1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: Right now it is time to ask the riddlo that 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: is ready to love, Officer and Junior. This is from Philly, 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: you guys ready, Yeah, this is from Phyllis and Southfield. 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 2: Uh, phylis from Philly. 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: Phyllis from Southfield. 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 3: That's right, that's right. 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 4: Uh. 8 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: Phyllis writes, I'm in my late sixties and I've been 9 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:25,800 Speaker 1: living with my boyfriend for eight years. I've never been married, 10 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: so I want a big wedding. We have the money, 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: but he doesn't want to spend it on the wedding. 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: He's almost eighty. What is he saving all that money for? 13 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: What is y'all getting married for? 14 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 4: That's the bigger fell, that's the bigger question. 15 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 5: Sixty and eighty. He want that money to go to 16 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 5: his funeral. He don't want to spend all this on 17 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 5: the wind. He will want you to send him home, right. 18 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 5: He wants the chariot and the white houses, That's. 19 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 3: What he wants. 20 00:00:56,160 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 5: What a nice cast, nice Kathy, that good lying and 21 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 5: in it you time I buying a weed and dress. 22 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: Gill. It's too late for that. 23 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 5: You sixty eighty, y'all need to y'all need to be 24 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 5: traveling a little bit y'all need to be getting out. 25 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: Y'all need to be talking about no big wed. 26 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 5: Y'all go down there to that court house and gonna 27 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 5: knock this out and get it done at the church. Y'all, 28 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 5: y'all ain't got that many friends living that anyway, so 29 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 5: this can't be no big weed. 30 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 2: This inviting folks to the church. 31 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 5: Y'all gonna do this on the list there the morning 32 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 5: about ten p eighty nine people and gonna get this 33 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 5: little winning you at Abernath and they're gonna get out 34 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 5: there and be. 35 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 4: So killos and Abernathi. 36 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 6: Junior sixty to eighty. Let me tell you something, y'all 37 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 6: need to hurry up. Y'all can't be picky. Y'all cannot 38 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 6: be picky me. Y'all ain't got that many friends. You 39 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 6: can't fill up the table. It's gonna be people spaced 40 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 6: aufter this whole room. Fifteen people told him, that's it. 41 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 6: Fifteen at the wedding. At the wedd that include the children. 42 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 3: Oh, they're gonna have right right apart. I got four 43 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 3: people in it, the whole by a part. That's gonna 44 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 3: be so fast. Y'all need to hurry up. 45 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,559 Speaker 6: He's sixty eight. I was like, you said, you're gonna 46 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 6: mess around and it's gonna turn into a funeral. Somebody 47 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 6: gonna go, somebody gonna go. 48 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 2: And sixty and eighty? What you got ain't that one? 49 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 4: Forty? 50 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 3: Stop yall, y'all, ne quit it. I ain't got time 51 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 3: for this, all right, move on, moving on. 52 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 4: Girl eighty? 53 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 3: What is we doing here? Equipment at this funeral? Is 54 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 3: the stimulator? It's tanks. It's so much stuff in here. 55 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 4: Wait? How old is the ring bear green Bayer ring bear? 56 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 3: Sixty seven? Y'all got to get to. 57 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: It, all right, Moving on, I think they got the message. 58 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: Moving on to Dante and Knoxville, Dante says, the buddy 59 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: of mine used me and a lie to his wife. 60 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: His wife called to my wife, and my wife said 61 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: I was at home with her on the night I 62 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: was supposed to be with my body. Now, my buddy, 63 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: see those lies catch up with you. Now my buddy 64 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: is upset with my wife. How do I fix this 65 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: without cursing him out? 66 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 5: Oh, we got to cuss to because my wife ain't 67 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 5: got nothing to do. Just though now you're not finna, 68 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 5: you're not gonna come with my wife. But nothing you're 69 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 5: not finna at all. My wife ain't got nothing to do. Now, 70 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 5: you know, once you get into my family and your 71 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 5: message in my house, I got to make sure my 72 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 5: house straight. 73 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 2: I'm nothing to do this. 74 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 3: With your junior. 75 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, what my all advice is this? So you're finna 76 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 6: get these divorce papers? When of the divorce papers coming, 77 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 6: because I'm you gonna lose your relationship, not me, right, 78 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 6: you can lose your girl. I'm keep in mind. 79 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 3: No, sorry, I'm gonna do this all right. 80 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 4: What did we say about all this line? Uh? 81 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's the wrong type of line. That's not what 82 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 6: me and time to be talking about. 