WEBVTT - Dr. Jess Interview and more

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<v Speaker 1>Fifty percent right special hand year, I love you fifty

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<v Speaker 1>percent right. Rat to sit out isn't coming the most

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<v Speaker 1>prominent form from it? Wait, yo ass up early in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, but they tell me it was y'all. I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>hell yeah, I'm getting the world smokest agress more than

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<v Speaker 1>shom few people's choice actually less have I got you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yoo made god PERI people who I can't believe you

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<v Speaker 1>got into the basket. We know this breakfast club petitions.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo

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<v Speaker 1>yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo

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<v Speaker 1>yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo,

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Angeloine, Good morning. He's Ambi Charlo Migne. The

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<v Speaker 1>guy Preas did the plane in this Thursday. And your

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<v Speaker 1>mic sounds like trash. I don't know what's wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>your mic? What's wrong with my mi? I don't know. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you're like fifty feet away. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little muffled. All right. Well, happy late anniversary, djmb oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you man. I had a wonderful day yesterday with

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<v Speaker 1>the wife. You know, we absolutely positively did nothing, which

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<v Speaker 1>was the best thing. Shout out to Matt the mortgage

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<v Speaker 1>guy who's been on the UM Show a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>times talking about mortgage. He actually paid for you know

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<v Speaker 1>last night. Yeah no, no, I wish he paid for

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<v Speaker 1>a mortgage, but he actually paid for dinner last night.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got a restaurant out here in Jersey. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called Buka Seafood, and they delivered everything. Uh. They had shrimp,

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<v Speaker 1>they had steak, rice, uh, so many different vegetables. It was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very very good, very thoughtful. So um, I

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<v Speaker 1>was actually gonna go get some soulful but that came

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<v Speaker 1>right before so I didn't have to go get any food,

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<v Speaker 1>so that I was very very nice to me and

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<v Speaker 1>the wife. We ate, We watched some of our favorite

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<v Speaker 1>TV shows, which are anything with home improvement and people

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<v Speaker 1>finding homes, buying homes, doing stuff for cheap. So we

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<v Speaker 1>watched that all night long, and then last night, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we shot for maybe maybe baby number six, maybe seven

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<v Speaker 1>and eight, maybe maybe triplets. I don't know, but we

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<v Speaker 1>had a great man. We had that is a very

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<v Speaker 1>thoughtful present when you give people right now like a

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<v Speaker 1>meal or a gift cards, you know, for Mother's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>I sent a bunch of my friends mother's gift cards

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<v Speaker 1>so that they could get Uber Eats or they could

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<v Speaker 1>get door Dash, depending on what's more popular where you live.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really nice present, just to put that out

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<v Speaker 1>there for people, because I know people are celebrating birthdays

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<v Speaker 1>and things like that. And if you can give somebody

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<v Speaker 1>a gift card to just order food and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>dinner's on me, that's a nice thing to do. Absolutely that.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I also did was, you know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>follow me, my wife, she loves bags. Most women don't

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<v Speaker 1>do bags and shoes. So what I did was I

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<v Speaker 1>got a favorite, her favorite bag, and we drew it out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I made the kids color one and I colored

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<v Speaker 1>the other, and we put it in the box and

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<v Speaker 1>we gave it to us. So she loved that too.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I did yesterday, I was well, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, and I know you already told everybody v

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<v Speaker 1>that we won a Gracie Award for lip service. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>even though it wasn't supposed to be that information wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be out yet, they did just make the

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<v Speaker 1>announcement yesterday you know what's funny, I've seen that yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, did I congratulating already? I couldn't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like that and that information was embargoed. I

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<v Speaker 1>knew about it, but we weren't supposed to announce it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, okay, but m yeah, So yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>they made the announce me Angie Martinez one one, Nacy

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<v Speaker 1>Nash one, Gail King, and the Gracie Awards are by

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<v Speaker 1>the Alliance for Women in Media Foundation, so they celebrating

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<v Speaker 1>on a programming creative for women. It's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>So we were excited about that. So I had a

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<v Speaker 1>drink yesterday and what I realized is that I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>been drinking that much and I'm definitely yes from one drink,

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<v Speaker 1>so yes, So that's what I did yesterday, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, woah, this is too much. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>watched Insidious. I don't know if you ever saw that movie. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't. I was like, let me watch a horror

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<v Speaker 1>movie because you know, I love horror movies. So I

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<v Speaker 1>watched Insidious and that's that was my night. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I was scared to go to bed. Yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 1>when g and I did that Jamaican party was supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be in Jamaica for our flyaway, and we did

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<v Speaker 1>our own party, and you know, we had Jamaican everything.

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<v Speaker 1>We you know, hat Jamaican backgrounds, We had pools, drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a little drink that day, and I was twisted.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, how am I so twisted? So fast?

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<v Speaker 1>But right? Because I normally only drink if I go

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<v Speaker 1>out or if I'm around people. I don't like sit

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<v Speaker 1>at home by myself and have a drink. So since

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't been going anywhere, I've been pretty sober. Right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get the show cracking. It is Mental Health Awareness Month,

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<v Speaker 1>and Doctor Jess will be checking and Doctor Jess will

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<v Speaker 1>be talking about everything mental health. How you know, how

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<v Speaker 1>to help you if you're feeling anxiety, if you're feeling depressed.

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<v Speaker 1>She'll help you and guide us through all of that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then of course ask you if you need relationship advice,

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<v Speaker 1>any type of advice. You can get on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>all morning long and she will help you with your

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<v Speaker 1>our problems. All right, but let's get the show cracking.

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<v Speaker 1>Frontage News what we're talking about, Yes, let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>schools reopening. Donald Trump and doctor faulty have two different views.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll get into that next. Keeping locked this

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<v Speaker 1>to breakfast club. Good morning. How do is dj Envy

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<v Speaker 1>angela Ye, Charlomagne the guy we are the breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to tell you my son just scared

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<v Speaker 1>the issue out of me. I walked in the kitchen

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<v Speaker 1>right fast, and he's in the family room sleeping, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what the huh is too? There's a spider

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<v Speaker 1>in his room and a spider crawled on him like

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<v Speaker 1>a day ago, and he will not go back in

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<v Speaker 1>his room. Now. This kid is damn near five ten,

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and thirty pounds, lift weights every day, fully buffed,

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<v Speaker 1>runs every day, but the scared of a little spider,

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<v Speaker 1>he will not go back. Racknophobia is real. You never crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>He is sleeping. I'm like, bro, you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go back in the room. He's like, nope, be diesel

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<v Speaker 1>little hell get bit by the wrong spider. It's still

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<v Speaker 1>a rap. You're right. Well, let's get in some front

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<v Speaker 1>page news. Where were starting you? Well, let's start with

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<v Speaker 1>Donald Trump. Now, he didn't like some of the comments

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<v Speaker 1>that doctor Fauci made where he discussed opening up too

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<v Speaker 1>quickly just as a refresher. Here's what doctor Fauci said.

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<v Speaker 1>My concern is that a states or cities or regions

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<v Speaker 1>disregard to a greaterness of degree the checkpoints that we

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<v Speaker 1>put on our guidelines. There is a real risk that

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<v Speaker 1>you will trigger an outbreak that you might not be

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<v Speaker 1>able to control, which in in fact, heterodoxically will set

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<v Speaker 1>you back, not only leading to some suffering in death

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<v Speaker 1>that could be avoided, but could even set you back

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<v Speaker 1>on the road to trying to get economic recovery. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Fauci also suggested that school is open cautiously in

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<v Speaker 1>some places, not even in the fall, and when asked

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<v Speaker 1>about the risk and the benefits of that, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>it's obviously very difficult. But he said, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a good explanation or solution for the problem of what

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<v Speaker 1>happens when you close schools and it triggers a cascade

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<v Speaker 1>of events. Now Donald Trump reacted to that and actually

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<v Speaker 1>disagreed with doctor Fauci. Luck he wants to play all

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<v Speaker 1>sides of the equation. But we're opening our country. People

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to open. The schools are going to be open,

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<v Speaker 1>and Purduers opening and others are opening, and they're all

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<v Speaker 1>announcing it. These are young people, these are students, young students.

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<v Speaker 1>They are a great ship. They're in a great ship. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>will you have an incident to one out of a million,

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<v Speaker 1>one out of five hundred, that will something happen? Perhaps,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know you can be driving to school and

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<v Speaker 1>some bad things can happen too. So no, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>open our country in the country, guys, I've told you

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<v Speaker 1>it's in the open country. Yeah. The economy have to Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they are. The economy is an omelet. We're the eggs.

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<v Speaker 1>They have no problem breaking a few eggs to get

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<v Speaker 1>the economy back on track it is, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy because they got the money to hold people

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<v Speaker 1>down and make sure everybody's okay, to just opens back

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<v Speaker 1>up and save a lot of lives. But instead they're like, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna open this up and pretty much if you die,

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<v Speaker 1>you die. That's how they're looking at it. That's it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they do have to figure out what the kids learning,

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<v Speaker 1>though for younger kids, I think the issue is how

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<v Speaker 1>do we make sure and now I know they've been

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<v Speaker 1>doing virtual classes, there's been some issues with that also.

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<v Speaker 1>They just have to figure out how to adjust to that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, you can't un tell it's a vaccine

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<v Speaker 1>and some type of treatment, Like, yes, people are going

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<v Speaker 1>to get sick when they get back out there. And

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Folgi does have to stop playing both sides though,

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<v Speaker 1>because he seems to like really speak truth to power

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<v Speaker 1>in one second and Trump lean on him a little

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<v Speaker 1>and then he'll he'll walk it back because I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>should we open up cautiously or should we stay on lockdown?

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<v Speaker 1>Which one is it? You've been going back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>for that the past couple of weeks, right, And they

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<v Speaker 1>are also saying that coronavirus could just be around and

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<v Speaker 1>may never go away. According to the World Health Organization,

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<v Speaker 1>they said it might just join the mix of different

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<v Speaker 1>viruses that kill people around the world every year, and

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<v Speaker 1>it might just become another virus in the community. That's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. If we have a vaccine though, that that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>It'd be like the flu. A lot of people die

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<v Speaker 1>from the flu, but least it can be controlled a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. We just need to be able to control

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<v Speaker 1>because right now there's no vaccine, there's no killer, there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing that can help us. Well, yeahdat to Mike Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>and who is the executive director for the World Health Organization,

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<v Speaker 1>said it's HIV hasn't gone away, and he said, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not comparing the two diseases, but I think it's important

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<v Speaker 1>that we're realistic, I mean, totally different with it's actually

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<v Speaker 1>transmitted disease. You use needles, I guess, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>little easier to contain. I would think, right, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of and something that you could just something that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know how we catch, to be honest with you,

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<v Speaker 1>easily transmittable. All right, Well that is your front page news.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it off your chest eight hundred five eight five

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<v Speaker 1>one oh five one. If you need to vent, hit

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<v Speaker 1>us up right now, phone line to open this to

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club. Good morning the breakfast club. This is your

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<v Speaker 1>time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man,

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<v Speaker 1>you're from you on the breakfast club. You got something

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<v Speaker 1>on your mont? Hello, who's this Georgia? What's up? An?

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<v Speaker 1>Get it off your chest? I'm always just called them

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<v Speaker 1>to pay man, Like you know, I disagree with what

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<v Speaker 1>y'all we're saying. Man, you know, I think it is

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<v Speaker 1>time that we, you know, give the economy back up

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<v Speaker 1>and movement. You know, I think that we don't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the money that they're taking out to give to us,

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<v Speaker 1>and the stimulus checks and all these things, like I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, that's money that we're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to pay back. So it's not really, that's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm spreading that lie. That's not true. You

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<v Speaker 1>do not have to pay stimulus money back. That's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not absolutely the national bet though, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, that's not true. Is it not true? Why

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<v Speaker 1>would we have to pay it back in the national debt?

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<v Speaker 1>Who told you that? Where'd you get that from? We're

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<v Speaker 1>saying the national debt has to be paid back? That's

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<v Speaker 1>what national bet. We have to open the economy. Lord.

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<v Speaker 1>But let me ask you a question. Would you would

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<v Speaker 1>you prefer? Would you prefer national debt or your or

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<v Speaker 1>your mother and father die? I mean, I agree, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, So you can't agree on both sides.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's it's either the national debt or or your

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<v Speaker 1>mother and father die, your grandparents die, or your friends die.

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<v Speaker 1>People are dying. So if we have to owe some

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<v Speaker 1>money because we already have it, that who cares about money?

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<v Speaker 1>People are more concerned about money than lives. All this

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<v Speaker 1>money means nothing. That car that you're driving, that clothes

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<v Speaker 1>that you'll really mean nothing about my mother, my father,

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<v Speaker 1>or even hunk my kids. People. People were carrying about

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<v Speaker 1>money because that's why we need to open the economy,

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<v Speaker 1>because people need to be back to work. People need

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to make money. I mean, you know

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<v Speaker 1>these governments, you see the government is moving coming to

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<v Speaker 1>get everybody is stimil a check at twelve hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>People aren't working right now. They need money. I totally

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<v Speaker 1>understand the economy is opening back up, and once you

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<v Speaker 1>get in, the economy is and people are the eggs,

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<v Speaker 1>a few eggs abody getting broken. People are the economy.

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<v Speaker 1>The people are the eggs. The economy is the Omlie

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<v Speaker 1>you're an egg, then let me ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 1>But who dies? Who dies more? Who dies more? What

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<v Speaker 1>community dies more? From this? I mean either way, either

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<v Speaker 1>way economically or through the virus or communities are gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get hurt the most, right, black and brown communities. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that there's no one, one size fits

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<v Speaker 1>all answer for this because there's some people who want

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<v Speaker 1>the economy to open back up because they are suffering financially,

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<v Speaker 1>they're suffering in different ways. And there's people who is

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<v Speaker 1>more comfortable that are fine with the economy being closed,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's people who are okay to make sacrifices.

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<v Speaker 1>It just depends. Everybody's in a different situation. So there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing you can do that everybody will be pleased about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna front. I want it, like I want

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<v Speaker 1>the economy to open back up, but not not, not

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<v Speaker 1>if it has to do it losing my parents or

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<v Speaker 1>with this new virus that's killing kids. It may not

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<v Speaker 1>be your pathot, it may not be your parents, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be somebody's parents, somebody's, it's gonna be It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be somebody period. That's why when you talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the economy not being the egg, No, the people are

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<v Speaker 1>the eggs. The economy is the omelet. You're right, Eggs

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<v Speaker 1>make the omelet, and some eggs are gonna get broken

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<v Speaker 1>to make this goddamn omelet. And you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want it to be my eggs. How about that? Neither?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want it to be nobody, nobody, eggs. No, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this? This is one lead from my asphell of

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<v Speaker 1>North Carolina, Willie, I'm assume you on one leg. Uh yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>great assumption. What happened? Uh? Bear hunting, buddy, bear hunting?

