WEBVTT - Mrs. Sanchez

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<v Speaker 1>What up, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to this week's episode of Cheeky's and Chill. Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you all for tuning in, and believe me, you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to want to listen to this episode because let me

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<v Speaker 2>introduce myself as Jinnay Sanchez. Woo.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a married woman now, you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I am married, and I want to talk to you

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<v Speaker 2>guys about everything, well not everything, but most of everything

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<v Speaker 2>that happened in my wedding. So let's get started, okay, guys. So, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I am now Jinney Sanchez. And yes, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>change my last name. That is one of the biggest

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<v Speaker 2>questions that I have been getting the past few days.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you going to change your last name? Are you

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<v Speaker 2>going to hyphen it? No, I'm going to change it,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys. I'm just waiting for the marriage certificate and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to go with it because he deserves it

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<v Speaker 2>and that's it and I'm happy to do that and

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait. I'm actually thinking if I should had

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<v Speaker 2>a middle name since I don't have a middle name.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's a conversation I have to have with my husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, husband, it's so crazy. Still still, it's

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<v Speaker 2>so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Like coming out.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it's beautiful, but it feels like just

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<v Speaker 2>foreign obviously. But anyways, I'm very proud. So I'll keep

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<v Speaker 2>you guys updated on when I change my name and

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<v Speaker 2>if I decide to do a middle name or not.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not going to say the middle name yet

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<v Speaker 2>until I figure that out, but I have the idea already.

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<v Speaker 2>I already know what I want. So yes, I am

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<v Speaker 2>changing my last name and now talking about that now

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<v Speaker 2>that I am a married woman. Let me tell you

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<v Speaker 2>guys a little bit about the wedding. We got married

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<v Speaker 2>in Vegas. I'm sure you guys have seen some videos

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of footage on social media, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was in Vegas, and I wanted it very small and

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<v Speaker 2>intimate and very close, just family. It was just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be family, very immediate family. And then it just started

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<v Speaker 2>trickling into like really close friends and then I just

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<v Speaker 2>have to like stop it at a point because it

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<v Speaker 2>was just getting out of control and what a media

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<v Speaker 2>and I wanted the most was like not to spend

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of money. We wanted it to be very

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<v Speaker 2>intimate so we didn't feel overwhelmed on our day because

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<v Speaker 2>usually when you have events where you have parties, like

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<v Speaker 2>you're hosting and you have to go say hi, you

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<v Speaker 2>never get to enjoy the damn party. And that's one

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<v Speaker 2>thing that was very important to Emilio. He's like, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to enjoy my wedding day. I want you to

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy it. I want to enjoy you. I want us

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<v Speaker 2>to be present. And it was exactly that. It was

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<v Speaker 2>so perfect, you guys, so beautiful. It was hot as

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<v Speaker 2>hell in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like one.

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<v Speaker 2>Hundred and eight I believe, but the days prior to

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<v Speaker 2>that it was like one hundred and eighteen, one hundred

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<v Speaker 2>and twenty. So I was really scared. We did decide

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<v Speaker 2>to have because it was like, you know, July and

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<v Speaker 2>it was going to be very hot. I wanted a

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<v Speaker 2>evening ceremony, so we did get married at seven o'clock.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, I was late. Okay, I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be late, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I was late, and then I was so stressed out

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<v Speaker 2>because I was gonna be late. But then I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>Emillion knows who he's marrying, Like he knows. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>like this inconsiderate person that's like, okay, I'm late and

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<v Speaker 2>I want to be late.

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<v Speaker 1>And if everyone. That's not who I am. You guys.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm late, it's always because something happened, Like it's

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<v Speaker 2>just honestly, I'm not even like lying. So yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>was what ten minutes late to my wedding, and I

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<v Speaker 2>felt really bad because I kept thinking about the guests.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, they're sitting outside. It was like pullside

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<v Speaker 2>you guys. It was like about eighty people and it

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<v Speaker 2>was only able to be fifty and it became eighty.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was worried about the guest. I was worried

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<v Speaker 2>about a milia on his suit and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, it's gonna be hot. So anyways, just

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<v Speaker 2>moments before, I think like I was calm the entire

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<v Speaker 2>day a Milio and I.

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<v Speaker 1>It was my idea.

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<v Speaker 2>I told him, look, let's not sleep in the same

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<v Speaker 2>room the night of the wedding so that we can

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<v Speaker 2>miss each other. So I got a room at a

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<v Speaker 2>separate hotel. And he wasn't too happy about the idea,

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<v Speaker 2>but he went with it. And I think it was

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<v Speaker 2>really nice that we did that because we spent a

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<v Speaker 2>few days or should I say, couple days together and

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<v Speaker 2>we went to the spa the day before the wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>and we like hung out and we drank a tiny bit,

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<v Speaker 2>not a lot, because we're like, we want to be

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<v Speaker 2>fresh and feel fresh. So the day of the wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>I woke up in my room, he woke up in his,

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<v Speaker 2>and the whole thing was, We're just going to text

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<v Speaker 2>each other good morning, and I'll see you at the altar.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's basically what we did. He texted me first

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<v Speaker 2>and he was like, good morning. I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 2>marry you. I love you so much, I can't wait

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<v Speaker 2>to see you so cute. And then I responded, I

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<v Speaker 2>said a good morning, my love. I'm excited, can't wait

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<v Speaker 2>for you to be my husband, and I'll see you

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<v Speaker 2>at the altar. And then I sent him two songs,

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<v Speaker 2>and the two songs were I'll meet you at the altar. Bye.

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot the name of the damn group. It just completely.

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<v Speaker 2>I drew blink, meet me at the altar with your

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<v Speaker 2>watdress that song right, And then I sent him the

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<v Speaker 2>Shania Twain song There's Still the One, the only one

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<v Speaker 2>to Dream.

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<v Speaker 1>That song. I'm sure you guys have heard it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I sent him those two songs, and then after that,

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<v Speaker 2>Silence and Mind you, and Media is a type of

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<v Speaker 2>man that asks me at least every hour, babe, are

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<v Speaker 2>you good.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing? Are you hungry? Did you eat?

