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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 2: She couldn't.

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Speaker 1: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man

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Speaker 1: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.

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Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was

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Speaker 1: a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 3: Shut that ship. We're good Mom's bad choices too. Single

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Speaker 3: mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all their bad choices.

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Speaker 4: And sound out they were so bad.

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Speaker 3: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties.

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Speaker 4: Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 3: I can do it. Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices.

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Speaker 3: I'm Erica and I'm Mila. Happy Wednesday, bitchy, Yes, happy,

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Speaker 3: by the fucking hump Day. We're back.

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Speaker 4: We're back. It's October. Welcome to my favorite month, the bitches.

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Speaker 4: Is Scorpio season. We're skipping libras. Fuck them. I love them.

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Speaker 4: My mom's a Libra, but fuck them. It's Scorpio season.

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Speaker 4: Shout out to the Scorpios.

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Speaker 3: It's the witchy month, and you know we're gonna milk it.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna witch it up.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna we'll get all thirty one days because that's

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Speaker 3: what we do. We're gonna go to all the Halloween parties,

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Speaker 3: get the maximum amount of Halloween costumes. Even if we

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Speaker 3: get invited to none, We're gonna we're gonna get in,

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Speaker 3: just like we did Janelle Mona's party three years in

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Speaker 3: a row. Oh yeah, yeah, baby, And we're gonna go

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Speaker 3: to the Hollywood Cemetery and we're gonna do all the

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Speaker 3: spooky shit. We meanven we might even buy a Ouiji

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Speaker 3: board this year. Oh I don't know, come on, we

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Speaker 3: didn't junior High. I'm scared again.

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Speaker 4: I know not you I know too much.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: I will go to the Cemetery, but I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to need the Ouigi's coming into.

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Speaker 3: The yea scorpio?

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Speaker 4: What I am a scorpio?

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Speaker 3: But I have id spiricial.

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Speaker 4: Boundaries at this point in my ancestors.

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Speaker 3: What should we do? Everybody's tripping ancestors, it's us. What

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Speaker 3: the fuck are the aliens coming? Gt f O do

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Speaker 3: we need to do a podcast episode? I've thought about this.

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Speaker 3: With the Ouiji border, we're gonna get canceled.

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Speaker 4: No, well probably, I mean we're gonna lose about twenty

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Speaker 4: percent of our base.

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Speaker 3: I mean, go here. I think that if they're still here.

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Speaker 3: Then they're rocking with us. We actually know they're probably

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Speaker 3: to because they're kind of curious a little bit. I

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Speaker 3: want to see these bitches card you're up.

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Speaker 4: They'll go to church on Sunday and wash it off.

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Speaker 4: It's okay.

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Speaker 3: It's a spooky season, scary movie season. It's time for

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Speaker 3: la to get seventy three degrees. We're gonna wear a

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Speaker 3: sweater and act like it's cold. Do you like pumpkin

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Speaker 3: spice lattes.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I've ever had one.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I have either. I'm not like a

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Speaker 3: punkin bitch, but maybe like an apple hot apple cider.

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Speaker 4: I went to Target the other day.

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Speaker 3: I don't fuck yeah, you just everybody actually Target?

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Speaker 4: No, No, it actually wasn't Target. Actually no, I didn't

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't.

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Speaker 4: I went to TJ Max because you know I did,

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Speaker 4: because I bought those fucking sparkly flat shoes. I thought

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Speaker 4: about going to Target, and then I said no, and

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Speaker 4: I went to TJ Max, which I don't know. TJ

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Speaker 4: Max is, you know what they're going on with kind

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Speaker 4: of where they're at, where they Yeah, I gotta look

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Speaker 4: it up. In fact, people even worry about these things

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Speaker 4: and saying I don't know where TJ max stands. But

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Speaker 4: I went and I went to the candle section and

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Speaker 4: I tried to find a pumpkin something I handled I hate,

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Speaker 4: and every single one smelled like shit.

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Speaker 4: They all smell fucking horrible, never even the apple ones.

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Speaker 4: I'm just not an apple candleton.

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Speaker 3: I'd rather do cranberry apple than that fucking pumpkins. I

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Speaker 3: don't want that shit. I don't want my house to

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Speaker 4: I just want to set the record straight. I did

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Speaker 4: not go. I was a fuck up. I did not

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Speaker 4: I repeat, I did not track. I went to t

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Speaker 4: J Max because I was trying to show Iri, because

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Speaker 4: I was like, Iri, we should go. I was like,

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Speaker 4: there's a place that has like all your favorite products,

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Speaker 4: are you sure?

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Speaker 2: My daughter is so.

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Speaker 4: Bouge was like, is it like fake stuff?

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Speaker 3: But what are the products that she's lin.

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Speaker 4: Age and summer Fridays?

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Speaker 4: What are they are brands? You find us before it?

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Speaker 4: But then we went there and my daughter because she's

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Speaker 4: literally Ran Silver's daughter. She's like, look at the packaging

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Speaker 4: on this product. Mom, I love the way it opens up.

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Speaker 3: Look how cute.

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Speaker 4: So she is just fake summer Fridays. This is fake linage.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, the fact that you know this at ten

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Speaker 3: Have namebor and stuff.

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Speaker 4: So I've been exploring possibly trying to encourage my daughter

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Speaker 4: to start a preteen skincare makeup line. So I went

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Speaker 4: and she was just she wasn't She's not really into it.

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Speaker 4: She's like, wants to make a lot of money, but

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Speaker 2: So she's ten.

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Speaker 3: So she's gotten everything.

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Speaker 4: But it's possible we have I have the infrastructure in place.

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Speaker 4: She could be the next preteen CEO founder. Babe, there's

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Speaker 4: a lot of them, Coco. Something is I keep showing

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Speaker 4: Lacy Coco. Coco is a preteen founder.

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Speaker 3: She wants to use the lin age in the summer Friday.

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Speaker 4: He also wants to go to private school. So she's

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Speaker 4: not getting a job.

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Speaker 3: I hate to break it to you, she's not getting

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: She might she's getting a job anyway, childlame. We have

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Speaker 4: some special guests, guys. I'm really excited to introduce to

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Speaker 4: the show some former friends, not former, but friends of

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Speaker 4: the show no longer break.

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Speaker 2: Friends of the show.

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Speaker 4: It's been a long time, Okay, these house took a

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Speaker 4: long break from podcasting, and actually, like, you guys were

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Speaker 4: really a big part of the inspiration for us starting podcasting.

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Speaker 4: You had your show before us. We saw you guys,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, oh my.

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Speaker 3: God, we could do this. Yeah, and actually I.

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Speaker 4: Think your name at the time. Well, let me introduce

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Speaker 4: you guys.

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Speaker 2: Right, who are we So i'd love to.

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Speaker 4: Welcome to the show to Bria and Mindy of the

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Speaker 4: Thick Podcast. Welcome back, Welcome back to the podcast world. Yadays.

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Speaker 4: What I was saying was, I think like your show

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Speaker 4: was called like something. The thing was it something?

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Speaker 3: Else?

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Speaker 4: Was the two words?

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Speaker 2: It was always a thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh maybe I've made that up, but I think

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Speaker 4: you did.

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Speaker 3: I was like, really, I'm learning.

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Speaker 4: No, because Okay, So originally our name was Parental Advisory,

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Speaker 4: Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 3: Oh it was too long.

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Speaker 2: That is.

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Speaker 3: That was cool and that's where we get that.

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Speaker 4: Logo, Like the logo just parental advisory. Yeah, I like

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Speaker 4: that myself. Yeah, well, welcome back to the podcasting space.

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Speaker 2: I know it feels good to be back.

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Speaker 4: So much has happened. You're a mom, you're a lesbian.

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Speaker 3: I need to be filled in. I actually I ran

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Speaker 3: into Mindy, like not long ago at a bar and

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Speaker 3: I was like, is that Mindy? And then we started talking.

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Speaker 3: it'll be over and I trust me, it's drama and

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Speaker 3: weeks later she was living internet like I'm in love

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Speaker 5: So I I feel like with my journey it was

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Speaker 5: fear at that because I'm Haitian in my family, the

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Speaker 5: worst and you could do, you can go to jail,

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Speaker 5: you can have you could abuse your wife, you can

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Speaker 5: do all kinds of things and they will forgive you,

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Speaker 5: they will never speak to you again. So that that

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Speaker 2: I didn't have a conversation with anyone.

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Speaker 5: I just started living and then I literally hit them

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Speaker 5: up one day and I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: Like what and I was like, yeah, like I know.

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Speaker 5: And now like a few years later, it's been a while. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: First, how long have you got I's been dating okay

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Speaker 3: year and a half. Okay, and this is the first

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Speaker 3: female you've ever dated ever. Oh you have dated money before,

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Speaker 3: you've had sex as onement before. Yeah, this was just

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Speaker 3: like I'm gonna like, really do the leap.