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<v Speaker 1>A bear called the bedroop the bedroom? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, Charlotte mine that night. Yeah, you're right. Ball

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<v Speaker 1>here guy, yeah, well not bald right now. But I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be so you were walking in and you

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<v Speaker 1>got caught in the in the bedroom, I did, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>But my my thing was to pull jo Quis to

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<v Speaker 1>the congregation because I heard he want he sweats smoke

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<v Speaker 1>and he don't want that. Okay, so you must you

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<v Speaker 1>must have just gotten internet in your area, because that

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<v Speaker 1>story is at least a year old, maybe two. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember seams longer. Well, that's bat. You're right, And

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why I'm bringing it up because they're battling

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<v Speaker 1>right now, right and nobody knows that up. And I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what he sweat was definitely smoking. So anyone

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<v Speaker 1>not battling smoke. He said, he artists a battle right now,

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<v Speaker 1>he said. Nobody brought that up. Nobody brought it up

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<v Speaker 1>for a reason. Sir, Queens, keep Jack Queis, keep sorry

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<v Speaker 1>to watch Jack Quis or will wipe his ass with

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<v Speaker 1>Jack quiz the wear bell, wipe his ass at your

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<v Speaker 1>foot exactly. I with you on that now. Also, I

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<v Speaker 1>want watch people to come to the congregation because they

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<v Speaker 1>thought it would be good to put collar greens on

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<v Speaker 1>the sub and I thought it would be too. But

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<v Speaker 1>and I told much that's not so fun. Where Carolina

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<v Speaker 1>has collar green substandances, I think twich now is. But

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of think there's something. Yes, listen, there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to God forward. Please don't go try watch people, please

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<v Speaker 1>stop putting the greens on the sublease all right, one

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<v Speaker 1>lega willy a lot of things that he just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get it off his chest. That's the true definition

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<v Speaker 1>one leg WILLI bust your ass at Hop Scotch stupid,

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<v Speaker 1>get it off your chests eight hundred five eight five

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<v Speaker 1>one on five one. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>the breakfast Club. Wake up, wake up, wake y'all. You're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get it off your chest because your man

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<v Speaker 1>or black. We want to hear from you on the

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast But hello, who's this dre what I've getting off

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<v Speaker 1>your chests? Bro? Well, how y'all doing this morning? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say, God bless y'all, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to say, and I want to say, man,

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<v Speaker 1>stop giving the police a reason to kill us, kill

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<v Speaker 1>us as young black man and as black man general,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to say, like, um, basically, when you

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<v Speaker 1>see the horse, don't go smack it on the butt

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<v Speaker 1>so I can kick you in the face. Who's smacking

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<v Speaker 1>horse is on the as I'm just saying, there's a metaphor,

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<v Speaker 1>don't go, don't go, don't go, don't go, don't go

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<v Speaker 1>kick the gate and the behind and then expect not

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<v Speaker 1>to bite you. Well, you know a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>people are minding their business, not doing anything wrong, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>even in their own home. Everything that's wrong, there's no

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<v Speaker 1>there's no there's no wait with that. But I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>as a black man, like, don't go and tagonize it,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's just given what they want. I haven't seen

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<v Speaker 1>anybody and Brianna Taylor didn't the antagonize nobody. She got

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<v Speaker 1>killed by police. That's that's crazy. That's crazy. And I

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<v Speaker 1>know exactly what you're talking about that story and counterbum

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<v Speaker 1>me the tears a little bit because that's totally wrong. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying is, do what the mind they

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<v Speaker 1>do them from where I'm from running from the police.

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<v Speaker 1>They shot him down because he was going around the

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<v Speaker 1>corner that he that all they wanted to him to

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<v Speaker 1>do stop, but he decided to run, and they gave

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<v Speaker 1>them no right to do what they did him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't shoot. You don't shoot man just because Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, you don't. But just don't. Don't just stop

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<v Speaker 1>and don't don't don't just stop giving them a reason

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<v Speaker 1>to hurt them. Scared of the cops. Your your first

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<v Speaker 1>instinct might be let me just get out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, don't want to get shot. I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up basically a very bad neighborhood. The police say, stopped,

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<v Speaker 1>you put your hands up, and the stop. So so basically,

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<v Speaker 1>you want people to just stop being black. Don't what

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<v Speaker 1>you should stop being black? Is that? Yeah? You know that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that's why they're getting You know, that's why

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<v Speaker 1>these people are getting kill right, I know, I know you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you've seen them interact with white people differently

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<v Speaker 1>than they did. Yes, yes, you're right, like the kid

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<v Speaker 1>in the who was running, who was in the hot

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<v Speaker 1>speech chase. What do you say, they ain't they're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna they ain't gonna tsch me. It's easy, mom. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand what you're saying, but that still should

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<v Speaker 1>I still shouldn't be a death. That still shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>a death sentence. That's not a death, that's not that's

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<v Speaker 1>not for death. But what I'm saying is, don't tagonize. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think y'all just trying to get my blood pressure

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<v Speaker 1>up this morning. You keep it moving. Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a great day. Y'all know I ain't have

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<v Speaker 1>my green tea yet. You know what I'm saying. I

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<v Speaker 1>think y'all just calling up here that you know my

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<v Speaker 1>nurse pick up a car. Somebody gonna tell me about

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<v Speaker 1>five g morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Ye, Charlemagne

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<v Speaker 1>the guy, we are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to

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<v Speaker 1>the rumors. Let's talk about this million dollars donation. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>oh Gosport guys with angel Angela's report with the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Robert Craft, who owns the Patriots, actually donated the Super

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<v Speaker 1>Bowl ring from twenty seventeen, and that is from Michael

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<v Speaker 1>rubens all in challenge. A lot of celebrities have donated

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<v Speaker 1>items and The initiative has raised more than forty one

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars so far, and that particular item has already

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<v Speaker 1>hit over one million dollars in bidding. Wow, I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>why people give away stuff like that, Like that seems

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<v Speaker 1>like stuff that really really really really means something to them.

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<v Speaker 1>A super Bowl ring for a good cause. And he

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<v Speaker 1>has a couple of them. He's an owner. He has

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of them. MEAs that. And remember this, he

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<v Speaker 1>always make another one. He is the owner. Yes, he

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<v Speaker 1>can make another one. Yeah, make another ring. You can

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<v Speaker 1>make another ring. I guess, well, maybe he's selling the duplicate.

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<v Speaker 1>Who knows. I just feel like that's so sentimental. That's

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<v Speaker 1>something that really really means something. That's a super Bowl ring.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't. You don't just get those every day. It's

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<v Speaker 1>for a good cause, and they do. They got those

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<v Speaker 1>like damn every day. And then Rabbit Craft and Michael

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<v Speaker 1>Rubin are really good friends, so I'm sure he knew

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<v Speaker 1>it would be helpful for that, and you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a great it's great thing. Though it's over a million dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the most for an item so far, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because we saw the eight hundred thousand dollars for the

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<v Speaker 1>Tom Brady uh that somebody paid one hundred thousand dollars for.

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<v Speaker 1>So now that's over a million all right now. Kevin Hart,

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<v Speaker 1>he's talking about this whole coronavirus and how he's on

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<v Speaker 1>the edge, and he told the story about a fan

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<v Speaker 1>that wanted to take a picture with him. Here's what

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<v Speaker 1>he said. I go to the gas station, I get

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<v Speaker 1>off the pump. Gas people pull up, They saw me.

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<v Speaker 1>They jump out, Oh my god, Kevin Hart, let us

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<v Speaker 1>get a picture. I jumped back. WHOA. I said, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>got no mask, go on, no gloves, no nothing. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what went down in my mind, but in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind this was the movie Contagent. That's the fucking

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<v Speaker 1>mindset that this craziness has put me in. It. He's

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely right, if you're gonna take a picture, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to do a selfie from six feet away, sir

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<v Speaker 1>oh Man. Yeah, now that's not the time to really

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<v Speaker 1>be trying to like take pictures with people and do

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, and people say you mask, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>wear your man as. I mean, you know, people understand,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, a couple people ask to take a

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<v Speaker 1>picture when I was at grocery shopping the other day

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody wore their masks. They understood when I went

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<v Speaker 1>grocery shopping, I made them stand six feet away. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's a great question too. I don't I'll be trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out how they know it's me and a

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<v Speaker 1>mask as well. I don't understand that. I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't stick up no stores if things ever get bad,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. In addition to that, Kevin hat is talking

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<v Speaker 1>about what's gonna happen at casinos in the future. They

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<v Speaker 1>have built glass cubbies around each seat, so you sit

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<v Speaker 1>at your seat and plexi glass around you and the

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<v Speaker 1>same for the next person. All right, that'll be interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Part of the fun of gambling too is being social

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<v Speaker 1>at the table. Yeah, talking and talking ish and drinking

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody cheering each other on. That's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>little a little difficult. But I'm not a big gamble anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've seen blackjack table and talking to other people

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<v Speaker 1>and joking around and all right, I got you, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I took one for the team. It's fun. I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>designs like that for restaurants as well. The glass cubicles.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that for restaurants and jims the designs for

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<v Speaker 1>the Yeah, all right, Now, the Michael Jackson Musical MJ

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<v Speaker 1>has been moved to Spring twenty twenty one. So they

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<v Speaker 1>were supposed to start previews and all of that soon,

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<v Speaker 1>but now they're going to start previews next March. It's

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<v Speaker 1>an eight month postponement because of coronavirus. Those new dates

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<v Speaker 1>were just announced yesterday, so that is going to start

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<v Speaker 1>March eighth, twenty twenty one. I'm definitely going to see that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I love a Broadway play. So Broadway, as

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<v Speaker 1>you all know, we talked about this, it's shut down,

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<v Speaker 1>no plays until September at this point. All right. And

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix has put out the trailer for the Jeffrey Epstein

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<v Speaker 1>docu series. It's called Filthy. It's a four part series

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<v Speaker 1>about Jeffrey Epstein and how he was a pedophile and

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<v Speaker 1>all the women who fell victim to his sex trafficking, ring,

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<v Speaker 1>their stories from the survivors and all of that. Here

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<v Speaker 1>is the trailer, The Disgrace for the Antier. Jeffrey Epstein

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<v Speaker 1>is dead. It was stunningly rich. He had a twenty

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<v Speaker 1>million dollar house, his own private island in the Caribbean.

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<v Speaker 1>How's a nickname the pedophile Island. In two thousand and five,

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<v Speaker 1>the poem Beach Police Department received the reports of young

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<v Speaker 1>women going to and from his residence. There was some

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<v Speaker 1>ever revolving tour of girls. Welsh was under age when

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<v Speaker 1>the school was brought other girls too. This is a typical,

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<v Speaker 1>much bigger Iceberg. Take him down, Take everybody down. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought to myself, Man, they made that movie fast.

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<v Speaker 1>He just died. But when you think about it, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're gonna kill somebody, you could shop the studios.

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<v Speaker 1>They were shopping this before they killed him. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean before he killed himself. But they definitely was shopping

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<v Speaker 1>this before he died. This is quick. Or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they might have started filming a docusearies even while he

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<v Speaker 1>was alive and then he ended up. I know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. They could have did that later. It could

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<v Speaker 1>have been them interviewing people over a period of time

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<v Speaker 1>even before that happened. And it's a series of interviews,

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<v Speaker 1>So I could see this having happened like pretty quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>Either way, when you know you're gonna kill somebody, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a great that's a great way to shop it okay, Like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>we got this great documentary about this Larry Fsteam guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like a world class, you know, tough kind of

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<v Speaker 1>file sex trafficker, whatever the hell his name is. He's

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<v Speaker 1>a world class pedophile sex trafficker, and we're gonna kill

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<v Speaker 1>him and make it look like he killed himself. Who

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't buy that? I would, all right. And there's also

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<v Speaker 1>going to be a Netflix film that's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>on the USA Gymnastics sexual abuse scandal. So that's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be coming to that's the former team doctor Larry

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<v Speaker 1>Nassar and the allegations against him and the failures of

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<v Speaker 1>the USA Gymnastics to protect their athletes. Also, it's called

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<v Speaker 1>athlete A and that will be on Netflix on June

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<v Speaker 1>twenty fourth. If there's drama, if there's a traumatic, real

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<v Speaker 1>life story out there, they will turn it into a

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<v Speaker 1>scripted event, aren't they, or a documentary or something. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it affected so many different people and how

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<v Speaker 1>could something like this happen? So I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>good way for people to understand all the details of

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<v Speaker 1>the investigation. And a lot of times, yeah, I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't like people profiting all other people's trauma. I really

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<v Speaker 1>don't like it's like Jesus Christ, Like, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of other things that they could be putting in production. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a really victim. They definitely get money, That's all

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be caring about. I'm like, do the victims get

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<v Speaker 1>money from this when they do this? But I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I do that. The documentary will center on Athlete A,

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<v Speaker 1>who was the first gymnast to report Larry Narstar's abuse

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<v Speaker 1>to USA Gymnastics, and that's Maggie Nichols. She's a former

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<v Speaker 1>member of the national team and she went on to

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<v Speaker 1>have a great career at the University of Oklahoma. In

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<v Speaker 1>twenty eighteen, she came forward and identified herself as Athlete A,

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<v Speaker 1>and after that, hundreds of fellow survivors came forward. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was a lot of money, man, mytory, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>relive this pain. Money. If Maggie's getting the check, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>If Maggie's an executive producer, she got equity in it, great.

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<v Speaker 1>Other than that, you just profited off people's trauma. Well yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but these are important stories though to be told as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know what the logistics are of how

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<v Speaker 1>they worked it out behind the scenes, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>believe it's an important story and I'll definitely be watching.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, Well, I'm Angela Yee and that is your

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<v Speaker 1>rumor report. All right, thank you, miss Ye. Now when

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<v Speaker 1>we come back, we got front page news. What we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. We're gonna give you some details on what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on in different cities. As you know, everybody has

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<v Speaker 1>a different city by city, state by state on what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening with coronavirus on opening up and you know, things

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<v Speaker 1>opening and shutting back down. So we'll tell you what

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing as far as the stay at home order

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<v Speaker 1>in different places. All Right, we'll get into that next.

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<v Speaker 1>Keeping locked this to Breakfast Club. Good morning, Hey morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we

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<v Speaker 1>all the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Let's get into small

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<v Speaker 1>page news where we start with. All right, well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>start with Wyoming. They're allowing restaurants, bars and theaters to

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<v Speaker 1>open on Friday Friday, so that's tomorrow, under a new

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<v Speaker 1>order that was signed by their governor. They said, we're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to work our way safety safely to as normal

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<v Speaker 1>conditions as we can get. Tables will be limited to

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<v Speaker 1>six people, but unlike most states with similar regulations, people

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<v Speaker 1>from different households will be allowed to sit at the

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<v Speaker 1>same table. Buffet service is not allowed, and tables must

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<v Speaker 1>be separated by at least six feet. And Maryland, the

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<v Speaker 1>governor is saying that he's working with DC and Virginia

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<v Speaker 1>officials on the next stages, on the next steps for

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<v Speaker 1>their state, and they said the area surrounding DC are

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<v Speaker 1>hotspots for COVID nineteen. They said, seventy percent of our

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<v Speaker 1>infection rates are in four counties. I think fifty percent

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<v Speaker 1>of it is in the two counties surrounding Washington. So

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<v Speaker 1>they said, he spoke with both leaders on Friday and

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<v Speaker 1>took their input into consideration as they're trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what they're gonna do as far as stage one

0:26:50.800 --> 0:26:55.760
<v Speaker 1>reopening guidelines. So we should know about that soon. Now

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<v Speaker 1>in May eighteenth, you still don't have to go out

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<v Speaker 1>just because things opening up, right. I don't think the

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<v Speaker 1>government in need states understands how feel works. Y'all have

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<v Speaker 1>no precautions and nothing in place to make your people

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<v Speaker 1>feel safe. So why would they go, Well, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what the thing isn't and you know a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people can defer their mortgage for three months, to differ

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<v Speaker 1>their car notes for three months, but then what happens

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<v Speaker 1>after that. That's why a lot of people are like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go out. Yeah, I could defer for

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<v Speaker 1>three months, but then what happens on that fore month?

0:27:19.280 --> 0:27:21.119
<v Speaker 1>I gotta pay. You know what happens on that foremonth

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:22.600
<v Speaker 1>for my carna. We happening on that fore month for

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of my bills, I have to pay. So

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<v Speaker 1>if they don't stretch that out, people have to go out. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>in DC, they extended their stay at home order through

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<v Speaker 1>June eighth, and Virginia is going to do a partial

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<v Speaker 1>reopening starting tomorrow, with the Northern Virginia maintaining firmer restrictions.

