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Speaker 2: That's not one name. I making one as able.

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Speaker 1: But here it shitly gar the sheepert.

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Speaker 3: This welcome back, Let's go back.

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Speaker 4: Welcome back.

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Speaker 3: Good mama, bad choice, Let's give choice.

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Speaker 5: I'm a cake, I'm I mean, I'm Lenna, I'm Mila.

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Speaker 4: No, and I'm I.

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Speaker 3: And I'm Erica and today episode.

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Speaker 4: And me and Jamila and okay, let's let's just clear

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Speaker 4: something up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we host the show. We ask you questions. You

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Speaker 3: don't repeat what we're saying. When you wait your turn

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Speaker 3: to speak. Can you tell us your aunt? Then you

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Speaker 3: tell us what you think or what you feel? Okay, cool,

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Speaker 3: so we plan. Okay, how is everybody's weekend? How did

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Speaker 3: did you? Did you have a good weekend?

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Speaker 2: Guys?

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Speaker 6: What'd you do this weekend? What else did we do?

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Speaker 6: And we could you go on a hike or something?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hi, you want to hike? But who let's.

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Speaker 4: All friend either West or else or friends?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm doing anything on the hype? Like, was it

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Speaker 3: pretty cool? What would you do it? Did you see

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Speaker 6: Reptiles of any sort of what's a reptile?

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Speaker 3: It's like a reptiles and a family. It's amphibian.

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Speaker 5: No, I kind of seeing amphibian, But I think that's wrong, right,

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Speaker 5: is it? Amphibian amphibians? Like this is when when parenting

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Speaker 5: gets real tricky. I started asking you questions that you

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Speaker 5: you should know the answers to, and you're like, am

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Speaker 5: I dumb? Reptiles are like a sort of hey, don't

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Speaker 5: same category snakes, lizards, iguanas, those are reptiles.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, did you see any Did you se any reptiles

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Speaker 3: on this hike? You didn't see a reptile. You didn't

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Speaker 3: see any lizards. Did you see lizard? No, you didn't

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Speaker 4: I saw.

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Speaker 8: I couldn't see it, but I saw. I didn't want

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Speaker 8: the highest rock me too?

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Speaker 3: M hmm. What else did you do this weekend?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What did you do this weekend?

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Speaker 6: Called?

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Speaker 3: Too much? I did too much?

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Speaker 5: What I did? I lost my mind?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's wrong with you? Who I think

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Speaker 3: I am? I before?

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Speaker 5: So we had a good mom's hike meetup For those

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Speaker 5: on the newsletter, Yes, if.

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Speaker 6: You guys subscribe to our newsletter, then you would have

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Speaker 6: known about our secret meet up. It was very very

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Speaker 6: exclusive and very secret, very exclusive meetup at Griffith.

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Speaker 5: Park and i'mre's also very like many exclusive drops and

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Speaker 6: And if you did come then you got a pin.

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Speaker 6: You got a good mom's bad choices pen. So never know,

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Speaker 6: you could come up on we want to meet up.

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Speaker 6: You know, no guarantees, no guarantees. But it was a good.

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Speaker 3: Time, except that the hike.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if Erica knew was aware when she

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Speaker 3: But first of all, you took the hike with me before,

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Speaker 5: But anyway, we like a bunch of moms. Some people

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Speaker 5: did bring their kids, some people have kids, but everyone.

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Speaker 3: On three and a half mile. It was not three

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Speaker 5: We we checked, you googled it, we checked the our

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Speaker 3: It was three miles. It was like three miles.

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Speaker 6: I wonder I really wanted me to carry her. I

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Speaker 3: It was actually really nice.

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Speaker 5: But the night before that, I my friend was in town.

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Speaker 3: She wanted to go out.

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Speaker 5: The Afro was the Afro go go party when Yoursion

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Speaker 3: Afro afro What is it?

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Speaker 6: all the Afro parties, the Afro parties.

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Speaker 3: Well, I just feel like this is discovered new and

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Speaker 3: I discover people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, music is good, people dance, There's.

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Speaker 5: So many like brown black faces. It's just refreshing. It's

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Speaker 3: It's just normal, regular good times. You know you waited

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Speaker 6: Let's just get to the kids, you know, because Okay,

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Speaker 6: we's tired, and so he's tired, and it's Mother's Day almost,

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Speaker 5: Need to make it easy, make it easy on ourselves. Okay,

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Speaker 5: what do you guys know what mother's days?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what Mother's days?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 3: Your Mother's Day what do we? What do?

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Speaker 6: What do you do for mom's on Mother's Day?

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Speaker 3: Work? Oh? You work? Do you give mommies lots of

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Speaker 3: kisses on Mother's Day? Yes? And lots of hugs make

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, remember them? What's your favorite thing about

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Speaker 4: Play like them?

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Speaker 3: What about you?

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Speaker 4: I play your ground there?

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Speaker 6: That's your favorite thing about your mom?

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Speaker 3: What else do you think? What's your favorite? Do you

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Speaker 3: know your mommy's favorite color? Green? True?

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Speaker 6: It is true my favorite? That's like you like pik too.

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Speaker 4: You're what you're wearing green?

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Speaker 3: You know what? My favorite thing doing?

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Speaker 5: She's like, I don't care anyway, that's cool. What do

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Speaker 5: you How do you think you got here?

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Speaker 4: What you drive here?

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Speaker 3: So you drove to your mommy's stomach? No?

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Speaker 4: Mmm, I live in dancing?

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Speaker 3: I swim there were you and mommy's tummy?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Were you in there? Since you were swimming around? What

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Speaker 3: Really? Do you remember that? What? What was it? What

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Do you remember where you were before you came

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Speaker 3: to see us. You know what color was it inside

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Speaker 10: Mm oh, do you remember what color it was inside before.

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Speaker 3: You got here?

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Speaker 4: I mean pink?

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Speaker 3: Which one was it? Read or pink? Pink? I thought

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Speaker 3: you said it was red. Interesting? Were you scared like

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Speaker 3: coming coming out coming through? Yeah? You were?

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Speaker 5: But then do you remember like touching me for the

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Speaker 3: You remember coming out and crying? You don't crying really,

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Speaker 3: but have a video and she watches it.

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Speaker 6: I'm not planing it I come out.

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Speaker 3: I was, but I was crying before you. I have

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Speaker 3: the video too. But what is it Daddy has on

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Speaker 3: his phone somewhere? Say you have it? I have it somewhere.

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Speaker 3: I think it's on my old computer.

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Speaker 4: Can you show me one day? Yeah, I'll show you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't have it handy at this very moment.

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Speaker 4: You don't have your old your old chimp.

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Speaker 5: Matt Gala, which is like this big just fancy party

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Speaker 5: and like celebrities get really dressed up.

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Speaker 3: They dressed up.

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Speaker 6: It's this big party where they were they're they're the

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Speaker 6: best outfits they can find yes.

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Speaker 5: So tell us what you think about some of these outfits.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, so this is this is Lala Anthony that one?

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Speaker 3: Do you like that one? What does it look like?

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Speaker 4: They a shiny ring silvery?

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Speaker 4: What is its.

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Speaker 3: Dress? What do you think about her hair? Is that

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Speaker 3: Okay's look at the pizza. The pizza one.

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Speaker 8: I like the rainbow, which I like the I think

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Speaker 3: Like their Yeah, this is this one's pretty hot. I agree.

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Speaker 3: I'm into the colors.

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Speaker 6: Hi die seventies retro friend Mary's when that Egyptian queen?

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Speaker 3: And this is that a fan? Is it a hand fan?

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Speaker 3: Even better? And the fro and the picts. I really

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Speaker 3: like the piza. This you think about that? This is? Okay?

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Speaker 6: So that's the Atrius album and that's his wife.

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Speaker 4: I want pink hair? Is like, I me too?

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Speaker 10: Is there anything you don't like about anything in the hair?

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, actually that's true.

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Speaker 5: Okay, And how about this one.

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Speaker 3: This isn't like a Cinderella. It looks like very much

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Speaker 3: like Cinderella.

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Speaker 4: And is.

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Speaker 7: A Cinderella?

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Speaker 11: Mom?

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Speaker 3: Do you think you wear that dress?

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Speaker 6: I dress?

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Speaker 3: I mean too, it's like it's like lighting up.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I want that dress and I want the hair,

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Speaker 3: Could you do your hair like that? Yes?

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Speaker 8: maybe a witch, I know, and that I know that

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Speaker 8: like a witch. No, I know, be that girl for Hamoween.

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Speaker 8: I read this girl, I get this.

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Speaker 3: Get it's really not compl I mean, I do like

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Speaker 3: the shoes. She looks like, I don't know, TuS vulnerable.

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Speaker 5: It's not want to dress those breasts.

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Speaker 6: That bra doesn't fit her booth. It's like literally just

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Speaker 6: over the doesn't. It's just not Sorry, Nikki, you gotta

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Speaker 3: The train, I like trains. Stop look at the back

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Speaker 5: Won't saved her a little. Okay, what do you guys

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Speaker 3: I why why do you want her hair?

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Speaker 8: Because he's so beautiful and hate and why do you

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Speaker 5: Okay, you love her hair better than you like La

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Speaker 3: I like more.

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Speaker 4: Pita pizza, Pizza.

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Speaker 3: Pizza, Lou Pita.

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Speaker 4: I like the poo pizza.

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Speaker 3: What about this? What do you think about that?

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Speaker 4: That one me too?

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Speaker 3: Us two hats three? It looks like three.

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Speaker 4: She has three. And your eye on her dress.

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Speaker 3: And even her bra was winking. What's that?

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Speaker 4: What do you think that is lips?

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Speaker 5: But do you see the whole face? It's like an

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Speaker 3: My mouth? Those are eyes right there? Who styles her?

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Speaker 3: This is bad? It's like who this is?

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Speaker 5: Mom?

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Speaker 3: It's literally art?

