WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Soulmate Psychic

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date updated.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw something on Instagram recently that basically sums up

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<v Speaker 2>what I think a lot of our listeners are feeling

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<v Speaker 2>with the online dating apps. It was a guy who says,

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<v Speaker 2>I think my favorite part of online dating is when

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<v Speaker 2>you match with someone and you're talking and it's going great,

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<v Speaker 2>and three weeks later, someone somewhere loses interest and you

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<v Speaker 2>just never talk to them again, and you just keep

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<v Speaker 2>doing that over and over and over until you're ninety

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<v Speaker 2>and you're single and you die alone.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so true. Wow, what a romantic look, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 2>Aren't you upset that you got married and missed the

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<v Speaker 2>peak era of dating apps?

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<v Speaker 3>Why did I do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we have a guy on the phone who says

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<v Speaker 2>he also has become pretty frustrated with the online dating experience.

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<v Speaker 2>His name is Steven, So Steven, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 4>How you doing yo?

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<v Speaker 3>You sound down? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I am down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Buddy probably just closed his Tinder arap right now before

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<v Speaker 2>he got on, So it's not going so well for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Huh No, I mean I just can't beat anybody. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 5>I was so tired. I did something pretty desperate recently.

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<v Speaker 5>That's kind of why I.

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<v Speaker 2>Called oh, oh you did something desperate. Desperate it's on

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<v Speaker 2>ad online.

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<v Speaker 4>It said soul mad psychic.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a good catchy phrase. Yeah, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 5>And for fifty dollars the person was able to draw

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<v Speaker 5>your soul date.

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<v Speaker 1>For you, draw.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a sketch of them. That's actually great because then

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<v Speaker 2>you can see like when you see them in real life.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you know, why do I feel like they stock

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<v Speaker 3>your social media and then draw your eggs?

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<v Speaker 2>But you're right, if you see them out in the world,

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<v Speaker 2>you could just hold up this photo and be like, what,

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<v Speaker 2>we're mad. You don't bring a photo around with you. You

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<v Speaker 2>just know in your head.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, wait, wait, you all believe that someone can do this, Well,

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<v Speaker 6>if it's a psychic, yeah, yeah, okay, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 6>go with sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook already does a believe in your soulmate before she

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<v Speaker 2>even knows anything about it.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't sound like either.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, well, we don't even know what the story is.

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<v Speaker 2>So you actually signed up and did this.

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<v Speaker 4>I did this. Twenty minutes later, I get to sketch

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<v Speaker 4>email to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's just even over it's online.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, it was a phone conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, took to her, and then she draws.

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<v Speaker 3>What kind of questions did she ask you?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she's asking me my interest, she's asking me you know,

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<v Speaker 5>but she's not asking for a physical description of your

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<v Speaker 5>perfect woman.

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<v Speaker 2>She's trying to get to know you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly, Okay, she's asking you about you.

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<v Speaker 1>But then she's drawing the lady of yours.

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<v Speaker 2>So what did you think of the picture?

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<v Speaker 4>So she's very pretty, that's.

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<v Speaker 6>Good, shocking, she didn't draw an ugly person that is

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<v Speaker 6>so weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's very lucky for him. I'm sure she draws

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of ugly people for other people. But what

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<v Speaker 2>did you do with the photo?

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<v Speaker 4>I put it off their refrigerator.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh okay, okay, I didn't know what to do with

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<v Speaker 6>it away online. I mean, you can put it on

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<v Speaker 6>your dating app and say this is what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, now you're thinking brook, okay, you fill in the

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<v Speaker 2>for me. Well, did anything come of it?

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<v Speaker 4>So, like a month later, I'm at this wedding and

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<v Speaker 4>I see it a woman and this a shoots exactly

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<v Speaker 4>like the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>No way? Really?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah, what'd you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>First they try it to freak out. I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 4>my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, now you must feel the pressure on you.

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<v Speaker 2>So what do you do?

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<v Speaker 4>So I build up enough confidence and I go over

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<v Speaker 4>there and I ask her to dance.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, why aren't you awing yet? This is happening. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>And what did she say when you asked her to dance?

