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Speaker 1: your girls right in the call and you were tuned

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of a Wine Down Winday, y'all,

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Speaker 1: what's going on now? I know we said we're doing

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Speaker 1: bonus episodes weekly, but honestly, it was my fault this week.

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Speaker 1: I had a lot going on. But we do have

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Speaker 1: some bonus content that's really good, like who is coming

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Speaker 1: up on? I tell y'all it's good.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, it's been a long week. I miss you guys.

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Speaker 1: I hope y'all got y'all wine poured up and that

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Speaker 1: y'all are ready to get to talking today in two weeks,

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Speaker 1: cause y'all know, we always got a lot of shit

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Speaker 1: to say.

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Speaker 2: You know what's crazy. We've been doing Wine Down Wednesday

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Speaker 2: for like over.

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Speaker 1: A year now, yeah, like a year and like probably

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Speaker 1: like a year and a month or a year and

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Speaker 1: too much. It's crazy because I had kind of felt

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Speaker 1: come up with county more.

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Speaker 2: But we always have shit we always have to talk about.

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Speaker 1: It's really crazy, And I was actually talk I was

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Speaker 1: sweeting my friend today shout out to tri A c Anthony,

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Speaker 1: and he was like, people, because you know, he has

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Speaker 1: like that, but he has his own little thing going on.

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Speaker 1: And he was saying that people always like tell him, oh,

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Speaker 1: y'all talk about the same shit every week, but he

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Speaker 1: was like, they never have suggestions on what to come

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Speaker 1: up with, and that is very true.

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Speaker 2: So let me say this.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of podcast talk shows, a lot of

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Speaker 1: stuff out there, and I know y'all ask consumers, y'all

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Speaker 1: want to hear people talk about something different.

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Speaker 2: But as a creative I can say, like, it's hard

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Speaker 1: It is.

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Speaker 2: It really is.

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Speaker 1: And that's why we we don't be wanting to put

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Speaker 1: no pressure on y'all because, yeah, and would appreciate if

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Speaker 1: y'all would just, you know, whenever stuff come across y'all

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we would love for y'all to like see y'all suggestion.

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Speaker 1: But not only that, I just feel like for us,

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Speaker 1: we've never repeated a topic for We're going on a

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Speaker 1: it's not easy, but I will say this, me and

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Speaker 1: Dre every time we link up and do Wine down

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Speaker 1: we always have something to talk about. So shout out

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Speaker 1: to y'all.

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Speaker 2: I always like to say this, shout out to y'all

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Speaker 1: But let me switch it up real quick because I

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Speaker 1: So let me start off with the item of the week.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to European Wax Center. As y'all know, they

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Speaker 1: All you gotta do is ask for Tamika and say

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Speaker 2: And she already gonna know what the deal is. So

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Speaker 1: Really, we say it all the time, not just because

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Speaker 1: like you know, ten percent ad of if you want

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Speaker 1: So skip all, skip all the hoopla hoppola let's get

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Speaker 1: the hoopola hoppola. I'm sorry, y'all, I'm a little tipsy already.

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Speaker 1: I barely ate today and I walked in the dough

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Speaker 2: I was ready for my girl today and she had

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Speaker 2: Of all the things that they can offer you is

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Speaker 1: But then the crazy parties once you get into a

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Speaker 1: I said, I hate when men but not only with money,

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Speaker 1: So I know when you approach someone, you're putting your

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Speaker 2: But why do y'all sell this dream that you know

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Speaker 1: Don't tell me, man, I just want somebody that I

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Speaker 2: And then I'm like, you know what, that actually sounds good.

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Speaker 2: I like what time you want a chance, let me

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Speaker 1: And then it's like a girl gives you a chance

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Speaker 1: I expect from any situation or relationship what you offering

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Speaker 2: Then why would you say that? Why would you say that?

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Speaker 1: Whatever you're trying to do, I'm gonna make you do this,

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Speaker 2: Could just cook. Nigga, I'm not about to cook.

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Speaker 1: Now, I'm not gonna don't deserve you to learn and

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Speaker 2: So I was like, you know what, he deserves a

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Speaker 1: But to just to just come out and say that, like,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, baby, I cook, I clean, I'm gonna wash

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Speaker 2: I ain't about to tell you that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we don't want to necessarily just make this about women,

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Speaker 2: Like you over delivery? And I feel like some women

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Speaker 1: Because let me tell you something, because I ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: I'm about to clean for you. I'm not about to

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Speaker 1: Doing that is if are you taking care of me?

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Speaker 1: So I'm at home all day, you're taking care of me.

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Speaker 1: So I have that time and that energy to give

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Speaker 1: that to you. I feel like a lot of men

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Speaker 1: they want to be like, oh baby, I'm gonna change

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Speaker 2: do Okay, well, let's see what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: And this is probably kind off topic, but I had

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Speaker 2: Of saying like, do you feel like men?

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Speaker 1: I mean like they was like, they feel like women

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Speaker 2: My mom was straight. She didn't have to work right

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Speaker 2: And they're alive, right, Okay, So that just lets y'all

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Speaker 1: I sat there and argue with somebody because they said,

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Speaker 2: What is the harm in that? And for me, it's

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Speaker 1: he said, because you've been rocking fashion over, but all

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Speaker 2: When you walking around? And good?

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Speaker 1: My little baby'll stop because he'd be buying fashion over

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Speaker 2: Exactly why these niggas y'all be confused? Y'all want to

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Speaker 1: Rappers will misguide you every time they be telling y'all

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Speaker 1: these rappers misguide y'all so much because they be telling

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Speaker 1: because they're tricking off there. They're telling y'all in your girls,

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Speaker 1: because these niggas not only do they have the money,

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Speaker 1: Let me say that I've been in relationships with millionaires,

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Speaker 1: So I had situations where I've had a man support

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Speaker 1: It's about supporting a relationship. And if you walk around

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Speaker 1: it's me, my picky, but but you ain't got no man.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about if you got a man. So she

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Speaker 1: you need to revaluate, if you re evaluate your relationship

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Speaker 1: It ain't never been a time that I was fucking

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get into, you know, past things

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Speaker 1: Niggas don't really be wanting me at like they want

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Speaker 1: And then if he wants you to have his baby's okay,

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Speaker 2: And you're supposed to support it because since we have money.

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Speaker 1: It's ways everything that you're trying to find a rebuttal

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Speaker 2: It's ways exactly. And I'll say this, I hate when

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Speaker 1: If you don't fuck with me before the kid, why

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: Because if I gotta ask for help now, imagine what

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Speaker 1: they feel like that's what they need to like, what

436
00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:45,240
Speaker 1: they need.

437
00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:45,879
Speaker 2: To say to get you.

438
00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,160
Speaker 1: And some women I'm not trying to be played, but none.

439
00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say some women. I'm gonna say most

440
00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,720
Speaker 1: women are gullible and falsely.

441
00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:52,680
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, bitch.

442
00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:54,320
Speaker 1: I don't fail for I ain't give him a pussy,

443
00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:56,640
Speaker 1: but I failed for it a few times for it before.

444
00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,720
Speaker 1: It's like give a nigga your number. You start talking

445
00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:01,200
Speaker 1: and you realize he ain't about light. I felt for

446
00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,880
Speaker 1: it before too. And then you have even more tream

447
00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,919
Speaker 1: cases where girls do get him the pussy and they

448
00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:08,960
Speaker 1: be in a relationship. I said this other that that

449
00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:11,040
Speaker 1: was this man that went viral because we getting in

450
00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:14,960
Speaker 1: a relationship to you show in the LA he got

451
00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:20,600
Speaker 1: a baby, mama, a girlfriend, and a side bitch and

452
00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:25,320
Speaker 1: he's broke. How does that happen? Because he's fanessing, he's lying.

453
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,800
Speaker 1: Good Dick, I'm sorry, Like I said, y'all know, I'm

454
00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:32,240
Speaker 1: about to be thirty this year. Good dick, whatever, I

455
00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,359
Speaker 1: got a vibrator. Good Dick ain't doing shit over here

456
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:37,520
Speaker 1: for me to be surprised about the ladies that are

457
00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:41,040
Speaker 1: still out here getting bamboozled for some good dick getting

458
00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:41,680
Speaker 1: dicked down.

459
00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:46,840
Speaker 2: Yes, girl, pullese, I'm sorry. I gotta feel me.

460
00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:50,520
Speaker 1: Girl, I do have some immaculine, but it ain't worth

461
00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,680
Speaker 1: it ain't worth a nigga. Let me tell y'all something.

