1 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: Crime stories with Nancy Grace Well happening now. Several law 2 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: enforcement agencies are searching for a teen missing out of 3 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 1: Saint Landry Parish. This sends Laura Levine joins us Live 4 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 1: in the studio with more details. It's a major man 5 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: hunt underway for a port Berry teen who was last 6 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: seen on Thursday and is believed to have run away 7 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: with a forty seven year old man. The authorities say 8 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: fifteen year old a Domina Spell of port Berry was 9 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: last seen Thursday morning around seven getting off a school 10 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: bus at the port Berry High School. Spell is described 11 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: as a white female, standing five foot tall inches with long, 12 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: light brown hair and blue hazel eyes. Chief Dion Boudreau 13 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: says she may have changed her appearance to conceal her identity. 14 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: Now police believe she is with this man, forty seven 15 00:00:54,840 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: year old Corey Shane Disottel, also of port Berry. Multiple agencies, 16 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: including port Berry Police, the Federal Borough of Investigations, the 17 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: United States Marshall Service, Louisiana State Police, and Saint Lazie 18 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: Paris Sheriff's Office have come together to find Spell again. 19 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: Authorities believe they may be traveling in a silver two 20 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: thousand and three Honda Civic Police are asking the public, 21 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 1: friends and classmates of Domina to come forward with any 22 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: information or tips, no matter how significant they may or 23 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: may not seem. I Meancy Grace, this is crime Stories. 24 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: Thank you for being with us. Those are our friends 25 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: at k l f YTV. A little Louisiana girl goes 26 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: missing and then to the shock of friends and family, 27 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: they put the pieces together and wanderer has she disappeared 28 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: with a forty seven year old father who happened to 29 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: be a friend of the family. With me an all 30 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: star panel to break it down and put it back 31 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: together again. First to Rob Molinski, Crime online dot Com 32 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: investigative report, tell me about the disappearance of Domiana's spell. 33 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: How did it happen? Well, Nancy, she gets on the 34 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: bus and goes to school and the next thing you know, 35 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: she is seen crossing the street and getting into a 36 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: strange man's car. And this area of Louisiana, I just 37 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: want to point this out for people that don't know 38 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: where this is. This is about an hour west of 39 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: Baton Rouge, about two hours northwest of New Orleans and 40 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:35,679 Speaker 1: very close to the ey Tent. So when you get 41 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:39,679 Speaker 1: into a car in this area of the country. Could 42 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: you could be anywhere? You could go all the way 43 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: to Florida and all the way to California the other way. Yeah, 44 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm taking a close look at this little girl and 45 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: she looks a lot to me like a very young 46 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 1: Lisa Lobe. She's got the cute little glasses that she's wearing, 47 00:02:55,840 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: long chestnut brown hair back off of her face. Beautiful, beautiful, 48 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: perfect smile. I'm talking about a little girl, Domiana Spell 49 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: who disappears. Now you know what is interesting and I 50 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: want to go to John Cardillo, former NYPD special guests 51 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: joining us today along with Ashley Wilcott, Kathleen Murphy, and 52 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: Karen Stark. John done a ton of work with National 53 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: Center for Missing Exploited Children. Very close to my heart. John, 54 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: I was speaking the other day to Mark Class, our friend, 55 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: and he hit me it was like a ton of bricks. 56 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: Over one third of child abductions take place at a 57 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: bus route going to the school bus leaving the school bus. 58 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: A lot to do with school buses and school routes 59 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: getting to school. And here is another example that is 60 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: a huge number. In fact, it's almost thirty five percent 61 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: of child abductions take place in and around school bus stops. 62 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: John Yeah, they did well. It's an opportunistic environment, right, 63 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: that's an opportunistic scene. Let me also say a few 64 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: people have done as much as Mark Class to raise 65 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: awareness and to really take make a dent in these offenders. 66 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: The National Center from Missing and Exploited Children, thankfully, when 67 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: they began and they were putting kids on milk carties, man, see, 68 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: the recovery rate of children was only about four percent. 69 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: You know when you say, actually, I'm gonna throw this 70 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,799 Speaker 1: to Kathleen Murphy, family law and divorce lawyer, Kathleen john 71 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: A is right. It's an opportunistic crime. And even though 72 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 1: this little girl walked across the street on her own 73 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: two legs, that does not mean this is not a crime. 74 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:45,919 Speaker 1: Taking a little team schoolgirl out of her Louisiana Parish 75 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: on her way to school bus. Whether she got into 76 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: the car willingly, it doesn't matter. That's still a crime. 