Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubil Show.
Speaker 2: It's time for to catch a cheater. And Noah is
Speaker 2: on the phone today. He's been dating his girlfriend Evelyn
Speaker 2: for six months, but now he thinks something might be
Speaker 2: going on, So see if we can.
Speaker 3: Help him out. No what's up man? What's going on
Speaker 3: with you in Evelyn?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know something.
Speaker 5: I our relationships kind of hit hit a wall if
Speaker 5: you will.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 5: Everything was good for the whole six months and there's
Speaker 5: not been a ton of snags, but as of late,
Speaker 5: she's been different. She's going out, she's texting people that
Speaker 5: she won't tell me in the yard, but I can
Speaker 5: tell looking at her phone that's the guy.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, is that just a friend? I
Speaker 1: don't know that that is.
Speaker 5: She'll go out with a group of friends and like
Speaker 5: I can see, you know, she'll post pictures and she
Speaker 5: and then I'll ask her about like what she did,
Speaker 5: and she won't tell me every when she was out with.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: Things have gotten quiet in the bedroom and I don't
Speaker 5: know I did something. But yeah, it just seems like
Speaker 5: she's not as committed to doing this. I don't know
Speaker 5: any things just took off, you know, right, like kind
Speaker 5: of like when we met, you know, we met just
Speaker 5: at a bar hanging out, and we have the same
Speaker 5: kind of sense of humor.
Speaker 1: Everything was going pretty well.
Speaker 5: We'd go out on dates all the time, and things
Speaker 5: have just sort of slowed down.
Speaker 2: I don't know, do you feel like there's really a
Speaker 2: problem or is that part of like the natural progression
Speaker 2: of a relationship.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I can't tell. I mean, I
Speaker 1: haven't noticed.
Speaker 5: There hasn't been anything on my end that made me
Speaker 5: feel any differently or anything that I can think that
Speaker 5: caused it. But there just seems to be like a
Speaker 5: switch flips and all of a sudden it's like, Oh,
Speaker 5: she's going out and I'm just I don't know, there's
Speaker 5: like I'm less a part of us than it used
Speaker 5: to be.
Speaker 2: Why are you thinking specifically she might be cheating? Though
Speaker 2: if she could just kind of like not in the
Speaker 2: not really into it anymore.
Speaker 5: She'll she'll put her phone away a lot when I'm
Speaker 5: like trying to ask her questions about like, oh, are
Speaker 5: you going out with friends or like she seems just
Speaker 5: very evasive when I ask about like what she's been
Speaker 5: doing or like who she's going out with.
Speaker 1: You know, I'll try to do stuff to like.
Speaker 5: Make create a mood or like get her in the
Speaker 5: mood for you know, especially in the you know, in
Speaker 5: the bedroom, like it just there just seems to be
Speaker 5: the less of, like.
Speaker 1: Less into anything I try to do.
Speaker 5: I don't know, it just seems like the things that
Speaker 5: I'm trying to do, she seems not just not into
Speaker 5: in a way that's like I'd I'd rather be elsewhere,
Speaker 5: or she just seems outside of it.
Speaker 1: That is.
Speaker 3: Crushing feeling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And when someone starts to change their phone behavior
Speaker 2: that is usually a kind of a red flag something's
Speaker 2: going on, whether it's cheating or not.
Speaker 5: She puts it away really fast, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 5: a little suspicious.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, all right, Well we'll see if we can
Speaker 2: figure it out for you. You already told us what grocery
Speaker 2: store she's a rewards card member at, So we'll call
Speaker 2: pretend to be from the grocery store and tell her
Speaker 2: that she's the lucky winner. Every month, we choose one
Speaker 2: random rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our full department we'll see if she sends that to
Speaker 2: you or to someone else. Is there anybody that you
Speaker 2: suspect at all?
Speaker 1: It could be this guy Writer. She's always hanging out
Speaker 1: with this guy, right, and I don't really trust those guys.
Speaker 3: Okay, was writer in the picture before you?
