Speaker 1: Rooking jumbles second date updates. No, normally, when we do
Speaker 1: second date updates, we talked to the person and we go,
Speaker 1: what do you think went wrong? Why are you not
Speaker 1: getting a call back? And they may be able to
Speaker 1: cite one instance or a lot of times, like I
Speaker 1: don't know, I have no clue. Well, the guy on
Speaker 1: the phone for a second date update today has multiple
Speaker 1: reasons why he thinks he's not getting a call back,
Speaker 1: So that should be fun. Let's start listing them, shall we? Mike,
Speaker 1: what's up? How are you going? Go ahead? It sounds
Speaker 1: like your first date was not the best. You know,
Speaker 1: I didn't think it was that bad in the moment,
Speaker 1: but looking back now, I'm starting to kind of put
Speaker 1: the pieces together, and I kind of take I figured
Speaker 1: that out. I don't know. Is it something where you
Speaker 1: only have yourself to blame or were they circumstances outside
Speaker 1: your control? Well, like I guess someone outside of my control.
Speaker 1: But I think I kind of just got awkward with it.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I think it was made. So what's
Speaker 1: the name of the girl that you want to call today?
Speaker 1: We girl all day? Is Andrea? And where did you
Speaker 1: meet Andrea? On tender nicely, So it started off great. Anyway.
Speaker 1: I love what anybody says that there's such shame attached
Speaker 1: to it when it comes out of your mouth. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's not the place you want to tell your mom, like, hey, look,
Speaker 1: I come on, Tender. You know you don't want to
Speaker 1: take Tenderella home. All right, so tell us a little
Speaker 1: bit about Tenderella before you tell us what went wrong
Speaker 1: on the date. All right. Well, obviously I swiped right,
Speaker 1: so I thought she was high the right off the bat.
Speaker 1: She's a good looking girl. And then as I was
Speaker 1: looking through her pictures and stuff, let's noticed she was athletic.
Speaker 1: She looked like she played sports and worked out. So,
Speaker 1: you know, she responded back to me and we started talking.
Speaker 1: She's really saffy. So I like that, you know, kind
Speaker 1: of the dansing back and forth. How long did you
Speaker 1: guys chat before you decided to actually go on a date.
Speaker 1: It was about a week, so I think that's kind
Speaker 1: of long for Tender. Yeah, it is. Normally it's like
Speaker 1: ten minutes, right, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like, well, this is a long relationship. You
Speaker 1: guys were practically Tender married at that point. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I was thinking about changing my status. Tell us about
Speaker 1: the date. What did you guys actually do? So on
Speaker 1: the date, you know, we went to an oyster bar
Speaker 1: um and he actually, yeah, I thought it was nice.
Speaker 1: She said I could pick her up um, which I
Speaker 1: thought was that okay, all right, you know, actually get
Speaker 1: to give to her place, so I when to pick
Speaker 1: her up. And that's where I think I tarted losing
Speaker 1: control of the situation. But you started losing control before
Speaker 1: the situation even barely began. It sounds like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was listening to music in the car. I wasn't
Speaker 1: saying attention, you know, it was all excited about her.
Speaker 1: And I walked her into my vehicle, you know, if
Speaker 1: in the door floor, trying to be a gentleman and
Speaker 1: then to get in a car. I turn on the
Speaker 1: radio and then just dam like right in her face.
Speaker 1: This music just starts blaring and it's just like car
Speaker 1: about ing. I'm like, oh, like crazy, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's so red it was so embarrassing. Did you did
Speaker 1: you apologize right away? I shouldn't apologize. I've in the
Speaker 1: right thing and do it instead just kind of like
Speaker 1: cut it down and so I'm like, do you listen
Speaker 1: the little Wayne And she's like, no, no, all right,
Speaker 1: I could see that suppression. Yeah, yeah, I think it
Speaker 1: was She's like, what's on this guy's mind? Already picking
Speaker 1: me up? Okay, I know, I know the tender and
Speaker 1: then the music. I don't think it was looking good
Speaker 1: for me, right that? Did you recover from that? Or
Speaker 1: did she seem disturbed by your music selection the whole night?
Speaker 1: It was a little awkward at first, obviously, but I
Speaker 1: think I started recovering, you know, getting well by the
Speaker 1: time we got to the restaurant. You know, we were talking, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was good, and how how was the Oyster Bar?