77 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: You're right, Absolutely, she's a child. And I love that 78 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: you are putting that out there because it's so easy 79 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: to blame this fifteen year old for making choices to 80 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: do this. She was manipulated by an adult, and we 81 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: have to draw that line very clearly. This little girl 82 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: goes missing right after school. Ashley Wilcot, judge, lawyer, anchor 83 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: you can find her Ashley Wilcott dot com. When Cardillo 84 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 1: says an opportunistic crime, nearly forty percent of child abductions 85 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: take place in and around a school bus stop. What 86 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: does that mean? An opportunistic crime? It means that that's 87 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: where they have the opportunity to find their victim. When 88 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: you have a fifteen year old and a forty seven 89 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 1: year old disappear, guess what. She's the victim, He's the perpetrator. 90 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 1: Anyone who wants to find a young child is going 91 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: to go somewhere where they're getting off the school bus. 92 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: It's just like if you look at maps that show 93 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: where sexual perpetrators are for young kids, guess what. They 94 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: often live as close as they can to a school. Opportunistic, opportunistic. 95 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: They know the child is getting on and off the 96 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 1: school bus. They know that typically the parent is not there. 97 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: They know that they will be lost in a sea 98 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: of cars and yellow school buses. I will never forget, 99 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 1: and I'll tell you it's what I just put in 100 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: my book that I just turned in. Don't be a victim. 101 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:27,239 Speaker 1: When my makeup artist shays on we were almost ready 102 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: to go live on the show, which is you know, 103 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 1: started at eight o'clock every week night at HLM. She 104 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: gets a call her son Arlie is missing. And it 105 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 1: happened in and around a school bus at the end 106 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: of the day, where there's a sea of thousands of children. 107 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: There's tons of school buses in line and trying to 108 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: pull out in traffic. You're trying not to let any 109 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: children get run over. And in the midst of all 110 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: of that, Arlie goes missing. And I can't tell you 111 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: what was running through my mind, trying to make her 112 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: feel better, trying to get her out of the building, 113 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: trying to get her home to Arlie, I had to 114 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 1: go on the air. It was I will never forget it. 115 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: As it turns out, Arlie was okay, but it's a big, 116 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: long story about how he goes missing at school bus time. 117 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: In this case, a little teen girl in her parish 118 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: there in Louisiana, not too far from Baton Rouge, disappears 119 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: in the mad rush of after school getting on the bus. 120 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: Did she go willingly? Did she go with a man 121 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: we believe to be Corey Shane Disotel, a family friend. 122 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: Take a listen to this. A school called my mom 123 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: when she didn't show up to home room. So that's 124 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: when we found out, and I think the police were 125 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: contacted right after the school contact with my mom. Domiana 126 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: Spell was last seen getting off a school bus at 127 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: Port Berry High School on Thursday at seven am. She 128 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 1: is believed to be traveling with forty seven year old 129 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: Corey Dissotel in its silver two thousand and three Honda Civic. 130 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: I spoke to Dommi and as sisters, who said when 131 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: they found out their sister was missing, they immediately thought 132 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: about Dissattel. Had a feeling she had ran away with them. 133 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: What's that? From what my family is so many they 134 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: have had notes that they had been planning on running 135 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: away somewhere in Mississippi. The sisters tell me Dommi Anda 136 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: had history with a man. She was having a secret 137 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: conversation through like letters and her a cell phone that 138 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,319 Speaker 1: nobody knew she had until she was found with it. 139 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 1: They say they believed their fifteen year old sister was 140 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 1: manipulated by forty seven year old Dissotel prior to them 141 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: running away together. He did, you know, have her believing 142 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: that he was in love with her and wanted to 143 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: be with her. But despite everything that's happened, they just 144 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: want their sister back in their arms. If she is 145 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:53,719 Speaker 1: watching it, just know that we want you home no 146 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:57,079 Speaker 1: matter where. Would really care and we're on your side 147 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 1: like we just want her safe at home. Spells family 148 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: spent the last week handing out flyers searching for the 149 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,599 Speaker 1: team after she left port Berry High School in a 150 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: car with forty seven year old Shane Distill, left without 151 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: a dress. Spells sister Jerry Crater helped with that search 152 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: as soon as she learned her sister was a missing 153 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: a nightmare come true. You know it only happens in movies. 154 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 1: Occordy Dispell's family, Corey Distill was a trusted family friend, 155 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 1: and they believe Distill manipulated her into leaving, so he 156 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: should have known different. You know, a family friend my 157 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: rare end. A family friend doesn't run off with your 158 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: little girl. A family friend doesn't buy your little girl 159 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: a secret cell phone. A family friend doesn't hatch up 160 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: an abduction plan secret away from his so called friends 161 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: and steal their daughter and travel. We think thousands of 162 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: miles away so as not to be found. And bottom line, 163 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: a family friend doesn't target your little girl as a 164 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: sex predator. Wood. That is no family friend joining me 165 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: right now, Karen Start psychologist Karen dot com Karen, I 166 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 1: mean it's hard for me to even say those words. 