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Speaker 2: I've only been in three relationships my entire life. Ok So,

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Speaker 5: gonna fuck around, I'm a fuck around. Like I've had

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Speaker 5: say no because I know I won't take you seriously

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Speaker 5: and I don't want to hurt your feelings or like

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Speaker 5: get into a situation that it's hard to get out of.

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Speaker 2: And so if I'm with someone, except for one, that one.

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Speaker 5: Situation I was playing, I was playing, but in terms

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Speaker 5: We dated for six months before we got into a relationship.

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Speaker 3: I would like, are you strictly vagina now?

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Speaker 5: Or I would say the ratio for me is like

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Speaker 5: ninety ten, like genuinely in my past we literally just

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Speaker 5: talked about this. But in my past, all the men

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Speaker 5: that I've ever dated, and that was a lot of men,

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Speaker 5: I fucking.

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Speaker 2: With a lot of niggas.

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Speaker 5: I fucked with a lot of niggas, and they all

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Speaker 5: were like very very effeminate, so like very like bisexual,

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Speaker 5: whether they knew it or not. I have a thing

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Speaker 5: for a man who looks masculine but is soft and

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Speaker 5: a woman who looks masculine but is like soft.

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Speaker 5: I've dated like what I consider a superstud, like a

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Speaker 3: That's called the bill together.

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Speaker 2: But like verse would.

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Speaker 3: So it's all or we'll get some dick I mean

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Speaker 5: Fact too, but that's not a lesbian, that's a bisexual person. Okay,

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Speaker 5: by fun, but I think my number is like ninety ten.

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Speaker 5: Like I genuinely I haven't dated a many years and

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Speaker 2: But does that mean that it would never happen in life?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. If I find the right bisexual.

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Speaker 5: When I say about no but a soft man, I

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Speaker 3: You know what does that mean?

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Speaker 5: Like like we're like sisters, like we have a friendship

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Speaker 2: That would be offensive to that man.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 5: So if I'm like with a man and I'm just

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Speaker 3: I think if you're a real nigga, you're not gonna

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Speaker 3: get mad because, like you know, I remember all my

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Speaker 5: Like things like that don't bother me, you know, if

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Speaker 5: I remember I went on a date one time with

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Speaker 5: weren't like Jay's. We were literally both wearing tabby heels

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Speaker 5: with like three inch heel and we both shut.

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Speaker 3: Up and I was like, where is the photo.

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Speaker 2: I can show you a picture of him right now

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Speaker 2: with the shoes on. I need to see.

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Speaker 3: Because I need to see these three shoes.

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Speaker 2: No, im dead ass.

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Speaker 5: We had the same shoes and we showed up on

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Speaker 2: I loved it.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we're in an era that women are

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Speaker 3: And I also feel like, because I know, not too

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, you guys, you see the you see

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Speaker 4: I knew. I was like, is that Max?

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Speaker 3: Let me see the same shoes.

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Speaker 4: It looks like me see you know how I'm talking about?

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Speaker 4: Oh he got the marginalas.

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Speaker 5: We had the exact same shoes on, and literally it

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Speaker 3: I know these are not that's a bit of mars.

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Speaker 5: Doesn't make a difference because most like like real macho

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Speaker 2: Those shipes, they would never even put them on.

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Speaker 4: Well, it does not there stylish maybe they get the

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Speaker 2: But stylish men no shade.

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Speaker 5: A lot of these stylish men that I have dated,

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Speaker 3: What is your what do you like they told because

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Speaker 3: saying I want to.

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Speaker 2: See his shoes?

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Speaker 3: Would you say, sorry, what it's moderately bisexual?

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Speaker 5: Okay, again, this is just ingest, so don't say that.

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Speaker 5: I'm like trying to tell people what their sexuality is.

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Speaker 5: I know the internet is a crazy place, but when

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Speaker 2: This guy came on to me and he was like

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Speaker 5: That's a fine nigga. Like he was like if I

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Speaker 5: you are repressing yourself, baby boy. Like I like, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 5: I'm a clock the tea, no shade, it's I'm not

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Speaker 4: No, I feel like I feel like that's just maturity.

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Speaker 3: of fine, Like no one would be like you're like,

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Speaker 4: More than I'm fine, I would fuck.

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Speaker 4: More than I'm fine.

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Speaker 2: No, that's different.

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Speaker 5: No, Literally, he was like, if I were to dude,

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Speaker 3: we wouldn't take twice about it. Yeah, I fuck her

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Speaker 3: if I wasn't anybody.

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Speaker 3: Ah, But with a man, even like even a man

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Speaker 4: Between being able to look at a man and say

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Speaker 4: We're not held to that.

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Speaker 5: I would like to argue, though majority of women who

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I have some. I know I have

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Speaker 3: And I wouldn't question it because I know them and

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Speaker 4: I was pissed in my body.

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Speaker 3: I had to really sit with myself like, oh, bitch,

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Speaker 3: this really bothered you. So I recognize that, like even

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Speaker 2: I will say, though apology, I do.

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Speaker 5: you're gay or both, Like yeah, that's like to me,

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Speaker 5: that is a lot. But in this scenario, specifically, I'm

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Speaker 3: Did he ever? Did he ever say? You know, I

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Speaker 3: just because I know, like as young girls, we experiment.

444
00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,200
Speaker 3: As girls, we make out and even if you're not leged,

445
00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:39,520
Speaker 3: we were like, yeah, I made out of my homework. We

446
00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:42,880
Speaker 3: had to practice. I never my life, I even what.

447
00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:44,639
Speaker 2: Never my life made out with a friend? Yeah, no,

448
00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,280
Speaker 2: never I have it either, really no.

449
00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:49,480
Speaker 3: Never. Never.

450
00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:51,080
Speaker 6: If it was a gun to my head and I

451
00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,280
Speaker 6: had to make out, I can't imagine.

452
00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:54,960
Speaker 2: I couldn't do it.

453
00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,520
Speaker 3: One time made Erica made out because the two niggas

454
00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,040
Speaker 3: in the front seat got lost and we were drunk

455
00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,560
Speaker 3: and they kept asking us questions that we didn't know

456
00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,280
Speaker 3: the answers to. So I think we were so drunk.

457
00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:06,800
Speaker 3: We're just like, just if.

458
00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:09,480
Speaker 4: You make out those times.

459
00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:16,359
Speaker 6: And then they were they they're like they can figure

460
00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:16,680
Speaker 6: it out.

461
00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:18,680
Speaker 4: They figured it out.

462
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:20,439
Speaker 2: I don't know.

463
00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,280
Speaker 5: I do think mine when it comes to friends, because

464
00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,200
Speaker 5: I consider friends like family, and it's like making out

465
00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:25,680
Speaker 5: my sister.

466
00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:27,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I couldn't. I couldn't do it.

467
00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's weird, I guess because maybe we grow up

468
00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:30,919
Speaker 3: in the Valley, all the drunken white girls just make

469
00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:31,399
Speaker 3: out sometimes.

470
00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,879
Speaker 4: No, I mean, I'm not gonna make out with anybody there.

471
00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,520
Speaker 4: I'm picky about my makeouts.

472
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:39,440
Speaker 3: But it's happened at this big age. I'm not it's gonna.

473
00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,440
Speaker 4: But I can count on my one hand how many

474
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:45,480
Speaker 4: friends I've made out with. Maybe three. Three girl that's

475
00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:56,840
Speaker 4: still look at his fingers right. No, I'm exploring my

476
00:19:56,960 --> 00:20:01,840
Speaker 4: press on mail Era and off and I can't. Yeah,

477
00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 4: I'm missing what are you giving the press on nail

478
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 4: Experience one through ten six point five?

479
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 3: So I was really hoping that you would say a ten.

480
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,320
Speaker 2: So I mean it's a ten for me.

481
00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,640
Speaker 4: You know, they're quick, like I can just put them

482
00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:19,280
Speaker 4: back on. I just forget, like I have them in

483
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,439
Speaker 4: my bag. I lost this one. Who was time to

484
00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:24,040
Speaker 4: be like, if you have time, it takes literally three seconds.

485
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, you forgot, because right now I wish I had

486
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,040
Speaker 3: one for this.

487
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,920
Speaker 4: I forgot. Yeah, I mean I could do it. And

488
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,520
Speaker 4: you know it's just like when do you actually finally say, Okay,

489
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,360
Speaker 4: these are done now, Like we gotta throw them away

490
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,080
Speaker 4: because I've had these on for like almost two weeks

491
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,960
Speaker 4: and they're starting to look they're looking a loud dingy.

492
00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 4: She like, it's time to throw these away. I think

493
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 4: when they start looking like this, I mean, you're missing twos.

494
00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:49,119
Speaker 3: They ain't her persa.

495
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:51,879
Speaker 2: Anyway.