462
00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:57,399
Speaker 1: The man that gave me the best sex in my life,

463
00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:00,240
Speaker 1: I still fuck with him, but that's because he to

464
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,119
Speaker 1: me and if I need anything, he's there for me.

465
00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,879
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Right now, there's niggas who

466
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,720
Speaker 1: got dick. That'd be good, but I'm not fucking with

467
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,760
Speaker 1: you cause if I need you, I know I can't

468
00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 1: depend and not even financially, I mean like mentally, like

469
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:15,959
Speaker 1: if anything goes on, anything happens, I can call him

470
00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,119
Speaker 1: and be like, oh my god, let me tell you

471
00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:17,680
Speaker 1: about my dad.

472
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:19,600
Speaker 2: He like, man, what happened? Well, let me tell you how.

473
00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:21,560
Speaker 1: My point of view is, like you know what I'm saying,

474
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,320
Speaker 1: Like he's always there for me mentally. If I ever

475
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:25,960
Speaker 1: needed someone, I'm like, hey, can you send me this

476
00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 1: da He got.

477
00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:31,480
Speaker 2: Me so it's more than just sex.

478
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:33,920
Speaker 1: And he's never tried to came at me on some

479
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,000
Speaker 1: Oh I got money, I got money, I got this,

480
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,200
Speaker 1: and I at that but it just he fuck with me,

481
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:38,680
Speaker 1: So that's.

482
00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:40,159
Speaker 2: Just what it is. Yeah, he just make sure you

483
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,240
Speaker 2: straight because he fuck with you.

484
00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,200
Speaker 1: So fellas, let me ask y'all this, Why do y'all

485
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 1: use money or use other things to try to convince

486
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,320
Speaker 1: women to talk to you when you know that's not

487
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:51,280
Speaker 1: what you're gonna deliver.

488
00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:53,879
Speaker 2: And ladies, let me know why do y'all fall for

489
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,439
Speaker 2: that or do you fall for trying to get the moody?

490
00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,639
Speaker 2: And women be trying to get the money, but they

491
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 2: don't be realizing these niggas got.

492
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,240
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, if you ever expect anything

493
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 1: from a nigga, if you give up the pussy and

494
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 1: you ain't got it yet, you're not gonna.

495
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 2: Get it period.

496
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,080
Speaker 1: Because if anything, and I always say this and I

497
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,679
Speaker 1: stand firmly on these once you give a nigga the pussy,

498
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:13,000
Speaker 1: you ain't.

499
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,400
Speaker 2: Got no power from.

500
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,440
Speaker 1: If he didn't get he gonna do some ship for you.

501
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,879
Speaker 1: He doing it because he really fucked with you, but

502
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,680
Speaker 1: you don't have no leverage in the situation.

503
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,120
Speaker 2: And let me and let me make this clear. We're

504
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:27,120
Speaker 2: not just talking about money.

505
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 1: But if a nigga promise you tom and he not

506
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,320
Speaker 1: giving you time, and then you're like, oh, well, let

507
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:31,920
Speaker 1: me fuck him.

508
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:33,400
Speaker 2: You're not gonna get his time.

509
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:37,800
Speaker 1: If he promised you, oh, I'm gonna start up, you know,

510
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring I'm gonna give you.

511
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 2: This for your for your business. If you give up

512
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:43,440
Speaker 2: the pussy and he ain't give you that money for

513
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 2: the business yet, you're not gonna get it. But I

514
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 2: feel like time and money is a compromise. What you mean.

515
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,399
Speaker 1: I feel like niggas who got the time ain't got

516
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 1: the money, and niggas who got the money ain't got

517
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: the time.

518
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, but at the same time, you make time for

519
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:56,959
Speaker 2: what you want to make.

520
00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:00,879
Speaker 1: Tom said, you do have amount of time that a

521
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 1: man with money gonna be amount of time that a

522
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 1: man who is not as successful can give you in

523
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,400
Speaker 1: different levels. A man with money still gonna make time

524
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 1: for you if you feel like you're a priority, exactly,

525
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 1: not gonna But honestly, you're.

526
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 2: Not gonna get as much time as you might be

527
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: in a different type of.

528
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,880
Speaker 1: I said, we both messed with men who are well off,

529
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:21,639
Speaker 1: And like I said, I'm messing with men who are

530
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,359
Speaker 1: well off who every time.

531
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 2: He was out of town, he always made sure I

532
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 2: was there or he called you. That's time, you know.

533
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's not the same as being together. I

534
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 1: just feel like it's a compromise a little bit. When

535
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,159
Speaker 1: a dude has money and when a dude doesn't, you

536
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: might get more time. It just depends on what you

537
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 1: want as a person like me. I'm okay with compromising

538
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 1: time like you always being there, but we straight I'm

539
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 1: cool with that. Yeah, people want time more. I mean,

540
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,439
Speaker 1: I think I just want a healthy ballot. But if

541
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,479
Speaker 1: you ain't getting neither of you ain't getting time. Man,

542
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 1: You ain't get money, bitch, what you're doing.

543
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,919
Speaker 2: First of all, you got us fucked up?

544
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 1: Because hell no, really you got y'alllu because you're the

545
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 1: one who win that situation. I just you know, I'm

546
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: not trying to be funny, but ladies, we be putting

547
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: y'all on a lot of game, and I'm not trying

548
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 1: to be funny, But I just want my ladies to.

549
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 2: Smart enough and just these men get what they want

550
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 2: out of these situations.

551
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 1: I just want y'all to start getting what y'all want to,

552
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: whether it be time, whether it be money, whether it

553
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: be love or whatever you want, whatever it is, Please

554
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 1: get it before you give up the pussy. That's all

555
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because then these men are coming at y'all

556
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: and they're selling you dreams and they've been doing this

557
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: ship since the beginning of the time. You know what else,

558
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 1: Hall has been hole since the beginning the time, and

559
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 1: that's another time.

560
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,000
Speaker 2: And you know that's why holes be winning.

561
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: That's why y'all always want to be like it seems

562
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: like good girls come in last and holls be winning.

563
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 2: Hollse be winning because they know how the game go

564
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 2: right and they know you ain't.

565
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 1: I ain't saying you gotta be a whole because the whole,

566
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: I feel like a hole is a term that's conditional.

567
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, every levels a different level of ebody and dance.

568
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: Everybody has their own definition of what they feel like

569
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 1: being a hoe eaes. But all I'm saying is true,

570
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: holes be knowing what they want and they go after it.

571
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 1: That's why they don't be having to deal with the

572
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: sheet that girls who be afraid to speak on what

573
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 1: they want.

574
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 2: Got to deal with.

575
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:20,920
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, ladies, it ain't

576
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with saying how you feel or what you

577
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 1: want from a situation, because if what you want is

578
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: too much?

579
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 2: Well guess what.

580
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: That ain't a nigga for you. And there's too many

581
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 1: niggas on God Green Arts for you to be stressing.

582
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 2: Over over one. And I know y'all feel like, oh

583
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 2: but this is me soon? Yeah girl, that ship?

584
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

585
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 2: I do you believe in so?

586
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 1: I do believe in souls, but I also believe that

587
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: there's a billion people in this world.

588
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 2: So you expect me to believe that there's only one

589
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 2: that's my step child? Please, so let us know what

590
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 2: y'all think about that.

591
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 1: Why men, Why do y'all use y'all's money or other

592
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: things to commit a woman to talk to you if

593
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 1: that's what you don't plan on doing. Like I said,

594
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: I'm all for putting your best foot forward. But while lie, Amen,

595
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: while lie. So getting into the next topic, I want

596
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: to talk about exes, ex boyfriends.

597
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 2: In your case, ex girlfriends as well. The shame. I'm

598
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 2: just being real. The share is right over, it's right now.

599
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 1: I don't know if you see it, okay, but I

600
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: want to talk about having relationships with your ex, whether

601
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 1: it be a platonic relationship, whether it be a sexual relationship,

602
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: whether y'all are still fuck with each other and talk

603
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: every now and again. Do you How do you feel

604
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: about having relationships with your ex. I don't think anything

605
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 1: is wrong with having relationships with your X. I have

606
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: relationships with a few of myke's, like we've remained cool

607
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 1: over the years.

608
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 2: I don't think anything is wrong with it.

