Speaker 1: It's the best Bits of the week with Morgan number two.
Speaker 1: What's up everybody? Another weekend, which means another best bits
Speaker 1: and my favorite part this is best Bits. Part one
Speaker 1: was scoob see you the best best bits, best best
Speaker 1: bets bits. I can't say that, no chance. Bobby was
Speaker 1: trying to talk about me and Meghan. He was like, Organ, Megan, Meg,
Speaker 1: these things going on? Yes, yeah, how are you scuba?
Speaker 2: I'm busy but doing well.
Speaker 1: It seems like a fair answer, Like it, well, we're
Speaker 1: going to dive in because you are busy and we
Speaker 1: got enough to talk about.
Speaker 2: Yeah we do.
Speaker 3: Caine Brown is coming in at the number seven spot.
Speaker 1: He talked to Bobby and cleared up some confusion about
Speaker 1: that whole boot story that got thrown on stage and
Speaker 1: crazy fun fact that happened in which time my parents
Speaker 1: were at that show. Word about it before it ever
Speaker 1: made TMZ awesome. And we used my mom's photo on
Speaker 1: the blog because she had taken a picture of Kane
Speaker 1: Brown's like, I got the inside scoop going on?
Speaker 2: Did you give her the photo credit? Though?
Speaker 1: No, Sorry, Mom, you're getting out. I don't think she
Speaker 1: even knows I got you said it to me for fun. Okay, hey,
Speaker 1: I can use that.
Speaker 2: That's a great picture, Mom, thank.
Speaker 1: You, Yeah, exactly. But we're not talking about Kane Brown.
Speaker 1: We are going to talk about mysteries that may be
Speaker 1: going on. And I'm going to tell you why we're
Speaker 1: talking about this, so you can kind of think maybe
Speaker 1: there's something that happened and you don't really have all
Speaker 1: the answers. Okay, I got sent an Amazon package. It
Speaker 1: showed up on my front porch, very excited about it.
Speaker 1: I love when I get a package. I'm about to
Speaker 1: like open it up, rip it open, so excited. Oh
Speaker 1: there was blood on the package.
Speaker 2: Well I saw that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, So I posted that and several people
Speaker 1: wrote me back and were like, if it's blood, pour
Speaker 1: hydrogen peroxide on an in, it will bubble.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: If it's not, it's like ketchup or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I poured hydrogen peroxide on it and da.
Speaker 2: Da da it bubbled.
Speaker 1: Definitely blood. So either my Amazon driver really went through
Speaker 1: it to deliver me that package, or there is some
Speaker 1: unsolved mystery out there in the world that my package
Speaker 1: may have had something.
Speaker 2: To do with yeah that, or it is like rend
Speaker 2: me one of those dogs that like is like the
Speaker 2: Quintessential meets the mailman out front bites him in the butt. No,
Speaker 2: I didn't think so.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like that's your package mom, definitely coming from
Speaker 1: the whoever. My delivery driver.
Speaker 2: Was okay, okay, so that's really weird.
Speaker 3: And I just threw away. I was like, I don't
Speaker 3: want to be involved.
Speaker 1: I don't want to know. Yeah, but you did what happened.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna throw this way and pretend like it
Speaker 1: din't it. Yeah, but now it's going to forever be
Speaker 1: an unsolved mystery.
Speaker 2: That is definitely an unsolved mystery too, do doom boom doom?
Speaker 1: Well, so that's why, that's why the table anything in
Speaker 1: your life that's kind of like an unsolved.
Speaker 2: Mystery, unsolved mystery. Yes, so this is kind of weird
Speaker 2: and dark and we'll see where this goes.
Speaker 1: I love when you say that to me.
Speaker 2: I just popped on my head and I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't really have it. Oh, I do have one.
Speaker 2: I've always got one, right, So this was a really
Speaker 2: long time ago, back when AOL And if we already
Speaker 2: talked about this, you can stop me. I'll think of
Speaker 2: another one. But back when AOL was a thing, and
Speaker 2: all your conversations in a chat room or somewhere always
Speaker 2: started with ASL and pick question mark. I don't know
Speaker 2: if this is too old for you.
Speaker 1: Okay, the AOL isn't, but the ASL pick thing right, Yes,
Speaker 1: I don't feel familiar with A is.
Speaker 2: Age, s is sex, L is location, and pick was
Speaker 2: send me a pick, so age sex location pick Almost
Speaker 2: every started almost every chat room. You walked into a
Speaker 2: chat room ASL and you see a bunch of like
Speaker 2: maybe like fourteen slash m slash Florida and then to
Speaker 2: be a pick or be whatever, and it was like
Speaker 2: a lot of young ages wow on AOL. And then
Speaker 2: you see some older ones and everyone like, oh get
Speaker 2: out here, old man. But it was always a bunch
Speaker 2: of like teenagers and everyone doing their whole thing. And
Speaker 2: then if someone would send a pick, then all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, if someone liked your pick, you would then
Speaker 2: get this separate chat that pop up boo, and next
Speaker 2: you know you're chatting away with whoever this is, which
Speaker 2: you usually think it was a girl or a guy,
Speaker 2: but a lot of times it was probably a guy.
Speaker 1: Your hope it is who they said they were.
Speaker 2: You were hoping it was this hot sixteen year old
Speaker 2: girl with this awesome pick that she sent, but it
Speaker 2: was probably some fifty year old man in his basement
Speaker 2: at his mom's house, doing whatever he was doing. But
Speaker 2: you know verification back in there, everyone had names. It
Speaker 2: didn't matter what it was. And a lot of times
Speaker 2: I would even lie about my age. I think I
Speaker 2: was like ten or eleven, and I'd be like fifteen
Speaker 2: male Florida and send like a pick of someone else
Speaker 2: would you'd find on Google or what it was google?
Speaker 2: Back then it was like Netscape or some crap. But
Speaker 2: I fell into this thing, and then I was talking
Speaker 2: to this girl for a really long time, like months
Speaker 2: and months and months and months which felt like years,
Speaker 2: and the conversation was all about all these things.
Speaker 1: And then oh so you were like really vibing.
Speaker 2: I was vibing with his girl, and she was send
Speaker 2: me pictures and they always they always seem like the
Speaker 2: same girl, So it wasn't like it was like I
Speaker 2: was getting different pictures.
Speaker 1: But again also different varieties of pictures, scoob.
Speaker 2: That's the thing. So the varieties I was getting usually
Speaker 2: was clothed photos. And then it pivoted into naked shots
Speaker 2: of her and friends.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: And at eleven years old, you're like, WHOA, awesome, But
Speaker 2: as somebody who's now an adult and a father and
Speaker 2: knows what, you're always like, WHOA, this is creepy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because what fifteen year old girl has naked pictures of herself?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: And multiple girls in a picture of themselves younger naked children.
Speaker 2: You're thinking like, oh, my god, was I talking to
Speaker 2: like a pedo?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: And you never found out. You never found out who
Speaker 3: was on the other side.
Speaker 2: I never found out. And this girl Willy talk to
Speaker 2: me and like I'm gonna save myself for you and
Speaker 2: like telling me all these things I'm given. I'm eleven
Speaker 2: years old, Like I didn't have sex until I was
Speaker 2: like eighteen nineteen, so like wasn't even my even if
Speaker 2: we were to meet up, I wouldn't know what to
Speaker 2: do with myself with somebody else.
Speaker 1: It was also eleven, I was.
Speaker 2: Eleven, but you would see you were exposed the Internet
Speaker 2: exposed to you to so much at such a young
Speaker 2: age and seeing so many things. And so I guess
Speaker 2: the unsolved mystery is because then she was soon to
Speaker 2: talk about things that I want to get it because
Speaker 2: it's so dark of like things that happened to her.
Speaker 2: I was trying to save myself for you, and something
Speaker 2: happened and I was like, oh, hopefully you're okay, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, which is really weird, and I was, But
Speaker 2: then at eleven, you're just kind of playing into it
Speaker 2: and like you're it's almost like a mystery that you're like,
Speaker 2: you're following along or this like storyline. You're following along,
Speaker 2: and it's cool and like every I couldn't wait to
Speaker 2: get to my dad's house to log onto America Online
Speaker 2: and talk to this girl and see what happened or
Speaker 2: what was what she was doing, or what naked pictures
Speaker 2: going to send me this weekend, which, mind you, my
Speaker 2: parents are divorced, so this WI never had my mom's house,
Speaker 2: she wouldn't allow it. My dad's house, it was like
Speaker 2: free for all. He didn't give a crap. He was
Speaker 2: drunk on the couch or cooked out, He didn't care
Speaker 2: what was going on. So it was like really weird
Speaker 2: and it was this unsolved mystery.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is absolutely a dude in a basement.
Speaker 2: Oh for so much.
Speaker 1: Backstory and so much to that, which is even creepier
Speaker 1: considering he had those photos.
Speaker 2: Yes, but like.
Speaker 3: Just there's too much.
Speaker 1: Yes, like sixteen, I'm a sixteen year old girl. We
Speaker 1: don't talk that much, like, especially when we like our
Speaker 1: on the internet, were just like hey, it's like I'm
Speaker 1: giving you my life story. It's like what's up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like.
Speaker 3: Guys like we don't have a lot to say.
Speaker 1: And which makes me think it would be either somebody
Speaker 1: older and somebody like a man for pretending to be
Speaker 1: a woman.
Speaker 2: That's exact because even when I would talk to girls
Speaker 2: my school, we knew each other, so there was more,
Speaker 2: there was a conversation. It was never that avenue of conversation.
Speaker 2: It was about other things, but they would talk. But yes,
Speaker 2: and you talk to a stranger girl, a lot of
Speaker 2: times they'd be like you go away if it was
Speaker 2: like a real girl, yeah, or like oh I'm not
Speaker 2: talking about that or oh yeah or whatever. But for
Speaker 2: something to be so engaging and then to send these
Speaker 2: weird naked pictures, you're like at the time cool, but
Speaker 2: now you're looking back at it in retrospect, you're like,
Speaker 2: I was effing weird.
Speaker 1: Uh Yeah, And especially an older girl talking to a
Speaker 1: younger boy. Yeah, because she's like sixteen seventeen very often.
Speaker 2: Exactly, Yeah, yeah, exactly. So really weird the unsolved mystery.
Speaker 2: And I don't think I ever want to know the
Speaker 2: answer of that mystery.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think you're ever going to answer.
Speaker 2: I don't think I really ever get the answer.
Speaker 3: If I'm placing a bet, it's definitely a man in
Speaker 3: his basement.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm placing that bet. And I think those
Speaker 2: the better odds.
Speaker 1: Dang. Yeah, really, yours is forever. Mine's forever because I
Speaker 1: threw away the evidence. So we have too genuinely unsolve mysteries.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, totally. And I don't i'd like to know
Speaker 2: the answer to yours mine. I don't ever want to
Speaker 2: know because it's just way too weird, creepy and dark
Speaker 2: and disgusting. But yours, I want to know what the
Speaker 2: hell happened, Like, how did the blood get on there?
Speaker 2: What was the steps? Maybe it wasn't even the driver,
Speaker 2: was what happened between Amazon? Maybe it was a guy
Speaker 2: at Amazon who's putting together the packages and slice his
Speaker 2: finger on a machine, and it was this whole thing,
Speaker 2: and that Amazon's trying to cover it up with.
Speaker 1: A message to me, were they like in danger and
Speaker 1: they need the package and.
Speaker 2: You're supposed to check the DNA and swipe it. Who
Speaker 2: it was?
Speaker 1: I never know.
Speaker 2: There's some sort of like indentured servant in Amazon and
Speaker 2: Seattle and they're they're like paying twelve real kids and
Speaker 2: it's a whole illegal operation and they were hoping you'd
Speaker 2: be the one to break the case.
Speaker 1: Well, now I feel bad I threw it away. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I really don't want to be involved. You know,
Speaker 1: but mystery blood not my thing?
Speaker 2: Yeah not, you're thinking, I don't thus anyone's saying it's
Speaker 2: unless you're like a forensics type person.
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we've got we've got mysteries there. But this it's
Speaker 1: even more perfect for us to lean into our next segment,
Speaker 1: where we've got the show who shared their strong opinions
Speaker 1: on something small Scuba. I know, we both got some
Speaker 1: strong opinions on something small. Yeah, what do you got?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, something small?
Speaker 2: Okay, all right? And I was gonna say, I'll leave
Speaker 2: my wife out of it because we have little small
Speaker 2: arguments here and there.
Speaker 1: About no, no, no, like something more generic, maybe a little
Speaker 1: bit more funny that like somebody's gonna be like, you're ridiculous.
Speaker 1: You want to think about it. I can tell you.
Speaker 2: You give me a second to think about it, so you
Speaker 2: can do yours.
Speaker 1: Okay. So mine is that Apple is absolutely better than
Speaker 1: Android and Windows. Like there's no argument. Like everybody who's like,
Speaker 1: I love my Android, you're just lying to yourself. Yes, exactly, Yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: Apple is so much better.
Speaker 2: It's more user friendly, it's more compatible with everyone. When
Speaker 2: you send a photo to another Apple phone, it comes
Speaker 2: through as the full image and the full video. Like
Speaker 2: I'm in text groups with my wife's family and there's
Speaker 2: one effort. It's got a Samsung. Yeah. When you send
Speaker 2: the text or you send a video or they send
Speaker 2: a video, it comes in like the size of like
Speaker 2: a thimble, and it's all grainy and crappy, and you're like,
Speaker 2: I want to see the video, but I can't see it,
Speaker 2: like email to me or something, or send it to
Speaker 2: somebody who has the who has I don't know. It's yes, I'll.
Speaker 1: Admit there's sometimes like I've been on a day with
Speaker 1: a guy and he had an Android and I kind
Speaker 1: of thought twice I was hmm, yeah, I don't know
Speaker 1: about this my guy. I don't know that I can
Speaker 1: be texting back and forth with a green bubble.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah, exactly a lot. This isn't gonna work out.
Speaker 2: Not only do not want children, but you have a
Speaker 2: green bubble.
Speaker 1: Yeah there's bigger reasons, but not gonna lie. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: played a factor, Okay, definitely. Like I'm like, it's too
Speaker 1: just like the technology different, so much easier technology to
Speaker 1: utilize Apple than it is Windows Android. They're just not
Speaker 1: as user friendly totally, yes.
Speaker 2: And like I have a cousin who has the Samsung
Speaker 2: and the phones are cool and they really do have
Speaker 2: some really cool technology in it, and it's awesome. But
Speaker 2: I guess we're just so used to because this has
Speaker 2: been around since six oh seven and we've always had
Speaker 2: every generation of it, and yeah, it's changed over the years,
Speaker 2: but it's changed slightly, and it's changed with our culture,
Speaker 2: so we've been able to adapt to it over time,
Speaker 2: whereas Samsung is like this completely rigid system that that
Speaker 2: I'm just not familiar with at all, and it's totally different,
Speaker 2: and yeah, there are some cooler things in it, but
Speaker 2: I just don't really care.
Speaker 1: Whenever we have to get on, like our work computers
Speaker 1: in their Windows. I'm like, I don't know what's happening,
Speaker 1: but I don't know any of these I don't want
Speaker 1: to know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so multi verson that because I have my
Speaker 2: desktop which is all Windows, and then I have my laptop,
Speaker 2: which is Max.
Speaker 1: So I'm still pretre do you use more though.
Speaker 2: I use the laptop a whole lot more, and I
Speaker 2: use the desktop.
Speaker 1: Just for more to have, like an additional screen.
Speaker 2: I bet the additional screen, and it's faster to print
Speaker 2: from and I can do some things because our shared
Speaker 2: drive folders are on the on that because on the
Speaker 2: system and the on the network. So yeah, so but.
Speaker 1: You're always going to choose to use that, Oh yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Always choose my Mac. Yeah, one hundred percent told you.
Speaker 1: So that's one of them. Another one is if you
Speaker 1: use somebody's streaming service and you start watching something and
Speaker 1: you don't finish it, and then it stays in the.
Speaker 3: Keep watching tab.
Speaker 1: Yeah, irks me to know in finish whatever the frick
Speaker 1: you were watching. I don't know if you use my
Speaker 1: account or whatever, just finish it, because then it's in
Speaker 1: my keep watching tab and I'm not going to keep
Speaker 1: watching it and just stay there forever.
