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Speaker 1: Second date? You know, if second date updates have taught
Speaker 1: us anything, it's this. Sometimes in life it's okay to settle.
Speaker 1: You know, you need to try hard to find the
Speaker 1: right fit for you. Sometimes you find someone the chest
Speaker 1: okay enough, and then you stick with them because if
Speaker 1: you lose that person, you're like everybody else out there
Speaker 1: is a maniac and probably gonna kill me. So I
Speaker 1: should have stuck with that guy a little while ago,
Speaker 1: or that girl a little while ago who was just decent,
Speaker 1: nothing real special about him. But at least I didn't
Speaker 1: fear for my life when I was around them. And
Speaker 1: that's what Liz wants to do today. She wants to
Speaker 1: get in contact with mister just right enough, mediocre. She
Speaker 1: actually went out on a date with about three months
Speaker 1: to go, but now she wants to reconnect with this guy. Hey, Liz,
Speaker 1: how are you? Hey? I'm good? How are you guys good?
Speaker 1: So you want to reconnect with the dude who you
Speaker 1: went out with three months ago. Yes, I do why.
Speaker 1: He was really nice actually, you know, I mean he's
Speaker 1: a little boring, but he was nice, like you could
Speaker 1: tell he's a good guy. Did you like not call
Speaker 1: him back at all the first time around? No? No,
Speaker 1: So Frank called me up. I mean he was like, hey,
Speaker 1: I had a really great clie, like I'd love to
Speaker 1: keep you out again. And you know, I was honest
Speaker 1: about it. I didn't want to lie to him, and
Speaker 1: I was just like, look, I think you're really nice,
Speaker 1: but I don't think as like a romantic relationship, Like
Speaker 1: I just don't think that we're the right fifth for
Speaker 1: each other. But hopefully we can be friends one day.
Speaker 1: And that's the worst. As soon as you're with talking
Speaker 1: to a girl and she gives you that you're really nice,
Speaker 1: you're like, oh here it goes. Yeah, you just put
Speaker 1: the bullet in the chamber and you're about to shoot
Speaker 1: me in the face with it, aren't you. We're gonna
Speaker 1: be friends. So you actually told him that I don't
Speaker 1: think we should go out again, Yeah, I said, you know,
Speaker 1: I thought we would be better as fund. So what
Speaker 1: made you change your mind about him three months later? Well,
Speaker 1: you know, I've been out on like a lot of
Speaker 1: these since then, and I thinks is terrible, Like you're
Speaker 1: just like total touche bags, or they're like really weird
Speaker 1: or whatever. And I just feel like maybe I didn't
Speaker 1: give this guy enough of a chance, you know. In
Speaker 1: other words, you're ready to settle, and I like that
Speaker 1: about you. No, No, I'm not settling. I guess I
Speaker 1: want to get to know him better, because maybe maybe
Speaker 1: he was nervous or whatever and that's why he's kind
Speaker 1: of boring. How did he take it when you told
Speaker 1: him that you guys weren't match the first time around?
Speaker 1: I mean he didn't like love the idea because we
Speaker 1: you know, like obviously he's desk me out on a
Speaker 1: second day, but he seems respectful of all time, and
Speaker 1: he's like, of course, I understand. Have you talked to
Speaker 1: him since? Actually I'm texted him a couple of days
Speaker 1: ago just to be like, hey, I've been thinking about you.
Speaker 1: Would you want to try another eight kind of thing?
Speaker 1: And he never responded, how are you going to come
Speaker 1: back from this? Like? What's your plan here? Like, Hey,
Speaker 1: I friend zoned you, but I was wrong, and I
Speaker 1: think you're attractive enough I've never Yeah, I think I'm
Speaker 1: just honest about it. I think that's how I come back,
Speaker 1: if I just say like, hey, I'm sorry, I was
Speaker 1: an idiot. You want to try? Yeah, you just tell
Speaker 1: him you're honest about it. Go. Hey, at the time,
Speaker 1: I thought you were really boring and lame, And then
Speaker 1: I went out with a bunch of weirdos and I
Speaker 1: realized that maybe lame and boring is for me after all.
Speaker 1: Oh he's nice, He's really nice. I just I think
Speaker 1: I didn't give him anough of a chance. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: you promised that. You think you didn't give him enough
Speaker 1: a chance, Or it's just you've had so many bad
Speaker 1: experiences dating that now you're like, Okay, I'm gonna I'll
Speaker 1: give it another shot with him. It's kind of the
Speaker 1: same thing, right, I guess the sort of it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it is. Do you think this guy's relationship material for you?
