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Speaker 2: Will power is free? Am I the a hole? I

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Speaker 2: mean it sounds like op is just given some tough love.

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Speaker 2: Teach a man to not do drugs and he can

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Speaker 1: He sells them for life totally and he becomes a millionaire. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Maybe there's a reason. Maybe maybe Opie just wants to

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Speaker 2: make his kid's life hard. There's only one way to

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Speaker 1: My husband and I have been married for three years now.

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Speaker 2: Ohp he's a lady.

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Speaker 1: OPI is, yes, a step mommy my late husband, my

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Speaker 3: We both contributed to her college fund.

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Speaker 1: My daughter's paternal grandparents have also contributed a large amount.

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Speaker 2: That's a big college fund. That is like, she's she sizables.

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Speaker 2: She can go away anywhere with that. That's right, Eat,

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Speaker 2: maybe USC, Yes, that's only probably only two years. Just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my daughter is extremely bright. And I'm not just

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Speaker 1: I see right through.

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Speaker 2: Everyone says their child is so bright and so smart

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Speaker 2: We will see.

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Speaker 1: Listen as the wise Gary Vee says, your parents, Fuck

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Speaker 2: My wife and I are both in our mid forties

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Speaker 2: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: So how are you thinking about for your children? What

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and donate it to Okop, there we go. I

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Speaker 3: We are a much better cause.

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Speaker 2: I can tell you that. Yeah, we will keep this

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Speaker 2: content coming for you. We'll make a whole show. If

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Speaker 2: specifically about your life and only about you. We will.

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Speaker 2: That's not a joke. That's not a joke. If you

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Speaker 1: Oo, I inherited all of the money and my brother,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to give him his share? Am I

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Speaker 3: Jesus like, how how much more? Mad?

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Speaker 1: My god, it'll be have some fucking mercy God. Okay,

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Speaker 1: get the full skip. So I twenty nine male, and

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Speaker 2: I see right.

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Speaker 1: But the key thing here is he isn't working and

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Speaker 1: That's a lot of power and probably a lot of

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Speaker 1: share of the savings that Steve or I pay the

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Speaker 1: rent on the Council flat which is a government assisted

440
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 1: which is a government subsidized apartment he's received, and other living.

441
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Speaker 3: Costs as a family.

442
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Speaker 1: We all agreed that this was best, not least, as

443
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,160
Speaker 1: Harry's becoming more independent as time goes on, and maybe

444
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:54,960
Speaker 1: one day he will be able to get a job

445
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Speaker 1: and earn a modest living.

446
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Speaker 2: I mean, that makes sense. You don't want to get

447
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 2: I mean, if his autistic and can't hold a job,

448
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 2: you don't want to give him like four hundred thousand dollars.

449
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 1: Yes, but it's also wild that they didn't sit down

450
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,199
Speaker 1: like I mean, laughing at it.

451
00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 2: It's like, is that not true? Well, I well, I imagine,

452
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,880
Speaker 2: I imagine if it was, Like I have to guess

453
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Speaker 2: the smart way is to do it to in a

454
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Speaker 2: state for him with maybe a got like there's like

455
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Speaker 2: power of attorney. I know, if you were going to

456
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Speaker 2: trust more than his brother, that's okay, So okay, maybe

457
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,399
Speaker 2: that's essentially what this is because I'm like, but but

458
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:33,160
Speaker 2: giving it to they basically are like, hey, the brother,

459
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,919
Speaker 2: you have everything, and then you distribute it versus like,

460
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Speaker 2: this is Harry's money.

461
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Speaker 3: You can decide how it's spent on Harry.

462
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Speaker 2: Oh that is.

463
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Speaker 3: The difference here.

464
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Speaker 1: And they sat down, They sat down to decide to

465
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Speaker 1: give Harry the money. So it's weird that they didn't

466
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Speaker 1: decide to sorry, to ope to money.

467
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Speaker 2: Maybe it's like like, I mean, what if OP could

468
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Speaker 2: like invest it or like you know, like just can

469
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,439
Speaker 2: can grow rather than if it's just spent on Harry

470
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 2: then it never grows.

471
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Speaker 1: Yes, but I have to imagine there's a way to say, hey,

472
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Speaker 1: spin this on Harry's behalf, which could also be an investment.

473
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah that like that basically right now the brother has

474
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Speaker 1: the power to completely spend all of it. From my

475
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 1: understanding of yaye, we got the best setup. Maybe maybe

476
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 1: not the best setup.

477
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Speaker 2: Maybe.

478
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Speaker 1: Now sadly that's not happened before my mom's passing, and

479
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Speaker 1: now I don't know what to do.

480
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Speaker 2: Oh so it hasn't been distributed like that before the

481
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Speaker 2: mom's passing, So now it's like whatever the court decides.

482
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Speaker 1: Oh I see right, Okay that yeah, that changes everything

483
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: a lot too. I think keeping money back for Harry

484
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 1: feels smartest. But Steve wants a third of everything now, Okay,

485
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:54,360
Speaker 1: he just straight up wants his cut immediately, which.

486
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Speaker 2: Is I don't think is a terrible expectation, not.

487
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Speaker 3: A terrible expectation.

488
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Speaker 1: But I'm also like kind of like what we were

489
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Speaker 1: saying on the last story, Like I'm like, I don't

490
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:06,119
Speaker 1: expect anything from an inheritance, so why not have my

491
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Speaker 1: brother who could really use it?

492
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Speaker 2: Like why not? Like I mean, it's like use the

493
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 2: other third for your brother? Yeah yeah right, yeah, yeah, yeah,

494
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 2: yeah yeah.

495
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Speaker 1: But the problem is if yeah, the problem is is

496
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Speaker 1: the is the three?

497
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Speaker 3: Is one third enough? I guess right.

498
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Speaker 1: I've suggested we all take a smaller share ten percent

499
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Speaker 1: for now, and keep the rest to support Harry, and

500
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Speaker 1: then if he doesn't need it in the future, then

501
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 1: obviously Steve will get his share of the third. I

502
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: think that's a fantastic idea, right, get you get some now,

503
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 1: take ten percent. You know it's not nothing, and if

504
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: it's never used then you can get all of it back.

505
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 3: Right.

506
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 2: Pretty reasonable. It's like, essentially this is insurance if Harry

507
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 2: never works.

508
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: Because also, what if something happens and like, uh, you know, uh,

509
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: what's the other brother? If Steve blows his third and

510
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: then and then they're like need more, we need more money,

511
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: but now it's gone versus like this is a very

512
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: fail safe solution. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah yeah. Steve is

513
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: not happy and he's calling me an asshole. He won't

514
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: answer my calls, and his friends are blowing up on me.

515
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: The situation feels unwinnable as I want to support Harry,

516
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 1: but I can see Steve's side.

517
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 2: I mean, he feels entitled to that money, but he isn't.

518
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 2: I guess if OP is if OP decides because he's

519
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 2: the decider. Maybe the parents set it up that way

520
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 2: because they the other guy. Uh, Steve is not good

521
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 2: with money. That is a good theory.

522
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm thinking maybe I should just give him a third,

523
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Speaker 1: even if it means I might not end up receiving anything.

524
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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for holding firm?

525
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 1: There's one click edit edit to clarify if Harry doesn't

526
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,879
Speaker 1: need the money, Steve will get his full share of

527
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 1: a third of my parents possession.

528
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Speaker 3: Well, when when do you decide that he doesn't need

529
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 3: the money? That's a good question.

530
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 2: That is a good question when he turns eighteen, like

531
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Speaker 2: how old? How old is.

532
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Speaker 1: He's above eighteen? I believe he is twenty four. I

533
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: think I think probably because you know how he was

534
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: saying like, oh, if he he's he's improving now and

535
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 1: he might be able to earn a job, get a

536
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: job and earn like a modest living. Maybe that's what

537
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,639
Speaker 1: he means. So it's like, Okay, he's earning you know,

538
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: thirty k year. This is looking pretty solid now he

539
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: can distribute the rest, but it's probably also fully up

540
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 1: up to them.

541
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's I think it's hard. I like being Steve.

542
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, if I'm really want that money, I'm like,

543
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 2: when am I going to get that? That seems like

544
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 2: it seems like, yeah, it could be never because.

545
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 1: For op Opie's like, oh I can always decide for me,

546
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: Like it feels so much clearer being in control of

547
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: it versus like someone else is deciding for you. And like,

548
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 1: to your point, I do think it is pretty fair

549
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: of like, hey, there's three brothers, it's a third you know.

550
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 2: That seems fair.

551
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 3: There's something there.

552
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 2: But again there's something is the person put in control

553
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 2: for a reason and he can decide what he wants.

554
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 2: I think he'll ruin his relationship with his brother though

555
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 2: if his brother feels he's entitled to thirty thirty percent

556
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 2: thirty three percent.

557
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: I think your theory of the parents kind of trusted Ope,

558
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 1: and they were like, hey, we think that you will

559
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: do whatever's best for Harry. Because also, like again like

560
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: we were talking, like it sounds like Steve or Ope,

561
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 1: They're they're doing fine. They're able to kind of like

562
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 1: go out and you know, pursue what they want out

563
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: of life. So at that point, I'm kind of just

564
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 1: like it's on you versus like, hey, here's here's a

565
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,440
Speaker 1: family member who like we have the funds for it.

566
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: Also could reduce the stress for Stephen Harry because imagine

567
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 1: if they ran out of money, the stress that would

568
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: be on them. Like for me, I would value it's

569
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: like purchasing peace of mind.

570
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 2: So we value as stress free life than like the

571
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: extra cash.

572
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So I don't know, Honestly, I'm

573
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 1: wondering now.

574
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 2: It's like I wonder about what my parents have there

575
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 2: set up it like as if they die, like do

576
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 2: they did they give it all to me? Or did

577
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,919
Speaker 2: they split it equally between me and my sister? I

578
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 2: have to imagine split equally, that's what it is.

579
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I I'm I would assume that uh Op's

580
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 1: parents did this uh because of Harry's disability and they

581
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: knew that he would probably need some extra support. Yeah,

582
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: but that's that's tricky one.

583
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 2: Tricky one, tricky one. I mean, what would you do

584
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 2: if you were the mom? How would you allow the

585
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 2: finances to trickle down to the sun? So one is disabled,

586
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 2: one is OP, and one like you know, is not

587
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 2: disabled but may not be good with money. Who knows?

588
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: How how would you put it? How would you trickle

589
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 2: it down? And what would you do with your op?

590
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 2: Would love to know your comments in the comments. But

591
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 2: though my brother is bullied mercilessly and I don't care.

592
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 3: He kind of deserves it. Am I the man? You know?

593
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 2: They say that tough love is the best love. They do,

594
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 2: That's exactly what they say. Yeah, yeah, I actually think

595
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 2: my bullying built my character. I think I'm a more

596
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 2: resilient I actually believe this. I am or a resilient

597
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 2: human because I got kicked in the nuts in middle school.

598
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: Would there be a Samuel donner without a saladary be.

599
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 2: This podcast if my nuts weren't traumatized, I don't think so.

600
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 2: So I'm all about that nut trauma.

601
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: We we You might not have billions of sperm, but

602
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: we have thousands of content episodes so.

603
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 2: That we do, and thousands of loyal followers and subscribers.

604
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 2: We love you the okay fam, that's right, let's get

605
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 2: into this episode. So, my brother Darren, fifteen male, is

606
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 2: getting bullied in quotes online in his and my parents' word,

607
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 2: I mean, in my opinion, which might be kind of bad.

608
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 2: I think he deserves it, damn loyal. Basically, he slid

609
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: into a girl's DMS, got rejected, and unleashed a ton

610
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: of disgusting sexist abuse on her. The girl made an

611
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: insta post about it that got shared around the kids

612
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 2: at our school, and then a bunch of people commented

613
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 2: about how he had done similar things to them.

614
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: So that's the bullying is people being like yo, stop

615
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: being in a soul.

616
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: Basically, yeah, it sounds like he was an ethole and

617
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: then got his come up and for being an athole.

618
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: That's I feel like that's just it's a two way stress.

619
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 3: This bullying is as a purpose.

620
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know this bullying has a great purpose exactly,

621
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 2: like why do we have prison? You tell me, for

622
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: people who do bad things? Why do we have the

623
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: death penalty? Why? Sam? Actually I don't think we should

624
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 2: have the death penalty. But bullying is good for this kid.

625
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 2: He didn't kill all the bullies, killed all the bullies.

626
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 2: Murder every bully. That's right, that's that's our punishment. But actually,

627
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 2: maybe castration. This guy needs to be castrated. You know

628
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 2: he's looking at me like I'm saying something bad here.

629
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 3: When you take a stand, you take a stand.

630
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 2: Let's go like old school Biblical. You know, he who

631
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 2: shall slither into the d MS without respect shall lose

632
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 2: both testicles.

633
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 1: Wow, that's a bad one. Bad DM slide and.

634
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 3: More test chopped off.

635
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 2: You'll solve the problem, bold move that is true, That

636
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 2: would solve the problem. Drive gone. It was honestly disturbing

637
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 2: to read. And while I knew my brother was kind

638
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 2: of off, I didn't think he was this bad. I

639
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 2: read that he called a black girl an ugly and word.

640
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 2: Once they got into an argument about politics. Why would

641
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 2: you get into an argument about politics that's throwing someone

642
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 2: like with someone who's thrown racial slurs around. It's like

643
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 2: they've already lost credibility.

644
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: I mean, this kid, I think is basically like so

645
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: in Selle, so in Selly, so like in his own world,

646
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: so in this in this kind of like the cycle

647
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: of stupidity that he doesn't even understand.

648
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 2: I don't even know in cells could be combined with racists.

649
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 2: It's like a it's possible, all the ists in soull

650
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 2: he's like the Thanos of the Infinity Stones of dumb

651
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: exactly and being a being a bigot, and a lot

652
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 2: of other people have awful experiences with him as well.

653
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 2: Her post currently has over one thousand likes, so a

654
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: lot of people had seen it. Damn.

655
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not an Okyo p episode.

656
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 2: But you know what I'm saying, Well, just think about

657
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 2: this now, this post is gonna get even more views

658
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 2: and more episode and more legs, and so we're gonna

659
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 2: we're gonna just absolutely destroy this man's whole life. That's right,

660
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 2: this in Cell's life. You deserve it. You deserve to

661
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 2: be in a cell. No nuts, wow, nutless. My brother

662
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 2: is currently suspended in the school's deciding on what they

663
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 2: should do moving forward. Suspension feels like the right move. However,

664
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,719
Speaker 2: my parents are furious with me for not sticking up

665
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 2: for him or defending him. They have punished him, but

666
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 2: they're currently in the midicatory period in order to try

667
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 2: to protect his future, which I mean, they're their parents,

668
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: you know, makes sense. They want to make sure that

669
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 2: he's not totally fed. Yeah.

670
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, he just sounds like a kid that like just

671
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: started clicking on all these like the crazy wormholes and

672
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: just got sucked in and is just I.

673
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 2: Think he's doing one hundred percent a terrible thing. Yeah,

674
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,239
Speaker 2: deserves to be reprimanded if he's young enough. I mean,

675
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 2: I don't think it's what you should be ruined. Yeah, like,

676
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 2: like take this as an opportunity to educate, Like, let's

677
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 2: not destroy his life, which will probably only cement him

678
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: worse in his ways. A thing, Let's take this opportunity

679
00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 2: to say, you were being bad, but not necessary have

680
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 2: you don't have you not are bad forever. Yeah, you

681
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 2: can redeem yourself. Let's let's try to turn the ship around.

682
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 3: Probably the best chance of him actually like seeing.

683
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: How wrong he is exactly, It's true that it's getting

684
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,600
Speaker 2: pretty bad. He gets hateful DMS every day, and there's

685
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 2: even a Darren hate page I guess his name is

686
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 2: Darren on Instagram with dozens of followers. A lot of

687
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 2: his friends have cut ties with him, and he's constantly

688
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 2: crying or angry. He's scared for his future and his

689
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 2: mental health has taken a toll. I've gotten backlash too

690
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 2: for being a sister, and I've had to explain to

691
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 2: numerous people in my DMS that I don't condone his behavior.

692
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 2: I think it's absolutely disgusting, et cetera. My parents and

693
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 2: Darren expect me to make some sort of statement of

694
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 2: solidarity for him, or at least tell people to move on,

695
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 2: but I don't want to. For one, that get people

696
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 2: mad at me. But two, I honestly think he deserves

697
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 2: all of this for what he did. I told him

698
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 2: that I think his future college slash career prospects are

699
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 2: probably wrecked, but there was no one to blame but himself.

700
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 2: I don't know if I would say that again, like

701
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 2: in the thought of like making sure he doesn't dive

702
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 2: deeper into these ways. Yeah, show him that. Hey, if

703
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 2: you turn this around and admit that you're being a

704
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 2: total asshole and see the error of your ways. Maybe

705
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 2: there is a future for you. Yeah, you know, don't

706
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,240
Speaker 2: like completely destroy this man's it's.

707
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: Also giving like just like a big sister energy where

708
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: it's like you stupid little fit, like you're not going

709
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: to get like he's.

710
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 2: A stupid little Yeah, he's a stupid what.

711
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying, it's like it's like that's like the very

712
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 1: like the super empathetic, like try to make him grow

713
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: approach versus like, this is my annoying little brother and

714
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 1: he's being.

715
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 3: Like a total beyond yeah, beyond beyond annoying brother.

716
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 2: Like yeah, he's legitimately being a terrible person, yes, but again,

717
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 2: try to turn the ship around. Yeah, unless I mean

718
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 2: unless he doesn't give it and then sink your brother

719
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 2: sink it. That sent him into a spiral of wailing

720
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 2: and rage, and my parents are incredibly angry that I

721
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 2: don't support him because quote, he can change and ultimately

722
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: he's my brother and I need to be on his

723
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 2: side when the whole world is against him. There isn't

724
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: eda to answer a common question. He has given a

725
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 2: public apology, but it felt really insincere to me since

726
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 2: he only said it after the girl's post started getting traction.

727
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 2: When she first posted it, he DMed her with threats

728
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 2: and insults to take it down. Also, I didn't say

729
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 2: his future prospects were gone as in he couldn't grow

730
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 2: and not be sexist or racist, just that in a

731
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 2: practical sense he wasn't going to be getting into a

732
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 2: really good college slash become a politician like he wanted.

733
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,240
Speaker 2: Man is making all the wrong political He's trying.

734
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 3: To become how you build a career in politics.

735
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 2: But is Op the a hole for saying what she

736
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 2: did and not being on his side? What do you think?

737
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 2: I want to know what everyone else thinks in the conference?

738
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 2: What would you do if this was your brother?

739
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:34,439
Speaker 3: What would you do?

740
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 2: And too, Surnaris? What would you do with this with

741
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 2: your brother? And you didn't care, you know, didn't have

742
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 2: a relationship with him, But what if you did? What

743
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 2: if this came out about like your current sibling that

744
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 2: you may may have a good relationship with, what would

745
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 2: you do?

746
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, John, I'm curious your thoughts one hundred percent?

747
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 1: Like it's so it's really an ahole move on the

748
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: parents to try and force Op to come up with

749
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: this like statement of.

750
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 3: Solidarity or whatever. She's like she doesn't believe it.

751
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I at first it seems like okay, they

752
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,720
Speaker 1: were like trying to steer him on the right course

753
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 1: and like you know, trying to figure it out, but

754
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: like basically being like, oh no, he's okay, it's fine,

755
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: Like I stand with him. Like that doesn't help him

756
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 1: learn anything exactly, Like and then also, like Opie said,

757
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: like it puts it on her, like, oh now I'm

758
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: gonna catch off.

759
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:20,959
Speaker 3: She's already catching a lot of smoke.

760
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, why should she catch more heat for something this

761
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 2: guy did?

762
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent.

763
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 2: So I think that that's a very bad parenting move

764
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 2: on the airport on their part in trying to came

765
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 2: out about your sister or something. Right, your sister's the same.

766
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 2: And then you just find obviously your sister would never

767
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 2: do this. Yeah yeah, hyde world, hypothetical world, this came

768
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 2: out about your sister. You have the relationship that you

769
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 2: do with her, right now, what would you do?

770
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 1: First step, you have to like sit down with them

771
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: and like really have a like deep one on one

772
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: conversation to understand like, Okay, where did this come from?

773
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 1: Like especially with this kid, like where did this come from?

774
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: Like like like as as neutral as possible, just to

775
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: asserting like where is his head at? What is what

776
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: are the triggers that are like causing him to go

777
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: down these like different wormholes. And then the second thing

778
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: is like I think if anyone asks you one, I

779
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: don't think there's any public statement too. If anyone ever asked,

780
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: you'd be like, yeah, like that was like super fcked up.

781
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: I love my sister and like it seemed super out

782
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 1: of character for her to do that, but she needs

783
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 1: to be held accountable, and like I'm trying to hold

784
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 1: her accountable on that and help her like grow and change. Yeah,

785
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: see why that's wrong. Yeah, I feel like that is

786
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 1: what the parents should tell the sisters, Like, hey, if

787
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: anyone ever asks or anything like this, just be like, yeah,

788
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,399
Speaker 1: like what he said is completely wrong. I don't agree

789
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: with it at all, but I'm trying to work with

790
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: him so that we he can get better and do better.

791
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

792
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 2: I feel like, do you think the sister is being

793
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 2: as empathetic as she could be or should be?

794
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, there's probably like like what you were

795
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,919
Speaker 1: saying with like this the schools and opportunities and stuff

796
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: like that, like that's not as far as like, how

797
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 1: do we get him to start working on his mindset

798
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:02,720
Speaker 1: as quickly as possible?

799
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 3: Being like, oh, yeah, your future is ruined.

800
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 2: Is probably not the move the best way to everything else.

801
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 2: I think that she's been saying. And besides that, I

802
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 2: feel like has been is pretty glass the right decision.

803
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 3: She seems pretty level headed.

804
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: But I mean, like, I'm really curious what all of

805
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 2: you guys think. What would you do with this was

806
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 2: your sibling, your brother, your sister, maybe even your cousin

807
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: if you don't have a brother or sister, or your friend,

808
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 2: if you don't have a brother, sister, or cousin, or

809
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, like your kebab shop coffee barista person

810
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 2: that you really like and talk to every day. Shout out, Vinnie,

811
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 2: who's my barista person? Here? What would you do if

812
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 2: any of those people came out with these comments? Put

813
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 2: your answers in the comments below. In John, I want

814
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 2: to hear this next story. My girlfriend is getting too

815
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 2: friendly with my high school bully. So I went off

816
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: on her. Am I the ahle because you have a

817
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 2: cuckhold fetish and by going off, you mean exploded your

818
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 2: sweet juices on her while she was getting deep and

819
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 2: down and dirty with your bully. He couldn't hold it in.

820
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 3: He couldn't hold it in.

821
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 2: It's like, girl, it's so hot. Would you cook me

822
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 2: like that with the guy that cucked me my whole life?

823
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 2: I just got a bust. I love when Riley looks

824
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: at me like that. We'veout all that judgment has aviator,

825
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 2: so we can't see his full reaction. Yeah, come on,

826
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: let's let's let's see those peepers. Yeah, yeah, got older.

827
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:29,360
Speaker 2: Ah ah ooh baby, I went full frontal of your reactions.

828
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 2: We could honestly say anything about Riley and they wouldn't know.

829
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 2: What can he do?

830
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 3: Yeah?

831
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:35,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like literally naked right now. Oh he dude,

832
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,760
Speaker 1: he's he's naked. His wiener is covered in mosquito bites.

833
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: He actually might be true, which honestly he did on purpose.

834
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 2: He covered it with honey, and he's like, hey, I

835
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 2: heard this will help it grow twelve inches. I mean

836
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: it probably we've got a python right now, little ridges

837
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 2: like that's probably for your pressure. Yeah, bumpy for your pressure.

838
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 2: There we go. That's what they said about herpes too.

839
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 3: See bumpy for your pressure.

840
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 2: Riley, you got the herb.

841
00:39:58,480 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 3: You're never giving our producer a mic.

842
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, we will just forever say things and you will

843
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: just assume that it is correct because it is.

844
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 2: Yes, just be careful on Riley Man. Just make sure

845
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 2: you wrap it rap before you tap it. Before you

846
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,240
Speaker 2: tap it rap. You really don't be silly wise words

847
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 2: from our producer Riley.

848
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,760
Speaker 1: Me twenty six male and my girlfriend twenty six female

849
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: met in high school. We became really good friends. She

850
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: was basically my only friend in school, and we decided

851
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: to go to the same university so we wouldn't drift

852
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 1: apart when we.

853
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 2: Never end poorly.

854
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got a little story at the little story

855
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: that I'll say for the end of the story about

856
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: the you know, post high school, you know, romantic entanglements. Yeah, yeah,

857
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: there's a lot of that. There's a lot of those,

858
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 1: a lot of those. When we were in university. I

859
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: finally asked her out and we've been dating ever since.

860
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 2: You chose your university based off a girl that you

861
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: wanted to be your girlfriend.

862
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 3: You didn't ask beforehand.

863
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 2: He just needed a little more time. You know, that's crazy,

864
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 2: That is that is your whole life trajectory for a friend.

865
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: Because he was trying to like phrase it away like oh,

866
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,240
Speaker 1: we both decided to, but it's like, bro, you low key.

867
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: Like low key decided because oh my god, come on,

868
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 2: I got into Harvard, went to like Florida State. It's

869
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 2: wrong with Florida actually from Florida State, because go getors there,

870
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 2: you go.

871
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: So to sum up my time in high school, it

872
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: was an awful time. I was very lonely, introverted, and

873
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: quiet in both high school and middle school, so I

874
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: was prone to getting bullied.

875
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 2: I was heavily bullied by this guy, let's.

876
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: Call him Louise, Louise, Louise, how dare you? And his

877
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 1: group of friends. He would poke fun at my eye condition,

878
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 1: intentionally embarrass me and make me uncomfortable in front of everyone.

879
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 2: What's his eye condition? Is he blind? When he said

880
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 2: eye condition, I thought of, like he's wearing glasses. Maybe

881
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 2: he has like a more.

882
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 3: Eyes my eye condition.

883
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 2: Stop.

884
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: Maybe I am actually genetic. You know people have like

885
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:56,439
Speaker 1: like birthmarks or like other things like right.

886
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 2: That's that's what I assumed, But like I don't know,

887
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 2: or maybe he doesn't have like maybe as like a

888
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 2: like a pirate eye patch too, And Louis is.

889
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 3: Just like.

890
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 2: It's Op, don't steal me booty. Ope, everyone that has

891
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 2: an eye patch watching the show is pissed.

892
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:16,720
Speaker 3: You guys rightly?

893
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: So Yeah, they would call me all kinds of names

894
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: and just made my life in school hell rough Im sorry, Op.

895
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: This was majorly traumatizing because school was supposed to be

896
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 1: a safe place for me because I was getting emotionally

897
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: abused by my family at home.

898
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 2: That sucks. I'm really sorry. I was initially being like,

899
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 2: what do you mean? School was supposed to be a

900
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 2: safe place. School is the least safe place? Yeah? Yeah,

901
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 2: but I think you should expect to be bullied at school.

902
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, basic kids are terrible.

903
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 2: Basically like I feel like, expect to be bullied at school,

904
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 2: expect love at home? Yes, Ope, got neither. That sucks.

905
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 2: We feel for YOUP. I'm sorry man, but he ruined

906
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 2: any chances of it being a safe place for me

907
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: by making every day horrible.

908
00:42:58,440 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 3: Oh, pe, I just want.

909
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 2: To give you a big hug. Yeah. Maybe some contacts, Yeah,

910
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 2: some contacts. She didn't have to wear the classes for

911
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 2: his condition. I thought you made contacts like like, oh,

912
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 2: let me fill up his rolodex of some let's beef

913
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 2: up his network.

914
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 3: A little bit mate. I mean that would probably help too.

915
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, if you're like friends with.

916
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: Like I started LinkedIn, there go the solution to bullying

917
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 1: a strong LinkedIn profile. Hey, we can bully someone with

918
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 1: four years of experience analyzing data. My girlfriend was aware

919
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: of his bullying situation at the time, and when we

920
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: became closer friends, she always comforted me about it and

921
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: sympathized with me when I vented about it.

922
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 2: Oh that's sweet. I'm glad.

923
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 3: I'm glad Opie had somebody.

924
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: She agreed that they were very cruel for no reason,

925
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: and I didn't deserve it at all. She told me

926
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: she hated them for hurting me like that. I sensed

927
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: the tithes of shifting. Fast forward to now, Oh God,

928
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 1: and what the problem actually is. We were out together

929
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: walking the dog and I told her I'd jogged to

930
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: nearby store real quick, pick up some cigarettes, and come

931
00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: back while she stayed at the park.

932
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 2: First mistake. The person's like, oh, being addicted to cigarettes, Yes,

933
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 2: maybe your girlfriend wouldn't try to leave you. Oh God,

934
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 2: for a better man.

935
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: You know it doesn't smoke, Your teeth are yellow, the

936
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:12,720
Speaker 1: breath is stinky, like you're gonna die.

937
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 2: That's one. That's one. That's one critique that we could

938
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,879
Speaker 2: cigarette structive like hours of your life.

939
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 3: That's what the science says. That's what the science says.

940
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 3: What the science says.

941
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 2: Bro, you think you're all cool, but guess what smoking killed? Yeah,

942
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 2: that's right, smoking kill from your boys at okop, don't

943
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 2: do it.

944
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 3: Don't smoke. If you think about smoking, don't don't.

945
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: Can we become the like middle school elementary school like like,

946
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:37,720
Speaker 1: uh oh.

947
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 3: What is it?

948
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 2: Dear year program? Smoke was like the US have to

949
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 2: scream at kindergarteners for like a good cause. I got

950
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 2: a great one.

951
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, we said we do it with the boys, right,

952
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: we'll like the we sit down with like the middle

953
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 1: school boys and be like, hey, boys, you know cigarettes.

954
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 2: It's like a little cylinder. I didn't know you like

955
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 2: sucking penis. Oh instant will stop stop smoking campaign?

956
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 3: Middle school?

957
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: What I would like to do, you know, like twenty

958
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 2: one Jump Street. Yep, I want to do that, but

959
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:07,280
Speaker 2: for kindergarteners. Dressed as a kindergartener and offer kindergartener cigarettes.

960
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 2: If they take it, smack it out of their hand,

961
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:10,760
Speaker 2: put them in prison. Genius.

962
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 1: That's basically the plot line of the show Cops. I've

963
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: ever seen the show. No, literally, they will put like

964
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: straight up a like a Ferrari on the street and

965
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: open both the doors and just wait for someone to

966
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 1: get in it. And then they have like a lock control.

967
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: They locked the person in and they cannot get out.

968
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 2: I want to do that with kindergartens and cigarettes, Cops,

969
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,760
Speaker 2: but Jendergarden needs to know this. Jen the next generation

970
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 2: needs to know how bad smoking is. Anyway, back to

971
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 2: the story why I try on smoking a side, I

972
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 2: have a quick story about smoking. I'll talk about it.

973
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: Two very quick juicy nuggets for you to give me

974
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: those juicy quick nugs. So when I was walking back,

975
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: I noticed her talking to someone from a distance. She

976
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: seemed all cheerful and laughing.

977
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 3: Oh no.

978
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: They talked for a bit and he walked away in

979
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: the opposite direction. So I come up to her and

980
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: I asked her what's up. She nonchalantly smiles and says

981
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:07,959
Speaker 1: it was Luis.

982
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 2: From my school.

983
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 3: No, not with a smile.

984
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 2: That's tough. That's tough.

985
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 1: I awkwardly chuckled and said, whoa. You were seriously happy

986
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 1: to talk with that guy? She says, sure. I told her,

987
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: you do remember he was the person that basically made

988
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:22,760
Speaker 1: my life a living hell in high school?

989
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 2: Right?

990
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: She told me, yeah, I remember, but I'm sure he

991
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: has changed and he seemed really sweet. Come on, I

992
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: don't feel like that has a twelve inch hog and

993
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: super good looking.

994
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:32,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

995
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 1: I was looking at that egg plant point thinking damn hoppy.

996
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, you might have beat up my boyfriend middle school,

997
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 2: but you beat up this box baby. God take that

998
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 2: FedEx extra loge, extra lodge, boom, instant delivery five seconds

999
00:46:53,320 --> 00:47:00,439
Speaker 2: unless but a boom Louise. That's what he says every

1000
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 2: time you finishes to be funny, gotta love it.

1001
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 3: I just imagining next hook up. I'm Sam. That's pretty funny.

1002
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:14,800
Speaker 2: It's pretty funny. Just if you get a second date.

1003
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 3: Doing is it?

1004
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 2: Do it and then report back on Sam's love chronicles, right,

1005
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 2: and we'll see what happens. One time a friend told

1006
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: me to say, I'm spilling my ghost babies on you,

1007
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 2: and I did it nice.