496
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 4: So tell me about you, because you are a new mom,

497
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 4: will not even you're like two years in. Now this

498
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 4: is where it gets good.

499
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,640
Speaker 3: This is where you like get a little bit freedom back.

500
00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 6: You're like, oh, oh yeah, yeah, she's really fun right now.

501
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 6: I'm really enjoying this stage. And she's a toddler, so

502
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:09,160
Speaker 6: I was really dreading it. But it's been fun so far.

503
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:13,639
Speaker 6: But she just turned to yeah this we're one and done,

504
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:17,880
Speaker 6: you know, yeah, sure, yeah, I'm positive we're not having anymore.

505
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 3: Really, no baby fever.

506
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,120
Speaker 6: I think I would lose myself if I had more

507
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 6: than one child.

508
00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,639
Speaker 4: I feel like, you're just did you feel like you

509
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,720
Speaker 4: lost let me and every I think everybody, Yeah, I think, yeah,

510
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 4: it's like part of the initiation.

511
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:30,680
Speaker 2: Yeah for sure.

512
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 6: But I I feel comfortable that I'm able to give

513
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,919
Speaker 6: a lot to her, but still to myself and to

514
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:40,879
Speaker 6: my relationship. And if I had more than one kid,

515
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 6: I I just would get I would get lost in motherhood,

516
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:44,919
Speaker 6: you know. I feel like I would really lose my

517
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 6: sense of self. And both Trey and I were raised

518
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,119
Speaker 6: his only kids, so it's not a big deal to

519
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 6: either one of us. So yeah, and she's great. I'm

520
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,359
Speaker 6: I'm so thankful I had a girl.

521
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 4: So yeah, I love girls.

522
00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 3: Boys are rambunctious and violent. Yes, yeah, we're friend And

523
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,920
Speaker 3: he has like a huge scarm, Like what the fuck,

524
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 3: I'm only ran into a table. I'm gonna say, remember

525
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 3: that crazy a lot.

526
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 5: We don't say her name in public, so I have

527
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 5: a nickname for her, Peaches. Peaches is like she's quiet

528
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 5: and sassy but also yeapper, right, Like the most that

529
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 5: happens is she's just like talking about random stuff or

530
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 5: she you'll tell her to do something and she'll look

531
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 5: at you like this and then she won't do it.

532
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 5: So it be like give me a hug and she'll

533
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 5: be like no, say hi no. And that's like the

534
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 5: most I think about my niece, my nephew. My niece

535
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 5: was pretty chill too. She's a little bad, but pretty

536
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 5: chill my nephew. Oh my god by to yea by

537
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 5: two literally throwing things at your head.

538
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 6: Oh my, boys are a lot.

539
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 3: I can't imagine boys are psychotic for the whole different

540
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 3: like realm of parenthood that I've known nothing about.

541
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 4: Like God knew that I needed. If I was gonna

542
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 4: be a single mother, it had to be a girl, right.

543
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 3: I think the boys need the we need the fathers

544
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 3: in the in the household.

545
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 4: I was just telling you straight, look quick. Yeah, if

546
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,880
Speaker 4: I had a boy and I was a single mom,

547
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 4: I'm I don't think i'd make it right now, Yeah,

548
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 4: it would be a different story about us hard.

549
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

550
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:10,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

551
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 3: What's been the most challenging part about like the motherhood journey?

552
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 6: Balance? You know, I work life balance is impossible. I

553
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 6: feel like when I'm working, I have to just like

554
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 6: close that part of my brain off and not think

555
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 6: about her, which sounds crazy to say, but it's also

556
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 6: a reason why I've just scaled back a lot on posting,

557
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 6: on social and modeling. Like two years in. I feel

558
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 6: like I'm just now feeling like, Okay, I can separate

559
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,719
Speaker 6: a little bit more and put a little bit more

560
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,439
Speaker 6: effort into my work instead of just being with her

561
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:47,159
Speaker 6: all the time. Because I really enjoy motherhood and I

562
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 6: enjoy being with her, but it does take away from

563
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 6: other fastest of your life. I don't want to say

564
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 6: you can't have it all, and you know, put people

565
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 6: off to it, but there is no balance, you know.

566
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 6: You just you do what you can when you can.

567
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 6: And we're really lucky. We have a great village, like

568
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 6: we get every weekend off. Oh wow, you know, we're

569
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,400
Speaker 6: we're so fortunate to have the setup that we do.

570
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 6: And we'll probably put her in school soon, like daycare

571
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 6: or something. But but yeah, it's been it's been really great.

572
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 6: And also another reason I don't want to have another

573
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 6: kid is I really don't want to go through postpartum again.

574
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 6: I wouldn't mind going through labor again, but I don't want.

575
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 2: To do that to myself.

576
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 6: I feel like it just takes a long time to

577
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:37,640
Speaker 6: get back to feeling like you Yeah, yeah, especially like

578
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 6: being a model, and so much of my career is

579
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 6: my looks, you know, and my hair is falling out

580
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 6: all over the place, and my body looks so different,

581
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 6: and it made me more self conscious, more self aware

582
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 6: than I've.

583
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 2: Ever been about my body, you know.

584
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 6: But fortunately I'm you know, I'm still working. I'm thirty

585
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 6: five now and still modeling, which is haggard as a model. No, yes,

586
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 6: but I started modeling late. I started when I was

587
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 6: twenty five and most girls started like seventeen, you know,

588
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 6: so I was already, you know, late in the game.

589
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 6: But I'm I'm still here, you know, kicking it.

590
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 4: You still have the same drive that you had for modeling.

591
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 2: No, I don't.

592
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 6: And you know, money used to be everything to me.

593
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 6: I would do anything for a dollar, like Mindy, No,

594
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 6: I would take Mindy.

595
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 2: Can tell you.

596
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 6: I would take every job. I would fly to New

597
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,679
Speaker 6: York just for castings, not even for bookings.

598
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: I like, I was busy.

599
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 6: I was working at least five days a week for

600
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 6: like six or seven years straight.

601
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 4: No, I remember, And yeah, I was listening to Bria is,

602
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 4: a very successful plus sized model.

603
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 3: She's like it was, yeah, but it was.

604
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 6: Too much, and I knew I couldn't keep that up.

605
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 6: Like once I got pregnant. That definitely slowed me down.

606
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 6: I knew, like, Okay, I'm gonna have to take a

607
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 6: step back. It's not the end, you know, but I'm

608
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 6: just gonna have to take a step back.

609
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 3: Were you were you guys trying or was it a surprise?

610
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 6: We we were We let our guard down. We had

611
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,439
Speaker 6: one conversation, No, listen, we did. We had one conversation

612
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 6: and we were like, yeah, let's we should just I'm

613
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 6: gonna tell you today, and we just stopped, you know,

614
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 6: thinking about it.

615
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 2: We're just chilling one day.

616
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 5: And then during this time to real she was by coastal,

617
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 5: I was fully living in New York and she had

618
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 5: an apartment in New York and the place in la

619
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 5: and I remember I came over because you were both

620
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 5: in New York at the same time, and we're just

621
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 5: sitting there, chilling on the couch and she literally is like, so,

622
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 5: me and Trey just decided, like, you know, if it happens,

623
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 5: it happens.

624
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 3: What does that mean?

625
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 5: She was like, I mean, like, I'm not saying that

626
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 5: we're trying for a baby, but like, you know, it'd

627
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 5: be fine.

628
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: And I was like, look every day.

629
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 3: Every time.

630
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 5: But I was like, so you're trying, and she's like, no,

631
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 5: it's just you know, if it happened.

632
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 3: He's hey, hello, everybody listening. PSA announcement. This is me.

633
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,959
Speaker 3: If you're letting a nigga met in your pussy, you

634
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 3: are trying for a baby, Thank you. Loki. Pulling out

635
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 3: is tricky because baby depending on how fertile. Myrtle bitch

636
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 3: is that yeah, and sometimes it sometimes you're good, Like

637
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 3: I think I let my baby daddy none of me

638
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 3: for like a year straight, and I was like, maybe

639
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 3: I can't get pregnant. No, God is trying to protect me.

640
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 3: But then he said, okay, fine, you want it so

641
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: bad here choice it's gonna be a single mom here.

642
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 3: But yeah, you guys, don't, don't be playing with fire

643
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 3: like that. Take it for me. I got that copper eye,

644
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 3: U d I cannot.

645
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 4: It just feels like completion.

646
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 3: I like to get netted in. That's why I have

647
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 3: a copper like it's complete. I feel that it's called

648
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 3: a breeding kink.

649
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 2: No you're not.

650
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 3: I don't.

651
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 4: But when I'm doing that, it's not because I want

652
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,439
Speaker 4: to breathe. It's just because it feels it literally just

653
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 4: feels like the whole the holistic Chile pussy wants to come.

654
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

655
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 4: Like it's not because I have a breeding cank. I

656
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 4: have that sounds like a dog like I'm.

