WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Bid On Me

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<v Speaker 1>Second date updated most of the time. If money is

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<v Speaker 1>exchanged in return for a date, oh god jah, that

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<v Speaker 1>can be viewed as kind of sketchy.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's kind of illegal.

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<v Speaker 1>Not for me, though. That's why I always walk around

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<v Speaker 1>with seven different money clips full of many denominations in

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<v Speaker 1>multiple types of currencies from all around the world, because

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<v Speaker 1>you never know.

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<v Speaker 2>Just to be ready, Oh you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Willing to do that for eight hundred Barbadian dollars, you're

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<v Speaker 1>in lux sir. I just happened to have that right here.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it actually the currency of Barbados?

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<v Speaker 1>Check Barbadiana. You'll never know. And one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>said in their email a money exchange was attempted for

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<v Speaker 1>a date with her. It might have something to do

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<v Speaker 1>with why she's not seeing this person right now, but

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<v Speaker 1>she definitely wants to get a hold of them. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Mela about it. Mila, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, thank you so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, this setup to all of this makes

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<v Speaker 4>it sound so sketchy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, when you say it like that, I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's no shame in doing like a sketchy money

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<v Speaker 1>exchange for a date.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there is some shame.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're happy with the amount with pride me though.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, to tell us about this person that you met

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<v Speaker 1>and how this money exchange happened or almost happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I met the sky Sam at a charity auction.

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<v Speaker 3>It's basically I'm trying to raise money building a new

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<v Speaker 3>community center.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>So part of the event was auctioning off gate.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I participated in something like this once

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<v Speaker 4>and it was so nerve wracking.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you being auctioned Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, please so much just been This is

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<v Speaker 4>gonna be so embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it weird that your husband didn't even put his hand?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 4>So wait, were you being auctioned off or was he

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<v Speaker 4>being auctioned off?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I was auctioned, I will say, and I maybe shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I was auctioned off once and I actually ended up

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<v Speaker 1>getting drunk with the person on our date and we

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<v Speaker 1>had the greatest time. But wow, it's going to actually

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<v Speaker 1>be a date. They we're supposed to not be real dates.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a room of experienced date auctions. How have you

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<v Speaker 1>been sold? I have not been sold. No, I'm the buyer.

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<v Speaker 1>But Anila, How did you feel when you were being

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<v Speaker 1>put up like that? Were you nervous?

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<v Speaker 3>Of course I was nervous, especially because I met this

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<v Speaker 3>cute guy. Like part of it was a silent auction,

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<v Speaker 3>and during that time I met Sam and he was

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<v Speaker 3>very sweet and he made me laugh. He made me

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<v Speaker 3>feel less nervous about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you guys talked about it. You talked about

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<v Speaker 2>how you were up for auction before a date week.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So then he asked me like, hey, what number are

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<v Speaker 3>you in the auction? And I was like, well, be

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<v Speaker 3>prepared though, because you're gonna have to take out a

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<v Speaker 3>second mortgage. I'm not cheap.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little scary. It is for a good cause,

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<v Speaker 1>showing interest that he wants to bid on you before

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<v Speaker 1>it happens. That's great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, and it was luckily that joke landed well.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay, it made me a lot of hope. But

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<v Speaker 3>of course, the worst possible thing happened. What Sam starts

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<v Speaker 3>bidding on me. Great love that we knew that was

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<v Speaker 3>going to happen. But then my freaking ex boyfriend comes

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<v Speaker 3>into play. But bitting again, what why would he do that?

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<v Speaker 3>So stupid he wants to get back together with me.

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<v Speaker 4>Did Sam ever know that was your ex? Or was

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<v Speaker 4>it just like a bidding war with a guy he

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<v Speaker 4>didn't know?

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't think he knew.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's good. I mean, honestly, it kind of hypes

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<v Speaker 2>you up, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>But it also could have been good if he knew

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<v Speaker 1>that it was the X because it's like she was

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<v Speaker 1>so amazing, all the exes want her back. I would

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<v Speaker 1>stop red flag.

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<v Speaker 3>Drama.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did he who won the date?

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<v Speaker 3>My ex one.

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<v Speaker 2>He loves? Did you actually verbally say yuck? When he won?

