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Speaker 1: What up, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to this week's episode of Cheeky's and Chill. Thank

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Speaker 2: you all for tuning in, and believe me, you're going

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Speaker 2: to want to listen to this episode because let me

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Speaker 2: introduce myself as Jinnay Sanchez. Woo.

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Speaker 1: I'm a married woman now, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I am married, and I want to talk to you

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Speaker 2: guys about everything, well not everything, but most of everything

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Speaker 2: that happened in my wedding. So let's get started, okay, guys. So, yes,

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Speaker 2: I am now Jinney Sanchez. And yes, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: change my last name. That is one of the biggest

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Speaker 2: questions that I have been getting the past few days.

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Speaker 2: Are you going to change your last name? Are you

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Speaker 2: going to hyphen it? No, I'm going to change it,

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Speaker 2: you guys. I'm just waiting for the marriage certificate and

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Speaker 2: I'm going to go with it because he deserves it

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Speaker 2: and that's it and I'm happy to do that and

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Speaker 2: I can't wait. I'm actually thinking if I should had

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Speaker 2: a middle name since I don't have a middle name.

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Speaker 2: But that's a conversation I have to have with my husband.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, husband, it's so crazy. Still still, it's

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Speaker 2: so weird.

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Speaker 1: Like coming out.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's beautiful, but it feels like just

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Speaker 2: foreign obviously. But anyways, I'm very proud. So I'll keep

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Speaker 2: you guys updated on when I change my name and

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Speaker 2: if I decide to do a middle name or not.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not going to say the middle name yet

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Speaker 2: until I figure that out, but I have the idea already.

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Speaker 2: I already know what I want. So yes, I am

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Speaker 2: changing my last name and now talking about that now

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Speaker 2: that I am a married woman. Let me tell you

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Speaker 2: guys a little bit about the wedding. We got married

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Speaker 2: in Vegas. I'm sure you guys have seen some videos

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Speaker 2: a little bit of footage on social media, but it

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Speaker 2: was in Vegas, and I wanted it very small and

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Speaker 2: intimate and very close, just family. It was just gonna

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Speaker 2: be family, very immediate family. And then it just started

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Speaker 2: have to like stop it at a point because it

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Speaker 2: and I wanted the most was like not to spend

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Speaker 2: a lot of money. We wanted it to be very

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Speaker 2: usually when you have events where you have parties, like

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Speaker 2: you're hosting and you have to go say hi, you

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Speaker 2: never get to enjoy the damn party. And that's one

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Speaker 2: thing that was very important to Emilio. He's like, I

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Speaker 2: want to enjoy my wedding day. I want you to

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Speaker 2: enjoy it. I want to enjoy you. I want us

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Speaker 2: to be present. And it was exactly that. It was

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Speaker 2: so perfect, you guys, so beautiful. It was hot as

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Speaker 2: hell in Vegas.

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Speaker 1: It was like one.

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Speaker 2: Hundred and eight I believe, but the days prior to

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Speaker 2: to have because it was like, you know, July and

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Speaker 2: it was going to be very hot. I wanted a

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Speaker 2: evening ceremony, so we did get married at seven o'clock.

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Speaker 1: Of course, I was late. Okay, I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: I was late, and then I was so stressed out

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Speaker 2: Emillion knows who he's marrying, Like he knows. I'm not

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Speaker 1: And if everyone. That's not who I am. You guys.

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Speaker 2: If I'm late, it's always because something happened, Like it's

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Speaker 2: just honestly, I'm not even like lying. So yes, I

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Speaker 2: I was like, they're sitting outside. It was like pullside

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Speaker 2: So I was worried about the guest. I was worried

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Speaker 1: It was my idea.

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Speaker 2: I told him, look, let's not sleep in the same

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Speaker 2: and the whole thing was, We're just going to text

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Speaker 2: And that's basically what we did. He texted me first

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Speaker 2: at the altar. And then I sent him two songs,

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Speaker 2: and the two songs were I'll meet you at the altar. Bye.

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Speaker 2: I forgot the name of the damn group. It just completely.

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Speaker 2: I drew blink, meet me at the altar with your

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Speaker 2: watdress that song right, And then I sent him the

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Speaker 2: Shania Twain song There's Still the One, the only one

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Speaker 1: That song. I'm sure you guys have heard it.

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Speaker 2: So I sent him those two songs, and then after that,

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Speaker 2: Silence and Mind you, and Media is a type of

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Speaker 2: man that asks me at least every hour, babe, are

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? Are you hungry? Did you eat?

