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Speaker 1: Ready fine, four three two?

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Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? It's your girl next.

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Speaker 1: Peak any sure? Girl? Drey in the call and you

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Speaker 1: are tuned in to another episode of poor Minds, where

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Speaker 1: a drunk line speaks sober thought, what's up? Since you

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Speaker 1: look nice today? You know I was going for a

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Speaker 1: little jazz club.

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Speaker 2: Look. You know how they be like, oh yeah, all

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Speaker 2: what you want?

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Speaker 1: My baby?

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Speaker 2: You know you feel.

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Speaker 1: All black? Mommy?

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Speaker 2: Yes, what you been up to this past week?

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Speaker 1: I just being chilling the usual. You got a job,

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Speaker 1: I'm working. No, hell no, I work for me.

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Speaker 2: I know that's right.

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Speaker 1: I don't do Johns bitch.

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Speaker 2: I am a.

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Speaker 1: But now, yeah, I've been like working on some shit

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Speaker 1: that I got comeing to okay or whatever. And you're

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Speaker 1: not working on minds. That's good. You having a productive week.

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Speaker 1: I didn't do shit this past week. I know that's right, Queen.

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Speaker 1: I haven't been doing shit. I went to Miami last week.

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Speaker 1: I was fucked up for the entire week. You know

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Speaker 1: what's crazy. I really feel like I had a great time.

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Speaker 1: I pulled so many bedbs it's really crazy.

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Speaker 2: Like at this point, I feel.

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Speaker 1: Like it's a gift. It's really a good Yes, like

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Speaker 1: I don't even have a bdb meg. I don't even

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Speaker 1: have to try. No more like, I really do not

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Speaker 1: have to try. I don't have to go out and

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Speaker 1: look for him. I remember there was a certain time

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Speaker 1: in my life. I used to like go out and

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Speaker 1: be like, damn, what a rich niggas ad?

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Speaker 2: What a nigga dad?

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Speaker 1: Really? Yeah, like I used to be looking for him,

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Speaker 1: I did, you know what I'm saying. But now it's

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Speaker 1: just like I know when I go out, they gonna

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Speaker 1: find me. And they definitely found me. So you've been

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Speaker 1: talking to him, I've been talking to one. I mean

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Speaker 1: he cool. It's it's too early to tell, but I

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Speaker 1: mean he has only been a week.

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Speaker 2: I mean he already gave me some money, so that's

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Speaker 2: a good thing. You know, that's a good sign.

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Speaker 1: So always always.

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Speaker 2: Love to get the coins up front.

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Speaker 1: He put a down payment on that, so I think

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Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna go back soon and see what he's talking.

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Speaker 1: He lives there, Okay, I thought maybe he was like,

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Speaker 1: you know, how's the d two? Well, the other one

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Speaker 1: I met, he he lives like he has a bunch

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Speaker 1: of different places, different areas, but that's the one. You're

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Speaker 2: This is why this this is the topic that we're

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Speaker 2: going into.

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Speaker 1: Okay, today, I wanted to talk about curving bdb's because

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Speaker 1: not every time you meet a BDB, just because a

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Speaker 1: nigga got money does not mean you need to fuck

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Speaker 1: with him. I agree. So I love to carve bdbs.

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Speaker 1: What is the reason?

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Speaker 2: What is the reason you would carve a BDB?

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Speaker 1: I mean carving niggas. Wait before we get into this conversation.

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Speaker 1: I know we do have some new listeners, and y'all

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Speaker 1: ask us what does a BDB all y do? A

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Speaker 1: BDB is a big dick baller. Okay, all right, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: So I be carving bdb's for a lot of different reasons.

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Speaker 1: H they be lame, being number one, the most prominent

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Speaker 1: reason is because they be lame. Like, I don't care

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Speaker 1: Like money does not unlame you, right, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? Now you just the lame ass nigga with

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Speaker 1: the money, right, used to be a poor nigga with money.

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Speaker 2: Now you're.

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Speaker 1: Like, you know what I mean? Like I said, money

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Speaker 1: don't make you not lame. And a lot of these

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Speaker 1: And then a lot of them be be I don't know,

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Speaker 1: no good conversation, right, you know what I mean? The

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Speaker 1: them timeing. I hate niggas like that who braggy. Especially

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Speaker 1: if you braggy and you ain't d shit, Why the

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Speaker 1: fuck you bragging to me about what you got? I

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Speaker 1: that's usually, honestly, the main reason why I have BDBS.

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Speaker 1: I had to curve somebody that's been in my DMS

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Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, trying to see what

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Speaker 1: too quick, and if you get what he's saying, Like

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Speaker 1: he said something like I had posted something. I think

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Speaker 1: he said something like sit on my face or something

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Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't even know you pussy

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Speaker 1: on me. Don't be running? Do you want to die? Nigga?

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Speaker 1: You ain't seeing Garfield, He don't know, sit on your

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Speaker 1: face that's a death wish. Niggas don't know, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just feel like if you're too overly sexual in

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Speaker 1: the first like few conversations we have were not there

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Speaker 1: yet poopool Like I don't like that, Like stop saying

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Speaker 1: always go off of what you own the void. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they off what you own. Like if I'm not being

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Speaker 1: like you should be being sexual with me, don't say

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Speaker 1: no sexual right, because don't get me wrong, we ain't

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Speaker 1: even fucking so why are you talking to me about

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Speaker 1: saying right? Because, don't get me wrong, I am very

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Speaker 1: very horny. I don't have that. Bro. We all know

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Speaker 1: that I'm very horny. But the thing is, niggas be

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Speaker 1: being sexual with you because honestly, niggas don't really be

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Speaker 1: doing this for me. They do, but I didn't even

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Speaker 1: say nothing. But I'm horny for who I want to

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Speaker 1: be horny for. Like, just because I talk crazy and shit,

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Speaker 1: you still gotta respect me all my life. I'll be

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Speaker 1: seeing them clips on you talk about eating They like.

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Speaker 2: Let me slave to get my salad talk tonight.

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Speaker 1: But I just be like, don't get me wrong, I

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Speaker 1: I'm still a lady, y'all. You're gonna respect be all.

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Speaker 1: So my thing is okay. So let me tell you

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Speaker 1: about what happened to Miami. And it goes back to

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Speaker 1: you talking about niggas being braggy. Okay, it was just okay,

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Speaker 1: like you said, you don't like when Guy's bragg was

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Speaker 1: trying to think about it was it was a I

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Speaker 1: know y'all saw me in a lambo. I was in

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Speaker 1: so you know, it was cool. We met him at

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Speaker 1: We was throwing money this and that. But it got

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Speaker 1: to a point to where he was just like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm a good nigga. I'm a good nigga. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: take care of you. I'm gonna spoil you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: And then it was just like he started telling me, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I flew my homegirl on her friends out to like Mexico.

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Speaker 1: I paid for everything they all out there. Okay, it

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Speaker 1: was like, he kept take what he does for the people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just bought my homegirl of Rolex. Okay. He just

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Speaker 1: kept telling me the things that he's done for everybody

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Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, I took one of my homegirls

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Speaker 1: was like eight hundred dollars. I said, oh, yeah, I've

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Speaker 1: been there. I went when I went to Dubai, Like,

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Speaker 1: stop trying to stunt on me, Like, let's bring this

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Speaker 1: too braggy. It's always weird to me too. It's like

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Speaker 1: I am in my late twenties, Like you think I

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Speaker 1: haven't done this shit.

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Speaker 2: I am thirty one.

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Speaker 1: I I haven't done this shit already, Like what the fuck?