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<v Speaker 1>On May eighteenth, eleven, DMV centers will reopen on an

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<v Speaker 1>appointment only basis that select services like getting a license,

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<v Speaker 1>vehicle registration, things like that. Mississippi they're gonna end suspension

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<v Speaker 1>of evictions on June first, so they will end their

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<v Speaker 1>temporary suspension on evictions, and they said, we have to

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<v Speaker 1>recognize housing doesn't just happen, and it doesn't grow on trees.

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<v Speaker 1>We cannot suspend evictions forever. So you see The problem

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<v Speaker 1>with that is is if people can't work and now

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<v Speaker 1>you just want them to get back to work, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get evicted. You know why, because three months I

0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:14.359
<v Speaker 1>haven't paid. I'm just getting back in the workforce. How

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<v Speaker 1>am I gonna pay? How am I gonna make that

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<v Speaker 1>back up? You kick me out in the treat and

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<v Speaker 1>then what I go from there? You're right? But when

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<v Speaker 1>I say you don't have to go out work is

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that's essential. I'm talking about the restaurants and

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<v Speaker 1>movie theaters that Lee first was talking about, and what

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of these work, a lot of people working.

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<v Speaker 1>If you, if you if you're working, if you, if

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<v Speaker 1>you work there, I totally understand. I'm talking about people

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<v Speaker 1>who just want to go out there for recreational purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to go to the restaurants, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to go to the movie But I totally understand.

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<v Speaker 1>If I work at a restaurant and you don't go,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't make money. But that's the whole point of

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<v Speaker 1>why this opening up the economy so quick, it is

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<v Speaker 1>probably not going to work, because what if people don't

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<v Speaker 1>come out to support the economy, economy is still gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go to there, they are still doing social distancing and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out ways to make it safer for

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<v Speaker 1>you to be able to go to a restaurant. So

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<v Speaker 1>all right. California has ten counties moving into stage two

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<v Speaker 1>of reopening according to the governor there, so seven counties

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<v Speaker 1>will be moving into the next stage of reopening businesses.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, there's fifty eight total counties in that state,

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<v Speaker 1>so ten of those will be moving into stage two.

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<v Speaker 1>Another stay at home lockdown for three months La La

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<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles, Larry, Okay, all right. The mayor of Detroit

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<v Speaker 1>is saying that COVID nineteen numbers are dropping the fastest

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<v Speaker 1>in the country. So they said that's because a lot

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:39.760
<v Speaker 1>of the residents are wearing masks, a lot of them

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<v Speaker 1>are social distancing. They said the state will expand testing

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<v Speaker 1>starting today, so Detroit will be able to test two

0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 1>thousand residents a day with the prescription. They've also made

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:52.800
<v Speaker 1>testing available without a prescription to anyone over the age

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<v Speaker 1>of sixty and so according to the mayor there, they

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<v Speaker 1>are having the numbers dropping faster than anywhere else in

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<v Speaker 1>the US. And Florida the governor is saying that all

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<v Speaker 1>professional sports are welcome for practicing and for playing. So

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<v Speaker 1>they are welcoming you to come there. And Ayowa, they're

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<v Speaker 1>lifting restrictions in all ninety nine counties. They said there,

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<v Speaker 1>we can and must reopen our economy. We can restart

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<v Speaker 1>a stable safe in a stable, safe and responsible way,

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:21.600
<v Speaker 1>and we can slow the spread, protect the health of

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<v Speaker 1>Iowans and their livelihood, and protect the healthcare system in

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<v Speaker 1>the long run. So restaurants, fitness centers, retail stores, malls,

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<v Speaker 1>they will be allowed to reopen. It should just finish

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<v Speaker 1>the NBA season in Florida, But all the teams just

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<v Speaker 1>go down there, you know what I'm saying, stayed on

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<v Speaker 1>there for the next two or three months, however long

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<v Speaker 1>it takes. Quarantine in Florida, and just you know, finish

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<v Speaker 1>the NBA season there, all right. And one thing you

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<v Speaker 1>may have noticed is that prices in the supermarket are soaring,

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<v Speaker 1>So a lot of things are getting more expensive. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>for breakfast, egg prices went up sixteen point one percent

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<v Speaker 1>last month, and cyrio went up, milk, bread, juice, everything,

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<v Speaker 1>So keep in mind when you go to the supermarket.

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<v Speaker 1>Meat prices went up three point three percent. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>chicken went up five point eight percent, fish four point

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<v Speaker 1>two percent, paper towel. I didn't know papertowel was too expensive.

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<v Speaker 1>Paper towel is expensive. They know y'all got the extrave. Goodness,

0:31:16.400 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 1>y'all got the extra twelve in your pocket. They know.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well that is your front page news. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, miss Ye. Now, when we come back, it's

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<v Speaker 1>Mental Health Awareness Month and doctor Jess we'll be checking in.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna kick it with doctor Jess. See how can

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<v Speaker 1>we can deal with a lot of anxiety, depression and

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<v Speaker 1>more so, don't move, doctor Jess. When we come back,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:49.120
<v Speaker 1>are the Breakfast Club. We had a special guest on

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<v Speaker 1>the line, Doctor Jess. Yes, and good morning, doctor Jess.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning. Congratulations on the new baby you're in law.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you a happy mother's day. It was your first

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<v Speaker 1>Mother's day, so I know that was amazing. It was

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<v Speaker 1>we were inside, but it was it was nice. How

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<v Speaker 1>have you been maintaining your mental health, you know, with

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<v Speaker 1>a new baby and this pandemic, Like, what have you

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<v Speaker 1>been doing to stay stay relatively sane. Oh yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest thing I do is I stay connected with

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<v Speaker 1>my loved ones. I think one of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>really is dangerous for people is loneliness, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>so even if you're surrounded by people, I know, some

0:32:28.080 --> 0:32:31.360
<v Speaker 1>people are are um, staying at home, you know, with

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people, they're you know, they're extended family.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you feel lonely, that can lead to a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of problems with not only your physical health, but

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<v Speaker 1>your mental health. I've been staying connected. I do a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of video calls with like my family, show the

0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 1>baby off, um and we do take we take a

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 1>few walks, we wear the mask. We covered the baby

0:32:51.480 --> 0:32:55.080
<v Speaker 1>up in that little you know, rain coming for the stroller,

0:32:55.240 --> 0:32:58.400
<v Speaker 1>so we try to try to get some sunlight too. Y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all relationship with y'all child gonna be crazy though, because

0:33:01.640 --> 0:33:04.160
<v Speaker 1>like y'all gonna be so close, because both of y'all

0:33:04.640 --> 0:33:06.760
<v Speaker 1>are together with the baby all the time. In the

0:33:06.840 --> 0:33:09.360
<v Speaker 1>first few months. That's gonna that's actually gonna be a blessing.

0:33:09.960 --> 0:33:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I received that. Thank you. My worries. If we don't

0:33:12.720 --> 0:33:15.320
<v Speaker 1>get out of this soon, he's gonna be a little

0:33:15.560 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>weird kid not able to deal with it, but it's

0:33:20.640 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 1>still a baby. Now. What was it like giving birth

0:33:22.880 --> 0:33:25.200
<v Speaker 1>during this time too? Because I know some people were

0:33:25.240 --> 0:33:27.320
<v Speaker 1>scared about it. I've read a lot of articles about

0:33:27.360 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 1>women who you know, nine months pregnant and they are

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:32.720
<v Speaker 1>a little concerns. So what was that process like for you?

0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:36.480
<v Speaker 1>Me and my husband law we actually have decided to

0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:42.000
<v Speaker 1>do a home birth way before the pandemic. Yeah, so

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:44.360
<v Speaker 1>a part of it was just because we know the

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 1>rates of you know, the black maternal death rates are

0:33:47.200 --> 0:33:49.560
<v Speaker 1>very high in New York City, you know, a lot

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:53.360
<v Speaker 1>higher than across the country. And I knew from my

0:33:53.480 --> 0:33:55.720
<v Speaker 1>experience in medicine that I did not want to be

0:33:56.880 --> 0:33:59.760
<v Speaker 1>silenced in the hospital. I was worried about, you know,

0:34:00.240 --> 0:34:02.520
<v Speaker 1>not really having my experience go the way I wanted

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:05.200
<v Speaker 1>it to. So we went that route and it ended

0:34:05.240 --> 0:34:09.520
<v Speaker 1>up being a very peaceful experience. You know. I had

0:34:09.560 --> 0:34:12.840
<v Speaker 1>a midwife, my do love was there while I was amazing,

0:34:13.480 --> 0:34:15.600
<v Speaker 1>and we just literally as soon as the baby was born,

0:34:15.800 --> 0:34:17.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, a few hours, they check you do all

0:34:17.800 --> 0:34:20.319
<v Speaker 1>of these other things, they leave, and it was kind

0:34:20.360 --> 0:34:22.840
<v Speaker 1>of me. They just like turn the light off and

0:34:23.000 --> 0:34:25.160
<v Speaker 1>let themselves out. Of your and everybody just goes home

0:34:25.239 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>and and you're there. Wow. So there's no visiting hours,

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:30.880
<v Speaker 1>there's no you can't watch the baby now, this is

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:34.080
<v Speaker 1>just strictly Wow. That's an amazing that's amazing. It was

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:37.720
<v Speaker 1>pretty amazing. It was it was so I definitely encourage people,

0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:39.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, at home birth. Maybe isn't for everyone, but

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:41.640
<v Speaker 1>during this time, it's gonna be really important for people

0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 1>to to find some sort of support that's going to

0:34:44.560 --> 0:34:46.080
<v Speaker 1>help them. Even if you're you know, if you're in

0:34:46.120 --> 0:34:49.399
<v Speaker 1>the hospital and some hospitals aren't letting parents stay long.

0:34:49.680 --> 0:34:51.640
<v Speaker 1>You know, you just want to kind of prepare yourself

0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:53.719
<v Speaker 1>mentally for what that will look like. But all births

0:34:53.760 --> 0:34:55.640
<v Speaker 1>are good birth. You know, I was going to ask,

0:34:55.719 --> 0:34:59.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, well, congratulations again and you have a new baby.

0:34:59.160 --> 0:35:01.120
<v Speaker 1>But for some parent out there that have kids that

0:35:01.200 --> 0:35:03.720
<v Speaker 1>are a little older, you know, what would you advise

0:35:03.800 --> 0:35:05.400
<v Speaker 1>to them for their mental health? I mean, because it

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 1>has to be difficult to seeing their friends, to not

0:35:07.800 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 1>being able to see their friends, and then you don't

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:11.600
<v Speaker 1>want them online all day long, you don't want them

0:35:11.640 --> 0:35:14.680
<v Speaker 1>watching TV all day long, and you'll you know, concern

0:35:14.840 --> 0:35:19.000
<v Speaker 1>constantly about how they thinking mentally, you know. Right, So,

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:21.320
<v Speaker 1>first thing that's going to be important for everyone is

0:35:21.360 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 1>to maintain maintain a routine as much as possible. Right.

0:35:24.719 --> 0:35:26.400
<v Speaker 1>I think we all can fall into the slump of

0:35:26.480 --> 0:35:29.920
<v Speaker 1>just staying in your pajamas all day, sleeping until whenever,

0:35:30.080 --> 0:35:33.439
<v Speaker 1>staying up until whenever, you know, letting the TV put

0:35:33.480 --> 0:35:36.399
<v Speaker 1>you to sleep. Really try to avoid that. And then

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:38.360
<v Speaker 1>I think for parents, it's going to be important to

0:35:38.440 --> 0:35:40.800
<v Speaker 1>try to create an environment where they can talk about

0:35:40.880 --> 0:35:42.879
<v Speaker 1>how they feel. I know I'm always saying that, talk

0:35:42.880 --> 0:35:44.360
<v Speaker 1>about how you feel, talk about how you feel, but

0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:46.799
<v Speaker 1>that's going to be so important. You know, family time

0:35:46.960 --> 0:35:49.680
<v Speaker 1>is going to be important. It's a big opportunity for

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:52.319
<v Speaker 1>people to do that. If you're having dinner, have dinner

0:35:52.360 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>all together, don't do that stuff in front of the TV.

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:57.040
<v Speaker 1>Sit down and you know, at the table if you know,

0:35:57.080 --> 0:35:59.280
<v Speaker 1>if you have one, but you can all gather around,

0:35:59.440 --> 0:36:01.879
<v Speaker 1>do that and just invite your children to talk about

0:36:01.920 --> 0:36:04.200
<v Speaker 1>how they're doing, you know, and don't don't tell them

0:36:04.280 --> 0:36:07.040
<v Speaker 1>that what they're feeling isn't normal. Don't don't tell them

0:36:07.080 --> 0:36:09.360
<v Speaker 1>all they should get over that. Really encourage them to

0:36:09.400 --> 0:36:12.000
<v Speaker 1>talk about how they feel and just normalize it, because,

0:36:12.200 --> 0:36:13.800
<v Speaker 1>let's be honest, we don't really know how long this

0:36:14.000 --> 0:36:16.760
<v Speaker 1>is going to last. And I think if you're honest

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:19.240
<v Speaker 1>about that with your children and just keep creating that space,

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:22.320
<v Speaker 1>they can at least feel safe in knowing that you

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:24.920
<v Speaker 1>hear them and that you're taking care of them. To

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:26.560
<v Speaker 1>jes what advice do you have for people who are

0:36:26.600 --> 0:36:30.000
<v Speaker 1>experiencing a lot of stress and anxiety for financial purposes?

0:36:30.400 --> 0:36:33.399
<v Speaker 1>People have been furloughed, they've been laid off from work,

0:36:33.440 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 1>they don't know how they're going to pay their bills.

0:36:35.120 --> 0:36:38.719
<v Speaker 1>They've been just deferring payments, and then at some point

0:36:38.760 --> 0:36:40.520
<v Speaker 1>they are going to have to make those payments, but

0:36:40.800 --> 0:36:42.800
<v Speaker 1>maybe they don't know what type of job they'll have.

0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:46.359
<v Speaker 1>What would you say as far as that, Yeah, I mean,

0:36:46.480 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 1>that's that's going to be the really tough reality from

0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 1>large scale disasters. We know that that there typically is

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:58.920
<v Speaker 1>an increase in the number of cases of anxiety depression PTSD,

0:36:59.040 --> 0:37:02.520
<v Speaker 1>for example, with nine to eleven. So the reality is

0:37:02.560 --> 0:37:04.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people are going to probably come out

0:37:04.600 --> 0:37:07.759
<v Speaker 1>of this with some signs or symptoms of anxiety and

0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>maybe eating anxiety disorders. So it's very likely that that's

0:37:11.160 --> 0:37:13.680
<v Speaker 1>what the person is going to experience. So my advice

0:37:13.800 --> 0:37:15.640
<v Speaker 1>is to try to do your best to cope with it.

0:37:16.600 --> 0:37:19.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, the sad reality is a lot of Americans

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:21.759
<v Speaker 1>are unemployed right now. We're seeing the highest rates that

0:37:21.800 --> 0:37:25.200
<v Speaker 1>we've seen in decades, and the reality is a lot

0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:27.480
<v Speaker 1>of people will not be able to make make payment.

0:37:27.600 --> 0:37:30.640
<v Speaker 1>So try to work with your support system to come

0:37:30.760 --> 0:37:33.040
<v Speaker 1>up with a way to figure out which bills are

0:37:33.080 --> 0:37:36.080
<v Speaker 1>going to be most important at A lot of companies

0:37:36.160 --> 0:37:39.319
<v Speaker 1>are giving, you know, ninety days between bills, so try

0:37:39.360 --> 0:37:42.399
<v Speaker 1>to figure out who's doing that. You know, really really

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.960
<v Speaker 1>try to push through what you're feeling in terms of

0:37:45.000 --> 0:37:47.880
<v Speaker 1>figuring out a plan and then coping with anxiety is

0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:49.840
<v Speaker 1>going to be simple things like, you know, trying to

0:37:50.080 --> 0:37:52.759
<v Speaker 1>make sure that you're getting some exercise in in the

0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 1>space that you're in your home, exercise, yoga, doing some

0:37:56.120 --> 0:37:59.320
<v Speaker 1>deep breathing, talking about what you're feeling, don't hold it in.

