1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Everybody we date pretty much if they're in our age. 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 2: Ranger Una Lie, I'm so proud of y'all because the 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 2: dating pool is like shitting piss. 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: So and you have to be very careful. 5 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 2: That's why I also talk about in the book, you 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: gotta get to know a person before you create a 7 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: village with this person. We're creating people, and then your 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 2: kids grow up and you wonder why he's shooting up 9 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 2: shit and he going to school and then he talked 10 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: to sit and he because you didn't do a proper 11 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 2: diagnosis on his father. You didn't evaluate this nigga at dinner. 12 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 2: You was on the phone talking about he got me 13 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 2: at STK. 14 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: You just did five hundred on me. 15 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 2: Truffle butter like caviart, like from all the scamming money, 16 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 2: and that's crazy. I think the questions on a date 17 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 2: should be when, especially when you see potential in a guy, 18 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: whatever that may be. These days, you gotta ask, like, yo, 19 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: do you have both of your parents? And that may 20 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: not be, it may not be so all right cool? 21 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: Who raised you? 22 00:00:58,040 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: Okay? 23 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts and and what are your like morals? Like, 24 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 2: what are your thoughts on like parenting? How are you 25 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 2: when you get angry? You know what I'm saying? Like, 26 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 2: do you ever see yourself with kids? Did you ever 27 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 2: see yourself married? Like? These are all the questions that 28 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: my husband asked me when he met me, to the 29 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 2: point where I was ready get up and fight. 30 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 3: Doesn't it math question plus eight minus two plus six? 31 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 4: Oh d nigga, Yeah, I have to do that ship 32 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 4: in my calculator. 33 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: First I did it out to him. You know, you 34 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: got to see it. 35 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, So if a nigga say, pim did that, but 36 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 2: then we got to ask him, do you remember what 37 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 2: they mean? 38 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 39 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 5: Okay XP on multiple division edition, No we skipping the deed. 40 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: No, we didn't division. 41 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: Okay, attraction we would have passed, would have on the people. 42 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: What's up? Y'all's your girl lexp and it's your girls 43 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: raying a call and. 44 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 3: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine. 45 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: Where drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. 46 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 6: We gotta guest today, We gotta guest today. 47 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 4: So today we have a very special guest in the building, 48 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:47,279 Speaker 4: one of the funniest women on the Internet, comedian, actress, entrepreneur, 49 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 4: radio personality author, wife mother. 50 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:57,839 Speaker 1: Y'all give it up with my girl, just hilarious. Thank you. 51 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm glad you finally made you. 52 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 2: I've been trying to come on Poor Minds for a while, 53 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 2: but the schedules and then everybody been coming here. Oh 54 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: my god, and then everybody always talk about they got 55 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 2: a bar thunder. 56 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: I like that. I all right, yess what? Thank you 57 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: for coming and having. 58 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 3: First of all, I really want to say thank you 59 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 3: for coming, because baby, every time I look on TV 60 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 3: online you want a podcast? 61 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: You want You've been doing every year, even anywhere. 62 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 3: This is an amazing roll out for this book. And 63 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 3: you've been working so hard. So everything that you're getting 64 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 3: right now you want one hundred percent deserve it. 65 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: Absolutely yes, So thank you for being here. 66 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 3: Now we gonna talk about what you have been doing 67 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 3: in between the podcast, right because you were at the 68 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 3: roast on you were at the Kevin Hart ros So 69 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: I want to talk about the roast a little bit 70 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 3: before we get into all the stuff. What did you 71 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 3: think about the roast as a comedian? 72 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 2: The first thing, honestly that I thought was how the 73 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 2: fuck was I ever cancel. 74 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: The fuck what I said? What I've done with my house, 75 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: sitting and ever room. 76 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: I was like yeah, I've never I've never went that 77 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: damn like ever. Right, And then so after that, I'm 78 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 2: listening because I'm I don't always feel like if something 79 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 2: is offensive, stay away from it. 80 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 1: Nah, I don't. 81 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 2: But I don't like to mess with death. I don't 82 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:29,239 Speaker 2: like mess with injustice, you know what I'm saying. 83 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: Like, it was certain. 84 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 2: Jokes that I just felt like was now, he's not jokes. 85 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 2: This is what the fuck y'all been saying. 86 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: Y'all got a big. 87 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 2: Platform to say it, you know what I mean. And 88 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 2: that's that's just how I felt. And because it's live, 89 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 2: they can't like rewind it, stop it, and you know, 90 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 2: and and these comedians they were practicing those jokes for 91 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: like that whole week and nobody you ships had to 92 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 2: be approved, you know, by by certain people. 93 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh shit, okay, so that's what we're doing. 94 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: We're laying ship fly. 95 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: But you know, there are consequences for things that you say, 96 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 2: and it's not always political, or you lose endorsements or 97 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 2: you might get hit. 98 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: In your fucking mouth, you know what I'm saying. 99 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 2: And so I was waiting for like the Will Smith moment, 100 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, but he wasn't there, and 101 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 2: then I guess, you know, I was like, yeah, so. 102 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: The right people not here. That's just what it is, 103 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: you know. 104 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, But all in all was still a 105 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 2: lot of funny ship that was said. 106 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: You know, shout out to Ryl and I'm not gonna 107 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 1: lie to meet the women Hendler. She did. She did, 108 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 1: and I wanted to hear from Tiffany. Ain't no way. 109 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: She was just up there as a seat feeling y'all know, Tiffany, 110 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 1: get down anything to her. Nobody acknowledged that she was there. Yeah, 111 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: just yeah. 112 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 2: I was just like, yeah, this is this is behind nowhere. Yeah, 113 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: I need to need to do some digging. Yeah, I'm 114 00:05:55,680 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 2: gonna along the road to the figure that out. And 115 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 2: then the highlight of my night was seeing kat come 116 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 2: out and do his fucking Yeah. 117 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: It's so funny, hilarious, you got it ended one thing. 118 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: You're always gonna do a stand on time and double 119 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 2: down on whatever and be funny doing it. And I 120 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 2: just thought it was great. And even that moment between 121 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 2: he and Kevin at the end and you know, my 122 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 2: free walked off. 123 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: Still, I thought that was fire. 124 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 4: You know, I do want to ask you how do 125 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 4: you speaking of like people just saying whatever? And then 126 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 4: people are getting so offended these day by comedians. How 127 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 4: do you feel about the climate with that? Because I 128 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 4: know recently Mike Epps had made a post because he 129 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 4: was getting a lot of backlash about a homeless joke 130 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 4: that he made, and so he was just like, damn, 131 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 4: I'm a comedian, please remember. 132 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: Each jokes at the end of the day. 133 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 4: How do you feel about that being somebody who does 134 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 4: get some backlash online? 135 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: Sometimes I feel like he shouldn't even have to make 136 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 2: that video. 137 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, like you shouldn't have done it. 138 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: He has been like the uncle o G for a 139 00:06:55,600 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 2: long time, and even the homeless joke that he made 140 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 2: ship wasn't bad. 141 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: I mean, like damn. 142 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 2: And then y'all gotta understand comedians just because they're you know, 143 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: niggas lie like comedians be lying, But it's jokes like 144 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 2: we we curate, We carefully curate jokes to make y'all laugh, 145 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: and it could have been a true story. But you 146 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 2: may add some ship, you know what I mean? Like 147 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 2: to you may be dramatic, you might dramatize something or 148 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 2: be sarcastic a little bit. 149 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: It's all for the laughs, you know. 150 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 2: And I just think it's a lot more homeless motherfucker's 151 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 2: out here now, and so they probably, like, you know, 152 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 2: they got a big enough community where they can like 153 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 2: hit back, and I hit it's very well, and I 154 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 2: was like, that's a bad bitch, y'all don't know, you know, 155 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 2: And I feel like a lot of homeless people got phones, 156 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: and so while they you know, and they since they 157 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 2: they they texting, they know they they're hitting them. They 158 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 2: in them comments with them free phones and they like, yeah, 159 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 2: we see you. 160 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: And you know, so that's puite right here. 161 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 4: Well because they be saying I got cash up and 162 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 4: you're like, I don't have a dollar, Well I got cash. 163 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 2: I'm hell you got out and what big account is 164 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: it set up to? 165 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 1: And you know what I mean, it's crazy. Well. 166 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 3: Cheryl Underwood made a good point though, because she said, 167 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 3: you know, roast back in the day, it used to 168 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 3: be like if comedians that we were family, We loved 169 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 3: each other, we know each other. 170 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, you like that to be joking like that. 171 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 3: And I'm gonna be honest, I'm not getting told we 172 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 3: need to segregate the roastin. 173 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah too many black comedians. That wasn't fair. 174 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 3: That should have been there, because I always say this, 175 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 3: there are some white comedians I enjoy, but white comedy 176 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 3: and black comedy is way too different. 177 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes we gotta keep Yeah, I agree, and I'm 178 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 1: okay with that. I'm okay with that too, because I 179 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: don't know. 180 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,079 Speaker 4: I always be like, I don't know if I could 181 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 4: get roasty, like by people that I don't know. Maybe 182 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 4: people that I know, Yeah, but if it's people that 183 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 4: I don't know. What Nini said, not too many of 184 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 4: them be words. You're not gonna keep calling me. Too 185 00:08:58,040 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 4: many of them be words like when you don't know 186 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 4: old people, it's hard to not get offended. 187 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 2: And when you don't like a particular grace, you're not 188 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 2: scared to go in on the rail culture because I 189 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: felt like a lot of it wasn't even like Kevin 190 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 2: Hart roast. 