WEBVTT - Best Bits with Scuba Steve: PART 1 0:00:01.480 --> 0:00:05.200 It's the best Bits of the week with Morgan number two. 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:11.080 What's up everybody? Another weekend, which means another best bits 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:13.720 and my favorite part this is best Bits. Part one 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:17.520 was scoob see you the best best bits, best best 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:25.680 bets bits. I can't say that, no chance. Bobby was 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:28.680 trying to talk about me and Meghan. He was like, Organ, Megan, Meg, 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:34.000 these things going on? Yes, yeah, how are you scuba? 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:35.920 I'm busy but doing well. 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:41.239 It seems like a fair answer, Like it, well, we're 0:00:41.240 --> 0:00:42.760 going to dive in because you are busy and we 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:44.040 got enough to talk about. 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:44.720 Yeah we do. 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:47.600 Caine Brown is coming in at the number seven spot. 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:50.840 He talked to Bobby and cleared up some confusion about 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:53.800 that whole boot story that got thrown on stage and 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:56.200 crazy fun fact that happened in which time my parents 0:00:56.200 --> 0:00:58.600 were at that show. Word about it before it ever 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:01.520 made TMZ awesome. And we used my mom's photo on 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:03.320 the blog because she had taken a picture of Kane 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:05.800 Brown's like, I got the inside scoop going on? 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:07.240 Did you give her the photo credit? Though? 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:13.760 No, Sorry, Mom, you're getting out. I don't think she 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.480 even knows I got you said it to me for fun. Okay, hey, 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:17.160 I can use that. 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:18.360 That's a great picture, Mom, thank. 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:20.960 You, Yeah, exactly. But we're not talking about Kane Brown. 0:01:21.040 --> 0:01:23.880 We are going to talk about mysteries that may be 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:25.560 going on. And I'm going to tell you why we're 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:27.880 talking about this, so you can kind of think maybe 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:29.560 there's something that happened and you don't really have all 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:33.760 the answers. Okay, I got sent an Amazon package. It 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:36.039 showed up on my front porch, very excited about it. 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:38.280 I love when I get a package. I'm about to 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:41.360 like open it up, rip it open, so excited. Oh 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:43.200 there was blood on the package. 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:44.039 Well I saw that. 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:48.400 Yeah, yeah, okay, So I posted that and several people 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:50.840 wrote me back and were like, if it's blood, pour 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:52.840 hydrogen peroxide on an in, it will bubble. 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:53.320 Okay. 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.000 If it's not, it's like ketchup or something. 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:59.440 Yeah, And so I poured hydrogen peroxide on it and da. 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:00.680 Da da it bubbled. 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:08.280 Definitely blood. So either my Amazon driver really went through 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:10.880 it to deliver me that package, or there is some 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:14.560 unsolved mystery out there in the world that my package 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:15.560 may have had something. 0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:16.839 To do with yeah that, or it is like rend 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:18.280 me one of those dogs that like is like the 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:21.919 Quintessential meets the mailman out front bites him in the butt. No, 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:22.960 I didn't think so. 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:27.440 Yeah, yeah, like that's your package mom, definitely coming from 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.399 the whoever. My delivery driver. 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:32.160 Was okay, okay, so that's really weird. 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:33.600 And I just threw away. I was like, I don't 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:34.280 want to be involved. 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:37.560 I don't want to know. Yeah, but you did what happened. 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:39.079 I'm just gonna throw this way and pretend like it 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.840 din't it. Yeah, but now it's going to forever be 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:42.680 an unsolved mystery. 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:46.480 That is definitely an unsolved mystery too, do doom boom doom? 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:51.160 Well, so that's why, that's why the table anything in 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:53.560 your life that's kind of like an unsolved. 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:56.200 Mystery, unsolved mystery. Yes, so this is kind of weird 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.520 and dark and we'll see where this goes. 0:02:58.919 --> 0:02:59.960 I love when you say that to me. 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:01.600 I just popped on my head and I was like, 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:03.119 I don't really have it. Oh, I do have one. 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.239 I've always got one, right, So this was a really 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:08.760 long time ago, back when AOL And if we already 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:10.560 talked about this, you can stop me. I'll think of 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:12.880 another one. But back when AOL was a thing, and 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:15.680 all your conversations in a chat room or somewhere always 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:18.320 started with ASL and pick question mark. I don't know 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:19.440 if this is too old for you. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:23.480 Okay, the AOL isn't, but the ASL pick thing right, Yes, 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:25.760 I don't feel familiar with A is. 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:29.680 Age, s is sex, L is location, and pick was 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:33.359 send me a pick, so age sex location pick Almost 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:35.960 every started almost every chat room. You walked into a 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:38.680 chat room ASL and you see a bunch of like 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:42.160 maybe like fourteen slash m slash Florida and then to 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.560 be a pick or be whatever, and it was like 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:47.320 a lot of young ages wow on AOL. And then 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.040 you see some older ones and everyone like, oh get 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:51.000 out here, old man. But it was always a bunch 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.360 of like teenagers and everyone doing their whole thing. And 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:55.200 then if someone would send a pick, then all of 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.200 a sudden, if someone liked your pick, you would then 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:00.520 get this separate chat that pop up boo, and next 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:02.760 you know you're chatting away with whoever this is, which 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:04.840 you usually think it was a girl or a guy, 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:06.920 but a lot of times it was probably a guy. 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:09.240 Your hope it is who they said they were. 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:11.200 You were hoping it was this hot sixteen year old 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:13.960 girl with this awesome pick that she sent, but it 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:16.360 was probably some fifty year old man in his basement 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:18.280 at his mom's house, doing whatever he was doing. But 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:23.440 you know verification back in there, everyone had names. It 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:25.520 didn't matter what it was. And a lot of times 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:27.120 I would even lie about my age. I think I 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:29.400 was like ten or eleven, and I'd be like fifteen 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:32.400 male Florida and send like a pick of someone else 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:34.880 would you'd find on Google or what it was google? 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:37.400 Back then it was like Netscape or some crap. But 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:39.640 I fell into this thing, and then I was talking 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:42.279 to this girl for a really long time, like months 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:44.840 and months and months and months which felt like years, 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.320 and the conversation was all about all these things. 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.880 And then oh so you were like really vibing. 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:51.719 I was vibing with his girl, and she was send 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:54.320 me pictures and they always they always seem like the 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:56.120 same girl, So it wasn't like it was like I 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:57.600 was getting different pictures. 0:04:57.279 --> 0:04:59.719 But again also different varieties of pictures, scoob. 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:02.159 That's the thing. So the varieties I was getting usually 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:06.040 was clothed photos. And then it pivoted into naked shots 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:06.840 of her and friends. 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:07.440 Wow. 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:11.359 And at eleven years old, you're like, WHOA, awesome, But 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:13.719 as somebody who's now an adult and a father and 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:17.960 knows what, you're always like, WHOA, this is creepy. Yeah, 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:20.520 because what fifteen year old girl has naked pictures of herself? 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:21.920 Yeah? 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:26.440 And multiple girls in a picture of themselves younger naked children. 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:28.839 You're thinking like, oh, my god, was I talking to 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:29.599 like a pedo? 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:31.279 Oh? 