Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say
Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to did Kirsten?
Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, you want to say together Decisions Decisions.
Speaker 2: Today on Decisions Decisions ladies.
Speaker 1: Oh, there we go. That's all we needed. That's all
Speaker 1: we needed. Welcome, y'all to.
Speaker 3: Another episode of Decisions Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy b
Speaker 3: aka Peg Decillion aka Peg and Marco aka Peggy Bundy
Speaker 3: aka Dead Bitch.
Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, I'm Weezy, and we have a guest in
Speaker 1: the villa, Danne. Don't know if you've ever heard of Ruth.
Speaker 1: We can call her Babe Ruth, or.
Speaker 3: We can her as Soreya y'all. She is a singer, actress,
Speaker 3: and all around creative powerhouse. You may have first fell
Speaker 3: in love with her as Tiana Brown on Fox's hit
Speaker 3: series Empire, and since then she's lit up the screen
Speaker 3: in films like Burning Sands and Favorite Son, but also,
Speaker 3: most recently, because we all Got Netflix, Ruth and Boaz.
Speaker 3: She also has her own land in music with her
Speaker 3: R and B infused sound. Welcome to the goddamn podcast.
Speaker 2: Thank you for having me.
Speaker 1: I it just hit me when you said R and
Speaker 1: B and the cow pants? Is this for the country girl?
Speaker 1: For the songs for the country theme?
Speaker 3: And then, by the way, the movie theme them was
Speaker 3: some country songs.
Speaker 2: They were and that was actually the part for me
Speaker 2: that was so different.
Speaker 1: But I loved it. I love that you ain't putting
Speaker 1: no accent on it. No, no, no no, because he
Speaker 1: was like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, no for sure. But I definitely when I
Speaker 2: heard the songs that Babyface wrote, I was like, oh wow,
Speaker 2: and I started saying, I'm like, these do feel like
Speaker 2: low key country?
Speaker 1: What is when I say so, that wasn't acting. He
Speaker 1: wrote them songs. No, he really wrote the song so love.
Speaker 3: Me tell you some tea, just so that you know
Speaker 3: who you're sitting with your in the Presence of Greatness
Speaker 3: during Essence Fest, we actually girl followed Babyface on stage
Speaker 3: and introduced Maxwell.
Speaker 1: I have to tell everyone that was a highlight of
Speaker 1: the year.
Speaker 3: Really literally, Babyface sung all his tunes, all his things,
Speaker 3: so I got your excitement in the show. Baby I
Speaker 3: was like, my god, I know all his music and
Speaker 3: I was like, this thing, I gotta be rich.
Speaker 1: Because this is the Jams, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: And so literally baby Face is coming off stage and
Speaker 3: we're like prepping our little.
Speaker 1: We had to yeah we was on stage.
Speaker 3: No no, we literally didn't say anything. We just saw
Speaker 3: his greatness walk down the stairs. Okay, you where our
Speaker 3: que cars at?
Speaker 1: Have I told you that my baby face story about Thanksgiving? No? Oh, y'all.
Speaker 1: So I had an opportunity to know before. When I
Speaker 1: said y'all, I'm thinking like listeners, Mandy, Okay, so oh,
Speaker 1: I hate didn't make it a dark. So I don't
Speaker 1: really spend Thanksgiving with my parents anywhere because my dad
Speaker 1: he's just kind of been, you know, not the greatest health.
Speaker 1: So my mom and I has been spending Thanksgivings with Quesla,
Speaker 1: which is a flex in its own, so you would
Speaker 1: think like, oh, you're gonna be with the family. We
Speaker 1: pull up to Thanksgiving and the first person we see
Speaker 1: his baby Face, and I grabbed my mom's hand and
Speaker 1: I said, please, don't say anything. Why would I say anything.
Speaker 1: I'm cool, I'm playing it cool. She has three cocktails.
Speaker 1: We sit down, mother sitting next to me. Kenneth, it's
Speaker 1: sitting across from my mother, right on the third step
Speaker 1: of that third cocktail, she goes, I just gotta say, Babyface,
Speaker 1: this is a great Thanksgiving. I mean, did anybody think
Speaker 1: they need even with baby Face? And everybody's really looking like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we did. So here's I'm not going to ask you
Speaker 1: to see. He goes great, I'm not gonna I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna ask you. Then, few SIPs later, couest love. Everyone's
Speaker 1: calling him a mirror. Do you think we could get
Speaker 1: tickets to your show? And he's looking like, what show?
Speaker 1: I have eighteen upcoming shows, Mama, the one with Jimmy Kimmel.
Speaker 1: He's not on Jimmy Kimmel, He's on Jimmy Fallon. And
Speaker 1: then she knows Jimmy zoo. I mean it's the Gym's Yes,
Speaker 1: a lot of Jimmy. You know, there's a lot of
Speaker 1: jim then decides after the fourth cocktail to move over
Speaker 1: Babyface's girlfriend and sit by him to say, I say,
Speaker 1: we go to the Jimmy Gimmel. Oh girl, I wanted
Speaker 1: to die anyway. Every time I see this man, my
Speaker 1: head goes down. I have nothing to say of it.
Speaker 1: My mother moved over his girlfriend Thanksgiving different, come move
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie her mom is wild.
Speaker 3: We now have things in common. I was told not
Speaker 3: to talk to Dojia Cat, and I sure did, bitch.
Speaker 1: Because oh, okay, you tell the story. And then we
Speaker 1: got to hear your celebrity story.
Speaker 3: To know your celebrity story of word, lo, you have
Speaker 3: to you have it. We're now sharing story. This is
Speaker 3: like a little bit of an icebreaker. So anyways went on.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna tell y'all who told me not to
Speaker 3: do it, but it was like a spoken word in
Speaker 3: the vehicle. We knew the Doja Cat was gonna be
Speaker 3: around us that night, and clearly, bitch Almala is my girl.
Speaker 1: So wait, bit you couldn't speak literally because clearly I'm
Speaker 1: a fan. And yeah, like it was on.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, don't really like make it awkward, don't
Speaker 3: let her know you're a fan on it.
Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, I'm.
Speaker 3: Also well, So anyways, I end up at h we
Speaker 3: end up at this rooftop in La. It's gorgeous. She's
Speaker 3: there sitting right across from us. Oh my god, mom,
Speaker 3: and I'm like and I'm like, so mind you, I'm like,
Speaker 3: na gonna speak nothing. She's sitting there with this little
Speaker 3: long ass like cigarette, maybe getting ready for her eighties era.
Speaker 1: I wasn't ready.
Speaker 3: So literally just sitting there freaking. I looked to the
Speaker 3: side of me and there's a whole phone by me,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh shit, somebody left their phone. Minus
Speaker 3: this is a big ass fucking party, so I'm like,
Speaker 3: oh shit, somebody left their phone. So I'm sitting here
Speaker 3: and I'm just holding holding this phone. There's cards in
Speaker 3: the back. So I look through the cards in the back.
Speaker 3: It's not her, bitch, it's Joseph Quinny bitch, her boyfriend,
Speaker 3: the white one bitch, the one for motherfucking stranger things.
Speaker 1: So I said, oh, I got this that, so mind you.
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, bitch, now our boyfriends, this is gonna
Speaker 3: be gonna be organic, you know what I mean. It's
Speaker 3: gonna be organic, because what's doing you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Well, no, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Where he put it down in the but somehow his
Speaker 3: phone landed in my hand. So I go to Joseph
Speaker 3: and I and I'm like, uh, so I think you
Speaker 3: lost something. He's like, oh my god, because you know,
Speaker 3: oh my god, thank you so much. Didn't even now
Speaker 3: listen like he's like, what do you want?
Speaker 1: Do you want to drink? Bitch? Is open bar? What
Speaker 1: are you gonna give me? Sir? This is an open
Speaker 1: bar event. So it's so funny.
Speaker 3: So I give him his phone and he's like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, thank you, whatever you need.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, it's cool, it's cool. It's cool.
Speaker 3: So literally, uh, she's coming back now from the bathroom
Speaker 3: as we're talking, and I go to walk away and
Speaker 3: I never want anyone to say that I'm a white woman.
Speaker 3: She said, girl, your hair is giving Sharon Stone And
Speaker 3: I said, bitch, isn't it?
Speaker 1: Mind?
Speaker 3: You were like probably the only black people in the
Speaker 3: whole party. Mind you were only half. So there's only
Speaker 3: about two and a half of us in the whole room.
Speaker 3: The two and a half of us in the whole room,
Speaker 3: and literally the whole night. She's just like she just
Speaker 3: keeps talking and chatting. We end up going down by
Speaker 3: this pool, bro no lie because la weather sucks and
Speaker 3: I got my shoulders out and I'm looking cute. She's like, baby,
Speaker 3: you look cold. She takes off her blazer and gives it.
Speaker 1: To me, And at this point we're fucking friends. So
Speaker 1: we go to fucking we're talking.
Speaker 3: She's talking about how I think the cigarette is called
Speaker 3: the F word out in London and we're talking about
Speaker 3: this word and.
Speaker 1: How she loves the word, but how she's just that
Speaker 1: bitch and how she you know, she love crazy words.
Speaker 1: We've seen it on the streets. Well there's this.
Speaker 3: Guy smoking the cigarette and we're talking about just how
Speaker 3: he looks so possible, but it looks better in a
Speaker 3: woman's mouth. She's just one of the coolest bitchest fucking ever.
Speaker 3: Shout out to her album Go Get It Now, vias out.
Speaker 3: This is not an ad, And so literally as we
Speaker 3: go Manyie, she's been talking to me you the whole night,
Speaker 3: and I say.
Speaker 1: At the end, I just have to tell you how
Speaker 1: much I love it.
