanted to last.
Speaker 2: So anyways, going back to my story, so we didn't
Speaker 2: talk at all. I went to the spall, I got
Speaker 2: a facial, he worked out, He went to you know,
Speaker 2: to breakfast with a couple of friends, and I was calm.
Speaker 2: I started writing my vowels. He bought us these books,
Speaker 2: you guys, because I was like, okay, I'm just going
Speaker 2: to write my vowels like I do everything else on
Speaker 2: my notes in my phone. But a media is like,
Speaker 2: absolutely not. You are not going to walk up to
Speaker 2: the altar with your phone in your hand. So I
Speaker 2: was like okay, So he bought us these cute little
Speaker 2: vowel books because he's like, let's write them in here
Speaker 2: and keep them forever. And I said, okay, his was black,
Speaker 2: mind was white. So I started writing my vowels. I prayed,
Speaker 2: I meditated, and it was just still not coming out.
Speaker 2: So I was like, let me go to the spall
Speaker 2: get in the jacuzzi, like relax. So when I came back,
Speaker 2: I had a really nice lunch, you know, because I
Speaker 2: was like, I'm not going to eat. I want to
Speaker 2: look really cute in my dress. And all my friends
Speaker 2: were like, you better eat. You need to eat. So
Speaker 2: on the day of my wedding, I ate a little
Speaker 2: salmon with some spinach. I did get a chocolate cake.
Speaker 2: I had a little bit. So I had a very
Speaker 2: very nice breakfast, which wasn't really breakfast.
Speaker 1: It was like at one o'clock.
Speaker 2: So anyways, that was my only meal. And then I
Speaker 2: started writing my vowels and I wrote them in my
Speaker 2: damn phone, right, and then everything started going really quickly
Speaker 2: because I wanted to change my nails, and the Knill
Speaker 2: lady took a little long. She was wonderful though, so
Speaker 2: so sweet, but it took a little long to take
Speaker 2: off my Jelgs and like the whole thing.
Speaker 1: Gave me a manicure.
Speaker 2: So it took like, honestly, like three hours, so that
Speaker 2: took a lot of my time. So that's when I
Speaker 2: started getting a little antsy. And then hair and makeup,
Speaker 2: you guys. Hair was there. He started because he was
Speaker 2: waiting on me to finish my nails. He started to
Speaker 2: Na's hair. My sister and makeup, you guys. Her flight
Speaker 2: was delayed two hours. That's kind of when I was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna breathe. I'm just gonna breathe. I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: worst case, I'll do my own makeup or Jenica will
Speaker 2: help me do my makeup. So anyways, makeup was supposed
Speaker 2: to start at three thirty. My makeup artists did not
Speaker 2: get there toe five because all of the flights were
Speaker 2: being canceled because it was so damn hot in Vegas.
Speaker 2: So the more heat, the more turbulence this whole thing, right,
Speaker 2: So anyway, she made it, and my sister, Jenica, well,
Speaker 2: we got a little worried. So Jenica started kind of
Speaker 2: doing my eyes and trying to help me because I
Speaker 2: was kind of getting a little antsy. And then I
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, everything's delaying. I have to
Speaker 2: be out there at six thirty and I still have
Speaker 2: to write my vowels from my phone to my book.
Speaker 2: So I started freaking out. So anyways, I sat there,
Speaker 2: she got there, we got hair and makeup ready. Everything
Speaker 2: was good, and I was about to walk out and
Speaker 2: I almost forgot well, mind you, I forgot the ring.
Speaker 2: That's another thing, the ring I bought Emilio. I forgot it.
Speaker 2: We left to Vegas and Amelia was like, hey, you
Speaker 2: know we got the ring. Oh my god, your ring.
Speaker 2: I freaking left it. So I had Janica, my sister.
Speaker 2: Thank god, she was leaving a little later than we did,
Speaker 2: so she picked it up for me. So that's one thing.
Speaker 2: So anyways, then going back to my story, hair and
Speaker 2: makeup was done. I started putting on the dress and
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, my vowels. I had completely
Speaker 2: forgot you guys, and I was like, I cannot walk
Speaker 2: with my phone. He'll be pissed. So the last hour,
Speaker 2: around six o'clock, that's when I started kind of getting like, really, Auntie,
Speaker 2: I was like, I have to get dressed. We still
Speaker 2: have to take pictures here. The photographer was there, my
Speaker 2: nieces were there. It was really really beautiful, and you
Speaker 2: guys are going to see all the details in my docufollow.
