1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: with our radio. 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: It's almost famous podcast. We're here still. It's a very 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: exciting time. We got to sit in on the reunion. 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: It was hosted by Wells Adams had some of our 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 2: favorites from Bachelor in Paradise. One of our favorites are 7 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: with us right now, Jeremy and Bailey, are we your favorites? Now, 8 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 2: we're gonna get to that because I think you got 9 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: very upset about something. 10 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: Well, let's just start there. 11 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 2: On our podcast, we did we made fun of you 12 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 2: two for swapping gum. 13 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 3: Oh I don't I don't even get pissed about that. 14 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 3: Was that I've been. I've been. I don't listen to 15 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: a lot of podcasts, but I got signed clips and 16 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 3: you guys, so you're just talking no way, Yeah I would, 17 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 3: I would love the clips. We never met in person. 18 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 4: So it's fair now that you've met us, now you 19 00:00:59,160 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 4: can love me. 20 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, Bailey, you Jeremy, we're just gonna keep no 21 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: gum swapping. 22 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 4: Let me say, I feel like it wasn't that I 23 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 4: did get that clip. I I didn't think that the 24 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 4: gum swap people, I didn't think it was that gross. Also, 25 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 4: we're not allowed to married. 26 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: I'm married. Yes, I wouldn't do it with her. 27 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 4: Okay, listen, we're not allowed to have gum, like you're 28 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 4: not supposed to have gum when you're filming. And so 29 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 4: the reason we would just swap it is because we're 30 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 4: just like, you know, it's a ration, like you're ras 31 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 4: like we're rationing gum. People don't understand. We're in a war. 32 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 3: War. 33 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: Here's how one of you the gum swapping. This was 34 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: never meant to be a hit or an attack on YouTube. 35 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 2: I think it's in one of those gray areas that 36 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 2: some might say that's not gross. And you could look 37 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 2: at me and say that's crazy that you would not 38 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 2: swap gum with your wife, which you would be entitled 39 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 2: to say that, And I could think about that and 40 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 2: be like, yeah, that is actually kind of weird that 41 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 2: I wouldn't swap gum with my wife. However, I think 42 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 2: there's another side that would say that is very weird, 43 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 2: like that is that is as freaky as you can 44 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 2: get it. 45 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, food from the deal. Okay, to be fair, we 46 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: would never like eat let's talk about it, never like 47 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: eat food and then choose the gum. 48 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 4: It's kind of just like you have a moment where 49 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 4: you're like, I would love a piece of gum right now. 50 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 4: Maybe I want free choose. 51 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 2: Maybe I Well, when you are in paradise, you do 52 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 2: resort to crazy, you're in. 53 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 4: Tough times, you're rationing, you're. 54 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 2: I think it is a polarizing moment because the show 55 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 2: showed it, so I think they wanted a reaction like 56 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: they would have showed that. 57 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 4: I don't think we were expecting that. 58 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 3: We were fine with it, but we're like out of everything. 59 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 4: Sure, this sounds like can we get a conversation abouts 60 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 4: talking about our future? 61 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: They were like, no, no, the gum. I love it, Jermy. 62 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 2: I do want you to just send the clips because 63 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: I did not come into this. It's expecting you have 64 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 2: a job. I do have a job. We've had this 65 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 2: job for many years. Uh, and I came into this 66 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 2: interview excited to talk to you, but. 67 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 1: I do want to hear for a reason. 68 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jeremy, you didn't necessarily from the viewers and the 69 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 2: listeners that were to send you didn't necessarily know if 70 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,239 Speaker 2: you wanted to come to this reunion. I think you 71 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 2: put a poll online at shows here asking if you 72 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 2: should come or not. It felt like you were kind 73 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 2: of leaning on I don't want to be here? Do 74 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 2: you actually want to be here? Did you want to 75 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 2: come today? 