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<v Speaker 3>You start crying on stage? Well, it's obviously for charity,

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<v Speaker 3>so I didn't want to seem perturbed by who won. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't like it was a bad relationship either, like

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<v Speaker 3>the relationship had just run its course.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just bad that he can't get over it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we ask how much money you went for? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that a rude question?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's no, it's not room at all.

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<v Speaker 3>And I, for the record, definitely think I'm worth more

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<v Speaker 3>than this amount. Osay, Okay, it was two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you were going to say twenty grand, but okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's respectable charities do you go to.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to say what the Illuminati does and

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<v Speaker 1>does not do. The two thousand is great, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good amount of cash.

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<v Speaker 4>But with your ax, Yeah, but it sucks because then

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<v Speaker 4>you have to go out with your ex. Did you

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<v Speaker 4>already go out with him?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I didn't. I'm not looking forward to it, but

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna make it very clim You know that this

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<v Speaker 3>is Jeff for charity.

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<v Speaker 1>But what happened after the auction ended with Sam? Were

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<v Speaker 1>you able to like reconnect with him and be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually like was hoping you would win.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I told him that, and I was actually able

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<v Speaker 3>to get his phone number later on through my supervisor.

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<v Speaker 4>There we go telling you that he's like, what, I

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<v Speaker 4>get a free date?

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<v Speaker 2>Awesome?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well I haven't contacted him yet. I was hoping

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<v Speaker 3>that maybe you guys could help me out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, are we going to call him and

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<v Speaker 1>convince him to ask you out somehow? Why did you

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<v Speaker 1>just ask him out?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm nervous. It's a crazy night and I love you

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<v Speaker 3>guys so much, and I know he loved your show too,

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<v Speaker 3>so I figured this might be the best way.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we could frame it like the other date fell

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<v Speaker 1>through and so he can like step in if he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be more like official.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that he's gonna think that he still ows two

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<v Speaker 4>thousand dollars back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then we'll take the two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, now we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking to the Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we have needs, but okay, the whole point is

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<v Speaker 1>we need to ask out Sam for you, And is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be so easy?

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<v Speaker 2>Like why would he say no?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I'm kind of surprised that he didn't find

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<v Speaker 3>a way to get my number, But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe he felt like it wouldn't have been the right

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<v Speaker 3>time since I was literally bought by somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I wonder if you somehow could just

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<v Speaker 1>vibe and tell that was your ax or something, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's just like, look, I'm gonna let them.

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<v Speaker 4>Or somebody else from the foundation that you work with,

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<v Speaker 4>like let it slip, because I'm sure some of your

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<v Speaker 4>coworkers knew it.

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<v Speaker 1>They're probably getting back together. These are all questions that

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<v Speaker 1>we can ask him when we come back, call him

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<v Speaker 1>and try and get the second date update and ask

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<v Speaker 1>why he didn't think you were worth more than two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars. Yeah, we're going to do it right after

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<v Speaker 1>this second date update, coming up to the auction stage.

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<v Speaker 6>She's a five foot six brunette but five foot nine

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<v Speaker 6>and heels. She's got a sharp sense of humor with

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<v Speaker 6>limited baggage, except for the ex boyfriend who follows her

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<v Speaker 6>around to charity events and tries to win it back.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Mela. Now let's start the bidding at

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen million dollars. Oh, I hear fourteen million? Fourteen million?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, all right, I'm going a bit on

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<v Speaker 1>it sold.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think that was actually official, Mila.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah for you, you just want a lot of money

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<v Speaker 4>or like four bitcoins?

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're worth Mela.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you feel, Ameila?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel really good now that you guys just gave

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<v Speaker 3>me a proper bit, is right?

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm joking around, but Mela's actual day really

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't too far off from what just happened there. Because

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<v Speaker 1>Mila was trying to help raise money for her local

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<v Speaker 1>community center, she was in an auction wanted a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Sam who was there to win her because they

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<v Speaker 1>had a little flirtation before the event started. Unfortunately, Mela's

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<v Speaker 1>ex would not let that happen. He showed up and

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<v Speaker 1>stole her away for the price of two grand.

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<v Speaker 2>Heisa, wow has money.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so he doesn't like that much and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>support the local community. But the good news is Mila

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<v Speaker 1>was able to get Sam's number. That's the guy she

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted to go out with. So we're about to

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<v Speaker 1>call him here, and I was thinking we probably when

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<v Speaker 1>we get him on the phone, should not tell him

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<v Speaker 1>that the guy that he was bidding against was his ex.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you have to say that part out loud?