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Speaker 4: Does he have a lie of hat on her?

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Speaker 3: It's literally abstract art walking the time, like with the

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Speaker 3: Mad Hatter. Crazy. Okay, you look at somebody else, Oh

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Speaker 3: our girl party, it's not Cardi Boo. That is Kylie Jenner. No,

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Speaker 3: black fishing. That's why she looks. She looks like a

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Speaker 6: I'm so used to seeing black fishing looks like a

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Speaker 3: What what do you mean? Oh my god? All right, okay,

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Speaker 6: So yeah, our kids are I love everything they have.

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Speaker 3: That she's beautiful and like us, I was a idiot.

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Speaker 3: That's horrible. That train didn't save her.

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Speaker 4: Looks a little bloated.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just here.

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Speaker 3: Like stairs? Yeah, it's the first time ever, it's ever.

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Speaker 5: Okay, afro puffs, afro puffs.

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Speaker 5: I don't really have any plans, hopefully, like getting is

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Speaker 3: Do you expect your baby daddy to do something for

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Speaker 5: I was just thinking that in the car, and I

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Speaker 3: I feel like.

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Speaker 5: He may or he may not, but or he'll just

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Speaker 6: I feel like this might be the first Mother's Day

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Speaker 3: it's cool. We don't talk about anything. We're just like silent.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's the thing that it's like why we don't know,

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Speaker 3: We have nothing to say, literally us interacting with with Lina.

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Speaker 3: Did I do something with him last Mother's Day?

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Speaker 6: No? I don't think I think guys had an argument.

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Speaker 6: If I remember correctly, really happened like I mean, it's

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Speaker 6: it's highly likely I can't remember.

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Speaker 3: What it was. I'm accepting all Mother's Day meals.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, if anyone wants to, you know, celebrate me that day.

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Speaker 6: You know I did bring in like everyone's favorite child,

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Speaker 3: So you know, if you want to throw me assert

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Speaker 3: coming back? I mean, I guess, so here they are.

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Speaker 3: What's happening? Oh? Okay, card where is Carty? For Cardi hair?

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Speaker 3: Get in a hip?

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Speaker 5: You know I would never endorse, say, but you know

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Speaker 3: Kylie has built full six eyes like a pretty woman

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Speaker 3: of also whatever she wants. Now, I don't know she's

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Speaker 5: They need Actually Kylie Kendall looks bomb.

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Speaker 3: Looks like a flamingo girl. Girl. Where is.

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Where is Cardi?

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Speaker 12: She's wearing red ID Maybe I can't hide if you're

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Speaker 12: gonna be doing this.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: I think Nikki said, film me, but don't post. Don't post,

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Speaker 5: uh Cardi? Because I don't see any cardy photos yet.

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Speaker 6: Oh maybe that's them? My god, sure because I don't

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Speaker 6: see one.

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Speaker 3: No, oh my god.

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Speaker 6: So we think we because we started looking at this

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Speaker 6: of Nikki getting ready and all stuff, and it seemed

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Speaker 6: very much like Nicki Minaj for sure. It was like, Yo,

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Speaker 6: shade room feature me on. She featured me getting.

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Speaker 3: Ready at the met gala. That definitely happens.

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Speaker 6: It definitely happened. Oh it's confirmed now. Oh see this

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Speaker 6: is Angela Brinks.

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Speaker 3: Angel Breaks? Whatever? What do you have that's cardis? What

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Speaker 3: do you guys thinking about the angel Breaks? Make that?

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Speaker 3: I was like, the hell are you crazy? Who is that?

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Speaker 4: Who?

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Speaker 2: Lady b?

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Speaker 3: Who? Oh yeah? What did she saying?

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Speaker 4: Car cartie?

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Speaker 5: Okay, we have some more questions for you, not regarding fashions, okay, okay,

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Speaker 5: like what if.

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Speaker 3: Your mom started having a boyfriend? How would you feel

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Speaker 3: about that?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh do you know what a boyfriend is? What

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Speaker 3: is it? Come home, comes to town?

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Speaker 5: Please?

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Speaker 4: Boy a boyfriend? A boyfriend?

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Speaker 3: Stop repeating each other. What do you think the boyfriend is?

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Speaker 4: You have to be a husband.

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Speaker 3: You have to be a husband. So like okay, is

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Speaker 3: it okay? Yeah? Like a boy closer husband? Boyfriend? Would

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Speaker 3: you would you be?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Do you want mommy to have a husband?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: You do? Why because mommy's so beautiful?

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Speaker 3: Thank you? Baby? So I need a husband because I'm beautiful?

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Speaker 3: What kind of guy?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: What kind of a husband do you see your mom's having?

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Speaker 8: Bobby? Bobby?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 3: What kind of husband you take?

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Speaker 9: Me?

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Speaker 4: Have me have Bobby?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 3: Irine, you need to think your own thoughts? What what

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Speaker 3: do you think?

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Speaker 4: Mom?

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Speaker 3: You're not Bobby? Who's Bobby? Do you even know who

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Speaker 3: Bobby is?

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Speaker 4: It's my dad? I know?

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Speaker 3: So why would I have Bobby? Why would Bobby be

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Speaker 5: Irin? You don't know what Bobby outside of your dad?

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Speaker 3: Who? What kind of guy would be?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 3: A nice?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 3: Qualities?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: What what do you think of? What do you think

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Speaker 3: a husband is supposed to do? Do? What kind of work?

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Speaker 7: Mom?

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Speaker 3: What kind of work?

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Speaker 13: Mom?

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Speaker 3: Mom?

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Speaker 13: Boor mom?

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Speaker 3: That's what husbands do?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: So what's mom?

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Speaker 4: Work? Mom? Work? You're doing?

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Speaker 3: Like that's right now? What else do moms do for work?

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Speaker 2: Good?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And they work my phone and then.

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Speaker 8: Yes, our phones and we just talk.

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Speaker 3: What do you want to be when you grow up, mate,

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Speaker 3: I will be doctor doctor.

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Speaker 8: I want to be adopted to and I want to

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Speaker 8: be unnursed and I can be my helper, right, Yes,

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Speaker 8: what kind of.

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Speaker 3: Doctor work are you gonna do? You're gonna deliver babies.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna be I.

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Speaker 8: Mean, no little babies, and then you gonna take care

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Speaker 8: of the gods when you're sick.

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Speaker 6: Take care of dogs. Come sit over here, Luna, please,

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Speaker 6: I rene, come sit here. But they can't hear you

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Speaker 6: when you're chopping around. Don't you want them to hear

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Speaker 6: you on the microphone?

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Speaker 3: What do you guys? Do you want to be your

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Speaker 3: mom when you get older? You want to have no kids?

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Speaker 3: You do?

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Speaker 4: I want to have kids?

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Speaker 6: You don't many kids? You want to have five kids?

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Speaker 6: Do you want girls? Boys both?

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Speaker 8: I mean I just want a girl and a bully

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Speaker 8: and a girl and a boy.

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Speaker 6: So so two girls and two boys?

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Speaker 3: What about you, Luna?

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Speaker 4: I want to be a mom.

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Speaker 3: I don't want You don't want kids?

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Speaker 4: Know why?

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Speaker 3: Because she does? Don't listen.

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Speaker 4: Can you just have to put them in their room

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Speaker 4: and put them in and time out? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: And they cost a lot of money too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, then you get out. Why do you drive.

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Speaker 7: The time out.

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Speaker 3: Why why do you need to put them in the

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Speaker 3: time out?

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Speaker 4: They don't listen?

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Speaker 3: Oh but please stop doing that. I get to help. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So what do you want to be married? Do you

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Speaker 3: think or you want no kids? No marriage? Huh? You're

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Speaker 3: you're rolling aldo married? You do you want a husband?

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Speaker 3: No way, no way, no.

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Speaker 13: Way.

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Speaker 3: Do you want mommy to have a husband? H you

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Speaker 3: want mommy to have a husband?

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Speaker 4: Yes? I do. Yes, who's gonna.

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Speaker 3: Be my husband?

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Speaker 4: Ah?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 6: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well.

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Speaker 5: We'll believe that one out because it is stealing all

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Speaker 5: the governments.

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Speaker 3: You mean happy day? You mean happy? Interesting? Does anybody

462
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 3: at your school? I read? Does anyone at your school

463
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 3: have boyfriends?

464
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 6: Yes?

465
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 4: Boyfriend?

466
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 3: Really? I am who's your boyfriend? Boyfriend? Who's your boyfriend?

467
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 8: Who's your boyfriend?

468
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:45,199
Speaker 4: Jackson?

469
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 7: What?

470
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 3: Jackson? Who's Jackson's? Yes?

471
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 7: What do you mean?

472
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 3: This is your boyfriend? Is nice?

473
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 6: Now?

474
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 3: Are you sure the speakers are coming out? What does

475
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 3: Jackson do is be nice to? Does he play with you?

476
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 4: Yes?

477
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 3: Does he ever push you or anything like that? No?

478
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 6: Oh that's great. What kind of games do you and

479
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 6: Jackson play? I would like hide and go seek.

480
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:20,199
Speaker 8: Or like we have puddles, we play.

481
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 6: Hide to go seeks. Okay, down place? That's cool.

482
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 3: So how do you feel about your dad's getting me

483
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 3: a girlfriend?

484
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 4: And get out?

485
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 3: They have know what if? What if? Your what if

486
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 3: daddy had a girlfriend?

487
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 2: My mom?

488
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 3: But do you want your daddy to have a girlfriend too?

489
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 14: I love my mom.

490
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 4: Have a girl, my dad has?

491
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 3: Your dad already has a girlfriend.

492
00:26:53,840 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 8: I want you to have a boyfriend. You you have

493
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 8: a boyfriend? Joke and you have you don't have don't?

494
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 2: I do not have some.