76 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 3: I didn't necessarily want to come for other reasons that 77 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 3: I probably am not allowed to say, but I'm obviously here, 78 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 3: and I wanted it whether I wanted to come or not. 79 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 3: I know Bailey wanted to come, so I was going 80 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 3: to come and support her and support us, yeah, and 81 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 3: talk about our journey a bit. But I'm obviously happy 82 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 3: to see my We're also. 83 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 4: Like under contract, so we have to come. 84 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: But I don't think you really choice. 85 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 4: But yeah, no, I think we did want to come 86 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 4: to be able to like share moments of like our relationship, 87 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 4: and you know, also, I think a lot of peop 88 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 4: people have had a lot of questions for us, and 89 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 4: there's obviously not a time where we can be like, 90 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 4: let us answer all these questions on our story about 91 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 4: why this happened and what you know, being able to 92 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 4: you know, just like a test for things, and also 93 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 4: share other conversations that happened. So I feel like that's 94 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 4: why we wanted to come. I think you always get nervous, 95 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 4: just like on the drama level of just being like, Okay, 96 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:21,799 Speaker 4: are we going to be included or what if someone 97 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 4: has a vendetta? But I feel like overall the reunion 98 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 4: went really well for us, and I think we really 99 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 4: patched up things with other people that we may have 100 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 4: had lingering. 101 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 3: So yeah, I think my part of it is we're 102 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 3: just tired, like it's been ten long weeks in them, 103 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 3: like we knew this would be, like there would be 104 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 3: something out of it, sometimes. 105 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 4: Two episodes a week, and that. 106 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 3: Was five hours and three hours. I think like both 107 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 3: of us were just exhausted, which I was like, I go, 108 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 3: we're here, We're happy to be here. 109 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad you're happy to be here, because when 110 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 2: we plan this whole thing out and I was told 111 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,919 Speaker 2: that I was being asked to speak with each couple, 112 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 2: I did want to speak with the two of you 113 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 2: because this season, for me, I was trying to figure 114 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 2: out a way to word it, and I'm gonna try 115 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 2: to do in the way I thought about in the 116 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 2: plane today coming here. Your relationship is a really beautiful relationship. 117 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 2: It is, and when we saw so much of that 118 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: and we saw the depths of it, and I felt 119 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: like from a viewers standpoint, all of a sudden, at 120 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 2: the very end of your journey, that relationship was put 121 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 2: into question from the viewer's eyeballs, right, like everything was 122 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 2: great and beautiful when you guys were solid and strong, 123 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden, this controversy comes out 124 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 2: and then you guys go home. Yeah, and there was 125 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 2: and I think unfortunately with Paradise, there isn't that kind 126 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 2: of limbo stage where you get to see you to heal. 127 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 2: Viewers had the question of are they still together? Are 128 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 2: they actually mad at each other? And then we see 129 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 2: this like Brian thing come into play, and that felt 130 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 2: like it overshadowed everything that was built to that point. 131 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 2: That was my perspective as a viewer watching this. I 132 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: want to hear your respond to that and maybe if 133 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 2: you can walk us through your experience in Paradise. 134 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, uh similar you know to you is that 135 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 3: it like it was upsetting to because I felt like 136 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 3: that power to anything, and we talked about it many times. 137 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 3: Obviously I was stupe passion fun or said some of 138 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: the stuff I did. But at the end of the day, 139 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 3: it was like a couple of days, like days out 140 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 3: of you know, four weeks of us filming. So we 141 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 3: were just upset that like our actual love story shown 142 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 3: and people are gonna question, like, oh dude, they even 143 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 3: like each other all this. Yeah, so that's what sucked. 