Speaker 2: Can you get rid of that? Like, if there's no
Speaker 2: way to delete it or get rid.
Speaker 1: Of it, there are.
Speaker 3: Netflix you can via their app on the phone.
Speaker 2: Oh, I watch it on my freaking TV.
Speaker 1: No, so like I use my app, I'll just go
Speaker 1: on like the leat and then it shows up on
Speaker 1: my TV.
Speaker 2: Can you do it on Roku? Why can't they allow
Speaker 2: you to do it there on the actual TV?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Hbo Max, you can, Amazon Prime, I
Speaker 1: haven't figured it out. Hulu, I haven't figured it out.
Speaker 1: Disney I have Disney's on the app. Okay, so there
Speaker 1: are ways to do it, but still I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is just so much work. Just finish whatever you were watching,
Speaker 1: let it play and don't watch. I don't care. Just
Speaker 1: get it off of my freaking keep watching. That's how
Speaker 1: I like like that. Keep watching tab is like my
Speaker 1: TV checklist exactly. Yes, And if somebody else is on there,
Speaker 1: then I can never check the box. Yeah it it
Speaker 1: bothers my ocds.
Speaker 2: You can, yeah, yeah. Ocd's where I'm usually that with this.
Speaker 2: All right, So I thought of one, Okay, I actually
Speaker 2: have two, and the first one I'll get it too
Speaker 2: really quick and the second one I'm really going to
Speaker 2: dive into. Okay, So the first one is people who
Speaker 2: respond to emails and they put something like gentle reminder,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you just sent me this email twelve
Speaker 2: hours ago. How can you gently remind me on something
Speaker 2: that's going to take a couple of days to get
Speaker 2: back to you. Don't gently remind me anything when you
Speaker 2: haven't even really even reminded. There's no even point for
Speaker 2: a reminder yet because you just sent it.
Speaker 1: Also, it's not that kind of a contradictory statement like
Speaker 1: gentle reminder, but like a reminder is not gentle, yeah
Speaker 1: those phrases.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a reminder is like just like a reminder. Yeah,
Speaker 2: nothing gently about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like a little touch on the shoulder.
Speaker 1: It's a tap, like red, please pay attention to me.
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, Yeah, yeah exactly. And I already responded to
Speaker 2: you and told you give me a second or I'll
Speaker 2: give this to you an x amount of whatever whatever
Speaker 2: the email eb in your corporate life. And so a
Speaker 2: gentle reminder bothers the hell out of me. And then
Speaker 2: the other one. This has bothered me for a very
Speaker 2: very long time, and it seems to happen a lot
Speaker 2: more and more now, and there's no reason for it,
Speaker 2: especially if you're a civilized adult and you know how
Speaker 2: to turn things off. Is I cannot stand automation when
Speaker 2: it comes to a lot of things, but in particular
Speaker 2: sinks and soap.
Speaker 1: Dispensers, oh, like where sometimes they won't come on, sometimes
Speaker 1: they don't work.
Speaker 2: Sometimes. Every single time you go up to an automated sink,
Speaker 2: every single time you do this, like put your hand
Speaker 2: there and you're like okay, okay, and you hold it
Speaker 2: there and you're trying to find the sensor. The sensor
Speaker 2: doesn't even I don't even know where the sensors are,
Speaker 2: because I've looked under them, I've looked around them. I
Speaker 2: don't even I don't even think there are even our sensors.
Speaker 2: I think it just turns on randomly, and for soap too,
Speaker 2: and then then you can't use soap, and then you're
Speaker 2: hobbling around to each one of the different sinks because
Speaker 2: the soap worked here and the water doesn't work here,
Speaker 2: or the water worked here, but the soap. It's just
Speaker 2: it's so stupid. Give me my damn handles back.
Speaker 1: I know. I think the reason they did that too,
Speaker 1: is because if germs and germs are so bad and
Speaker 1: public rushrooms, I think that was the point of them.
Speaker 1: But if that's the point of them, then they have
Speaker 1: to work, because otherwise people then won't even wash their hand.
Speaker 2: And then there's even then there's then there's and they
Speaker 2: not tell you what there are people who have not
Speaker 2: washing their hands even more because they can't even get
Speaker 2: him to come.
Speaker 1: On, yeah, because they don't work.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's super annoying. And you don't and then my
Speaker 2: thinking of it is, you're not really going to have
Speaker 2: germs because you're washing your hands and then when you're done,
Speaker 2: you can hit it with your wrist, like the turning
Speaker 2: off the faucet or whatever, so you can eliminate.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know most people don't use their wrists.
Speaker 1: Have you watch people in the bathrooms. It's sketchy, Okay.
Speaker 2: It is very sketchy. Yeah, but I.
Speaker 1: Do think that's why. I think that's where they came from.
Speaker 1: But yeah, they don't. They're almost as bad as the
Speaker 1: McDonald's ice cream machine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's that's the employee's fault because I used
Speaker 2: to work there, and that's just somebody who's who who who?
Speaker 2: So that the whole story on that is it's never broken.
Speaker 1: So you're telling me it's a conspiracy theory theory. It's factual,
Speaker 1: I know, but like it's a it's a conspiracy theory
Speaker 1: that it's broken all the time, when in.
Speaker 2: Reality, it's never broken. It's because Jessica or Sarah or
Speaker 2: Tim or Bob or whoever wanted to shut things down
Speaker 2: sooner so they can get out quicker. So they shut
Speaker 2: down the ice cream machine and either at the end
Speaker 2: of their shift or at the end of the day
Speaker 2: of the restaurant because it was their duty or whatever.
Speaker 2: So when they close it down, they go because they
Speaker 2: close it down, it's been empty. They clean it out
Speaker 2: for the next day or the next shift. And so
Speaker 2: instead of just saying, oh, oh, let me get give
Speaker 2: me a second to restart it back up, or or
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I was trying to get out of here faster,
Speaker 2: they just say it's broken, when it's never broken. It
Speaker 2: is one hundred percent the employee who has cleaned it
Speaker 2: up and put it away for the day and doesn't
Speaker 2: want to restart it up again.
Speaker 1: I mean fair, But yeah, you would think that McDonald's
Speaker 1: would have jumped in by now to like shut down
Speaker 1: that whole theory of like no ource scream machines aren't broken,
Speaker 1: we need to figure this out.
Speaker 2: Well, the problem is love these are owned by It's
Speaker 2: like a guy who owns like ten to fifteen of them,
Speaker 2: he's not going around checking them to see what it is.
Speaker 2: And Plus, if anyone's closing it down and cleaning out,
Speaker 2: they're doing something right. They're cleaning it and putting it away.
Speaker 2: There's no one patrolling them at that time at nine pm.
Speaker 1: Yes, definitely broken.
Speaker 3: Money on the table, my guys, it is.
Speaker 2: But McDonald's makes enough money they're not worried about. That's
Speaker 2: probably ice cream that won ice cream salor once in
Speaker 2: a while. So it comes down to somebody who is
Speaker 2: not being lazy, but being lazy. They're closing it down,
Speaker 2: which is great, but they're doing it way too soon
Speaker 2: so they can get out sooner. All right, Well, not broken.
Speaker 1: We got your two things, and we got a fixed
Speaker 1: conspiracy theory.
Speaker 2: Yes, and if you for a hack, if you want
Speaker 2: fresh French fries, tell me you want no salt, because
Speaker 2: that means they have to put them. They're like, ah
Speaker 2: crap because they because as soon as they make and
Speaker 2: they put them in the in the they take it
Speaker 2: from the vat, they put them in the thing where
Speaker 2: the fries live, and they immediately salt them. So we say,
Speaker 2: you want no salt.
Speaker 1: The salt is what maze is so delicious.
Speaker 2: You can get the salt and put it on yourself.
Speaker 2: It's the same salt that they give in the packets.
Speaker 1: You know, you're probably right, but listen, they become.
Speaker 2: All salty, so good, you do yourself that way you get.
Speaker 2: But what's better fresh French fries that you added salt to,
Speaker 2: or soggy gross fries they added salt to. That's out
Speaker 2: there for fifteen minutes, you know.
Speaker 1: I like the mischief, like the little mystery of when
Speaker 1: I order, am I going to get soggy fries?
Speaker 2: Sare?
Speaker 1: Am I get it hot and salty.
Speaker 2: I don't like playing that game.
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, we gonna get today.
Speaker 2: It's a terrible game because the loser is always going
Speaker 2: to be you. It's not damn.
Speaker 1: I do love a squishy fries sometimes, so you really
Speaker 1: like a squishy fry? Yeah? Sometimes, Oh my gosh, they
Speaker 1: got a lot of salt on them. Don't ask me.
Speaker 1: I just love fries. I don't discriminate against a fry.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: I even take on fries and I bring them home
Speaker 1: and I heat them up because I love fries.
Speaker 2: You heat themember the microwave, or you put them in
Speaker 2: the oven.
Speaker 1: The microwave microwave.
Speaker 2: Ooh, it doesn't taste the same for me. It's all rubbery.
Speaker 1: They do a little bit, but then you just if
Speaker 1: you let them like heat up and cool down for
Speaker 1: a second, then they kind of go back to middle ground. Okay,
Speaker 1: but I've always been weird for taking my fries home.
Speaker 1: I love fries.
Speaker 2: Crazy.
Speaker 1: I have always said that I am a potato.
Speaker 2: Your innerds are all of a what do they call
Speaker 2: those gords? Is that a gordon? It's a potato.
Speaker 1: A potato starches starches.
Speaker 2: That's what starts starches.
Speaker 1: All right, well those are some good ones. But quick
Speaker 1: before we headed to this break, I need to know
Speaker 1: we're gonna end on a high note, not a low note.
Speaker 2: Okay, high note. Let's do it.
Speaker 1: What's your favorite thing in your pantry right now that
Speaker 1: you're eating that you really love?
Speaker 2: Oh man, I love these things that I get from publics.
Speaker 2: They are these plain rice cakes and the no salt
Speaker 2: like they have ones where they have like light saw
Speaker 2: and they got the chatter ones. We buy all those two.
Speaker 2: But I just love these like really boring ass plain
Speaker 2: circular disc rice cakes that they're made by the publics
Speaker 2: or that oatmeal guy, that guy with like the hat
Speaker 2: and guy quicker guy. Yeah yeah, yeah, I love those
Speaker 2: by themselves plane And then my son loves them now too.
Speaker 2: Weaed him together on the way to baseball practice.
Speaker 3: Those are like your version of chips.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly chips. Yeah, yeah. It has nothing to do
Speaker 2: with health. It's just something that I just really like, yeah,
Speaker 2: conscious about health? Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: What's your favorite thing?
Speaker 2: That's everything in the pantry?
Speaker 1: Is that?
Speaker 2: By far? That am my sweet and sour sauce from
Speaker 2: a sweet chili sauce from nine nine Ranch I get
Speaker 2: shipped in from San Francisco.
Speaker 1: I feel like you can put that on the rice cake.
Speaker 2: You probably could. I haven't tried that, but now I will.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I feel like that would mix ball together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a great combination.
Speaker 3: You can't see him right now, but I just lit up.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, with my twitching red eye and eyes lit up.
Speaker 1: That's great, I see. And this is something you can
Speaker 1: also put on your rice cakes. I'm obsessed with it.
Speaker 1: My niece and nephew came to town and I had
Speaker 1: to get them snacks because they have to be gluten free.
Speaker 1: And there's this peanut butter chocolate spread okay, and it's
Speaker 1: peanuts blended with cocoa and I eat it with like
Speaker 1: pretzels and it tastes amazing. It's like peanut butter, but chocolate,
Speaker 1: peanut butter.
Speaker 2: Who makes it? What is it?
Speaker 3: It's from peanut butter and co.
Speaker 1: Okay, peanut butter and delicious or something. And I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: like I used to just eat like apples and peanut
Speaker 1: butter or whatever, pretzels and peanut butter. And this is
Speaker 1: like a little bit healthier form of nutella.
Speaker 2: That's awesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it was peanut butter. I found it out Walmart, Okay, Walmart, Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh okay, like buy all the little peanut butter and.
Speaker 2: Jelly are okay, yeah.
Speaker 1: So peanuts and cocoa, okay, And it's delicious.
Speaker 2: It's a delicious peanut delicious even know it says the
Speaker 2: vegeta's already in fifty five.
Speaker 3: Oh, we gotta go have a little lunch break. Then
Speaker 3: we'll be back.
Speaker 1: Well, you guys have heard our one of our show's
Speaker 1: theme songs that was written by a guy named Canine
Speaker 1: in Florida. He wrote it just because he wanted to
Speaker 1: and send it to us and said we could use
Speaker 1: it for the post show. While he finally stopped by
Speaker 1: the studio in person to sing the theme song live.
Speaker 3: That happened on the show this week.
Speaker 1: But we're not talking Canine, because that's happening on the
Speaker 1: bits right here. Scoopa and I are going to talk
Speaker 1: about a concert that him and I both just went
Speaker 1: to that was epic.
Speaker 2: Which one was that? Luke come, oh yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, You're like, oh dang, I've been to so many concerts.
Speaker 1: I was it.
Speaker 3: It was Luke Holmb's at Nissan Stadium.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And I want to know your thoughts, like,
Speaker 1: what was your favorite part of it?
Speaker 2: Well, I like the fact that it was bringing your
Speaker 2: parent to a show day because Kevin, who works in
Speaker 2: the show behind the scenes and those twenty five whistles,
Speaker 2: he brought his dad, and Abby shows up a few
Speaker 2: minutes later with her mom, and then Broke, who works
Speaker 2: here in the building for the Big ninety eight, brought
Speaker 2: her mom, and then another guy who works as one
Speaker 2: of our affiliates in San Francisco. He kind of flipped
Speaker 2: it and he brought his son. So it was like
Speaker 2: a family affair at the show. It was it was
Speaker 2: really cool.
Speaker 1: You had your wife that a family affair.
Speaker 2: Family a fair who was a mother.
Speaker 1: But then there was me with my best friend and.
Speaker 2: There's Morgan being Morgan. I also hope you to bring
Speaker 2: your mom or your dad or somebody.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been trying to get him come down for
Speaker 1: a concert, but always come down for CMA Fest and
Speaker 1: that's like five thousand concerts in one exactly.
Speaker 2: And it's coming up in like a few months anyways. Yeah,
Speaker 2: less than a few months. A couple of months.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, very soon.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So your favorite part of Luke Hoombs is not Luke
Speaker 1: Hombs what it was family Day.
Speaker 2: It was. It was really it actually was really cool
Speaker 2: because then you got to meet everyone's parents or whatever
Speaker 2: they brought with him. And Kevin's dad is a riot
Speaker 2: because it was really weird too because Kevin's from Socoo
Speaker 2: and that's how we bonded from living in La and
Speaker 2: I lived in La. But his dad comes in, He's
Speaker 2: all like, what are you doing? He's all like super
Speaker 2: upper h northeast sounding, and I was like, what the hell?
Speaker 2: And then I was like, how does soca? And of
Speaker 2: course obviously people weren't you know he moved duh, I
Speaker 2: mean just because they sounds like a way as I mean,
Speaker 2: that's anyways, so he moved to the West Coast. That's
Speaker 2: where you met Kevin's mother, and I'll I'll let him
Speaker 2: tell you the story one day.
Speaker 1: But this kid was like telling Kevin's a life story.
Speaker 1: Kick off. Kevin, by the way, know him.
Speaker 2: But it was cool to talk to him and we Bondedever,
Speaker 2: he always coached Kevin's sports teams, and I'm now coaching
Speaker 2: my son's t ball team, so it's kind of cool
Speaker 2: to talk to him and get some pointers and tips
Speaker 2: and things like that. And so I kind of enjoyed
Speaker 2: more hanging out with the parents of the of the staff.
Speaker 2: I mean, the show was great.
Speaker 1: I feel offended because I didn't have a parent there,
Speaker 1: and I am most of the staff, so I go
Speaker 1: offended doubly.
Speaker 2: I have fun with you for Li Becaus, and you
Speaker 2: helped me and you gave me a gymnastics tip for
Speaker 2: my daughter. I did.