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<v Speaker 1>What is dot?

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey was gonna mention it. Yeah, you're gonna blow up her.

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<v Speaker 1>Spy sometimes, you know, I like to brainstorm with everybody

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<v Speaker 1>in the room. Don't do that with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking the same thing. Let's not mention it, right, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all in agreement. It was all my idea. So

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<v Speaker 1>now we're gonna call this guy Sam for you. Okay's

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<v Speaker 1>number right now? Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Sam.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Sam.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Sam, nice to meet you. You're on a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what an experience.

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<v Speaker 4>We often auctioned this type of experience off at charity

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<v Speaker 4>events that.

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<v Speaker 1>Wasn't as smooth as it head. I'm pretty sure Sam

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<v Speaker 1>has no idea what you so, Sam, Sorry for the

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<v Speaker 1>confusion here. We're doing a segment with you called a

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<v Speaker 1>second date Update.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, And the.

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<v Speaker 1>Reason that my co host eloquently broke you spilled something

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<v Speaker 1>about auction stuff is because one of our listeners met

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<v Speaker 1>you recently at a charity auction for a local community center.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember me?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh yeah. Did you meet any cute ladies there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>I did.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, there was one in particular I really liked.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, was her name Brooke? Brooke doesn't do a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of it to snatch up his gentleman as she can.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't say, He didn't say drunk lady. He said lady.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're talking about a girl named Mela. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the one you're thinking of?

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<v Speaker 5>That is the one I'm thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>She super serious and I just heard your smile.

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<v Speaker 5>When we said her name.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what did you like about Mela?

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<v Speaker 5>Mela was just breathtaking. She stood out from the crowd,

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<v Speaker 5>really cute. I don't know. We just had a really

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<v Speaker 5>good chemistry and uh oh she was just sweet, just

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<v Speaker 5>really relatable.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, was so sweet and so relatable and so breathtaking,

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<v Speaker 1>But not breathtaking enough to spend more than two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars on her. I'm just saying. I mean, you we

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<v Speaker 1>heard that you didn't win when it came time for

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<v Speaker 1>her to be bid on a date with her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, there was another guy outbid me.

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<v Speaker 3>So bummer.

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<v Speaker 2>What were you feeling when that was happening.

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<v Speaker 5>It was kind of intense. I mean I didn't have

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<v Speaker 5>tens of thousands of dollars to spend on a date,

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like that guy had a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 2>You really, she's not actually a thing an item. You

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<v Speaker 2>can just ask her out afterwards.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know, but right after somebody bid on her,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think that was the right time to go

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<v Speaker 5>up and ask her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well if you don't want to do it in

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<v Speaker 1>front of the person that just spent all this money

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get her.

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<v Speaker 2>But these things are your actual romance. I mean, they're

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<v Speaker 2>just like.

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<v Speaker 1>Work where they are. Yeah, they're not supposed to did

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<v Speaker 1>you have any plans though, like maybe after the event

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<v Speaker 1>to try and reach out to her or something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>He is definitely was on my mind. So funny thing

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<v Speaker 5>happened was after the auction was over, I went over

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<v Speaker 5>and talked to the guy that outbid me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you did?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you run up your sleeves and say best man wins?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Let's oh.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like I said, I really had a connection

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<v Speaker 5>with me l IF. I went and talked to the

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<v Speaker 5>guy and it turns out he was her ex boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, oh no, wow, whoa that is news?

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, we knew that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, to be honest, we heard that that was the.

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<v Speaker 2>Case and she was super disappointed.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Well, I mean I tell her was bad. I

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<v Speaker 5>mean he was like really trying to get back to her.

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<v Speaker 5>He was getting all teary eyed talking about how much

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<v Speaker 5>missed her, and I kind of just I felt bad

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<v Speaker 5>for him, so I kind of consoled him a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit and I told him that to move on. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>obviously it's over. It's over, so so.

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<v Speaker 2>You're kind of being a bro at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>That was that was a good message, give a little

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<v Speaker 1>post relationship therapy.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he listen to you? Has he moved on?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Well, I mean it took a little bit of

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<v Speaker 5>a bribe, so I actually ended up paying him for

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<v Speaker 5>the date, so I reimbursed him plus a little bit extra. Wait,

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<v Speaker 5>what by the date of Mila off of him?