657
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: There are a lot of men, all these.

658
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 4: Words verse breeding kinks.

659
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 3: Right up with them.

660
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:23,479
Speaker 4: Breeding can definitely yea ye, yeah, yeah, yeah, many like

661
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 4: seven that is a lot.

662
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 2: She got births.

663
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 4: That's children.

664
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 2: I think eleven really. Yeah, she has several children, that's crazy.

665
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Speaker 4: Seven seven, that's a dozen.

666
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot.

667
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 5: But again, like, and I'm not here to say, we

668
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 5: just had all that controversy about like, you know, telling

669
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 5: women what to do with their uterus. But at the

670
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 5: end of the day, I don't agree with the sentiment

671
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 5: of if you can afford them, keep having them, because

672
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 5: someone's gonna get lost in the matrix. Like you can't

673
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 5: have seven eight kids and then think that all of

674
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 5: them feel equally loved.

675
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like in the one household she parents.

676
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 3: First of all, this is not the pilgrimage days. There's

677
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 3: why what the fuck? Like, who's going to house them?

678
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,959
Speaker 3: The world maybe's ending, the aliens are coming. I'm already

679
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 3: like torn by having a second one, right, and we

680
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 3: tend to the farm unless maybe you're amish, I don't know,

681
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 3: but I just I feel like, you know, even Nick

682
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 3: Cannon came out recently and was like.

683
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 4: Fucked, yeah, I'm a n but like, no ship.

684
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 3: But I think men have this idea that they could

685
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 3: go just drop off their seat at different bitches houses.

686
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 4: That is virtually.

687
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 3: Impossible unless all the bitches are living on one cul

688
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 3: de sac. Then like, how can you.

689
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 5: I will say I had a conversation with the man

690
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 5: once and it was about this exact thing, and he

691
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 5: said that, but he was like, I choose really good

692
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 5: baby mamas.

693
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 2: I choose women who I know are going to raise.

694
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 5: My child the way my child should raised. They are

695
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 5: strong women. And and he was like, I don't see

696
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 5: nothing wrong with.

697
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 3: What the fuck are you doing? Literally are you raising?

698
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 2: Not at all? But in his mind he's like, well,

699
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 2: I was single mom.

700
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 5: I turned out great. This is really good women to

701
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 5: be single moms.

702
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 3: Here's a problem. And Britt columns so we can bring

703
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 3: on the show nights.

704
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 4: On that note, I think it's smoke a clock smoker.

705
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 4: Today I brought us a special paper.

706
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 3: You see this beautiful?

707
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 2: It's roses.

708
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 4: It's a rose joint that someone left at my house.

709
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 3: I don't know they're gonna find out that they's left

710
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 3: it now. It's pretty. Do you gladies have any bad

711
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 3: choices of the week? Any bad choices you've made this week?

712
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 5: Mom?

713
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 7: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom so good.

714
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 4: And by bad it could be bad bad or it

715
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 4: could be you know, good bad.

716
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 2: Oh.

717
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 5: My bad choice of the week is I work a lot,

718
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 5: like I literally beare the guinea days off and when

719
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 5: I'm tired, I'm legit tired. So I decided I was

720
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 5: going to DoorDash dinner. And they had a two for

721
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 5: one deal on like Typhood, and that's a steal. Yeah,

722
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 5: you get two orders of pad Tie for fifteen dollars,

723
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 5: and then I got the Spring Girls on top of it,

724
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 5: and that was like ten dollars on, so twenty five

725
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 5: dollars all together, maybe thirty one with the taxes and

726
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 5: all that shit, enough food to feed three and a

727
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 5: half people.

728
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 2: And I fucked that ship. I need both the pat

729
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 2: Ties but I have, but you have. I had eight.

730
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 3: I love spring Roll because.

731
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 5: It was four four no judgment, judgment free zone.

732
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 3: Those are to throw down, Okay, I fell cram up.

733
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I ate them. Yeah, it was bad.

734
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 2: I woke up the next morning and I was like, bitch,

735
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 2: I feel heavy. Oh god, the fuck.

736
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 3: If you're lessening from anywhere else in the world other

737
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 3: than Los Angeles, let me just fill you in LA.

738
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 3: We only have like three foods outside to eat tie

739
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 3: Tie Mexican and then like American, Yeah sushi, sushi, yeah,

740
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 3: Tie Mexican sushi. That's all we got. So if you

741
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 3: come to LN you think you're not about to get

742
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 3: one of those three things, you're fucking You're fucking lost.

743
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 3: Because we are gonna eat Thai food. Me and Erica,

744
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 3: I think building the podcast, we must ate type food

745
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 3: at least three times a week.

746
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 4: Yes, it fueled the podcast.

747
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 3: This podcast is brought to you by Ti.

748
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 6: I love Tay food because they can get spicy.

749
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 3: I love I love spicy.

750
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 5: But literally, I feel like in a week I'll eat

751
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 5: Asian food like eight times in one week, Like it'll

752
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 5: be ramen one day, sushi tai.

753
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 2: I've been fucking up the massubies.

754
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 3: What is the Massubie?

755
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 5: Oh my god, there's this place and it's like a

756
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 5: Japanese restaurant but from Okinawa, which is like very different

757
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 5: than traditional Japanese culture because there a lot of people

758
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 5: don't know this, but Japan was colonized, so the people

759
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 5: that we recognize as Japanese people are not the indigenous people.

760
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 5: They're actually very like darker skin Polynesian people, right, And

761
00:32:55,560 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 5: so it's basically seaweed rice either spam or like spicy

762
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 5: tuna or some kind of meat. And then this place

763
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 5: in particular, they have the option to add a slice

764
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 5: of pineapple and then it's wrapped up.

765
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 2: It's like, oh mommy, and like savory and sweet. It

766
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 2: sounds good.

767
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 3: But I don't like spam or pineapple.

768
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 5: No, you don't have to do spam. They have like

769
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 5: they have one with soft cell crab. Oh my god,

770
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 5: it's so good. They like have all this one with eel.

771
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 5: It's like all these.

772
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 2: Things so fucking good. Oh yeah, I love that. What's

773
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 2: your bad choice? I'm trying to think.

774
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 6: Somebody was venting to me on the phone, and I

775
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 6: just made up an excuse.

776
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 2: To get off.

777
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 6: I felt really bad because you know when people don't

778
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 6: really call people anymore, and I was really taken aback

779
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 6: by the phone call. I was not expecting a vent session, Remember,

780
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 6: on the phone for like thirty minutes.

781
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 4: No, because they were in your face.

782
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but it was.

783
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 6: It was just too much. So I made up an

784
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 6: excuse about peaches my daughter.

785
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 4: Kids are ever, literally nine times out of ten, when

786
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 4: a mom is saying like she can't come, or she's

787
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 4: running or she's running late, and she blames her child,

788
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 4: it's not her. I just stopped blaming Luna because I

789
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 4: realized I have a whole other person in the house

790
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 4: and people know I'm lying, like I forgot I did

791
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 4: it last week with somebody and I was like, I

792
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 4: didn't realize I had to pick up Luna and I'm like, bitch,

793
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 4: they know anymore.

794
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, that isn't work. Yeah, it was like for

795
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 3: a night time.

796
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 4: I don't know what your what your schedules are.

797
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, that's true, but you know, I plan.

798
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:38,399
Speaker 4: On milking that until the age of the people people

799
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:42,240
Speaker 4: and beyond. Actually she's graduating. It's like, fucking June.

800
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,919
Speaker 3: I think there should be a time limit on phone

801
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 3: calls because something that happened to me recently and I

802
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 3: hadn't talked to her a long time, and I really

803
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 3: wanted to be there for her, but I realized I

804
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 3: only have the capacity for long conversations in person, and

805
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 3: even then sometimes I'm.

806
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 4: Like, well, you know, we have this conversation like a

807
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 4: few month ago with Sayla Marie when we're talking about

808
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 4: like emotional dumping and how people like it's not like

809
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 4: need to ask for permission. Yeah, they need to normalize

810
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 4: saying hey, do you have the space for this right now?

811
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 4: I'm going through something I wish.

812
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 2: That was a courtesy.

813
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 4: And if someone says like, hey, how you doing, and

814
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 4: you're like not doing well and you really need to

815
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 4: get one off, you just be like, actually, I'm not

816
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 4: doing okay. Do you have the space? And the most

817
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:23,720
Speaker 4: of the time people are going to say yeah, because

818
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 4: we're people pleaser, But at least you have the option like,

819
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 4: you know what, actually, I'm about to walk into doctor's appointment.

820
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 4: Let me call you back so that you can actually prepare.

821
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 3: But you know what I'm going through.

822
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 2: But yeah, exactly, exactly.

823
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so good.

824
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna start adding that to mine.

825
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 5: What I'll do sometimes is I'll be like when people

826
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 5: call me and they want to vent, I'll be like,

827
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 5: are you calling me for advice.