Speaker 1: We didn't need a chance to hang out much. But
Speaker 1: I did hang out with your wife. I always hang
Speaker 1: out with her for a little bit every time I
Speaker 1: see her.
Speaker 2: We bond at Chris Jansen's house, you guys hung out.
Speaker 1: We bonded over our love of sweets, sneaking over to
Speaker 1: the dessert table.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's I gotta go around. I'm gonna hang out Morgan.
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, cool, whatever, I'll hang out with
Speaker 2: Kevin and Pitts. But yeah, it was fun. I think
Speaker 2: that that was I mean, the concert was great, it really,
Speaker 2: I mean a Nissan Stadium was electric. People were hella
Speaker 2: drunk at like four pm before the show even started.
Speaker 2: There's a woman who fell on the ground a guy
Speaker 2: who was already screaming obscenities, and I was like, the
Speaker 2: sun is so up. This thing hasn't even started yet,
Speaker 2: and y'all are already twisted.
Speaker 1: Oh Scuba. That was so. I didn't see it at
Speaker 1: Luke Colmbs, but I went to Lady A the night before. Again,
Speaker 1: it was at the Ryman so much nicer, a little
Speaker 1: bit you don't expect as rough as an intense crowd there. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: a dude punched another guy. That dude was bleeding from
Speaker 1: his face and he was about to get pushed over
Speaker 1: the balcony at Lady A Lady at the Ryman.
Speaker 2: Their music gets played on like Hot a Sea stations
Speaker 2: from the eighties, nineties and.
Speaker 1: Today to see his country shows of all time, and
Speaker 1: there's a full on fist by happening in the balcony.
Speaker 2: That is so odd. I have a question about Lady A.
Speaker 2: Were they on time or were they super late?
Speaker 1: Like always what they're always late?
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I went to a concert one time
Speaker 2: down in Franklin and it was like a couple acts
Speaker 2: Nico Moon and a couple Dollers that came on and
Speaker 2: then there was like this like thirty minute there's always
Speaker 2: an intermission between Jack they guy switch things out or whatever.
Speaker 2: It was supposed to be twenty five thirty minutes. Forty
Speaker 2: five minutes goes by, an hour goes by, and they're
Speaker 2: still not on, and now it's like nine thirty and
Speaker 2: I'm like, I got kids at home, and then we're
Speaker 2: allway down to Franklin, so we ended up leaving. I've
Speaker 2: never seen Lady A live because the two times I've went,
Speaker 2: it ended up being an hour plus wait for them
Speaker 2: to come on, and I'm like, what the last time
Speaker 2: this happened to me was Lady Gaga.
Speaker 1: But I was like, I wonder if something happened, because
Speaker 1: you know, they went on right, like literally right on time.
Speaker 2: Oh because Kevin said they went on late, like they
Speaker 2: were like super late.
Speaker 1: Well then left early because he didn't even stay to
Speaker 1: get to the part of them getting on stafe.
Speaker 2: Okay, so he left for different reasons.
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, because he also saw another fight happen and
Speaker 1: he was like, we're just gonna leave. I was like, okay, whatever,
Speaker 1: because I showed up right after the opener and it
Speaker 1: was like right at that intermission time, and I had
Speaker 1: the times of when everybody was supposed to go on
Speaker 1: from the label.
Speaker 3: They went all right on time.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, yeah yeah. So that so that seemed like, oh,
Speaker 2: must be a reoccurring thing where they're always making everyone wait,
Speaker 2: Like this is sort of like anticipation type thing. They
Speaker 2: do this on purpose to make it.
Speaker 1: Now I wonder if something that happened back then or
Speaker 1: there's something going on with touring. But yeah, no, this
Speaker 1: time they were right on time, and it was one
Speaker 1: of the coolest tours that I've seen. Because the way
Speaker 1: they did it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to see their set. I know they're amazing.
Speaker 2: I've just never seen it except for our studio. But
Speaker 2: that's not like the same.
Speaker 1: No, it's experience yea. And this the idea behind the
Speaker 1: like the request line was really cool. Like what they
Speaker 1: did was play the voicemails over the speaker and then
Speaker 1: they'd be like, Okay, who's Kara that called in? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and they talked to them. They're like, the song is
Speaker 1: for you. It was this very intimate setting and they
Speaker 1: had so many songs and I knew every single one.
Speaker 1: I was like, this was unexpected for me to love it.
Speaker 1: I knew I was gonna like it. I knew there
Speaker 1: were vocals were going to be awesome. Yeah, but it
Speaker 1: was unexpected for me to love it as much as
Speaker 1: I did.
Speaker 2: Did did they play Bobby's voicemails or No?
Speaker 1: They didn't. It did not happen. I was waiting. I
Speaker 1: even have my phone ready to like take a bite,
Speaker 1: And because they kept playing them, noe and I stayed
Speaker 1: the whole time. I stayed through the encore. No, but
Speaker 1: they did play them and they posted a video with it.
Speaker 3: I saw that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, no, they didn't do it during the show.
Speaker 3: They could have done it during the second night at Nashville.
Speaker 2: Okay, they had two nights.
Speaker 1: Okay, they did, but at the night that I was there, didn't.
Speaker 2: They didn't do it. Okay, that's cool. I know a
Speaker 2: lot of their songs too, just because I've worked in
Speaker 2: other genres of music and they're one of those bands
Speaker 2: that has crossed over into like top forty pop, the
Speaker 2: hot AC space, So I know all their songs just
Speaker 2: because of that, and then coming here like they're one
Speaker 2: of the only bands that comes through, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: I know you prior to my country career, Like, this
Speaker 2: is really cool. Oh my god, your lady a. You know,
Speaker 2: we've played your songs so many times it is incredible.
Speaker 1: Well, I highly suggest now going to see them, especially
Speaker 1: with like if the request Line tour comes. It's just
Speaker 1: such a cool idea and different type of tour than
Speaker 1: I've ever seen before.
Speaker 2: Okay cool, And they're just really good. They're really good
Speaker 2: performing Oh.
Speaker 1: My god, just vocals and Charles got a standing innovation
Speaker 1: for his sobriety.
Speaker 2: Song Oh so he performed that one he did by.
Speaker 1: Himself, him and Dave Ron stage with one of their
Speaker 1: other guitar players, and then they had they had like
Speaker 1: a whole book and they're like, this is seventeen years
Speaker 1: of songs that we've done, damn. And you're just like,
Speaker 1: holy crap. And when they go through like all these
Speaker 1: different requests and these are like album cuts and you
Speaker 1: know them all and you just don't realize that you
Speaker 1: know so many of them. So it was really good.
Speaker 1: Like I loved Luke Colmbs and it was rowdy, it
Speaker 1: was a great time, like in that weekend, like Lady
Speaker 1: A crushed it.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, and then the Ryman's a cool venue for
Speaker 2: like that kind of performance.
Speaker 1: Besides the fighting as a w W.
Speaker 2: Knight, and that's something that'd be a Nissan stadium. That
Speaker 2: makes more sense obviously if Lanny Wilson performing. And that
Speaker 2: was the other good Blannie Wilson's great. Briley Green's pretty cool.
Speaker 2: There's a moment there that kind of was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: definitely in the country world, I want to get into that.
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, okay, people, there was a moment.
Speaker 2: There was a moment it was like I was like,
Speaker 2: shut the hell up.
Speaker 1: I am obsessed with Lannie Wilson, though, I'm just obsessed her.
Speaker 2: When she came in there for the first time, like
Speaker 2: two or three years ago, I got this immediate feeling
Speaker 2: the energy that she exudes, the way she carries herself,
Speaker 2: the way she speaks, the way she performs, the way
Speaker 2: she answers sayings. I was like, Oh my god, this
Speaker 2: is the next generation of like a Dolly or Ariba
Speaker 2: or somebody of that elk for this next generation just
Speaker 2: everything about her. I was like, Wow, this chick is legit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like really awesome. That way when we were in
Speaker 1: the like the press room that we had access to
Speaker 1: about that show, and she came in, she saw me
Speaker 1: right away and she gave me a big hut. She's like,
Speaker 1: how are you like immediately, and I was just like,
Speaker 1: I mean, I know that we've her and I have
Speaker 1: had a few moments outside of the show and stuff
Speaker 1: that we've interacted, so we're acquaintances more than we're like
Speaker 1: know each other because of work, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like there's all the levels, but I just adore her,
Speaker 1: like I've just never had a bad interaction with her.
Speaker 3: And she's incredibly talented.
Speaker 2: She is, yeah, and a great singer.
Speaker 1: I'm just awesome yeah, so we both we both love
Speaker 1: Lanne will.
Speaker 2: See Yeah, a hundre percent. We have a huge fan.
Speaker 1: That would probably be my highlight of Luke Comb's like
Speaker 1: I love Luke Combs and I sang my I sang
Speaker 1: my winning song. My friend got a video of me
Speaker 1: like rocking out to my wedding. Yeah, never broke my heart,
Speaker 1: not that it plays all that often. Yeah, still my
Speaker 1: winning song. Yeah, but I did that was like the
Speaker 1: those two were the fun moments. But I did have
Speaker 1: a bad experience at.
Speaker 2: Lucom Okay, what was your bad experience?
Speaker 1: So we were on the pedestrian bridge afterwards, which is
Speaker 1: like a whole experience. Have you ever come to Nashville
Speaker 1: go before?
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you guys need to.
Speaker 1: It's like it's something to experience and you'll do it
Speaker 1: once you'll be like, cool, I experienced it.
Speaker 2: I'm good, I've seen it. So it's basically a bridge
Speaker 2: that connects you from like downtown Nashville over to Nissan Stadium.
Speaker 2: It's that's what the purpose of it is, right.
Speaker 1: Yep, and everybody before it's really after either a concert
Speaker 1: or a game, and everybody, especially after like a really
Speaker 1: cool moment, like a Hookcomb's concert. Everybody's walking over. Sometimes
Speaker 1: people start singing songs. It's like this whole kind of
Speaker 1: fan moment that happens. Yeah, well, everybody's like high on life.
Speaker 1: And I asked my friend to take a picture for me.
Speaker 1: We didn't take any on the way over. And as
Speaker 1: I'm taking a picture, a guy walked by and blew
Speaker 1: smoke in my face. He was smoking a cigarette, blue
Speaker 1: smoke in my face and laughed.
Speaker 2: Yes, it wasn't like I did it likely, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2: It was like an unintentional face to me.
Speaker 1: Did it and laughed and then walked away as he
Speaker 1: was laughing.
Speaker 2: And it was a cigarette smoke. Yeah, so it definitely
Speaker 2: smelled awful. Then it wasn't. It was like he was
Speaker 2: trying to get you high or anything like or No,
Speaker 2: there was nothing good about this experience anyway. And you
Speaker 2: get the mixture of his like probably beer breath and
Speaker 2: all the gross things he ate all day long.
Speaker 1: I was like so appalled, like I didn't have words
Speaker 1: because I just didn't know what happened.
Speaker 2: To be I'm disrespectful and disgusting.
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, listen, if you won't give me a
Speaker 1: hard time for taking photos cool, whatever, it is what
Speaker 1: it is, But smoke in my face? Yeah? Is that
Speaker 1: really necessary? Yeah? On what level did you believe this
Speaker 1: is a good idea?
Speaker 2: Was he with a group of people by himself, He's
Speaker 2: with a woman? Wow? And what was her reaction? Like,
Speaker 2: stop that, Darren.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she was like on something too
Speaker 1: and they're okay, you know, Yeah, she was a giggling
Speaker 1: but she was kind of like like awkward.
Speaker 2: Laugh o, kind of like I can if you did that.
Speaker 2: And if I say, something's gonna hit me, that's the
Speaker 2: kind of guy that would hit that energy.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I better not better not say anthing against him,
Speaker 2: or I'm gonna be getting beat on the way home.
Speaker 2: Gross Haffle, what an awful human being. So start off
Speaker 2: on a high, yeah, and then in a pretty damn low.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just is still walking, you know. Thankfully I
Speaker 1: still don't have my smell, so I really got whiffs
Speaker 1: of the cigarette smoke, but it was just like it
Speaker 1: was all in my face and nothing sucks worse than
Speaker 1: secondhand smoke.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, second smoke is my grandpa used
Speaker 2: to drive us to school like in the nineties. This
Speaker 2: is like when things just you did, and there were
Speaker 2: any rules, And my grandpa would drive us to school
Speaker 2: in the morning. He smoked cigarettes up until a certain
Speaker 2: point when he had like a trimble bypass and he
Speaker 2: then of course quit. But when we were kids, he'd
Speaker 2: drive us to school and he would drive in his
Speaker 2: old Buick and be smoking cigarettes in the way to school.
Speaker 2: And then he would almost like hot box the car,
Speaker 2: you know, like a hot boxes. Yeah, the windows are
Speaker 2: rolled up, but they was just cracked like a sliver,
Speaker 2: only his window. So he's in the car driving smoking
Speaker 2: a cigarette, cracked window. And then we were always like upset,
Speaker 2: but we could never talk back because he was the
Speaker 2: old school generation. He just kind of just sat there
Speaker 2: and sucked it up. But then one day I remember
Speaker 2: my teacher because like she she was like, you guys
Speaker 2: smell like like smoke, is everything okay? And I told
Speaker 2: the story of my grandpa smoked cigarettes in the car,
Speaker 2: and I think she then called my mom and was like,
Speaker 2: what's going on here? Because then the next day or
Speaker 2: a couple of whatever had happened for like months, maybe
Speaker 2: a year, and I finally someone called us out and
Speaker 2: my mom. We were in the car one day and
Speaker 2: then my Grandpa's driving, and he goes, oh, sorry, I
Speaker 2: guess I got to crack the window a little bit
Speaker 2: more because then I'll get in trouble for da da
Speaker 2: da da dada. Like he went on this whole ran
Speaker 2: a little bit more. Yeah, and then so he cracked
Speaker 2: he went, and then he cracked it just a little
Speaker 2: bit more, and then he goes, oh, let me do
Speaker 2: your window to Steven. And he thought I like ratting
Speaker 2: him out or something, and I was I didn't, And
Speaker 2: I was like, I didn't say anything. He's like, shut
Speaker 2: your mouth.
Speaker 1: What a horribly awful story. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, good lord.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's terrible. Well, I mean, I'm glad
Speaker 1: you don't have that experience anymore. And I'm glad a teacher.
Speaker 1: Why can't say that word advocated for you?
Speaker 2: Yes, thank you so much, missus Kapelka I think her
Speaker 2: name was. You're great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, shout out to you.
Speaker 2: You saved my life and probably probably instead of shaving
Speaker 2: off ten years, you probably saved me ten years not
Speaker 2: breathing in that smoke anymore, beautifully.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So people, just you know, if you decide to
Speaker 1: do that, please don't do it in other people's vicinity.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really I still baffled by that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a conversation for another day. That that should
Speaker 1: just stop entirely, But yeah we are.
Speaker 2: Then I have a question for you, because you like
Speaker 2: country music a lot. Lucom's song, I'd never hear the
Speaker 2: music and it's I'm usually busy and not really paying
Speaker 2: attention to lyrics. The song one call away? Is that
Speaker 2: a song about like one number?
Speaker 1: One?
Speaker 2: One number?
Speaker 1: Way?
Speaker 2: Is it something about Is that like a like because
Speaker 2: he writes a lot of his music, right.
Speaker 1: Yes he does.
Speaker 2: Is that like an infidelity song?
Speaker 1: No? So, and I gotta remember make it seem like.
Speaker 2: I guess I'm only one call away from calling my
Speaker 2: side check?
Speaker 1: No so, really, what it's It's more like a breakup song. Okay, So,
Speaker 1: like the lyrics go, I'm one number away from calling you.
Speaker 1: I said I was through, but I'm dying inside. Got
Speaker 1: my head in a mess, girl, I confess I lied
Speaker 1: what I said. I'm leaving and I'm not coming back.
Speaker 1: So it's like he broke up with somebody and he's
Speaker 1: really dying through the breakup and like wants to go
Speaker 1: back to her, but like doesn't think he can okay, kind.
Speaker 2: Of scenario because I was just thinking of someone maybe,
Speaker 2: so maybe there was a breakup in his relationship with
Speaker 2: his girl or a previous girl. I read into it
Speaker 2: as like, I'm only one call away from calling this
Speaker 2: other girl back because he's in a relationship. And I
Speaker 2: only got he's in a relationship with somebody, but he's
Speaker 2: almost one caller from calling somebody else back.
