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Speaker 2: Gabrielle is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude that named Orlando.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call him in a few minutes

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Speaker 2: and see if we can get him on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask him why he's ghosting her. But first we

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Speaker 2: need to talk about the date. Gabrielle, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Orlando?

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Speaker 3: Your last communication was about three days ago. I've talked

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Speaker 3: to him about four times and nothing, so.

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Speaker 4: Three days may not be officially ghosting, but it's the

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Speaker 4: attempt at they're reaching out that makes her feel that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it does.

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Speaker 5: I get that. Well, why don't you tell us about

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Speaker 5: the date and how you met Orlando?

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Speaker 3: So we met on hinge and bonded over karaoke songs

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Speaker 3: and decided to hit a holiday themed karaoke bar for

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Speaker 3: our date. We ended up having some holiday drinks like

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Speaker 3: spiked Pepperminthawk Coco, and mulled wine. I love those plays

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Speaker 3: were kind of like each other's cheerleaders as we performed

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Speaker 3: each song.

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Speaker 2: Fun Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Afterwards, we grabbed another round and found a table in

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Speaker 3: the back of the bar and we just talked and

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Speaker 3: it was under some lights by a fire. It was

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Speaker 3: really romantic and cozy.

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Speaker 4: So then, what do you think could have gone wrong

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Speaker 4: on the day? What did you guys talk about?

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Speaker 3: Well, we were really comfortable with each other, and I

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Speaker 3: think it might have been because I started crying. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I started talking about being cheated on and it triggered

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Speaker 3: me because my ex fiance cheated on me right before

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Speaker 3: our wedding and two years ago. But I didn't really

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Speaker 3: expect to cry that Maybe that's why.

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Speaker 5: How did he react while you're while you were crying?

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Speaker 3: I mean he was sympathetic. He seemed really nice. I

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Speaker 3: just don't know what went wrong.

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Speaker 2: What intensity level are we talking about with the cry?

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Speaker 2: Was it like tearing up or is it full on

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Speaker 2: balling on the floor?

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Speaker 3: You know? Well, I mean I needed some tissue. Like

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Speaker 3: I said, I really didn't expect to cry. I think

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Speaker 3: it was decided too much to drink. I can get

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Speaker 3: a little emotional when I.

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Speaker 4: Drink, understandable. I just am trying to picture like him, like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: this reaction, because they could have gone like, you know,

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Speaker 4: he made you feel comfortable in that space like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I thought he was. He was fairly nice. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: considering what we were talking about.

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Speaker 2: Did he give you like a hug or he.

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Speaker 3: Put his arm around me?

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Speaker 5: Okay? So then what happened after? Did you guys recover

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Speaker 5: from that? And how fun again?

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Speaker 6: Or yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean the rest Yeah, the rest of the date

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Speaker 3: was great.

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Speaker 5: How did the date end a hug? Okay?

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Speaker 2: How long did the whole in exchange about that? Like?

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Speaker 2: How long did that take?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 2: Was it a quick thing or you know, was it

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Speaker 2: like an hour of crying?

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Speaker 3: It was pretty quick? All right?

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Speaker 2: Cool, Well, we'll play a song come back, and then

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Speaker 2: we'll call him and we'll see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 5: Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Gabrielle is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a dude named Orlando that she really liked. So we're

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Speaker 2: about to call him and see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that. Why don't you refresh everybody's memory,

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Speaker 2: Gabrielle on your situation.

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Speaker 3: So we had a really great date. It was kind

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Speaker 3: of holiday themed and I started crying and I think

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Speaker 3: that might be the reason, but I'm not really sure.

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Speaker 2: And you were crying about your ex, right, yeah, because

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Speaker 2: he cheated on you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's been two years now though.

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Speaker 2: So Victoria's looking at me like I sound intensive? Did

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Speaker 2: I sound like I was insensitive? But almost like one

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Speaker 2: of the ones where you're like, damn, jubal, don't bring

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Speaker 2: it up. But up. I just wanted to make sure everybody,

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Speaker 2: you know, okay good. I want to make sure not

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Speaker 2: coming off like yeah, okay, I'm gonna call him right now.

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Speaker 2: You ready, Gabrielle, Yeah, okay, here we go.

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Speaker 7: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is this Orlando?

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Speaker 8: This is he?

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Speaker 6: How can I help?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 2: How are you? My name is Jewbel and I'm calling

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Speaker 2: from a radio show. It's called the Jewbil Show.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Hi, Orlando.

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Speaker 9: Who Hi?

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Speaker 5: My name is Nina. I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Oh hey, I'm listening to you guys all the time.

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Speaker 2: Look up, Oh you do?

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Speaker 5: Thank you?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I love your show. So why do you guys call him?

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Speaker 2: Did you have are you ghosting somebody right.