Speaker 2: But anyways, it was beautiful. But I started getting antsy,
Speaker 2: and that's when I started feeling very nervous, like not
Speaker 2: scared to get married. It was just like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: I need my person. The only person that calms me
Speaker 2: down is a medio. And I was freaking out and
Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure that I did what he
Speaker 2: wanted for us, to transfer my vowels from my phone
Speaker 2: to the book that he bought us. So that's what
Speaker 2: made me late because it was so important. And you guys,
Speaker 2: this is what I mean. Phones are digging over our
Speaker 2: lives because I don't remember anyone's phone number but his.
Speaker 2: That's the only number that I know. And he made
Speaker 2: me memorize it because he's like, Janey, if your phone
Speaker 2: dies one day, who the hell are you gonna call?
Speaker 2: Because I know no one's number, only his. And that's
Speaker 2: only because he told me I had to memorize it.
Speaker 2: But you guys, I am not used to writing in
Speaker 2: my notes. My vowel seems so short and like cute,
Speaker 2: and I was like damn do I need to add more?
Speaker 2: Thank god I didn't, because when I went to transfer them,
Speaker 2: it took forever. My hand was hurting and I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, this is so long. I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm not used to like using my
Speaker 2: hands to write. That's insane, you guys. I told myself
Speaker 2: I need to start journaling more and writing because I
Speaker 2: do everything on my notes. I love reading actual books,
Speaker 2: physical books, but like when it comes to journaling, I
Speaker 2: do everything on my phone and I'm just like, no,
Speaker 2: this cannot happen. And that's why it took so damn long.
Speaker 2: And that's why I was ten minutes late, and that's
Speaker 2: why I was freaking out. But anyways, I get out there,
Speaker 2: I'm already bawling. I see my brother Mikey, and I'm like, brother,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm marrying my best friend. I can't
Speaker 2: wait to see him. I'm freaking out. He's the only
Speaker 2: one that calms me down. Like that's when I started
Speaker 2: just freaking out. I was just more, I just want
Speaker 2: to see him. I just want to fall into his arms.
Speaker 2: As I was walking from my room to the altar,
Speaker 2: I was like, dude, I just want to lay in
Speaker 2: bed with him, Oh my god, and like we're gonna
Speaker 2: have dinner and all this stuff, and I was like,
Speaker 2: I just want to lay with him.
Speaker 1: I just want to lay with him.
Speaker 2: I'm feeling so overwhelmed. And then he's the only one
Speaker 2: that calms me down. And that's how I know. I'm like,
Speaker 2: this is my fucking person. This is the person I
Speaker 2: meant to be with. And as soon as I saw
Speaker 2: my brother and I was like, brother, you look so handsome.
Speaker 2: And I was telling him how he's gonna walk me
Speaker 2: down the aisle because we didn't rehearse any of this.
Speaker 2: This was all no. We didn't have any a dinner rehearsal.
Speaker 2: I didn't have any you know that mas. How do
Speaker 2: you call the amas the bridesmaids? I didn't have a
Speaker 2: maid of honor. My sisters are basically my maid of
Speaker 2: honors because they were there with me. But it wasn't
Speaker 2: like something we talked about or my brother's Even the
Speaker 2: day of I said, hey, guys, you guys are walking
Speaker 2: me down the aisle.
Speaker 1: Just FYI.
Speaker 2: I was like, Mikey, you're going to start and then
Speaker 2: you're gonna take me to Johnny. Then Johnny, you're gonna
Speaker 2: take me to a media and that's how it happened.
Speaker 2: As soon as I saw my brother Mike, we were
Speaker 2: talking and I was just telling him I love him, dude,
Speaker 2: like I love him, and I just started crying. I
Speaker 2: was already crying before I even started walking, and I
Speaker 2: still couldn't see him. And then he took me to
Speaker 2: Johnny and then I was just like, oh my god.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god. The first thing I
Speaker 2: told him media when I saw him was I missed
Speaker 2: you so much. And I was crying and he was
Speaker 2: just like, I know me too. It was so beautiful,
Speaker 2: you guys, and the vowels were amazing. I'm so proud
Speaker 2: of both of us, and that was like, I think
Speaker 2: the biggest compliment they gave us. Our guests were like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, the vowels. So many people were crying.