144 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 3: But in reality, what it was is like there were 145 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 3: two people who literally, like I knew a lot of 146 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 3: people going who are going to be at the beach, 147 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 3: she was not one of them. And by chance, we 148 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 3: just like sat next to each other and started talking 149 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 3: and it was really like this like aw thing that 150 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 3: like developed over time. And then you know, people rip 151 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 3: on the challenge part for you know, there are some 152 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 3: reasons to rip on it, but it was actually like 153 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 3: great to just like really get to each other better 154 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 3: and like communication and how to work together. And I 155 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 3: think unfortunately a lot of that was left out. But 156 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: like we left Paradise so strong, yeah, and like it's 157 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 3: been you know, one hundred times better then yeah. 158 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 4: And I think that's why we were also, I think 159 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 4: very caught off guard when we got sent home because 160 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 4: like I even with with the whole thing with Brian 161 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 4: and with the phone call and with the comments, like 162 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 4: I feel like we had so many long conversations that 163 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 4: weren't necessarily there's not enough time. Then out the amount 164 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 4: of time we spent on the conversations the same amount 165 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 4: of time as the show as an episode. So I 166 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 4: feel like, yeah, a lot of those moments get cut 167 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 4: and then obviously I think this a lot of that 168 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 4: the drama did overshadow still us being a strong couple 169 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 4: because we moved on from it. I feel like in 170 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 4: the real world, like you have challenges, you have things 171 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 4: that arise, you have conversations about it. You don't have 172 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 4: to rewatch them back with each other, but you know 173 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 4: what I mean, you move on from them. And so 174 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 4: I do wish that people really got to hear our 175 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 4: conversations in our really good moments together, but you know, 176 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 4: it's all part of a plan and we can't really 177 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 4: control anything. 178 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 2: Before I get two carried away, I do want to 179 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 2: give a shout out to the hotel. We're staying at, 180 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 2: the Porto Fino Hotel Marina. 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Now let's 190 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 2: get back to our interview. Well, that's one of the 191 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 2: frustrations I think that viewers would have is I think 192 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 2: we assumed you guys left the beach strong. We didn't 193 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 2: really know. We didn't know kind of what the behind 194 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: the scenes conversation is going to look like. You now 195 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 2: have been able to watch the whole season back, you've 196 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 2: been able to sit in the reunion, and kind of 197 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 2: for a very short period of time, you were not 198 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 2: the focus of the drama by any means. 199 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 1: There was a lot of Era's shop. We were nervous, 200 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: we were going to. 201 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 4: Be We were like, came and we're like, oh, yeah, 202 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 4: I want to thank everyone, thank our friends in there, 203 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 4: because we were all pretty leveled. 204 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 2: It wasn't it wasn't as aggressive as some conversations got 205 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 2: by any means, but you watched it back and you 206 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:45,559 Speaker 2: obviously saw now the controversy, the phone call. You got 207 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 2: to see Brian's kind of you know, thought process to 208 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: the conversation he had with you, and all this kind 209 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 2: of fire. 210 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: Walk us through what it was like to watch it back. 211 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 2: But then also I think the interesting thing is how 212 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 2: did you to stay connected as a couple through watching 213 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 2: it back? Because it couldn't have been easy no matter what. 214 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, you could talk more on it because obviously 215 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 3: had watch bag. It was hard for me to seeing her, 216 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 3: but we we had talked through everything there. We talked 217 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 3: the season started, and we obviously talked through while was airing. 218 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 3: But like we have grown so much and we're spending 219 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 3: like probably time than any couple together we've been. 220 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 4: I think we've been together for like this summer, so 221 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 4: that's been really nice. 222 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 3: So like, like what whatever happened, we had already worked 223 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 3: through and our relationship had gotten a million times stronger. 224 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 3: Like we're meeting each other's family, I went out to 225 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 3: our place, and so it was so far past that 226 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 3: that so it didn't make it like less hard to 227 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 3: watch back, but we just like remember that it was 228 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 3: in the past and there's times it was obviously. 229 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:04,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it was. I knew conversations and moments 230 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 4: and comments were coming. It was never like I was 231 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 4: caught off guard by anything and I was just like, 232 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 4: oh my god, I'm shocked. I feel like, obviously it's 233 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 4: still hard because, like I know, we're together, and majority 234 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 4: of the episodes we did end up watching them together. 