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<v Speaker 4>She said, yes, that we're dancing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's happening. So now you've opened the

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<v Speaker 2>door for true love to step through. But the big

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<v Speaker 2>question is did you tell her about the soulmate photo

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<v Speaker 2>that was sent to you?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I I told her I have a surprise for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, you're going to se What do you mean

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<v Speaker 3>you told her that?

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<v Speaker 4>I just couldn't hold it in. It's too weird, it's

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<v Speaker 4>too coincidentally.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait, so that night, we're still at the wedding reception

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<v Speaker 6>and you're going to pull out the picture on your phone.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I know, I didn't even have a copy of it. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll text it to you.

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<v Speaker 4>I told her I'll text it.

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<v Speaker 3>What was her reaction though?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she lack?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know what the caption was when you

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<v Speaker 2>texted the phone.

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<v Speaker 4>The caption was, isn't this crazy? This looks just like you?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Oh my god, how long does it take her

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<v Speaker 6>to respond.

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<v Speaker 3>To your isn't about my first reaction? Is I have

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<v Speaker 3>a stalker?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Or are you still waiting for a reply?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, she responded, She's like, wow, that's crazy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>But then it was kind of a different vibe from

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<v Speaker 4>then on. She I could tell something changed now and

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<v Speaker 4>she wasn't as into me.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no, maybe you have android because that happens, and

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<v Speaker 6>you sent in and got blurry gobble.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I don't think that was it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, So looking back on the events that unfolded,

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<v Speaker 2>do you feel like maybe you shouldn't have sent her

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<v Speaker 2>the picture?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, he should have just brought her back to his

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<v Speaker 6>apartment so she could have seen it.

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<v Speaker 3>On the fringe.

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<v Speaker 2>So at this point, where are you at now?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, what are you gonna do? She woke it

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<v Speaker 4>back to me. Really I had to move on from there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you couldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>So did you call this a lady Gann and you

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<v Speaker 2>have a new picture drawn up?

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<v Speaker 5>Or I'm I'm kind of just back on the apps.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm like, I'm thinking maybe I need to find

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<v Speaker 4>out when older. But you found her?

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<v Speaker 3>So wait, wait, wait, are we gonna call this girl.

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<v Speaker 4>For you, I mean yeah now, because it's been a

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<v Speaker 4>couple of months. I need yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you need closure, man.

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<v Speaker 4>I know anyone would I need closure.

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<v Speaker 2>From what he met his so many brook and she's ghosting.

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<v Speaker 6>For threes okay, his life. I feel like we're trying

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<v Speaker 6>to force something here, but I'll be on board.

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<v Speaker 2>She'll give us answer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Did we ever get the girl's name? By the way,

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<v Speaker 2>her name is zoey okaye. Well, we're gonna come back

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<v Speaker 2>and call your soulmate Zoe and try and get you

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<v Speaker 2>your second date update right after.

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<v Speaker 1>This second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>You believe in love at first sight?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Jeff?

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<v Speaker 2>What about Okay? So yes? From Jose and from the girls?

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<v Speaker 2>What about love at first sketch?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Cause. Months ago, one of our listeners, Steven, paid a

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<v Speaker 2>professional psychic to draw him a photo of his future

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<v Speaker 2>soulmate before he's ever met her. He hung it up

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<v Speaker 2>on his fridge, and wouldn't you know, just a short

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<v Speaker 2>while later, he ends up meeting a woman who looks

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<v Speaker 2>just like that photo when he was at a wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name was Zoe, and they danced and got to

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<v Speaker 2>know each other. Everything was on the up and up

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<v Speaker 2>until he got home and texted her the soulmate's sketch picture.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye really cooled off after that. It got me thinking though, like,

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<v Speaker 2>how could we help him when we get her on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone, and maybe we could say that he drew

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<v Speaker 2>the picture after he met you, just from memory. He's

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<v Speaker 2>a really good artist that it's not like a soulmate thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I think he just apologizes and says I didn't that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Your answer to everything. Apologize for what he did.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a good photo. It has to be flattering it.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you can't lie, Like, how long is he

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<v Speaker 6>going to keep up that he's a good artist?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, it just came to him in a

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<v Speaker 2>moment of inspiration. That's the point. I'm not an artist.