0:37:59.520 --> 0:38:03.439
<v Speaker 1>But this's a really tough time and I expect people

0:38:03.480 --> 0:38:06.279
<v Speaker 1>to really have a hard time. So you expect to

0:38:06.320 --> 0:38:09.960
<v Speaker 1>see a rise in like just mental illness period after

0:38:10.040 --> 0:38:13.120
<v Speaker 1>the coronavirus, well during the coronavirus and after absolutely so

0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:16.680
<v Speaker 1>experts are saying that after we were even just during

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:18.560
<v Speaker 1>this or once we get through COVID nineteen, that we

0:38:18.640 --> 0:38:22.919
<v Speaker 1>probably will see increases in anxiety, depression, loneliness because people

0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:26.759
<v Speaker 1>are you know, isolating alone, and even you know, some

0:38:26.880 --> 0:38:29.160
<v Speaker 1>people may we may see an increase in things like

0:38:29.320 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 1>domestic violence, child abuse because children are home instead of

0:38:34.040 --> 0:38:37.719
<v Speaker 1>at school, and substance. These two people are using substances

0:38:37.800 --> 0:38:40.640
<v Speaker 1>to code alcohol, marijuana. You know, they're using that a

0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:42.239
<v Speaker 1>lot to try to get through this time, but that

0:38:42.320 --> 0:38:44.959
<v Speaker 1>can also lead to problems down the road and even

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:48.760
<v Speaker 1>something called death by despair. You know, suicide rates are

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:51.440
<v Speaker 1>going up in terms of like we're seeing decisions do

0:38:51.560 --> 0:38:53.479
<v Speaker 1>that more now because of all the stress that they're under.

0:38:53.920 --> 0:38:56.799
<v Speaker 1>An even longer term risk if somebody's drinking alcohol every

0:38:56.880 --> 0:38:59.600
<v Speaker 1>single day to try to get through liver damage to

0:38:59.600 --> 0:39:02.719
<v Speaker 1>be on their road can actually be contributed contributing to

0:39:02.800 --> 0:39:07.160
<v Speaker 1>this death by despair that we're also seeing. All right,

0:39:07.200 --> 0:39:09.000
<v Speaker 1>we have more with doctor Jess when we come back.

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Potius, DJ Envy,

0:39:13.080 --> 0:39:16.360
<v Speaker 1>Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are. The Breakfast Club

0:39:16.520 --> 0:39:18.759
<v Speaker 1>is Mental Health Awareness Month and we're still kicking it

0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:21.400
<v Speaker 1>with doctor jess Ye. What advice do you have for

0:39:21.440 --> 0:39:24.120
<v Speaker 1>people who aren't able to properly grieve right now? Also,

0:39:24.200 --> 0:39:26.520
<v Speaker 1>as you can see with funerals, there's a lot of

0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:29.399
<v Speaker 1>limitations with that. We're seeing death where you can't even

0:39:30.120 --> 0:39:33.120
<v Speaker 1>go to the hospital and visit somebody before they passed.

0:39:33.160 --> 0:39:34.880
<v Speaker 1>So what kind advice would you get for people that

0:39:34.960 --> 0:39:37.040
<v Speaker 1>are having problems with this whole grieving process and not

0:39:37.160 --> 0:39:40.359
<v Speaker 1>really being able to experience that right now and they

0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:44.680
<v Speaker 1>need to. Yeah, that is another really difficult experience for

0:39:44.760 --> 0:39:48.200
<v Speaker 1>people to have. What I recommend is really again leaning

0:39:48.320 --> 0:39:50.640
<v Speaker 1>on your support to some of you your loved one

0:39:50.640 --> 0:39:53.680
<v Speaker 1>and your family, your friends, using things like zoom. Obviously

0:39:53.760 --> 0:39:55.840
<v Speaker 1>you can't hold a service over that, but what you

0:39:55.960 --> 0:39:59.160
<v Speaker 1>can do is use that community to really just kind

0:39:59.160 --> 0:40:01.239
<v Speaker 1>of honor that person the memory. You know, I know

0:40:01.360 --> 0:40:03.919
<v Speaker 1>someone personally who you know their loved one pass away

0:40:04.000 --> 0:40:05.880
<v Speaker 1>and they still haven't even been able to start the

0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:09.560
<v Speaker 1>burial or creation process. So it's very very devastating now,

0:40:10.640 --> 0:40:12.759
<v Speaker 1>and I would just encourage people to really try to

0:40:12.880 --> 0:40:16.239
<v Speaker 1>lean into their supports and be creative. You know, how

0:40:16.320 --> 0:40:18.359
<v Speaker 1>can people get help? Because you know, usually it's easy

0:40:18.400 --> 0:40:20.520
<v Speaker 1>you can go to your therapist, you can go to

0:40:20.640 --> 0:40:23.000
<v Speaker 1>a past you can different places you can go. But

0:40:23.120 --> 0:40:24.600
<v Speaker 1>now I'm stuck at the home and I might be

0:40:24.680 --> 0:40:28.160
<v Speaker 1>dealing with anxiety, I might be dealing with depression. How

0:40:28.200 --> 0:40:29.880
<v Speaker 1>do you advise people that get those type of health

0:40:29.920 --> 0:40:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Where can they go? Who can they see? Who can

0:40:31.640 --> 0:40:34.680
<v Speaker 1>they call? Who can they zoom? You know? Absolutely, So

0:40:35.080 --> 0:40:37.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, if you already are connected with a mental

0:40:37.840 --> 0:40:40.400
<v Speaker 1>health professional, your therapist or psychiatrists, now is not the

0:40:40.520 --> 0:40:43.960
<v Speaker 1>time to quit. A lot of providers are doing virtual

0:40:44.080 --> 0:40:46.640
<v Speaker 1>with it, so you know, I'm also doing that as well,

0:40:46.719 --> 0:40:50.080
<v Speaker 1>where you can talk to your provider directly. Keep doing that.

0:40:50.160 --> 0:40:52.359
<v Speaker 1>If you're doing that, if you're looking for help, there

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:55.359
<v Speaker 1>are a lot of crisis lines available now that can

0:40:55.440 --> 0:40:57.560
<v Speaker 1>help people kind of do the immediate. So you know,

0:40:57.640 --> 0:41:00.520
<v Speaker 1>whatever town or city or in Google search looking up

0:41:00.560 --> 0:41:03.880
<v Speaker 1>on your smartphone, you know what crisis lines are available

0:41:04.040 --> 0:41:06.799
<v Speaker 1>in your town. Again, this is the time to really

0:41:06.880 --> 0:41:10.600
<v Speaker 1>be proactive and there are a lot of resources available

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:13.719
<v Speaker 1>because so many people are suffering. Absolutely, when we talk

0:41:13.719 --> 0:41:15.919
<v Speaker 1>about anxiety, right, like you know, usually when I'm talking

0:41:15.960 --> 0:41:19.600
<v Speaker 1>about therapists about anxiety, it's like an irrational fear, like

0:41:19.960 --> 0:41:22.560
<v Speaker 1>anxieties are usually irrational fears, but this is a very

0:41:22.719 --> 0:41:25.800
<v Speaker 1>rational thing to be afraid of, this whole pandemic where're in.

0:41:25.920 --> 0:41:28.080
<v Speaker 1>So what would you tell your patient if they told

0:41:28.080 --> 0:41:31.759
<v Speaker 1>you that they were experiencing anxiety about this situation. I

0:41:31.800 --> 0:41:34.239
<v Speaker 1>would say, I'm glad that you're in touch with your

0:41:34.239 --> 0:41:37.919
<v Speaker 1>emotion because this is something that most people are experiencing.

0:41:38.400 --> 0:41:40.279
<v Speaker 1>You know. I have someone asked me. They were a

0:41:41.520 --> 0:41:44.319
<v Speaker 1>husband and wife. They both drive buses for a city,

0:41:44.719 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 1>and they were experiencing anxiety, and they asked me, how

0:41:47.120 --> 0:41:50.560
<v Speaker 1>do I cope with this? And the reality is that

0:41:50.719 --> 0:41:53.560
<v Speaker 1>anxiety can be useful because if you're a frontline worker

0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:56.560
<v Speaker 1>and you're looking at co workers getting really sick, some

0:41:56.680 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 1>of them dying, you are feeling what you are described

0:42:00.200 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 1>Charlamagne as rational fear and so use that is it

0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:07.080
<v Speaker 1>time for the you know, I told this couple, is

0:42:07.080 --> 0:42:09.680
<v Speaker 1>it time for one of you to consider maybe not

0:42:09.880 --> 0:42:12.359
<v Speaker 1>working if your resources can allow that, Is it time

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:15.120
<v Speaker 1>to really kind of advocate for that because both of

0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:17.320
<v Speaker 1>you end up six Where does that put you? So

0:42:17.480 --> 0:42:19.759
<v Speaker 1>that anxiety can be useful because it can tell you

0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:22.480
<v Speaker 1>something is going on and I need to figure out

0:42:22.560 --> 0:42:25.160
<v Speaker 1>how to get through this, whether it's unemployment, figuring out

0:42:25.160 --> 0:42:27.000
<v Speaker 1>how you're going to pay your bills, figuring out what

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:29.480
<v Speaker 1>you're going to tell your children, or figuring out if

0:42:29.520 --> 0:42:31.279
<v Speaker 1>you still need to go to work. Because black and

0:42:31.360 --> 0:42:33.279
<v Speaker 1>brown people, we are being forced to kind of be

0:42:33.360 --> 0:42:36.759
<v Speaker 1>at the front line of this entire pandemic. So to

0:42:36.880 --> 0:42:39.400
<v Speaker 1>your point, Charlemagne, I would tell my patient, what are

0:42:39.440 --> 0:42:42.360
<v Speaker 1>you feeling anxious about? Let's figure out if there's a

0:42:42.400 --> 0:42:44.360
<v Speaker 1>way that you can actually work through this so that

0:42:44.480 --> 0:42:46.799
<v Speaker 1>you can figure out a plan, and then let's try

0:42:46.800 --> 0:42:48.680
<v Speaker 1>to figure out how to cope. But first things first,

0:42:48.760 --> 0:42:51.279
<v Speaker 1>let's figure out what is the real issue here. And

0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:54.560
<v Speaker 1>you know you spoke about people, you know, staying home, right,

0:42:54.600 --> 0:42:58.080
<v Speaker 1>do you think people's mental exhaustion from being stuck at

0:42:58.120 --> 0:43:00.680
<v Speaker 1>home is forcing them to believe is actually safe to

0:43:00.840 --> 0:43:05.640
<v Speaker 1>resume everyday life. Absolutely so. Denial is a defense mechanism

0:43:05.800 --> 0:43:08.680
<v Speaker 1>that we have a number of different defense mechanisms that

0:43:08.719 --> 0:43:11.359
<v Speaker 1>are psyche uses to help to kind of protect it. Right,

0:43:11.480 --> 0:43:13.839
<v Speaker 1>you can use denial. You can say, oh, this isn't

0:43:13.880 --> 0:43:17.160
<v Speaker 1>really happening. You can project, you can say I'm not mad,

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:19.080
<v Speaker 1>my husband is a one that's mad. But really you're

0:43:19.080 --> 0:43:21.520
<v Speaker 1>the one that's feeling that emotion. So I do think

0:43:21.560 --> 0:43:23.400
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of people, you know, we've been home

0:43:23.440 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>for almost two months for a lot of people, you know,

0:43:26.680 --> 0:43:29.080
<v Speaker 1>and then the media is shifting the story to look,

0:43:29.160 --> 0:43:31.960
<v Speaker 1>this town is open, you've got people protesting. So I

0:43:32.120 --> 0:43:34.160
<v Speaker 1>do think that it can cause people to think that

0:43:34.280 --> 0:43:37.439
<v Speaker 1>this is now sort of over. But if they paid

0:43:37.440 --> 0:43:40.000
<v Speaker 1>attention to what happened in the Senate yesterday, a lot

0:43:40.080 --> 0:43:43.400
<v Speaker 1>of experts are pointing out that while these places towns

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:45.840
<v Speaker 1>are opening, that we are still seeing a rise in

0:43:45.920 --> 0:43:48.320
<v Speaker 1>the number of cases. And even though the media is

0:43:48.360 --> 0:43:50.880
<v Speaker 1>not focusing on what's happening with black and brown people,

0:43:51.280 --> 0:43:54.480
<v Speaker 1>we are still the ones who are being affected. All right.

0:43:54.640 --> 0:43:57.359
<v Speaker 1>You know a lot of people they haven't They maybe

0:43:57.400 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 1>not having developmental illness, but how can they just combat

0:44:01.120 --> 0:44:04.800
<v Speaker 1>general thoughts of negativity? Like when you got those feelings

0:44:04.800 --> 0:44:06.320
<v Speaker 1>of negativity at a time like this, how do you

0:44:06.360 --> 0:44:11.640
<v Speaker 1>just combat those just regular everyday feelings of negativity? Absolutely,

0:44:11.719 --> 0:44:15.399
<v Speaker 1>so I encourage people to practice mindfulness. Mindfulness is really

0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:19.880
<v Speaker 1>just taking a small moment of time and focusing as

0:44:19.960 --> 0:44:22.719
<v Speaker 1>many of your senses on whatever you're doing. So an

0:44:22.760 --> 0:44:25.240
<v Speaker 1>example I always give people it can be like picking

0:44:25.320 --> 0:44:28.279
<v Speaker 1>up a piece of fruit and orange really taking in that.

0:44:28.480 --> 0:44:31.120
<v Speaker 1>It sounds really corny. But what that does over time

0:44:31.600 --> 0:44:34.359
<v Speaker 1>is it helps people to learn how to cope with acceptance,

0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:38.160
<v Speaker 1>being able to accept that this is a situation that

0:44:38.280 --> 0:44:40.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm not in control of. And if you're able to

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:43.839
<v Speaker 1>sort of develop that type of coping, then it does

0:44:43.960 --> 0:44:47.640
<v Speaker 1>lead to less anxiety, right whereas a lot of people

0:44:47.760 --> 0:44:50.200
<v Speaker 1>cope by trying to figure out everything. You know, if

0:44:50.320 --> 0:44:52.600
<v Speaker 1>I can figure out I'm going to meet all of

0:44:52.680 --> 0:44:54.680
<v Speaker 1>my bills, or if I can figure out how I'm

0:44:54.680 --> 0:44:56.279
<v Speaker 1>going to get my children and do all these things,

0:44:56.400 --> 0:44:58.640
<v Speaker 1>that makes them feel released. But we're in a time

0:44:58.680 --> 0:45:01.759
<v Speaker 1>where that's not realistic. So mindfulness is going to help

0:45:01.800 --> 0:45:04.000
<v Speaker 1>you to learn how to accept just be in the moment.