609
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: Now sexual relationships, I'm not gonna lie like usually when

610
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm done with a situation, I'm done with you, right,

611
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: We're not about to have sex no more, because I

612
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: just feel like, I don't know.

613
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 2: To me, it's pointless. It's a reason why.

614
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 1: It's a reason why I left this situation, or you

615
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: left this situation and it didn't work out, So us

616
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: being cool. I don't have no issue with that because

617
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: I feel like some bonds are not easily broken and

618
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: they're hard to replace.

619
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 2: Right, So if you have a.

620
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 1: Connection with somebody, it's just because y'all couldn't maintain a

621
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: relationship doesn't mean y'all can maintain or friendship.

622
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 2: I honestly doubt that you said that.

623
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: I have never I can't say never because there's one guy,

624
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about, because I still deal

625
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: with this man this day. I've never gone back to

626
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 1: an ex like sexually me neither. And now I'm cool

627
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: with all my exes except for one. And you know

628
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: which one I'm talking about. I've always said that, and

629
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 1: this is the first time I haven't been cool with

630
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 1: an ex. But like I said, I'm dead well, I'm

631
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: cool with him. Oh that's not who you're talking No,

632
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm not cool with the other one that. Oh yeah,

633
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm cool with him, like that's my nigga, Like that's

634
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 1: always gonna be my nigga, right, I don't know who

635
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:00,400
Speaker 1: talking about.

636
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, we got a little personal for a second. Sorry, y'all.

637
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, So anyways, but like I was saying, I'm cool

638
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: with literally all my exes except for one one that

639
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm cool with. I actually still kind of fuck with

640
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: him on and off. But that's just something like that's

641
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: not gonna stop until one of us get married, honestly,

642
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: Like that's just not gonna stop period.

643
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 2: But do you feel like it would stop when you

644
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 2: get married? How do you feel about that?

645
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: Like, Okay, I guess we can't really speak on it

646
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: because neither one of us have ever been married, But

647
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: do you think that he's weird? Like when you get married,

648
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 1: to somebody and then they want you to cut off

649
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: certain friendships. How would you feel about that? If, like,

650
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: if I got married right now, somebody told me to

651
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 1: cut him off, I would understand it because it's still

652
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: emotions there. But if I'm in a serious relationship and

653
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 1: to the point where I'm engaged, once I get engaged,

654
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: I would have to block him. No, nothing, because the

655
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: temptation gonna be you would block him. You wouldn't let

656
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: him know, you wouldn't give him a four one.

657
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna tell him. I'm gonna let him know,

658
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 2: like but you would just but yeah, I'd be like, hey,

659
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 2: I'm just like, you know, this is what's going on.

660
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 2: I got a block. I gotta block you because it's

661
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 2: got it's got to be dead because I mean, that's

662
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 2: how we are. We cannot talk for months and then

663
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: it's be like, hey, what's up, Hey, what's up? I

664
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 2: love you?

665
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: The I love you start again. The it's like we

666
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 1: picked up where we never left, like where we left off.

667
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So why do you not

668
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 2: feel like you and this person would get married? Oh shit,

669
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 2: I don't know.

670
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: I just feel like if it's that type of connection,

671
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: because that's how I be feeling because I'm not gonna lie.

672
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: I ain't never really had no connection.

673
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,959
Speaker 1: With nobody liked that, so where I feel like, oh God,

674
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 1: let me keep a real I couldn't put them off it.

675
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 2: Fucking I'm gonna keep it real right now.

676
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: If I wrote if I was wearing cause like he's good,

677
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: like he's good, if I was where I wanted to

678
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: be in my career, I would be like, let's fucking

679
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: do this, you know what I'm saying.

680
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 2: But not even with just him, with just anybody.

681
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm not ready to fully give myself to

682
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: somebody because right now I'm engulfed in my career and

683
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: lex P and what I have going on right so

684
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: it's like I can't even really give myself to anybody.

685
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: So if I was like where I wanted to be

686
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: in my career, would I marry him? I'm so fucking Louie,

687
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: you really at the drop of a dime. Wow, Absolutely,

688
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: that's dope, Because like I said, I don't have any

689
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: X situations or prior situations where I feel like if

690
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: I got in a new situation and my nigga wanted

691
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: me to cut that person off, it would not be

692
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: it would be a no burner. I could cut any

693
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: nigaes that I'm still cool. I'm definitely unless somebody comes

694
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: and just sweeps me off my feet and just it's

695
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: a connection that's deeper than me and him have.

696
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: I just don't see myself cutting him off.

697
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: And that's why I asked the question, because I just

698
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: feel like if you and a person have that type

699
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: of connection, like why would they not be the person?

700
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: And it's just like he's back in Houston, I'm here.

701
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: It's just a lot of little factors, right, I'm saying,

702
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: like it's a lot of.

703
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 2: Well well to be continued on that sting too. So

704
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 2: that's to the relationships with That's like I said, I'm.

705
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: Cool with all my exes, but I'll be talking to

706
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: some of my exits and they still be trying to fuck.

707
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: They still be throwing that little shit in there. But

708
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: it's not like that, Like I'm like you when it

709
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: comes to most of my exes, ninety nine percent of

710
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: my exes except that one. Once we've done sexually, I'm done,

711
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: but we can still be cool.

712
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 2: Go there, shit where you want to, but you ain't

713
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 2: about to throw their deep over here.

714
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Now, I will say this, I thought me

715
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: and one of my exes were cool, and we're not.

716
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: And I will be an adult and I'll take the

717
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: blame for it. I will because I've said some things

718
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: on the podcast in the past that were probably a

719
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: little offensive, but at the same time, that's my truth

720
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: that I feel. That's what I felt, you know what

721
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I feel like things got misconstrued that

722
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: the end of the day. That's how I feel. So

723
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: I feel like we don't agree. We've never agreed on

724
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: my emotions and things like that, but that's why we

725
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 1: broke up, and that's why we all ritet along. So

726
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: I don't hate this person. I don't go around talking

727
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: shit about this person. If anything, when I talk about

728
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: him to anybody, which I don't, which she knows, I

729
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: say good things about this person.

730
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 2: If I do have to talk about it, I do

731
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 2: say good things about this person. But Church, it's not

732
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 2: that type of person.

733
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, to down't talk a past situation or a past friendship,

734
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: and I do admire that about Yeah, I don't have

735
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: nothing bad because sometimes when you ask me about certain people,

736
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: I'll be like, man, fuck that b No, like yes,

737
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 1: I'll ask dr about so much.

738
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 2: She'll be like who who Like dad ass, She'll be

739
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 2: like who is that? Like I don't know who that is.

740
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: I have no idea who these persons is. But I

741
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: will speak on a situation that I had. So I

742
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: had an X who We were like high school sweethearts.

743
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: Like we started dating in high school, probably like when

744
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: I was in Well, we knew each other since I

745
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: was in tenth grade because we used to work at

746
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: the same job together. And then we started dating in

747
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: eleventh grade and I dated him until.

748
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,479
Speaker 2: My freshman year in college. We broke up my freshman

749
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 2: year in college, so had a long relationship.

750
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: We had a long relationship. Like I said, we were

751
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: together from eleventh grade until my freshman year in college.

752
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 2: Then I broke up with him.

753
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: And from my freshman year in college, even though we

754
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: broke up until last year, we were really like best friends.

755
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 2: Like we used to talk every week girls stop. We

756
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 2: were friends. We were friends like up until last year.

757
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 1: And then last year he ended up getting in a

758
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: relationship and he got a girl. Well, actually, I'm gonna

759
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: just keep it one hunding with y'all. He got a

760
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: girl pregnant then they got in a relationship because he

761
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: wanted to do the right thing.

762
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 2: But that's because he's a good man. No, but he was,

763
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 2: he's a really good man.

764
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: I just felt like he wasn't the man for me,

765
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 1: So that's why not, because he was just immature and

766
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: I just feel like he didn't want what I wanted

767
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: out of life.

768
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 2: He didn't have enough driving ambition like me anybody.

769
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: It's not about the bag, though, It's just about the

770
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: ambition factor, because like I said, we started dating each

771
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: other at a young age. So if I would have

772
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: seen that potential in him, probably would have stuck it out.

773
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: Because when I was like twenty one twenty two, I

774
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: wasn't thinking about the.

775
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 2: Bag, you know what I mean. See that's crazy because

776
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 2: I was. I was more like that. No, I wasn't. No,

777
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 2: back then, I wasn't thinking about stuff like that. It

778
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 2: was just kind of a club. Well, okay, let me

779
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 2: rephrase this.