Speaker 1: He's been friends with her.
Speaker 5: Longer, and like, I just don't get a good vibe
Speaker 5: from him when a few times that we've all hung
Speaker 5: out together.
Speaker 3: Is he in a relationship?
Speaker 1: He is a relationship?
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, yeah, that's all right. Well man, well hopefully
Speaker 2: she's not. But we'll try and figure it out for you. Okay,
Speaker 2: we'll play a song come back and get her to
Speaker 2: catch a cheeter next. If you're just joining us for
Speaker 2: Today's to Catch a Cheater. Noah is on the phone
Speaker 2: and he thinks that his girl of six months might
Speaker 2: be cheating. So we're about to call her and pretend
Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store that she shops at
Speaker 2: and say that every month, we choose one random rewards
Speaker 2: card member who gets three flowers delivered from our floor department,
Speaker 2: and she will see if she sends those to Noah
Speaker 2: or to somebody else. But before we do that, Noah
Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So we've been going out. Evelyn and I have been
Speaker 5: going out for about six months. Things have been great
Speaker 5: for the most part, and all of a sudden, she's
Speaker 5: been kind of weird with it who she's going out with,
Speaker 5: and being evasive about like answering me and kind of
Speaker 5: not wanting me to see what's on her phone all
Speaker 5: the time.
Speaker 1: And I just I'm getting to by that she's kind.
Speaker 3: Of on the way out of this, and there is
Speaker 3: somebody we're suspicious of. Right, what was his name again?
Speaker 1: His name's writer?
Speaker 3: All right, man, Well, are you ready for us to
Speaker 3: try to call her?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 6: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi, this is Gorbyn calling from I was looking for
Speaker 2: a Rewards Card member named Evelyn.
Speaker 6: Oh Hi, this is she.
Speaker 2: Hi Evelyn, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to tell you congratulations.
Speaker 2: Here this month's winner.
Speaker 6: Well that's awesome. Thany what did I win?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Well, every single month we choose one lucky Rewards Card
Speaker 2: member to say thank you very much for being such
Speaker 2: a loyal customer by giving you free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our floral department. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 2: a box of candy, your chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want.
Speaker 6: Ooh okay, well that's awesome.
Speaker 2: Here's how we do it so I can take the
Speaker 2: information over the phone in a matter of minutes.
Speaker 3: If you know who you want to send them to
Speaker 3: right now.
Speaker 7: Well, I'm tended to send it to myself, but I'm
Speaker 7: going to send it to my friend Macy.
Speaker 3: Would you like to put anything on a card with that?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Love you girl? He ain't it. You don't need
Speaker 6: a man who's like that.
Speaker 2: Oh boy, Yeah, I'm so sorry she's going through that. Well, Evelyn,
Speaker 2: it's at this point I'm just gonna let you know.
Speaker 2: This is not the grocery store. This is actually Jeuwbel.
Speaker 2: I host a radio show. It's called The Jubell Show.
Speaker 3: Hi, Evelyn, I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hi, and
Speaker 3: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: Okay, your boyfriend Noah is on the phone.
Speaker 3: Actually. Oh and we do a segment on the show.
Speaker 3: It's called to catch a Cheaters.
Speaker 2: If you think somebody might be messing around, we see
Speaker 2: if they send flowers to somebody other than their significant
Speaker 2: other and that's what this is.
Speaker 6: Oh wow, wow, you called the radio. You had a
Speaker 6: radio station call me? Yeah, what do you think I'm
Speaker 6: cheating on you?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: You've not been super upfront with me about like some
Speaker 5: of the people that you are hanging out with. I mean,
Speaker 5: you were gonna send the flowers to Macie, and you
Speaker 5: know how I feel about her.
Speaker 1: That's kind of weird.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: She's not the best like influence on you. I think
Speaker 1: when you guys hang out, I don't know.
Speaker 7: That's why I sometimes I don't tell you who I'm
Speaker 7: hanging out with. You you don't seem to like my friends.