495
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 5: And I don't have one done dundu and you don't

496
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 5: have one? Suspenseful music like is it gonna happen? Well,

497
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 5: we really really love you guys, and I'm really really

498
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 5: happy that you made us moms and that it was

499
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,880
Speaker 5: you that came through, because you guys are pretty cool.

500
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 8: By yelling, my mom is yelling when I came.

501
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 3: Out, because it was like very intense.

502
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:46,920
Speaker 6: It hurt.

503
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 5: You know, you know you've seen births on on your jube.

504
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 5: I mean I like to watch home birds on your

505
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 5: well aware?

506
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 6: Also, doctor, is my mom yelling when I came I

507
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 6: wasn't yelling because mommy was had an epidural?

508
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 3: What are you doing?

509
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 6: I was laying there and well, I guess hyperventilating, are you?

510
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 6: And Daddy was actually Daddy was yelling. Daddy was yelling

511
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 6: and crying. He was kind of yell oh my god,

512
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 6: oh my god, oh my like over and over to

513
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 6: the point where I was like, is everything okay? Like

514
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 6: does she have ten fingers? Like she is her two heads?

515
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 6: Like what's going on?

516
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god?

517
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 6: Like I was like, for sure everyone in the hospitals,

518
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 6: like sink thinks there's a problem seeing her.

519
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 3: Dad just like shook the entire time. Oh my god,

520
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 3: this sh was happening, like like you saw a ghost

521
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 3: the whole time, right, you can't take this back?

522
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 6: Yeah?

523
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 5: Yeah.

524
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 3: He just looks so overwhelmed.

525
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 5: And then he just looked nervous to cut the cord,

526
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 5: like he's shaking.

527
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 3: Where do you think babies come from? Answer? They do?

528
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 3: How do they get in there? How do babies getting

529
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 3: mommy's chimmies?

530
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 5: Are?

531
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 9: We?

532
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 4: Like?

533
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 3: Who are your best friends? I? Who's your best friend?

534
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 2: Luna?

535
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 3: Anyone else? Chessie, Chessie, you don't even know what Chessie?

536
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 3: Who else?

537
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 4: Crazy?

538
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 3: Okay? Do you have any adult best friends?

539
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 2: No yet?

540
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 4: My mommy, yes, my mommy.

541
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 3: That's what I like. Ye, we are your best friends.

542
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 3: We're the real one.

543
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 5: We're gonna always be real with you.

544
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 3: What's Luna? What's your favorite food? Shrimp and rice? I

545
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 3: don't know what's your favorite food? Chicken and what else?

546
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 4: Fruit?

547
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 3: Chicken and fruit. That's it. Do you think you'll ever

548
00:29:55,600 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 3: eat vegetables? Do you think you'll ever eat vegetables? Hello,

549
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 3: we're still interviewing you. Are you just checked out?

550
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 6: Y'all?

551
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 4: Are I eat this Monday? I eat? You eat carrots? Yes,

552
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 4: I know that. I'm about to call you.

553
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 6: Let's tell her what you eat carrots?

554
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 5: Oh?

555
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's delicious. Shouldn't I eat some of that stuff? Right?

556
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 3: What do you want for?

557
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 6: Like?

558
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 3: What would be ideal for you for Mother's Day? Maybe?

559
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 4: Oh?

560
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 3: You so you probably will do something with beady? I

561
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 3: don't know.

562
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 8: I read a rock like a pink.

563
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 6: Happy Bay asked me if i'd be weird if he

564
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 6: bought me a Mother's Day present?

565
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 3: Why would be weird? I said no? I said, I

566
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 3: don't know the rules of this. There's no rules. She's like,

567
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 3: I've never dated a mom.

568
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 6: I'm like, well, I've never dated as a mom, so

569
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 6: I don't really know how to answer that just either

570
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 6: I guess I.

571
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 3: Said, I've never had a guy. I don't think outside.

572
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 3: I see that's because that's what probably want that because

573
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 3: I amateur guys. I'm not happy father's say text but

574
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 3: not like something special. Maybe they feel like that's like

575
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 3: it's like overstepping there. That's ridiculous.

576
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 6: You better get me something because maybe they're like, maybe

577
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 6: it's overstepping my boundaries.

578
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 3: I'm not celebrate me.

579
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 15: I've raised a child I'm raising I contributed to society. Yeah, hello,

580
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,479
Speaker 15: do you think that it's like do you think that

581
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 15: like once you're in a relationship going to like if

582
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 15: your baby daddy asked you to go to like dinner

583
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 15: or that's inappropriate?

584
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 3: I don't, but you know, I'm a free thinker.

585
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 12: I don't know where I got that ur but I

586
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 12: know I think, like I just feel like my ideal

587
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 12: relationship would be so fucking solid that it wasn't even

588
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 12: mad at there was this vice versa which you care No,

589
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 12: I would respect it like I'm glad and then.

590
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 3: Take it to breakfast. But me, I get dinner and lunch.

591
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 6: Well, if you didn't have kids with that person, was

592
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 6: what I mean, Like, if you were dating someone.

593
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,479
Speaker 5: And if he had kids and he took kids and

594
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 5: his baby brother to breakfast or.

595
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 3: I would think that's great, you guys.

596
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 5: But being so I'm a mom too, we'd have you

597
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 5: to have some time for me too. But I think

598
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 5: that's I think that's healthy.

599
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 3: I think that.

600
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 5: I mean, maybe because I'm a baby mom, I think

601
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 5: that to respect your baby mom and have a healthy.

602
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 3: Relationship with her is ideal, you know.

603
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 5: And sometimes yeah, we'll all go together, honestly, and sometimes not,

604
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 5: And I'm cool with that. I understand the importance of

605
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 5: a child having time together with both of their parents.

606
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 5: I see it because I see it makes her happy.

607
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 5: I see that, you know, she just genuinely enjoyed spending

608
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 5: time with us together.

609
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 3: And I get it. And I just think that you

610
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 3: should be.

611
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 5: Your relationship, be mature enough for the trust, and I

612
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 5: mean you should want the same for your partner and

613
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 5: want him to be that president because I mean, I

614
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 5: feel like that makes me know you're a good dad.

615
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 5: I maybe wanna, I maybe you want to have kids

616
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 5: with you. You're never going to be on some immature, shady,

617
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 5: weird shit, you know. I just think it should be

618
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:17,719
Speaker 5: that much, honestly, like friendship, you know, but that's very

619
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 5: apparently it's very very rarely found because nobody is mature.

620
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 3: What do you think would you allow her? I agree

621
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 3: with you. Okay, you guys should go. Yeah, you guys leep,

622
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 3: Go go go in there, imply please go on. Thank

623
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 3: you so much for helping. Thank you for your contributions

624
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 3: to this episode. Yeah, we're all done. We're gonna try again.

625
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 3: I'm almost done. We're gonna try it. You're five and

626
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 3: a half.

627
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 4: Why what why we are.

628
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 5: Here?

629
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 3: Okay?

630
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 5: So what were you saying if you were dating a

631
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 5: guy and he took his baby mom to I don't.

632
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 3: Know, I don't I don't think I would care.

633
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 6: I think it was just Also, it all depends on

634
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 6: how where, how solid we.

635
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 3: Are as the interval.

636
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would like to be in a relationship that's solid.

637
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 5: That's the type of relationship I long for.

638
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 6: You know something, me too, Yeah, because I want the

639
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 6: freedom I want to have a relationship because I want

640
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 6: the same I want to be afforded the same respect

641
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 6: and space as well. Because and not to say like

642
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 6: I don't do I think there's like do I think

643
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 6: like I need to like go on like a romantical

644
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 6: dinner with my.

645
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 3: Baby daddy for Mother's Day. No, we could go to

646
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 3: like breakfast one.

647
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 6: I think there's still like boundaries to it, you know

648
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 6: what I mean, Like I'm not gonna be like.

649
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 16: Yeah, go ahead, go to candle at dinner. No, because

650
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 16: I think that's even confusing for the kids. And I

651
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 16: feel also taking taking Mother's Day out of the equation.

652
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 16: If once a week we go have dinner with Like,

653
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 16: I'm not opposed to dinner, it's not dinner. It's like

654
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 16: if it's for mothers, who what is it for? Who

655
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:53,240
Speaker 16: are you both?

656
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 6: What?

657
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 4: Like?

658
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 3: What is his what are his or her intentions?

659
00:34:56,520 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 5: Well, I'm assuming that, yeah, these people have met, you know,

660
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 5: this is long term and my person knows like I'm

661
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 5: not even thinking about this mega.

662
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 3: You know, but I like, again, I get it.

663
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 5: I'm not saying it would be like so easy for

664
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 5: me either, but ultimately speaking that it's rare. But I

665
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 5: feel like it exists and I don't want to like settle.

666
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 5: I mean, I know, if you compromise, that's the thing.

667
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 5: Compromising and feeling like you're you're settling from something less

668
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 5: than what you want is hard. But because I'm not

669
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 5: a good compromiser, and I'm not like, historically you haven't

670
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 5: been like.

671
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 3: A committed person either, So maybe it's that.

672
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 5: I don't know if it's something like I'm running, but

673
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,240
Speaker 5: I just ultimately that's what I think it's fair.

674
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 3: I don't think to do with the running.

675
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, right, I'm like, should I be like, Okay, no,

676
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 5: this is inappropriate?

677
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 3: No, But I do think there's boundaries to it.

678
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 9: Yeah, I could be hanging out all the time every

679
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 9: day at his crib and shit, and even if it is,

680
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 9: I just mean, like the boundaries that need to be

681
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 9: pad are based on what people's true feelings are for

682
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 9: each other.

683
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 6: Yes, there's always gonna be a love for one another.

684
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,800
Speaker 6: There is, like if there's like one like the dude

685
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 6: is low key trying to like yeah, you know, like

686
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 6: romantic romantical romantical romance roman like that.

687
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

688
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 6: I guess there's always that chance, but you can't control everything.

689
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 3: But I just feel like you just have to be

690
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 3: solid with your partner period.