Speaker 3: And my friend who told me that I wasn't supposed
Speaker 3: to say anything to her, really kind of had to
Speaker 3: say something.
Speaker 1: I know, no, we're friends, just you know, but not
Speaker 1: following up. No we didn't exchange or anything like that.
Speaker 1: But literally that.
Speaker 3: Night I was told not to say something, and at
Speaker 3: the end I was like, oh.
Speaker 1: No, air and I was like, bro. When we were
Speaker 1: hanging out that weekend in Paris and it was like
Speaker 1: that you.
Speaker 3: Saw for a ticket now I need to know because
Speaker 3: you you've been around not not like that. Would you
Speaker 3: be around like the slips? Yes, oh thank you?
Speaker 1: Yes. I No, I'm gonna say something I don't get.
Speaker 2: Okay, I would say babyface because obviously we're working and
Speaker 2: I'm just like so nervous. First of all, well to
Speaker 2: be in his presence. Secondly, to work with him in
Speaker 2: the studio.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh my god, now this is for
Speaker 1: the scene we saw in the movie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, well, well, okay, so all of the songs
Speaker 2: recorded he wrote. So I flew to La to record
Speaker 2: with him at his studio.
Speaker 1: Was losing in his house? No, not in his house
Speaker 1: at his studio because they don't start. I'd be like,
Speaker 1: let me go to the bathroom. Now I'm gonna look around. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I was not at his house.
Speaker 2: But you got to I have to actually work with him,
Speaker 2: like really work with him, which was crazy. So it's
Speaker 2: like pinch me moment. But I would say another moment
Speaker 2: for me. I mean, I don't even know. It's probably
Speaker 2: like twenty seventeeneen, I don't even know, sixteen seventeen, maybe.
Speaker 3: Twenty seventeen Beyonce. Okay, Okay, where were you.
Speaker 1: Set the scene? What she smilling?
Speaker 2: So v Mas, I was with Taylor Swift and the
Speaker 2: squad at that time.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was at that time. You know.
Speaker 1: It was it was it was giving that, you know, right,
Speaker 1: I was a black girl in the gang.
Speaker 2: And well there was two and a half of us,
Speaker 2: I guess and and yeah, so we're backstage and we're like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, congrats, I think it's me. Look another
Speaker 2: set of things, me Selena and Gomez and Taylor. Look
Speaker 2: we know it was the other Selena. So listen these
Speaker 2: by the way, these girls are just they're so sweet.
Speaker 2: I haven't seen or talked to them in years, but
Speaker 2: so sweet. So this moment, Taylor got the award and
Speaker 2: Beyonce is just like walking backstage, right and this is
Speaker 2: like Primetime Empire, like people are doing watch parties like
Speaker 2: this is like Empires, like the.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I'm just Siana, like I don't have a
Speaker 1: name yet.
Speaker 2: So so so she's walking and literally I kind of
Speaker 2: see her out the corner of my eye, but I'm
Speaker 2: like okay, like I'm like congratulations, you know with Taylor,
Speaker 2: and literally walks by and she like comes to me
Speaker 2: and she's like you're doing amazing. Oh bit she spoke
Speaker 2: to you, yes, and I was like, and I was like,
Speaker 2: she was like leaving.
Speaker 1: She just like drops that and like and I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I live with the watching TV.
Speaker 3: Ya watching the thing. You know what's going on. She
Speaker 3: don't talk to us, but she knows what's going on.
Speaker 3: So she was watching Empire and.
Speaker 2: She's say exactly, and I was like, I was trying
Speaker 2: to like say thank you, but also like.
Speaker 1: You didn't say nothing back.
Speaker 2: Yes I did. I was trying to say, like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, I love you like I was doing that
Speaker 2: because I was like, I don't care, Like when when
Speaker 2: am I going to Beyonce?
Speaker 1: What are you going to see Beyonce again? Like you
Speaker 1: have to? Did you ever see her again? No? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be in a relationship. I'm famous
Speaker 1: and you famous, nigga, and.
Speaker 3: We ain't never get no more beyond you don't even
Speaker 3: know mind you. Year one, we talk a little rowdy
Speaker 3: on here, literally weezy and I'll never forget it said
Speaker 3: that she would, oh my god, fart out of Beyonce's
Speaker 3: ass after Taco Bell.
Speaker 2: That was how much it was the year you saw
Speaker 2: how much yeah that I have to talk about it already,
Speaker 2: crazy Taco Bell.
Speaker 1: That's how much she.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: I what's even crazier is all that big bold bad ship.
Speaker 1: So my business partner and I got to be at
Speaker 1: a you know, the Foundation le Vton show.
Speaker 3: This is how you urged them to go to Patreon
Speaker 3: because you share the whole story.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I was gonna say. We got to be
Speaker 1: around them at an after party and the whole time,
Speaker 1: who's them Beyonce and Jay and part well maybe less
Speaker 1: than fifty people, And the whole time all we could
Speaker 1: do is just sit there and do this to each other.
Speaker 1: You say, so, you say no, I'm gonna say okay.
Speaker 1: So then he pulls out his phone. I'm like, what
Speaker 1: are you doing figuring out what I'm gonna say? Writing
Speaker 1: it in the notes? But oh, I one time a
Speaker 1: gold party? Look at yourself? You did? You did? Oh
Speaker 1: my god?
Speaker 2: I heard that was also everyone did, by the way,
Speaker 2: it was one of the best.
Speaker 1: Which gold party?
Speaker 2: Was it?
Speaker 1: Oh? It was years ago. It had to be when
Speaker 1: the Black Panther.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, he was there, like it was like
Speaker 2: when that movie first was like, that's right.
Speaker 1: So but all the all the black excellent. I know
Speaker 1: we're supposed to talk about your movie.
Speaker 3: I'm like, we gonna get there.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get there. This is so much more.
Speaker 3: Actually, know what, let's we kind of broke the ice
Speaker 3: with Beyonce, but we're gonna break the ice with a
Speaker 3: little truth in there. I don't like people choosing because
Speaker 3: you give people truth or there, they want to be
Speaker 3: boring into the truth. So technically I make people do both.
Speaker 3: You actually have no choice. Okay, So the first one
Speaker 3: we're gonna do is truth.
Speaker 1: And this does lean.
Speaker 3: Into the new Netflix film so and it actually leans
Speaker 3: into your personal life. So in Ruth and Bo as
Speaker 3: Ruth prefers to herself as a liar at the end
Speaker 3: of the movie, and it's corrected by Bo with him saying, well,
Speaker 3: you omitted information.
Speaker 1: And we talk about this all the time.
Speaker 3: What's the difference between lying and just not telling somebody
Speaker 3: like white lies, fibbing all the things? So, was there
Speaker 3: anything that you have purposely kept from a potential partner,
Speaker 3: a potential partner out of shame or trauma or fear
Speaker 3: that they would judge you if they knew this to
Speaker 3: be true about you? For sure, Now you got to
Speaker 3: tell us what it was.
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh yes you're shot? You thought? No, the same.
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, I mean not to be boring, but
Speaker 2: I just feel like for I feel like it's past
Speaker 2: partners because it's because it's I don't know where this
Speaker 2: is going. I want to see where this is going first.
Speaker 2: Maybe should I say something? Maybe I shouldn't. And I
Speaker 2: think that it's a I feel like it's a normal
Speaker 2: thing to do, and I think both parties do it
Speaker 2: if you're to a certain extent right Obviously, if it's
Speaker 2: someone that's in your circle or that we like, are around,
Speaker 2: like you.
Speaker 1: Have to say those things.
Speaker 2: But if it's something before, I feel like it's natural
Speaker 2: if you're in a new situation to kind of just
Speaker 2: like reserve. So let me ask you then, what would
Speaker 2: be like the top two things if you're newly dating
Speaker 2: and in previous experiences for you, what two things about
Speaker 2: previous relationships for you?
Speaker 3: Like, I ain't bring it up? Was it like if
Speaker 3: your partner cheated?
Speaker 1: Was it if you cheated?
Speaker 3: Was it the dynamic of that?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 3: What things do you make sure not to bring up
Speaker 3: in new blossoming relationships about your past relationships?
Speaker 1: Well, if somebody cheated.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say that, like I have no problem saying
Speaker 2: that the person cheated, or I have no problem saying
Speaker 2: if I did that as well, but have not have not.
Speaker 1: You haven't, okay, but you are. But I have no
Speaker 1: problem because here's the thing. I mean.
Speaker 2: I feel like I always feel like it's like, what
Speaker 2: do you want with the person? Right? And I feel
Speaker 2: like if you want something authentic and real that I
Speaker 2: feel like you have to try to put.
Speaker 1: Yourself in that that space with them.
Speaker 2: But what do you think there are like no, like
Speaker 2: I would I would never share like personal life information
Speaker 2: of my past partner, Okay, I feel like that's just
Speaker 2: a little messy, okay, like things that we shared in
Speaker 2: confidence that was like about him solely.
Speaker 1: I think that I just I wouldn't talk about that.
Speaker 1: You're you're now in a new relationship.
Speaker 3: I know we share our lives on goddamn podcasts, But
Speaker 3: for a partner who hasn't went through all fucking four
Speaker 3: hundred plus episodes, was there anything special about your past
Speaker 3: relationship that you didn't share with your partner now at
Speaker 3: the gate like that it took a while to share.
Speaker 1: I would say the harder pain of like hmm. So
Speaker 1: maybe we've all said a guy cheated, but I never
Speaker 1: disclosed how bad it was because I didn't want him
Speaker 1: to think, oh, well, you stayed with it. You let
Speaker 1: a nigga just run through you. Like I really think
Speaker 1: that we kind of need to show up as Hey,
Speaker 1: I've had men treat femail. I've had these good situations.
