WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Mr Good ENOUGH

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<v Speaker 1>Second date? You know, if second date updates have taught

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<v Speaker 1>us anything, it's this. Sometimes in life it's okay to settle.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you need to try hard to find the

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<v Speaker 1>right fit for you. Sometimes you find someone the chest

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<v Speaker 1>okay enough, and then you stick with them because if

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<v Speaker 1>you lose that person, you're like everybody else out there

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<v Speaker 1>is a maniac and probably gonna kill me. So I

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<v Speaker 1>should have stuck with that guy a little while ago,

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<v Speaker 1>or that girl a little while ago who was just decent,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing real special about him. But at least I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>fear for my life when I was around them. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's what Liz wants to do today. She wants to

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<v Speaker 1>get in contact with mister just right enough, mediocre. She

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<v Speaker 1>actually went out on a date with about three months

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<v Speaker 1>to go, but now she wants to reconnect with this guy. Hey, Liz,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? Hey? I'm good? How are you guys good?

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<v Speaker 1>So you want to reconnect with the dude who you

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<v Speaker 1>went out with three months ago. Yes, I do why.

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<v Speaker 1>He was really nice actually, you know, I mean he's

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<v Speaker 1>a little boring, but he was nice, like you could

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<v Speaker 1>tell he's a good guy. Did you like not call

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<v Speaker 1>him back at all the first time around? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>So Frank called me up. I mean he was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a really great clie, like I'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>keep you out again. And you know, I was honest

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<v Speaker 1>about it. I didn't want to lie to him, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, look, I think you're really nice,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't think as like a romantic relationship, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think that we're the right fifth for

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<v Speaker 1>each other. But hopefully we can be friends one day.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the worst. As soon as you're with talking

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<v Speaker 1>to a girl and she gives you that you're really nice,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh here it goes. Yeah, you just put

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<v Speaker 1>the bullet in the chamber and you're about to shoot

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<v Speaker 1>me in the face with it, aren't you. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be friends. So you actually told him that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think we should go out again, Yeah, I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we would be better as fund. So what

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<v Speaker 1>made you change your mind about him three months later? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've been out on like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>these since then, and I thinks is terrible, Like you're

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<v Speaker 1>just like total touche bags, or they're like really weird

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. And I just feel like maybe I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>give this guy enough of a chance, you know. In

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<v Speaker 1>other words, you're ready to settle, and I like that

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<v Speaker 1>about you. No, No, I'm not settling. I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get to know him better, because maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he was nervous or whatever and that's why he's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of boring. How did he take it when you told

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<v Speaker 1>him that you guys weren't match the first time around?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he didn't like love the idea because we

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like obviously he's desk me out on a

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<v Speaker 1>second day, but he seems respectful of all time, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, of course, I understand. Have you talked to

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<v Speaker 1>him since? Actually I'm texted him a couple of days

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<v Speaker 1>ago just to be like, hey, I've been thinking about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you want to try another eight kind of thing?

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<v Speaker 1>And he never responded, how are you going to come

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<v Speaker 1>back from this? Like? What's your plan here? Like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I friend zoned you, but I was wrong, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're attractive enough I've never Yeah, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just honest about it. I think that's how I come back,

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<v Speaker 1>if I just say like, hey, I'm sorry, I was

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot. You want to try? Yeah, you just tell

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<v Speaker 1>him you're honest about it. Go. Hey, at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were really boring and lame, And then

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<v Speaker 1>I went out with a bunch of weirdos and I

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<v Speaker 1>realized that maybe lame and boring is for me after all.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he's nice, He's really nice. I just I think

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't give him anough of a chance. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>you promised that. You think you didn't give him enough

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<v Speaker 1>a chance, Or it's just you've had so many bad

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<v Speaker 1>experiences dating that now you're like, Okay, I'm gonna I'll

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<v Speaker 1>give it another shot with him. It's kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing, right, I guess the sort of it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is. Do you think this guy's relationship material for you?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's possible. I don't. I have no idea

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<v Speaker 1>because I was so caught up in the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>he was boring. Forget it reviews right now. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't hear anything he said because he was just talking forever. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so did he never responded to you when you texted him,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're like, let's go out again, give another shot. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know this is a long shot, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to think maybe he'll give me a chance for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. Okay, what was his name again, Frank? Frank? Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>Well we'll play a song. Come back call boring, asked Frank.