691
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 5: You gotta be solid with yourself, Like what's the point

692
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 5: in lying, like, don't waste my time if you want

693
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 5: to be with somebody else, your mother baby, Mountain included.

694
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 3: Let's talk about it.

695
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 5: You know, like, I'm not here to a fucking I'm

696
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 5: not into I'm not into any of that.

697
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,439
Speaker 3: It's just like you're gonna do it, We'll do it.

698
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 3: But it's not you should have just said that. It's fine.

699
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, So I don't to answer your question. I don't

700
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 6: know what I'm doing on Mother's Day. I don't know

701
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 6: if the bd is want to take me somewhere or

702
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 6: ask me to eat.

703
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 3: Dinner or whatever. But who else. It's a mystery. It's

704
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:08,720
Speaker 3: a mystery.

705
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 6: I actually don't want to do anything, but to be honest,

706
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 6: because I have like the longest week ahead of me

707
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 6: starting tomorrow.

708
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 3: And Sunday's like the day I don't have to actually

709
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 3: do anything. Maybe you could post it. It's get a

710
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 3: post and I would just like to sit here and

711
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 3: just eat and watch TV. Yeah. I told my mom

712
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 3: that too. She was like, what do you want? I

713
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 3: was like, nothing, I don't want to do anything.

714
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 6: Right, But yeah, I mean Mother's Day's cool. But and

715
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 6: it's a nice reminder of like, you know, remember where

716
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 6: you came from, remember the life source. But and it

717
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 6: also is a reminder for me that like, wow, I'm.

718
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:53,319
Speaker 3: A fucking mother. Fuck I know, like I'm someone's mom.

719
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 6: So it's so real sudedly, it's like, yeah, I mean

720
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 6: I've definitely like the shock.

721
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 3: Of it is over for me.

722
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 6: But like sometimes I do have moments where I'm like,

723
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 6: oh shit, because like for the first two years, I'd

724
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 6: be like, I'm a mom.

725
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 3: How the fuck am i am? Mother? Yeah, it's pretty,

726
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 3: it's pretty like I'm not ironic, but like out of

727
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 3: this world.

728
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 6: Sometimes I think about like my mom and like because

729
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 6: I raise four and I stared running around, I'm like,

730
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:27,240
Speaker 6: it's so crazy, like you forget that your parents not forget,

731
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 6: but like you don't put yourself in their shoes that

732
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,720
Speaker 6: often where you're like, shit, i was four running around

733
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 6: and they were just like having a conversation with their girlfriends,

734
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 6: maybe not recording it, but just in the living room.

735
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 6: You know, it's just and now here I am growing

736
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 6: as fun, right, you know.

737
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 5: Which experience having living in this experience and yeah, like

738
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 5: to imagine where were you at that.

739
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 3: Time, m Did you feel like it was crazy? Did

740
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 3: you feel like you had it all together?

741
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 6: I mean, because that's the thing too, It's like as

742
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 6: kids would look at our parents and we think they're

743
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:00,760
Speaker 6: happened all together.

744
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 3: No.

745
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 5: I mean I remember like being I guess three or four,

746
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 5: moving here, and my parents didn't have it all together.

747
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 3: Like I kind of remember that, you.

748
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,879
Speaker 5: Know, like I remember we but I also remember as

749
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 5: a child not thinking anything of it.

750
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 3: That's what I mean though, Yeah.

751
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 6: This is like you don't know any different really, so

752
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 6: it's like, okay, remember cool, as long as I'm with

753
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 6: my mom and my dad whatever.

754
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 5: My dad had moved here like ahead of us, to

755
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 5: California because he started writing on fresh friends because we're

756
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 5: from Philly and they like grew up together. And I

757
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 5: remember finally like like when are you coming back? And

758
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 5: finally coming and like he had a roommate, so me

759
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 5: and me and my mom and him just stayed in

760
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 5: the other room and like eventually we got a house

761
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 5: and stuff. I just around this little like bovo we had,

762
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 5: but I just doubt absolutely nothing of Like it wasn't

763
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:56,879
Speaker 5: that strange, but it is interesting to compare. I feel

764
00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 5: I should ask my mom about that more. But what

765
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 5: was going you know, like, how was it for you?

766
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 3: I know?

767
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 6: I mean, well, I know that my mom was constantly stressed.

768
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 6: I know she was like really sad, and she was

769
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 6: and she was nursing a broken heart for years.

770
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 3: And yeah, my dad was so evil. So I remember

771
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 3: like her crying a lot, like and but also like

772
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 3: she was fun. You know, we had fun and.

773
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 6: I never was worried about like my like I always

774
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 6: like I knew we didn't. Like when I was growing up,

775
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 6: we always lived in like small apartments and stuff. And

776
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 6: then like I like, as her career grew, you know,

777
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 6: obviously our living situations would grow from like a like

778
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 6: a one bedroom apartment to a two bedroom apartment to

779
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 6: a condo. So now we're renting a house and now

780
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 6: we're going to rent another house and eventually we're going

781
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 6: to buy a house. And you know, but there, I

782
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 6: know there were times where she was really scared and nervous,

783
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 6: but like I I could sense it, but I was

784
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 6: always never she always kept it away from me.

785
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 3: You're aware, Yeah, yeah, you know.

786
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 17: It's yeah, it's so interesting like perception when you're that young,

787
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 17: because everything is so you're always surprised, Like now as

788
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 17: a parent, like I'm so surprised the things that she

789
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 17: like understands, and then I'm so also surprised that thinks

790
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 17: that I forget that she's also.

791
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 6: For doesn't understand certain things that I think are like

792
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 6: very simple to understand, like don't you get why this

793
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 6: is yes or no? Black and white or other things

794
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 6: that are more like I don't know, just a little

795
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 6: more complicated. Sometimes I'm like, wall you understand that even

796
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 6: asking of these questions right now, like like I don't.

797
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 3: Know if I even understands what a boyfriend is, but she.

798
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 13: Still said that, you're I think when and what they

799
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 13: explained like a husband, maybe she understands what husband is, yeah,

800
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 13: or maybe she I think she maybe does, but she's

801
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 13: like scared to tell me that she knows, like she

802
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 13: thinks it's like a.

803
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 3: Secret, right, I don't know.

804
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,399
Speaker 6: It is interesting because I used to think things were

805
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 6: like not like I shouldn't know what that means, like pregnant.

806
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 6: The word pregnant, literally the word pregnant I thought was

807
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 6: a bad word.

808
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 3: Anytime anyone's saying I could.

809
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 6: Be like giggle because like their age probably like I

810
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 6: remember specifically, like I think I was like five my

811
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 6: friend was like if my friend was like I want

812
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 6: to be pregnant, and I was like, oh, I don't

813
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 6: say that.

814
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 3: I don't say that you know.

815
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 5: That's funny is even asking I'm like, do you want

816
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 5: to have kids? I'm like, is that an appropriate question?

817
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 6: But it's like, all, well, it's also a question that

818
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 6: I think is obviously asked by women.

819
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 3: It's like the first thing people ask women. No, I

820
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 3: don't think I think kids. I don't. I don't think

821
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 3: people ask children. They're not children, but they're but they're women.

822
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 3: They're they're going to be women.

823
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 6: They don't ask if we're not going to ask when

824
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 6: we ask a little boy that.

825
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,280
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I just think it's I think it's

826
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 5: I think it's sexualizing.

827
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 3: It's not about sex.

828
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 6: I just mean that I'm saying when people are I'm

829
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 6: not even referring to it as sex. I'm saying, like,

830
00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 6: but we we think it's society that little girls grow

831
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 6: into women that want.

832
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 3: You to have kids? Do you want to?

833
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 6: But that's just like the that's to do, right, you know,

834
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 6: if all things you're gonna do, you're gonna do this

835
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 6: for for sure, right, that's just supposed to do.

836
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 3: That's true. We're like machines make more.

837
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 6: I thought it was interesting that, especially because maybe Luna

838
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 6: doesn't want to have kids because she watches those birthing

839
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 6: videos like because then she said she wants to deliver babies, right,

840
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 6: but like she doesn't want to go through that.

841
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 3: Oh you know what I mean. But that of the

842
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 3: tube videos are peaceful. I'm not saying she's traumatized or anything.

843
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, but like she's she's like I'm good, Yeah,

844
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 3: I'm good. Dog. She does how goes down?

845
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 6: Whereas I Because you know, Irie asked me one time,

846
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,280
Speaker 6: she was like what did she asked hers, like, Mommy,

847
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 6: how did daddy? I think I talked about it was like,

848
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 6: how did daddy put you in my stomach? I mean

849
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 6: put you put me in your stomach? And I was

850
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 6: like and she was like, no secrets.

851
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 3: I was like, oh shit, what I was like, yeah, yeah,

852
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,879
Speaker 3: you wrapped up my stomach. Alt we kissed and then

853
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 3: you appeared and then I started to grab Then you

854
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 3: grew inside. We planted a seed. We prayed for you.

855
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 5: Definitely was praying like please don't be pregnant, please God.

856
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 5: I mean right, suddenly when they gets a pregnant, she's like,

857
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 5: what the fuck was I do?

858
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 3: Everything comes coming to like crashing, how did this happen?

859
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:30,399
Speaker 7: Right?

860
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 3: Like what what do you mean I'm pregnant. God doesn't

861
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 3: love me?

862
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 6: How How what do you mean you get pregnant when

863
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 6: you don't put a condom on?

864
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 3: Curs? Ludicrous?

865
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's nothing to play with. I guess the only

866
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 5: reality of that is having a baby.

867
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, it's like the best thing that's it's

868
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 6: probably the best thing that's ever happened to me. It's

869
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 6: like made me have to figure my shit out, like

870
00:44:55,600 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 6: I've had to like, you know, just focus on something,

871
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 6: you know, and like I think because I was so

872
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 6: unfocused really and that's why I like, when I got pregnant,

873
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 6: I was so scared. I was like, how can I mean,

874
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 6: you raise a child? Like I don't even know what

875
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 6: I'm doing. Really, I kind of just really depended. I

876
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 6: was like, you know what, we'll just figure it out,

877
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 6: me and him, we'll figure it out.