235 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 4: I think there was like maybe one or two where 236 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 4: I was like on the way to New York or 237 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 4: something where I watched it on the plane. So I think, 238 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 4: obviously those comments are going to be hard no matter 239 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 4: how you spin it, no matter what happened, it's still 240 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 4: hard to listen to. But I feel like we've done 241 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 4: a really good job of like communicating, and I feel 242 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 4: like he's also done a really good job of just 243 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 4: like listening to how I'm feeling or how overwhelmed I 244 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 4: am about the comments or the questions and the things 245 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 4: from so many people. And so I feel like I 246 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 4: have to give him props just like how he's handled that, 247 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 4: because he's really like with whatever questions or moments or 248 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 4: any time, like even if I brought it up today 249 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 4: and I needed questions about it, he would sit and 250 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 4: have answers for them, So I feel like that's been 251 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 4: really helpful in us being able to like grow from 252 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 4: those little moments. I also realized that like all of 253 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 4: that happened like over a span of a few days. 254 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 4: And then obviously it's hard because like I wasn't initially 255 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 4: told about the phone call, which I feel like is 256 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 4: so hard, But I also understand where everyone's coming from, 257 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 4: because like at that moment, we're like really focus on 258 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 4: the competition, like we were only focusing on like our 259 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 4: relationship and preparing for the challenges ahead and just being 260 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 4: like locked in on that, And so I feel like 261 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 4: a lot of that has to play with like timing 262 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 4: and things as well. So yeah, it's obviously it's like 263 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 4: who wants to hear those comments? Who wants to see 264 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 4: those things? Nobody does? But I also feel like I 265 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 4: knew they were coming, so I think it lessened the 266 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 4: blow a lot of me being like so distraught about them, 267 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 4: because I really had time. We had so many conversations 268 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 4: in Paradise after Paradise, like even just when we were 269 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 4: in the hotel coming back to be like in the 270 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 4: Jury of Peers for Paradise or the Parliament of paradise, Like, 271 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 4: you know, we had a lot of deep off camera 272 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 4: conversations that were really nice for us to just be 273 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 4: like okay, like we can really just lay everything out 274 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 4: and I think also work through logistics of just like 275 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 4: how we were going to work outside and you know. 276 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'll be the first one to say I 277 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 3: should have sooner, Like my intent was ever by bioment 278 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 3: anything by not telling her that quickly, Like I knew 279 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 3: that if we were going to be together, I would 280 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: be telling her on the show too, So it's I 281 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 3: shouldn't have got Matt at Brian, Like me and Brian 282 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 3: have talked to times about this, and I should have 283 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 3: told her sooner. But like at the end of the day, 284 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 3: like it's in the past and it's something that work 285 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 3: together on and it has brought us closer. 286 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think it says a lot about 287 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:42,719 Speaker 2: the two of you. I also think it says a 288 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 2: lot about you, Bailey and kind of your understanding of 289 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 2: what show you were on and how messy can get. 290 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 2: And but Jeremy, for you, you're obviously deeply invested in 291 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 2: this relationship at this point, you're watching this season back, 292 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:03,559 Speaker 2: you see this stuff starts to spiral out of control. 293 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you, I mean, I've been through the show. 294 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 2: I know what it's like when things start spiring out 295 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: of control when you're watching it back, and how helpless 296 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 2: that sometimes feels. Jeremy, I want to get your perspective 297 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 2: on what kind of it meant to you for Bailey 298 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 2: to stay strong and stay engaged and stay in it. 299 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 3: Like everything in the world. Like I already knew she 300 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 3: was a great teammate from like not team, like a 301 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 3: challenge like partner from suffer going through, but then that 302 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 3: she's like she is my woman, and just like her 303 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 3: understanding of me as a person, and like where my 304 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 3: head is a right she means to me, and like 305 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 3: how I want things. 