1008
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: I don't even know what's happening at this point, Guys,

1009
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm coming on someone's back. I'm just lost ghost babies.

1010
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: It's not a ghost baby, it's like my sperm that

1011
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: would have been like a real child. And it's dying

1012
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 1: on your back. It's like a it's like a graveyard.

1013
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 3: Fair enough, What about like carrying daycare on your back?

1014
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 2: Like I mean that's good too, you know, but like that,

1015
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:49,879
Speaker 2: they're dying, you know, and so they're and they look

1016
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 2: it's white. It look like a little ghosts. You know what.

1017
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 2: I've come around. I've come around, That's what That's what

1018
00:47:55,800 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 2: I did. Let's finish the story. Mom. I'm so sorry.

1019
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:03,359
Speaker 3: It's late in the day.

1020
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: Guys, I got pretty mad at that point and didn't

1021
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 1: say anything.

1022
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 3: She notices the awkward silence.

1023
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: It says, Ah, dude, come on, do you seriously still

1024
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 1: have a grudge against him? I thought you'd be over

1025
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:12,839
Speaker 1: it by now.

1026
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 2: Holy shot.

1027
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: That felt like a knife through my stomach. It's not

1028
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: that effing easy to get over years of trauma that

1029
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: sabotaged my self esteem in confidence. It was so hurtful

1030
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: to hear coming from her, especially because she was my

1031
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: rock during those times while I was getting abused by

1032
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: everyone at school and home. I still don't hate the

1033
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: guy and his friends after all this time has passed,

1034
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: or want them to suffer or whatever. But it's not

1035
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 1: easy at all to forget what they did to me. Sure,

1036
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 1: maybe they changed for the better, but seeing her talk

1037
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: to him so cheerfully and telling me about.

1038
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 2: It made me die inside. Am I the a hole

1039
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 2: for this?

1040
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: There is a update, decently meaty update, but I'm curious

1041
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 1: everyone watching and Sam like, what do you do in

1042
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 1: this scenario? Someone like your your worst high school bully

1043
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: rises up your significant and You're just like, what do

1044
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: I do?

1045
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, first off, we don't know.

1046
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 2: This isn't a legitimate riz Like her being kind to

1047
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 2: a guy that she hasn't seen in ages is disgusting?

1048
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 3: Is un exactly gross? I think it's fine.

1049
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,280
Speaker 2: I think it's fine, Like you should be nice to people,

1050
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 2: like if my high school bully talked to or I

1051
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 2: didn't really have high school boyes, but my middle school

1052
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 2: bully talked to you know, my current girlfriend or something,

1053
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 2: I would even if she knew about it, I would

1054
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 2: expect her to be nice and kind. Yeah, if she's

1055
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 2: like touching the chest, feeling up the arms, laughing a

1056
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 2: little bit too much, Hey, can I get your number?

1057
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 2: Sending nudes? Then I'm gonna be like, all right, that's

1058
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 2: not cool, yeah. I also feel like it's like a

1059
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 2: little bit depending on how flirty your girlfriend is with

1060
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 2: other guys and depending on what kind of style of

1061
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 2: relationship you have. I think it's a little bit of

1062
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 2: a red flag. Like I had an ex that was

1063
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 2: like very flirty with her guy friends, and it was

1064
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 2: just like I saw it early on, and then it

1065
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 2: became a problem later. Yeah, And there's like a difference

1066
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,359
Speaker 2: between having guy friends, which is fine, and then like

1067
00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 2: actively being physical with them, which is I think less okay,

1068
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 2: because like it can communicate that she may be open

1069
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 2: to being physical.

1070
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: I've never been in a relationship like like that, but

1071
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 1: definitely have scene relationships where the person is just naturally

1072
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: like very you know, to the point of like, uh,

1073
00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 1: could be perceived as flirtatious by a lot of people.

1074
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: And like with that ex girlfriend, Like I actually talked

1075
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 2: to a guy today that was like good friends with

1076
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:30,720
Speaker 2: that ex girlfriend in distance him from her or distance

1077
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 2: himself from her, and he was like, yeah, like she

1078
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 2: was like touchy to the point where it made me uncomfortable.

1079
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 2: And I think, like that's like that's one are the

1080
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 2: reasons we broke up. But like, yeah, yeah, it's like

1081
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 2: I think that if it's taken to that far, I

1082
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 2: don't think that's okay. But like a like a you know,

1083
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 2: a conversation that's like not physical, it could be.

1084
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 3: Op embellishing it because of it's such.

1085
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 1: A raw Yeah, exactly, you know understandable that it's a

1086
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:56,720
Speaker 1: raw experience.

1087
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 2: What do you think is too flirtatious for your partner? Like,

1088
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 2: what are your what are your flirtation boundaries? Yep, put

1089
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:05,839
Speaker 2: your answers in the comments boundaries? But John, I want

1090
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 2: to hear this meaty update. Let's get into it.

1091
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: Basically, everything was kind of tense between us after we

1092
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:13,760
Speaker 1: went home yesterday. When I woke up the next morning,

1093
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 1: my girlfriend told me we needed to talk, so I agreed.

1094
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: I was going to ask her first, but she beat

1095
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: me to it. She asked me if I was still

1096
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,839
Speaker 1: upset about yesterday, So I told her that I was,

1097
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: and I explained that hearing that he's a sweet guy

1098
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: from her was really painful, especially when she knew about

1099
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: the stuff he did to me. I told her that

1100
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 1: being friendly like that towards people who tormented me wasn't

1101
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: something I accept and obviously explained that her get over

1102
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: at comment was out of pocket and unnecessary. I told

1103
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: her how him becoming a better person was kind of

1104
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: irrelevant to me, because no matter how much he's changed,

1105
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 1: the consequence of his actions will always stick with me.

1106
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 1: She listened to me explaining, and she started crying in

1107
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: the middle of it, and said that she was incredibly

1108
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 1: sorry and that she didn't think too much of it

1109
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: at the moment and failed.

1110
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 3: To consider my feelings.

1111
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 2: Oh it's really nice.

1112
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 3: It's a nice response, she said.

1113
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,840
Speaker 2: After I explained it from my POV, she realized she

1114
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 2: was being the a hole and it was a stupid

1115
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 2: assumption that the trauma would go away over time and

1116
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 2: I would forget about it.

1117
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 1: We understood where each of us was coming from, and

1118
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 1: I forgave her. She was very genuine about it, and

1119
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: I know that she's not a malicious person and wouldn't

1120
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: want to intentionally hurt me, even if it did hurt.

1121
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: There was a bunch of people telling me to break

1122
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: up with her. In the comments, man, divorce chant just

1123
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 1: always goes, always goes, always.

1124
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 2: A divorce chant in the comments guys, good gravy. I

1125
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 2: don't know if redda it gives the best relationship advice.

1126
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:32,439
Speaker 2: The jury is still out don't take relationship advice from

1127
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:34,359
Speaker 2: people who are single. That's true.

1128
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 3: It's true.

1129
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 2: That's true. That's true.

1130
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 3: It is true, they're single.

1131
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 2: Why would you take relationship advice from someone who's in

1132
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 2: a state that you don't want to be in?

1133
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 3: That's true.

1134
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 1: Would I take investment advice from someone who's broke the

1135
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: firefight person?

1136
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 2: Guy?

1137
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 3: No, No, it's not the move. It's not the move.

1138
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 1: And I see why to some other people this would

1139
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 1: be a complete deal breaker. But in my opinion, relationships

1140
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: obviously come with their ups and downs, miss unders standings,

1141
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: and conflicts like this one. So I forgave her for

1142
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 1: this and I moved on, especially when she realized what

1143
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 1: she did was wrong and apologize.

1144
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 2: In what a world? This is a complete deal breaker? Yeah,

1145
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 2: talking to what the you got reddit? Get it together?

1146
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,880
Speaker 3: This is way too much. You're put it in a bag.

1147
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 3: Get it together, pack pack it.

1148
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: If she hadn't, it would have been a completely different thing.

1149
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: She told me that she didn't want to keep contact

1150
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: with him after this and doesn't care about him at all.

1151
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 1: Even told me that she wants to block him on

1152
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 1: the socials that they exchanged, and I said that that

1153
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 1: was up to her. I didn't know they exchanged socials.

1154
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: That's maybe more closer to the because if I if

1155
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: I saw someone and I want I'll keep from a tan, sup.

1156
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: But if I saw someone that I knew from back

1157
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 1: in the day, I'd be like, oh hey, what's up.

1158
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 2: I don't know if I would exchange what if they

1159
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 2: asked you like, oh, let me grab your Instagram? If

1160
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,240
Speaker 2: they asked me, that's fine. Yeah, but which he probably

1161
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 2: asked her.

1162
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: That's true. Well, fair enough, fair point. So far everything

1163
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: seems to be okay. And I feel like this helped

1164
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: our relationship in terms of setting boundaries and respecting them.

1165
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:01,399
Speaker 2: And I'm glad we were able to talk it out.

1166
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:03,400
Speaker 1: Well, we want to talk it out with you guys,

1167
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,359
Speaker 1: because I think this is a very good conversation.

1168
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 3: What are your boundaries in your relationship?

1169
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 2: What is what are.

1170
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,239
Speaker 1: Things that are our no go for you, deal breakers,

1171
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:14,800
Speaker 1: et cetera.

1172
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 3: Let us know in the comments. We would definitely love

1173
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 3: to hear from you guys.

1174
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think you know, there's not necessarily a

1175
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 2: universal law of how you should conduct a relationship. One

1176
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 2: of like my friends I was talking about how he's

1177
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 2: in a non monogamous relationship as long as your relationship

1178
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 2: contract is this same between both of you and you

1179
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 2: keep to it, that's all that matters exactly. And there's

1180
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 2: differently like like there's different relationships all throughout it. Like

1181
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:40,359
Speaker 2: some people might be comfortable with you flirting with other

1182
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:42,919
Speaker 2: people a little bit. Some people that you know don't

1183
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,919
Speaker 2: even look in the direction of another woman or man.

1184
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 2: So you know what, what what feels comfortable to op

1185
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 2: isn't necessarily universal. I think, like coming from the story,

1186
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 2: I feel like there was maybe a little bit of

1187
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 2: an overreaction on OP side. I think so the only

1188
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 2: thing I think that his girlfriend did wrong was like

1189
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 2: trivializing his trauma, saying like you should be over it

1190
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 2: by now. That's a little bit of an a hole move.

1191
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 2: But everything else I think it's fine. But good on

1192
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 2: her for hearing where he came from and apologizing for

1193
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 2: how he made her how she made him feel.

1194
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 3: That's that's like always a good thing.

1195
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: Everyone makes mistakes. We don't live in each other's heads.

1196
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 1: And yeah, so it's not even necessarily a mistake. It's

1197
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:26,919
Speaker 1: just like this something that someone's uncomfortable with. I think

1198
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 1: speaking language of like hey, like you did this and

1199
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:32,800
Speaker 1: it made me feel like you can't argue with someone's

1200
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: feeling exactly. Oh, PE's girlfriend isn't a jerk, but maybe

1201
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: she made him feel a certain way and he can

1202
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: voice that.

1203
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 2: Can I tell you my smoking story really quick?

1204
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:43,400
Speaker 3: I think that's juicy nuggets.

1205
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 2: So you have a juicy nugget too, Okay, mine's really quick. Okay.

1206
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 2: So I was in Australia. This is why I hate

1207
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 2: smoking so much. I was in Australia. I was staying

1208
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 2: in a hostile One of the girls that was in

1209
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:54,879
Speaker 2: the hostel, super cute Australian, was like, Hey, come out

1210
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,280
Speaker 2: drinking with us. So down, all right, So we pregame

1211
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 2: at the hostel, we get properly drunk before or we

1212
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 2: even go to the bars. There we go, right, I'm

1213
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 2: with this cute Australian. I'm like with it. I'm excited.

1214
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 2: I think I'm risen and I'm properly drunk about to

1215
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 2: go to the bar. And she takes out a cigarette

1216
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 2: and she was like, do you want one? And then

1217
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, ten years of programming about not

1218
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 2: smoking a cigarette and my mom's saying, don't smoke a cigarette,

1219
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 2: it's so bad for you has I gone through my head.

1220
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 2: But then this cute Australian's handed me the cigarette. I'm like,

1221
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 2: I might as well.

1222
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 3: Try one, right pereh Sudam.

1223
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 2: She lights it up, I smoke it, hold it in blowout,

1224
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 2: and I'm instantly not drunk. And I was like, that

1225
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 2: is the most bullsh I paid for these shots. That's

1226
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 2: the most bullshit thing ever. I throw the cigarette on

1227
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 2: the ground and I repeat what my mom always said,

1228
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 2: smoking kills. And I totally ruined my relationship with that

1229
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 2: Australian girl. But at least I didn't real ruin my

1230
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:46,800
Speaker 2: relationship with my lungs.

1231
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 3: You know, that's how we should advertise it.

1232
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: If you don't want to ruin your experience abusing one substance,

1233
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:53,800
Speaker 1: then don't do this substance.

1234
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 2: You know what I mean exactly literally, Like I think

1235
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 2: smoking is so dumb for the express purpose that it

1236
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 2: makes you less drunk.

1237
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 3: That's so lame.

1238
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: A unique take from Samuel Donna, as always what Johnny boy, Yes,

1239
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 1: I heard you have a little story about lost love

1240
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 1: and college. Indeed, so similar to oh, not quite similar,

1241
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: but like right after high school, I started seeing this girl,

1242
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: like literally in the last like two or three months,

1243
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 1: and we were like, oh, let's like stay together, let's

1244
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: do long distance Da da da da. The second I

1245
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 1: moved out to California, I was like applying to jobs.

1246
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 2: I was like doing all these things. I'm like, all right,

1247
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:31,919
Speaker 2: I gotta like make money.

1248
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 3: Da da da.

1249
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: And she would literally like stay in her room all

1250
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 1: day and wanted to literally skype like twelve hours a day.

1251
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 3: Like right when I moved out there, I was like crazy.

1252
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, because when we were here, like when we were

1253
00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 1: in the same place, like, oh, we would hang and

1254
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 1: like do whatever.

1255
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:47,439
Speaker 2: But it was like very normally, Oh are you free

1256
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 2: like twelve hours a day. Yeah.

1257
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 3: So I knew couples like that.

1258
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 2: I knew this couple that would would FaceTime eight hours

1259
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 2: a day. Sorry, they weren't a couple. They were friends.

1260
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 2: She had a boyfriend. They were FaceTime eight hours a day.

1261
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 2: I actually knew the boyfriend. She broke up with him,

1262
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 2: eventually got with this guy that she was FaceTime at

1263
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 2: eight hours a day. Oh that shit, dude, whack.

1264
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 1: But our relationship ended in a seven hour skype call

1265
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: through the night where.

1266
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 2: She got what she wanted.

1267
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 3: She that's true, Okay.

1268
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 2: She was basically like, why are you breaking up with me,

1269
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, we spend all day on Skype

1270
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 2: and I need to like go out here and live

1271
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 2: my life. And it's just like it's not working, Like

1272
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 2: do you think this is working? And she's like, no,

1273
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 2: explain why. It's just so.

1274
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 3: H that is my high school.

1275
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 2: How's she doing now? I have no idea. I hope

1276
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 2: no good riddits. I hope this doesn't make it back

1277
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 2: to her Loki. Yeah, yeah, last time I saw her

1278
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 2: was literally like twenty fifteen. Twenty fifteen. Dang, yeah, damn.

1279
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 2: I wonder she's seen the glow up. I don't know, man,

1280
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm taking so could have made on

1281
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 2: this baby, Like like.

1282
00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 3: I broke up with it.

1283
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm taking some Like damn, I'm just

1284
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: double dunking on this poor girl, like for no reason.

1285
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 1: But you know what, Sam, I really want you to

1286
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:08,920
Speaker 1: dunk this next story.

1287
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna freaking Kobe rest in peace. This next

1288
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 2: story all on you. Let's do it.

1289
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: Riley told me today that he has a list of

1290
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: three reasons why he won't commit suicide. Reason number one

1291
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 1: was he didn't want to die before Queen Elizabeth, so

1292
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 1: that's out the window. Reason number two was he can't

1293
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: die until he's been inside of ten.

1294
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 3: What's what would you say you have? Side plus seven?

1295
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 2: Oh boy, I'll be the judge of that.

1296
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 3: Pull it up, receipts sets, show me, where's the video?

1297
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 2: I feel like this would be too damaging to way

1298
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 2: too damage inaccurate. Yeah, wait, let's let's let's not. I

1299
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 2: know it's all good.

1300
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 3: Riley, Riley, No, No, we don't want to.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to see it shot.

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Speaker 3: We'll leave it to mystery.

1303
00:59:57,480 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 2: Although something that I that I think is very, very

1304
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:03,280
Speaker 2: humbling is have you ever been on true rate me

1305
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:10,640
Speaker 2: true what true rate me, true rape me, true rate

1306
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 2: true rate me, True rate me? No? Okay, So there's

1307
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 2: this subreddit on Reddit called true rate me, and they

1308
01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 2: have a whole fucking table of like how hot are

1309
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 2: you male? Female? And if you look at that, fucking humbled,

1310
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 2: fucking humbled, I believe it, like I'm trying to do that. There.

1311
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 2: Let me show you. Here's the women's guide. There's no

1312
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 2: tens because no one meets the standard. Let's see, it's

1313
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 2: like top two point five is one out of forty,

1314
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 2: Top seven point five is one out of one sixty

1315
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 2: eight is one out of seven hundred and fifty eight

1316
01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 2: point five is one out of three thousand, nine is

1317
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 2: one out of twenty thousand. Nine point five is one

1318
01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 2: out of fifty thousand.

1319
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 1: So they literally limit it to the people like wow,

1320
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, yeah, this is this is fucking crazy.

1321
01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 2: They have a men's one too, This is stud Oh

1322
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 2: are you are you looking you're looking at that. You're

1323
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 2: looking at the ratings. I see so many people that

1324
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 2: should be swap swapping places. Yeah, I mean obviously it's

1325
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,800
Speaker 2: not fucking yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's beauty is

1326
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 2: in the eyes.

1327
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 1: Of the perfect because it's like, uh, there's this there's

1328
01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 1: this thing in hip hop journalism where they'll do, like,

1329
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 1: you know, the top ten album lists or whatever, they

1330
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:25,720
Speaker 1: intentionally put a shitty album in it so that way

1331
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 1: everybody argues about.

1332
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 2: Oh, that's super smart. I think it's like that here,

1333
01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 2: like here, check this out. This is what o'riley's looking at.

1334
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 2: So people will fucking put their pictures on there, and

1335
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 2: then people will fucking mean as fuck. Redditors will say,

1336
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 2: fucking fucked up shit.

1337
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:42,479
Speaker 1: Those eyes and ears give me a sense of AI

1338
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: generated pictures? What does that even mean AI generated pictures

1339
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: are hot, dude. All of the people, yes, all of

1340
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: the people that are writing these are ugly as fuck,

1341
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: yeah guaranteed.

1342
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1343
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 3: Facts.

1344
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:55,960
Speaker 2: Okay, So Riley, based on based on that scale, where

1345
01:01:56,240 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 2: rate yourself? I would a seven? No, Riley, dude, fucking

1346
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 2: Chris Hemsworth is an eight point five.

1347
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:11,440
Speaker 1: Fuck me, it's it's just an intentional thing of like

1348
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 1: being able to critique people.

1349
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 2: That's literally what it is. Bryce Hall is a five

1350
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 2: point five. Anthony Mackall is a five, Anthony Michael is No,

1351
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 2: jay Z is a four, and so is that Sharon,

1352
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:28,160
Speaker 2: and so is DJ Collin honestly, honestly and shared looks

1353
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 2: fucking crazy. I thought of Ed cheering being horny. That's

1354
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 2: so funny. Fuck dude, alright, this is shaping up to

1355
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 2: be an OG episode.

1356
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Speaker 3: Bro, not good.

1357
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 2: Fucking Christiano Ronaldo is a seven point five. This No,

1358
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 2: that's not it. You know, the guy from her, the

1359
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 2: main guy from her? Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's a seven

1360
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 2: on this scale.

1361
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Speaker 3: Bro, He's a.

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01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:52,320
Speaker 1: Little bit of a certain flavor.

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Speaker 3: But all right, sorry, I'm done, Riley. You got into

1364
01:02:57,880 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 3: some wa is this MIAs?

1365
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 2: God?

1366
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 3: How am I in put this in the podcast.

1367
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 2: Put this in the podcast.

1368
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 3: I'm good, okay, yeah in the podcast.

1369
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 2: Put in the podcast. I let my daughter date my

1370
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,440
Speaker 2: son's bully and he did not take it. Well, I

1371
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:13,720
Speaker 2: may have just torn my entire family apart.

1372
01:03:13,760 --> 01:03:15,080
Speaker 3: Am I see?

1373
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 1: Usually the dad is like gatekeeping who gets to date

1374
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 1: his daughter?

1375
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

1376
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 3: A shot gun with a shotgun.

1377
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 2: I feel like people who bully your son would put

1378
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:25,919
Speaker 2: him just.

1379
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Speaker 3: Right at the bottom, way down here. They want your

1380
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Speaker 3: daughter to date a bully.

1381
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 2: I wouldn't. Yeah, I would come and get away from

1382
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 2: my property. Boy, that's right, get away, yeah right. Riley's

1383
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 2: got those good old southern shotgun confrontations. Have you ever

1384
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 2: been confronted with a shotgun? I had been that. I

1385
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 2: have what I like sick nuts right off?

1386
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 1: That would make me my pants in fear three or four?

1387
01:03:58,040 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 3: What are you doing?

1388
01:03:58,640 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 2: Riley?

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01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 3: Just there's just like, hey, well, boyd I have? Is

1390
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 3: it like joking or is it like serious or kind

1391
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 3: of a mix?

1392
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 2: I see it's semi serious. Wow, all right, no thanks.

1393
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 2: This all started a couple of years ago and it

1394
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:15,600
Speaker 2: has completely split our family apart. My son, Ze twenty

1395
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 2: two male, has pretty much been a strange from us

1396
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 2: since he was eighteen. Adam is the son of good

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01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 2: family friends.

1398
01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 3: He and my daughter p.

1399
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 2: Twenty four female began dating around when they were nineteen.

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01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 2: The problem is Adam was a bully to my son

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01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 2: throughout school. As you can imagine, he didn't take it

1402
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 2: very well. He was furious. However, my daughter refused to

1403
01:04:33,800 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 2: budge on this. I tried to stay out of the situation,

1404
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 2: but my wife took my daughter's side, partially as we

1405
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:41,440
Speaker 2: were good friends with the Adam's parents, but also because

1406
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 2: she thought z would eventually get over it.

1407
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:44,720
Speaker 3: Also, why did they try to do anything?

1408
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:47,160
Speaker 2: If they were good friends with the good family friends,

1409
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 2: why didn't they try to do anything about the bullying.

1410
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 2: It's stupid to not like, yeah, that's really fucked. Yeah.

1411
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 2: Unfortunately that didn't happen. Instead, it made a stark difference

1412
01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 2: in my son's personality. He had become much more aggressive, cold,

1413
01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 2: and disrespec He no longer listened to me or what

1414
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 2: his mother had to say, often using intimidation to get

1415
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 2: what he wanted. He would also disappear for days at

1416
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 2: a time without so much a word. This would more

1417
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 2: or less carry on until he left for university, after

1418
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 2: which He probably spent no more than two weeks in

1419
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 2: total back home, opting to stay with friends or whatever

1420
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:19,480
Speaker 2: girl he was seeing at the time. He has rejected

1421
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 2: any olive branch we extend. This has completely destroyed our family,

1422
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 2: and it especially hurts my wife as they were quite

1423
01:05:25,440 --> 01:05:28,080
Speaker 2: close before this happened. The last time we spoke was

1424
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 2: last year before lockdown. He called me a coward for

1425
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:33,840
Speaker 2: sitting on the fence. I understand why he feels the

1426
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 2: way he does, but was I really wrong to stay

1427
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:38,440
Speaker 2: neutral on this? I didn't feel like it was my

1428
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 2: place to control my daughter's dating life. And there is

1429
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 2: an update, But John, I want to know what everyone

1430
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 2: else thinks. Is op the dad being an a hole?

1431
01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 2: And why if you think so? Or why do you

1432
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 2: not think so? But John, what do you think?

1433
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 1: I do see the point in where it's like, hey,

1434
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: if I tell you you can't date this guy, that's

1435
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 1: only going to make her want to date him more

1436
01:05:57,960 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 1: like that is the kind of catch.

1437
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 2: Twenty two that you're dealing with in this situation. But again,

1438
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:03,960
Speaker 2: kind of to your point before, like why did the

1439
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 2: families not like sit him down and talk to him

1440
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 2: and be like you cannot do this? Yeah, I think

1441
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 2: op is not the a hole for like not controlling

1442
01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 2: like like for for not going in and controlling his

1443
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 2: daughter's life. Is the a hole for not doing anything sooner?

1444
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 2: And it seems I'm way too little, too late, Like

1445
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 2: they didn't do anything to prevent the bullying. If they

1446
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 2: were family friends, they should have done more. And I

1447
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 2: bet you the son felt like, not only was he

1448
01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 2: not helped during his time when he was being bulling,

1449
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 2: but now they're not really even they're not They weren't

1450
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 2: taking his account to his feelings then and they're not

1451
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:36,320
Speaker 2: taking account of his feelings now.

1452
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and this is just like so much worse, Like

1453
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:40,160
Speaker 1: now your bully's gonna be constantly around you and you

1454
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,080
Speaker 1: have like basically no choice, Like yeah, home home went

1455
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: from like the safe place like.

1456
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:47,920
Speaker 2: To not safe. Your bully has literally infistrated, infiltrated your family,

1457
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:50,680
Speaker 2: Like how would that this is Depending on how bad

1458
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 2: the bullying is, that would be traumatic one hundred percent.

1459
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:54,800
Speaker 2: I could see not wanting to be part of the family.

1460
01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 2: But I got an update, so the verdict was you're

1461
01:06:57,320 --> 01:06:59,919
Speaker 2: the asshole. By the comments update, it was quite clear

1462
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 2: that we were in the wrong and we accept that However,

1463
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 2: my son was informed of the original post by one

1464
01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 2: of his cousins. He got into contact and he found

1465
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 2: it hilarious. My wife managed to convince him to meet

1466
01:07:09,600 --> 01:07:11,479
Speaker 2: up with us in talk. In regards to his sister

1467
01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 2: and Adam, he seemed completely indifferent to them. He said

1468
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 2: he wasn't particularly interested in talking to two losers. No

1469
01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 2: one really likes. It was a long conversation. We talked

1470
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 2: about a lot, but it seemed to end with my

1471
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 2: son letting us know that while there might be the

1472
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 2: slightest bit of contact between us, me and my wife

1473
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 2: will always be on the outside looking in on his life. Well,

1474
01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:31,240
Speaker 2: this isn't what me and my wife hoped for. We

1475
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 2: were looking at this as a chance to eventually build

1476
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 2: our relationship back up. I'm happy to say he's outgrown

1477
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 2: his abrasiveness and has become a very confident and intelligent

1478
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 2: young man. He now runs a charity. He happily went

1479
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,880
Speaker 2: into detail about how he works with disadvantaged children and

1480
01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 2: helps them get opportunities, particularly in sports. And that's the end. Wow.

1481
01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:51,480
Speaker 3: Wait, so did the bully become like the head of

1482
01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:53,280
Speaker 3: a charity or like no, this is the sun?

1483
01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:53,840
Speaker 2: Oh?

1484
01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, the Op's son, Opie son, Yeah, Opie's

1485
01:07:57,800 --> 01:08:01,840
Speaker 1: son they met up with, right, Yeah, what seemed to end?

1486
01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 2: It ended like okay, yeah, I mean I think they

1487
01:08:06,200 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 2: are the tool. They don't necessarily deserve anything from him. Yeah,

1488
01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 2: but he's giving a little window into his life. So

1489
01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 2: I think that's all you get asked for. I agree,

1490
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:17,720
Speaker 2: But what would you do? Put your answers in the

1491
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:21,760
Speaker 2: comments if you're bully his way into your life to

1492
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 2: your sister, your sister to fu grew up continuously they

1493
01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 2: say high school ends in high school, but no high

1494
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 2: school comes in your sister. So, uh, sorry, comes when

1495
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:35,920
Speaker 2: you least expected. Ah, but yeah, let us know what

1496
01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 2: you would do in this situation. Kind of crazy, honestly,

1497
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,719
Speaker 2: a little You don't want your high school bullied.

1498
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 3: I want you anywhere. Yeah that would suck.

1499
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:45,400
Speaker 2: But uh, this is another Bali episode. We miss you,

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01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:47,280
Speaker 2: we love you. Okay. So we have a Patreon by

1501
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 2: the way, yes, if anyone's still here, and we have

1502
01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:52,680
Speaker 2: a bunch of tears. We have like ad free episodes,

1503
01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:55,120
Speaker 2: bonus exclusive episodes, and we're doing this kind of like

1504
01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:57,640
Speaker 2: live event kind of thing. We want to eventually do

1505
01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 2: this in person, but we're doing it online first called

1506
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 2: Assholes Anonymous.

1507
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 3: We're gonna read stories with.

1508
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,640
Speaker 2: You guys, you react to them and say if you

1509
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 2: think they're the asshole or not, basically what we're doing

1510
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:07,759
Speaker 2: in the comments here but live. And then we'll pull

1511
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 2: one of you guys up on the Zoom stage and

1512
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:14,599
Speaker 2: interview you about your life and what's U and one

1513
01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 2: of your crazy stories. Yes, we have an episode that

1514
01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:19,639
Speaker 2: came out like probably like a week ago or two,

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01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks ago, so check it out if

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Speaker 2: you want to see what it's like. We'd love to

1517
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 2: see you join the Patreon so click the link in

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01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:26,120
Speaker 2: the description I.

1519
01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:29,640
Speaker 1: Almost got my son unalived. I don't care it happens.

1520
01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:30,719
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole?

1521
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:34,240
Speaker 2: Hey? If you go back like one hundred years child mortality,

1522
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 2: you die at four, you probably are out of the

1523
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:39,599
Speaker 2: vagiant and you're dying. You just you literally get spit

1524
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 2: out of your mom's scooter. You're wrestling with dinosaurs, you know,

1525
01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 2: kicking down t rexes or more likely t rexes are

1526
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 2: taking you down. Yeah, and you're just you're barely existing. Wait, Michael,

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01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 2: Michael Michael is the child mortality right?

1528
01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 3: What's up?

1529
01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 2: One out of every like whatever how.

1530
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 3: Okay, what the fuck? Wait? Wait what.

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01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 2: The world has made remarkable progress and child survival in

1532
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:13,200
Speaker 2: the past three decades. In twenty twenty one, one out

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01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 2: of every twenty six children died before reaching age five,

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01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 2: compared to one out of eleven in nineteen ninety.

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01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 3: One out of eleven kids died before the age of five.

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01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:25,120
Speaker 1: Wow, I mean, I guess if you look at like

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01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:29,480
Speaker 1: the global that's still that's still crazy though, that's fucking crazy.

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01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 3: That's according to UNISEF, close.

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01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 2: To twenty percent one out of eleven, close little lessontember

1540
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:43,759
Speaker 2: ten percent. Yeah, it's very important critical information. Nineteenth century

1541
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:47,799
Speaker 2: and earlier child mortality rates were often above twenty percent.

1542
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:53,639
Speaker 2: That's crazy. So that means, who, you're lucky you're alive. Yeah,

1543
01:10:53,880 --> 01:10:54,240
Speaker 2: you should.

1544
01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 3: You should be grateful you're alive right now. Damn you know.

1545
01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:00,640
Speaker 2: If you're if your dad you know almost if accidentally

1546
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 2: does it, you're still like way ahead of the pack

1547
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:04,360
Speaker 2: facts compared to be.

1548
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 3: For your life. Let's jump into the story to go,

1549
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 3: let's do it.

1550
01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 1: I can be an angry driver, so to work on that,

1551
01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 1: I have started giving people thumbs up instead of the

1552
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: middle finger.

1553
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 3: That's interesting strategy.

1554
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 1: It helps me have a better attitude, and I find

1555
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:23,519
Speaker 1: myself being frustrated less when driving when I don't let

1556
01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:24,799
Speaker 1: my anger be my reaction.

1557
01:11:25,439 --> 01:11:26,040
Speaker 3: Pretty smart.

1558
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: I like that good strategy. Well today that backfired on me,

1559
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:32,840
Speaker 1: although who knows what would have happened if I had

1560
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 1: escalated to the middle finger. I was driving behind two

1561
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 1: cars in the fast lane on my way home from

1562
01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:40,680
Speaker 1: grocery shopping with my young son. The slow lane was

1563
01:11:40,760 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 1: wide open, and the truck in the front in the

1564
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 1: fast lane was driving just under the speed limit. So

1565
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:48,920
Speaker 1: I changed lanes, pass around on the right, giving my

1566
01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:50,439
Speaker 1: usual courtesy thumbs up.