878
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 3: We'll be fine. Yeah, yeah, we'll be fine.

879
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 5: I was like, if if we're not fine, I'll be fine.

880
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 3: I'll figure it out.

881
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 6: Well, I think because I had, you know, an example,

882
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 6: my mom was a single parent and that's all I really,

883
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:35,240
Speaker 6: that's all I ever knew.

884
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 3: And she figured it out, and I was like, if

885
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 3: she can do it, we'll figure it out.

886
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 6: But I didn't even think about it in that way.

887
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 6: I never thought I was like, I really didn't think

888
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 6: about it in the way that like what it looked

889
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:49,760
Speaker 6: like without him, honestly, like, yeah, that's not ideal, because

890
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 6: I felt like, no matter what, we're going to be together, right,

891
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 6: you know, but that's my soulmate. So crazy what time

892
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 6: does and kids, even because you have them, then suddenly

893
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 6: you're like, I'm not putting up your bullshit because I

894
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 6: love this little motherfucker more than you.

895
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 3: Right right, And I'm not this shit. Right.

896
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 5: I don't even want to be in this environment, so

897
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:12,720
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna put like put it on her.

898
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 3: That was a lot for me too. I mean, even

899
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 3: when I got pregnant, I remember.

900
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 5: Calling certain friends and they're like, bitch, you already know

901
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 5: who you're dealing with.

902
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 3: And I remember being like, yeah, I do.

903
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 5: So I'm consciously making the decision whether it works out

904
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 5: or not.

905
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,240
Speaker 3: I'm cool with having a baby.

906
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 5: But I guess I also felt guilt because I've had

907
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 5: like two other abortions and I and I was twenty six, yeah,

908
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 5: and I'm like, that's old. That's old to be having

909
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 5: an abortion. I'm never gonna I'm never gonna be able

910
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 5: to be fertile again. So there was that too, and

911
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 5: then also the card reading that said that I should

912
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,240
Speaker 5: do it, which.

913
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 3: Was the overall, that was the confirming. That's confirming. I

914
00:46:58,120 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 3: knew immediately I was.

915
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 6: Gonna When I found out, I was kind of excited

916
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 6: and I was also scared.

917
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, there was more scared than there was excited. And

918
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 5: then this excited came in when like I saw my

919
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 5: belly girl. I think it took me a minute to

920
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 5: connect to the belly too, like sometimes I feel weird

921
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 5: talking to it alone. I had to like really realize

922
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 5: what was happening, and I think I really like really clicked,

923
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 5: Like that moment at the hospital where she hit my chest,

924
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 5: I was like.

925
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 6: Oh my god, like bam, yeah here she is.

926
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I said, good luck. Oh man. Yeah, that's literally

927
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 3: how I felt like when I left. I left the hospital.

928
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 5: I just remember like getting home, like like I wasn't

929
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 5: expecting her to come.

930
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 3: When I left the house that day, it is like

931
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 3: my house wasn't prepared. I was just like I don't

932
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 3: know anything. I didn't watch any of those videos.

933
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:48,479
Speaker 2: What am I doing?

934
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 3: Did they fit in? Home of the brochure of some sorts.

935
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 3: I was emerged fully in it. I was taking baby

936
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 3: and me classes. I was like, and so is he?

937
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 6: Like he was super involved, Like he came to like

938
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 6: like he came to every dog, every single doctor, went

939
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 6: to all my baby and me classes, like humored my

940
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 6: all my weird shit, except the home birth.

941
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:13,879
Speaker 3: He did not support that.

942
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 6: But yeah, but then when that baby comes, it's like,

943
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,280
Speaker 6: oh wow.

944
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 3: But you know, I don't know.

945
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 6: I kind of felt ready after nine months, like I

946
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 6: did a lot of I was spent a lot of

947
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:28,800
Speaker 6: time a lot.

948
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:29,800
Speaker 3: Of my pregnancy alone.

949
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 6: Unfortunately, you know, my heat wasn't really around that much.

950
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 3: He was working and.

951
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 6: Kind of just checked out in general, just because some

952
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 6: shit had like had gone down, like during my pregnancy,

953
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 6: Like he almost got killed in like a shooting, and

954
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 6: so he was just so like traumatized from that and

955
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 6: wrapped up and always had people around constantly, always had

956
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 6: people around in our house. At one point they were

957
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,359
Speaker 6: like one of two of his friends were like one

958
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 6: of sleeping on my couch. Two of them were like

959
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 6: sleeping on my couch for like weeks, and I was

960
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 6: like seven months pregnant. I was like these vegans don't

961
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 6: get out of my fucking house, Gona. And because I

962
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 6: was like that, he would just leave all the time

963
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 6: and be out with them. So I think I had

964
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:18,479
Speaker 6: a lot of time bonding with Iri before, So when

965
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 6: she came, it was almost like I knew what to do.

966
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 3: Almost it was weird like.

967
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 6: Before, they're not not in every sense. I'm just totally

968
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 6: even still kicking. It does kicking like you just like

969
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 6: you just do it, Like, yeah, you just grow up

970
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 6: the punches. You don't really have a choice and you

971
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 6: learn as you go.

972
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 5: That's true, Like even if you're not prepared, like somehow

973
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 5: you're like prepared. Even I'm like all this extra baby

974
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 5: shit that they're like conue into buying.

975
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 3: Its like a lot of it's unnecessary, Like it's like

976
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 3: you just go back to I was, I totally excuse me.

977
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 6: I totally fell for the con I was buying all

978
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 6: the unnecessary shit.

979
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 3: What if I need a what if I need a

980
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 3: fucking booger sucker?

981
00:49:58,360 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 6: What if I can't get her bookers out? I got

982
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 6: a sucker out myself, right, it's only can that makes sense?

983
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:06,359
Speaker 6: Bookers like those things. It was like this thing where

984
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 6: you put a straw, like the straw thing in your

985
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 6: baby's nose, and then there's like a barrier, so the

986
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 6: bookers don't fly in your mouth, but you suck with your.

987
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 5: Own like inhale, but it's not you suck. There's not

988
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 5: literally out of there, it doesn't go in. Now.

989
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,880
Speaker 3: There's like this like there's like this piece of foam

990
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 3: that is like in the tube.

991
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 6: It's supposed to be like the barrier between the snot

992
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:28,919
Speaker 6: and your mouth.

993
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:29,399
Speaker 3: Did that come?

994
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 6: But really you're just like inhaling their germs, they're sick.

995
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 6: You're like literally in hand it's just a sponge disgusting.

996
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:40,399
Speaker 6: It's actually just it's really unsanitary. I did it many

997
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:42,919
Speaker 6: times and actually worked. And I think that's also why

998
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 6: I really just like blowing her nose now, because she's

999
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 6: a little traumatized from that, and I did all the sucking.

1000
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 3: Blown say, I don't know how. I don't know how.

1001
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 6: To blow my nose because my mom sucked my booker's

1002
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 6: out of my nose for three years.

1003
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 3: But yeah, I know, I totally for all that ship.

1004
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 3: But it's a big privilege though, to like be.

1005
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 5: Able to develop someone and see them grow and like

1006
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 5: interjects when you feel like it's necessary.

1007
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 3: You know, I'm constantly in awe of her. I look

1008
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:17,479
Speaker 3: back so a lot of times when.

1009
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 6: I'm driving, I'll look back at my room marriage just

1010
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 6: like stare at her to be.

1011
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 3: Like, oh my god, how did I you're so large?

1012
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 9: That?

1013
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 3: And also I just like how do I love you

1014
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 3: so much? I know? Oh my God? Like I just

1015
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 3: want to like literally makes because you know what I mean, like, no,

1016
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 3: love me back? My God. It's crazy.

1017
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 6: Even when she's like, Mama, I want you, I know,

1018
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 6: I think about those when that is no more mamas

1019
00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 6: and then that mama voices.

1020
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 3: And mama anymore.

1021
00:51:54,200 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 6: It's like Mama, mama, mamam mom whatever.

1022
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 3: She's already doing that. That's why I have to nit

1023
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 3: that ship.

1024
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,439
Speaker 6: Look, her pattern said that she could be come off egotistical,

1025
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 6: and I see that shit.

1026
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, stop that crazy. I still have to do

1027
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 3: les pattern.

1028
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know they say they say that we

1029
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 5: choose our parents. I believe that the comically either we

1030
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 5: have something to offer them or they have something to

1031
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 5: offer us.

1032
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 3: You know, So.

1033
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 5: Even when I don't understand my mom at all, I'm

1034
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 5: always like, what is the reason, God is?

1035
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 3: What am I learning here. What am I supposed to teach? No,

1036
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 3: I know, it's for sure. I mean I believe that.

1037
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:42,399
Speaker 3: I bet.

1038
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 6: I think that's like thus of anything that comes into

1039
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:51,719
Speaker 6: your life, right true, you know about the choosing or

1040
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 6: about the lesson. I mean they it's I don't know

1041
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 6: if it's a choice per se, but it's like that

1042
00:52:59,040 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 6: has just happened.

1043
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 3: That's me to be happens. I agree, I don't know.

1044
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 3: And then there's been all these babies around lately, and

1045
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 3: I'm like to have my mother baby. Oh my god,

1046
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 3: the hike that little baby, oh maa hike. God, I'm like,

1047
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 3: give her to me right now. I know. I saw

1048
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:21,280
Speaker 3: you hiking up that big steep ass hill. I'm like, Jamila,

1049
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 3: is baby fevering it?

1050
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:26,280
Speaker 6: She's literally climbing up the steepest mountain with a baby

1051
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 6: on her hip.