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Speaker 1: Like I can understand maybe if we was like twenty one, right,

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Speaker 1: and that's my thing, you know what I mean. We're

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Speaker 1: a little seasy. I am very season, bitch. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: give your ass hot blood pressure fucking with me. This

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Speaker 1: is a lot of salt sodium, bitch. This is a

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Speaker 1: lot of fucking season and hope. So, I don't know

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Speaker 1: why you talking to me like that. I am I

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Speaker 1: am a salt bas so why is you playing with me?

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Speaker 1: Stop it?

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Speaker 2: Stop it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I hate that type of sheit too, because it's like,

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Speaker 1: who gives a fuck about? I don't care what you

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Speaker 1: do for other people? That's one thing about me. She

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Speaker 1: your bros and all these other house I don't gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about another that shit, what are you going to

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Speaker 1: do for me? Then you can get the fuzz. And

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Speaker 1: then he was kind of being a little sexual with me.

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Speaker 1: He was just like rubbing on my thigh and just

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Speaker 2: He was like, ooh girl, what you mix with?

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Speaker 1: And I hate that. We talked. We both hate that.

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Speaker 2: He was like, oh, what are you mixed with? Because

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Speaker 2: you know I have my hair up, half up, half down.

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Speaker 1: I gotta leave out, and it was like curly, and

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Speaker 1: like it could be my hair. It did. But stop

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Speaker 1: acting like black girls can't have long hair. Okay, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know, I look at chopping, you know, when a

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Speaker 2: He was like, what you mixed with nigga?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's really weird when guys do that and think

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Speaker 2: That's not a compliment.

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Speaker 1: It's not no compliment for you to be trying. I

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Speaker 1: feel like black women look exotic. Black women are exotic,

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Speaker 1: don't matter where they're from. Like that's just how we look.

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Speaker 1: We're a beautiful group of women and being men looking

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Speaker 1: exotic and being good. But everybody is exotic if you talk,

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Speaker 1: if I'm talking to a nigga from fucking Italy, I'm

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Speaker 1: exotic to him. Exotic means somewhere out of the country, right,

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Speaker 1: Exotic means it's somewhere foreign. America is foreign to Italy.

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Speaker 1: So if I'm talking to an Italian nigga, he gonna

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Speaker 1: think you I'm exotic. Everybody is exotic. Everybody is exotic? Okay,

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Speaker 1: how what is exotic? What's the definition of exotic? Google

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Speaker 1: it real quick? Let me google it real quick, because

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Speaker 1: I feel like everybody is exotic to somebody by definition. Right.

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Speaker 1: But I think when people talk about I think what

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Speaker 1: stay that to us, we're talking about physical features, all right,

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Speaker 1: But the definition of exotic is originating in or characteristic

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Speaker 1: of a distant foreign country, right, I agree. But what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying is I don't think that that's the context

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Speaker 1: of how niggas be. Meaning they.

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Speaker 2: Need to educate themselves because I'm exotic.

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Speaker 1: But like, but that to be well, no, well that

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Speaker 1: done with that. In the Christmas Peaches mixture, bitch, I

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Speaker 1: I don't know like these niggas be laming, especially niggas too,

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Speaker 1: I got five K for you. It's this one niggah.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about I love when you sp a little

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Speaker 1: About to be no t it's this one nigga that

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Speaker 1: five K for you. Well right, he like, I got

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Speaker 1: cause he probably don't. You know you look at you.

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Speaker 1: You can tell about the aesthetics whe a nigga. And

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Speaker 1: Plus I feel like niggas who really got it, Like

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Speaker 1: I literally have never fucked with a BDB who really

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Speaker 1: But in the beginning was just talking so many rights

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Speaker 2: Oh no, when you eat or the side of Benjamin.

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Speaker 1: Benjamin's Okay, now I'm lying because it's not open r

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Speaker 1: being against Ryan because I'm just thinking about Jay from

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I am dead, so yeah.

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Speaker 1: So yes, there is situations where you have to curve bdb's.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times if a nigga is too bragging,

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Speaker 1: like a lot of times these men they do have money,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. No, I disagree because a lot of the

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Speaker 1: wasn't about to how many conversations are we gonna have

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Speaker 1: was talking about his businesses a little bit. But I

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Speaker 1: the other BDB was cool.

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Speaker 2: He was more laid back. He took us to the club.

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Speaker 2: Like we turned up. We was popping bottles like he

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, send.

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Speaker 1: You Yeah, he sent me some money in so I

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Speaker 1: Like we He was cool. He was cool. He don't

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Speaker 2: I said that, I'm coming back to this motherfucker.

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Speaker 2: So the second BDB I man, he was lit.

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Speaker 2: We had a good time, and he kind of hood too.

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Speaker 2: You know that's different for me. I don't really like

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Speaker 1: Different for who For me, I don't really.

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Speaker 2: Like hood niggas.

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Speaker 1: I know that's right, Queen. I love when having nick too.

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Speaker 1: You just got it in a little moment I did. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I remember it was this one nigga that went to

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Speaker 1: was sou Fine because he had this tattoo on He's me.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say what they said because then I

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Speaker 1: Fine because we was like sixteen and he had these

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Speaker 1: bless him.

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Speaker 1: What was the next topic you said you want to

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Speaker 1: talk about? Because I know one thing about Drea is

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Speaker 1: when we go eat dragon, order the whole left side

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Speaker 1: of the menu. No, I don't, Yes you do. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you be ordering like that, not like but you do that.

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Speaker 2: Whether you're on a date by yourself with me, you

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna order like what I'm going to eat with.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about finishing your food on while

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Speaker 1: getting a little to go play. How you feel about that? League.

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Speaker 1: First of all, my nickname is big Mama bitch. The

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Speaker 1: fuck you think I'm about to do? I just have

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Speaker 1: I mean, whether you on a first day, second day,

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Speaker 1: whole plate, beach, eat yo halo plate, that nigga gonna

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Speaker 1: I'm ordering some crab. Man, I'm about to bust them

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Speaker 1: all down. I'm about to give me a little steak,

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to order all that shit. I'd be hungry.

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Speaker 1: I am hungry. I'm hungry, ass bee, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I be hungry as fuck too. So it's like I'm

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Speaker 2: If I don't finish it now, I usually do finish

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Speaker 1: I don't never, but you know, I never really finish

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Speaker 1: all my food half the time. When I finish my plate,

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Speaker 1: they'd be like, we don't even gotta run this through

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Speaker 1: But like I said, I feel like if a man

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Speaker 1: It's a it's natural we eat. We're humans. I don't

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Speaker 2: Be so cute.

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Speaker 1: You already cute. You made it to the day, y'all

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Speaker 1: on the day he.

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Speaker 2: Already think about to say.

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Speaker 1: I wonder why women be feeling like it's not okay

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Speaker 1: you know what. I feel like we are where women

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Speaker 1: just go above and beyond to impress men. And you

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Speaker 1: think this nigga care if he eat all his food?

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Speaker 2: No, hes about to eat all his food.

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Speaker 1: And he gonna get a to go play for his wife?

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Speaker 1: Was that a slug because he don't begin to go.

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Speaker 1: He'd be with me for the weekend? Bro chill, chill,

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Speaker 1: he was not. But if the shoes okay? But no,

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Speaker 1: I feel like we live in a time where women

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Speaker 1: these men a lot of times. But you have to understand,

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So, yeah, look nice dress up,

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00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:15,560
Speaker 1: but you being there is this is his audition and

432
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:16,440
Speaker 1: that's how I look at you.

433
00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:18,800
Speaker 2: Impress me. I'm the one you want.

434
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,560
Speaker 1: Men love to chase, and I need women to understand

435
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:27,200
Speaker 1: that women do. Like some women just not realize that

436
00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,280
Speaker 1: because they've never been chased or would. It's like niggas

437
00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 1: love to chase be cheese. Yeah, if it's too easy,

438
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,960
Speaker 1: niggas don't be one me for real, Like, if you

439
00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:42,640
Speaker 1: throwing it at them, he don I feel like I'll

440
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,840
Speaker 1: be trying to give a little free game, right, you

441
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,440
Speaker 1: know what I mean. If you're throwing it at a nigga,

442
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,280
Speaker 1: he's definitely gonna hit it. But if it was too

443
00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,399
Speaker 1: easy to get, it's nothing that's gonna keep him around, right,

444
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:53,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. You gotta let a nigga

445
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 1: chase you because that's what men is supposed to do. Right.

446
00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 1: They're the ones who's supposed to be pursuing you, not

447
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 1: the other way around. You know what I mean, You're

448
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,200
Speaker 1: not living to impersonality, right. But I also think as

449
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 1: far as you know, when you ordering food at a restaurant,

450
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 1: also eating your food and doing all that is not

451
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,399
Speaker 1: a personality trait. What do you mean? Of course not well,

452
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 1: because a lot of girls, a lot of some people

453
00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 1: think like, oh yeah, I'm a big bitch, I'm about

454
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 1: to eat all my food and I'm gonna do whatever.

455
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 1: Like that's not a personality trait, Like just eat your food.

456
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times people think it's like, oh,

457
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 1: it's cute and it's funny because I'm gonna order all

458
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 1: this food and I'm gonna eat all this food.

459
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying. Does that make sense?

460
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 1: Like they think it's like like they think it's you

461
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 1: know how like no offense to any of the white

462
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 1: women that listen to this show, but you know how

463
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 1: white women they feel like it's a personality trait. They're like,

464
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,160
Speaker 1: oh my god, I drink a bottle of wine a day,

465
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 1: Like they think like that's a personality thing, Like oh

466
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 1: my god, I love pizza and wine. So down to earth. Well,

467
00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:51,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've never i mean I've never looked

468
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 1: at it that way. No, but that's how they are. Yeah. Yeah,

469
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 1: So like you know, that's how white women are there

470
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, I eat pizza and I drink wine.

471
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,680
Speaker 1: I'm cool, I'm the soccer mom. So sometimes I feel

472
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 1: like women want to be like, yeah, I eat, I

473
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 1: eat on the date like I'm real, I'm down to earth.

474
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,119
Speaker 2: I eat like sin.

475
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,120
Speaker 1: It's just eat your food. Just eat your food. It's

476
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 1: not a personality trade. Just order your food, order what

477
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: you want, and have a nice dinner and enjoy yourself.

478
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 1: You should not be going home hungry because you're trying

479
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 1: to be cute. That's all I'm saying. Why would you

480
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: go home hungry when you want today? Because some women

481
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: do do that. That's wildest fun because maybe I'm about

482
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 1: to order whatever the fuck I want to period we

483
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: run over, That's what I'm saying. Like when we go

484
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 1: out to eat, we gonna get our appetizer. You usually

485
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,919
Speaker 1: get a appetizer. I get one. We eat that, then

486
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,919
Speaker 1: we get our entrees. We order and drinks.

487
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 2: Every time we go to what's your mcauughy, usually get

488
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: a bottle of wine.

489
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,639
Speaker 1: What's the del Friscos love to get a bottle of

490
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 1: line because it's cheaper.

491
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,240
Speaker 2: Honestly, you know, sometimes.

492
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 1: The bottle I'm not gonna lie. If I'm going to

493
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 1: like a steakhouse, especially fucking with me and my wine.

494
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,159
Speaker 1: You know I love my shod and a If a

495
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 1: nigga is taking on a meat on the day, you

496
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 1: better order a bottle. It's gonna be cheaper because the

497
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,919
Speaker 1: glasses be kind of expensive. And you know they got

498
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 1: the six outs of the eight ounce. Maybe I'm gonna

499
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: get that ounce. You a hope that im asked for

500
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:21,479
Speaker 1: a double two. You better just order that bottle eight ounce. Bet,

501
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: don't give me that pole the house twenty four even

502
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 1: right when they say twenty four, So I'm not talking

503
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 1: about my wrins or talking about my state niggas twenty

504
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 1: four hours. Hell yeah, And I wanted I wanted the

505
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: crab top and what the yeah with the little crab,

506
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 1: and I'm getting the lobster mac and cheese. Lobster. You

507
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: gotta get the lobster mac and cheese, the cream spinning

508
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 1: little Brocco Leni, little oyster to start off with in

509
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: a bottle.

510
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, like I'm ordering it up. I

511
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 2: got to get the crab. It's gonna but that bitch down,

512
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 2: and you know I'll be excited when I'm about to eat.

513
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 1: You too. I started hugging a. Yeah.

514
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 2: So I feel like this is how I eat on

515
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 2: my own when I go out with my friends.

516
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna change just because I'm trying to

517
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 1: be nice, Like I'm not doing me a nice. I

518
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: feel like if a nigga asked me on a date, well, okay,

519
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,120
Speaker 1: curtious about what I'm ordering. And this is a good point.

520
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm glad you said that, because some people feel like

521
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 1: when you're going on a date with a man, you

522
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: need to be considerate about what.

523
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 2: You ordering and not do too much.

524
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I will say this, I do feel like

525
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: these though I'm not gonna lie. I feel like if

526
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 1: you go out to eat on your own and you're

527
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: gonna be ordering the double lobster tells in twenty four

528
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: hounce steaks and she then you don't need to be

529
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 1: doing it when you go with it. I agree. In

530
00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: a little extra, I agree, I definitely a hundred. That's

531
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 1: what you used to and that's what you do on

532
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: your own. Why the fuck I'm gonna be cartiers just

533
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 1: because I'm on a day with these niggas. Yeah, I'm

534
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 1: not order everything all the time. So like I said,

535
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm a big bitch. If you asked me on a day,

536
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: you should already know what's up. I'm going to eat,

537
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm going probably gonna get a bottle. So you don't

538
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 1: want that ship to be ring the fuck up, don't

539
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: you will? If you have a problem, you're not a

540
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: bad b though, if you have an issue where a

541
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: girl just ordering whatever she wants. I can't I remember, Okay,

542
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: I do remember I was saying, I can't remember the

543
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 1: last time I went on a date with a nigga

544
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: and he was like tripping off of what I ordered.

545
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: I do remember. It was like three years ago and

546
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: I had went on a day with this nigga. We

547
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 1: went to the Optimists and I forgot what I had.

548
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: I just ordered a whole bunch of sheet. But like

549
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: every time I would order something, he would be like, dang, damn,

550
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: you order some more sheet. Yeah, and I'm a gonna

551
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: order another drink, so I'm dead. And then I kept

552
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: ordering and she but then like when it be O came,

553
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: he was just looking at little Nervyes he was with

554
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 1: him again, right, but he was a little nervy. I

555
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: remember one time, I imagine dating a nigga like that,

556
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: for real, for real, like where I gotta like monitor cautious,

557
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 1: will be conscious of what I'm ordering. I remember when

558
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: I first moved out here and we went to brunch

559
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: that time, and your date had to go somewhere, and

560
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: then my date had to pay the tab and my

561
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: date was so mad about it, like he was making

562
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: such a big fucking deal. It's like, bruh, it's not

563
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: that serious when neither one of them was giving BDB energy,

564
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:38,400
Speaker 1: Not at.