Speaker 1: Oyster Bar was delicious? I meant, how is your time
Speaker 1: with her at the Oyster Bar? Sorry? Okay, Well, the
Speaker 1: time was a little awkward because, you know, like I said,
Speaker 1: we were talking, everything's cool, and then I thought it'd
Speaker 1: be funny and trying to make a little joke about
Speaker 1: you know, wichers acts and this. She was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: well in my head it was funny. It was funny
Speaker 1: in my head, my eyes. And this is after she
Speaker 1: got in your car with a song that was blaring
Speaker 1: about sex. And then you're like hey, these are apphrodisiacts
Speaker 1: like I think the only thing I could have said
Speaker 1: afterwards to make it more awkwards give like a little
Speaker 1: wink or something like, I don't matter what was your
Speaker 1: intention of the state? I mean, I actually liked our
Speaker 1: bantering on Tender and stuff. I thought she's really funny
Speaker 1: and cool, and I've had hookups before off tender obviously,
Speaker 1: but I kind of wanted this to be a little
Speaker 1: bit something more. Okay, Okay, So after all that, did
Speaker 1: it seem like she liked you at the end of
Speaker 1: the day or was she just trying to get out
Speaker 1: of there once again? We started thinking back up and
Speaker 1: then we get to her place. I started walking there
Speaker 1: to her door, and then you know, I saw the
Speaker 1: stars were aligning. This is it. You know, I've done
Speaker 1: this anytime before. I leaned in for the kiss, and
Speaker 1: then she's just kind of like, not not tonight. How'd
Speaker 1: you feel when she said that? I was a little
Speaker 1: bit called of guard, honestly, because that's never happened to
Speaker 1: me before. Not trying the brag, but I'm a pretty
Speaker 1: good looking dude and that's just turned down to ride
Speaker 1: at the door steps. You know, I feel like There's
Speaker 1: two ways you can say that. You can say that
Speaker 1: coily where you're like, not tonight, gotta work harder for it,
Speaker 1: or you can say not ever. You know, looking back
Speaker 1: at it, it kind of seemed like she's just a
Speaker 1: little bit irritated. So I didn't know that she was,
Speaker 1: does me? Does? They thought like just like she needed
Speaker 1: a moment to get away from tonight, and they because
Speaker 1: think things through decompress a little bit. Yeah. Have you
Speaker 1: tried to contact her since your date? Yeah? I reached
Speaker 1: out here and tried texting her and calling her because
Speaker 1: she digging me her number, um, but she never really responded.
Speaker 1: You should have just sent her a link to that
Speaker 1: little Wayne song you were listening to. I wanted a
Speaker 1: box of oysters. Yeah, all right, man, well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song. Come back, call her and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, then all right, hold on Brook and
Speaker 1: Jubil in the Morning. Seconds. All right, if you're just
Speaker 1: tuning in for today's second date update. Oh wow, sorry,
Speaker 1: song kind of came out of nowhere. It's Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. That's exactly what happened to Mike
Speaker 1: on his first date. He thinks that the girl might
Speaker 1: not be calling him back because a string of things
Speaker 1: went wrong. He met her on tender. They decided to
Speaker 1: go out to an oyster bar, but when they first
Speaker 1: got into his car, he forgot that his radio was
Speaker 1: on to a very inappropriate song. He turned his car on,
Speaker 1: and then I had to look over here and go, uh,
Speaker 1: sorry about that, romantic Mike, Are you ready to do
Speaker 1: your second date? Update? Absolutely? Is that kind of like
Speaker 1: the song that was playing in your car when she
Speaker 1: got in? Yeah, except it was way, way worse worse Mike,
Speaker 1: she denied your kiss at the end of the night.
Speaker 1: Is that actually why you want to call her? You know?
Speaker 1: Actually I really feel like there could be something way
Speaker 1: more than just a little tender hook up. All right, well,
Speaker 1: I'll dollar phone of her right now, get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out why she's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: All right, We'll nervous, but all right, here we go. Hello. Hi,
Speaker 1: is Andrea there? Yeah? Did she Hello Andrea? How are you?
Speaker 1: My name is Jubil and I host a radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Um, okay, how
Speaker 1: are you doing today? Good? Um? I'm sorry. Did you
Speaker 1: say you were calling from radio? Yes? A morning radio
Speaker 1: show what's going on? We do a segment on our
Speaker 1: show called the second Date Update. What that is is
Speaker 1: if you go out on a date with somebody and
Speaker 1: then don't call them back after they get in contact
Speaker 1: with us to see if we can get you on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out what went wrong. Okay, and
Speaker 1: so somebody just emailed us about you. This is so weird.