1052
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 5: Well, because I had Lena and her on me. So

1053
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 5: when Lenda got up, I'm like, this is a breeze and.

1054
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 3: She's so cute. We're all she was just like yeah.

1055
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 3: Like I'm like, oh my god, I love her. What

1056
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 3: do you know what you're talking about? But you're talking

1057
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,720
Speaker 3: to met little person.

1058
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:49,480
Speaker 5: She was like one and a half. No, She's like one.

1059
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 5: She just want how to walk. She did not want

1060
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 5: to get picked up. Her mom brought the carrier. She refused.

1061
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 5: She was like, put down, put down, just walking, you

1062
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 5: can I her She wasn't doing it.

1063
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 3: No, she want to go on a little high. She

1064
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:05,360
Speaker 3: was like, I can walk here, mom, I'm good. I

1065
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 3: don't care if what's three miles.

1066
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 5: Even when when I was carrying around then we got

1067
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,800
Speaker 5: like one stopping point and the girls were all sitting,

1068
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 5: She's like, good, down she walked over there. I'm like, okay,

1069
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 5: bo all right.

1070
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 3: But that did make me want to have another baby.

1071
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 3: But then I'm like I'm so free.

1072
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 5: Yeah right, Like that's gonna put two years of my

1073
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 5: life on pause.

1074
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:31,280
Speaker 3: Like even like if you tuned into our last episode.

1075
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:38,320
Speaker 6: We we had on a psychic and he had mentioned

1076
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 6: to me he asked me about my feminine health, and

1077
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,319
Speaker 6: I was like, my feminine health's fine, Like you know,

1078
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 6: periods are My periods are so on point they're literally

1079
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:50,399
Speaker 6: never ever late.

1080
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 3: And you guys, my periods are so on point they

1081
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:57,919
Speaker 3: were never ever late.

1082
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 6: And he ask me about my feminine health and that

1083
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 6: like I needed to start eating cleaner and really like

1084
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 6: be conscious of what I put in my body because

1085
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:07,400
Speaker 6: I carry everything.

1086
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 3: On my body.

1087
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 6: And like I was like, okay, I guess sure, I

1088
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 6: mean stress on the body.

1089
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 3: That makes sense, that's kind of general. But then like

1090
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 3: the last we.

1091
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:24,760
Speaker 6: Did that episode, God, like before Coachella, so like five

1092
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 6: four weeks ago, maybe longer four weeks ago, four weeks ago,

1093
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 6: hotel a month.

1094
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 3: It was April fourteenth, and it's May seventh. Stop. Yeah,

1095
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 3: I can't even function.

1096
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 6: So but over that time, over that period of time,

1097
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:42,959
Speaker 6: like I've been feeling like my body hurts.

1098
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 3: Everything I eat, it's irritates my body.

1099
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 6: And then like my period didn't come, and I was like,

1100
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 6: oh my god, what was my period not coming?

1101
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:52,719
Speaker 3: Then I was like two days late, and then I

1102
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 3: was like three days late, and then I was like,

1103
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm pregnant. Fuck, I'm pregnant. Oh my god.

1104
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 3: I was like, you're gonna calm down.

1105
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 6: I'm not pregnant, guys. But the fact that he even

1106
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 6: said mentioned my feminine health and then that happened kind

1107
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 6: of freaked me out. But that just the idea of

1108
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 6: thinking that I could be pregnant. I was like, please God, No,

1109
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 6: I'm not writing to please.

1110
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 3: I don't want to do that.

1111
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 6: I don't what I could do but should have a

1112
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 6: baby right now, I'm telling you that I don't want

1113
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 6: to do that.

1114
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 3: Like it he's so scary.

1115
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know what IVD says to kick in.

1116
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 6: No, I can't really afford a kid right now, I mean,

1117
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 6: and I don't know.

1118
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. This was just too much

1119
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 3: to think about.

1120
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 6: I can't even wrap my head around it fully because

1121
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 6: I mean not even really, Like I'm not even with

1122
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Speaker 6: the person that I would be having a baby. So

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Speaker 6: the answer is no, The answer is no. But that

1124
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 6: made me so scared. I was like, oh my god, no,

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Speaker 6: my god.

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00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 3: This is like if I had a baby with this person,

1127
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 3: this person is my life forever. So that's the thing

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Speaker 3: I want.

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Speaker 6: Like in that way, in that way as a friend, yes,

1130
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 6: like I love this person, but like in that way, that's.

1131
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,440
Speaker 3: A whole different dynamic, you know, like, oh.

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00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:14,439
Speaker 11: Yeah, that's when you that's when you're like you start

1133
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 11: to realize I don't know now more than before, Like

1134
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 11: having a baby with someone is a deep, deep tie permanently,

1135
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 11: you know, Like it now makes me rethink do I

1136
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 11: really let people?

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00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 5: Like can I like you start to just look deeper

1138
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 5: into the things you usually don't want to see and

1139
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 5: there can't be ignored once Like the thought of a baby.

1140
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 3: Is the thing you know, Well, that's not at words true.

1141
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 3: People would be waiting until the baby come.

1142
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 6: People would be making that mistake over and over and

1143
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 6: over again, like they don't have other children, you know

1144
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 6: what I mean, Like like they haven't gone down this

1145
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 6: path before with someone that wasn't they shouldn't have had

1146
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 6: a baby, and shit happens.

1147
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 3: I guess it's one of two ways, like I've done.

1148
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 18: It before, fucking or like hell no, And I'm like, eh,

1149
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 18: you know you said what No, You're crazy, You're crazy,

1150
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 18: showponistic slight shammy, asshole.

1151
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 3: It's over. Yeah, do I want to give you my DNA?

1152
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 3: Do you deserve my DNA?

1153
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 9: Right?

1154
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 3: What are your thoughts on deserve these genes? And very interesting?

1155
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god, okay, so what we're gonna say?

1156
00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 5: Uh, I'm just I was gonna say, I'm so happy

1157
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 5: to be a monkst Like the hype reminded me just

1158
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 5: how happy to be a monk's? Like I don't know,

1159
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 5: like normal parents, like normal people parents like have regular

1160
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 5: conversations and like realistic.

1161
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, it just was so it

1162
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 3: was just so nice.

1163
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 5: You know, we're just having open minded fun still you know,

1164
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 5: drinking like it was just good.

1165
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 3: I'm happy, Like I'm like we really we really like

1166
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 3: attracted our crew. Yeah, you know.

1167
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, but like building a village like that I did

1168
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 6: was never expected to build. Like you think of village,

1169
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 6: you think of people you already know they're in your

1170
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 6: friends circle, not like essentially strangers that are becoming part

1171
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 6: of friends friends. Yeah, and yeah, it's so true that

1172
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:19,440
Speaker 6: because you know, I.

1173
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 3: Was kind of nervous the meet up.

1174
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:22,240
Speaker 6: I'm like, I don't know, like I don't know, like

1175
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 6: at this point we've done a few but like you

1176
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 6: just never know, you know, And like it was just

1177
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 6: like you never know what like the vibe is going

1178
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 6: to be, especially on like a hike, it's more isolated.

1179
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 6: It's not like a situation where like you know, you're

1180
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 6: in a party situation.

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00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 5: Music, right, They're always good though, we always have fun.

1182
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, you know what you mean, And like.

1183
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 6: Everyone just kind of meshed together, and so I was

1184
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 6: I was really grateful that I had to spend.

1185
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 3: Time with everyone that came. We're definitely gonna do more. Yeah,

1186
00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 3: for sure, they won't all be secrets, but maybe if

1187
00:59:54,640 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 3: you don't know, you know. Wow. Wow, we have some

1188
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 3: advice questions. We have an.

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Speaker 6: Advice question an anonymous. Well, it doesn't say anonymous, but

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Speaker 6: we won't keep it. We'll just keep her anonymous just

1191
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Speaker 6: because it's unclear. Hey, ladies, just wanted to reach out

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01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 6: for some advice on dating. I've been separated from the

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Speaker 6: father of my two kids for a year and a

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01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 6: half and being together for ten. After being together for

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Speaker 6: ten years, we do not have a set schedule for

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01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 6: when he has the kids, other than he takes our

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01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 6: eldest to school and keeps our daughter while I'm at work.

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Speaker 6: I pick them up each evening at six pm. Their

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Speaker 6: dad does not often keep the kids overnight, which has

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Speaker 6: worked out fine as I had not been actively dating.

1201
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 6: Now I'm seeing this guy who does not have kids

1202
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 6: and would like to see him more often. I've been

1203
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 6: starbborn about giving him more time until I felt he

1204
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 6: was worth it. How do you go about dating and

1205
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 6: not feeling the mom guilt? I was meeting up with

1206
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 6: this guy once a week, sometimes twice, but he's expressed

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01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:52,959
Speaker 6: he would like more time. I don't have a peer

1208
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 6: in the situation or someone who's been in the scenario

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01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 6: that I can ask for advice, a figure you could relate.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 5: I think I can't say her name because it says

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Speaker 5: a name or anonymous since she got her name Danica. Okay,

1213
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 5: So for Danica, I have the master plan.

1214
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Speaker 6: So Danica, Jamila has concocted the perfect co parenting schedule.

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Speaker 3: Schedules by Jamila. Schedules are from co Parenting Schedules by Mila.

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Speaker 5: You need more details, they'll be nine ninety nine email

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Speaker 5: I saw with shit online.

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Speaker 14: I can teach you have a parenting package one. There's

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Speaker 14: the gold standard we have price. I can skype coach

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Speaker 14: you on co parenting. I think that dating while being

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Speaker 14: a mom, the mom gilt, literally does it just exists

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01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 14: the success. You have to just get over it.

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01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, you have to like talk yourself out of it

1224
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 5: and also be fair balance. But I'm my go to

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01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 5: schedule I coach everyone I know is Monday Tuesday. Let's say,

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01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 5: for instance, you Wednesday, Thursday, baby Daddy, Friday, Saturday.

