WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Toe Spreaders 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:01.960 From Hollywood to you. 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:03.520 Thank you for listening to US. 0:00:05.160 --> 0:00:07.400 Air on Air with Ryan. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:17.880 Seacrest, Monday Morning post Saint Patti's Day, Hello, Sin, good morning. 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:23.760 I made green eggs for my kids yesterday for Saint 0:00:23.800 --> 0:00:24.560 Patrick's Day. 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:26.360 I know they thought it was so cool. 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:28.720 Do you used to get the green dye? Yeah? 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:30.480 It just a little bit like drops it like the 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:31.200 food coloring. 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:32.519 And did you do ham as well? 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:34.159 Uh? You know you did not do. 0:00:34.120 --> 0:00:34.839 Green eggs and ham. 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:35.560 But no. 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:38.160 Well there's Tanya, Hi, Tanya. 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:39.280 Good morning, Good morning. 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:40.559 What was your weekend? 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:41.320 Great? 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:44.680 Spent two hours yesterday meal prepping. But we're set. 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:46.479 I think it's so smart. 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:49.080 Think of how like like I think we talked about 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:50.120 this in the last week or so. 0:00:50.440 --> 0:00:52.279 Fewer decisions is the way to go. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:58.240 Okay, back room, good morning, good morning. We've got Ruby, 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:04.360 We've got Mikayla me. I know you're back there. The 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:05.520 problem is you're in a corner. 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:08.240 I know. I'm like, I need my ole cover back here. 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:08.720 I need to be. 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:14.480 She's off mic, she's in the corner. There's no internet 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:18.680 cam on her. But I understand we need to talk 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:19.640 to you a little bit later. 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:22.880 Yes, we do. I've got some tea for you. 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:24.680 You got some tea in the world of what what's 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:27.040 the what's the category dating? 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:29.320 Well, not necessarily dating, but I have a little crush 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:31.600 on someone. 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:33.920 She has the most energy of all of us. You 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:37.560 can tell when there's new potential love or just like excitement. 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:39.440 Right, Yeah, it's probably because I have a crush on 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:40.440 someone I don't know, I think. 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:46.679 So okay, oh boy, everybody's getting married, like's the best. 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:49.640 All right, Well, Madiana, we're just getting started. I don't 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:51.800 know if I can handle giving any sort of feedback 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:53.400 or advice yet, but we will come back. 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:55.080 Okay, we'll come back then. 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:59.400 Just getting the blood flowing here, all right? Shall we 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:02.600 take a look. We got partly sun today and high's 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:06.559 in the mid seventies. Ryan's roses seven forty this morning. 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:10.840 Get into that. So just to keep us in line 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:14.320 and aligned and on track. The spring begins tomorrow night 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.640 at eight oh six, and Ryan's roses begins this morning 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:18.480 at seven forty. 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:19.679 So hang tight. 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:22.320 Partly sun even highs in the mid seventies today, after 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:25.120 a nice weekend, hopefully you made it through Saint Patti's 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:28.919 Day without any sort of uh really real issue. 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:31.400 Yeah, but welcome back. We're into it. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:34.400 How is I always live in the moment, but I 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:39.280 also look forward? And this is the hybrid conversation exactly 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:41.400 because we do want to be present and live in 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:43.240 the moment. I don't always, but we do want to 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:44.920 be presently in the moment at the same time, what 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:46.320 is my week going to shape up? 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:46.440 Like? 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:49.200 You may be asking yourself that this morning as you 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:52.240 brush your tongue, And that is why we have the 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:53.440 horoscopes for the week. 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:55.680 Is there a theme to these? I'm sure there is. 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:59.080 No theme, just your horoscope for the week. Kicking it 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:02.240 off with airy, let's go. If you aren't thinking clearly, 0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:05.359 you might need a break from the news, comments, gossip, 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:08.840 et cetera. Your week is a seven point five Taurus. 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:11.000 You want to step up for someone right now that's 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:14.400 being taken advantage of. Well, this isn't your battle. Your 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:16.520 week is an eight point zero. Oh sorry, your week 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:17.360 is a six point nine I. 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:20.679 Read Oh you can't take it back. 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:22.520 Sorry, I'm sorry that with you. 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:23.800 That's Gemini's week. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:26.440 Gemini, trust your instincts. This week. 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:29.200 You've made a few wrong decisions, so you're questioning your gut. 