167 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: What about impulse control. It's much more than impost control, Nancy, 168 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: because this guy, he's after her sexually. There's no doubt 169 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: about it, and it has nothing to do with impost control. 170 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: He's just ruled by the wrong part of his body 171 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: and he wants this girl. He doesn't care that he's 172 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 1: a family friend. All he cares about is finding a 173 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: way to get her to be with him. And kids 174 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: are so impressionable. Here's a little girl, she's at the 175 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: perfect age where she has a crush and there's a 176 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: guy who's trying to persuade her that he's the one 177 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: for her. I have no doubt about it. I wish 178 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: you could see this little girl's picture like I'm looking at. 179 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: You can see it, go to crime online dot com. 180 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: She's got I mean, I don't know how a little girl, 181 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: a teen girl has this, but she's got her Skinlet's 182 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: like porcelain. It looks like a white china cup. There's 183 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 1: not a single blemish on her skin. She's got beautiful, 184 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: big brown eyes, she's got a little ears pierced, long 185 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: chestnut brown hair, a perfect smile. Somebody must have put 186 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: braces on her, and she just looks like the cutest 187 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 1: little thing. She looks like she should be going to 188 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: four eight Glass or out to sell girls scout cookies 189 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: for Pete's sake. Ashley Wilcot, judge, lawyer, founder, Ashley Wilcot 190 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: dot com. Ashley, you know I don't even think about 191 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: the children. Well, I guess I do because of my 192 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,959 Speaker 1: line of business, but most people don't think about their 193 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 1: children at school. Once your child gets to school, you 194 00:11:55,720 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: assume everything is okay. That is not true, Ashley, No, 195 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: it's not true at all. And let's talk about again 196 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 1: crime of opportunity, kids getting on and off of school buses. 197 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 1: Do you know kids getting off of school buses is 198 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 1: one of the primary times that sex trafficking perpetrators target 199 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: young children, and so it's always a crime of opportunity 200 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: that is geared around them getting off school buses. So, unfortunately, 201 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: you assume your children are safe at school, But anymore 202 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: there's no assuming. It's it's frightening when they are perpetrators. 203 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: They groom these children, they target these children too. Robin 204 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: Willinski Crime online dot Com investigative reporter, author of Beautiful Life. 205 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 1: See a side behind the case he Anthony Trial. Find 206 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: it on Amazon. Robert Willinski, tell me what we know 207 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: about this guy, Corey Shane Disstel relationship? Why is he 208 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: the best friend of the family. Where did they go 209 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 1: to high school to gather college? Next door neighbors? What 210 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 1: do we know about him? Yeah, he knows the parents, 211 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 1: and he befriends the parents, and they have some sort 212 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 1: of a deer hunting license together. And this guy Nancy 213 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: has a ton of debt. Wait a minute, Wait a minute. 214 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: I want to look at how we talk about that 215 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: for just one moment, the deer hunting thing. Look, you know, 216 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: I'm a victim of gun violence. But on the other hand, 217 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: I had to train to learn to use a gun 218 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:29,559 Speaker 1: to be a prosecutor, and was the best female shot 219 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:32,839 Speaker 1: at the time in the District Attorney's office. But when 220 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: I didn't have to be a round a gun, I 221 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: didn't want to be around a gun. That aside deer 222 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: hunting buddy, let me tell you something. I don't know 223 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: if anybody I would be bet Kathleen Murphy might be 224 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: the closest person on this panel that has knows anything 225 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: about deer hunting or hunting. But I do know that 226 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:53,439 Speaker 1: when you're up in a deer stand with somebody for 227 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:56,439 Speaker 1: eight or nine hours, you get to be friends, all right, 228 00:13:56,480 --> 00:14:00,079 Speaker 1: because you're there. You can't really, you can't leave. You 229 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 1: don't even leave to tt Okay, now, I don't want 230 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: to go down that lane anymore, but you're in there. 231 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 1: So if he is a deer hunting buddy with this 232 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: little girl's dad or family, they've spent a lot of 233 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: time together, all right, Kathleen Murphy, I don't I don't 234 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: know anything about your hunting history, but I mean, when 235 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: you're up in a deer stand with somebody, you're in there, 236 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 1: you get to be friends. It's like being on a 237 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: long trip in a car that you can't get out of. Listen, Matthew, 238 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 1: I have a case right now, and I'll be brief. 