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Speaker 3: Sunday you again, so you get a full weekend again.

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01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:13,919
Speaker 5: So Monday Tuesday would be baby daddy, Wednesday, Thursday would

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Speaker 5: be you.

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Speaker 3: Friday, Saturday Sunday baby daddy again. So then you get

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Speaker 3: your weekend off.

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01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, so everybody gets every day alternate weeks and it's

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Speaker 5: exactly split time.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it depends how cool you are.

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Speaker 5: If there's something here or there, maybe pick them up

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01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:31,439
Speaker 5: for that, dropping back off. There's a birthday party, maybe

1237
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 5: we swap because it's more convenient we have something. But

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Speaker 5: for the most part, I feel like that's fair. And

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01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 5: sometimes Erica's complaint was that she felt like some week

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01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 5: she didn't have her at all, only the two days,

1241
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 5: but then the very next week you have, you have,

1242
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:45,680
Speaker 5: you have this.

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Speaker 6: I think it's just because I'm so used to having

1244
01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:50,840
Speaker 6: her all the time that this suddenly only having her

1245
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 6: fifty percent at the time felt like guilty. Yeah I

1246
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 6: felt guilty. It felt drastic. But that and then I

1247
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 6: also felt like, am I bouncing her around too much?

1248
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 3: She okay? And it's like, well, no, she needs both

1249
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:02,840
Speaker 3: parents and we're not together.

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01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's that's a thing, like I don't want

1251
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 5: to feel like you're I mean, I know, moms, you know,

1252
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 5: and a lot of times honestly, I'll go over there,

1253
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:13,680
Speaker 5: but like if I feel like I haven't, it feels like.

1254
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 3: I miss her. I'm like, I'm coming over. You know,

1255
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 3: I'll play and chill.

1256
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 5: But I think it is fair to think like your

1257
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 5: your other parents should have equal as much time with

1258
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:27,280
Speaker 5: you as I do. You know, I think it's important.

1259
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 5: So men, don't get it fucked up. We did go

1260
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 5: half on this. This is your responsibility. It cannot keep

1261
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 5: just falling on me. And you know that's for time,

1262
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 5: and that's for a routine too, because I see like, oh,

1263
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 5: I always take her to school, always pick her up, Like, no,

1264
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 5: you need to be used to doing the same duties

1265
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 5: I do. It needs to be not even you know.

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Speaker 3: So that's my suggestion on the co parenting schedule. Yeah,

1267
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 3: and hopefully he's open to it, you know.

1268
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 5: And honestly, if it's somebody that you like and you

1269
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 5: really feel like it's worth it, then you you know,

1270
01:03:58,160 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 5: that's the way.

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01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,480
Speaker 3: That's an easier way to make and.

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Speaker 6: You have to because it's really it's gonna be. It's

1273
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 6: it's really impossible to like actually explore a relationship in

1274
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 6: a real way without some sort of routine or some

1275
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 6: type of schedule.

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01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 3: It's like it doesn't have to be the perfect schedule.

1277
01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 6: But like, yeah, like how are you really going to

1278
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 6: ever really feelly get to know someone get in that way?

1279
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:23,720
Speaker 6: I mean, of course, now you have a child, and

1280
01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 6: so it's different, and eventually you'll be able to know

1281
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 6: how to deal with every dynamic and eventually you'll start incorporating,

1282
01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 6: you know, you know, eventually you'll start incorporating. Hopefully, if

1283
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 6: you start dating that guy and becomes serious, you can

1284
01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 6: start incorporate him to enter your child's life. So it's

1285
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 6: don't you know you don't have to spend the separate

1286
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 6: times alone, you know what I mean? And I get

1287
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 6: you want your alone time, alone time, but like also

1288
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 6: just everyday life.

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Speaker 5: Shit, oh that's another thing that we know, Like that Erica,

1290
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 5: she was feeling with me, like obviously you want to

1291
01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:00,200
Speaker 5: have boundaries about who you bring around your kid because

1292
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 5: everybody's not gonna stay and make sure there's sorrow enough.

1293
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 3: But also how long do you wait three months? Six months?

1294
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 5: Because on the other hand, especially for someone who does

1295
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:12,360
Speaker 5: not have kids, maybe not know you get to know

1296
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 5: you as a mom, and that's a huge part of

1297
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 5: who you are. So imagine you get really serious and

1298
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 5: then you start bringing a whole nother person into the

1299
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 5: picture and they're like, oh wait, hold up.

1300
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Speaker 3: It's not about me or what you have to this

1301
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 3: is your priority. This you know what I'm saying. It's

1302
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 3: a different dynamic, and these are.

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Speaker 5: Things everybody should be well bere ubed, and we know

1304
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 5: what we're getting into.

1305
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,680
Speaker 3: It's true. I mean, I know a lot of people

1306
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 3: have different views on that.

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01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 6: I know, Like I know people that like who will

1308
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 6: never introduce their child to Like we'll date someone for

1309
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 6: like four years, Well they're not gonna get married.

1310
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe they.

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01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 5: I mean honestly, at this point in my life, I

1312
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 5: never thought I would be so I feel I don't know,

1313
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 5: maybe I'll come out of.

1314
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Speaker 3: It, but I feel like.

1315
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 5: I'm dating for long terminus because I don't want to

1316
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 5: donna awaye energy on shit that's not good enough to

1317
01:05:58,320 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 5: be long term.

1318
01:05:59,520 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 3: You know.

1319
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 5: I've seen a lot of years just fucking around, fucking

1320
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 5: around like, don't care what it's gonna.

1321
01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 3: Happen, it doesn't matter, let it flow, you know. And

1322
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 3: I get a lot of friends that way. And it's

1323
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:19,360
Speaker 3: not that I'm a you Okay, well we're almost dead.

1324
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 3: We're coming out there, Okay, we're coming out. Yeah, I

1325
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 3: feel you. I still feel like I'm in a space

1326
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 3: now I am. I don't know. I don't I don't

1327
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 3: know if I'm dating for long term yet, Like I I.

1328
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Speaker 6: Just of course I want a long term person eventually.

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01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 6: That's the goal, if I guess, if there's a goal,

1330
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 6: if there is one. But I think I'm just I'm

1331
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 6: trying to fere who I am out who it is

1332
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 6: that I.

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Speaker 3: Am, because.

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Speaker 6: Maybe maybe because of that, because I don't want to

1335
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 6: enter into something else that's just like a waste of

1336
01:06:58,320 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 6: time because we're both not I'm not I'm not really

1337
01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:03,760
Speaker 6: fully I haven't really fully invested in who I am

1338
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:05,200
Speaker 6: and who I am like myself.

1339
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, And there's that, and I'm realizing how much you can't.

1340
01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 5: You will never really have a successful relationship if you

1341
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:12,920
Speaker 5: don't really delve into who you.

1342
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 6: Are so that I can check myself. I mean, not

1343
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:17,479
Speaker 6: waste my time because there's so much work that I wish.

1344
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 6: I not wish everything happens for a reason. But like

1345
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:24,400
Speaker 6: the person that I am right now wouldn't have tolerated

1346
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:26,920
Speaker 6: the shit that I tolerated in my last relationship or

1347
01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:29,200
Speaker 6: in the relationship before that, but really in that long

1348
01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 6: term relationship, it's.

1349
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:34,000
Speaker 3: Really like believing in knowing what you deserve. It's coming

1350
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 3: into that, you know.

1351
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 6: And so I'm just beginning to explore all the things

1352
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,560
Speaker 6: that I ignored, and I just want to make sure

1353
01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 6: that before I get into another relationship, like I know

1354
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 6: who I am, so that I never will feel like

1355
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 6: I compromise myself.

1356
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 3: Yes, no, yes, compromising myself. That's a liter a lot

1357
01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:52,000
Speaker 3: of that.

1358
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:56,120
Speaker 5: Wow, that's a big that's a big one. And you

1359
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:57,600
Speaker 5: have to really be in tune with who you are

1360
01:07:57,720 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 5: to know when you're being compromised.

1361
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 6: And it's not to say like I know, there's not

1362
01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:04,040
Speaker 6: this moment where it's like, Okay, I've finally reached enlightenment.

1363
01:08:05,080 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 3: Now I'm ready. The shop is open. The work guys,

1364
01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 3: I'm ready. Everyone's married.

1365
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 19: I'm only accepting five star restaurants, five star credit right right, Okay, but.

1366
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 3: I forgot the work is heavy. I don't what are

1367
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:46,439
Speaker 3: we talking about. I hate to join two times and

1368
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:47,200
Speaker 3: I'm lost.

1369
01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 6: Well, I was just talking about working on myself before

1370
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 6: you get into another relationships.

1371
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 3: You said you were like thinking you're you don't want

1372
01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 3: to waste your time. You're looking for something long term.

1373
01:08:57,240 --> 01:09:01,760
Speaker 5: You're not why, you know, even the celibacy, I still

1374
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 5: fuck it in so many other ways.

1375
01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh girl, I get so much work to do.

1376
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 3: You can't have sex, you can't do shit. They just said, like, what,

1377
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 3: don't be hard on yourself if you just take it

1378
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:12,120
Speaker 3: one day at a time.

1379
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:15,040
Speaker 6: You know, like, if you try to like accomplish everything

1380
01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 6: at once, you'll always come up short. You'll always feel

1381
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 6: like you fail, you know, because it's not realistic and.

1382
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 3: It's just not Yeah, this is not for some people.

1383
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 6: It is for the people that are just so I

1384
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 6: don't know. It's so disciplined, but maybe not happy. You know,

1385
01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 6: like sometimes you have in order to learn, you have

1386
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 6: to take baby steps. So if you do it all

1387
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:36,759
Speaker 6: at once, I feel like it didn't stick.

1388
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 3: I need this shit to stick. Yeah, it's true. You know,

1389
01:09:40,760 --> 01:09:42,519
Speaker 3: you might have to learn a few more lessons before

1390
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 3: some certain thingstick. Yeah, Okay, we have another advice question.