828
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: Or just for an listening?

829
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, Because then my approach is different because you can't

830
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:51,879
Speaker 5: call me invent for thirty minutes and then I tell

831
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 5: you what you should do and you're.

832
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 2: Just like, I don't want to do that.

833
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, I should never told you. Yeah, so let me

834
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 5: know what it is. And then if it's just for

835
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 5: an ear, I'll put the phone on mute, go off.

836
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 4: I realized that I need someone to tell like I

837
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 4: need someone to tell me that because I'm automatically an

838
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 4: advice person, like naturally, I know that that's not always.

839
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 4: That's not good, it's actually not good at all.

840
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 2: It's actually not serve me.

841
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 3: Well, we're all judging and then evaluating for you and

842
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,240
Speaker 3: then telling your your feedback based on my own experience

843
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 3: because that's the only I'm gonna automatically apply it to

844
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 3: my knowledge of what I've experienced.

845
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 4: That's what we're talking about last week. And then I

846
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 4: met about relationships how people like you know, share things

847
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 4: personal about their relationship with their friends, and then their

848
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 4: friends will obviously in a loving way, offer advice, but

849
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 4: it's based on their experience, and then they can give

850
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 4: you like not great advice or advice that doesn't really

851
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 4: apply to you. Yeah, So a having the discernment as

852
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,399
Speaker 4: to when to listen, but also like yeah, knowing when

853
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 4: to say when to just say, Okay, I'm going to

854
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 4: give you advice. I'm just going to listen this time.

855
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 5: So yeah, always I preemptively ask, especially when it's a

856
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 5: venting situation, not to cut you off, but just let

857
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 5: me know. Because I have gotten into conversations, like not altercations,

858
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 5: but just like really intense conversations with people because I'll

859
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 5: give advice and they're like.

860
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 2: Well, who were you? Well, bitch, you called me.

861
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 3: Why are you telling me? You don't mean to tell you?

862
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,399
Speaker 5: So I'm saying like, I'm gonna guide you as best

863
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 5: as I can because I figure you call me because

864
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 5: I'm the best person for this.

865
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 2: But sometimes people just call you because no one else answered.

866
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, like you don't know on the list where literally

867
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 5: where you feel like call and you're not calling me

868
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 5: for advice and Jenny because you need get it off.

869
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 3: And generally people want to hear what they want to hear. Yes,

870
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 3: you're calling. Even when you call people, you'll call for

871
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 3: the thing you already know you want to do, just

872
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 3: for someone to agree with you. Because if someone goes

873
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 3: against what you already know you're gonna do, be like, oh, bitch,

874
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 3: why did you ask me?

875
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 2: Then I do?

876
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 7: Do?

877
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 5: I have two different things? Can uh tell you? I

878
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 5: literally will call her and I'm good. I'll literally be

879
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 5: like I need advice and then I'll tell what's up.

880
00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 5: If it's not advice, I'll be like I seed to

881
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 5: you about the ship, and so she knows automatically all right,

882
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,439
Speaker 5: I'll literally go off for forty minutes and then she'll

883
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,479
Speaker 5: be like, well, you're the.

884
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 2: Only person who does that. It's so unfortunate.

885
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 6: It's fine, I give you no, no, no, that other people

886
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 6: don't yeah, because I would like to know, like they

887
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 6: just and you know that people will have like a little.

888
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 2: Fake conversation, Hey, how are you right? Okay, well let

889
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 2: me tell you.

890
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, the point the track, yeah, just keep

891
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 6: it real please, right.

892
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 4: Well, I don't think that's a bad choice, and that's

893
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 4: you're protecting your energy exactly, protecting your energy. I think

894
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 4: more people should do that.

895
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 3: You should create. Like I know there's a thing about

896
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 3: being mean, but like you, if you don't have the

897
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 3: capacity for it, then it's not really going to hit

898
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 3: like you needed to hit anyway. Because the whole time

899
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 3: I was on the phone with my friend, I was like,

900
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 3: I always like my phone.

901
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

902
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 4: Today today I was on the phone with my friend

903
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 4: that dumps on me a lot. But he's learned because

904
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 4: I've also told him that I've said, hey, it would

905
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 4: be nice if sometimes you could ask permission because I'm

906
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 4: actually going through a lot right now and I love you,

907
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,280
Speaker 4: and so like I'm gonna enter naturally get to worry

908
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 4: and it's like so anyway, but I also know with him,

909
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 4: I'm always giving him advice, and so today I just

910
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 4: like didn't say a lot and he was like hello, Hello,

911
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 4: I'm like, yes, I'm here, I'm listening. He's like, oh okay,

912
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 4: and he's like, well anyway, like he didn't was because

913
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 4: I had nothing to say. There was not like so

914
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 4: then yeah, so but I was like, oh, yeah, so

915
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 4: you just need to get that off. Okay, I got it.

916
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 4: So anyway, I thought that was yeah. And if you're

917
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 4: listening and you have any Bad Choices or any advice

918
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 4: questions that you want, because we're experted BCE givers, go

919
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 4: make sure you go to our website Good Monthbad Choices

920
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 4: dot com and check out are all of our contacts

921
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 4: where you can submit questions, submit horror stories, which I'm

922
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 4: interested to hear one of your guys' horror stories if

923
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 4: you have one. In a bit, I have a question

924
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:56,439
Speaker 4: because you know, obviously our both of our podcasts are

925
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,760
Speaker 4: like friends, like we're we're BA based and rooted in friendship.

926
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 4: How have you guys, if if anything, how do you

927
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 4: guys navigate conflict within your friendship? Like anything, like where

928
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 4: you have disagreement. We're not the people what's your style,

929
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:11,280
Speaker 4: what's your style?

930
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 2: Because we don't really haven't.

931
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 5: You never have conflict, You've never had an argument, And

932
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 5: we've had like really intense conversations, like things have happened,

933
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 5: we've had to sit down and talk about it, but

934
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 5: genuinely we'll just sit down and talk about it.

935
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like Mindy and I have always had

936
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 6: a very mature level of friendship where we can just

937
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 6: talk through anything, and we like we joke all the

938
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 6: time that we share the same brain.

939
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 2: We share, we share.

940
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 6: The same views on everything, how we navigate any type

941
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:44,399
Speaker 6: of relationship, jobs, like everything. We're both very not your twin.

942
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 6: I really don't know, but that's why we work so

943
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 6: well together. We're we just approach things in a very

944
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 6: rational fashion, and we are very different in certain respects,

945
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 6: but it's like very it's it's like outlier things, nothing

946
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 6: that involves our connection because like she's more Type A

947
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,720
Speaker 6: than me, and she will like do all the things

948
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 6: type of things out all that ship.

949
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 5: I have no capacity for that. I am just a

950
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 5: floating member. I'm just like out here doing things. Also,

951
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 5: I am the froggy one, I'll fight somebody she won't,

952
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 5: like I will pop up, I'll tell somebody something she

953
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 5: never will and like she'll tell me, and I'll be like, Okay,

954
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 5: are you telling me this because you want me.

955
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 2: To do something?

956
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 4: I have won two switches on or off? That's what

957
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 4: I'm saying, like literally, advice or no advice, Okay.

958
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 5: And so I think that aside from that, though we are,

959
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 5: I could and nobody wants to believe me when I

960
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 5: say this, I genuinely believe that if you gave me

961
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 5: a series of like situations, I could tell you what

962
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 5: would do?

963
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, not like a she.

964
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 4: Will you say that you have a card game here?

965
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 2: Yes, what is that?

966
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 4: It's a little game game?

967
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 3: Okay?

968
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:58,280
Speaker 4: And so I think maybe Tabria, you could choose a card,

969
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 4: read it out loud, and and tell me what you

970
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 4: would do. Whisper it in my ear, okay, and then

971
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 4: we'll see if she knows. Okay, okay, any card mm

972
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:16,359
Speaker 4: hmm for a hundred thousand dollars to whisper No, no, no,

973
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 4: I'm gonna read it to you. I'm gonna read it

974
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 4: out loud so she knows what it is, and you're

975
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 4: gonna tell me what your answer is, and then she's

976
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 4: gonna say she thinks your answer is okay. For a

977
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 4: hundred thousand dollars, would you not? Would you not bathe

978
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 4: or shower for a year? This is stupid. Let's do another.

979
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 5: Don't say the answer is no, she wouldn't. If you

980
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 5: get if you said one hundred million, I'd say, yes

981
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 5: you would. I would be like, okay, or.

982
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 2: Is it like a week? If it was? If it

983
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: was a week, I would say yes, you would do.

984
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 3: That's how much people's salaries is like.

985
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 2: A year is crazy.

986
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 3: A year is crazy. So I'm just gonna be staking

987
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 3: for a hundred thousand Okay, what is.

988
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 2: Sure?