Speaker 1: I've had partners that have honored me, like I've had
Speaker 1: good relationships. I think it's really important. Actually, we have
Speaker 1: a segment called We Listen and We Judge. I want
Speaker 1: to read you really quickly. A text message I got
Speaker 1: but maybe an hour ago. Oh well, we asked for
Speaker 1: pre consent with anything that we share, Okay, And this
Speaker 1: text message really surprised me. From a friend, he went
Speaker 1: out with a really popular model last night Passion week.
Speaker 1: Shit they met, I said, how was it? She's beautiful,
Speaker 1: no doubt. Her story is just so sad that it
Speaker 1: just feels like she's going to be a generational curse
Speaker 1: to me. Honestlyes I said, so a bitch got a
Speaker 1: bad past and it's a problem for you, he said,
Speaker 1: just mad issues with men. Her mom's got the issues,
Speaker 1: her sister's got the issues. It's a cycle of trauma
Speaker 1: that I'm just not up to heel. Bro. Well, it's
Speaker 1: not for you to heal, honey, But I'm like thinking
Speaker 1: to myself on a first date, you must have. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's a lot, and that's the thing about hiding. You
Speaker 1: gotta hold some of that shit.
Speaker 3: It's funny though that he referenced it's a lot for
Speaker 3: him to hell. I think it's funny because even one
Speaker 3: of the things that Cardi B shared during her rollout
Speaker 3: was like that Sepon Dicks was going to be there
Speaker 3: to help heal her through her past relationship in trauma.
Speaker 3: And it's interesting because whether you want to do it
Speaker 3: or whether you sign up to do it, at the
Speaker 3: end of the day, if you're with somebody and you
Speaker 3: want to be with them, unfortunately, you do take on
Speaker 3: their trauma, You take on some of their baggage, you
Speaker 3: take on whatever they're dealing with mental health wise, you
Speaker 3: deal with their past relationship ships, in terms of children,
Speaker 3: you deal with their family. And so where he said that,
Speaker 3: I'm not mad at him for that, I was kind
Speaker 3: of mad at that. Like, Bro, there's certain things right now. Bro,
Speaker 3: if you got like very clear diagnosed mental health problems,
Speaker 3: bro I ain't got the patience for Us'm gonna be
Speaker 3: real honest with you, but to say generational curses, I mean,
Speaker 3: I mean maybe that was his way of expressing like
Speaker 3: how intense it was, but I'm not mad with that.
Speaker 2: Like, I mean, she she came in hot with the trauma. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and he was well not off gate, yeah, not off gate.
Speaker 2: He he kind of was persistent, it's like, all right,
Speaker 2: well if you want to know that.
Speaker 1: Whatever.
Speaker 2: So I feel like I feel like one or two
Speaker 2: I feel you on that because it's like, that's very
Speaker 2: mature of you to be like, Okay, I'm not in
Speaker 2: the space to deal with a B and C.
Speaker 1: And him too, I think that it's interesting that.
Speaker 2: I think it's interesting he chose that response, and I
Speaker 2: think it's interesting that she chose to share them share
Speaker 2: the stage.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So honestly, it must have been something along the
Speaker 1: lines of like oh heavy, I'm singles, my dad was shit,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, like whatever it was.
Speaker 3: Because what happened, well, at least she ain't opened up
Speaker 3: with I'm broke, because apparently that's the thing in Atlanta,
Speaker 3: and now all the bitch is letting it be known
Speaker 3: that they need help with bills. So I'm not mad
Speaker 3: with her opening and sharing that that I don't feel
Speaker 3: safe with Madden, Like I still want to date y'all niggas,
Speaker 3: but that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: No, And I don't know, I mean for a grown man.
Speaker 1: He's mid thirties. He was like, yeah, bro, Like, I'm
Speaker 1: not dealing with this. I do think there is a
Speaker 1: space of where we kind of got to show up
Speaker 1: as a better version. Right, We're not going to always
Speaker 1: be at our best. We're always still healing no matter what.
Speaker 1: But I do think going on a first date, you
Speaker 1: can't be in the space where you still like I
Speaker 1: hate every man, you know what I mean? Like you
Speaker 1: shouldn't either. Oh, I shouldn't be on the d I'm
Speaker 1: in there. I mean, I have shots deep trying to
Speaker 1: heal the pain.
Speaker 2: No, I mean for sure, but like for it to
Speaker 2: go somewhere, it's like.
Speaker 3: I mean, let's get in the writer's room. Bitch, your
Speaker 3: character pissed me off?
Speaker 1: What does she do?
Speaker 3: But she was like you like all them, all the
Speaker 3: niggas in Atlanta, and that man was fine. I didn't
Speaker 3: hear a word he said the whole movie. I don't
Speaker 3: even gonna no, like.
Speaker 1: Bro, I need, I need like. I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I was very bold of her, Bro, it was very
Speaker 2: It's very bold of.
Speaker 3: The casting to choose someone that could literally stand there
Speaker 3: the whole movie and.
Speaker 1: Not say anything. So who's from Atlanta and very vocal.
Speaker 1: And we're sitting there and when I seen Krim on
Speaker 1: the screen, she just starts talking to Ruth. She said, so,
Speaker 1: this bitch really thinks she with Joey in the movie
Speaker 1: because she's talking about he like everybody. Then we wait
Speaker 1: fifty five minute to get that and get it together.
Speaker 1: I know that.
Speaker 3: That car when you first when you first thought you
Speaker 3: did a good job, like yeah, but you better look
Speaker 3: that finess man because we all would have looked at him.
Speaker 1: That way too. I'm ignoring. We're gonna first that we're talking.
Speaker 1: By the way, for anybody watching her, search this clip
Speaker 1: so you could just see what we saw. Baby, I
Speaker 1: don't I hate a saw by now. Honestly, I thought
Speaker 1: I was pregnant when I watched it. I felt it
Speaker 1: growing inside of me. Me and miracles gonna be baby,
Speaker 1: bother to keel you wait, no shirt on it. And
Speaker 1: he building a house.
Speaker 3: He's building a hame Ma and giving our cards and jobs.
Speaker 3: I'm here for it. Shout out to the writers of Ruth, because.
Speaker 1: Baby, I'm gonna hold you.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't want my nigga being displayed at such a
Speaker 3: wonderful man on TV.
Speaker 1: Make my nigga like Michael Eely in the in the
Speaker 1: movies so everyone hates him if my man looks that good.
Speaker 3: I needed you to be casted as a Michael eey
Speaker 3: and everything you played wait because I want women to
Speaker 3: be showing it.
Speaker 1: And he was looking stressed. What was it? He was like,
Speaker 1: what was the film he was in? It? Was it
Speaker 1: a short film? Distance Strangers? Was it Two Distinct Strangers?
Speaker 1: And he was running some It was like it was
Speaker 1: running It wasn't didn't you play in a movie?
Speaker 2: I think that's what you're talking about. Yes, it kept replaying. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: the short film.
Speaker 1: I remember watching that thing. And you're like, we need
Speaker 1: to see him in a happy Food. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: nobody found like this dressed out hold on girl, now,
Speaker 1: no dressed to you see? Once she got in the club,
Speaker 1: she was out there. You need to see her in
Speaker 1: a dreams.
Speaker 3: Well, speaking about the club, you were put on the spot,
Speaker 3: so I'm putting you on the spot for Dare and
Speaker 3: we're making it a little sexy. Okay, So for Deer,
Speaker 3: I need you to improvise, because you're a singer, a
Speaker 3: fifteen second seem me R and B hook using three
Speaker 3: random words that we're gonna throw at you. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: start and I'm just gonna throw out roads because it
Speaker 3: could mean a nice rose or the rose you put
Speaker 3: on your clip. You give me one more word, and
Speaker 3: then I'm gonna give her another word.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, oh yeah.
Speaker 3: And then you got to somehow right twine them intead
Speaker 3: this slow slow, and then the last one milk, like.
Speaker 1: I almost picked because.
Speaker 3: Slow milk, I mean god, okay, okay, And you could
Speaker 3: sing it or you could give it like a poem,
Speaker 3: either one, because we're gonna get you some poems later.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: I feel like I should have given you a little instrumental.
Speaker 1: I wasn't one of those kids in the room. This
Speaker 1: is given freestyle, free style. No no, no, wait, it's
Speaker 1: not terrible.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, cool so rose, milk and slow mm hmm
Speaker 2: and action mmm. Okay, give me a little beat, little
Speaker 2: little tempo.
Speaker 1: You know what.
Speaker 3: Actually I'm go on, go ahead, go ahead, just snap,
Speaker 3: there we go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna use my roads mm and he gonna do
Speaker 2: something sweet to me. Gonna get that milk kinne uh,
Speaker 2: milk kanne?
Speaker 1: What's that? Other words?
Speaker 2: You go.
Speaker 1: The last?
Speaker 2: So you got this, come out, we go this gad Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna use my ROAs and you're gonna do something
Speaker 2: sweet to me, making it milk gays, some sweet fummy, uh,
Speaker 2: some sweet fummy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need my road.
Speaker 2: And it's gonna be real good to me. I'm like, yeah, ol, gay.
Speaker 1: Slow, I forgot about class.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, that was great, beautiful you did that.
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, were we gonna do.
Speaker 3: We're gonna we're gonna go slow with the rose.
Speaker 1: It's gonna gonna go roll. I think I said no.
Speaker 2: I didn't say slow, no, but you could have roast.
Speaker 2: I was feeling the slow and the tempo.
Speaker 1: Get in that giving great.
Speaker 3: Milky rose, milk saf milk and honey bee. I like
Speaker 3: it because I literally just said you could put Mike's
Speaker 3: honey on anything.
Speaker 2: That was actually are great words no, see because it
Speaker 2: was giving like jingle for the rose.