1391
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 3: You do you do? Hey, ladies, I'm a bit stuck

1392
01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 3: and I don't have any mom friends to turn to.

1393
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 5: I was telling my guy friend how my younger friends

1394
01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:58,759
Speaker 5: are outliving life doing coke, and I made a comment

1395
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 5: on how I miss those days. We then went into

1396
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 5: a deep conversation about going out and having fun like

1397
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:06,439
Speaker 5: we used to. I explained to him that I'm not

1398
01:10:06,560 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 5: in a place where I have someone who is willing

1399
01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:10,559
Speaker 5: to watch my daughter without it being a big deal,

1400
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 5: and her dad isn't in a stable environment for me

1401
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 5: to drop her off with him, so I'm kind of

1402
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 5: stuck at home with her. He told me these were

1403
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 5: excuses and I could make a way if I really

1404
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,639
Speaker 5: wanted to. I shugged it off because I know he's

1405
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:25,840
Speaker 5: kind of right. Then the conversation kind of turned because

1406
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:28,680
Speaker 5: I expressed that I felt like I've lost myself when

1407
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 5: I became a mother, and he said, no, you gave

1408
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:31,719
Speaker 5: up on yourself.

1409
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 3: Harsh. It hurt and made me second guess myself a bit.

1410
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:37,679
Speaker 3: Is this normal? Is this part of early motherhood?

1411
01:10:37,800 --> 01:10:39,680
Speaker 5: Am I just using my daughter as an excuse to

1412
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:41,400
Speaker 5: no longer be involved with people?

1413
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 9: No?

1414
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:49,200
Speaker 3: No, this is motherhood. Yeah, this was called year one,

1415
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 3: it's called her two.

1416
01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:50,519
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1417
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:52,880
Speaker 5: And as I told him'm like, you're still in an

1418
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:55,479
Speaker 5: early stage. And I said, he's also a man. I

1419
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 5: don't know if he has.

1420
01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 3: Kids or not, but he's a man.

1421
01:10:57,680 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 5: He doesn't really realize like literally the first two years

1422
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 5: as a sacrifice, Like you're like with your baby basically

1423
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 5: twenty for seven for at least the time, it's obviously

1424
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:12,920
Speaker 5: you're pregnant. You can't really do shit, even though I'm

1425
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:14,599
Speaker 5: not saying you have to, like you drawn to do shit.

1426
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 5: But also the until the baby's year, it's almost like

1427
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 5: in two years, you know, and he will never really

1428
01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 5: understand that, So he's he's he's not really understanding the

1429
01:11:27,680 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 5: full picture.

1430
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 3: It gave up on yourself.

1431
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:32,720
Speaker 6: Like first of all, that's that's kind of harsh, like

1432
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:36,680
Speaker 6: you can fall back, calm down. First of all, I

1433
01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:38,960
Speaker 6: don't know, like like what he's what you know?

1434
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 3: I don't. I'm sure there's two side survey story, but

1435
01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 3: I'm like, are you like wearing a paper bag every day?

1436
01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:49,040
Speaker 5: I'm not getting out, not doing shit? What do you

1437
01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 5: mean you gave for yourself? But I do think it's

1438
01:11:53,200 --> 01:12:00,439
Speaker 5: important that you try and stay like cute some times

1439
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 5: because I did fell off and I like those first

1440
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:07,640
Speaker 5: like that first year, like I'm like, I'm not going

1441
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 5: to just go anywhere.

1442
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:11,439
Speaker 3: But I don't know, I don't think it's just a

1443
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 3: fall off.

1444
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 6: It's like you're literally brought a human into the world,

1445
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:19,240
Speaker 6: like you are after you're like trying to and who needs.

1446
01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 2: You, you know what I mean?

1447
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 3: Like you specifically the mom so like I feel and

1448
01:12:26,280 --> 01:12:29,880
Speaker 3: then and you and you literally just went through a transformation.

1449
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 6: Your body just like released so many like vitamins and

1450
01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 6: so many nutrients all at once, Like you're feeling detached

1451
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 6: from something that just came out of your body.

1452
01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:45,000
Speaker 3: You want to spend time. It's so many confusing feelings.

1453
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:46,480
Speaker 3: It's confusion.

1454
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 6: It's almost it's like loss, confusion, joy, like pain, happiness,

1455
01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:57,080
Speaker 6: tell like extreme tiredness, regret, joy again, Like it's.

1456
01:12:57,080 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 3: Just like so many things. But it's like yeah, like

1457
01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:05,680
Speaker 3: it's a journey enlightenment.

1458
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:07,600
Speaker 5: Like always getting to know this, Like that's another thing

1459
01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:10,160
Speaker 5: people don't realize, Like you're literally getting.

1460
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:11,760
Speaker 3: To know a human that doesn't talk.

1461
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 6: Yeah, like a sorry that I'm like, I'm lost myself.

1462
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 6: I'm over here, just you know, creating you raising a human?

1463
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 3: Right, what are you doing? And I told her like

1464
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 3: when you guys, when you're ready, you'll be ready.

1465
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:31,760
Speaker 5: You'll know, you know, when it's a time for you

1466
01:13:31,840 --> 01:13:35,800
Speaker 5: to like you feel comfortable, not give you know, with

1467
01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,759
Speaker 5: who you have to watch your kid, its plan, everything

1468
01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:41,400
Speaker 5: will happen. You know, be conscious of who you are

1469
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 5: before and don't.

1470
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 3: Recite of that.

1471
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:44,600
Speaker 5: But I don't know how old you are, don't know

1472
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 5: how old your friends are. Like I was one of

1473
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 5: the first people with a baby, and you know, it

1474
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:54,000
Speaker 5: is like there is a separation, initially because I have

1475
01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:56,560
Speaker 5: shits a different thing than you have to do. But

1476
01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:59,479
Speaker 5: also you know, kids can go places, and now I

1477
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 5: think a lot of moms forget that, like that baby

1478
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:04,160
Speaker 5: is small, put a cute after on and let's go.

1479
01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 3: Okay, Lena is going everywhere, like to the dinners as.

1480
01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:11,880
Speaker 6: I think a lot of moms do think they think

1481
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,680
Speaker 6: it's like too much of a burden, or that it's

1482
01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 6: gonna the child's gonna be like a nuisance to someone,

1483
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:19,759
Speaker 6: or however you're.

1484
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:20,200
Speaker 3: Gonna look at me.

1485
01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, I literally take a lindit at all the like

1486
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:24,200
Speaker 5: pool parties at hotels because I know they can't really

1487
01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:25,519
Speaker 5: say shit because it's a pool.

1488
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:29,240
Speaker 3: You know, like I know we're going. You know, it's

1489
01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:33,960
Speaker 3: just a thing, does it? You can you can do both.

1490
01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:36,040
Speaker 5: You know, you can spend time with your kid and

1491
01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:40,880
Speaker 5: still get out I just think it's finding a balance

1492
01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 5: and finding what it feels right for you. And you know,

1493
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 5: you're getting more mature. Sometimes you don't want to deal

1494
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 5: with people. Oh't got time. You kind of get you

1495
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:50,320
Speaker 5: kind of see what's real and what's not too. I

1496
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:53,320
Speaker 5: think there's a bit of that, and there's a question

1497
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 5: sometimes who knows what? I don't know the relationship with

1498
01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:57,599
Speaker 5: this with the dad or like you said, he can't

1499
01:14:57,640 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 5: really he's not really contributing time wise.

1500
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1501
01:15:00,400 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 5: How's your relationship. Can you babysit at your house? How

1502
01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 5: do you feel about that?

1503
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:03,720
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1504
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:05,600
Speaker 5: I don't know where your real relationship is at. But

1505
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:10,680
Speaker 5: there's probably a lot of feelings towards that.

1506
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:13,360
Speaker 3: You know, there's so many you're dealing with a lot

1507
01:15:13,400 --> 01:15:13,679
Speaker 3: of things.

1508
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:16,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's so many things to consider. So yeah, don't

1509
01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:21,759
Speaker 5: don't judge yourself so harshly. And definitely that guy doesn't

1510
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:22,200
Speaker 5: know shit?

1511
01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:35,599
Speaker 3: Is that to answer? Yeah? That was all right? You guys,

1512
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:40,439
Speaker 3: Well it's late, I'm tired, our kids have gone crazy.

1513
01:15:40,600 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 3: Oh Benny, are they come?

1514
01:15:41,840 --> 01:15:46,439
Speaker 5: And okay, yeah, it's like give you at the him, like, okay,

1515
01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:49,680
Speaker 5: this is a rap. Happy Mother's Day. To all the

1516
01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 5: moms out there, We hope you have a great day.

1517
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 5: We hope all your baby daddies out. No cash that

1518
01:15:56,240 --> 01:16:00,599
Speaker 5: check on you, cash out, cash out, cash out? Where

1519
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 5: the cash gonna hash at you right that? You know,

1520
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:06,080
Speaker 5: that would be so appreciated. That would be like a

1521
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 5: really sweet gesture.

1522
01:16:07,439 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 3: What should I like plant that seed? Like?

1523
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,560
Speaker 5: It would be really great on Modnesday send me a

1524
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 5: cash out. I don't not telling you to do it

1525
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 5: right now on Monday. I'm just I'm not gonna even

1526
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:19,599
Speaker 5: tell you again. I'm just gonna see it too. I'm

1527
01:16:19,640 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 5: just gonna say it would be nice. It would be

1528
01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:22,720
Speaker 5: nice if you're wondering if we wanted to give me

1529
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:24,439
Speaker 5: something cash catch.

1530
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:30,759
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, see you guys later, See you guys next.

1531
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 7: Week starting say.

1532
01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:55,519
Speaker 2: Where you will see the walls.

1533
01:16:56,800 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 7: FA you, sir, Ben Buh