989
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 3: Let me see.

990
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,280
Speaker 4: Maybe you should have betted these questions.

991
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:09,839
Speaker 2: First, wait, what is it?

992
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 3: Would you sleep with an insanely attractive person who had

993
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 3: their limbs removed at the elbow and knees?

994
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:23,319
Speaker 5: This is so funny, because don't you think I want

995
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:25,439
Speaker 5: to say things to one leg?

996
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 3: I was gonna say. I was gonna say, are you

997
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 3: are you cancer? Yes? That's why I know.

998
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 6: That, because yeah, I'm sorry, it's a no for her.

999
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 3: I know it is. It's a it's kind of offensive.

1000
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 2: I know.

1001
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 5: Maybe they have if you say, nor exactly, but no,

1002
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I'm too big.

1003
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 3: For that insanely attractive.

1004
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 2: What does that have to do with I'm not fucking

1005
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:00,479
Speaker 2: your faith?

1006
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 4: I mean maybe, Okay, is there a better question?

1007
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 3: Could you have a long term relationship with someone who

1008
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 3: has completely different political views than you?

1009
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 2: I'm black, No, no, clear.

1010
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 5: I think that Toria would be open to having conversation

1011
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,760
Speaker 5: and then seeing how staunchly rooted you are in those beliefs.

1012
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 5: If this is something that she can like show you evidence,

1013
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 5: like empirical evidence and then sway you.

1014
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 2: She would do it.

1015
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,439
Speaker 5: But if if it's a lost cause, no, no, never,

1016
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 5: could you? Like political views and political ideologies are one

1017
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 5: thing I'm not willing to.

1018
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 3: Wait, it's not even political. It's in this climate political

1019
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 3: you are humanity. It's like, yeah, it's about humanity at

1020
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 3: this point, and that I can't like I don't fuk

1021
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 3: with that yet and I don't and I'm definitely gonna

1022
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 3: come home and like, yes, I'm down to like have conversations,

1023
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,919
Speaker 3: present empirical evidence, but at the same time, like if

1024
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 3: you speak Mandarin and I speak English, you know what

1025
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 3: I mean, And like your household is supposed to be

1026
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 3: like a safe space, like you know, especially as black

1027
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 3: people they outside of the world, there's so much already

1028
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 3: like like.

1029
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 5: It reminds me of people who are black and in

1030
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 5: relationships with people whose entire family is super racist, who

1031
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 5: they may not be the most racist outwardly, but they are.

1032
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 2: Deep within themselves.

1033
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 5: And you're like, but he's so nice to me, but

1034
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 5: he literally called the uber driver because he was black

1035
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 5: a nigga, Like shit like that, there's something mentally wrong

1036
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 5: with you.

1037
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 3: I saw a TikTok of a black woman who is

1038
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 3: married to a white man, and oh my god, I thought,

1039
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 3: I sent this to you. The mother, the grandmother, the

1040
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 3: white the man's mother.

1041
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 4: Guy three.

1042
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 3: Monkeys tattooed on her arm to represent their children.

1043
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 2: No, no, I.

1044
00:45:54,960 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 5: Need you to understand hyper realistic gorilla gorilla for her

1045
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 5: mixed breed grandchildren.

1046
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 3: And then like and she was like, you gotta put

1047
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,359
Speaker 3: a slave on when I come out over because that's

1048
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 3: just not right. I don't want to come out. And

1049
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 3: she was like sometimes she would wear the sleeve and

1050
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 3: then sometimes she would act like she forgot to sleep.

1051
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 3: Wait who the grandmother put this to her husband, like

1052
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 3: her mother in law tattooed this on herself, yes, to

1053
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:19,919
Speaker 3: represent her three children.

1054
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:21,720
Speaker 2: Because they're by racial and they're still married.

1055
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 4: Was she doing it in the loving way or was

1056
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 4: she doing it to antagonize them? What was her like?

1057
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 4: What was her I mean, I'm not saying there's any

1058
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 4: there's no waystand her mind.

1059
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 2: Basically said that she would joke ever since the kids.

1060
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:34,720
Speaker 4: Were born because the kids like their little monkeys.

1061
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:36,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like my little monkeys.

1062
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 5: Ah, my little monkey. And she said that she told

1063
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 5: her husband make her stop. I don't like that, right.

1064
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 5: Her husband was like, oh, mom, she's just joking, like

1065
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 5: you know what. She she doesn't mean monkey.

1066
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: In like a racist way.

1067
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 5: She means monkey, like her little monkey. And I like

1068
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 5: the wife was like, okay, cool, fine, fine, fine. And

1069
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 5: then one day she showed up with the tattoo and

1070
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 5: they were hyper realistic gorillas, and she was like, she came.

1071
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:02,720
Speaker 3: On, no, she's it's not hyper real. It's like the apes.

1072
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 3: It's like it's like it's like detailed. She could have

1073
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 3: got a face, but she got hyper realistic.

1074
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 2: Or she could have got flowers, hearts, anything in a

1075
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 2: three that's wild.

1076
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 3: It's like a seventh part series.

1077
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 4: Sixtak story time.

1078
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 5: No, it's well, yeah, sort of, but she shows pictures,

1079
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 5: So I think that the grandma herself came on TikTok

1080
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 5: to defend herself.

1081
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 3: My god, this is wild. I can't how did.

1082
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 2: He react to that?

1083
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:42,359
Speaker 6: The sun like, yeah, this is somebody to talk about it?

1084
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 2: Hyper realistic?

1085
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 3: Hyper realistic?

1086
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 4: Why are they this dark? Why are they why are they.

1087
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 6: Like not even a cute caricature for real?

1088
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:01,839
Speaker 3: From her ankle pass I mean from her.

1089
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 4: Like I need to see the rest of her body?

1090
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 4: What's going on? Because this is from zero to one

1091
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 4: hundred real quick, and I'm imagining a granny with like

1092
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 4: these hyper realistic gorilla's on her form.

1093
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 5: I think the issue is when people, and I'm not

1094
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:19,839
Speaker 5: trying to fuck it, when white people pretend like there

1095
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 5: racism can be like covered over or overshadowed by ignorance.

1096
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 5: I didn't really You know, when people when a white

1097
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 5: person calls a black person a monkey, you know what

1098
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 5: that means. You understand the racial undertones, and so for

1099
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 5: you to be like it's just a cute thing, You're

1100
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 5: a fucking lying bitch. Pick another thing, like you're fucking lion.

1101
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 5: You're doing that to antagonize your daughter in law, and

1102
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 5: you hate the fact that your children are mixed with

1103
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 5: hate it, and you hate it with the passion, and that's.

1104
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 4: So much that you tattoo it off.

1105
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 2: Yes, you hate it.

1106
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 3: I mean I would have to. I would have to

1107
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 3: love the fucking your dirty the first to cut your

1108
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 3: family off.

1109
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, my kids are not.

1110
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 5: And that was what the TikTok started off with because

1111
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,359
Speaker 5: she basically was telling telling TikTok that she told her

1112
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,800
Speaker 5: husband she doesn't want the grandma around at all anymore.

1113
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 5: And he was like, that's my mom, Like that's the

1114
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 5: children's grandmother.

1115
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,280
Speaker 2: And she was like, am I the asshole?

1116
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 1: Like?

1117
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 2: Am I being irrational in asking this?

1118
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 3: But then again, you have the question her you started

1119
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,360
Speaker 3: this relationship with these people?

1120
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 4: That part So this is a whole you situation.

1121
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 3: That part this, You know what I mean? You you

1122
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 3: had three the three kids later. Yeah, there were no

1123
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 3: signs before and certain things like I'm not about to

1124
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 3: be dealing with that ship and my where I'm supposed

1125
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 3: to be safe all that. I honestly I like black people.

1126
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 2: You said you didn't I do like I wanted.

1127
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 3: I wanted only date black. Oh, I don't want to

1128
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 3: date out of my race. I'm not way too but

1129
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 3: I have, but I don't like I just.

1130
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 5: In my friend group, literally they say that I'm racist

1131
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 5: because no, I refuse, like literally be like, oh, like

1132
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 5: somebody who's so fine, but they're like white, and I'm like.

1133
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 2: Shout out to you. I hope you find what you're

1134
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 2: looking for. It's not me like it just it can't

1135
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 2: work out.

1136
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 5: I I think I'm way too loud about how I

1137
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 5: feel about black people that I could never.

1138
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 2: I just can't.

1139
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 3: You would have to be a militant black white.

1140
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 2: But to me even that, I don't like that because

1141
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 2: now I.

1142
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,919
Speaker 5: Feel like you are. It's performative and and I don't.

1143
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 5: I don't do the the what do they call them that,

1144
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 5: spicy whites?

1145
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: I'm not doing that. I don't care. Like basically, I know,

1146
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 2: I don't like that. I don't like that.

1147
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 4: Is that your tex spicy whites?