191 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, damn it, Kevin ain't the only one being 192 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: roasted being roasted. We got the culture of the community 193 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,559 Speaker 1: is that it's what the It was a line that. 194 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 3: Brought up, look y'all bring up my dad, mama, everybody ruin, 195 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 3: everybody finna be mad as. 196 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 2: Fun, don't care and listen, y'all should Every time the 197 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: word crack was said, lamar Odam's jaw clenched and not 198 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 2: somebody selling it. No, he didn't say that, but real 199 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 2: I swear he got up and left. He was like, no, 200 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 2: I'm gone, Oh my gosh. 201 00:09:55,720 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 1: But it's only triggering. It is absolutely this is a documentary. Damn. 202 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: He died sixth times. 203 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 2: Hello, they woke up and went to get it again. 204 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 1: He got more lives than the cave. Hello. 205 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 2: And so I was like, I said, I ain't even 206 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 2: gonna mess with him or whatever, because they said that 207 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 2: he was going he was gonna walk the carpet, and 208 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 2: I was thinking about things and I and I was 209 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 2: gonna when I saw him, I was gonna say, do 210 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: you know you look good, Lama, let don't crack or. 211 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: Does it you know? But that's all I had on me. 212 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 2: They was going hard in that damn ruse they would 213 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 2: I would have treated him way better. 214 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. 215 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 3: So let me ask you this since we're talking about 216 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 3: you know, like canceling, and you know we've all been 217 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 3: through the ringer whenever you started Breakfast Club. 218 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: I mean, they brought you through the ring and I want. 219 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 3: To ask you, like honestly, are you still having fun 220 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 3: doing that? Because I feel like you get criticized so much, 221 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 3: so much all the time, So is it fun for 222 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 3: you to even show up to work anymore? 223 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 2: Well, to be honest, it was like a dip in 224 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 2: that ship. Like I had fun when I first got it, Like, 225 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 2: oh my god, I was like, oh. 226 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: My god, this is the fun. This is great. 227 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 2: I get paid to come and talk ish with two 228 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 2: ball headed niggas all day like and they like my brothers. 229 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 2: Yes that the chemistry, everything is great, you know. And 230 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 2: then I left, had a baby, came back, waters got murky, 231 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 2: and shit, I'm trying to figure out, like, okay, so 232 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 2: so she gonna stay okay, all right, since ain't nobody 233 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 2: saying nothing, let me go live. And I do not want. 234 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: Y'all to do that. 235 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 2: Don't try to set your job or at your home. 236 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 1: Don't do that, you know. 237 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 2: But I did it and put the shit on front Street. 238 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 2: We had the big verbal kerfuffle on air or whatever, 239 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 2: and then chemistry, you know, it eventually got better or whatever. 240 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: But I don't know. 241 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 2: I just I felt like, and it's not even about Lauren, 242 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 2: because what she does is totally different from what I do. 243 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 2: I love what she does. She's a journalist. I've never 244 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 2: wanted to do journalists. I've never wanted to be in 245 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 2: the courts with niggas and on the phone with niggas lawyers, 246 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 2: and I've never won to do that, you know what 247 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 2: I mean. But I do commentary on headlines. I make 248 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 2: shit funny, you know just what, domess, That's what I do. 249 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 2: When I realized that that couldn't work on air, I 250 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 2: think it was like for me, damn Okay. 251 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: Now I got to find something else to do to 252 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 1: fit in this mold. 253 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 2: And I've never been somewhere where I had to fit 254 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 2: in because I am the fit, you know. 255 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 1: What I mean. 256 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 2: Like I'm my own brand, I'm my own person. I'm 257 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 2: always just hilarious whatever you know. But radio is very different. 258 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 2: It's things that I can't say, things I can't talk about, 259 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 2: things that you know, and it's politics of radio and 260 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 2: shit like that. What I will say, Although it's not 261 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 2: like the most fun anymore. I have grown up a 262 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 2: lot now, I've become like more aware of like politics 263 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 2: and you know, think more serious shit, mental health and 264 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,679 Speaker 2: all of that. You got the mental health man right 265 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 2: there across from me every day I play, especially not 266 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 2: about no goddamn mental health. So like, I've definitely grown 267 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 2: in ways that I can see. I can look back 268 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 2: and go, oh damn, that's a lot of growth there, 269 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:14,839 Speaker 2: all right. Cool, you know it's help mature me in 270 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 2: a lot of ways. But fun, it was that in 271 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 2: the beginning, and I'm still trying to get back to 272 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: where that said. 273 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, huh, are you going to renew the contract? When 274 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: that time comes. 275 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 2: Around, that's for my team to talk about it. I 276 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 2: don't speak New English. 277 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: I tried know how England. 278 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 2: I'm married, I'm already half Mexican. 279 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: I know how to say a little bit. I had 280 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: no company in Okay. 281 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 4: So of course we definitely want to talk to you 282 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 4: about your new book until it did to do we period. 283 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 4: So you and the father of your child have a 284 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 4: great co parentce you and that's such a baby daddy. 285 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: Listen, I was waiting for somebody to say that I'm. 286 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 2: Name it is. 287 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 4: So could you tell us a little bit about y'all's 288 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,719 Speaker 4: journey and the inspiration behind the book and how you 289 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 4: got to these points to where y'all have a great relationship. 290 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 2: Well, me and my son's father are like best friends. 291 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 1: Were cool as hell. We've been like this since our 292 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: son was like three or four. 293 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 2: It wasn't always like that, Like the first three years 294 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 2: of Ashton life, we was at it. 295 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: Jail man, Yeah, because he sent me. 296 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 2: He will not he will not admit to this day 297 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 2: that he was the one to call the police. I 298 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 2: knew he caught the police. I went to go pick 299 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 2: my baby up if I got off work. I walked 300 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 2: downstairs because he stayed in the basement. Okay, I walked 301 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 2: downstairs and I. 302 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: Seen a girl on top of him. 303 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 2: Yes, she was on top of him and my son 304 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 2: was on the floor in a blanket next to the 305 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 2: cat litter, and I was like, ill, okay, cool, but 306 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be over there to get you in a minute. 307 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: Baby hit. 308 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 2: She fell off him, grabbed him and started beating his ass. 309 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 2: She put on her clothes, she went up the steps. 310 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 2: When I realized the outfit that she put on him, 311 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: like she is SEEO she work out a jail. Oh, 312 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: she had correctional officers and I already. 313 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: Knew what the uniform was. 314 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 2: So I go upstairs, run upstairs at her because I'm 315 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 2: trying to record her, like yeah, I'm about to make 316 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 2: you lose your job. I've never seen a car pull 317 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 2: off that damn fast. 318 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 1: She was scared out of there. 319 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 2: My baby father called the police on me. I'm telling you. 320 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 1: He called the police. He said, he blamed it on 321 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: the step up. 322 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 2: And now what kind of guy gonna blame that on 323 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 2: the step as beat he got him police, I'm telling you. 324 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 2: So I walked up to his window, and you know 325 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 2: when you like mad and yeah, finelin is going, yo, 326 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 2: you hit. 327 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 1: The you don't feel nothing? 328 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I bust like two of his windows out with 329 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 2: my hand. I don't know figure I had glass. That 330 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 2: shit hurt, No, no, no, I had to have my 331 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 2: hand wrapped for like two weeks. Though that shit hurt. 332 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 2: The next day, I ain't feel nothing. I was pissed, right, 333 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: and so look paddy wagon pull up. They put me 334 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 2: in there. I'm on my way to the poll. I mean, 335 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 2: I'm on my way to the precinct. My I see 336 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 2: room holding the baby. He like, say, body, your mother, 337 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 2: I know you called the police. And look that story 338 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 2: not even in the book. It's the part two being 339 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 2: first time I told a story on Anybody podcast or 340 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 2: Anybody show, Like I'm telling you, he he really was like, say, 341 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 2: body your mother. So then I get to the pole, 342 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 2: I get to the jail. Guess who did my intake 343 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 2: the girl? 344 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: Did you? 345 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 2: Yes, she worked on the woman's side. What did you 346 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 2: do when you get They thought I was crazy? I 347 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 2: was like, bitch, she was just with my baby father 348 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 2: like this bitch. 349 00:16:54,640 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 1: Oh like na, Na look winked at me. 350 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 2: But I still got the still got the I was 351 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 2: so mad because I'm like, first of all, how do 352 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: you allow a dude to put his baby on the 353 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 2: floor of the floor. 354 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: Kids baby? Yeah, ain't no way. So yeah, we're not 355 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: gonna make you mad at him again. 356 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we are best friends. Bring now we bring 357 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 5: that trauma, right because I forgot to put that. 358 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:38,200 Speaker 1: In the book, and that would have been a good would. 359 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, So talk about how y'all went from like that 360 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 3: space to now, I mean. 361 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: You put. 362 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 2: No, absolutely absolutely yo that that's my guy. When I 363 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 2: say it took a lot of maturing and a lot 364 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 2: of like therapeutic talks, like he didn't. He's always especially 365 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 2: back then, rejected the notion of therapy because he was 366 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 2: very much like, yo, I don't want to sit and 367 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 2: tell no white woman or no even a black person 368 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 2: who's never gone through anything that I've gone through all 369 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 2: of my business for them to judge me. So that's 370 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 2: always been his thing. So he says it's very therapeutic 371 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 2: for him to open up to someone. And I was 372 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:24,159 Speaker 2: the first person that allowed him that safe space, and 373 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:26,880 Speaker 2: I think giving Rome grace and understanding how he thinks 374 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 2: because he lost his mom at a very young age. 375 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:33,440 Speaker 2: He was ten years old when he found her, you know, 376 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 2: and like he describes it, that's the worst day of 377 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 2: his life. And from there his life was uprooted from 378 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 2: being the only child in his household, being nurtured and 379 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 2: loved on by his mom, to moving with his stepfather, 380 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 2: I mean his father and his step mother, where it 381 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 2: wasn't really an affectionate household, and it was a lot, 382 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 2: and he had to share a room, you know, with 383 00:18:58,240 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 2: a little brother, and then he had two other big 384 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 2: brothers by his stepmom, So it was a lot, you know, 385 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 2: it was, it was different. So he would when I 386 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 2: when I met him, and he got comfortable enough to 387 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,640 Speaker 2: bring me into his world and tell me all these things. 