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.200 And you never found out. You never found out who 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:33.920 was on the other side. 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:35.520 I never found out. And this girl Willy talk to 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:37.520 me and like I'm gonna save myself for you and 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:40.039 like telling me all these things I'm given. I'm eleven 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:42.120 years old, Like I didn't have sex until I was 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:45.000 like eighteen nineteen, so like wasn't even my even if 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:46.240 we were to meet up, I wouldn't know what to 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:47.799 do with myself with somebody else. 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:50.200 It was also eleven, I was. 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:52.960 Eleven, but you would see you were exposed the Internet 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:55.520 exposed to you to so much at such a young 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:59.080 age and seeing so many things. And so I guess 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:01.640 the unsolved mystery is because then she was soon to 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:03.200 talk about things that I want to get it because 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:05.200 it's so dark of like things that happened to her. 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:07.119 I was trying to save myself for you, and something 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.640 happened and I was like, oh, hopefully you're okay, and 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:11.480 I'm like, which is really weird, and I was, But 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:13.880 then at eleven, you're just kind of playing into it 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:16.200 and like you're it's almost like a mystery that you're like, 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:18.640 you're following along or this like storyline. You're following along, 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:20.600 and it's cool and like every I couldn't wait to 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:23.720 get to my dad's house to log onto America Online 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:26.240 and talk to this girl and see what happened or 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:28.240 what was what she was doing, or what naked pictures 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:30.839 going to send me this weekend, which, mind you, my 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:32.720 parents are divorced, so this WI never had my mom's house, 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:35.159 she wouldn't allow it. My dad's house, it was like 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:36.440 free for all. He didn't give a crap. He was 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:38.240 drunk on the couch or cooked out, He didn't care 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:40.560 what was going on. So it was like really weird 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:42.560 and it was this unsolved mystery. 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:45.560 I feel like this is absolutely a dude in a basement. 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:47.039 Oh for so much. 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.520 Backstory and so much to that, which is even creepier 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.040 considering he had those photos. 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:52.480 Yes, but like. 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:53.520 Just there's too much. 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:56.760 Yes, like sixteen, I'm a sixteen year old girl. We 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.040 don't talk that much, like, especially when we like our 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:01.600 on the internet, were just like hey, it's like I'm 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:03.720 giving you my life story. It's like what's up. 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:04.920 Yeah, it's just like. 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:06.400 Guys like we don't have a lot to say. 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:09.080 And which makes me think it would be either somebody 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:12.200 older and somebody like a man for pretending to be 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:12.520 a woman. 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:14.280 That's exact because even when I would talk to girls 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:16.600 my school, we knew each other, so there was more, 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:19.160 there was a conversation. It was never that avenue of conversation. 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:21.640 It was about other things, but they would talk. But yes, 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.640 and you talk to a stranger girl, a lot of 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:25.280 times they'd be like you go away if it was 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:27.040 like a real girl, yeah, or like oh I'm not 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:29.360 talking about that or oh yeah or whatever. But for 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:31.400 something to be so engaging and then to send these 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:34.320 weird naked pictures, you're like at the time cool, but 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:36.000 now you're looking back at it in retrospect, you're like, 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:37.560 I was effing weird. 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:41.440 Uh Yeah, And especially an older girl talking to a 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:44.880 younger boy. Yeah, because she's like sixteen seventeen very often. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:48.920 Exactly, Yeah, yeah, exactly. So really weird the unsolved mystery. 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:50.280 And I don't think I ever want to know the 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:51.239 answer of that mystery. 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:53.280 Yeah, I don't think you're ever going to answer. 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:54.560 I don't think I really ever get the answer. 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:56.600 If I'm placing a bet, it's definitely a man in 0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:57.080 his basement. 0:07:57.280 --> 0:08:00.160 Yeah, yeah, I'm placing that bet. And I think those 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:00.800 the better odds. 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:04.480 Dang. Yeah, really, yours is forever. Mine's forever because I 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:08.120 threw away the evidence. So we have too genuinely unsolve mysteries. 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:10.520 Yeah, yeah, totally. And I don't i'd like to know 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:12.320 the answer to yours mine. I don't ever want to 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:14.480 know because it's just way too weird, creepy and dark 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:16.520 and disgusting. But yours, I want to know what the 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:18.440 hell happened, Like, how did the blood get on there? 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:20.520 What was the steps? Maybe it wasn't even the driver, 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:22.960 was what happened between Amazon? Maybe it was a guy 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:25.520 at Amazon who's putting together the packages and slice his 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.520 finger on a machine, and it was this whole thing, 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:28.800 and that Amazon's trying to cover it up with. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.080 A message to me, were they like in danger and 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:32.640 they need the package and. 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:35.439 You're supposed to check the DNA and swipe it. Who 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:35.760 it was? 0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:36.440 I never know. 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:38.599 There's some sort of like indentured servant in Amazon and 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:41.079 Seattle and they're they're like paying twelve real kids and 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:43.720 it's a whole illegal operation and they were hoping you'd 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:44.680 be the one to break the case. 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:46.520 Well, now I feel bad I threw it away. Yeah, 0:08:47.600 --> 0:08:49.560 but I really don't want to be involved. You know, 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:51.880 but mystery blood not my thing? 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:54.040 Yeah not, you're thinking, I don't thus anyone's saying it's 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.000 unless you're like a forensics type person. 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:56.760 Yeah exactly. 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:57.080 Yeah. 0:08:57.120 --> 0:09:00.440 So we've got we've got mysteries there. But this it's 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:03.480 even more perfect for us to lean into our next segment, 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:06.839 where we've got the show who shared their strong opinions 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:10.720 on something small Scuba. I know, we both got some 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.720 strong opinions on something small. Yeah, what do you got? 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:17.559 Oh my gosh, something small? 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:19.679 Okay, all right? And I was gonna say, I'll leave 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:21.080 my wife out of it because we have little small 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:22.080 arguments here and there. 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:25.240 About no, no, no, like something more generic, maybe a little 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:28.439 bit more funny that like somebody's gonna be like, you're ridiculous. 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:31.400 You want to think about it. I can tell you. 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:32.600 You give me a second to think about it, so you 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:33.200 can do yours. 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:37.480 Okay. So mine is that Apple is absolutely better than 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:41.400 Android and Windows. Like there's no argument. Like everybody who's like, 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:46.000 I love my Android, you're just lying to yourself. Yes, exactly, Yeah, yes, 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:47.640 Apple is so much better. 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:51.480 It's more user friendly, it's more compatible with everyone. When 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:54.440 you send a photo to another Apple phone, it comes 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:56.880 through as the full image and the full video. Like 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.320 I'm in text groups with my wife's family and there's 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:02.800 one effort. It's got a Samsung. Yeah. When you send 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:04.839 the text or you send a video or they send 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:06.760 a video, it comes in like the size of like 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:09.720 a thimble, and it's all grainy and crappy, and you're like, 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:11.679 I want to see the video, but I can't see it, 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:14.679 like email to me or something, or send it to 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:18.440 somebody who has the who has I don't know. It's yes, I'll. 