1148
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 3: I mean you, I want to do white. I gotta you,

1149
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 3: gotta come on.

1150
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 5: That's the most performative of performative. Because I know people.

1151
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 3: Neighborhoods black faces.

1152
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 4: They also have this theory about white souls and black soul.

1153
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 3: We do sometimes you can be black and have a

1154
00:50:58,040 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 3: white soul.

1155
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 2: You know, you know, I I too have a theory.

1156
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think.

1157
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 5: I think it's very controversial, and I don't know because

1158
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 5: I think that there are a lot of people. I'm

1159
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 5: not saying that all whites, but I do believe that

1160
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,720
Speaker 5: there are a lot of white people who don't have souls,

1161
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:26,280
Speaker 5: and I think that it's distinctly like proven within certain

1162
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 5: things that are just like natural human beings, right, like rhythm,

1163
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 5: like no no.

1164
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 2: No, like tribal culture. Like.

1165
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 5: I think that there are certain white people that are

1166
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 5: non tribal, non like lack empathy, have no rhythm, and

1167
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 5: I think that it's just you don't have a soul.

1168
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 5: Like I'm sorry, and I'm not saying that it's a

1169
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 5: hell of white people that are like this, but I

1170
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:50,280
Speaker 5: do believe that there are some where y'all not from here,

1171
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 5: like you are not in I think that years, centuries,

1172
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 5: millennia ago the earth was the aliens already here, and

1173
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 5: they came they colonize the planet. And that's why no

1174
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 5: matter where you go in every culture, there are the

1175
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 5: lighter skinned people at the top, the whites at the top,

1176
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 5: who are just like you are beneath us and it's like,

1177
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 5: where the fuck did that come from.

1178
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 4: I don't think that.

1179
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 5: I don't think that that's something that is natural to humans, you.

1180
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:22,399
Speaker 3: Know what I mean?

1181
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 5: Like, I think you go to you look at Asian cultures,

1182
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 5: you look at at Hispanic cultures. Across the board, there

1183
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 5: is a certain level of like familiarity and like but no,

1184
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,879
Speaker 5: but just like love amongst the masses, until you bring

1185
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 5: that one white presenting.

1186
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 4: And respect for the land. There's also like an rootedness

1187
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:44,800
Speaker 4: to the earth that indigenous people hold within their spirit,

1188
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:45,320
Speaker 4: their soul.

1189
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 2: Okay, only in a white nation do you make it illegal.

1190
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 5: To plant female trees because you don't want people to

1191
00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:54,360
Speaker 5: eat for free. Only in white nations do you bottle

1192
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 5: natural resources and then you sell it back to people

1193
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,720
Speaker 5: who can't fucking afford Like it's just ship like it's.

1194
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 3: Even at a different different exactly.

1195
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 5: It's like you're you're harvesting the energy of everyone around you,

1196
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 5: vampire vampire, for your own benefit. And I don't think

1197
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 5: that that that is the opposite of tribal and it's

1198
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 5: like a parasite.

1199
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, very parasitic.

1200
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, very parasitic. And that's why I think that they're

1201
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 2: not from here.

1202
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 3: It's definitely a different breed.

1203
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 4: Do you think that maybe they're non parent, like they're

1204
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 4: non parasitic from wherever they're from, or they're just naturally parasitic.

1205
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 2: What do you mean? I think that they're naturally parasitic

1206
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:31,879
Speaker 2: because they're not from here.

1207
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 1: No.

1208
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:33,760
Speaker 2: I think that what you know, you're not from.

1209
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 4: The place you feel like it's to take. But wherever

1210
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:37,839
Speaker 4: they're from, whatever planet, space or place that they're from,

1211
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 4: is there like a different way that they exist? Do

1212
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 4: you know what I mean?

1213
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 5: I think they're like tapeworm No, I think they're like

1214
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 5: tapeworms or like any kind of like when you go

1215
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 5: from planet to planet, you suck the like, look at

1216
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 5: what's happening to Earth. We don't got much longer here

1217
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 5: because all the that like we fuck the plant. Let

1218
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 5: me not even say we, but they fucked the planet

1219
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,800
Speaker 5: up right, And what is their plan? Let's go to Mars,

1220
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 5: let's go here. Literally, that is the mindset of like, well,

1221
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 5: we show up, we suck it up, and then we

1222
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,439
Speaker 5: move on to the next galaxy in the next era

1223
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 5: and the next whatever. And I don't think that that

1224
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 5: is ever something that's ever been in the mind of

1225
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 5: any indigenous people ever.

1226
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 2: You have reverence for the land that you're on. You

1227
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 2: you you know you have. It's just it's embedded in

1228
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 2: the culture, and that is the only culture where I

1229
00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 2: don't see it.

1230
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 3: I have a long dissertation about this topic, but I

1231
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 3: don't know if we have time.

1232
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 2: We don't.

1233
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have, yeah, so I'll see it for next episode.

1234
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna write down my bullet points please, because I didn't.

1235
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 3: I have a lot of it needs to be to

1236
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 3: the public.

1237
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 4: This is this is the p s A okay that

1238
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:51,400
Speaker 4: I'll get back to it. Affirmations or oh why is

1239
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 4: eon look at me? You said to my dissertation?

1240
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 7: No?

1241
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 3: Is that because we declined? My ladies, do we have

1242
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:11,400
Speaker 3: any horries? Any horror stories?

1243
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:21,800
Speaker 2: Who stories? Not? As of late?

1244
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 3: You get the weekends off.

1245
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,760
Speaker 4: There's also we have a we have a discord horror story.

1246
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 4: If none of you ladies have a horror story, but

1247
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 4: of course I would love to hear the thick Horse story.

1248
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 4: You don't have any lesbian horror stories like you lesbian adventures,

1249
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 4: trap ons and things and things. The thing is, what

1250
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 4: was your first strap on experience?

1251
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:40,399
Speaker 2: What was that like? It was great?

1252
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 4: I want to know, I've never been just.

1253
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 5: Saying okay, this is probably the worst situation that I've had.

1254
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,359
Speaker 5: I and it's not even like bad bad, but it's

1255
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 5: very lesbianic. So I was dating on that world. I

1256
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 5: met her randomly at a party like gorgeous. I was

1257
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 5: really excited about it. By like our third date, I

1258
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,839
Speaker 5: think we ended up getting down to it right and

1259
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:03,839
Speaker 5: leading up to this date, like we were talking and

1260
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,359
Speaker 5: like it was very much so like oh my god,

1261
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 5: I'm so glad that I met you, blah blah blah,

1262
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 5: like intense connection. And so when we get into it,

1263
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,760
Speaker 5: we like fucked the first round because it happens in rounds,

1264
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:15,480
Speaker 5: and we like took a break, and while we were

1265
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:16,879
Speaker 5: taking the break, she was like, I need to tell

1266
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 5: you something. So it's like what and she was like, oh,

1267
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 5: you know, I was dating this one person before we

1268
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 5: met and then we ended things and she was like,

1269
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 5: you know, she came back around and like, I'm not

1270
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 5: saying that I want to stop dating you because me

1271
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,760
Speaker 5: and this person weren't exclusive, but I am probably gonna

1272
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 5: start talking to them again.

1273
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, like tell me about it.

1274
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 5: And so she tells me that, you know, she basically

1275
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 5: played or whatever, and she really had feeling into this person.

1276
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,400
Speaker 2: So I was like, my, that's so crazy. We end

1277
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 2: up fucking around again. We get to it.

1278
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 5: I'm literally down there just like eating a feast and

1279
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 5: she's talking about this girl and so I'm like giving.

1280
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: Her advice, like literally, like, so what did she say

1281
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 2: after that?

1282
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 5: I swear to God going back doing the thing, and

1283
00:56:57,680 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 5: like she's like, yeah, I just don't know. I feel

1284
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 5: like she's gonna play with me again. And I'm like

1285
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 5: I don't know if mohamma Fields could take that.

1286
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:03,879
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, well, you know who you are,

1287
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 2: stand up, bro, and like going back.

1288
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 5: The whole time, we're like fucking and like talking about

1289
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 5: this relationship, coaching her right literally And after that, literally

1290
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 5: like maybe like a month after that, we ended up

1291
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 5: stopping because she got back with this person.

1292
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 3: Cancer story I've ever heard.

1293
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 5: But the crazy thing is cancer and she was a

1294
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 5: scorpio and I'm like, oh, yeah, we're just having this

1295
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 5: like moment moment.

1296
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you're so crazy.

1297
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 2: No, yeah, what's the cool?

1298
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 3: Mm hm wow that's beautiful.

1299
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 2: Or they shi together there and love.