0:45:04.120 --> 0:45:06.319
<v Speaker 1>It is what it is. The other thing is really

0:45:06.360 --> 0:45:10.120
<v Speaker 1>to reframe the way that you are talking to yourself

0:45:10.320 --> 0:45:13.359
<v Speaker 1>or talking out loud. So instead of saying that I'm

0:45:13.400 --> 0:45:16.680
<v Speaker 1>stuck at home, you know you're safe at home, instead

0:45:16.719 --> 0:45:19.360
<v Speaker 1>of saying, well, you know, oh my god, I'm spending

0:45:19.440 --> 0:45:22.279
<v Speaker 1>too much time with my family, Like you all encourage me,

0:45:22.920 --> 0:45:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Look how much time I get to spend with my family,

0:45:25.200 --> 0:45:27.000
<v Speaker 1>And that's going to help your mind to not really

0:45:27.080 --> 0:45:31.200
<v Speaker 1>get into that negative cycle. And it's not easy to do,

0:45:31.400 --> 0:45:32.960
<v Speaker 1>but you can find if you can start to do

0:45:33.120 --> 0:45:35.480
<v Speaker 1>that really over time, you might really be able to

0:45:36.040 --> 0:45:38.200
<v Speaker 1>shake a lot of those negative thoughts. It's really about

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:41.120
<v Speaker 1>reframing the way that you're thinking and talking. What about

0:45:41.160 --> 0:45:44.560
<v Speaker 1>the people who have been expressing disappointment in themselves because

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:47.960
<v Speaker 1>they feel like they haven't been productive. Our old standards

0:45:48.120 --> 0:45:50.120
<v Speaker 1>are no longer what we need to be using. So

0:45:50.280 --> 0:45:52.680
<v Speaker 1>it's absolutely okay if you don't come out of this

0:45:52.800 --> 0:45:56.279
<v Speaker 1>pandemic with the New York Times bestseller. It's okay if

0:45:56.320 --> 0:45:58.799
<v Speaker 1>you do not come out of this pandemic with everything done.

0:45:58.880 --> 0:46:01.640
<v Speaker 1>You really just need to focus on maintaining well. It's

0:46:01.640 --> 0:46:03.480
<v Speaker 1>a good time to forgive yourself for things and not

0:46:03.680 --> 0:46:06.360
<v Speaker 1>feel guilty about I'm watching TV. I look at it

0:46:06.480 --> 0:46:08.200
<v Speaker 1>like I never get to watch TV like this, So

0:46:08.400 --> 0:46:11.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna watch this and enjoy it. And one thing

0:46:11.719 --> 0:46:13.800
<v Speaker 1>I did say, because I started off at this like

0:46:14.239 --> 0:46:16.879
<v Speaker 1>working out every day and being really healthy, and then

0:46:16.960 --> 0:46:19.799
<v Speaker 1>I spent a little bit of time like not doing

0:46:19.880 --> 0:46:22.080
<v Speaker 1>so well, and then I had to get myself back

0:46:22.160 --> 0:46:24.200
<v Speaker 1>on track. A couple of days ago, like what am

0:46:24.239 --> 0:46:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I doing? But I looked at it like this has

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:29.200
<v Speaker 1>never happened for me before, Like this is unprecedented. I

0:46:29.200 --> 0:46:31.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know if it will ever happen again. So I

0:46:31.600 --> 0:46:33.640
<v Speaker 1>am trying to take advantage of some things in my

0:46:33.800 --> 0:46:36.000
<v Speaker 1>home that I need to handle and that I haven't

0:46:36.040 --> 0:46:37.480
<v Speaker 1>had a chance to do. So I look at it

0:46:37.600 --> 0:46:40.319
<v Speaker 1>like that, absolutely, and that's what I think a lot

0:46:40.360 --> 0:46:44.759
<v Speaker 1>of people should do, just you know, take practice self compassion. Absolutely,

0:46:45.480 --> 0:46:47.640
<v Speaker 1>And it's my last question. Can we can we talk

0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:50.279
<v Speaker 1>about the pressure that you and law put on y'all

0:46:50.360 --> 0:46:54.560
<v Speaker 1>young king by naming him brilliant. I figured this was

0:46:54.640 --> 0:46:57.239
<v Speaker 1>going to come up, you know, I think I don't

0:46:57.280 --> 0:46:59.680
<v Speaker 1>think it's pressure. What I think this is is really

0:46:59.719 --> 0:47:03.279
<v Speaker 1>going to help him to hear every time his name

0:47:03.400 --> 0:47:06.800
<v Speaker 1>is called. What my hope is for every black and

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:09.160
<v Speaker 1>brown kid out there is to know that they are brilliant,

0:47:09.239 --> 0:47:11.600
<v Speaker 1>to know that they are destined for something bigger, for

0:47:11.680 --> 0:47:14.200
<v Speaker 1>whatever it is that they decide to do in life,

0:47:14.680 --> 0:47:17.720
<v Speaker 1>and then to be honest. It really is a challenge

0:47:17.800 --> 0:47:20.279
<v Speaker 1>because you cannot yell at a kid name brilliant, I

0:47:20.360 --> 0:47:25.080
<v Speaker 1>can't be telling. But I really got to think about it,

0:47:25.280 --> 0:47:27.600
<v Speaker 1>so you know, it's something that we thought about and

0:47:28.680 --> 0:47:31.600
<v Speaker 1>really we're really happy with. Well, thank you doctor Jeff

0:47:31.640 --> 0:47:34.080
<v Speaker 1>for checking in. We appreciate you. Give me a Twitter

0:47:34.200 --> 0:47:37.040
<v Speaker 1>and Instagrams and all that good stuff, Doctor Jeff. Oh yeah,

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:40.439
<v Speaker 1>so it's ask doctor Jess on Instagram. That's really where

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:42.080
<v Speaker 1>I spend a lot of my time. You know, I

0:47:42.160 --> 0:47:44.239
<v Speaker 1>always want to connect with therapists. You can visit my

0:47:44.320 --> 0:47:47.400
<v Speaker 1>website ask doctor Jeff dot com. Make sure that you

0:47:47.800 --> 0:47:50.279
<v Speaker 1>let me know where you know you practice, what kind

0:47:50.280 --> 0:47:52.120
<v Speaker 1>of work you do, because I think we should really

0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:55.280
<v Speaker 1>connect during this time. And then I'm also taking patients,

0:47:55.360 --> 0:47:57.080
<v Speaker 1>so you know, you can also go to as doctor

0:47:57.160 --> 0:48:00.319
<v Speaker 1>Jess dot comment and still out some information there. Well,

0:48:00.360 --> 0:48:02.960
<v Speaker 1>thank you, doctor Jess. We appreciate you for checking Doctor Jess.

0:48:03.480 --> 0:48:07.200
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you. It's the breakfast Club. Is doctor Jess Morning,

0:48:07.239 --> 0:48:11.120
<v Speaker 1>everybody is DJ MVY, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We

0:48:11.200 --> 0:48:13.919
<v Speaker 1>all the breakfast Club. Let's get to the rumors. Let's

0:48:13.920 --> 0:48:25.560
<v Speaker 1>talk virtual graduations. This is the rum of report with Angela. Yes,

0:48:25.680 --> 0:48:27.960
<v Speaker 1>and I've seen a lot of people doing great things

0:48:28.040 --> 0:48:31.120
<v Speaker 1>for the graduating class of twenty twenty. I just saw

0:48:31.239 --> 0:48:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Lonnie Love do the graduation speech for cast Tech in Detroit.

0:48:35.560 --> 0:48:39.120
<v Speaker 1>Now they're saying this weekend Saturday, there will be a

0:48:39.280 --> 0:48:42.640
<v Speaker 1>Graduate Together America honors the class high school class of

0:48:42.680 --> 0:48:46.120
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty, and that's going to be happening one hour

0:48:46.239 --> 0:48:50.120
<v Speaker 1>special at APM Eastern. It'll also be broadcast in Spanish

0:48:50.239 --> 0:48:54.920
<v Speaker 1>on Univision and there'll be a special message from Univision

0:48:55.200 --> 0:48:59.320
<v Speaker 1>anchors as well. So President Barack Obama will deliver deliver

0:48:59.400 --> 0:49:02.040
<v Speaker 1>the commitment message, and they're also going to have Bad

0:49:02.120 --> 0:49:04.279
<v Speaker 1>Bunny who's going to be addressing the students in a

0:49:04.360 --> 0:49:07.680
<v Speaker 1>special message in Spanish. And there will be other prominent

0:49:07.760 --> 0:49:11.120
<v Speaker 1>people as well that will be highlighted this weekend, Lebron,

0:49:11.280 --> 0:49:16.040
<v Speaker 1>James her, the Jonas Brothers, Yara Shahiti, the Away So

0:49:16.160 --> 0:49:17.960
<v Speaker 1>that should be a really dope one. Farrell is going

0:49:18.040 --> 0:49:21.160
<v Speaker 1>to be on there, Olivia Wilds and Daya and a

0:49:21.239 --> 0:49:23.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of students, educators and families can now watch on

0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Graduate Together twenty twenty dot com. I still don't understand

0:49:27.239 --> 0:49:29.920
<v Speaker 1>how America can, uh, you know, find a way to

0:49:29.960 --> 0:49:32.440
<v Speaker 1>open up restaurants and socially distanced. We can't find a

0:49:32.480 --> 0:49:35.640
<v Speaker 1>way to have graduations and socially distanced. Yeah, so I agree.

0:49:35.840 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 1>The park the beach. You know, people are still running,

0:49:40.440 --> 0:49:43.839
<v Speaker 1>but your daughter can't walk across the stage. God damn. YO.

0:49:44.400 --> 0:49:46.720
<v Speaker 1>Think it also matters the size of the school because

0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:49.440
<v Speaker 1>some schools are like three thousand students in a high school.

0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:52.239
<v Speaker 1>They can still games where they could spread those kids

0:49:52.280 --> 0:49:53.719
<v Speaker 1>out and they don't hurt that people have to be

0:49:54.120 --> 0:49:56.120
<v Speaker 1>running across the stage together. You give them six feet

0:49:56.160 --> 0:49:57.400
<v Speaker 1>and it makes it easy or what You could even

0:49:57.440 --> 0:49:58.600
<v Speaker 1>do it in a parking lot. Do it in the

0:49:58.640 --> 0:50:00.239
<v Speaker 1>parking lot. I don't. Can't have the parents in the

0:50:00.320 --> 0:50:05.239
<v Speaker 1>cause so that way they know they are gonna just

0:50:05.440 --> 0:50:07.680
<v Speaker 1>delay it and do it later. How about just do

0:50:07.760 --> 0:50:09.600
<v Speaker 1>it on the beach, since y'all don't mind how many

0:50:09.600 --> 0:50:14.600
<v Speaker 1>people be walking on the beach the graduation. It's just weird, man,

0:50:14.680 --> 0:50:17.080
<v Speaker 1>We got to America. Got his priorities all wrong. Bro,

0:50:17.480 --> 0:50:19.759
<v Speaker 1>But my daughter don't even have a capping gown. So

0:50:19.800 --> 0:50:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I gotta get my capping gown. I'm gonna give it

0:50:21.880 --> 0:50:23.560
<v Speaker 1>to Hunt and then we gotta do some kind of seremony.

0:50:23.560 --> 0:50:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do something for it this weekend. Something build.

0:50:25.920 --> 0:50:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Also this weekend. The ESPN docuseries The Last Dance will

0:50:29.600 --> 0:50:31.319
<v Speaker 1>be on. I know you guys are excited to see

0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:36.120
<v Speaker 1>these next two episodes, very much anticipated. According to reports, though,

0:50:36.200 --> 0:50:39.680
<v Speaker 1>they are saying that Scottie Pippen is unhappy about the

0:50:39.800 --> 0:50:42.400
<v Speaker 1>last Dance and the way that he's portrayed as underpaid,

0:50:42.600 --> 0:50:45.800
<v Speaker 1>as frustrated, even though Jordan did say that he's the

0:50:45.840 --> 0:50:47.960
<v Speaker 1>best teammate he ever had and he wouldn't have had

0:50:48.000 --> 0:50:50.880
<v Speaker 1>as much success without him, but you know, he was

0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:54.520
<v Speaker 1>frustrated about it. Does talk about how he was frustrated

0:50:54.520 --> 0:50:57.240
<v Speaker 1>about making far less than his teammates. There were rumors

0:50:57.280 --> 0:50:59.200
<v Speaker 1>that he might be traded to another team. He chose

0:50:59.280 --> 0:51:01.360
<v Speaker 1>not to have search on his ruptured ain't gole Tendon

0:51:02.000 --> 0:51:06.359
<v Speaker 1>and Michael Jordan didn't call that move selfish. So it's

0:51:06.400 --> 0:51:08.879
<v Speaker 1>just a lot of things that they are allegedly saying

0:51:09.000 --> 0:51:11.520
<v Speaker 1>that Scottie Pippen isn't happy about. He did do interviews

0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:14.120
<v Speaker 1>for the series. He did have the opportunity to talk

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:17.960
<v Speaker 1>about his feelings of frustration about being underpaid, about being undervalued,

0:51:18.520 --> 0:51:20.840
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of people came to his defense, including

0:51:20.920 --> 0:51:23.440
<v Speaker 1>Dennis Rodman, and he said, I wish he didn't give

0:51:23.440 --> 0:51:26.920
<v Speaker 1>an ish like me about what people say and so

0:51:27.080 --> 0:51:30.040
<v Speaker 1>he said he that Scottie Pippen does take criticism to

0:51:30.120 --> 0:51:33.840
<v Speaker 1>heart about the truth to the matter. I mean, if

0:51:33.880 --> 0:51:35.440
<v Speaker 1>it is true, and it sounds like it's true. But

0:51:35.480 --> 0:51:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he's upset because you know, people only look

0:51:37.560 --> 0:51:39.440
<v Speaker 1>at one side, and I'm sure this pipping side or

0:51:39.440 --> 0:51:42.960
<v Speaker 1>why he did what he did. But I meant, though

0:51:43.040 --> 0:51:45.600
<v Speaker 1>they talked to Doc every time they say something about Scottie,

0:51:45.640 --> 0:51:47.800
<v Speaker 1>they cut the Scottie Pippen to talk to him about it.

0:51:48.000 --> 0:51:49.160
<v Speaker 1>That's true, That's what I'm saying, Like, how are you

0:51:49.200 --> 0:51:51.560
<v Speaker 1>mad about the truth? Like it's the reality of the situation.

0:51:51.719 --> 0:51:56.160
<v Speaker 1>He was underpaid, that's a fact, all right. Well, one person,

0:51:56.320 --> 0:51:59.839
<v Speaker 1>Charles Barkley is calling out Michael Jordan, and he's saying

0:52:00.040 --> 0:52:03.240
<v Speaker 1>that his relationship with Michael Jordan will never be mended.

0:52:03.320 --> 0:52:06.279
<v Speaker 1>Listen to this. That's never gonna help him. Damn, you

0:52:06.360 --> 0:52:09.359
<v Speaker 1>can let that go. Dan, stop it. Brother, We're good,

0:52:09.560 --> 0:52:14.680
<v Speaker 1>Michael doing great, Chuck's doing great. But that's never gonna happen. Brother,

0:52:15.120 --> 0:52:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm too stubborn for that. I get it. And in addition,

0:52:18.719 --> 0:52:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Charles Barkley says that Michael Jordan was selective about who

0:52:21.640 --> 0:52:24.200
<v Speaker 1>he went hard on, he knows who to pick on.

0:52:24.719 --> 0:52:27.360
<v Speaker 1>There's certain guys you can't treat like that, Like you

0:52:27.480 --> 0:52:30.920
<v Speaker 1>have to know what guys you can treat badly, and

0:52:31.000 --> 0:52:34.399
<v Speaker 1>they kind of accepted, you know, screaming at guys all

0:52:34.440 --> 0:52:37.839
<v Speaker 1>the time, punching guys. Come on, man, there's certain guys

0:52:37.920 --> 0:52:39.239
<v Speaker 1>that are whooped the hell out of you if you

0:52:39.320 --> 0:52:42.839
<v Speaker 1>tried doing that. So he had selective prosecution. I mean

0:52:43.000 --> 0:52:48.560
<v Speaker 1>Scarbororelle and Steve Kerr, I mean, come on, man, I

0:52:48.719 --> 0:52:51.040
<v Speaker 1>disagree with that. I think Jordan pushed people who he

0:52:51.200 --> 0:52:54.919
<v Speaker 1>felt like weren't playing to their full capabilities. He didn't

0:52:54.960 --> 0:52:57.120
<v Speaker 1>have to do that with Rodman or Pippin or Horace

0:52:57.200 --> 0:52:59.759
<v Speaker 1>Grant because they came to play and play hard every night.