Speaker 1: His name is Mike, and you guys met on tender.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Mike. Yes, Mike has been trying to
Speaker 1: contact you since your date, but apparently you haven't answered
Speaker 1: any of his phone calls or text messages and he
Speaker 1: didn't take the hint. Apparently, well, he took the hint.
Speaker 1: He knows that you don't want to get back to
Speaker 1: him for some reason, but he doesn't know why. So
Speaker 1: he asked if we could get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and get that answer on the radio. Yes, did you
Speaker 1: like Mike at all? Well? I what did he tell you? Guys?
Speaker 1: What you know? He told us how you met. He
Speaker 1: also admitted to us that he feels like your first
Speaker 1: date was kind of awkward. There was a point, I
Speaker 1: guess where he picked you up and you got in
Speaker 1: the car and he had a really inappropriate song blaring
Speaker 1: on the radio. He thought you might have felt awkward
Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, that was weird. He also told us
Speaker 1: how you turned him down for a kiss at the
Speaker 1: end of the day and you said no, not tonight
Speaker 1: or something like that. He told you a lot, Yeah
Speaker 1: he did. He told us all about your date. He
Speaker 1: also said that he really likes you and wants to
Speaker 1: see you again. Honestly, the most shocking part of the
Speaker 1: night was when he came to pick me up. He
Speaker 1: looks nothing like his cinder profile. He catfished you. No, no,
Speaker 1: it's something he didn't like, Like it wasn't like give
Speaker 1: you a different person. He had bruises all over his face.
Speaker 1: What didn't wait when he came to like, he looks
Speaker 1: like he got the chicked out of him? Really what
Speaker 1: he did not mention that huge black eye that lit
Speaker 1: like and I I was like, oh my god, what happened?
Speaker 1: What did he say? He's so weird. He told me
Speaker 1: that he like does that sometimes gets into like fights
Speaker 1: with his friends, like mm a style in his backyard,
Speaker 1: like once a month, like like a fight club thing
Speaker 1: they fight each other. And so he was just super
Speaker 1: like whatever, like no big deal, and so like just
Speaker 1: looks like that a lot of time because he and
Speaker 1: his friends beat the shit out of each other. So
Speaker 1: he does like Novice style mma in his backyard, I guess,
Speaker 1: and he thought. I mean, was he saying this to
Speaker 1: impress you or no? I asked him why his face
Speaker 1: looked like scrambled things. He was like, glad, I just
Speaker 1: do this, not a big deal, like holy casual, So
Speaker 1: no big deal. Me and my friends just fight in
Speaker 1: the backyard once a month. Yeah, it was so weird.
Speaker 1: I mean, at least warned me that you're going to
Speaker 1: look like you know, he's greater went on it like
Speaker 1: I would you have gone out with him though? If
Speaker 1: he would have said, Hey, by the way, this is
Speaker 1: what I do in my spare time, and I'm going
Speaker 1: to show up with a black eye, that's so weird.
Speaker 1: So weird, what kind of psychological issues going to beat
Speaker 1: the crap out of each other? Like? What is that?
Speaker 1: He didn't tell us any of that. He just told
Speaker 1: us about your date and it was all good, except
Speaker 1: for those couple of weird things. He didn't tell us
Speaker 1: that he showed up and looked like somebody had beaten
Speaker 1: him with a bag of pennies. It was horrifying and
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe this. I want to know a little
Speaker 1: bit more about his backyard, mma, ring you want to
Speaker 1: get in on it? Yeah? Do you want to get
Speaker 1: in on that action? Let's ask him about it, Andrew,
Speaker 1: because he's actually on the other line listening and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. What. Yeah, now he is not
Speaker 1: on the phone, Yes he is, Mike, What what are
Speaker 1: you doing him doing this? Woman? Tell me you could
Speaker 1: just texted me or called me and then we have
Speaker 1: to do this. We didn't have to do this, period.
Speaker 1: You could take up my hand and just let it go.
Speaker 1: You're beating your number, so obviously you're cool to give
Speaker 1: me your number, so you should expect a phone call
Speaker 1: or attack. What my god? Okay, Andrew, that first off,
Speaker 1: my face looked great right now. I've never broken a
Speaker 1: bone or anything. It was just a little beat up.