780
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: Twenty one, Like twenty two is around the time I

781
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 1: did start thinking about the bag. But when I was

782
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: like nineteen all the way to like twenty one, that

783
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: wasn't something that was just a priority for me. It's

784
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: like if I fuck with you, when I vibe with you,

785
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: then we can make this shit work.

786
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 2: And for me, he just never had.

787
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: He lacked the ambition that I wanted him to have,

788
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 1: and I just never seen him getting to the point

789
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 1: and like he was bossed up to where he would

790
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: be bossed up.

791
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 2: So it was just kind of like I had to

792
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 2: let the situation go. But he was a great friend.

793
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: He was always there for me mentally, emotionally, spiritually everything.

794
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 2: Thank you. We used to pray together and everything, like

795
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 2: he's really really he's beautiful.

796
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: He is. He's really a good person. But like I said,

797
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: last year, he got somebody pregnant and he had to

798
00:33:55,840 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: cut me off. And it really and it really really hurt.

799
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 2: Though. Did you cry? I didn't cry, and now you know,

800
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 2: these beaches stopped playing with me. I didn't cry at night.

801
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 2: But it hurt because that was a like eight year relationship.

802
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: You know that that was my friend.

803
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: That was somebody I would even call him and talk

804
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 1: to him about niggas I was fucking with, and he

805
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: would talk to me about girls he was fucking with.

806
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 2: That's how close we were.

807
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: But once you get in a situation where you had

808
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: somebody pregnant and you about to start a family with them.

809
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 1: I have no choice but to understand that this situation

810
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: could be no more. We just can't be cool no

811
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: more because things are different now.

812
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 2: And then I'm not trying to be funny.

813
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: But if I didn't know you from a cannerper hour, stranger, bitch,

814
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: I'll almost ran to call of threes talking to my man.

815
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: First of all, bitch, you got me fucked up. But

816
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,919
Speaker 1: and then that's what I was gonna say. It hurt

817
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: me because I didn't understand why his girlfriend or baby

818
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 1: i'maa couln't understand. I really didn't under you couldn't understand you, no,

819
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: because I didn't want that nigga, Like you don't know

820
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: that I ain't fuck your nigga.

821
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 2: Since two thousand people know that we just friends. You

822
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:57,320
Speaker 2: don't know that.

823
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: But she couldn't know that, and she really wanted to

824
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: divulge to the origin to the situation and figure it out.

825
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 2: She could have figured that I am trying to figure

826
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: shit out. This bad bitch is texting my man.

827
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 1: I don't that's what's wrong with you, hols lex pitch yup.

828
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:18,240
Speaker 1: Unless unless it could have been y'all kid god, unless

829
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 1: you introduced she y'all ain't never been introduced. So so

830
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: y'all ain't never been on FaceTime. And I was around like,

831
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: hey girl, Like I don't have had guys that had

832
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: very close like girl friends and they will be we

833
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: will be on FaceTime. They'd be like, hey girl, they're

834
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: probably still fucking because that's how niggas are.

835
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 2: But at least introduced me to the bitch, Like, you

836
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, I don't know you.

837
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 1: All I know is this bitch on Instagram with the

838
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: parking titties and and a nice full lips of the

839
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:48,919
Speaker 1: lady edges.

840
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 2: Bitch, you got me fucked up, period. I'm serious, Like, no, bitch,

841
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 2: I'm dead.

842
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like I said, that situation did hurt me,

843
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 1: but I did understand. So I feel like if you

844
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 1: get in the seat situation, sometimes if you have all relationships,

845
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 1: our friendships will show exies. You just have to understand

846
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: that when they get in a serious relationship, it just

847
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: can't be that way anymore. I mean, but I also

848
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 1: feel like, like I said, I feel like it really depends,

849
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: but nothing is wrong with having I guess that's all

850
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: I want to put. As long as it's platonic. But

851
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: and I think that's what the issue was, because I

852
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: will say, on my end, I didn't want anything from

853
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: the situation anymore.

854
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 2: But on his end, he exactly definitely one of the

855
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 2: blankets scrolling through your Instagram, And I was like, Dan,

856
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 2: he don't even have Instagram, beach, So first of all,

857
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 2: you got her though. It don't matter. Do you have

858
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 2: to have Instagram to scroll Instagram anybody? Oh no, you don't.

859
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 2: Instagram is a website that you can get on your phone.

860
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 1: I highly doubt that he was on my Instagram scrawling

861
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: because he know me in real life. I could just

862
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: see him a picture. You probably would bitch. First of all,

863
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 1: stop you the reason why?

864
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: You the reason why she had her insecurities that right now?

865
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,399
Speaker 2: Like that bitch, I knew it. But from my point

866
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 2: of view, I feel like you can't have relationships with

867
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,280
Speaker 2: your ex. I'm cool with all my exes.

868
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: I actually just talked to one of my exes, the

869
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: one I was just talking about that wanted me to

870
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: move out there with him.

871
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 2: I actually just talked to him the other day and

872
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 2: it's just what he was saying. Nothing. He was just like,

873
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: what's up? How you being? You know what was he

874
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 2: trying to do? That's cute.

875
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: I just want to know what was his inherions when

876
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 1: he and he was he was in Atlanta and he

877
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: was just trying to see what I was up to.

878
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 2: Was he trying to get that poom pool? I don't know.

879
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 2: I don't know.

880
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: He probably was and you list while you laughing because

881
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:35,919
Speaker 1: you already know what type of time.

882
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 2: But we didn't have a long story short, we didn't

883
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 2: hang out. But I mean, that's what I'm saying. I'm cool.

884
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 2: It ain't no bad blood with all my exes except

885
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 2: for one. And like I said, I'll take the blame

886
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 2: for that.

887
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: You know whatever, it's cool, But I don't have no

888
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you and that person could be

889
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: cool in the future.

890
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think so. Really. I just think

891
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 2: because we're just our energies are different, and we.

892
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,800
Speaker 1: We look at life totally differently, right, And that's okay,

893
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: And I'm okay with that. But I think sometimes people

894
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: aren't okay with that. They don't understand that, like when me.

895
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 2: And you dilects over here rolling her pants legs. But

896
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 2: I just feel like.

897
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 1: When me and you disagree, we can agree to disagree

898
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: and I can respect your opinion and you can respect mine,

899
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: and we can be like, you know what, Drea thinks A,

900
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 1: but I think B. And that's totally cool with that person.

901
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 1: And if I thought A, if he thought B, you're dumb,

902
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: I said, but I was also. But I feel like six,

903
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: you know, six doesn't complication relate, like when you're in

904
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: a relationship that can complicate things versus a friendship. But

905
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,359
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is even with the even with other

906
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: people that I've dealt with, like my other exes that

907
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: I'm cool with, we'll disagree on something and we'll just

908
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: be like, all right, cool, excuse.

909
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 2: Me, I'm drunk. Oh ship, that shit stunk to indeed,

910
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 2: girl first, that's how you know it. But anyways, like

911
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 2: I said, I feel like as an adult, you.

912
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: You can learn how to disagree with somebody and be

913
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: an adult and respect them. I feel like some people

914
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: when you disagree with them, they don't respect that and

915
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: it's either their way or no way. And like I said, yeah,

916
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 1: it's either the okay, it's either their way or no way.

917
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: And like I said, do I hate this person? No?

918
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,240
Speaker 2: I got love for this person. I will never probably

919
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 2: he probably does. He probably definitely does. But do I

920
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 2: hate him?

921
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: No?

922
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 2: Do I want to see him Shane? Absolutely? Do I

923
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 2: wish him the best in life. That money is he

924
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 2: gonna shine? Okay, next see y'all talk about me like

925
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 2: I'm shady. This is the shade queen.

926
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: But like I said, I'm an easy I'm not that

927
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: easy to get along with it, But I feel like

928
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: I can't be easy to get along with. You know

929
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying because I like to, but I feel

930
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: like I like to look at things from people's point

931
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: of view, Like sometimes I pop off, but I can

932
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 1: sit back.

933
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 2: And be like, you know what, you easy to get

934
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:13,720
Speaker 2: along with, but you friendly.

935
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: But that's why because I'm friendly, I mean that it

936
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: would make it hard to get along with you too.

937
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 2: That's what I'm gonna say.