239 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: But the father wants to have his deer hunting buddy 240 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: be the supervisor of some easter visits this weekend, and 241 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: my client's freaking out and it's just like, no, don't 242 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: trust the sky. And so you're on point. There are 243 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: some concerns there because you're sitting up in a deer 244 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: stand drinking beer with a loaded gun. I mean, I 245 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 1: don't want to paint at all with them the broad brush, 246 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: but I mean this is how they got to be friends. 247 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: Robin will Lynsky, This whole thing smells just like Tad Cummings. 248 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 1: Remember him, the high school teacher that told all the 249 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: students he was a secret agent, did black ops and 250 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. And he runs off with a little 251 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: thirteen or fourteen year old girl. He keeps her in 252 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: some hippie commune on the other side of the country. 253 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: Everybody's half naked, and even the people in the commune 254 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: kick him out, okay, for his behavior. He was a 255 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: high school teacher. Takes this little girl, Robin Willinsky, his 256 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: dear hunting buddy. Are you kidding me? That's the friendship. 257 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: It really disturbs me. And here's why, Nancy, this guy 258 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: has an ex wife. Here's what really bothers me about. 259 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: I bet he does. And I'm sure there's a reason 260 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: she's an X. I'm sure there's a reason she's left, 261 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: that's correct. And when I look at her picture his 262 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: ex wife whose age appropriate by the way, she's in 263 00:15:56,400 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: her forties. Of his ex wife, to my eye, this 264 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: fifteen year old, oh yeah, don't tell me, it looks 265 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: like Dummianna in thirty years exactly. If you put glasses 266 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: on this woman, this could be her daughter. And VIC 267 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 1: is a young version. When you look at the pictures, 268 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: and you know, I examine all these photographs for you, 269 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: this little girl with glasses looks just like his ex wife. 270 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: And I think he had eyes for this girl and 271 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: was buddy buddy with the parents. And he's your tree 272 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: service man. He's a guy that cuts down the tree 273 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: that's hovering over your house that's causing a problem in 274 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: a storm. And he's the tree service guy. You know, 275 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: we'd have to look it up if he ever serviced 276 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 1: their trees. But he had a lot of debt, and 277 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: he's got an ex wife who in my mind looks 278 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: just like this girl in thirty years. Okay, can I 279 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: just throw something out there. John Cardillo, former NYPD, that's 280 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: the last that's the last person I went on my 281 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: bad side is a former NYPD. Done a lot of 282 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 1: work with Nickma National Center Missing Exported Children. Okay, I 283 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: hate to keep talking about my book, which is not 284 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: even on the market yet for anybody to buy. So 285 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: this is not a plug. But in the future if 286 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: you do want to buy, it's called don't be a victim. 287 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: I just finished researching and writing an exhaustive list on 288 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: all sorts of topics. One of them is people coming 289 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: to your home. Okay, call me crazy. You won't be 290 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 1: the first, John Cordillo. You'll hear all the ladies in 291 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 1: the rest of the panel laughing in the background. But 292 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: when someone comes to the house to let's just say, 293 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 1: fix the cable, fix the this, do that, blah blah. 294 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: I take the children to the back, I put them 295 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 1: in their room and go. You can be on your 296 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: devices for the next hour. They're in heaven because they 297 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: have a time limit on their all their electronic devices. 298 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: Because you don't know these people, Why would you befriend 299 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,959 Speaker 1: the tree guy. You don't know him, you don't know 300 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: anything about him. He could be a sex predator for 301 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: all I know. I mean, why I give him a 302 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 1: bottle of water, I say goodbye, thank you, lock the door. Yeah. Look, 303 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 1: not only aren't you not or how should I say 304 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 1: they are You're not crazy, You're spot on, because we 305 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,239 Speaker 1: remember a very famous case, the Elizabeth Smart case. They 306 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,880 Speaker 1: brought a guy who was some shians the Smart home 307 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 1: to do some handyman work. He saw the two pretty 308 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 1: little blonde girls and then came through the window one 309 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 1: night and abducted Elizabeth Smart. So no, that's great, great advice. 310 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: I'll also add when the FBI did an undercover investigation 311 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: on NAMBLA, that pedophile group, the North American Man Boy 312 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: Love Association, they found that they would frequent bus stops right, 313 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: so everything we've been talking about, but for the listeners 314 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:54,159 Speaker 1: or parents, playgrounds, sporting events, and shopping malls. They loved 315 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: shopping malls right after school from about two thirty to 316 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 1: five pm. These groups of pedophiles would frequent shopping malls 317 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: and scope children. So this is very very real. People 318 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: are not being reactionary or overly cautious when they tell 319 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 1: their kids to be careful or like you do get 320 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: your kids out of the line of sight of someone 321 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,160 Speaker 1: you don't know, and I like what you said, tell 322 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 1: your children to be careful. That's like driving down Third 323 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: Avenue in Manhattan and yelling out the window. Because no 324 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: matter how many times they run these experiments with children, 325 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 1: you say, don't get in the car with a stranger, 326 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 1: don't get in the car with a stranger, blah blah blah. 327 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 1: Then they do a little task. They always get in 328 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: the car because they're children. They don't know any better. 