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Speaker 1: I found underwear that isn't mine in my boyfriend's drawer.

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Speaker 2: Uh. Oh, that is not a good situation. No, it

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Speaker 2: is not, Samuel, look at it. Suspicious.

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Speaker 1: So I female, twenty seven, have been with my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: twenty eight, male for four years.

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Speaker 3: We've lived together for three of those year.

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Speaker 1: A few days ago, I was doing laundry as usual,

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Speaker 1: as usual, and I opened his underwear drawer and sitting

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Speaker 1: right on top was a pair of ladies undergarments.

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Speaker 3: That are clearly not mine.

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Speaker 2: What color are they?

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Speaker 3: I'm guessing like like a light pink with.

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Speaker 2: Like little frills, light pink with frills.

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Speaker 3: If only, if only OP had given us ay.

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Speaker 2: I want, I want descriptions of all right now, now

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Speaker 2: that sounds weird, guys from the story, guys, all right,

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Speaker 2: get all the details for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Little do you guys know that we've been through actually

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Speaker 1: extensive like vocal podcast training to very deeply described things.

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Speaker 2: Yes, this is professional coach. We are professionals, and we

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Speaker 2: give you professional stories exactly.

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Speaker 1: But back to the story, Ope says, I clearly knew

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Speaker 1: they weren't mine because they were extra small, which is

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Speaker 1: not and has.

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Speaker 3: Never been my size.

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Speaker 1: Oh my, and things are going really well in our relationship,

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Speaker 1: and I have no reason to think that he's cheating.

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Speaker 1: We both work from home and it would be extremely.

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Speaker 3: Hard to hide that.

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Speaker 1: I immediately asked him calmly what they were at first.

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Speaker 2: What they were gonna be?

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Speaker 3: Like, it's a spat, No know what it is, bro, it's.

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Speaker 2: The worst game of jeopardy ever, what is this object?

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Speaker 2: Or actually know it's the reverse? Yeah, yeah, it's like

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Speaker 2: what is panties?

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Speaker 1: At first, he lied and said that he didn't know.

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Speaker 1: Then he admitted he found them on the floor next

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Speaker 1: to the washer after he went back there to retrieve

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Speaker 1: some socks that he dropped. Now, the thing is, we

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Speaker 1: have our own washer and dryer in our apartment, so

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Speaker 1: this is not I I thought like, oh, this is

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Speaker 2: That makes it very suspicious. That makes it very suspicious, right,

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Speaker 2: Why you wash them some panties? Man?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: The other thing is it's in our shared guest bathroom

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Speaker 1: and we share it with just our roommates.

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Speaker 3: So the only other possible person is the roommate.

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Speaker 2: Oh so it could be the roommate could be Okay.

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Speaker 1: I pressed that they are not mine, and he admitted

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Speaker 1: he knew that, but he likes sniffing undergarments if you

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Speaker 1: catch my drift.

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Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait wait I was not ready for that

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Speaker 2: third yeah yeah yeah wait So does he know does

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Speaker 2: she know her man's has this this uh sniffing fantasy.

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Speaker 3: Only only now this is the first time.

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Speaker 2: Oh what a way to find out, like truly true, dude.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you know this. I will not

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Speaker 2: for this reason, but I want to go to Japan

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Speaker 2: and I was doing research right well, there are these

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Speaker 2: vending machines where you can buy used panties. Wow yeah,

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Speaker 2: and like these like like like Japanese businessmen will go

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Speaker 2: and buy them and sniff them.

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Speaker 3: Wow yeah. Because I I don't know where.

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Speaker 1: I was reading in some book and it was like

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Speaker 1: cultures that are the cleanest on the surface are like

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Speaker 1: the dirtiest underneath, you know.

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Speaker 3: What I mean?

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Speaker 2: Dirty dirty?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So it's dirty dirty.

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Speaker 1: Like like very clean and respectful like whereas American culture

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Speaker 1: maybe or or like like you know, American culture is

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Speaker 2: Prude, I mean ish, we're kind of we're kind a

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Speaker 2: little bit to the Europeans, we're way more prude.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you're right, but we're like in the middle, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess we're Japanese. And then so basically the book

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Speaker 2: As Americans, we believe we are the normal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like they mentioned Germans as well. Germans are

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Speaker 1: again very kind of like like more prude and.

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Speaker 2: Yeah on the surface, but dude, Germans are filthy, filthy yeah, bro,

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Speaker 2: like the German boom boom clubs all leather. Oh wow,

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Speaker 1: AnyWho, So you know, we we've discovered the op has

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Speaker 1: this undergarment sniffing thing going on, and her boyfriend said

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Speaker 1: that he saw them and just threw them in his drawer,

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Speaker 1: which is why they were right on top and there

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Speaker 1: was no attempt at hiding them.

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Speaker 3: Still a little suss to me, but.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, like like I feel like you should

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Speaker 2: disclose that kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing, is like why has he not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean maybe it's embarrassing, it's that. And also

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Speaker 2: I mean, I saw I'm not a panty sniffer myself,

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Speaker 2: so I can't pretend to be, uh be involved in

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Speaker 2: the mind of the panty sniffer. My thought is, like,

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Speaker 2: you know that experiment where they had a bunch of

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Speaker 2: that were full of sweat, and they had the women smell.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, this smells so good,

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Speaker 2: like and it's like pheromones and stuff.