306 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 2: It's very lucky you are. Yeah, I mean, it's not 307 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 2: everybody does it. That's why the success rate is like 308 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 2: less than ten percent from the show, because these moments 309 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 2: break couples, but they also can bring them together and 310 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 2: make them stronger. Jeremy, you took some heat up on 311 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 2: stage here at the reunion. I didn't really understand what 312 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 2: was going on. I had to google a little bit. 313 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 2: It was about your dislike for the Goldens, and I 314 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: do feel like one of my jobs. I do still 315 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 2: want you to send me the clips, but one of 316 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: my jobs here almost famous, is to bring to light 317 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 2: anything that I think could potentially look really bad. And 318 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 2: I think that's a moment for you during the reunion 319 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 2: that will look not great, and so I want you 320 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 2: to have an opportunity to speak some more clarity into 321 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 2: what that whole thing was. The claim was made that 322 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 2: you didn't like the Goldens, and then a lot of 323 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 2: people started talking and you didn't really get to like clarify, 324 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 2: and then it moved on, and so I want this 325 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 2: to be a moment you can clarify. 326 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. It was based off of a comment that I said, 327 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 3: like in our one on one day having dinner. I 328 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 3: was like, they just keep. 329 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: Going on a lot. 330 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 3: I don't hate them. I'll be the first one to 331 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 3: say I was not happy when it was announced that 332 00:15:59,320 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 3: they were coming. 333 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: Why is that? 334 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 3: Because I'm like, I don't think it should be mixed. 335 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 3: I think spots could be going to other people, Like, 336 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 3: I don't know how this will work. It felt weird. 337 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 2: So when they had you already agreed to be on 338 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 2: the show when that was announced, yeah, okay, so you 339 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 2: were like, oh no. 340 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 3: I did I called one of the show runners when 341 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 3: I was announced, I'm like, what it like, what is like? 342 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: Yes? 343 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 3: But either way, So like when when at first when 344 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 3: they were there, I was like, and I'm nothing wrong 345 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 3: with golden parents. 346 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 2: I have parents, So that's what I want to make 347 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 2: sure that you're like if you were like, no, I 348 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 2: just don't like to go. 349 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: I will be that age in thirty years, so. 350 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 3: Hopefull I'm not going. 351 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, like what I was like, I had that. 352 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 3: View at first, but like it did change. And like 353 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 3: Keith and Kathy especially, I love those guys. So I 354 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 3: like half the things that come out of my mouth 355 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 3: and it's not a good excuse are like rye. But 356 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 3: I said, like I hate them. I hate that they're 357 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 3: going on, which the monologues could be a bit boring. 358 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, It's like when you have dinner with your parents 359 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 4: and you're like, Okay, I want to like get your 360 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 4: advice on this, and then you know you're they're also 361 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 4: like they kind of like they're like, have you given 362 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 4: to your four ok Like they're like have you like, 363 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 4: are you like investing your money? 364 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:15,120 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 365 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 4: So I feel like I get where he's coming from. 366 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 4: Like with that, but. 367 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 3: But thank you for giving me the chance. I don't 368 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,360 Speaker 3: hate them a lot. 369 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 4: He loves Keith and Kathy especially even though he will 370 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 4: give Kathy a lot of But that's just because they have. 371 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 3: Kathy is like an like where you just give each 372 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,360 Speaker 3: other every time, you get each other every time. 373 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 2: All these love triangles getting you twisted us too, But 374 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 2: it's because we have Wetzels Pretzels on decks serving up soft, 375 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:51,440 Speaker 2: salty and totally irresistible snacks from original butter to sinful cinnamon. 376 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 2: We've got your cravings covered, fresh baked, hand rolled and 377 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 2: always hot. 