Speaker 2: I think you could just feel the love and it
Speaker 2: was so peaceful. After that, after I was just he
Speaker 2: was holding my hand and I was looking into his eyes.
Speaker 2: I was just like, okay, yeah, I'm good now, okay cool.
Speaker 2: I feel excited about the rest of the day because
Speaker 2: walking there I wasn't. I was just like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: it's gonna be such a long day. I was just
Speaker 2: being like, you know, just a baby. But then everything
Speaker 2: just went so fun after that. And I don't want
Speaker 2: to give too many details because I want you guys
Speaker 2: to see everything on the docu follow because my docu
Speaker 2: cameras were there. But again, it was a very small
Speaker 2: crowd and it was a very special, special ceremony. It
Speaker 2: was so beautiful, exactly like what I wanted and I
Speaker 2: dreamt of even better, I think than what I had imagined,
Speaker 2: especially because we both love water, so there was like
Speaker 2: a piece of like water with like a jacuzzi small
Speaker 2: pool situation, and we both love that. And it was
Speaker 2: just beautiful. It was perfect. It wasn't overly decorated. I
Speaker 2: wanted the flowers to be wide. I wanted to be
Speaker 2: very simple. I wanted my dress to be timeless, and
Speaker 2: I think we nailed it. Like my designer, I told
Speaker 2: her exactly the kind of fabric I wanted. I was like,
Speaker 2: I want it to look like cake. I don't know
Speaker 2: how else to explain it, but like not a fond
Speaker 2: of cake, like a butter cream cake, like very silky
Speaker 2: and just delicious. And it was amazing, and I was
Speaker 2: very worried, you guys, because after the miscarriage, I hadn't
Speaker 2: gotten my period and I was feeling very bloated. My
Speaker 2: hormones still aren't leveled, so I've been feeling very bloated,
Speaker 2: and like my last two shows, like I could see
Speaker 2: it in my wardrobe and I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: like it's my hormones. My body's still trying to get
Speaker 2: back to normal, and I'm worrying white. So I was
Speaker 2: very nervous, but I was like, you know what, even
Speaker 2: when it came down to it my dress, because I
Speaker 2: was worried about it not fitting, it fit perfectly and
Speaker 2: I didn't care. I was just like, whatever, I'm marrying
Speaker 2: my homeboy, this is my homie, this is my man,
Speaker 2: this is my best friend, Like whatever. He loved me
Speaker 2: when I was seventy six pounds heavier, So we're fine.
Speaker 2: And even that, I didn't care.
Speaker 1: I was just happy. It was beautiful.
Speaker 2: After that, we went to take pictures. Then we had
Speaker 2: a dinner and the dinner was fantastic, amazing. This is
Speaker 2: what I meant. But I wanted it to be small
Speaker 2: and intimate because I was able to go to everyone's
Speaker 2: table and not feel overwhelmed and just see my friends
Speaker 2: and family and tell them that I love them and
Speaker 2: that I appreciate them being there. And I was having
Speaker 2: a drink and we're having a good time, and I changed.
Speaker 2: I had three changes, but I only ended up doing two.
Speaker 2: And then after the dinner, we went to a club
Speaker 2: and that was so fun. Had a lot of fun,
Speaker 2: a lot of fun. And then guys, check this out.
Speaker 2: After the club, around two o'clock, I was already feeling buzzed.
Speaker 1: So my husband was like, we gotta go.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, cool, let's go. We get in
Speaker 2: the elevator. I was one of the first ones to
Speaker 2: get on, so I didn't realize how many people were
Speaker 2: getting on the elevator. There were twenty people in the elevator.
Speaker 2: Don't ever do that, you guys. We got stuck in
Speaker 2: the elevator.
Speaker 1: Yes, we did. For two and a half hours.
Speaker 2: We were stuck in the elevator. I had a relax
Speaker 2: because Emilio he does suffer from anxiety. So I said, okay,
Speaker 2: I'm going to relax. I can't freak out because at
Speaker 2: first I was like, oh my god, I can't breathe.