565
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 2: All, not at all. But it's just when I be

566
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 2: thinking about stuff like that, it's like, who cares?

567
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 1: It's not that serious, But it's not that serious. Whos

568
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: like it? Knew? What type of nigga is you to

569
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: be pressing your friend about seeing you some money? Big?

570
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: Oh the broken nigga. We wasn't even at dinner. Nigga

571
00:26:55,920 --> 00:27:01,200
Speaker 1: we was at was a little French hole, mamma post

572
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: little turkey sauce. I said, Oh, can I get the

573
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: wall for all one chicken? You're getting chicken too, Yeah,

574
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: they gotta get chicken. Brunch is literally the cheapest brunch

575
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 1: is the cheap until you start ordering them. Well it

576
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 1: was Bottommosa's, wasn't it. I don't remember I don't remember either,

577
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: that was so long ago. And plus I think I've

578
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 1: just erased both of the niggas out of my mental

579
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: roller decks. Oh not the mental roller decks. I love

580
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: when you use your big words. Was a smart bit, girls,

581
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 1: come on, let me hang it a roller decks. But yeah,

582
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 1: I just I think I've tried to delete both of

583
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: them niggas because the bad times, bad fucking times. Okay,

584
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: so now we're gonna get into the by baby. Aw Now,

585
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: before we get into the bed, tell the girls what

586
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: you been doing to keep your bad bee's hooks. You know,

587
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: I've been taking my little pills or whatever. Okay, every

588
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: day I take to a day. My taste to vita

589
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 1: means y'all need to make sure that y'all get y'all

590
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 1: something changes the taste of your vaginal secretions. It's all

591
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 1: natural and it's for me and women. So you can

592
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 1: get your niggas some too, so he can be tasting realm.

593
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 2: You got that yum and yump now yum and yum

594
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 2: now yump dance so you can get.

595
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: Your nigga some too. And like I said, it's all natural.

596
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: It has strawberry powder, pineapple powder, cinnamon powder, star bursts

597
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 1: and motherfucker amen. So yes, don't forget to use your

598
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: cold poor mine's ten and check out and get you

599
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: one of these counts. We're gonna put the link in

600
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: the description. Okay, So today I wanted to talk about

601
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: Hotel six ha ha, getting men at the whole tell

602
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: mope tail holiday in the holiday inn. Oh no not

603
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: the he said, not, Oh okay whatever? So do you

604
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: like have a Hotel six? Now? Why? I mean any cool?

605
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 2: It's just a p I love hotel saying, because I'd.

606
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: Be like, not everywhere, not on these walls, not on

607
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: the lamp, not on the dress. So and guess what,

608
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: I ain't got to clean that ship up. I'm about

609
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: the bus bus bus on. I'm about the bus it

610
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: on the figure out either Why in the fun what

611
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: you mean telling the nigga to nut on the walls?

612
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: Why not? Why not not on me?

613
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 2: I mean we can we cannot anywhere about.

614
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: To take some news to think about. I'm not gonna say,

615
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: well on me, yeah you can not on me, but

616
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna be nothing A lot of times. Obviously, we

617
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: in the hotel. We stayed wherever we at for a

618
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: few hours. Balcony six, you do like balcony six. I

619
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: was just.

620
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 2: I'll put my eyes on the bat.

621
00:29:56,080 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: O. God, that nigga has some good ass dick. He

622
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 1: was so lame. I was like that nigga was he

623
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 1: was seen it though.

624
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 2: He was beating that ship up.

625
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 1: I said, all right, bro, I seen you, bro, Bro, Bro,

626
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: he was beating that ship up.

627
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 2: I said, go dragon.

628
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 1: Of y'all. Really and truly she was mad.

629
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: No, I know, because you know what she said.

630
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: She felt violet.

631
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 2: I did feel violated.

632
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: I seen that little pussy busting off and I said, oh,

633
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: then I see his booty cheeks was clapping. I said,

634
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: this is too much, this is too much, just too much.

635
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: I had a rough day. That's I was real, real, bro,

636
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: thank you for anal. I know.

637
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: I grabbed my said, I got my personal left said.

638
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: What the funk would I can't back inside?

639
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 2: I said, leave.

640
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: Lex, Oh my god, I was in the text or nothing.

641
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: I had to go. I seen too much booty hole.

642
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 2: I said, no, thank you.

643
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: But no, I love balcony sick. So yeah, if we're

644
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: staying at a hotel and we have like a beautiful view,

645
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: we can definitely get with something. But I'm thinking I

646
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: like hotel sex, Like honestly, I like it because it's like,

647
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like it's just a different scenery.

648
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm, yeah, I don't have I can

649
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 1: funk ship up.

650
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 2: Like I'll be in there fucking ship up.

651
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: Just be taking the cover off of pillows for no reason,

652
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: get this ship off here, just for no reason, hanging on,

653
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: hanging on lins, I just be doing everything, just ripping

654
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: the phone off the wall while you do that. I

655
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: don't know. It's like I feel like you could just

656
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: really cut up in a hotel and it just doesn't matter.

657
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: Like have you just had like some crazy ass six

658
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: in the hotel that you didn't have like that you have.

659
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 2: I have crazy sex anyway, But I feel like, you know.

660
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: After I'm talking about like Nick's level, so where it's

661
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: different from if you doing it at your house or

662
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: no it's not, it's not. But I'll say this like

663
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: the next morning now, like I got some dick the

664
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: other night after the party, and it's like when I

665
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: woke up the next day, I was just like, oh

666
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: my god, my room was a mess because everything be everywhere,

667
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: Because I mean I move around a lot during sex,

668
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: like we be going on the corner of the bed.

669
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: I got a dresser, Like my dress is big, we

670
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: go on the dresser and stuff. So things were just miscombobulated.

671
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: So the next morning I wake up and not only

672
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: do I have to cure myself for my hangover, but

673
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: I also.

674
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 2: Got to clean up my room.

675
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: So I feel like I can act the ass in

676
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: the hotel room. We can just leave, go the brunch,

677
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: go to breakfast, and it's gonna be clean, and it's

678
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: gonna be clean when I come back. So I ain't

679
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: gotta be a maid. But not these days, because you

680
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: know they be only cleaning your room every two three days.

681
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah at the hotel. Well, you know you have

682
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: to call and request it all you gotta call and request.

683
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: So I'm be like, come clean this nut up? Girl? Ah?

684
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: Why was your loop? Shevery like this? Because I'm so yes,

685
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: hotel sex is a go for me, just because, like

686
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: I said, I don't have to clean up after myself.

687
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: I mean only reason. I mean, don't get me wrong,

688
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: it's nothing wrong with Hotel six, but for me, it's

689
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: just kind of like to me, it's the same, it's

690
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: the same. It's fucking my house. I mean it is,

691
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: but like I said, I don't like yeah, but no,

692
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie though, Like I mean, but fucking

693
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: at a nigga house, I do be kind of feeling bad,

694
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: like when I be squirting on their sheets and stuff.

695
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: You don't feel bad, bie bees. We have a hell

696
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: of fucking sheets since changed the house. While you come,

697
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: they do, they do, like we have a hell of sheets.

698
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: So now I don't ever feel bad you feeling like

699
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: a water bed in that hole surf surf. But yeah,

700
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: I just feel like Hotel six is cool, Okay, Okay, Now,

701
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 1: like I said to me, it's just kind of the

702
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: it's just whatever. Yeah, not unless we like somewhere anxiety

703
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: like me exieting. Yeah, like, no, that's not really I'm exotic.