388 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 1: I was able to see, like. 389 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 2: Okay, this is why you're in trouble, this is why 390 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 2: you're mentally like you're still trying to navigate the loss 391 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 2: of your mom and how to cope with that, you know, 392 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,360 Speaker 2: and that's very heavy. So yeah, once we like had 393 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 2: a conversation and I told him, look, Yo, how about 394 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 2: we sit down and we do vows. Hence the name 395 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 2: of the book, it's called Till Death Do We Parent? 396 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:34,160 Speaker 2: Like ten years ago, I sat down across across from 397 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 2: Rome and I said, Yo, we're gonna put everything on 398 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 2: the table. 399 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 1: We're gonna get. 400 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 2: Past all our feelings because it's obvious we're not gonna 401 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 2: have a relationship because I'm end up killing you. 402 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. 403 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, You're gonna end up keep on cheating if I 404 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 2: keep taking you back. But I love you so much, 405 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 2: like not even like intimately, like I love you because 406 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 2: I see you are really a human being that's trying 407 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 2: to do right, but you can't because of all the 408 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 2: cards that are stacked against you. 409 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: Like is this crazy? 410 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 2: So I said, I'm going to take you Jerome mc ivory, 411 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:06,719 Speaker 2: James don't even don't because mc ivory, let's just steep 412 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 2: past that's yeah, yeah, mac Ivory mick ivor, and Jerome 413 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 2: is spelled with a G. So for a minute I 414 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 2: was calling him, I was girl. I was like, everybody 415 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 2: gonna crack on me because my beef ain't garrone like. 416 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 1: But I kind of okay. It sounds well when you 417 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 1: sing it, but imagine being a bitch in middle of 418 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 1: the street, like girral com outside right now, who's the bitch? 419 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 7: Like? 420 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Gee, it was a. 421 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 2: It was a lot of the moment so well, so 422 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 2: the valves where I take you, Jerome ivor James, to 423 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 2: be my lawfully wedded co parent, that we do this 424 00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 2: you sickness, your health, broke or because he was broke, broke, rich, whatever, 425 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 2: to be my co parent for life, because it's till death. 426 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 1: It's not until he eighteen. 427 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, nah, we still gonna be his parents when he thirty, 428 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:13,439 Speaker 2: when he's body went. You know what I'm saying, as 429 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 2: long as we're here, we're still his parents. And he 430 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,959 Speaker 2: thought it was the corniest thing at one time at 431 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 2: that time, but later on he was like, nah, I 432 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 2: like that little I like that little fake wedding and 433 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:22,680 Speaker 2: shit that we did. 434 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 1: That was cool, you know what I mean. 435 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 2: I feel like all parents, all co parents, whether they're 436 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 2: going to be together or not should. 437 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 1: Do that and for the kids sake, because that's so. 438 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 4: True, Like when you really think about it, people do 439 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 4: love to say, Oh, once that baby turned eighteen, I 440 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 4: gotta deal with this person. 441 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: I'm wore. Y'all are literally gonna share grandchildren? 442 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? Yes, there's gonna be a 443 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 2: day where y'all have to come together. What about college graduation? 444 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 2: What about Yeah, when when you're having grandkids, family reunions, 445 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 2: like we have to be able. 446 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: To coexist together? Absolutely? Yeah. 447 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 3: How do each of y'all's partners feel about like this 448 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 3: bond that y'all have and writing a book like, cause 449 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 3: that's a no it is if you're watching your partner 450 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 3: have vows with that, I don't know. 451 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 1: If I can handle that. Nah. 452 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 2: You listen now, you hit the nail on the head 453 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 2: because I talk about this in the book as well. 454 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 2: When I met the wonderful man who's my husband now, 455 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 2: when he was just my boyfriend, Chris is his name, 456 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 2: He he had to establish some boundaries because listen, we 457 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 2: laying in the bed one night and Rome has always 458 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,239 Speaker 2: had access to me. That's that's my man's like, that's 459 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 2: my rider dot, that's my nigga. So he called me 460 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 2: about anything. He'd be like, yo, I got this bad 461 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,160 Speaker 2: ass bitch with me, like like yeah, or here, send 462 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 2: me a picture like it was she cuted in the 463 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 2: one I had last week because I ditched this one 464 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 2: to go with it. And I'm giving him advice. 465 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 1: And shit like that. 466 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,400 Speaker 2: But he called me one night and I was laying 467 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 2: in the bed with my then boyfriend, Yeah, and. 468 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,639 Speaker 1: I instantly seen him out out of my. 469 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 2: Peripheral and he was looking like, oh, she ain't just 470 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,400 Speaker 2: as to the phone with this nigga, and so Rome 471 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 2: just literally he just got put out of one of 472 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 2: his baby other baby mama's house or whatever, because she 473 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 2: went through his phone when he was sleep, you know 474 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:05,119 Speaker 2: the whole. And so I tell him what to do 475 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:06,959 Speaker 2: and I hang up. He waited for me to get 476 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 2: off the phone, and then Chris was like, Yo, look, 477 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 2: I don't know what you used to. I don't know 478 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 2: what this is, and look I don't I don't want 479 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 2: for you and your baby father to be in a 480 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,440 Speaker 2: bad place. I actually love that y'all are friends and 481 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,719 Speaker 2: that y'all can do things like that. But it's one 482 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 2: o'clock in the morning. You're my girl, it's no way 483 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 2: that you thought that that ship was cool and you 484 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 2: answered the phone yes, cause he was like, it's not 485 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 2: even about him calling you. He gonna do that because 486 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: that's what you've allowed. But that's also why you ain't 487 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 2: have a successful relationship. 488 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,159 Speaker 1: Girl. I like I was knowing, I was like to 489 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:40,920 Speaker 1: eat him right back up, and I to think, like, 490 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to even lose this man, Savannah. I 491 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 1: was like his own everything. 492 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 2: No, And then I'm looking like niggas that I had, 493 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 2: don'amn shit, okay, niggas so and then like it was 494 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 2: a real wake up moment where it was like you 495 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: know what, Nah, that's true, And I remember we got 496 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 2: some one argument. He was like, that's why you probably 497 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 2: never had a successful relationship because you're so busy trying 498 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 2: to be your baby father's mom. You're trying to police 499 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 2: everything you do and you're trying to guide. 500 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 1: Him and all of this. Where are you going to 501 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: do that for you? 502 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 2: Because I'm telling you, I'm about to be abut the 503 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,920 Speaker 2: door like you. I'm telling you, like our love and 504 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 2: respect that y'all have a great relationship, but now he 505 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 2: got too much access to you, and when he calls 506 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:23,479 Speaker 2: you in the middle of the night. 507 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 1: It ain't even about your son because your son be 508 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 1: in his room. Girl. No, I agree with that, so 509 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: I totally understood it. 510 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 2: I was like, I do not want to lose this man, 511 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 2: and I also want to give myself a chance. 512 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: I had not realized that. Yo, I have been like 513 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 1: not enabling Rome, but I have been. 514 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 2: So available to Rome that that's costed me relationships in 515 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 2: the past. 516 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:53,359 Speaker 1: Yep. 517 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 2: But unlike this relationship. This was this was something that 518 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 2: I knew I wanted to protect. Like I my mouth 519 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 2: get crazy. I could have been like, well, niggadbye, because 520 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,200 Speaker 2: and that's what I've done in the past. But it's like, 521 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 2: you can just go be with your baby father if 522 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 2: this what you gonna do. Hell, and that's not happening 523 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 2: ever in life. 524 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so I knew. I know, I don't want that. 525 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: I knew. I was like, nah, I do not want 526 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 1: to lose you. You are so right. 527 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 2: I'm gonna bite my tongue on some things I want 528 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 2: to say because this would be me just being like 529 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: having my pride in the way and my ego. 530 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 1: But like, you're so right. 531 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 2: And I had that conversation with wrong like, look, you 532 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 2: can't call me at a certain unless it's about your son. 533 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 2: And if it ain't something that I can wait until 534 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 2: the morning, then I'll answer the phone. If it's an emergency, cool, 535 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 2: but if it's not. 536 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 1: Your week, we can't. 537 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 2: He totally respected. He said, oh yeah, you with a man, Now, 538 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 2: I know that's stuff. And so it's never been it's 539 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 2: never been any static. 540 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, how did you go ahead? 541 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,119 Speaker 4: I was just gonna say, how did you navigate that 542 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 4: conversation or like figuring out that you needed to bite 543 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 4: your tongue because I saw a clip of you recently 544 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 4: where you went on somebody Else podcast He was kind 545 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 4: of talking about that. You were saying how you would 546 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 4: always have something to say in this situation. You decided, Okay, 547 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 4: I got to pick my battles. Yes, girl, I feel 548 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 4: like that's what I be striggling. We too one thing 549 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,160 Speaker 4: about me, Yeah, I'm not a woman. 550 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 1: A few words if I always got yeah, yeah, yeah, man, 551 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 1: it was. It was very hard to be honest. 552 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 2: But what Chris does for me, he disarms me because 553 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:28,879 Speaker 2: I didn't realize, yo, I was fucked up after like 554 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 2: certain relationships, and I'm not gonna blame it on wrong 555 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 2: because I jokingly said to him one day, like, yo, 556 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 2: you keep telling me not to go out here and 557 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 2: not to go out here and find another U. But 558 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 2: I think you set the standard because you were the 559 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 2: first gentleman that I thought I fell in love with. Yeah, 560 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 2: And so I was able to put up with your 561 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 2: ship for so long. I thought that that was something 562 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,360 Speaker 2: that you do, like you standing and told you don't 563 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 2: leave in the gagdi cheet on you once like you 564 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 2: don't like because he may just be figuring it out. 565 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 2: But then I realized how dumb that shit sounded, like 566 00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 2: you don't don't exactly like and I was. 567 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,120 Speaker 1: Trying to act like they was profound. I say, both 568 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 1: of y'all face. 569 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 2: That's why I was like, they're gonna wait till I 570 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 2: finished the damn sent because yes, I was like, no, 571 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 2: that's dumb and ship like, I'll never do that. And 572 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,640 Speaker 2: I was so young doing that, like to keep him 573 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 2: for the sake of our son and trying to figure 574 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 2: out like what this family dynamic would be and it 575 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 2: would be so perfect and lovely that I accepted a 576 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 2: bunch of bullshit even in relationships. There after wrong, and 577 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,680 Speaker 2: here come this real man and he's like, look, I'm 578 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 2: not with none of that ship. I don't. 579 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 1: I don't. 580 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say I don't care about jess Larrius, 581 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 2: but I don't. I don't care about your brand. I 582 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 2: want to get to know Jessica, Robin Moore. I don't 583 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 2: play all that ship. I seen like in the past, 584 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 2: you put niggas on Front Street, you roast your boyfriends 585 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 2: and you do all that, and you you make fun 586 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 2: of whatever y'all going through. I'm telling you right now 587 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 2: that's not me. 588 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:52,639 Speaker 1: We're not gonna do that. 589 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Yeah, put that on Netflix. 