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:19.559 Admit there's sometimes like I've been on a day with 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:20.959 a guy and he had an Android and I kind 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:23.600 of thought twice I was hmm, yeah, I don't know 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.280 about this my guy. I don't know that I can 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:27.040 be texting back and forth with a green bubble. 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:31.080 Okay, yeah, yeah, exactly a lot. This isn't gonna work out. 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:33.600 Not only do not want children, but you have a 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:34.200 green bubble. 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:37.400 Yeah there's bigger reasons, but not gonna lie. Yeah, it 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:40.720 played a factor, Okay, definitely. Like I'm like, it's too 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:43.920 just like the technology different, so much easier technology to 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:47.480 utilize Apple than it is Windows Android. They're just not 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:49.480 as user friendly totally, yes. 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:51.079 And like I have a cousin who has the Samsung 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:52.880 and the phones are cool and they really do have 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:55.400 some really cool technology in it, and it's awesome. But 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:57.440 I guess we're just so used to because this has 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.840 been around since six oh seven and we've always had 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:02.600 every generation of it, and yeah, it's changed over the years, 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:05.960 but it's changed slightly, and it's changed with our culture, 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:07.840 so we've been able to adapt to it over time, 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:11.320 whereas Samsung is like this completely rigid system that that 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:13.600 I'm just not familiar with at all, and it's totally different, 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:15.319 and yeah, there are some cooler things in it, but 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:16.840 I just don't really care. 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:18.800 Whenever we have to get on, like our work computers 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:20.840 in their Windows. I'm like, I don't know what's happening, 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:24.040 but I don't know any of these I don't want 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:24.200 to know. 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:26.520 Yeah, yeah, so multi verson that because I have my 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:29.160 desktop which is all Windows, and then I have my laptop, 0:11:29.160 --> 0:11:29.640 which is Max. 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:31.720 So I'm still pretre do you use more though. 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:34.800 I use the laptop a whole lot more, and I 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:36.120 use the desktop. 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:39.040 Just for more to have, like an additional screen. 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:41.280 I bet the additional screen, and it's faster to print 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.720 from and I can do some things because our shared 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:46.240 drive folders are on the on that because on the 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.719 system and the on the network. So yeah, so but. 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:50.600 You're always going to choose to use that, Oh yeah, I. 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:52.880 Always choose my Mac. Yeah, one hundred percent told you. 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.480 So that's one of them. Another one is if you 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:58.280 use somebody's streaming service and you start watching something and 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:00.320 you don't finish it, and then it stays in the. 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:01.280 Keep watching tab. 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:05.000 Yeah, irks me to know in finish whatever the frick 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:06.439 you were watching. I don't know if you use my 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.839 account or whatever, just finish it, because then it's in 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:10.719 my keep watching tab and I'm not going to keep 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:13.120 watching it and just stay there forever. 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:14.800 Can you get rid of that? Like, if there's no 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:16.080 way to delete it or get rid. 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:17.360 Of it, there are. 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.000 Netflix you can via their app on the phone. 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:22.800 Oh, I watch it on my freaking TV. 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:24.600 No, so like I use my app, I'll just go 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:27.000 on like the leat and then it shows up on 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:27.360 my TV. 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:29.120 Can you do it on Roku? Why can't they allow 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:30.720 you to do it there on the actual TV? 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:34.240 I don't know. Hbo Max, you can, Amazon Prime, I 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:37.640 haven't figured it out. Hulu, I haven't figured it out. 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:42.000 Disney I have Disney's on the app. Okay, so there 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:44.000 are ways to do it, but still I'm like, this 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.320 is just so much work. Just finish whatever you were watching, 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.040 let it play and don't watch. I don't care. Just 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:51.079 get it off of my freaking keep watching. That's how 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:53.520 I like like that. Keep watching tab is like my 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:57.079 TV checklist exactly. Yes, And if somebody else is on there, 0:12:57.080 --> 0:13:01.000 then I can never check the box. Yeah it it 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:02.400 bothers my ocds. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.120 You can, yeah, yeah. Ocd's where I'm usually that with this. 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:06.760 All right, So I thought of one, Okay, I actually 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.440 have two, and the first one I'll get it too 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:10.079 really quick and the second one I'm really going to 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:13.360 dive into. Okay, So the first one is people who 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:17.800 respond to emails and they put something like gentle reminder, 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:20.320 and I'm like, you just sent me this email twelve 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:22.960 hours ago. How can you gently remind me on something 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:24.480 that's going to take a couple of days to get 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:27.320 back to you. Don't gently remind me anything when you 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:29.800 haven't even really even reminded. There's no even point for 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:31.680 a reminder yet because you just sent it. 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:34.200 Also, it's not that kind of a contradictory statement like 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:37.800 gentle reminder, but like a reminder is not gentle, yeah 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:38.960 those phrases. 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:42.120 Yeah, a reminder is like just like a reminder. Yeah, 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:43.480 nothing gently about it. 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:46.440 Yeah, it's not like a little touch on the shoulder. 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.400 It's a tap, like red, please pay attention to me. 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:51.959 Yeah exactly, Yeah, yeah exactly. And I already responded to 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:53.520 you and told you give me a second or I'll 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:55.400 give this to you an x amount of whatever whatever 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.920 the email eb in your corporate life. And so a 0:13:57.960 --> 0:14:00.679 gentle reminder bothers the hell out of me. And then 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:02.760 the other one. This has bothered me for a very 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:05.400 very long time, and it seems to happen a lot 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:07.760 more and more now, and there's no reason for it, 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:10.520 especially if you're a civilized adult and you know how 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:16.040 to turn things off. Is I cannot stand automation when 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:17.960 it comes to a lot of things, but in particular 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:19.880 sinks and soap. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:22.840 Dispensers, oh, like where sometimes they won't come on, sometimes 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:23.440 they don't work. 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:28.560 Sometimes. Every single time you go up to an automated sink, 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.280 every single time you do this, like put your hand 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:34.200 there and you're like okay, okay, and you hold it 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:35.720 there and you're trying to find the sensor. The sensor 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:37.760 doesn't even I don't even know where the sensors are, 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:39.920 because I've looked under them, I've looked around them. I 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.120 don't even I don't even think there are even our sensors. 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:44.840 I think it just turns on randomly, and for soap too, 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:46.920 and then then you can't use soap, and then you're 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:49.040 hobbling around to each one of the different sinks because 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:50.840 the soap worked here and the water doesn't work here, 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:53.160 or the water worked here, but the soap. It's just 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:55.760 it's so stupid. Give me my damn handles back. 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:57.880 I know. I think the reason they did that too, 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:59.680 is because if germs and germs are so bad and 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.840 public rushrooms, I think that was the point of them. 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:04.880 But if that's the point of them, then they have 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:07.480 to work, because otherwise people then won't even wash their hand. 