704
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 2: I told you the definition.

705
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: What do you mean out of the country.

706
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 2: I'm out the country to an Italian man. So like

707
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: in Italy, in.

708
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: Italy and we have like a beautiful, crazy ass hotel

709
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 1: room looking at like some ship like that hotel sets

710
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 1: this next level. But here in the States, like who

711
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,360
Speaker 1: gives a fuck? Ire I go every time I go

712
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: to like stay at a hotel in America, it just

713
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: be kind of like okay, cool whatever, not.

714
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 2: Me, bitch, I just be happy to be there.

715
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: Like I stayed at a nice ass hotel a few well,

716
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 1: we're not even a few months ago. It was like

717
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: last month or whatever. And I mean it was beautiful,

718
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 1: but it was just kind of like, Noah, bitch, i'd

719
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 1: be excited, rock, I'll be excited. And I got some

720
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: deep too. It was good, but it just wasn't all

721
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: different if I would have sucked him at his house. Yeah.

722
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: I just be excited to be out of town, that's all.

723
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: I'll just be happy. The hotel sheets be white. You

724
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: gotta make sure you wipe your makeup off. Oh, I

725
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 1: don't be wiping nothing off them hotel. Them sheets be brown. Really,

726
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: I don't give up.

727
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 2: I don't give up.

728
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: It's like I said, I'm at the hotel. I'm not

729
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: at home, nigga, I don't give sme on my eyebrow

730
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 1: be all the pillar I get up as lashes, a

731
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: mouth print and an eyebrow print.

732
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 2: They'd be like, oh, Lex stage, like lexp is here again.

733
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, bitch, I'm here. I'm here, so yes, Hotel sex

734
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 1: is a go for me. Let me know if y'all

735
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 1: like Hotel Sex or is it just me because I

736
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: like that ship. I like that ship. It's cool. So

737
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: now we're gonna get into the bop dub a. Oh

738
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: I got a good bop this week. So first of all,

739
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 1: did you already make the Bryson Tailor and Drake song

740
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 1: your bop?

741
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: You did, didn't you.

742
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 1: I finally decided to listen to it, because you know,

743
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 1: I don't really listen to a lot of like I

744
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 1: guess mainstream stuff too much. But I finally listened to it,

745
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 1: and it's actually a really good song. So shout out

746
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: to you the one on out of Time album.

747
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, out of Time.

748
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: I finally listened to it, and it's actually really you

749
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 1: say you had never listened to it before, because I

750
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: listened to Brice until Her a little bit, like I

751
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: like that in Hell song he had. But I don't

752
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 1: really listen to like mainstream artists like that. I really

753
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: don't like when I'm at home, like you can see

754
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 1: like all these are just like indie artists, Like I

755
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: really don't listen to a lot of Okay, so anyway,

756
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: a lot of indie music. Yeah, So my bop of

757
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 1: the week is an EP by Eda Bond. It's called

758
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: two meters apart. This is a white girl, y'all, and

759
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: she can sing her ass off. I love a good

760
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: whitey that can sing. I don't think so it's them

761
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: British white women. See they do. And see everybody wants

762
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 1: to give Adele the door, but that's not forget. It

763
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 1: was Joss Stone that walked so Adele could run, you know.

764
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:00,479
Speaker 1: But Joss Stone was before that, No, she will. Amy

765
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: wine House was before it is. But that's what I'm saying.

766
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: Everybody want to give.

767
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 2: But people give Amy Winehouse her flowers.

768
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: They do. People love Amy Winehouse, people love it death y'all.

769
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: Don't forget about John A.

770
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 2: Fair of Love with a ballhoarn You remember Josh.

771
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: Don't do Josh. Just give her her things. John Joss

772
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 1: was sounding like Aretha Franklin on the track she was

773
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: she was. I said, I notice, I know she can cook,

774
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,479
Speaker 1: and then you see it's a skinny ass white girl.

775
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, you gotta give Johnstone her things. So anyways,

776
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 1: Eda Bond has a song called on the Beach, and

777
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: her whole EP is basically kind of about like missing

778
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 1: your booze because of quarantine, and it's just such a

779
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: vibe that you can really relate to because quarantine has

780
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 1: really fucked all of us up our situations. I got

781
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: a whole BD B and a booge're waiting on me

782
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 1: right now. Then I can't even get to them, you

783
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So the whole EP is kind

784
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: of about like quarantine and like missing your boot. So

785
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: the best song on the the EP is called on

786
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: the Beach by Eda Bond. It's a bop. I love it.

787
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: Shout out to her. When I first heard it, I

788
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: was like, oh, let me go to her Instagram page,

789
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: see which I like to get the aesthetics of people.

790
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 2: I said, oh, this is a white girl. I thought

791
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 2: it was me singing at first?

792
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,439
Speaker 1: You did not think it was I did? I said,

793
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: what I recorded this a minute? Did you know I'd

794
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: be drunk now? I couldn't remember. I couldn't remember, but

795
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: it wasn't me. It wasn't me, So yeah, shout out

796
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: to Eda Bond on the Beach. That's my bo like

797
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: b O b O n D A bond ed A

798
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: Bond of the week is yo. Gotti got a song

799
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 1: called weish Ley's This must be like you know, I'm

800
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: always come through with the hood class.

801
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 2: The hood class.

802
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: I will say, I'm a Yo Gotti fan. Yeah, I

803
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: went Chris Brown. I went through a whole little like

804
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: moment that I was just listening to Yo Gotti all

805
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: day every day, Like, yes, I fuck with Yo Gotti. Okay.

806
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 1: At first I used to listen to him, but then

807
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: I feel like his voice sounded a little why because

808
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: he made that Yeah, I wasn't ready for that real

809
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: I probably was, but like over the years, I actually

810
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 1: really like his voice. Now I feel like it's what

811
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:21,800
Speaker 1: makes him different.

812
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, so shout out to y'all.

813
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: Got Okay, So y'all know we like to break lyrics down.

814
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna break some lyrics down for y'all today. Now,

815
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: this is one of my favorite songs. It really, Yes,

816
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: let me tell you why though. I was like when

817
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: this song came out, I was just a little little

818
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: young tot. So I'm trying to figure out why was

819
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 1: it your favorite song? Let me tell you why. I

820
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: was a young tot. But you knew you was gonna

821
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: grow up to be a beat because this.

822
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 2: Is why I love you.

823
00:39:56,120 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: You knew I was gonna say that. So can I

824
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: sing it first?

825
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 2: Can I sing the interesting come?

826
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: My baby left me, left me shouting. I didn't know

827
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 1: what to do.

828
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 3: When out my baby, baby, baby, baby baby. And then

829
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 3: I met his best friend and it took me to

830
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 3: his house and I said, I say, put it in my.

831
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 1: Mouth, my mother fucking mouth, and you can eat me out.

832
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: You never heard that song? Okay? So I wanted to

833
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: break this last party before, but he just really was

834
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: never like about I was like six years old talking

835
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 1: about put it in my mouth. Hey, this is a bob. Okay,

836
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: So she wanted to break these lyrics. Now just a

837
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: little fucking bit. So first, the first thing that she said,

838
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: I met his friend and he took me to his house. Now,

839
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: I want you to elaborate on this a little bit

840
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: because you've done that before. So tell wait what you

841
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: met his best friend? No, I ain't never fu with Well,

842
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:21,280
Speaker 1: it was his worker. How long when you do that? Okay?

843
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:22,439
Speaker 2: It was his worker. Okay.

844
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 1: So let's go to the first verse. Okay, So he

845
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: says this is a raps on, y'all. He says, you

846
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:29,840
Speaker 1: want to go down? Why not?

847
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 2: I'd be like Herbie and hand you a cock.

848
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 1: What is her Who is Herbie? And what does that

849
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: mean nigga, she was fucking. I'd be like Herbie and

850
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: hand you a cock, okay, and tell you that my

851
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: name is a k Get on your knees and make

852
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: the breeze begin to blow. What breeze? Oh, she's talking

853
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,800
Speaker 1: about the pussy for e This is a man rapping.

854
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 2: Oh the first part was the woman singing. Now the

855
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 2: man is rapping to her right.

856
00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 1: But he's okay, So he talking about the pussy for you.

857
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: I guess so, or he for your part.

858
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 2: I don't want that bussy part.

859
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: Don't come to me. Oh wait, now this is the part. Okay,

860
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:16,760
Speaker 1: So we're gonna he said, And fuck chapsticks. I'm coming

861
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: ashy as hell, which with chapped dicks for your chapped

862
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 1: ass lips, creaming your teeth like Dennis As. I'm rubbing

863
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 1: them with an erection like ejections. Fuck it, I be

864
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: drugging them. Is that kind of sounds kind of Rachel

865
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: Chap First of all, Chap dieck sound like he got

866
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:39,800
Speaker 1: something he needs to go. He said, I'm coming. Why

867
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 1: is your chap I'm coming as as hell with chap dick?

868
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: He said. She got chapped libs too, So they got

869
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: the same thing on fire is burning it up?

870
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: Wee b burning not guncern and nobody did walk to

871
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 2: see Okay.

872
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: Fucks because hon, I'm want as she did.

873
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:06,919
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay. So yes, that was the song.

874
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to break down just a little bit, give

875
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: you all a little bit of lyrics, but that was

876
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: one of my favorite songs. You don't I can't believe

877
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: put it in your mouth by well? How do you

878
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 1: say I can yelly? Is that how you say?

879
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 2: It's?

880
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: He American? Yeah, I literally have heard this song before,

881
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 1: but it just never was a lot. You can lick it,

882
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: you can stick it, you can tasty, I'm talking now,

883
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: drop don't you waisted baby, slurf it up. It's enough

884
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: to fail your cup. I'm thinking of licking good and

885
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: I wish your nigga would go down kind of slow.

886
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 1: That sounds like some salt and pipple. Sheees. Oh, now

887
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 1: you know I love the soft pepper. Don't get me

888
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: started on shoot, bitch, that's my fucking so okay. So

889
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: now we're gonna get into the questions. If you want

890
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,240
Speaker 1: your question answered on the show, make sure you email

891
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 1: us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. If

892
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 1: you want to skip the line. To get your question answered,

893
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,399
Speaker 1: you have to be the top tier Patreon on our

894
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 1: Patreon site. So yes, that's the only way you can

895
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 1: skip the line if you're at the top tier, y'all.

896
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 1: Because I know a lot of y'all are in the

897
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: other tiers and y'all kind of send questions, but that's

898
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:12,919
Speaker 1: only available to the top tier. To skip the line,

899
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:16,800
Speaker 1: y'all'll be sending questions. Y'all be sending emails. Y'all be

900
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:21,479
Speaker 1: sending dms. I'm dead. Don't be DM and me asking

901
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: no questions because what I'm not gonna answer. You gotta

902
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: write in. Why people be thinking they got special privilege.

903
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: I mean, the only time I write in to the show,

904
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,919
Speaker 1: ask poor minds ed Gmail and then we're gonna answer

905
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 1: your question. They be like, well, I wrote an email,

906
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: but I'm still DM you. I'm dead. Yeah, we got

907
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: a lot of questions. But I will say, if you

908
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 1: are a Patreon the top tier, you dm us on Patreon.

909
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: That's how we get there. Yeah, you could DM us

910
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,799
Speaker 1: on Patreon if you a Patreon member, but I'm talking

911
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: about own Instagram. I'm dead. I do, I do sometimes

912
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: I answer them, but Okay, first question, Am I scared

913
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 1: of the Dick Haylex and Andrea. Okay, my name is

914
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: Monette and I've become a huge fan of the show

915
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: after listening to their booty halloo on the eighty five

916
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: South Show. I'm twenty two year old Leo and have

917
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: been seeing this amazing guy who was also a Leo

918
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: that's twenty seven, for two years. We haven't done anything

919
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: sexually yet, but because I lost a little self confidence

920
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: slash self esteem from a past relationship. What makes this

921
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: all crazy is that he's willing to move at my pace,

922
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 1: but whenever I try to make the first move. Oh,

923
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 1: I think we read these m. You don't think so,

924
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: m M. I thought we read this before. Oh yeah

925
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: we did, because it says Yam Cobbler and I remember

926
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: the Gobbler. Sorry sirs, I thought, oh that one was open. Okay,

927
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: go to the next one. Okay, missed the good dick

928
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: and BM from hell shortened to the point. Hey, beauties,

929
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: I recently broke up with the guy whose baby mama

930
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 1: would stalk me pop up when I was with friends

931
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 1: and figured out ways to check my ex's voicemail to

932
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 1: find personal info about us and throw it in my face.

933
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 1: I recently ended it because the man wasn't she He

934
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 1: just had a good decon. I was starting to feel

935
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 1: like I was losing myself and becoming insecure from the

936
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: whole experience. What's your advice on moving forward and keeping

937
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: my sanity after they both tried me? Just block them

938
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: and move on with your life, Like they should be

939
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 1: blocked on everything, Blocked from your phone, blocked from your

940
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 1: social media, everybody that they're If this girl is like

941
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: stalking you, everybody that's your friends should also have her

942
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: blocked as well, because obviously she's knowing where you are

943
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: by following your friends and people that you're around and

944
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: popping up. So everybody that you're friends with needs to

945
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: block the both of them. You need to block the

946
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 1: both of them, and just people don't understand the power

947
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: of blocking someone out of sight, out of mind. When

948
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 1: you completely just don't see somebody and they're not around,

949
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: you really do forget about that shit and you have

950
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: no choice but to move on. So, yeah, they both

951
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: need to be blocked from you and everybody else around you,

952
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 1: simple as that. Yeah, I feel like that's weird as fuck,

953
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: like them type of beaches the type of beaches that will.

954
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 2: Kill you exactly.

955
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: Not being funny, but way to invested, you know what

956
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 1: I mean to be doing all of that, trying to

957
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 1: find what she said, found a way to check her

958
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 1: voice mails, and all type of shit like how the

959
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: fuck you even find a way to do this?

960
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a little too much.

961
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 1: That's wild as hell. Like I would differ and they

962
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 1: only had good dick, he not even a BDB. Yeah,

963
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 1: I would definitely block him, block their beach and just

964
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 1: move on. Okay, So the next one says, question of

965
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,800
Speaker 1: the week. Hey, y'all, okay, question. I've been with the

966
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,320
Speaker 1: same guy since I was fifteen and we've been married

967
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: for four years. I'm now twenty six and he is

968
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: twenty nine. The issue is when we have sex, I'm

969
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,879
Speaker 1: not into it so much to wear my pussy don't

970
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: even get wet for him, and I sometimes fake mone

971
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: to hurry up and get it over with. I thought

972
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,359
Speaker 1: I had a problem, but one night in the bar,

973
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: I chopped it up with the guy I've known for

974
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 1: a few years, and I had to get up because

975
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: I was so self conscious that my period came on.