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<v Speaker 2>Why does Mela not know this?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's going to be a surprise, like people's going

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<v Speaker 5>to date, so I'm going to show up in stead.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding me by not saying one thing? We

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<v Speaker 1>ruined that?

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<v Speaker 2>That's actually really cute and really sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, dude. The reason why we're reacting this way

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<v Speaker 1>no idea that this plane was going to happen. And

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<v Speaker 1>we actually have Mela waiting on the other line listening,

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to talk to you, sur dude. I'm so sorry, but.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you there? It was going to be a nice surprise.

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<v Speaker 5>I was looking forward to saying.

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<v Speaker 4>We feel bad already, Mela, Mela, No, I'm still surprised.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so surprised. That's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Get to see your reaction in person.

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<v Speaker 1>But wait, wait, hold on, Mela, Mela, are you okay

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<v Speaker 1>with this? I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys are so sweet. Like, I know you feel

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<v Speaker 3>bad for like ruining the surprise, but I'm so happy

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<v Speaker 3>right now I'm speechless.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure? Yeah? Are you sure, Mela? Because we

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<v Speaker 1>can get your ex on the phone and convince him

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<v Speaker 1>to let's see how high we can go with this,

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty five.

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<v Speaker 5>He's gonna have to pay me a lot if he

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<v Speaker 5>wants that date back.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you.

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<v Speaker 4>Need to start calling more exes of just other random

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<v Speaker 4>people if you're able to convince them.

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<v Speaker 2>So like move on.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, not unless that Mela's.

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<v Speaker 1>X or like a couple's counseling. I honestly, if you

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<v Speaker 1>move over my ex?

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<v Speaker 2>How were you planning on telling her?

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<v Speaker 5>I was gonna just come to the date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was all, yeah, you're just gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>like sitting at the table, and she was going to

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<v Speaker 1>walk in and instead of the ex, it was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be you.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is going to get more ready, I care

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<v Speaker 2>about the date? Yeah, yeah, that's what I was thinking too.

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<v Speaker 1>What she would have worn before? Yeah, because Mela, you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't going to try if it was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the ex at all?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, no, not at all.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sure Mela would have looked amazing no matter of

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<v Speaker 5>what you're wearing.

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<v Speaker 6>Sick.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, now I'm giving a little nauseous.

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<v Speaker 1>So, well, what we normally do is we offer to

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<v Speaker 1>send you guys out on a date that we would

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<v Speaker 1>pay for that.

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<v Speaker 2>They're going to go on two dates now.

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<v Speaker 1>After the date that you've already paid for, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go on another date after that and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Oh my god, he is so too. He's already

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<v Speaker 2>planning the next days.

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<v Speaker 1>So cute, well Brook, Technically I plan this so I

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<v Speaker 1>get ownership of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, technically the X plan the first one.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're really have to step up your game here. Okay, Sam,

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<v Speaker 1>You're not doing a whole lot over there.

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<v Speaker 7>I'll try my best spear cut brooking Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 7>morning and the award for the cutest couple in a

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<v Speaker 7>second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>For this entire year goes to and Sam dead well,

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<v Speaker 1>they do.

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<v Speaker 2>Not polis batter an update. I am going to be

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<v Speaker 2>so upset.

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<v Speaker 1>Seriously, you're the chemistry. So many texts into seven eighty

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<v Speaker 1>five nine to a lot of os with like twenty

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<v Speaker 1>ws afterwards, one said best ruined surprise ever.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't know and he wasn't even mad that he

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<v Speaker 4>spent the two grands.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like he could have been, like, what she was gonna

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<v Speaker 2>go out with me anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>What I spent on my money for more than that

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<v Speaker 1>I knew we could. But anyway, I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 1>hear from them again. As long as their update is

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<v Speaker 1>and that the X showed up to the date anyway

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<v Speaker 1>and decided to fight for her, that could be entertaining. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, I would like to hear.

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't sound like a fighter. He sounds like more

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<v Speaker 2>of a crier. Yeah, he's like with check Bounce.

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<v Speaker 1>But we can always try and help you with your

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<v Speaker 1>love life. If you ever need a little bit of assistance,

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<v Speaker 1>email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back. You can go check out all of our

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<v Speaker 1>second dates wherever you get your podcasts at Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning