1 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: I also do think that a lot of the criticism 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: of me from certain people are based in homophobia, and 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: a lot of criticism for me from others that that 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: criticism is based in racism. And I'm a big boy. 5 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: And the reason why I am where I am now 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 1: is because I do that, and I keep it pushing, 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: and I keep it real and I keep it moving. 8 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 1: But I am always looking out for the underserved. I'm 9 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: always looking out for women. I'm always looking out for 10 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: black folks. Because if I don't do that, then why 11 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: why the hell am I? That was Don Lemon talking 12 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: about arguably some of the toughest times that he had 13 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: on air at CNN. He is on today's version of Naked. 14 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us. It's the greatest and they 15 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: do and so on today's show we have uh journalist 16 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: friend of the show. Now I I say he's a 17 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 1: friend of the show, Don Lemon. For those of you 18 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: who have been sleeping under a rock and may not 19 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: know who he is. He has been the face of 20 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: news for over a decade, primetime news at CNN for 21 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: a very long time, and I feel as if Don 22 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 1: has covered some of the most important stories that have 23 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: shifted our culture, more specifically in the black community, but 24 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: also in the world. As we experienced four years of 25 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: that president called Donald Trump. I think that was the 26 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,839 Speaker 1: first time that we were able to see a sitting 27 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: president actively go after media members. Uh. He went after 28 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: Jamal Hill, he went after Megan Kelly for different reasons, 29 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: and he actively and still goes after Don Lemon. Like 30 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: in fact, the former president is suing CNN because he 31 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: feels as if they were the reasons why he was 32 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: treated so poorly. Like you, it's freedom of speech. By 33 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: the way, I'm here, here's the journalist coming out in me. 34 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: Freedom of speech that is that is something that we 35 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: are all entitled to, which is why it's hard to 36 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: legislate if you will social media. You can't go to Twitter, 37 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: to soccer mom to five seven and say hey, you 38 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: can't tweet I hate carry. Sure you can, and it's 39 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: freedom of speech. That's just where we are right now 40 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: in the world. UM, in terms of everyone has an 41 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: opinion and they feel like it should be known and 42 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: they can tell you directly how they feel about you 43 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: in real time. And what I have witnessed, um and 44 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: how in which Don Lemon has been treated makes me 45 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 1: sick Um. Early on it was because people, as he 46 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: will talk about in this podcast, felt like he wasn't 47 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: black enough and felt like he really wasn't there for us. Um. 48 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: It's interesting because when you are black and you have 49 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: a platform, you have a responsibility. Whether you realize it 50 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: or not, you just do. You may not even want 51 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: the responsibility. Some people don't really want to embrace the responsibility, 52 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: and the culture will let you know if you're not 53 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: embracing the responsibility. But Don has and he has dealt 54 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: with so much hatred. He talks about death threats he 55 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: received while the president was in office, that Donald Trump 56 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 1: was in office. The death threats were disgusting. He said 57 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: he would walk down the street and people will yell 58 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: hey Ffford to him. And he said a lot of 59 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: the hatred he receives is probably rooted in homophobia. Yes, 60 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: because he is openly gay, but also because he's a 61 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: black man in America. I mean imagine dealing with both 62 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: of those. What some would say would be a stigma 63 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: that really prevents you from being your full self. Well, 64 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: it doesn't prevent Don from being his full self. He's 65 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: on the podcast today talking about what he went through, 66 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: how he got here, but talk a little bit about 67 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: his skincare off the top, because I'm obsessed with good skin. 68 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: But nevertheless, I need you guys to embrace, welcome and 69 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: support Don Don Lemon joining us un naked. I am 70 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: very excited about this guest because one I've admired him 71 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: for years. I'm going to tell him about several interactions 72 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure in which he forgot until most recently that 73 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: we've had where I stalked him. And then I want 74 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: to talk about, um, just your place in culture and 75 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: and and while you probably don't want to hear compliments, 76 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: like most folks on air, we don't receive our compliments well, 77 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 1: but this should should be truth and you deserve all compliments. 78 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,919 Speaker 1: So welcome the naked Don. Thank you, Carrie. You know 79 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 1: I love you and I'm I've I've always rooted for 80 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 1: your success because I love you, but also mainly because 81 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 1: you are so talented. You're one of the most talented 82 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: broadcasters I know. And um, and you receive it right. 83 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: I know you said we hate it's hard. It's hard, 84 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: but I'm taking it. I'm like, give it to me. 85 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: And I have you. You know, I had you on 86 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: my show at night as much as possible. On the 87 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: my short lived show on CNN Plus I had. You 88 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: were part of the first test of that show, so 89 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: my love and respect for you go our endless. I 90 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 1: think it's interesting. I received that. It's hard for me 91 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: to to receive compliment, so then I just get really 92 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 1: silly about it. But thank you. UM here's what I'm 93 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: gonna tell you that I think is really interesting. Both 94 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: of us are always run anyway, and you text me 95 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: prior to the podcast like I'm a few minutes later. 96 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:22,799 Speaker 1: I just have rehearsals. You have a new show coming out. Congratulations. UM, 97 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: I too was late when you were texting me. I 98 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: was putting my hair on. My hair wasn't glued on fully, 99 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 1: and I was like, thinking, minute again, you were not. 100 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: Wait hold on, I'm still doing the interview. Hold on, 101 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: I will just because you can still hear me. People 102 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 1: think like, um, and you're talking about your hair, that 103 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: I glue my hair on, or that I sprinkle it on, 104 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: or that I color it, and none of which is true. 105 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 1: So this is my hair for everyone who watches. It's 106 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 1: not ask as it used to be. But I don't sprinkle. 107 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: I don't every once in a while, use like a 108 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: topic tip for the shine, but not for volume. This 109 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: is my hair and I do not call her, so 110 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: stop writing me on social media talking about my fake hair. 111 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: That's it. Your hair is come back. Because my phone 112 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 1: was saying, my computer, I hope you include this in 113 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: your I am. I am because you're being honest as 114 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: honest can be. Here's what I was gonna say because 115 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: I had to. My computer was dying and I was like, 116 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: don't die on me now, computer, which is steel mate? 117 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: Do Your hair is perfect. No one can talk about 118 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: about your hair at all. You are handsome, beyond handsome. 