976
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 1: Come to find out, since was just wet as fuck

977
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: off the conversation. Should I leave his ass or keep

978
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 1: trying with him? And this week dick, because at this

979
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: point I gave what to do.

980
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 2: Damn that nigga must have been talking good to you, right?

981
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 2: What the fuck was he saying?

982
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: Period? That thing was wet? Huh. Yeah. I just feel

983
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: like the chemistry obviously isn't there anymore. But this is

984
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: her husband. Yeah, she's she's married. So this is what

985
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 1: you have to do, is y'all have to I say

986
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:38,319
Speaker 1: this all the time. Y'all don't understand how good this works.

987
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: I told y'all, tell y'all this every week. When y'all

988
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 1: have problems coming with your man, you better watch some porn,

989
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 1: get yourself off and think about your man. That's gonna

990
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: help you. In the bedroom. Y'all need to bring other

991
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 1: things into the bedroom. You need to find out what

992
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: is missing? What are you missing? What did that man

993
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 1: do or say to you that your husband is missing? Like,

994
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 1: you have to really dig deep and really, if you

995
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: don't want to find the problem, then it's not going

996
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 1: to be solved. Because I feel like a lot of

997
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 1: times people be like, you know what this dick trash.

998
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: I don't even want to try. But if you you

999
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: really have to open your mind up and really be

1000
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: open to trying different things with your man. I absolutely,

1001
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 1: especially at this point because y'all are married. Yeah, you like,

1002
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: this is your husbands and I'm not gonna lie to you.

1003
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: Since you keep giving him that dry pussy, he gonna

1004
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: go get some more pussy. It's both ending now, just

1005
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: like you over there getting wet nigga, his dick probably

1006
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,879
Speaker 1: getting hard for some wet pussy. Now, Yeah, he'd probably

1007
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: be saying it' y'all pussy trail. Oh damn what. He

1008
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: probably don't cause she said he got whacked deep. But

1009
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: then she just told us he don't even get waged,

1010
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 1: so he probably be telling he's probably this man I

1011
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: don't know what the fuck doing on. He don't even

1012
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: get I'm just being honest. Just like whatever you're probably

1013
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 1: thinking about him about the six, he probably thinking the

1014
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: same thing, you know what I mean. So I definitely

1015
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: feel like y'all need to figure out what's gonna work

1016
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: for y'all. Y'all need to incorporate some new things in

1017
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: the bed room. I feel like people just make six

1018
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: so like boring. Yeah, and it's so many things that

1019
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: you can always do to like spice it up in

1020
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 1: the bedroom, you know what I mean. So I just

1021
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: feel like y'all need the spicy spice things up, and

1022
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: like I said, try the porn trick that I do.

1023
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: It worked wonders for me in a past situation, but

1024
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: I make the four play a little longer. Maybe you

1025
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: should try some sex pills too, some she orgasm? Yeah,

1026
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 1: do she orgasms pills? She orgasms pills are great. So yeah,

1027
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 1: I think Kicky has a code for that, right, Yeah,

1028
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: Kiki does have a cold.

1029
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 2: It's Kicky said, so I think so.

1030
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, just look up she orgasms and use kick he said,

1031
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: So it's all natural too. So okay, everything's great. But

1032
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 1: the deep though, Damn you niggas out here slinging tragic.

1033
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: Damn please keep me anonymou It's Heydrea and Lys. Let

1034
00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 1: me start off by saying, I love y'all. Show y'all

1035
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,360
Speaker 1: like the big sisters I never had, but I do

1036
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: need y'all advice. I'm going to attempt to keep this short.

1037
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 1: I met this guy in a group chat a year

1038
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: and a half ago and we've been talking for a

1039
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: while now. He's from Toronto and it's studying for his masters.

1040
00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: He makes really good money for being twenty five. He's

1041
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: stable and got it all together. Anyways, For my twenty

1042
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 1: fourth birthday this weekend, he came down from Toronto to

1043
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: spend time with me. This was our first time linking

1044
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: face to face, and the vibes were there. Great conversation,

1045
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 1: great energy. He gives me butterflies and keeps me smiling

1046
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,320
Speaker 1: all the time. Corny, I know no one makes me

1047
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: as happy as he does. I literally be carving me

1048
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 1: in for him. He got me all the gifts I

1049
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:42,160
Speaker 1: asked for, including the bags and necklaces. He even said

1050
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 1: there's more coming next month. He could be a BDB,

1051
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:48,280
Speaker 1: but I want him as my men. But there's a problem.

1052
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 1: The DC ain't hitting for what he needs to be

1053
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: hitting for. The six has been very depressing, gom depressing, damn.

1054
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:57,479
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's me or the fact

1055
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: that that his meat isn't the biggiest he nuts quick,

1056
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 1: or I just don't nut at all. Six isn't a

1057
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: big deal, but your honor, I'm a freak beach who

1058
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: likes to come multiple times, and it's not happening with him.

1059
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,919
Speaker 1: He is perfect in every other way, but that he's

1060
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 1: perfect in every other way. But that so would I

1061
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: be shallow to cut him off? Or should I give

1062
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:20,240
Speaker 1: you time? Tell him the decon now heading our stuff

1063
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: for in silence? Just the note. We're going on a

1064
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: group trip with our friends in December to Mexico, So

1065
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 1: if I cut him off before, it might change the dynamic.

1066
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: Fuck this was long. I'm sorry, p Is. He's already

1067
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: working on a sponsorship to move me to Canada and

1068
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:37,760
Speaker 1: finished school. They're all paid by him. Help me please

1069
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: signed a freak beach getting weak beek Well, I will say,

1070
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 1: sometimes you do gotta give people chances, especially if he's

1071
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 1: making you feel all this. It's easier to find good

1072
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 1: dick than it is to find a man that's gonna

1073
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 1: treat you right, honestly. So I feel like stuff like

1074
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: this definitely needs to be worked out because I had

1075
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 1: a situation I'm not gonna lie I told you about.

1076
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: I I was fucking with a nigga I actually talked

1077
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: about on the show a while back. I was like,

1078
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: it's something wrong with me, Like the nigga couldn't get

1079
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: his dick up. Yeah, and we we just I liked

1080
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: him so much and we just could not fuck. And

1081
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck? I know it ain't me, baby,

1082
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 1: cause I don't got no drop pussing now. Yeah, so

1083
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: I was like, what is it? But it was just

1084
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 1: like sometimes people need more time to get to know

1085
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 1: each other and he had. We had to learn each

1086
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 1: other's body and learn what we like. Now it's like

1087
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 1: bitch to dick be hidding. So sometimes you do just

1088
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,320
Speaker 1: need to take your time, Like not everybody can just

1089
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,439
Speaker 1: rip their clothes off and the sex is gonna be amazing. Yeah,

1090
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: I totally agree. I feel like, you know what I mean,

1091
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 1: if he has all of these other amazing qualities that

1092
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: you love and he's such a great guy, I wouldn't

1093
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: just stop talking to him just because the DKI is traded,

1094
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel like it's again,

1095
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 1: it's stuff that y'all could do in the bedroom. Y'all

1096
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 1: can spice it up a little bit, and you know

1097
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,359
Speaker 1: things will be better. But I wouldn't just stop cause

1098
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it's harder to find cause to come

1099
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 1: across the niggas who gonna really be just doing shit

1100
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 1: for you and give you butter fly. You really like him,

1101
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,320
Speaker 1: like it's harder to come across that type of things,

1102
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:08,239
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Other I mean in comparison

1103
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,320
Speaker 1: to like coming across gooddig it's a lot of niggas

1104
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 1: who goout good degr trash ass people. Well, it's a

1105
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 1: lot of things with a good dick, but obviously not

1106
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: not fucking none of our listeners shit right. So I

1107
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 1: definitely feel like you should have a conversation with him though,

1108
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: like y'all need to sit down talk about it. You

1109
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: need to let him know that you feel like you

1110
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: know he's not pleasing you in big and he says

1111
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 1: what you need for him to do. Okay, Okay, I

1112
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 1: think that's a good idea, all right, So next one,

1113
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 1: it says one hundred and eighty degrees. Hey, ladies, I'll

1114
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,759
Speaker 1: watch y'all when I'm getting ready or just cleaning up.