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Speaker 2: You want me to send you a coffee. He's so attentive,

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Speaker 2: I could just keep praying that because I know it's

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Speaker 2: So anyways, going back to my story, so we didn't

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Speaker 2: I started writing my vowels. He bought us these books,

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Speaker 2: absolutely not. You are not going to walk up to

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Speaker 2: But anyways, it was beautiful. But I started getting antsy,

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Speaker 2: to the book that he bought us. So that's what

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Speaker 2: this is what I mean. Phones are digging over our

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Speaker 2: That's the only number that I know. And he made

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Speaker 2: me memorize it because he's like, Janey, if your phone

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Speaker 2: of having a celebration later, we just kind of like

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00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,320
Speaker 2: you know, said we'll invite them then. And people were

429
00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:52,520
Speaker 2: asking who made my dress? And her name is Cindy

430
00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:57,000
Speaker 2: of Our. I don't even think I'm pronouncing her name

431
00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:01,040
Speaker 2: her last name correctly, but she was awesome. She made

432
00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,680
Speaker 2: all three dresses, She made me three vels, She made

433
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:06,000
Speaker 2: me two robes that I didn't even ask for. She

434
00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:08,280
Speaker 2: gifted me the robes which was like for me to

435
00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:10,439
Speaker 2: get ready, and then one for like, you know, for

436
00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:13,680
Speaker 2: consummating the wedding, which was really cute. And she also

437
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:18,320
Speaker 2: made my mother in law's dress and my grandmother, well

438
00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,600
Speaker 2: a Medio's grandmother who's now like my grandmother who I've

439
00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:25,399
Speaker 2: adopted her like outfit so cute. And we did have cake,

440
00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,960
Speaker 2: you guys. We had a strawberry cake, which is so

441
00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,680
Speaker 2: weird because usually I'm more of like, we both love

442
00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:34,600
Speaker 2: funfetti type of cake or chocolate cake or Emelio loves vanilla,

443
00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,840
Speaker 2: but we went with a strawberry cake. We had a

444
00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,560
Speaker 2: tasting and we went with a strawberry cake, which was

445
00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,320
Speaker 2: so weird because a Medio doesn't even really like strawberries,

446
00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,520
Speaker 2: but he loved the cake. The cake was so freaking

447
00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:50,040
Speaker 2: delicious and very simple. I wanted everything very simple, just

448
00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,679
Speaker 2: very classy and elegant. And again, timeless is like the

449
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,480
Speaker 2: only word that I kept like thinking of. I'm like,

450
00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,879
Speaker 2: I want everything to be timeless. And the cake was

451
00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,359
Speaker 2: so pretty, and we the whole thing where he's feeding

452
00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,239
Speaker 2: me cake and I fed him cake. It was just

453
00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:07,600
Speaker 2: really cute. And I think my favorite moment of the

454
00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:12,200
Speaker 2: entire wedding, i'd have to say, was when I saw him,

455
00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,800
Speaker 2: when I just was like, oh, there's my safe haven.

456
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,720
Speaker 2: I'm like freaking out and the only one that could

457
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,520
Speaker 2: just tell me everything's gonna be okay it's him, and

458
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 2: I was just like oh. It was just that moment

459
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,040
Speaker 2: of relief of like, oh my god, I can breathe again.

460
00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 2: And I miss him because I missed him. I really did.

461
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,360
Speaker 2: Like it might sound silly, we didn't sleep together one night,

462
00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,720
Speaker 2: and we didn't really like talk for hours.

463
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:36,359
Speaker 1: It was just a lot. That's how I knew this

464
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 1: is it.

465
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,359
Speaker 2: This is the person for me, Like I really enjoy

466
00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,919
Speaker 2: my time with him, he doesn't bore me, He's my

467
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 2: favorite person to be around. Everything I said in my vowels,

468
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,919
Speaker 2: which you guys will hear one day, is absolutely what

469
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 2: I felt. I wanted it to be one hundred percent honest,

470
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,919
Speaker 2: and it was some like he's my favorite travel buddy,

471
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:59,679
Speaker 2: he's my favorite human, like I don't get bored. And

472
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,440
Speaker 2: I think that's why it's my favorite moment. Was because

473
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 2: when I saw him, I wasn't crying because I was

474
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 2: getting cold feet. I wasn't crying because I was scared

475
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 2: or nervous or I'm like, oh my god, I'm gonna

476
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 2: be married. I'm committed, like I'm like, can't do anything

477
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 2: in my life, like no, Like we had these conversations

478
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 2: prior to our wedding, like what I wanted, what he

479
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:22,680
Speaker 2: expected as well in a marriage, and I didn't feel

480
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:26,439
Speaker 2: pressured in any way. It was just I missed this person.