Speaker 1: Literally, you know this is not who really made the
Speaker 1: roads because aren't they all t move Like, who is
Speaker 1: the rose originator? No idea? You know, I think who
Speaker 1: it really is? The Womanizer?
Speaker 3: Oh I love the woman, give me a little suction. No,
Speaker 3: it's not back in the day. They're still big and
Speaker 3: they still.
Speaker 1: Came out like ten years ago. And it was the
Speaker 1: first like suction suction for the claturists.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: And then suddenly the Rose came out and I was like,
Speaker 3: ain't this just I'm here for the woman, give me
Speaker 3: a little Discount's.
Speaker 1: The twenty twenty five Womanizer? You know I love a rose? Girl?
Speaker 1: Are you No? I don't like the suction though.
Speaker 3: It's a little too small. Oh no, shout out to uh,
Speaker 3: shout out to girls gotta eat.
Speaker 1: You know what.
Speaker 3: I they have their sectory brand, and baby, I was mad.
Speaker 3: I was on the plane like, fuck, I ain't pack it.
Speaker 3: I got mad that I ain't pack it.
Speaker 2: You know what? The Rose is crazy. Let's just let's
Speaker 2: just be honest. But why I mean it's crazy. I
Speaker 2: feel like it's super overstimulating. Oh but in a way
Speaker 2: in the way let me let me cook. Okay, I've
Speaker 2: seen this headline that said that it might let me
Speaker 2: not talk about.
Speaker 1: The road, go ahead, what the destigmatize? Yeah that I said,
Speaker 1: and I'm talking about some Yeah it does. So the
Speaker 1: issue with the rose, much like any other person that's
Speaker 1: like masturbating too much, is the amount of friction that's being.
Speaker 3: Why we don't get desensitized from dick then, because there's
Speaker 3: not that much friction.
Speaker 1: So you have to think like you don't.
Speaker 3: Get desensitized inside, just on the outside because there's.
Speaker 1: Like seven thousand nerves on their dirves. Right, So when
Speaker 1: I seen that, I was and a dick can't go
Speaker 1: like that's way too strong. And another thing I was
Speaker 1: reading women are having to edge themselves to have an orgasm.
Speaker 1: I'm not even trying to be scientific. We gotta get
Speaker 1: rid of the roses. Now we're about to enter a
Speaker 1: world away. They don't want us to have partners.
Speaker 3: I'm waiting for the robots, bitch, I'm on phone niggas now,
Speaker 3: I'm waiting for the aliens in the robots. I'm a
Speaker 3: whole little NBA squads of all the things that are
Speaker 3: optional tizes. Now, I did want to get into some
Speaker 3: relationship talk. We have a segment where we react to
Speaker 3: something we found online. Okay, I saw this online from
Speaker 3: one of my favorite favorite favorite content creators online, and
Speaker 3: I one hundred percent I'm gonna pause because I want
Speaker 3: to see if you guys agree or disagree, because y'all
Speaker 3: both got one nigga, I got a lot.
Speaker 1: But we're gonna see how this go.
Speaker 4: So here here's got Before you decide to spend the
Speaker 4: rest of your life with someone, make sure you've broken
Speaker 4: up at.
Speaker 1: Least one time. Agree. I think it's a good lesson.
Speaker 4: Yes, a breakup reveals true character, Like when you're in
Speaker 4: a relationship.
Speaker 1: You're not showing who you really are, you're being your
Speaker 1: best version of you.
Speaker 4: Yes, with's a quote like if you don't like me
Speaker 4: and my worst and then deserve me at my best, Well,
Speaker 4: you don't know what the worst is, so you gotta
Speaker 4: kind of know what the worst.
Speaker 1: Is, especially if you're planning to get married. Yes till
Speaker 1: death do a spart.
Speaker 2: Okay, So when breaking up with this person, you can't
Speaker 2: go into it being like I'm gonna do the test.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, because that is what I would call it manipulative.
Speaker 1: You cannot present it as the test.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: But if you get into a really big fight, Yes,
Speaker 1: there's a little window. You see the windows the window,
Speaker 1: and they go, maybe we should break up. Yeah. Usually
Speaker 1: you go, no, we shouldn't break up, let's fix it.
Speaker 1: Let each other. I think at that point you go
Speaker 1: all right, yeah, you go all right, just like a week,
Speaker 1: well hopefully yeah, because you might learn, like you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm better off?
Speaker 4: Or do they start posting you know Andrew's eight videos
Speaker 4: with the caption the wolf is back on the hunt.
Speaker 3: That's a bad guy.
Speaker 1: Poop in your shoe? Who knows? That's a bad woman.
Speaker 4: That's a bad woman or man? Men can poop in
Speaker 4: air force once.
Speaker 1: Are you married? I am married? Did you break up?
Speaker 1: We have broken up? How many times? Like two? I'm
Speaker 1: married too, And how many times you break up? I
Speaker 1: think I broke up like ten times.
Speaker 4: And that's how you know, like you both have seen
Speaker 4: each other at your absolute worst.
Speaker 1: I can't quit you. What's the thing?
Speaker 4: How do you dodge a bullet if no one fires
Speaker 4: the gun?
Speaker 3: Wow, So you've been in a few year relationship, now
Speaker 3: you are now engaged in a new mother. Congratulations. But
Speaker 3: I want to ask both of you, and and I'll
Speaker 3: include myself because I've had a long term relationship. But
Speaker 3: I clearly don't count we not married and we broke
Speaker 3: up thirteen times that we're no longer together. But I
Speaker 3: want to ask both of you if you genuinely feel
Speaker 3: two questions here. Do you agree with the clip? Do
Speaker 3: you believe you don't know someone until you've broken up
Speaker 3: with them a couple of times?
Speaker 1: And also do you believe that in order.
Speaker 3: To see someone's true character it takes breaking up with
Speaker 3: them to see them in a different light.
Speaker 1: Sorry, your face was shocked by some of the things.
Speaker 3: So I'll start with you, like, do I spill my
Speaker 3: own team? So yeah, Like, how what are your thoughts
Speaker 3: on the clip?
Speaker 1: And do you agree with with anything else? Okay? So
Speaker 1: I do a agree with the sentiment? Okay, because because.
Speaker 2: I don't know about how long you're going to be
Speaker 2: broken up, but I feel like to get to a
Speaker 2: point where you feel like you want to break up.
Speaker 1: Both people are.
Speaker 2: Being very one hundred percent like real and open like
Speaker 2: because there's gonna be friction. Sometimes, there's gonna be disagreements,
Speaker 2: there's gonna be things that, like you said, traumas and
Speaker 2: things that come up that it's like.
Speaker 1: Look, I can't do it around here.
Speaker 2: Okay, But if it's like I'm out of here and
Speaker 2: you cannot get out of there. Then I feel like
Speaker 2: I feel what they're saying.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: I have never broken up with someone for like, let's
Speaker 2: break up, let's take a break and come back. I've
Speaker 2: never done that. I don't know about that, so that part,
Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Or even breaking up to get right
Speaker 2: back together the next week, I've never done that. But
Speaker 2: I've definitely been to a point where I'm like, I'm
Speaker 2: about to go crazy, like I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 2: And I feel like that does essentially I understand what
Speaker 2: they're saying, Like to get to that point, I feel
Speaker 2: like you're at it's enough to like everyone's showing their
Speaker 2: true colors. Yeah, so it's like, okay, if you proceed
Speaker 2: after that, then we're really in it.
Speaker 1: Were really in this now?
Speaker 3: What's the difference between seeing it all and deciding to
Speaker 3: say and then when it's over, it's like, damn, I
Speaker 3: should have left back when I left back then, like
Speaker 3: because we have a child here. In the book, Weezy
Speaker 3: wrote one about staying too long in a relationship right,
Speaker 3: So to me, if you don't broken up like Kareem says,
Speaker 3: he broke up with his wife ten times before getting together,
Speaker 3: Like if the marriage doesn't last, do you not look
Speaker 3: back and be like, damn, I should have really left
Speaker 3: at time number four right when it's breaking up with
Speaker 3: someone too much to where if you keep going back
Speaker 3: at this point, it just y'all shouldn't be together?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: Right? But which is why I don't like the real
Speaker 2: aspect of like really breaking up and then getting back together,
Speaker 2: because I feel like things happen in the interim and
Speaker 2: people get mad at what what happened.
Speaker 3: That's actually what makes me hate this takes.
Speaker 2: Because because we want to what happened in that week,
Speaker 2: in that month, a week yeap, oh yeah, don't do
Speaker 2: that because you're gonna but broken up.
Speaker 3: I'm finna go see somebody. No no men want us
Speaker 3: when they say were breaking up?
Speaker 1: What's a cry for the whole week? And then get mad?
Speaker 1: When do you first?
Speaker 2: Off?
Speaker 3: You know, do you know all I have to do
Speaker 3: was re upload signal, Snapchat, opened the DM.
Speaker 1: That's why we're talking, girl. That's where I drugs from. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: it's also where it's hitting app. I like like if
Speaker 1: my mushroom man is gonna come to the house, it's
Speaker 1: all signal.
Speaker 3: Well, if it's Dick about to come to the house,
Speaker 3: it's on signal too.
Speaker 1: That gotta be a real famous Dick. I like famous Dick.
Speaker 3: But for me, it's it's interesting because I don't like
Speaker 3: that take either. Like, to me, the person who you're
Speaker 3: with should be the person of who you're with when
Speaker 3: y'all are together, Like, I don't think you should be
Speaker 3: breaking up with someone and then judging them by how
Speaker 3: they're existing.