119 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: You guys. I'm gonna just take two minutes, like in person, 120 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: perfect skin rude. And I said, what do you do 121 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: your skin or what did you say? Oh, coconut oil. Yeah, 122 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 1: but soap and um and coconut oil. But I do 123 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: um in the shower. I keep the you know, the 124 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: coconut oil with the pump jar. Uh huh. As soon 125 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: as I'm done showering, I put it all over everywhere, 126 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: like your body, and that's that's all I do. I'm 127 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: so jealous because it's a facial it's uh, all types 128 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: of exfoliating it's all kind of sunscreen, and you just 129 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: like I just just cocon a wheel and I just 130 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: pop up and I'm just how I am. Um, I 131 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: have two things to ask you, and you have to 132 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: pontificate because I'm gonna get a charge. I mean charge 133 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: the computer while I do it how long? And I 134 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: want to make sure my research is correct. You got 135 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: your college degree at thirty years old. I got my 136 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: college degree when it was in nineteen nineties. Six. Um yeah, 137 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: I was. My journalism professor told me at l s 138 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 1: U one. You know, I wasn't a great student because 139 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: I was having a good time, Like I loved college 140 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: when I started, so I was having fun. And then 141 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know what I wanted to do. I tried 142 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: to be like a lawyer and go into like pre law, 143 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: and then I was like, oh maybe I'll study economics. 144 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: And then because people would tell me that you're not 145 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: gonna make any money as a journalist. And then once 146 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: I realized that, well it just didn't matter what you know, 147 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: the money is, I should do what I love. But 148 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: my journalism professor told me that I would never make 149 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: it as a journalist, and I, um, he wanted me 150 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: to do something that was more suitable for my talent. 151 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: And when I was in Louisiana, like to me having 152 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: him say that, I knew what was happened. I knew 153 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: what was up because the people who were less talented 154 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: than me, Um, he would kicky with them, the pretty 155 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: girls and the blondes, you know what I'm saying. And 156 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: for me, all of a sudden, you know, I had 157 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: trouble editing. Instead of him trying to help me learn 158 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: to edit better, meaning like videotape editing, um, he just said, 159 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: you're not gonna make this, and I'm like, okay, well, 160 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 1: and then I realized in that moment, and that one instant, 161 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: you know, when you had those sort of um life 162 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: defining moments, I realized that I was not going to 163 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: achieve what I wanted to achieve if I stayed in Louisiana. 164 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 1: So very short after that, I left. But Okay, I'm confused, 165 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 1: because if you were you working in this business, give 166 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 1: me your career trajectory. Because I knew I was working, 167 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: you were working without a college degree. That is that normal? Yeah? 168 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: I mean back then, look, look, a lot of the 169 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: people who I respected, a lot of my um of 170 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: the the people that I saw as mentors and people 171 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: who I wanted to emulate, they didn't have some of them. 172 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: They didn't have college degrees. And when I finally told 173 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 1: my news director in New York and when I you know, 174 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: got a job there, um, they told me that I 175 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: didn't need a degree. And I and I knew that 176 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,719 Speaker 1: I had to have that degree because I didn't want 177 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: people saying, well, you got the job because you're black, 178 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:45,559 Speaker 1: you're an affirmative acting high, you're this or that. And 179 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: also I didn't want people to have a reason, um 180 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: not to give me the job. So I you know, um, 181 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,599 Speaker 1: two dollars in my pocket and I loaded up the 182 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: truck and move it really like the Beverly Hillbilly. So 183 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 1: two hundred dollars in my pocket, I loaded up my 184 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: EIGHTI seven jeep wrangler and moved. Without a job, I 185 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: moved into UH an acquaintance as it wasn't even a 186 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: friend their home. Um out of charity, they took me 187 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: in and I you know, helped to pay the bills. 188 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: And then finally I got a job as um Christmas 189 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 1: relief or holiday relief at Macy's and Harold Square UH. 190 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,319 Speaker 1: And then I could find a long story short. I 191 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 1: got a job at Fox five on the Upper East 192 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: Side of Manhattan, working as a trainee in the newsroom, 193 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: making five dollars an hour. It was a six month 194 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: deal that was below the poverty level, and I was 195 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: sub letting a room in the back of someone's apartment 196 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: for three and some dollars a month that I still 197 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 1: could not afford um. And I just worked my way 198 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: up do I could do anything. I started as a trainee, 199 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: which was opening mail, answering phones, getting dry cleaning, going 200 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: to the loading dr grab people's launch, ordering whatever. It was, 201 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: a desk assistant, then an assign an editor, then a 202 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:05,359 Speaker 1: field producer, than a writer, than a satellite spats coordinator. 203 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: I could do everything. By the time I left there, 204 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: I could do everything but carry I would work full 205 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: time and go to school full time. So if my classes, 206 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: if I would take night classes, i'd work during the day. 207 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: If I took day classes, I would work at night. 208 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: And every once in a while I do like part time, um, 209 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: you know, at school and then part time at work, 210 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: depending on what my schedule was. But I was determined 211 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: to get that degree, and I got that degree, and 212 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: I didn't even go to graduation. I had a job 213 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: in Birmingham, Alabama as the weekend anchor. By the time 214 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: I was supposed to put on a cap and gown 215 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: and march across the aisle. Congratulations, and your rise of 216 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: local news is by way of background for folks who 217 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: don't understand it. Everything he's saying. I'm just shaking my 218 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: head and nodding. You can't see. But I'm also being 219 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: real hood and plaguing at my computer while discussing this 220 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: with him. So thank you for being the professional that 221 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: you are because you quit it. Um. But the low 222 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: cool news grind is really hard, and you go and 223 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: you go to small markets and you work your way up. 224 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: And I remember, like you said, when people try to 225 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: kill your dream my very first job in West Virginia, 226 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: a guy told me, you know, very few people make 227 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:13,680 Speaker 1: it to the top ten market, so I don't know 228 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: how long you're gonna do this. And I have like 229 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: a little boy grown as man by the way. Um, 230 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 1: I just hate when people try to kill your dreams. 231 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:26,559 Speaker 1: But there's something about I know every day, even at work, 232 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: even even currently as we speak, as you are, Don Lemon, 233 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: there are people who want to kill the dream are 234 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: the idea of who you are. Um, But I love 235 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: how I know your humility comes from the grind because 236 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: I've been there. But don I think what is interesting 237 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: that I've watched and I've witnessed, and I'm gonna use 238 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: the word I've been using it a lot, is the 239 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 1: word evolved. When you first came on the scene in Atlanta, 240 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: I was working at the local CBS station, maybe CBS 241 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 1: forty six. I think you were hired around the same time, 242 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: or maybe a little bit before t J. Holmes. I 243 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: remember you, yeah, but everybody was like, look at these 244 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: two dope black men they just hired. At that time, 245 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: it felt very special. It felt different. And you guys 246 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: are on the end, yes, yes, working in your own world. 247 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 1: And I remember thinking, God, I am so excited to 248 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: see you rise. And then at you know, journalism conventions, 249 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: I'd run up to you and harass you. You and 250 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: I hosted a few things together, and I know you're 251 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: you were really busy, but you went from this person 252 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 1: where I think you were yourself, but then you got 253 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: really authentically yourself. Talk to me about your relationship with 254 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: the culture, because at one point people were just mad 255 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: at you black folks was mad at you, and then 256 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 1: we turned around and was like, oh, don with the ships. 257 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:46,559 Speaker 1: But it's interesting because I just had a conversation at 258 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: UM CO produced a documentary with Gary Cohen and others 259 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: on Colin Kaepernick and in away, Colins sort of faced 260 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: similar situation. When Colin started to stand up. There were 261 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: people who were like, WHOA wait a minute, He's the 262 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,439 Speaker 1: last person we thought who would be standing up and 263 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: who would be doing these things. I think a lot 264 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: of the times, UM, we don't allow our own people too. 265 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: We don't give him a freedom to be all of 266 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: who they are. Uh. And you take a moment in 267 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: time and you you use it to judge someone's entire 268 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: career or entire existence and entire being, and that is 269 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: unfair because we don't do that to our white counterparts. 270 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: Let's just be honest and so um Uh I understood, 271 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: and I understand more than ever now what I mean 272 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: to the culture, because you know, we just did an 273 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: ad week thing for my new show UM Today in 274 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: New York and it's I mean, people address their like 275 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: they address other members of the media, and even my 276 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: colleagues like, oh my god, I love watching it. It's great, 277 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: it's great, it's great. But you know how people address me, 278 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. You step 279 00:14:58,040 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: up for us, you're standing up for us. Thank you 280 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: for holding my hand during the pandemic. Thank you, thank you, 281 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: thank you. And that means more than oh I love 282 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: watching you. That's great, right, that's vanity, but the thank 283 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: you part is deep. So um look, I think that 284 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: um we uh, my white counterparts are allowed to be 285 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: journalists and to just be truth tellers without carrying the 286 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 1: weight of the culture on their back and on their 287 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: shoulders and fair not I do, And you know, I 288 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: accept that it was hard in the beginning to you know, 289 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: be able to um do things to to give a 290 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 1: perspective and a point of view and then have my 291 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: own people like you know, judge me and yell at me. 292 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: But ultimately, um, people come around. And if you can 293 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: come around, and if you can um by the fashion 294 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: and the sneakers of someone who says that, um, you know, 295 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: slavery was a choice by black people, then you can 296 00:15:55,680 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: come around to a journalist who's uh tasked with telling 297 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: the truth and informing people regardless of their ethnicity or 298 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 1: sexuality or whatever. So um uh so I think that's 299 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: where I stand. I also do think that a lot 300 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 1: of the criticism of me from certain people are based 301 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 1: in homophobia, and a lot of criticism for me from 302 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 1: others that that criticism is based in racism. And I'm 303 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 1: a big boy. And the reason why I am where 304 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: I am now is because I do that, and I 305 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: keep it pushing, and I keep it real and I 306 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: keep it moving. But I am always looking out for 307 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: the underserved. I'm always looking out for women. I'm always 308 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: looking out for black folks. Because if I don't do that, 309 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: then why why the hell am I here? Yo? My 310 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: entire ethos about how we move? Uh. Three things that 311 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 1: you're pointed out. One, I think it's disgusting that people 312 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: can't appreciate for you and I know, appreciate who you are. 313 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: Homophobia is real. I think it's even more difficult for 314 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: you to be in a position you are in and 315 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: be openly gay. I I read that you wanted to 316 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: come out because of a kid who ultimately was outed 317 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: by his roommate online and then committed suicide. I'm sure 318 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: there were other reasons, but maybe that was there was 319 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: the reason. That's why I dedicated my book too. Yeah, 320 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:16,879 Speaker 1: and it was all those things were happening, um when 321 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: I wrote the book. But I don't mean to cut 322 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: you off, but um, that was one of the reasons 323 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 1: that I that I thought it was okay to be 324 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: able to come out. Yes, well, bravo to you. I 325 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: know it's difficult. There are people when I see people 326 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 1: in today's world who still feel like they have to hide. 327 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I've been in this business for a very 328 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: long time. I used to have mentors. I used to 329 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: have guys that I love working with, women I love 330 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 1: working with, but they would live this lie. They would 331 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 1: have to pretend they were in a whole another world. 332 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: And I understand that. But when you came out, how 333 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: much freedom did you feel, no matter how much pushback 334 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:53,120 Speaker 1: you had. Oh my gosh, it was amazing. I mean, 335 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,239 Speaker 1: listen to the sense of autonomy that I had, just 336 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 1: the sense of autonomy that it gave me. And whether 337 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: you know, this particular career or worked out, or that 338 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: move to coming out publicly, whether it worked for me 339 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: in a positive way career wise, didn't ad ultimately didn't matter. Um, 340 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 1: it did because I think it made me a better 341 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 1: human being. It made me a better journalist. It made me. 342 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 1: It gave me more authenticity and more autonomy. And you 343 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,199 Speaker 1: know when people say, you know you're kind of feeling yourself. 344 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,360 Speaker 1: I started to really come into my own. That's why 345 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: you said you were real and then you really became real. 346 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 1: So um so um. It almost didn't matter because I 347 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 1: was free. And when you had that sense of freedom, 348 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 1: you're like, well, I am free to do this, and 349 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: if this doesn't work, then I am free to do 350 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 1: something else. So whether if it was a journalist or 351 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: working at a fast food place or um, you know, 352 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: being a car salesman or whatever it was, I was 353 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: going to be successful because I was free. And that's all. 354 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:57,120 Speaker 1: That's all it meant to me. By the way, that's 355 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 1: a proverb. I was going to be successful because I 356 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 1: am free. All gonna take that is quote? All right, 357 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 1: more with don after the break, do not go anywhere 358 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 1: fast forward. Mama has to pay bills, every champion and 359 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 1: care every champion is to be a champianta champion and 360 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:15,879 Speaker 1: carry chappion and carry chappianta chappion and carry chappion and 361 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 1: carry chappionis and sports and then the same make and 362 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 1: make it work very chappion and carry chappion is to 363 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 1: be a champianta champion. They carry chappi and they champion. 364 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: They carry chappion and carry champion sports. And then the 365 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: same make and make it warm. So then you you 366 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: talk about your show, don Lemon, your your show in 367 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 1: the primetime or evening rather late evening, um was everything 368 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 1: you you do, know what you mean to the culture. 369 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: But there there are very few talents that become musty TV. 370 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: And so this is what I'm talking to you about. 371 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 1: This hard work that you did in local news. Then 372 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 1: you grind your way into a position this wonderful inco position, 373 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 1: and people feel like you're prim and proper. Then you're 374 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: fully freely yourself. Right then we get to watch you, 375 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 1: which I believe is appointment viewing, and hopefully it stays 376 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: that way on New Year's Eve. But your show at 377 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 1: night is also that I'm I'm here for It's funny, 378 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 1: it's a reminder that we can have this platform and 379 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: really be ourselves and um, and it's hard to be 380 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,199 Speaker 1: naked and be honest with who you are. You have 381 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: this transition with this new show. You're doing rehearsals. Tell 382 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: me what people can expect from this new show as 383 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 1: opposed to what we were able to see with Don 384 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 1: Lemon tonight. Okay, so listen, and people are thinking, if 385 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,159 Speaker 1: anyone is thinking, let me disabuse any one of the 386 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:46,159 Speaker 1: notion that Don Lemon is somehow gonna be um A, 387 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: if it's gonna be a sort of sanitized version of 388 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: the Don Lemon that was on at night, then you're wrong. 389 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: So let me disabuse you of that notion, um And 390 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: so listen, I won't have to. I think that primetime news, 391 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 1: especially in cable, has become tribal, right, and it's become 392 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: like everyone fighting, and there's a night fight every single night. 393 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 1: You're like, okay, so had I grown tired of that? Yeah? 394 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:15,399 Speaker 1: I did a little bit. But the reason that I 395 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 1: chose mornings is because you cannot you within that format, 396 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: you do not see Don Lemon in full effect. So 397 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,880 Speaker 1: you will see the Don Lemon that you see at night, 398 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 1: that who challenges people, who holds people to account, who 399 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 1: gives people the leeway to be who they are and 400 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 1: say what they want to say. And also with that 401 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 1: sometimes comes the rope to hang yourself right, and so 402 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 1: you will see all of that, but you'll also see 403 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: me smile a lot more. You also see that I 404 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: have more latitude to elevate the conversation. If I did 405 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 1: not think that this was a good move where someone 406 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 1: was trying to sanitize me or quiet me in any way, 407 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 1: I would not have done this. I did not have 408 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 1: to do this, and that is hard for people to understand. 409 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:06,360 Speaker 1: Why are you going from nighttime to daytime? Well, I've 410 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: done it for eight and a half years and it 411 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 1: has been successful, and I didn't have to. The reason 412 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: I'm doing it is because I think there's another place 413 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 1: for me. There's a different audience for me, a bigger audience. 414 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 1: People at night aren't gonna forget about me because I'm 415 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: not there. They're gonna They're gonna see me on CNN. 416 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: I'll still be there some nights when they are big 417 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: nights and they are election nights that there's big breaking news, 418 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: You're gonna see me there. But I have this opportunity 419 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 1: in the moment and in the morning to be able 420 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 1: to shape the editorial direction of the network and therefore 421 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 1: shape the editorial direction I believe in the country. Because 422 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 1: it will get picked up media, other media will pick 423 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,199 Speaker 1: will pick it up. Social media will pick it up. 424 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: So the things that Don Lemon used to say at 425 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,719 Speaker 1: night as the last bite of the apple of everyone 426 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: who had done the news all day, you had seen 427 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: the news, I will now be the Don Lemon who 428 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 1: gets to say it first in the morning, and everyone 429 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,240 Speaker 1: else will get the bite at the apple that I've 430 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 1: already bitten off of. Do you see what I'm saying? Listen, 431 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,679 Speaker 1: you get to set the tone for what the news is, 432 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,120 Speaker 1: the news of the and so I want to get 433 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: there and be able to do that. And I also 434 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 1: want to be able to smile, and also want to 435 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: be able to laugh. And I also want to be 436 00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 1: able to talk about my wardrobe. I also want to 437 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 1: be able to wear a turtlenecks in the morning. I 438 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:18,879 Speaker 1: also want to be able to wear jeans in the 439 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: morning and not wear a necktie. And and to to 440 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: like wake up with people and say have you thought 441 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: about this? Meet today? Maybe this is what you should 442 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: be thinking about. Have you ever thought about this? Maybe 443 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: instead of like saying here's what I think at night. 444 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: And it's like, I know you've seen this on Anderson, 445 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 1: I know you've seen it on Aaron. I know you've 446 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: seen this. I have to take. Yeah, now it's like, 447 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: here's my take. Okay, Jake Wolf Anderson, go for it. 448 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: I've given mine. I've met and you're doing the show 449 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:52,399 Speaker 1: with Poppy and I met her when I came in studio. 450 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 1: I think maybe during the Serena Williams um when she 451 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 1: was retiring, and Poppy was like, you know, Don's my 452 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 1: best friend, He's one of my closest friends in I 453 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 1: was like, I love Don, but who doesn't Mike, who doesn't? 454 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 1: And yeah, well yeah they don't, you know, yeah, you know. 455 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 1: But I felt like that was going to be a 456 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 1: good rapport and a good relationship. I'm asking for advice 457 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:21,400 Speaker 1: though you are very teflon literally teflon, Don, When does 458 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 1: it get to be too much? I literally think it 459 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 1: happens to all of us, Like when you and you 460 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 1: are consistently trending, you'll tag me and something and it's 461 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 1: like it's it's people are in my d ms for 462 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: three days or in my messages for three days mad, 463 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: And I'm like, what how does that deal with this? 464 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 1: I know you don't see it anymore because it's impossible 465 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: to see it, but there is a time in your 466 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: career and probably still now people are vocal about how 467 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 1: much they dislike you as you walk down the street. Yeah, 468 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: and they come for me. Um. Well it's I mean, honestly, 469 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 1: you know, it's weird even though it's tough, and people 470 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 1: hate criticism and you hate people hating on you, especially Look, 471 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,040 Speaker 1: it really hurts when when you're all people when I 472 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: own people do it, I'm like, come on, but I 473 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,680 Speaker 1: expect the racist to do it. I expect the biggest 474 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 1: to do it. I expect the haters to be like 475 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 1: I expect that. Um. But it's actually, you know, it's 476 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:15,479 Speaker 1: a it's actually, um, kind of the best position that 477 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: you can be in media because people um for people 478 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 1: to love you and hate you, especially in cable news 479 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 1: because people hate watch you and they love watching and 480 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: the haters actually and the conservatives who talk about me 481 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: in ways that I'm like, I don't know who this 482 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,959 Speaker 1: caricature of a person that they are a character is, 483 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 1: but okay, have at it. They are my biggest pr agents. 484 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't have to pay for press because they are. 485 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 1: And people are like, well, I'm like, I don't say 486 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: what they want to say because they are so normally 487 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 1: if I'm on, um, you know, just sort of traditional media. 488 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: It's fine, but I would never have that exposure and 489 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 1: conservative media if it wasn't for my haters. Yeah, they 490 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,880 Speaker 1: would never never have that that that exposure and sort 491 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: of bro culture media. Yeah, they love to hate me, 492 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 1: they love to talk about me. So fine, thank you 493 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 1: very much to ching to the bank smiles. Yeah, you're like, Hi, 494 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: I'm gay while you are here being rude and talking 495 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: all your trash and miserable. I get it. You don't 496 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 1: have to here's my advice to you, Carrie. You don't 497 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: have to read it and you don't have to respond 498 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,639 Speaker 1: to it because the next day they're onto someone else, 499 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: they're onto something else. So just let your haters hate. 500 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,360 Speaker 1: And if you don't, you know that saying it's true, 501 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: if you don't have a thousand or whatever or a 502 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 1: million haters a day, then you're not doing it right. 503 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 1: So you're not winning. You know what's concerned about you? Yeah, 504 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: it does. It does weigh on you. I mean it 505 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: did start to weigh on me because especially at night, UM, 506 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 1: social media becomes so toxic. UM. Cable news had um 507 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: in that format for me. I'm not saying this for 508 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,159 Speaker 1: anybody else, any of my colleague they're thriving. You know, 509 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: Anderson is an icon. He's been there forever. So is 510 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: Aaron Um and whoever it is that that takes over 511 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 1: for the times that I was in. But for me, 512 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: I would be lying to you if I if I 513 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 1: didn't tell you that it was starting to get to me, 514 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 1: to become toxic, and I just didn't every single night 515 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: want to oh my god, everything is terrible. Blah blah 516 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Everything is terrible. But I think there's 517 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 1: a different approach that can be taken, and that's one 518 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,199 Speaker 1: reason that I'm doing what I'm doing. So Donna, I 519 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 1: like that you're making it clear you left because it 520 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:36,679 Speaker 1: was on your terms. People are suggesting that there was, 521 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 1: you know, because everyone thinks they know everything, that it's 522 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,679 Speaker 1: not what you wanted and and now you have to 523 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 1: do mornings. But I the way I looked at it 524 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: was like the morning's needed you, you know what I mean. 525 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 1: That's the way I looked at it as someone who 526 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 1: watches and has been there. I'm not saying that other 527 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: people weren't great. I'm not saying they but they needed 528 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 1: a spark. I mean, because this is about ratings and 529 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: we want to compete. It makes total sense to me 530 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: that so they would put you there, and you would 531 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: want to be there because you're going to give them 532 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 1: New Life CNN in the morning. New Life, Yes it's there, 533 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 1: but why not battle with the other morning shows? Even 534 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 1: though that may not be your your But this is business, right, 535 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 1: This is this is what we're talking about. This is 536 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 1: the business of ratings right. But also it's listen, it's 537 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 1: not even just about ratings. Again, I can't be clear 538 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 1: that this obviously it was my choice, Like I mean, 539 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 1: do you think have you ever known me to like 540 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 1: walk away from something and I'll be pushed out of something? 541 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,360 Speaker 1: Or if it if it's indeed it did happen, they 542 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,159 Speaker 1: were trying to push me out and give me that, 543 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say something. I would just say it on 544 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: the air like hey, even this is Don Lemon tonight, 545 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: and you need to know that there are forces or 546 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 1: whatever trying to that's that is who I am. And 547 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: then I would suffer the consequences for saying that. So 548 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: do you not get it twisted? It's like the old 549 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 1: um what's his name? I forget? If your producers can 550 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,479 Speaker 1: remind why can't I think of his name. You got 551 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 1: you got to know one to hold him, no one 552 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: to fold him, no one to walk away, no one 553 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: to run. Yeah in the table, that's exactly yeah. I 554 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 1: was like, well, this is an opportunity for me if 555 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: they're asking me to do this, and let me see, 556 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: let me, let me sort of gauge this. This is 557 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: the Networks president who is a morning show guru who 558 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 1: started Morning Joe and um CBS this morning. This is 559 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: the first thing that he's asking me to do out 560 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 1: of the gate, his first big initiative, and he wants 561 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 1: me Um okay on that level, duh. On the other level, 562 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 1: this is an opportunity for me to actually stay at 563 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 1: the company that I'm staying and not have to actually 564 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: walk away and start away at a new company and 565 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: um and and and and deal with the politics, have 566 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: a new company and do something that is completely different 567 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 1: than what I'm doing. That's that opportunity, not more. You 568 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 1: have to go out on your own, try to keep 569 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 1: yourself relevant through social media until you build something on 570 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 1: your own and then bring back. An audience is a 571 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 1: built in audience, built in salary, built in opportunity. It's 572 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 1: like it's it's a no brainer right, and so it 573 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: makes perfect sense to me. I'm like, yeah, great, I 574 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 1: love it. Move them, put them, let's watch. And you're right. 575 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: I gotta tell anyone who is out there listening, as 576 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 1: you know, if you don't take risks, if no risks, 577 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 1: no reward, he said. I just I literally, I was 578 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: just having this conversation. I am doing a new show 579 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: on Amazon. It's my show is called Carrie Champion on Sports, 580 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 1: and I'm still working at CNN as well, but I'm 581 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 1: looking for a producer and it's a Monday through Friday 582 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: show and so many people are afraid because it's new, 583 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: and I was like, I gotta take risk. I gotta 584 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: start a new company. I don't want to. I'm tired 585 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: of the grind of building myself and keeping myself relevant. 586 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 1: Like you said, it's a grind, let me go, says somewhere. 587 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 1: I'll do it like I'm done. Let me make it easier. 588 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 1: So I totally get what you're saying. I do believe, though, 589 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 1: don more than ever today and especially since you, I 590 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: think you and many other I did it when I 591 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 1: was at ESPN. Jamal did it. Um you know, you 592 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: see Tiffany Cross and jewlry you doing it. They are 593 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: such an onus for people who are black to be 594 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 1: on air and speak their truth, and they're still feels 595 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: like there's such a pushback from the powers that be 596 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,000 Speaker 1: for trying to win over people who just don't want 597 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 1: to be won over. And by that I mean the 598 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 1: the and I don't even want to get into the 599 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: political aspects of it, but the moderate, the person who 600 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 1: Dr King said, is the most dangerous. Those who don't 601 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 1: show the empathy, or don't speak up for us, or 602 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 1: who stay quiet while they're watching what's happening in our 603 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: society today. We didn't We didn't fill in the gap. 604 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: How difficult is it for you to to know that 605 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 1: this is every day I sit in this chair and 606 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 1: let an issue come up of race, I'm gonna say something, 607 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be attacked, and I don't necessarily know 608 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: the people who are in control of this company understand 609 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: where I'm coming from. How uncomfortable does that make you feel? 610 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: If at all? Um it is? But I've learned to 611 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: live in discomfort because the people who came before me, 612 00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: their whole mission was to disrupt other people's comfort. That's 613 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 1: what the whole idea of protests in the civil rights 614 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: movement that was, that's what protests are all about. It 615 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 1: is disrupting people's comfort to get them to become aware 616 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 1: of an issue. Otherwise people get too comfortable and it 617 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 1: becomes status quo. So um, I have been especially you know, 618 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 1: I said, who knows how long this is going to last? 619 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 1: Who gets these opportunities? And so while it is, that 620 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: is the space that I've chosen to operate. And and 621 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 1: when I get too comfortable, even as I got too 622 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 1: comfortable at night, I think about it and I look 623 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: at myself and I say, maybe you're a little bit 624 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:40,480 Speaker 1: too comfortable. And if that does that look like when 625 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 1: everything is like going great, when you're not being a disruptor, 626 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: when you're going along with the status quo, and the 627 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 1: status quo is not necessarily great for everyone. And so 628 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: just because I'm doing well, it doesn't mean other people 629 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 1: are are are doing out. Doesn't mean that I shouldn't 630 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: stand up for other people. When I am doing well, 631 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: and when I am in that degree of comfort where oh, 632 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:10,239 Speaker 1: this is all great, that means that I need to 633 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 1: focus more intently on helping others who aren't getting to 634 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 1: live where I am, and quite honestly, in a position 635 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 1: of privilege. I am in this position of privilege because 636 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 1: I was able to live in discomfort and fight to 637 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 1: be able to get here. And so once one milestone 638 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,720 Speaker 1: is achieved, then you move on and you do another milesone, 639 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,400 Speaker 1: and another mouth someone and another mouth soon, and you 640 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 1: keep moving yourself out into discomfort as you see fit 641 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: right as much as you can take. And then pretty 642 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: soon that becomes the norm and you realize, Okay, well 643 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 1: this wasn't so bad, so now let me break this boundary, 644 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 1: let me crack, put a crack in this glass ceiling, 645 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 1: let me try this. And so I'm in a position now, 646 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: quite honestly, where I tell everybody what it is like. 647 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 1: Even my producers now feel like this is great, and 648 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 1: I just look at and saying this is not gonna work. 649 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 1: You can try it, We'll try it. But then you're 650 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 1: gonna have to know when to cut your losses, because 651 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 1: after a while that you keep pushing for something because 652 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:12,440 Speaker 1: you think it's gonna work. You think it's gonna work, 653 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: and keep pushing. I know it can Workingna, Sometimes in 654 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 1: the beginning you know this ain't gonna work, and so 655 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,520 Speaker 1: why don't now before we get too involved in It's 656 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: like a relationship when people say, we're not gonna so 657 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 1: before this just keeps going on, at least move on. Yeah, 658 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 1: have conversations with people who are in high positions of 659 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 1: authority every single almost every single day. So to think like, 660 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna sit there and and interview a 661 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:44,239 Speaker 1: president of the United States or other country or you know, 662 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 1: Ukraine or wherever whoever it may be, or a dictator 663 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 1: or a desk but whatever it is, and then I'm 664 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 1: not going to hold the people account to account who 665 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,280 Speaker 1: I work for. I mean, you've got another thing coming 666 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 1: that that's I do what I do? Amen? And what 667 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 1: and what what a privilege that you have created and 668 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 1: you have set the tone for I often say being 669 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 1: the first isn't easy, and you are one of the first. 670 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,800 Speaker 1: It's just not easy. I can't I I can't underscore 671 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 1: enough though for people who are paying attention, you are 672 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 1: pure joy when I see you, like and I don't 673 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 1: know you have bad moves, and I know you can 674 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:20,480 Speaker 1: be mad at somebody, but the way you treat your staff, 675 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 1: the way you talk to people, it's unheard of in 676 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 1: our business with people who have something about when they're 677 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: red light comes on, it turns people into egomaniacs a 678 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 1: lot of times. And the the privilege that you have 679 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 1: and the privilege that you demand is two different things. 680 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 1: And I totally appreciate you for that. Thank you. I 681 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 1: love in a state of gratitude. Everything you do, you do, 682 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 1: you stay pleasant, pleasant. Every champion and care every champion 683 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 1: is to be a champion, a champion and carry champion 684 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:49,320 Speaker 1: and carry chapion a champion and carry chappion and carry 685 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:58,280 Speaker 1: champion sports. And then the saying connected work, carry champion 686 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 1: and carry champion is to do what's bring out a champion. 687 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 1: They carry champion and they champion and they welcome back 688 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 1: to Naked. Don Lemon is here with us and we 689 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: get into what I what I think is the best 690 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,359 Speaker 1: franchise that he's a part of. That is the New 691 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 1: Year's Eve Special on CNN. If you haven't watched it, 692 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 1: please tune in set you DVR so people still do 693 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: that because it is good. Don Lemon back on Naked. 694 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,800 Speaker 1: I do want to get into something that just gives 695 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: me and and and this is a friend of yours, Jamal. 696 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 1: It brings us so much joy after every New Year's 697 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 1: Eve special. We spend the morning looking at your clips 698 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 1: and we laugh. We A little own secret that I 699 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 1: will share with our listeners is that when we were 700 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 1: going to work at CNN Plus, we've tried to get 701 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 1: in our contract that we do the New Year's Eve 702 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,840 Speaker 1: special with Don. Like we literally requested that. That was 703 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: something that Jamale and I were like, if only we 704 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,759 Speaker 1: could do that, Like that was gonna give that, just 705 00:36:55,960 --> 00:37:00,080 Speaker 1: give us life, That's all we wanted. Like we did it. 706 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 1: This is the truth, this is what I'm laughing. They 707 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 1: were like, we can't guarantee that you can show up, 708 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, no, if we're drinking our show, 709 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 1: we want to drink with Don. And they were like, hey, 710 00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 1: you know the human hat, which I get. And my 711 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: agent was like, I can't. I just don't think we 712 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 1: can get that to work, and and so on and 713 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,280 Speaker 1: so forth. And I'm all like, well, that sucks because 714 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,279 Speaker 1: you have you understand the franchise. I even came back 715 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: and talked about it on the podcast. Do you understand 716 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 1: the franchise you've created with that New Year's Eve show 717 00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: and the joy that you the literal joy you bring us. Okay, 718 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 1: thank you for that, But talk about discomfort like I 719 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:43,359 Speaker 1: wake up every New Year's Day and go, oh I knew, 720 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:48,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god, everything right, you did everything right. Here's 721 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,719 Speaker 1: the thing. A lot of that is I'm actually not 722 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: probably drinking as much as people think. Am I having 723 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 1: a good time? Yes? Am I, like you know, space drunk? No, 724 00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 1: I mean it's a lot of the same drink carrying around. 725 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 1: It's me, it's my personality coming out. I can be 726 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,840 Speaker 1: the life of the party without being drunk. You know 727 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, I don't think you're drunk. I 728 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 1: just love that you're just as when I say the 729 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,239 Speaker 1: freest you're at home talking like it's me and you. 730 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 1: It's like, I love every moment of it. Thank you, 731 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,279 Speaker 1: And I hope that the new regime understands that I 732 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,360 Speaker 1: would love to be able to continue that franchise because 733 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: I feel like if it's the one night of the 734 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 1: year where everybody can be who they are, everybody can 735 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:28,760 Speaker 1: show a personality, everybody can be human. Is New Year's Eve. Listen. 736 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:32,000 Speaker 1: As long as there's not, you know, a war going 737 00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:36,040 Speaker 1: on or something some sort of crazy serious news story, 738 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: then why not Journalists are people too? We have fun. 739 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,760 Speaker 1: We like to, you know, party on New Year's Eve 740 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,680 Speaker 1: and the whold country. I think it's a great time 741 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 1: for people to go, Ah, this year was hard or whatever, 742 00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 1: and I'll take a drink and celebrate the that it's 743 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 1: over and let's toast the new year. And you do 744 00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 1: it well and it doesn't take away from your credibility. 745 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,759 Speaker 1: But what it is is pure joy. And I don't 746 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,600 Speaker 1: care what anyone says. That is a time and we 747 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,879 Speaker 1: can laugh and have a good were We deserve that 748 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,319 Speaker 1: as a country, and you are providing us with so much. 749 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,280 Speaker 1: It was legit in our contract and they were like, hey, 750 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,400 Speaker 1: we can't. We can't guarantee the special. They were like, 751 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,440 Speaker 1: we don't know what that looks like. There's so many 752 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 1: people who want to do the show. I was like, 753 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,560 Speaker 1: this has become and they do doesn't even understand it. 754 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 1: It's like musty TV. Because I ain't nobody doing. You 755 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 1: get past certain a drein doing that. No New Years 756 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 1: are You're traveling at all? You have? Yeah, I don't. 757 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,439 Speaker 1: I ain't going out. I know how to get drunk 758 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 1: in the house, so I but that's what we had 759 00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,879 Speaker 1: we had talked about and then in my mind, I said, 760 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,800 Speaker 1: I really appreciate because you know, because you're not trying 761 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 1: to give us, You're you're not even trying to be extra, 762 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 1: You're just being. And I'm like, this is really You're 763 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,839 Speaker 1: just being You're just beating, and I'm like, I'm here 764 00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,840 Speaker 1: for all of it. Um. I do say this though, 765 00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:52,920 Speaker 1: and I and I mean it. I don't want to 766 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,400 Speaker 1: get too emotional because I know you've got to go 767 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,080 Speaker 1: in a few I'm giving I'll get you out of 768 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,839 Speaker 1: here in a few minutes. I don't like the way 769 00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,960 Speaker 1: you are treated. Don't like the way that you're bullied online. 770 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,840 Speaker 1: And while it doesn't bother you, and while you have 771 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 1: been able to handle it with so much grace, I 772 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 1: do want to make it be known that I think 773 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 1: the culture and the community and yes, our folks have 774 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 1: your back, but I do think we need to be 775 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:18,279 Speaker 1: more vocal about how we support you. Um, because no 776 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,520 Speaker 1: one deserved to be jumped on TV every single day. 777 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 1: No one deserves to be called gay, or the effort 778 00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 1: or all the things that no one deserves to be 779 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,960 Speaker 1: attacked genuinely because you're just trying to do your job 780 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,799 Speaker 1: and I understand why, but we are this country as 781 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 1: you have eloquently said, is more racist than ever openly racist, 782 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: rather because it's always been there, but more openly racist. 783 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,680 Speaker 1: And you have been able to persevere in spite of 784 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: there's not one person who would think that you were racist. 785 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 1: There's not one person to say okay. And there's this 786 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 1: thing of well he's pro black, Well what's wrong with that? 787 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 1: If you are? So? What? But I I am also 788 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 1: these other things. I have lived much life. I am 789 00:40:56,080 --> 00:41:00,160 Speaker 1: also in addition to being this, that is well, Um, 790 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: how would even if you don't ask for what does 791 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:06,480 Speaker 1: support look like for you? Besides the thank you? Well, 792 00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 1: it would be great. Look, I'm not how do I 793 00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,759 Speaker 1: say this without sounding like an egotist or because you 794 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 1: said like I don't care if you have me or not? 795 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,319 Speaker 1: I mean I do. Look, it's nice. It would be 796 00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 1: nice to get your flowers while you're alive. You know 797 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Um, There's hasn't been anyone I don't 798 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,120 Speaker 1: think that has been in the position that I'm meant 799 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:30,359 Speaker 1: to hold Um a show uh in cable from time 800 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:31,640 Speaker 1: in the way that I did. I don't think there's 801 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,680 Speaker 1: anyone in history that's done yet. Um. And but no 802 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 1: one there's not an acknowledgement. I do think this is 803 00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,719 Speaker 1: a weird thing. I don't know if you but I 804 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:45,239 Speaker 1: do think that there is you know, like I'm not. 805 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,319 Speaker 1: I don't know should I say this, say it? And 806 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,880 Speaker 1: if you don't like what I say, okay, So I'm not. Like, 807 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 1: I do think there's some like light skinned sort of 808 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 1: thing that Alan Kaeperni have to deal with, Like people 809 00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:59,880 Speaker 1: don't think that I'm black enough, and then when I 810 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 1: you know, when I am, you know, because to the 811 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,279 Speaker 1: people who don't like black people, it doesn't matter what 812 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,880 Speaker 1: he of black you are. Um. And also like, you know, 813 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm not you know, maybe I'm not. I feel like 814 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 1: sometimes I don't people don't think I'm urban enough, and 815 00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 1: so they don't view me as necessarily being black enough, 816 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 1: which is a little bit weird to me. But whatever, 817 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:26,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's fair enough. But that's I 818 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 1: think about that. And um, so I think that I 819 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 1: perhaps get my flowers in real time if that were people, 820 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 1: if I was browner and more urban. But I'm not 821 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 1: going to change who I am or what I am 822 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:46,840 Speaker 1: because I'm looking to get, um the acceptance or approval 823 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 1: of anyone. I don't care who that is, by the 824 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 1: way beautifully said, and and and everyone at one point 825 00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 1: of their in their lives, especially if you're black with 826 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,440 Speaker 1: a little bit of success, always has to answer question, 827 00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,360 Speaker 1: am I black enough? Or has? We must prove ourselves. 828 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,359 Speaker 1: This the only culture that penalizes you for success. Um, 829 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 1: and we gotta work on that. Don Lemon, thank you 830 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 1: so much for joining me on Naked. Go back and 831 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:12,959 Speaker 1: make some money so that I can come and visit 832 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:16,440 Speaker 1: and hang out with you. Okay, that's it. Yeah, well, 833 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,359 Speaker 1: I look, I I wanted to give you thirty minutes. 834 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 1: It's been thirty minutes. I I you gotta get back 835 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 1: and go to work. I didn't want to harass you. 836 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 1: We want you on the morning show. So I have 837 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,400 Speaker 1: to figure out how to do that. And when it 838 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:31,279 Speaker 1: starts November one at six am, So please tune in 839 00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:32,960 Speaker 1: and you guys, tell me you know I can. I 840 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,279 Speaker 1: can take it. Tell me what you think, Tell me 841 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:35,719 Speaker 1: you think it could be better. Tell me what you 842 00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:38,960 Speaker 1: think that we should scrub, that we should do or 843 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:40,960 Speaker 1: what have you. But I would love to because of 844 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 1: our chemistry. I'm gonna try to get you into do 845 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,120 Speaker 1: a test. I would I would love it but even 846 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:48,759 Speaker 1: more importantly, I'm supporting you. I'm so damn proud of you. Um, 847 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,840 Speaker 1: I have nothing but great things to say about you. 848 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 1: And I also know what it takes to do what 849 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 1: you do, and not necessarily that I've had that at 850 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,880 Speaker 1: that level, but I know what you have to maneuver 851 00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 1: and deal with day in and day out, and you 852 00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:01,960 Speaker 1: handle it with so much grace and so continue to 853 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:06,279 Speaker 1: be grace and class sonofy. Thank you, thank you. That 854 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:11,200 Speaker 1: goes right back at you. Okay, thank you, thank you, 855 00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,120 Speaker 1: thank you for having me on your So here's the 856 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 1: biggest takeaway for those who watch CNN and think Don 857 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 1: is being demoted and moved to mornings. He has said 858 00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 1: it is his choice. On this podcast. I'm hearing for 859 00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,919 Speaker 1: the very first time it is his choice. Management didn't 860 00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:28,480 Speaker 1: come in and say we tied to you and you 861 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,400 Speaker 1: did this and there's a scandal surrounding him leaving his 862 00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 1: own show at night. In fact, he was told by 863 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,759 Speaker 1: new management, the new president of the network, who has 864 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 1: created great morning shows, we need you. We need you 865 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 1: in the morning. It's that simple, because now it gives 866 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,600 Speaker 1: you an opportunity to do something that you haven't done 867 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 1: thus far. In your career. And he went into the 868 00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 1: night because he wanted to, not because they made him. 869 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,520 Speaker 1: And he did say that he would have made it 870 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,399 Speaker 1: really crystal clear, like he's very transparent. Um, hey, this 871 00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,360 Speaker 1: is what happened, and I'll pun intended. He has a 872 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 1: book called Transparent, right, but he's very transparent about what's 873 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:04,920 Speaker 1: going on. And we would have known if this was 874 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,800 Speaker 1: a forced move. It's his choice, and I congratulate him 875 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:13,120 Speaker 1: for for making his own choice and really ignoring the critics. 876 00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:14,719 Speaker 1: He's been able to do that in a way in 877 00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:17,799 Speaker 1: which I can only appreciate from Afar, because I'll be 878 00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:21,240 Speaker 1: he says, don't respond, I'd be like yo, mama, yr mama, 879 00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 1: and your daddy, my old child, yourself, always talking about 880 00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 1: somebody's parents. Meanwhile, I asked that we continue to support 881 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,200 Speaker 1: him because what he's doing is probably more difficult than 882 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 1: any of us really understand. I know how tough it 883 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 1: is to walk into a corporate situation and battle just 884 00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:39,359 Speaker 1: to say two or three words on television once a week, 885 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,800 Speaker 1: and then you turn around and you pick up your phone, 886 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,799 Speaker 1: and then you're battling people who are saying you're not 887 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,359 Speaker 1: doing enough for the culture and you are this, and 888 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:50,439 Speaker 1: you are that. It could wear you down, It could 889 00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:53,160 Speaker 1: break you down mentally. And I say this over and 890 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,920 Speaker 1: over again. His spirit is so light and easy, probably 891 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,480 Speaker 1: because he's making money. But at the same time, I 892 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 1: don't care who you are after while some of that 893 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 1: stuff will just take you out. And thus far has 894 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: not support Don Lemon, regardless of your political affiliations. Support 895 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,919 Speaker 1: people who work hard and who got it from the mud. 896 00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:14,400 Speaker 1: With that being said, support Naked and me and my staff, 897 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,239 Speaker 1: and we appreciate you. We'll be back next week.