Speaker 1: I just wish you could talk to me. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just you know, I just want what's best for you.
Speaker 5: And like when you don't talk to me about stuff,
Speaker 5: it makes me kind of like question stuff.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: And like, also, you know, you'll be on your phone
Speaker 5: a lot and I'll ask you, like, oh, who you're
Speaker 5: talking to or like what's who you hang and she'll
Speaker 5: you'll put your phone on way really cool fast, and
Speaker 5: I'm I just you've been acting kind of weird when
Speaker 5: I talk about your friends, and like not giving me
Speaker 5: like all the information.
Speaker 4: So are you cheating?
Speaker 7: No, I'm not cheating on you at all. I just
Speaker 7: I've been hanging out with my friend lately who's been
Speaker 7: going through a lot, and I know that you don't
Speaker 7: like her, and I feel like there's it just seems
Speaker 7: to upset you or you get anxious when I hang
Speaker 7: out with her and or when I hang out with
Speaker 7: certain people.
Speaker 6: So I just kind of I don't know.
Speaker 7: I don't want to stop hanging out with them, they're
Speaker 7: my friends, but I guess I just thought if I don't,
Speaker 7: if I like keep it from you, then I just
Speaker 7: want to upset you and I can kind of keep
Speaker 7: those things separate.
Speaker 6: It just seems like, well, it's upsetting you, So I
Speaker 6: don't really know. Yeah, I mean, I just kind of
Speaker 6: feel like you don't trust me, and obviously you don't.
Speaker 6: I mean, obviously you don't trust me to the point
Speaker 6: where you're trying.
Speaker 7: To get people to find out if I'm cheating and
Speaker 7: that I'm not. It's a little bit like it's a
Speaker 7: lot for me to it's kind of overwhelming for me.
Speaker 1: Well that's why that's why I try. You know, sometimes
Speaker 1: you know or we're just in bed together. I'll try
Speaker 1: to start.
Speaker 5: Something or I'll try to, you know, do stuff to
Speaker 5: show you that I'm still in this and.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to bring some you know, a different food
Speaker 1: or you know, create a moment. You just like kind
Speaker 1: of aren't receptive to some of this. If I do,
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 7: I guess the insecurities that I've seen from you, it
Speaker 7: kind of is a turnoff for me, and.
Speaker 6: It's kind of I guess made me dis and.
Speaker 7: I like you and everything, it's just the constant worrying
Speaker 7: about me going out with my friends, and it's just
Speaker 7: not a turn on for me that you don't really
Speaker 7: seem to have confidence in us or yourself.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I can see that now. Honestly, I might have
Speaker 8: overreacted in this moment. It feels like I'm doing too
Speaker 8: much and I kind of see that. So this this
Speaker 8: is a lot to put.
Speaker 5: On you, and I guess I could have just been
Speaker 5: more openly communicative instead of.
Speaker 6: Maybe I know, you know, we're we're not getting married
Speaker 6: and we aren't like you know, and that's like toxic
Speaker 6: dark hole.
Speaker 7: But maybe we should get counseling together, if you you.
Speaker 6: Know, be for that.
Speaker 1: Well, I guess they can take the ring. I got you.
Speaker 1: I guess they can take back to the ring and
Speaker 1: use that term therapy. I was just it was a joke.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm bad with jokes. I'm just yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I do think that's a good idea.
Speaker 5: I think we should do that because you know, I
Speaker 5: do want to stay with you and I don't want
Speaker 5: to mess this up, So I think that would be
Speaker 5: really a good idea.
Speaker 6: I want to see with you too, and I don't
Speaker 6: want to mess it up.
Speaker 2: Well, sweet hey, at least Noah, you know she's not
Speaker 2: cheating and not down for that. And I think it's
Speaker 2: great if you guys go counseling together. You don't have
Speaker 2: to be having like big problems to start counting. Just together.
Speaker 2: I think it's great. I think everybody should help the conversation. Also,
Speaker 2: maybe Noah can hang out with you. Sometimes evil is
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