Speaker 1: But that's their point. This isn't. Yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 1: I really hate this take, and I totally disagree. You
Speaker 1: totally disagree. Mainly I as I shall not have to
Speaker 1: be separated for true colors. There are so many things
Speaker 1: in life that will show you who someone is. Pain, struggle,
Speaker 1: someone losing a job, correct a depression. I would even
Speaker 1: go as far to say grieving when you're seeing someone
Speaker 1: at their worst, that is when you can tell who you're.
Speaker 3: With, not only not only the worst. What I want
Speaker 3: a reference because two out of three of y'all are
Speaker 3: in this room right now. So this man sitting over
Speaker 3: here behind me with myth he said that you don't
Speaker 3: know somebody, you don't know their character, you don't really know.
Speaker 1: Who they are for a year now. I did look
Speaker 1: in the in the Google though, I did see that
Speaker 1: you and Joey met.
Speaker 3: Through a mutual friend a twenty twenty one didn't really
Speaker 3: come public to twenty twenty three.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I love to put his little theory to
Speaker 1: the test. Yes, I'm talking about you, Wolf, Wolf. Do
Speaker 1: you still stand on to this day, at this very
Speaker 1: moment that it takes a year to date someone and
Speaker 1: then I'm coming to some riot. You're willing, You're willing,
Speaker 1: you know, so I bet you she was sick of
Speaker 1: look at her face, so he says it. So they're
Speaker 1: not even it's altogether. No, No, they're not together. They're
Speaker 1: probably doing all the together.
Speaker 3: Ship just but he said he ain't gonna he ain't
Speaker 3: gonna make it official for the person you take for
Speaker 3: you to be like, yeah, isn't from Brooklyn.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like he was like, yeah, it
Speaker 2: was like six months, six months, Okay, that was maybe
Speaker 2: like five to six months maybe okay, And then I want.
Speaker 3: To ask you, at what point did you feel like
Speaker 3: you knew him in terms of because back to the video,
Speaker 3: it says it takes a few times to break up
Speaker 3: before you know their character.
Speaker 2: How long do you think I love my honey? He
Speaker 2: I knew him the whole time period. Everything is up front,
Speaker 2: everything is what it is. So yeah, you know what,
Speaker 2: I didn't have to go with the whole Yeah there
Speaker 2: was that. Yeah, yeah, there was no pressure. I didn't
Speaker 2: put pressure on him either. Okay, we were just hanging
Speaker 2: out and I feel like things that I grew to
Speaker 2: know about him.
Speaker 1: It was just very open.
Speaker 3: Maybe see it's giving soraya saying ladies go with the flow.
Speaker 3: It could end with a ringing a baby, I mean five,
Speaker 3: getting in a relationship that's not flow right on time?
Speaker 1: Yo, ass I think timing. I think tim timing matters,
Speaker 1: but also like who is it right?
Speaker 2: Do y'all have chemistry? Like not forcing anything? Right? Like
Speaker 2: there are a lot of different factors. I feel like too,
Speaker 2: And if you feel I feel like, if you feel
Speaker 2: like you have to go a year, I feel like
Speaker 2: that person's a little closed off or maybe they're not ready.
Speaker 1: I actually think it kind of proves that you're not
Speaker 1: that sure about them, which is hurtful, right, so correct
Speaker 1: to me when it goes beyond that six month three
Speaker 1: and just like, oh so you want me to be
Speaker 1: out here. You're not sure about me for real, so
Speaker 1: that means I should be weighing out my options too,
Speaker 1: But god forbid, I do weigh out my options because
Speaker 1: then he's like, I gotcha, you're not so like that
Speaker 1: part is kind of tricky, and to me, the thing
Speaker 1: I don't like about the breakup part either, is that
Speaker 1: we don't do it with real intention. Everyone does it
Speaker 1: to like make the other one mad and hold you
Speaker 1: accountable for whatever happened in that time. Yeah, No, I
Speaker 1: don't like. That's what's really hard about this with the breakups.
Speaker 1: I also think ten times, to me, that shows you
Speaker 1: that you're just You're just saying when you're angry, you
Speaker 1: really don't have conflict resolution. Yeah, because how are you
Speaker 1: getting to that many breakups? Like, yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, to be married to someone you're breaking up,
Speaker 1: I mean it could be a narcissist, you know. Ten times.
Speaker 1: I mean, sorry, I'm sitting here, remember anything ten times.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 3: I do want to tie this back to your new film, Yes,
Speaker 3: because I think there's a difference between timing and persistence
Speaker 3: and people being delusional at.
Speaker 1: Who they may be pursuing.
Speaker 3: And for me, it was like, Bo, give it up.
Speaker 3: At one point, I was like, bitch, she is broken.
Speaker 3: Why do you keep trying? And it's crazy because in
Speaker 3: times of I think women do it on the opposite end, right,
Speaker 3: I think we see men who are genuinely not ready
Speaker 3: either mentally, financially, whatever the case may be, for a relationship,
Speaker 3: and as women we still push to pursue something that
Speaker 3: could be. It was interesting seeing Bo be that character
Speaker 3: with Ruth. Do you believe in waiting it out for
Speaker 3: someone to be able to show up as a better person? Like,
Speaker 3: do you think has that worked but before your relationship?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 1: Has that been something that's worked in the past. No,
Speaker 1: because I chose not to.
Speaker 2: I really do feel like, I mean, yeah, if I
Speaker 2: just chose not to wait because I'm like, okay, well,
Speaker 2: I feel like you're the man. If you want to
Speaker 2: be treated like the man and the leader and everything,
Speaker 2: then you need to know what you want and if
Speaker 2: it's not me.
Speaker 1: Then then let me go or I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 1: That's great. I think I'm a love bomber in the
Speaker 1: movie A bit. Well, well, how do you feel I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna hold you?
Speaker 3: I need a part too, because I don't know you'll
Speaker 3: be Michael Eae in a part two. It's given narcissists,
Speaker 3: it's given well, so possible love looking like he was
Speaker 3: from straw and he forty and ain't never been married,
Speaker 3: looking like that, with no key, with all the money
Speaker 3: of judge.
Speaker 1: You build a home.
Speaker 2: So the reason that he feels very perfect, you know,
Speaker 2: and it does emulate it's like a take on the
Speaker 2: biblical story ruzimbo As and.
Speaker 1: So what happened to that?
Speaker 2: So so this is it is a representation of that story,
Speaker 2: which is right. Yeah, so the mother, the mother that
Speaker 2: she follows, well, am I giving it away?
Speaker 1: Okay? Well out, Okay, it's out, Okay cool.
Speaker 2: The mother that she alert that she follows to Pegrum,
Speaker 2: Tennessee also represents like a different place, like it represents
Speaker 2: the story of Ruth on this journey and she does
Speaker 2: get found by Boaz, which is really in the Bible.
Speaker 2: Now I can't tell you exactly where either, but I
Speaker 2: just know that I know from my husband. Yeah, girl,
Speaker 2: I knew where you're going with that same.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: But but I can say that Ruth and Bawas is
Speaker 2: such a big story, especially in church, and it's something
Speaker 2: that you just hear a lot like that story being
Speaker 2: referred to find your boas or when Ruth was going
Speaker 2: through what she was.
Speaker 1: Going to going through.
Speaker 2: So in the Bible, you know, the man finds findeth
Speaker 2: a wife and not the other way around.
Speaker 1: So I do believe. I do have that core belief
Speaker 1: a little bit.
Speaker 2: I do have that core belief that the man has
Speaker 2: his things in order enough that if he is in
Speaker 2: that position, that he can he can the wife, that
Speaker 2: he can find the wife.
Speaker 3: By the way, if y'all are into religion and shit,
Speaker 3: the Book of Ruth in the Old Testament, also known
Speaker 3: as the Hebrew Bible, this story is only four chapters long.
Speaker 1: Let me find out.
Speaker 3: I could give me a Netflix a wait. Four chapters
Speaker 3: in the Bible is long? Okay, how long is chapters
Speaker 3: in the Bible?
Speaker 1: It's just a hard read.
Speaker 2: No, no, it's it's not long. But she's saying it's
Speaker 2: a hard read because it's four chapters.
Speaker 3: The language is situated between judges and one Samuel look
Speaker 3: at me teaching you all some shit.
Speaker 1: You know. I actually put that in my notes about
Speaker 1: how I kind of like that. There was like a
Speaker 1: little church moment. So I don't know, I'm pretty agnostic.
Speaker 1: I'm the girl that's got a lot of pistols in
Speaker 1: the house and stuff. But I just do like seeing
Speaker 1: young people in religion depicted because I kind of feel
Speaker 1: like I don't need to be religious to know we're
Speaker 1: in a world that's soulless, absolutely, And when I was
Speaker 1: seeing it in the movie and it was still sexy
Speaker 1: and fun and cute, I like seeing that, Like, I
Speaker 1: think we need a little bit more of it, and
Speaker 1: I appreciate that it kind of showed a man with
Speaker 1: certain values. A lot of times when my friends are
Speaker 1: having trouble dating, a constant theme that they see within
Speaker 1: men that they're dating is that they have no faith
Speaker 1: in really anything, Like you don't have to be the
Speaker 1: guy who goes to church every day to just know
Speaker 1: that there's something you value or something you're working towards.
Speaker 1: Even me, you know, I don't go to church and
Speaker 1: I don't really just subscribe to any religion. But I
Speaker 1: remember telling my boyfriend a few days ago, we got
Speaker 1: Jesus is gonna be in this house or something. We
Speaker 1: gotta come up with a name, something.
Speaker 3: The baby's gonna be scared of, people gonna watch you.
Speaker 1: We ain't around like, for real, I really do believe.
Speaker 1: When there's nothing to follow or guide you, or no belief,
Speaker 1: you're kind of lost. And so I think to see
Speaker 1: it a little bit central in the beginning to me,
Speaker 1: what seemed important to them made it kind of nice.