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:08.800 And then there's even then there's then there's and they 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:09.880 not tell you what there are people who have not 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:11.840 washing their hands even more because they can't even get 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:12.400 him to come. 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:13.480 On, yeah, because they don't work. 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.200 Yeah, it's super annoying. And you don't and then my 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:18.000 thinking of it is, you're not really going to have 0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:20.640 germs because you're washing your hands and then when you're done, 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:23.400 you can hit it with your wrist, like the turning 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:25.320 off the faucet or whatever, so you can eliminate. 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:27.280 Yeah, but you know most people don't use their wrists. 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:31.800 Have you watch people in the bathrooms. It's sketchy, Okay. 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:34.080 It is very sketchy. Yeah, but I. 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:35.920 Do think that's why. I think that's where they came from. 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:38.520 But yeah, they don't. They're almost as bad as the 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:39.920 McDonald's ice cream machine. 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:42.400 Yeah, well that's that's the employee's fault because I used 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:45.600 to work there, and that's just somebody who's who who who? 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:47.920 So that the whole story on that is it's never broken. 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:51.120 So you're telling me it's a conspiracy theory theory. It's factual, 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:53.400 I know, but like it's a it's a conspiracy theory 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:54.760 that it's broken all the time, when in. 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:58.680 Reality, it's never broken. It's because Jessica or Sarah or 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:01.360 Tim or Bob or whoever wanted to shut things down 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:03.600 sooner so they can get out quicker. So they shut 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:06.040 down the ice cream machine and either at the end 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:07.400 of their shift or at the end of the day 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:09.720 of the restaurant because it was their duty or whatever. 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:11.880 So when they close it down, they go because they 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:14.280 close it down, it's been empty. They clean it out 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:16.080 for the next day or the next shift. And so 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:18.280 instead of just saying, oh, oh, let me get give 0:16:18.280 --> 0:16:20.280 me a second to restart it back up, or or 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:21.880 I'm sorry, I was trying to get out of here faster, 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:24.200 they just say it's broken, when it's never broken. It 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.160 is one hundred percent the employee who has cleaned it 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:28.760 up and put it away for the day and doesn't 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:29.800 want to restart it up again. 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:33.640 I mean fair, But yeah, you would think that McDonald's 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:35.680 would have jumped in by now to like shut down 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:39.480 that whole theory of like no ource scream machines aren't broken, 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:40.520 we need to figure this out. 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:43.120 Well, the problem is love these are owned by It's 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:45.360 like a guy who owns like ten to fifteen of them, 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:47.920 he's not going around checking them to see what it is. 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:49.720 And Plus, if anyone's closing it down and cleaning out, 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:51.840 they're doing something right. They're cleaning it and putting it away. 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:54.480 There's no one patrolling them at that time at nine pm. 0:16:54.680 --> 0:16:55.640 Yes, definitely broken. 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:57.560 Money on the table, my guys, it is. 0:16:57.480 --> 0:17:00.240 But McDonald's makes enough money they're not worried about. That's 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:02.560 probably ice cream that won ice cream salor once in 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:04.960 a while. So it comes down to somebody who is 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:08.040 not being lazy, but being lazy. They're closing it down, 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:09.760 which is great, but they're doing it way too soon 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:12.760 so they can get out sooner. All right, Well, not broken. 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:16.400 We got your two things, and we got a fixed 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:17.399 conspiracy theory. 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:19.160 Yes, and if you for a hack, if you want 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:21.440 fresh French fries, tell me you want no salt, because 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:22.760 that means they have to put them. They're like, ah 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:24.439 crap because they because as soon as they make and 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:25.760 they put them in the in the they take it 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:27.560 from the vat, they put them in the thing where 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:30.440 the fries live, and they immediately salt them. So we say, 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:31.399 you want no salt. 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:33.520 The salt is what maze is so delicious. 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:35.040 You can get the salt and put it on yourself. 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:37.040 It's the same salt that they give in the packets. 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:39.679 You know, you're probably right, but listen, they become. 0:17:39.480 --> 0:17:44.080 All salty, so good, you do yourself that way you get. 0:17:44.320 --> 0:17:46.840 But what's better fresh French fries that you added salt to, 0:17:46.960 --> 0:17:48.920 or soggy gross fries they added salt to. That's out 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:49.879 there for fifteen minutes, you know. 0:17:49.960 --> 0:17:52.920 I like the mischief, like the little mystery of when 0:17:52.920 --> 0:17:54.400 I order, am I going to get soggy fries? 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:54.600 Sare? 0:17:54.600 --> 0:17:58.520 Am I get it hot and salty. 0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:01.440 I don't like playing that game. 0:18:01.520 --> 0:18:02.800 I'm like, well, we gonna get today. 0:18:02.920 --> 0:18:05.000 It's a terrible game because the loser is always going 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:06.320 to be you. It's not damn. 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:09.400 I do love a squishy fries sometimes, so you really 0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:13.240 like a squishy fry? Yeah? Sometimes, Oh my gosh, they 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:14.919 got a lot of salt on them. Don't ask me. 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:17.320 I just love fries. I don't discriminate against a fry. 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:18.119 Okay. 0:18:18.240 --> 0:18:20.040 I even take on fries and I bring them home 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:21.439 and I heat them up because I love fries. 0:18:21.560 --> 0:18:23.000 You heat themember the microwave, or you put them in 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:23.560 the oven. 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:24.560 The microwave microwave. 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:26.920 Ooh, it doesn't taste the same for me. It's all rubbery. 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:28.719 They do a little bit, but then you just if 0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:30.359 you let them like heat up and cool down for 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:33.359 a second, then they kind of go back to middle ground. Okay, 0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:35.480 but I've always been weird for taking my fries home. 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:36.760 I love fries. 0:18:40.600 --> 0:18:40.879 Crazy. 0:18:41.000 --> 0:18:42.600 I have always said that I am a potato. 0:18:44.880 --> 0:18:47.639 Your innerds are all of a what do they call 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:50.040 those gords? Is that a gordon? It's a potato. 0:18:50.440 --> 0:18:52.399 A potato starches starches. 0:18:52.440 --> 0:18:54.800 That's what starts starches. 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:59.160 All right, well those are some good ones. But quick 0:18:59.320 --> 0:19:01.040 before we headed to this break, I need to know 0:19:01.080 --> 0:19:03.120 we're gonna end on a high note, not a low note. 0:19:03.200 --> 0:19:04.359 Okay, high note. Let's do it. 0:19:04.440 --> 0:19:06.840 What's your favorite thing in your pantry right now that 0:19:06.880 --> 0:19:08.040 you're eating that you really love? 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:10.440 Oh man, I love these things that I get from publics. 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:14.800 They are these plain rice cakes and the no salt 0:19:14.920 --> 0:19:16.400 like they have ones where they have like light saw 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:18.760 and they got the chatter ones. We buy all those two. 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:21.600 But I just love these like really boring ass plain 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:25.560 circular disc rice cakes that they're made by the publics 0:19:25.880 --> 0:19:28.080 or that oatmeal guy, that guy with like the hat 0:19:28.160 --> 0:19:32.919 and guy quicker guy. Yeah yeah, yeah, I love those 0:19:32.560 --> 0:19:35.800 by themselves plane And then my son loves them now too. 0:19:35.800 --> 0:19:37.439 Weaed him together on the way to baseball practice. 0:19:37.560 --> 0:19:39.280 Those are like your version of chips. 0:19:39.080 --> 0:19:40.879 Yeah, exactly chips. Yeah, yeah. It has nothing to do 0:19:40.960 --> 0:19:42.800 with health. It's just something that I just really like, yeah, 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:45.200 conscious about health? Yeah yeah, yeah. 0:19:45.400 --> 0:19:46.040 What's your favorite thing? 0:19:46.400 --> 0:19:47.320 That's everything in the pantry? 0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:47.480 Is that? 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:50.440 By far? That am my sweet and sour sauce from 0:19:51.080 --> 0:19:52.919 a sweet chili sauce from nine nine Ranch I get 0:19:52.920 --> 0:19:54.040 shipped in from San Francisco. 0:19:54.119 --> 0:19:56.040 I feel like you can put that on the rice cake. 0:19:56.119 --> 0:19:57.920 You probably could. I haven't tried that, but now I will. 0:19:58.160 --> 0:19:58.360 Yeah. 0:19:58.359 --> 0:19:59.600 I feel like that would mix ball together. 0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:01.320 Yeah, that's a great combination. 