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<v Speaker 2>It was the heavens that just guided my hand in

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<v Speaker 2>that exactly. Sadly, though, Stephen is back on the dating

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<v Speaker 2>apps now, looking for older women and long distance stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>whatever he can get because he's so dejected.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's not say that, but we won't.

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<v Speaker 1>Bring that up.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying his mind is still wondering, though, what

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<v Speaker 2>about my soulmate Zoe? Isn't that right, Stephen? You've never

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<v Speaker 2>forgotten about her?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I didn't forget. This wasn't that long ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but a couple of months she could be in

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<v Speaker 3>a relationship already.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm glad that we're going in with the positive attitude.

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<v Speaker 3>So.

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<v Speaker 2>I promise I will keep trying. Nobody in this room

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<v Speaker 2>is going to believe in love except for me and Jose,

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<v Speaker 2>So we're gonna do our best. Let's call Zoe and

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<v Speaker 2>see what she has to do.

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<v Speaker 3>The weight of love on your shoulders. It must be hard,

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<v Speaker 3>it's difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, two rings, she answered. I knew it, Zoe. Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for answering the phone right now. This is Zoe right, Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you know that too. That was luck on that one.

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<v Speaker 2>But as you're on the radio right now with a

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<v Speaker 2>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh Zoe, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I'm okay, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Why am I.

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<v Speaker 7>Being cold right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? Some might say it's fate that brought us to

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<v Speaker 2>you today, but others would just say it's one of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners named Stephen who asked us to call you.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>No, wait, hold on, do you remember Stephen?

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<v Speaker 7>No, I'm not no.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's a picture really worked, I guess. Yeah, well, so, Zoe,

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing a segment here called a second Date Update

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<v Speaker 2>where we're trying to help Steven get in touch with

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<v Speaker 2>you again because it's been a while since you've chatted

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<v Speaker 2>since the wedding.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, no, there's a reason why we haven't chatted.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, Well do you do you want to tell us?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it seems like it's very clear why you're

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<v Speaker 3>not calling him.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean clear to him. We don't we don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what you're thinking.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I don't think it's clear to him that I'm

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<v Speaker 7>not really up for him wanting to date my mom.

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<v Speaker 6>So why wait, did he hit on your mom at

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<v Speaker 6>the wedding reception or something?

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<v Speaker 7>As far as I know, he hasn't met my mom,

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<v Speaker 7>But I don't know if he told you.

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<v Speaker 6>Guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, hold on, this is a lot. What we know

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<v Speaker 2>is that you guys met at a wedding. You guys

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<v Speaker 2>danced and had a good time. After the wedding, he

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<v Speaker 2>texted you a photo that looked a lot like you

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<v Speaker 2>and then and we thought that.

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<v Speaker 3>Was the reason. Yeah, call his back that it freaked

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<v Speaker 3>you out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I.

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<v Speaker 7>Mean that was creepy anyway, but.

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<v Speaker 3>So where did your mom come into play here?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's weird.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. So at the wedding, he said he was surprised

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<v Speaker 7>that I was single because he thought I was pretty

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<v Speaker 7>whatever and yeah, and I was like, oh, yeah, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 7>Even my mom's dating, she's on the apps. Whatever. I

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<v Speaker 7>laughed about it, and he texted me that photo. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 7>But after that, my mom matched with him on one

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<v Speaker 7>of the apps.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, your mom tells your matches?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, I mean my mom and I are fairly close,

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<v Speaker 7>and she showed me who she matched with.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you thinking that he went and like matched with

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<v Speaker 2>her on purpose?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know that it matters, probably to her.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I don't even care how it happened. It's just

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<v Speaker 7>the fact that it happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, well we don't know everything about how stuff

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<v Speaker 2>happened the way that it happened. The only person who

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<v Speaker 2>has the answers to that would be Steven.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. He may not even know, yeah, because he.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't mention anything like this when we talked to him.

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<v Speaker 2>But he is on the other line right now waiting

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<v Speaker 2>to speak with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Zoe.

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<v Speaker 1>What why?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 2>That's how the segment works. Steven are you there.

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<v Speaker 4>This is awkward. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, did you know that you had matched with her mom?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I told you guys, I was like back on the

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<v Speaker 4>apps and looking for maybe someone older.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you said, yeah, you didn't say you met her family.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't say you went just one generation up.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, so why's your mom got that young of a

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<v Speaker 3>dating pool? You should check her job for the competition.