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<v Speaker 2>You want me to send you a coffee. He's so attentive,

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<v Speaker 2>and I am with him too, like, hey, babe, I

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<v Speaker 2>love you. I miss you even after like three and

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<v Speaker 2>a half years. You guys like, we're like that, and

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<v Speaker 2>I hope it stays that way. God please bless our marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>I could just keep praying that because I know it's

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<v Speaker 2>not going to be easy, but I just love what

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<v Speaker 2>we have built together. So I just wanted to last.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyways, going back to my story, so we didn't

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<v Speaker 2>talk at all. I went to the spall, I got

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<v Speaker 2>a facial, he worked out, He went to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to breakfast with a couple of friends, and I was calm.

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<v Speaker 2>I started writing my vowels. He bought us these books,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, because I was like, okay, I'm just going

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<v Speaker 2>to write my vowels like I do everything else on

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<v Speaker 2>my notes in my phone. But a media is like,

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely not. You are not going to walk up to

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<v Speaker 2>the altar with your phone in your hand. So I

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<v Speaker 2>was like okay, So he bought us these cute little

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<v Speaker 2>vowel books because he's like, let's write them in here

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<v Speaker 2>and keep them forever. And I said, okay, his was black,

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<v Speaker 2>mind was white. So I started writing my vowels. I prayed,

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<v Speaker 2>I meditated, and it was just still not coming out.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, let me go to the spall

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<v Speaker 2>get in the jacuzzi, like relax. So when I came back,

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<v Speaker 2>I had a really nice lunch, you know, because I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm not going to eat. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>look really cute in my dress. And all my friends

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<v Speaker 2>were like, you better eat. You need to eat. So

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<v Speaker 2>on the day of my wedding, I ate a little

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<v Speaker 2>salmon with some spinach. I did get a chocolate cake.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a little bit. So I had a very

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<v Speaker 2>very nice breakfast, which wasn't really breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like at one o'clock.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyways, that was my only meal. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>started writing my vowels and I wrote them in my

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<v Speaker 2>damn phone, right, and then everything started going really quickly

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<v Speaker 2>because I wanted to change my nails, and the Knill

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<v Speaker 2>lady took a little long. She was wonderful though, so

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<v Speaker 2>so sweet, but it took a little long to take

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<v Speaker 2>off my Jelgs and like the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Gave me a manicure.

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<v Speaker 2>So it took like, honestly, like three hours, so that

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<v Speaker 2>took a lot of my time. So that's when I

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<v Speaker 2>started getting a little antsy. And then hair and makeup,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys. Hair was there. He started because he was

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<v Speaker 2>waiting on me to finish my nails. He started to

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<v Speaker 2>Na's hair. My sister and makeup, you guys. Her flight

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<v Speaker 2>was delayed two hours. That's kind of when I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna breathe. I'm just gonna breathe. I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>worst case, I'll do my own makeup or Jenica will

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<v Speaker 2>help me do my makeup. So anyways, makeup was supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to start at three thirty. My makeup artists did not

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<v Speaker 2>get there toe five because all of the flights were

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<v Speaker 2>being canceled because it was so damn hot in Vegas.

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<v Speaker 2>So the more heat, the more turbulence this whole thing, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway, she made it, and my sister, Jenica, well,

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<v Speaker 2>we got a little worried. So Jenica started kind of

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<v Speaker 2>doing my eyes and trying to help me because I

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of getting a little antsy. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh my god, everything's delaying. I have to

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<v Speaker 2>be out there at six thirty and I still have

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<v Speaker 2>to write my vowels from my phone to my book.

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<v Speaker 2>So I started freaking out. So anyways, I sat there,

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<v Speaker 2>she got there, we got hair and makeup ready. Everything

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<v Speaker 2>was good, and I was about to walk out and

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<v Speaker 2>I almost forgot well, mind you, I forgot the ring.

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<v Speaker 2>That's another thing, the ring I bought Emilio. I forgot it.

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<v Speaker 2>We left to Vegas and Amelia was like, hey, you

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<v Speaker 2>know we got the ring. Oh my god, your ring.

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<v Speaker 2>I freaking left it. So I had Janica, my sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank god, she was leaving a little later than we did,

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<v Speaker 2>so she picked it up for me. So that's one thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyways, then going back to my story, hair and

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<v Speaker 2>makeup was done. I started putting on the dress and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh my god, my vowels. I had completely

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<v Speaker 2>forgot you guys, and I was like, I cannot walk

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<v Speaker 2>with my phone. He'll be pissed. So the last hour,

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<v Speaker 2>around six o'clock, that's when I started kind of getting like, really, Auntie,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I have to get dressed. We still

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<v Speaker 2>have to take pictures here. The photographer was there, my

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<v Speaker 2>nieces were there. It was really really beautiful, and you

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<v Speaker 2>guys are going to see all the details in my docufollow.

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<v Speaker 2>But anyways, it was beautiful. But I started getting antsy,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's when I started feeling very nervous, like not

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<v Speaker 2>scared to get married. It was just like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>I need my person. The only person that calms me

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<v Speaker 2>down is a medio. And I was freaking out and

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to make sure that I did what he

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<v Speaker 2>wanted for us, to transfer my vowels from my phone

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<v Speaker 2>to the book that he bought us. So that's what

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<v Speaker 2>made me late because it was so important. And you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>this is what I mean. Phones are digging over our

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<v Speaker 2>lives because I don't remember anyone's phone number but his.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the only number that I know. And he made

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<v Speaker 2>me memorize it because he's like, Janey, if your phone

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<v Speaker 2>dies one day, who the hell are you gonna call?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I know no one's number, only his. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>only because he told me I had to memorize it.

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<v Speaker 2>But you guys, I am not used to writing in

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<v Speaker 2>my notes. My vowel seems so short and like cute,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like damn do I need to add more?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank god I didn't, because when I went to transfer them,

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<v Speaker 2>it took forever. My hand was hurting and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, this is so long. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I'm not used to like using my

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<v Speaker 2>hands to write. That's insane, you guys. I told myself

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<v Speaker 2>I need to start journaling more and writing because I

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<v Speaker 2>do everything on my notes. I love reading actual books,

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<v Speaker 2>physical books, but like when it comes to journaling, I

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<v Speaker 2>do everything on my phone and I'm just like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>this cannot happen. And that's why it took so damn long.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why I was ten minutes late, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>why I was freaking out. But anyways, I get out there,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm already bawling. I see my brother Mikey, and I'm like, brother,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I'm marrying my best friend. I can't

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<v Speaker 2>wait to see him. I'm freaking out. He's the only

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<v Speaker 2>one that calms me down. Like that's when I started

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<v Speaker 2>just freaking out. I was just more, I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to see him. I just want to fall into his arms.