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<v Speaker 1>He's probably not doing much, and see if he'll go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you again. Okay, Okay, hang on brooking Jubil

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<v Speaker 1>Second day. All right, Liz, are you about ready to

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date? Update? Yes? I am. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that this is going to work out really

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<v Speaker 1>well for you. I know, in about ten years from now,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be sitting down your kids telling them

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<v Speaker 1>all about the day that Mommy's settled for daddy. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a really beautiful story. It's not like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just sice I can get a second date. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're just tuning in, Liz wants to call this guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Frank. They actually went out about three months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and after their date, she blew him off and said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think you really swell. We could be friends,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't think romantically we really fit. And since

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<v Speaker 1>then she's gone out with a bunch of people that

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<v Speaker 1>make him seem like a saint. So now she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to go back and ask him on another date. If

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<v Speaker 1>the tables were turned, Liz, would you feel okay if

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<v Speaker 1>some guy was calling you three months later saying, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were born but it's good now we

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<v Speaker 1>think that's the best. But I've really liked him to

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<v Speaker 1>be open to it. Okay, so we're hoping he really

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<v Speaker 1>likes you. You're going to make sure that I put

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<v Speaker 1>the part about you thinking that he's boring in there

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<v Speaker 1>when I talk to him, so I don't think so okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm gonna dial the phone umber right now. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I can I speak to Frank please? Oh? Yes, Frank, Hey, Frank,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewil from Brooke and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show. Yeah. Are you a listener to the

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<v Speaker 1>show or I listen very time? Then? Okay, cool, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. Have you ever heard a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update before? I think so? All right, Well, congratulations, Frank,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody wants to do a second date update with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh okay. Her name is Liz. Yeah, and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>actually went out on a date about three months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Yeah, she says she texted you a

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<v Speaker 1>few days ago to see if you were interested in

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<v Speaker 1>going out again, but hasn't hurt anything back. So now

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<v Speaker 1>she asked me to get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if there's a reason. Um, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any reason that you don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her again? No? I don't know what she

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<v Speaker 1>told you, but she didn't want to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with me. Yeah, and now she does. She does. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she told us about how you guys went out, and

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<v Speaker 1>then after you you had asked her out and she said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think we make better friends. But I guess

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<v Speaker 1>over that three months she's been thinking about you quite

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<v Speaker 1>a bit and wants to go out with you again.

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<v Speaker 1>What happen much changed? Um? I don't really know. She

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<v Speaker 1>just says she feels like she maybe jumped the gun

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<v Speaker 1>on her decision. Yeah, but it's been three months. That's

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<v Speaker 1>very true. Is that why you didn't call her back

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<v Speaker 1>or text her back when she hit you up recently

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<v Speaker 1>asking if you want to go out again? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was kind of weird. I didn't really think

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<v Speaker 1>that the texts for me. You know, do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it she sent you a mistext or something. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of out of the blue, you know. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>would be a crappy feeling to be sitting there, like,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I would love to go out with you again,

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<v Speaker 1>except I don't think you're sending this to me. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I haven't think you want to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a second day after three months? Are you flattered by that? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty cool. I don't know she's been thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's weird, but it's I mean, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she was cool. So you do want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her again? Um? Maybe? I mean why did

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<v Speaker 1>you pause for so long? I don't know, It's been

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, and you know, like things have been

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<v Speaker 1>happening and in three months, Yeah, what's happened in three months? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like I haven't just been hanging out all

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<v Speaker 1>by myself, like I've been seeing other people stuff, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, do you have a girlfriend now kind of

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of have a girlfriend? Do you either have

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<v Speaker 1>one or you don't have one? There's no kind of

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm like, I'm like dating somebody that's

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend. You know. It's like we've been we've been

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<v Speaker 1>going on dates. Do you like the girl that you're dating,