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<v Speaker 3>Let mom live.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you two need to talk about this clearly, dude, what.

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<v Speaker 7>Is actually wrong with you? Like you're gonna you're gonna

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<v Speaker 7>call the station and you're going to tell them like

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<v Speaker 7>you're trying to figure out what's wrong. But clearly what's

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<v Speaker 7>wrong is you're trying to get with my mother after

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<v Speaker 7>trying to get with me.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't know you were responding to me. You're being

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<v Speaker 4>kind of cold. I didn't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, for good reason.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>The first straw was you sending me that creepy picture anyway,

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<v Speaker 7>so obviously I was going to be stand offish. And

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<v Speaker 7>then my mom showed me her dating app with you

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<v Speaker 7>on it.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, have you been talking to her mother?

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<v Speaker 4>And we changed the messages?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did you send is a date going to happen

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<v Speaker 2>between you and Zoe's mom. Is that on the books?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I didn't want to ruin things with Zoe.

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<v Speaker 6>And I oh's prioritizing you Zoe is send the mom

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<v Speaker 6>the same picture you sent Zoe.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to make that stick again.

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<v Speaker 1>No way, okay, le Okay, Stephen.

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<v Speaker 7>I even showed her the picture that you sent her

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<v Speaker 7>to me and she still isn't you. So you guys

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<v Speaker 7>can just go have.

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<v Speaker 4>She said she's still into me?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, you go enjoy yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh guys, we did it.

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<v Speaker 6>We found a soul.

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<v Speaker 3>Mad my god, this is so weird.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're saying you ship the relationship with your mom

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<v Speaker 2>and Steven.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I don't know what else I can do.

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<v Speaker 7>I can't just tell my mom who she can and

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<v Speaker 7>can't date, So like, how am I supposed to talk

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<v Speaker 7>to her about that.

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<v Speaker 3>At this point? Do we have a double date.

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<v Speaker 1>Or I don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm in default to the love expert on

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<v Speaker 2>the show, as do you think that we should do

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<v Speaker 2>in this situation?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't know perfect great ideas. Okay, Zoe dinner with

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<v Speaker 2>either of them? Well she probably should because soon Stephen

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<v Speaker 2>could be your stepdad. I have to be around a

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<v Speaker 2>Thanksgiving cable.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to set out with your mom if you

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<v Speaker 3>got the same age ring.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean we would normally offer to send Steven

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<v Speaker 2>out with Zoe, but I guess Steven will offer to

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<v Speaker 2>send you out with Zoe's.

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<v Speaker 3>Mom on first insulting. I am sorry, Zoe.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is that insulting?

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<v Speaker 4>Because that'd be great.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, Zoe's already turned him down. He's a free agent.

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<v Speaker 2>He can date whoever he wants. Zoe, will you ask your.

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<v Speaker 3>Mom for us?

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<v Speaker 4>Please?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>No, forget all you guys. I'm sorry. This can't get anywhorse.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, darn.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually I'm actually worried that it can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Is your grandma still alive? Because you never know?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, who knew fifty bucks on a soulmate's psychic picture

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<v Speaker 2>could work not once, but twice? Talk about value? Getting

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<v Speaker 2>your money's worse.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not even think about that. It's actually twenty

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<v Speaker 3>five bucks per person.

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<v Speaker 5>At this point.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great.

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<v Speaker 3>You could call it a family deal.

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<v Speaker 2>You really could, if you think about it. Zoe was

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<v Speaker 2>just the bread crumb that led Steven to his eventual destinyl.

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<v Speaker 3>Psychic, big families, so that this can happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, what if I know we're all skeptical, but

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<v Speaker 2>what if they really are meant to be? Would that

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<v Speaker 2>ever did on this show. Turn this into a movie

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<v Speaker 2>we will be at.

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<v Speaker 6>Have you guys not been following this the Miley Cyrus

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<v Speaker 6>family drama right now? Oh my god, Her mom Tish

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<v Speaker 6>got married to a guy that her younger sister was dating.

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<v Speaker 6>The whole thing is a hot mess. Those two aren't talking.

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<v Speaker 6>It doesn't end well. I'm just telling you.

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