Speaker 1: Isn't that funny though? How you can interpret the songs? Yeah, differently?
Speaker 2: Is Luke I's cheating on his wife or did cheat
Speaker 2: on his wife or fiance girlfriend that at the.
Speaker 1: Time, so one number way. I can't remember if it
Speaker 1: came out before they had started dating, okay, or ride
Speaker 1: about when they started dating. I can't remember, but it
Speaker 1: was one of the first few songs of his career,
Speaker 1: so I'm not sure at the timeline of their relationship
Speaker 1: how that lines up.
Speaker 3: Okay, but yeah, it's definitely a breakup song or sure.
Speaker 2: I feel better about that now because then I was
Speaker 2: watching the promos of like their their a Gear of
Speaker 2: like Lucombe slash Nicole or whatever, and she did not
Speaker 2: look happy in those in those promo shots, she looked
Speaker 2: pretty pissed. I was like, Wow, that mostly something going
Speaker 2: on here.
Speaker 1: I'm reading into a lot kind of been her modeling face, Guba.
Speaker 2: It wasn't the modeling face. It was like moments where
Speaker 2: he was like trying to kiss her and she'd be
Speaker 2: like this whole like like not wanting to kiss back.
Speaker 2: And I was reading into a lot of the body languages,
Speaker 2: and I was like, that is something either she was.
Speaker 2: It was just you know how couples are. We always
Speaker 2: there's like days where you have a great day of
Speaker 2: a bad day, especially when kids they're involved. I can
Speaker 2: really attest to that. So I wasn't looking at us
Speaker 2: like the relationship was falling apart. I was just like
Speaker 2: when they did this shoot, she was not happy with
Speaker 2: him in that moment. He must have like he must
Speaker 2: have been late, or there must have been something that
Speaker 2: happened that day or he said something or something or whatever.
Speaker 2: But I was like, wow, she is not happy in
Speaker 2: that shoot.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to pay attention to the shoot now
Speaker 1: because I was not watching because they were playing them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're playing it on like like a screen like
Speaker 2: like in between acts. Oh yeah, I was drinking during
Speaker 2: I was watching, and I saw the thing. I was
Speaker 2: like oh cool, Like, oh, that's awesome his wife, because
Speaker 2: his wife's merch was better than his merch, Like she
Speaker 2: made some really cool it was like a collaborative effort
Speaker 2: with her, like Chris stuff was really cool. This is
Speaker 2: some pretty cool stuff. But then they would get like
Speaker 2: a shot with him and her and I was like,
Speaker 2: he's happy, but she looks helopist. And it wasn't modeling face,
Speaker 2: it was it was the reactions.
Speaker 1: The body language interpreter.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I was like, she's not even My wife
Speaker 2: was like whoa. That's like because we were all like,
Speaker 2: I'm like, I've been there before, like like nothing on
Speaker 2: the relationship, but just you have ebbs and flows, especially
Speaker 2: when kids are involved. And I was like, she's like
Speaker 2: she's I been there. And I was like, I know,
Speaker 2: I feel what he's feeling, and you feel what she's feeling.
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh boy that they were not
Speaker 2: happy at that.
Speaker 1: Shoot, hey, they made you relate to their photos and
Speaker 1: they didn't even know they were doing that.
Speaker 2: It worked. It totally worked. Yeah, So the relationship is fine.
Speaker 2: It's just that's how relationships. Sorry, ebs and flows.
Speaker 1: And that song came out early in his career, so
Speaker 1: they weren't even I know they weren't. I don't even
Speaker 1: want to say that. I don't think they were married
Speaker 1: at the time.
Speaker 2: That that's okay. Now I could be wrong and then
Speaker 2: they giving you right stuff though it could be about
Speaker 2: it relationship from ten years ago. You know, you write
Speaker 2: something and you cut it. Whenever you cut it, you
Speaker 2: don't have to cut it the next day.
Speaker 1: But definitely not about a break or not about infidelity.
Speaker 3: Infidelity about a breakup.
Speaker 2: Y okay, yeah, yeah, okay, gotch I got you listen.
Speaker 1: I got all my Luke Combs and know ledge he's
Speaker 1: my guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I asked you and not anyone else
Speaker 2: in this building.
Speaker 1: I love him well. Speaking of top famous people, you know,
Speaker 1: Luke Combs is one of them, even according to Lunchbox,
Speaker 1: which is insane. You know. The fact that Lunchbox even
Speaker 1: came to clarity that he knew ten famous people and
Speaker 1: actually got them right was pretty impressive. But he was
Speaker 1: also on the same list.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: Yeah. This was his lunchboxes Top twenty five Famous People
Speaker 1: and Nashville list, and it was updated. A listener wanted
Speaker 1: to know what the latest list was, so he moved
Speaker 1: up on the list himself, of course, and he shared
Speaker 1: where everybody else is currently ranking in his brain, so
Speaker 1: he can check that whole thing out on the best bits,
Speaker 1: just the bits. But I want to talk about some
Speaker 1: big life update because you just mentioned as we were
Speaker 1: talking about Luke Combs and the whole concert, that you're teaching.
Speaker 3: Well, you're not teaching, you're coaching.
Speaker 1: Teaching.
Speaker 3: Yeah, your son's sports team. What's happening.
Speaker 2: Yes, So I am as t ball coach, and it
Speaker 2: is interesting because your T ball is four to five,
Speaker 2: and so the attention span is like negative one thousand,
Speaker 2: and everyone's at different levels, and at that age you're
Speaker 2: not really concerned about I'm not, at least some people
Speaker 2: may be about winning. Winning doesn't mean a thing at
Speaker 2: this point. At this point, it's about teaching the basics,
Speaker 2: making sure they're having fun so that way they want
Speaker 2: to continue on in baseball, you know, later on. And
Speaker 2: then I've seen other coaches and other styles where they're
Speaker 2: so dialed in the winning and winning in far hits
Speaker 2: and da da da. I'm just like they're four or five.
Speaker 2: So my whole philosophy is just teaching the basic right
Speaker 2: now is when you get the ball and you're playing defense,
Speaker 2: where do you throw it to first base? Awesome? And
Speaker 2: when you're hitting the ball, where do you run to
Speaker 2: first base? So if I can get those things down, okay,
Speaker 2: we're golden. And then there's lots of a lot of
Speaker 2: other things. So it was practiced for a while. And
Speaker 2: of course every kid's at a different level as far
Speaker 2: as not playing a little bit of playing, but more
Speaker 2: on the attention span side. Or I'll keep names out
Speaker 2: of it, but like there'd be one kid who like
Speaker 2: literally is there and he's just kind of like.
Speaker 1: Uh, there's always that one kid who's playing in the
Speaker 1: dirt exactly.
Speaker 2: His dad wants him to be really good and be
Speaker 2: there and connected, but he is not at all on
Speaker 2: our planet. He's in a galaxy far far far away,
Speaker 2: and you have to constantly rain him back in and
Speaker 2: if you really patient with them, because they are all
Speaker 2: over the place, and like my son is I mean
Speaker 2: not saying usually the coach son is always really good
Speaker 2: one and I see why now, Like my son is
Speaker 2: just really good, just not I don't haven't really taught
Speaker 2: him anything. He's just naturally really good at throwing the ball.
Speaker 2: He's already like pitching. I was good at baseball, but
Speaker 2: I didn't have the confidence to play baseball. I was
Speaker 2: my brother's baseball announcer when he played baseball.
Speaker 1: Gotcha. I think we talked about that, and we did
Speaker 1: talk about a point where you said you could hit
Speaker 1: a ball over the Yes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very athletic, like I just I'd never had
Speaker 2: the confidence as a child or a kid to pursue
Speaker 2: it further on because I was always stuck in my
Speaker 2: head about what people thinking about me and saying stuff.
Speaker 2: But no one was thinking or saying anything. It was
Speaker 2: just in my in my head, and we all live
Speaker 2: in there. And then when I became an adult and
Speaker 2: I became older, I was like, if everyone, I'm just
Speaker 2: gonna do whatever I want to do. But as a kid,
Speaker 2: I had no confidence, but very athletic, but no confidence.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so my kid, I put the confidence in him,
Speaker 2: and he's like all about it. He can hit, he
Speaker 2: can throw, he can pitch. He's five.
Speaker 3: We got a little MLB star on our head.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's unbelievably really really good. And here's
Speaker 2: a couple of kids that onest team. They're really good.
Speaker 2: And so I always pair them together, and one kid's
Speaker 2: always like, why does your son why does so and
Speaker 2: so throw with so and so. I'm like, oh, don't
Speaker 2: worry about that, which you come here and throw at me,
Speaker 2: because I want them to learn the basics. Where my
Speaker 2: my son, this other kid knows the basics. So ill
Speaker 2: then dial in on on the other kids that really
Speaker 2: need the help. And then some of them are over
Speaker 2: and they're playing in the sand. It's just all over
Speaker 2: the place, and I was like, man, my team is
Speaker 2: like I don't know if they're gonna do well in
Speaker 2: a game because we had a few practices before you
Speaker 2: have the actual game, but I don't know how they're
Speaker 2: gonna do. And then the first game, I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, all those practices like they really stuck
Speaker 2: to it and connected because I was watching the other
Speaker 2: team and it was like an absolute s show, like
Speaker 2: they were all over the place and not paying attention.
Speaker 2: And like even something as simple as when they go
Speaker 2: up to bat, I always put a marker where their
Speaker 2: feet should be. I was like, okay, put one foot here,
Speaker 2: one foot here, And even though the batting may not
Speaker 2: be the best or they may not hit it far,
Speaker 2: but at least they know where to stand so they
Speaker 2: can at least hit it off the tee. And then
Speaker 2: there's other coaches or like they're players, like looking to
Speaker 2: the left and looking all over the place.
Speaker 3: And now you've got your team's got the fundamentals.
Speaker 2: Absolute basic fundamentals. They all know to run to first,
Speaker 2: They all know the throw to first. Now do they
Speaker 2: always get to the first the fastest? Do they throw
Speaker 2: the ball all the way to first? No, not always,
Speaker 2: but they at least know that that's where they're heading,
Speaker 2: that's the direction they need to go. And they all
Speaker 2: boys team, it's boys and girls. They got two girls,
Speaker 2: and then I've got five boys, okay, and then one
Speaker 2: of my girls is actually like really really good. The
Speaker 2: other ones like gets it and good too, and it's
Speaker 2: like and some of the boys are like against spacey
Speaker 2: and all over the place. So the stereotype of girls
Speaker 2: are not really good, that's wrong, because my two girls
Speaker 2: are really really good, and they really I think they're
Speaker 2: the ones that had the better attention span and are
Speaker 2: able to really stick with it and understand it, whereas
Speaker 2: some of the other kids are just like how much
Speaker 2: time is left? And I'm like forty five minutes shut
Speaker 2: up and.
Speaker 1: Keep playing if it makes you feel any better. I
Speaker 1: did become very like, very skilled and competed hard in softball,
Speaker 1: but when I played t ball, I was the kid
Speaker 1: that was playing in the dirt.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: I was very much like, I don't want to do this,
Speaker 1: and then as I got older, it was very much
Speaker 1: like click it. Really the biggest part is just getting
Speaker 1: them involved really young so they know that it's an
Speaker 1: option exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And then you have some that don't want to play,
Speaker 2: and you're like, okay, if you're not going to play,
Speaker 2: at least and you sit on the bench and be
Speaker 2: a part of the team. They have one kid won't
Speaker 2: put his uniform on. It. We're four games in and
Speaker 2: still won't put his uniform on.
Speaker 1: He just said there a streak close.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like the first game he came and then it
Speaker 2: was like hey you good, and it was like a
Speaker 2: crying fast and then left early. And the second the
Speaker 2: second game he came and then he got a little closer,
Speaker 2: and then then I had time in the third game,
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, dude. I was like, I was like,
Speaker 2: I understand, you want to put the uniform and that's
Speaker 2: totally fine. I was like, but at least want you
Speaker 2: to sit on the bench right here so you're you're
Speaker 2: part of the team. He's like, okay, that's all good.
Speaker 2: And then every time we do the batting rotation, I'm like, hey,
Speaker 2: you want a bat and he'd be like no. And
Speaker 2: then the second time, hey you want to bat and
Speaker 2: he'd be like m no. And the third time he
Speaker 2: had his hat on, like ready to go? Is that
Speaker 2: you want a bat? And he's like maybe next time.
Speaker 2: So like slowly working towards it, versus like just giving
Speaker 2: up on him and being like go home, I don't
Speaker 2: need you. So, like, every kid's got a different skill set,
Speaker 2: a different attention span, a different level where they're at,
Speaker 2: and so I have to like kind of like cater
Speaker 2: each kid to where they're at because I want them
Speaker 2: to have fun and I want them to not feel
Speaker 2: alienated or isolated and not because I've seen where my
Speaker 2: son played in other sports and the coaches were brutal
Speaker 2: and didn't do the fundamentals, didn't do the basics, And
Speaker 2: that's what pushed me to become a coach. Even though
Speaker 2: I have no free time, I've made it. I've made
Speaker 2: it a point to have free time because.
Speaker 1: Of that, it's good. But I think it's super awesome
Speaker 1: and you sound like a really good coach, especially how
Speaker 1: you're helping each individual person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's really cool. It's really fun. It's cool
Speaker 2: just to see the progress from the first practice to
Speaker 2: the sixth practice and to the first game to the
Speaker 2: fourth and fifth game, Like it's really really really cool
Speaker 2: just to see it. Because at first, I was like,
Speaker 2: how am I going to do this. I've never really
Speaker 2: coached before and never coached baseball, But it's all like
Speaker 2: the basics and he shouldn't to throw badly. I said
Speaker 2: what to do, and so it's just like just keep
Speaker 2: doing that repetition, trying to keep it somewhat fun. The
Speaker 2: games are quick, the three innings, but he meant to
Speaker 2: the first end and they're like, how much time is left?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, we just started to do a.
Speaker 1: Short timespan time attention span tennispan exactly.
Speaker 2: And even my son being really good, he's even had
Speaker 2: meltdowns where like second ending, he starts crying because he's
Speaker 2: he's hungry or he's tired, or someone said something to
Speaker 2: him and he's all pissed off about it. Down I'm
Speaker 2: like dude, chill, hi, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Just get You need to start getting them some big yeah,
Speaker 1: that'll make them all happy. That made me happy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it made me really happy. After every game, I'd get
Speaker 1: like a laughy taffy and a gatorade and I'm like,
Speaker 1: this is the best day ever. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I haven't done that yet, like the whole snacks or
Speaker 2: bring things.
Speaker 1: Oh hey, you want you want to give them incentive
Speaker 1: to like one come back and to stay the whole
Speaker 1: game snacks at the end of it, but not just
Speaker 1: snacks like a good candy like something that they're like.
Speaker 2: This is awesome, this is cool. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not like you know, a fruit snack that they're
Speaker 1: like why why am I?
Speaker 2: Yeah? And then I also was like we live in
Speaker 2: an era and how or there's so many allergies and
Speaker 2: some parents don't allow some things or the other, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, do I even bother doing it because everyone's
Speaker 2: got rules. But then I was like, maybe I'll just
Speaker 2: do it and then if it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody can't have it, then they get a deal
Speaker 1: with their kid in the car.
Speaker 2: True, yeah exactly. But then they hate me because I
Speaker 2: did that, and right now we're all on a good.
Speaker 1: That's true. You could ask him and just say, hey,
Speaker 1: just you know, and see if you could have a
Speaker 1: whole team that doesn't have anything and they're like all
Speaker 1: good and like because some some do have allergies but
Speaker 1: they're able to do or have certain things or whatever.
Speaker 2: Try fair. What is if there is allergies? What can
Speaker 2: I get that is across the board? Works for everybody.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things to hey, you know, like
Speaker 1: Reese's PC's cups, not Reese's pieces, Cuese's peanut butter grape
Speaker 1: are gluten free. I've learned, so like that's a gluten
Speaker 1: free one. That was a great little candy.
Speaker 2: And then I got one who's got a peanut allergy.