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<v Speaker 1>because it sounds like you don't. I mean, she's she's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. You know, I guess that that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>really bad, but yeah, it's usually not a glowing review

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<v Speaker 1>of somebody that you're dating. I mean, she's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not Satan close, but you know, not that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, like, you know, Liz is cool and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that, you know, that was a dead end,

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<v Speaker 1>but apparently not. Yeah, you want me to prove to

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<v Speaker 1>you that it's not a dead end. Uh, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, Liz? This is actually on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening right now. Hey Frank, Hey, what's up? Oh yeah, listen. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea that you were seeing somebody, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm oh no, I mean, like I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's casual right now, it's you know, it is what

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<v Speaker 1>it is. Yeah, Frank, is the girl that you're seeing

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<v Speaker 1>also kind of dating around. I don't know, maybe whatever. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So are you saying you want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Liz maybe regardless of this other girl that you're dating. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just if this is for real, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to go on a second day. Look Like

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way I could feel, okay, you like dumping

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<v Speaker 1>this girl to go out on the second day with me?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what if you end up in my position? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what if you just didn't get this girl enough

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<v Speaker 1>of a chance? Like I couldn't. I couldn't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm only seeing this girl for a little while,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's all right, you know, she's decent. Maybe you're

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<v Speaker 1>not giving her a chance. I mean maybe she also

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't you know, called a radio show to try and

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<v Speaker 1>get me going to do with her? Yeah, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>when I thought you were single. Like if I never

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<v Speaker 1>call this show, like you would still be seeing her, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe, Like I don't know for how long though,

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<v Speaker 1>Frank did Frank it sounds like you settled for the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that you're dating right now. I mean I think

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<v Speaker 1>that that's a harsh way of put in it, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But but yes, but we don't need to dwell on

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<v Speaker 1>that or anything. Well, I think you need to get

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<v Speaker 1>this figured out if you want to go out with Lizigan. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well the reality is that, like I I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been thinking about you, and I'm glad to hear

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<v Speaker 1>that you've been thinking about me after all this time.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I mean like whatever's been happening in my

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<v Speaker 1>life over the last three months, Like that's just not good.

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<v Speaker 1>Get in the way of you know what could be

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<v Speaker 1>happening right drops the dead weight you can lift more,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. That's terrible, like that you

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<v Speaker 1>would just do that to somebody, that's what you did

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<v Speaker 1>to him. No, No, that because like he's in the

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<v Speaker 1>process of seeing this girl. I wasn't in the process

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<v Speaker 1>of seeing anybody, Okay, but you just were like everybody

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<v Speaker 1>else out there is going to be better. So no,

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't necessarily think we had this chemistry on

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<v Speaker 1>that first date, which I need be mistouched, but like

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like seeing him and then said, oh never mind,

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<v Speaker 1>a better option came along, like that's the cool. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's better that girl does not need to be

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with a man that refers to or

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<v Speaker 1>is that girl and not that bad or not horrible? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>But why would I want to take her place? Then? Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so do you want a second date? I'm so confused.

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<v Speaker 1>Now do you want a second date? We'll pay for it? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I can't. I would have done it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a lot better person than even meet Liz. If

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<v Speaker 1>he broke up with her and then hit me up,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be a different story. But that he's just

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<v Speaker 1>willing to sump her over, not even like a true love.

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<v Speaker 1>We're getting married and having babies, but like a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>like just over that. I mean, you're talking about it

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm you know, I'm in this big serious thing,

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<v Speaker 1>which I'm not. That's what I'm saying. Okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's not very it's been Yeah, we can

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<v Speaker 1>try it. Okay. This whole thing is so you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are going to go out again? Yeah? Cool? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really get it. But if we're going on to date,

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<v Speaker 1>it's always good to not even know why or you're

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<v Speaker 1>going out or if you're going out or whatever. Yeah right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally confused by hoping too, but I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>worth trying. I guess, I guess lead passionate relationship. I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever you guys. Are you guys are going to be

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<v Speaker 1>together a long time. Trust me, both of you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have the attitudes to stay married forever. Broken Jupil. In

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, we got back