590 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,320 Speaker 3: I like when a baby and the baby daddy have that. 591 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 3: Those corporate conversations. 592 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, when you pick up the phone, you'd be like, hello, 593 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:06,639 Speaker 1: how are you not corporate people? 594 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 3: It needs to be real corporate and as much listen, 595 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 3: hands on the phone, you're like, what's up? 596 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 1: What you doing? Yeah? No, No, it needs to sound 597 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: real corporate over there, dude, that's not like you know 598 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: something that's going on. 599 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 2: That's why, that's why, that's the I talk about it 600 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 2: in the book, like you cannot keep sleeping with your 601 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 2: baby daddy and thinking that y'all can do what me 602 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 2: and Rome do and Rome ain't slept together in over 603 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:35,159 Speaker 2: ten eleven twelve. Wow yeah and nah yah because a 604 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 2: lot of women will fall for Oh no. 605 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 1: It's just sex. Yeah nah nah, you're connecting. It's like 606 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: a bluetooth. 607 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 2: He got your mind. It's not about what's in your pants, 608 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 2: it's it's your mind. He already didn't had what's in 609 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 2: your pants. But he's keeping you like and beholding too. Yeah, 610 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 2: like you you there and then you get that little 611 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 2: answer hope, like he gonna change because like he keep 612 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 2: and bit just be thanking. 613 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 614 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 2: One thing I hate about a baby mother child has 615 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 2: be like oh yeah, but he's still fing me telling 616 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 2: the girlfriend he's still efing. 617 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 1: Me, yeah, because you're convenient. He's not going to give 618 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 1: you a relationship though. 619 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 3: I girl, I know she's always like being like I 620 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 3: gave him his first son, Like she posts that all 621 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 3: the time, and I'll be like congression lady, And I 622 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 3: don't want to put too much information out there, but 623 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 3: I know her and she's cool. But it's like, okay, 624 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 3: but y'all aren't together anymore. 625 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 1: Like he's moved on. 626 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 3: He's actually like married now, oh damn. Yeah, Like he's 627 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 3: married now he's moved on, like he has a whole 628 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 3: other family. She's like, but I gave him his spurts 629 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 3: like she's it's very strange. 630 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 2: It probably is something that makes her feel good temporarily, 631 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 2: because I guarantee you she don't say that before she 632 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 2: go to bed. 633 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, she don't. She probably say it to other women 634 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: in the space. 635 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,240 Speaker 2: Are online to appear to be unbothered, but you actually 636 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 2: look more bothered. Yeah, he has a wife. Yeah, so 637 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 2: you don't have to keep on making that point. They 638 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 2: both know that you gave him his first born, right. 639 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so how he makes her feel validated? Problem? Yeah, 640 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 1: in some type of way. 641 00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 2: But at night, like I know it easter because girl, 642 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 2: my dumb asked you to say the same thing. 643 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hello, and that was in my bio. You 644 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 1: know you my son like you was holding it down. 645 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 1: My king, it's king, his father, my baby forather. None 646 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: of y'all can play. Yeah, I was a clown. I'm 647 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 1: glad you let that go. 648 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 2: Amen, Listen, that's the key thing to take away. Accept it, 649 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 2: it ain't gonna be what it's gonna be, and let 650 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 2: it go. 651 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I have one more question than we're gonna 652 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 3: move on to the first topic. Okay, cause I've been 653 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 3: seeing a lot of people say, like, you're on a 654 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 3: baby mama tour and you're praising people for being a 655 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 3: baby mom and you're teaching people how to be a 656 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 3: baby mama. 657 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: What do you say for the critics of that? 658 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 3: You know, they feel like it's a baby mama culture now, 659 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 3: So how do you respond to that? 660 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, so they probably didn't read the book, because I 661 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 2: remember doing one podcast. It was so funny, and I 662 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 2: can tell that they did not read the book soon 663 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 2: as I sat down, but they lied and said they 664 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 2: did not. I don't require everybody to read the goddamn book. 665 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: I'm okay with that, but be honest about it so 666 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 2: I can give you more, you know, details about it. 667 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: As soon as I sat down, one girl was like, we. 668 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 2: Finally got somebody who was ballsy enough to write it 669 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 2: a fuck your baby Daddy book. 670 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 1: And I was like, ooh, that's the total opposite. You 671 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: did not read it. 672 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 8: But even if you watch I ever gave fuck my 673 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 8: baby daddy never. 674 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 2: No, No, we have those audiences out there, But that's 675 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 2: not what because you know what that narrative does, jo, 676 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 2: That shit keeps you where you at. That shit keeps 677 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 2: you toxic and dysfunctional, and it keeps you in a 678 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 2: place where you are so bitter and so hurt about 679 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 2: what your kid's father did to you that you can't 680 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 2: even see the other side, Like you can't even begin 681 00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 2: to think that, oh, we can get through this, we 682 00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:01,719 Speaker 2: are actually can be friends one day. You loved him 683 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 2: at one point, but now you hate them and you 684 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 2: want to hold onto that like that ship won't project 685 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 2: on your kid. That's that, that's why. That's another reason 686 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 2: why I wrote the book. But damn, I'm so mad 687 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 2: at that. I even forgot the question, Oh. 688 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, the baby my glove, Yeah, how do you react 689 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 1: to that? Because honestly, what did you say to the 690 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: podcast the lady when she said that? 691 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 2: I said, I know you obviously didn't read the book, girl, 692 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 2: and you probably ain't been paying a sention to me. 693 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: It has never gave f my baby daddy. 694 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 2: And she was like, oh, well, if it gives F mind, okay, 695 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 2: So this is the audience you predict, okay, So yeah, yeah, 696 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 2: she she sure did know. So I got all of 697 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 2: her business and figured out why you know, Yeah, so 698 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 2: that that's what and that's what I want to do 699 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,880 Speaker 2: ultimately with this book is help people, because by the 700 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 2: end of that conversation, she even was considering hitting him up, 701 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 2: hitting her baby daddy up. 702 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 1: You know what, Now, you're right, he did like you, 703 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 1: but I can felt. 704 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 2: Like she was still very much her feelings. Yeah, she's 705 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 2: still was sleeping withness. She was letting him come in 706 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 2: and sleep with her whenever it was convenient for him. 707 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,320 Speaker 2: And that's so on that day it was fucked like 708 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 2: maybe dad, but on Tuesday it wasn't with you. 709 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 1: Hello. 710 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,480 Speaker 3: You know what, this book is good because none of 711 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,240 Speaker 3: y'all hos left us, no baby daddy. 712 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 1: All these niggas got keyed all of us. Yeah, we 713 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 1: ain't got no. 714 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody because everybody you know, like we're in our 715 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 2: thirty so it's like and we don't have children. 716 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 3: So everybody we date pretty much if they're in our age, 717 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 3: ranger up, they have children. 718 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 2: And I'm gonna lie, I'm so proud of y'all because 719 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 2: the dating pool is like shitting piss so and you 720 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 2: have to be very careful. That's why I also talk 721 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,280 Speaker 2: about in the book, you got to get to know 722 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 2: a person before you create a village. 723 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 1: With this personal absolute. We're creating people. 724 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 2: And then your kids grow up and you wonder why 725 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 2: he's shooting up ship and he going to school and 726 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 2: he talked to and he because you didn't do a 727 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 2: proper diagnosis on his father. 728 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: You didn't evaluate this nigga. 729 00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 2: At dinner, you was on the phone talking about he 730 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 2: got me and st K five hundred on me truffle 731 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 2: butter like caviart, like from all the scamming money. 732 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 1: And that's crazy. 733 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:14,399 Speaker 2: I think the questions on a date should be when, 734 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,800 Speaker 2: especially when you see potential in a guy, whatever that 735 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 2: may be. These days you gotta ask, like, yo, do 736 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 2: you have both of your parents? And that may not 737 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 2: be it may not be so all right cool? 738 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 1: Who raised you? Okay? 739 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts and what are your like morals? Like, 740 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,320 Speaker 2: what are your thoughts on like parenting? How are you 741 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 2: when you get angry? You know what I'm saying, Like 742 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 2: do you ever see yourself with kids? Did you ever 743 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 2: see yourself married? 744 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 7: Like? 745 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 2: These are all the questions that my husband asked me 746 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 2: when he met me, to the point where I was 747 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 2: ready to get up and fight. 748 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 1: Doesn't it a math question? Plus eight minus two plus 749 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 1: six oh d nigga. 750 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, day, I have to do that shit in my calculator. 751 00:34:55,560 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 1: First it out to him. You know, you gotta see. 752 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 2: So if a niggas say, Pim did that. 753 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 1: But then we gotta ask him, do you remember what 754 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:19,839 Speaker 1: he mean? Yeah? Okay, parenth x phony multiple division no deed, 755 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 1: no we need division. Okay, U s attraction. We would 756 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 1: have passed, we would have pop man, what the hell 757 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 1: of ps for a game? But I remember he was exphony. 758 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 2: I was gonna say, yeah, John, but no, you gotta 759 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,360 Speaker 2: get to know these people have like before you have 760 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:47,320 Speaker 2: sex unprotected you like seriously man, because' y'all mixing you know, 761 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 2: spirits and energy and your body is your temple for real. 762 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:51,880 Speaker 1: You don't want to just get man. 763 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 2: You don't want to give a man all of that 764 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:55,799 Speaker 2: and he's not well deserved of it, you don't. 765 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 1: I agree? 766 00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 4: And I think to the people that are saying that online, 767 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,920 Speaker 4: that are saying and like your book is enabling like 768 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 4: women becoming baby mamas, so that I always feel like, 769 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,759 Speaker 4: at the end of the day, people still gonna do 770 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,359 Speaker 4: the sheep, but you might as well give them good 771 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 4: advice guide and a guide to help them on their journey. 