329 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 1: Just like this little girl, Domiana Spell getting in the 330 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: car with the so called family friend and disappears. The 331 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: FBI joins the surge. We're missing fifteen year old girl 332 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: who may have run away with an older man. Authorities 333 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:57,199 Speaker 1: believe Louisiana teen Domina Spell ran away with Corian Distaltel, 334 00:19:57,359 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: a forty seven year old father of three. Her family 335 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 1: says she baby set for their family. They contacted police 336 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 1: her family. That is when they discovered a number of 337 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 1: text messages from him to their daughter. Jemina was last 338 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: seen on Thursday getting off of her school bus. You're 339 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 1: hearing from our friends at krt K. Wow when I 340 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 1: heard her laying that out, just like that to Ashley Wilcot, 341 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: judge lawyer anchor at Ashley Wilcot dot com. Ashley, this 342 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 1: took a lot of planning. Just stick with me. You 343 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: may know more about the planning than I do, but 344 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: I do know this much. She had a secret cell phone. 345 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 1: She didn't come up with that idea, and she didn't 346 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 1: buy that number one. They had a plan for him 347 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 1: to pick her up at a certain time and be 348 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: off with her, and for them to drive thousands of 349 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: miles without contacting mom and dad. This whole babysitting rus 350 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:58,920 Speaker 1: She was allegedly babysitting from one of his grandchildren. There 351 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 1: was no grandchild. He was picking her up under the 352 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: guise of babysitting and taking her away for long stretches 353 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:12,119 Speaker 1: of time in the evening. There was no babysitting. This 354 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: had been going on for some time. Ashley. Yeah, so Nancy, 355 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 1: this is grooming. This is what perpetrators do. And I 356 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,160 Speaker 1: have to back up everybody describes, Oh, he was a 357 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: best friend of the family of the father. If it's 358 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: a best friend, you're gonna know whether or not they 359 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,719 Speaker 1: have grandchildren. So ay, it wasn't a true best friend. 360 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 1: B I would suggest that this perpetrator back it up. 361 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 1: I think he started grooming when he became best friends 362 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: with the father. I think that's part of the process. 363 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 1: And I have seen cases before me as a judge, 364 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 1: in which the perpetrator starts at the very beginning to 365 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:51,160 Speaker 1: groom and find a way to have access to a 366 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: child that they want to victimize. That's exactly what he 367 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: did in this case. You're right in the sense that 368 00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: he was spiriting her away and then he would give 369 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 1: her money every weekend, leading her parents to think she 370 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: was babysitting. You know, I'm looking at a picture right now, Asha, 371 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 1: I know you have a daughter about the age of Lucy's. 372 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:18,239 Speaker 1: And this looks like an Instagram And wait, no, no, 373 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 1: is it Snapchat where you can put flowers on your 374 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 1: head and give yourself. Oh thank you, Jackie for spending 375 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 1: your leisure time when you could be working on our 376 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 1: program putting like a dear nose on yourself. But okay, 377 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:34,159 Speaker 1: this one has little hearts all over the picture, and 378 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: she looks like she's ten years old. She precious. Look 379 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: at this, Jackie, and she's got little hearts all over. 380 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 1: This is a little kid sucked into this. Back to 381 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 1: the pre planning of the kidnapped Kathleen Murphy, I mean 382 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 1: this took a lot of planning on his part, on 383 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 1: the part of Corey Shane Distel. He may not have 384 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: done this for the first time. He may have tried 385 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:05,640 Speaker 1: to groom other children. If he's so good at grooming 386 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 1: this child when the parents know him, and yet their 387 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 1: daughter's going over there to babysit for a non existent child. 388 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: That's concerning. Now listen to this, guys, You're never gonna 389 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 1: believe how bold he was. To Karen Stark Psychologists joining 390 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 1: us today out of Manhattan. You can find her at 391 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: Karen Stark dot com. Listen to this. Neighbors saw a 392 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: man sneaking into Domianna's bedroom through the window. Her parents 393 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: call police and that is when an actual investigation first began, 394 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: but they couldn't find anything out. They could never prove anything. 395 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: How bold is that, Karen, start to be sneaking into 396 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 1: the window? Oh, because bold is making up that he 397 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: has a granddaughter. And none of it surprises me, Nancy, 398 00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: because once a perpetrator is like the way that this 399 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: man was, it was in his mind he had a plan. 400 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: He was definitely going to get this girl to be 401 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: interested in him and find any way he could to 402 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: get her out of that house and to go with him. 403 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 1: So none of it's surprising. I got another question for you, Karen. 