1567
01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:51,559
Speaker 3: As I pass the truck.

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01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 1: A couple of miles up the road, I get into

1569
01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: the left turn lane and I'm stopping for the red light. Well,

1570
01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:00,680
Speaker 1: that truck wasn't turning and they had a green light,

1571
01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 1: so they were going sixty to sixty five miles per

1572
01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 1: hour as they drove past me. Wow, geez as a truck.

1573
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 1: A lot of trucks don't even go like above fifty

1574
01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: on the interstate. Yeah, that's insane. I'll let you know

1575
01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:17,200
Speaker 1: that it's trucks me living. They're not right there.

1576
01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:18,080
Speaker 2: Uh.

1577
01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 1: They threw a live shotgun shell at my truck as

1578
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 1: they passed. What the fuck is just a shotgun shell,

1579
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:28,720
Speaker 1: just like gues truckers.

1580
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:29,280
Speaker 2: Damn.

1581
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:32,040
Speaker 3: And if they have a shell, then do.

1582
01:12:32,040 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 2: They got Yeah, they got the gun, the real thing.

1583
01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:37,839
Speaker 1: It hit the flat back of my window of my pickup,

1584
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 1: right behind my son's head.

1585
01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 2: It was so loud my ears were ringing, and my

1586
01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:48,400
Speaker 2: son started crying, Oh gosh, uh live shotgun shell. I

1587
01:12:48,439 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 2: don't know.

1588
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 1: I mean if you throw a shotgun, but there's a

1589
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:54,920
Speaker 1: shotgun shell, yeah, so there's no like I guess he

1590
01:12:55,040 --> 01:12:58,240
Speaker 1: just like freaking chuck chucked it wall like that.

1591
01:12:58,320 --> 01:12:59,880
Speaker 2: You know how like a gun goes off. He flicked

1592
01:12:59,880 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 2: that they like if you hammer a bullet, it could

1593
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:02,400
Speaker 2: go off.

1594
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:04,679
Speaker 3: Right, Well, this is a shell, right.

1595
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 2: Shotgun shell like like the But when he says live,

1596
01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 2: that means it's like full a live shotgun shell. Riley,

1597
01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 2: I got a resident gun expert, gun expert that it

1598
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:15,800
Speaker 2: could go off.

1599
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:17,559
Speaker 1: If he's going sixty miles an hour and he just

1600
01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:19,480
Speaker 1: like chucks it out the window.

1601
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:22,160
Speaker 2: It could go off. Yeah, it could kill his son. Damn.

1602
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:26,559
Speaker 1: Luckily the window didn't break and we're both fine now,

1603
01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:29,559
Speaker 1: but damn, I was fuming when I saw that shell

1604
01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:31,720
Speaker 1: and realized that that is what he threw at me.

1605
01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 1: I reported it to the police, who say they will

1606
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 1: check the cameras at the intersection. So fingers crossed, there's

1607
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 1: consequences for them quick at it seems some took the

1608
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:43,759
Speaker 1: truck to mean semi truck.

1609
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:46,519
Speaker 3: It was just a heavy duty pickup truck. I was

1610
01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:48,200
Speaker 3: also imagine, yeah, yeah, so funny.

1611
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 2: And then at a number two, the shotgun shell did

1612
01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:51,800
Speaker 2: not go off.

1613
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:54,839
Speaker 1: It hit the glass at sixty to sixty five miles

1614
01:13:54,880 --> 01:13:58,640
Speaker 1: per hour and was shockingly loud. It hit sideways, so

1615
01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:01,759
Speaker 1: the plastic and the metal ring on the primer side

1616
01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:03,720
Speaker 1: hit the glass.

1617
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 2: Both of our kind of questions. That boy, like that

1618
01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:12,919
Speaker 2: boils my blood? Who does that? Yeah, that's pretty pretty insane.

1619
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:17,599
Speaker 3: Is there an update? That's it? That's it, that's we got.

1620
01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:19,679
Speaker 1: I mean, if you think about it, like, how fast

1621
01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:23,680
Speaker 1: does a bullet travel, like, it's probably pretty close to

1622
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 1: way faster.

1623
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 3: The speed it's weird. Five miles an hour? How how

1624
01:14:29,960 --> 01:14:30,679
Speaker 3: fast is the bullet?

1625
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 2: Riley? Damn.

1626
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,400
Speaker 1: I missed the days when it was all feelings, no facts.

1627
01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 1: Now we have a producer to actually look at miles

1628
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:36,839
Speaker 1: per hour facts.

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01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 3: What's your guess. What's your guess? It breaks the sound barrier.

1630
01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 2: It's gotta be like yeah, seven hundred, yeah, what sound

1631
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:48,880
Speaker 2: six hundred? I mean it depends on what kind of gun.

1632
01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:54,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say average. I'm going to say eight hundred

1633
01:14:54,040 --> 01:15:01,639
Speaker 2: miles an hour. No, No, that's funny. Well, seventeen hundred

1634
01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:03,960
Speaker 2: miles an hour. Wow, so a little fast, super close.

1635
01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:07,360
Speaker 1: It's a way closer to that than it is to

1636
01:15:07,400 --> 01:15:12,839
Speaker 1: a million miles per hour, but still still any object

1637
01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 1: think about like a little rock. If going at sixty

1638
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 1: miles an hour, that's crazy.

1639
01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 2: That's that is fast. That is super funny, super fast.

1640
01:15:22,520 --> 01:15:24,360
Speaker 2: What would you do if someone threw a fucking live

1641
01:15:24,400 --> 01:15:26,400
Speaker 2: shotgunshot at you? Would you report them or would you

1642
01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:26,920
Speaker 2: just go out?

1643
01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:29,120
Speaker 3: I would definitely, especially if my kid was in there.

1644
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:30,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent.

1645
01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:33,320
Speaker 1: That's like you, because I'm like, yo, this guy's this

1646
01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:34,519
Speaker 1: guy could do this to other people.

1647
01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:37,880
Speaker 2: Click car. So that has anyone ever thrown anything at

1648
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 2: you while you're driving? Or have you ever thrown anything

1649
01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:44,920
Speaker 2: at someone else? Let us know your road raid stories below,

1650
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 2: and let's get into this next one. Let's drive on in.

1651
01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 3: I was hit by a car yesterday.

1652
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 2: What are my options. I'm in California, damn. Getting straight

1653
01:15:51,520 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 2: to the point, getting straight to it, getting straight to it.

1654
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 2: And you know, there's no two better legally trained lawyers

1655
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:02,160
Speaker 2: than us. We are both from California, that's right. And

1656
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 2: we both have cars that you know what as very recently.

1657
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:07,000
Speaker 2: I got a car like six months ago.

1658
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 3: That's true.

1659
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:11,120
Speaker 1: So we're both legally entitled to give you awful advice

1660
01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:13,840
Speaker 1: here you should not take fucking take it. Let's drive

1661
01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 1: on in, let's do it.

1662
01:16:14,920 --> 01:16:17,960
Speaker 2: So, as the title states, I eighteen, female was hit

1663
01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:21,320
Speaker 2: by a car yesterday walking across the street in San Francisco.

1664
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 3: There was construction going on.

1665
01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 2: It's a very confusing intersection that the lady turned right

1666
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:29,599
Speaker 2: on a red while I was crossing. There was no light,

1667
01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 2: but a construction worker was holding up a stop sign

1668
01:16:32,680 --> 01:16:35,120
Speaker 2: and emotion for me to go. She hit me, going

1669
01:16:35,160 --> 01:16:40,599
Speaker 2: approximately fifteen miles per hour. I was unconscious for twenty seconds. Geez,

1670
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:42,559
Speaker 2: oh my god. Have you ever been hit by a

1671
01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:46,120
Speaker 2: car in a car or outside buy a car like?

1672
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 2: No walking? No, I've been, I know you have.

1673
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, this literally this close three days after I moved

1674
01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:55,040
Speaker 1: to California. I thought it was for a prom Is

1675
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:56,760
Speaker 1: that not you hit by a car? Now that must

1676
01:16:56,800 --> 01:16:58,400
Speaker 1: be somebody else. Oh yeah, oh shit, I remember I

1677
01:16:58,400 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 1: have a different prom story. But right, we'll get to

1678
01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:01,439
Speaker 1: that someday.

1679
01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 2: You didn't get you didn't get hit.

1680
01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:05,280
Speaker 1: I literally I was crossing the streets three days after

1681
01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:06,200
Speaker 1: I moved to California.

1682
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 2: Car was coming and it was that split second of

1683
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 2: like do I jump do I stay? I jumped. I

1684
01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:16,360
Speaker 2: felt it clipped my shirt. But wow, yeah bad, Now

1685
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:17,759
Speaker 2: it's bad. That's crazy.

1686
01:17:17,880 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 3: The lady thought she hit me.

1687
01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 2: But dude, you should have. You should have gotten a limb.

1688
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 2: Get that check, baby, I was, I was done. I

1689
01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:25,719
Speaker 2: didn't know. Come on, you gotta get that check. Okay.

1690
01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:28,519
Speaker 2: So here's the thing. She didn't get out of her car.

1691
01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:30,800
Speaker 2: She just rolled down her window. She asked me if

1692
01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:33,240
Speaker 2: I would like her information and even offered me a

1693
01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:36,479
Speaker 2: large amount of money. I said, in a complete days no,

1694
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 2: thank you. She then left. After a couple of minutes,

1695
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:41,760
Speaker 2: I was bleeding from the back of my head and

1696
01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:44,920
Speaker 2: had some abrasions in my body. The construction guys are

1697
01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:47,400
Speaker 2: the ones who rendered aid to me, but I refused

1698
01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 2: an ambulance because I don't have any medical insurance and

1699
01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 2: would never be able to afford the three thousand dollars fee.

1700
01:17:52,800 --> 01:17:54,120
Speaker 3: Oh pea, fuck America.

1701
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:58,160
Speaker 2: D Oh can't believe we don't have universal health insurance.

1702
01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:01,639
Speaker 2: Oh it's rough anyway. I stumbled to the hospital, which

1703
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:04,120
Speaker 2: was about a mile away. I honestly don't remember much.

1704
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 2: The doctors called me foolish because I was seriously injured.

1705
01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 2: They did a CT scan and a full body X ray.

1706
01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 2: Besides the multiple body fractures, I also have a severe

1707
01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:17,080
Speaker 2: concussion with minor bleeding in the brain.

1708
01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:21,000
Speaker 1: Sees I mean getting hit by a car at fifteen

1709
01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: miles per hour two thousand pounds.

1710
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:27,679
Speaker 2: Come on, dude, are you in for a check? Get

1711
01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:29,000
Speaker 2: those security cameras.

1712
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:29,759
Speaker 3: Please please.

1713
01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:31,720
Speaker 2: They were going to admit me for at least a

1714
01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:34,479
Speaker 2: couple days, but I left after five hours because I

1715
01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:37,400
Speaker 2: just can't afford the hospital stay, let alone the CT

1716
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:38,639
Speaker 2: scan and X rays.

1717
01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:39,879
Speaker 3: This was very stupid.

1718
01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,360
Speaker 2: I know I am hurting bad this morning about twenty

1719
01:18:42,360 --> 01:18:45,520
Speaker 2: four hours later, and have a bunch of neurological symptoms.

1720
01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 2: My case manager at the youth shelter, oh she's out

1721
01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:50,320
Speaker 2: a youth shelter I'm staying at, is making me do

1722
01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 2: a police report in person. This morning, he's coming with

1723
01:18:53,080 --> 01:18:55,800
Speaker 2: me and is talking about maybe making me return to

1724
01:18:55,840 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 2: the hospital. Besides all that, I really don't want this

1725
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:01,040
Speaker 2: woman to get in trouble. I'm just I'm okay, but

1726
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 2: I'm injured pretty bad and still working off adrenaline. A

1727
01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 2: few people have told me that she is required to

1728
01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:09,880
Speaker 2: call nine one one and regardless, is that true? What

1729
01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:12,360
Speaker 2: are my options? I feel a little taken advantage of

1730
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:15,320
Speaker 2: because I wasn't thinking straight immediately after the accidents.

1731
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:18,439
Speaker 3: Thank you that lady treated trying to work with the

1732
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:19,800
Speaker 3: girl as like a McDonald's drive.

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01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:24,960
Speaker 2: So I can't hear that. Oh okay, bye, all right,

1734
01:19:24,960 --> 01:19:30,080
Speaker 2: I see yuh wow, that is a really really rough situation.

1735
01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:33,400
Speaker 2: There isn't at it. The police report has been filed, okay,

1736
01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:36,480
Speaker 2: is there more? The rest isn't right?

1737
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:41,120
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean, this is this is a lot.

1738
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:44,280
Speaker 2: I think she needs to I mean, she said the

1739
01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:46,679
Speaker 2: police report has been filed, but she needs to see

1740
01:19:46,680 --> 01:19:50,840
Speaker 2: if there's security cameras. So actually a couple like a

1741
01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 2: week ago, my mom was attacked by a pitpole in

1742
01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:58,280
Speaker 2: our street and then filed her police report. The police came,

1743
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:01,599
Speaker 2: of course, the person who's done attacked my mom said,

1744
01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 2: my dog attacked that that dog. First, my dog's a

1745
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:08,759
Speaker 2: tiny little dog. It's for a giant piple. My mom

1746
01:20:09,400 --> 01:20:13,200
Speaker 2: saw that there was a ring camera of where she

1747
01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:16,400
Speaker 2: got so she got attacked, pulled the footage. Now that

1748
01:20:16,439 --> 01:20:18,840
Speaker 2: there's footage of my mom getting attacked by this pitple

1749
01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:21,320
Speaker 2: that she's going to use for the police report and

1750
01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:26,320
Speaker 2: in court. So there's cameras everywhere. We live in a society.

1751
01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:28,599
Speaker 1: We do live in a society where we are always

1752
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:31,680
Speaker 1: under surveillance, where Tesla rocams catch people pooping in the

1753
01:20:31,720 --> 01:20:32,759
Speaker 1: streets exactly.

1754
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 2: We wrote a story about that. So like, basically, if

1755
01:20:35,520 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 2: any crime happens, the chances of especially in public, the

1756
01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:43,759
Speaker 2: chances of there being camera footage of it is very high.

1757
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:45,840
Speaker 2: So looks for that because I mean that can really

1758
01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 2: help you.

1759
01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:49,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would definitely seek Like also, anyone who has

1760
01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:53,360
Speaker 1: experienced something similar and you know, learned from that.

1761
01:20:53,880 --> 01:20:55,920
Speaker 3: You ever gotten hit by a car or any kind

1762
01:20:55,960 --> 01:20:56,880
Speaker 3: of vehicle.

1763
01:20:56,760 --> 01:21:01,040
Speaker 2: Please please let us know, because I mean, it happens

1764
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:02,960
Speaker 2: all the time, and I think we know the general

1765
01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:06,320
Speaker 2: stuff where it's like okay, get their information, uh, you know,

1766
01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:08,920
Speaker 2: talk to a lawyer, But like, what does that actually

1767
01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 2: look like?

1768
01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:12,400
Speaker 3: I don't know. I've never been car.

1769
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:14,960
Speaker 1: You know, I've bumped some guy in a tailgate and

1770
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:17,200
Speaker 1: he was like, just give me like two hundred bucks.

1771
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:21,760
Speaker 1: Sound was like fine, Yeah, that's the extent of my experience.

1772
01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 2: With Let us know, let us know what you what

1773
01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:26,639
Speaker 2: your experience is, because I don't we want to protect

1774
01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:29,000
Speaker 2: the okop family. We really do kind of answers to

1775
01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:31,200
Speaker 2: the comments what happens if you get in a car accident.

1776
01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:34,040
Speaker 2: Let us know, also, try not to get hit by car.

1777
01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:37,000
Speaker 2: Please don't get don't go looking to get hit by

1778
01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:39,959
Speaker 2: a car. Yeah, that's also our advice. There you go. Goodvice.

1779
01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:42,559
Speaker 2: Good advice too. That's right, But let's jump into the

1780
01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:42,880
Speaker 2: next one.

1781
01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:43,759
Speaker 3: It's for the gas.

1782
01:21:44,040 --> 01:21:46,000
Speaker 2: Someone hit me with a car and now wants to

1783
01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:48,800
Speaker 2: sue me. I'm going to fight back. But am I

1784
01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:49,439
Speaker 2: the a hole?

1785
01:21:50,439 --> 01:21:51,839
Speaker 3: You are the a hole for fighting?

1786
01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:55,640
Speaker 2: Wow? Jesus said, turn the other cheek, that's right. Confucius

1787
01:21:55,680 --> 01:21:57,759
Speaker 2: said run let them run.

1788
01:21:57,560 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 3: Over you with your car.

1789
01:21:59,120 --> 01:21:59,479
Speaker 2: That's right.

1790
01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:02,040
Speaker 1: They run for one cheek, turn the other cheeks so

1791
01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:03,679
Speaker 1: they can run over the other.

1792
01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:05,360
Speaker 2: You know, I think it was a lot of roads

1793
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:07,680
Speaker 2: that said please run a train through me.

1794
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:12,200
Speaker 3: Be a doormat. That is the lesson of the day.

1795
01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:19,559
Speaker 1: So basically, on Monday, I was in a crash at

1796
01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:23,439
Speaker 1: a really busy intersection. A crash happens multiple times a

1797
01:22:23,520 --> 01:22:26,439
Speaker 1: day there, so I'm fairly careful around that area due

1798
01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:29,040
Speaker 1: to all of the crashes. I was sitting at a

1799
01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:31,600
Speaker 1: red light for around a minute before going when the

1800
01:22:31,680 --> 01:22:34,920
Speaker 1: light turned greened. However, as soon as I made it

1801
01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:38,200
Speaker 1: about halfway through the intersection, my vision went white and

1802
01:22:38,280 --> 01:22:39,639
Speaker 1: the world started spinning.

1803
01:22:39,960 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 3: Fuck geez all, my airbags had gone off.

1804
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 1: My oil just started to spill all the way down

1805
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:48,240
Speaker 1: the street, and my console was smoking.

1806
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:49,400
Speaker 2: Wow.

1807
01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 3: WHOA.

1808
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:52,519
Speaker 1: So I missed the part of the crash where the

1809
01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:55,799
Speaker 1: other party tried to hop on the interstate and cross

1810
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,960
Speaker 1: state borders, but a man a couple of cars behind

1811
01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:02,360
Speaker 1: me took off after them and brought them back. So

1812
01:23:02,479 --> 01:23:05,680
Speaker 1: basically it looks like OP was in like a really bad.

1813
01:23:05,880 --> 01:23:09,840
Speaker 2: Collision and the person that got into the crash fled

1814
01:23:09,880 --> 01:23:12,280
Speaker 2: the scene, but some like good.

1815
01:23:12,120 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 1: Straight Air and his good Samaritan vigilante just like chasing

1816
01:23:15,400 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 1: down man in the bay. When the cops finally showed

1817
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:23,200
Speaker 1: up after around forty five minutes, the other party decided

1818
01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:26,200
Speaker 1: to lie and say that I ran the red light.

1819
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:27,840
Speaker 2: Dude, It's always fucking like that.

1820
01:23:28,080 --> 01:23:32,360
Speaker 1: Always, always. He tried to reverse Unomi with the blame.

1821
01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:35,320
Speaker 2: Dude, that's what I got into a crash before, like

1822
01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:38,680
Speaker 2: a lift driver crashed into my car. I recorded him

1823
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:42,679
Speaker 2: admitting fault, and then he reversed the uh the story

1824
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:45,439
Speaker 2: when the police came. But luckily we had the recording

1825
01:23:45,560 --> 01:23:48,559
Speaker 2: or we would have been like suit, damn, you've solid

1826
01:23:48,680 --> 01:23:50,680
Speaker 2: quick with it. Yeah, I'm a content creator who.

1827
01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:55,439
Speaker 1: He also showed a gift card instead of an ID,

1828
01:23:56,280 --> 01:24:02,040
Speaker 1: like as a bride ippo, would you like seven and

1829
01:24:02,080 --> 01:24:04,800
Speaker 1: a half dollars on a cold Stone agreement regard and

1830
01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:08,679
Speaker 1: expires in three days? So you sit fast like what

1831
01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 1: the fuck? And I'm still so bewildered by that bride prahps.

1832
01:24:14,040 --> 01:24:18,040
Speaker 1: Oh so maybe it wasn't bro Maybe maybe. Thankfully, the

1833
01:24:18,040 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 1: man in the car directly behind me also had a

1834
01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 1: dash cam and basically forced the footage on the cop

1835
01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:28,040
Speaker 1: with how adamant he was about giving man op is

1836
01:24:28,080 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 1: really surrounded by some good Samaritans, I know, God, lucky

1837
01:24:31,800 --> 01:24:36,080
Speaker 1: for real. Again, after calling insurance, I've now found out

1838
01:24:36,080 --> 01:24:38,920
Speaker 1: that they are holding onto the lie that they didn't

1839
01:24:38,920 --> 01:24:42,200
Speaker 1: turn a red despite the footage proving that they did.

1840
01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:47,639
Speaker 1: And the six witnesses including a prison officer. I don't

1841
01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:50,400
Speaker 1: know if that's police officer, prison officer, but we're rolling

1842
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:53,559
Speaker 1: with it that we're all saying that he was the

1843
01:24:53,560 --> 01:24:54,080
Speaker 1: one at faul.

1844
01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 2: I think his prison officer probably like just like a

1845
01:24:57,560 --> 01:25:00,400
Speaker 2: random bystander that happens to be an offic sir at

1846
01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:00,759
Speaker 2: a prison.

1847
01:25:01,000 --> 01:25:02,200
Speaker 3: That could be the case.

1848
01:25:02,840 --> 01:25:06,040
Speaker 1: Maybe where this guy is going, you know, can he

1849
01:25:06,120 --> 01:25:07,519
Speaker 1: get me in trouble with these lies?

1850
01:25:07,960 --> 01:25:08,760
Speaker 3: I'm scared that the.

1851
01:25:09,360 --> 01:25:15,040
Speaker 2: Dash camp yeah no, and six witnesses including a prison officer.

1852
01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:17,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I love how hope he is like, and

1853
01:25:17,720 --> 01:25:18,759
Speaker 2: it was a prison officer.

1854
01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:23,000
Speaker 1: It's it's the car crash, the jail pipeline, yeah, super strong.

1855
01:25:24,040 --> 01:25:26,639
Speaker 1: I'm scared that one morning I'll wake up and find

1856
01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:29,360
Speaker 1: out that they decided that he was right and all

1857
01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:32,200
Speaker 1: have to pay for his entirely fed up suv. He

1858
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:35,040
Speaker 1: popped the wheel, The hood was so dented you could

1859
01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:38,360
Speaker 1: see underneath the engine that was in pieces. And I

1860
01:25:38,400 --> 01:25:40,959
Speaker 1: really just don't want to pay for his bad decision.

1861
01:25:41,360 --> 01:25:44,680
Speaker 1: Is it possible that I'd have to editing to make

1862
01:25:44,720 --> 01:25:47,519
Speaker 1: a quick note here. But I did initially start this

1863
01:25:47,560 --> 01:25:50,360
Speaker 1: whole thing by filing acclaim with my own insurance at

1864
01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:53,519
Speaker 1: the incident site. My insurance told me that I shouldn't

1865
01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:55,400
Speaker 1: have done that because it makes me look like the

1866
01:25:55,400 --> 01:25:57,720
Speaker 1: guilty one, and that I had to do it through

1867
01:25:57,760 --> 01:25:59,880
Speaker 1: the other person's insurance.

1868
01:26:00,320 --> 01:26:04,680
Speaker 2: Right, Usually you fire when you are when you are

1869
01:26:06,120 --> 01:26:09,320
Speaker 2: not at fault, you fire you you file through the

1870
01:26:09,320 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 2: other person's insurance. But like you know, if you have

1871
01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:14,760
Speaker 2: the dash cam footage and the witnesses, it should be fine. Yeah,

1872
01:26:14,800 --> 01:26:16,800
Speaker 2: I guess, Yeah, I guess, maybe an increase. I didn't

1873
01:26:16,840 --> 01:26:16,960
Speaker 2: know that.

1874
01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:18,600
Speaker 3: Actually, that's a good tip for me.

1875
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:23,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, a lot of car stories today, guys, again,

1876
01:26:23,400 --> 01:26:27,960
Speaker 1: any any stories of I think, really how to deal

1877
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:31,559
Speaker 1: with these types of situations where somebody hits you there

1878
01:26:31,600 --> 01:26:33,800
Speaker 1: at fault but then they try to weasel out of it.

1879
01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:37,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it happens all the time, all the time. But yeah,

1880
01:26:37,439 --> 01:26:39,720
Speaker 2: tell us your car crash stories. Put it in the

1881
01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:42,720
Speaker 2: comments below. We'd love to hear what you remember of it.

1882
01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:46,679
Speaker 2: That's right. My psycle parents are in a religious cults.

1883
01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:49,360
Speaker 2: I just found sacrifices in the attic.

1884
01:26:49,640 --> 01:26:51,960
Speaker 3: Should I call the cops? Well, you know, it's for

1885
01:26:52,160 --> 01:26:53,559
Speaker 3: religious reasons, you know, you know what.

1886
01:26:53,600 --> 01:26:56,120
Speaker 2: The sacrifices in the attic are their dreams when they

1887
01:26:56,120 --> 01:26:59,479
Speaker 2: had you. Wow, sorry, Op, you literally were an accident

1888
01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:02,240
Speaker 2: and you fresh their dreams. So my parents are very

1889
01:27:02,439 --> 01:27:05,280
Speaker 2: secretive people. I always assumed that's just how parents were

1890
01:27:05,360 --> 01:27:08,679
Speaker 2: along with this. They were legit obsessed with the attic.

1891
01:27:08,800 --> 01:27:13,559
Speaker 2: What's creeping and crawling in the attic? Going balls and gags? Baby,

1892
01:27:13,560 --> 01:27:16,720
Speaker 2: that's oh god, mommy and Daddy's playplace. That's right, keep

1893
01:27:16,760 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 2: it upstairs, sex swings and fucking leather, nice and hot.

1894
01:27:20,280 --> 01:27:23,000
Speaker 2: When we moved into this house, four floors, one attic,

1895
01:27:23,160 --> 01:27:25,080
Speaker 2: I wanted to have more room in there, as it

1896
01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:27,040
Speaker 2: had the most space and I could put all my

1897
01:27:27,120 --> 01:27:30,519
Speaker 2: workout equipment there, But they demanded that I stay on

1898
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:33,479
Speaker 2: the second floor, which eventually turned into a screaming match

1899
01:27:33,479 --> 01:27:36,120
Speaker 2: between me, my mom, and my stepdad. Is that not

1900
01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:38,080
Speaker 2: the most spoiled child? Shit?

1901
01:27:38,320 --> 01:27:38,639
Speaker 3: Ever?

1902
01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:39,479
Speaker 2: I want the.

1903
01:27:39,520 --> 01:27:42,920
Speaker 4: Addict because has more square feet for my palets.

1904
01:27:42,479 --> 01:27:46,000
Speaker 3: On, mom, Mama, I want the penthouse.

1905
01:27:46,080 --> 01:27:48,879
Speaker 2: I would not do with the second floor what you'd

1906
01:27:48,920 --> 01:27:50,080
Speaker 2: take me for some.

1907
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:53,599
Speaker 3: Kind of plebeian. The shit is ridiculous. The second floor

1908
01:27:53,680 --> 01:27:55,320
Speaker 3: is basically the guts of Mama.

1909
01:27:55,640 --> 01:27:58,040
Speaker 2: I cannot live in the sewers. I didn't want to

1910
01:27:58,080 --> 01:28:00,880
Speaker 2: smell the sewers. I didn't want to smell the poor people.

1911
01:28:01,240 --> 01:28:05,160
Speaker 2: The loss come up from the ground, the attic free

1912
01:28:05,240 --> 01:28:06,320
Speaker 2: from the pool smells.

1913
01:28:06,360 --> 01:28:07,760
Speaker 3: I must have my own space, Mama.

1914
01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:11,440
Speaker 2: I caved and moved into the second floor, and to apologize,

1915
01:28:11,560 --> 01:28:14,480
Speaker 2: they let me stay at my cousin's house in Massachusetts

1916
01:28:14,560 --> 01:28:17,000
Speaker 2: for the next two weeks. As they moved more and

1917
01:28:17,080 --> 01:28:19,479
Speaker 2: more stuff in, they had to apologize for giving you

1918
01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:22,639
Speaker 2: a whole fucking floor. Bro, oh pee, and you didn't

1919
01:28:22,680 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 2: help move stuff in. You're kind of coming off as

1920
01:28:24,920 --> 01:28:28,200
Speaker 2: a hole a right dude, Like, oh, my god, your

1921
01:28:28,240 --> 01:28:32,479
Speaker 2: parents might be murderers, but you murder fun and being chilled.

1922
01:28:32,560 --> 01:28:35,280
Speaker 2: My god. Wow. When I came back, the attic door

1923
01:28:35,479 --> 01:28:40,360
Speaker 2: was locked, Like I'm talking paranoid grandpa in apartment locked locked.

1924
01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:42,559
Speaker 3: I never minded it, after all.

1925
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:44,880
Speaker 2: It was an attic, and when I asked my mom

1926
01:28:45,040 --> 01:28:47,799
Speaker 2: about it, she'd simply say they used it for storage.

1927
01:28:47,960 --> 01:28:50,439
Speaker 2: Odd but both my grandma and dad had died a

1928
01:28:50,439 --> 01:28:53,120
Speaker 2: few years before and left behind a lot of stuff,

1929
01:28:53,200 --> 01:28:55,880
Speaker 2: so I believed her. I caught glimpses of the inside

1930
01:28:55,880 --> 01:28:59,080
Speaker 2: over the following weeks. It was oddly underdeveloped compared to

1931
01:28:59,120 --> 01:29:01,920
Speaker 2: the second, third, and first floors, and there was a

1932
01:29:01,960 --> 01:29:03,840
Speaker 2: toilet in the back of it so I could see

1933
01:29:03,840 --> 01:29:07,759
Speaker 2: through the darkness. Also, an attic is meant to be undeveloped. Yeah,

1934
01:29:08,040 --> 01:29:10,800
Speaker 2: it's a different between the four floors. An attic has

1935
01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:11,640
Speaker 2: meant for storage.

1936
01:29:11,760 --> 01:29:14,000
Speaker 1: I saw the first attic as a room in my

1937
01:29:14,120 --> 01:29:15,400
Speaker 1: life like a month ago.

1938
01:29:15,479 --> 01:29:16,200
Speaker 2: This is ridiculous.

1939
01:29:16,240 --> 01:29:17,000
Speaker 3: What is going on here?

1940
01:29:17,080 --> 01:29:19,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, Opie is an attic addict.

1941
01:29:19,840 --> 01:29:21,680
Speaker 3: That's true. I can't stop thinking about it.

1942
01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 2: An addict, asshole, an attic addict, asshole. Say that's five

1943
01:29:25,400 --> 01:29:28,040
Speaker 2: times fast No, fast forward. Today I wake up and

1944
01:29:28,160 --> 01:29:30,479
Speaker 2: have to take a shit. I made the mistake of

1945
01:29:30,520 --> 01:29:35,599
Speaker 2: eating three cheese sandwiches yesterday. Whoops, fucking spoiled brat. So

1946
01:29:35,640 --> 01:29:38,160
Speaker 2: I check on the second floor. Stepdad is in the

1947
01:29:38,160 --> 01:29:41,040
Speaker 2: bathroom downstairs, sisters in the bathroom. I know that the

1948
01:29:41,080 --> 01:29:44,080
Speaker 2: basement is empty and full of spiders, so I refuse

1949
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:46,720
Speaker 2: to go down there. And the third floor doesn't have

1950
01:29:46,800 --> 01:29:49,519
Speaker 2: a bathroom. I also overheard my mom talking about going

1951
01:29:49,600 --> 01:29:54,679
Speaker 2: upstairs to do something, oh like masturbait so I decided

1952
01:29:54,680 --> 01:29:57,759
Speaker 2: to cut my losses and release the horde in the attic.

1953
01:29:58,040 --> 01:30:00,599
Speaker 3: The place looks pretty normal at glance.

1954
01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:02,800
Speaker 2: There's a weird amount of paper on the floor that's

1955
01:30:02,840 --> 01:30:05,120
Speaker 2: peeling off, and the windows are blocked, but that's it.

1956
01:30:05,200 --> 01:30:07,639
Speaker 2: I go to the bathroom, use the bathroom, and leave.