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<v Speaker 2>As I was walking from my room to the altar,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, dude, I just want to lay in

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<v Speaker 2>bed with him, Oh my god, and like we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have dinner and all this stuff, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to lay with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to lay with him.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling so overwhelmed. And then he's the only one

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<v Speaker 2>that calms me down. And that's how I know. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is my fucking person. This is the person I

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<v Speaker 2>meant to be with. And as soon as I saw

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<v Speaker 2>my brother and I was like, brother, you look so handsome.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was telling him how he's gonna walk me

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<v Speaker 2>down the aisle because we didn't rehearse any of this.

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<v Speaker 2>This was all no. We didn't have any a dinner rehearsal.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't have any you know that mas. How do

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<v Speaker 2>you call the amas the bridesmaids? I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 2>maid of honor. My sisters are basically my maid of

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<v Speaker 2>honors because they were there with me. But it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>like something we talked about or my brother's Even the

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<v Speaker 2>day of I said, hey, guys, you guys are walking

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<v Speaker 2>me down the aisle.

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<v Speaker 1>Just FYI.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Mikey, you're going to start and then

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna take me to Johnny. Then Johnny, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>take me to a media and that's how it happened.

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<v Speaker 2>As soon as I saw my brother Mike, we were

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<v Speaker 2>talking and I was just telling him I love him, dude,

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<v Speaker 2>like I love him, and I just started crying. I

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<v Speaker 2>was already crying before I even started walking, and I

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<v Speaker 2>still couldn't see him. And then he took me to

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<v Speaker 2>Johnny and then I was just like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my god. The first thing I

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<v Speaker 2>told him media when I saw him was I missed

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<v Speaker 2>you so much. And I was crying and he was

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<v Speaker 2>just like, I know me too. It was so beautiful,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, and the vowels were amazing. I'm so proud

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<v Speaker 2>of both of us, and that was like, I think

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<v Speaker 2>the biggest compliment they gave us. Our guests were like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, the vowels. So many people were crying.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you could just feel the love and it

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<v Speaker 2>was so peaceful. After that, after I was just he

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<v Speaker 2>was holding my hand and I was looking into his eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, okay, yeah, I'm good now, okay cool.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel excited about the rest of the day because

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<v Speaker 2>walking there I wasn't. I was just like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be such a long day. I was just

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<v Speaker 2>being like, you know, just a baby. But then everything

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<v Speaker 2>just went so fun after that. And I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to give too many details because I want you guys

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<v Speaker 2>to see everything on the docu follow because my docu

0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:14.959
<v Speaker 2>cameras were there. But again, it was a very small

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<v Speaker 2>crowd and it was a very special, special ceremony. It

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<v Speaker 2>was so beautiful, exactly like what I wanted and I

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<v Speaker 2>dreamt of even better, I think than what I had imagined,

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<v Speaker 2>especially because we both love water, so there was like

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<v Speaker 2>a piece of like water with like a jacuzzi small

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<v Speaker 2>pool situation, and we both love that. And it was

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<v Speaker 2>just beautiful. It was perfect. It wasn't overly decorated. I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted the flowers to be wide. I wanted to be

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<v Speaker 2>very simple. I wanted my dress to be timeless, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think we nailed it. Like my designer, I told

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<v Speaker 2>her exactly the kind of fabric I wanted. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I want it to look like cake. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>how else to explain it, but like not a fond

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<v Speaker 2>of cake, like a butter cream cake, like very silky

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<v Speaker 2>and just delicious. And it was amazing, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>very worried, you guys, because after the miscarriage, I hadn't

0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:06.880
<v Speaker 2>gotten my period and I was feeling very bloated. My

0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:10.520
<v Speaker 2>hormones still aren't leveled, so I've been feeling very bloated,

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<v Speaker 2>and like my last two shows, like I could see

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<v Speaker 2>it in my wardrobe and I'm like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's my hormones. My body's still trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>back to normal, and I'm worrying white. So I was

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<v Speaker 2>very nervous, but I was like, you know what, even

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<v Speaker 2>when it came down to it my dress, because I

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<v Speaker 2>was worried about it not fitting, it fit perfectly and

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't care. I was just like, whatever, I'm marrying

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<v Speaker 2>my homeboy, this is my homie, this is my man,

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<v Speaker 2>this is my best friend, Like whatever. He loved me

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<v Speaker 2>when I was seventy six pounds heavier, So we're fine.

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<v Speaker 2>And even that, I didn't care.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just happy. It was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>After that, we went to take pictures. Then we had

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<v Speaker 2>a dinner and the dinner was fantastic, amazing. This is

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<v Speaker 2>what I meant. But I wanted it to be small

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<v Speaker 2>and intimate because I was able to go to everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>table and not feel overwhelmed and just see my friends

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<v Speaker 2>and family and tell them that I love them and

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<v Speaker 2>that I appreciate them being there. And I was having

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<v Speaker 2>a drink and we're having a good time, and I changed.

0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.920
<v Speaker 2>I had three changes, but I only ended up doing two.

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<v Speaker 2>And then after the dinner, we went to a club

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<v Speaker 2>and that was so fun. Had a lot of fun,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of fun. And then guys, check this out.

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<v Speaker 2>After the club, around two o'clock, I was already feeling buzzed.

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<v Speaker 1>So my husband was like, we gotta go.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, cool, let's go. We get in

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<v Speaker 2>the elevator. I was one of the first ones to

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<v Speaker 2>get on, so I didn't realize how many people were

0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:33.440
<v Speaker 2>getting on the elevator. There were twenty people in the elevator.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't ever do that, you guys. We got stuck in

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<v Speaker 2>the elevator.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we did. For two and a half hours.

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<v Speaker 2>We were stuck in the elevator. I had a relax

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<v Speaker 2>because Emilio he does suffer from anxiety. So I said, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to relax. I can't freak out because at

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<v Speaker 2>first I was like, oh my god, I can't breathe.