772 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 4: Because women are not going to stop having children from 773 00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,840 Speaker 4: men out of wedlock, Like it's not gonna stop. 774 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 3: It even if they are married. People get divorced, happen, 775 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,240 Speaker 3: and sometimes you become a baby mama for other reasons. 776 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 3: So I think it's good to show people how we 777 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 3: can still be a family and make exactly. 778 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 2: And that's why the name of the book is called 779 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 2: to death Do we parent? Because you think about it, 780 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 2: relationships end, marriages end, but not all of them, but 781 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 2: marriages end, friendships end, nothing ends but parenting. You will 782 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 2: never stop being even if you care away, you give 783 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,960 Speaker 2: it falter care, you know, you get, you'll never stop 784 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 2: being that baby's parent. So that, yeah, that's just what 785 00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,120 Speaker 2: it is. But I didn't even see all of that. 786 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 2: Damn it really on there going in about me. 787 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: I didn't see you are. I'm a talker, so I'll 788 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 1: be I'm off that. I don't be on Twitter no 789 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: more either. 790 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 3: Last month so I saw, but I started on TikTok 791 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:18,840 Speaker 3: because people like make videos. 792 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 2: So every time we have a ship go on, I 793 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 2: just see what is being said. It was current, No, 794 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 2: I understand, So right now we're gonna. 795 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,280 Speaker 1: See what we're drinking, right, Yeah, to won't we drinking 796 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 1: on today? Damn? Another way? Are we drinking? 797 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:37,120 Speaker 2: I tell you you made the side card with some 798 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,799 Speaker 2: different ish. Okay, can I tell them what you put 799 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 2: in there? 800 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,400 Speaker 1: You remember? Yes, I remember? So she made it with 801 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: So I saw her. 802 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 2: I like, hennessye, whatever, But she bought out the douce honey, Okay, 803 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,759 Speaker 2: she bought that out. She said, peach snops or is 804 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:52,320 Speaker 2: the slaps? 805 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: You got it? Give up? Right, and then you can 806 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 1: go ahead and say, okay, that was really good. No 807 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:04,320 Speaker 1: one else has ever done that. 808 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,800 Speaker 6: So for Missjess hilarious this is called just with the 809 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:10,760 Speaker 6: mess because her mess is real. 810 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 1: Cognac. 811 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,920 Speaker 6: Like she said, we have some peach knops, we have 812 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 6: some Simoning guava syrup, some lemon juice, and then I 813 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,400 Speaker 6: added some sam Pellegrino lemonada. 814 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,839 Speaker 1: So that's given a little bit of carbonation. That's going, miss, 815 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 1: But I got it. 816 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 6: I got you, and then we garnished it with I 817 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 6: took like an orange peel and made it into a flower, 818 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 6: and then I actually added some many flowers inside of it, 819 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:32,760 Speaker 6: so it's like a bouquet. 820 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,279 Speaker 1: I wanted it to last, but it was so good. 821 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:51,920 Speaker 9: I didn't had a wi's funny. 822 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, they said, y'all sound British key, you know, they said. 823 00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 2: Until I went over there and it was like, no, 824 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 2: you don't. I'm all right, don't do all it, but no. 825 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 2: And I also did the audiobooks, so y'all can hear 826 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 2: all the dus And that actually is what got me 827 00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 2: number one on Amazon for audible everybody wanted. That's like 828 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,400 Speaker 2: the highest sales the audible audio. Yeah, because everybody was like, 829 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 2: oh no, we got to hear y'all you read. 830 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,319 Speaker 1: It because I love your voice too. I don't want 831 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:33,839 Speaker 1: to hear like this. She said, thank you. Okay, let's 832 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 1: get us in this first topic. 833 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:39,080 Speaker 3: Finally, how do you feel about prominent women sharing their 834 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,840 Speaker 3: success and their spotlight with their boyfriends or fathers of 835 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,759 Speaker 3: their children. So I saw a post and it was 836 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,640 Speaker 3: basically saying, women, a lot of times we are extremely 837 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 3: successful at you know, our jobs or whatever we do. Yes, 838 00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,920 Speaker 3: and social media is currency nowadays, So a lot of 839 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,440 Speaker 3: times women will build their platform like as you have 840 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 3: or so many other women in the beauty industry, whatever 841 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 3: it may be. Then they get in a relationship or 842 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:05,480 Speaker 3: they get married, and then all of a sudden, their 843 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,600 Speaker 3: boyfriend comes a part of their content, and then you know, 844 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,839 Speaker 3: they're making this man money, you know, building up who 845 00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 3: they are. And then when they a lot of one, 846 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 3: their audience doesn't want to see that, maybe because they're 847 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 3: used to seeing her or you know, then they split 848 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,919 Speaker 3: up and he gets to basically live off of your name. 849 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: So I wanted to talk to you about this, being 850 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,719 Speaker 1: that you know you have men that and this is. 851 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 3: No shade to them, Like if they weren't connected to you, 852 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 3: we probably wouldn't know who they were. So how do 853 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 3: you feel about that? Like women sharing their social media 854 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:34,240 Speaker 3: currency with their partners. 855 00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 2: See how I felt about it was like, shit, why 856 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 2: not let's do it? Like if you whip me, and 857 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:42,880 Speaker 2: you whip me for all the right reasons, let's go 858 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:44,800 Speaker 2: ahead and do it, you know what I mean. But 859 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 2: what I've learned from this shit is everybody does not 860 00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,920 Speaker 2: deserve that chance. You know the reason why I'm okay 861 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:58,680 Speaker 2: with Jerome or doing it because you're right, it is 862 00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:03,840 Speaker 2: because Rome is like that. That's my son's dad, you 863 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 2: know what I mean. Rome has always had a job, 864 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:08,600 Speaker 2: had a job, and had bitches. 865 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,120 Speaker 1: There are two things that he knew how to eat 866 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: bitches and jobs like don't matter what, no matter what. 867 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,400 Speaker 2: But I've always wanted to see him win because I 868 00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 2: feel like Rome got so much potential to be some 869 00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,880 Speaker 2: type of public figure. He just gotta get He gotta 870 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,320 Speaker 2: get it all the way together. But like I've always 871 00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,400 Speaker 2: saw in Rome some type of star quality. 872 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:27,960 Speaker 1: You feel me. 873 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,160 Speaker 2: I always said, if y J and bow Wow made 874 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 2: a baby, it'll be wrong. 875 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:34,799 Speaker 1: Is who we act like. 876 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,279 Speaker 2: Because both of them got star quality. They know how 877 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,360 Speaker 2: to go viral, they know how to appeal to everyone, 878 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 2: and they're straight pure entertainment. 879 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 1: That is Jerome, you know what I mean. So I 880 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:48,840 Speaker 1: always felt like that. 881 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:53,600 Speaker 2: But as far as ex boyfriends, hmmm, do I regret 882 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:56,279 Speaker 2: that part of it? Yeah, because for a while I 883 00:41:56,440 --> 00:42:00,239 Speaker 2: had became the laughing stock, like by giving some one 884 00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 2: the limelight and like kind of control, right, Like I 885 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,239 Speaker 2: used to do a bit about a nigga that was 886 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:07,960 Speaker 2: cheating on me with strippers and all of that type 887 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,000 Speaker 2: of shit, Like because I'm a stand up comedian and 888 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 2: I used to take my ex on stage and like 889 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 2: put him up there and talk about how he cheated 890 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 2: on me. And I'm thinking, like, yeah, they they bagging 891 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,919 Speaker 2: on him, like they ragging on him when I'm really 892 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 2: the joke. It was so tasteless and it was like, bit, 893 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 2: sure you're serious. 894 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 1: No, you know what I mean, don't leave the book 895 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 1: that I would, but but y'all asked me. 896 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 2: This is a little wonderful topic, and this is the 897 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,960 Speaker 2: perfect time to say, don't do it unless you know 898 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,320 Speaker 2: that person is good for you, because, to be honest, 899 00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 2: I think it's great to show another layer to you. 900 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,759 Speaker 2: Like I'm now married. I've been trying to pull my 901 00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 2: husband into content and he's like, nah, I'm the whole thing. 902 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:50,839 Speaker 1: I would. 903 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 2: Nah, I ain't with that because I'm not up for 904 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:54,400 Speaker 2: everybody to discuss. 905 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:55,400 Speaker 1: I'm not up or naw. 906 00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,879 Speaker 2: And that's why I say, yo, I really do want 907 00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 2: to protect this, but I love the man he is. 908 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:04,280 Speaker 2: I just want to be like, looky'll, ye hav. 909 00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 1: It for your girl, you know what I mean. But 910 00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 1: he's like, nah, we're not doing that. 911 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,120 Speaker 4: But I get where he coming from because the internet 912 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 4: can just be so unforgiving. Once you put them out there, 913 00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 4: it's like your intent might be good, but then the 914 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,839 Speaker 4: reception from them, they're gonna be trying to pick your 915 00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:18,840 Speaker 4: relationship apart. 916 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:23,400 Speaker 2: And I know that I'm ready for it, because I 917 00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 2: don't give a damn with nobody saying about you know. 918 00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:28,160 Speaker 1: About my man or whatever I know him. 919 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,400 Speaker 2: You know, back then, I couldn't get online and be 920 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 2: like I know where my niggagg because I didn't, and 921 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,439 Speaker 2: other bitches were telling me you know what I'm saying, 922 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 2: and just just an any and every relationship that y'all 923 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,200 Speaker 2: have seen just hilarious, and somebody was telling me where 924 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 2: he was at, you know. 925 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,400 Speaker 1: But it's not like that now. 926 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 2: And so my my husband is often like, so, no, 927 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,200 Speaker 2: if you feel like this is to protect the only 928 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,120 Speaker 2: way that I'll do any of this is if they're 929 00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:00,520 Speaker 2: offering us a big bag to put our fans, because 930 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:04,960 Speaker 2: he feels like he he always brings up like t 931 00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:08,719 Speaker 2: I and Tiny's like Grand Hustle show. He was like, 932 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,320 Speaker 2: I love those type of runs House. He likes that 933 00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 2: where they actually show like the family. He's like, yeah, 934 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:20,279 Speaker 2: that's the only way I'll do any type of reality TV. 935 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:21,719 Speaker 1: I don't want to be in no skits. I don't 936 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,680 Speaker 1: want to be anybody's amusement for free. You shouldn't put. 937 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 2: Your kids, our kids, me, you online for nobody's entertainment, 938 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 2: Like we're not doing that. 939 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,319 Speaker 3: But do y'all feel like Black people hide their relationships 940 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 3: too much? Like they feel like Black people do that 941 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,560 Speaker 3: compared to like other races, Like we're like, oh, I'm 942 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 3: not posting him, or I'll post his hand or all 943 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 3: you'll post her. 944 00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,400 Speaker 1: Shoe or something. Do y'all feel like we're too secretive? 945 00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 2: I feel like nobody really care a lot, like when 946 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,719 Speaker 2: you especially when somebody do it that somebody will like 947 00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 2: posting a hand, it's like give the fun. 948 00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 4: Or posting a body and then they cut the head out. 949 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,839 Speaker 4: It was like, at this point, don't post nothing because 950 00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:02,800 Speaker 4: now you're a clown. 