Speaker 2: Then it's like that's true. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1: But then you got like Skittles everybody, those are gluten
Speaker 1: free and no, you know, so like I can tell you,
Speaker 1: I got your back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, orioles are gluten free, right they have Yep.
Speaker 1: They have a gluten free one.
Speaker 3: If that's like a gluten one, So I got you.
Speaker 1: If you need to find a fun one, like I
Speaker 1: have found the fun snacks that are still you know,
Speaker 1: they work for everyone.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, or I get everyone we talked about earlier.
Speaker 2: I can get them all those quicker out.
Speaker 1: Yeah you're ries cakes. Yeah yeah, that's you got it.
Speaker 1: But that was the best part. You got any other
Speaker 1: life updates besides doing.
Speaker 2: Some coaching, besides the t ball coaching. And we touched
Speaker 2: on a little bit on the show on Friday, the
Speaker 2: vasectomy thing. I'm going, yeah, I have the consultation that
Speaker 2: we're doing. I guess whenever you're listening to this, I'm
Speaker 2: doing it today Friday, after the show, or now we're
Speaker 2: after the show Friday, I'm doing it, coming up, coming out,
Speaker 2: doing the consultation. And then even when I call it,
Speaker 2: like so we usually did the consultation and we go
Speaker 2: right into it. I was like, WHOA, slow your role,
Speaker 2: We're not going right into it.
Speaker 1: I think I would just like to see what this
Speaker 1: is about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's gone, ever just does a consultation and that's it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I'm doing the consultation and that's it.
Speaker 2: She's like, Okay, then we'll see you for the concert.
Speaker 1: You know, but the more you keep allowing yourself just
Speaker 1: to think about it, the more it's going to be
Speaker 1: all up in your head. Especially you telling me how
Speaker 1: much of a like in your head person you are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the more you get information and the more you keep like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you almost just got to like bite the bullet and
Speaker 1: not think about it.
Speaker 2: But then I also have this like weird thing and
Speaker 2: I don't bring up in the show because it goes
Speaker 2: so far of like what if there's some sort of
Speaker 2: like human race problem or something and all the men
Speaker 2: who can't pro create like it killed off or something.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's really weird now there to me is reversible.
Speaker 2: But it's not. It's only like a thirty percent success
Speaker 2: rate of a.
Speaker 3: Okay, but it's still like you you still at that point.
Speaker 1: Still have a chance to have kids, but a very
Speaker 1: slim chance more than if you've broken and damaged.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, right for that's permanent.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So like you, at least in this scenario, say your
Speaker 1: doom scenario happens, you're still able to in some capacity.
Speaker 2: But what if it's like what if it's like some
Speaker 2: sort of like immediate thing, like there's ships that come
Speaker 2: down and they're like, all right, we can only take
Speaker 2: everybody men who can reproduce, and the other ones were
Speaker 2: going to kill off immediately, and I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: this is why I didn't want to do it.
Speaker 1: Scuba. No, no, this is why you can't get in
Speaker 1: your head like you have created an entirely illogical scenario.
Speaker 2: But yeah, it could be logical.
Speaker 1: We don't know one percent logical. We'll give you your
Speaker 1: one percent.
Speaker 2: But there's still a percent that it could happen that
Speaker 2: I'm not a useful human.
Speaker 1: Anything could happen to that, right, anything could happen.
Speaker 2: I want to be on the side of reproduction. Then
Speaker 2: not reproduction.
Speaker 3: You know what could happen with this?
Speaker 1: You get this done, your wife is going to be
Speaker 1: so happy with you.
Speaker 3: You guys are going to have more date nights.
Speaker 1: You guys are gonna have more time together, and everything's
Speaker 1: gonna be happier. That could also happen, and there's a
Speaker 1: ninety nine percent chance of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's true.
Speaker 1: Yeah. See see, So like wouldn't you rather live with
Speaker 1: that reality? Then you're one percent alien story that you
Speaker 1: have created in your head. I'm asking which one would
Speaker 1: you rather live with? But one of them, really you
Speaker 1: just answer the question.
Speaker 2: One of them has a really dark, potential life threatening ending.
Speaker 1: Which one would you rather like to live with in
Speaker 1: this moment right now here, in the present. Don't think
Speaker 1: about the teacher, don't think about past.
Speaker 2: About if I'm thinking about the next five minutes, I
Speaker 2: would like to be the one my wife. But I'm
Speaker 2: a long term guy and I'm thinking long term.
Speaker 3: But here's the thing, Yeah, think in present moment.
Speaker 2: I can't.
Speaker 3: You have to exist in present moment.
Speaker 1: I know, and in this twenty four hours you would
Speaker 1: rather have all that happiness with your wife, yeah, than
Speaker 1: this illogical one percent chance of something terrible happening.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I still have to think about it.
Speaker 1: I know. I'm just I'm trying to help you because
Speaker 1: you do seem like a very in your head guy.
Speaker 1: And the only way to get out of your head
Speaker 1: is one to live in present moment, and two is
Speaker 1: to focus on logic, like the genuine logic of a scenario. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's how you get out of your head. Trust me,
Speaker 1: because you're talking to somebody who has learned a lot
Speaker 1: about being in their head. And the only way to
Speaker 1: get out is like very much present moment here and now,
Speaker 1: what can I do to fix this moment?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 3: So maybe that can help you a little bit.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll try my very best to get out of
Speaker 1: your crazy theory that you just gave me. I got
Speaker 1: your bag. I'm trying to help you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know, and I appreciate it. I'm
Speaker 2: receiving it.
Speaker 1: That's okay. You can receive.
Speaker 3: Yeah, nothing has to be done about it right.
Speaker 1: Now, you can receive.
Speaker 2: Cu cuckoo.
Speaker 1: I'm just helping you when you're in that moment.
Speaker 2: C cuckooouse.
Speaker 1: That's a big thing.
Speaker 2: That's a big thing. It is, yes, trust me, it is.
Speaker 1: Well, speaking of exciting additions to the family. Did not reproduce,
Speaker 1: but I did adopt a cat.
Speaker 2: I saw it was really cool, very cool. Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: somebody else for reproduce it, and you took it.
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't take it. Somebody else did. I'm a
Speaker 1: really bad person.
Speaker 2: And you saved it. Yeah, I think because it was
Speaker 2: you adopted it, right I did.
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, So she crazy like story. I had been
Speaker 1: fostering for about a year, not a year, a month
Speaker 1: and a half, and she came from a horrible, horrible
Speaker 1: hoarding situation in Mississippi.
Speaker 3: There was one hundred and seventy cats found in this house.
Speaker 2: And now I've written seven.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it took you a minute, You're like, wait, what
Speaker 1: whoa yeah, one hundred and she was one of one
Speaker 1: hundred and seventy cats.
Speaker 2: What did that house smell like?
Speaker 1: I do not know. I do not know, and that,
Speaker 1: you know, I like to believe that it was somebody
Speaker 1: very well intentioned. I'm sure, yeah, you know, just wanted
Speaker 1: to save and then it just got out. And I
Speaker 1: think she's eight years old. I don't think she's eight
Speaker 1: years old. I know she's eight years old, but I
Speaker 1: think she was one of the first few cats. My
Speaker 1: theory is that she was one of the first few
Speaker 1: cats in the house and she was already spade okay,
Speaker 1: And so I think she was one, which means she's
Speaker 1: been living in that environment for a long time and
Speaker 1: she just has opened up. She lives her life in
Speaker 1: her cat tower and sunbathing all day, and she loves
Speaker 1: her canned food that she gets to eat. And she
Speaker 1: got her teeth taken care of. She had really bad
Speaker 1: dental disease when she came to a lot of problems.
Speaker 2: Because there's one hundred and seventy cats, how do you
Speaker 2: care for even five of those?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't. You just you know, give up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's why the Humane Society of the United States
Speaker 1: stepped in and the Nashville Humane took on thirty of them.
Speaker 3: Okay, and Hazel was one of them.
Speaker 2: So this is in Louisiana.
Speaker 1: She came from Mississippi.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're right by each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're pretty close.
Speaker 1: Yeah. She's a chocolate seal point Siamese, which is like
Speaker 1: a version of a Siamese. I've had other Siamese growing up,
Speaker 1: and they're like different, different versions of different colors. But
Speaker 1: so she's mostly chocolate, which is why she has cute
Speaker 1: little chocolate boots on her.
Speaker 2: Okay, and it's like mister Jinks.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I had a cat just like this too that I
Speaker 2: adopt really from Louisiana during like the whole hurricane thing Katrina,
Speaker 2: all the displaced animals. I hated cats, and I was
Speaker 2: allergic to him mostly, I was like allergic, so I
Speaker 2: didn't like him because of that. And I adopted this
Speaker 2: guy and I called him mister Jinks. And he had
Speaker 2: no claws. They took the declawed him, but it actually
Speaker 2: was great because then he wasn't ruining my house.
Speaker 1: You just got to keep him trimmed I know.
Speaker 2: I know because I saw it as a benefit. I was, Oh,
Speaker 2: this is like a cool this is awesome. He doesn't
Speaker 2: have claus. This is really cool.
Speaker 1: But you didn't do it so all, No, I didn't
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 2: No, I adopted him that way. Yeah, And so I
Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is really cool. Like he like
Speaker 2: he would let me take give him baths, he would
Speaker 2: eat strawberries. He was like super cool and chill, and
Speaker 2: he loved me so much. And then I couldn't have
Speaker 2: catsymore because I moved somewhere else, and so I gave
Speaker 2: it to a friend. She took care of him for
Speaker 2: a long time and I think recently passed away, but
Speaker 2: lived a really long life. Oh but yes, I'm looking
Speaker 2: at your ear. Cat and my cat were very similar looking.
Speaker 1: Really Oh yeah yeah, she so her nick. I decided
Speaker 1: to keep the name. The shelter gave her Hazel.
Speaker 2: Hazel.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's cool because the cat that I had before
Speaker 1: her was a Siamese too, and her name was Sapphire
Speaker 1: but short for saffieh that's cool because she had bright
Speaker 1: blue eyes Sapphire And I was like, well, Hazel, she's chocolate.
Speaker 3: So this kind of is like feels like a nod
Speaker 3: to my old cat. And her nickname is Boots.
Speaker 2: Boots a little boot. That's awesome because she has the
Speaker 2: little boots on.
Speaker 1: Her and I really wanted to name her Boots, but
Speaker 1: everybody's like, I think you should keep Hazel. And then
Speaker 1: I kind of like two and two together and I
Speaker 1: kind of started thinking about my old cat and I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, this feels right. So she's Hazel Boots Heelsman.
Speaker 2: That is the cat that I now, and then you'd
Speaker 2: officially adopt her because she has your last name.
Speaker 3: It felt really weird, let me tell you.
Speaker 1: When I was like signing all of the paperwork and
Speaker 1: getting everything done at the shelter, I was just there
Speaker 1: by myself, and I was just like, this feels like
Speaker 1: a really big moment. I'm signing away. Feels like some
Speaker 1: of my life and like it's just me. I'm just here,
Speaker 1: this is happening. It just felt very like bizarre and
Speaker 1: taking on a.
Speaker 2: Real it's a life. Yeah, like it's buying like a
Speaker 2: sheet of paper, no an animal with my dog.
Speaker 1: When I adopted her, my parents were there, so it
Speaker 1: was kind of like it was all I didn't feel
Speaker 1: like kind of alone in that But in that moment,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is all me is your
Speaker 1: single parent.
Speaker 2: There's no one paying child support or anything.
Speaker 1: Not that I haven't done it with Roomy for eight years. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it just felt it just felt kind of weird.
Speaker 2: It was a big grown up purchase.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was a moment where I was like, Wow,
Speaker 1: I'm really adulting. This feels very bizarre.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, very bizarre. Did you get it from
Speaker 2: like one of those like Humane Society shelters or.
Speaker 3: I got it from Nashville Humane Assoia.
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Yeah, so we do have our bucks or whatever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she was like forty five. I didn't
Speaker 1: even realize I needed.
Speaker 2: When I bought Jinx, he was like ten or twenty
Speaker 2: five bucks.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't care. Honestly, I didn't even think
Speaker 1: about it. I was like, I didn't even ask. I
Speaker 1: don't know how much she is. I don't care, like
Speaker 1: I'm getting her regardless, So it's just whatever whatever I
Speaker 1: have to pay for.
Speaker 2: Were you someone that used to end this I'm speaking
Speaker 2: from personal experience that used to go to humane study
Speaker 2: shelters like frequently and just go look at the animals.
Speaker 1: God knows Scooba. I can't if I go, even when
Speaker 1: I'm in there. Yeah, I was crying over a dog
Speaker 1: that was in there.
Speaker 2: I know because they call the ones they have the
Speaker 2: ones here called star pets, the calm star pets, which
Speaker 2: is a cute way to put it, but they're the
Speaker 2: ones that had been there the longest and like a
Speaker 2: week away from being euthanized. Yeah, and it was always
Speaker 2: like a big old dog.
Speaker 1: Gotten better about that, about that, like rescues shelters, rescues associations,
Speaker 1: and animal control offices have gotten really good about really
Speaker 1: working together to try and help each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But the really sad thing right now is they're all
Speaker 1: full and they're all over capacity, which is ya. Then
Speaker 1: they can't help each other, especially with the pandemic.
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, oh, I want an animal, and then they
Speaker 2: go back to work and I don't want an animal
Speaker 2: anymore because it requires attention. It's an animal, of course,
Speaker 2: it requires attention. You'd be a terrible parent. Hopefully you
Speaker 2: never have kids.
Speaker 1: Yes, there was a dog in there. She was a
Speaker 1: German shepherd. This is the dog I was crying over.
Speaker 1: She had come in and she she wasn't great with
Speaker 1: small dogs. And she wasn't there's something else she wasn't
Speaker 1: great with, but she was so loving. You'd go up
Speaker 1: to the window and she just want you to pet her.
Speaker 1: And she wanted all this attention. And she was an
Speaker 1: owner surrender. And because they ride it on there, it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like Remy came from like the streets of Wichita, like
Speaker 1: she she got out somehow, but like for this dog,
Speaker 1: it said owner surrender. And my heart was just breaking
Speaker 1: because this dog and I had seen in a time span.
Speaker 1: I had to check up with Hazel and then I
Speaker 1: had to go back a week later for her final
Speaker 1: checkup and to hopefully adopt her. Yeah, so I had
Speaker 1: seen the day this dog, the German Shepherd came in
Speaker 1: and she was so happy and she was so excited
Speaker 1: when and everybody painted to her. A week later, when
Speaker 1: I came in, she was in the same spot and
Speaker 1: she was so defeated and just so heartbroken. Like when
Speaker 1: I went over there, she didn't even like perk her
Speaker 1: head up. It was just like I just immediately was
Speaker 1: crying because I was like, in one week's time, this
Speaker 1: dog had this entire life. Yeah, and then got brought
Speaker 1: in and now is so sad and doesn't know what
Speaker 1: it did wrong.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm sure it's hearing other dogs being like, yo, dude,
Speaker 2: this is not a good place. So you're gonna be
Speaker 2: stuck here until someone finds you again, and then you
Speaker 2: can even come back again because that person doesn't want you.
Speaker 2: And then you're brought back again and again and again
Speaker 2: and again. Oh it's terrible. The energy of that place
Speaker 2: is super say.
Speaker 1: So to answer your question, I can't every literally when
Speaker 1: I went and I started volunteering at Kansas Humane two
Speaker 1: weeks later, ended up with remy one that they do
Speaker 1: not last.
Speaker 2: You'd be that. So now I know what happened to
Speaker 2: that lady in Mississippi at one hundred and seventy cats.
Speaker 2: She would frequently visit those places and take one home,
Speaker 2: and take another one home, and take another one home
Speaker 2: and take another one home.
Speaker 1: Well that is most of the time with these hoarding situations,
Speaker 1: is like the intentions are good, yeah, but then you
Speaker 1: just get overwhelmed and you want to help it because
Speaker 1: there's so many, so many, you just want to help
Speaker 1: them all.
Speaker 2: It's tough.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, genuinely, my dream life is me living on
Speaker 1: a farm and me just helping any animal I can
Speaker 1: and when they come in and I'm like, yeah, they
Speaker 1: can live with me. There's this super cool called Whispering
Speaker 1: Willows that I follow on social media and it's a
Speaker 1: senior sanctuary. So animals that get taken in and their
Speaker 1: seniors and they got their golden years left and this
Speaker 1: rescue takes them in and lets them live out their lives.