0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:53.600
<v Speaker 2>I was like okay, and I thought it twice and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Okay, something's happening. I was like, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to freak out in a stay calm. Because

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<v Speaker 2>Emilio's mom was also in the elevat with us, you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my god, he's if if I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not calm, he's going to freak out. Because there were

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<v Speaker 2>people freaking out again. It was all people I knew,

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<v Speaker 2>and I felt like I couldn't breathe. Mind you, it's

0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:15.200
<v Speaker 2>super freaking hot in Vegas. The music is blasting, okay,

0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:19.120
<v Speaker 2>blasting for like an hour, and so we were like,

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<v Speaker 2>please turn off the music because it's driving us nuts

0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.080
<v Speaker 2>because we were trying to talk. People were freaking out.

0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:25.800
<v Speaker 2>It was just too much. We were like so overstimulated,

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<v Speaker 2>it was. It was insane. Anyways, and media cracked open

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<v Speaker 2>the door him in one of our security guards, and

0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:33.680
<v Speaker 2>then we were I think that's when more people started

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<v Speaker 2>calming down because we started getting a little bit of air.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, that's what happened, guys. So it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>definitely a day and a night to remember in a

0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:44.400
<v Speaker 2>wedding to remember, because we could have died on our

0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:46.960
<v Speaker 2>wedding day. Thank god, we didn't, and thank God, everyone's safe.

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<v Speaker 2>They had to rescue us out of the damn elevator

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<v Speaker 2>you guys from you know, the elevator shaft, and they

0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:54.080
<v Speaker 2>put like a helmet on us and they put this

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing and like we had to get out one

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<v Speaker 2>by one. So by the time we got out of there,

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<v Speaker 2>it was four thirty in the morning. So that is

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<v Speaker 2>our story. We're going to be able to tell people now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a little funny, but when we were in there,

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<v Speaker 2>there was a moment where I was like, God, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let's talk a little bit Lord.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I was meditating. I was like, okay, I was chill.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly was chill because I always know God is going

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<v Speaker 2>to come through. But I did say, look, Lord, like

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<v Speaker 2>I still have a lot of things I want to

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<v Speaker 2>do and I just got married and this isn't I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to go out like that. And I was like, God,

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<v Speaker 2>you got this. So that's when everything switched and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, Okay, we're gonna be fine. But it did

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<v Speaker 2>feel eternal, and it's a good thing I guess to

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<v Speaker 2>tell our children or our child because I think we're

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<v Speaker 2>only going to have one or whatever God wants. And

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<v Speaker 2>the next day, I think we both woke up like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, did that just happen? And we were

0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:48.960
<v Speaker 2>like in our heads, but I had to shake it

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<v Speaker 2>off because I was like, no, this is our wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Our wedding was so beautiful. I don't want us to

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<v Speaker 2>just remember the damn elevator event. So I was like, no,

0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:58.200
<v Speaker 2>we have to get up and celebrate life because at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the day, God allowed us to live today,

0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:03.880
<v Speaker 2>and let's go to the pool and have fun. And

0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:06.639
<v Speaker 2>we did that and we continued with our celebration and

0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:10.320
<v Speaker 2>it was wonderful and it's just something to add to

0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:14.600
<v Speaker 2>our story. Like Kimberly Annell, my assistant who you guys

0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:17.040
<v Speaker 2>met here on the podcast already the next day, she

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<v Speaker 2>was just laughing because she wasn't on the elevator. She

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<v Speaker 2>went to sleep. She's like, hey, guys, I'm not going

0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:25.600
<v Speaker 2>to Dre's if that's okay. So she wasn't there with us,

0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:27.960
<v Speaker 2>but she did say She's like, I think it's just

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<v Speaker 2>really funny, like within five hours, you guys had the

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<v Speaker 2>highest of highs and the lowest of lows all in

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<v Speaker 2>one day. And I'm like yeah, she was just it

0:17:36.240 --> 0:17:38.040
<v Speaker 2>was after I was like, okay, I can laugh a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. So anyways, that is what happened. After the

0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:44.120
<v Speaker 2>festivities of the wedding. Now we can talk a little

0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:49.479
<v Speaker 2>bit about certain details. There are people that, yes, did

0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:53.040
<v Speaker 2>get their invitation only a few days before, and others

0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:56.600
<v Speaker 2>did know, like our immediate family, for about a few

0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:59.679
<v Speaker 2>months before. Not on purpose, you guys. I was just

0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:03.679
<v Speaker 2>so busy and so overwhelmed with life and work. I

0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:07.680
<v Speaker 2>tend to do that. I kind of procrastinate in that aspect,

0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:10.240
<v Speaker 2>where again I deal with things or things that I

0:18:10.280 --> 0:18:11.880
<v Speaker 2>have to do the week of I'm like, okay, this week,

0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:13.119
<v Speaker 2>I got to do this, this and this and that.

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<v Speaker 2>So some people did get the invitation a little late,

0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:19.840
<v Speaker 2>and yes, some others didn't get the invitation at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's not because I didn't want them there. It's

0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:25.399
<v Speaker 2>because it was just a different type of ceremony and

0:18:25.440 --> 0:18:28.720
<v Speaker 2>wedding and it was again meant for family only, and

0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:30.959
<v Speaker 2>then it just started kind of getting a little bit bigger.

0:18:31.560 --> 0:18:34.920
<v Speaker 2>And we are planning on having a more religious wedding

0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:38.800
<v Speaker 2>in the future the near future, and those people will

0:18:38.800 --> 0:18:41.320
<v Speaker 2>be invited. Other people that are still very important to

0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:43.840
<v Speaker 2>us that we love, but because we had this idea

0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:46.280
<v Speaker 2>of having a celebration later, we just kind of like

0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:49.320
<v Speaker 2>you know, said we'll invite them then. And people were

0:18:49.400 --> 0:18:52.520
<v Speaker 2>asking who made my dress? And her name is Cindy

0:18:53.920 --> 0:18:57.000
<v Speaker 2>of Our. I don't even think I'm pronouncing her name

0:18:57.200 --> 0:19:01.040
<v Speaker 2>her last name correctly, but she was awesome. She made

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<v Speaker 2>all three dresses, She made me three vels, She made

0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:06.000
<v Speaker 2>me two robes that I didn't even ask for. She

0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:08.280
<v Speaker 2>gifted me the robes which was like for me to

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<v Speaker 2>get ready, and then one for like, you know, for

0:19:10.520 --> 0:19:13.680
<v Speaker 2>consummating the wedding, which was really cute. And she also

0:19:13.760 --> 0:19:18.320
<v Speaker 2>made my mother in law's dress and my grandmother, well