951 00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:03,920 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 952 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,000 Speaker 2: You want us to know that somebody's doing something for you. 953 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,920 Speaker 2: Nigga video, don't say it right. So my man had 954 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,279 Speaker 2: took me to st K, Yeah, I would never know 955 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,400 Speaker 2: who he is, you know, like, don't ever post a 956 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:17,960 Speaker 2: nigga and put a big ass flower emoji over his face. 957 00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:22,799 Speaker 1: No, I don't think how you feel do it now. 958 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:24,880 Speaker 1: I've never been the pipe like that. 959 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,839 Speaker 4: But as I get older, though, if I'm being real, 960 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,000 Speaker 4: I feel like people don't do it because they got 961 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,399 Speaker 4: something to hide. Like every dude that I've ever dated 962 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,040 Speaker 4: that I didn't post them on my social media. 963 00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 1: It was because I knew they probably. 964 00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 4: Wouldn't do it right, and I was in barried, Like 965 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,120 Speaker 4: I knew if I posted them, it was probably gonna 966 00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 4: be some ship that I ended up fight it out 967 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 4: if I posted that nigga that I don't think I necessarily. 968 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:52,200 Speaker 1: Wanted to find out and see her and see. That's 969 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:52,560 Speaker 1: the thing. 970 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:57,040 Speaker 2: That's what I wasn't thinking about enough. I was posting everybody. Yeah, 971 00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 2: y'all have seen me to you know, a few relationship, 972 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And I feel like that's 973 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:05,800 Speaker 2: what I didn't have enough. I wish I would have 974 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 2: done that, but I learned from that, and now y'all 975 00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,080 Speaker 2: can see my husband. He don't have a problem with 976 00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 2: me posting him, but he's like, I'm not going to 977 00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 2: actively be a part of your skits and all that 978 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 2: type of shit now because I'm a real like man 979 00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:21,960 Speaker 2: and I got my own business going on. 980 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 1: And things like that, and I'm not about to be 981 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:24,799 Speaker 1: seeing because I. 982 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:27,279 Speaker 3: Think a lot of people try to do that though, 983 00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,680 Speaker 3: like if like the woman is more popular, they trying 984 00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:31,279 Speaker 3: to be like, oh, he's just riding her coat tail, 985 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:33,759 Speaker 3: and that is oh no. 986 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,759 Speaker 4: And I used to ride that privacy train, Like I 987 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,720 Speaker 4: used to be like, oh, I'm just being privy. 988 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:40,800 Speaker 1: I just want to be private. 989 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 4: But I feel like if you with a good dude, 990 00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,399 Speaker 4: why are you being you could show him, you could 991 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,279 Speaker 4: show It's like show him yeah, and then like they'll 992 00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 4: be like, well, I feel like once you start posting people, 993 00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:53,640 Speaker 4: people are trying to ruin a relationship. 994 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 1: Can't nobody ruin it? 995 00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 2: Then they slid no, and I'm with you, I'm m 996 00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:01,520 Speaker 2: I don't like women say that and people get upset 997 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,000 Speaker 2: because people will call up. I do like a segment 998 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,280 Speaker 2: called Jess Fix My Mess every Thursday on the Breakfast 999 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,840 Speaker 2: Club and girls call up and they they give me 1000 00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,680 Speaker 2: so many testimonies like why they don't post they do, 1001 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,080 Speaker 2: or why they don't put because like you know, he 1002 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:15,399 Speaker 2: he would like to stay low key? 1003 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 1: Why yep? Why what is he doing? And are you 1004 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,840 Speaker 1: afraid to find out some shit so you don't want to. 1005 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:24,440 Speaker 2: I think my advice is always post that nigga, okay, 1006 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 2: love them out loud, what's up? 1007 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: See what you find out? 1008 00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,440 Speaker 2: I think for then you'll know the truth and you'll 1009 00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:30,319 Speaker 2: be calling me next way. 1010 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,120 Speaker 1: Well, I think for me, it was like cause. 1011 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,680 Speaker 3: I was like visy before Poor mind started, every every 1012 00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 3: nigga I had, I was posting them like every like 1013 00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:40,200 Speaker 3: you can on my Facebook right now and you can 1014 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:41,280 Speaker 3: see all my old boyfriends. 1015 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:47,360 Speaker 2: You ain't even delete them, no memory, They all are memories. 1016 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:50,520 Speaker 3: But the thing is now, I already get anxiety when 1017 00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,600 Speaker 3: people talk about me, So I think, like, the reason 1018 00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,480 Speaker 3: like I don't like to post people i'm dating now 1019 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 3: being on Poor Minds is just like y'all finna be. 1020 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:00,800 Speaker 1: I'm not worried about what you gonna tell me about 1021 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 1: him or me. I'm sometimes I'll be worried about what 1022 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 1: y'all gonn tell him about me? Oh my god. Outside. 1023 00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:09,239 Speaker 3: But besides that, I just feel like when I read 1024 00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 3: the comments sometimes and the things people say about me, 1025 00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh. 1026 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,840 Speaker 1: My god, y'all are so mean. So I just feel 1027 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,359 Speaker 1: like I don't think I can. 1028 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 3: Mentally handle people talking about me, talking about my relationship. 1029 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 1: You're already saying, she too loud, this show stinks. Then 1030 00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,799 Speaker 1: you can talk about my man too. Yeah you think 1031 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:25,440 Speaker 1: at a time, Oh. 1032 00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,960 Speaker 2: As niggas one thing at a time, But they gonna 1033 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 2: do it anyway, I know, because y'all are so successful 1034 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,520 Speaker 2: and then y'all are y'all twenty four seven, y'all don't 1035 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,880 Speaker 2: put on them act that's the best thing, you know, 1036 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:42,719 Speaker 2: so that always get attacked like what, but you know, 1037 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 2: at the same time those pictures, yes, you know what's 1038 00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,760 Speaker 2: crazy though. The reason I haven't deleted them because honestly, 1039 00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:53,359 Speaker 2: the only reason I know they're still there is when 1040 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 2: I log on my Facebook to get on my actual 1041 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:56,439 Speaker 2: alex pee pay. 1042 00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 3: This is my personal one and it's private. So you 1043 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,000 Speaker 3: know how Facebook be like, this is what you were 1044 00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:02,200 Speaker 3: doing sixteen years ago? 1045 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,359 Speaker 1: Oh there go that nigga? What what happened to him? 1046 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,480 Speaker 1: So I just happened to have the time to like scroll, 1047 00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,919 Speaker 1: but I actively use that page. Okay, good? 1048 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I'm not on there like talking to people 1049 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:14,839 Speaker 3: and literally it's only like I'm only friends with people 1050 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,719 Speaker 3: from high school and my family, Like I probably have 1051 00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:20,480 Speaker 3: like a thousand followers on there if that because I'm like, 1052 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:23,640 Speaker 3: what if you have a potential right now and he 1053 00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:27,440 Speaker 3: is like runner up right against somebody else who is 1054 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,719 Speaker 3: the potential too, and he is trying to win, and 1055 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,279 Speaker 3: he go and he scrolled down. 1056 00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:34,240 Speaker 1: You better fight for my love. I love a duel. 1057 00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 1: Please do all over this pussy. You know, right right, 1058 00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,359 Speaker 1: we need to bring back walls. Niggas used to fight 1059 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:48,080 Speaker 1: for the right. 1060 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,239 Speaker 2: Do y'all remember boys and minute It was a song 1061 00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,480 Speaker 2: baging and that is why I wish R and B 1062 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 2: singers was like they was begging the day that nigga said, baby, 1063 00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:59,080 Speaker 2: I knew you ran up with the other guy and 1064 00:49:59,239 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 2: I saw you. 1065 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,359 Speaker 1: I just didn't care. Yeah, because I knew you was mine? Like, yes, 1066 00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:09,640 Speaker 1: was that all the day? That's what we need to 1067 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:13,319 Speaker 1: bring back. I can't let go said, I didn't care. 1068 00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:16,239 Speaker 1: You want to say, that's my pussy wanted what he 1069 00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,400 Speaker 1: wanted to say. That's the release garden. It is. 1070 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:24,080 Speaker 8: It is alright, So now it's time to get into 1071 00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 8: the bow. 1072 00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:32,279 Speaker 1: The bow by a bow. Y'all know, Little Bait is 1073 00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 1: always sponsored by a salt Ex. Y'all know we love 1074 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:36,600 Speaker 1: us some salt x all y'all. 1075 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,560 Speaker 4: I'll be trying to tell y'all get that coouchie right 1076 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,600 Speaker 4: when you on the go and when you're at home. 1077 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 4: You also has travel sizes. It's gonna keep your pH balance. 1078 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 4: It's all natural ingredients and that's why I love it. 1079 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,400 Speaker 1: It smells amazing. It's gonna have you smelling amazing and 1080 00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 1: your man can use it too? Do you like cuchie? 1081 00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:52,239 Speaker 2: Wash? 1082 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:53,440 Speaker 3: Was? 1083 00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:57,040 Speaker 1: I mean I watched my couchie, but like, what is 1084 00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,759 Speaker 1: it you gonna get? Am I gonna leave with something? 1085 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:00,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna send you home with something because it 1086 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,760 Speaker 3: works so good because I have a sensit of vagina. 1087 00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:03,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1088 00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,480 Speaker 3: You don't like everything, Yeah, so sometimes us to react. Yeah, 1089 00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:09,960 Speaker 3: sometimes them lives When they go like yeah, all it 1090 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:10,960 Speaker 3: means they don't like it. 1091 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:14,440 Speaker 1: Okay, they don't like that, but this works for sensitive coaching. 1092 00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:15,840 Speaker 1: So we're gonna send you home one let us know 1093 00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,680 Speaker 1: if you ye is okay. 1094 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 3: So we're gonna talk about orgasms, and we're gonna talk 1095 00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:26,640 Speaker 3: about how big are your orgasms because about ninety five 1096 00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:30,560 Speaker 3: percent of heterosexual men say they usually are always have 1097 00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,400 Speaker 3: orgasms during sex, but compared to only sixty five percent 1098 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 3: of heterosexual women, and then lesbians have an eighty six 1099 00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,239 Speaker 3: percent rate success rate of orgasms. 1100 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 1: Okay. 1101 00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:47,360 Speaker 3: Research also shows that less than twenty percent of women 1102 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,400 Speaker 3: have an orgasm from penetration alone. 1103 00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:51,040 Speaker 1: Okay. 1104 00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:52,960 Speaker 3: A huge factor is that a lot of women we 1105 00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,879 Speaker 3: require platorial stimulation, and a lot of men don't even 1106 00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,280 Speaker 3: know what that clid is you know what I'm saying. 1107 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:04,000 Speaker 1: Clique. Yeah, y'all, y'all, I used to call it a click. 1108 00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,279 Speaker 2: I did, like and I even know we shouldn't have 1109 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:07,919 Speaker 2: been for old top dumb and shit. 1110 00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:11,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you need to click that thing? You do? 1111 00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:12,480 Speaker 1: What yo? 1112 00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 4: You do? 1113 00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,160 Speaker 1: Click that button on? Dude? 1114 00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 3: You know how annoying it is, like if a man 1115 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,160 Speaker 3: is eating your kouchie, but he's like eating your actual 1116 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 3: like whole Ain't this comfortable? 1117 00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 1: Always? Like back away? Tell you a freak? 1118 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:31,880 Speaker 2: She said, Well she's she's like, noah. 1119 00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:34,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I want to talk about if y'all. 1120 00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:38,440 Speaker 3: If y'all remember the first time you had an orgasm. 1121 00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:42,560 Speaker 1: Oh, like with a man? Have you been a woman girl? Yeah? 1122 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,920 Speaker 2: But I ain't never had no organism organisms with a 1123 00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,520 Speaker 2: you know, I never had no organisms with a woman. 