1115
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 1: And you both have become my friends, so please keep going.

1116
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 1: I love you both and can't wait to hear your perspective.

1117
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm twenty four, two kids, two and three years old,

1118
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: and have been married for almost four years. Before getting married,

1119
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,439
Speaker 1: we were friends a long distance and I hadn't really

1120
00:54:56,520 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 1: had any serious relationships, let alone sex with anyone beside him.

1121
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: I recently found out my husband is a cheater and

1122
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: a cold blooded liar. I decided to stop beating myself

1123
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: up for letting things get this far. I wish I

1124
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,840
Speaker 1: could explain the details, but long story short, I've decided

1125
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: to stop fucking him period. It's been two weeks as

1126
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 1: of now, he won't leave me, and since we share everything,

1127
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 1: I can't make him. I have been a stay at

1128
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 1: home mom and I've helped him grow since we've been together.

1129
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:26,919
Speaker 1: I even dropped out of college and inquired more debt

1130
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 1: in order to focus on what my family needed from me.

1131
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: At the time, I felt comfortable doing this because my

1132
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 1: husband was always headstrong and I didn't mind him. I

1133
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: didn't mind letting him lead. In hindsight, I have been

1134
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 1: so naive and I should have been more selfish. But

1135
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 1: I know that I'm a loving girl and I will

1136
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 1: always be a true nurturer. Having children just made me

1137
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: even more guarded of my personal life. In space, I'm

1138
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: still processing the loss, but I intend to use the

1139
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 1: pain as a propeller into my purpose. Sounds great, right,

1140
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: but for serious my question is how can I put

1141
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: myself back into the world and find joy in just living?

1142
00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 1: What would be some good ways to meet new people

1143
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 1: in a new city where I don't have any local friends.

1144
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:09,360
Speaker 1: I want to work in the night life and spread

1145
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 1: my wings, but I'm so shy when it comes to

1146
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 1: making the first move and everything. I don't want to

1147
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: force a whole phase and sex isn't on my radar yet.

1148
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:18,839
Speaker 1: But I'd like to date other men since I haven't

1149
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,879
Speaker 1: experienced dating as an adult. How do I have fun

1150
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:24,360
Speaker 1: and still handle my business as a woman without letting

1151
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 1: any outside energy influence how I make my decisions for

1152
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: myself and my children. I don't want to play a

1153
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 1: catch up. I enjoy being twenty four. Sorry for the link.

1154
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: I could sign a book. I don't be wanting to

1155
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: read y'all's names because I know. But anyways, that's a

1156
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 1: tough one. That's deep. It's like it's hard to say, oh,

1157
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 1: you shouldn't fuck with a nigga on Moore, aw you

1158
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: should lead because that's your husband y'all got. But it

1159
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:52,879
Speaker 1: sounds like she's kind of already made up her mind

1160
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: that she kind of wants to leave. So I feel

1161
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: like one thing that you cannot do. This is what

1162
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 1: I always emphasize on this show. Yes, fuck with bdb's

1163
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 1: fuck with men who have money. But this is why

1164
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,759
Speaker 1: this is a perfect example for you, the listener that

1165
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:10,799
Speaker 1: wrote in and all the other listeners listening, get your own.

1166
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:14,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, never let a man. I had a situation like

1167
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 2: that that could have been me.

1168
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: I had a situation I was dating when I was

1169
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 1: always talking about the guy that bought me my car.

1170
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 1: He wanted me to drop out of school and moved

1171
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: to LA with him because he was playing ball and

1172
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: this and that, and I just wouldn't do it because

1173
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 1: I always wanted to have my own. It's cool to

1174
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: have a rich nigga, but you need to do have

1175
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: your own. So the main thing that you need to

1176
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: focus on is yourself right now and healing and getting

1177
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,800
Speaker 1: your shit together. Yeah. I know you on a date

1178
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: right now, but that I don't feel like that should

1179
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 1: be your focus right now. Yeah. I agree. I definitely

1180
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: feel like you know what, you having two kids and stuff,

1181
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 1: two young kids, that shouldn't really be your focus. You

1182
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: just need to be more so focused on getting your

1183
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 1: shit together, like being independent, you know what I mean. So,

1184
00:57:57,440 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 1: like you said, you want to get into night life,

1185
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: I think that would be a great thing for you

1186
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 1: to do. You definitely in the right age group, you

1187
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 1: know what I mean, to work in the clubs and stuff,

1188
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 1: and your picture a cute girl too, So I definitely

1189
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 1: think you need to focus on you and your kids,

1190
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 1: and in due time, you know what I mean, the

1191
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 1: right nigga will come along and then you'll probably have

1192
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 1: a little bit more insight too about what you want

1193
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 1: to do about your marriage, because obviously that's not an

1194
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: easy decision to make too. Shit. Yeah, day night, mmm

1195
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 1: mmm mmm mmmmmm.

1196
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 2: But yeah, I just I agree.

1197
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: I feel like the main thing is that's why I

1198
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 1: don't care what kind of situation. I mean, when a

1199
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: nigga that's given me all kinds of money, I can

1200
00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 1: always leave when I want to because I have my

1201
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: own right. So I think that's just an important lesson

1202
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 1: for us all to learn here as a family. Yeah,

1203
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 1: facts for sure, you definitely want to have your own

1204
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 1: sheets so you can tell these niggas fuck you boy bye.

1205
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 1: Mm So yes, make sure if y'all want your question

1206
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:58,919
Speaker 1: answered on the show, y'all email us at ask poor

1207
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: Minds at email dot com. You have anything you want

1208
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 1: to say now, just make sure y'all subscribe to our Patreon.

1209
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 1: What is it? Patreon dot com slash poor mine yep, yep, yeah,

1210
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: y'all subscribe to the Patreon yep.

1211
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 2: And we got some some on merch coming for y'all,

1212
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 2: So stay tuned.

1213
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: I want to sing a song today, just real quick,

1214
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 1: just real quick. We actually sang this last week together

1215
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 1: when we were leaving the studio, and it has been

1216
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: resonated on my mind because I had such a good

1217
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: weekend with my I just had such a good weekend,

1218
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: Like I just had an amazing this past week. I've

1219
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: just had a good week. I'm on a high right now. Okay,

1220
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 1: I know, so let me just sing this so we

1221
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 1: can end the show. Roll Look Coasta Ohl, roll, Look Coaster.

1222
00:59:58,760 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 1: You gotta sing it.

1223
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: Love is life?

1224
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 1: I roll like Costa baby Babby, I want to ride. Yeah,

1225
01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: that's how I feel.

1226
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 2: Big Daddy. Oh sorry, we'll see y'all next week.

1227
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:11,320
Speaker 1: You like the Big Daddy?

1228
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 2: Bye, by y'all.

1229
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: Not the big Daddy.

1230
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 2: That's a bitch. If somebody asked me in that ship

1231
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 2: one more time, I want scream. Every time you post

1232
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 2: the picture, people were like, eat,