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Speaker 3: No, I've never heard of it.

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Speaker 2: So apparently, so this is actually really interesting. So they

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Speaker 2: did a study where these guys so like worked out

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Speaker 2: in a shirt and put it in immediately, like when

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Speaker 2: it was wet and soaking with sweat. They put it

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Speaker 2: in a plastic bag and sealed it and then without

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Speaker 2: showing who these guys were, they gave the like they

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Speaker 2: they paired up, Like they paired these people up just

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Speaker 2: based on the smell, and there was a ton of

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Speaker 2: attraction based only on smell, and like a lot of

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Speaker 2: these couples were like damn looking fresh. And so maybe

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Speaker 2: it's the same with the panties. Yeah, I think you're right.

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Speaker 3: It's just such a funny.

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Speaker 2: Where it's like combat emit.

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Speaker 1: So so they were basically there were some women that

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Speaker 1: liked certain shirts of certain guys. So it's like, all right,

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Speaker 1: if they liked guys sees shirts and then they introduced

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Speaker 1: her to guy, see, then they're hitting it off. That's

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Speaker 1: basically what they're saying. Yeah, yeah, that's interesting. I do

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Speaker 1: have to wonder if like none of them were like, ooh,

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Speaker 1: these smell like sweat.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know. I mean, like, that's a little weird.

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Speaker 2: So my girlfriend will literally steal my shirts that I've

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Speaker 2: been wearing for a little bit and just wear them

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Speaker 2: so she has my smell. I don't know, it's probably weird, but.

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Speaker 1: No, I'll one up you. My girlfriend actually does like

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Speaker 1: my bo So.

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Speaker 2: Now I say it's a thing. I'm always like, why

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Speaker 2: it happen, shocks, it happens. It's a thing. Bro.

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Speaker 1: Well, getting back to Op's ordeal, it gets a little

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Speaker 1: more complicated here.

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Speaker 3: See.

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Speaker 1: Ope is willing to accept the underwear sniffing and just

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Speaker 1: move on. But here's the thing that she can't figure out.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't know who's underwear it is, right, Like, She's

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Speaker 1: still like, it's a mystery. It's a mystery. So Ope

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Speaker 1: contacted her old roommate twenty five female, and she swears

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Speaker 1: that they are not hers and she's never seen them.

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Speaker 1: She also contacted her new roommate, twenty three male and

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend who comes over occasionally. They aren't hers either,

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Speaker 1: and I confirmed with my roommate that he has not

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Speaker 1: had other girls in the apartment. What if that's what

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Speaker 1: it is. It's just that the roommate was sneaking around.

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Speaker 2: Oh the other roommate cheating his girlfriend? That would be oh.

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Speaker 1: Now, the unit is pretty new, so I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it's possible that they are from the old tenant.

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Speaker 3: We've lived here for three years. Three year old underwear

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Speaker 3: year old. I don't I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he saw it and kept it around for

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Speaker 1: They say, well, he's well, he said that he like literally,

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Speaker 1: like I think he said he recently found him and

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Speaker 1: threw them right on top existing, so it seemed to

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Speaker 1: be like a recent event. Now I've only told a

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Speaker 1: few people because it really is just underwear sniffing, Like

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Speaker 1: it's not that intense in Ope's perspective, And I don't

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Speaker 1: want to humiliate my boyfriend. I truly love him, and

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Speaker 1: I see myself spending my life with him. My therapist

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Speaker 1: thinks he wouldn't cheat on me and that it's not

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Speaker 3: Now. I disagree with the therapist here.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, hmm, I think it's still plausible that he

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Speaker 1: could be cheating.

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Speaker 2: But I think it's still plausible. But I'm just thinking, like,

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Speaker 2: sometimes I do laundry at my parents' house, and there

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Speaker 2: have been times where I come back with my laundry

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Speaker 2: and there is underwear that that is either my sisters

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Speaker 2: forget to bring it back, and so I probably have

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Speaker 2: some my parents or sisters underwear. This is so weird.

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Speaker 1: That is a good theory that have the parents visited,

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Speaker 1: has a sister in law visited. That's actually a decent theory.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a lot. There's a lot that could

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Speaker 2: be going on there. I wouldn't say he's cheating. I

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Speaker 2: don't believe it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess against that. A couple of my friends disagree.

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Speaker 1: They do think that he could be going out cheating.

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Speaker 1: I want so badly to just let it go, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know whose underwear it is, and they didn't

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Speaker 1: just appear out of nowhere. I honestly don't even know

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Speaker 1: what to think. I just came here to write it out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: It's tricky because if it really is the underwear sniffing thing,

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Speaker 1: then absolutely I agree with you.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: But I am I am still suss about Op's boyfriend

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Speaker 1: because I don't know, like.

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Speaker 3: How how how would they get there? I like your theory.

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Speaker 2: What if he's just ordering it from the internet.

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Speaker 1: That is also possible, But then why did why didn't

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Speaker 1: he say that, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Because that would embarrassed about the about the situation.

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Speaker 3: It's possible, but he admitted to it, you know.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't know. There is some plot holes, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: definitely that are concerning.

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Speaker 3: But if it truly is just an underwear sniffing, that's

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Speaker 3: not a big deal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sniff some underwear. I have a few laughs, It's fine.

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Speaker 1: You know what viewers could do other than the sniffing underwear?

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