1300
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 3: I was like, go off, see something, coach, Mandy, you're

1301
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 3: thinking two for one and sometimes it's not your it's

1302
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 3: not your nigga, and that's okay, okay, Like you know,

1303
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 3: like I think people have, like there's such an ownership

1304
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 3: and territorialness. It's like you have to accept when like,

1305
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 3: you know what, this doesn't work. You have a white

1306
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 3: soul wife or whatever that happened to mean. That was

1307
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 3: my own story. So you know this and carry on.

1308
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 3: Find your person for sure, for sure, and that's in love,

1309
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 3: like it's in love and care.

1310
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 5: No, that's not personating in general. At the end of

1311
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 5: the day, you have one person. I can date ninety

1312
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 5: nine people, only one of.

1313
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:14,200
Speaker 2: Them gonna be mine.

1314
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 5: So I'm not gonna get attached to this idea unless

1315
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 5: I know for sure, or unless like a terror reading

1316
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Speaker 5: on YouTube told me that you were my person.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna let it go.

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Speaker 4: Very important.

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Speaker 3: Women love to make a person a negative person when

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Speaker 3: their motherfucker. Okay, that is our favorite activity. That is

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Speaker 3: we will.

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Speaker 4: How about our favorite activity.

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Speaker 3: I think that.

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Speaker 5: Frontal love development really helped me out though, because I

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00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 5: was in it deep. I remember there was one time

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Speaker 5: when it was complete, so there was one time developments.

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Speaker 2: We were both down bad, down bad bad.

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Speaker 5: And I don't mean like like ten years ago. I

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Speaker 5: mean like within like the last six to seven years.

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Speaker 5: And I remember we sat in the house one day

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00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 5: and we ran through this woman's like tarot.

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Speaker 2: Card and we were literally just like, okay, look at

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Speaker 2: the cards. Pick.

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Speaker 5: We sat there and watched all these pigg of cards

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Speaker 5: and we were like, she knows, it's send.

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Speaker 3: Me the link. Speaking of tarot card, Yes, pull a card,

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Speaker 3: my ladies.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what is the six of ones?

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Speaker 3: What's the.

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Speaker 2: Okay? And the emperor?

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00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 5: Are we conquering ship, conquering leading the team first of

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Speaker 5: all student people.

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Speaker 2: I was about say, I wonder if the same as that.

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Speaker 2: It's definitely not the same, Okay, Okay.

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00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 3: This of wands, the six of Wands appears when you

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00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 3: have reached an important milestone or achieved a significant goal,

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00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 3: and you're confident, self assured, and successful. You harness your

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00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 3: strengths and talents and bring about a happy outcome and

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00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 3: your endeavors and made it through the chaos of the

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00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 3: five of Wands, minimizing you to dictions and focusing on

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01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 3: the task at hand. Yes, they were challenges along the way,

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01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 3: but you overcame them. By concentrating your energies on the big,

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01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 3: on the one target, it suggests that not only have

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01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 3: you achieved your goals and your confident, self assured, and

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01:00:15,200 --> 01:00:18,480
Speaker 3: successful wait hold on, achieved your goals, but you're receiving

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01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 3: public acknowledgment for your efforts. You may have recently received

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01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 3: an award, a claim, recognition from your peers for your work,

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01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 3: and it may have just been a pat on the back.

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01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 3: With this attention is a big boost to your confidence

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01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 3: and gives you the strength to continue your endeavors.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I feel like that resonates like how we were

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01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 6: talking about, Like I feel comfortable getting back into the

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01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 6: swing of things now.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, this is affirming that. Honestly, I like Mommy.

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01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 3: I like this era I do.

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Speaker 2: It's really nice. It's different.

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Speaker 4: What do you think is what's different about mommys pre Mommy.

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01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 5: I think I think I enjoy the fact that she

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01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 5: slowed down, and I think that she needed this break

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01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 5: and she didn't realize it. And I understand that the

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01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 5: transition was probably very rough. But I think that you

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01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 5: are more fully formed in like who you are, what

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01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 5: you like, what you want as opposed to what's gonna

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01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:13,800
Speaker 5: work what's gonna give me money?

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01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 2: What's gonna do? Yeah, and I think that you just

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01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 2: you've seem happier. Yeah, it's I am. She's amazing and

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01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:23,440
Speaker 2: she's really softened me up. That's the biggest thing. I

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01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 2: think intuition finally working.

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Speaker 3: Finally. I mean, births is a right of passage.

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01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 7: It is.

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01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 3: It really is the right of passage, and people like

1382
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 3: you know, there's a lot of things said about it.

1383
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 3: It's not always like the true depiction. It is rough

1384
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:40,520
Speaker 3: as hell, but overall it's like after you go through births,

1385
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 3: you're like, okay, like I birth the baby bit.

1386
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 2: In a room full of water signs that's crazy at fun.

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01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 3: Pisces flowing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 3: Make me hollo.

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Speaker 4: I'm so happy to have you guys back on Yeah, yeah,

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01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 4: congratulations on coming back to the podcast.

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Speaker 3: World Y.

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Speaker 4: I'll make sure you go check out the Thick podcast.

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Speaker 3: Wait, do you guys have affirmation for the people?

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01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 2: Oh? My affirmation.

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Speaker 6: It's it's a cliche, but don't stress over the things

1397
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 6: you can't control. That's something I really learned throughout motherhood too.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Really keeps.

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Speaker 2: Get chaotic.

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01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 5: I have too that I literally I swear by and

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01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 5: one of them. I know y'all think you are going

1403
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 5: to think that I'm joking, but I'm being dead ass

1404
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 5: when I'm in the shower, especially when like somebody's bothering me.

1405
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 5: So I need someone just like leave me the fuck alone.

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01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 5: And it started off with people that I was dating

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01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:51,479
Speaker 5: or whatever. In the shower as I'm washing my body,

1408
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:54,480
Speaker 5: I'll literally be like, scrub a dub duble, scrub, leave

1409
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 5: me the alone.

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01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 2: I swear to.

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01:02:57,000 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 3: God, I promise you I scrub.

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01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 5: I would think about the person. I'd be like, leave

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01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 5: me the funk alone, and then I guess.

1414
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 2: I don't got to do nothing like leave me alone alone, please.

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01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:22,040
Speaker 5: And then the other one is everything I desire desires

1416
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 5: me back. So I know that literally every single time

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01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 5: I want something, I don't want it and I'm not.

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01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 5: I it's kind of guaranteed to me because the only

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01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 5: reason why I have this feeling is because it's calling

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01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 5: out to me too.

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01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,840
Speaker 3: So if it's planning, if the seat is planet, is

1422
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 3: because it's also being called Yeah. I like that feelings

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01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 3: are mutual, Yes exactly.

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Speaker 4: M hm. Well, thank you ladies for coming on. Yes,

1425
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 4: where can our audience find you?

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01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 6: For the thick podcasts everywhere. I'm Tabria Majors everywhere.

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01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 2: I'm damn mindy on every platform.

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01:03:57,200 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 5: Subscribe to my YouTube, check me out on TikTok, follow

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01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 5: my Instagram.

1430
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 2: I'm not on X fuck that platform?

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01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 3: What are the girls do?

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01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 4: Clocket middle middle Okay, oh, well, you know where to

1433
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 4: find us a good Mom's underscore, Bad Choices on Instagram,

1434
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 4: Follow us on TikTok. We're trying to I don't know what.

1435
01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's TikTok.

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01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:22,439
Speaker 2: Are we are? We on TikTok forever.

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01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 4: I guess everybody's on tik TikTok, and make sure you

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01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,640
Speaker 4: follow the good vibe treat and come with us. Twenty

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01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 4: twenty six, We're going to do some beautiful places with

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01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:35,479
Speaker 4: some magical women. Y'all need to come on one of our.

1441
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:37,919
Speaker 3: Actually drift.

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01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 4: It's really it's really a beautiful time and we love

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01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 4: you and we'll see you next week.

1444
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 2: By Yeah, I'm been so good. Can't you tell? I

1445
01:04:51,600 --> 01:04:52,479
Speaker 2: went through a drought.

1446
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 3: That's until I find a will may might have been known.

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01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 7: Art that used to be broken tail now got the

1448
01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:00,440
Speaker 7: blues Dans and like Beyonce, justlroat.

1449
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 2: Shot pop in his car wearing our voices.

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01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 7: Patriarchy kept it in the box to it's flota. Women

1451
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 7: put the pee and powers, So what's pointless? They want

1452
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 7: me to be good, so I make bad choices.

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01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 5: Bad mom.

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01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 2: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

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01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 7: It he's in on the cannabis in their bathbon walked

1456
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 7: in boscels cap and I blew his cat boss hot dog.

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01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 2: Now I'm immune to.

1458
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 7: The cat called Herbie and no waisted straight to it

1459
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:22,800
Speaker 7: like a dollar sign.

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01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 3: Mother, rent the lover when two.

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01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 7: It's like a water sign where you're renting winter essential

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01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 7: will when the summertime.

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01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 3: I do what doll?

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01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 2: They know when I need to run it by