0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:20.600
<v Speaker 2>a Medio's grandmother who's now like my grandmother who I've

0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:25.399
<v Speaker 2>adopted her like outfit so cute. And we did have cake,

0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:27.960
<v Speaker 2>you guys. We had a strawberry cake, which is so

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<v Speaker 2>weird because usually I'm more of like, we both love

0:19:30.840 --> 0:19:34.600
<v Speaker 2>funfetti type of cake or chocolate cake or Emelio loves vanilla,

0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:37.840
<v Speaker 2>but we went with a strawberry cake. We had a

0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:40.560
<v Speaker 2>tasting and we went with a strawberry cake, which was

0:19:40.760 --> 0:19:43.320
<v Speaker 2>so weird because a Medio doesn't even really like strawberries,

0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.520
<v Speaker 2>but he loved the cake. The cake was so freaking

0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:50.040
<v Speaker 2>delicious and very simple. I wanted everything very simple, just

0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:53.679
<v Speaker 2>very classy and elegant. And again, timeless is like the

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<v Speaker 2>only word that I kept like thinking of. I'm like,

0:19:55.520 --> 0:19:57.879
<v Speaker 2>I want everything to be timeless. And the cake was

0:19:57.920 --> 0:20:01.359
<v Speaker 2>so pretty, and we the whole thing where he's feeding

0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:03.239
<v Speaker 2>me cake and I fed him cake. It was just

0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:07.600
<v Speaker 2>really cute. And I think my favorite moment of the

0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:12.200
<v Speaker 2>entire wedding, i'd have to say, was when I saw him,

0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:15.800
<v Speaker 2>when I just was like, oh, there's my safe haven.

0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:18.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm like freaking out and the only one that could

0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:20.520
<v Speaker 2>just tell me everything's gonna be okay it's him, and

0:20:20.520 --> 0:20:22.320
<v Speaker 2>I was just like oh. It was just that moment

0:20:22.320 --> 0:20:25.040
<v Speaker 2>of relief of like, oh my god, I can breathe again.

0:20:25.160 --> 0:20:27.320
<v Speaker 2>And I miss him because I missed him. I really did.

0:20:27.480 --> 0:20:30.360
<v Speaker 2>Like it might sound silly, we didn't sleep together one night,

0:20:30.400 --> 0:20:32.720
<v Speaker 2>and we didn't really like talk for hours.

0:20:32.760 --> 0:20:36.359
<v Speaker 1>It was just a lot. That's how I knew this

0:20:36.440 --> 0:20:36.800
<v Speaker 1>is it.

0:20:36.920 --> 0:20:39.359
<v Speaker 2>This is the person for me, Like I really enjoy

0:20:39.400 --> 0:20:41.919
<v Speaker 2>my time with him, he doesn't bore me, He's my

0:20:41.960 --> 0:20:45.040
<v Speaker 2>favorite person to be around. Everything I said in my vowels,

0:20:45.040 --> 0:20:47.919
<v Speaker 2>which you guys will hear one day, is absolutely what

0:20:48.000 --> 0:20:51.800
<v Speaker 2>I felt. I wanted it to be one hundred percent honest,

0:20:52.280 --> 0:20:55.919
<v Speaker 2>and it was some like he's my favorite travel buddy,

0:20:55.960 --> 0:20:59.679
<v Speaker 2>he's my favorite human, like I don't get bored. And

0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:02.440
<v Speaker 2>I think that's why it's my favorite moment. Was because

0:21:02.480 --> 0:21:04.800
<v Speaker 2>when I saw him, I wasn't crying because I was

0:21:04.840 --> 0:21:07.760
<v Speaker 2>getting cold feet. I wasn't crying because I was scared

0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:09.320
<v Speaker 2>or nervous or I'm like, oh my god, I'm gonna

0:21:09.359 --> 0:21:12.480
<v Speaker 2>be married. I'm committed, like I'm like, can't do anything

0:21:12.480 --> 0:21:15.720
<v Speaker 2>in my life, like no, Like we had these conversations

0:21:15.760 --> 0:21:18.000
<v Speaker 2>prior to our wedding, like what I wanted, what he

0:21:18.160 --> 0:21:22.680
<v Speaker 2>expected as well in a marriage, and I didn't feel

0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:26.439
<v Speaker 2>pressured in any way. It was just I missed this person.

0:21:26.480 --> 0:21:32.320
<v Speaker 2>I love this person, like I cannot wait to marry them.

0:21:32.359 --> 0:21:34.040
<v Speaker 1>So it was just so amazing.

0:21:34.359 --> 0:21:36.080
<v Speaker 2>And a lot of people were asking me, you know,

0:21:36.119 --> 0:21:38.399
<v Speaker 2>because I should be on my honeymoon right now, and

0:21:38.440 --> 0:21:40.439
<v Speaker 2>they're like, why aren't showing your honeymoon? Like, you know,

0:21:40.480 --> 0:21:42.240
<v Speaker 2>people think that I'm off social media because I'm not

0:21:42.280 --> 0:21:44.920
<v Speaker 2>on social media right now. People think that it's because

0:21:45.960 --> 0:21:49.280
<v Speaker 2>we're on our honeymoon, and that's not true.

0:21:49.320 --> 0:21:50.280
<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of work.

0:21:50.400 --> 0:21:53.080
<v Speaker 2>I actually had a lot of work the monday after

0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:55.359
<v Speaker 2>my wedding, but I had to cancel it because I

0:21:55.359 --> 0:21:56.560
<v Speaker 2>don't know if you guys can hear it, but I'm

0:21:56.560 --> 0:21:57.160
<v Speaker 2>a little sick.

0:21:57.200 --> 0:21:58.160
<v Speaker 1>I got sick.

0:21:58.640 --> 0:22:00.439
<v Speaker 2>My throat has been acting funny, and I think it

0:22:00.480 --> 0:22:02.960
<v Speaker 2>was just I was dealing with the cough the day

0:22:02.960 --> 0:22:05.040
<v Speaker 2>before the wedding and then I think it just got

0:22:05.080 --> 0:22:07.080
<v Speaker 2>worse because of the heat and then going into the

0:22:07.119 --> 0:22:09.240
<v Speaker 2>hotels and the whole thing. So it's just like I think,

0:22:09.240 --> 0:22:11.000
<v Speaker 2>once I got back home, I was in like my

0:22:11.040 --> 0:22:13.560
<v Speaker 2>comfort and I let like my guards down, and my

0:22:13.600 --> 0:22:15.199
<v Speaker 2>body was just like, Okay, you need a chill. You've

0:22:15.240 --> 0:22:17.520
<v Speaker 2>been drinking and partying and you know what I mean,

0:22:17.520 --> 0:22:20.000
<v Speaker 2>and you had a lot of fun. And my immune

0:22:20.000 --> 0:22:23.000
<v Speaker 2>system just, you know, took a toll. But I'm better.