Speaker 1: I think it's possible. I don't. I have no idea
Speaker 1: because I was so caught up in the fact that
Speaker 1: he was boring. Forget it reviews right now. No, I
Speaker 1: couldn't hear anything he said because he was just talking forever. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so did he never responded to you when you texted him,
Speaker 1: and we're like, let's go out again, give another shot. No,
Speaker 1: I know this is a long shot, but I just
Speaker 1: want to think maybe he'll give me a chance for
Speaker 1: a second date. Okay, what was his name again, Frank? Frank? Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: Well we'll play a song. Come back call boring, asked Frank.
Speaker 1: He's probably not doing much, and see if he'll go
Speaker 1: out with you again. Okay, Okay, hang on brooking Jubil
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Speaker 1: Second day. All right, Liz, are you about ready to
Speaker 1: get your second date? Update? Yes? I am. You know what,
Speaker 1: I think that this is going to work out really
Speaker 1: well for you. I know, in about ten years from now,
Speaker 1: you're going to be sitting down your kids telling them
Speaker 1: all about the day that Mommy's settled for daddy. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be a really beautiful story. It's not like that.
Speaker 1: I'm just sice I can get a second date. If
Speaker 1: you're just tuning in, Liz wants to call this guy
Speaker 1: named Frank. They actually went out about three months ago,
Speaker 1: and after their date, she blew him off and said, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I think you really swell. We could be friends,
Speaker 1: but I don't think romantically we really fit. And since
Speaker 1: then she's gone out with a bunch of people that
Speaker 1: make him seem like a saint. So now she wants
Speaker 1: to go back and ask him on another date. If
Speaker 1: the tables were turned, Liz, would you feel okay if
Speaker 1: some guy was calling you three months later saying, oh,
Speaker 1: I thought you were born but it's good now we
Speaker 1: think that's the best. But I've really liked him to
Speaker 1: be open to it. Okay, so we're hoping he really
Speaker 1: likes you. You're going to make sure that I put
Speaker 1: the part about you thinking that he's boring in there
Speaker 1: when I talk to him, so I don't think so okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna dial the phone umber right now. Well,
Speaker 1: I can I speak to Frank please? Oh? Yes, Frank, Hey, Frank,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewil from Brooke and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the radio show. Yeah. Are you a listener to the
Speaker 1: show or I listen very time? Then? Okay, cool, thank you.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Have you ever heard a second date
Speaker 1: update before? I think so? All right, Well, congratulations, Frank,
Speaker 1: somebody wants to do a second date update with you.
Speaker 1: Uh okay. Her name is Liz. Yeah, and you guys
Speaker 1: actually went out on a date about three months ago.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, she says she texted you a
Speaker 1: few days ago to see if you were interested in
Speaker 1: going out again, but hasn't hurt anything back. So now
Speaker 1: she asked me to get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out if there's a reason. Um, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Is there any reason that you don't want to go
Speaker 1: out with her again? No? I don't know what she
Speaker 1: told you, but she didn't want to go on a
Speaker 1: second date with me. Yeah, and now she does. She does. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she told us about how you guys went out, and
Speaker 1: then after you you had asked her out and she said, hey,
Speaker 1: I just think we make better friends. But I guess
Speaker 1: over that three months she's been thinking about you quite
Speaker 1: a bit and wants to go out with you again.
Speaker 1: What happen much changed? Um? I don't really know. She
Speaker 1: just says she feels like she maybe jumped the gun
Speaker 1: on her decision. Yeah, but it's been three months. That's
Speaker 1: very true. Is that why you didn't call her back
Speaker 1: or text her back when she hit you up recently
Speaker 1: asking if you want to go out again? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: mean it was kind of weird. I didn't really think
Speaker 1: that the texts for me. You know, do you think
Speaker 1: it she sent you a mistext or something. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: kind of out of the blue, you know. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: would be a crappy feeling to be sitting there, like,
Speaker 1: of course I would love to go out with you again,
Speaker 1: except I don't think you're sending this to me. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I haven't think you want to go on
Speaker 1: a second day after three months? Are you flattered by that? Like?
Speaker 1: That's pretty cool. I don't know she's been thinking about it.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's weird, but it's I mean, yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean she was cool. So you do want to go
Speaker 1: out with her again? Um? Maybe? I mean why did
Speaker 1: you pause for so long? I don't know, It's been
Speaker 1: a long time, and you know, like things have been
Speaker 1: happening and in three months, Yeah, what's happened in three months? Though?
Speaker 1: You know, like I haven't just been hanging out all
Speaker 1: by myself, like I've been seeing other people stuff, and
Speaker 1: you know, do you have a girlfriend now kind of
Speaker 1: you kind of have a girlfriend? Do you either have
Speaker 1: one or you don't have one? There's no kind of
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm like, I'm like dating somebody that's
Speaker 1: your girlfriend. You know. It's like we've been we've been
Speaker 1: going on dates. Do you like the girl that you're dating,
Speaker 1: because it sounds like you don't. I mean, she's she's not.
Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I guess that that sounds
Speaker 1: really bad, but yeah, it's usually not a glowing review
Speaker 1: of somebody that you're dating. I mean, she's you know,
Speaker 1: she's not Satan close, but you know, not that bad.
Speaker 1: The thing is, like, you know, Liz is cool and
Speaker 1: I thought that, you know, that was a dead end,
Speaker 1: but apparently not. Yeah, you want me to prove to
Speaker 1: you that it's not a dead end. Uh, what do
Speaker 1: you mean, Liz? This is actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening right now. Hey Frank, Hey, what's up? Oh yeah, listen. Um,
Speaker 1: I had no idea that you were seeing somebody, And
Speaker 1: I'm oh no, I mean, like I said, you know,
Speaker 1: it's casual right now, it's you know, it is what
Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, Frank, is the girl that you're seeing
Speaker 1: also kind of dating around. I don't know, maybe whatever. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So are you saying you want to go out with
Speaker 1: Liz maybe regardless of this other girl that you're dating. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm just if this is for real, Like I don't
Speaker 1: I'd like to go on a second day. Look Like
Speaker 1: there's no way I could feel, okay, you like dumping
Speaker 1: this girl to go out on the second day with me?
Speaker 1: Like what if you end up in my position? Right?
Speaker 1: Like what if you just didn't get this girl enough
Speaker 1: of a chance? Like I couldn't. I couldn't do that.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm only seeing this girl for a little while,
Speaker 1: and she's all right, you know, she's decent. Maybe you're
Speaker 1: not giving her a chance. I mean maybe she also
Speaker 1: hadn't you know, called a radio show to try and
Speaker 1: get me going to do with her? Yeah, but that's
Speaker 1: when I thought you were single. Like if I never
Speaker 1: call this show, like you would still be seeing her, right,
Speaker 1: I mean maybe, Like I don't know for how long though,
Speaker 1: Frank did Frank it sounds like you settled for the
Speaker 1: girl that you're dating right now. I mean I think
Speaker 1: that that's a harsh way of put in it, you know.
Speaker 1: But but yes, but we don't need to dwell on
Speaker 1: that or anything. Well, I think you need to get
Speaker 1: this figured out if you want to go out with Lizigan. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well the reality is that, like I I don't know,
Speaker 1: I've been thinking about you, and I'm glad to hear
Speaker 1: that you've been thinking about me after all this time.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean like whatever's been happening in my
Speaker 1: life over the last three months, Like that's just not good.
Speaker 1: Get in the way of you know what could be
Speaker 1: happening right drops the dead weight you can lift more,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. That's terrible, like that you
Speaker 1: would just do that to somebody, that's what you did
Speaker 1: to him. No, No, that because like he's in the
Speaker 1: process of seeing this girl. I wasn't in the process
Speaker 1: of seeing anybody, Okay, but you just were like everybody
Speaker 1: else out there is going to be better. So no,
Speaker 1: I just didn't necessarily think we had this chemistry on
Speaker 1: that first date, which I need be mistouched, but like
Speaker 1: I wasn't like seeing him and then said, oh never mind,
Speaker 1: a better option came along, like that's the cool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's better that girl does not need to be
Speaker 1: in a relationship with a man that refers to or
Speaker 1: is that girl and not that bad or not horrible? Right?
Speaker 1: But why would I want to take her place? Then? Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so do you want a second date? I'm so confused.
Speaker 1: Now do you want a second date? We'll pay for it? No,
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. I would have done it. I mean,
Speaker 1: you're a lot better person than even meet Liz. If
Speaker 1: he broke up with her and then hit me up,
Speaker 1: that would be a different story. But that he's just
Speaker 1: willing to sump her over, not even like a true love.
Speaker 1: We're getting married and having babies, but like a second date,
Speaker 1: like just over that. I mean, you're talking about it
Speaker 1: like I'm you know, I'm in this big serious thing,
Speaker 1: which I'm not. That's what I'm saying. Okay, I mean
Speaker 1: I guess that's not very it's been Yeah, we can
Speaker 1: try it. Okay. This whole thing is so you guys
Speaker 1: are going to go out again? Yeah? Cool? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't really get it. But if we're going on to date,
Speaker 1: it's always good to not even know why or you're
Speaker 1: going out or if you're going out or whatever. Yeah right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm totally confused by hoping too, but I think it's
Speaker 1: worth trying. I guess, I guess lead passionate relationship. I've
Speaker 1: ever you guys. Are you guys are going to be
Speaker 1: together a long time. Trust me, both of you guys
Speaker 1: have the attitudes to stay married forever. Broken Jupil. In
Speaker 1: the morning, we got back