1957
01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:11,439
Speaker 2: But I noticed that there's almost nothing up there, despite

1958
01:30:11,439 --> 01:30:14,559
Speaker 2: my mom's claims of it being a storage room, so

1959
01:30:14,840 --> 01:30:17,240
Speaker 2: I just look around for shits and giggles. I opened

1960
01:30:17,240 --> 01:30:19,040
Speaker 2: a door which I wouldn't be able to see from

1961
01:30:19,040 --> 01:30:21,559
Speaker 2: the attic stairs, as it is to the left of

1962
01:30:21,560 --> 01:30:23,320
Speaker 2: the door that lets you into the attic, and I

1963
01:30:23,400 --> 01:30:27,920
Speaker 2: find a shrine. It has pictures of my dead dad, Grandma,

1964
01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:31,360
Speaker 2: and me on it. It's nothing hereditary level, but it's

1965
01:30:31,360 --> 01:30:35,479
Speaker 2: certainly off putting considered. The thing is surrounded by dolls,

1966
01:30:35,560 --> 01:30:38,360
Speaker 2: and there's also a couple of cardboard boxes around the

1967
01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:42,000
Speaker 2: place with literal birds inside. I want to say I'm kidding,

1968
01:30:42,120 --> 01:30:45,000
Speaker 2: but these are actual fucking birds in them. I know

1969
01:30:45,080 --> 01:30:47,400
Speaker 2: this because on a run through the Bronx, we went

1970
01:30:47,400 --> 01:30:50,280
Speaker 2: to the whole market thing or whatever, and they packed

1971
01:30:50,360 --> 01:30:53,040
Speaker 2: birds into these boxes with holes in them.

1972
01:30:53,120 --> 01:30:55,040
Speaker 3: I imagine alive.

1973
01:30:55,640 --> 01:30:57,599
Speaker 2: They were alive. I think they may be dead.

1974
01:30:57,720 --> 01:31:01,160
Speaker 3: What the fuck is going on? This is in proof.

1975
01:31:00,880 --> 01:31:03,640
Speaker 2: Of a cult, I understand, but this, coupled with some

1976
01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:06,160
Speaker 2: recent changes, has really led me to believe that my

1977
01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:10,559
Speaker 2: parents are going through some weird stuff. Ever since my

1978
01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:13,280
Speaker 2: grandma and dad died, my mom has gotten really deep

1979
01:31:13,280 --> 01:31:16,439
Speaker 2: into faith and has become friends with this priestess based

1980
01:31:16,479 --> 01:31:18,679
Speaker 2: in Cuba. I don't know her name, I have met

1981
01:31:18,680 --> 01:31:21,400
Speaker 2: her and she does live streams on Facebook. Again, something

1982
01:31:21,479 --> 01:31:24,840
Speaker 2: relatively normal, until I saw that her photo is on

1983
01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:27,360
Speaker 2: the fucking shrine as well. It's hard to see, but

1984
01:31:27,400 --> 01:31:29,960
Speaker 2: it's behind the candle. My parents have also been talking

1985
01:31:30,000 --> 01:31:32,559
Speaker 2: to me about my sixteenth birthday and have told me

1986
01:31:32,720 --> 01:31:36,240
Speaker 2: they are going to mark my head, followed by a laugh,

1987
01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:39,639
Speaker 2: which I assumed was always some kind of weird joke.

1988
01:31:39,880 --> 01:31:42,760
Speaker 2: I'm genuinely concerned and confused and don't know how to

1989
01:31:42,760 --> 01:31:44,719
Speaker 2: bring this up to them. And there is an update.

1990
01:31:44,840 --> 01:31:47,080
Speaker 1: Mark my head sounds like they're putting a hit on her.

1991
01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:48,680
Speaker 1: I know, it sounds like.

1992
01:31:48,640 --> 01:31:52,720
Speaker 2: They're going to do Captato Peeveditasophia. Like, dude, I don't

1993
01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:53,160
Speaker 2: fucking know.

1994
01:31:53,520 --> 01:31:54,400
Speaker 3: This is really weird.

1995
01:31:54,520 --> 01:31:58,680
Speaker 2: Also, like this sounds crazy, but there have been and

1996
01:31:58,720 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 2: continue to be religious cults all over the US that

1997
01:32:02,200 --> 01:32:03,880
Speaker 2: are into some pretty fucked up shit.

1998
01:32:04,000 --> 01:32:06,880
Speaker 1: Here's a question, what's the percentage of like wealthy people

1999
01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:10,120
Speaker 1: in these cults? Because they sound like a four story house? Like, Yo,

2000
01:32:10,200 --> 01:32:11,320
Speaker 1: have you heard of scientology?

2001
01:32:11,320 --> 01:32:11,599
Speaker 3: Bitch?

2002
01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:13,040
Speaker 2: Have you heard of scientology?

2003
01:32:13,200 --> 01:32:15,120
Speaker 3: You you got you got to be good?

2004
01:32:15,320 --> 01:32:17,879
Speaker 2: Have you heard of mister Tom Cruz?

2005
01:32:18,320 --> 01:32:18,880
Speaker 3: Never heard of him?

2006
01:32:18,880 --> 01:32:22,559
Speaker 2: Who's that? Dude? Scientologists most famous for being a scientology?

2007
01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:26,480
Speaker 1: But like what about like, uh, like even more eccentric cults.

2008
01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:27,599
Speaker 3: Than that, you know what I mean.

2009
01:32:27,560 --> 01:32:33,240
Speaker 2: Like believing in fucking volcano dwelling aliens. That's not as

2010
01:32:33,600 --> 01:32:38,240
Speaker 2: taking cyanide blazed kool aid because someone tells you to.

2011
01:32:38,439 --> 01:32:40,360
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you had you had rich people that

2012
01:32:40,479 --> 01:32:42,439
Speaker 2: like you had like kind of like drop out rich

2013
01:32:42,479 --> 01:32:44,240
Speaker 2: people that joined some of these cults, like they came

2014
01:32:44,280 --> 01:32:46,320
Speaker 2: from a rich family and they're like I'm yeah, I

2015
01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:48,320
Speaker 2: hate you, right, and then they go join one of

2016
01:32:48,360 --> 01:32:50,160
Speaker 2: those sex cults in the forest. That's true.

2017
01:32:50,160 --> 01:32:54,160
Speaker 3: Maybe it's like the the inherited, they're the inherited wealth.

2018
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:57,519
Speaker 1: No, there's babies, yeah, trust babies, the trust one babies

2019
01:32:57,560 --> 01:32:59,160
Speaker 1: are like I have literally no idea what to do

2020
01:32:59,200 --> 01:33:01,599
Speaker 1: with my life, and I I like experienced everything rich

2021
01:33:01,600 --> 01:33:02,040
Speaker 1: in the world.

2022
01:33:02,479 --> 01:33:04,880
Speaker 3: Let me do the craziest thing possible, and.

2023
01:33:04,840 --> 01:33:06,360
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm kind of into it. It'd be fun

2024
01:33:06,600 --> 01:33:08,519
Speaker 2: for a little biting. Let us know if you've joined

2025
01:33:08,560 --> 01:33:10,320
Speaker 2: a sex cult or any kind of cult. Put your

2026
01:33:10,320 --> 01:33:12,960
Speaker 2: answers in the comments, you little CULTI bastards. I guess

2027
01:33:13,000 --> 01:33:15,160
Speaker 2: the Okop fam is kind of a cult and you're

2028
01:33:15,200 --> 01:33:16,480
Speaker 2: on the ground floor, baby.

2029
01:33:16,280 --> 01:33:17,400
Speaker 3: And we are your leaders.

2030
01:33:18,360 --> 01:33:22,200
Speaker 2: Boss. So reasoned out that my parents probably weren't going

2031
01:33:22,240 --> 01:33:24,799
Speaker 2: to sacrifice me to some demonic pagan god or whatever.

2032
01:33:24,920 --> 01:33:26,720
Speaker 2: So just in case, I told a friend that I

2033
01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:29,280
Speaker 2: was going to be online on cod within the next

2034
01:33:29,320 --> 01:33:32,000
Speaker 2: two hours, and that if I wasn't online at that point,

2035
01:33:32,000 --> 01:33:33,960
Speaker 2: he should probably come over to my house as my

2036
01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:36,880
Speaker 2: signal might have fucked up. Dumb lie, I know. And

2037
01:33:36,920 --> 01:33:39,360
Speaker 2: in the meantime, I just went downstairs and asked my

2038
01:33:39,439 --> 01:33:43,360
Speaker 2: mom what the deal was with the shrine upstairs? Mama?

2039
01:33:43,560 --> 01:33:45,479
Speaker 2: Why I got all these weird pictures and candles? What

2040
01:33:45,520 --> 01:33:45,840
Speaker 2: are you doing?

2041
01:33:45,880 --> 01:33:47,240
Speaker 3: What's up with the birds? Went up?

2042
01:33:47,280 --> 01:33:50,000
Speaker 2: Dumb buds? Ten out of ten beds. Sorry, we got

2043
01:33:50,080 --> 01:33:52,200
Speaker 2: in trouble for saying that. Out of ten beds. Uh, oh,

2044
01:33:52,240 --> 01:33:54,439
Speaker 2: no longer, no longer. That joke's just for Riley.

2045
01:33:54,640 --> 01:33:55,960
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I know it though.

2046
01:33:56,120 --> 01:33:59,120
Speaker 2: My mom is a bit stubborn, so she acted confused

2047
01:33:59,120 --> 01:34:01,960
Speaker 2: for a moment, but when I pushed further, she cracked

2048
01:34:02,040 --> 01:34:05,080
Speaker 2: and started talking. When I asked questions, she told me

2049
01:34:05,160 --> 01:34:07,880
Speaker 2: that we are Catholic, and, like many commentars on the

2050
01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:11,200
Speaker 2: post said, as it turns out, they practice an Afro

2051
01:34:11,320 --> 01:34:15,800
Speaker 2: Cuban religion called Santeria, which is essentially a mix of

2052
01:34:15,800 --> 01:34:19,800
Speaker 2: Catholicism and a lot of African beliefs. The altar with

2053
01:34:19,920 --> 01:34:22,559
Speaker 2: all the photos is called a boveda and acts as

2054
01:34:22,560 --> 01:34:24,880
Speaker 2: a tunnel between Earth and Heaven. You know what I

2055
01:34:24,880 --> 01:34:27,040
Speaker 2: should have called it, but that is what I thought

2056
01:34:27,080 --> 01:34:27,400
Speaker 2: it was.

2057
01:34:27,760 --> 01:34:28,519
Speaker 3: You know about this?

2058
01:34:28,720 --> 01:34:30,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do not know a lot about it, but

2059
01:34:30,560 --> 01:34:32,519
Speaker 1: I know that some uh you know, that was like

2060
01:34:32,600 --> 01:34:35,439
Speaker 1: all these different interpretations like Christianity and whatnot. There's some

2061
01:34:35,600 --> 01:34:38,360
Speaker 1: that kind of mix like voodoo or other things like

2062
01:34:38,439 --> 01:34:41,720
Speaker 1: that with Christianity. Yeah, I don't know about it, but

2063
01:34:41,760 --> 01:34:42,960
Speaker 1: I've heard of it before.

2064
01:34:43,240 --> 01:34:45,200
Speaker 2: Damn should have Damn, I should have called it now

2065
01:34:45,320 --> 01:34:49,439
Speaker 2: now it just was like the end of the movie. Fuck.

2066
01:34:49,560 --> 01:34:51,759
Speaker 2: She put the photos of me there because she thinks

2067
01:34:51,800 --> 01:34:54,200
Speaker 2: it will let the spirit of my dad and of

2068
01:34:54,240 --> 01:34:57,000
Speaker 2: my grandma protect me. A little weird, but all right.

2069
01:34:57,080 --> 01:34:59,200
Speaker 2: At least it was done with good intentions, I guess.

2070
01:34:59,360 --> 01:35:02,640
Speaker 2: Eventually I bring up the elephant or bird in the

2071
01:35:02,720 --> 01:35:05,680
Speaker 2: room and ask about the severed deer. There was a

2072
01:35:05,720 --> 01:35:08,640
Speaker 2: severed deer what goat slash lamb and she said it

2073
01:35:08,720 --> 01:35:12,479
Speaker 2: was a thing for Arisha called achosi that has to

2074
01:35:12,520 --> 01:35:14,479
Speaker 2: do with hunting, I think. Then we talked more about

2075
01:35:14,479 --> 01:35:17,320
Speaker 2: the stuff around. Thankfully, the rock was not covered in blood,

2076
01:35:17,439 --> 01:35:19,840
Speaker 2: just some kind of weird alcohol, and then we got

2077
01:35:19,840 --> 01:35:21,840
Speaker 2: to the bird thing. It was the first time in

2078
01:35:21,840 --> 01:35:25,080
Speaker 2: forever that I was genuinely scared of my mom. She

2079
01:35:25,280 --> 01:35:28,280
Speaker 2: just casually explained that she would murder and has been

2080
01:35:28,400 --> 01:35:31,320
Speaker 2: murdering animals for years. I think she caught on to

2081
01:35:31,400 --> 01:35:33,080
Speaker 2: what I was getting at and promised that it was

2082
01:35:33,120 --> 01:35:35,880
Speaker 2: only farm animals and that she did it humanly by

2083
01:35:35,920 --> 01:35:39,960
Speaker 2: decapitating them or cutting some arteries so they bleed out quickly.

2084
01:35:40,120 --> 01:35:40,559
Speaker 3: Yikes.

2085
01:35:40,640 --> 01:35:43,200
Speaker 2: But again I wanted to have an open mind, so

2086
01:35:43,280 --> 01:35:46,719
Speaker 2: I cringed in my mind and asked more questions. Most

2087
01:35:46,760 --> 01:35:49,160
Speaker 2: went nowhere, but the one that really fucked me up

2088
01:35:49,360 --> 01:35:51,360
Speaker 2: was when I asked how long they've been doing this?

2089
01:35:51,479 --> 01:35:56,680
Speaker 2: Thirty years? Wow, thirty fucking years. They've been into this

2090
01:35:56,760 --> 01:35:58,840
Speaker 2: and they never told me about it. My cousins know,

2091
01:35:59,040 --> 01:36:02,200
Speaker 2: my aunt's and uncle, my grandma knew, my dad knew.

2092
01:36:02,320 --> 01:36:05,519
Speaker 2: Virtually everyone in my extended family knew except for me.

2093
01:36:05,800 --> 01:36:07,760
Speaker 2: And you know what the worst part is, my mom

2094
01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:10,680
Speaker 2: and dad weren't introduced to it or sucked in by

2095
01:36:10,720 --> 01:36:14,280
Speaker 2: someone else. They were the people introducing it to others.

2096
01:36:14,920 --> 01:36:19,120
Speaker 2: They're the cult leaders. Oh. My dad was something called

2097
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:22,400
Speaker 2: a centero or centera or whatever that acts like a

2098
01:36:22,400 --> 01:36:24,800
Speaker 2: priest or fortune teller. He came over to the United

2099
01:36:24,800 --> 01:36:27,000
Speaker 2: States and met my mom and was the one to

2100
01:36:27,040 --> 01:36:30,679
Speaker 2: get her into Santaia, and then introduced it to my grandma,

2101
01:36:30,720 --> 01:36:33,040
Speaker 2: who immigrated not too long afterwards, and they.

2102
01:36:32,960 --> 01:36:34,360
Speaker 3: Practice it together.

2103
01:36:34,560 --> 01:36:36,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this wild. So I patched things up

2104
01:36:36,640 --> 01:36:38,840
Speaker 2: with my mom and stepdad, learned about the situation with

2105
01:36:38,880 --> 01:36:40,840
Speaker 2: the stuff in the attic, and it, for the most

2106
01:36:40,880 --> 01:36:44,000
Speaker 2: part ended well. I'm not going to report them to anyone,

2107
01:36:44,120 --> 01:36:47,440
Speaker 2: but I am also not joining the Church of Santoria.

2108
01:36:47,920 --> 01:36:51,360
Speaker 1: Wow, We've never had a situation like this, I think,

2109
01:36:51,560 --> 01:36:53,400
Speaker 1: No A thousand stories.

2110
01:36:53,000 --> 01:36:56,400
Speaker 2: Talk about fucking skeletons in the closet. Oh, literally, fucking

2111
01:36:56,520 --> 01:36:58,439
Speaker 2: skeletons in the attics.

2112
01:36:58,040 --> 01:36:59,920
Speaker 3: Murdered birds, murdered birds.

2113
01:37:00,320 --> 01:37:02,360
Speaker 2: But two in the attic is worth one in that hand.

2114
01:37:02,520 --> 01:37:04,320
Speaker 2: I have no idea A bird in hand is worth

2115
01:37:04,360 --> 01:37:05,720
Speaker 2: two in the bush. You've never heard that?

2116
01:37:05,800 --> 01:37:07,200
Speaker 3: Have you ever heard that before in your life?

2117
01:37:07,280 --> 01:37:09,280
Speaker 2: You've never heard a bird in hand is worth two

2118
01:37:09,280 --> 01:37:11,720
Speaker 2: in the bush. Never? Is that whole life? Campbell? Have

2119
01:37:11,760 --> 01:37:13,639
Speaker 2: you heard that a bird in the hand is worth

2120
01:37:13,680 --> 01:37:14,280
Speaker 2: two in the bush?

2121
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:14,799
Speaker 3: Nathan?

2122
01:37:15,320 --> 01:37:16,960
Speaker 2: Have you heard a bird in the hand is worth

2123
01:37:17,000 --> 01:37:20,160
Speaker 2: two in the bush? What? Wow? What the fuck? Nathan says?

2124
01:37:21,840 --> 01:37:26,160
Speaker 2: Who never? Okay, ever in my life? Please comment below

2125
01:37:26,280 --> 01:37:28,640
Speaker 2: if you've heard of that phrase, a bird in the

2126
01:37:28,680 --> 01:37:29,880
Speaker 2: hand is worth two in the bush? What does that

2127
01:37:30,000 --> 01:37:32,439
Speaker 2: even mean? All right, say there's two birds over there.

2128
01:37:32,479 --> 01:37:34,479
Speaker 2: I'm about to eat some birds. Yeah, oh, there's two

2129
01:37:34,520 --> 01:37:36,320
Speaker 2: birds in the in the bush. Well, but I got

2130
01:37:36,320 --> 01:37:38,400
Speaker 2: one bird right here, Like that's worth more than the

2131
01:37:38,439 --> 01:37:40,040
Speaker 2: two in the bush, because like you might not even

2132
01:37:40,040 --> 01:37:42,679
Speaker 2: catch those birds in the bush, or I get double dinner. Yeah,

2133
01:37:42,680 --> 01:37:43,280
Speaker 2: but you might not.

2134
01:37:43,280 --> 01:37:44,720
Speaker 1: Even get it. A bird in the hand is worth

2135
01:37:44,760 --> 01:37:46,320
Speaker 1: two in the bus. I could murder them and put

2136
01:37:46,320 --> 01:37:47,040
Speaker 1: them on my shrine.

2137
01:37:47,120 --> 01:37:47,760
Speaker 2: Oh that's true.

2138
01:37:47,760 --> 01:37:48,599
Speaker 3: Now I got a whole shot.

2139
01:37:48,640 --> 01:37:50,719
Speaker 2: One bird is then you can talk to grandpa. That's

2140
01:37:50,720 --> 01:37:51,400
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

2141
01:37:51,560 --> 01:37:52,360
Speaker 3: Here's another one.

2142
01:37:52,439 --> 01:37:54,639
Speaker 2: You know, one is lonely, but two is a party.

2143
01:37:54,680 --> 01:37:56,759
Speaker 2: You know, that's true. One bird is just a dead bird.

2144
01:37:56,760 --> 01:37:59,360
Speaker 2: Two dead birds. That's a shrine. Baby, Two dead birds.

2145
01:37:59,400 --> 01:38:01,680
Speaker 2: That's company. Because you got your grandma coming over and

2146
01:38:01,720 --> 01:38:06,800
Speaker 2: be like, oh, damn is that bird ten buds? It's

2147
01:38:06,840 --> 01:38:10,759
Speaker 2: getting lit, dude, Grandpa calls whatever the buds are. That's right.

2148
01:38:10,800 --> 01:38:12,680
Speaker 2: We're talking about real birds, by the way, not the

2149
01:38:12,720 --> 01:38:13,840
Speaker 2: English euphanism. Yea.

2150
01:38:13,960 --> 01:38:16,080
Speaker 3: Anyway, what the fuck is this story? That is a

2151
01:38:16,080 --> 01:38:16,679
Speaker 3: great question.

2152
01:38:16,880 --> 01:38:19,000
Speaker 2: How did they hide this from their child?

2153
01:38:19,080 --> 01:38:22,640
Speaker 1: Like because most parents, they like introduce them to the

2154
01:38:22,680 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 1: religion that they follow.

2155
01:38:23,920 --> 01:38:25,960
Speaker 2: Well, I guess maybe this is the introduction. I guess,

2156
01:38:26,000 --> 01:38:27,880
Speaker 2: But like, have OP a couple of years. OP is

2157
01:38:27,920 --> 01:38:31,440
Speaker 2: gonna be like, damn, these birds looking pretty sixies.

2158
01:38:32,120 --> 01:38:34,559
Speaker 1: That's like usually it's like you inundate them, like from

2159
01:38:34,720 --> 01:38:36,040
Speaker 1: you know, day one.

2160
01:38:35,920 --> 01:38:37,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, how at year.

2161
01:38:37,080 --> 01:38:38,640
Speaker 1: Sixteen are you going to get them? You have like

2162
01:38:38,680 --> 01:38:41,840
Speaker 1: two years? Realistically, that's actually true. Yeah, you gotta start early,

2163
01:38:42,040 --> 01:38:44,160
Speaker 1: and something is is like they have to have some

2164
01:38:44,200 --> 01:38:46,360
Speaker 1: sort of sense that this is like different.

2165
01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:49,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, if I was to indoctrinate my kids into a

2166
01:38:49,080 --> 01:38:50,599
Speaker 2: religious cult, I would start early.

2167
01:38:50,720 --> 01:38:52,120
Speaker 3: There we go, So start earlier.

2168
01:38:52,520 --> 01:38:55,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but John, you know what else we should start with?

2169
01:38:55,120 --> 01:38:57,600
Speaker 2: What this next story? A pimpass a head out on

2170
01:38:57,640 --> 01:39:00,720
Speaker 2: me and my family? Should I run away a hole? No,

2171
01:39:00,800 --> 01:39:03,760
Speaker 2: it's just joined the business flex those freaking cheeks put

2172
01:39:03,800 --> 01:39:05,759
Speaker 2: that become an asset to that pimp.

2173
01:39:05,920 --> 01:39:08,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and someone who's bringing.

2174
01:39:08,520 --> 01:39:12,920
Speaker 1: Him money exactly, that asshold no work. Also, I love

2175
01:39:12,960 --> 01:39:15,599
Speaker 1: that it's like, am I an asshole for running away

2176
01:39:15,600 --> 01:39:17,400
Speaker 1: from someone who says a hit out on me?

2177
01:39:19,560 --> 01:39:22,720
Speaker 2: Right away from a business proposition? Exactly? Have a face

2178
01:39:22,760 --> 01:39:25,920
Speaker 2: to face conversation, work it out, figure out striking deal.

2179
01:39:26,240 --> 01:39:28,920
Speaker 2: You know. Yeah, I have a few laughs, stick around,

2180
01:39:29,880 --> 01:39:32,720
Speaker 2: be considerate. It's only your life on the line, that's it.

2181
01:39:32,960 --> 01:39:37,000
Speaker 2: Oh Man, So a few weeks ago, I regretfully, extremely

2182
01:39:37,080 --> 01:39:40,920
Speaker 2: regret even thinking about hooking up with an escort. Hmmmm,

2183
01:39:41,439 --> 01:39:43,960
Speaker 2: where is she escorting you to? Escorting you to a

2184
01:39:44,000 --> 01:39:50,280
Speaker 2: happy ending pound Town, USA? God? Actually Poundtown, Indonesia, because

2185
01:39:50,320 --> 01:39:52,759
Speaker 2: we're still in Bali we're still balling in Bali.

2186
01:39:52,960 --> 01:39:55,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I contacted an escort that I found on a

2187
01:39:55,720 --> 01:39:58,760
Speaker 1: website through a text on my phone. Stupid of me

2188
01:39:59,080 --> 01:40:01,559
Speaker 1: not to use a Wait, you got a text on

2189
01:40:01,600 --> 01:40:03,920
Speaker 1: your phone that said escorts in your area and then

2190
01:40:03,960 --> 01:40:05,160
Speaker 1: you decided to respond.

2191
01:40:05,360 --> 01:40:08,400
Speaker 2: Dude, you're so dumb. What the fuck are such? You

2192
01:40:08,479 --> 01:40:11,519
Speaker 2: know they say hot single mills in your area? You

2193
01:40:11,600 --> 01:40:13,839
Speaker 2: don't fucking click that ad.

2194
01:40:14,080 --> 01:40:14,880
Speaker 3: You never do it.

2195
01:40:14,960 --> 01:40:17,679
Speaker 2: You exit out and they go back to whatever illsted

2196
01:40:17,720 --> 01:40:18,920
Speaker 2: activity you were fucking doing.

2197
01:40:19,000 --> 01:40:22,639
Speaker 1: The very stinky bastard exactly do it legal things right.

2198
01:40:22,960 --> 01:40:24,960
Speaker 1: She sent me a picture of her and her price,

2199
01:40:25,160 --> 01:40:27,160
Speaker 1: which was too much, so I didn't respond.

2200
01:40:27,240 --> 01:40:32,920
Speaker 2: Fucking broke ass bitch, get your money. Halloween escort these days, right,

2201
01:40:33,000 --> 01:40:34,639
Speaker 2: look it up. We're about to find out to see

2202
01:40:34,640 --> 01:40:37,240
Speaker 2: that the average how much? Well, I guess it's probably

2203
01:40:37,280 --> 01:40:41,519
Speaker 2: cheaper in Bali. Yeah, what if you're like a last Wow, dude,

2204
01:40:41,520 --> 01:40:42,519
Speaker 2: that's like thirty bucks.

2205
01:40:42,720 --> 01:40:46,280
Speaker 3: I don't work that night. Sam's just like I'm canceling

2206
01:40:46,320 --> 01:40:47,160
Speaker 3: all my plans.

2207
01:40:47,240 --> 01:40:50,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I'm getting thirty hookers. Wow, to come to

2208
01:40:50,840 --> 01:40:54,240
Speaker 2: one hundred new hearts. One hundred new hookers? Wow? How

2209
01:40:54,280 --> 01:40:55,040
Speaker 2: do you hire those.

2210
01:40:55,240 --> 01:40:57,360
Speaker 1: Honestly, what if you just like throw like a big

2211
01:40:57,400 --> 01:40:59,160
Speaker 1: party and just see it had food and just like

2212
01:40:59,280 --> 01:41:00,080
Speaker 1: hung out and just.

2213
01:41:00,080 --> 01:41:04,080
Speaker 2: And then fucked all of them. Oh boy, now I'm

2214
01:41:04,080 --> 01:41:06,960
Speaker 2: not gonna have sex with the hooker once twice. Yes,

2215
01:41:07,200 --> 01:41:09,760
Speaker 2: I have never had sex with a hooker. Neither I

2216
01:41:09,840 --> 01:41:14,240
Speaker 2: unless you count my ex girlfriend. Oh god, damn kidding.

2217
01:41:14,280 --> 01:41:15,000
Speaker 3: We were going dark.

2218
01:41:16,360 --> 01:41:20,040
Speaker 2: Heh boy, none of my ex girlfriends were hose except

2219
01:41:20,080 --> 01:41:20,400
Speaker 2: like one.

2220
01:41:20,479 --> 01:41:21,360
Speaker 3: I'm going to leave it at that.

2221
01:41:21,760 --> 01:41:24,000
Speaker 1: After an hour, she was still texting me, and I

2222
01:41:24,040 --> 01:41:26,080
Speaker 1: said the price was too high. I told her that

2223
01:41:26,120 --> 01:41:28,240
Speaker 1: I only had one hundred and twenty dollars to spend,

2224
01:41:28,320 --> 01:41:31,599
Speaker 1: and she strangely accepted. Her initial offer was three hundred

2225
01:41:31,640 --> 01:41:32,599
Speaker 1: and fifty per hour.

2226
01:41:32,720 --> 01:41:35,080
Speaker 2: Okay, so she's a hotty. She charged hot girl prices.

2227
01:41:35,120 --> 01:41:37,400
Speaker 2: What if she was like, Babe, here's the thing. I

2228
01:41:37,400 --> 01:41:40,960
Speaker 2: only need five seconds, So what's the price for that. Yeah,

2229
01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:41,360
Speaker 2: that's true.

2230
01:41:41,439 --> 01:41:44,000
Speaker 1: Let's skip this whole hour business. Yeah, let's go price

2231
01:41:44,080 --> 01:41:47,120
Speaker 1: per second, babe, Price per second, two dollars. We'll do

2232
01:41:47,280 --> 01:41:50,640
Speaker 1: like a three hundred dollars per hour average. I'll just

2233
01:41:50,720 --> 01:41:53,160
Speaker 1: use five seconds of that hour. We'll pro ratee it

2234
01:41:53,280 --> 01:41:55,160
Speaker 1: holping you save your money here.

2235
01:41:55,240 --> 01:41:55,400
Speaker 5: Mom.

2236
01:41:55,520 --> 01:41:57,640
Speaker 2: God. I asked if I could pay in cash, but

2237
01:41:57,720 --> 01:42:00,840
Speaker 2: she said that she only does bitcoin for clients and

2238
01:42:00,880 --> 01:42:04,880
Speaker 2: that I could pay in cash later bitcoin. That's bullshit, dude,

2239
01:42:06,400 --> 01:42:07,679
Speaker 2: scam scams.

2240
01:42:07,800 --> 01:42:10,559
Speaker 3: You're getting scams. This feels like a scam.

2241
01:42:10,640 --> 01:42:14,960
Speaker 2: What hooker uses bitcoin? One that is a crypto investor?

2242
01:42:15,280 --> 01:42:18,400
Speaker 2: What there's I low sell high. No way hookers are

2243
01:42:18,479 --> 01:42:21,600
Speaker 2: using bitcoin unless they're like an L. Salvador because like

2244
01:42:21,600 --> 01:42:24,120
Speaker 2: everyone uses bitcoin there, right? Is that the bitcoin the

2245
01:42:24,560 --> 01:42:27,160
Speaker 2: concept is a currency. Yeah, they use it. That's a

2246
01:42:27,240 --> 01:42:30,000
Speaker 2: cash business. Yeah, I feel like cash up front. Well,

2247
01:42:30,080 --> 01:42:32,240
Speaker 2: I guess I feel like they could use some scammy

2248
01:42:32,280 --> 01:42:35,759
Speaker 2: websites tricky, but like if you're actually sending bitcoin, that's doable.

2249
01:42:35,840 --> 01:42:38,479
Speaker 2: And also it's not like you're getting a virtual service,

2250
01:42:38,680 --> 01:42:40,760
Speaker 2: like if they're meeting you in person, give them money

2251
01:42:40,800 --> 01:42:41,479
Speaker 2: when they meet you.

2252
01:42:41,520 --> 01:42:43,639
Speaker 3: Do you pay money for your grabs and new breats?

2253
01:42:44,080 --> 01:42:44,639
Speaker 3: You are right?

2254
01:42:44,760 --> 01:42:47,320
Speaker 2: That is that is a good point. That is a

2255
01:42:47,360 --> 01:42:49,240
Speaker 2: good point. That is a good point. Grab is like

2256
01:42:49,479 --> 01:42:52,360
Speaker 2: uber here, fuck you did you did get me to

2257
01:42:52,439 --> 01:42:56,200
Speaker 2: get me? Not that well? But also also sending it

2258
01:42:56,240 --> 01:42:59,840
Speaker 2: through bitcoin less of a chance of maybe getting in trouble.

2259
01:42:59,560 --> 01:43:02,000
Speaker 1: By the copercent until they find your address and then

2260
01:43:02,040 --> 01:43:05,000
Speaker 1: you're really fucked. Sam says escorts should not use bitcoin.

2261
01:43:05,120 --> 01:43:06,439
Speaker 1: That is Sam's advice of the day.

2262
01:43:06,600 --> 01:43:09,519
Speaker 2: I don't know, like I just don't see an escort

2263
01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:11,519
Speaker 2: using bitcoin. I just see them using cash.

2264
01:43:11,600 --> 01:43:13,600
Speaker 3: But that's what he sees. That's what Sam wants in

2265
01:43:13,640 --> 01:43:14,479
Speaker 3: the world. Yeah.

2266
01:43:14,600 --> 01:43:16,599
Speaker 2: I told her that I didn't have a bitcoin wall,

2267
01:43:16,840 --> 01:43:20,200
Speaker 2: and she then said that there were bitcoin exchanges near me.