0:22:23.480 --> 0:22:25.480
<v Speaker 2>So we're not on our honeymoon. We want to take

0:22:25.480 --> 0:22:27.960
<v Speaker 2>a honeymoon at the end of the year, and I

0:22:28.000 --> 0:22:31.360
<v Speaker 2>think we have decided to do Asia. We were between

0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:33.919
<v Speaker 2>Asia or Europe, and I think we're going to do

0:22:34.000 --> 0:22:37.200
<v Speaker 2>somewhere in Asia. We actually have to finalize that soon,

0:22:37.880 --> 0:22:40.919
<v Speaker 2>but we do. We're definitely going to do a honeymoon

0:22:41.160 --> 0:22:46.639
<v Speaker 2>and practice making children. You know, we're having a lot

0:22:46.680 --> 0:22:48.200
<v Speaker 2>of fun in that aspect. And now, like I told

0:22:48.240 --> 0:22:49.800
<v Speaker 2>my pastor, and I was telling I don't even remember

0:22:49.800 --> 0:22:51.840
<v Speaker 2>who I was, Like, you guys were not fornicating anymore.

0:22:52.600 --> 0:22:55.639
<v Speaker 2>Like we're just we're having great sex and it's awesome.

0:22:55.840 --> 0:22:58.359
<v Speaker 2>So now we're having married sex. Does it feel the same?

0:22:58.359 --> 0:22:58.680
<v Speaker 2>I love?

0:23:00.040 --> 0:23:00.720
<v Speaker 1>Does it feel better?

0:23:00.800 --> 0:23:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Or no?

0:23:01.840 --> 0:23:03.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Has he put two thumbs up? You guys? All right,

0:23:03.600 --> 0:23:03.960
<v Speaker 1>we're good.

0:23:04.119 --> 0:23:08.119
<v Speaker 2>He's in the living room because today I'm doing the

0:23:08.119 --> 0:23:10.840
<v Speaker 2>podcast you guys from my home and what else?

0:23:10.880 --> 0:23:11.960
<v Speaker 1>What else can I tell you guys?

0:23:11.960 --> 0:23:12.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, my mother.

0:23:14.400 --> 0:23:15.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you guys noticed in the pictures

0:23:15.960 --> 0:23:20.719
<v Speaker 2>that I posted on Instagram, but on my bouquete of

0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:24.520
<v Speaker 2>flowers Miramo, I had a picture of my mother and

0:23:24.560 --> 0:23:27.520
<v Speaker 2>I walked down the aisle with a very special song.

0:23:27.560 --> 0:23:29.520
<v Speaker 2>And we've talked about this song on the podcast, I

0:23:29.520 --> 0:23:32.160
<v Speaker 2>think in the first season. It's a song by Shade

0:23:32.600 --> 0:23:35.520
<v Speaker 2>and it's called by Your Side and it's one of

0:23:35.520 --> 0:23:37.440
<v Speaker 2>my favorite songs. And let me tell you a little

0:23:37.480 --> 0:23:39.840
<v Speaker 2>bit about this song because when I was going through

0:23:39.880 --> 0:23:43.359
<v Speaker 2>it very heavily in twenty In twenty thirteen, I was

0:23:43.440 --> 0:23:46.840
<v Speaker 2>driving Johnny to school and I was feeling very sad,

0:23:46.880 --> 0:23:49.000
<v Speaker 2>but I wanted to be very strong, and I was

0:23:49.080 --> 0:23:52.480
<v Speaker 2>just very overwhelmed, and I was just like, very sad

0:23:52.520 --> 0:23:55.119
<v Speaker 2>and depressed and very angry during that time, as you

0:23:55.160 --> 0:23:57.520
<v Speaker 2>guys know, and I've expressed here. And when I dropped

0:23:57.560 --> 0:24:01.080
<v Speaker 2>Johnny off at school, as soon as I dropped him off,

0:24:01.640 --> 0:24:05.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how, by the glory of God, the

0:24:05.080 --> 0:24:07.000
<v Speaker 2>grace of God, I did not get in an accident

0:24:07.040 --> 0:24:09.440
<v Speaker 2>because I was driving my mom's Mercedes that day. Because

0:24:09.480 --> 0:24:12.000
<v Speaker 2>Johnny loved to go in that particular car because that's

0:24:12.040 --> 0:24:14.080
<v Speaker 2>the car that my mom would take him to school in,

0:24:14.200 --> 0:24:16.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, and he would love listening to the Wave

0:24:17.440 --> 0:24:20.679
<v Speaker 2>because that was my mom's favorite ninety four seven the

0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:24.600
<v Speaker 2>way that one that was my mom's favorite station. So

0:24:24.760 --> 0:24:26.440
<v Speaker 2>that was like a little thing that we had. Let's

0:24:26.440 --> 0:24:28.000
<v Speaker 2>go in the Mercedes, I'll drop you off at school,

0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:29.639
<v Speaker 2>and we'll listen to the Wave. So as soon as

0:24:29.640 --> 0:24:32.479
<v Speaker 2>I dropped off Johnny, I was crying. I was a

0:24:32.520 --> 0:24:35.200
<v Speaker 2>freaking mess. I was just having one of those moments

0:24:35.240 --> 0:24:37.439
<v Speaker 2>of like I don't know if I can continue on,

0:24:37.760 --> 0:24:41.080
<v Speaker 2>like I'm just devastated in my life. And I was

0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:42.919
<v Speaker 2>praying and I was like, Mom, talk to me, like

0:24:42.960 --> 0:24:44.920
<v Speaker 2>I need to hear from you, like guide me, give

0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:48.920
<v Speaker 2>me a sign. And my mom was a huge Shadai fan,

0:24:49.680 --> 0:24:52.280
<v Speaker 2>and I knew of Shade because of my mom, and

0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:55.760
<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, that song came on and I

0:24:55.800 --> 0:24:57.840
<v Speaker 2>feel like the times that I've talked to my mom

0:24:57.920 --> 0:24:59.800
<v Speaker 2>or when I feel my mom is through music. So

0:25:00.040 --> 0:25:02.400
<v Speaker 2>I felt and I took that as a sign because

0:25:02.400 --> 0:25:04.120
<v Speaker 2>if you guys listen to that song and you break

0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:07.320
<v Speaker 2>it down, it was like I'm here, I'm by your side.