Speaker 2: I was like okay, and I thought it twice and
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, something's happening. I was like, but I'm
Speaker 2: not going to freak out in a stay calm. Because
Speaker 2: Emilio's mom was also in the elevat with us, you guys,
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, he's if if I'm
Speaker 2: not calm, he's going to freak out. Because there were
Speaker 2: people freaking out again. It was all people I knew,
Speaker 2: and I felt like I couldn't breathe. Mind you, it's
Speaker 2: super freaking hot in Vegas. The music is blasting, okay,
Speaker 2: blasting for like an hour, and so we were like,
Speaker 2: please turn off the music because it's driving us nuts
Speaker 2: because we were trying to talk. People were freaking out.
Speaker 2: It was just too much. We were like so overstimulated,
Speaker 2: it was. It was insane. Anyways, and media cracked open
Speaker 2: the door him in one of our security guards, and
Speaker 2: then we were I think that's when more people started
Speaker 2: calming down because we started getting a little bit of air.
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's what happened, guys. So it's gonna be
Speaker 2: definitely a day and a night to remember in a
Speaker 2: wedding to remember, because we could have died on our
Speaker 2: wedding day. Thank god, we didn't, and thank God, everyone's safe.
Speaker 2: They had to rescue us out of the damn elevator
Speaker 2: you guys from you know, the elevator shaft, and they
Speaker 2: put like a helmet on us and they put this
Speaker 2: whole thing and like we had to get out one
Speaker 2: by one. So by the time we got out of there,
Speaker 2: it was four thirty in the morning. So that is
Speaker 2: our story. We're going to be able to tell people now.
Speaker 2: It's a little funny, but when we were in there,
Speaker 2: there was a moment where I was like, God, okay,
Speaker 2: let's talk a little bit Lord.
Speaker 1: Because I was meditating. I was like, okay, I was chill.
Speaker 1: I was like, I.
Speaker 2: Honestly was chill because I always know God is going
Speaker 2: to come through. But I did say, look, Lord, like
Speaker 2: I still have a lot of things I want to
Speaker 2: do and I just got married and this isn't I
Speaker 2: don't want to go out like that. And I was like, God,
Speaker 2: you got this. So that's when everything switched and I
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, we're gonna be fine. But it did
Speaker 2: feel eternal, and it's a good thing I guess to
Speaker 2: tell our children or our child because I think we're
Speaker 2: only going to have one or whatever God wants. And
Speaker 2: the next day, I think we both woke up like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, did that just happen? And we were
Speaker 2: like in our heads, but I had to shake it
Speaker 2: off because I was like, no, this is our wedding.
Speaker 2: Our wedding was so beautiful. I don't want us to
Speaker 2: just remember the damn elevator event. So I was like, no,
Speaker 2: we have to get up and celebrate life because at
Speaker 2: the end of the day, God allowed us to live today,
Speaker 2: and let's go to the pool and have fun. And
Speaker 2: we did that and we continued with our celebration and
Speaker 2: it was wonderful and it's just something to add to
Speaker 2: our story. Like Kimberly Annell, my assistant who you guys
Speaker 2: met here on the podcast already the next day, she
Speaker 2: was just laughing because she wasn't on the elevator. She
Speaker 2: went to sleep. She's like, hey, guys, I'm not going
Speaker 2: to Dre's if that's okay. So she wasn't there with us,
Speaker 2: but she did say She's like, I think it's just
Speaker 2: really funny, like within five hours, you guys had the
Speaker 2: highest of highs and the lowest of lows all in
Speaker 2: one day. And I'm like yeah, she was just it
Speaker 2: was after I was like, okay, I can laugh a
Speaker 2: little bit. So anyways, that is what happened. After the
Speaker 2: festivities of the wedding. Now we can talk a little
Speaker 2: bit about certain details. There are people that, yes, did
Speaker 2: get their invitation only a few days before, and others
Speaker 2: did know, like our immediate family, for about a few
Speaker 2: months before. Not on purpose, you guys. I was just
Speaker 2: so busy and so overwhelmed with life and work. I
Speaker 2: tend to do that. I kind of procrastinate in that aspect,
Speaker 2: where again I deal with things or things that I
Speaker 2: have to do the week of I'm like, okay, this week,
Speaker 2: I got to do this, this and this and that.
Speaker 2: So some people did get the invitation a little late,
Speaker 2: and yes, some others didn't get the invitation at all.
Speaker 2: And it's not because I didn't want them there. It's
Speaker 2: because it was just a different type of ceremony and
Speaker 2: wedding and it was again meant for family only, and
Speaker 2: then it just started kind of getting a little bit bigger.