Speaker 2: Well that's cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: There's one somewhere that in San Francisco called Mutt something
Speaker 2: and they do it's like that, but they but they're
Speaker 2: advocating to adopt and they usually try to find older
Speaker 2: people like fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, not fifties older, but
Speaker 2: people who are older and don't have kids their kids
Speaker 2: are older, and they look for them to be like, hey,
Speaker 2: will you adopt this dog? It's like nine ten, and
Speaker 2: because they're the ones that are the most difficult to
Speaker 2: get people to adopt because they want they all want
Speaker 2: puppies or whatever, and so their job is to go
Speaker 2: and find these older dogs that were either the owner
Speaker 2: died or they're abandoned or whatever, and they give them
Speaker 2: basically like they give their golden years. And they like
Speaker 2: to get to live out there their next two to
Speaker 2: five or whatever years and like a home that's going
Speaker 2: to be you know, when you get this dog, it's
Speaker 2: not gonna be a long time, but you know that
Speaker 2: you're taking a dog and giving it the final years
Speaker 2: in a good place. And they're such a great organization.
Speaker 2: I was like, man, this is a really cool thing.
Speaker 2: It's like, it's like heartbreaking is that these dogs have
Speaker 2: lived a great life and they either owner died or
Speaker 2: they're abandoned. You're like, oh my god, it's so shitty, Like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's okay, it is.
Speaker 3: That's what it is, and it's yeah, it's there, and
Speaker 3: none of their term for it.
Speaker 1: It's called fospis. So some people will foss yep, they'll
Speaker 1: be foster's but it's mixing foster and hospice. Okay, so
Speaker 1: they'll be a foster for the rest of their life.
Speaker 1: So like, so it's not permanent. They get help from
Speaker 1: the rescue or shelter or wherever it's coming from, but
Speaker 1: they are allowed to like live in their home and
Speaker 1: they take care of them like their their.
Speaker 3: Own for the rest of their life.
Speaker 2: That's really cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's there's really cool things that shelters and rescues
Speaker 1: and think they have been doing everything they can to
Speaker 1: make it better, and you know, as humans, we just
Speaker 1: keep making it worse.
Speaker 2: So I know of the problem is the human race. Yeah,
Speaker 2: for a lot of things.
Speaker 1: Well that was the funny thing too, when I was
Speaker 1: adopting Hazel, she's technically a senior cat and it's like
Speaker 1: eight years old. Yeah, when it was riding down there,
Speaker 1: I was like, she's got like at least ten years left. Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: they got a lot of life left. But just seeing
Speaker 1: the senior I was like, that just breaks my heart
Speaker 1: because some people would have just never looked twice at her,
Speaker 1: being that she's a senior.
Speaker 2: And at a decade if not more.
Speaker 1: And even if I don't like the love is amazing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that I could be on that tangent all day, and
Speaker 1: I would get on that tangent all day.
Speaker 2: I'm with you.
Speaker 3: We're not going to We're going to head into some
Speaker 3: nine one one stories.
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, because lunch Box called nine one one and
Speaker 1: we got the audio from the call. Oh we did
Speaker 1: in true lunchbox fashion, and we heard the whole thing.
Speaker 1: But have you ever called nine one one before?
Speaker 2: So my mom's called nine on one before and my dad,
Speaker 2: that's a really dark story. Do you want a dark
Speaker 2: story or do you do you want a dark story
Speaker 2: or do you want what's in my head of like
Speaker 2: nine to one one scenarios and like dreams that I have.
Speaker 1: I don't think I want a dark story that feels
Speaker 1: that doesn't even just feel dark, that feels sad.
Speaker 2: It's sad and dark. So mabe, I won't do that.
Speaker 1: That's not that's the story for another day.
Speaker 2: Time doctor pool here. So in my dream, I don't
Speaker 2: know if it's just me, but I always have these
Speaker 2: dreams in different versions and different like scenarios and different
Speaker 2: things that happen where I try to die on nine
Speaker 2: one one and I can't die on nine one one,
Speaker 2: Like I'm like I'm picking out the phone and and
Speaker 2: like I can't think of like what it is. Let's
Speaker 2: just say you're being chased or there's a murder or something,
Speaker 2: or you're trying to get down on one and for
Speaker 2: whatever freaking reason, I can't get nine on one dialed,
Speaker 2: or whenever I go to down nine one one, like
Speaker 2: it doesn't go through, or I'm on a loop, or
Speaker 2: it's like a voicemail and it's like me trying to
Speaker 2: do number one and I'm running from whatever is I'm
Speaker 2: running from, and like I'm trying to dial help, but
Speaker 2: I can't dial help. But I need help because this
Speaker 2: person's trying to kill me. Or I see something happening
Speaker 2: it's really bad, and I go down nine one one
Speaker 2: and they go to answer it and then it's like
Speaker 2: not a big deal, or or it's like somebody else
Speaker 2: who's like, oh, this is like a it doesn't make
Speaker 2: sense to me as to why whenever I'm trying to
Speaker 2: down nine one one, I can't get the damn call
Speaker 2: or for the ring and it will never ring, or
Speaker 2: I will never go to a nine one one operator
Speaker 2: you have that it's.
Speaker 1: The same like sensation of when like I have dreams
Speaker 1: that if somebody were to ever come in and I
Speaker 1: can't scream, Yeah, that's that's similar. Like it's like something
Speaker 1: blocks you, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Something blocks you from it. Yeah, And so I'm sure
Speaker 2: it's something in my life and it's playing it out
Speaker 2: through this, but I can't don nine one one, Like
Speaker 2: my finger will melt into my phone, the phone will disappear,
Speaker 2: or it'll be it'll go to it'll just be like
Speaker 2: a whole music or be.
Speaker 1: A voicemail excuba therapy session probably associated with the thing
Speaker 1: that we are not talking about. If I had to guess, oh,
Speaker 1: really that most of the time, like our dreams manifest
Speaker 1: of things and triggers in our life. Right, So, and
Speaker 1: if there is a dark association with nine to one one, yeah,
Speaker 1: it is a possibility for why it's continuing to come
Speaker 1: up one in your dreams and two that like you
Speaker 1: can't dial. Yeah, it's very possible, like there is a
Speaker 1: connection between the two, which is.
Speaker 2: Weird because I guess in my head of that whole
Speaker 2: part of my dad's life has been almost like I'm
Speaker 2: long done and gone over with it. It's almost become
Speaker 2: like that's just the way it is. Or it's almost
Speaker 2: comedy but like okay, but you sell a comedy.
Speaker 1: Yes, you're probably done in over it. But like the
Speaker 1: whole thing of therapy is like you have to go
Speaker 1: back through it to like truly let go of it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So have you ever like truly went back through it
Speaker 1: or have you just like tried to forget it?
Speaker 2: Well, I've talked about like many different times of people
Speaker 2: and friends and my mom and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2: So it's not like it's that's not like something that
Speaker 2: happened and I'll like bury it deep. Yeah, it's like
Speaker 2: it's already it's like a thing. It's like whatever is
Speaker 2: what it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it still could be associated with it, like it
Speaker 1: just kind of touches on that and it may never
Speaker 1: go away, Like it may not be something you're able
Speaker 1: to work through.
Speaker 3: It's just like there are just things that you you
Speaker 3: just learn to live with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's yours.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't dot I'm on one, like.
Speaker 1: Or it's one of your your ghost friends who's really
Speaker 1: messing with you.
Speaker 2: It could be melted. You can't dial it right now,
Speaker 2: it's or yeah, it's just it's so weird and I'll
Speaker 2: wake up from my dream and I'll be like, wow,
Speaker 2: I'm on one again. It's so damn annoying.
Speaker 1: I hope you're never in a scenario where you have to,
Speaker 1: but I will be curious if you ever are in
Speaker 1: a scenario where you have to.
Speaker 2: What happens Yeah, like actually, yeah, when I thought, I'm
Speaker 2: trying to get if I've ever had to dial it
Speaker 2: in a real life, and I don't think I've ever
Speaker 2: had to, because every scener I've been in and yeah,
Speaker 2: I have these two stories.
Speaker 1: I have two stories when I've called nine one one
Speaker 1: and maybe the Okay, So there was one time that
Speaker 1: was pretty uneventful, but there was a guy that came
Speaker 1: and he was like banging on my door, would not leave.
Speaker 1: It was two o'clock in the morning. I had no
Speaker 1: idea who he was. He was banging on the door.
Speaker 1: He was mumbling a whole lot of things, and I
Speaker 1: called nine one one cop showed up pretty quickly and
Speaker 1: they found him like down the street and he was
Speaker 1: pretty messed up on a lot of things. Okay, but
Speaker 1: it was terrifying because it was two am. My dog
Speaker 1: was going crazy. I'm upstairs, there's a strange man on
Speaker 1: my door pounding on it. That's very scary, terrifying.
Speaker 2: That's here in Nashville.
Speaker 1: Yep. Oh my gosh, this is like in the last
Speaker 1: year or so.
Speaker 2: Damn.
Speaker 1: Okay, wow, terrifying moment, My goodness.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: And thankfully at the.
Speaker 1: Time, my neighbors that I knew were still living next
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 3: So I made him go out. I woke him up.
Speaker 1: I sent like five call that I was like, wake up,
Speaker 1: and I'm like I need you go outside and figure
Speaker 1: out who this man is and what's happening.
Speaker 2: I don't know, Hi, I don't know what that was happening.
Speaker 2: Is very scary, so he did.
Speaker 1: By the time he got out, he was gone. But
Speaker 1: it was funny because I told the cops. I was like,
Speaker 1: this guy's in a red shirt. So I'm watching him
Speaker 1: on my camera, my rain camera. You can see yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and this guy's in a red shirt. Well, my friend
Speaker 1: came out in a red shirt. He didn't realize the
Speaker 1: cops pulled up at like the same time he was
Speaker 1: walking out, and he's like, yes, I'm her friend. She
Speaker 1: told me what's going on, and he had happened to
Speaker 1: bang on a bunch of doors that night. We found
Speaker 1: out like later one Yeah, no, it was just like his.
Speaker 3: Was pretty apparent on mine.
Speaker 1: But the cop pulled up was like, are you the
Speaker 1: guy in the red shirt? And my neighbor was like
Speaker 1: what and I was like, oh, sorry, I forgot to
Speaker 1: let you know. So there was almost some confusion and
Speaker 1: I almost got my friend arrested.
Speaker 2: Good.
Speaker 1: Yes, So that was one of them.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: The other one was even more terrifying.
Speaker 1: My dad and I had been gone at a softball tournament,
Speaker 1: and nobody was at our house. And when we pulled
Speaker 1: up to our house, the garage door was open and
Speaker 1: the back door was wide open, and nobody was home
Speaker 1: to our knowledge. And so my dad and I pull
Speaker 1: up and he's like, call nine one one now, and
Speaker 1: he grabs the bat out of my bag, goes inside it.
Speaker 3: And I don't hear from my dad for twenty minutes.
Speaker 2: Because he's like checking the house.
Speaker 3: And then you're thinking, and I'm sitting it, I'm talking
Speaker 3: to nine one one.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what's going on. All I
Speaker 1: know is like, and this had just happened where somebody
Speaker 1: had broken into a house like a few doors down
Speaker 1: and burned down their house. So like we were on
Speaker 1: high alert that something was going on in the neighborhood.
Speaker 2: So you're already nervous because of that.
Speaker 1: Yes, And so he went in and he came out,
Speaker 1: and after I'm not kidding you, twenty five minutes he
Speaker 1: came out and he was like, I think everything's okay.
Speaker 1: Nobody's hurt in here, and I haven't found anybody. But
Speaker 1: we still to this day do not know what happened.
Speaker 1: Why the garage door was open, why the back door
Speaker 1: was wide open. We have an alarm system. It was off, Like,
Speaker 1: we have no idea what happened, Like my mom said,
Speaker 1: like they had closed it, everything was fine.
Speaker 2: Or was your mom being like, crap, I didn't close it.
Speaker 2: I'm sure as hell and not admitting to the fact
Speaker 2: that I didn't close it because my husband will kick
Speaker 2: my ass. Yeah, I don't know what happen. It wasn't me.
Speaker 1: It could have that could have ended up being something
Speaker 1: that we found out later, but I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: think it was. Like to my knowledge, we.
Speaker 3: Still don't know what happened.
Speaker 2: That's creepy and weird.
Speaker 3: After that, we had put a My dad still to
Speaker 3: this day has a wood like you know how you.
Speaker 1: See in movies where they put the wood over the
Speaker 1: door to like block it from somebody coming in like.
Speaker 2: A front door or a sliding door.
Speaker 1: It's a it's a garage door.
Speaker 2: Door.
Speaker 1: And my dad has like a wood thing that every
Speaker 1: time he moves over and it's like so nobody can
Speaker 1: bust in there even if.
Speaker 2: They, like he props up again said the kind of thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's straight up like he built in like the
Speaker 1: little things, and so it's like he just puts it
Speaker 1: over and it blocks the entire door. So still to
Speaker 1: this day, all clear, but don't know what happened.
Speaker 2: That's pretty scary. The unsolved mysteries.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so many unsolved mysteries in my life.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this whole even in just this episode, we've had
Speaker 2: a lot of unsolved mysteries.
Speaker 3: I know something about you brings it out of Uscuba.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: We also have Megan Maroney in the studio this week,
Speaker 1: and that was super fun. First time in studio, and
Speaker 1: her songs are awesome. She performed Tennessee Orange and Girl
Speaker 1: in the Mirror, which both are up on YouTube that
Speaker 1: people can go watch. And I also got to talk
Speaker 1: to her about how her song is My Life, which
Speaker 1: is fun.
Speaker 2: That was pretty cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you like my story?
Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: My spilling the tea on my own life in your
Speaker 1: own life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Because we had that plan to do like the
Speaker 2: day before or whatever or whatever this week, and then
Speaker 2: we didn't do it and then ended up working out
Speaker 2: great to go with the Girl in the Mirror who
Speaker 2: sings the song.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, it's perfect.
Speaker 3: I don't like that I'm living that song, but it
Speaker 3: is what it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and if it has to be my life,
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna talk about it exactly.
Speaker 2: Any better to talk about it with than the girl
Speaker 2: who wrote the song exactly.
Speaker 1: It does baffle me, though, I still I'm just mind
Speaker 1: blown that women at I'm assuming I don't know much
Speaker 1: about these people, but twenty five and later, this is
Speaker 1: still a thing. Yeah, And no capacity of my life
Speaker 1: have I ever wanted to message and X a new girlfriend,
Speaker 1: a current, a wife, anything on any level have I
Speaker 1: ever wanted to? Yeah, it baffles me that somebody like
Speaker 1: had in their head like I need to make sure
Speaker 1: I say what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really weird. And then I think it was
Speaker 2: her story right where she's like the reason for the
Speaker 2: song was that some girl when deep in her Instagram
Speaker 2: feed like twenty sixteen and like the photo or something,
Speaker 2: and you're like what.
Speaker 1: And that you know a little bit more fair, like
Speaker 1: she was doing some troll and she was checking out
Speaker 1: her competition whatever. Yeah, it's not like I've never not
Speaker 1: done that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you had comment, but the comments, Yes, it wasn't
Speaker 2: like a like and scrolling like if they like outwardly
Speaker 2: went at you.
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, if you want to talk about me,
Speaker 1: talk about me, but yeah, come at me. Well, yeah, why,
Speaker 1: I'm the ex that didn't do anything exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm literally the person in.
Speaker 1: That relationship that didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 2: That's why you coming at me, Like, it seems like
Speaker 2: you've got.
Speaker 1: Bigger problems, And I've learned some insider information about that.
Speaker 1: There was definitely problems that happened.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds like he lied to her a little
Speaker 2: bit about something and compricated some of the story and whatever.
Speaker 1: Listen, all I'm saying is if those problems are still happening,
Speaker 1: and then I don't know that y'all should be together.
Speaker 1: But that's none of my business.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's my life.
Speaker 3: I love it and hated. I don't want to talk
Speaker 3: about it anymore, but I.
Speaker 1: Do want to ask you something. Okay, I'm obviously dating
Speaker 1: and you know, hanging out trying to find my person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how many dates would you think you should give someone
Speaker 1: before you kind of make a decision of like continue
Speaker 1: dating them or ending it.
Speaker 2: I would say, in a world we live in now,
Speaker 2: I would say I would say give someone at least
Speaker 2: three dates, and the three dates have to be completely
Speaker 2: different kind of dates. It's not like coffee coffee coffee,
Speaker 2: or a dinner din or dinner needs. You need to
Speaker 2: see them in different elements of their life, like I'll
Speaker 2: take you.
Speaker 1: So.
Speaker 2: My first date with my wife was at a bar
Speaker 2: in San Francisco, and I strategically placed a block from
Speaker 2: my place because I was thinking I was gonna hook
Speaker 2: up with her, but she had other plans.
Speaker 1: We stand a queen.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah. We were in a nice part of town.
Speaker 2: I was like, Hey, my apartment's just right up the hill,
Speaker 2: right over there, and she said that's cool. She said
Speaker 2: I'm going to go now, and then a friends pay
Speaker 2: her up and she was gone. I was like oh,
Speaker 2: and I even got a side hug and I was like, whoa,
Speaker 2: I want some more of that. I was like hell yeah.
Speaker 2: And then our second date was Disney on Ice, and
Speaker 2: it was me testing around to see how she'd be
Speaker 2: like quirky and funny and if she's into Disney and
Speaker 2: because I was into Disney and still am, but also
Speaker 2: to see how she'd be as like a potential like mother, like.
Speaker 1: Oh, you were going straight mom on the second mom,
Speaker 1: because you're gonna be around a bunch of families and
Speaker 1: which tests your patients.
Speaker 2: And also to see how she's a Disney because usually
Speaker 2: people who are who are okay with that are going
Speaker 2: to be somewhat like fun and playful and be lighthearted.
Speaker 2: And also beginning with kids, because kids love Disney. So
Speaker 2: I want to see how she was in that whole
Speaker 2: scenario with Disney and Ice and what she canna think.
Speaker 2: This is so stupid and lame.
Speaker 1: I just want to point out that I love that
Speaker 1: you went from on the first date, like you know,
Speaker 1: taking her home, to like second where you're like, is
Speaker 1: she going to be a good mom? Like the floor
Speaker 1: opposite of this too, like she she a hook line
Speaker 1: and sinkerd you on that?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she got me. I was like, good god
Speaker 2: me for the moment I saw her, the moment she left,
Speaker 2: I was like, literally it was one of those moments
Speaker 2: where you're just like, what the hell just happened?
Speaker 3: That is what we call a hook line and seeing.
Speaker 2: Oh she hooked line and seeing me hard. And then
Speaker 2: the third day, so we're living in living in San Francisco,
Speaker 2: was just her and I walking all around the city,
Speaker 2: which she came to my apartment and and we just walked.
Speaker 2: We went to a baseball game, We walked around. We
Speaker 2: just like walked around the city, just talked a lot,
Speaker 2: like at food here, had a drink there, just kind
Speaker 2: of like just walked and talked, and so that was like, okay.
Speaker 2: So I got to see her element at a bar,
Speaker 2: see how she handles herself with alcohol, and also see
Speaker 2: how she handles herself in general, like what if she
Speaker 2: did she put out the first aid or does she
Speaker 2: make me wait, which she abviously did. Then I saw
Speaker 2: the family side of her, and then I got to
Speaker 2: like really really get to know her, know her because
Speaker 2: we walked around for like four or five hours to
Speaker 2: a baseball game, walking, drinking, eating, hanging out. It was
Speaker 2: a full on, like everything day. So I was like, Okay.
Speaker 2: After the third day, I was like, holy crap. Like
Speaker 2: I mean, after the first date, I was like, holy crap,
Speaker 2: I'm loving.
Speaker 1: This because this is the inside brain of a man,
Speaker 1: Like instead of inside baseball, this is the inside brain
Speaker 1: of men, of men.
Speaker 2: And I don't know all men are are this way,
Speaker 2: but I was because I had already was I was
Speaker 2: already married with the expectation of long term and family
Speaker 2: and kids, and then that obviously came to a screeching
Speaker 2: hole of infidelity and not wanting kids anymore. In fidelity
Speaker 2: and her part, by the way, folks not me and
Speaker 2: so so for me, it was like, Okay, I'm already
Speaker 2: in this game space. If I want family, I want
Speaker 2: long term. It wasn't like I'm looking for a hookup,
Speaker 2: which I'm not saying every guy is looking for a hookup,
Speaker 2: but the majority of her than Yeah. Well, especially if
Speaker 2: you're living in a see like Nashville, where it's four
Speaker 2: girls to one guy. It's almost unfair for a girl
Speaker 2: in Nashville because there's so many guys. I mean, so
Speaker 2: many girls, Scooba.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you in the last two days that
Speaker 1: I have gotten three messages from guys that I matched with.
Speaker 1: One of them is like, don't hate me if I
Speaker 1: tell you that I'm on an overnight in Nashville tonight.
Speaker 3: Do you want to get dinner or something?
Speaker 1: He wants to and I said, nope, not my vibe,
Speaker 1: have a great night, unmatched.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Another one was I realized I matched you and I
Speaker 1: was flying over in Nashville. Sir, shut up, you were
Speaker 1: not yeah doing that, you did that on purpose.
Speaker 2: And also, no yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then another one came through.
Speaker 1: It was like I'm just visiting. I'm on Broadway.
Speaker 3: I'm like, that's great, have a great time, leave me alone,
Speaker 3: go go.
Speaker 2: Go some mother girls drunk on Broadway and on vacation yep.
Speaker 1: And what all three of those want?
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh of course, yeah. Yeah, they're not looking for
Speaker 2: anything more than that. No, Yeah, So my overall, my advice,
Speaker 2: you would be at least three to four dates and
Speaker 2: every day be something different and in a space that
Speaker 2: like like I did, like I was looking for okay,
Speaker 2: first the fun and then the family and then just
Speaker 2: really getting to know them kind of thing, so kind
Speaker 2: of do different dates.
Speaker 1: Well, So I'm just at this point suba where I
Speaker 1: feel very meh yeah, like I just I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's because so many people have just really messed
Speaker 1: with me that I'm just like, man, you better be
Speaker 1: a fricking unicorn, which is already what I'm looking for.
Speaker 3: I'm already literally looking for a unicorn.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like you better be a really freaking unicorn
Speaker 1: if you're going to like take my time and my energy,
Speaker 1: because I'm tired of what is the there's a meme
Speaker 1: I'm tired of this grandpa. Do you know what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. It's in a movie, I believe, But she
Speaker 1: like yells at him and she's like, I'm tired of
Speaker 1: this grandpa. And he's like, that's too damn bad. That's
Speaker 1: what I feel like. I feel like I'm the little
Speaker 1: girl in the dating group and my parents are like, well,
Speaker 1: this is what you're going to have to do to
Speaker 1: find somebody.
Speaker 2: So what is your age range that you usually go after?
Speaker 1: It's either my age or I think I have it
Speaker 1: till like thirty five.
Speaker 2: Okay, so maybe maybe it'sart looking for guys that are
Speaker 2: forty or not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if I'm there forty, I don't
Speaker 1: know if i've depth, I've tipped my said, dip my
Speaker 1: toes into that water.
Speaker 2: But it's also then you go to that age range
Speaker 2: and you're like, well, why are you so single at
Speaker 2: that age? But this age range is this time is
Speaker 2: different because some people will now have been so career
Speaker 2: focused for a really long time, and it takes longer
Speaker 2: to get your career going than it did in the seventies,
Speaker 2: where you you're going out of college and you're already
Speaker 2: making good money. You can buy a house for twenty
Speaker 2: thousand dollars and have a family and be just fine.
Speaker 1: Yep.
Speaker 2: So maybe guys and girls are having to find love
Speaker 2: later in life. So I guess me, you look for
Speaker 2: an older guy, not too old.
Speaker 1: And not like fifty. Well that's what so far. Currently
Speaker 1: I'm looking at least six years older, so okay, super older. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I got a little bit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I would say younger, you're probably not.
Speaker 1: Not good hard pass on that for me. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: just unless like they're just unless I meet them naturally.
Speaker 1: And yeah, like if I'm purposely looking.
Speaker 3: No, I'm not looking younger.
Speaker 1: But if I meet someone and they're an amazing, great
Speaker 1: guy and they're younger, is what it is.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, and the younger mean like a year or
Speaker 2: two or three years maybe, yeah, not like ten years
Speaker 2: a guy ten years child. Yes, I almost had to say,
Speaker 2: I hate to say it's but it's the truth I have.
Speaker 2: Like a ten year younger guy versus ten year younger
Speaker 2: girl could be a whole different kind of person. Oh absolutely,
Speaker 2: I think women mature a little faster and quicker, whereas
Speaker 2: guys are like bub boobs.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but it like the reason I asked you
Speaker 1: because I've I've been on three dates to the guy,
Speaker 1: and I think he's awesome and we've had great dates,
Speaker 1: and I just like, I just don't know if there's
Speaker 1: just this blockage happening to me where I just am like.
Speaker 3: Something has to happen for like almost.
Speaker 1: To be like unlocked, for me to be like, oh, yay,
Speaker 1: you're really awesome.
Speaker 2: Well what were your three dates? Like, what were the
Speaker 2: if you don't mind saying like, yeah, did you go the.
Speaker 1: First day we did pins, we went and duckfin bowling.
Speaker 2: That's fun, okay, cool gets this fun side.
Speaker 1: And second date he came to a concert with me,
Speaker 1: okay cool. And third day we went to dinner. So
Speaker 1: all variations of dates, I've seen them in different environments
Speaker 1: and I'm like, there's there's no red flags.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And we like had like.
Speaker 1: Intense conversations, especially at dinner. We're like, what's the three
Speaker 1: things you're not supposed to talk about? Let's talk about them. Okay,
Speaker 1: here we are, let's get serious. This is gonna work
Speaker 1: and so and everything like we line up like it's
Speaker 1: a good match.
Speaker 2: Okay, you're a line of what you're looking for a
Speaker 2: long term Yeah, term. So, but I just family family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like as far as everything, like we kind
Speaker 1: of believe in all that, you know, all the very
Speaker 1: serious aspects of dating, all good and.
Speaker 2: All the important things are matching up, but there's just
Speaker 2: no spark or there's no there's no like physical chemistry
Speaker 2: there is.
Speaker 1: It's like I am excited to talk to him and
Speaker 1: I am excited to go out with him, or I
Speaker 1: want to cancel by now I know my personality, I'm out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but there's just.
Speaker 1: Like a part of me that's almost like something is
Speaker 1: just like turned off, not from him, like genuinely like
Speaker 1: a thing into my brain is straight up turned off.
Speaker 1: And it's like it's just somebody's like knocking on the
Speaker 1: door and it's just not answering. Does that make sense?
Speaker 2: Yeah, So basically it's not him. It's not him. It's
Speaker 2: it's because of your experience with dating, you're just turned
Speaker 2: off in general.
Speaker 1: Okay, so that wouldn't fall him for this then, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: no I'm not, and I am going to go out
Speaker 1: with him again. We're gonna hang out again and do
Speaker 1: like a or chill setting so I can see, like
Speaker 1: do we vibe on like just a very normal, like
Speaker 1: we've done a lot of cool things. Yeah, do we
Speaker 1: vibe when there's not something cool happening?
Speaker 2: Okay, so then have you done? Because my fourth date
Speaker 2: with my wife was one where it was with like
Speaker 2: her three or four really good friends and then her
Speaker 2: brother and her cousin, like like her tribe basically came out.
Speaker 2: We had like a tribe date.
Speaker 3: See that would have been for me in like seven dates.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't even interest. I don't bring in the
Speaker 1: friends until it's like, okay, I think I might consider
Speaker 1: this guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I think friends matter because it's not family.
Speaker 1: Oh listen, my friends go hard, well.
Speaker 2: They don't need, but I would have them not go
Speaker 2: hard will. I would have them be more spectators, so
Speaker 2: that way they're they're there, they're hanging out, they're talking
Speaker 2: and almost like listen more than speak, so you can
Speaker 2: hear how what he's saying and how he's saying it,
Speaker 2: how he's acting. Don't have them be the interrogating trio,
Speaker 2: because then it's no fun for anybody, even if he
Speaker 2: the great guy, it's no fun. You almost have to
Speaker 2: tell them, hey, we're going to go out and I'm
Speaker 2: bringing my friends and maybe even have him bring a
Speaker 2: couple of his friends so then you can see what
Speaker 2: he is like with his friends. Is he going to
Speaker 2: be a dick? Is he going to ignore you? Is
Speaker 2: he going to treat you differently? Is he going to
Speaker 2: be my cheesemo type guy, or is he going to
Speaker 2: be really cool still? And also how are his friends
Speaker 2: He's always there, always always gonna be one dick friend.
Speaker 2: Are all of his friends assholes or all of his
Speaker 2: friends on a level where you're never we're going to match?
Speaker 2: Then I feel like that would be a good one,
Speaker 2: especially if you're in a place where you've already dated
Speaker 2: so much and you're you're you're turned off inside, not
Speaker 2: by him, but just by dating in general. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: feel like you just beed it up a little bit.
Speaker 2: And the fourth or fifth date should be the meet
Speaker 2: my friends. And even say, this doesn't mean we're super serious.
Speaker 2: This just means I want you to see my friends,
Speaker 2: and I just want to hang out with you and
Speaker 2: have your friends hang out and we just do like
Speaker 2: a group thing, just a group.
Speaker 1: Setting that makes me terrify.
Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, but it's terrified, But you shouldn't put
Speaker 2: it in the space to him. And also to you
Speaker 2: of like, Okay, this means we're gonna get married. Now,
Speaker 2: that's just me. I'm just curious. I just want to
Speaker 2: put you in another setting to see how you do
Speaker 2: in this setting and maybe be honest with him, be like, look,
Speaker 2: dating is weird for me, and I've dated a lot,
Speaker 2: and maybe you've already talked about this with him, and
Speaker 2: just say, hey, look, I just want to kind of
Speaker 2: hang out with some friends. Just do something really chill
Speaker 2: and then leave it at that, and then your friends
Speaker 2: will then be really chill and say girls, they.
Speaker 1: Will, they will, They'll totally do whatever. I'm like. But yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just more that, like I don't know. When I
Speaker 1: bring people around at this point in my life, it's
Speaker 1: definitely more serious, yeah than it is not. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I just don't know. I'm just in it.
Speaker 3: I'm in a weird place, I know.
Speaker 2: But is even someone that you would see yourself being
Speaker 2: serious with based on the things you've talked about? Yeah, Like,
Speaker 2: like I said, why not, then let's just do it?
Speaker 1: I know. I just like I'm telling you, just something
Speaker 1: in me is like yeah, meh. Literally, that's the only
Speaker 1: word I can use to describe it. As Like I
Speaker 1: am neh.
Speaker 2: I know, I know, but it's like if you're but
Speaker 2: you're always being met until at some point you like,
Speaker 2: I guess try.
Speaker 1: And I have noticed too. This is I'm being so honest.
Speaker 1: And Dad, please stop listening. If you're listening right.
Speaker 2: Now, he's like, I'm gonna turn it up even louder.
Speaker 1: I have noticed that there is more physical attraction with
Speaker 1: guys that aren't as nice. And I don't like that.
Speaker 2: Oh that I think it's the problem women in general.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: It's not even it's like it's something about it that
Speaker 1: like the physical attraction.
Speaker 3: It's not even the bad boy aspect.
Speaker 1: It's just that like thing. No, Like it's like the
Speaker 1: the energy that they put out or whatever.
Speaker 2: I don't they're confident. I don't know, the confident on
Speaker 2: the outside of the answer. They're not.
Speaker 1: They're great kissers, Okay, it's really what it.
Speaker 2: Is because they've been around the block a lot.
Speaker 1: Like I said, Dad, please stop listening.
Speaker 2: They don't kiss a tongue, Dad his lips.
Speaker 1: But it's just like they're yeah, like there's something about
Speaker 1: it that I've noticed that, like, nicer guys just aren't
Speaker 1: as I don't know what the word is because the.