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:32.880 But stop your week is an eight point oh Cancer. 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:35.600 Sometimes all it takes to find success is to change 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:36.240 your mindset. 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:38.440 Your week is a nine point oh Leo. 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:42.040 Something you were expecting to happen hasn't happened yet, don't 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.040 give up on the dream. Your week is a seven 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:45.680 point nine Virgo. 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:49.080 Someone is testing your boundaries, but do not give in. 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.320 Your week is a six point nine Libra. 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.400 Keep drama at bay, the best way you can. Your 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:55.960 week is an eight point five. 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:59.920 And maybe your parka. Maybe that's like strangling your blood flow. 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:02.360 The biggest park come. 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:05.560 Scorpio. 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:09.120 The universe is sending compensation for what you have endured. 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:12.920 Your week is a nine point three Sagittarius. 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:16.480 All problems have solutions. You might be struggling to find one, 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:18.600 but it will come. Your week is a seven point 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.160 seven Capricorn. 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:23.799 You need to overcome a power struggle. Show your strength 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:27.159 while retaining the compassion. Your week is an eight point 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:29.480 zero Aquarius. 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:31.840 Be careful who you can fide in. Your week is 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:34.080 a six point nine and Pisces. 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:37.880 Dwelling on something that can't happen will only bring frustration 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:39.360 and disappointment into your life. 0:04:39.680 --> 0:04:41.840 Your week is a seven point five all right. 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:43.080 So Basically you're saying you don't want to be a 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:48.360 query I or tore this week. It's an easy way 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:49.920 to summon up to take it with the brain assault. 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.359 They were under sevens in terms of the greatest system. 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:58.520 All right, zoom meetings. I know, give a zoom meeting. 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:00.520 How would you appreciate it ten if there wasn't a 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.480 six point nine? If you lose later we have all 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:05.039 the time. The thing for me is like we're there 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:07.359 on time. I like to get there early, and the 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:08.159 host is not there. 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:11.119 Where's the host? The host should arrive a few minutes early. 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:13.640 I agree, you know people have things. 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:16.440 Going on, But if you want two hosts, you're gonna 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:19.640 send out that thing I can't even understand via email. 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:21.200 Well, I don't know where to click. Put some eye up, 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:22.440 click and invention in the right one. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.520 Then you need to show up three minutes before so 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:29.159 we can get in there, do our grid's view and start. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:34.119 But anyway, the question is how long do you zoom 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:37.040 before you start to lose people's attention and they zone out. 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.120 I guess they asked a bunch of people here in 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.520 California and around the country, and they say seventy one 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:44.000 percent of people said they check out of a zoom 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:47.360 in a meeting by twenty seven minutes. 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:50.880 Oh, I keep my meetings at twenty minutes. 0:05:51.440 --> 0:05:52.840 Oh that's a dream. 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:54.120 Well, they're all. 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:56.159 Back to back, and I'll have ten of them like today, 0:05:56.160 --> 0:05:57.359 I have ten of them in a row. 0:05:57.839 --> 0:05:59.839 So they all go back. 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:02.400 To back and it's just fifteen to twenty is like 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:03.400 the perfect sweet spot. 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.279 Yeah, twenty seven people are lost. 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:10.920 That's when they start squinting, and yeah, their concentration wonders. 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:13.640 But hosts get there on time, get there early. Yeah, 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:17.360 all right, today's quote. Every day we give you a quote. 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:19.760 Maybe set the tone. You have to be where you 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:21.680 are to get where you need to go. 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:25.080 This FM headlines with siciny Well. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:28.800 Kenya dominated yesterday's thirty ninth LA Marathon, taking the top 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:32.000 two spots in the men's field and the top spot 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:34.280 in the women's race in the second largest field in 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:37.680 the event's history. Dune Part two is currently the highest 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:41.240 grossing film of twenty twenty four the domestic and worldwide 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:44.800 box office. It's expected to surpass the five hundred million 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:48.799 mark today. The USC women's basketball team held the number 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:52.400 one seed in the NCAA tournament, the program's highest seed 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:56.360 since nineteen eighty six, and there were no winning tickets 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:59.359 sold in the latest drawing of the Mega Millions Lottery, 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:02.800 pushing the for tomorrow's drawing to eight hundred and seventy 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:06.560 five million, the tenth largest US lottery jackpot ever. 