0:25:07.359 --> 0:25:09.679
<v Speaker 2>You think I'm gonna leave you, like I'm here. So

0:25:09.760 --> 0:25:12.200
<v Speaker 2>I was just like after that day, that song meant

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:14.080
<v Speaker 2>so much to me, and every time I would listen

0:25:14.160 --> 0:25:15.520
<v Speaker 2>to it, I would just cry or would give me

0:25:15.640 --> 0:25:18.040
<v Speaker 2>hope of like she's here with me. So that's why

0:25:18.080 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 2>I chose that song. But not only because of that.

0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:22.320
<v Speaker 2>It was kind of like my mom walking me down

0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:25.480
<v Speaker 2>the aisle as well, and I had her picture, but

0:25:25.600 --> 0:25:29.760
<v Speaker 2>also because Emilio dedicated me that song, so to me,

0:25:30.040 --> 0:25:32.560
<v Speaker 2>it was like a sign of when he dedicated me

0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:37.280
<v Speaker 2>that song he didn't know that my mom had from

0:25:37.320 --> 0:25:40.000
<v Speaker 2>heaven dedicated me that song, and that's how I took

0:25:40.040 --> 0:25:42.720
<v Speaker 2>it right. And when he dedicated to me that song,

0:25:42.760 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my god. Like in that moment,

0:25:45.000 --> 0:25:46.679
<v Speaker 2>I felt like, this is the guy. I think my

0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:49.720
<v Speaker 2>mom sent him to me. And I don't know if

0:25:49.760 --> 0:25:52.680
<v Speaker 2>I ever even told Emilio that, but that's how I felt.

0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:55.480
<v Speaker 2>And it was like confirmation, like, oh my gosh, this

0:25:55.520 --> 0:25:59.000
<v Speaker 2>guy's special. He's not just another guy. And that's why

0:25:59.000 --> 0:26:01.719
<v Speaker 2>I walked down the eyele with that song. And I

0:26:01.800 --> 0:26:05.399
<v Speaker 2>definitely did feel my mom. I felt her more in

0:26:05.440 --> 0:26:07.360
<v Speaker 2>the room when I was getting ready, when I saw

0:26:07.400 --> 0:26:10.120
<v Speaker 2>my sisters and they were there, I felt her there.

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:12.760
<v Speaker 2>I felt like she's here with me. You know. When

0:26:12.800 --> 0:26:15.719
<v Speaker 2>my nieces were there was such a beautiful moment, you guys,

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:19.560
<v Speaker 2>Like my nieces were helping me Jayla who's now fifteen

0:26:19.640 --> 0:26:22.879
<v Speaker 2>years old, going to be fifteen, helping me put on

0:26:22.920 --> 0:26:25.439
<v Speaker 2>my shoes. It was just beautiful when I felt my

0:26:25.520 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 2>mom there, And of course when I heard the song,

0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:29.840
<v Speaker 2>I felt like she was walking me down the aisle

0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:32.560
<v Speaker 2>because that's how I had planned it, and it was

0:26:32.680 --> 0:26:35.520
<v Speaker 2>just so perfect, you guys, I wouldn't change a thing,

0:26:35.680 --> 0:26:38.640
<v Speaker 2>not even the elevator thing, because I feel like even

0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:44.200
<v Speaker 2>the whole elevator event, just like I felt safe because

0:26:44.200 --> 0:26:47.800
<v Speaker 2>Emilia was there and I was like, okay, he's here,

0:26:47.920 --> 0:26:51.280
<v Speaker 2>like he's the most important person in my life, you know,

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:53.440
<v Speaker 2>and Jenica was there. I was freaking out because I

0:26:53.480 --> 0:26:56.400
<v Speaker 2>wish Jenica hadn't been there because then my whole thing

0:26:56.440 --> 0:27:00.479
<v Speaker 2>of like mama bear and big sister want to like her.

0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:01.840
<v Speaker 2>I was just like, I need you to get off

0:27:01.880 --> 0:27:03.680
<v Speaker 2>the elevator first before me, because I'm not going to

0:27:03.720 --> 0:27:06.719
<v Speaker 2>get off this elevator with you still in here. So

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:09.280
<v Speaker 2>I made sure take her off before me. Take Emilia,

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 2>take them because I know myself, so I forced both

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 2>of them to get out of the elevator before I did.

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:20.080
<v Speaker 2>That's just the motherly person I am. I guess I

0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:22.239
<v Speaker 2>don't know, call it what you will, but even that,

0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 2>even that whole elevator situation, I feel like it just

0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:29.280
<v Speaker 2>really confirmed to me this is the person and we're

0:27:29.320 --> 0:27:32.119
<v Speaker 2>stuck together, you know, we're stuck together forever. It was

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 2>almost like that thing that kind of like solidified the

0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:37.919
<v Speaker 2>whole day and I we went through it together, and

0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:40.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm so glad that we were together and he wasn't

0:27:40.160 --> 0:27:43.119
<v Speaker 2>alone or I wasn't alone the elevator, like he wouldn't

0:27:43.119 --> 0:27:45.840
<v Speaker 2>have allowed it anyways. Like he's always like protecting me

0:27:45.880 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 2>and taking care of me and making sure I'm fine.

0:27:47.520 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 2>But even with that, guys, it was the most beautiful

0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:56.000
<v Speaker 2>day of my life. And I'm just I'm just grateful.

0:27:56.119 --> 0:28:00.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm grateful that God sent me this person and the

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:02.560
<v Speaker 2>person that I can count on and something that I

0:28:02.600 --> 0:28:05.399
<v Speaker 2>will share with you, guys. In my vowels, I said,

0:28:05.920 --> 0:28:08.720
<v Speaker 2>thank you for loving me like no one else has

0:28:08.720 --> 0:28:13.879
<v Speaker 2>ever loved me, not even my parents. And I really

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:17.679
<v Speaker 2>mean that. And I know that might sound weird, but

0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 2>I asked my sister Jackie the other day after the

0:28:20.800 --> 0:28:22.399
<v Speaker 2>wedding and I said, look, I said this in my

0:28:22.480 --> 0:28:24.679
<v Speaker 2>vowels because other, I know people heard it because the

0:28:24.720 --> 0:28:27.159
<v Speaker 2>microphone was amazing. So I all the guests heard my vowels.