0:20:02.400 --> 0:20:04.159 You can't see him right now, but I just lit up. 0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:06.600 Oh yeah, with my twitching red eye and eyes lit up. 0:20:07.160 --> 0:20:09.439 That's great, I see. And this is something you can 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:11.359 also put on your rice cakes. I'm obsessed with it. 0:20:11.440 --> 0:20:13.440 My niece and nephew came to town and I had 0:20:13.440 --> 0:20:15.680 to get them snacks because they have to be gluten free. 0:20:16.160 --> 0:20:19.560 And there's this peanut butter chocolate spread okay, and it's 0:20:19.560 --> 0:20:22.919 peanuts blended with cocoa and I eat it with like 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:26.399 pretzels and it tastes amazing. It's like peanut butter, but chocolate, 0:20:26.400 --> 0:20:26.880 peanut butter. 0:20:27.119 --> 0:20:28.040 Who makes it? What is it? 0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:29.119 It's from peanut butter and co. 0:20:29.480 --> 0:20:33.119 Okay, peanut butter and delicious or something. And I'm telling you, 0:20:33.160 --> 0:20:35.160 like I used to just eat like apples and peanut 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:37.879 butter or whatever, pretzels and peanut butter. And this is 0:20:37.920 --> 0:20:41.000 like a little bit healthier form of nutella. 0:20:41.320 --> 0:20:41.879 That's awesome. 0:20:42.000 --> 0:20:46.000 Yeah, because it was peanut butter. I found it out Walmart, Okay, Walmart, Yeah, 0:20:46.000 --> 0:20:49.800 oh okay, like buy all the little peanut butter and. 0:20:50.280 --> 0:20:51.840 Jelly are okay, yeah. 0:20:51.760 --> 0:20:55.240 So peanuts and cocoa, okay, And it's delicious. 0:20:55.280 --> 0:20:57.399 It's a delicious peanut delicious even know it says the 0:20:57.480 --> 0:20:58.800 vegeta's already in fifty five. 0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:01.560 Oh, we gotta go have a little lunch break. Then 0:21:01.560 --> 0:21:02.120 we'll be back. 0:21:04.880 --> 0:21:07.680 Well, you guys have heard our one of our show's 0:21:07.760 --> 0:21:10.400 theme songs that was written by a guy named Canine 0:21:10.440 --> 0:21:13.040 in Florida. He wrote it just because he wanted to 0:21:13.119 --> 0:21:14.840 and send it to us and said we could use 0:21:14.880 --> 0:21:17.080 it for the post show. While he finally stopped by 0:21:17.119 --> 0:21:20.480 the studio in person to sing the theme song live. 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:21.800 That happened on the show this week. 0:21:21.840 --> 0:21:24.720 But we're not talking Canine, because that's happening on the 0:21:24.720 --> 0:21:27.080 bits right here. Scoopa and I are going to talk 0:21:27.119 --> 0:21:29.040 about a concert that him and I both just went 0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:30.120 to that was epic. 0:21:30.560 --> 0:21:32.680 Which one was that? Luke come, oh yeah. 0:21:32.520 --> 0:21:34.880 Yeah, You're like, oh dang, I've been to so many concerts. 0:21:34.920 --> 0:21:35.560 I was it. 0:21:36.000 --> 0:21:38.600 It was Luke Holmb's at Nissan Stadium. 0:21:38.680 --> 0:21:40.720 Yeah yeah, And I want to know your thoughts, like, 0:21:40.720 --> 0:21:41.960 what was your favorite part of it? 0:21:42.320 --> 0:21:43.800 Well, I like the fact that it was bringing your 0:21:43.880 --> 0:21:47.320 parent to a show day because Kevin, who works in 0:21:47.359 --> 0:21:49.840 the show behind the scenes and those twenty five whistles, 0:21:49.880 --> 0:21:52.199 he brought his dad, and Abby shows up a few 0:21:52.240 --> 0:21:54.760 minutes later with her mom, and then Broke, who works 0:21:54.760 --> 0:21:56.400 here in the building for the Big ninety eight, brought 0:21:56.440 --> 0:21:59.159 her mom, and then another guy who works as one 0:21:59.160 --> 0:22:01.679 of our affiliates in San Francisco. He kind of flipped 0:22:01.720 --> 0:22:03.560 it and he brought his son. So it was like 0:22:03.600 --> 0:22:05.679 a family affair at the show. It was it was 0:22:05.720 --> 0:22:06.280 really cool. 0:22:06.400 --> 0:22:08.760 You had your wife that a family affair. 0:22:08.480 --> 0:22:09.520 Family a fair who was a mother. 0:22:09.720 --> 0:22:13.400 But then there was me with my best friend and. 0:22:13.359 --> 0:22:17.200 There's Morgan being Morgan. I also hope you to bring 0:22:17.200 --> 0:22:18.720 your mom or your dad or somebody. 0:22:18.960 --> 0:22:20.720 Yeah, I've been trying to get him come down for 0:22:20.760 --> 0:22:24.000 a concert, but always come down for CMA Fest and 0:22:24.040 --> 0:22:26.119 that's like five thousand concerts in one exactly. 0:22:26.119 --> 0:22:27.800 And it's coming up in like a few months anyways. Yeah, 0:22:27.840 --> 0:22:28.920 less than a few months. A couple of months. 0:22:29.080 --> 0:22:30.160 Oh yeah, very soon. 0:22:30.280 --> 0:22:30.720 Yeah. 0:22:30.760 --> 0:22:32.640 So your favorite part of Luke Hoombs is not Luke 0:22:32.640 --> 0:22:33.680 Hombs what it was family Day. 0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:35.480 It was. It was really it actually was really cool 0:22:35.520 --> 0:22:37.919 because then you got to meet everyone's parents or whatever 0:22:37.960 --> 0:22:40.800 they brought with him. And Kevin's dad is a riot 0:22:41.080 --> 0:22:43.280 because it was really weird too because Kevin's from Socoo 0:22:43.600 --> 0:22:45.879 and that's how we bonded from living in La and 0:22:45.880 --> 0:22:47.800 I lived in La. But his dad comes in, He's 0:22:47.840 --> 0:22:50.080 all like, what are you doing? He's all like super 0:22:50.560 --> 0:22:53.920 upper h northeast sounding, and I was like, what the hell? 0:22:53.960 --> 0:22:56.560 And then I was like, how does soca? And of 0:22:56.600 --> 0:22:59.359 course obviously people weren't you know he moved duh, I 0:22:59.400 --> 0:23:01.959 mean just because they sounds like a way as I mean, 0:23:02.000 --> 0:23:04.359 that's anyways, so he moved to the West Coast. That's 0:23:04.359 --> 0:23:06.040 where you met Kevin's mother, and I'll I'll let him 0:23:06.040 --> 0:23:07.080 tell you the story one day. 0:23:07.200 --> 0:23:10.320 But this kid was like telling Kevin's a life story. 0:23:10.400 --> 0:23:12.920 Kick off. Kevin, by the way, know him. 0:23:13.200 --> 0:23:14.920 But it was cool to talk to him and we Bondedever, 0:23:15.119 --> 0:23:19.359 he always coached Kevin's sports teams, and I'm now coaching 0:23:19.359 --> 0:23:21.440 my son's t ball team, so it's kind of cool 0:23:21.480 --> 0:23:23.240 to talk to him and get some pointers and tips 0:23:23.240 --> 0:23:26.240 and things like that. And so I kind of enjoyed 0:23:26.280 --> 0:23:30.400 more hanging out with the parents of the of the staff. 0:23:30.640 --> 0:23:31.680 I mean, the show was great. 0:23:31.880 --> 0:23:34.280 I feel offended because I didn't have a parent there, 0:23:34.320 --> 0:23:36.199 and I am most of the staff, so I go 0:23:36.359 --> 0:23:37.199 offended doubly. 0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:38.440 I have fun with you for Li Becaus, and you 0:23:38.480 --> 0:23:40.200 helped me and you gave me a gymnastics tip for 0:23:40.280 --> 0:23:41.359 my daughter. I did. 0:23:41.600 --> 0:23:43.080 We didn't need a chance to hang out much. But 0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:44.520 I did hang out with your wife. I always hang 0:23:44.560 --> 0:23:46.119 out with her for a little bit every time I 0:23:46.119 --> 0:23:46.520 see her. 0:23:46.800 --> 0:23:49.320 We bond at Chris Jansen's house, you guys hung out. 0:23:49.840 --> 0:23:52.359 We bonded over our love of sweets, sneaking over to 0:23:52.359 --> 0:23:53.119 the dessert table. 0:23:53.400 --> 0:23:56.160 Yeah, she's I gotta go around. I'm gonna hang out Morgan. 0:23:56.200 --> 0:23:57.760 I was like, Okay, cool, whatever, I'll hang out with 0:23:57.840 --> 0:23:59.840 Kevin and Pitts. But yeah, it was fun. I think 0:23:59.840 --> 0:24:01.640 that that was I mean, the concert was great, it really, 0:24:01.640 --> 0:24:04.280 I mean a Nissan Stadium was electric. People were hella 0:24:04.359 --> 0:24:06.439 drunk at like four pm before the show even started. 0:24:06.600 --> 0:24:08.400 There's a woman who fell on the ground a guy 0:24:08.400 --> 0:24:11.080 who was already screaming obscenities, and I was like, the 0:24:11.119 --> 0:24:13.520 sun is so up. This thing hasn't even started yet, 0:24:13.520 --> 0:24:15.000 and y'all are already twisted. 0:24:15.480 --> 0:24:17.520 Oh Scuba. That was so. I didn't see it at 0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:20.080 Luke Colmbs, but I went to Lady A the night before. Again, 0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:23.320 it was at the Ryman so much nicer, a little 0:24:23.359 --> 0:24:27.960 bit you don't expect as rough as an intense crowd there. Yeah, no, 0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:30.439 a dude punched another guy. That dude was bleeding from 0:24:30.440 --> 0:24:32.000 his face and he was about to get pushed over 0:24:32.000 --> 0:24:34.840 the balcony at Lady A Lady at the Ryman. 0:24:35.000 --> 0:24:37.320 Their music gets played on like Hot a Sea stations 0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:38.280 from the eighties, nineties and. 0:24:38.280 --> 0:24:41.159 Today to see his country shows of all time, and 0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:43.760 there's a full on fist by happening in the balcony. 0:24:43.880 --> 0:24:46.560 That is so odd. I have a question about Lady A. 0:24:46.640 --> 0:24:48.120 Were they on time or were they super late? 0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:50.120 Like always what they're always late? 0:24:50.320 --> 0:24:52.000 Oh my god. I went to a concert one time 0:24:52.040 --> 0:24:56.040 down in Franklin and it was like a couple acts 0:24:56.119 --> 0:24:58.480 Nico Moon and a couple Dollers that came on and 0:24:58.480 --> 0:25:00.560 then there was like this like thirty minute there's always 0:25:00.600 --> 0:25:03.280 an intermission between Jack they guy switch things out or whatever. 0:25:03.480 --> 0:25:05.560 It was supposed to be twenty five thirty minutes. Forty 0:25:05.560 --> 0:25:08.440 five minutes goes by, an hour goes by, and they're 0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:10.280 still not on, and now it's like nine thirty and 0:25:10.320 --> 0:25:12.160 I'm like, I got kids at home, and then we're 0:25:12.160 --> 0:25:14.160 allway down to Franklin, so we ended up leaving. I've 0:25:14.200 --> 0:25:17.080 never seen Lady A live because the two times I've went, 0:25:17.400 --> 0:25:19.159 it ended up being an hour plus wait for them 0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:21.080 to come on, and I'm like, what the last time 0:25:21.080 --> 0:25:22.800 this happened to me was Lady Gaga. 0:25:22.880 --> 0:25:25.200 But I was like, I wonder if something happened, because 0:25:25.200 --> 0:25:28.680 you know, they went on right, like literally right on time. 0:25:28.760 --> 0:25:30.439 Oh because Kevin said they went on late, like they 0:25:30.480 --> 0:25:31.239 were like super late. 0:25:31.280 --> 0:25:34.320 Well then left early because he didn't even stay to 0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:35.800 get to the part of them getting on stafe. 0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:37.000 Okay, so he left for different reasons. 0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:40.040 Okay, yes, because he also saw another fight happen and 0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:43.200 he was like, we're just gonna leave. I was like, okay, whatever, 0:25:43.359 --> 0:25:46.600 because I showed up right after the opener and it 0:25:46.640 --> 0:25:49.000 was like right at that intermission time, and I had 0:25:49.040 --> 0:25:50.960 the times of when everybody was supposed to go on 0:25:51.000 --> 0:25:51.600 from the label. 0:25:51.800 --> 0:25:53.320 They went all right on time. 0:25:53.240 --> 0:25:55.960 Okay, all right, yeah yeah. So that so that seemed like, oh, 0:25:56.040 --> 0:25:58.920 must be a reoccurring thing where they're always making everyone wait, 0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:01.199 Like this is sort of like anticipation type thing. They 0:26:01.240 --> 0:26:02.159 do this on purpose to make it. 0:26:02.160 --> 0:26:04.760 Now I wonder if something that happened back then or 0:26:04.800 --> 0:26:06.800 there's something going on with touring. But yeah, no, this 0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:08.959 time they were right on time, and it was one 0:26:08.960 --> 0:26:11.520 of the coolest tours that I've seen. Because the way 0:26:11.520 --> 0:26:12.120 they did it. 0:26:12.240 --> 0:26:14.360 Yeah, I want to see their set. I know they're amazing. 