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:14.240 On air with Ryan Seacrest, Oh right, tis Monday, Planter's 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:16.440 fatcheriety is in full form this morning. 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:17.840 I didn't even run the marathon. 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:19.160 Oh yeah, I'm right. 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:21.640 What is it when you wake up the morning after 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:24.080 the marathon with foot paint and you didn't run it? 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:26.280 Maybe you're just there in spirit? 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.520 Probably probably so connected. What a beautiful day. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:32.000 I mean Dodger Stadium to Century City. I mean, think 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:36.320 how long that drive isn't. 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:36.960 It's not only that, it's the it's the like the 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:38.080 elevation for me. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:40.560 Yeah, thing up is not good. 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:43.280 I run a half marathon in San Francisco and never again. 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:45.720 That's still a. 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:49.120 Great accomplishment like this, Like Sanrancisco up Lombardi Street. 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:52.080 I don't even know what streets they were, but yeah, sure. 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:54.000 What's the famous crooked one, the one that curled? Isn't 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:54.640 that Lombardy? 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:57.680 I think it's famous there's one street that just goes 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:01.680 straight up and it's like a snake you're talking about. 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:02.640 Okay, what's the name of it. 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:03.960 I don't know the name of it, but I know. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:05.280 Both of us know what we're talking about, but we 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:06.840 still know the name of it. That's our brain. That's 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:08.440 our brain. You're closest Lombard Street. 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:12.520 Lombard, but the plural would be Lombardi right in the 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:13.520 time would be more than one. 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:15.800 Really, oh really street? 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:16.000 Right? 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:17.040 Uh? 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:20.200 Spring begins tomorrow. The brackets were announced yesterday. Did you 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:23.920 see men's congratulations Cal State Long Beach the only local 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:27.840 team to make the tourney, right tiny, They're gonna play 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:29.600 your team Thursday morning. 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:33.439 At eleven Arizona and women's. 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:36.680 Lots of local teams got in, So congratulations you as 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:37.560 Sea Women's. 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:39.520 You see l A, You see. 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:44.440 Irvine and Cal Baptist out of Riverside all making the tournament. 0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:47.160 I think, to this day still I'm like Lombardy Street. 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:49.920 I'm not quite sure that I follow the brackets either. 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:53.520 I don't either until if I know the team in 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:54.400 the top. Whatever. 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:57.400 Here's the other thing I almost called you, guys. I 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:00.200 was flipping through my feed and there it is is 0:09:00.200 --> 0:09:04.120 the headline? Marriage rates are up, divorce. 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:04.920 Rates or down? 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:05.600 That's right? 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:09.800 What are the odds that that headline comes out the 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:12.880 year that Tanya and Ruby get engaged to be married. 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:13.720 I think it's all meant to be. 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:14.360 Mm hmmm. 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:16.640 So now I think marriage is a great idea. 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.920 So are you thinking differently about marriage yourself? 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:19.400 Not at all. 0:09:19.440 --> 0:09:24.240 I'm thinking for you guys, it's actually perfect. Yeah, but 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:26.520 I was so excited the pandemic. Did you hear the 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:29.160 pandemic caused the marriage rate to plummet? 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:29.720 Right? 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:34.040 But now it's going back up and divorce rates are down. Ruby, 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:36.280 did you hear that divorce rates are downs? 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:37.319 This is fabulous news. 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:40.280 It's great timing because they were. I feel like they 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:41.240 were just everywhere. 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:42.800 I told you this ten years ago. 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:44.600 You told me they were coming back. 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:46.440 I told you that this is like down. 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:48.360 What do you mean divorce is not a thing? 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:50.320 I mean, in my eyes, it's not. 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:53.319 I feel like divorce was a thing because women had 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:55.560 to marry to survive. And we don't have to do 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.760 that anymore, because we can open our own bank accounts 0:09:57.800 --> 0:09:58.840 and buy our own homes. 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:01.600 And now once you get get married, it's about surviving 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:02.360 inside that marriage. 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:10.640 And he's not wrong. Marriage is not so bliss as 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:12.000 you think. It's a lot of work. 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:14.160 Can I tell you're gonna be very happy about this timey? 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:16.160 Do you know why they say that divorce rates are down? 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:18.320 Why therapy? 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:22.360 Oh my people are actually talking about their issues and 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:26.280 sad relationships with other people that are qualified to help 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:27.679 before it gets really bad. 