1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: air Pop Pop, just like we're gonna read this one 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: right here, right now, and you never know it could 7 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 1: be yours. You never know could be and hold on tight. 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here It is Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject the jump off jumped on him. 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and I've 11 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: been dating this guy for almost eight months and We've 12 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: had fun getting to know each other. He was honest 13 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: in the beginning and told me he had some loose 14 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: ends to tie up before we got serious, and I 15 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: appreciated that honesty. The fact that he didn't hide his 16 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: phone or turned his ringer off made me feel that 17 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 1: he was ready to be in a relationship with me, 18 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: so I didn't trip. We went all we went out 19 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: all over town, and I stayed at his home all 20 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: of the time. The only thing that made me suspect 21 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: suspect he was up to something was a few nights 22 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: I couldn't reach him, but I let it go. I 23 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 1: invited him to visit my parents with me. My parents 24 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 1: live about two hours from us, so we went on 25 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: an overnight trip to visit them. They cooked dinner for us, 26 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: and after dinner, my man and I went out to 27 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 1: a hookah spot to unwind. My boyfriend got a phone 28 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: call and walked away to take it. He got upset 29 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: and he was ready to go back to my parents house. 30 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: We got to his car and there was a car 31 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: blocking us in. He asked the car to move and 32 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: the lady flipped him off. I didn't think anything of it. 33 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: When we got to my parents house, that same car 34 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: pulled up in the driveway. This same lady got out 35 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: and ran up and started hit started hitting on my man. 36 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: My dad heard the commotion and came outside to pull 37 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: her off my man. The lady said she's been seeing 38 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: my man for a few months and she followed us. 39 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: I was very embarrassed and reluctantly took him to the 40 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: er to get stitches. In her words, she told policea 41 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: she knew she was the jump off, but she fell 42 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,119 Speaker 1: in love with him and he wouldn't leave me for her. 43 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: He said he got caught up slept with her. But 44 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: he wants me, Can I trust this man and continue 45 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: this relationship to despite just what happened? What just happened, Well, 46 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: he certainly has no control over what crazy did. I mean, 47 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: she did that all on her own, gave him stitches 48 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: and all of that. But the crazy part is that 49 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: this really happened. I mean, she's fatal attraction crazy like 50 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: the movie. You do know that, right, And now she 51 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: knows where your parents live. She stopped you, guys from 52 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: the restaurant Beetra man so badly that he needed stitches, 53 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: and she's only been seeing him for a few months. Well, 54 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: I'm sure you're parents would tell you to run, and 55 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 1: I'm probably good. I'm gonna tell you the same thing. 56 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 1: I mean, your safety is way more important, even though 57 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: she didn't do anything to you. She just did it 58 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: to your man. But you don't want to wait around 59 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: and see how crazy she really is. Again, I think 60 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: your safety is very important, And even if you were 61 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,119 Speaker 1: to keep seeing him, you would always be looking over 62 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 1: your shoulder wondering if crazy could be lurking in a 63 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: corner somewhere. So you know, I'm gonna say it's a 64 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: no for me or you as far as this relationship goes, 65 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: because this woman is too crazy. She's just too crazy. Steve, Well, 66 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: I don't have the letter in front of me because 67 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: of my whereabouts again, so we're going to have to 68 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: deal with this letter just a little bit differently. The 69 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: title of the letter again, Shirley, is the jump off 70 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: jumped on him. Steve jump Off jumped on him to 71 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: jump off didn't jump on you. He didn't jump on you. 72 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: His daddy jumped on the jump off. It's just a 73 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: lot of jumping going on. I appreciate it, and none 74 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: to me like a good old ass whooping type letter 75 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: to deal with. So I specialize in this because I 76 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:20,039 Speaker 1: have been jumped home before by the jump off, the 77 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 1: jumpie and the jumper. Wow, I've had all three ass 78 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: whippers in my life, the jumper, the jumpie, and the 79 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: jump off, and then I ended up as the jumped 80 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: So it's all all so relative here. The wonderful thing 81 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: about having a sixty five year old famous radio show 82 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 1: holes with means it means that he has had a 83 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: full life. The beauty of the Steve Harvey Morning Shows 84 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: that I don't mind being transparent in my full life now. 85 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: Can I tell everything? Absolutely not, But will I share 86 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: with you a lot? Of course it makes for more 87 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: interesting radio. I happen to be one of the most 88 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: compelling radio personalities on radio today, the Steve Harvey Martin 89 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 1: Shaw's more compelling than most shows because I don't really 90 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: care about the damn issues more than I care about myself. 