938
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: That's why I feel like even in that situation, I

939
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: definitely don't side with him, but I can understand why

940
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: he feel how he feels because you're such a nice person,

941
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: Like you really are a super nice person. I am

942
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 1: a super nice person. But you have to realize that

943
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: I was hurt from that situation, right, So I said

944
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: the things that I said because I finally let that out,

945
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 1: and I let it out a line down Wednesday in

946
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 1: front of everybody, which I probably shouldn't have, right and

947
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: I probably should just talk that out with you and

948
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 1: for him or him and let that ship out, but

949
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: it just couldn't be done, and I did it.

950
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 2: It was the wrong place at the wrong time. But

951
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 2: guess what I said. I said, I felt what I

952
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 2: felt because I was hurt from the situation.

953
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: Right, I apologize. If he's listening, I apologize to you

954
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:06,240
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry. And it came off and close friends.

955
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all even noticed, that's our background music for this episode.

956
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: But like I said, I probably shouldn't have done it

957
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: on the online because, like I said, I'm not even

958
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: being funny.

959
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 2: I actually talked to my exit. I told you that

960
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 2: I'm cool with that.

961
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: We still have a relationship about the situation, about what

962
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 1: happened about it, And.

963
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 2: He was like, you was out of line, and who

964
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 2: else told you that? Not to own you did? But

965
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 2: I agree with you that night.

966
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: But I agree with you that night, but I was

967
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:39,760
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, bitch. We took patron shots. First

968
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: of all, we weren't doing one down Wednesday. It was

969
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 1: pat ron bonus episode, So it was to get you.

970
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. When you greet pat it's cool,

971
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,919
Speaker 1: you gotta meet Ron. But when Ron comes, bitch, shit

972
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 1: gets real. Because when Ron comes, shit gets real, get crazy.

973
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: If y'all don't know what we're talking about, patrol obviously,

974
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 1: but anyways, So yeah, so I feel like what I

975
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: said is how I felt.

976
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 2: But it's not about what you say, it's how you

977
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 2: say it. So like I said, I do it.

978
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: I can be a big, a bigger person about the

979
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: situation to say I'm sorry, but like I said, oh

980
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: my sister is really But that's I've always been this way, though, bro,

981
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 1: because I value friendships to an extent, and.

982
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 2: It's like, not, I won't. I can't.

983
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: Well let me not say that I value our friendship

984
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: with me and him our friends anymore. But I learned

985
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: a lot from our relationship and I'm not gonna lie.

986
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: You taught me a lot and you're taking it with you,

987
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: and I will take that with me for the rest

988
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: of my life. So I feel bad for trying to

989
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: downplay him and who he is and that that was

990
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 1: kind of you know, that was fucked up with me. Yeah,

991
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm a I'm a grown woman, and

992
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: I can admit when I was wrong. So absolutely, But

993
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: do I think he hates me?

994
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Do I think we will ever have a friendship? Absolutely?

995
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: I don't feel that way because I feel like it's always.

996
00:42:56,760 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: Room for forgive me. Yeah, I mean, but I mean,

997
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 2: what will you ever be?

998
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: Like? My mom always told me true Christians for you,

999
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 1: But Drake told me don't never exk for permission x

1000
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: fore I did, bitch you get on my nerves. But yeah,

1001
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: so let me know how y'all feel about having relationships

1002
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: with your ex.

1003
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 2: But I will say this, adding to that conversation, you

1004
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 2: go listen to do I God? Or seek God? Why

1005
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 2: which God? You're gonna listen to?

1006
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 1: God? But I will say this, Like I said, adding

1007
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 1: on to that conversation, do I feel like we could

1008
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:38,280
Speaker 1: have a friendship? I would, but I don't think he would.

1009
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 1: But do I ever feel like we would be like

1010
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 1: sexual or in a relationship?

1011
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 2: Again, I don't. Well, I feel like that's but neither

1012
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 2: one of y'all. I feel like one thing. Oh yeah, yeah,

1013
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: I know that.

1014
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 1: But I was just saying, because what the topic is

1015
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: relationships with your egg? I am cool with all my exes,

1016
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,919
Speaker 1: and none of us are sexual. It's just a platonic friendship. Yeah,

1017
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: could I be friends with him, you know, possibly, But

1018
00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 1: like I said, I just feel like we view life.

1019
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: And one of my ex is always used to look

1020
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 1: at my snaps back when I used to be on

1021
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 1: Snap all the time and response to it, and I

1022
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: used to be like, first of all, nigga, you got

1023
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: me for stuff.

1024
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 2: We ain't cool. I'm dead, I'm not mean, I speak,

1025
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 2: you know.

1026
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 1: I used to read here she didn't leave a heart,

1027
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: but I leave her heart to people I don't know,

1028
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: not the heartbeatch?

1029
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 2: Did you know I love the heart? Okay, so me

1030
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 2: donna move on to the next topic.

1031
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: So let us know how y'all feel about having relationships

1032
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 1: with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend.

1033
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 2: Let us know how y'all feel about that.

1034
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: So the next topic I want to talk about is

1035
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: I actually saw this on Twitter today and basically a

1036
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 1: girl had texted a guy and she was like, can

1037
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: we cuddle tonight? And the guy basically sent her this

1038
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 1: long paragraph and was like, you know what, I don't

1039
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 1: want to waste your time. I'm really not attracted to

1040
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: you like that. The only reason I'm saying this is

1041
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 1: because this is the second time you text me, and

1042
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to lead you on. But there's somebody

1043
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: else who's gonna love you and appreciate you.

1044
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 2: But that guy is not me.

1045
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: So somebody was like, damn, this was disrespectful. Why did

1046
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 1: he have to do all that? But at the same time,

1047
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: it's like he was being honest.

1048
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 2: Yeah but wait, wait, wait, wait wait, let me finish

1049
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 2: introducing the topics. So this is how I feel.

1050
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: We always talk about how we want we want men

1051
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: and women to approach us with honesty. So do you

1052
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: want people to also curve you with honesty? Hell yeah,

1053
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: curve me with honesty. But why the fuck I got

1054
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: your number in the first place. I mean, if you

1055
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: wasn't interested, you didn't feel like I was cute, Because

1056
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: sometimes you get to know people and their personality turns

1057
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 1: you off. I can meet somebody and he'd be fine

1058
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: as fucking Then we have a conversation, I'd be like.

1059
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 2: Ooh, chow, no, I don't find him a trouble no more. Oh,

1060
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,720
Speaker 2: Like I'm serious. So I was doing CD girls school.

1061
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 2: I'm there.

1062
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I feel like sometimes you

1063
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 1: meet somebody and you get to know them and their

1064
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 1: vibes are off and you don't like it.

1065
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 2: So that does happen.

1066
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 1: So you do get people's number and you realize y'all

1067
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: don't click like that. So how do you feel about

1068
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: are you honest when you curve people? I feel like

1069
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: that's very respectable. I guess that he's seeing her their message.

1070
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: But like I said, I don't know. I feel like

1071
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: in a from a man's perspective, and I don't know

1072
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: if men and women think differently about topics like that,

1073
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 1: But I feel like, as a man, why you gotta

1074
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: tell you all number if you ain't think she was cute?

1075
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: And she me.

1076
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 2: My number because they be.

1077
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 1: Hounding me, And at once I realized I don't like

1078
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: yo ass, I just ain't gonna respond no more.

1079
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 2: So am I honest with my curve?

1080
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: No?

1081
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 2: I just don't respond to you. I'm I'll say that.

1082
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:29,320
Speaker 1: I agree, I won't. I will respond, but I'll be

1083
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: real dry. I'll be hoping you don't care I'm responding.

1084
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: I be looking at your texts and I know you

1085
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: follow me on Instagram and I'll still be posting.

1086
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 2: Now I'll say this, it's been situations where.

1087
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: Guys be like blowing me up and I just straight

1088
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: up don't answer. That's when it's like, okay, you being

1089
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: a little extra.

1090
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 2: Remember that day I told you I went on whe

1091
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 2: that Nigga was laughing too hard at my jokes. Yes,

1092
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 2: and he kept but I got to the point to

1093
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 2: where I had to straight up and jumped out on

1094
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 2: day bruh. He I would be like, yeah, so I'm

1095
00:46:54,360 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 2: a beggin. Oh you're a vigine. No, but I mean

1096
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I was like, oh, yeah,

1097
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 2: I'm a vegetarian. Vegetarian. Shit, I'm like talking to the

1098
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 2: way that I'm like, can I get a shot of

1099
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 2: name short of name Nigga? God damn. Like I'm serious.

1100
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 2: That's how the day went.