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:30.600 Yeah, because you know what the thing was that I 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:34.040 really realized through therapy with myself, and I think we 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:35.120 all do this, but. 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:38.240 You you only know what you know, do you know 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:38.640 what I mean? 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:41.200 Like, so you have these preconceived notions, you have the 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:43.079 way that you handle things because that's just how you've 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:46.800 been doing your whole life, and you expect another person 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:48.880 to be the exact same way, and it's just not 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:50.680 the reality. And so it's like, for me, it was 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:54.080 very humbling. Therapy is a very humbling experience because they 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:56.840 really say, oh, well. 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:57.640 You guys do it together. 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:59.200 Not necessarily, no, we don't do it together. 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:02.440 But like I well, I think this indicates that you 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:03.880 will probably for sure. 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:05.960 But like I think that it's a very good thing 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:08.160 because it just kind of humbles you in that sense. 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:11.760 But would you say you have a because there's two 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:14.280 categories of marriage they say that are very very common 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:17.880 now to make it work. One is a romantic marriage 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:21.200 and the others a companion marriage. Do you have a 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:23.240 romantic marriage or a companion marriage? 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:27.480 Mine is if I had to choose more companion. 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.640 But I get no, that's what's going to last longer. 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:32.400 I think, yeah, I'm separate. 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:34.640 I'm just saying this is what they're seeing. The trend 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:37.480 is right now with married people. They're like the romantic 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:41.000 marriages many times burn out faster than the companion. 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:44.800 Marriage, and they could be maybe masked with unfortunately social 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:48.439 media and people want to show their romantic gestures through. 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:48.840 All of that. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:51.160 I feel like sometimes that's saying is true. Like anybody 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:53.679 who flashes their love so much on social media, it's 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:54.840 like you're hiding something else. 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:58.920 Well, I think it's like you're you're choosing more of 0:11:59.240 --> 0:12:05.040 your like like your friend than your passion person. I 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:07.800 mean that's the trend these days. You're choosing more of 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:11.960 your best friend than your passion partner. Okay, so anyway, 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.480 if you just joined us, divorce rates are down. Where 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:17.320 were you when you heard it? Where were you when. 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:21.839 It is We're all gonna make it, guys, all right, 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:25.120 everybody's all just giddy over there in the back room. 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:27.600 Have you heard? Have you heard? If you just got here, 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:28.240 I don't know if you know. 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:33.440 Uh, Marianna has come in, saying and she came in early. 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:36.240 Mark, thank you? 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:38.559 Why I have to throw under the bus. I thought 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:40.600 it was early. Now is right on time? Almost late, 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:44.080 basically saying almost late. So you came in and you 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:46.120 said you have a crush on a guy? 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:48.320 Yeah, I was talking to the girls back here. I 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:49.840 think I have a crush on someone. 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:52.480 This what do you think? Or do you no? 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:54.319 I think I do. I just don't want to admit it. 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:58.480 Well is this how do we even start with? Who's 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:00.880 the guy? I guess that's the Yeah. 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:02.480 So he's just a guy in the friend group, like 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:05.840 my friend's boyfriend's friends, and he's always around. 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:09.160 Okay, how long has he always been around? For like 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:12.800 a year or so? And have you ever thought about 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:14.079 hanging out with him? Well? 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:16.040 I always thought he was cute, but it was like, okay, 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:17.480 like I never really talked to him that much. 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:19.880 So and so what changed? Why'd you talk to him 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:20.040 on the. 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:23.240 Sun because we already went out a couple of times, 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.880 and this last time that we went out, he invited 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:29.240 me to go to the gym with him, and I 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:31.400 don't know if he like heard me, but I was like, Oh, yeah, 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:33.040 I'm gonna leave because I'm gonna go to the gym soon. 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:36.000 And then later that he was after that, he was like, Oh, 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:37.360 are you gonna go to the gym or did you 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:38.960 go to the gym Marty? And I was like, oh, 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:41.040 I'm gonna leave right now, and he was like, we 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:42.079 should just gym together. 