Speaker 1: I really we could look for that without it seeming
Speaker 1: like corny, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: No, yeah, that's her north Star. And I pick up
Speaker 2: Devon Franklin and Tyler Perry.
Speaker 1: And asked, who was it. I thought his name.
Speaker 2: I meant to bring him as because because he this
Speaker 2: is a faith based movie. But it's not done in
Speaker 2: a way where it's going to come off corny or
Speaker 2: kind of like not for the everyday you know, Netflix viewer.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. But it also does tie.
Speaker 1: It also commit.
Speaker 3: But waited, I mean I would now I know both
Speaker 3: of y'all got your partners, y'all probably had it. This
Speaker 3: was the easiest to except like Joey Bath don't even
Speaker 3: have to have sex with him on.
Speaker 1: Film Miracle, But I ain't even the old scene. Like,
Speaker 1: but bitch, I was waiting the whole time. I was,
Speaker 1: you know what, attractive can't be attracted to each other?
Speaker 1: But you know what, something but she wasn't hard to
Speaker 1: like do. The intimacy of like, I feel like I
Speaker 1: could have a makeout scene or have sex with someone
Speaker 1: on camera, rather than the intensity of like I gazing that,
Speaker 1: like that you feel like you could do that over
Speaker 1: that overt what what happens when you're really growing and
Speaker 1: showing love on camera feels more intimate to me. So
Speaker 1: you have to remember, right, we have a show called Decisions,
Speaker 1: Decisions formerly Horrible Decisions. Don't know's heard of that nasty show.
Speaker 1: I think sex can be frivolous and crazy and fun.
Speaker 1: I think intimacy is way deeper. It's the hardest thing
Speaker 1: about that movie.
Speaker 3: Look like stopping on him grapes that niggas about to
Speaker 3: fall about a couple myself.
Speaker 1: Watching let me, let me show you how to talk,
Speaker 1: let me see let me you were you were talking
Speaker 1: to her?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, interesting because now I'm gonna see like
Speaker 2: what people feel about Ruth then.
Speaker 1: But oh, this is how I knew that. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, yeah he was about to fall bus
Speaker 1: I said, oh she got her feet if I was
Speaker 1: about to go down, I was so ready. I'm watching predicting. Look, look,
Speaker 1: Shardyns it just feels she's not lying, and it's I'm
Speaker 1: shirt go oh maybe not. Oh yeah, that pissed me up. Bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm so pissed. I can't, I can't, I can't. Bitch.
Speaker 1: You didn't want to risk that poos getting hurt? Too hot,
Speaker 1: too hot, too hot, too hot, too hot? Interesting? How
Speaker 1: like we find that like the second we get lust
Speaker 1: for We're like, I'm done getting hurt. That rude She's
Speaker 1: like it was getting too lessel right, all that other
Speaker 1: building intimacy you did, spending time together, laying in the
Speaker 1: field and ship and now.
Speaker 3: But y'all watching, y'all watching, at this point, this bitch
Speaker 3: got a whole car and couldn't even keep kidding. Help route,
Speaker 3: I need to give us some lessons all how to
Speaker 3: do all the things.
Speaker 1: I'll just say. I'll just say.
Speaker 3: Now, earlier we made you do a nice, little sultry thing.
Speaker 3: We have another part of the show called poetry.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, nice.
Speaker 3: And now I did my research on two of your
Speaker 3: most favorite people, and so we have lyrics from an.
Speaker 1: R and B record and a rap record.
Speaker 3: Okay, you have to let us know the artists as
Speaker 3: well as the song that these lyrics are from It'll
Speaker 3: be read a little bit differently, so it might be
Speaker 3: difficult for you might not be able to catch on
Speaker 3: to what it is because I'm gonna read it like poetry.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, say you ready again.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna take this time to show you how much
Speaker 3: you mean to me, because you are all I need.
Speaker 3: No money can emphasize or describe the love that's in
Speaker 3: between the lines. Boy, look into these eyes. Well, I'm
Speaker 3: grinding on you. This is beyond sex.
Speaker 1: I'm high on you. What's next?
Speaker 4: Hi on you?
Speaker 2: This?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 2: I feel rocking, babe, rocking, rocking on your babe.
Speaker 1: Yes, your babe, Yes, so yes, y'all that is I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: I know you actually know that? You didn't I didn't.
Speaker 1: You didn't You didn't get it, You ain't get beyond suck.
Speaker 1: I read it too fair. When you said I'm high
Speaker 1: on you, I was.
Speaker 3: Like, Hi, okay, if you know this really and you
Speaker 3: know how I feel? You know what's crazy about this one?
Speaker 3: I had to really get into the words because she
Speaker 3: has another one about her daddy, Right, what's the one?
Speaker 1: Is it dance for you? Is this not dance for you?
Speaker 3: But doesn't she have one about dancing word daddy too.
Speaker 1: Girl, that's Luther Vandre. Oh is that that she is? No?
Speaker 1: She want with him? No, that's not okay, We're not
Speaker 1: even to go there. I think I thought at one.
Speaker 3: Point this was to her daddy until I read the
Speaker 3: lyrics and then it wasn't because she was.
Speaker 1: Grinding and it's beyond sex.
Speaker 3: Okay, right, okay, so next one you ready, ready, I
Speaker 3: swear that you ain't got a flaw. It was love
Speaker 3: at the first time. You let me hit it raw.
Speaker 3: If I shine, then we both shine. But let you
Speaker 3: shine more, go above beyond for her. My look, my
Speaker 3: machete mea moore. But who you was with before? Because
Speaker 3: you look better next to me? Respectfully, any nigga trying
Speaker 3: to get to you, he gotta check with me. Girl,
Speaker 3: that's just the principle. Don't try to call that jealousy.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to start a legacy and you my pedigree.
Speaker 1: Can you see you better get your baby daddy. Come on, No,
Speaker 1: I know I'm you finish it. I'm not saying it.
Speaker 3: Wasn't just about you, because it's given that. So it's
Speaker 3: I'm falling for you, falling for you for you.
Speaker 1: Hello, my gosh myself. You have on YouTube that's like
Speaker 1: I could have got it.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: I had to make it. You know, I don't know
Speaker 1: how I read it, but you know I got test
Speaker 1: the one for both. This is a song we all know,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do my best. Oh lord, let's see
Speaker 1: who gets it first. Edie, you well, we all gonna
Speaker 1: try this. I like them round and big, and when
Speaker 1: I'm throwing a gig, I just can't help myself. I'm
Speaker 1: acting like an animal. Now here's my scandal. I want
Speaker 1: to get your home and double up. Ah ah boy.
Speaker 1: I don't know, because silicon parts aren't made for toys.
Speaker 2: What is it?
Speaker 1: I want them real, thick and juicy. So far I
Speaker 1: know what this is. So find that juicy devil baby
Speaker 1: got bad?
Speaker 2: Know because the track is playing in my head and
Speaker 2: I'm like you, I'm your home. And when she said
Speaker 2: that part specifically, I'm like.
Speaker 1: Do you know what? We've been doing this segment weekly
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking aboutself, just some real dirty lyrics And
Speaker 1: the song was on in the cab while I was
Speaker 1: doing it. I'm not gonna hold you only because I
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna do it to you like that.
Speaker 3: Because you know, you a celebrity, and all the lyrics
Speaker 3: that I want to say are from somebody who's in
Speaker 3: jail that's supposed to be canceled.
Speaker 1: But he got some good with girl. But I wasn't
Speaker 1: gonna do it. I'm just say it. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: all right, fragment, Okay.
Speaker 3: The next segment is we're talking about adun't shit us
Speaker 3: with our partners, our relationships. And I wanted to start
Speaker 3: off because one of the biggest red pilled goddamn conversations
Speaker 3: on the internet are how men don't support or want
Speaker 3: to be with, or aren't attracted to successful women. You
Speaker 3: are in the same field as your partner. You are
Speaker 3: driven as an R and B artist, as an actress,
Speaker 3: you have these new projects dropping. What does it look
Speaker 3: like for your partner to show up and support these efforts?
Speaker 3: And have you ever had a partner that you felt
Speaker 3: was intimidated and how did you pick up on those
Speaker 3: signs that this wasn't healthy?
Speaker 1: And we talk about this a lot because we.
Speaker 3: Both run multiple businesses too, but for you, specifically in
Speaker 3: this entertainment space, I'm wondering how he's able to show
Speaker 3: up for you and how you're able to pick out
Speaker 3: when a partner doesn't support that you gotta go on.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's pretty like he I mean,
Speaker 2: showing up for me.
Speaker 1: Let me just answer first.
Speaker 2: Showing up for me just looks like acknowledging what I'm doing,
Speaker 2: or even remembering the details of what I have coming up,
Speaker 2: or celebrating me there's a big milestone or something like that,
Speaker 2: or even just asking me, you know, how how did
Speaker 2: you feel about that scene? Like just being involved, right,
Speaker 2: but not showing up. I have also dealt with in
Speaker 2: the past. Okay, that's a very shady specific one because
Speaker 2: you know, and I say I say this to say
Speaker 2: that person is definitely not confident, Okay, like they just
Speaker 2: can't be.
Speaker 1: That man is not ready for.
Speaker 2: The spotlight to not be on him or not to
Speaker 2: be all about him. I think that a person who
Speaker 2: is supportive of you is just going to be like, baby,
Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you, Like, oh my god, how
Speaker 2: do we what do we do? How do we celebrate?
Speaker 2: And I feel like that, yeah, I feel like that's
Speaker 2: something that's just comes natural, like fort well, so.
Speaker 3: Do you do you then think that then for the
Speaker 3: narrative that's out about men not wanting successful women or
Speaker 3: you know, well well to do women, or women with money,
Speaker 3: that it's more of an insecure thing.