0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.560 I've just never seen it except for our studio. But 0:26:16.560 --> 0:26:17.320 that's not like the same. 0:26:17.560 --> 0:26:20.919 No, it's experience yea. And this the idea behind the 0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:23.640 like the request line was really cool. Like what they 0:26:23.680 --> 0:26:26.560 did was play the voicemails over the speaker and then 0:26:26.560 --> 0:26:30.720 they'd be like, Okay, who's Kara that called in? Yeah, 0:26:30.760 --> 0:26:32.560 and they talked to them. They're like, the song is 0:26:32.600 --> 0:26:35.520 for you. It was this very intimate setting and they 0:26:35.520 --> 0:26:37.640 had so many songs and I knew every single one. 0:26:37.800 --> 0:26:40.960 I was like, this was unexpected for me to love it. 0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:42.520 I knew I was gonna like it. I knew there 0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:44.760 were vocals were going to be awesome. Yeah, but it 0:26:44.800 --> 0:26:46.520 was unexpected for me to love it as much as 0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:46.880 I did. 0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:50.080 Did did they play Bobby's voicemails or No? 0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:52.919 They didn't. It did not happen. I was waiting. I 0:26:52.920 --> 0:26:54.879 even have my phone ready to like take a bite, 0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:57.200 And because they kept playing them, noe and I stayed 0:26:57.200 --> 0:27:00.679 the whole time. I stayed through the encore. No, but 0:27:00.720 --> 0:27:02.879 they did play them and they posted a video with it. 0:27:03.520 --> 0:27:04.040 I saw that. 0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:06.680 Yeah, but yeah, no, they didn't do it during the show. 0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:08.800 They could have done it during the second night at Nashville. 0:27:08.920 --> 0:27:09.920 Okay, they had two nights. 0:27:09.960 --> 0:27:12.640 Okay, they did, but at the night that I was there, didn't. 0:27:12.720 --> 0:27:14.639 They didn't do it. Okay, that's cool. I know a 0:27:14.680 --> 0:27:16.560 lot of their songs too, just because I've worked in 0:27:16.680 --> 0:27:19.679 other genres of music and they're one of those bands 0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:22.760 that has crossed over into like top forty pop, the 0:27:22.760 --> 0:27:26.639 hot AC space, So I know all their songs just 0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:28.439 because of that, and then coming here like they're one 0:27:28.440 --> 0:27:29.879 of the only bands that comes through, I'm like, oh, 0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:32.439 I know you prior to my country career, Like, this 0:27:32.520 --> 0:27:35.280 is really cool. Oh my god, your lady a. You know, 0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:37.879 we've played your songs so many times it is incredible. 0:27:38.600 --> 0:27:42.040 Well, I highly suggest now going to see them, especially 0:27:42.040 --> 0:27:44.639 with like if the request Line tour comes. It's just 0:27:44.920 --> 0:27:48.879 such a cool idea and different type of tour than 0:27:48.880 --> 0:27:49.800 I've ever seen before. 0:27:49.840 --> 0:27:51.679 Okay cool, And they're just really good. They're really good 0:27:51.760 --> 0:27:52.520 performing Oh. 0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:55.160 My god, just vocals and Charles got a standing innovation 0:27:55.320 --> 0:27:56.920 for his sobriety. 0:27:56.359 --> 0:27:58.800 Song Oh so he performed that one he did by. 0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:00.679 Himself, him and Dave Ron stage with one of their 0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:04.359 other guitar players, and then they had they had like 0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:06.520 a whole book and they're like, this is seventeen years 0:28:06.520 --> 0:28:09.080 of songs that we've done, damn. And you're just like, 0:28:09.160 --> 0:28:11.680 holy crap. And when they go through like all these 0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:14.560 different requests and these are like album cuts and you 0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:16.359 know them all and you just don't realize that you 0:28:16.480 --> 0:28:19.080 know so many of them. So it was really good. 0:28:19.119 --> 0:28:21.000 Like I loved Luke Colmbs and it was rowdy, it 0:28:21.040 --> 0:28:23.520 was a great time, like in that weekend, like Lady 0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:24.360 A crushed it. 0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:27.080 Okay, Yeah, and then the Ryman's a cool venue for 0:28:27.080 --> 0:28:28.800 like that kind of performance. 0:28:28.320 --> 0:28:31.520 Besides the fighting as a w W. 0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:33.399 Knight, and that's something that'd be a Nissan stadium. That 0:28:33.400 --> 0:28:36.080 makes more sense obviously if Lanny Wilson performing. And that 0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:38.960 was the other good Blannie Wilson's great. Briley Green's pretty cool. 0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:41.480 There's a moment there that kind of was like, Okay, 0:28:42.000 --> 0:28:44.120 definitely in the country world, I want to get into that. 0:28:44.200 --> 0:28:48.320 I was like, wow, okay, people, there was a moment. 0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:50.600 There was a moment it was like I was like, 0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:51.480 shut the hell up. 0:28:51.920 --> 0:28:55.120 I am obsessed with Lannie Wilson, though, I'm just obsessed her. 0:28:55.320 --> 0:28:56.640 When she came in there for the first time, like 0:28:56.640 --> 0:28:59.960 two or three years ago, I got this immediate feeling 0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:03.320 the energy that she exudes, the way she carries herself, 0:29:03.400 --> 0:29:06.280 the way she speaks, the way she performs, the way 0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:07.960 she answers sayings. I was like, Oh my god, this 0:29:08.120 --> 0:29:10.360 is the next generation of like a Dolly or Ariba 0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:14.040 or somebody of that elk for this next generation just 0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:16.080 everything about her. I was like, Wow, this chick is legit. 0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:18.760 Yeah, like really awesome. That way when we were in 0:29:18.880 --> 0:29:21.480 the like the press room that we had access to 0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:24.000 about that show, and she came in, she saw me 0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:25.720 right away and she gave me a big hut. She's like, 0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:28.320 how are you like immediately, and I was just like, 0:29:28.440 --> 0:29:30.480 I mean, I know that we've her and I have 0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:32.400 had a few moments outside of the show and stuff 0:29:32.400 --> 0:29:36.840 that we've interacted, so we're acquaintances more than we're like 0:29:37.600 --> 0:29:39.120 know each other because of work, you know what I mean. 0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:41.840 Like there's all the levels, but I just adore her, 0:29:42.000 --> 0:29:44.160 like I've just never had a bad interaction with her. 0:29:44.480 --> 0:29:46.680 And she's incredibly talented. 0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:48.640 She is, yeah, and a great singer. 0:29:48.680 --> 0:29:51.440 I'm just awesome yeah, so we both we both love 0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:52.040 Lanne will. 0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:54.080 See Yeah, a hundre percent. We have a huge fan. 0:29:54.240 --> 0:29:56.760 That would probably be my highlight of Luke Comb's like 0:29:56.880 --> 0:29:58.720 I love Luke Combs and I sang my I sang 0:29:58.800 --> 0:30:00.440 my winning song. My friend got a video of me 0:30:00.600 --> 0:30:05.160 like rocking out to my wedding. Yeah, never broke my heart, 0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:07.760 not that it plays all that often. Yeah, still my 0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:10.920 winning song. Yeah, but I did that was like the 0:30:11.200 --> 0:30:13.080 those two were the fun moments. But I did have 0:30:13.200 --> 0:30:14.560 a bad experience at. 0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:16.080 Lucom Okay, what was your bad experience? 0:30:16.680 --> 0:30:19.560 So we were on the pedestrian bridge afterwards, which is 0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:21.360 like a whole experience. Have you ever come to Nashville 0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:22.280 go before? 0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:23.760 Okay, yeah, you guys need to. 0:30:23.920 --> 0:30:25.840 It's like it's something to experience and you'll do it 0:30:25.880 --> 0:30:27.120 once you'll be like, cool, I experienced it. 0:30:27.160 --> 0:30:29.200 I'm good, I've seen it. So it's basically a bridge 0:30:29.240 --> 0:30:33.040 that connects you from like downtown Nashville over to Nissan Stadium. 0:30:33.120 --> 0:30:34.680 It's that's what the purpose of it is, right. 0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:38.479 Yep, and everybody before it's really after either a concert 0:30:38.640 --> 0:30:41.120 or a game, and everybody, especially after like a really 0:30:41.240 --> 0:30:44.400 cool moment, like a Hookcomb's concert. Everybody's walking over. Sometimes 0:30:44.440 --> 0:30:47.080 people start singing songs. It's like this whole kind of 0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:50.600 fan moment that happens. Yeah, well, everybody's like high on life. 0:30:50.720 --> 0:30:53.000 And I asked my friend to take a picture for me. 0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:55.200 We didn't take any on the way over. And as 0:30:55.240 --> 0:30:58.680 I'm taking a picture, a guy walked by and blew 0:30:58.920 --> 0:31:01.200 smoke in my face. He was smoking a cigarette, blue 0:31:01.240 --> 0:31:03.120 smoke in my face and laughed. 0:31:03.880 --> 0:31:06.120 Yes, it wasn't like I did it likely, I'm so sorry. 0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:09.040 It was like an unintentional face to me. 0:31:09.160 --> 0:31:12.040 Did it and laughed and then walked away as he 0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:12.640 was laughing. 0:31:12.800 --> 0:31:15.280 And it was a cigarette smoke. Yeah, so it definitely 0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:17.040 smelled awful. Then it wasn't. It was like he was 0:31:17.040 --> 0:31:18.720 trying to get you high or anything like or No, 0:31:19.560 --> 0:31:22.760 there was nothing good about this experience anyway. And you 0:31:22.840 --> 0:31:25.080 get the mixture of his like probably beer breath and 0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:26.920 all the gross things he ate all day long. 0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:30.400 I was like so appalled, like I didn't have words 0:31:30.520 --> 0:31:32.440 because I just didn't know what happened. 0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:34.280 To be I'm disrespectful and disgusting. 0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:36.640 Yes, I'm like, listen, if you won't give me a 0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:39.360 hard time for taking photos cool, whatever, it is what 0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:42.640 it is, But smoke in my face? Yeah? Is that 0:31:42.720 --> 0:31:46.720 really necessary? Yeah? On what level did you believe this 0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:47.600 is a good idea? 0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:49.800 Was he with a group of people by himself, He's 0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.600 with a woman? Wow? And what was her reaction? Like, 0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:53.560 stop that, Darren. 0:31:53.960 --> 0:31:56.280 I don't know if she was like on something too 0:31:56.400 --> 0:32:00.600 and they're okay, you know, Yeah, she was a giggling 0:32:00.680 --> 0:32:02.920 but she was kind of like like awkward. 0:32:02.640 --> 0:32:04.120 Laugh o, kind of like I can if you did that. 0:32:04.160 --> 0:32:06.000 And if I say, something's gonna hit me, that's the 0:32:06.040 --> 0:32:07.720 kind of guy that would hit that energy. 0:32:07.880 --> 0:32:08.040 Yeah. 0:32:08.120 --> 0:32:10.239 Yeah, like I better not better not say anthing against him, 0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:11.920 or I'm gonna be getting beat on the way home. 0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:17.280 Gross Haffle, what an awful human being. So start off 0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:19.280 on a high, yeah, and then in a pretty damn low. 0:32:19.400 --> 0:32:21.840 Yeah, I just is still walking, you know. Thankfully I 0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:24.200 still don't have my smell, so I really got whiffs 0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:27.120 of the cigarette smoke, but it was just like it 0:32:27.240 --> 0:32:29.560 was all in my face and nothing sucks worse than 0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:30.360 secondhand smoke. 