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She came in our hotel 396 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 4: where we looked at. 397 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 3: The like I saw. That was the first time I 398 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 3: saw Kathy since since Paradise, and the first thing I 399 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 3: said to her it's a trader because the whole time 400 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 3: I'm saying how much she loved those together home. 401 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 402 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 2: Well that's that's the segue here. As we close up 403 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:35,120 Speaker 2: with the two of you, it was a very emotional 404 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 2: excp for you too. There was a lot of frustration 405 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 2: I think in both of your faces and confusion. I 406 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 2: would say, tell me if I'm wrong. As you were 407 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 2: told that you're leaving Costa Rica and leaving Paradise. Kathy 408 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 2: and Keith played a big role obviously in that exit. 409 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 2: Why were you so frustrated what was going through your minds? 410 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 2: Did you feel like it was unjust. 411 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: No, I don't. 412 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 3: I don't know if it was frustration, but like I 413 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 3: would say, you asked us two hours before the cocktail 414 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 3: party started if we were going to go home outside dance, 415 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 3: and it all happened quickly with like then we realized 416 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 3: that like Dale, who you know, we thought had our backs, 417 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 3: was kind of like going against us because he needs 418 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 3: to save himself. And Spencer, who had like pulled me 419 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 3: before saying like oh it never voted for us to 420 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 3: go home, and like we're all like we're kind of 421 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 3: learning that while the cocktail hour is going on. So 422 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,479 Speaker 3: it was just a sense of like yeah, and we 423 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,439 Speaker 3: were just like like we were fine. 424 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: Obviously, yeah we were fine. 425 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:38,439 Speaker 4: It's kind of like, yeah, I think it was like 426 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 4: confusion mixed with I don't want to say like betrayal, 427 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 4: but I think you're just caught off guard because it's 428 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 4: like you know that you're gonna have to send friends home. 429 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 4: That's clear. I think that we just like weren't really 430 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 4: thinking it was gonna be us at this time. Like 431 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 4: I feel like we had done a really good job 432 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 4: of like standing up for all of our friends at 433 00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 4: that moment, and obviously it was between us, and we 434 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 4: knew that we weren't going to vote justin Spencer. I 435 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 4: think everyone was very clear on that, like, you know, 436 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:07,120 Speaker 4: I wanted them to get engaged. So I think that's 437 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 4: where it really went into. And then I think when 438 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 4: we came to terms with it, we really just spent 439 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 4: that time with each other and just realizing like, Okay, 440 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 4: it's not the end of the road. Yeah, it's the 441 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 4: end of five hundred thousand dollars, but I don't know, 442 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 4: we you know, we came to Paradise. We didn't think 443 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 4: we were going to find this, and so we left 444 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 4: with each other, and I feel like that's what's most important, 445 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,679 Speaker 4: and I think we kept that like the goal with 446 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 4: all of it. Obviously, it's still it was hard in 447 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 4: that moment to be like okay, like and also I 448 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 4: just feel like I personally faced like a lot during 449 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 4: my Paradise journey, so I think I was just really 450 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,360 Speaker 4: thrown off about that. So yeah, I think that was 451 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 4: that was really hard. And I think our conversation with 452 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 4: Keith and Cathy was also very difficult, And like I 453 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 4: talked about this with Kathy the reunion today, Like I 454 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:51,160 Speaker 4: think she decided that she was voting based on who 455 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 4: she thought needed the money the most, or because we 456 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 4: didn't say that we wanted to start a family. And 457 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,679 Speaker 4: so it gets hard because there's moments where you're like 458 00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,679 Speaker 4: you don't want to have to like plead for your 459 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 4: life if I feel like that's not really the kind 460 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 4: of people that we are. So we're kind of just 461 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 4: like you know, if you guys don't see it, then 462 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 4: like we just we have to you know, like we 463 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 4: have to just step. 464 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 3: Off the break to like our last conversation was with 465 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 3: Keith Cathy as like cocktail party wrapping up and like 466 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,880 Speaker 3: we we're not going to be salesmen, Like yeah, knew 467 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 3: and they knew us as like as a couple, they 468 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 3: wanted us to move forward and have a chance. 