0:52:59.800 --> 0:53:04.360
<v Speaker 1>He pushed get horrorst you know, he did it the

0:53:04.440 --> 0:53:06.239
<v Speaker 1>robbing at one point where he just pushed people who

0:53:06.320 --> 0:53:08.399
<v Speaker 1>needed to be pushed, like he got the most out

0:53:08.440 --> 0:53:11.399
<v Speaker 1>of everybody. I don't think he picked and choose who. Yeah,

0:53:11.440 --> 0:53:13.000
<v Speaker 1>he wanted to get on. I think he just wanted

0:53:13.040 --> 0:53:15.480
<v Speaker 1>to win people that he weren't playing hard enough. He

0:53:15.760 --> 0:53:19.239
<v Speaker 1>pushed him, you know. Charles Barkley also said that he

0:53:19.320 --> 0:53:23.440
<v Speaker 1>feels that Jerry Krauss was portrayed unfairly in the docuseries. Uh,

0:53:23.560 --> 0:53:27.800
<v Speaker 1>actually Jerry Krause because I think you know, Ryn's office

0:53:27.880 --> 0:53:30.880
<v Speaker 1>thrown him under the bus and drove over like ten times.

0:53:31.280 --> 0:53:33.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, the notion that Jared Krous broke up the

0:53:33.400 --> 0:53:35.640
<v Speaker 1>bulls andtybody to think that's got to be a fool.

0:53:36.480 --> 0:53:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Jared ryns up didn't want to pay those guys. You know,

0:53:39.600 --> 0:53:41.600
<v Speaker 1>he had a chance to play Horrors Grant he let

0:53:41.680 --> 0:53:44.480
<v Speaker 1>him go. He didn't want to pay Scotty. I guarantee.

0:53:44.520 --> 0:53:45.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what Dinners was making, but I

0:53:46.080 --> 0:53:47.960
<v Speaker 1>bet it was pay nuts. When it was time to

0:53:48.040 --> 0:53:50.320
<v Speaker 1>pay everybody, he broke up the team. I don't know

0:53:50.360 --> 0:53:52.719
<v Speaker 1>if unfairly is the right word, but I do agree

0:53:52.760 --> 0:53:54.480
<v Speaker 1>that Jerry Cross has taken a lot of smoke when

0:53:54.520 --> 0:53:56.720
<v Speaker 1>it should beat him and the owner getting smoked together

0:53:56.880 --> 0:53:59.360
<v Speaker 1>because you know, outside of Jordan, he built the perfect

0:53:59.360 --> 0:54:02.239
<v Speaker 1>team around MJ. He hired Phil Jackson and then they

0:54:02.320 --> 0:54:04.200
<v Speaker 1>all let their own egos getting away. Well, he let

0:54:04.239 --> 0:54:06.239
<v Speaker 1>his own ego getting away, and then on top of that,

0:54:06.320 --> 0:54:08.560
<v Speaker 1>the owner didn't want to pay them. So yeah, I

0:54:08.600 --> 0:54:11.160
<v Speaker 1>think they should be sharing the smoke. Well, listen, all

0:54:11.160 --> 0:54:14.239
<v Speaker 1>this does is make it more oppressed for us to

0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:17.680
<v Speaker 1>be watching this weekend the last dance, So everybody's weighing in.

0:54:18.960 --> 0:54:20.800
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of stories. Yes, there's a lot of

0:54:20.880 --> 0:54:23.880
<v Speaker 1>stories coming out. The director said he couldn't believe that

0:54:24.200 --> 0:54:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Michael Jordan approved these next two episodes, so I know

0:54:26.560 --> 0:54:29.319
<v Speaker 1>we all want to see him. Wait, so looking forward

0:54:29.360 --> 0:54:32.560
<v Speaker 1>to that on Sundays, and Charles just sounds salty that

0:54:32.680 --> 0:54:35.480
<v Speaker 1>they are not friends anymore. He really does, just sound

0:54:35.600 --> 0:54:38.800
<v Speaker 1>upset that he is not Michael Jordan's friends anymore. Do

0:54:38.920 --> 0:54:42.160
<v Speaker 1>you think that Michael Jordan was being too sensitive and

0:54:42.280 --> 0:54:44.640
<v Speaker 1>not liking Charles Barkley anymore after he called him out

0:54:44.719 --> 0:54:47.359
<v Speaker 1>for what I think if they had, and if they had,

0:54:47.920 --> 0:54:50.959
<v Speaker 1>if they were actual friends, like really really good friends,

0:54:51.160 --> 0:54:52.920
<v Speaker 1>he should have heard that from Charles first before you

0:54:52.960 --> 0:54:56.800
<v Speaker 1>heard it first, ye, if they were friends, like, you

0:54:56.880 --> 0:55:00.040
<v Speaker 1>can't if we're actual friends, you can't say that on

0:55:00.160 --> 0:55:01.759
<v Speaker 1>TV and not say it to me. If you say

0:55:01.760 --> 0:55:03.520
<v Speaker 1>it to me and didn't go on TV with it, Okay,

0:55:03.600 --> 0:55:05.320
<v Speaker 1>I get it. I knew that was Charles's opinion, but

0:55:06.000 --> 0:55:08.480
<v Speaker 1>you get blindsided by that of course. All right, now,

0:55:08.560 --> 0:55:11.680
<v Speaker 1>let's talk about Kevin Durant. From our Brooklyn Nets. He

0:55:11.800 --> 0:55:14.200
<v Speaker 1>was on Little Wayne's Young Money Radio and he talked

0:55:14.239 --> 0:55:18.120
<v Speaker 1>about possibly will he be returning if the NBA picks

0:55:18.160 --> 0:55:20.440
<v Speaker 1>it up, you know, during the season and playoffs in

0:55:20.480 --> 0:55:22.920
<v Speaker 1>mid July. Here's what he said. Everybody wait on me

0:55:23.000 --> 0:55:25.919
<v Speaker 1>to come back, So I have a lot of emotions involved. Yeah,

0:55:27.080 --> 0:55:29.919
<v Speaker 1>I get it. I understand the business now, but I'll

0:55:29.920 --> 0:55:31.880
<v Speaker 1>be back when it's time, all right. We don't know

0:55:32.000 --> 0:55:34.200
<v Speaker 1>when this time is going to be. It's been thirteen

0:55:34.280 --> 0:55:38.080
<v Speaker 1>months since he had that Achilles tendon surgery, so we'll

0:55:38.120 --> 0:55:41.319
<v Speaker 1>see what happens. But looking forward to that, and who

0:55:41.400 --> 0:55:43.759
<v Speaker 1>knows if the season's even gonna be starting again, you know,

0:55:43.960 --> 0:55:46.839
<v Speaker 1>so we'll see what happens. They said two to four

0:55:46.880 --> 0:55:48.960
<v Speaker 1>weeks Adam still was gonna make a decision the commission

0:55:48.960 --> 0:55:51.120
<v Speaker 1>of the NBA two to four weeks. It seems like

0:55:51.200 --> 0:55:54.680
<v Speaker 1>the players want to come back though, so that a lot. Yeah,

0:55:54.760 --> 0:55:56.560
<v Speaker 1>that does matter a lot too, because if they didn't

0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:58.360
<v Speaker 1>want to, I would say it's definitely not happening. But

0:55:58.440 --> 0:56:01.440
<v Speaker 1>because they are willing and you know, coming to that

0:56:01.560 --> 0:56:04.520
<v Speaker 1>decision amongst themselves, then it makes sense to figure out

0:56:04.560 --> 0:56:07.080
<v Speaker 1>how to do it safely, all right, I'm Angela Yee

0:56:07.120 --> 0:56:09.560
<v Speaker 1>and that is your rumor report. All right, thank you,

0:56:09.680 --> 0:56:12.920
<v Speaker 1>miss ye Now Charle yes, sir, who are giving that

0:56:13.000 --> 0:56:15.879
<v Speaker 1>donkey two? You know, I need a young man named

0:56:15.960 --> 0:56:18.480
<v Speaker 1>Maurice Fain to come to the front of the congregation.

0:56:18.840 --> 0:56:21.200
<v Speaker 1>We need to have a word with him. He's a scammer.

0:56:21.640 --> 0:56:24.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh boy, all right, we'll get into that next. Keeping

0:56:24.239 --> 0:56:30.440
<v Speaker 1>locked this to breakfast club. Come morning, it's time for

0:56:30.560 --> 0:56:35.200
<v Speaker 1>Donkey of the Day. I'm a Democrat, so being Dunky

0:56:35.239 --> 0:56:37.279
<v Speaker 1>of the Day a little bit of a mixed up,

0:56:37.400 --> 0:56:44.600
<v Speaker 1>so like a don Day the club bitches. Now, I've

0:56:44.640 --> 0:56:46.520
<v Speaker 1>been called a lot of my twenty three years, but

0:56:46.640 --> 0:56:49.080
<v Speaker 1>Donkey of the Day is a new wife. Donkey of

0:56:49.160 --> 0:56:51.520
<v Speaker 1>the Day for Thursday, May fourteenth goes to a young

0:56:51.600 --> 0:56:54.200
<v Speaker 1>man named Maurice Fain who goes by the name of

0:56:54.360 --> 0:56:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Arkansas mo. Now. I have no idea who Maurice Fayin is.

0:56:59.360 --> 0:57:02.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't who Arkansas Mole is, but they're the same person.

0:57:02.800 --> 0:57:05.520
<v Speaker 1>But all the news reports I read from CNN, Fox News,

0:57:05.600 --> 0:57:09.320
<v Speaker 1>the Hollywood Reporter all say he stars on VH one's

0:57:09.360 --> 0:57:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. I haven't watched that show

0:57:11.719 --> 0:57:13.960
<v Speaker 1>in a minute, so I have no idea. I do

0:57:14.160 --> 0:57:16.360
<v Speaker 1>know yesterday I read a story about him that pissed

0:57:16.440 --> 0:57:18.640
<v Speaker 1>me off, and that's exactly why he's getting the credit

0:57:18.680 --> 0:57:21.080
<v Speaker 1>he deserves for being stupid today. Now, we all have

0:57:21.200 --> 0:57:25.080
<v Speaker 1>heard about the Paycheck Protection Program, right PPP? Well if

0:57:25.120 --> 0:57:28.200
<v Speaker 1>you have, if I had to explain PPP for donkeys,

0:57:28.240 --> 0:57:31.040
<v Speaker 1>It simply give small business loans to continue to pay

0:57:31.080 --> 0:57:35.200
<v Speaker 1>employees and cover other business expenses during this coronavirus crisis.

0:57:35.240 --> 0:57:37.200
<v Speaker 1>If you don't use that money to pay your employees,

0:57:37.400 --> 0:57:39.720
<v Speaker 1>you eventually have to pay that money back. Okay. The

0:57:39.840 --> 0:57:42.160
<v Speaker 1>whole goal of the loans is to keep work is

0:57:42.200 --> 0:57:45.480
<v Speaker 1>employed during the pandemic. Now, it's been a lot of

0:57:45.560 --> 0:57:48.760
<v Speaker 1>conversations surrounding the fact that this money isn't getting to

0:57:48.880 --> 0:57:52.400
<v Speaker 1>the people who actually needed, especially small black owned businesses.

0:57:52.480 --> 0:57:55.760
<v Speaker 1>There are small businesses I support, like Evelynce Kitchen here

0:57:55.800 --> 0:57:58.400
<v Speaker 1>in New York. I've seen them been in their frustrations

0:57:58.440 --> 0:58:01.600
<v Speaker 1>about not receiving any pp which you have to be frustrating,

0:58:01.880 --> 0:58:05.600
<v Speaker 1>especially when you see multimillion dollars. Sometimes billion dollar businesses

0:58:05.640 --> 0:58:08.800
<v Speaker 1>like the Los Angeles Lakers and shake Shack receive money.

0:58:09.120 --> 0:58:12.320
<v Speaker 1>They have been websites by prominent black figures like Robert F.

0:58:12.400 --> 0:58:14.320
<v Speaker 1>Smith dropped on the clues bombs for Robert F. Smith,

0:58:14.600 --> 0:58:17.520
<v Speaker 1>a chairman of Vista Equity Partners. Remember we had him

0:58:17.520 --> 0:58:20.000
<v Speaker 1>on the Breakfast Club to discuss quickbase dot com, which

0:58:20.080 --> 0:58:23.120
<v Speaker 1>is a website brothers and sisters with small businesses can

0:58:23.240 --> 0:58:25.160
<v Speaker 1>go to to help him get in the queue to

0:58:25.240 --> 0:58:27.840
<v Speaker 1>get some of these loans. Okay, you know did he did.

0:58:27.920 --> 0:58:30.200
<v Speaker 1>He dropped on a clues bomb for Diddy. He launched

0:58:30.280 --> 0:58:33.040
<v Speaker 1>affairshare dot com, which is essentially the same thing, a

0:58:33.160 --> 0:58:35.280
<v Speaker 1>website you can go to that helps you, you know,

0:58:35.440 --> 0:58:38.240
<v Speaker 1>get get through some of this red tape faster. Okay,

0:58:38.240 --> 0:58:40.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying all that to say I have watched a

0:58:40.280 --> 0:58:42.160
<v Speaker 1>lot of people who need and want these loans for

0:58:42.200 --> 0:58:44.720
<v Speaker 1>the right reasons not be able to get them, Which

0:58:44.800 --> 0:58:48.640
<v Speaker 1>brings me to Arkansas Mo Maurice Fame. Okay. He runs

0:58:48.680 --> 0:58:51.960
<v Speaker 1>a corporation called Flame Trucking, all right, and he submitted

0:58:52.000 --> 0:58:55.480
<v Speaker 1>a PPP loan application for the company on April fifteen,

0:58:55.600 --> 0:58:58.800
<v Speaker 1>stating that the business had one hundred and seven employees

0:58:59.080 --> 0:59:02.280
<v Speaker 1>and an average monthly payroll of one point four million dollars.

0:59:02.400 --> 0:59:05.640
<v Speaker 1>All of this, according to an affidavit put a criminal complaint. Okay,

0:59:05.680 --> 0:59:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Flame Trucking asked for a loan of three point seven

0:59:08.040 --> 0:59:11.080
<v Speaker 1>million dollars and certified that the loan that the loan

0:59:11.200 --> 0:59:14.600
<v Speaker 1>proceeds would be used to retain workers and maintain payroll,

0:59:15.040 --> 0:59:18.400
<v Speaker 1>r make mortgage interest payments, leads payments, and utility payments,

0:59:18.480 --> 0:59:21.520
<v Speaker 1>because that's exactly what it specified you should do under

0:59:21.640 --> 0:59:26.320
<v Speaker 1>the paycheck Protection Program. Well, United Community Bank ultimately funded

0:59:26.360 --> 0:59:28.480
<v Speaker 1>the loan. They ain't give him the three million, but

0:59:28.520 --> 0:59:33.240
<v Speaker 1>they gave him two million, forty five eight hundred dollars. Well,

0:59:33.280 --> 0:59:35.480
<v Speaker 1>would you like to know what happened next? Let's go

0:59:35.560 --> 0:59:38.160
<v Speaker 1>to Fox five Atlanta for the report place. Maurice mo

0:59:38.480 --> 0:59:41.520
<v Speaker 1>Fane is out on bond, but authorities say they're monitoring

0:59:41.640 --> 0:59:45.240
<v Speaker 1>him closely because not long after FBI agents interviewed him,

0:59:45.560 --> 0:59:48.000
<v Speaker 1>he used his cell phone to look up countries with

0:59:48.160 --> 0:59:51.640
<v Speaker 1>no extradition laws. The thirty seven year old sole owner

0:59:51.720 --> 0:59:54.240
<v Speaker 1>of Flame Trucking, who can be seen on episodes of

0:59:54.320 --> 0:59:56.560
<v Speaker 1>Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, has in trouble with the

0:59:56.680 --> 1:00:00.760
<v Speaker 1>FEDS for alleged fraud. The reality TV personalities. April fifteenth

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<v Speaker 1>loan application stated his business had one hundred seven employees.