83 00:03:58,240 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 5: That. 84 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 2: There's no right type of there's a very good right 85 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 2: type of. 86 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 3: My wife into the life. You can't do that. That's wrong. 87 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 3: You're not supposed to do that. 88 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 4: Oh so there's conditions and you have to draw the line. 89 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 4: And then he. 90 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 3: Calor line is complicated. 91 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 4: This is thank you. 92 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 3: Have a degree. It takes four years in schooling. You 93 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 3: had to get your paperwork. 94 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 1: He ain't got no paperwork, okay from live university. 95 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 6: Lie, you know, that's that's freshman course. Don't bring other 96 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 6: people's spouses into the life. 97 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 3: That's freshman you don't. 98 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 4: Have one on one all right? 99 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: Moving on to Slinda in Paramus, Slinda says, I I 100 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 1: am dating to find a husband, and I had three 101 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: dates last week. I always tell the guys that I 102 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 1: do not want to have sex or be exclusive. When 103 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: they find that out, they don't call me that. How 104 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: do I get to know someone without sex being involved? 105 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: Interesting question? 106 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 2: Story? What you about doing nothing? I know sex? 107 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:09,239 Speaker 5: I mean. 108 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 2: I don't. 109 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 5: I don't know what? What is wrong with her? What 110 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 5: gonna You're not going to find no husband? Dating three 111 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 5: people every week? And and and and you're telling them. 112 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 1: You don't want sex. She just wants to go on 113 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: a date. That she's trying to get to know people. 114 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: She doesn't want to sleep with. 115 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 2: How many people you're trying to get to know? 116 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 1: Though? 117 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 2: How many people is you trying to get to know? 118 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 4: She's trying to one that one? 119 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, she wants that one. 120 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 4: No she's not, that's. 121 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 3: What she's saying. 122 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 2: She ain't ready to have sex, she ain't ready to 123 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 2: do nothing, just ready. She's just ready to date. 124 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 3: What's her name? 125 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 1: But you have to date in order to find the person. 126 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: What are you guys saying here? 127 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 3: Las stuff? What's her name Shelinda. What's her name? 128 00:05:58,160 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: Her name is Shelinda. 129 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 3: Yes, you finna be single, that's what you're finna be. 130 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 3: You need to get a picked you. 131 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: Because you're gonna be. 132 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 6: You don't say do you do a dog or cat 133 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 6: some because you're gonna be by yourself. 134 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 3: You ain't having sex and were dating. 135 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: She's doing intentional dating. That's what intentional dating is. She's 136 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 1: that Shirley. 137 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 3: If I go over one fifty, there's gonna be some 138 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 3: sex in here. If I've been one hundred and fifty, 139 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 3: somethings gonna have to happen. 140 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 4: You sound crazy? Yes, No, you don't say that. No, 141 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 4: that's no crazy. 142 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 3: What she's going that's three days she got gla. 143 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 2: That's your proud so that. 144 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 5: No, huh, what would you say, spent one fifty on something? 145 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 5: You spend one fifty on somebody, It means something, It 146 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 5: means a lot. No, No, you're not finish. I'm not 147 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 5: spending one fitting you. You've been to get out of 148 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 5: this car and we're not going on up in this 149 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 5: house together. 150 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 4: We got what y'all sound crazy? 151 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: They sound barbaric, They sound like Shovy'll end spent the 152 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: one fifty we. 153 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 3: Did uh huh. And you you try to get cross them. 154 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 3: I'll see you next week. 155 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 2: Now you're not. 156 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:12,559 Speaker 3: You're gonna see me tonight. Where you going. 157 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get my pajamas because I'm coming back. 158 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 3: You see my bag in the back seat. 159 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: That is so wrong. You have sons. That is so 160 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: wrong on so many levels. Yeah, it really is. Yeah, 161 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: you date, you go out again. Yeah you court her, right, Carl, 162 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: And that's the issue. Nobody court. 163 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 3: I go to court for tickets, not for dayton. 164 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: That is not a new concept. It's called courting. You 165 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: court a woman. 166 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 3: How do you think me a time he got married? 167 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: I want you right now, no idea we need to 168 00:07:58,920 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: call them? 169 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 4: Are listening to the stream. Harvey Morning Show