0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:33.520 Oh my god. Yeah, second smoke is my grandpa used 0:32:33.560 --> 0:32:35.960 to drive us to school like in the nineties. This 0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:37.920 is like when things just you did, and there were 0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:40.959 any rules, And my grandpa would drive us to school 0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:43.640 in the morning. He smoked cigarettes up until a certain 0:32:43.640 --> 0:32:45.640 point when he had like a trimble bypass and he 0:32:45.800 --> 0:32:48.040 then of course quit. But when we were kids, he'd 0:32:48.080 --> 0:32:49.880 drive us to school and he would drive in his 0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:52.920 old Buick and be smoking cigarettes in the way to school. 0:32:53.000 --> 0:32:55.440 And then he would almost like hot box the car, 0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:57.640 you know, like a hot boxes. Yeah, the windows are 0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:00.840 rolled up, but they was just cracked like a sliver, 0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:05.959 only his window. So he's in the car driving smoking 0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:09.320 a cigarette, cracked window. And then we were always like upset, 0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:11.240 but we could never talk back because he was the 0:33:11.280 --> 0:33:13.600 old school generation. He just kind of just sat there 0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:15.840 and sucked it up. But then one day I remember 0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:17.760 my teacher because like she she was like, you guys 0:33:17.760 --> 0:33:20.480 smell like like smoke, is everything okay? And I told 0:33:20.520 --> 0:33:22.360 the story of my grandpa smoked cigarettes in the car, 0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:24.320 and I think she then called my mom and was like, 0:33:24.360 --> 0:33:26.400 what's going on here? Because then the next day or 0:33:26.440 --> 0:33:28.760 a couple of whatever had happened for like months, maybe 0:33:28.800 --> 0:33:31.400 a year, and I finally someone called us out and 0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:33.240 my mom. We were in the car one day and 0:33:33.280 --> 0:33:35.520 then my Grandpa's driving, and he goes, oh, sorry, I 0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:37.160 guess I got to crack the window a little bit 0:33:37.280 --> 0:33:39.480 more because then I'll get in trouble for da da 0:33:39.560 --> 0:33:40.800 da da dada. Like he went on this whole ran 0:33:41.240 --> 0:33:42.880 a little bit more. Yeah, and then so he cracked 0:33:42.920 --> 0:33:44.840 he went, and then he cracked it just a little 0:33:44.840 --> 0:33:45.920 bit more, and then he goes, oh, let me do 0:33:46.000 --> 0:33:49.200 your window to Steven. And he thought I like ratting 0:33:49.240 --> 0:33:50.720 him out or something, and I was I didn't, And 0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:51.960 I was like, I didn't say anything. He's like, shut 0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:52.400 your mouth. 0:33:56.000 --> 0:33:58.280 What a horribly awful story. Yeah. 0:33:58.400 --> 0:34:00.120 I was like, wow, good lord. 0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:04.440 Oh my gosh, that's terrible. Well, I mean, I'm glad 0:34:04.520 --> 0:34:06.760 you don't have that experience anymore. And I'm glad a teacher. 0:34:08.280 --> 0:34:10.640 Why can't say that word advocated for you? 0:34:10.920 --> 0:34:13.040 Yes, thank you so much, missus Kapelka I think her 0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:14.520 name was. You're great. 0:34:14.719 --> 0:34:15.680 Yeah, shout out to you. 0:34:16.000 --> 0:34:18.280 You saved my life and probably probably instead of shaving 0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:20.640 off ten years, you probably saved me ten years not 0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:22.440 breathing in that smoke anymore, beautifully. 0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:25.440 Yeah. So people, just you know, if you decide to 0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:28.600 do that, please don't do it in other people's vicinity. 0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:32.520 Yeah, that's really I still baffled by that. 0:34:32.840 --> 0:34:35.640 Yeah, that's a conversation for another day. That that should 0:34:35.640 --> 0:34:37.200 just stop entirely, But yeah we are. 0:34:37.400 --> 0:34:38.520 Then I have a question for you, because you like 0:34:38.560 --> 0:34:41.400 country music a lot. Lucom's song, I'd never hear the 0:34:41.520 --> 0:34:43.120 music and it's I'm usually busy and not really paying 0:34:43.160 --> 0:34:46.279 attention to lyrics. The song one call away? Is that 0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:48.080 a song about like one number? 0:34:48.120 --> 0:34:48.239 One? 0:34:48.480 --> 0:34:48.879 One number? 0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:49.080 Way? 0:34:49.200 --> 0:34:51.759 Is it something about Is that like a like because 0:34:51.800 --> 0:34:53.040 he writes a lot of his music, right. 0:34:53.160 --> 0:34:53.640 Yes he does. 0:34:53.920 --> 0:34:55.279 Is that like an infidelity song? 0:34:56.040 --> 0:34:59.360 No? So, and I gotta remember make it seem like. 0:34:59.680 --> 0:35:01.680 I guess I'm only one call away from calling my 0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:02.200 side check? 0:35:02.360 --> 0:35:06.320 No so, really, what it's It's more like a breakup song. Okay, So, 0:35:06.600 --> 0:35:08.800 like the lyrics go, I'm one number away from calling you. 0:35:08.920 --> 0:35:10.960 I said I was through, but I'm dying inside. Got 0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:13.600 my head in a mess, girl, I confess I lied 0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:15.520 what I said. I'm leaving and I'm not coming back. 0:35:15.640 --> 0:35:17.960 So it's like he broke up with somebody and he's 0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:20.480 really dying through the breakup and like wants to go 0:35:20.640 --> 0:35:24.640 back to her, but like doesn't think he can okay, kind. 0:35:24.520 --> 0:35:27.160 Of scenario because I was just thinking of someone maybe, 0:35:27.320 --> 0:35:29.080 so maybe there was a breakup in his relationship with 0:35:29.160 --> 0:35:31.840 his girl or a previous girl. I read into it 0:35:32.000 --> 0:35:34.800 as like, I'm only one call away from calling this 0:35:34.920 --> 0:35:37.000 other girl back because he's in a relationship. And I 0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:38.520 only got he's in a relationship with somebody, but he's 0:35:38.520 --> 0:35:40.279 almost one caller from calling somebody else back. 0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:43.480 Isn't that funny though? How you can interpret the songs? Yeah, differently? 0:35:43.840 --> 0:35:45.799 Is Luke I's cheating on his wife or did cheat 0:35:45.840 --> 0:35:48.200 on his wife or fiance girlfriend that at the. 0:35:48.200 --> 0:35:51.239 Time, so one number way. I can't remember if it 0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:56.040 came out before they had started dating, okay, or ride 0:35:56.080 --> 0:35:58.640 about when they started dating. I can't remember, but it 0:35:58.680 --> 0:35:59.960 was one of the first few songs of his career, 0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:02.040 so I'm not sure at the timeline of their relationship 0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:02.759 how that lines up. 0:36:02.800 --> 0:36:05.520 Okay, but yeah, it's definitely a breakup song or sure. 0:36:05.719 --> 0:36:07.200 I feel better about that now because then I was 0:36:07.239 --> 0:36:09.759 watching the promos of like their their a Gear of 0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:12.400 like Lucombe slash Nicole or whatever, and she did not 0:36:12.480 --> 0:36:15.279 look happy in those in those promo shots, she looked 0:36:15.320 --> 0:36:18.239 pretty pissed. I was like, Wow, that mostly something going 0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:18.440 on here. 0:36:18.440 --> 0:36:20.880 I'm reading into a lot kind of been her modeling face, Guba. 0:36:21.000 --> 0:36:22.600 It wasn't the modeling face. It was like moments where 0:36:22.600 --> 0:36:23.759 he was like trying to kiss her and she'd be 0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:26.399 like this whole like like not wanting to kiss back. 0:36:26.680 --> 0:36:28.440 And I was reading into a lot of the body languages, 0:36:28.440 --> 0:36:30.440 and I was like, that is something either she was. 0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:32.160 It was just you know how couples are. We always 0:36:32.360 --> 0:36:34.400 there's like days where you have a great day of 0:36:34.440 --> 0:36:36.359 a bad day, especially when kids they're involved. I can 0:36:36.400 --> 0:36:38.520 really attest to that. So I wasn't looking at us 0:36:38.520 --> 0:36:40.080 like the relationship was falling apart. I was just like 0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:42.320 when they did this shoot, she was not happy with 0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:44.080 him in that moment. He must have like he must 0:36:44.120 --> 0:36:45.560 have been late, or there must have been something that 0:36:45.640 --> 0:36:48.879 happened that day or he said something or something or whatever. 0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:50.960 But I was like, wow, she is not happy in 0:36:51.000 --> 0:36:51.400 that shoot. 0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:53.080 I'm gonna have to pay attention to the shoot now 0:36:53.120 --> 0:36:55.239 because I was not watching because they were playing them. 0:36:55.320 --> 0:36:57.160 Yeah, they're playing it on like like a screen like 0:36:57.480 --> 0:36:59.920 like in between acts. Oh yeah, I was drinking during 0:37:00.680 --> 0:37:02.080 I was watching, and I saw the thing. I was 0:37:02.080 --> 0:37:04.160 like oh cool, Like, oh, that's awesome his wife, because 0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:06.960 his wife's merch was better than his merch, Like she 0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:09.600 made some really cool it was like a collaborative effort 0:37:09.640 --> 0:37:11.279 with her, like Chris stuff was really cool. This is 0:37:11.320 --> 0:37:13.360 some pretty cool stuff. But then they would get like 0:37:13.400 --> 0:37:15.480 a shot with him and her and I was like, 0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:20.120 he's happy, but she looks helopist. And it wasn't modeling face, 0:37:20.160 --> 0:37:21.719 it was it was the reactions. 0:37:21.880 --> 0:37:23.080 The body language interpreter. 0:37:23.239 --> 0:37:24.959 Oh yeah, I was like, she's not even My wife 0:37:25.080 --> 0:37:27.080 was like whoa. That's like because we were all like, 0:37:27.160 --> 0:37:29.320 I'm like, I've been there before, like like nothing on 0:37:29.440 --> 0:37:31.880 the relationship, but just you have ebbs and flows, especially 0:37:31.920 --> 0:37:34.040 when kids are involved. And I was like, she's like 0:37:34.280 --> 0:37:35.440 she's I been there. And I was like, I know, 0:37:35.600 --> 0:37:39.000 I feel what he's feeling, and you feel what she's feeling. 0:37:39.400 --> 0:37:40.640 And I was like, oh boy that they were not 0:37:40.719 --> 0:37:41.120 happy at that. 0:37:41.200 --> 0:37:43.120 Shoot, hey, they made you relate to their photos and 0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:44.400 they didn't even know they were doing that. 0:37:44.480 --> 0:37:47.000 It worked. It totally worked. Yeah, So the relationship is fine. 0:37:47.000 --> 0:37:48.920 It's just that's how relationships. Sorry, ebs and flows. 0:37:49.000 --> 0:37:50.880 And that song came out early in his career, so 0:37:50.960 --> 0:37:53.440 they weren't even I know they weren't. I don't even 0:37:53.440 --> 0:37:55.200 want to say that. I don't think they were married 0:37:55.239 --> 0:37:55.600 at the time. 0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:58.239 That that's okay. Now I could be wrong and then 0:37:58.280 --> 0:37:59.799 they giving you right stuff though it could be about 0:37:59.800 --> 0:38:02.239 it relationship from ten years ago. You know, you write 0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:04.360 something and you cut it. Whenever you cut it, you 0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:05.399 don't have to cut it the next day. 0:38:05.920 --> 0:38:09.600 But definitely not about a break or not about infidelity. 0:38:09.680 --> 0:38:11.000 Infidelity about a breakup. 0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:14.719 Y okay, yeah, yeah, okay, gotch I got you listen. 0:38:14.560 --> 0:38:16.359 I got all my Luke Combs and know ledge he's 0:38:16.400 --> 0:38:16.680 my guy. 0:38:16.840 --> 0:38:19.359 Yeah, that's why I asked you and not anyone else 0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:19.840 in this building. 