481
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 2: I love this person, like I cannot wait to marry them.

482
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 1: So it was just so amazing.

483
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 2: And a lot of people were asking me, you know,

484
00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,399
Speaker 2: because I should be on my honeymoon right now, and

485
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,439
Speaker 2: they're like, why aren't showing your honeymoon? Like, you know,

486
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 2: people think that I'm off social media because I'm not

487
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 2: on social media right now. People think that it's because

488
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 2: we're on our honeymoon, and that's not true.

489
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: I have a lot of work.

490
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 2: I actually had a lot of work the monday after

491
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 2: my wedding, but I had to cancel it because I

492
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 2: don't know if you guys can hear it, but I'm

493
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:57,160
Speaker 2: a little sick.

494
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,160
Speaker 1: I got sick.

495
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,439
Speaker 2: My throat has been acting funny, and I think it

496
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 2: was just I was dealing with the cough the day

497
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 2: before the wedding and then I think it just got

498
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 2: worse because of the heat and then going into the

499
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 2: hotels and the whole thing. So it's just like I think,

500
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 2: once I got back home, I was in like my

501
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 2: comfort and I let like my guards down, and my

502
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,199
Speaker 2: body was just like, Okay, you need a chill. You've

503
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 2: been drinking and partying and you know what I mean,

504
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 2: and you had a lot of fun. And my immune

505
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 2: system just, you know, took a toll. But I'm better.

506
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 2: So we're not on our honeymoon. We want to take

507
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 2: a honeymoon at the end of the year, and I

508
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:31,360
Speaker 2: think we have decided to do Asia. We were between

509
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,919
Speaker 2: Asia or Europe, and I think we're going to do

510
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 2: somewhere in Asia. We actually have to finalize that soon,

511
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,919
Speaker 2: but we do. We're definitely going to do a honeymoon

512
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 2: and practice making children. You know, we're having a lot

513
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 2: of fun in that aspect. And now, like I told

514
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 2: my pastor, and I was telling I don't even remember

515
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 2: who I was, Like, you guys were not fornicating anymore.

516
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 2: Like we're just we're having great sex and it's awesome.

517
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 2: So now we're having married sex. Does it feel the same?

518
00:22:58,359 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 2: I love?

519
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: Does it feel better?

520
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 2: Or no?

521
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? Has he put two thumbs up? You guys? All right,

522
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 1: we're good.

523
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 2: He's in the living room because today I'm doing the

524
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 2: podcast you guys from my home and what else?

525
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 1: What else can I tell you guys?

526
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 2: Oh?

527
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 1: Yes, my mother.

528
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys noticed in the pictures

529
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:20,719
Speaker 2: that I posted on Instagram, but on my bouquete of

530
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 2: flowers Miramo, I had a picture of my mother and

531
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: I walked down the aisle with a very special song.

532
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 2: And we've talked about this song on the podcast, I

533
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,160
Speaker 2: think in the first season. It's a song by Shade

534
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 2: and it's called by Your Side and it's one of

535
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 2: my favorite songs. And let me tell you a little

536
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 2: bit about this song because when I was going through

537
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 2: it very heavily in twenty In twenty thirteen, I was

538
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 2: driving Johnny to school and I was feeling very sad,

539
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 2: but I wanted to be very strong, and I was

540
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 2: just very overwhelmed, and I was just like, very sad

541
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 2: and depressed and very angry during that time, as you

542
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 2: guys know, and I've expressed here. And when I dropped

543
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 2: Johnny off at school, as soon as I dropped him off,

544
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: I don't know how, by the glory of God, the

545
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 2: grace of God, I did not get in an accident

546
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 2: because I was driving my mom's Mercedes that day. Because

547
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 2: Johnny loved to go in that particular car because that's

548
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 2: the car that my mom would take him to school in,

549
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 2: you know, and he would love listening to the Wave

550
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 2: because that was my mom's favorite ninety four seven the

551
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 2: way that one that was my mom's favorite station. So

552
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 2: that was like a little thing that we had. Let's

553
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 2: go in the Mercedes, I'll drop you off at school,

554
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 2: and we'll listen to the Wave. So as soon as

555
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,479
Speaker 2: I dropped off Johnny, I was crying. I was a

556
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 2: freaking mess. I was just having one of those moments

557
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 2: of like I don't know if I can continue on,

558
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 2: like I'm just devastated in my life. And I was

559
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 2: praying and I was like, Mom, talk to me, like

560
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 2: I need to hear from you, like guide me, give

561
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: me a sign. And my mom was a huge Shadai fan,

562
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 2: and I knew of Shade because of my mom, and

563
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, that song came on and I

564
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 2: feel like the times that I've talked to my mom

565
00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 2: or when I feel my mom is through music. So

566
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 2: I felt and I took that as a sign because

567
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 2: if you guys listen to that song and you break

568
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: it down, it was like I'm here, I'm by your side.

569
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 2: You think I'm gonna leave you, like I'm here. So

570
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 2: I was just like after that day, that song meant

571
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 2: so much to me, and every time I would listen

572
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 2: to it, I would just cry or would give me

573
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: hope of like she's here with me. So that's why

574
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 2: I chose that song. But not only because of that.

575
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: It was kind of like my mom walking me down

576
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 2: the aisle as well, and I had her picture, but

577
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 2: also because Emilio dedicated me that song, so to me,

578
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 2: it was like a sign of when he dedicated me

579
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 2: that song he didn't know that my mom had from

580
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 2: heaven dedicated me that song, and that's how I took

581
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 2: it right. And when he dedicated to me that song,

582
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god. Like in that moment,

583
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 2: I felt like, this is the guy. I think my

584
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 2: mom sent him to me. And I don't know if

585
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 2: I ever even told Emilio that, but that's how I felt.

586
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 2: And it was like confirmation, like, oh my gosh, this

587
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 2: guy's special. He's not just another guy. And that's why

588
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,719
Speaker 2: I walked down the eyele with that song. And I

589
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: definitely did feel my mom. I felt her more in

590
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,360
Speaker 2: the room when I was getting ready, when I saw

591
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 2: my sisters and they were there, I felt her there.

592
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: I felt like she's here with me. You know. When

593
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,719
Speaker 2: my nieces were there was such a beautiful moment, you guys,

594
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 2: Like my nieces were helping me Jayla who's now fifteen

595
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 2: years old, going to be fifteen, helping me put on

596
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 2: my shoes. It was just beautiful when I felt my

597
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 2: mom there, And of course when I heard the song,

598
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 2: I felt like she was walking me down the aisle

599
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 2: because that's how I had planned it, and it was

600
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 2: just so perfect, you guys, I wouldn't change a thing,

601
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 2: not even the elevator thing, because I feel like even

602
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 2: the whole elevator event, just like I felt safe because

603
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 2: Emilia was there and I was like, okay, he's here,

604
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 2: like he's the most important person in my life, you know,

605
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 2: and Jenica was there. I was freaking out because I

606
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 2: wish Jenica hadn't been there because then my whole thing

607
00:26:56,440 --> 00:27:00,479
Speaker 2: of like mama bear and big sister want to like her.

608
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 2: I was just like, I need you to get off

609
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 2: the elevator first before me, because I'm not going to

610
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,719
Speaker 2: get off this elevator with you still in here. So

611
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 2: I made sure take her off before me. Take Emilia,

612
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 2: take them because I know myself, so I forced both

613
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 2: of them to get out of the elevator before I did.

614
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 2: That's just the motherly person I am. I guess I

615
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,239
Speaker 2: don't know, call it what you will, but even that,

616
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 2: even that whole elevator situation, I feel like it just

617
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 2: really confirmed to me this is the person and we're

618
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: stuck together, you know, we're stuck together forever. It was

619
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 2: almost like that thing that kind of like solidified the

620
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 2: whole day and I we went through it together, and

621
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 2: I'm so glad that we were together and he wasn't

622
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 2: alone or I wasn't alone the elevator, like he wouldn't

623
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: have allowed it anyways. Like he's always like protecting me

624
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 2: and taking care of me and making sure I'm fine.

625
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 2: But even with that, guys, it was the most beautiful

626
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 2: day of my life. And I'm just I'm just grateful.

627
00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 2: I'm grateful that God sent me this person and the

628
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 2: person that I can count on and something that I

629
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 2: will share with you, guys. In my vowels, I said,

630
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 2: thank you for loving me like no one else has

631
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 2: ever loved me, not even my parents. And I really

632
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 2: mean that. And I know that might sound weird, but

633
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: I asked my sister Jackie the other day after the

634
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 2: wedding and I said, look, I said this in my

635
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 2: vowels because other, I know people heard it because the

636
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 2: microphone was amazing. So I all the guests heard my vowels.

637
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 2: They heard our vowels like clearly. And I said, I

638
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,479
Speaker 2: don't know. Did the kids, my siblings, did they mention anything.

639
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: Did I offend you, guys? I don't mean to offend

640
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,679
Speaker 2: you or to take anything from mom, because I know

641
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: my mom loved me.