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:29.879
<v Speaker 2>They heard our vowels like clearly. And I said, I

0:28:29.880 --> 0:28:33.479
<v Speaker 2>don't know. Did the kids, my siblings, did they mention anything.

0:28:33.560 --> 0:28:35.560
<v Speaker 2>Did I offend you, guys? I don't mean to offend

0:28:35.600 --> 0:28:37.679
<v Speaker 2>you or to take anything from mom, because I know

0:28:37.760 --> 0:28:38.600
<v Speaker 2>my mom loved me.

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:40.120
<v Speaker 1>I know she did.

0:28:40.200 --> 0:28:44.200
<v Speaker 2>I know she didn't know how to show it sometimes

0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:47.200
<v Speaker 2>because I was the eldest and we were so close

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 2>in age. But the love that I'm experiencing right now,

0:28:51.720 --> 0:28:54.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel like God sent it to me so that

0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 2>I can really believe and know what real love feels like,

0:28:57.840 --> 0:29:01.760
<v Speaker 2>because he's been very patient and even in my ugliest moments,

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:06.040
<v Speaker 2>he's been very patient and loving and gentle. And you know,

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:09.600
<v Speaker 2>sometimes I'm not saying he's never like gotten crazy or

0:29:09.600 --> 0:29:13.720
<v Speaker 2>anything like that, like we're all human, but I want

0:29:13.760 --> 0:29:19.160
<v Speaker 2>to say ninety percent of our relationship he has been

0:29:19.320 --> 0:29:24.960
<v Speaker 2>very gentle and diligent, and that stability that my life needed,

0:29:25.520 --> 0:29:28.600
<v Speaker 2>and the love that he shows me, I've never experienced

0:29:28.760 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 2>where it's like.

0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 1>It's just beautiful.

0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:34.479
<v Speaker 2>It's I don't want to get into details, but like

0:29:34.600 --> 0:29:38.520
<v Speaker 2>it's just a beautiful thing that I'm experiencing. And my dad,

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure he loves me and loved me when I

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 2>was little and things happened there, but I can't explain

0:29:46.320 --> 0:29:48.840
<v Speaker 2>it like it's this is this is a different type

0:29:48.840 --> 0:29:52.440
<v Speaker 2>of love, you know, And I really truly mean that,

0:29:52.600 --> 0:29:58.080
<v Speaker 2>And without offending anybody, Because my mother was a great mother,

0:29:58.200 --> 0:29:59.960
<v Speaker 2>she wasn't a perfect mother, but she was the perfect

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:02.760
<v Speaker 2>mother for me who I needed. And now I have

0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:06.400
<v Speaker 2>the perfect man for me. I'm not perfect, he's not perfect,

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:11.680
<v Speaker 2>but it's that person that just came to really give

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 2>me hope and for me to believe in love again

0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 2>and in marriage because I didn't for so long because

0:30:20.280 --> 0:30:23.520
<v Speaker 2>I was let down. I felt let down, and he

0:30:23.600 --> 0:30:26.400
<v Speaker 2>has helped me heal. Because that's another thing. I was

0:30:26.520 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 2>very honest with him, like, hey, I'm not doing good

0:30:29.080 --> 0:30:31.640
<v Speaker 2>when we first met, and he has helped and said

0:30:31.680 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 2>I want to help you. You don't have to do

0:30:33.720 --> 0:30:39.080
<v Speaker 2>this alone. And he's never once abandoned me, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>had a lot of abandonment issues because of my childhood

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<v Speaker 2>and things that have happened. So that's what I meant,

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<v Speaker 2>and not that I feel like I have to explain

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<v Speaker 2>myself because I really don't care what anyone thinks besides

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<v Speaker 2>my siblings, really, but I just wanted to explain it

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<v Speaker 2>because I just hope that everyone can find that type

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<v Speaker 2>of love one day, because we do deserve that, and

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<v Speaker 2>I for so long felt that maybe I don't deserve

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<v Speaker 2>this person because I am so jaded. I have so

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<v Speaker 2>many things I have to work through and now I

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<v Speaker 2>know that I do deserve it, that it's heaven sent,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's going to be work, and we both have

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<v Speaker 2>to put in our part, and I'm willing to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's no other person that I'm I would love

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<v Speaker 2>to do this with. I just wish that for everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope that everyone can find that and really experience

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<v Speaker 2>that and give themselves a chance to love and to

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<v Speaker 2>love again and not give up on love, even if

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<v Speaker 2>you've been hurt, and if you've been cheated on, and

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<v Speaker 2>if you've been lied to, and if you've also been

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<v Speaker 2>the person to hurt other people, like we deserve to

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<v Speaker 2>be loved no matter what and experience this, but we

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<v Speaker 2>have to be open to it, and we have to

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<v Speaker 2>be willing to do the work, our own work, our

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<v Speaker 2>own internal work, so that we can attract who we

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<v Speaker 2>want to attract. And I think that we both were

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<v Speaker 2>in that space in our life where we were working

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<v Speaker 2>on ourselves, and now we can work on ourselves together

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<v Speaker 2>and for each other. And that's what it is. And

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<v Speaker 2>it took me a long time to understand that, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know it won't be perfect, but it's okay. I

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<v Speaker 2>am willing to put in the work and I know

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<v Speaker 2>he is too, and that's all there is to it, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, that is my story. And yeah, I just

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to take a little sigh because I really wish

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<v Speaker 2>I can go back to that moment. It was so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm also glad to be home because I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 2>Vegas out. There's a lot of days in Vegas and

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<v Speaker 2>I can only do like maybe three days in Vegas, max.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was awesome, it was beautiful, it was perfect,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just wanted to share that with my listeners

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<v Speaker 2>here on Cheeky's and Chill because I know you guys

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<v Speaker 2>would appreciate it. So thank you for listening, Thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for being interested in my love life and in my

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<v Speaker 2>marriage now, and i'll I can ask for is for

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<v Speaker 2>you guys to continue to pray for us, to pray

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<v Speaker 2>for me for our marriage, and I will, of course

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