1124 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 1: Okay, now I can tell you. I can literally tell 1125 00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:57,080 Speaker 1: you twenty twenty three. Oh this is recent. Yeah okay, yes, 1126 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:06,120 Speaker 1: now I see why you're married. We talk not Listen. 1127 00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:13,879 Speaker 2: I was proposed to him that the first time, though, 1128 00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,320 Speaker 2: you really do? Yeah, what's the fun happened? 1129 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:16,560 Speaker 1: Listen? 1130 00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:18,359 Speaker 2: I didn't even realize what was going on in your 1131 00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,799 Speaker 2: whole body, your whole body vibrating. 1132 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:25,279 Speaker 1: Then you like the whole it's like it's like an 1133 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 1: outer body experience. Yes, love that for you. 1134 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,279 Speaker 3: But I think a lot of we need to talk 1135 00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 3: about this because a lot of us have orgasms so 1136 00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:35,160 Speaker 3: much later in life. 1137 00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, then you have to realize. 1138 00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,400 Speaker 3: I mean, if we're being honest, a lot of us 1139 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:42,120 Speaker 3: start having sexist teens right like yeah, eighteen, and we 1140 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,359 Speaker 3: have sex for years, and so we start to think, Okay, 1141 00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,479 Speaker 3: this is what sex is. Yeah, men, are they gonna 1142 00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,040 Speaker 3: get that nut off? And we're like, okay, maybe it's 1143 00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,760 Speaker 3: not normal. Then we start masturbating and kind of learning 1144 00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,279 Speaker 3: what orgasm feels like. 1145 00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:58,560 Speaker 1: So then we separate the two. But that same feeling 1146 00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,360 Speaker 1: that you get from that vibrator. 1147 00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 3: Should be the same feeling that you get when you're 1148 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,360 Speaker 3: having said the more emotional it is. 1149 00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:11,879 Speaker 1: So manything like I squirked for the first time. I'm 1150 00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:17,480 Speaker 1: a hello, I was like Spider Man, But'm like I 1151 00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:19,239 Speaker 1: can do that, dude. 1152 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:25,680 Speaker 2: Not No, I'm telling I'm loving my marriage, not having 1153 00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,480 Speaker 2: a ball. I was like, I would have posted that. 1154 00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:32,120 Speaker 1: For the first time. 1155 00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:34,800 Speaker 2: Look so wrong, Look nigga, it ain't so death to 1156 00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:38,120 Speaker 2: be paring no more. I'm done, like your girl, and 1157 00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:41,840 Speaker 2: my business always all from listening is now. 1158 00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:45,640 Speaker 1: Nine five, I can't not no more. 1159 00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,800 Speaker 3: Yes, But I mean, I'm glad that you said that, 1160 00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:50,840 Speaker 3: because twenty three, that's that's very recent. 1161 00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:52,279 Speaker 1: That's very recent. 1162 00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,080 Speaker 3: A lot of women don't want to in my thirties, 1163 00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:56,320 Speaker 3: and we say this all the time. And this is 1164 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,200 Speaker 3: why I'm glad that you said, even having sex with somebody, 1165 00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,120 Speaker 3: you need to be select because this is your body, 1166 00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:03,640 Speaker 3: this is your temple. And if we felt more comfortable 1167 00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,200 Speaker 3: with our partners, we could be like, hey, this doesn't 1168 00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 3: feel good to me, let's try this. Sex should be fun, right, 1169 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:12,040 Speaker 3: And I feel like even nowadays, when we talk about 1170 00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:13,200 Speaker 3: sex on poor minds, they're. 1171 00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, this is so we're all having it? 1172 00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, why can you talk about why can't we be 1173 00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 2: open about learning our bodies. I did not know how 1174 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:24,880 Speaker 2: to have an orgasm. I didn't know how it went, like, 1175 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:26,759 Speaker 2: I just I just did not know. And I'm out 1176 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,320 Speaker 2: here having all these sex and all the sex in 1177 00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:31,719 Speaker 2: my twenties and yeah, and I'm pleasing men, yep, but 1178 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,280 Speaker 2: I'm not even realizing like what it's like to be pleased. 1179 00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:36,880 Speaker 2: It's like, no, I've never vibrated off the bed, like 1180 00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:41,080 Speaker 2: I never like had a conniption, and so my thirties, 1181 00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:44,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, yes, you know what I mean. Well, 1182 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:48,279 Speaker 2: it is definitely a beautiful feeling and once you do it, 1183 00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:49,840 Speaker 2: you're gonna be chasing it forever. 1184 00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:51,040 Speaker 1: Yes, for real. 1185 00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,320 Speaker 4: And I think it's women too, Like why are we 1186 00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:56,000 Speaker 4: so afraid to let me and know when they're not 1187 00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:56,680 Speaker 4: pleasing it? 1188 00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:58,680 Speaker 1: We feel like we got a fakey. 1189 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:00,680 Speaker 4: We feel like we got to make them feel like 1190 00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:02,759 Speaker 4: he feel good and they doing a good job on 1191 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:05,640 Speaker 4: in Reality Unite, like you're not leaking the click yeah, 1192 00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,640 Speaker 4: Yet you're not leaking the click yeah. 1193 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 1: I got a joke about that on on stage. Or 1194 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:12,080 Speaker 1: I say that. 1195 00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,680 Speaker 2: I'm like, ladies, we're not as forthcoming as we should be, 1196 00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:17,720 Speaker 2: like because we'll be trying to save these guys ego 1197 00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,080 Speaker 2: and pride and we don't want you to to oh 1198 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 2: my god, we don't want you to crumble and things 1199 00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:25,120 Speaker 2: like that. But it's like, nah, we're doing that at 1200 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:29,160 Speaker 2: the expense of our comfort, like our comfort, like no, And. 1201 00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:31,279 Speaker 3: I think that's what society has taught us to. Like 1202 00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:33,720 Speaker 3: all the songs are like, oh, I got the best pussy. 1203 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:35,200 Speaker 1: I got my coochieah. 1204 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,560 Speaker 2: But it's like, but you're still not getting with ye 1205 00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,520 Speaker 2: one out of the city. And that's why they rapping 1206 00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:40,000 Speaker 2: so hard. 1207 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:41,200 Speaker 1: Man, you know. 1208 00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,719 Speaker 2: And I tell you if you if you line up 1209 00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,320 Speaker 2: ten men, none of that, none of them that dick trash, 1210 00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:49,080 Speaker 2: I promise, I agree. 1211 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:52,200 Speaker 1: None of them ain't stroking on ship. But you can't. 1212 00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:53,719 Speaker 2: But they will never admit it because they don't know, 1213 00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:55,040 Speaker 2: because they don't tell them the truth. 1214 00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:56,360 Speaker 1: We don't, I'm telling you. 1215 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,320 Speaker 3: Ever, we've talked about this on an old episode before 1216 00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:00,520 Speaker 3: and we had Clifton. 1217 00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:02,840 Speaker 1: It was so many men like not me, not me, 1218 00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:08,680 Speaker 1: So you're telling me whatever statistic I said, all these 1219 00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:10,640 Speaker 1: women are lying. 1220 00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:13,839 Speaker 3: No, we're telling the truth. But we're telling the truth 1221 00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,560 Speaker 3: to each other, telling it to y'all. So this is 1222 00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:18,560 Speaker 3: for the men that are watching out here. Please just 1223 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:20,479 Speaker 3: go home and talk to your partner. She probably gonna 1224 00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:21,480 Speaker 3: lie to you, but why don't you. 1225 00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:23,720 Speaker 1: Just ask her? Hey, what do you want to do 1226 00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:27,920 Speaker 1: with it tonight? What what can I do for you? Please? 1227 00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:28,080 Speaker 10: You? 1228 00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:32,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, listen you girl, Okay, I see this 1229 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:37,520 Speaker 2: is what this is your fault. This is Those were 1230 00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:41,200 Speaker 2: the words like yo, my husbman asked me that, but 1231 00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:43,360 Speaker 2: before he was my husband, and nig was like, what 1232 00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:44,280 Speaker 2: you want me to do to you? 1233 00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:49,040 Speaker 1: Why I got asked that, don't ever ask me because 1234 00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:50,240 Speaker 1: and then I didn't even know. 1235 00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:53,640 Speaker 2: I was like I literally I'm being like having a 1236 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:56,040 Speaker 2: real fucking moment with y'all being transparent, Like I was like, 1237 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:58,040 Speaker 2: I don't know what you want to do? 1238 00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he went like. 1239 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:06,720 Speaker 2: I love you from that y'all like hello, And I 1240 00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:09,080 Speaker 2: was like, oh, I do like this because I'm gonna 1241 00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:11,000 Speaker 2: tell you right now. I did not like oral sex 1242 00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,880 Speaker 2: because a nigga beat me before. I was like, yeah, 1243 00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:17,560 Speaker 2: you can't literally eat the pussy goofy ass, yes, like 1244 00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:21,040 Speaker 2: a little rat. I was just like with you, and 1245 00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:25,560 Speaker 2: so I never ever ever liked like, hey, I never 1246 00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:28,160 Speaker 2: liked goodness. Yeah, I was fucked up, like I got 1247 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,240 Speaker 2: bit when I was like twenty twenty seven. 1248 00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,000 Speaker 1: So I was like, no sai with that. So I 1249 00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:34,520 Speaker 1: was a little scared of him the door, but he 1250 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:35,120 Speaker 1: like that. 1251 00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:39,000 Speaker 2: Child plus stop playing like you said, like she said, 1252 00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:43,360 Speaker 2: ask ask your girl or your woman, your wife, whatever, 1253 00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:46,000 Speaker 2: what do you want me to do? Like, well, how 1254 00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:48,320 Speaker 2: do you want to be pleased? Yes, that's exactly what 1255 00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:49,840 Speaker 2: he asked me, and I did not have an answer, 1256 00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:50,680 Speaker 2: so he just did. 1257 00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:51,880 Speaker 1: What he was supposed to do. 1258 00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:56,280 Speaker 4: That and side notes because sex isn't one side saw Yeah, 1259 00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:56,960 Speaker 4: you got it. 1260 00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,840 Speaker 1: One size definitely don't fit all this. Hey, I know 1261 00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:04,120 Speaker 1: that's right. You gotta come on with it. And I 1262 00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:06,919 Speaker 1: want to give you a comment because body t yes, 1263 00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:07,560 Speaker 1: thank you. 1264 00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,720 Speaker 3: I don't we know when we talk about fine ass 1265 00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:13,240 Speaker 3: comedians and stuff, you know, people want to talk about 1266 00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:13,520 Speaker 3: some more. 1267 00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:14,880 Speaker 1: We got to talk about just Hilary. 1268 00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that body knows crazy. I mean, we already know 1269 00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:21,240 Speaker 3: your beautiful. But when I saw your body, I was like, 1270 00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:25,280 Speaker 3: damn it, don't look crazy. It don't look like that 1271 00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:26,680 Speaker 3: came out that body. 1272 00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,720 Speaker 1: Was like, let me turn this bit. Hello. 1273 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 2: I know when you got naked, he was like, I 1274 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,919 Speaker 2: got to go to work break now I had the baby, 1275 00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:38,200 Speaker 2: and he had me in the gym like four weeks 1276 00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:39,920 Speaker 2: after that. He was listen, this man be like this 1277 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 2: man like, no, come on, let's get in the gym. 1278 00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:43,600 Speaker 1: Let's do it, because I know you're gonna get. 1279 00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:46,600 Speaker 2: Back down to where you were. And he helped worked me. 1280 00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:54,520 Speaker 1: Out that body a lot of on this couch, right up. 1281 00:59:55,600 --> 01:00:03,960 Speaker 1: Oh my ladies, ro all right, all right, okay, what 1282 01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 1: else we got time for? 1283 01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:07,840 Speaker 4: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment 1284 01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,600 Speaker 4: of the show, which is pour your heart out. 1285 01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:14,520 Speaker 1: Just you give good advice. I do, I do. Of course, 1286 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:17,120 Speaker 1: we know that IM. 1287 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:21,360 Speaker 4: Just sad as poor minds at gmail dot com. That's 1288 01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,840 Speaker 4: ask p O U R N my I DS at 1289 01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:27,200 Speaker 4: gmail dot com. Make sure y'all send us y'all questions 1290 01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,960 Speaker 4: and y'all testimonials. Now, we used to get testimonials and 1291 01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:34,480 Speaker 4: they wasn't that good, but we're trying to change that, 1292 01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:39,120 Speaker 4: trying to start giving bid advice. Okay, okay, So it says, hey, girls, 1293 01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:41,840 Speaker 4: first off, I love you down. I was in a 1294 01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:45,120 Speaker 4: relationship for almost two years and everything was good until 1295 01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:48,360 Speaker 4: a girl DMed me saying she been messing with my men. 1296 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,400 Speaker 4: After confronting him, he admitted it was true and had 1297 01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:55,000 Speaker 4: been going on for a while. We broke up, but 1298 01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:58,360 Speaker 4: later met I don't wait, later met up to talk. 1299 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,520 Speaker 1: Oh sorry, it's really that's an all. Damn she really 1300 01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:01,840 Speaker 1: wrote it. 1301 01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:07,000 Speaker 4: We broke We broke up, but later meant up to 1302 01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:10,320 Speaker 4: talk and he apologized and admitted that he was selfish 1303 01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,720 Speaker 4: during the conversation, he asked if I was ever crossed, 1304 01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:16,280 Speaker 4: if I ever crossed the line too, and I admitted 1305 01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:19,440 Speaker 4: that a few months earlier, I did something inappropriate that 1306 01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,720 Speaker 4: could definitely be considered cheating, even though it didn't go 1307 01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:25,520 Speaker 4: as far as his situation. We've been broken up for 1308 01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:28,360 Speaker 4: about three months now, and he wants to get back together. 1309 01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:31,000 Speaker 4: I still love him, but I know we both have 1310 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,400 Speaker 4: things that we need to work on before jumping back in. 1311 01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:37,280 Speaker 4: Do y'all think reconciliation is possible after both people missed it? 1312 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:41,760 Speaker 1: I do think so. I do think so. Obviously she 1313 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:43,760 Speaker 1: was covering up things he was too. 1314 01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:48,080 Speaker 2: He I think that she always knew, She always had 1315 01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:50,680 Speaker 2: like maybe some type of inkling that he was doing something, 1316 01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:53,600 Speaker 2: and she started doing something, you know, instead of like 1317 01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:56,400 Speaker 2: confronting him when she thought it that. That's because that 1318 01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:59,560 Speaker 2: sounds very similar to me. I was in a situation 1319 01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:01,280 Speaker 2: like that like many many years ago. 1320 01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:03,880 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think it is. 1321 01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:09,480 Speaker 2: It is definitely possible that both of them can reconcile now. 1322 01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:12,760 Speaker 2: They got to put everything on the table, though, like 1323 01:02:12,800 --> 01:02:16,480 Speaker 2: because I don't believe he only had that one situation 1324 01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:18,160 Speaker 2: that she found out. I just think that's the first thing. 1325 01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,320 Speaker 2: That the only thing that she found out. And I 1326 01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:24,080 Speaker 2: don't think she only did one thing too, because you know, you. 1327 01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:24,800 Speaker 1: Gotta think about it. 1328 01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:26,880 Speaker 2: She was trying to get her mind off this nigga, 1329 01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:29,200 Speaker 2: and there's plenty ways to do that, and she did 1330 01:02:29,280 --> 01:02:31,320 Speaker 2: it and she's reconsidering going back. 1331 01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:35,440 Speaker 1: So and sometimes you got to think about the only 1332 01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:37,360 Speaker 1: reason you found out is because the girl told you. 1333 01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:39,200 Speaker 1: He wasn't. 1334 01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:42,240 Speaker 2: But I like how he didn't lie. He was like, 1335 01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:43,640 Speaker 2: you know what, Yeah, you got me, you know what 1336 01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 2: I mean. But I do think that they both need 1337 01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,440 Speaker 2: to come clean about whatever else that they got going on, 1338 01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:52,080 Speaker 2: if they do want to give it a fair shot, 1339 01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:54,600 Speaker 2: like to be honest, because I do think like people, 1340 01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:56,480 Speaker 2: they live and they learn, they mess up and they learn. 1341 01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:58,000 Speaker 2: You know, a lot of people don't get second and 1342 01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 2: third chances, a lot of people do. I think they 1343 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:02,000 Speaker 2: both need to come clean, put. 1344 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:02,600 Speaker 1: It all on the table. 1345 01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:05,400 Speaker 2: Like me and Rome did move forward, and now me 1346 01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:07,400 Speaker 2: and Rome didn't move forward together. But I think they 1347 01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:11,080 Speaker 2: can if they if they're honest about it, it's definitely possible. 1348 01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:13,080 Speaker 1: I'm laughing at us with these stars. 1349 01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 8: I got them, I got a where Yes, you will 1350 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:29,640 Speaker 8: pay for your grind I have a gun right here, Yes. 1351 01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 1: I got damn. That's crazy, that's different. 1352 01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,000 Speaker 2: We was all inspired by that was my girl. She 1353 01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,760 Speaker 2: played a whole influenced in my life. 1354 01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:41,640 Speaker 3: Hello, okay, Jess, let everybody know where they can go 1355 01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:44,160 Speaker 3: get the book right now and follow you out where 1356 01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:45,520 Speaker 3: to find you at all that good stuff. 1357 01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:49,360 Speaker 2: Okay, So it's your girl. Just hilarious Underscore official on Instagram. 1358 01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:52,680 Speaker 2: Just underscore hilarious on Twitter. I don't be on there 1359 01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:55,280 Speaker 2: to somebody else. It's not me, but it's my page, okay, 1360 01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:59,080 Speaker 2: because y'all mean the ship on there the period Facebook, 1361 01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 2: Just larious show. Also you can find the book in 1362 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:07,160 Speaker 2: stores all bookstores online Justlaris official dot com, bars and 1363 01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:09,120 Speaker 2: Noble dot com. Wherever you get your books, you can 1364 01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:12,160 Speaker 2: find it. And then also the audio version, get that 1365 01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:14,720 Speaker 2: because that that's what got me best seller on Amazon. 1366 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:16,480 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna get the New York Time's the best 1367 01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:16,960 Speaker 2: seller with you. 1368 01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:21,640 Speaker 1: That's a deal so much. I'm number one in three 1369 01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:22,960 Speaker 1: different categories on Amazon. 1370 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:23,520 Speaker 2: Girls. 1371 01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:28,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you've been working, Yeah you have, you have been 1372 01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,520 Speaker 1: working now, you know we on tour still sit in 1373 01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:33,440 Speaker 1: twenty twenty six. What you pulling up to? Oh? You 1374 01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:38,760 Speaker 1: let everywhere everywhere? Are y'all d C are y'all? I 1375 01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:40,120 Speaker 1: was about to say, are y'all going there in my 1376 01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:43,680 Speaker 1: own Baltimore d C? Okay, I might pull with y'all 1377 01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:43,960 Speaker 1: in DC. 1378 01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,720 Speaker 2: Okay, because it is no because for real, like if 1379 01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:50,120 Speaker 2: I don't got shows or whatever, like Yo, everybody loved 1380 01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:54,120 Speaker 2: dread Alex, everybody love for my y'all don't fucking understand. 1381 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:57,800 Speaker 2: Maybe y'all do understands now everybody loves y'all. 1382 01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:00,320 Speaker 1: We don't get tired of hearing I don't. I think 1383 01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:03,320 Speaker 1: you need to hear that. Yeah, we'll be those people. 1384 01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:03,920 Speaker 1: Don't be mean. 1385 01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,920 Speaker 2: No, they do be mean, but no, for real, that 1386 01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,320 Speaker 2: means you're doing something because if y'all we wasn't making 1387 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:13,080 Speaker 2: no noise, y'all would have all y'all wouldn't have no reviews. Ye, No, listen, 1388 01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:16,200 Speaker 2: I'm telling you. Look my aunt, she is fifty three, 1389 01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:18,000 Speaker 2: and she was like, you need. 1390 01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:19,960 Speaker 1: To get up on there with poor minds. You know 1391 01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:21,320 Speaker 1: what them girls don't. 1392 01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:24,480 Speaker 2: I don't think that they I don't think that. I 1393 01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:26,520 Speaker 2: don't think that they have kids or whatever. But I 1394 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:28,480 Speaker 2: think you need to go up on there and talk 1395 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:29,160 Speaker 2: about your book. 1396 01:05:29,160 --> 01:05:34,160 Speaker 1: I said I know them. No, but that's the auntie 1397 01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:35,880 Speaker 1: that was like freak nick back in the day. 1398 01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:39,560 Speaker 2: You're gonna catch because they're going on tour and eighty 1399 01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:42,360 Speaker 2: five South always show them love and that and y'all 1400 01:05:43,160 --> 01:05:44,760 Speaker 2: people love y'all all eighties. 1401 01:05:46,200 --> 01:05:50,440 Speaker 1: It's not playing we love you. I'm not promoting the 1402 01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:52,640 Speaker 1: book so I can get a little bit more. Yeah, 1403 01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 1: because right now I'm an author and I'm glad that 1404 01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:57,720 Speaker 1: you wrote the book. That's when I do have kids 1405 01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:02,200 Speaker 1: in a few years, I'm do we hear. Okay, y'all 1406 01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:05,200 Speaker 1: gonna stay together. We're gonna stay together, No, we are. 1407 01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:07,080 Speaker 1: But I'm saying the book is still gonna help me 1408 01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:09,200 Speaker 1: out because it's gonna help me with my parents. Good. 1409 01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's not only for people that don't want 1410 01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:12,960 Speaker 2: to be together. It's for people that co paring under 1411 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 2: the same route you know, that's working on relationships separate U. 1412 01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:20,520 Speaker 2: People that are separated. They're married but separated. They're trying 1413 01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:22,800 Speaker 2: to figure it out and get back together. Listen, sometimes 1414 01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 2: your kid remind you like, oh no, we need to 1415 01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,520 Speaker 2: do this together because we made this kid love, you know, And. 1416 01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:30,440 Speaker 1: There's sometimes to be like sh no, fu fuck you. 1417 01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:33,920 Speaker 1: But I'm not all to my baby daddy, cause I'm 1418 01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:42,040 Speaker 1: gonna be outside of the streets and he gonna be mad. Okay, Well, 1419 01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:47,120 Speaker 1: thank you so much, y'all. Make sure y'all follow her, 1420 01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:51,560 Speaker 1: and we'll see y'all soon on tour. Still stipping, she. 1421 01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:56,520 Speaker 4: Say, still tipping soda every time, still tipping, but still sipping. 1422 01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:59,760 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty six. We'll see y'all tour, and we'll see 1423 01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:04,160 Speaker 1: y'all are y'all. Yeah, we got just and the giggles 1424 01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:05,000 Speaker 1: in the building. 1425 01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:10,440 Speaker 2: Night when you first meet that bitch, Yeah, and she 1426 01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:12,919 Speaker 2: is side bitch and she thinks she along for the ride. 1427 01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:16,080 Speaker 1: Oh, don't worry about the sun that's around. That's okay. 1428 01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:20,040 Speaker 1: It was love ad first sight. 1429 01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:22,760 Speaker 3: I know. 1430 01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:33,520 Speaker 1: From the way she looks at me. Yeah, her eyes 1431 01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:46,840 Speaker 1: said it all long days and night we spent until 1432 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 1: she dropped the bomb on me. And she said that she. 1433 01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:59,200 Speaker 2: Was unhappily Mary with children, and I wish. 1434 01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:05,440 Speaker 1: I never met her. And even though. 1435 01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:11,120 Speaker 10: I love her soul, but she's I love for me, 1436 01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:18,120 Speaker 10: but she see you belong. 1437 01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:24,560 Speaker 1: Sue wanting her so bad. 1438 01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:27,360 Speaker 10: For shore. 1439 01:08:29,200 --> 01:08:39,600 Speaker 7: Because she wants to be with me, but she cannot 1440 01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:48,639 Speaker 7: be with me, and she shows to stay hey at all. 1441 01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:58,560 Speaker 1: So they can be a family. She dren but what 1442 01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:04,640 Speaker 1: of ad me? But I wish she never met her 1443 01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:07,120 Speaker 1: at all? 1444 01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:14,519 Speaker 2: All? Even though I love her soul, she's got love 1445 01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:24,040 Speaker 2: for me, oh yeah, but she stilled me longs someone else. 1446 01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:33,360 Speaker 2: Maybe in another life things would be the way we 1447 01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:41,400 Speaker 2: both design. It's a catch swe me to either way 1448 01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:46,360 Speaker 2: you win, someone had to lose, And I wish I'd. 1449 01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:56,519 Speaker 1: Never met her, even though I love her soul. She's 1450 01:09:56,600 --> 01:10:04,599 Speaker 1: got love for me, Oh but she still be long 1451 01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:16,200 Speaker 1: to someone else. Oh ad all heada. Even though I 1452 01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:23,800 Speaker 1: love her soul, she's gotta love for me, but she 1453 01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:30,880 Speaker 1: still be long to someone else. I wish alway show 1454 01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:46,680 Speaker 1: ever let something good? Oh heard so much inside her? 1455 01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:51,840 Speaker 1: That girl is good. You're living up for chess. 1456 01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:57,720 Speaker 5: My mother, take out here her shut up suddenly, my 1457 01:10:57,840 --> 01:11:00,880 Speaker 5: fucking uncle reader shirt, I. 1458 01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:02,760 Speaker 4: Is ballows, A. 1459 01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:13,400 Speaker 1: B is bare. It is ballow a thing tall