Speaker 2: And we are planning on having a more religious wedding
Speaker 2: in the future the near future, and those people will
Speaker 2: be invited. Other people that are still very important to
Speaker 2: us that we love, but because we had this idea
Speaker 2: of having a celebration later, we just kind of like
Speaker 2: you know, said we'll invite them then. And people were
Speaker 2: asking who made my dress? And her name is Cindy
Speaker 2: of Our. I don't even think I'm pronouncing her name
Speaker 2: her last name correctly, but she was awesome. She made
Speaker 2: all three dresses, She made me three vels, She made
Speaker 2: me two robes that I didn't even ask for. She
Speaker 2: gifted me the robes which was like for me to
Speaker 2: get ready, and then one for like, you know, for
Speaker 2: consummating the wedding, which was really cute. And she also
Speaker 2: made my mother in law's dress and my grandmother, well
Speaker 2: a Medio's grandmother who's now like my grandmother who I've
Speaker 2: adopted her like outfit so cute. And we did have cake,
Speaker 2: you guys. We had a strawberry cake, which is so
Speaker 2: weird because usually I'm more of like, we both love
Speaker 2: funfetti type of cake or chocolate cake or Emelio loves vanilla,
Speaker 2: but we went with a strawberry cake. We had a
Speaker 2: tasting and we went with a strawberry cake, which was
Speaker 2: so weird because a Medio doesn't even really like strawberries,
Speaker 2: but he loved the cake. The cake was so freaking
Speaker 2: delicious and very simple. I wanted everything very simple, just
Speaker 2: very classy and elegant. And again, timeless is like the
Speaker 2: only word that I kept like thinking of. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I want everything to be timeless. And the cake was
Speaker 2: so pretty, and we the whole thing where he's feeding
Speaker 2: me cake and I fed him cake. It was just
Speaker 2: really cute. And I think my favorite moment of the
Speaker 2: entire wedding, i'd have to say, was when I saw him,
Speaker 2: when I just was like, oh, there's my safe haven.
Speaker 2: I'm like freaking out and the only one that could
Speaker 2: just tell me everything's gonna be okay it's him, and
Speaker 2: I was just like oh. It was just that moment
Speaker 2: of relief of like, oh my god, I can breathe again.
Speaker 2: And I miss him because I missed him. I really did.
Speaker 2: Like it might sound silly, we didn't sleep together one night,
Speaker 2: and we didn't really like talk for hours.
Speaker 1: It was just a lot. That's how I knew this
Speaker 1: is it.
Speaker 2: This is the person for me, Like I really enjoy
Speaker 2: my time with him, he doesn't bore me, He's my
Speaker 2: favorite person to be around. Everything I said in my vowels,
Speaker 2: which you guys will hear one day, is absolutely what
Speaker 2: I felt. I wanted it to be one hundred percent honest,
Speaker 2: and it was some like he's my favorite travel buddy,
Speaker 2: he's my favorite human, like I don't get bored. And
Speaker 2: I think that's why it's my favorite moment. Was because
Speaker 2: when I saw him, I wasn't crying because I was
Speaker 2: getting cold feet. I wasn't crying because I was scared
Speaker 2: or nervous or I'm like, oh my god, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: be married. I'm committed, like I'm like, can't do anything
Speaker 2: in my life, like no, Like we had these conversations
Speaker 2: prior to our wedding, like what I wanted, what he
Speaker 2: expected as well in a marriage, and I didn't feel
Speaker 2: pressured in any way. It was just I missed this person.
Speaker 2: I love this person, like I cannot wait to marry them.
Speaker 1: So it was just so amazing.
Speaker 2: And a lot of people were asking me, you know,
Speaker 2: because I should be on my honeymoon right now, and
Speaker 2: they're like, why aren't showing your honeymoon? Like, you know,
Speaker 2: people think that I'm off social media because I'm not
Speaker 2: on social media right now. People think that it's because
Speaker 2: we're on our honeymoon, and that's not true.
Speaker 1: I have a lot of work.
Speaker 2: I actually had a lot of work the monday after
Speaker 2: my wedding, but I had to cancel it because I
Speaker 2: don't know if you guys can hear it, but I'm
Speaker 2: a little sick.
Speaker 1: I got sick.