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<v Speaker 1>Fain applied for more than three million dollar loan to

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<v Speaker 1>maintain payroll and other payments. Documents show the bank gave

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<v Speaker 1>him a more than two million dollar loan days later.

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<v Speaker 1>The US Attorney's Office says Fain used more than half

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<v Speaker 1>of that to buy a Rolllex presidential watch, a diamond bracelet,

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<v Speaker 1>five current diamond ring, Lisa Rolls Royce, and pay forty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars for child support. May sixth, federal agents interviewed Fain,

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<v Speaker 1>who admitted to applying for a loan but denied spending

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<v Speaker 1>the money on anything but his business. According to Arvest Bank,

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<v Speaker 1>Fling Trucking's account was closed September seventeenth, twenty nineteen. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>before I continue with this story, I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>play a game of yes, what race it days? I

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<v Speaker 1>usually do this, it did, but I had to do

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<v Speaker 1>this now, Okay, I have to just for my own amusement,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Mari's Fain stars on Love and Hip Hop

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<v Speaker 1>Atlanta Black. He had a truck company Black for over

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<v Speaker 1>three million dollars in PPP loans. Black ended up getting

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<v Speaker 1>a little over two million. Black ben one point five

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars on eighty five grand in jury black footing

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<v Speaker 1>a Rolex watch, black, a diamond bracelet, five carrot diamond ring.

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<v Speaker 1>Also least did I say, at least a two thy

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen rolls race race and he paid forty grand and

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<v Speaker 1>black Child's point Indian angelie Ye. Also, those listening in

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<v Speaker 1>the car are on the iHeart radio app. Yes, what racy? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I go first? Can I go first? Go first? First?

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<v Speaker 1>I was leaning towards white, right, Nah? Black? He black

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<v Speaker 1>like black black? Black? He's black? Angeli? Ye, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think? Guess what racing? Yes, he's black? Guess what?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, he's not black. He's a nick, right, a

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<v Speaker 1>pure bread grade a nick. Yes, Uncle Rugis, you are correct.

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<v Speaker 1>It is heavy nutrey at work here and in the

1:02:04.480 --> 1:02:07.520
<v Speaker 1>immortal words of Rick James, they should have never given

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<v Speaker 1>you this money. Humorous is a find story. As humorous

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<v Speaker 1>as I find these levels of nutry, it bothers me

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<v Speaker 1>because there are a lot of small businesses struggling right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You took two plus million dollars out of the hands

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<v Speaker 1>of black owned businesses that really needed you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, how many brothers and sisters really need that money,

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<v Speaker 1>and you out here giving it right back. To the government,

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<v Speaker 1>giving it right back to the white man. Because you

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<v Speaker 1>want to buy jewelry and fancy ask CAUs. Now, there

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<v Speaker 1>has been a lot of confusion among small business owners

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<v Speaker 1>about PPP guidelines because the question that has been asked

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<v Speaker 1>commonly is can business owners be permitted to pay themselves

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<v Speaker 1>a salary? Are taking owners draw? I don't know the

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<v Speaker 1>answer to that question, but I do know it's something

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<v Speaker 1>that rubbed me the wrong way about a man using

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<v Speaker 1>the PPP money to buy jewelry and fancy cause and

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<v Speaker 1>according to the police AffA David when asked if he

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<v Speaker 1>who's the money to buy the Rose Royce rafe Listen

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<v Speaker 1>to this. This is the true It's in the police affidavit.

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<v Speaker 1>When asked if he used the money to buy the

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<v Speaker 1>rolls Royce raf, he replied kind of, sort of, not really, Okay. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Fain told the agents that he believed he had to

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<v Speaker 1>write to use parts of the PPP loan proceeds for

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<v Speaker 1>other business purposes and for working capital. Look at me,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me what part of the trucking game does jewelry play? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>What business purposes of the trucking game? Is a Rose

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<v Speaker 1>Royce rave not to mention. His Flames trucking account was

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<v Speaker 1>closed on September nineteenth. I'm trying to figure out Number one,

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<v Speaker 1>are they not betting people for this PPP money? And

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<v Speaker 1>if they are betting people, why aren't the folks who

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<v Speaker 1>really needed getting it. These are all questions that inquiring

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<v Speaker 1>minds want to know. But in the meantime, Maurice, you

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<v Speaker 1>should be ashamed of yourself. You're taking food off people's

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<v Speaker 1>place for your own personal gain, and that, to me

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<v Speaker 1>is some legend there he shuckers. Please give Maurice faints

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<v Speaker 1>just sweet sounds. And the Hamletones, Oh no, you a

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<v Speaker 1>do gee gee, oh the day. I just want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>though a lot of people did by persons who owns

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<v Speaker 1>Go Daddy. He got an eight million dollars p p

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<v Speaker 1>P loan he did, just gave it back. He owns

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<v Speaker 1>Go Daddy billionaire. Yeah. You know how people host their

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<v Speaker 1>websites on Go Daddy. Yeah, it's not I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's based on revenue. Is based on how many employees

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<v Speaker 1>you got, So if you have certain if you have

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<v Speaker 1>let less than a certain employees in order to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to get that. But come on, dude, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>a billionaire. Yeah, what I mean, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>ended up giving back there. A lot of people didn't

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<v Speaker 1>end up giving back the money though, like Shake Shock

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of corporations. The Lakers talked about that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, still it out to give it back, though

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<v Speaker 1>what did they get? They get a heart later on

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<v Speaker 1>and say, you know what, maybe we just don't need

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<v Speaker 1>this thing. I think sometimes your financial team does that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that a lot of people's financial teams do

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<v Speaker 1>it for them, and then they get approved and they

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<v Speaker 1>get the money. That's what I think happens in situations

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Right, So y'all, if you're applying for these

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<v Speaker 1>loans and you don't need them for your business, let

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<v Speaker 1>the small businesses who really need these loans get that money.

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<v Speaker 1>And be clear, it is a loan, so it can

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<v Speaker 1>be forgiven if you use it for the right purposes,

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<v Speaker 1>for making sure that you can pay your employees, pay

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<v Speaker 1>your lease, whatever it is that you need it for.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not just for you to just have some more money. So,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's damn sure enough for you to stunt at all.

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<v Speaker 1>What you mean, I'm about to do it today. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to get me a book. I'm about to get

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<v Speaker 1>me a new ring, a new chain. I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>get it up. What's that chain that tepaying head back

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<v Speaker 1>in the day, big ass Shane. I'm gonna give me

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<v Speaker 1>big ass Chaine. I'm letting you know right now if

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<v Speaker 1>you do that, you're definitely gonna miss your daughters graduation

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<v Speaker 1>and communia. Okay, sir, And you do have to meet

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<v Speaker 1>certain guidelines to be forgiven for this loan, So just

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<v Speaker 1>know if you apply for it and you get it,

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<v Speaker 1>they are gonna investigate people. Got just make sure you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing the right thing with it. Make sure that money

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<v Speaker 1>is going to your employees. That's There's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people that need that, man, So please don't take advantage

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<v Speaker 1>of it, please don't. All right, well, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>that donkey of the day. Yes, sir, Hello, need relationship advice,

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<v Speaker 1>need personal advice, just need real advice. Haul up now

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<v Speaker 1>for asking wanting everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Yee, Charlomagne

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<v Speaker 1>the guy. We are the breakfast club. Now it's time

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<v Speaker 1>for asking. Ye Hello, who's this? Yeah? This this Eugene

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<v Speaker 1>calling from Miami, Florida. What's up? Bro? What's your question

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<v Speaker 1>for you? All right? So, ye, I got this question, right, So,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just met this girl. I've been newer. We

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<v Speaker 1>grew up probably rely in the next same neighborhood, and

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<v Speaker 1>we've been dating for like three months. It's been going good.

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<v Speaker 1>We decided to like invest in a few you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we ended up doing a few business and investments and

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually going good. But now I feel like our

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<v Speaker 1>personalities is clashing where we you know, we're finding ourselves,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, arguing more now, but the business is going good.

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<v Speaker 1>So now I'm stuck between do our stay in the

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and try to see where it goes or continue

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<v Speaker 1>with the business and you know, just build off that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm kind of yeah, you know, Eugene, it's always

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<v Speaker 1>tough to date somebody while you're trying to do business

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<v Speaker 1>together because you wonder if our relationship will affect the business. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>as far as you guys having invested in business together,

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<v Speaker 1>is this something that y'all have to work together on,

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<v Speaker 1>like so up for is it just an investment? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean yeah, it's definitely, Like we definitely have to work

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<v Speaker 1>day to day and you know, be up under one

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<v Speaker 1>of which again, like the vibe is always good, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's just I believe that both of our you know,

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<v Speaker 1>personalities is dominant, and like when we class, it's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>like nasty. So it's like, you know, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be going a whole another year, two years, three

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<v Speaker 1>years doing the same thing. But at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>the business, like I said, it's pretty much good. We've

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<v Speaker 1>been we just started and it's like we're seeing numbers

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<v Speaker 1>and like it's going good. Do you'll have a contract

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<v Speaker 1>with everything, like legally, so just in case things go left,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what you get and she knows what she gets. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, of course, Okay, just making sure Sometimes people

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<v Speaker 1>disagree to do stuff and they don't map it out,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's the thing. That's what I'm saying, like Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm stuck in between, you know what, groow with

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<v Speaker 1>this person because she's a very very good, interesting person,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. She's smart, intelligent, everything. But

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<v Speaker 1>then like I see, it's like when you think about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, growing with somebody, building a foundation with them.

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<v Speaker 1>Also it can be kind of speaking on both hands,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, well I think that it's worth a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation for you're both to have because it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are both good business people, So you can

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<v Speaker 1>be practical when it comes to that, but when emotions

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<v Speaker 1>get involved, sometimes that creates more friction. Sometimes when you're

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<v Speaker 1>dating somebody, you end up talking about the business while

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<v Speaker 1>you're at home supposedly having a good time, and that

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<v Speaker 1>also causes friction and a relationship. So I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>since y'all both seem like you're intelligent and practical people,

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<v Speaker 1>have that conversation, be like, look, I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure I know that lines can get blurred and

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<v Speaker 1>crust as we're dating as well as doing business together.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's make this agreement that we're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>let our relationship affect whatever it is our business and

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<v Speaker 1>will always keep that professional and that when we are

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<v Speaker 1>together and we're trying to have some downtime away from

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<v Speaker 1>the business, we're not discussing things that might cause us

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<v Speaker 1>to argue even more. Now, I don't know if you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying you're not sure where you're going in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want to be with her, or you

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<v Speaker 1>just don't know what's going to happen, but you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are also going to have to come to some agreement

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<v Speaker 1>as far as conflict resolution and when couples are together

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<v Speaker 1>and they're doing business together. It's just as important how

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<v Speaker 1>you decide to discuss things that you might not agree

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<v Speaker 1>on and how you decide to make up together. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's something that y'all probably have to work on as well,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you're going to have this ongoing relationship business wise,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have to make sure you know how to

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<v Speaker 1>speak to each other. What bothers me. I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>it when you say this to me. It really affects

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<v Speaker 1>me when you say this. When we argue, do we

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<v Speaker 1>have certain things that we know to diffuse a situation

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<v Speaker 1>we need to not speak for a certain amount of time,

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<v Speaker 1>or do we need to address it right away? These

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<v Speaker 1>are all things that y'all need to come together to

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<v Speaker 1>discuss as far as making sure you have a long

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<v Speaker 1>term situation business wise at least. Okay, yeah, that makes

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of sense. Okay, yeah, And she might agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you, She might say, you know what, we do

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<v Speaker 1>get into these really bad arguments. Our personalities sometimes clash.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's figure out how we can make sure no

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<v Speaker 1>matter what our business is taken care of, if we

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<v Speaker 1>decide that we want to continue on with this relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>we can do that. If not. We can still do

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<v Speaker 1>business together as adult. Okay, definitely, I appreciate that. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem, all right? Ask ye eight hundred five eight

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<v Speaker 1>five one oh five one. If you need relationship advice,

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<v Speaker 1>hit ye now, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep for real what you get some real advice

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<v Speaker 1>with Angela Ye, It's ask Ye morning. Everybody is dj

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<v Speaker 1>Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we all the Breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>Club with in the middle of ask ye, Hello, who's this? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>This is an anonymous caller, Anonymous? What's your name? Anonymous?

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<v Speaker 1>M I'm just messing with you. I'm just messing with you.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your question for you? UM? What if you have

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<v Speaker 1>like a toxic baby daddy and you know, like he's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be getting out of Jill so he's all in

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<v Speaker 1>your life. So he's gonna ruin your life? Yeah? Does he?

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<v Speaker 1>And he knows where you live and everything. Well, not

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<v Speaker 1>right now because I'm in between housing, but like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>interested en buying this house to like forty minutes outside

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<v Speaker 1>of town. And he gets out of jail at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of July, and it's like when he was out,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like going crazy. I'm talking about like he's

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<v Speaker 1>tried to give me fire from at least two of

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<v Speaker 1>my jobs. He's like, I can't move one with my life.

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<v Speaker 1>He's allowed to have a girl for it, and he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to co parent. He saw for his righte.

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<v Speaker 1>We go to through the mediation, he's like, oh, he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want me to know where he lives at, telling

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<v Speaker 1>the mediators that his mom's addressed. Like then like well

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<v Speaker 1>we leave, He's like, oh, can I take you your breakfast?

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<v Speaker 1>Just like real toxic, like don't pay child support? Child support, anonymous,

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<v Speaker 1>have you tried to handle this with the police. I

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<v Speaker 1>get a restraining order. I've had two through juveniles, but

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<v Speaker 1>they expired. You need to get a permanent one. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually had to get a permanent restraining order on somebody before,

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<v Speaker 1>and this sounds to me like a situation where you

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<v Speaker 1>need a permanent restraining order against this person. You are

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<v Speaker 1>in fair of your life, you have a child, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what he might do to you. He's calling

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<v Speaker 1>your job, he's harassing you. You need to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you do that legally. In charges against him for

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<v Speaker 1>menacing because they got him on the customer service line.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually like talking to me. But it's just like, right

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<v Speaker 1>now he doesn't know where I'm at because he's incarcerated.