Speaker 1: And for the record, I want so they're go just
Speaker 1: a little beat up. That wasn't even that. Bet normally
Speaker 1: will say my face with to a grinder, but this
Speaker 1: time it was fine. Oh my god, And that's supposed
Speaker 1: to be attractive to me, Andrew. Look, I had a
Speaker 1: fight the night before with my bros. So I don't
Speaker 1: know what the woman you're bros. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: didn't think it's gonna be that big of a deal. Honestly,
Speaker 1: you saw by my pictures that I like athletic things,
Speaker 1: and in at athletic things is one thing. Beating out
Speaker 1: of each other in a backyard may be different. It's
Speaker 1: making me better. It's making me better. Like, I don't
Speaker 1: understand what big deal, but I don't. I don't even
Speaker 1: know why you're so upset. But you should be excited
Speaker 1: to have like friends that enjoy hanging out me. So
Speaker 1: I should say something about my social life. If I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about yourseluce of life, I'm I'm learning everything I
Speaker 1: need to know. I mean, what were you doing last
Speaker 1: day other night before? They were just petting your cat
Speaker 1: and watching Netflix? Or what are you jesting me? Is
Speaker 1: that what's happening right now? Wow? Is this your Is
Speaker 1: this your attend to like get me out on a
Speaker 1: second date with you? Seriously? No, I just don't understand why. Also,
Speaker 1: you're coming out like bashing my face, which it already
Speaker 1: was bashed enough. Don't need any of that. So you
Speaker 1: were placers and blackwoods groblaying onto your chest. Well, it
Speaker 1: was just I keep telling you, it's just from the
Speaker 1: night before. It was just a little cut, a little cut, weed,
Speaker 1: a little bit. I'm a man, I can handle it.
Speaker 1: It's not a big deal. Hell do you think that
Speaker 1: someone wants to kiss a person who's bleeding all over
Speaker 1: their room? Oh my god? Seriously he leaned towards me.
Speaker 1: I was like, seriously, you want me to kiss that? Hell? Hell, Mike,
Speaker 1: I support your mma backyard fighting if you want to
Speaker 1: do that, But why don't you Why didn't you warn
Speaker 1: her though, like, hey, I'm gonna show up in my face,
Speaker 1: is gonna be bruised. Honestly, it was just at night before,
Speaker 1: you know, and I thought, you know, hey, I didn't
Speaker 1: think it looks that bad. Honestly, in comparison to other
Speaker 1: times Bruise told me it wouldn't be a big deal.
Speaker 1: I thought she'd be cool with it. Why would you
Speaker 1: plan to fight the night before a first date? Like,
Speaker 1: if I mean, if that's gonna be your hobby, maybe
Speaker 1: wait till after. I mean, I get what you're saying there,
Speaker 1: But we planned this every month. It's the same day,
Speaker 1: so I wasn't gonna miss it. You know, it's the
Speaker 1: same day every month. It's more important than her. Look sometimes,
Speaker 1: you know, I go through there, I only have like
Speaker 1: a scratch on my face or anything. Completely fine. So
Speaker 1: like what that night, a little bit rougher, I would admit,
Speaker 1: but whatever. I didn't think it'd be that big of
Speaker 1: a deal. And right now things look fine. But you
Speaker 1: should come out to you now. Yeah, I'm gonna thank you.
Speaker 1: Are you sure, Andrea? Because I would like to ask
Speaker 1: you out on a second date with Mike. We will
Speaker 1: pay for it if you'll go out with him again.
Speaker 1: I'd rather punch myself in the face than go on
Speaker 1: another date. But it's really not that big of a deal.
Speaker 1: I don't know when you're looking this a big deal.
Speaker 1: Look I look great right now. I look I was
Speaker 1: better than my tinter picture. Honestly, listen, I'm not in
Speaker 1: the miss. I'm sure there's somebody else out there who
Speaker 1: will totally appreciate it. Maybe, but out Mike, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: No second date, man, that's a bummer. Man. I really
Speaker 1: liked her. Yeah, I know. Hey, you know what, Mike.
Speaker 1: Sometimes in dating it can give you the upper cut
Speaker 1: and you can be up against the ropes. But I
Speaker 1: know that you can get back on track and stand
Speaker 1: up like the true champion you are and get back
Speaker 1: in the dating world. Awesome, bro, what's good to this one? Now?
Speaker 1: I want you to come fight with me. I am
Speaker 1: not going to one of your backyard brawls, Mike. I
Speaker 1: don't want to do it. Morning,