Speaker 2: My throat has been acting funny, and I think it
Speaker 2: was just I was dealing with the cough the day
Speaker 2: before the wedding and then I think it just got
Speaker 2: worse because of the heat and then going into the
Speaker 2: hotels and the whole thing. So it's just like I think,
Speaker 2: once I got back home, I was in like my
Speaker 2: comfort and I let like my guards down, and my
Speaker 2: body was just like, Okay, you need a chill. You've
Speaker 2: been drinking and partying and you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: and you had a lot of fun. And my immune
Speaker 2: system just, you know, took a toll. But I'm better.
Speaker 2: So we're not on our honeymoon. We want to take
Speaker 2: a honeymoon at the end of the year, and I
Speaker 2: think we have decided to do Asia. We were between
Speaker 2: Asia or Europe, and I think we're going to do
Speaker 2: somewhere in Asia. We actually have to finalize that soon,
Speaker 2: but we do. We're definitely going to do a honeymoon
Speaker 2: and practice making children. You know, we're having a lot
Speaker 2: of fun in that aspect. And now, like I told
Speaker 2: my pastor, and I was telling I don't even remember
Speaker 2: who I was, Like, you guys were not fornicating anymore.
Speaker 2: Like we're just we're having great sex and it's awesome.
Speaker 2: So now we're having married sex. Does it feel the same?
Speaker 2: I love?
Speaker 1: Does it feel better?
Speaker 2: Or no?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Has he put two thumbs up? You guys? All right,
Speaker 1: we're good.
Speaker 2: He's in the living room because today I'm doing the
Speaker 2: podcast you guys from my home and what else?
Speaker 1: What else can I tell you guys?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yes, my mother.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys noticed in the pictures
Speaker 2: that I posted on Instagram, but on my bouquete of
Speaker 2: flowers Miramo, I had a picture of my mother and
Speaker 2: I walked down the aisle with a very special song.
Speaker 2: And we've talked about this song on the podcast, I
Speaker 2: think in the first season. It's a song by Shade
Speaker 2: and it's called by Your Side and it's one of
Speaker 2: my favorite songs. And let me tell you a little
Speaker 2: bit about this song because when I was going through
Speaker 2: it very heavily in twenty In twenty thirteen, I was
Speaker 2: driving Johnny to school and I was feeling very sad,
Speaker 2: but I wanted to be very strong, and I was
Speaker 2: just very overwhelmed, and I was just like, very sad
Speaker 2: and depressed and very angry during that time, as you
Speaker 2: guys know, and I've expressed here. And when I dropped
Speaker 2: Johnny off at school, as soon as I dropped him off,
Speaker 2: I don't know how, by the glory of God, the
Speaker 2: grace of God, I did not get in an accident
Speaker 2: because I was driving my mom's Mercedes that day. Because
Speaker 2: Johnny loved to go in that particular car because that's
Speaker 2: the car that my mom would take him to school in,
Speaker 2: you know, and he would love listening to the Wave
Speaker 2: because that was my mom's favorite ninety four seven the
Speaker 2: way that one that was my mom's favorite station. So
Speaker 2: that was like a little thing that we had. Let's
Speaker 2: go in the Mercedes, I'll drop you off at school,
Speaker 2: and we'll listen to the Wave. So as soon as
Speaker 2: I dropped off Johnny, I was crying. I was a
Speaker 2: freaking mess. I was just having one of those moments
Speaker 2: of like I don't know if I can continue on,
Speaker 2: like I'm just devastated in my life. And I was
Speaker 2: praying and I was like, Mom, talk to me, like
Speaker 2: I need to hear from you, like guide me, give
Speaker 2: me a sign. And my mom was a huge Shadai fan,
Speaker 2: and I knew of Shade because of my mom, and
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, that song came on and I
Speaker 2: feel like the times that I've talked to my mom
Speaker 2: or when I feel my mom is through music. So
Speaker 2: I felt and I took that as a sign because
Speaker 2: if you guys listen to that song and you break
Speaker 2: it down, it was like I'm here, I'm by your side.
Speaker 2: You think I'm gonna leave you, like I'm here. So
Speaker 2: I was just like after that day, that song meant
Speaker 2: so much to me, and every time I would listen
Speaker 2: to it, I would just cry or would give me
Speaker 2: hope of like she's here with me. So that's why
Speaker 2: I chose that song. But not only because of that.