2268
01:43:20,320 --> 01:43:22,559
Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude, if the hooker is educating you

2269
01:43:22,640 --> 01:43:26,680
Speaker 2: on crypto, run this is really bad. Bro. First we

2270
01:43:26,760 --> 01:43:30,560
Speaker 2: went from random link in the text message to bitcoin,

2271
01:43:30,720 --> 01:43:32,760
Speaker 2: Like as soon as they start saying, do you know

2272
01:43:32,760 --> 01:43:34,720
Speaker 2: what that crypto is a great way to you know,

2273
01:43:34,880 --> 01:43:37,800
Speaker 2: have your assets and start giving you the fucking Blockchaine

2274
01:43:37,840 --> 01:43:39,320
Speaker 2: spiel not about it, go to.

2275
01:43:39,360 --> 01:43:43,360
Speaker 3: Bitcoin one two three, dot sex versus here.

2276
01:43:43,920 --> 01:43:46,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, fell from one of those scams, dude. I saw

2277
01:43:46,680 --> 01:43:49,120
Speaker 2: a video of Elon Musk and it was like him

2278
01:43:49,120 --> 01:43:51,200
Speaker 2: talking about like the new coin and then you click

2279
01:43:51,240 --> 01:43:52,960
Speaker 2: the link and it was like this thing where he's like,

2280
01:43:53,000 --> 01:43:56,000
Speaker 2: you know, I'm crowdfunding investment for blah blah blah blah,

2281
01:43:56,080 --> 01:43:58,320
Speaker 2: and like the first people in will get something. I

2282
01:43:58,360 --> 01:44:00,000
Speaker 2: was like, oh, that sounds pretty sick. And I saw

2283
01:44:00,120 --> 01:44:01,920
Speaker 2: on YouTube and it was totally not him? Was it?

2284
01:44:02,000 --> 01:44:03,800
Speaker 2: AI say? Totally not him? But it was like it

2285
01:44:03,840 --> 01:44:06,679
Speaker 2: looked like a podcast interview. Crazy danger. That is danger.

2286
01:44:06,720 --> 01:44:08,960
Speaker 2: The only reason it didn't happen is because I didn't

2287
01:44:09,000 --> 01:44:10,800
Speaker 2: have everything set up. I would have done it if

2288
01:44:10,800 --> 01:44:11,559
Speaker 2: I had things set up.

2289
01:44:11,560 --> 01:44:14,000
Speaker 1: The only person more danger right now is maybe OPI,

2290
01:44:14,120 --> 01:44:15,679
Speaker 1: But actually I think you were more danger.

2291
01:44:15,800 --> 01:44:15,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2292
01:44:16,000 --> 01:44:18,120
Speaker 1: I give her a fake location a few minutes away

2293
01:44:18,160 --> 01:44:19,679
Speaker 1: from me in another campus hall.

2294
01:44:19,720 --> 01:44:21,719
Speaker 3: I'm in a college town. Is Obi in college?

2295
01:44:21,760 --> 01:44:24,840
Speaker 2: Though? In college? Bro? That would be This would be

2296
01:44:24,840 --> 01:44:27,599
Speaker 2: a classic, like eighteen year old, just like if you're

2297
01:44:27,600 --> 01:44:31,080
Speaker 2: in a college town there are literally girls all around you.

2298
01:44:31,200 --> 01:44:33,519
Speaker 3: What did I work on your RIZ game? If he

2299
01:44:33,520 --> 01:44:35,720
Speaker 3: has no RIZ? What if he has zero RIZ and.

2300
01:44:35,680 --> 01:44:38,840
Speaker 2: An all big ooins? So come on now?

2301
01:44:40,160 --> 01:44:40,479
Speaker 3: Yeah?

2302
01:44:40,600 --> 01:44:41,839
Speaker 2: What if he bought.

2303
01:44:41,680 --> 01:44:44,759
Speaker 1: Bigcoin, didn't didn't do the service, and then he became

2304
01:44:44,760 --> 01:44:45,520
Speaker 1: a millionaire.

2305
01:44:45,680 --> 01:44:47,280
Speaker 3: That actually would be great.

2306
01:44:48,400 --> 01:44:50,439
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I became a millionaire by trying not

2307
01:44:50,640 --> 01:44:51,920
Speaker 2: hooker and forgetting about it.

2308
01:44:51,920 --> 01:44:52,800
Speaker 3: That would be pretty happen.

2309
01:44:52,920 --> 01:44:55,720
Speaker 1: She told me the location of this store with a

2310
01:44:55,760 --> 01:44:58,600
Speaker 1: bitcoin exchange. While I was walking to the store, she

2311
01:44:58,720 --> 01:45:02,400
Speaker 1: sent me some newdie Somewhere along the line. I asked

2312
01:45:02,439 --> 01:45:04,479
Speaker 1: her if half the money could be paid in cash

2313
01:45:04,520 --> 01:45:07,240
Speaker 1: and half could be in bitscoin, and she accepted. I

2314
01:45:07,280 --> 01:45:09,680
Speaker 1: told her it was difficult because I barely had a

2315
01:45:09,760 --> 01:45:12,320
Speaker 1: data connection for her to guide me through it inside

2316
01:45:12,320 --> 01:45:15,120
Speaker 1: the building. Eventually, after walking inside and out a bunch

2317
01:45:15,120 --> 01:45:17,640
Speaker 1: of times to confirm the exchange through my phone and

2318
01:45:17,680 --> 01:45:20,799
Speaker 1: receive more instructions from her, I became frustrated and asked

2319
01:45:20,840 --> 01:45:23,599
Speaker 1: why she couldn't drive there and have me pay her in.

2320
01:45:23,520 --> 01:45:26,200
Speaker 2: Cash, Because you're getting scammed, op yeap.

2321
01:45:26,320 --> 01:45:28,680
Speaker 1: She gave me some weird explanation about the agency of

2322
01:45:28,720 --> 01:45:31,920
Speaker 1: requiring the bitcoin transaction as a confirmation or something. I

2323
01:45:32,040 --> 01:45:34,680
Speaker 1: kept telling her I couldn't, but she seemed desperate that

2324
01:45:34,720 --> 01:45:37,360
Speaker 1: I did, so I guess I kind of tried, but

2325
01:45:37,400 --> 01:45:39,800
Speaker 1: I got sick of walking in and outside of the

2326
01:45:39,840 --> 01:45:42,280
Speaker 1: store for a phone data connection, so I gave up

2327
01:45:42,320 --> 01:45:43,360
Speaker 1: and told her I couldn't.

2328
01:45:43,400 --> 01:45:47,559
Speaker 2: Literally, Op was too poor to send the money. He

2329
01:45:47,600 --> 01:45:51,679
Speaker 2: couldn't afford the data to send. Mondy my five killed

2330
01:45:51,720 --> 01:45:55,200
Speaker 2: by data plane is running out brot nothing against him

2331
01:45:55,200 --> 01:45:58,040
Speaker 2: being broke. It's just like, if you're broke, don't spend

2332
01:45:58,240 --> 01:46:00,719
Speaker 2: hundreds of dollars on hookers. I mean, sorry sex workers.

2333
01:46:00,760 --> 01:46:04,040
Speaker 2: There we go my feminism books. Yeah, oh my god.

2334
01:46:04,160 --> 01:46:06,760
Speaker 1: I also kind of felt religiously guilty about doing it.

2335
01:46:06,880 --> 01:46:10,360
Speaker 1: Wait he almost felt what he felt religiously guilty.

2336
01:46:10,040 --> 01:46:13,439
Speaker 2: About hiring the sex worker. Yeah, guilty because of religion.

2337
01:46:13,520 --> 01:46:16,519
Speaker 1: He's guilty so frequently he's religiously guilty. I have my

2338
01:46:16,600 --> 01:46:20,400
Speaker 1: categories of guilt. There's casual guilts, and then there's religious guilt.

2339
01:46:20,439 --> 01:46:22,280
Speaker 1: It seems like the communication is really hard. You know,

2340
01:46:22,439 --> 01:46:26,040
Speaker 1: he needs two dead birds instantly, have a freaking Centaria

2341
01:46:26,080 --> 01:46:30,479
Speaker 1: connection with her. Row get that Afro Cuban religious vibe.

2342
01:46:30,520 --> 01:46:32,960
Speaker 2: Go in. There's no guilt in that religious zero guilts.

2343
01:46:33,080 --> 01:46:35,240
Speaker 2: As many sex workers as you want. They say, you

2344
01:46:35,240 --> 01:46:35,600
Speaker 2: can have it.

2345
01:46:35,720 --> 01:46:36,280
Speaker 3: Zero gilt.

2346
01:46:36,320 --> 01:46:39,240
Speaker 2: All goat heads, all goattheads. Yeah, dude, they're all about

2347
01:46:39,240 --> 01:46:40,559
Speaker 2: that head. Let me tell you. You don't want to

2348
01:46:40,560 --> 01:46:41,080
Speaker 2: know what they do.

2349
01:46:41,320 --> 01:46:42,920
Speaker 3: But they fucked the goathead. Oh god.

2350
01:46:43,400 --> 01:46:45,479
Speaker 1: I left and the store owner asked I I was

2351
01:46:45,520 --> 01:46:47,920
Speaker 1: going to return. I told him no, and then he

2352
01:46:47,960 --> 01:46:50,280
Speaker 1: closed the store. She didn't believe me when I told

2353
01:46:50,280 --> 01:46:52,960
Speaker 1: her that the store was closed. She then began threatening

2354
01:46:53,000 --> 01:46:55,519
Speaker 1: to expose me or whatever for wasting her time, and

2355
01:46:55,560 --> 01:46:58,479
Speaker 1: she claimed that the agency lost money or something. I

2356
01:46:58,520 --> 01:47:01,680
Speaker 1: still refused. She made me a deal to do it tomorrow,

2357
01:47:01,800 --> 01:47:05,439
Speaker 1: and I still refused. I felt really guilty, religiously about

2358
01:47:05,479 --> 01:47:06,880
Speaker 1: contracting a sex worker.

2359
01:47:07,120 --> 01:47:10,120
Speaker 2: Switch to Centario bro. It's all good, it's all great fields.

2360
01:47:10,240 --> 01:47:12,799
Speaker 1: I asked her where I was going to be reported, slash,

2361
01:47:12,800 --> 01:47:15,519
Speaker 1: exposed or whatever, and she said, you'll see.

2362
01:47:15,720 --> 01:47:16,960
Speaker 3: Uh, that's pretty good.

2363
01:47:17,120 --> 01:47:21,320
Speaker 2: I mean, he fucking used his phone, real phone number.

2364
01:47:21,600 --> 01:47:22,599
Speaker 3: This is really bad.

2365
01:47:22,800 --> 01:47:24,920
Speaker 2: The whole thing did seem a bit shady, and she

2366
01:47:25,040 --> 01:47:27,719
Speaker 2: did seem very desperate that I pay her in bitcoin

2367
01:47:27,920 --> 01:47:30,040
Speaker 2: because it's a scam.

2368
01:47:30,600 --> 01:47:33,639
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is hard to hear. Yeah, onto

2369
01:47:33,680 --> 01:47:36,080
Speaker 1: the threat the important part. So a week or so later,

2370
01:47:36,200 --> 01:47:39,200
Speaker 1: some guy contacted me about wasting time. I deleted the

2371
01:47:39,240 --> 01:47:41,960
Speaker 1: message and blocked the number. Come today, a new number

2372
01:47:42,000 --> 01:47:45,519
Speaker 1: contacted me. It began with like twelve gory images of

2373
01:47:45,600 --> 01:47:49,000
Speaker 1: people being brutally beaten up or oft in one way

2374
01:47:49,080 --> 01:47:52,599
Speaker 1: or another. The accompanying message was hey sir two times

2375
01:47:52,760 --> 01:47:56,200
Speaker 1: and this was paraphrasing shortened. We are communicating directly from

2376
01:47:56,200 --> 01:47:58,640
Speaker 1: the escort agency. We have evidence you were talking to

2377
01:47:58,680 --> 01:48:00,479
Speaker 1: one of my girls, and I have evidence while she

2378
01:48:00,600 --> 01:48:03,320
Speaker 1: was talking to you, she stopped talking to several clients

2379
01:48:03,360 --> 01:48:06,640
Speaker 1: who had separate appointments. Those clients canceled appointments because of

2380
01:48:06,680 --> 01:48:09,519
Speaker 1: the mistake you made in my agency system to waste time.

2381
01:48:09,600 --> 01:48:12,479
Speaker 1: The agency lost four thousand dollars, but I won't charge

2382
01:48:12,479 --> 01:48:13,160
Speaker 1: you that much.

2383
01:48:13,600 --> 01:48:18,280
Speaker 2: Four thousand dollars. Bro, they're fucking bleeding that business dry.

2384
01:48:18,720 --> 01:48:23,320
Speaker 2: If this sex worker is making what like three hundred

2385
01:48:23,360 --> 01:48:27,000
Speaker 2: dollars max. Going down to a fifty percent discount for

2386
01:48:27,040 --> 01:48:30,240
Speaker 2: this dude, unless they're like planning on investing the seventy

2387
01:48:30,280 --> 01:48:33,120
Speaker 2: dollars the dude putting bitcoin and that growing to four

2388
01:48:33,120 --> 01:48:35,960
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. This is a bad business model, which is

2389
01:48:36,000 --> 01:48:39,280
Speaker 2: why don't start an escort business. You know what? Op

2390
01:48:39,439 --> 01:48:41,880
Speaker 2: should just keep doing it from new numbers and just

2391
01:48:41,960 --> 01:48:44,599
Speaker 2: aankorrupt the operation. I mean, they don't have the business

2392
01:48:44,600 --> 01:48:48,040
Speaker 2: fundamentals when in doubt, doubled down and yeah, take it literally.

2393
01:48:48,040 --> 01:48:50,759
Speaker 2: They're selling sex. That's the easiest thing in the world

2394
01:48:50,800 --> 01:48:52,640
Speaker 2: to sell, and they're boofing it.

2395
01:48:52,720 --> 01:48:53,240
Speaker 3: Apparently.

2396
01:48:53,360 --> 01:48:56,240
Speaker 2: Look up Harvard MBA business plans. It'll help if you

2397
01:48:56,320 --> 01:48:58,000
Speaker 2: know how to explain bitcoin. You could probably do this.

2398
01:48:58,120 --> 01:49:00,240
Speaker 3: There we go, see you're halfway there.

2399
01:49:00,720 --> 01:49:02,840
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to pay a fine of seven hundred

2400
01:49:02,840 --> 01:49:05,519
Speaker 2: and fifty dollars if you do not solve this problem.

2401
01:49:05,600 --> 01:49:08,759
Speaker 2: I will tear your head and your relatives. This happens

2402
01:49:08,760 --> 01:49:12,080
Speaker 2: with everybody that plays with us. Waste our time with

2403
01:49:12,080 --> 01:49:14,519
Speaker 2: my agency and my girls. Solve this or not.

2404
01:49:14,640 --> 01:49:15,960
Speaker 3: He had horrible english.

2405
01:49:16,000 --> 01:49:18,880
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean this is obviously a progression of the scam.

2406
01:49:19,040 --> 01:49:20,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is them trying to get as much money

2407
01:49:20,760 --> 01:49:22,479
Speaker 1: as they can. I was extremely scared.

2408
01:49:22,560 --> 01:49:25,720
Speaker 2: I deleted all gory images but one screenshot of the

2409
01:49:25,720 --> 01:49:28,439
Speaker 2: message and buried it somewhere in my phone's files from

2410
01:49:28,479 --> 01:49:29,000
Speaker 2: plain sight.

2411
01:49:29,120 --> 01:49:31,479
Speaker 3: What do I do? Is this a scam? I can't ignore?

2412
01:49:31,640 --> 01:49:33,000
Speaker 3: Should that scam?

2413
01:49:33,200 --> 01:49:36,479
Speaker 2: It's a scam? Bock idiot, dummy? What if it's not

2414
01:49:36,560 --> 01:49:37,440
Speaker 2: a scam?

2415
01:49:37,640 --> 01:49:40,519
Speaker 3: Bro it's a scam? Or you're about to be murdered?

2416
01:49:40,560 --> 01:49:41,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

2417
01:49:41,439 --> 01:49:43,880
Speaker 1: Should I contact the police? Will I get in trouble

2418
01:49:44,080 --> 01:49:47,679
Speaker 1: for contacting sex worker? I'm pretty sure they're illegal here

2419
01:49:47,720 --> 01:49:48,640
Speaker 1: in Wisconsin.

2420
01:49:48,960 --> 01:49:55,440
Speaker 5: Oh my god, you're painful, Angel, You are so stupid,

2421
01:49:55,800 --> 01:49:59,040
Speaker 5: so dumb goes on a website from a random text

2422
01:49:59,120 --> 01:50:00,000
Speaker 5: message on his phone.

2423
01:50:00,320 --> 01:50:02,800
Speaker 3: I realized people fell for that. I mean, there has

2424
01:50:02,880 --> 01:50:04,599
Speaker 3: to be someone who falls for otherwise than what.

2425
01:50:04,560 --> 01:50:06,160
Speaker 2: They do do. Right. It's true, that's true. But I

2426
01:50:06,240 --> 01:50:08,200
Speaker 2: usually it's like old people, like this guy's in the

2427
01:50:08,320 --> 01:50:11,240
Speaker 2: college town. That's true. Yeah, and maybe he's an older

2428
01:50:11,280 --> 01:50:12,559
Speaker 2: guy living in a college town.

2429
01:50:12,640 --> 01:50:15,519
Speaker 3: I don't know. Man, this guy is an idiot. He's

2430
01:50:15,600 --> 01:50:16,160
Speaker 3: so dumb.

2431
01:50:16,280 --> 01:50:18,559
Speaker 2: Maybe you deserve to be torn limb from limb. Now

2432
01:50:18,600 --> 01:50:20,519
Speaker 2: you don't deserve that. You don't deserve that, but you

2433
01:50:20,680 --> 01:50:23,639
Speaker 2: at least deserve chlamydia. I hope you learned your lesson.

2434
01:50:23,920 --> 01:50:27,240
Speaker 2: This is not good again, it's a scam. But what

2435
01:50:27,280 --> 01:50:30,120
Speaker 2: I'd love to know from our audience is, have you

2436
01:50:30,160 --> 01:50:33,120
Speaker 2: ever hired a sex worker? Strippers count? Do strippers count?

2437
01:50:33,160 --> 01:50:35,640
Speaker 2: If the stripper gave a blowjob it counts? Or a

2438
01:50:35,640 --> 01:50:37,800
Speaker 2: hand job? All Right, before I dig myself a bigger

2439
01:50:37,840 --> 01:50:43,240
Speaker 2: hole story, let's go. Mother in law was stocking me

2440
01:50:43,479 --> 01:50:45,840
Speaker 2: and ruining my marriage and now she's missing.

2441
01:50:45,960 --> 01:50:47,759
Speaker 3: Am I the asshole? For being relieved?

2442
01:50:48,000 --> 01:50:50,479
Speaker 2: Depends on uh, you know, there's levels to this, you

2443
01:50:50,520 --> 01:50:53,639
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like, did she disappear in cartel territory?

2444
01:50:53,720 --> 01:50:55,439
Speaker 2: And now her body's chopped up in the back of

2445
01:50:55,439 --> 01:50:57,760
Speaker 2: a pickup truck. That's a pretty bad level to be at,

2446
01:50:57,880 --> 01:51:01,080
Speaker 2: you know. Was she opened up and had drug stuffed

2447
01:51:01,120 --> 01:51:03,040
Speaker 2: inside her and then closed up and then snuck across

2448
01:51:03,080 --> 01:51:04,600
Speaker 2: the border to traffic.

2449
01:51:04,360 --> 01:51:06,639
Speaker 3: Drugs, that would be terrible.

2450
01:51:06,800 --> 01:51:10,479
Speaker 2: Real story that happened to my mom's friend. Wow, Actually,

2451
01:51:10,800 --> 01:51:13,920
Speaker 2: that's insanity. I can tell that story later, all right.

2452
01:51:14,280 --> 01:51:17,000
Speaker 2: My mother in law and I never had a good relationship.

2453
01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:19,360
Speaker 2: She has tried to sabotage my relationship with my husband

2454
01:51:19,400 --> 01:51:21,720
Speaker 2: since the day she met me. I wasn't good enough

2455
01:51:21,720 --> 01:51:25,720
Speaker 2: for handsome and successful little boy. I contemplated ending my

2456
01:51:25,800 --> 01:51:29,000
Speaker 2: relationship several times, but my husband always showed me that

2457
01:51:29,080 --> 01:51:31,280
Speaker 2: he is on my side and I love him. A

2458
01:51:31,280 --> 01:51:34,120
Speaker 2: few years ago, I started getting very threatening and scary

2459
01:51:34,160 --> 01:51:36,280
Speaker 2: emails and texts from a PAX.

2460
01:51:36,520 --> 01:51:39,160
Speaker 3: What's a pax? Riley, what's the pas? Produce?

2461
01:51:39,280 --> 01:51:42,120
Speaker 2: The ensa capital PA? If you know what this means?

2462
01:51:42,240 --> 01:51:44,559
Speaker 2: Let us know this packs. Maybe it's like John, like

2463
01:51:44,600 --> 01:51:47,040
Speaker 2: you know, like a like a uncle, go over here

2464
01:51:47,080 --> 01:51:49,559
Speaker 2: like this John. Oh oh yeah, it's like a thing person,

2465
01:51:49,680 --> 01:51:52,680
Speaker 2: et cetera. Maybe this PAX knew everything about me. It

2466
01:51:52,680 --> 01:51:55,879
Speaker 2: didn't matter how many emails and phone numbers I changed,

2467
01:51:55,960 --> 01:51:59,280
Speaker 2: they or he always found me. I made several reports,

2468
01:51:59,280 --> 01:52:02,320
Speaker 2: but nothing happened. My husband tried everything to trace the emails.

2469
01:52:02,360 --> 01:52:04,840
Speaker 2: Nothing came out of it. This past year, I basically

2470
01:52:05,000 --> 01:52:07,760
Speaker 2: never left the apartment alone. Suddenly, my mother in law

2471
01:52:07,840 --> 01:52:10,479
Speaker 2: passed away in a car accident the same time my

2472
01:52:10,640 --> 01:52:14,320
Speaker 2: stalker disappeared. I haven't received a single threatening text or

2473
01:52:14,320 --> 01:52:16,519
Speaker 2: email from packs in a month. After a few days,

2474
01:52:16,640 --> 01:52:19,080
Speaker 2: I wasn't surprised, felt like I always knew his mother

2475
01:52:19,120 --> 01:52:19,920
Speaker 2: in law deep down.

2476
01:52:20,000 --> 01:52:21,559
Speaker 3: My husband hasn't reacted yet.

2477
01:52:21,600 --> 01:52:23,559
Speaker 2: He's consumed with his grief, and I don't want to

2478
01:52:23,560 --> 01:52:25,920
Speaker 2: bother him, especially when he bitterly told me he must

2479
01:52:25,960 --> 01:52:28,160
Speaker 2: be very pleased now when he heard the news and

2480
01:52:28,200 --> 01:52:30,439
Speaker 2: I tried to comfort him. He apologized later and said

2481
01:52:30,479 --> 01:52:32,680
Speaker 2: he was feeling guilty and he loved and chose me

2482
01:52:32,760 --> 01:52:34,960
Speaker 2: more than he loved her. Now, I'm waiting for him

2483
01:52:35,000 --> 01:52:37,080
Speaker 2: to connect the dots. Will he get it. If he does,

2484
01:52:37,120 --> 01:52:38,680
Speaker 2: will he talk to me about it? I don't know

2485
01:52:38,720 --> 01:52:40,400
Speaker 2: if I will ever bring it up to him. Also,

2486
01:52:40,560 --> 01:52:42,559
Speaker 2: I won't relax and go back to my normal life

2487
01:52:42,720 --> 01:52:44,559
Speaker 2: just yet. But I know it in my heart that

2488
01:52:44,600 --> 01:52:47,120
Speaker 2: it's over and I can't be happier about my life

2489
01:52:47,160 --> 01:52:49,880
Speaker 2: in the fact, and she's saying the stalking is over

2490
01:52:49,960 --> 01:52:51,479
Speaker 2: from the mother in law and there is an update.

2491
01:52:51,520 --> 01:52:54,439
Speaker 1: I really hate how the husband is like, oh, I

2492
01:52:54,520 --> 01:52:56,680
Speaker 1: loved you more and chose you over her. It's like

2493
01:52:56,760 --> 01:52:59,640
Speaker 1: it's not like a competition. He's not a competition. And

2494
01:52:59,640 --> 01:53:00,880
Speaker 1: it's not like bin air.

2495
01:53:00,920 --> 01:53:03,320
Speaker 2: It's not like, oh I either you know, love my

2496
01:53:03,439 --> 01:53:05,559
Speaker 2: wife or I love my mom and like I gotta,

2497
01:53:05,760 --> 01:53:07,120
Speaker 2: you know, leave what Like.

2498
01:53:07,400 --> 01:53:08,599
Speaker 3: No, no, what is this?

2499
01:53:08,840 --> 01:53:11,479
Speaker 2: But I think probably because of how the mom acted,

2500
01:53:11,520 --> 01:53:12,800
Speaker 2: she was like, choose me over her.

2501
01:53:13,000 --> 01:53:15,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and probably like I mean, probably his whole life.

2502
01:53:15,760 --> 01:53:18,760
Speaker 1: She probably like twisted his brain to Yeah. Someone who

2503
01:53:18,800 --> 01:53:22,360
Speaker 1: would do that to their daughter in law, Yeah, fucking nuts,

2504
01:53:22,520 --> 01:53:24,120
Speaker 1: absolute insane person.

2505
01:53:24,200 --> 01:53:25,960
Speaker 3: But I do have an update. So I was here

2506
01:53:26,000 --> 01:53:26,720
Speaker 3: maybe a month ago.

2507
01:53:26,840 --> 01:53:28,840
Speaker 2: If I find it, I will post it talking about

2508
01:53:28,840 --> 01:53:31,280
Speaker 2: me suspecting that my mother in law was my stalker

2509
01:53:31,320 --> 01:53:33,519
Speaker 2: who tormented me for years. I was trying to get

2510
01:53:33,560 --> 01:53:35,479
Speaker 2: advice about whether or not to tell my husband, who

2511
01:53:35,520 --> 01:53:37,439
Speaker 2: was mourning her. I decided to wait a little, but

2512
01:53:37,479 --> 01:53:40,639
Speaker 2: after venting here, I was sure that she was my stalker.

2513
01:53:40,720 --> 01:53:43,320
Speaker 2: I started living like I never did before, with ten

2514
01:53:43,360 --> 01:53:45,800
Speaker 2: minute walks alone, then fifty and then a half hour

2515
01:53:45,840 --> 01:53:48,559
Speaker 2: and so on, so literally, OPI wouldn't go outside because

2516
01:53:48,560 --> 01:53:51,240
Speaker 2: of this. It's so insane. At first, my husband didn't

2517
01:53:51,240 --> 01:53:53,680
Speaker 2: notice my freedom, or maybe he did but was processing

2518
01:53:53,680 --> 01:53:56,040
Speaker 2: it himself. Last Friday, I told him that I was

2519
01:53:56,080 --> 01:53:57,839
Speaker 2: going out with the girls alone.

2520
01:53:58,000 --> 01:53:59,320
Speaker 3: Yes, want me to drive you there?

2521
01:53:59,439 --> 01:54:01,599
Speaker 2: No need? Are you not afraid anymore? No?

2522
01:54:01,880 --> 01:54:03,680
Speaker 3: My stalker won't bother.

2523
01:54:03,520 --> 01:54:05,720
Speaker 2: Me ever again. He kissed me and wished me a

2524
01:54:05,800 --> 01:54:08,160
Speaker 2: nice evening. When I came home around midnight, he was

2525
01:54:08,200 --> 01:54:10,040
Speaker 2: still up. He said that he wanted to talk to me.

2526
01:54:10,080 --> 01:54:13,400
Speaker 2: He asked me, was my mother your stalker? Yes? He

2527
01:54:13,479 --> 01:54:15,920
Speaker 2: broke down crying. He said he had always suspected her

2528
01:54:16,000 --> 01:54:17,960
Speaker 2: and even talked to her a couple times about it,

2529
01:54:18,000 --> 01:54:20,880
Speaker 2: and she made him so guilty by accusing him of

2530
01:54:20,920 --> 01:54:23,720
Speaker 2: being my simp. He said he noticed how, after so

2531
01:54:23,760 --> 01:54:26,280
Speaker 2: many years of fear and anxiety, it suddenly stopped, and

2532
01:54:26,320 --> 01:54:28,800
Speaker 2: eventually the crying in my sleep stopped too, And he

2533
01:54:28,880 --> 01:54:31,559
Speaker 2: noticed that I haven't woken him up for a month now.

2534
01:54:31,680 --> 01:54:34,120
Speaker 2: I actually don't remember half of the time I woke

2535
01:54:34,160 --> 01:54:36,080
Speaker 2: him up. In terror, but he always told me and

2536
01:54:36,120 --> 01:54:38,880
Speaker 2: my therapist about it. Whenever it happened. He apologized for

2537
01:54:38,920 --> 01:54:41,240
Speaker 2: never discussing it with me and never protecting me from

2538
01:54:41,240 --> 01:54:43,960
Speaker 2: his family, even though he had his suspicions. Honestly, I'm

2539
01:54:44,000 --> 01:54:46,240
Speaker 2: not even mad or disappointed if the police couldn't help me.

2540
01:54:46,280 --> 01:54:48,080
Speaker 2: I don't know how much my husband could have done,

2541
01:54:48,160 --> 01:54:50,000
Speaker 2: and I just want to move on and leave this behind.

2542
01:54:50,040 --> 01:54:52,280
Speaker 2: We're going to start couple's therapy and my husband is

2543
01:54:52,320 --> 01:54:54,720
Speaker 2: planning to tell his family that mother in law was

2544
01:54:54,800 --> 01:54:57,320
Speaker 2: my stalker. He's adamant about it, and honestly, I think

2545
01:54:57,320 --> 01:54:59,720
Speaker 2: it's a good idea. My husband has also decided not

2546
01:54:59,840 --> 01:55:03,320
Speaker 2: to attend the headstone setting on mother in law's grave.

2547
01:55:03,760 --> 01:55:05,720
Speaker 2: Damn crazy situation.

2548
01:55:05,960 --> 01:55:09,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's like, imagine finding that out about

2549
01:55:09,160 --> 01:55:09,560
Speaker 1: your mother.

2550
01:55:09,760 --> 01:55:11,840
Speaker 2: I know I couldn't imagine, but it sounds like op

2551
01:55:11,880 --> 01:55:13,880
Speaker 2: he was already suspicious, so it might be something that

2552
01:55:13,920 --> 01:55:16,120
Speaker 2: this mother does, you know. Yeah.

2553
01:55:16,160 --> 01:55:17,360
Speaker 3: God, we get.

2554
01:55:17,240 --> 01:55:19,240
Speaker 1: Some bad mother and law stories on the show. This

2555
01:55:19,440 --> 01:55:22,840
Speaker 1: is like insidious evil. This is beyond just like being

2556
01:55:22,880 --> 01:55:23,480
Speaker 1: an asshole.

2557
01:55:23,600 --> 01:55:25,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is an evil person. And it's not like

2558
01:55:25,760 --> 01:55:29,120
Speaker 2: it was just online or whatever. This crept into op's life.

2559
01:55:29,160 --> 01:55:32,000
Speaker 2: She wouldn't leave the house without her husband completely and

2560
01:55:32,040 --> 01:55:36,000
Speaker 2: also like their lives together, Like she's like, God, yeah,

2561
01:55:36,040 --> 01:55:38,480
Speaker 2: so terrible. But I mean, yeah, what would you do

2562
01:55:38,520 --> 01:55:40,720
Speaker 2: in this situation if you were the husband and you

2563
01:55:40,760 --> 01:55:45,600
Speaker 2: realized that your mother was tormenting your significant other? Yeah,

2564
01:55:45,640 --> 01:55:47,440
Speaker 2: I would love to know what you would do. My

2565
01:55:47,520 --> 01:55:49,880
Speaker 2: ex cheated and left me at the altar two years ago.

2566
01:55:50,040 --> 01:55:52,360
Speaker 2: He wants to talk, but maybe I don't. Am I

2567
01:55:52,480 --> 01:55:55,520
Speaker 2: the a hole? Yes, you're the a hole for him cheating,

2568
01:55:55,920 --> 01:55:58,000
Speaker 2: because maybe you should have just done better and he

2569
01:55:58,000 --> 01:56:02,800
Speaker 2: wouldn't cheated. My twenty eight feet ex fiance, Derek, Fuck

2570
01:56:02,880 --> 01:56:04,400
Speaker 2: you Derek. Yeah.

2571
01:56:04,560 --> 01:56:07,520
Speaker 1: Thirty two male disappeared the morning of our wedding two

2572
01:56:07,640 --> 01:56:12,240
Speaker 1: years ago, evading all attempts to reach him. Wow from

2573
01:56:12,240 --> 01:56:13,960
Speaker 1: myself and his family because he's dead.

2574
01:56:14,280 --> 01:56:17,320
Speaker 2: Oh, that would be a.

2575
01:56:16,440 --> 01:56:20,160
Speaker 1: Tough plot to us. It was devastating, absolutely soul crushing.

2576
01:56:20,240 --> 01:56:22,600
Speaker 1: The event turned into a party to distract from the

2577
01:56:22,640 --> 01:56:25,640
Speaker 1: pain of the unknown. Afterwards, I returned to our apartment

2578
01:56:25,680 --> 01:56:28,360
Speaker 1: and slept on the bathroom floor in my wedding dress.

2579
01:56:28,600 --> 01:56:32,960
Speaker 2: Oh that is the most tragic scene ever. Yeah, a

2580
01:56:33,000 --> 01:56:37,000
Speaker 2: woman crying on a bathroom floor in her wedding dress, alone.

2581
01:56:37,120 --> 01:56:39,440
Speaker 1: And falling asleep because she's just there for so long.

2582
01:56:39,560 --> 01:56:44,760
Speaker 1: That's so sad. I am sorry tough. It was quite

2583
01:56:44,840 --> 01:56:47,160
Speaker 1: the ugly sight, to be honest. His mother ended up

2584
01:56:47,200 --> 01:56:50,520
Speaker 1: coming to the apartment when she informed me tearfully that

2585
01:56:50,640 --> 01:56:54,520
Speaker 1: Derek had run off with an x of his Wow,

2586
01:56:54,640 --> 01:56:56,480
Speaker 1: so not only did he leave her at the altar,

2587
01:56:56,560 --> 01:56:59,200
Speaker 1: he left her for somebody else.

2588
01:56:59,440 --> 01:57:04,120
Speaker 2: Derek really just like, I mean, that ex just snuck in.

2589
01:57:04,480 --> 01:57:06,680
Speaker 2: He was like, hey, let me save you the trouble

2590
01:57:06,680 --> 01:57:09,160
Speaker 2: of his whole someone having any objection then.

2591
01:57:09,000 --> 01:57:13,440
Speaker 3: Being like, let's cut this off, like little key the riz.

2592
01:57:13,480 --> 01:57:16,760
Speaker 2: You gotta have to riz up someone moments before they

2593
01:57:16,800 --> 01:57:17,400
Speaker 2: get married.

2594
01:57:18,120 --> 01:57:18,760
Speaker 3: Hats off to you.

2595
01:57:19,080 --> 01:57:22,520
Speaker 1: They had apparently reconnected a week prior to the wedding,

2596
01:57:22,560 --> 01:57:24,440
Speaker 1: and he just couldn't go through with this.

2597
01:57:24,600 --> 01:57:27,520
Speaker 3: Whoa a week? Come on, that's a riz.

2598
01:57:27,560 --> 01:57:30,160
Speaker 2: Come on, make a man rizz Like, there has to

2599
01:57:30,200 --> 01:57:32,880
Speaker 2: be a better word to describe. That's why I riz,

2600
01:57:33,600 --> 01:57:36,520
Speaker 2: opting instead to rekindle his relationship with his ex.

2601
01:57:36,760 --> 01:57:39,800
Speaker 1: His family was horrified. I didn't hear from him until

2602
01:57:39,840 --> 01:57:43,200
Speaker 1: three months after he left. He called me, apologized, and

2603
01:57:43,240 --> 01:57:46,200
Speaker 1: then revealed that his ex had been hiding his child

2604
01:57:46,240 --> 01:57:48,560
Speaker 1: from him that he just found out about.

2605
01:57:48,920 --> 01:57:55,160
Speaker 2: Whoa dude, that's complicated. That's complicated, but you shouldn't run

2606
01:57:55,240 --> 01:57:55,880
Speaker 2: off with her.

2607
01:57:56,120 --> 01:57:58,240
Speaker 1: I could see him being like, I just found out

2608
01:57:58,280 --> 01:58:01,120
Speaker 1: I have a child, and I'm confused. I'm so sorry,

2609
01:58:01,120 --> 01:58:03,760
Speaker 1: but like, let's just like I need some time not

2610
01:58:04,040 --> 01:58:06,800
Speaker 1: running off on the day of the wedding when she's

2611
01:58:06,840 --> 01:58:10,040
Speaker 1: like in her gown and like makeup and everyone's there.

2612
01:58:10,440 --> 01:58:11,240
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

2613
01:58:11,680 --> 01:58:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not saying it's necessarily even wrong for him

2614
01:58:15,000 --> 01:58:17,680
Speaker 1: to like find out about the kid in question everything.

2615
01:58:17,760 --> 01:58:20,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, but it is wrong to run off at

2616
01:58:20,360 --> 01:58:23,240
Speaker 2: a wedding. That's pretty much all that was said. I

2617
01:58:23,280 --> 01:58:27,280
Speaker 2: didn't say much, actually, I only said hello. The whole

2618
01:58:27,320 --> 01:58:31,040
Speaker 2: situation left me numb. I just didn't care anymore. Thankfully, though,

2619
01:58:31,080 --> 01:58:33,440
Speaker 2: my friends were and continue to be there for me

2620
01:58:33,640 --> 01:58:36,040
Speaker 2: through all of this muck. They encouraged me to seek

2621
01:58:36,080 --> 01:58:39,080
Speaker 2: therapy and work on healing. Those are good friends, which

2622
01:58:39,120 --> 01:58:42,160
Speaker 2: I'll be honest was terribly difficult, But after a year

2623
01:58:42,320 --> 01:58:46,080
Speaker 2: I felt myself again, which brings me to today. After

2624
01:58:46,120 --> 01:58:49,960
Speaker 2: this whole debacle and subsequent self improvement slash rebuilding, I

2625
01:58:50,080 --> 01:58:50,840
Speaker 2: moved to the UK.

2626
01:58:51,120 --> 01:58:57,280
Speaker 1: I'm originally from Australia. Ooh, we love an Australian battie. Yoh,

2627
01:58:57,360 --> 01:58:59,680
Speaker 1: I heard you single? Last night I got a message

2628
01:58:59,680 --> 01:59:05,640
Speaker 1: request on Instagram. It was Derek, Fuck you, Derek, Derek Hey,

2629
01:59:06,160 --> 01:59:09,280
Speaker 1: white hand wave emoji. I've heard you move to Wales.

2630
01:59:09,440 --> 01:59:12,720
Speaker 1: That's so cool. I'm traveling to Cardiff towards the end

2631
01:59:12,760 --> 01:59:15,440
Speaker 1: of July. I'm deeply sorry about everything, and I want

2632
01:59:15,480 --> 01:59:17,760
Speaker 1: to discuss what happened leading up to the wedding. I

2633
01:59:17,760 --> 01:59:19,760
Speaker 1: hope I'm not overwhelming. You let me know if you

2634
01:59:19,880 --> 01:59:23,720
Speaker 1: like to talk over lunch. Bro fucking Gow Are you

2635
01:59:23,880 --> 01:59:24,360
Speaker 1: kidding me?

2636
01:59:24,840 --> 01:59:28,000
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, like it is a nice text if

2637
01:59:28,000 --> 01:59:31,240
Speaker 2: he didn't leave her at the fucking altar exactly, dude,

2638
01:59:31,320 --> 01:59:34,400
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry I missed it, like would have loved

2639
01:59:34,400 --> 01:59:37,040
Speaker 2: to been there, but you know, like the kid and everything,

2640
01:59:37,160 --> 01:59:38,600
Speaker 2: I just started thinking.

2641
01:59:38,520 --> 01:59:40,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know how you know how I get when I.

2642
01:59:40,760 --> 01:59:44,959
Speaker 2: Think, yup, I do things like leave you at the altar. Firstly,

2643
01:59:45,360 --> 01:59:47,560
Speaker 2: no idea who told him about my move.

2644
01:59:47,880 --> 01:59:51,320
Speaker 1: Secondly, I don't know if I crave closure from him,

2645
01:59:51,440 --> 01:59:54,640
Speaker 1: but I also don't want to decide to decline to

2646
01:59:54,800 --> 01:59:58,120
Speaker 1: only later regret my decision. So I turned to you,

2647
01:59:58,280 --> 02:00:02,040
Speaker 1: strangers of the internet. Okay, you buys. What should I

2648
02:00:02,040 --> 02:00:04,840
Speaker 1: think about before reaching a decision? Would it be wise

2649
02:00:04,880 --> 02:00:07,640
Speaker 1: to decline? Or should I honor him and listen to

2650
02:00:07,800 --> 02:00:12,720
Speaker 1: his reasons? There is a juicy update? Oh no, there is, Yeah,

2651
02:00:12,760 --> 02:00:16,480
Speaker 1: there's a juicy update. Okay, I thoughts, I thoughts, Your thoughts,

2652
02:00:16,520 --> 02:00:18,440
Speaker 1: my thoughts. I want to know everyone else's thoughts. Put

2653
02:00:18,480 --> 02:00:22,280
Speaker 1: your answers to the comments below. But my first thought is, fuck, no,

2654
02:00:22,600 --> 02:00:29,120
Speaker 1: you don't owe this cocksucking, suck throbbing and dick guy anything.

2655
02:00:29,320 --> 02:00:33,600
Speaker 2: Nope, nothing, zeriratta. Literally he left you at the altar.

2656
02:00:34,120 --> 02:00:36,760
Speaker 2: The ball is in your court you. If you need closure,

2657
02:00:36,960 --> 02:00:39,200
Speaker 2: go for it. Girl. If you want to heal and

2658
02:00:39,280 --> 02:00:43,120
Speaker 2: this will open up a wound that is is scabbing

2659
02:00:43,200 --> 02:00:46,200
Speaker 2: over and and and scar and getting that scar tissue

2660
02:00:46,240 --> 02:00:49,200
Speaker 2: in there and like healing up, then do that. I

2661
02:00:49,240 --> 02:00:53,120
Speaker 2: think whatever op he feels she needs to heal, she

2662
02:00:53,200 --> 02:00:57,240
Speaker 2: should do. I don't really think this guy deserves any consideration.

2663
02:00:57,520 --> 02:00:59,840
Speaker 1: I get the message was you know, it could be

2664
02:01:00,240 --> 02:01:01,600
Speaker 1: in many other scenarios.

2665
02:01:01,600 --> 02:01:04,320
Speaker 2: But if you're like, oh hey, I'm traveling through heard

2666
02:01:04,400 --> 02:01:07,040
Speaker 2: you win here hope it was great, Like, yeah, I would.

2667
02:01:07,040 --> 02:01:09,800
Speaker 2: I would put a fucking a couple of stories in there. Yeah,

2668
02:01:09,840 --> 02:01:13,080
Speaker 2: I would lead with like, uh, you know this is what.

2669
02:01:13,000 --> 02:01:13,640
Speaker 3: I would lead with.

2670
02:01:13,760 --> 02:01:16,280
Speaker 2: Hey, I know you probably don't want to talk to

2671
02:01:16,280 --> 02:01:19,400
Speaker 2: me right now, and if that's true, just ignore this text.

2672
02:01:19,480 --> 02:01:21,480
Speaker 2: But I know you're gonna be here. I'm also going

2673
02:01:21,520 --> 02:01:23,960
Speaker 2: to be here if you want to talk. I would

2674
02:01:23,960 --> 02:01:25,680
Speaker 2: love to see him. That makes it feel like he's

2675
02:01:25,720 --> 02:01:27,800
Speaker 2: like not serious. Yeah, it also makes it feel like

2676
02:01:27,840 --> 02:01:30,400
Speaker 2: he's not acknowledging the shitty thing that he did. Yes,

2677
02:01:30,600 --> 02:01:34,040
Speaker 2: one hundred percent, but let's see what happens. Wow.

2678
02:01:34,160 --> 02:01:36,840
Speaker 1: This garnered far more intention than I anticipated, So bear

2679
02:01:36,880 --> 02:01:39,400
Speaker 1: with me as I try to navigate this advice. Although

2680
02:01:39,400 --> 02:01:42,160
Speaker 1: the general consensus is quite clear, I have learned that

2681
02:01:42,240 --> 02:01:45,720
Speaker 1: an old mutual friend of ours revealed where I moved,

2682
02:01:45,920 --> 02:01:48,640
Speaker 1: and evidently he's been stressing that he needs to tell

2683
02:01:48,680 --> 02:01:49,200
Speaker 1: me something.

2684
02:01:49,400 --> 02:01:50,720
Speaker 2: He's pregnant. He's pregnant.

2685
02:01:50,840 --> 02:01:53,120
Speaker 1: For the time being, I've decided to simply ignore his

2686
02:01:53,160 --> 02:01:56,800
Speaker 1: message and work through any emerging feelings with my therapist

2687
02:01:57,360 --> 02:02:01,120
Speaker 1: and the final update, Hello one. I did update in

2688
02:02:01,120 --> 02:02:06,640
Speaker 1: my original post plus you, So, as I previously mentioned,

2689
02:02:06,680 --> 02:02:10,160
Speaker 1: I decided to not respond to his message. A day after, however,

2690
02:02:10,360 --> 02:02:14,360
Speaker 1: I received another message from him. He apologized for how disingenuous.

2691
02:02:14,360 --> 02:02:15,800
Speaker 1: His original message.

2692
02:02:15,400 --> 02:02:19,800
Speaker 2: Was thank you Finally this dude has done one thing right,

2693
02:02:20,120 --> 02:02:22,839
Speaker 2: and he explained to me why he reached out to me. Essentially,

2694
02:02:22,880 --> 02:02:25,760
Speaker 2: he wanted to discuss that week, that final week before

2695
02:02:25,800 --> 02:02:29,200
Speaker 2: our wedding, and the events leading up to him dipping out. Now,

2696
02:02:29,240 --> 02:02:32,280
Speaker 2: I will refrain from the entirety delving into my exes

2697
02:02:32,280 --> 02:02:35,280
Speaker 2: and ice passed, but my ex fiance was diagnosed with

2698
02:02:35,360 --> 02:02:38,840
Speaker 2: PTSD and avoidant attributions from past experiences.

2699
02:02:38,880 --> 02:02:40,160
Speaker 3: His diagnosis did.

2700
02:02:40,000 --> 02:02:42,440
Speaker 2: Provide quite a bit of clarity looking back at our

2701
02:02:42,480 --> 02:02:45,400
Speaker 2: relationship and his past behavior. So I truly feel for

2702
02:02:45,480 --> 02:02:46,640
Speaker 2: him in his journey.

2703
02:02:46,320 --> 02:02:47,000
Speaker 3: Of self feeling.

2704
02:02:47,080 --> 02:02:51,640
Speaker 2: That is pretty pretty damn empathetic of OPI if I myself.

2705
02:02:51,360 --> 02:02:53,920
Speaker 3: To be empathetic, just busy has a diagnosis.

2706
02:02:54,080 --> 02:02:54,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2707
02:02:54,600 --> 02:02:58,000
Speaker 1: However, despite his struggles, I still told him that I

2708
02:02:58,040 --> 02:03:01,200
Speaker 1: couldn't forgive him for his callous of leaving me in

2709
02:03:01,240 --> 02:03:03,520
Speaker 1: a perpetual state of limbo for three months.

2710
02:03:03,600 --> 02:03:07,240
Speaker 3: Unsure of why he abandoned me. He said, he understood.

2711
02:03:06,920 --> 02:03:09,160
Speaker 1: Now, and some of you will be quite mad at me,

2712
02:03:09,240 --> 02:03:12,960
Speaker 1: but I ultimately agreed to meet him for lunch and

2713
02:03:13,080 --> 02:03:14,280
Speaker 1: I don't regret it.

2714
02:03:14,360 --> 02:03:17,160
Speaker 2: Interesting, why don't you regret it? OPI he is not

2715
02:03:17,320 --> 02:03:18,040
Speaker 2: with his ex.

2716
02:03:18,400 --> 02:03:21,840
Speaker 1: Actually, she passed away six months after he left me

2717
02:03:21,880 --> 02:03:25,320
Speaker 1: at the Altar, What my God, which is part of

2718
02:03:25,360 --> 02:03:27,760
Speaker 1: the reason why she reached out to him in the

2719
02:03:27,800 --> 02:03:30,600
Speaker 1: first place. Since then, he has been working on himself

2720
02:03:30,640 --> 02:03:33,160
Speaker 1: through therapy and navigating single fatherhood.

2721
02:03:33,280 --> 02:03:36,200
Speaker 3: And yes, the child is his woo.

2722
02:03:36,800 --> 02:03:39,120
Speaker 2: So this ex contacted him and say, hey, I have

2723
02:03:39,160 --> 02:03:41,560
Speaker 2: six months to live and you have a kid. Yep,

2724
02:03:41,680 --> 02:03:46,040
Speaker 2: fuck fuck. Okay, he's still an asshole for not telling

2725
02:03:46,320 --> 02:03:49,720
Speaker 2: OP about what's going on, But if he did tell

2726
02:03:49,720 --> 02:03:52,400
Speaker 2: OP that I have to leave you, I would understand that.

2727
02:03:52,880 --> 02:03:54,000
Speaker 2: You just explain it.

2728
02:03:54,640 --> 02:03:58,320
Speaker 3: That's it, that's you know you nick cat man.

2729
02:03:58,520 --> 02:04:02,120
Speaker 2: This is a The lunch wasn't too long, but it

2730
02:04:02,160 --> 02:04:04,120
Speaker 2: was all around cathartic on both sides.

2731
02:04:04,360 --> 02:04:06,000
Speaker 3: At the end of the lunch, he handed over an

2732
02:04:06,080 --> 02:04:09,720
Speaker 3: envelope which contained all the money we spent preparing for

2733
02:04:09,760 --> 02:04:10,160
Speaker 3: the wedding.

2734
02:04:10,240 --> 02:04:10,840
Speaker 2: The good gesture.

2735
02:04:11,200 --> 02:04:12,800
Speaker 3: Honestly, I was dumbfounded.

2736
02:04:13,000 --> 02:04:15,400
Speaker 1: It wasn't a gesture I was expecting on his behalf,

2737
02:04:15,480 --> 02:04:16,960
Speaker 1: and I think he was taken aback.

2738
02:04:17,000 --> 02:04:19,000
Speaker 3: When I returned the ring he gave me.

2739
02:04:19,440 --> 02:04:21,760
Speaker 1: It's funny I held onto the ring just in case

2740
02:04:21,840 --> 02:04:24,560
Speaker 1: I needed to sell it if my finances continued to

2741
02:04:24,560 --> 02:04:27,200
Speaker 1: be unstable, but I never had to ironic that in

2742
02:04:27,240 --> 02:04:30,720
Speaker 1: the end, I did receive the money whilst seemingly trading

2743
02:04:30,720 --> 02:04:31,160
Speaker 1: that ring.

2744
02:04:31,440 --> 02:04:32,240
Speaker 3: He looks better.

2745
02:04:32,440 --> 02:04:35,000
Speaker 1: And not to toot my own horn, but I feel

2746
02:04:35,000 --> 02:04:37,680
Speaker 1: I do as well. Now that chapter has concluded, and

2747
02:04:37,720 --> 02:04:39,800
Speaker 1: I no longer feel rage or remorse.

2748
02:04:40,000 --> 02:04:40,800
Speaker 3: I feel free.

2749
02:04:41,040 --> 02:04:43,920
Speaker 1: I feared that I might have still harbored feelings for him,

2750
02:04:43,960 --> 02:04:46,400
Speaker 1: but I have since found that I loved him for

2751
02:04:46,440 --> 02:04:49,080
Speaker 1: the man he was in that moment when we were together,

2752
02:04:49,240 --> 02:04:51,560
Speaker 1: and though we're now a part, I'm okay with looking

2753
02:04:51,600 --> 02:04:53,800
Speaker 1: back and acknowledging the love I had for him. I've

2754
02:04:53,800 --> 02:04:56,160
Speaker 1: closed that chapter now with him with the woman I

2755
02:04:56,280 --> 02:04:59,000
Speaker 1: was with him. Thank you all so much. Any advice

2756
02:04:59,120 --> 02:05:02,840
Speaker 1: on how I should spend this money I now have, haha,

2757
02:05:03,080 --> 02:05:06,360
Speaker 1: invest it in a brand new wedding. Yeah, but I

2758
02:05:06,360 --> 02:05:08,040
Speaker 1: mean it sounds like it was super cathartic for her.

2759
02:05:08,120 --> 02:05:09,120
Speaker 1: That's actually really nice.

2760
02:05:09,200 --> 02:05:14,200
Speaker 2: I'm very glad. I'm I'm surprised this meetup went so well,

2761
02:05:14,400 --> 02:05:17,360
Speaker 2: when it easily could have gone south. I was expecting

2762
02:05:17,360 --> 02:05:20,760
Speaker 2: it to go terribly classy move and for him to

2763
02:05:20,800 --> 02:05:24,280
Speaker 2: return the money. Still, such a ditching someone on the

2764
02:05:24,320 --> 02:05:27,400
Speaker 2: wedding though, it's just yeah, no explanation, you know. I

2765
02:05:27,440 --> 02:05:30,480
Speaker 2: think he actually could have ditched the wedding, but he

2766
02:05:30,560 --> 02:05:33,200
Speaker 2: needed some in some context knowing what we do now,

2767
02:05:33,280 --> 02:05:34,400
Speaker 2: what should he have done?

2768
02:05:34,240 --> 02:05:35,600
Speaker 3: What should he have done?

2769
02:05:35,680 --> 02:05:39,080
Speaker 1: I mean, let's say in this hypothetical, there's no I mean,

2770
02:05:39,120 --> 02:05:41,960
Speaker 1: if there's no way or he is one hundred percent

2771
02:05:42,040 --> 02:05:44,840
Speaker 1: going to leave her for his ex with the child

2772
02:05:45,160 --> 02:05:48,760
Speaker 1: dying X with his child, you sit her down as

2773
02:05:49,160 --> 02:05:53,560
Speaker 1: quickly as possible, and you explain the whole scenario that

2774
02:05:53,800 --> 02:05:55,680
Speaker 1: X reached back out, he has a kid with her,

2775
02:05:56,000 --> 02:05:58,800
Speaker 1: and she's going to pass away in six months. Talk

2776
02:05:58,840 --> 02:06:02,280
Speaker 1: about it immediately, like as soon as possible.

2777
02:06:02,480 --> 02:06:05,400
Speaker 2: Okay, now you're now you're the wife, all right, Yeah,

2778
02:06:05,440 --> 02:06:07,720
Speaker 2: I say, babe, I just found out for my ex

2779
02:06:07,800 --> 02:06:10,240
Speaker 2: girlfriend that she's going to die in six months and

2780
02:06:10,560 --> 02:06:15,400
Speaker 2: she is taking care of my child. Yeah, babe, six months,

2781
02:06:15,440 --> 02:06:18,920
Speaker 2: she'll be dead. Pause the wedding for six months, let

2782
02:06:18,960 --> 02:06:22,400
Speaker 2: me date her for a while, adopt this kid and everything.

2783
02:06:22,560 --> 02:06:24,640
Speaker 2: God then let's re up on the wedding.

2784
02:06:24,680 --> 02:06:28,520
Speaker 1: See that's where I'm like, I still you split and

2785
02:06:28,560 --> 02:06:30,000
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, she has a kid, and

2786
02:06:30,000 --> 02:06:30,760
Speaker 1: now you want to go.

2787
02:06:31,160 --> 02:06:33,200
Speaker 3: I get you said the kid. It's the six months.

2788
02:06:33,760 --> 02:06:35,480
Speaker 2: It's like it's like it's like you know how, like

2789
02:06:35,680 --> 02:06:38,360
Speaker 2: you know how when you're in like high school or

2790
02:06:38,480 --> 02:06:41,920
Speaker 2: college or like you're about to move, you know, and

2791
02:06:41,960 --> 02:06:44,360
Speaker 2: you're like, hey, this relationship is going to end in

2792
02:06:44,400 --> 02:06:47,720
Speaker 2: three months, like let's just have fun. Oh Jesus Christ,

2793
02:06:47,720 --> 02:06:51,680
Speaker 2: it's like that. Oh, like that permanent, permanent version of that.

2794
02:06:51,840 --> 02:06:55,120
Speaker 1: This guy, like, what do you actually say to that?

2795
02:06:55,200 --> 02:06:58,520
Speaker 1: If you are the wife, like truly, I'll pass. Go ahead,

2796
02:06:58,600 --> 02:07:01,320
Speaker 1: go crazy for six months, crazy for six months. She's

2797
02:07:01,320 --> 02:07:05,120
Speaker 1: going to die. It's his kid. I still don't get it.

2798
02:07:05,240 --> 02:07:07,320
Speaker 1: You could be a father to the kid. Why would

2799
02:07:07,360 --> 02:07:09,520
Speaker 1: he want to. I don't know why he would want to.

2800
02:07:09,600 --> 02:07:11,920
Speaker 3: She's going to die. Guys, I'm not going to win

2801
02:07:11,920 --> 02:07:12,560
Speaker 3: here today.

2802
02:07:13,000 --> 02:07:15,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. I probably wouldn't be down if my girlfriend said, Hey,

2803
02:07:15,920 --> 02:07:17,560
Speaker 2: my ex is going to die, can I bone him

2804
02:07:17,560 --> 02:07:19,080
Speaker 2: for the next six months before we get married, I'd

2805
02:07:19,080 --> 02:07:19,640
Speaker 2: probably say no.

2806
02:07:19,720 --> 02:07:22,720
Speaker 3: And our like secret love child? Yeah, yeah, secret love child.

2807
02:07:22,960 --> 02:07:25,280
Speaker 2: I'm good with the adoption, the boning six months before

2808
02:07:25,280 --> 02:07:25,640
Speaker 2: the wedding.

2809
02:07:25,680 --> 02:07:28,120
Speaker 3: I'm not not the best. Yeah, not the best? We

2810
02:07:28,240 --> 02:07:28,680
Speaker 3: would you do?

2811
02:07:28,760 --> 02:07:30,720
Speaker 2: Put your answers to the comments below, and let's get

2812
02:07:30,720 --> 02:07:33,360
Speaker 2: into this next story. I cheated with the coworker and

2813
02:07:33,400 --> 02:07:36,360
Speaker 2: now we're planning on running away together, or at least

2814
02:07:36,400 --> 02:07:38,840
Speaker 2: I am am I the a hole. Damn you know.

2815
02:07:38,920 --> 02:07:40,520
Speaker 3: We've been working so.

2816
02:07:40,880 --> 02:07:45,920
Speaker 2: Hard and so long. I work at international live events

2817
02:07:46,000 --> 02:07:48,880
Speaker 2: that take weeks to pull off. I typically coordinate them

2818
02:07:48,920 --> 02:07:51,120
Speaker 2: and work with my team to install and operate. I'm

2819
02:07:51,120 --> 02:07:53,640
Speaker 2: close with my coworkers, but we live across the world

2820
02:07:53,720 --> 02:07:56,520
Speaker 2: and fly into every event. I've met most of my

2821
02:07:56,560 --> 02:07:59,080
Speaker 2: co workers in person, but this event we had someone

2822
02:07:59,160 --> 02:08:01,000
Speaker 2: new working sound, Clint.

2823
02:08:01,440 --> 02:08:02,240
Speaker 3: I'd seen him in.

2824
02:08:02,320 --> 02:08:06,240
Speaker 2: Zoom calls, but we had an interface directly interface. Oh god.

2825
02:08:06,520 --> 02:08:08,760
Speaker 2: This event was a big one for the company, big

2826
02:08:08,800 --> 02:08:11,400
Speaker 2: headliner and big partners, with a lot of money being

2827
02:08:11,400 --> 02:08:14,200
Speaker 2: tossed around. I arrived at the install, got caught up

2828
02:08:14,240 --> 02:08:17,320
Speaker 2: to speed, met Clint, and got to work. One by one,

2829
02:08:17,640 --> 02:08:20,120
Speaker 2: my co workers were sent off to other events. Clint

2830
02:08:20,160 --> 02:08:23,760
Speaker 2: and I were left to finish everything up. Oh god,

2831
02:08:23,920 --> 02:08:26,360
Speaker 2: but bad weather and huge letdowns by one of our

2832
02:08:26,440 --> 02:08:29,320
Speaker 2: vendors had us in hot water like a hot tup.

2833
02:08:29,720 --> 02:08:32,560
Speaker 2: We started working fifteen to twenty hour days to get

2834
02:08:32,600 --> 02:08:36,120
Speaker 2: everything done on time. After our long haulidays, Clinton I

2835
02:08:36,160 --> 02:08:38,800
Speaker 2: would hang out in Blaze. Legally, we had a lot

2836
02:08:38,800 --> 02:08:40,960
Speaker 2: in common and we were vibing in a way that

2837
02:08:41,080 --> 02:08:44,120
Speaker 2: neither of us felt before. We were both married Unhappily.

2838
02:08:44,240 --> 02:08:46,240
Speaker 2: His wife had a bunch of medical problems and was

2839
02:08:46,280 --> 02:08:49,280
Speaker 2: really good at spending money and never leaving school. Yeah,

2840
02:08:49,360 --> 02:08:51,760
Speaker 2: she's trying to get an education and is spending all

2841
02:08:51,760 --> 02:08:57,600
Speaker 2: this money on her hospital bills. Go fucking asshole, Jesus.

2842
02:08:57,640 --> 02:09:00,440
Speaker 2: My husband had turned into an angry person, built up

2843
02:09:00,440 --> 02:09:02,880
Speaker 2: a pile of debt, and was not putting anything into

2844
02:09:02,880 --> 02:09:06,080
Speaker 2: the relationship. It started out platonic, but things got extremely

2845
02:09:06,120 --> 02:09:09,960
Speaker 2: stressful and our sexual tension was started building up. Oh God,

2846
02:09:10,280 --> 02:09:13,040
Speaker 2: the lack of sleep, stress, and my lower tolerance for

2847
02:09:13,120 --> 02:09:16,680
Speaker 2: cannabis left me questioning everything about my life. We both

2848
02:09:16,680 --> 02:09:19,560
Speaker 2: felt like the other person was an extension of ourselves.

2849
02:09:19,680 --> 02:09:23,600
Speaker 2: We were kindred spirits. Slowly, Clint started making moves and

2850
02:09:23,680 --> 02:09:26,920
Speaker 2: suddenly dinners were turning into dates and we were hanging

2851
02:09:26,960 --> 02:09:30,680
Speaker 2: out in each other's hotel rooms. We crossed many, many lines,

2852
02:09:30,960 --> 02:09:33,800
Speaker 2: but right as we crossed the final line, my brain

2853
02:09:34,040 --> 02:09:36,160
Speaker 2: kicked back in and we decided to take care of

2854
02:09:36,160 --> 02:09:38,720
Speaker 2: our lives before going further. So I guess it was

2855
02:09:38,800 --> 02:09:42,320
Speaker 2: like kisses, blow jobs, no sex. But by the time

2856
02:09:42,400 --> 02:09:45,640
Speaker 2: you're there, you're like, she's already John, don't you know

2857
02:09:45,720 --> 02:09:50,040
Speaker 2: it's not cheating if your genitals aren't touching? Wow? How

2858
02:09:50,120 --> 02:09:53,120
Speaker 2: could I have missed that? I'm kidding, of course, or

2859
02:09:53,360 --> 02:09:55,520
Speaker 2: is he? Over the last few days of the event,

2860
02:09:55,600 --> 02:09:58,160
Speaker 2: Clint and I continued to be close. We made plans

2861
02:09:58,160 --> 02:10:01,080
Speaker 2: to leave our spouses, sell our house, in travel together.

2862
02:10:01,160 --> 02:10:03,520
Speaker 2: We created a bucket list of places to go, things

2863
02:10:03,600 --> 02:10:06,080
Speaker 2: to do and see together. We even talked about eventually

2864
02:10:06,120 --> 02:10:08,360
Speaker 2: building a little cabin. Clint had planned on getting a

2865
02:10:08,400 --> 02:10:11,000
Speaker 2: tattoo dedicated to me when he returned home.

2866
02:10:11,080 --> 02:10:11,920
Speaker 3: It would be sweet.

2867
02:10:11,960 --> 02:10:15,840
Speaker 2: Talking about getting a tattoo literally means nothing, Hey, babe,

2868
02:10:15,840 --> 02:10:17,880
Speaker 2: by John, I'm going to get a tattoo of your

2869
02:10:17,920 --> 02:10:21,080
Speaker 2: face and my ball sack. WHOA, that means nothing until

2870
02:10:21,120 --> 02:10:23,480
Speaker 2: I get the ballsack tattoo. At the end of the event,

2871
02:10:23,520 --> 02:10:25,720
Speaker 2: we went our separate ways and kept in touch virtually.

2872
02:10:25,840 --> 02:10:29,440
Speaker 2: Lots of sexting and unprofessionalism all around. We had agreed

2873
02:10:29,480 --> 02:10:31,520
Speaker 2: we wouldn't tell our partners about the affair, as they

2874
02:10:31,600 --> 02:10:34,360
Speaker 2: each have mental health issues, but we planned to divorce

2875
02:10:34,480 --> 02:10:37,000
Speaker 2: and move on with our lives. After a few days

2876
02:10:37,000 --> 02:10:39,920
Speaker 2: at home, I talked with my husband and asked for

2877
02:10:39,960 --> 02:10:42,400
Speaker 2: a divorce. I told him I wanted to move away

2878
02:10:42,520 --> 02:10:45,240
Speaker 2: and start my life over. Clint talked to his wife,

2879
02:10:45,320 --> 02:10:48,360
Speaker 2: but things were messire. She was volatile and her family

2880
02:10:48,400 --> 02:10:51,240
Speaker 2: made it difficult for Clint to outright leave her. Eventually,

2881
02:10:51,280 --> 02:10:54,320
Speaker 2: I noticed Clint was becoming distant, still sexual, but not

2882
02:10:54,440 --> 02:10:57,600
Speaker 2: emotionally available. He sent me pictures of his new tattoos,

2883
02:10:57,680 --> 02:10:59,960
Speaker 2: which were nothing like what he said he was planning.

2884
02:11:00,480 --> 02:11:02,760
Speaker 2: Alarm bells are going off in my head, but I

2885
02:11:02,880 --> 02:11:06,520
Speaker 2: kept plodding along, planning mine. In our escape, Clinton went

2886
02:11:06,560 --> 02:11:09,520
Speaker 2: off to a series of anniversary related dates with his wife,

2887
02:11:09,600 --> 02:11:13,120
Speaker 2: which is never what you want from your side piece. Yeah,

2888
02:11:13,120 --> 02:11:15,720
Speaker 2: that sounds like commitments and we hate that, and he

2889
02:11:15,840 --> 02:11:18,240
Speaker 2: kept leaving me on red. I asked him what was

2890
02:11:18,280 --> 02:11:21,240
Speaker 2: going on a number of times, and finally, after weeks

2891
02:11:21,280 --> 02:11:24,240
Speaker 2: of mixed signals, Clint told me he was having doubts.

2892
02:11:24,280 --> 02:11:26,560
Speaker 2: We video chatted during work, and he told me he

2893
02:11:26,600 --> 02:11:29,240
Speaker 2: owed it to his wife to try and make things worse.

2894
02:11:29,520 --> 02:11:31,960
Speaker 2: To be fair, Op described her husband as like not

2895
02:11:32,000 --> 02:11:35,800
Speaker 2: putting anything in the relationship and being angry. The Clint

2896
02:11:35,840 --> 02:11:39,640
Speaker 2: described his wife as being like sick and learning.

2897
02:11:41,480 --> 02:11:44,240
Speaker 1: Literally like I feel like OPI tried to spin it

2898
02:11:44,280 --> 02:11:46,200
Speaker 1: the worst way she could, Like she's always just spending

2899
02:11:46,240 --> 02:11:47,480
Speaker 1: all his money and like.

2900
02:11:47,520 --> 02:11:48,560
Speaker 3: On her medical bills.

2901
02:11:48,560 --> 02:11:50,560
Speaker 2: She has all these medical needs and it's like, bro,

2902
02:11:50,720 --> 02:11:55,080
Speaker 2: he's probably paying for her medical ailments and she's just

2903
02:11:55,200 --> 02:11:58,280
Speaker 2: going to school. Yeah, she's like trying to provide what

2904
02:11:59,120 --> 02:12:01,520
Speaker 2: Now I'm left up trying to pick up the pieces

2905
02:12:01,560 --> 02:12:03,800
Speaker 2: of my life. Most of my friends are my coworkers,

2906
02:12:03,840 --> 02:12:05,760
Speaker 2: so I have no one to talk about my heartbreak.

2907
02:12:05,800 --> 02:12:07,600
Speaker 2: I don't have the money to fix my problems at

2908
02:12:07,600 --> 02:12:10,320
Speaker 2: home or to leave and live alone in another country.

2909
02:12:10,360 --> 02:12:12,440
Speaker 2: There's no going back with my husband, as I know

2910
02:12:12,480 --> 02:12:14,720
Speaker 2: it would be wrong, and I'm no longer interested in

2911
02:12:14,760 --> 02:12:17,080
Speaker 2: carrying the relationship. I'll see Clint again in a few

2912
02:12:17,080 --> 02:12:19,800
Speaker 2: weeks at another event where will likely be left alone

2913
02:12:19,880 --> 02:12:22,240
Speaker 2: for hours at a time, But he plans to stay

2914
02:12:22,240 --> 02:12:25,360
Speaker 2: faithful to his wife. And we never even got to

2915
02:12:25,440 --> 02:12:28,480
Speaker 2: have the mind blowing sex. We talked about TLDR. I

2916
02:12:28,480 --> 02:12:30,760
Speaker 2: fooled around with a coworker while traveling for work, got

2917
02:12:30,800 --> 02:12:33,200
Speaker 2: love bombed, made plans to move to another country together,

2918
02:12:33,280 --> 02:12:35,280
Speaker 2: told my husband I wanted a divorce and got left

2919
02:12:35,360 --> 02:12:39,880
Speaker 2: with nothing but bad karma. And that is why you

2920
02:12:40,000 --> 02:12:43,320
Speaker 2: don't cheat on your wife. Yeah, yeah, husband, you can't

2921
02:12:43,400 --> 02:12:43,720
Speaker 2: do it.

2922
02:12:44,320 --> 02:12:47,600
Speaker 3: She also was going to leave her husband anyways.

2923
02:12:48,040 --> 02:12:49,640
Speaker 2: It sounds like she wasn't happy in the marriage, like

2924
02:12:49,680 --> 02:12:52,000
Speaker 2: he wasn't putting anything into the marriage, and so she

2925
02:12:52,320 --> 02:12:54,240
Speaker 2: decided to put out outside of the marriage.

2926
02:12:54,480 --> 02:12:58,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounded like the consolation prize is that she

2927
02:12:58,280 --> 02:12:59,120
Speaker 1: did get out.

2928
02:12:58,960 --> 02:13:05,080
Speaker 2: Of this unhappy are consolation prize? Divorce? Divorce the divorce

2929
02:13:05,200 --> 02:13:08,360
Speaker 2: chance actually works this, Hey, the divorce chance sometimes are

2930
02:13:08,400 --> 02:13:10,560
Speaker 2: the best thing. That's truely the only present you need.

2931
02:13:10,920 --> 02:13:13,800
Speaker 2: Love bombing What does that mean to you? Yeah?

2932
02:13:14,000 --> 02:13:16,680
Speaker 3: Can you throw it in the comments, because I think I.

2933
02:13:16,760 --> 02:13:21,400
Speaker 2: May be a love bomber, Oh oh, dropping big loads.

2934
02:13:21,520 --> 02:13:24,920
Speaker 2: I might draw big loads of love on people.

2935
02:13:24,680 --> 02:13:26,720
Speaker 1: You know what I think, And I'll be very curious

2936
02:13:26,760 --> 02:13:30,720
Speaker 1: to hear everyone's opinion. But like it's when it's used

2937
02:13:31,200 --> 02:13:32,520
Speaker 1: more nefariously.

2938
02:13:32,800 --> 02:13:33,640
Speaker 3: Maybe like this.

2939
02:13:33,520 --> 02:13:35,400
Speaker 1: Guy he was like, oh, all hot and heavy, Oh

2940
02:13:35,480 --> 02:13:38,080
Speaker 1: let's do all these things, let's leave our partners.

2941
02:13:38,440 --> 02:13:40,920
Speaker 2: And then he's like, nah, they change my mind. You

2942
02:13:40,920 --> 02:13:43,520
Speaker 2: know what I mean. It's like basically the love without

2943
02:13:43,560 --> 02:13:45,400
Speaker 2: the follow up. Yeah, your answers to the comments. I

2944
02:13:45,400 --> 02:13:46,360
Speaker 2: want to hear what you guys think.

2945
02:13:46,240 --> 02:13:48,320
Speaker 1: We shall see. But you know what else I want

2946
02:13:48,360 --> 02:13:51,920
Speaker 1: to do? Tell me this story. Yes, I'm better at

2947
02:13:51,920 --> 02:13:53,920
Speaker 1: being a stay at home mom than my wife. I'm

2948
02:13:53,960 --> 02:13:55,880
Speaker 1: a man, I know what I'm talking about.

2949
02:13:56,000 --> 02:13:56,840
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

2950
02:13:56,920 --> 02:13:57,120
Speaker 5: Hey?

2951
02:13:57,240 --> 02:14:00,080
Speaker 2: We don't need to go into these gender roles. Manh

2952
02:14:00,520 --> 02:14:04,880
Speaker 2: thirty male, have a wife thirty fucking congratulations, big dog.

2953
02:14:05,480 --> 02:14:09,120
Speaker 2: Good for you, Jesus.

2954
02:14:09,480 --> 02:14:11,600
Speaker 3: And we have a daughter a seven female.

2955
02:14:11,640 --> 02:14:13,600
Speaker 1: I work in finance and my wife is a stay

2956
02:14:13,640 --> 02:14:16,200
Speaker 1: at home mom, as I earn a sufficient amount for the.

2957
02:14:16,120 --> 02:14:16,560
Speaker 3: Both of us.

2958
02:14:16,600 --> 02:14:18,000
Speaker 2: Right, you don't need flex on us, dude.

2959
02:14:18,040 --> 02:14:19,760
Speaker 1: My wife is a great stay at home mom and

2960
02:14:19,800 --> 02:14:23,720
Speaker 1: takes great care of our house. My way, bro, No

2961
02:14:23,760 --> 02:14:25,920
Speaker 1: one give this man a red bull ever again for

2962
02:14:25,960 --> 02:14:27,200
Speaker 1: the rest of his fucking life.

2963
02:14:27,240 --> 02:14:30,400
Speaker 3: Did John start reading this story? God damn it.

2964
02:14:30,200 --> 02:14:33,000
Speaker 2: You fucking put me out of the slow Put a

2965
02:14:33,040 --> 02:14:36,000
Speaker 2: Colt forty five right in my mouth and just end me.

2966
02:14:36,360 --> 02:14:38,040
Speaker 2: My wife is a great stay at home mom.

2967
02:14:38,080 --> 02:14:39,440
Speaker 3: It takes great care of the house.

2968
02:14:39,920 --> 02:14:42,040
Speaker 1: I was lucky to buy a home as I earn

2969
02:14:42,120 --> 02:14:44,680
Speaker 1: well in a medium cost of living city. I love

2970
02:14:44,760 --> 02:14:46,880
Speaker 1: my wife, but she finds it humorous to say that

2971
02:14:46,960 --> 02:14:50,360
Speaker 1: I'm incapable of doing household tasks. We had agreed that

2972
02:14:50,400 --> 02:14:52,760
Speaker 1: she would do them when we decided that she would

2973
02:14:52,800 --> 02:14:55,520
Speaker 1: stay at home. But I do stuff occasionally when we're

2974
02:14:55,560 --> 02:14:56,880
Speaker 1: both home if she asked me to.

2975
02:14:57,120 --> 02:14:59,880
Speaker 2: But then if I say, loads a dishwasher for her,

2976
02:15:00,120 --> 02:15:02,400
Speaker 2: she will claim that I did it wrong just because

2977
02:15:02,440 --> 02:15:03,840
Speaker 2: I do it different than she does.

2978
02:15:04,000 --> 02:15:04,839
Speaker 3: It still cleans.

2979
02:15:04,880 --> 02:15:07,760
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it's like I load the diarchwasher. I just

2980
02:15:07,880 --> 02:15:09,280
Speaker 2: put all the plates flat on.

2981
02:15:10,720 --> 02:15:11,000
Speaker 5: You know.

2982
02:15:11,240 --> 02:15:12,960
Speaker 3: I like to do one dish at a time. It's

2983
02:15:13,000 --> 02:15:14,040
Speaker 3: my patented method.

2984
02:15:14,280 --> 02:15:16,640
Speaker 2: The other day we were eating and she told me

2985
02:15:16,680 --> 02:15:19,200
Speaker 2: about her day and how she went grocery shopping and

2986
02:15:19,240 --> 02:15:20,320
Speaker 2: optimized the cost.

2987
02:15:20,640 --> 02:15:23,000
Speaker 3: Already, I don't care.

2988
02:15:24,120 --> 02:15:27,480
Speaker 2: There's no other way. We're going to finish the story

2989
02:15:28,000 --> 02:15:31,440
Speaker 2: by buying specific items at specific stores. She made an

2990
02:15:31,440 --> 02:15:34,240
Speaker 2: off handed remark that I would never be able to

2991
02:15:34,360 --> 02:15:36,960
Speaker 2: do her job and set it in a what would

2992
02:15:37,000 --> 02:15:37,520
Speaker 2: you ever do?

2993
02:15:37,600 --> 02:15:40,400
Speaker 1: Without me kind of way. I replied back, saying that

2994
02:15:40,600 --> 02:15:41,680
Speaker 1: of course I could do it.

2995
02:15:41,760 --> 02:15:45,400
Speaker 2: I handle complex decisions and calculations at my work as

2996
02:15:45,520 --> 02:15:48,800
Speaker 2: I work in finance, and I have a master's degree.

2997
02:15:49,000 --> 02:15:51,240
Speaker 2: For you, do you hear yourself right now?

2998
02:15:51,320 --> 02:15:56,280
Speaker 1: What I do involves more intellect than household operations.

2999
02:15:56,640 --> 02:15:57,640
Speaker 3: Even though I.

3000
02:15:57,560 --> 02:16:01,400
Speaker 2: Acknowledged and appreciate what she does, I would be capable

3001
02:16:01,480 --> 02:16:03,800
Speaker 2: if the roles were reversed. I feel like she was

3002
02:16:03,840 --> 02:16:07,520
Speaker 2: literally making the most like innocuous and cute jokes, just

3003
02:16:07,560 --> 02:16:14,080
Speaker 2: like you. More into that a genius, I got do

3004
02:16:14,320 --> 02:16:16,000
Speaker 2: this wash God.

3005
02:16:16,400 --> 02:16:18,240
Speaker 1: She got angry and seemed to think that I was

3006
02:16:18,280 --> 02:16:20,160
Speaker 1: calling her stupid when I wasn't.

3007
02:16:20,440 --> 02:16:23,640
Speaker 2: I mean, you said everything, but and then she started crying.

3008
02:16:23,680 --> 02:16:25,600
Speaker 2: And now I feel like an a hole? You are

3009
02:16:25,800 --> 02:16:28,240
Speaker 2: you are a massive or an a hole. She said

3010
02:16:28,240 --> 02:16:31,000
Speaker 2: that she was a very good student and had she graduated,

3011
02:16:31,040 --> 02:16:33,320
Speaker 2: she would be in my position as well. My wife

3012
02:16:33,360 --> 02:16:36,120
Speaker 2: and I met in college, but she was an international

3013
02:16:36,120 --> 02:16:39,520
Speaker 2: student studying physics and computer science, and she had issues

3014
02:16:39,520 --> 02:16:41,720
Speaker 2: with her loan from her home country and could not

3015
02:16:41,800 --> 02:16:45,160
Speaker 2: afford to complete it. That is tragic. So she's super

3016
02:16:45,200 --> 02:16:48,440
Speaker 2: smart too and is stuck just dishwashing.

3017
02:16:48,080 --> 02:16:50,600
Speaker 3: And we got married so she could stay.

3018
02:16:50,959 --> 02:16:54,840
Speaker 1: Initially, she wanted to complete it later after finding the funds,

3019
02:16:55,040 --> 02:16:56,959
Speaker 1: but she agreed to be a stay at home mom

3020
02:16:57,080 --> 02:16:59,360
Speaker 1: when I got a good job, and I appreciate that

3021
02:16:59,440 --> 02:17:01,120
Speaker 1: a lot, as we were both able to have a

3022
02:17:01,200 --> 02:17:03,760
Speaker 1: kid early on and did all this even while I

3023
02:17:03,840 --> 02:17:07,560
Speaker 1: was both completing my master's and working full time.

3024
02:17:08,480 --> 02:17:08,960
Speaker 3: Is that done?

3025
02:17:09,200 --> 02:17:12,240
Speaker 2: It's over finally, John, Jesus. It took me so long,

3026
02:17:12,280 --> 02:17:13,360
Speaker 2: it was I do so long.

3027
02:17:13,879 --> 02:17:14,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think he's an asshole.

3028
02:17:14,879 --> 02:17:17,120
Speaker 2: He took it like a simple like you said an

3029
02:17:17,120 --> 02:17:19,640
Speaker 2: innocuous comment and like that was cute, and you just

3030
02:17:19,680 --> 02:17:21,160
Speaker 2: made it about him being smart. Yeah.

3031
02:17:21,240 --> 02:17:24,120
Speaker 1: It's almost like he's like looking for ways to just

3032
02:17:24,160 --> 02:17:25,199
Speaker 1: be like put her down.

3033
02:17:25,560 --> 02:17:28,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she was studying CS and physics and now

3034
02:17:28,640 --> 02:17:30,520
Speaker 2: she's taking care of your kid, Like, have some respect.

3035
02:17:30,920 --> 02:17:33,520
Speaker 2: I worked at a wedding called the bride fat and

3036
02:17:33,560 --> 02:17:36,200
Speaker 2: then roasted the entire family. Now they don't want to

3037
02:17:36,240 --> 02:17:39,480
Speaker 2: pay me, and I'm furious. Am I the asshole? You know?

3038
02:17:39,680 --> 02:17:42,200
Speaker 1: I think everyone expects like, hey, let me come with

3039
02:17:42,280 --> 02:17:45,440
Speaker 1: good service, let me, you know, do my absolute best.

3040
02:17:45,600 --> 02:17:48,760
Speaker 2: But here's the thing. You need a unique differentiator Yeah,

3041
02:17:48,879 --> 02:17:51,640
Speaker 2: do you want your wedding to be like just boring

3042
02:17:51,879 --> 02:17:53,240
Speaker 2: and like go a plan or do you want to

3043
02:17:53,280 --> 02:17:54,000
Speaker 2: be memorable?

3044
02:17:54,120 --> 02:17:56,360
Speaker 3: Come on? Yeah, exciting difference.

3045
02:17:56,400 --> 02:17:59,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, instead of everyone confessing and like toasting to how

3046
02:17:59,240 --> 02:18:02,800
Speaker 2: much they love you, I think higher wedding roasters say

3047
02:18:02,920 --> 02:18:05,039
Speaker 2: the all right, actually legitimate idea.

3048
02:18:05,200 --> 02:18:06,119
Speaker 3: Yes, that is a legiti.

3049
02:18:06,160 --> 02:18:09,160
Speaker 2: I had a wedding, hire everyone to roast you and

3050
02:18:09,240 --> 02:18:11,440
Speaker 2: say the worst parts about you, and if you still

3051
02:18:11,480 --> 02:18:13,520
Speaker 2: want to get married after all the skeletons are out

3052
02:18:13,560 --> 02:18:15,400
Speaker 2: of the closet, then it's legit.

3053
02:18:15,560 --> 02:18:18,800
Speaker 1: This went from a joke to something that actually, I

3054
02:18:18,800 --> 02:18:21,519
Speaker 1: would be so good. I think that would be amazing.

3055
02:18:21,720 --> 02:18:24,320
Speaker 2: Fifty three percent of the marriages and a divorce, let's

3056
02:18:24,320 --> 02:18:26,320
Speaker 2: you know, let's bump those numbers down.

3057
02:18:26,520 --> 02:18:29,240
Speaker 3: Honestly, I think it would be like the experience.

3058
02:18:29,280 --> 02:18:30,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it would be great.

3059
02:18:30,240 --> 02:18:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone feeds the dirt to like the professional like

3060
02:18:32,879 --> 02:18:33,760
Speaker 1: roasting comedians.

3061
02:18:33,879 --> 02:18:36,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we could do that. We could do that.

3062
02:18:36,879 --> 02:18:39,520
Speaker 2: We'll roast your wedding. Dude, if we roasted weddings, that

3063
02:18:39,520 --> 02:18:42,840
Speaker 2: would be so funny. Podcast went outside web that We'll say,

3064
02:18:43,200 --> 02:18:45,880
Speaker 2: just like the whole family finding out about like thirty

3065
02:18:45,879 --> 02:18:49,760
Speaker 2: dirty threesomes. Yeah, I love it alright. So this happened

3066
02:18:49,800 --> 02:18:52,879
Speaker 2: six years ago when I was a hot shot wedding videographer.

3067
02:18:53,160 --> 02:18:57,360
Speaker 2: I retired afterwards. I guess we'll see why. My selling

3068
02:18:57,400 --> 02:18:59,720
Speaker 2: point was simple, I will shoot your wedding and give

3069
02:18:59,720 --> 02:19:03,840
Speaker 2: you a highlight reel the very next day, No questions asked.

3070
02:19:03,920 --> 02:19:06,760
Speaker 2: People loved it. They wanted me. They couldn't wait. Oh, God,

3071
02:19:06,959 --> 02:19:10,080
Speaker 2: couldn't wait. They're busted out the seams to get oh,

3072
02:19:10,320 --> 02:19:14,320
Speaker 2: to get them highlights. My career's last wedding was no different.

3073
02:19:14,400 --> 02:19:16,680
Speaker 2: At the beginning. I arrived at the scene, asked who

3074
02:19:16,680 --> 02:19:18,520
Speaker 2: the important people were, and shot some.

3075
02:19:18,640 --> 02:19:20,320
Speaker 3: Epic footage and went home.

3076
02:19:20,480 --> 02:19:23,240
Speaker 2: Nice. But I was hiding a harmless secret. You see,

3077
02:19:23,240 --> 02:19:26,480
Speaker 2: my work ethic of twenty hours straight came with a caveat.

3078
02:19:26,560 --> 02:19:29,680
Speaker 2: I got bored too often. But that day I found

3079
02:19:29,680 --> 02:19:33,160
Speaker 2: a solution. Okay, if you have ever edited videos before,

3080
02:19:33,280 --> 02:19:35,760
Speaker 2: you know the most boring part of it is watching,

3081
02:19:35,959 --> 02:19:40,240
Speaker 2: organizing and naming hundreds of clips. So just for self amusement,

3082
02:19:40,440 --> 02:19:43,480
Speaker 2: I did something. Instead of naming clips how you usually

3083
02:19:43,560 --> 02:19:46,720
Speaker 2: named them, I started naming them funnily, you know, like

3084
02:19:46,840 --> 02:19:49,320
Speaker 2: mind you these are raw footages that will never be

3085
02:19:49,360 --> 02:19:52,000
Speaker 2: seen by anyone else other than me. The final video

3086
02:19:52,080 --> 02:19:54,879
Speaker 2: was aptly named and sent to the bride, my client.

3087
02:19:55,000 --> 02:19:58,560
Speaker 2: The very next day, she called me and she loved it.

3088
02:19:58,800 --> 02:20:01,160
Speaker 2: She thanked me for my service and requested me if

3089
02:20:01,200 --> 02:20:03,879
Speaker 2: I could also send her all the raw clips I

3090
02:20:03,959 --> 02:20:06,680
Speaker 2: have taken. There are all clips with his funny names.

3091
02:20:06,959 --> 02:20:07,320
Speaker 4: Hmmmm.

3092
02:20:08,280 --> 02:20:08,600
Speaker 3: You see.

3093
02:20:08,680 --> 02:20:11,039
Speaker 2: It was the weekend and her entire family was going

3094
02:20:11,080 --> 02:20:13,480
Speaker 2: to visit her, where they planned to watch all the

3095
02:20:13,600 --> 02:20:17,160
Speaker 2: videos and start her new life with a bang. Although

3096
02:20:17,400 --> 02:20:19,840
Speaker 2: in ninety nine percent of other cases, I would have

3097
02:20:19,840 --> 02:20:23,200
Speaker 2: been smart enough to send her the original clips, this

3098
02:20:23,320 --> 02:20:27,480
Speaker 2: time around, I had an important statistics exam the next day.

3099
02:20:27,640 --> 02:20:30,360
Speaker 2: In my brain, who was fried? Oh God, I know

3100
02:20:30,400 --> 02:20:32,160
Speaker 2: where's this coming. But I see you in the comments

3101
02:20:32,160 --> 02:20:34,920
Speaker 2: if you know where this is headed. I unknowingly copied

3102
02:20:34,959 --> 02:20:38,200
Speaker 2: my funny name clips and gave those to her. It

3103
02:20:38,280 --> 02:20:40,920
Speaker 2: was the next day at my university, about to enter

3104
02:20:40,920 --> 02:20:43,960
Speaker 2: the classroom, ready to give my statistic exam, and then

3105
02:20:44,000 --> 02:20:47,400
Speaker 2: my phone rings. The bride is calling. I rejoice. Surely

3106
02:20:47,440 --> 02:20:50,000
Speaker 2: she's calling to ask for my bank details. I'll be

3107
02:20:50,040 --> 02:20:54,280
Speaker 2: a little richer today. Hello, I say, The bride responds,

3108
02:20:54,560 --> 02:20:55,119
Speaker 2: you are.

3109
02:20:55,080 --> 02:21:00,480
Speaker 4: The most horrible person I've ever seen me, only me,

3110
02:21:00,600 --> 02:21:04,160
Speaker 4: in front of my entire family, and I will file

3111
02:21:04,320 --> 02:21:06,480
Speaker 4: a police report against you right now.

3112
02:21:06,800 --> 02:21:09,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you won't get away with this. Cuts

3113
02:21:09,160 --> 02:21:12,200
Speaker 2: the call for file names. For file names, I want

3114
02:21:12,200 --> 02:21:14,200
Speaker 2: to know what they are now. I was confused. I

3115
02:21:14,240 --> 02:21:16,520
Speaker 2: really didn't know why she act that way. Was she

3116
02:21:16,600 --> 02:21:18,960
Speaker 2: trying to rip me off? Throwing up this act? I

3117
02:21:19,120 --> 02:21:21,119
Speaker 2: was not going to let her get away with this,

3118
02:21:21,360 --> 02:21:23,760
Speaker 2: so I called my classmate. The girl who hooked me

3119
02:21:23,840 --> 02:21:26,560
Speaker 2: up with the client. The bride was her aunt. Oh no,

3120
02:21:26,800 --> 02:21:29,959
Speaker 2: surely my classmate would know what's happening. Hey, miss blank

3121
02:21:29,959 --> 02:21:31,879
Speaker 2: called me, and she says, weird stuff. Do you know

3122
02:21:31,920 --> 02:21:35,040
Speaker 2: what's happening? Are you kidding me? She says, what the

3123
02:21:35,240 --> 02:21:38,880
Speaker 2: hell were those names? Are you out of your goddamn

3124
02:21:38,920 --> 02:21:41,560
Speaker 2: and is this a prank? She's swearing at me so much?

3125
02:21:41,720 --> 02:21:46,040
Speaker 2: You are unreal? Why did you do that? He said?

3126
02:21:46,320 --> 02:21:51,800
Speaker 3: What names? Wait? Video clip names? Don't don't. Don't incriminate yourself.

3127
02:21:51,879 --> 02:21:54,400
Speaker 2: I don't know if you're choking at this point, but

3128
02:21:54,520 --> 02:21:56,600
Speaker 2: I'm in a lot of trouble because of you. You're

3129
02:21:56,720 --> 02:22:01,800
Speaker 2: a really weird man. Call cuts names the names? No way,

3130
02:22:01,840 --> 02:22:05,200
Speaker 2: I sent them the funny names. My heart sank. My

3131
02:22:05,240 --> 02:22:07,760
Speaker 2: exam was in five minutes. I couldn't take it. I

3132
02:22:07,760 --> 02:22:10,280
Speaker 2: collected myself, gave the exam, I barely passed it, and

3133
02:22:10,360 --> 02:22:12,320
Speaker 2: went home to see what I had done. At this point,

3134
02:22:12,520 --> 02:22:14,200
Speaker 2: even I don't know how bad it is. I don't

3135
02:22:14,240 --> 02:22:16,080
Speaker 2: remember any of the funny names. I did those in

3136
02:22:16,080 --> 02:22:18,279
Speaker 2: the moment, laugh a little, and move on. I opened

3137
02:22:18,280 --> 02:22:21,199
Speaker 2: my computer and went into the folder. My hands are shaking,

3138
02:22:21,280 --> 02:22:24,640
Speaker 2: my heart is pounding. These were some of the names. Oh, finally,

3139
02:22:24,920 --> 02:22:29,480
Speaker 2: ugly bride, trying to pose, annoying, loud bride friends old

3140
02:22:29,560 --> 02:22:34,920
Speaker 2: grandma's last wedding, her brother, I and girls, fat ass

3141
02:22:35,000 --> 02:22:41,879
Speaker 2: groom standing, dumb as fuck kids running, short, bald dad eating. Oh.

3142
02:22:42,000 --> 02:22:45,359
Speaker 2: These were the first couple out of sixty final clips.

3143
02:22:45,400 --> 02:22:45,640
Speaker 4: No.

3144
02:22:46,120 --> 02:22:49,520
Speaker 2: I deleted the whole folder without proceeding further. I couldn't

3145
02:22:49,560 --> 02:22:51,440
Speaker 2: take it. Before you tell me how horrible I am.

3146
02:22:51,480 --> 02:22:53,879
Speaker 2: To my defense, I was a dumb, unfunny kid. To

3147
02:22:53,920 --> 02:22:56,279
Speaker 2: come up with creative insults, you have to be smart.

3148
02:22:56,400 --> 02:22:59,200
Speaker 2: I wasn't, so I relied on shock humor enough to

3149
02:22:59,240 --> 02:23:01,560
Speaker 2: get me through the boring phase of naming. I didn't

3150
02:23:01,560 --> 02:23:03,400
Speaker 2: think much of it. It wasn't meant to be seen

3151
02:23:03,440 --> 02:23:05,879
Speaker 2: by anyone. I called my friend the other day, calmed

3152
02:23:05,879 --> 02:23:08,280
Speaker 2: her down, apologized for it, and once she was cool,

3153
02:23:08,400 --> 02:23:10,720
Speaker 2: she told me. The following we were all gathered at

3154
02:23:10,760 --> 02:23:13,760
Speaker 2: the bride's house. It was at least a thirty person gathering.

3155
02:23:13,800 --> 02:23:15,920
Speaker 2: We were supposed to sit in the hall and watch

3156
02:23:15,959 --> 02:23:18,760
Speaker 2: all the clips one by one. Oh no. The first

3157
02:23:18,760 --> 02:23:21,920
Speaker 2: clip was the highlights you made, which everyone enjoyed. Then

3158
02:23:22,080 --> 02:23:24,280
Speaker 2: she plugged in the flash drive you gave her, and

3159
02:23:24,360 --> 02:23:27,640
Speaker 2: to everyone's horror, they saw all the funny names in

3160
02:23:27,640 --> 02:23:30,440
Speaker 2: front of everyone. The bride tried to close the folder immediately,

3161
02:23:30,480 --> 02:23:34,720
Speaker 2: but her dad was furious and proceeded angrily reading everything

3162
02:23:34,840 --> 02:23:38,640
Speaker 2: out until the bride started crying and left the room.

3163
02:23:39,040 --> 02:23:43,520
Speaker 2: It was something the groom stayed still and said nothing damn.

3164
02:23:44,000 --> 02:23:47,040
Speaker 2: But also, why would the dad read everything? Bro, I

3165
02:23:47,080 --> 02:23:50,720
Speaker 2: can't believe someone would say the fat ugly bride had

3166
02:23:50,760 --> 02:23:53,760
Speaker 2: the worst wedding or this. I can't believe this, this

3167
02:23:53,879 --> 02:23:58,360
Speaker 2: person would say fat ass ugly, dumb bald groom who.

3168
02:23:58,280 --> 02:24:00,000
Speaker 3: Was not good enough for my daughter.

3169
02:24:00,520 --> 02:24:03,120
Speaker 1: I think it's a classic married It's a classic dad

3170
02:24:03,200 --> 02:24:05,440
Speaker 1: move where it's like it escalates where it's like, hey,

3171
02:24:05,560 --> 02:24:07,840
Speaker 1: why don't ask for directions? No, I know what I'm doing,

3172
02:24:08,080 --> 02:24:10,480
Speaker 1: and then he ends up like just going busting into

3173
02:24:10,520 --> 02:24:11,320
Speaker 1: a gas station.

3174
02:24:11,280 --> 02:24:13,760
Speaker 2: Like fuck you, I don't care what you're talking about.

3175
02:24:14,000 --> 02:24:15,840
Speaker 2: I don't need this. I'm gonna go to the next

3176
02:24:15,879 --> 02:24:18,280
Speaker 2: one and do the same thing. Yeah, it's that just

3177
02:24:18,440 --> 02:24:20,959
Speaker 2: escalating to the point where it's making it worse. Giving

3178
02:24:20,959 --> 02:24:23,680
Speaker 2: that right, zop, that's horrible. I didn't mean it. It

3179
02:24:23,720 --> 02:24:25,840
Speaker 2: wasn't supposed to be in front of anyone else. I'm

3180
02:24:25,879 --> 02:24:28,640
Speaker 2: so sorry. She says, that's okay. I mean, I get it.