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Speaker 8: Now, I wouldn't call it ghosting, but I mean, if

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Speaker 8: this is what I think it is, like I'm not

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Speaker 8: responding to I guess that's the definition of ghosting man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Okay, this is the first day follow up

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Speaker 2: where if you go somebody, they have us get you

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Speaker 2: on the phone to ask why you're ghosting them. We

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from Gabrielle.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember, Gabrielle.

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Speaker 5: Why are you non respondent?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 8: So I don't want to be gross or nothing, right,

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Speaker 8: but like I'm just being real about this. It was

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Speaker 8: a great date up until a moment when she started crying.

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Speaker 6: You know, like that that probably is not bad.

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Speaker 8: You know, she had a rough you know, last boyfriend

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Speaker 8: or I think it was her fiance.

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Speaker 6: Or something like that.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, like kid on her, So I get being emotional

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Speaker 2: She told us a little bit about that. She said

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Speaker 2: that she thinks that that might be the reason that

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Speaker 8: So it kind of is not really I don't mind

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Speaker 8: the fact that she was crying, but like, I don't

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Speaker 8: know if you can say this on the radio, but

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Speaker 8: like she was digging into her hannies for tissues.

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Speaker 5: Oh what what are.

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Speaker 2: You being literal with that? How do you do?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: She had tissues in her underwear.

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Speaker 5: Why do you have tissues in there?

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Speaker 2: I thought.

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Speaker 3: I was wearing a skirt with both in shorts and

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Speaker 3: and pocket. I was reaching into my pocket.

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Speaker 2: Wait what? I love that?

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Speaker 3: Actually?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh, Orlando, Yeah, if you've listened to these before,

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Speaker 2: that's Gabrielle. She's been listening to this whole conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was wearing shorts do it with pockets?

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Speaker 6: Oh hey, gabriel how you doing?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Hi, So just to recap, Orlando, you have been ghosting

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Speaker 4: Gabrielle because she was digging into her panty.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, like, look not for nothing, you know,

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Speaker 8: Like I I at first, you know, I didn't know.

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Speaker 6: What she was doing. I didn't know she was excited

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Speaker 8: That was that was weird, you know, And like there

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Speaker 8: because I was trying to reach for the tissues at

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Speaker 8: the Knapkins on the bar behind you, because I thought

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Speaker 8: it was weird that you were going. You know, again,

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Speaker 8: I don't mind you being open with me. It's a

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Speaker 8: real compliment. That you can feel that comfortable around me.

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Speaker 8: I just thought what you I guess thought you were

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Speaker 8: a recent someplace weird in public and that.

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Speaker 6: That's rough for our first day, right, Like? Am I

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Speaker 6: the crazy one here?

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Speaker 5: It's just funny to think about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Sorry, So, Gabrielle, you weren't digging in your panties?

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Speaker 9: No, definitely not so like how I mean like you

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Speaker 6: How you dress is how you dressed.

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Speaker 7: And you were looking good.

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Speaker 8: But I really doesn't look right in public, and or

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Speaker 8: at least give me a heads up if that's the

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Speaker 3: You know, they were just really short and really tight short.

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Speaker 7: Definitely didn't look like that.

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Speaker 8: But if that's the case, my apologies. I just didn't

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Speaker 3: At least, you know, you could have asked me about it.

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Speaker 3: How am I gonna ask.

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Speaker 6: A grown woman in public?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 6: Are you reaching where the shundom from?

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Speaker 5: Very poppings up there?

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Speaker 2: What else has gotten there? What a great misunderstanding? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it seems like a big misunderstanding. Orlando, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go out on another date with Gabrielle? We'll pay

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Speaker 2: for it.

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Speaker 8: I mean, sure, you know this time though, everyone's wearing jeans.

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Speaker 3: Good idea.

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Speaker 2: Well, congratulations, Gabrielle, you got another date and a very

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Speaker 2: awkward question for Orlando God cleared up. Yeah yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean, if you still want to go out with somebody

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Speaker 4: that assumed you were digging in your parents, we're not judging.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Thanks everyone, and thanks to Orlando for giving

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Speaker 3: me another chance.

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Speaker 7: Oh hey, no worries.

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Speaker 8: I'm glad we got to clear this up, and I'm

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Speaker 8: glad for what it's worth.

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Speaker 7: I'm glad you guys called.

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Speaker 6: I wasn't going to respond to the text messages.

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Speaker 4: But.

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Speaker 5: I was going to ask you, but I wasn't going

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Speaker 5: to respond.

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Speaker 8: Hey, Gabrielle, I just I want to say, you know,

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Speaker 8: the first day was fantastic for what it's worth, and

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Speaker 8: you know, I am really excited to see you again.

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Speaker 8: I'm just glad to know that, you know, there's a

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Speaker 8: little bit more decorum between us than when I first thought.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: Too, Orlando. When you show up on the date handkerchief

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Speaker 2: out of your underwear.

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Speaker 7: I'll be doing magic tricks.

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