Speaker 2: It was kind of like my mom walking me down
Speaker 2: the aisle as well, and I had her picture, but
Speaker 2: also because Emilio dedicated me that song, so to me,
Speaker 2: it was like a sign of when he dedicated me
Speaker 2: that song he didn't know that my mom had from
Speaker 2: heaven dedicated me that song, and that's how I took
Speaker 2: it right. And when he dedicated to me that song,
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god. Like in that moment,
Speaker 2: I felt like, this is the guy. I think my
Speaker 2: mom sent him to me. And I don't know if
Speaker 2: I ever even told Emilio that, but that's how I felt.
Speaker 2: And it was like confirmation, like, oh my gosh, this
Speaker 2: guy's special. He's not just another guy. And that's why
Speaker 2: I walked down the eyele with that song. And I
Speaker 2: definitely did feel my mom. I felt her more in
Speaker 2: the room when I was getting ready, when I saw
Speaker 2: my sisters and they were there, I felt her there.
Speaker 2: I felt like she's here with me. You know. When
Speaker 2: my nieces were there was such a beautiful moment, you guys,
Speaker 2: Like my nieces were helping me Jayla who's now fifteen
Speaker 2: years old, going to be fifteen, helping me put on
Speaker 2: my shoes. It was just beautiful when I felt my
Speaker 2: mom there, And of course when I heard the song,
Speaker 2: I felt like she was walking me down the aisle
Speaker 2: because that's how I had planned it, and it was
Speaker 2: just so perfect, you guys, I wouldn't change a thing,
Speaker 2: not even the elevator thing, because I feel like even
Speaker 2: the whole elevator event, just like I felt safe because
Speaker 2: Emilia was there and I was like, okay, he's here,
Speaker 2: like he's the most important person in my life, you know,
Speaker 2: and Jenica was there. I was freaking out because I
Speaker 2: wish Jenica hadn't been there because then my whole thing
Speaker 2: of like mama bear and big sister want to like her.
Speaker 2: I was just like, I need you to get off
Speaker 2: the elevator first before me, because I'm not going to
Speaker 2: get off this elevator with you still in here. So
Speaker 2: I made sure take her off before me. Take Emilia,
Speaker 2: take them because I know myself, so I forced both
Speaker 2: of them to get out of the elevator before I did.
Speaker 2: That's just the motherly person I am. I guess I
Speaker 2: don't know, call it what you will, but even that,
Speaker 2: even that whole elevator situation, I feel like it just
Speaker 2: really confirmed to me this is the person and we're
Speaker 2: stuck together, you know, we're stuck together forever. It was
Speaker 2: almost like that thing that kind of like solidified the
Speaker 2: whole day and I we went through it together, and
Speaker 2: I'm so glad that we were together and he wasn't
Speaker 2: alone or I wasn't alone the elevator, like he wouldn't
Speaker 2: have allowed it anyways. Like he's always like protecting me
Speaker 2: and taking care of me and making sure I'm fine.
Speaker 2: But even with that, guys, it was the most beautiful
Speaker 2: day of my life. And I'm just I'm just grateful.
Speaker 2: I'm grateful that God sent me this person and the
Speaker 2: person that I can count on and something that I
Speaker 2: will share with you, guys. In my vowels, I said,
Speaker 2: thank you for loving me like no one else has
Speaker 2: ever loved me, not even my parents. And I really
Speaker 2: mean that. And I know that might sound weird, but
Speaker 2: I asked my sister Jackie the other day after the
Speaker 2: wedding and I said, look, I said this in my
Speaker 2: vowels because other, I know people heard it because the
Speaker 2: microphone was amazing. So I all the guests heard my vowels.
Speaker 2: They heard our vowels like clearly. And I said, I
Speaker 2: don't know. Did the kids, my siblings, did they mention anything.
Speaker 2: Did I offend you, guys? I don't mean to offend
Speaker 2: you or to take anything from mom, because I know
Speaker 2: my mom loved me.
Speaker 1: I know she did.
Speaker 2: I know she didn't know how to show it sometimes
Speaker 2: because I was the eldest and we were so close
Speaker 2: in age. But the love that I'm experiencing right now,
Speaker 2: I feel like God sent it to me so that
Speaker 2: I can really believe and know what real love feels like,
Speaker 2: because he's been very patient and even in my ugliest moments,
Speaker 2: he's been very patient and loving and gentle. And you know,
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm not saying he's never like gotten crazy or
Speaker 2: anything like that, like we're all human, but I want
Speaker 2: to say ninety percent of our relationship he has been
Speaker 2: very gentle and diligent, and that stability that my life needed,
Speaker 2: and the love that he shows me, I've never experienced
Speaker 2: where it's like.