1101
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 1: So it's like after me and him, Jesus, after me

1102
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 1: and him, Like, after that day, I'm dead ass how

1103
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 1: to ignore him? Because how do you tell somebody, hey,

1104
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: you were laughing too hard at my jokes. So I

1105
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:32,839
Speaker 1: feel like it kind of depends on why you're curving them.

1106
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: Have I ever been honest with curving somebody? I will

1107
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: honestly say no, I never have. I have.

1108
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 2: I've been very honest with curving people. What if you

1109
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 2: tell somebody I've.

1110
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: Curved people in real life all the time, Like, what

1111
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: do you say? Niggas would be like, oh, can I

1112
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: get your number? I'll be like no, but I'm talking

1113
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: to me when I say no. But what if they say,

1114
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: like why that's what I'm saying. But I'm saying when

1115
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,320
Speaker 1: you're being honest with your curve, Like if it's somebody

1116
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 1: you've been kind of talking to or texting and they're

1117
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:02,399
Speaker 1: asking you because at.

1118
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 2: This point, why got you talking about show curved from

1119
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 2: the first No, I'm.

1120
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: Talking because obviously she was texting him asking Ken, we

1121
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: cut us? So obviously this is somebody that they probably

1122
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: went on a day or they've been talking and he

1123
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: realized he wasn't attracted to her. So I'm talking about

1124
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 1: people that you've kind of built a rapport with. So

1125
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 1: have you ever curved somebody honestly? Like, Hey, we didn't

1126
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:24,240
Speaker 1: involve like that, we didn't connect. Have you ever curved

1127
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: somebody lived? Like, hey, straight up, I just don't think

1128
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: we click like that. We're not on the same wave link. No,

1129
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: maybe I'm not that mature yet. Like I said, I

1130
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: just stopped responding.

1131
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a ghoster. I'm ghost. Yeah, like Casper.

1132
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm not a complete ghoster, friendly ghost.

1133
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,280
Speaker 1: You're a ghoster, like straight up ghoster.

1134
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 2: But I'm a friendly gho.

1135
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. But that's why I said my name is Casper

1136
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: when I said when I see people out, if you speak,

1137
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,399
Speaker 1: i'm'll be like, yeah, but I don't want to fuck

1138
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: with your.

1139
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: Right I'm I'm a kind of person. I'm gonna be

1140
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 2: real dry, you know me. My phone is always in

1141
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 2: my hand. If I don't text you back, it's pretty

1142
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 2: much I'm like ignoring you. Like I have to be dead,

1143
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 2: ass asleep or something like. So it's like, I just

1144
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 2: I don't have it in me for some reason. I

1145
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 2: just can't.

1146
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: I have a thing about ego. I don't want my

1147
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:11,919
Speaker 1: ego hurt, so I try not to hurt people's ego.

1148
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 1: So do you feel like that's commendable what he did?

1149
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: I do, I really do, because you know what, when

1150
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: people kind of now somebody straight up ignores me, I

1151
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: can catch the hint.

1152
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 2: If I text you once that happened to you before

1153
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,720
Speaker 2: I text somebody that ignored me. Yeah, that has happened.

1154
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 2: But I've never responded to you. Yeah, but I know

1155
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 2: why because it was some shit I did. You know

1156
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But have I ever had somebody be like, hey, Lex,

1157
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 2: I'm not a tragic to you. No, I've never had

1158
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 2: that happen. I've had situations where let me tell you

1159
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 2: about this situation.

1160
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: I think I talked about this before this nigga fine

1161
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 1: as fuck, bitch, fine as fuck. My tied to a

1162
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: tee and he hit me up. He came into the city.

1163
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: Me and him actually used to fuck around, but we

1164
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,040
Speaker 1: like fell off blah blah blah, moved to Atlanta, but

1165
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: he's like, my tight girl came in to my city

1166
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: and we went on a I wouldn't even say it's

1167
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: a day. We went hung out, had a few drinks,

1168
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 1: and you know, a bitch, I'm thinking, you know what,

1169
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: fuck it? Me and him about to go get it popping,

1170
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 1: but it was he was on some shit like you know,

1171
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 1: I got a girl, like I got a girl.

1172
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 2: So I just want to be honest with you. You know,

1173
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 2: I mean we could still go get.

1174
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 1: It popping, but I know what situation he was talking

1175
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: about that wasn't no fucking curve because he didn't wanted

1176
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: to get it popping. He did you said, no, you

1177
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 1: did it because he had a girl. But still he

1178
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 1: was being honest. But so that's not a curve. That

1179
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: does not come They don't care, no, because that's not

1180
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: a curve because if you would have been like, oh,

1181
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: I understand the fact that you have a girl, let's

1182
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: go fuck, y'all would have fucked.

1183
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 2: Okay, you're right, you're right, And I guess well, I'll

1184
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 2: say this. I had another situation another nigga, find a

1185
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 2: suck the nigga. I told you that was over see

1186
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 2: and we.

1187
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: Was flyotting each other dns, talking shit was cool and

1188
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: it was like we was texting and we was on

1189
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: the like we only talked on the phone a few times.

1190
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 2: And but he the conversation was so easy, Bro, you

1191
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

1192
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 1: Sometimes you meet people you gotta pull that conversation out

1193
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: of them, and then you meet somebody in the conversation

1194
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 1: you just be so easy.

1195
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 2: Just it was so easy. And then it was just like, oh, hey,

1196
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 2: by the way, I have a girlfriend.

1197
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 1: But but this was kind of a curve because he

1198
00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 1: was like, but honestly, if she don't work out, you're

1199
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 1: gonna be the first all.

1200
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 2: Let know, But that wasn't a curve though? Was that

1201
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 2: not a curve? I'm on, my Kanye, I'm gonna let

1202
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 2: you finished. But how was a curve? Oh? I got curved?

1203
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 2: No you didn't because if you would have wanted to

1204
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,839
Speaker 2: go to see him, No, I couldn't have. I don't

1205
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 2: think so, all right, No I couldn't. That girl you

1206
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,879
Speaker 2: was lying? Why people? So let me know how y'all

1207
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 2: feel She just wanted to end the topic cause she

1208
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 2: be lying.

1209
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:45,879
Speaker 1: I'm not lying, but I just feel like I can't

1210
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,280
Speaker 1: be honest when I curse somebody because I'm I'm friendly

1211
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:48,880
Speaker 1: and I don't.

1212
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,399
Speaker 2: Like hurting people's feelings. That's my look on it. I'm

1213
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 2: not friendly with my curve. I mean, I'm not honest

1214
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 2: with my curves. I friendly. I just don't feel like

1215
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 2: my thing is.

1216
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 1: I just feel like if I just met you and

1217
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 1: then you show your self to be somebody that I'm

1218
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: not interested in, I don't even feel like I owe

1219
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 1: you that to tell you that because I don't even

1220
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: know you. My nigga, like, I'm not interested, leave me

1221
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: the fuck alone. We ain't never funked, We ain't never

1222
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 1: had no, we ain't we ain't had nothing. So if

1223
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to fuck with you no more, that's

1224
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 1: my prerogative.

1225
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 2: That's my period. Like, that's my prerogative. That's what I've decided,

1226
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 2: And all you can do is go along with this.

1227
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 2: She I don't know.

1228
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 1: I guess, like I said, I'm a little softer, harder

1229
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 1: than Drea. So I I just I don't have it

1230
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 1: in my heart just to start ignoring people. It's a

1231
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: cold world. I can't handle soft heart, all right, So

1232
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into let us know, do y'all honestly

1233
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: curve people? Are y'all just kind of ignore them or

1234
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 1: kind of be drawing them? Let us know y'all's method

1235
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: on curving folks. So let's get into your favorite topic,

1236
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: the bb oh okay anyway, okay, so the bad topic

1237
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:01,400
Speaker 1: for this week, we're gonna be.

1238
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 2: Talking about sexual compatibility. Do y'all feel induction? Not seduction

1239
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 2: compatibility with him?

1240
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 1: But she's thinking about me, me, me, y'all to be

1241
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 1: having the litles, gone ahead and get her little vocals out,

1242
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 1: because let's be honest, she's never gonna be a singer.

1243
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 2: So why Wednesday? Why not Wednesday? And talking on me?

1244
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:30,280
Speaker 2: When I drunk this record and I like to support

1245
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 2: my girl. Gone head, you got some more for him?

1246
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 2: Sexual duction, yeah, periods.

1247
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: But yeah, so we're gonna be talking about sexual compatibility.

1248
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: Do y'all feel like that's really a thing? Do you

1249
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 1: feel like you are just sexually compatible to some people

1250
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,480
Speaker 1: and some people you are not? Or do you feel like,

1251
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,360
Speaker 1: you know, with dating somebody even if you all start

1252
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,800
Speaker 1: having sex and it's not good to you in the beginning,

1253
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: you can like row them and show.

1254
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 2: Them how you want it. How do you want it?

1255
00:53:59,680 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 1: I have?

1256
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 2: How do you come in as the cash can't living

1257
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 2: in the fast Land? What I'm sorry? Sorry? Sorry? Okay,

1258
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 2: So y'all think the thing or no.

1259
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: Sexual compatibility is fucking real and you can't teach somebody

1260
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 1: how to love on you, how to fuck on you,

1261
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: how to suck on you, and how to rub on you.

1262
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:33,320
Speaker 1: But there's nothing like that automatic chemistry. And let me

1263
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 1: tell you why are you getting up to show me

1264
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 1: want to get so?

1265
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 2: Let me tell you why.

1266
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: Y'all know how I gets down in the bed? Y'all

1267
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 1: know how I get don't know, but we talked about

1268
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:51,240
Speaker 1: it on line down Wednesday.

1269
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,840
Speaker 2: Y'all know big mama freak. I don't hide it. I

1270
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 2: like I liked all that ship, big old free, big, big,

1271
00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 2: big old tree. So I'll say this.

1272
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: Y'all know how I get down in the bedroom. Y'all

1273
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: know I'm pretty much up for anything, and I don't.

1274
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 1: I don't like vanilla sex.

1275
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 2: I really don't, but shut the fuck up.

1276
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: So anyway, So what I'm saying is my best sex

1277
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: with somebody who likes vanilla sex. He don't want to

1278
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 1: do all that thinga in the booty, tongue toys, handcuffed.

1279
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 2: He don't like none of that shit. Handcuffed. He just

1280
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 2: want if you want me to, I have before you

1281
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 2: have some at your house. No, I don't have some.

1282
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 1: I was fucking with somebody who has something. Actually, I'm

1283
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 1: not trying to be funny. The first time I got handcuffed,

1284
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: I was in high school, like Vanila six. But when

1285
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: I say vanilla, I mean playing and boring. So what

1286
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying is my best sex is with somebody who

1287
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: doesn't like all the extra. He just want to give

1288
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: you straight. He barely even like head. He likes head

1289
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: for me because he likes my head. I'm not even

1290
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: trying to brag I don't. I don't do that because

1291
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 1: I give terrible head about it.

1292
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 2: No, I get terrible like that. Ain't what you told

1293
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 2: me because I was lying. I was trying to make myself.

1294
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 2: I was trying to make myself look cool. But you

1295
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 2: done told me that a lot of times. I was

1296
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:25,240
Speaker 2: trying to make myself look good lying. Hell yeah, trim,

1297
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 2: But I told you all.

1298
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:30,360
Speaker 1: This pussy trash, his head, trash everything. But but I

1299
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: will say this, he doesn't like all that stuff, but

1300
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 1: that's my best sex. He gives me my best sex,

1301
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 1: and he don't.

1302
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: He don't let me touch his ass, lick his ass,

1303
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 2: look at his ass, bitch, you don't like none of that.

1304
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 2: No toys, no nothing.

1305
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: So there's been people that I've had sex with where

1306
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 1: I talked to them when I like, oh I like this,

1307
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 1: I like that, and we ended up having fantastic sex,

1308
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 1: but it still didn't match up to that sexual compatibility where.

1309
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 2: He just knows my spots and he knows how to

1310
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 2: grab me, he knows what to say.

1311
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: That's some ship that can't be taught. You can't teach

1312
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: nobody no swag. You can't teach nobody to give them

1313
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: the drip.

1314
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:08,280
Speaker 2: Bitch. You can't teach that. You can't teach all dogs.

1315
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 2: You can't.

1316
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 1: So I feel like that sexual compatibility shit is real

1317
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,839
Speaker 1: and you can't teach somebody and the sex will be good,

1318
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 1: but it's not gonna be as good as somebody who

1319
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: you are sexually compatible with.

1320
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 2: Period. That's my opinion. What do you How do you

1321
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 2: feel about it?

1322
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 1: M M?

1323
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 2: I feel like you right? Yes, but honestly, when am

1324
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:34,480
Speaker 2: I wrong? But keep going? Keep going? First of all,

1325
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 2: I got at least send my phone.

1326
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 1: Actually we're not gonna go there, so yeah, but now

1327
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: so yes, I one hundred percent agree with you. I

1328
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: feel like sexual sexual compatibility is a real thing. And

1329
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, some people you just

1330
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: have that chemistry with and you just have that connection

1331
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 1: with and it's something that cannot be taught or bald.

1332
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 1: And when I say bald, I mean like you can

1333
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 1: go buy all the sex toys in the world, you

1334
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: can go buy all you can go watch all the porn.

1335
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 1: But if you and that person just don't have that chemistry,

1336
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: y'all don't have that chemistry. It's been people who I've

1337
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 1: had sex. We first round, it was just crazy and

1338
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:20,920
Speaker 1: it's like you would think I've known him for you.

1339
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: It was like, you would think I've known him for you, bitch, I.

1340
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 2: Thought the soundtrack to this close Friends. You said, But yes,

1341
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 2: it's some people.

1342
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 1: Who is just like that first time you just have

1343
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 1: that compatibility in the six to be crazy.

1344
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 2: You don't have to tell them what you want. But

1345
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 2: you know what's crazy. The first time me and my

1346
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 2: greatest sex partner has sex, it was trash. And he

1347
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 2: told me he was like, your pussy was like so bad, big,

1348
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 2: big trash.

1349
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: Nervous because I have been liking this dude for so

1350
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 1: long and we finally like I finally got him.

1351
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, but I would think

1352
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 2: they would make your pussy super weed. No, I was nervous, bitch.

1353
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 2: I was nervous. So it was dry. Not that I

1354
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 2: don't like it. I think I was just like laying

1355
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,919
Speaker 2: there kind of like I don't know what I was doing, bitch.

1356
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 2: But now baby Mama puts it on Daddy, Hey daddy.

1357
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, like I said, sexual compatibility, you can't it's

1358
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: either there.

1359
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 2: Or it's not something.

1360
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: It's definitely something that's just there. Like the best sex

1361
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 1: that I've had has been with partners who just know,

1362
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: they just know what to do, they know how to

1363
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: and have you have you had to have you had

1364
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: to teach somebody how to do things to you. Have

1365
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 1: you ever had to teach somebody how to fuck you

1366
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 1: right or have sex with you now? Because if it's trash,

1367
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna fuck you. No, no, I'm not gonna

1368
00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship before where our sex was okay.

1369
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: But I know you got in that relationship because, like, bitch,

1370
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: it was easy because he was doing things for me

1371
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:58,040
Speaker 1: and making like.

1372
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 2: We had great conversation before y'all got in a relationship. Yeah,

1373
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 2: we did, but like I said, it wasn't trash. It

1374
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 2: was just okay. But I'm not a person.

1375
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 1: Okay, babe, when we have said, you gotta lick my

1376
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 1: pussy like this, you gotta smack my ass like it's

1377
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 1: not that. But while we're having sex, I'm moving your hands,

1378
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm showing your head where.

1379
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,439
Speaker 2: To go, I'm putting this there, I'm moving this there.

1380
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:24,320
Speaker 1: If I'm trying to control you too much during sex,

1381
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm teaching you.

1382
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 2: It's not bad, But that's me teaching you.

1383
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 1: It's bad if I'm laying there and you just flipping

1384
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 1: me over when you're putting the thing down, flipping and

1385
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 1: reversing fish, then you got it. It's yours if you

1386
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: get the thing with hey, like, so you don't have

1387
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 1: to I don't have to do nothing.

1388
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 2: I already know. Oh lord, she about to cry. I'm

1389
01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 2: having flashbags. You ever here about to have a mental

1390
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 2: breakdown on the girl? No, I'm literally sweating y'all thinking

1391
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 2: about that. But yeah, I just feel like, yeah, it's

1392
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:00,160
Speaker 2: like it's something they can't.

1393
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 1: Him as soon as we finished this sirthing, why he

1394
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 1: ain't he not here? He gonna be here if I

1395
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 1: asked him to be y'all nasty. But anyways, like I

1396
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 1: was saying, I just feel like it's not something that

1397
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 1: could be taught. But I have came to the realization

1398
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 1: and this is just me personally. I just feel like,

1399
01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: if you get with a nigga and y'all have trash six,

1400
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: that's just what it is like.

1401
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 2: Not trash sticks.

1402
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 1: I ain't never just had no super super trash partner

1403
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: that I was really fucking we But I feel like

1404
01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 1: if I get with a nigga and the sex, it's

1405
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 1: just okay, and it's not like immaculates.

1406
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 2: It's not gonna never be immaculate. Yeah, and I'm cool

1407
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 2: with that in certain certain situations.

1408
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:42,160
Speaker 1: Like I said, in my situation, I was cool with

1409
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 1: that because it was like he was making sure I

1410
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: was straight.

1411
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 2: We had great conversation, he was fun.

1412
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,240
Speaker 1: It was just like a lot of other things that right,

1413
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 1: And I mean sometimes those other things take more importance

1414
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 1: over the six.

1415
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel about sex compatibility.

1416
01:01:58,640 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 2: Sex compatibility.

1417
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 1: Do you feel like somebody you can teach somebody to

1418
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 1: be compatible with you sexually or is it just something

1419
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 1: that cannot be tought. Yes, we would love to know.

1420
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 1: And before we get into the bop of the week,

1421
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 1: I do have a shout out that I would like

1422
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: to give to my best friend Jordan's. It's his birthday.

1423
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jordan, and I just wanted to tell him

1424
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 1: happy birthday. We always spend his birthday together, but this

1425
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:26,720
Speaker 1: year he's going to tull him for his birthday and

1426
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: I want him to have an amazing time. And yes,

1427
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 1: I love you so much, Jordan. So yeah, shout out

1428
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:32,960
Speaker 1: to you because I know you listened to the show.

1429
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 2: Amen, little Jordan, turn up, turn up. Okay, So let's

1430
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 2: get into the box the bye. So what's your mop

1431
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 2: of the week?

1432
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:43,520
Speaker 1: My mop of the week is going I hate to

1433
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 1: be a bandwagoner, honestly, like I'm so against this sit

1434
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: but with this album, I have to be a bandwagoner

1435
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: because everyone has been posting you for the past week

1436
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 1: because it just got posted on all streaming platforms, and.

1437
01:02:58,200 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 2: I won't lie.

1438
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: I haven't heard this album in total since twenty twelve,

1439
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: probably just because.

1440
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 2: We didn't have how old was I?

1441
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 1: I was thirty three and two thousand girls shut up

1442
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 1: just because we didn't have access to it for a while.

1443
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 2: So my bop of the week is gonna be the

1444
01:03:13,760 --> 01:03:15,919
Speaker 2: whole So Far Gone album.

1445
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 1: Because I've been listening to this shit all week and

1446
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 1: I'm just like, wow, a timeless classic. It was that

1447
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 1: classic for euph it even wow truly. Okay, So shout

1448
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 1: out to Little Drizzy Drake Too Far Gone. I think

1449
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 1: we've all heard that project before. It is an amazing

1450
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 1: except for the youngins they talking about it new album.

1451
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 2: Okay. So my bop of the week h okay. So

1452
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 2: I was confused on Twitter the other day. There's this

1453
01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:46,600
Speaker 2: new artist. His name is the Baby.

1454
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: I thought it was a little baby wearing one wee

1455
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 1: bitch on the baby bitch. I know it was a

1456
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:54,560
Speaker 1: little baby and a baby. Yes, let me tell y'all something.

1457
01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:57,160
Speaker 1: The baby actually goes hard.

1458
01:03:57,480 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 2: Now.

1459
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 1: I will say his music is kind of like it's trendy.

1460
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: He does make the trendy music for right now. But

1461
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,360
Speaker 1: I'm rooting for all these rappers to have long. Jevy

1462
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 1: longevity in the game is very very rare, and it's

1463
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: too early to say if he's gonna have a long career,

1464
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,880
Speaker 1: but I will say he does bop now for everybody.

1465
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 1: The first song that people have probably heard by him

1466
01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: or you would want to listen to is a Texas

1467
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 1: Walker Ranger or something like that, Texas Ranger, Walker Bitch.

1468
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 2: Something I don't know, but it's jam it. Actually he

1469
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 2: goes hard. He makes club music.

1470
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 1: Where he from he's from I want to say Charlotte

1471
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 1: or North Carolina or something like that.

1472
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he from somewhere somewhere country, but he actually goes hard.

1473
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 2: And it's not love Baby, it's du baby da b

1474
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 2: a b y.

1475
01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 1: Like I said, I was actually really shocked at how

1476
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:48,640
Speaker 1: much I liked his mixtape, and it's a short mixtape.

1477
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 1: Y'all know I love mixtapes. He has two of them.

1478
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: I listened to the one with the Texas Walker Ranger

1479
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:56,960
Speaker 1: on there, so it has like ten songs. I literally

1480
01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 1: finished the whole thing while I was sitting in traffic,

1481
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 1: and I was actually really impressed. Y'all know I'm all

1482
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 1: about voices too. I love a good voice, and his

1483
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: voice is just really smooth, and that nigga can really

1484
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: like ride the beat. So I've heard about.

1485
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 2: Him, but I haven't ever actually listened to any of

1486
01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 2: his music. So I'm on the show. Yeah, the Baby

1487
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 2: like he actually goes like actually really really hard. I

1488
01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 2: see him having a good year. Shout out to the Baby.

1489
01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 1: Shout out to the Baby. And also another bop of

1490
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 1: the week. This is not even a song, It's just

1491
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:31,440
Speaker 1: a freestyle. Meg the Stallion dropped the other day fucking

1492
01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: fires sing bro Meg the Stallion. Let me tell y'all,

1493
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 1: everybody said Big Old Freak is gonna be her breakout here.

1494
01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 1: Big O Freak is a good song, but that's not

1495
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 1: gonna be the record that crosses her over Like for Cardi,

1496
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:44,800
Speaker 1: b Bowda Yellow was what did it for her? Right,

1497
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 1: Meg the Stallion, Meg the Stallion once she gets her bow,

1498
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 1: that yellow is fucking over. Because let me say this,

1499
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 1: nobody's bars bars. Nobody is fucking with Meg right now.

1500
01:05:56,560 --> 01:06:00,919
Speaker 1: Nobody is honestly, lyrically, physically, the big fine as fuck.

1501
01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:03,680
Speaker 1: She got her whole look together. She don't even be

1502
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 1: in Gucci and this and that, but she just looks good.

1503
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 2: She'd be having all her fashion, she be.

1504
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: Having her fashion over and looking like a bad bitch

1505
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 1: like beautiful girl bars for days, Texas Maid period. You

1506
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 1: cannot Houston made, you cannot not fuck with her. She's

1507
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 1: an amazing artist. So if you've never heard of Meg

1508
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 1: the Stallion, please look up, Please look her up. She

1509
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 1: got a song called Big Oldfree that go hard. She

1510
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 1: recently did a song with a wallet called pole Dancer

1511
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 1: Killed her verse on and she has countless countless Her

1512
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 1: freestyles be so hard all the time.

1513
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Speaker 2: Trut out to Meg the Stallion. We're rooting for you.

1514
01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: Stay, we say once again, free my girl. JT Stripes

1515
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:46,080
Speaker 1: on the staff so he called it. You know what

1516
01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying, sucking on a reach. So always shout out

1517
01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 1: to see the girls as always, and I think that's

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Speaker 1: pretty much it.

1519
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Speaker 2: You got anything else you want to add on.

1520
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Speaker 1: No, I think that's about it for this week is

1521
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Speaker 1: Oh and one more thing for me, y'all, My long

1522
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Speaker 1: it's gonna be dropping in the next couple of weeks.

1523
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1524
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 1: Y'all can subscribe, and guess what, y'all. I have some

1525
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Speaker 1: merch coming for y'all, and y'all gonna love the merch.

1526
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Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all it's dope anything, beauty, hair food, all

1527
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Speaker 1: that good stuff. LOVELEXP dot com. Keep it in mind

1528
01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 1: because it's coming soon. Heerious curious.

1529
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Speaker 2: So this has been another episode now Wednesday, and we'll

1530
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 2: see y'all this weekend because we got a bonus episode

1531
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Speaker 2: coming for y'all. By y'all, byes,