91 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: That's why all issues and make them about me. That 92 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: way you can understand from a personal standpoint. Wise, So 93 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 1: this letter right here is very easy for me to do. 94 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna wait the second half to give you resolution, 95 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: but I'm just giving you a little strawberry letter history. 96 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: This letter is very simple for me to do. The 97 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: jump off jumped on him. Well, the hall I can 98 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,239 Speaker 1: say is you're glad she didn't get to your ass. 99 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 1: You know, it seemed like the type that can handle 100 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: much jumping. You appreciate your land, your daddy in this 101 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: lander for coming out and on the porch and jumping 102 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: on the jump burd See the jump off. Didn't know 103 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: that the jump off you was gonna come in there 104 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: and get jumped. See. I wrote a book called jump 105 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: which again next me an expert on this hill. Jump off. 106 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: This it is amazing how this works, don't you see it? Fans, friends, 107 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: hate us, Internet trolls. Yeah, yea, because because that's who 108 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: listened to the show. We got fans, we got friends, 109 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: we got loyalty people, and then we got to hate 110 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: us didn't listen to the show. So I'll be giving 111 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 1: out internet advice when we come back on the jump 112 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 1: off jumped on him. He got stitch. You're listening, all right? 113 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's reakp today's Strawberry letter. The subject 114 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: the jump off jumped on him. Very quickly. In recap, 115 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 1: we've learned that this jump off jumped on him. To 116 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: set this letter up, you are dealing with someone who 117 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: has been jumped on by the jumper, the jump off 118 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: and the jump eat. I have been all of it, 119 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: and I've written a book called jump So we are 120 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: dealing with an expert on this letter right here. So 121 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: let us begin. Shirley, read the letter quickly and I'll 122 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: tell you the points I need for you to stop 123 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: because this is the letter in the nut shield. Okay, 124 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: there's Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty two years old and I've 125 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: been dating this guy for almost eight months and we've 126 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 1: had fun getting to know each other. He was honest 127 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: in the beginning and told me he had some loose 128 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: ends to tie up before we got serious, and I 129 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: appreciated that honesty. The loose ends is what jumped on 130 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: his ass. The loop ends is the one that jumped 131 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: on his go ahead read all right. But the fact 132 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: that he didn't hide his phone or turn his ringer 133 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: off made me feel that he was ready to be 134 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: in a relationship with me, so I didn't trip Stop 135 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: right there. You can't cut your phone off when your 136 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: jumpie is crazy, because if they can't contact you, that 137 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: elevates the craziness read okay. We went out all over 138 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: town and I stayed at his home all of the time. 139 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 1: The only thing that made me suspect suspect that he 140 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: was up to something was a few nights I couldn't 141 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: reach him, but I let it go. Okay, stop right there, 142 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: once again, this is the loose ends. He over there 143 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: trying to tie a knight in it, and obviously it 144 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: don't work. Read. I invited him to visit my parents 145 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: with me. My parents live about two hours from us, 146 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 1: so we went on an overnight trip to visit them. 147 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: They cook dinner for us, and after dinner, my man 148 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 1: and I went out to a hookah spot to unwind. 149 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: My boyfriend got a phone call and walked away to 150 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: take it. Stop. Got upset and he was ready to 151 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: stop right there. Okay, phone call. Got up from the 152 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: table to take it once again. This is the loose end, 153 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: and the loose end is very loose now cause it's 154 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 1: calling at inappropriate moments. Read. He got upset and he 155 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: was ready to go back to my parents' house. Stop 156 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: right there. He far saw something that the jumpie was 157 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 1: about to do. To jump off has discovered his location. 158 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: He ready to go back to your mama house right 159 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 1: now because he knows what's coming. Read. We got to 160 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: his car and there was a car blocking us in 161 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:07,439 Speaker 1: Stop right down. It's too late. The damn jump off 162 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: is hill and she's blocking the car. He tried to 163 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: get back to your mama's house in time. She was 164 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: circling the block. She found the call. Oh lord. Read. 165 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: He asked the car to move, and the lady flipped 166 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 1: him off. Stop right down. You can't ask the jump 167 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:38,199 Speaker 1: off to do no favors when they let you jump 168 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: on them and became the jump off. That was all 169 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: the fever. You get read, I didn't think anything of 170 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: it when we stop right down, you stupid. Read when 171 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 1: we got to my power hell, you didn't think nothing 172 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: of a woman blocking the car flipping your