Speaker 1: With the man, I feel like you could go back
Speaker 1: both ways.
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like there could be an
Speaker 2: insecure man that just genuinely has some type of little
Speaker 2: issue with it. But I do know that also a
Speaker 2: lot of successful educated women can be they can probably
Speaker 2: not just sit in their their feminine, you know, as much,
Speaker 2: because they're so used to operating in their masculine. And
Speaker 2: I feel like that's sometimes probably more than likely what
Speaker 2: kind of butts heads with men, to be honest, but
Speaker 2: being a woman who I have a crazy schedule, you know,
Speaker 2: my life doesn't look I guess, you know, like the
Speaker 2: average I would say women just because I'm just like,
Speaker 2: you know, flying here. And I've actually had that before
Speaker 2: where a guy was.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, no, what do you mean we can't say?
Speaker 2: And I've always said that, Yeah, he was just completely honest, like, no,
Speaker 2: I need my woman at home at five o'clock, like
Speaker 2: you're not about to be you know, I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: be with nobody's take of flights and I don't know
Speaker 2: where you at and all this, which.
Speaker 1: Is what irappers, athletes and successful men desire.
Speaker 2: Which I understand, and that's cool, that's what you want.
Speaker 2: But for me, that's right right, I'm not going to
Speaker 2: slow down. And so that's a really important factor for
Speaker 2: me is that a partner is going to support and
Speaker 2: understand that for the same way I do for him.
Speaker 1: For a woman who really.
Speaker 3: Likes a man that they're dating, if they show up
Speaker 3: like this, is there a way to work through that?
Speaker 3: Or would you say for them to leave?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: But I also do understand. But I also do understand
Speaker 2: being the feminine and being in my power. I'm going
Speaker 2: to say that because I don't want anyone to think
Speaker 2: I'm saying what I'm not saying. I'm saying being in
Speaker 2: your power, as in, we both have feminine and masculine
Speaker 2: ya and and women right, and I think that we
Speaker 2: can operate in both of those spaces very well. But
Speaker 2: I know that when I go home, I'm like, hey, babe,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna ussure that that energy in the home.
Speaker 2: And I think that that's really important. I don't think
Speaker 2: that I think that I have my I have my
Speaker 2: raw wrong, I'm gonna get it done. We gotta get
Speaker 2: this done what we're doing, you know, But I've learned
Speaker 2: so much.
Speaker 1: I've learned so much the opposite way, Like, for example,
Speaker 1: successful women may say, oh, he has to do this
Speaker 1: for me, and this for me, and this for me.
Speaker 1: It's almost a little overbearing, Like what do you mean,
Speaker 1: because what you're saying is the same thing I was thinking.
Speaker 1: But I think that they're actually off. They think they're
Speaker 1: operating in the feminine. He said there can be women
Speaker 1: in their masculine, right. Absolutely. I believe a lot of
Speaker 1: successful women today think that being in their feminine means
Speaker 1: that they can't be with the man that makes less,
Speaker 1: be with the man that's not on their level, quote unquote.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of measuring up that a lot of
Speaker 1: women have expectations for. And to me, I think the
Speaker 1: problem is that when we make a certain amount of money,
Speaker 1: we think we can't be teammates anymore. Yeah, which is
Speaker 1: which is very unfair because the Internet, the Instagram, this
Speaker 1: isn't all real, right. All of the ideas that a
Speaker 1: man should be paying every single thing for you, I
Speaker 1: think is actually kind of insane unless someone is making
Speaker 1: a huge amount more. I don't know why there should
Speaker 1: be that much of an imbalance. But I think successful
Speaker 1: women feel like, hey, we've reached a pinnacle of this,
Speaker 1: why settle? As if settling is being sharing a bill
Speaker 1: or sharing a mortgage, And is that really Maybe? I'm
Speaker 1: just like, I'm not knowing what's going on.
Speaker 2: So you're saying a successful woman who makes her own
Speaker 2: money doesn't want to share, doesn't want to pay for anything.
Speaker 1: I believe that a lot of success women don't. I
Speaker 1: believe they want a man that's making just as much
Speaker 1: as them or more. I believe they do, yeah or more.
Speaker 1: And I think that's what makes it difficult to date.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's lowering standards to necessarily be a teammate,
Speaker 1: but I find that they believe that's operating in that
Speaker 1: feminine you know what I mean, Like, oh, I shouldn't
Speaker 1: be doing xyz. I think it's absolutely normal in twenty
Speaker 1: twenty five and in this economy for like us to
Speaker 1: be going half on house. Yeah, see this in the background,
Speaker 1: because I don't know about all that.
Speaker 2: For me, That's why I'd be like, because for me,
Speaker 2: just this is just how I think, right, This is
Speaker 2: just me. But Sorea, I one hundred percent agree with
Speaker 2: to help me. I one hundred percent agree that if
Speaker 2: I am making the money, everyone in their household can
Speaker 2: come together with their own custom ship. We don't got
Speaker 2: to follow these yellow roads that these people are saying
Speaker 2: on different podcasts. Yeah, it's like, okay, you know, I
Speaker 2: feel like you're with that person every day. You're in
Speaker 2: the house with them.
Speaker 1: Create What the fuck y'all want to do? Can I
Speaker 1: ask you for huh? I want to know beyond bills? Yeah?
Speaker 1: How is it sharing baby things together? How? Like you
Speaker 1: had to do a podcast interview today? Is he with
Speaker 1: the baby? Like? How did you say this thing together?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: He actually is, he is. He's with the baby right now.
Speaker 1: The babies. Yeah, so I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, he has a daughter which is
Speaker 2: my my bonus daughter and our son.
Speaker 1: So yes, the both of them. How did you guys
Speaker 1: decide why you would like figure out parenting together with
Speaker 1: crazy schedules? Like, how does that convo look when you're together?
Speaker 1: Because we mostly hear about it from co parenting people separate.
Speaker 2: Okay, it looks very much like, you know, baby sleeve
Speaker 2: down for the night.
Speaker 1: What do you have for this week?
Speaker 2: What are you doing tomorrow? What's on the agenda, like
Speaker 2: how do we make this work? Because once again he
Speaker 2: supports what I'm doing and I support what he's doing.
Speaker 1: This is who I was when you met me, you know.
Speaker 2: So it's like so it's like right, So it's like
Speaker 2: and and that's just what the dynamic that we share
Speaker 2: and that we feel like it's very like necessary. He's
Speaker 2: it doesn't get it's very much help me. Like you said,
Speaker 2: it's a teammate. I think it's teamwork. For me specifically,
Speaker 2: I grew up and adopting and acknowledging that the woman
Speaker 2: doesn't not have anything. I think the woman's money is
Speaker 2: saved or invested or you know, for hardship or whatever.
Speaker 2: That's me specifically. That's how I feel. Maybe he does
Speaker 2: front most of the things, right, And that's not to
Speaker 2: say that the woman doesn't either, you know, if you're
Speaker 2: not stay at home mom, or if you're not if
Speaker 2: you are a person like we're saying, who feels like
Speaker 2: she's making so much money, has a life of her own,
Speaker 2: I think that you should want to team up, right,
Speaker 2: I don't know, that's just how I don't.
Speaker 3: You don't really like the nigga, You're just looking for daddy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: like put a roof over your head.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just really trying to understand, like what the
Speaker 1: logic is what we've been trying when we're Oh, the
Speaker 1: man takes care of this x y Z. So I mean, see,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 3: I think though, that there's a privilege in being taught that.
Speaker 3: Like we grew up differently. Like you grew up where
Speaker 3: your mom was a housewife. I grew up where it
Speaker 3: was a single parent household and yeah, my mom was
Speaker 3: and men they do shit around across kind of my
Speaker 3: whole family, and so like like for me, I wasn't
Speaker 3: raised that a man should do everything, which is why
Speaker 3: I blame Neo fucking Boosy and Destine's child with the
Speaker 3: goddamn anthems of us being independent because during the independent
Speaker 3: women era and a lot of us being raised in
Speaker 3: single parent households, I think it's like this narrative that
Speaker 3: is being put out from the internet, but a lot
Speaker 3: of us weren't raised by or at least I won't
Speaker 3: say a lot because I don't want to generalize, but
Speaker 3: for many of us who were raising single parent households,
Speaker 3: the narrative around men are supposed to take care of everything.
Speaker 3: Wasn't the narrative being pushed to me at all when
Speaker 3: I was growing up. No, that wasn't the thing, Like, Okay,
Speaker 3: my daddy paid his little phone hundred dollars for child.
Speaker 1: Support for two kids. One that wasn't here, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean.
Speaker 3: And so for I think anyone right now navigating their
Speaker 3: thirties and maybe into their forties, if they were raising
Speaker 3: those single parent households, the way in which we're navigating
Speaker 3: dating is why we have all these red pill thing pieces.
Speaker 3: Is because we're all trying to maybe live a fantasy
Speaker 3: life that we would like based on the Disney chairs,
Speaker 3: the soft light, the soft life.
Speaker 1: You don't see and it just kind of so why
Speaker 1: you can't have a soft life and like, oh girl,
Speaker 1: that's not part of the aesthetically Oh yeah, soult life
Speaker 1: is supposed to be like they Also, I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm like I've been under a rock. What's going on?
Speaker 3: Girl?
Speaker 1: You're not missing anything? What's wrong with? On Tuesdays at home?
Speaker 1: The soft light hashtag? I love it and hate it, okay,
Speaker 1: because I thought it was like you have like an accent.