Speaker 2: Nicer guys are the one like I was a nicer
Speaker 2: guy because I was always afraid to be the one
Speaker 2: to initiate, because I was always afraid of fear, and
Speaker 2: I was the fear of rejection and all that kind
Speaker 2: of stuff. A guy who is puts himself out there
Speaker 2: more isn't afraid of rejection because they because by the
Speaker 2: time they got the kiss from you, and not saying
Speaker 2: it's you dad, not you dad, dad, but your daughter dad,
Speaker 2: but because they because before they kissed you, they tried
Speaker 2: it with nine other girls and then finally you're the
Speaker 2: one that said yes. And so he's like I already
Speaker 2: has been said no to nine times and this one works.
Speaker 2: So so those unfortunate are the guys because they play
Speaker 2: the odds, and a guy who's nice doesn't play the
Speaker 2: odds because they're afraid of rejection and they're afraid of
Speaker 2: what they're off night just rejection, they're also afraid of,
Speaker 2: like of I think, just afraid, you know.
Speaker 3: And trust me, I've gone there all that, so like,
Speaker 3: you know, what I'm really looking.
Speaker 1: For, it's a guy that I like to kiss and
Speaker 1: he's a good guy. Yeah, And that seems impossible to find.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because the guy that the good guy doesn't like
Speaker 2: to kiss, but he's afraid to kiss, like it took
Speaker 2: like I didn't kiss my wife until the fourth or
Speaker 2: fifth date. We didn't kiss. It was because I was
Speaker 2: also nervous and she let me.
Speaker 1: Out, cracking me up. The fact that like the first day,
Speaker 1: you were like ready to take your home, and that's
Speaker 1: what I probably kissed her.
Speaker 2: Well honestly, I mean, if they probably even happen, I've
Speaker 2: probably have been so nervous. I probably wouldn't have even
Speaker 2: gone back to the place that back to the place.
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, it's actually I got something like I
Speaker 2: got I can't buy. I probab would have left her.
Speaker 2: I took a big game, but I probably would have
Speaker 2: never even had the big game.
Speaker 1: That's fair. So I think you need to get it's hilarious.
Speaker 1: I just am loving the story of secrets of how
Speaker 1: it's happening.
Speaker 2: Total Yeah, because that's yeah. Again, the nicer guy probably
Speaker 2: would have that intentionip, but never actually do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think you almost have to give the nicer guy
Speaker 2: a chance or maybe you unfortunately want that makes the
Speaker 2: move and then and then know that the first ten
Speaker 2: seconds of that kiss are going to be a nervous kiss,
Speaker 2: but then it's eventually going to work itself out and
Speaker 2: maybe like kiss, I'm.
Speaker 1: Getting very vulnerable here, and I don't like it. I
Speaker 1: don't like it. Yeah, that's that's my current dilemma that
Speaker 1: I and I'm trying to trying to wade through the
Speaker 1: waters and understand and yeah, have patience.
Speaker 2: But you're obviously the more confident one in the relationship,
Speaker 2: Like my wife was always the more confident one. So
Speaker 2: I feel like you. I feel like that's actually a
Speaker 2: good thing too, to be the more confident and the
Speaker 2: stronger and okay, to be on your own and to
Speaker 2: be with a guy who's nervous and nice.
Speaker 1: I have always wanted a nerdy guy like that is
Speaker 1: my vibe.
Speaker 2: I don't want like Peter, you want Peter Parker, I
Speaker 2: do or.
Speaker 1: Crap, what's his name? What's Superman's name? Can I want
Speaker 1: a guy who's like nerdy?
Speaker 2: You don't want Bruce Wayne Waye an asshole?
Speaker 1: I need a Clark Kent or to Peter Parker, who's like,
Speaker 1: you know, works hard, he's got a nice physique because
Speaker 1: he secretly loves the gym, but he really loves nerdy things.
Speaker 2: Yes, and he doesn't go on Instagram taking pictures of
Speaker 2: his body because he's nervous and he's self conscious about himself.
Speaker 1: So if Peter Parker Clark can't are listening, I'm looking
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 2: Was this guy, Peter Parker Clark Ken?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so far, okay, so far?
Speaker 2: Okay, Well then I would put him.
Speaker 1: In that category. So far, okay, We'll not gonna go
Speaker 1: like a fourth day. Never mind, I take you back,
Speaker 1: take it all back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is spamris when to see they have to say,
Speaker 2: oh yo, oh, it's urgent.
Speaker 1: This is our final attempt to reach you to qualified.
Speaker 1: Always oh my gosh, your healts coverage is gonna go away.
Speaker 2: It's always a final attempt. Calls, there's always a final attempt.
Speaker 2: It's always something to do with healthcare or Wiener pills.
Speaker 1: I love how it's automated and then it goes to
Speaker 1: something and.
Speaker 2: I know they hear me talking about I said Wiener pills,
Speaker 2: and they go, no, I did to mess with us.
Speaker 1: They got on us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they got on it real quick.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, no, I don't want to.
Speaker 1: Go into this anymore.
Speaker 3: I had a therapy session turned back.
Speaker 2: On exactly, so number one sitting on the couch, you're
Speaker 2: a chair.
Speaker 1: Coming in at the number one spot was she got
Speaker 1: Scuba trying to move forward.
Speaker 2: Okay, so your dad's listening. Your dad's like, let him
Speaker 2: talk more. He has great points.
Speaker 1: Yeah, trust her. You're not saying anything my friends or
Speaker 1: my family. Amy got mistaken as Caitlyn's mom. Kaitlyn is
Speaker 1: Bobby's wife, and it was a whole scenario and Amy's
Speaker 1: still pretty upset by it.
Speaker 3: But that comes in at the number one spot this week.
Speaker 1: But I don't got anything else because I have I
Speaker 1: tried to make Scuba going therapy.
Speaker 3: I reluctantly came into therapy and now.
Speaker 1: We are done.
Speaker 2: Well, My and my thing on the whole Amy thing,
Speaker 2: and I had an opinion on it was the way
Speaker 2: I was thinking about it was two things. One neither.
Speaker 2: The guy was obviously trying to hit an Amy and
Speaker 2: was like probably trying to be like, oh, you're the
Speaker 2: older sister and flubbed his words and said Mom was like,
Speaker 2: I can't go back on it now. But I was
Speaker 2: even thinking about it could be in the sense of
Speaker 2: and this is just the way I was thinking about
Speaker 2: it was Caitlin does look younger than thirty. She's thirty, right,
Speaker 2: thirty or thirty one, thirty one, thirty one, but she
Speaker 2: looks younger. And then I took a lot of women
Speaker 2: who are in that twenty five to thirty range look
Speaker 2: like they're twenty one, twenty two or whatever. So I
Speaker 2: saw it as as Amy could be her mother. But
Speaker 2: Amy is a young mom, like someone who had a
Speaker 2: kid at fifteen or sixteen, which is very very common.
Speaker 2: And you see women a lot like there was that
Speaker 2: one story in the news where some guy was dating
Speaker 2: a woman who looks like could be a daughter's friend
Speaker 2: or whatever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it looks like it's daughter.
Speaker 2: But I know a lot of people who had kids.
Speaker 2: One of my cousins had a kid at fourteen, and
Speaker 2: she had it and then now she's, you know, older,
Speaker 2: she's thirty five to forty range, and a lot of
Speaker 2: times people will assume that that that's like her friend
Speaker 2: or how am I trying to say? Now, I'm actually
Speaker 2: trying to be very cautious because I don't want to
Speaker 2: piss anyone off. But I guess I'll just get to
Speaker 2: the doing you leika, or give us the meat Scooba
Speaker 2: me is. Basically my point is that Amy could look
Speaker 2: like her mother but had her at a very young age.
Speaker 2: And Amy looks young and the daughter looks younger, and
Speaker 2: so it could be like, oh, this is your daughter,
Speaker 2: but you had her when you were younger and you're
Speaker 2: now forty and she's twenty five. And because Kate looks
Speaker 2: like she could be twenty five and Amy, you know,
Speaker 2: could look like she's you know, mid thirties.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: My other theory too is that they had her son
Speaker 3: with them. Stevenson was with them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And sometimes people just see a group of people
Speaker 1: and if there's two kids, they're like, Okay, who looks the.
Speaker 3: Just the oldest of that group. Yeah, and they're like, oh,
Speaker 3: that's the mom.
Speaker 1: And they don't think twice about ages, they don't think
Speaker 1: twice about anything. It's just a generalization, yeah, that I
Speaker 1: feel might have happened, and it wasn't like because then, honestly,
Speaker 1: most of the time, like they were doing, they were
Speaker 1: running errands and sometimes you don't see like girls running
Speaker 1: errands together. My friends and I do, and like some
Speaker 1: people do, but it's just not maybe not as often
Speaker 1: for this guy that he sees that happen. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: so he was just like, ah, it's their mom and
Speaker 1: her kids totally yeah, and didn't even like look at them.
Speaker 1: It was just like generalization of people.
Speaker 2: Yes, if that makes sense, it does.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And we also live in the South where everyone you
Speaker 2: go to the you go to Walmart, and everyone's like, hey,
Speaker 2: how are you, and like I've never seen in my life,
Speaker 2: everyone's very outspoken and just talks and tries to make conversation,
Speaker 2: whereas like on the West Coast, people keep their heads
Speaker 2: on their phones or don't even look at people and
Speaker 2: go on her day. I ain't talking to her like that,
Speaker 2: my daughter, I don't know. I don't cares. Next, Yeah,
Speaker 2: and then Amy being hard on herself. She looks amazing.
Speaker 3: Oh, she looks awesome.
Speaker 2: My god, looks like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if I look like her, I'd be like, I'm
Speaker 1: killing it exactly.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. For her to have any sort of
Speaker 2: doubt on what she looks like, it baffles me. I'm like,
Speaker 2: I don't get it. She looks amazing, not even just
Speaker 2: for age. She looks amazing. So it's like I wouldn't
Speaker 2: I'm just talking to the sky right now, But I don't.
Speaker 2: She shouldn't have any worry about anything, no appearance or whatever.
Speaker 1: It's just when people say something and yeah, especially if
Speaker 1: somebody says something that highlights and insecurity you already have. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: is when it's bad.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: If it's not an insecurity you already have, you can
Speaker 1: typically brush it off pretty good and be like whatever,
Speaker 1: I don't know who you are. But if it's something
Speaker 1: you're already insecure about yourself, and for a women's society
Speaker 1: has taught us to be insecure about getting older. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's probably something even if it's just in the
Speaker 1: back of your mind and then.
Speaker 3: It highlighted that triggered.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel so, I.
Speaker 1: Have a feeling that's what it is, which just makes
Speaker 1: you sad.
Speaker 3: But yeah, part of part of being a woman.
Speaker 2: Part of a woman, Yeah, exactly. It's very tough. Fortunately,
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you guys have it really tough.
Speaker 1: Thanks. We're going to end the podcast on that, you know,
Speaker 1: because that's a prazy one.
Speaker 2: You You guys have it tough.
Speaker 1: Thank you well.
Speaker 3: Scooba telling people where they can find you.
Speaker 2: Did your haird like you're a sixties woman from New York.
Speaker 1: I do that my trainer a lot he tells me
Speaker 1: did something like no, it's like a swat I find you.
Speaker 2: Can find me on Instagram and Twitter, And I say anything,
Speaker 2: do I have anything? I have a Vine account, it's
Speaker 2: fine even open still, like I still have it on
Speaker 2: my You are a mess, Like whatever happened to Vine?
Speaker 2: Like why did they get rid of Vine?
Speaker 1: And I got deleted?
Speaker 2: And then five years ago they brought up TikTok and
Speaker 2: it's the same damn thing. It's like, why would you
Speaker 2: get rid of Vine when it was better than TikTok?
Speaker 1: Was amazing?
Speaker 2: Love Vine was awesome. Vine is gone now so longer. Oh,
Speaker 2: here it is, It's Vine, but now I have to
Speaker 2: download it again and it's called Vine. Vine to point
Speaker 2: Vine camera, unable to install Vine camera.
Speaker 1: Oh, it's probably not real. It's probably like they forgot
Speaker 1: to like totally inactivate it because for a.
Speaker 2: While theer when I got rid of Vine, it was
Speaker 2: still an app for a minute, and then they took
Speaker 2: Vine and they turned into a camera feature thing. And
Speaker 2: I had a lot of followers on Vine, like I
Speaker 2: was killing it in Vine and I did really well,
Speaker 2: and go kill it on TikTok?
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Ell?
Speaker 2: And I ain't going on TikTok.
Speaker 1: TikTok is so my Instagram post? What on Instagram you're
Speaker 1: vine that you would have done?
Speaker 2: I know, well, they're all my they're all of my
Speaker 2: old phones. I gotta I have to take off and
Speaker 2: put on there. But that'd be Actually that's a great idea.
Speaker 1: You're welcome, thank you, But I'm not the digital director
Speaker 1: for a reason.
Speaker 2: Ohe means like when people take their TikTok about the Instagram,
Speaker 2: mus to do anything to put a vine on there,
Speaker 2: check on my MySpace videos on their idea. Well, okay, cool,
Speaker 2: all right, interesting you can.
Speaker 1: Find That's what I'm paid for.
Speaker 2: Sometimes that's how you make your salary. Sometimes you even
Speaker 2: I have a periscope account here. Does this para periscope
Speaker 2: still a thing?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it was for a really long time.
Speaker 1: And then I think, yeah, when all this stuff happened
Speaker 1: with Twitter, it got deleted and it was a Twitter
Speaker 1: associated brand.
Speaker 2: It was, Yeah, And I used to have iHeartRadio's periscope
Speaker 2: login for the whole company because we used to do
Speaker 2: it once a week. We used to do bits in
Speaker 2: San Francisco where they gave us like the platform because
Speaker 2: they saw what we were doing on our social and
Speaker 2: they're like, like, we want you guys to go live
Speaker 2: with your with your bits because we were doing like
Speaker 2: these crazy, like unbelievably real live things on our show
Speaker 2: and they're like, holy crap, the tracks we were getting.
Speaker 2: What's remember the guy's name that used to used to
Speaker 2: run it all? I don't know if he's still there
Speaker 2: or not. He was like, dude, can you can I
Speaker 2: give you access to that heart I Heart radio? Is
Speaker 2: that you want to give me access to the iHeart
Speaker 2: radio account? He's like, yeah, dude, I had to log
Speaker 2: in and everything. We used to log in once a
Speaker 2: week and do live periscopes from the studio or from
Speaker 2: where we were doing things on our show, but out
Speaker 2: out and about in the streets. But yeah, anyways, I
Speaker 2: have periscope still on.
Speaker 1: But okay, well periscope is not a thing that's going
Speaker 1: to put his vines on Instagram, so go follow him
Speaker 1: on Instagram.
Speaker 2: So all I have on here that functions and works
Speaker 2: is my Twitter and my Instagram, and you can find
Speaker 2: me at Scuba Steve Radio, s b A S TV
Speaker 2: or Radio.
Speaker 1: That Hurt My Brain. You can also follow this show
Speaker 1: at Bobby Bone Show. On all the things, and of
Speaker 1: course you can come hang out with me on all
Speaker 1: the things that scoobas Eve is definitely not on TikTok, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get into Lemonade. That's a new one, Lemonade,
Speaker 1: Lemon eight, lemon eight Pinterest. Oh I'm still on be
Speaker 1: real it would be real so thing or is that fading?
Speaker 3: No, it's still there.
Speaker 1: Okay, I just don't. I just forget to do it.
Speaker 2: Sometunds like it's fading.
Speaker 1: Then it's not fading. It's just I'm not There's so
Speaker 1: many things that I can't keep track of, especially on
Speaker 1: top of keeping track of the show stuff.
Speaker 2: So some of that that's why we need to dial
Speaker 2: down these damn apps and just have a top three
Speaker 2: and call to day.
Speaker 1: But I'm.
Speaker 3: All right everyone, Thanks for hanging all of us. Have
Speaker 3: a great weekend.
Speaker 1: Scuba Steve Radio, web girl Morgan. You can follow us
Speaker 1: and you can see more antics on mine hopefully on.
Speaker 3: Scubas too, and if he'll just post his vines, yeah
Speaker 3: that is off.
Speaker 1: Bye y'all. Show