404 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 1: But the boldness of going actually into the home, in 405 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:27,199 Speaker 1: and out through the window to have her. You know, 406 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 1: I'm looking at something Robin Lensky told me about his creditors. 407 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what this actually says about him, but 408 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 1: lots and lots of credit cards, Discover card Chase, the 409 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,679 Speaker 1: La Capitol Federal Credit Union. But listen to this, the 410 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 1: Louisiana Department of Revenue and Tax the IRS. I mean, 411 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 1: when you mess with them, you are playing with fire playing. 412 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 1: I always looking at al Capone he murdered. I don't 413 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 1: know how many people, dozens of people personally and by hit. 414 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 1: He finally got put in jail by the I R S. 415 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm looking at this guy's list of creditors. 416 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 1: It goes all the way back to Fanny May. Remember 417 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 1: that where you would get student loans, Sally May. This 418 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:24,400 Speaker 1: is a long standing pattern of shirking responsibility, care and start, 419 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 1: because that's the kind of person that he is. He's 420 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,199 Speaker 1: does somebody that's going to be your best friend or neighbor, 421 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,199 Speaker 1: Nancy or mine. He's somebody who's going to shirk responsibilities. 422 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 1: He's going to care about young children. He doesn't care 423 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: that they're underage and that they're not going to know 424 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,360 Speaker 1: well enough to say no to him. I mean, that's 425 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,440 Speaker 1: the whole point, right, But he has no prior criminal history, 426 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: does he? Robin Mallinski, he does not have a criminal history, 427 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: but he's a shady character. Can't hey his bills, can't 428 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: manage it? Now? White a minute, White, a minute at 429 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 1: Robin before he come down up people too hard about 430 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: not managing their money. I can remember being so broke. 431 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: I had two night jobs. I would actually, this is 432 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: before you could log on from your phone and find out. 433 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: I'd have to drive by the bank, through the drive through, 434 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 1: find out what my balance is before I could write 435 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: a check. Okay, sometimes I'm sorry to say I may 436 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 1: have written a check anyway. I remember writing a check 437 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 1: for a dollar and eighty nine cents to S and 438 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 1: S Cafeteria. I was so hungry the check because I 439 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 1: did not have a dollar and eighty nine cents. Okay. 440 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: So I hate to come down on him too hard 441 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: about but I will tell you this so far, knock 442 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: on wood, I haven't taken with the irs. That is 443 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: a problem. But with no criminal record, I wonder you 444 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 1: know what else I've learned from looking online Kathleen Murphy, 445 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,919 Speaker 1: divorce lawyer. He was still with his wife. It looks 446 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 1: like up until sometime in twenty eighteen, all right at 447 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 1: the begin getting a twenty eighteen and you wonder did 448 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 1: It's not as if they had been broken up for 449 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,719 Speaker 1: a long time. I wonder if he broke up with 450 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 1: her exactly, or cause had problems with her because of 451 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 1: his fixation on this little girl. Well, if she knew 452 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 1: that he had a fixation on this little girl. Um, 453 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 1: I wonder what the dynamics are or were with the family. 454 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,680 Speaker 1: Did she know did she talk to the family. Another 455 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,120 Speaker 1: issue we have here, even though this guy does not 456 00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: have a criminal record, is how he was trapped, explained 457 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: John Cardillo, former NYPD. Why he would get her a 458 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,919 Speaker 1: burner phone? What is a burner phone and how has 459 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,640 Speaker 1: it used? Burner phone is the phone you can buy 460 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,200 Speaker 1: a typically a big box reteller, a cell phone store. 461 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: It's untraceable, you pay, you pay cash for it, typically 462 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,399 Speaker 1: prepay it. And her parents wouldn't know she had it. 463 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 1: Law enforcement wouldn't even know she had it if he 464 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,160 Speaker 1: bought the phone in his name or another adults name. 465 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 1: And so it's it's a common tactic as I believe 466 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,679 Speaker 1: it was. The judge said, of when it when it's 467 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 1: sexual predator, and I'm glad we're calling this guy a 468 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,919 Speaker 1: predator because that's the only thing he is. Let me 469 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 1: also add that I don't think this is the first 470 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 1: time he's done this for the simple reason that when 471 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 1: police were initially called because the child was involved, and 472 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 1: you know this, Nancy, they're going to conduct an investigation. 473 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,880 Speaker 1: There's certainly going to speak to the kid. The Domiana. 474 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: He had this kid so under his thumb. She didn't 475 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: give him up. It's pretty you know, non typical for 476 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: a fifteen year old to resist telling the police the truth. 477 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: And so this guy had the kid under his thumb. 