Speaker 1: It's just beautiful.
Speaker 2: It's I don't want to get into details, but like
Speaker 2: it's just a beautiful thing that I'm experiencing. And my dad,
Speaker 2: I'm sure he loves me and loved me when I
Speaker 2: was little and things happened there, but I can't explain
Speaker 2: it like it's this is this is a different type
Speaker 2: of love, you know, And I really truly mean that,
Speaker 2: And without offending anybody, Because my mother was a great mother,
Speaker 2: she wasn't a perfect mother, but she was the perfect
Speaker 2: mother for me who I needed. And now I have
Speaker 2: the perfect man for me. I'm not perfect, he's not perfect,
Speaker 2: but it's that person that just came to really give
Speaker 2: me hope and for me to believe in love again
Speaker 2: and in marriage because I didn't for so long because
Speaker 2: I was let down. I felt let down, and he
Speaker 2: has helped me heal. Because that's another thing. I was
Speaker 2: very honest with him, like, hey, I'm not doing good
Speaker 2: when we first met, and he has helped and said
Speaker 2: I want to help you. You don't have to do
Speaker 2: this alone. And he's never once abandoned me, and I've
Speaker 2: had a lot of abandonment issues because of my childhood
Speaker 2: and things that have happened. So that's what I meant,
Speaker 2: and not that I feel like I have to explain
Speaker 2: myself because I really don't care what anyone thinks besides
Speaker 2: my siblings, really, but I just wanted to explain it
Speaker 2: because I just hope that everyone can find that type
Speaker 2: of love one day, because we do deserve that, and
Speaker 2: I for so long felt that maybe I don't deserve
Speaker 2: this person because I am so jaded. I have so
Speaker 2: many things I have to work through and now I
Speaker 2: know that I do deserve it, that it's heaven sent,
Speaker 2: and it's going to be work, and we both have
Speaker 2: to put in our part, and I'm willing to do it.
Speaker 2: And there's no other person that I'm I would love
Speaker 2: to do this with. I just wish that for everyone.
Speaker 2: I hope that everyone can find that and really experience
Speaker 2: that and give themselves a chance to love and to
Speaker 2: love again and not give up on love, even if
Speaker 2: you've been hurt, and if you've been cheated on, and
Speaker 2: if you've been lied to, and if you've also been
Speaker 2: the person to hurt other people, like we deserve to
Speaker 2: be loved no matter what and experience this, but we
Speaker 2: have to be open to it, and we have to
Speaker 2: be willing to do the work, our own work, our
Speaker 2: own internal work, so that we can attract who we
Speaker 2: want to attract. And I think that we both were
Speaker 2: in that space in our life where we were working
Speaker 2: on ourselves, and now we can work on ourselves together
Speaker 2: and for each other. And that's what it is. And
Speaker 2: it took me a long time to understand that, and
Speaker 2: I know it won't be perfect, but it's okay. I
Speaker 2: am willing to put in the work and I know
Speaker 2: he is too, and that's all there is to it, guys.
Speaker 2: So yeah, that is my story. And yeah, I just
Speaker 2: wanted to take a little sigh because I really wish
Speaker 2: I can go back to that moment. It was so fun.
Speaker 2: But I'm also glad to be home because I'm pretty
Speaker 2: Vegas out. There's a lot of days in Vegas and
Speaker 2: I can only do like maybe three days in Vegas, max.
Speaker 2: But it was awesome, it was beautiful, it was perfect,
Speaker 2: and I just wanted to share that with my listeners
Speaker 2: here on Cheeky's and Chill because I know you guys
Speaker 2: would appreciate it. So thank you for listening, Thank you
Speaker 2: for being interested in my love life and in my
Speaker 2: marriage now, and i'll I can ask for is for
Speaker 2: you guys to continue to pray for us, to pray
Speaker 2: for me for our marriage, and I will, of course
Speaker 2: do my best to pray for all of you and
Speaker 2: wish you out well and continue this podcast and hopefully
Speaker 2: inspire you and empower you all through all of the
Speaker 2: different things that we speak about here on this podcast.
Speaker 2: So thanks again for listening, and I love you guys,
Speaker 2: and share this episode with someone you love, all right, guys, besitos,
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