469 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 4: Was up to the Yeah, and I will say like 470 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 4: we didn't feel like totally like Alex Andrew, you know, 471 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,959 Speaker 4: they were there for us, like we we all had 472 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 4: a good conversation. So I think I also felt really 473 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:40,159 Speaker 4: confident with that too, just being happy that like, you know, 474 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 4: it's hard, you don't want everyone turning on you. I 475 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:43,719 Speaker 4: think that would have been really rough. So I'm glad 476 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 4: that those people had our back in that, and I 477 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 4: also like, you forget, you forgive, you forget, like it's whatever, 478 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 4: Like we're not mad at them, we get that it 479 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,159 Speaker 4: was a typical difficult decision and when you kind of 480 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 4: like add up adversity, sometimes you're nervous. You don't want 481 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 4: to like it's like you're betting in like a weird way, 482 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 4: but yeah, you're having to bet on who you think 483 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 4: is going to like last the most, and everyone's just 484 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,879 Speaker 4: like throwing it on a different scale. I guess. So, yeah, 485 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 4: it was hard, but I feel like we left happy 486 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 4: and that's all that matters. 487 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:15,880 Speaker 1: Well, that's the final question for the two of you. 488 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 2: You've hinted at your relationship today, you did leave the beach, 489 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,639 Speaker 2: You've talked about your time together, talked about your support 490 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 2: with each other. For listeners out there, for as much 491 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 2: as you want to share as a couple, what can 492 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:31,120 Speaker 2: they look forward to? 493 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 1: Where do you see this going? 494 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 2: Maybe answering the question that everybody's asking, like is this 495 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 2: the real deal? 496 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 1: I think is what people are asking, and you answer 497 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 1: it in any way you feel comfortable. 498 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 3: I will say I've said this to her, like privately 499 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 3: that I've had a few girlfriends in situations, so this. 500 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 1: Is like never a girlfriend. Yeah, I've I've. 501 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,920 Speaker 3: Like truly, like not just saying this, like I've never 502 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 3: felt something like this before. And I feel so blessed 503 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 3: and like I'm I don't get sick of her. I'm 504 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 3: excited to spend every day with her. I don't know, 505 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 3: I'm just so happy o game. 506 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 4: I feel like we're both kind of people where we 507 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 4: just don't like to do anything that we don't like 508 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,640 Speaker 4: to do, and we love spending time together. We love 509 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 4: each other. We're really excited for what's to come at 510 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,400 Speaker 4: the end of this year, you know, hopefully a lot 511 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 4: of time in New York and yeah, you know, bringing 512 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 4: my dog up if she likes it, and yeah, and 513 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 4: we've really done a good job, like we met each 514 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 4: other's families, and I feel like we've had so much 515 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 4: fun this summer, going to Portugal, going to Chicago, going 516 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 4: I've been to New York a ton of times, We've 517 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 4: been to LA So I think hopefully some more aligned 518 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 4: travels at the Ritz Carlton, maybe not camping, but I 519 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 4: do think that I do think that our future is 520 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 4: bright and I feel like We're just really happy to 521 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 4: spend it together. 522 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:56,400 Speaker 1: And yeah, are you moving in? Did I hear that's 523 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 1: the plan? 524 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, to go to China and then come back and 525 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,159 Speaker 4: then see if works and then if you guys, I 526 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 4: think the problem is really just me moving all of 527 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 4: my clothes up to New York. I have an enormous 528 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 4: amount of clothing. 529 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 3: I'm very lucky that I have an apartment in New 530 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 3: York that has high ceiling loft so she can actually fit. 531 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 4: I have a closet upstairs, so I have a place 532 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 4: to hold everything. I think it's like the actual yea, 533 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,160 Speaker 4: get going through it and then getting it up there. 534 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,400 Speaker 4: I think that would be difficult, but I mean, yeah, 535 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 4: we pretty much live together now, so we spend every 536 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 4: moment together. 537 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,719 Speaker 2: So that's amazing. Well, good congratulations to the two of you. 538 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,200 Speaker 2: Thanks for coming on, Thank you, thanks for sitting through 539 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 2: the reunion and answering all the tough questions that were 540 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,199 Speaker 2: throwing your way. Thanks for answering the questions today. 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