Speaker 1: It's not like in La. What's the word it starts
Speaker 1: with to like the la flayer. It's something that like
Speaker 1: it's a word the way that La that sounded valley
Speaker 1: like valley not valuable because you're from You're from La. Right,
Speaker 1: vocal fr vocal fry I've never heard of. So basically,
Speaker 1: it's like it's where you accentuate the end of a
Speaker 1: word bring. We're not gonna do that your vocal or
Speaker 1: with a time stamp. And I look at like Nara,
Speaker 1: is that like is that like would that be the
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy?
Speaker 3: The only working the only person about timeline.
Speaker 2: That stic feels soft like I don't I don't know
Speaker 2: the guy's name, but god, he he wears like a
Speaker 2: correct he wears like a T shirt, thats.
Speaker 1: Kind of a do rag.
Speaker 3: And he talks about how like these men be talking
Speaker 3: while like dating, and she'd be like, no, not gonna
Speaker 3: do that, one hundred percent, not gonna do that.
Speaker 1: That's what we're not gonna do it. He's hilarious. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna post someone that goddamn page. But I love him anyways.
Speaker 3: Soria For anyone who has not at this point, don't
Speaker 3: know why you will in is Soraya and Tyler Lepley,
Speaker 3: Bitch and fel Shot and Jermaine de Free and baby Face,
Speaker 3: for anyone who wear for anyone who has seen it yet,
Speaker 3: what way do you hope their takeaway to be and
Speaker 3: why should they watch the film?
Speaker 1: Ruth and Boaz on Netflix now.
Speaker 2: I would hope that their takeaway is community leaning into
Speaker 2: your community. She did that a lot in the film,
Speaker 2: and she wasn't afraid to like step out on faith
Speaker 2: and do something that she had no idea what she
Speaker 2: was doing.
Speaker 1: You got to put full contracts. And I would say
Speaker 1: another thing is that you know.
Speaker 2: Real there's real love, right.
Speaker 1: I feel like.
Speaker 2: All of these topics that we just all these hashtags
Speaker 2: we need to talk.
Speaker 1: About it's exhausting, Like we're making it harder.
Speaker 2: Like it's already hard, you know, because you got two
Speaker 2: people who come with a whole life before they met
Speaker 2: each other, So it's like to add all this extra
Speaker 2: layers and extra things. I feel like that's what Ruth
Speaker 2: and bow As really they really communicate throughout the film.
Speaker 2: It's just being open, vulnerable and raw and it just
Speaker 2: it is what.
Speaker 1: It is, and it's gonna urge a lot of us
Speaker 1: to visit. And that's a man as was washing those feet.
Speaker 1: I thought, I got to share with you all my
Speaker 1: favorite scene. What was your favorite scene? You actually weren't
Speaker 1: in it. It was very much in the beginning. Okay,
Speaker 1: AELII was Trod and her late husband are in the
Speaker 1: bed bed and it's a very sexy scene between older
Speaker 1: people and he's like you feel that. She's like, I
Speaker 1: did love that. I was like, I don't know the
Speaker 1: last time I've seen people in their sixties whatever age
Speaker 1: you're at, just having this like sexy moment. We just
Speaker 1: don't get to see it. And I'm sitting here wait
Speaker 1: for you to do it. Today. We was waiting. You
Speaker 1: had a great feet is all we got. No, No
Speaker 1: said first of all my heart. I was like, oh god,
Speaker 1: you didn't like that your feet was a little to ring.
Speaker 1: You was ready? Yeah, I gonna be ready to painting.
Speaker 1: Had to be ready.
Speaker 3: I said, this bitch just got a job, but she
Speaker 3: had a fresh padic here.
Speaker 1: I know where her money going.
Speaker 2: No, not for real, I'm like, listen, well, Root's gonna
Speaker 2: have had a petticant.
Speaker 1: We actually talked about that.
Speaker 2: It was a call because it was like, we don't
Speaker 2: want her nails, like, she's not supposed to have money.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. And I was like, I
Speaker 1: was like, waving the white flag. Can I believe I'm.
Speaker 3: Thinking grapes. I wanted to see some coarse feat. I
Speaker 3: wanted to see callouses. I wanted to see corn.
Speaker 1: No, no, it didn't give corn. And I'm like, she
Speaker 1: you know, she's Basoline and you guys were I was
Speaker 1: you was with the maps. Well listen, I was like,
Speaker 1: did you find out while you were filming? Found out?
Speaker 1: Oh wow, how stressful girl, Let's talk about that. Let's
Speaker 1: talk about that before you leave. So stressful, so sick?
Speaker 1: Oh damn that really that hurts?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So wait, you were filming and what trimesters? They had
Speaker 1: to be the first because I found out. Yeah, nothing weeks.
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, what scene did you film right
Speaker 1: before you found out? Like what did we see? Now?
Speaker 1: I gotta go back and see if you look like
Speaker 1: you threw up? Oh? Probably? I mean so many times
Speaker 1: about the movie you.
Speaker 3: Were away when you had to tell him that you
Speaker 3: were pregnant, Like you didn't get to tell to his
Speaker 3: face unfortunately.
Speaker 1: Oh wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we shot in Atlanta, so it was very much FaceTime.
Speaker 1: Oh everything. Yeah, but you went to yes.
Speaker 2: We shot for like yes, I well no, I ordered
Speaker 2: it to the no face, okase and then yeah, I
Speaker 2: was like we were on FaceTime and I was like
Speaker 2: all right, I'm gonna do another one. All right, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna do another one.
Speaker 1: And it was like girl. It was like girl.
Speaker 2: And then literally I feel like after I found out,
Speaker 2: like the next week, because we were doing pre production
Speaker 2: for like three weeks and then we shot for like
Speaker 2: three or four weeks weeks maybe, so yeah, by the
Speaker 2: time we had like the first day, I was like miserable.
Speaker 1: Did you share with your friends and colleagues on set?
Speaker 1: And I did not. I mean, I think that's the
Speaker 1: thing until like the last week, where I was like Okay,
Speaker 1: I like like you want to wait anyways? I want
Speaker 1: to wait anyways.
Speaker 2: But I ended up just telling my director Alana. Alana
Speaker 2: she female director, so I was like she had her
Speaker 2: family there, her daughter, beautiful daughter, and her husband, and
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I have to tell her because
Speaker 2: it got to a point where I was like I
Speaker 2: don't want them to be like what's good, you know,
Speaker 2: like what's up?
Speaker 1: And also it was like but also they had you
Speaker 1: out on bils. Girl. The heat, the heat, are you
Speaker 1: pregnant feet? Everything? Not yet yet. I'll show you the pictures.
Speaker 1: Swellen feet. That was at the end.
Speaker 2: But but I can say that it was it was
Speaker 2: very much challenging. But I can't say that my little
Speaker 2: blessing from above gave me a certain ability to just
Speaker 2: be open and in the moment. And so every scene
Speaker 2: is just very candidate and just very real because I
Speaker 2: had no time to overthink oh wow, because I was
Speaker 2: just like, this.
Speaker 1: Is not the most important thing anymore.
Speaker 2: Well not even that, but just like I'm just so sick,
Speaker 2: Like I don't know, it's just like everything makes you sick, right,
Speaker 2: And they're bringing food, there's food around, there's there's people
Speaker 2: walking by with perfume.
Speaker 1: And every time I'm just like.
Speaker 2: Hmmm, I'm just like, oh, I'll be right back. Got
Speaker 2: around to my trailer, you know, and I'm just like, Okay,
Speaker 2: how do I survive today? What what am I going
Speaker 2: to take today to like help me.
Speaker 1: Get you think it sounds yes, baby, yeah right, And
Speaker 1: I'm like it's just sitting in my trailer, it's just dark.
Speaker 2: Pa knocks on my trailer, Soria, We'll have you for
Speaker 2: five minutes, like Okay, I love it, but I mean
Speaker 2: I'm sure people suspected, especially the women.
Speaker 1: They're like, bit I went all last night. You know
Speaker 1: it's Atlanta.
Speaker 3: Well Soria, thank you so so much for joining us.
Speaker 1: For anyone listening. If you haven't yet, check out Ruth
Speaker 1: and Boaz on Netflix. It is out now and you know,
Speaker 1: just know you're not gonna get a sex scene, but
Speaker 1: was throwing up in them. See come on, I love it.
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 3: And do you have anything else that you have going
Speaker 3: on that you would like to support that you have
Speaker 3: coming out?
Speaker 2: Yes, ladies, Actually I have a new song out Helloakes yes. Oh,
Speaker 2: but also that's right from the movie stundtrack. But I
Speaker 2: also have my single okay, it's called put that Ship on.
Speaker 1: Oh E d s O.
Speaker 2: Okay to go download that. I want you to make
Speaker 2: your videos, but you getting cute when you're putting that
Speaker 2: shit on.
Speaker 1: Yes, make a TikTok grop.
Speaker 2: It.
Speaker 3: Don't make the dance too complicated. We're in our thirties.
Speaker 3: And does the artist make the dance? Sometimes they do,
Speaker 3: their team sometimes does to get it going?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. Chris thought we could all dance, but
Speaker 1: it took a month and a half to learn that. Goddamn.
Speaker 1: I'm still like, look, look, man, I will I volunteered
Speaker 1: with kids two days ago, all of them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely know it's a three step.
Speaker 2: So CDSO PDSO is out. My project is coming out
Speaker 2: as well.
Speaker 1: Yes, project coming out.
Speaker 3: Ruth and Boaz wherever Empire, I guess still plays, but
Speaker 3: we don't know what's happening over there. Okay, there we
Speaker 3: go and all the things. Surrey, thank you so very
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Speaker 1: That's what they really wanted you, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: so we can get you. Yeah, we wasn't gonna get
Speaker 1: you to talk about if you eat ass or not.
Speaker 1: But anyways, guys, they look she said, why don't you
Speaker 1: want to answer before you leave? Yeah? No, no, she said,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 3: Guys, well, thank y'all so much for tuning in to
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