642
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: I know she did.

643
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Speaker 2: I know she didn't know how to show it sometimes

644
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: because I was the eldest and we were so close

645
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 2: in age. But the love that I'm experiencing right now,

646
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 2: I feel like God sent it to me so that

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00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 2: I can really believe and know what real love feels like,

648
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: because he's been very patient and even in my ugliest moments,

649
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 2: he's been very patient and loving and gentle. And you know,

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00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm not saying he's never like gotten crazy or

651
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 2: anything like that, like we're all human, but I want

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00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 2: to say ninety percent of our relationship he has been

653
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 2: very gentle and diligent, and that stability that my life needed,

654
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 2: and the love that he shows me, I've never experienced

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00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: where it's like.

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Speaker 1: It's just beautiful.

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00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,479
Speaker 2: It's I don't want to get into details, but like

658
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 2: it's just a beautiful thing that I'm experiencing. And my dad,

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00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 2: I'm sure he loves me and loved me when I

660
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: was little and things happened there, but I can't explain

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00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 2: it like it's this is this is a different type

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00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 2: of love, you know, And I really truly mean that,

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00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 2: And without offending anybody, Because my mother was a great mother,

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00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 2: she wasn't a perfect mother, but she was the perfect

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00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: mother for me who I needed. And now I have

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00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 2: the perfect man for me. I'm not perfect, he's not perfect,

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00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 2: but it's that person that just came to really give

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00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 2: me hope and for me to believe in love again

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00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 2: and in marriage because I didn't for so long because

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00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 2: I was let down. I felt let down, and he

671
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 2: has helped me heal. Because that's another thing. I was

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00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 2: very honest with him, like, hey, I'm not doing good

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00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 2: when we first met, and he has helped and said

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00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 2: I want to help you. You don't have to do

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00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 2: this alone. And he's never once abandoned me, and I've

676
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 2: had a lot of abandonment issues because of my childhood

677
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 2: and things that have happened. So that's what I meant,

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00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 2: and not that I feel like I have to explain

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00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 2: myself because I really don't care what anyone thinks besides

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00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 2: my siblings, really, but I just wanted to explain it

681
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 2: because I just hope that everyone can find that type

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00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 2: of love one day, because we do deserve that, and

683
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 2: I for so long felt that maybe I don't deserve

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00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 2: this person because I am so jaded. I have so

685
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 2: many things I have to work through and now I

686
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: know that I do deserve it, that it's heaven sent,

687
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: and it's going to be work, and we both have

688
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: to put in our part, and I'm willing to do it.

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00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 2: And there's no other person that I'm I would love

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00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: to do this with. I just wish that for everyone.

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00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 2: I hope that everyone can find that and really experience

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00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 2: that and give themselves a chance to love and to

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00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 2: love again and not give up on love, even if

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00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 2: you've been hurt, and if you've been cheated on, and

695
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 2: if you've been lied to, and if you've also been

696
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 2: the person to hurt other people, like we deserve to

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00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 2: be loved no matter what and experience this, but we

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00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 2: have to be open to it, and we have to

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00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: be willing to do the work, our own work, our

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00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,959
Speaker 2: own internal work, so that we can attract who we

701
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 2: want to attract. And I think that we both were

702
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 2: in that space in our life where we were working

703
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 2: on ourselves, and now we can work on ourselves together

704
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 2: and for each other. And that's what it is. And

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00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 2: it took me a long time to understand that, and

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00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: I know it won't be perfect, but it's okay. I

707
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 2: am willing to put in the work and I know

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00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: he is too, and that's all there is to it, guys.

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00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 2: So yeah, that is my story. And yeah, I just

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00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 2: wanted to take a little sigh because I really wish

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00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: I can go back to that moment. It was so fun.

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00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 2: But I'm also glad to be home because I'm pretty

713
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 2: Vegas out. There's a lot of days in Vegas and

714
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 2: I can only do like maybe three days in Vegas, max.

715
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 2: But it was awesome, it was beautiful, it was perfect,

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00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 2: and I just wanted to share that with my listeners

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00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 2: here on Cheeky's and Chill because I know you guys

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00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 2: would appreciate it. So thank you for listening, Thank you

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Speaker 2: for being interested in my love life and in my

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00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 2: marriage now, and i'll I can ask for is for

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Speaker 2: you guys to continue to pray for us, to pray

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00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: for me for our marriage, and I will, of course

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Speaker 2: do my best to pray for all of you and

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00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 2: inspire you and empower you all through all of the

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00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 2: different things that we speak about here on this podcast.

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Speaker 2: So thanks again for listening, and I love you guys,

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