3181
02:24:28,680 --> 02:24:30,720
Speaker 2: Everything is calm now. But I don't think you'll get

3182
02:24:30,800 --> 02:24:33,080
Speaker 2: your money. I mean, you can try. But the brides

3183
02:24:33,160 --> 02:24:35,520
Speaker 2: really pissed. But the grandma laughed at her clip name.

3184
02:24:35,560 --> 02:24:38,039
Speaker 2: Actually I never contacted the bride again. I heard she

3185
02:24:38,120 --> 02:24:40,360
Speaker 2: was teaching in a university next to mine. I never

3186
02:24:40,400 --> 02:24:42,440
Speaker 2: went to that place. Whenever I think of this, I

3187
02:24:42,520 --> 02:24:45,119
Speaker 2: cringe really hard, and I feel like sinking and laughing

3188
02:24:45,160 --> 02:24:48,240
Speaker 2: at the same time. I'm still sometimes talking to my classmate.

3189
02:24:48,360 --> 02:24:50,920
Speaker 2: She recently got married, and suffice to say, she didn't

3190
02:24:50,920 --> 02:24:52,640
Speaker 2: ask me to shoot the wedding.

3191
02:24:53,360 --> 02:24:57,840
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, I'm very curious to hear what you guys think,

3192
02:24:57,920 --> 02:25:00,720
Speaker 1: because I think this one actually might be a split

3193
02:25:00,720 --> 02:25:04,080
Speaker 1: decision on if OP is actually the a hole or not?

3194
02:25:04,400 --> 02:25:08,560
Speaker 2: Right. What are your thoughts? Okay, John, Yeah, John, If

3195
02:25:08,720 --> 02:25:12,520
Speaker 2: I'm calling someone fat and ugly behind their back, I'm

3196
02:25:12,520 --> 02:25:16,240
Speaker 2: an asshole. I agree, I agree, I agree, Yeah, oh,

3197
02:25:16,320 --> 02:25:19,200
Speaker 2: piece for sure the asshole. But I'm I I wonder

3198
02:25:19,320 --> 02:25:23,000
Speaker 2: if I wonder what the mix will be, what's the issue.

3199
02:25:23,040 --> 02:25:25,920
Speaker 3: I feel like there's gonna be at least one person who's.

3200
02:25:25,680 --> 02:25:28,240
Speaker 2: Like, oh, like, no, piece for sure the apple I

3201
02:25:28,520 --> 02:25:30,840
Speaker 2: a thousand percent. I don't know. It sounds like you're

3202
02:25:30,840 --> 02:25:33,080
Speaker 2: defending him. No, no, no, I'm not defending put John's

3203
02:25:33,080 --> 02:25:36,039
Speaker 2: an asshole. In the comments, Yeah, think John's thirty John's

3204
02:25:36,600 --> 02:25:37,240
Speaker 2: that's a new chance.

3205
02:25:37,280 --> 02:25:39,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I think Opia as one hundred percent

3206
02:25:39,600 --> 02:25:43,080
Speaker 1: the ahole because it's like, dude, you are Yeah, they're

3207
02:25:43,120 --> 02:25:46,440
Speaker 1: not supposed to see it, but like you're naming things

3208
02:25:46,760 --> 02:25:50,800
Speaker 1: that could easily even if they didn't request it or

3209
02:25:50,840 --> 02:25:53,080
Speaker 1: anything like that could easily make their way to them.

3210
02:25:53,080 --> 02:25:55,800
Speaker 2: Also, it's the it's their special day like, but it's

3211
02:25:55,800 --> 02:25:58,160
Speaker 2: also not even like even if he knew that there

3212
02:25:58,240 --> 02:26:02,160
Speaker 2: was no way it would ever reach them. It's just

3213
02:26:02,320 --> 02:26:03,080
Speaker 2: it's bad form.

3214
02:26:03,160 --> 02:26:04,199
Speaker 3: He still shouldn't have done.

3215
02:26:04,040 --> 02:26:07,400
Speaker 2: It right, bad form to insult anyone behind their back

3216
02:26:07,440 --> 02:26:10,160
Speaker 2: and hold them to their face. There we go. Yeah,

3217
02:26:10,240 --> 02:26:12,200
Speaker 2: I actually hot take. I think it's more of an

3218
02:26:12,200 --> 02:26:15,640
Speaker 2: alfold move to insult someone behind their back than insult them.

3219
02:26:15,680 --> 02:26:17,920
Speaker 2: But no, I think that's I think that's I think

3220
02:26:17,959 --> 02:26:19,199
Speaker 2: that's true. Yeah.

3221
02:26:19,240 --> 02:26:21,440
Speaker 1: Like the other day, Nathan, who runs the ones and

3222
02:26:21,440 --> 02:26:24,120
Speaker 1: twos on her YouTube's he said that my hair in

3223
02:26:24,160 --> 02:26:25,440
Speaker 1: a bun made me look like a douche.

3224
02:26:25,560 --> 02:26:26,560
Speaker 3: He said that to my.

3225
02:26:26,600 --> 02:26:30,320
Speaker 2: Face, and everyone else was just thinking it exactly exactly.

3226
02:26:31,480 --> 02:26:34,000
Speaker 1: Now I know the truth. I have no choice because

3227
02:26:34,320 --> 02:26:36,400
Speaker 1: my hair like a couch, thank you, he said. He

3228
02:26:36,640 --> 02:26:39,480
Speaker 1: then said, on the bright side, I looked like a successful.

3229
02:26:39,000 --> 02:26:41,680
Speaker 2: Douche, like a business douche. So business douche.

3230
02:26:41,800 --> 02:26:43,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I guess I'll take it.

3231
02:26:43,480 --> 02:26:45,120
Speaker 2: That's something. All right. Let's get to this next story.

3232
02:26:45,760 --> 02:26:48,640
Speaker 1: My best friend cheated on her fiance with my boyfriend.

3233
02:26:48,680 --> 02:26:51,039
Speaker 1: I just found out. Now she's getting married, and I

3234
02:26:51,080 --> 02:26:52,160
Speaker 1: want to ruin the wedding?

3235
02:26:52,200 --> 02:26:53,040
Speaker 3: Am I the a whole?

3236
02:26:53,120 --> 02:26:54,920
Speaker 2: If you're about to get married and you know there's cheating,

3237
02:26:55,120 --> 02:26:58,080
Speaker 2: I think probably tell someone, right, Maybe I feel like

3238
02:26:58,120 --> 02:27:01,760
Speaker 2: that's the right thing to do. Yeah, especially for friends. Yeah,

3239
02:27:02,000 --> 02:27:04,720
Speaker 2: like it could avoid, you know, a messy divorce.

3240
02:27:05,080 --> 02:27:06,960
Speaker 1: I feel like they have the right to know because like, hey,

3241
02:27:06,959 --> 02:27:09,560
Speaker 1: you two are in a committed partnership and then it's

3242
02:27:09,600 --> 02:27:10,400
Speaker 1: like someone.

3243
02:27:10,240 --> 02:27:11,520
Speaker 3: Cheats, where's the commitment.

3244
02:27:11,680 --> 02:27:13,760
Speaker 1: It sucks that you're like the innocent third party, but

3245
02:27:13,800 --> 02:27:15,760
Speaker 1: it's also like you kind of gotta tell them.

3246
02:27:15,840 --> 02:27:18,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I say, if you know there's cheatings

3247
02:27:18,640 --> 02:27:20,359
Speaker 2: when they ask, does anyone object?

3248
02:27:20,440 --> 02:27:23,360
Speaker 3: Say I object. Hear the pictures, Oh, it is your.

3249
02:27:23,240 --> 02:27:26,280
Speaker 2: Perfect time time, like it's hot boom. I like that

3250
02:27:26,440 --> 02:27:27,720
Speaker 2: nuclear wedding all right.

3251
02:27:27,800 --> 02:27:31,520
Speaker 1: I dated my ex boyfriend John with an H for

3252
02:27:31,600 --> 02:27:34,200
Speaker 1: four years and got serious enough where we started planning

3253
02:27:34,240 --> 02:27:36,800
Speaker 1: for our future weddings, kids, et cetera. I thought we

3254
02:27:36,800 --> 02:27:39,920
Speaker 1: were pretty happy, but last year he dumped me pretty suddenly.

3255
02:27:39,959 --> 02:27:41,760
Speaker 1: I tried to figure out what went wrong, but he

3256
02:27:41,840 --> 02:27:45,279
Speaker 1: said it was personal. It's not that it was not personal,

3257
02:27:45,360 --> 02:27:46,279
Speaker 1: it was personal.

3258
02:27:46,720 --> 02:27:51,360
Speaker 2: I am. Yeah. I think it probably means personal to him. Yeah,

3259
02:27:51,400 --> 02:27:53,480
Speaker 2: but it would be funny. It was like, yeah, I know,

3260
02:27:53,520 --> 02:27:54,720
Speaker 2: it's just like your personality.

3261
02:27:54,760 --> 02:27:55,560
Speaker 3: It's just business.

3262
02:27:55,800 --> 02:27:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just you.

3263
02:27:58,360 --> 02:27:59,959
Speaker 3: And that I should respect his space.

3264
02:28:00,200 --> 02:28:03,120
Speaker 1: During this time, my best friend Stacy and her fiance

3265
02:28:03,360 --> 02:28:06,240
Speaker 1: Tom were my rocks, letting me crash at their place,

3266
02:28:06,280 --> 02:28:09,920
Speaker 1: and just being overwhelmingly supportive and loving. When Stacy asked

3267
02:28:09,920 --> 02:28:11,600
Speaker 1: me to be her maid of honor, I thought it

3268
02:28:11,640 --> 02:28:14,400
Speaker 1: was a no brainer and I happily took to the task.

3269
02:28:14,680 --> 02:28:17,879
Speaker 1: Fast forward to what happened this weekend. The morning of

3270
02:28:18,000 --> 02:28:20,760
Speaker 1: the wedding, Tom asked me to meet him for breakfast

3271
02:28:20,959 --> 02:28:24,000
Speaker 1: super early in the morning, before all the festivities. I

3272
02:28:24,040 --> 02:28:27,039
Speaker 1: thought it was weird, but assumed he maybe wanted me

3273
02:28:27,160 --> 02:28:30,800
Speaker 1: to pass something onto Stacy. What happened instead was that

3274
02:28:30,879 --> 02:28:34,160
Speaker 1: Tom let me know a few days prior that Stacy.

3275
02:28:33,840 --> 02:28:37,400
Speaker 3: Admitted to him that she had an affair with John.

3276
02:28:37,720 --> 02:28:41,720
Speaker 2: Wait what Wait? John is Opie's ex fiance. Yea, Stacy's

3277
02:28:41,760 --> 02:28:45,000
Speaker 2: getting married to a friend to Tom. To Tom, and

3278
02:28:45,080 --> 02:28:48,320
Speaker 2: Stacy had an affair with John, her bestie had an

3279
02:28:48,360 --> 02:28:51,320
Speaker 2: affair with her with her wife they were together while

3280
02:28:51,360 --> 02:28:54,760
Speaker 2: they were together. Yikes, dude, that's like a double blow up.

3281
02:28:54,800 --> 02:28:57,160
Speaker 2: And now she won a relationship and you're about to

3282
02:28:57,160 --> 02:28:58,480
Speaker 2: blow up your marriage.

3283
02:28:58,160 --> 02:29:01,080
Speaker 1: Right, and now she's literally about to be a part

3284
02:29:01,360 --> 02:29:04,760
Speaker 1: of the wedding and the bride cheeted on her boyfriend.

3285
02:29:04,879 --> 02:29:08,280
Speaker 2: This is this is this is a terrible situation that

3286
02:29:08,440 --> 02:29:11,560
Speaker 2: should be resolved quickly with divorce.

3287
02:29:11,600 --> 02:29:13,240
Speaker 3: You're gonna go out on a lemon and say this

3288
02:29:13,280 --> 02:29:14,000
Speaker 3: is not good.

3289
02:29:14,160 --> 02:29:19,040
Speaker 2: Divorced tants divorce devorce worse. And that was what led

3290
02:29:19,280 --> 02:29:20,400
Speaker 2: to my breakup.

3291
02:29:20,560 --> 02:29:23,240
Speaker 1: He said that Stacy wanted to come clean to start

3292
02:29:23,280 --> 02:29:25,920
Speaker 1: their marriage fresh, and that he was forgiving her to

3293
02:29:26,040 --> 02:29:28,720
Speaker 1: move forward. He had gone back and forth between telling

3294
02:29:28,760 --> 02:29:31,440
Speaker 1: me and finally decided to spill the beans. I guess

3295
02:29:31,480 --> 02:29:34,200
Speaker 1: he had expected me to forgive Stacy too, because the

3296
02:29:34,240 --> 02:29:37,600
Speaker 1: affair was so long ago. The opposite pretty much happened,

3297
02:29:37,760 --> 02:29:41,400
Speaker 1: and I walked out on the wedding. Damn, go big

3298
02:29:41,480 --> 02:29:42,000
Speaker 1: or go home.

3299
02:29:42,320 --> 02:29:44,320
Speaker 2: That's exactly what you should do. Yeah, one hundred percent.

3300
02:29:44,360 --> 02:29:46,560
Speaker 1: It ended up causing a huge mess because I was

3301
02:29:46,600 --> 02:29:49,840
Speaker 1: basically running the whole show. Stacy made me do everything,

3302
02:29:49,920 --> 02:29:52,600
Speaker 1: so she didn't even know what was happening at certain

3303
02:29:52,640 --> 02:29:53,840
Speaker 1: times or who to call.

3304
02:29:53,920 --> 02:29:54,840
Speaker 2: Oh yikes.

3305
02:29:55,160 --> 02:29:57,959
Speaker 1: Not only that, but everyone realized that the maid of

3306
02:29:58,000 --> 02:29:59,640
Speaker 1: honor wasn't there.

3307
02:30:00,080 --> 02:30:02,320
Speaker 2: Damn. The only thing Daysey can do right is your

3308
02:30:02,400 --> 02:30:07,800
Speaker 2: husband for real. God, I'll try ex fiance out.

3309
02:30:06,800 --> 02:30:10,160
Speaker 1: Thoughts and bios of the party on her wedding page,

3310
02:30:10,240 --> 02:30:12,520
Speaker 1: so it was like clear that the maid of honor

3311
02:30:12,640 --> 02:30:15,320
Speaker 1: wasn't there, and news of the affair eventually got out

3312
02:30:15,360 --> 02:30:16,800
Speaker 1: because her cousin knew.

3313
02:30:16,920 --> 02:30:17,160
Speaker 2: John.

3314
02:30:17,280 --> 02:30:20,480
Speaker 1: Stacy and Tom have both been slandering me online now,

3315
02:30:20,600 --> 02:30:23,160
Speaker 1: saying that I ruined there once in a lifetime moment.

3316
02:30:23,240 --> 02:30:25,480
Speaker 1: Some of their friends are on their side, saying that

3317
02:30:25,520 --> 02:30:28,120
Speaker 1: I should have handled the situation more privately and at

3318
02:30:28,200 --> 02:30:31,800
Speaker 1: least stuck out the wedding since it was so last minute. Nah, dude, No,

3319
02:30:32,000 --> 02:30:33,200
Speaker 1: not at all, not at all.

3320
02:30:33,280 --> 02:30:36,039
Speaker 2: As soon as you sleep with my ex fiance, all

3321
02:30:36,040 --> 02:30:37,480
Speaker 2: bets are off done, We're over.

3322
02:30:37,680 --> 02:30:39,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have no commitment to you exactly.

3323
02:30:40,080 --> 02:30:43,199
Speaker 1: I personally don't know what Tom expected, but either way,

3324
02:30:43,320 --> 02:30:46,160
Speaker 1: I've been getting bombarded with texts and I heard that

3325
02:30:46,240 --> 02:30:48,480
Speaker 1: Stacy has been so upset that she had to take

3326
02:30:48,520 --> 02:30:50,760
Speaker 1: time off work, which does make me feel like the

3327
02:30:50,800 --> 02:30:56,600
Speaker 1: a hole no, especially since I've just been ignoring her calls. Okay, Stacy,

3328
02:30:56,720 --> 02:31:01,600
Speaker 1: Fuck Stacy. I'm curious to hear any of your cheating stories.

3329
02:31:01,640 --> 02:31:04,200
Speaker 1: Having been cheated on, what was the fallout? How did

3330
02:31:04,240 --> 02:31:06,879
Speaker 1: you deal with it? In a scenario like this, But

3331
02:31:07,640 --> 02:31:11,560
Speaker 1: I don't think that OP owes them anything, especially because

3332
02:31:11,720 --> 02:31:15,800
Speaker 1: you know, it's one thing to cheat on your fiance

3333
02:31:15,959 --> 02:31:18,800
Speaker 1: that ruins your marriage, right, so like, oh, peace, marriage

3334
02:31:18,840 --> 02:31:22,160
Speaker 1: was ruined. Then they tell her right before the wedding,

3335
02:31:22,400 --> 02:31:24,240
Speaker 1: so it's like, what do you expect?

3336
02:31:24,280 --> 02:31:25,119
Speaker 3: You were the one that.

3337
02:31:25,120 --> 02:31:28,720
Speaker 1: Flicked up Stacy and yeah and Tom to and Tom

3338
02:31:28,840 --> 02:31:30,160
Speaker 1: for not telling her sooner.

3339
02:31:30,200 --> 02:31:33,320
Speaker 2: Honestly, yeah, I feel it just bad for OP that

3340
02:31:33,480 --> 02:31:36,879
Speaker 2: like so much information was taken and or withheld from her.

3341
02:31:37,040 --> 02:31:40,119
Speaker 2: One hundred percent. Yeah, yeah, So I don't think Op

3342
02:31:40,280 --> 02:31:41,880
Speaker 2: is the a hole at all, not at all. Yeah.

3343
02:31:42,000 --> 02:31:43,760
Speaker 2: You know who also is not the ahole? Oo?

3344
02:31:44,000 --> 02:31:44,080
Speaker 3: Me?

3345
02:31:44,280 --> 02:31:47,760
Speaker 2: Because I just bought Ashley a nice villa in a

3346
02:31:47,800 --> 02:31:50,600
Speaker 2: bood for a weekend get away. Yes, that's right, that

3347
02:31:50,800 --> 02:31:53,360
Speaker 2: the Australian girl yep, that I've been kind of seeing

3348
02:31:53,360 --> 02:31:55,840
Speaker 2: while here. Mm hmm. Dude, I got the bath, but

3349
02:31:56,280 --> 02:31:58,840
Speaker 2: I got the bubble bath with rose pedals, and it

3350
02:31:58,840 --> 02:32:01,920
Speaker 2: has a rose pedals that is, you know, they got

3351
02:32:02,920 --> 02:32:03,959
Speaker 2: here's fucking rose.

3352
02:32:04,640 --> 02:32:06,480
Speaker 3: Want to see this ship? Yeah, let's let's let's take

3353
02:32:06,480 --> 02:32:07,960
Speaker 3: a look these rose pedals.

3354
02:32:08,959 --> 02:32:11,760
Speaker 2: Literally, I'm going to be so sad when I leave here.

3355
02:32:12,600 --> 02:32:14,240
Speaker 2: I'm ready for the depression.

3356
02:32:13,959 --> 02:32:14,640
Speaker 3: Trying to come with you.

3357
02:32:15,680 --> 02:32:19,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe that's going to be the series finale of

3358
02:32:19,360 --> 02:32:20,439
Speaker 2: Sam's Love Chronicles.

3359
02:32:20,440 --> 02:32:23,440
Speaker 3: Will we'll actually leave the island here.

3360
02:32:23,560 --> 02:32:26,640
Speaker 2: Look this, dude, Look what they have fucking heart on

3361
02:32:26,680 --> 02:32:27,720
Speaker 2: the bed. That's cute.

3362
02:32:27,760 --> 02:32:30,360
Speaker 1: Also, I love how you're doing this romantic get away.

3363
02:32:30,480 --> 02:32:32,640
Speaker 1: Also on my third anniversary.

3364
02:32:33,080 --> 02:32:35,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to celebrate your third anniverse, right, I know? Wow?

3365
02:32:35,680 --> 02:32:38,240
Speaker 1: Thank you You're you're You're so inclusive man, just like

3366
02:32:38,640 --> 02:32:39,920
Speaker 1: you want to celebrate celebrating.

3367
02:32:40,440 --> 02:32:43,320
Speaker 3: I so appreciate she'd time our orgasms.

3368
02:32:43,400 --> 02:32:47,959
Speaker 2: Wow, that's at the same time, I know that I

3369
02:32:48,000 --> 02:32:52,080
Speaker 2: know that's what what my girl wants, is me timing

3370
02:32:52,120 --> 02:32:54,360
Speaker 2: my orgasms with my podcast co host.

3371
02:32:54,640 --> 02:32:59,080
Speaker 1: She says, nope, she's right over there. Little does he

3372
02:32:59,200 --> 02:33:02,560
Speaker 1: know she is right behind him the whole time.

3373
02:33:04,040 --> 02:33:06,240
Speaker 3: Let's get to his next story.

3374
02:33:06,800 --> 02:33:10,400
Speaker 2: Suffer. My boyfriend is a short king and I just

3375
02:33:10,520 --> 02:33:12,240
Speaker 2: wore eight inch heals to the wedding.

3376
02:33:12,480 --> 02:33:14,440
Speaker 3: He's furious, So am I the asshole?

3377
02:33:14,720 --> 02:33:16,600
Speaker 1: You know, I really don't think that we should talk

3378
02:33:16,640 --> 02:33:18,480
Speaker 1: about Cody co like that, You know what I mean.

3379
02:33:18,640 --> 02:33:22,000
Speaker 2: He's a good guy, good guy, he needs some hgh.

3380
02:33:22,280 --> 02:33:24,520
Speaker 2: It's got to get human growth hormones pumped up. You

3381
02:33:24,560 --> 02:33:26,840
Speaker 2: know what I mean. He's having a baby, actually having

3382
02:33:26,879 --> 02:33:29,800
Speaker 2: a baby. He is he is? That's crazy. Yeah, dude,

3383
02:33:29,840 --> 02:33:32,640
Speaker 2: could you imagine? I can't wait for the daddy car.

3384
02:33:32,760 --> 02:33:33,600
Speaker 3: They're going to start a.

3385
02:33:33,560 --> 02:33:37,760
Speaker 1: Podcast where I have a head out of Bertha like her?

3386
02:33:38,120 --> 02:33:42,000
Speaker 1: What Kelsey's his circle time? It's the Baby's gonna be playtime, playtime.

3387
02:33:42,120 --> 02:33:45,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, Cody's trains actually becomes like a coach trade.

3388
02:33:45,480 --> 02:33:46,879
Speaker 3: And train hire us.

3389
02:33:47,000 --> 02:33:49,560
Speaker 2: All right, So I have a high heel story like

3390
02:33:49,680 --> 02:33:52,080
Speaker 2: today's story. Oh is this from? Oh this is from

3391
02:33:52,200 --> 02:33:56,000
Speaker 2: our sash Okayop shows.

3392
02:33:54,879 --> 02:33:56,640
Speaker 3: By Happy Kitty Meow meow.

3393
02:33:57,360 --> 02:33:59,720
Speaker 2: I love something to this story on our subredit our

3394
02:33:59,760 --> 02:34:02,160
Speaker 2: sash Okop show. So if you want your story submitted,

3395
02:34:02,200 --> 02:34:02,600
Speaker 2: go over there.

3396
02:34:02,720 --> 02:34:03,800
Speaker 3: Just had a thousand there by the way.

3397
02:34:03,840 --> 02:34:07,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go Okay. So as a teenager and young twenties,

3398
02:34:07,680 --> 02:34:10,160
Speaker 2: I would wear heels all the time. I'm pretty practiced

3399
02:34:10,160 --> 02:34:12,600
Speaker 2: at wearing them, walk well on them, and can run

3400
02:34:12,680 --> 02:34:17,680
Speaker 2: in heels up to six inches tall. Wow, that's crazy

3401
02:34:17,720 --> 02:34:20,199
Speaker 2: in sanity. I was dating this guy who was four

3402
02:34:20,240 --> 02:34:22,640
Speaker 2: inches taller than me. He wouldn't let me wear heels

3403
02:34:22,680 --> 02:34:25,240
Speaker 2: over three inches, so he was still taller than me.

3404
02:34:25,400 --> 02:34:27,760
Speaker 2: Red flag. We were going to a wedding for his cousin,

3405
02:34:27,840 --> 02:34:29,920
Speaker 2: and I had planned to wear some nice ballet flat

3406
02:34:30,000 --> 02:34:32,400
Speaker 2: so I would be comfortable but still appropriate, but he

3407
02:34:32,560 --> 02:34:36,440
Speaker 2: demanded that I wear heels. Long story short, several temper

3408
02:34:36,520 --> 02:34:38,959
Speaker 2: transtrooms later, I showed up with him to the wedding

3409
02:34:39,000 --> 02:34:41,760
Speaker 2: in kitten heels and insisted we sit near the front,

3410
02:34:41,879 --> 02:34:44,119
Speaker 2: not the very front, just not weigh in the back

3411
02:34:44,360 --> 02:34:47,080
Speaker 2: guys so particular for this guy. Yeah, you've broken up

3412
02:34:47,080 --> 02:34:49,120
Speaker 2: with them. Once most of the guests had shuffled to

3413
02:34:49,160 --> 02:34:51,680
Speaker 2: their seats, we had a few minutes before things got going.

3414
02:34:51,800 --> 02:34:55,000
Speaker 2: I excused myself to the bathroom and changed shoes, and

3415
02:34:55,080 --> 02:34:59,959
Speaker 2: guess what. I came out in eight inch heels. Boom

3416
02:35:00,520 --> 02:35:02,720
Speaker 2: walk past most of the sitting guests to get back.

3417
02:35:03,040 --> 02:35:05,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I top out at ten inch heels. For

3418
02:35:05,680 --> 02:35:10,320
Speaker 2: those curious, ten inches, ten inches, that's just spilt. What

3419
02:35:10,440 --> 02:35:13,360
Speaker 2: is ten inch heel? Ten inch heels?

3420
02:35:13,800 --> 02:35:14,280
Speaker 3: No way?

3421
02:35:14,680 --> 02:35:16,160
Speaker 2: Oh, I guess it's not that crazy.

3422
02:35:16,400 --> 02:35:16,959
Speaker 3: Let me see.

3423
02:35:17,080 --> 02:35:19,920
Speaker 2: I mean it's kind of crazy. Wait wait, actually no,

3424
02:35:20,040 --> 02:35:26,000
Speaker 2: this is this is fucking crazy. This is fucking crazy. Yeah,

3425
02:35:26,080 --> 02:35:30,720
Speaker 2: that's nuts, yo. I mean, I guess the platform helps it. Now.

3426
02:35:30,800 --> 02:35:37,320
Speaker 2: That's that's that's sexy. Plus size heels. Ten Am I

3427
02:35:37,360 --> 02:35:39,080
Speaker 2: attracted to this? I don't think so.

3428
02:35:39,160 --> 02:35:40,840
Speaker 1: It's almost like you know when guys get like a

3429
02:35:40,879 --> 02:35:43,760
Speaker 1: pompadoor that's like, wsh, super crazy.

3430
02:35:43,760 --> 02:35:44,800
Speaker 3: It like becomes too much.

3431
02:35:45,040 --> 02:35:47,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure you rock them though, Yeah you'd be

3432
02:35:48,280 --> 02:35:50,560
Speaker 1: yeah Katie kidding me, Mel Yeah.

3433
02:35:50,240 --> 02:35:54,200
Speaker 2: Ten inch heels, that's it's impressive. It might just be

3434
02:35:54,280 --> 02:35:58,080
Speaker 2: hot by the pure skill involved. Yeah, walking on them,

3435
02:35:58,840 --> 02:36:02,480
Speaker 2: tightrope walker like. Also, I was watching Ashley at rock

3436
02:36:02,480 --> 02:36:05,960
Speaker 2: climb the other day. Uh oh oh, oh my goodness,

3437
02:36:06,040 --> 02:36:09,920
Speaker 2: flexing them triceps and those booty steps, oh, heels, clicking

3438
02:36:09,920 --> 02:36:12,080
Speaker 2: and drawing attention the whole way. He stood up when

3439
02:36:12,120 --> 02:36:14,120
Speaker 2: I returned to let me into my seat, and then

3440
02:36:14,240 --> 02:36:16,080
Speaker 2: noticed I was now four inches taller.

3441
02:36:16,280 --> 02:36:18,640
Speaker 3: Uh oh, then he was the four inches taller than

3442
02:36:18,680 --> 02:36:19,000
Speaker 3: he was.

3443
02:36:19,200 --> 02:36:22,400
Speaker 2: Damn. He turned a lovely shade of purple, sat down

3444
02:36:22,480 --> 02:36:25,400
Speaker 2: and said some pretty nasty things to me. I had fun,

3445
02:36:25,600 --> 02:36:28,080
Speaker 2: danced and chatted with people while he moped and let

3446
02:36:28,120 --> 02:36:30,120
Speaker 2: me have it in the car. I just dropped him

3447
02:36:30,160 --> 02:36:32,040
Speaker 2: at home and told him to not call me again.

3448
02:36:32,120 --> 02:36:34,959
Speaker 2: He tried to backtrack and apologize and begged for a while,

3449
02:36:35,040 --> 02:36:37,320
Speaker 2: and then moved on to calling me an e fing

3450
02:36:37,560 --> 02:36:41,000
Speaker 2: bach and a stupid slut. I never replied, good riddance.

3451
02:36:41,240 --> 02:36:43,160
Speaker 2: I looked e fing hot at the wedding and my

3452
02:36:43,280 --> 02:36:45,560
Speaker 2: ex succumbed to his Napoleon syndrome.

3453
02:36:45,760 --> 02:36:49,879
Speaker 3: Waterloo bitch, damn. I love that.

3454
02:36:50,040 --> 02:36:52,160
Speaker 1: I love that because, like I think a lot of

3455
02:36:52,200 --> 02:36:54,880
Speaker 1: people might be like, Okay, he's that's an a whole

3456
02:36:54,920 --> 02:36:56,720
Speaker 1: move on his part, but it's just one time. But

3457
02:36:56,760 --> 02:37:00,360
Speaker 1: I think it's so it's it's the representative burg, you know,

3458
02:37:00,680 --> 02:37:03,200
Speaker 1: Like the fact that he's just so controlling over like

3459
02:37:03,400 --> 02:37:07,760
Speaker 1: that is really suggests that he's very insecure.

3460
02:37:08,160 --> 02:37:11,320
Speaker 2: He's very insecure and totally insecure. Bro give me give

3461
02:37:11,360 --> 02:37:14,680
Speaker 2: me a giant woman. I'm down. Give me an Amazonian.

3462
02:37:15,040 --> 02:37:17,640
Speaker 2: I will climb that thing like an eucalyptus tree. You would,

3463
02:37:17,680 --> 02:37:22,600
Speaker 2: and I'm a koala wow, just smear in five girly yeah,

3464
02:37:22,760 --> 02:37:26,160
Speaker 2: in ten inch heels. Give me a seven foot three

3465
02:37:26,160 --> 02:37:27,280
Speaker 2: girl climb that chip.

3466
02:37:27,280 --> 02:37:30,560
Speaker 1: Maybe that's a new video is sam Dates only seven

3467
02:37:30,600 --> 02:37:32,560
Speaker 1: feet women?

3468
02:37:32,720 --> 02:37:33,039
Speaker 5: Yeah?

3469
02:37:34,640 --> 02:37:37,920
Speaker 2: So eight eight feet tall with the heels, with the

3470
02:37:37,959 --> 02:37:39,680
Speaker 2: heels with the heels. I think we should do it

3471
02:37:39,800 --> 02:37:42,680
Speaker 2: me up. But with that, I think let's wrap this

3472
02:37:42,680 --> 02:37:45,440
Speaker 2: this episode up. We love you. We've been having some

3473
02:37:45,560 --> 02:37:48,040
Speaker 2: guest episodes. Have you been reading some of the comments.

3474
02:37:48,040 --> 02:37:51,279
Speaker 2: You guys are vicious, just some of our guests. That's true,

3475
02:37:51,640 --> 02:37:54,120
Speaker 2: you guys are vicious. I mean, we love you, but

3476
02:37:54,360 --> 02:37:56,640
Speaker 2: the ok O p r V could could bite off

3477
02:37:56,640 --> 02:38:00,120
Speaker 2: some people's head. Y'all are passionate, you know passion. We

3478
02:38:00,160 --> 02:38:03,760
Speaker 2: do love that pashion absolutely, but yeah, we'll see you soon. Peace,