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:45.800 And I was like, okay, Jim a verb, Was this 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:48.079 your first time hanging out together alone? 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:50.880 No, we had already done that before, like hung out 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:53.840 a couple of times, but it's always only after we 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:56.040 hang out with the friend group. So he's like never 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:59.320 like reached out aside from hanging out with the friend 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.480 group after we hang out with the friend ger. 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:03.199 Here's what I need to understand. 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:07.760 What makes the difference, What crosses the line, what opens 0:14:07.800 --> 0:14:10.880 the door to become the crush? What did he do 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:12.360 to green light a crush? 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:15.280 Well, he'll do certain things like the other day, I 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:18.160 don't know if he really means to like give me 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:20.320 a kiss on the cheek, but it's not like his 0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:22.040 full lips on the cheek. He'll just do like the 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:24.320 little you know, like you know, and then he'll say 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:26.760 that yeah the side hello, yeah, but when he looks 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:30.440 like yeah, hello exactly. But when he was saying bye 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:32.280 to everybody else, I noticed that he didn't do that 0:14:32.320 --> 0:14:33.000 to everyone else. 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:36.360 So I'm like, oh, so you don't know if it's romantic. 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:38.560 Yeah, I'm not knowing if it's romantic, Like do you 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:40.720 see me as a friend or do you also like me? 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:42.000 Oh that's the worst. 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:45.400 Yeah, I think these signs indicate like but he doesn't 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:46.280 know if you like him. 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:46.880 Yeah. 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:48.320 I think you guys are both thinking you're in the 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.160 friend zone when in reality you both just. 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:52.760 Want to did you do the same workout? 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:53.200 Do? What? 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:55.200 Did you do the same workout? Yeah? 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:57.360 He was like showing me how to do these little workouts. 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:58.440 I'm like running out of breath. 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:01.160 I'm like, all right, hold on, okay, so cute. 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:03.920 So it wasn't okay. Here's here's how you know, because 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:05.720 if you guys would have gone to the gym, he 0:15:05.760 --> 0:15:08.040 would have gone a separate way and like done his 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:09.760 own thing. But the fact that he stayed with you 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:12.760 the whole time was almost like his way of being 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:14.200 cute and it's like kind of a date. 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:17.440 Yeah, you can't assume these things because you just can't 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:17.920 assume that. 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.760 I know, I'm scared of like just getting my hopes 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:21.440 of I'm thinking that he all have. 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:25.760 The solution, what is it? There's a lot to carry 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:28.280 the solution here. You know, there's a lot of pressure 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:28.960 very much. 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:32.080 Okay, Yeah, I feel for you because I'm like, this 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:32.720 better be right. 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:35.360 It's a burden tab the solution here to carry that 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:35.920 on these. 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:39.520 Well, so claiming go on with your solution. 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.120 So didn't you just tell me that there's a friend 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:44.760 of a boyfriend's friend friend friend. Aren't there enough people 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:47.080 that you could go to to see if he's vibing 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:50.480 on you, to find out sort of behind the scenes. 0:15:50.200 --> 0:15:51.120 It's actually going to do. 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.480 Yeah, that's a good idea, but also I don't want 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:54.440 everybody to find out. 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:58.880 I don't know the idea the right one because spread 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:00.520 and then they can also like tea seeing them and 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:02.280 it can be like a weird, annoying thing. 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:03.800 I just said. I don't know. 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:05.280 I think a guy inviting you to the gym and 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:06.920 then kiss you on the side of the cheek afterwards 0:16:06.960 --> 0:16:09.840 is a pretty good sign that like they're interested, but 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:10.640 you don't know. 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:13.000 For sure, Like what if you see me as a friend? 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:15.920 Okay, well we got to take the leap of faith 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:17.440 here at some point, either we got to go behind 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.200 the scenes or we got to go out with him again. 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:19.800 How'd you leave it? 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.080 We just we didn't. He just said bye to me, 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:24.680 and then he's like drive safe. And then another thing 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.760 is like he'll always text me out of his way 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:28.840 to tell me to drive save when. 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:32.000 But he out of the friend group. 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:34.680 We got to keep it friend group for now because 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:36.120 the next thing, you know, she's going to be ubering 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:39.000 to a sushi date and he's going to order tea. 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:42.800