478 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 1: So he gets to the burner phone. He's able to 479 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 1: call her on that burner phone. She hides it from 480 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 1: her parents. The grooming continues to such a degree that 481 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 1: she eventually gets in a vehicle with this guy. And 482 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 1: she had no ability to consent. The age of consent 483 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: right in Louisiana's seventeen. This is a felony. She was 484 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: between the teen in sixteen. He's four years older than her. 485 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 1: He's over seventeen and four years older. So nothing she 486 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 1: did well you know, he mitigates anything he did. This 487 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 1: guy is a is the worst kind of felon. But 488 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,240 Speaker 1: I do believe he's done this before, and I would 489 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 1: imagine that investigators are going to be looking very deeply 490 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: into that. And the burner phone is indicative of that. 491 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: He knew how to groom and he knew exactly what 492 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 1: tools he needed to maintain that and to really put 493 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 1: this kid under his control. Crime Stories with Nancy Grace. Overnight, 494 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: the FBI and Louisiana Police on a man hunt trying 495 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 1: to track down fifteen year old Domienna Spell and the 496 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: forty seven year old authorities believed took off with the 497 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 1: girl more than six days ago, just to been missin 498 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 1: since seven Thursday mornings. To that from the school and 499 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: we already knew left with authorities believe Corey Dizeltel, a 500 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 1: family friend, gained the trust of her parents by allegedly 501 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 1: asking the girl to babysit for his granddaughter that ruse 502 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 1: used as a cover up for their less relationship. Come 503 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: to find out, there was no granddaughter there for her 504 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 1: to really be babysitting. They had that little secret relationship going, 505 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: according to police, Her parents reached out to authorities a 506 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago with concern over a suspicious relationship 507 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 1: between their daughter and the suspect, claiming Disoltel sent numerous 508 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 1: texts to their daughter, he told her that he loved 509 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: her and stuff like that. Her desperate family going door 510 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,959 Speaker 1: to door, spreading flyers all around her neighborhood in an 511 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: attempt to find her. I feel that she's safe her home, 512 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: you know, than being with him. I mean, she does 513 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 1: have family that love and care about her, that misses her, 514 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: and we want her to know that. And authorities say 515 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: it is possible that Domiana has changed her appearance and 516 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 1: that these two could be anywhere. You're hearing her friend 517 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 1: Marcus Moore at ABC News your warning. The FBI joining 518 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 1: in the search for a Domiana Spell believed to have 519 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: been with Corey Shane Disotel, a forty seven year old 520 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 1: dad and family friend. The FBI on it and then 521 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: this fifteen year old Domiana Spell was missing for more 522 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: than a week, believed to have runoff with forty seven 523 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: year old Shane Desertel. It was a tilt from the 524 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: FBI that located the two thousands of miles away in Colorado, 525 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 1: sheriff's deputies and Archilletta County found the chew after the 526 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: FBI told them Destel's phone pined nearby, deputy spotted his car, 527 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 1: following him into the parking lot of a grocery store, 528 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 1: taking him into custody and bringing Spell to Human Services. 529 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: Desittel remains in Colorado on a warrant for contributing to 530 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: the delinquency of a juvenile and could face more charges. 531 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 1: As our Katie Easter reports, Spell's family is relieved. He's 532 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 1: behind bars. You see all the bodies are found, and 533 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 1: it just scares you, Like it terrified me to know 534 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: maybe that's my sister. The family of fifty year old 535 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 1: Dominius Spell no longer have to fear those stories. I mean, 536 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 1: it's like a big release to know, you know that 537 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 1: this missing person that was found in like a vehicle 538 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: or something is not my sister. You can hear the 539 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: heartbreak in the family's voices they're talking about their girl missing. 540 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 1: That was KATCTV anchor Kendria Lafleur talking about the pinging 541 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: of that cell phone to Rob Lynskey Crime online dot Com. 542 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 1: They were all the way in Colorado. Yeah, they went 543 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 1: for some sort of a joy ride. I'm not even 544 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 1: sure he has connections to that area. You know what 545 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 1: I find really interesting is that along this process she 546 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 1: was told and manipulated Dancy by him to change her 547 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 1: hair color and change the color of her eyes by 548 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: popping in those colored contact lenses. So I have brown eyes, 549 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 1: I can go to the store, get some blue ones, 550 00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 1: pop them in there, dye my hair brown, go back 551 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: to my original color, and then I look like a 552 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 1: different person, which is what he wanted her to do. 553 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 1: And it gets worse and worse, Ashley Wilcott with every 554 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: mile he travels, that's about twelve hundred miles from home, 555 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: because every minute that passes is another minute of premeditation. 