bed. Read 173 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,199 Speaker 1: When we got to my parents house, that same are 174 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: pulled up in the driveway, stop right there to jump 175 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: off the loose end all in one to jump off, 176 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: and the lucy end ain't working all this time up 177 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 1: the loose end is it hasn't worked. The jump off 178 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: is loose. She at your mama house, Read this same 179 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: lady got out and ran up and started hitting on 180 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 1: my man. Stop right there. The loose end is as 181 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 1: loose as it can get. Right now. Read My dad 182 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: heard the commotion and came outside to pull her off 183 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:38,319 Speaker 1: of my man. Stop right there, then down tend to 184 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 1: rescue it's underdog. He tried to come in and say 185 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: today it was too late. I ain't saying that the 186 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 1: loose hands is a problem, but this helfer good hands 187 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 1: bathe The lady says she's been seeing my man for 188 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: a few months, and she followed us. I was very 189 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: embarrassed and reluctantly took him to the er to get stitches. 190 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: Stop right there after your daddy pulled her off. She 191 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 1: says she had been seeing him for a few moments. 192 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: One thing I can tell you about this man right hill, 193 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 1: this boy bringing it yeah, and you're following him jumping 194 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: on him? He read quickly shut all right. I was 195 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: very embarrassing and reluctantly took him to the ear to 196 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: get stitches. In her words, she told police that she 197 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: knew she was the jump off, but she fell in 198 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 1: love with him and he wouldn't leave me for her. 199 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: Stop right there. I know I'm the jump off, but 200 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: he bringing is so good. I'm in love with him now, 201 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 1: and he not giving the jumpy product to a new 202 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,839 Speaker 1: jump off. I'm fitting the state to jump off. Read. 203 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 1: He said he got caught up slept with her, but 204 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 1: he wants me. Can I trust this man and continue 205 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: this relationship despite just what happened. What just happened. When 206 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 1: we come back, I will close it out very very quickly. 207 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 1: Here's the solution to this letter at the end. Right 208 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening, all right, Steve, Here we go 209 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: with part three of today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is 210 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: the jump off jumped on him. We all know that 211 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: this dude is he had some luciens when he started 212 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: dating the letter that wrote dating the lady that wrote 213 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: the letter, and he said, hey, listen, I'm gonna be honest, 214 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: which I got some loose ends. He was trying to 215 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: get these luciens tied up with the jump off chick, 216 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,359 Speaker 1: but it didn't work out. The luciens was too less. 217 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: He's bringing it too good. I mean, this boy's doing 218 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: some things to people that's got them all twisted up. 219 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: You included in this letter to the point where she 220 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: then jumped on his ass and gave him stitches. That's 221 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: a for elocious. And because he's doing something I'm talking 222 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:08,719 Speaker 1: about outstanding, let's do right. Here's bringing it. Here's the 223 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 1: problem line. You want to know should you continue in 224 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: this relationship and Shirley told you to run. You want 225 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: to know if you should stay with him, and Shirley 226 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: told you to get out. Now, Shirley gave you good advices. 227 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: My take is different. Shirley was almost there with me, 228 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 1: but then she switched. He told you it was some 229 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: problems he had. The problem he dating a crazy. Now 230 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: he's probably a good man, but he dated a crazy 231 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: and he put it on the crazy person. Too good. See, 232 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: when you're dating a crazy person, you can't give him 233 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: your all in all. But he don't know that because 234 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 1: he young, y'all in your thirties, he don't know that. See, 235 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 1: you have to portion it out or based on the 236 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: sanity you can only you have to portion it out 237 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 1: based on senate crazy people. You can't give them your all. 238 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: You have to wait until you meet a calm, sensible 239 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 1: woman for you start giving it your all. You give 240 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: it all to a crazy person, they're already crazy. Now 241 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: you in't here touching spots and calls and chemical reactions 242 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: and stuff, and and they already crazy. Then you're not 243 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 1: set up here and slept with this bipolar healther now 244 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: here comes hell. That's how good it is. Or bust 245 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: you outside your head and give you stitches. Jasmin's Sullivan 246 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: was breaking out car one and she was busting faces. 247 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 1: It's all the same. I bust through windows out your car. 248 00:15:54,000 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: I put some stitches on your head. It open your 249 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: phone here. Seeing you to the doctor may cause you 250 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 1: to stay in bed. I'll put some stitches in your hair. 251 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: Too much jazz based on what you saying? All right, 252 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: comments today, stubbery letter and Instagram, and Steve Harvey fm 253 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: dot com. Check out the Subbery Letter podcast on demand. 254 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.