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<v Speaker 1>But when he gets out, why he still has even

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<v Speaker 1>while he's in jail, he still has people reaching out

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<v Speaker 1>to me, Like, right, I think what needs to happen

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<v Speaker 1>is because let me tell you, I'm sure he's scared

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<v Speaker 1>to ever have to go back to jail. And once

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<v Speaker 1>you get that permanent restraining order, if he reaches out

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<v Speaker 1>to you, if any of his people reach out to you,

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<v Speaker 1>if he continues to harass you, if he tries to

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<v Speaker 1>show up where you are, then he'll go right back

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<v Speaker 1>to jail. Yeah, I think. And and when you do

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<v Speaker 1>buy that house, I would say, try to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you incorporate so that it's not traced back to

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<v Speaker 1>your names. And when you do buy it, he can't

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<v Speaker 1>just find out where you live easily. Right, It's like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be buying this house. It's stid of like

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<v Speaker 1>forty minutes outside of town, but I can still come

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<v Speaker 1>to work, but it's out the way, right. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>like I was going to move out of state, but

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<v Speaker 1>this coronavirus kills that. It was like I can't even

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<v Speaker 1>get to Texas if I wanted to, because that's where

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<v Speaker 1>I was. But it is crazy, like he's getting out

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not as scared. He's just like he just

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<v Speaker 1>tries to ruin everything I got going on, which is weird, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you, so listen, I'm telling you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>And I know sometimes it sucks to have to do

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<v Speaker 1>that because you feel bad, like, oh, I'm gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>a restraining order. I don't want to put him in jail,

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<v Speaker 1>but his daughter loves him, but he's crazy, Like, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>he'll be putting himself in jail if he does reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to you and harass you anymore. So just remember

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<v Speaker 1>that it's not you putting him in jail. You're getting

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<v Speaker 1>a restraining order for your own good. And if he

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<v Speaker 1>violates that, that's on him. Then that means that he

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<v Speaker 1>did something that he knew was gonna let him in jail.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not on you. You can't feel guilty about that,

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, So he knows what he gotta do, and

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<v Speaker 1>so just please, I'm begging you, like, just go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and go through that process. Start that now, like you

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<v Speaker 1>can go and you know, submit for that and make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that you get it. You have people that could

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<v Speaker 1>back you up and talk about the kind of things

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<v Speaker 1>that he's done and how he's been menacing, and you

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<v Speaker 1>have evidence of that, and you're in fair because that way,

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<v Speaker 1>if something happens, he's gonna end up going right back

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<v Speaker 1>to jail and he'll have to think twice before he

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<v Speaker 1>even tries to come for you. And sometimes people take

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<v Speaker 1>advantage of the fact that they know they can prey

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<v Speaker 1>on your weaknesses and know that you'll feel guilty. And

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<v Speaker 1>of course you never want to put nobody in jail.

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<v Speaker 1>But he got to leave you alone. He can't try

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<v Speaker 1>to destroy your life. He's not thinking you're right. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what's wrong. Will do he gotta get some

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, maybe they'll order that he has to

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<v Speaker 1>get some help. And he's like his little sidekick. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like she allows a little bit alone with him. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just focus on him and stay away from me. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even want you around me. Don't reach out to me,

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<v Speaker 1>don't come see me. And whatever they have to do

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<v Speaker 1>in the court to figure out when he sees his daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>let them handle that. If that means you got to

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<v Speaker 1>drop your later off at your mom's house. Whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta do, but the police. And that's the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to great, Okay, well good, it's on him now,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you get that restarch any order now, it's

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<v Speaker 1>on him if he wants to stay out of jail.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not on you, all right, all right. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>you so much, alike, and we're sending you some love.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. All right, good luck, Mama. Ask

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<v Speaker 1>ye eight undred five eight five one oh five one.

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<v Speaker 1>If you need relationship advice and any type of advice,

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<v Speaker 1>you can call ye. Now, we got rumors on the waggie. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's talk about somebody who's very upset about all

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<v Speaker 1>these reports that they're not as nice as you might

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<v Speaker 1>think they are. A lot of people are coming out

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<v Speaker 1>with stories about how mean this person is. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get into that next. Keeping locked this to Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning the Breakfast Club. It's about Angela Yee on

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. Yes. So, now, there's been some reports

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<v Speaker 1>that Ellen DeGeneres is not as nice as she tries

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<v Speaker 1>to appear, and people saying that she's just straight out mean.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also a lot of stories if you look online.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually started a whole Twitter thread a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>months ago that was started by comedian Kevin t. Porter.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he was going to donate two dollars to

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<v Speaker 1>the Los Angeles Food Bank and exchange for every story

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<v Speaker 1>about Ellen being mean, and a lot of people waited in.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people had evidence they were saying that going to

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<v Speaker 1>her show was demeaning. Then there's also reports about her

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<v Speaker 1>not paying her staff during this time and hiring a

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<v Speaker 1>whole new staff to come in to do the Ellen Show.

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<v Speaker 1>One person also said you might as well nickname her

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<v Speaker 1>the tough Long Terror because they said viewers at home

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<v Speaker 1>keep buying what she's selling. Ellen's been in our homes

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<v Speaker 1>for so long. It'll take a lot more than a

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<v Speaker 1>bodyguard and a blogger to change how people feel about her.

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<v Speaker 1>Her best response to just being happy. Ellen on the

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<v Speaker 1>show every day, So it says that she is a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit stressed out though about all these stories about

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<v Speaker 1>people saying that she's been very mean. A former bodyguard

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<v Speaker 1>also claimed that while working for her, she never said

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<v Speaker 1>hello to him, never thanked him. Then he said the

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<v Speaker 1>whole experience was just demeaning. That's the only example, Like

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<v Speaker 1>what did they example? Variety published several accounts from crew

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<v Speaker 1>members of the Ellen Show. They said they were barely

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<v Speaker 1>getting paid during coronavirus lockdown and that she hired a

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<v Speaker 1>non union, less expensive crew to work on her show

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<v Speaker 1>from home. And then again, there's a whole Twitter thread

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<v Speaker 1>if you look online, you can see it where people

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<v Speaker 1>talked about being on the show and how she was

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<v Speaker 1>nasty and mean to them. So even though according to

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<v Speaker 1>some people, they're saying that she promotes kindness to the viewers,

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<v Speaker 1>they said that she really is very heartless. But some

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<v Speaker 1>people are also saying, well, you know, she might just

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<v Speaker 1>have issues with you know how some people have like

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<v Speaker 1>social issues and things like that. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what the true story is, but there are a good

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<v Speaker 1>number of stories of people saying that she was just nasty.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's so interesting because, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I always wonder, you know, what do people be expecting

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<v Speaker 1>of folks? Like, you know, just because you have a

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<v Speaker 1>perception of somebody doesn't mean that's who they are, Like

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<v Speaker 1>would you want Ellen to dance with you every single day?

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<v Speaker 1>But I will say most people like that the way

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<v Speaker 1>they you know, um um, what they give off on

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<v Speaker 1>television is are is not who they are in real life,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know plenty of people who give off that nice,

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<v Speaker 1>do good or energy and they the most trash ass people.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I know people who give off the opposite energy,

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<v Speaker 1>who might be the nicest people behind the scenes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>But can it also be the time that you catch them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Because you know, maybe they're

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<v Speaker 1>out with their family or maybe they're doing something and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they say, well, not right now, and people

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<v Speaker 1>take that as a slap in the face. That's true too.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you also have to worry, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if people who actually worked with you have things to

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<v Speaker 1>say about you, because they're saying a lot of her

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<v Speaker 1>crew members are talking about it, and you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>even her own security, and you know, it does feel

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<v Speaker 1>like if all these people who worked with you are

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<v Speaker 1>saying these things about you, then maybe there's some truth

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<v Speaker 1>to it. That's probably could people be front of their

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<v Speaker 1>ass all. I can't stand it. I hate it. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be laughing, portray a certain way on you know, anything,

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<v Speaker 1>and then behind the scenes they really be the whackest

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<v Speaker 1>trash as people. M So, I think what people do

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<v Speaker 1>have to think about it is like what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>energy are you putting out there? How do you treat

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<v Speaker 1>the people that work with you and work for you,

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<v Speaker 1>because you never know when those people and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it can work for a number of years, but then

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes out and the truth comes out and

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<v Speaker 1>a number of people have something to say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how Is that how you want to be remembered.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not sure what's going on in Ellen's case,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe there's still time for her to think about

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<v Speaker 1>the way she's treated people, if this is indeed true. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Wendy Williams has sold her former New Jersey family mansion.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been quite some time since she put that on

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<v Speaker 1>the market. She originally listed that property back in January,

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<v Speaker 1>and she listened it for one point eight nine five million,

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<v Speaker 1>Then she dropped the price to one point six nine

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<v Speaker 1>nine and then it was listed at one point five

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<v Speaker 1>and so she has finally just sold it. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure that's good news. What did well did she sell

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<v Speaker 1>it for? You? You know? I know the last time

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<v Speaker 1>it was listed was one point five so I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>sure what the actual sale price was, but she lost

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<v Speaker 1>about six hundred thousand only house. She paid about two

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<v Speaker 1>point one for that home close to two point too,

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<v Speaker 1>or she just wanted to get out. I'm sure one

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<v Speaker 1>thing about Wendy though, what you see is what you get.

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<v Speaker 1>What she presents to you on TV and on radio

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<v Speaker 1>is exactly who she is in real life. God damn it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, and congratulations to Black Thought and Quest Love.

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<v Speaker 1>They have done a deal with Universal Television and it's

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<v Speaker 1>a first look deal. So they've been part of the

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<v Speaker 1>NBC family since two thousand and nine when they became

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<v Speaker 1>the house band for Jimmy Fallon and so now they

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<v Speaker 1>have their own deal. Quest Love said, this deal is

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<v Speaker 1>very important to us as we've been content producers and

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<v Speaker 1>storytellers for our entire career. They also had that AMC

1:21:35.640 --> 1:21:38.280
<v Speaker 1>documentary series Hip Hop The Songs that Shook America that

1:21:38.400 --> 1:21:41.080
<v Speaker 1>was really great, so congratulations to them. They have their

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<v Speaker 1>Blackwoodstock film coming out as well, so it'll be really dope.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a musical based homes and it's also a musical

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<v Speaker 1>that they have coming out based on Soul Train, so

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<v Speaker 1>they have a lot of different things happening, so well

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<v Speaker 1>deserved dropping a clues box for Quest Love and Black Thought.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you every TV production company Film production company

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<v Speaker 1>needs to hire rappers because rappers are the best storytellers.

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<v Speaker 1>They have the most new, creative, interesting stories that y'all

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<v Speaker 1>have not done yet, the rappers, I'm telling you all right. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>blue Face looks like he's getting a lot of attention

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<v Speaker 1>because of things that he's doing now. He shared a

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<v Speaker 1>video on social media of his child's mother, Jaden Alexis,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess it looked like she was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>break the windows of his house, and she did break one.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't did did you see it? She did break

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<v Speaker 1>one with that rubber she had, like a rubber what

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<v Speaker 1>was that? I don't know what a rubber shovel or

1:22:34.080 --> 1:22:36.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that was, but did see her?

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<v Speaker 1>He's whacked for posting that. Man's well, here's what here's

1:22:40.960 --> 1:22:44.880
<v Speaker 1>what it sounded like. What's wrong with your mommy? What's

1:22:44.880 --> 1:22:52.840
<v Speaker 1>wrong with your mommy? What's wrong with her? She gonna

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<v Speaker 1>live here? What's she doing? Baby mama? Drummer with your

1:23:03.560 --> 1:23:06.720
<v Speaker 1>son right there? He shouldn't have posted that crying. That's bad, Like,

1:23:06.840 --> 1:23:09.800
<v Speaker 1>you don't ever want your child to witness something like that. Yeah,

1:23:09.840 --> 1:23:11.519
<v Speaker 1>it's whacker's health for that to be playing out in

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<v Speaker 1>front of the kid. It's Whacker's health for blue Face

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<v Speaker 1>to be recording and even though I understand why, he

1:23:15.080 --> 1:23:17.040
<v Speaker 1>probably did record it because it'll keep him out of

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<v Speaker 1>trouble later just in case, correct, And she shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>acting like that in front of the child, like that

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<v Speaker 1>child is gonna remember that, and that child is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>think that behavior is normal, and it's not. She posted

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<v Speaker 1>since to me, take is to the Graham and then

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<v Speaker 1>she said that U n words, lick. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to say this, um lick what the brown round?

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<v Speaker 1>And then when they run upstairs and scary bitch, But

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<v Speaker 1>we don't see the footage of when a bitch got

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<v Speaker 1>inside now doe babe, and so I guess she did

1:23:49.760 --> 1:23:52.400
<v Speaker 1>man get in the house. Well, it's not just that,

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<v Speaker 1>it's I don't think you can say lick. Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>you put that together? Okay, all right, anyway, I'm easily

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<v Speaker 1>and that's your rumor report. You can say licked the itch,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't say licked the brown round. Yeah, brown round.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all be doing a lot of tass salad shaming on

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<v Speaker 1>this show this week. Brom letting y'all know that right now,

1:24:11.439 --> 1:24:13.880
<v Speaker 1>you when Ninnie Leeks was here, y'all do a lot

1:24:13.960 --> 1:24:16.960
<v Speaker 1>of tass salad shaming who just can't say it on there.

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<v Speaker 1>I just tosked him salad last night? What you talking about? You?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know? Yeah? You brought your teams this morning? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I don't think anyone just now. So oh

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<v Speaker 1>yeah it was your anniversary yesterday, right yeah, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta do that on the anniversary. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to right. See, you gotta give all the fixings,

1:24:44.560 --> 1:24:47.599
<v Speaker 1>all the sides, all the side and fix it last day.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, guys, not with the brown eye talk. It

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<v Speaker 1>is grown man, forty year old adult talk when you're married,

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<v Speaker 1>happily married. Okay, all right, that's right. At pretty brown,

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<v Speaker 1>at pretty brown four or five? Should have your wife

1:25:04.600 --> 1:25:06.080
<v Speaker 1>got two eyes, then she got a third eye, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she got that Ya. I hate you, man, revote.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see you tomorrow. Man. Everybody else to People's Choice

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<v Speaker 1>mixes up next, get your request and it's the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning putting. Everybody is DJ Envy and Jela Yee,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now. Shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to doctor Jess for joining us this morning. Doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Jessica Clemens followed Doctor Jess asked, doctor Jess. Um. You

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<v Speaker 1>know doctor Jess's dope. She's a licensed psychiatrist here in

1:25:34.800 --> 1:25:38.080
<v Speaker 1>New York City and she also takes um. She does

1:25:38.120 --> 1:25:41.080
<v Speaker 1>sessions on her Instagram, so you know you should send

1:25:41.120 --> 1:25:43.439
<v Speaker 1>her message. Ask doctor Jess and you might be the

1:25:43.600 --> 1:25:45.960
<v Speaker 1>next person she talks to if you need somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to. So it's to my guy Law too, man,

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<v Speaker 1>Peace to the god Law. Congratulations on the new seed, brilliant.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the young King's name, all right, all right, well

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<v Speaker 1>when we come back, we got more and don't move.

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<v Speaker 1>It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning, e j Envy Angela Yee,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne the gay We are the Breakfast Club. Now. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where you guys are from out there, but

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend it is supposed to be nice out in

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<v Speaker 1>the East coast. They're talking about eighty two seventy five,

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<v Speaker 1>seventy degrees all weekend long. Finally, it still is it

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<v Speaker 1>virusy wather though? Is that virusy weather? Planne? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>virusy weather because it's been kind of cold since the

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<v Speaker 1>virus been happening, So eighty degrees does that mean we

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<v Speaker 1>can go out. I don't know. I mean, we shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>behind as hell with the mask on this summer, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, absolutely, I don't know if you walked around

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<v Speaker 1>with the mask on, or you go to store and

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<v Speaker 1>you were walking upstairs, you get tired fastest hell with

1:26:38.640 --> 1:26:41.760
<v Speaker 1>that damn mask on. Yeah, man, yeah, man, yeah man.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how people are jogging in the park

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<v Speaker 1>with the mask on, like I tried to go. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been going super early in the morning on the weekends,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have it on at first, but then when

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<v Speaker 1>I see nobody around, I gotta slide it down a

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<v Speaker 1>little so I could breathe. Yeah, that's that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta do. I always gotta slide it down a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit so I could breathe. Cue, and then put it

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<v Speaker 1>right back on. You have to take a few breaths. Michelemagne,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a positive note. Listen, man, It is mental

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<v Speaker 1>Health Awareness Month, So I just want to tell anybody

1:27:06.560 --> 1:27:08.920
<v Speaker 1>out there that maybe dealing with, you know, a little

1:27:09.000 --> 1:27:14.280
<v Speaker 1>depression today, Always remember there is hope. Even when your

1:27:14.320 --> 1:27:18.120
<v Speaker 1>brain tells you there isn't. Breakfast club. You'll tell y'all

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<v Speaker 1>dumb