556 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: Ashley Wilcot, Absolutely, that was You just took the words 557 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 1: out of my mouth. Nancy. I'm not surprised because you've 558 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 1: done prosecution for so long. Premeditation. All of this points 559 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 1: to the fact. What does that mean. It means he 560 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: planned it. He took deliberate steps to choose this young victim, 561 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 1: groom this young victim. Kidnap. I'm going to use the 562 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 1: word kidnap. He's not been charge with kidnapping, but I'm 563 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 1: just saying to you. In my mind, it's kidnapping. Even 564 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 1: if she walked on her own two feet, she did 565 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: it because of his actions convincing her it was okay 566 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 1: to do it. Well, that is why Karen Stark psychologist 567 00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 1: with me right now. And I was just going to say, developmentally, 568 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to go along with with Robin's. She can't 569 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 1: make that choice. She's not in the position. Think about 570 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 1: when you're a teenager, the crushes that you have and 571 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 1: your susceptibility to being wooed and groom. Wait, hold on, 572 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: hold that, Karen. Start, Hold on, everybody, just pause for 573 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:19,319 Speaker 1: five seconds and think about the things the worst thing 574 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 1: you did in your own mind as a teenager, the 575 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 1: one thing Jackie is laughing to herself here in the 576 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 1: studio and I'm hiding my head in shame. Okay, don't 577 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, I know that. Go ahead, Karen, And 578 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 1: then I'm gonna follow up with Kathleen and Ashley about 579 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:39,120 Speaker 1: juvenile culpability. Go ahead, Karen. Start, Well, she's impressionable and 580 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 1: she wants to be in love. Your hormones are coming out. 581 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,400 Speaker 1: You don't know what to do about the feelings that 582 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 1: you're having. And here is a guy who's willing her, 583 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 1: who's making her feel wonderful, And she doesn't have the 584 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 1: developmental capability, Nancy, the psychological astuteness to know that this 585 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 1: is wrong. It just feels like she's loved. And that's 586 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 1: exactly what I have no doubt. To Kathleen Murphy, family 587 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 1: lawyer or expert, Kathleen, that is why the law does 588 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 1: not allow miners to buy a car, to enter a contract, 589 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 1: to buy cigarettes or alcohol, to you know, host a 590 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 1: myriad of things. Miners are disallowed from doing because they 591 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 1: have not formed mentally enough to make those kind of decisions. 592 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 1: That's why they are protected. For instance, I remember the 593 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 1: first time I learned it in law school. If a 594 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 1: kid shows up, he looks twenty five years old or 595 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: has a stack of money, you still can't sell him 596 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 1: a car. If he goes out and crashes the car 597 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,840 Speaker 1: in five minutes, that's on the dealership, the person. The 598 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 1: family doesn't have to pay a thing because that contract 599 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:55,839 Speaker 1: never existed, because he's a miner. And I would take 600 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 1: it one step further. I think even at age eighteen, 601 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 1: they're not old enough or developmentally mature enough to make 602 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,839 Speaker 1: some major decisions. And I tell my children all the time. 603 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 1: Look at this picture right now, Ashley Wilcott of this 604 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:14,680 Speaker 1: little girl domi Anna Spell with her snapchat with all 605 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 1: of her heart's past, you know, superimposed over everything. I mean, 606 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 1: she had no idea what she was doing. I'm just 607 00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 1: glad she's alive. It has come to be realized that 608 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:29,319 Speaker 1: these are perpetrators committing crimes on these young victims, and 609 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 1: that the juveniles, even if they look older, even if 610 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,959 Speaker 1: they're beautiful young women, if they are a juvenile, they're 611 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 1: the victim because of the actions of a man like 612 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 1: this who's forty seven. To Robin Willinski, Crime online dot 613 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:46,320 Speaker 1: Com investigative reporter and author of Beautiful Life, Robin Willinsky, 614 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: how has he found and what is he facing? Well, yes, 615 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:54,240 Speaker 1: he has been arrested because of the cell phone things. 616 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,759 Speaker 1: They tracked this guy down at a grocery store if 617 00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 1: the fifteen year old was with him. So far it's 618 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:05,760 Speaker 1: contributing to the delinquency of a juvenile. But again because 619 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 1: of the potential for kidnapping charges that they could slap 620 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 1: that on there and a host of other things depending 621 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:17,040 Speaker 1: upon the sexual contact. Obviously, there needs to be interviews 622 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,359 Speaker 1: that need to be done and then We'll see where 623 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: it goes from there. It could be a long road 624 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 1: ahead for him and certainly a long road ahead for her. 625 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: She's definitely going to need some therapy going forward. She 626 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 1: got sucked into this madness and ended up in you, 627 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 1: as you say, over a thousand miles away. We really 628 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 1: don't know what went on during this period. And also 629 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: equally disturbing is what went on when she was babysitting 630 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 1: for the non baby. Well, the thing is, you know, Robin, 631 00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: she'll go the rest of her life with us hanging 632 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:57,879 Speaker 1: over her head. And right now she's alive. She's been 633 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:01,240 Speaker 1: found all the way out in Colorado. But this story 634 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 1: what happened to her is going to stick with her 635 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:08,839 Speaker 1: the rest of her life. We wait as justice unfolds 636 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 1: Nancy Grace's crime story, signing off good Bye friend,