0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:24.480 I love him well. Speaking of top famous people, you know, 0:38:24.680 --> 0:38:27.440 Luke Combs is one of them, even according to Lunchbox, 0:38:27.520 --> 0:38:31.200 which is insane. You know. The fact that Lunchbox even 0:38:31.760 --> 0:38:34.320 came to clarity that he knew ten famous people and 0:38:34.320 --> 0:38:37.080 actually got them right was pretty impressive. But he was 0:38:37.120 --> 0:38:38.080 also on the same list. 0:38:38.239 --> 0:38:39.040 That's what I'm talking about. 0:38:39.360 --> 0:38:42.720 Yeah. This was his lunchboxes Top twenty five Famous People 0:38:42.880 --> 0:38:45.960 and Nashville list, and it was updated. A listener wanted 0:38:46.000 --> 0:38:48.399 to know what the latest list was, so he moved 0:38:48.480 --> 0:38:51.160 up on the list himself, of course, and he shared 0:38:51.160 --> 0:38:53.640 where everybody else is currently ranking in his brain, so 0:38:53.719 --> 0:38:56.160 he can check that whole thing out on the best bits, 0:38:56.280 --> 0:38:58.440 just the bits. But I want to talk about some 0:38:58.600 --> 0:39:02.200 big life update because you just mentioned as we were 0:39:02.200 --> 0:39:05.600 talking about Luke Combs and the whole concert, that you're teaching. 0:39:06.040 --> 0:39:07.960 Well, you're not teaching, you're coaching. 0:39:08.960 --> 0:39:09.240 Teaching. 0:39:09.560 --> 0:39:12.680 Yeah, your son's sports team. What's happening. 0:39:12.920 --> 0:39:17.440 Yes, So I am as t ball coach, and it 0:39:18.120 --> 0:39:21.759 is interesting because your T ball is four to five, 0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:25.240 and so the attention span is like negative one thousand, 0:39:25.760 --> 0:39:28.879 and everyone's at different levels, and at that age you're 0:39:28.920 --> 0:39:32.200 not really concerned about I'm not, at least some people 0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:34.799 may be about winning. Winning doesn't mean a thing at 0:39:34.840 --> 0:39:37.320 this point. At this point, it's about teaching the basics, 0:39:37.360 --> 0:39:39.480 making sure they're having fun so that way they want 0:39:39.520 --> 0:39:43.560 to continue on in baseball, you know, later on. And 0:39:43.640 --> 0:39:46.120 then I've seen other coaches and other styles where they're 0:39:46.400 --> 0:39:48.919 so dialed in the winning and winning in far hits 0:39:48.960 --> 0:39:51.600 and da da da. I'm just like they're four or five. 0:39:52.200 --> 0:39:55.319 So my whole philosophy is just teaching the basic right 0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:57.880 now is when you get the ball and you're playing defense, 0:39:58.120 --> 0:40:00.719 where do you throw it to first base? Awesome? And 0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:02.320 when you're hitting the ball, where do you run to 0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:05.920 first base? So if I can get those things down, okay, 0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:09.160 we're golden. And then there's lots of a lot of 0:40:09.200 --> 0:40:11.320 other things. So it was practiced for a while. And 0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:13.360 of course every kid's at a different level as far 0:40:13.440 --> 0:40:15.759 as not playing a little bit of playing, but more 0:40:15.960 --> 0:40:19.040 on the attention span side. Or I'll keep names out 0:40:19.080 --> 0:40:20.759 of it, but like there'd be one kid who like 0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:22.440 literally is there and he's just kind of like. 0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:25.640 Uh, there's always that one kid who's playing in the 0:40:25.680 --> 0:40:26.760 dirt exactly. 0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:29.000 His dad wants him to be really good and be 0:40:29.160 --> 0:40:31.920 there and connected, but he is not at all on 0:40:32.080 --> 0:40:35.240 our planet. He's in a galaxy far far far away, 0:40:35.600 --> 0:40:37.480 and you have to constantly rain him back in and 0:40:37.920 --> 0:40:40.960 if you really patient with them, because they are all 0:40:41.040 --> 0:40:43.600 over the place, and like my son is I mean 0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:46.239 not saying usually the coach son is always really good 0:40:46.320 --> 0:40:48.800 one and I see why now, Like my son is 0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:51.319 just really good, just not I don't haven't really taught 0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:53.879 him anything. He's just naturally really good at throwing the ball. 0:40:54.320 --> 0:40:57.920 He's already like pitching. I was good at baseball, but 0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:00.239 I didn't have the confidence to play baseball. I was 0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:02.600 my brother's baseball announcer when he played baseball. 0:41:02.840 --> 0:41:05.400 Gotcha. I think we talked about that, and we did 0:41:05.480 --> 0:41:07.120 talk about a point where you said you could hit 0:41:07.360 --> 0:41:09.359 a ball over the Yes. 0:41:09.520 --> 0:41:11.640 Yeah, I'm very athletic, like I just I'd never had 0:41:11.640 --> 0:41:14.680 the confidence as a child or a kid to pursue 0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:16.560 it further on because I was always stuck in my 0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:19.240 head about what people thinking about me and saying stuff. 0:41:19.280 --> 0:41:20.840 But no one was thinking or saying anything. It was 0:41:20.920 --> 0:41:23.279 just in my in my head, and we all live 0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:24.920 in there. And then when I became an adult and 0:41:25.000 --> 0:41:26.480 I became older, I was like, if everyone, I'm just 0:41:26.480 --> 0:41:28.080 gonna do whatever I want to do. But as a kid, 0:41:28.120 --> 0:41:30.600 I had no confidence, but very athletic, but no confidence. 0:41:31.880 --> 0:41:34.040 But yeah, so my kid, I put the confidence in him, 0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:35.480 and he's like all about it. He can hit, he 0:41:35.560 --> 0:41:37.479 can throw, he can pitch. He's five. 0:41:37.719 --> 0:41:39.239 We got a little MLB star on our head. 0:41:39.239 --> 0:41:41.719 Oh my god, he's unbelievably really really good. And here's 0:41:41.719 --> 0:41:43.279 a couple of kids that onest team. They're really good. 0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:44.839 And so I always pair them together, and one kid's 0:41:44.840 --> 0:41:46.880 always like, why does your son why does so and 0:41:46.960 --> 0:41:48.680 so throw with so and so. I'm like, oh, don't 0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:50.360 worry about that, which you come here and throw at me, 0:41:50.400 --> 0:41:52.040 because I want them to learn the basics. Where my 0:41:52.080 --> 0:41:54.560 my son, this other kid knows the basics. So ill 0:41:54.560 --> 0:41:56.560 then dial in on on the other kids that really 0:41:56.640 --> 0:41:58.719 need the help. And then some of them are over 0:41:58.760 --> 0:42:00.799 and they're playing in the sand. It's just all over 0:42:00.840 --> 0:42:03.279 the place, and I was like, man, my team is 0:42:03.400 --> 0:42:05.360 like I don't know if they're gonna do well in 0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:07.759 a game because we had a few practices before you 0:42:07.840 --> 0:42:09.640 have the actual game, but I don't know how they're 0:42:09.640 --> 0:42:11.440 gonna do. And then the first game, I was like, 0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:14.560 oh my gosh, all those practices like they really stuck 0:42:14.600 --> 0:42:16.680 to it and connected because I was watching the other 0:42:16.760 --> 0:42:19.920 team and it was like an absolute s show, like 0:42:20.280 --> 0:42:22.280 they were all over the place and not paying attention. 0:42:22.400 --> 0:42:23.840 And like even something as simple as when they go 0:42:23.960 --> 0:42:26.040 up to bat, I always put a marker where their 0:42:26.080 --> 0:42:27.759 feet should be. I was like, okay, put one foot here, 0:42:27.960 --> 0:42:29.880 one foot here, And even though the batting may not 0:42:29.960 --> 0:42:31.160 be the best or they may not hit it far, 0:42:31.200 --> 0:42:32.840 but at least they know where to stand so they 0:42:32.880 --> 0:42:34.600 can at least hit it off the tee. And then 0:42:34.600 --> 0:42:36.680 there's other coaches or like they're players, like looking to 0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:38.320 the left and looking all over the place. 0:42:38.400 --> 0:42:41.880 And now you've got your team's got the fundamentals. 0:42:41.680 --> 0:42:44.239 Absolute basic fundamentals. They all know to run to first, 0:42:44.440 --> 0:42:47.000 They all know the throw to first. Now do they 0:42:47.000 --> 0:42:48.960 always get to the first the fastest? Do they throw 0:42:49.040 --> 0:42:51.520 the ball all the way to first? No, not always, 0:42:51.560 --> 0:42:53.640 but they at least know that that's where they're heading, 0:42:53.760 --> 0:42:55.799 that's the direction they need to go. And they all 0:42:57.239 --> 0:42:59.480 boys team, it's boys and girls. They got two girls, 0:42:59.560 --> 0:43:02.440 and then I've got five boys, okay, and then one 0:43:02.480 --> 0:43:04.560 of my girls is actually like really really good. The 0:43:04.600 --> 0:43:08.279 other ones like gets it and good too, and it's 0:43:08.360 --> 0:43:10.400 like and some of the boys are like against spacey 0:43:10.520 --> 0:43:13.160 and all over the place. So the stereotype of girls 0:43:13.200 --> 0:43:15.560 are not really good, that's wrong, because my two girls 0:43:15.600 --> 0:43:17.359 are really really good, and they really I think they're 0:43:17.400 --> 0:43:20.200 the ones that had the better attention span and are 0:43:20.239 --> 0:43:23.240 able to really stick with it and understand it, whereas 0:43:23.400 --> 0:43:25.440 some of the other kids are just like how much 0:43:25.480 --> 0:43:27.960 time is left? And I'm like forty five minutes shut 0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:28.200 up and. 0:43:28.200 --> 0:43:30.600 Keep playing if it makes you feel any better. I 0:43:30.719 --> 0:43:34.719 did become very like, very skilled and competed hard in softball, 0:43:34.840 --> 0:43:37.040 but when I played t ball, I was the kid 0:43:37.120 --> 0:43:38.080 that was playing in the dirt. 0:43:38.320 --> 0:43:38.600 Okay. 0:43:38.880 --> 0:43:40.560 I was very much like, I don't want to do this, 0:43:40.880 --> 0:43:42.920 and then as I got older, it was very much 0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:45.480 like click it. Really the biggest part is just getting 0:43:45.520 --> 0:43:47.200 them involved really young so they know that it's an 0:43:47.200 --> 0:43:48.360 option exactly. 0:43:48.440 --> 0:43:50.040 Yeah. And then you have some that don't want to play, 0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:51.239 and you're like, okay, if you're not going to play, 0:43:51.239 --> 0:43:52.440 at least and you sit on the bench and be 0:43:52.440 --> 0:43:54.200 a part of the team. They have one kid won't 0:43:54.200 --> 0:43:56.040 put his uniform on. It. We're four games in and 0:43:56.040 --> 0:43:57.200 still won't put his uniform on. 0:43:57.480 --> 0:43:58.879 He just said there a streak close. 0:43:59.000 --> 0:44:01.120 Yeah, Like the first game he came and then it 0:44:01.239 --> 0:44:03.000 was like hey you good, and it was like a 0:44:03.719 --> 0:44:05.800 crying fast and then left early. And the second the 0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:07.800 second game he came and then he got a little closer, 0:44:08.160 --> 0:44:09.680 and then then I had time in the third game, 0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:11.000 I was like, hey, dude. I was like, I was like, 0:44:11.040 --> 0:44:12.560 I understand, you want to put the uniform and that's 0:44:12.560 --> 0:44:14.120 totally fine. I was like, but at least want you 0:44:14.160 --> 0:44:15.960 to sit on the bench right here so you're you're 0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:17.560 part of the team. He's like, okay, that's all good. 0:44:17.560 --> 0:44:19.400 And then every time we do the batting rotation, I'm like, hey, 0:44:19.400 --> 0:44:21.480 you want a bat and he'd be like no. And 0:44:21.600 --> 0:44:23.080 then the second time, hey you want to bat and 0:44:23.120 --> 0:44:26.080 he'd be like m no. And the third time he 0:44:26.120 --> 0:44:27.400 had his hat on, like ready to go? Is that 0:44:27.440 --> 0:44:29.560 you want a bat? And he's like maybe next time. 0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:32.839 So like slowly working towards it, versus like just giving 0:44:32.920 --> 0:44:34.239 up on him and being like go home, I don't 0:44:34.280 --> 0:44:38.319 need you. So, like, every kid's got a different skill set, 0:44:38.480 --> 0:44:41.480 a different attention span, a different level where they're at, 0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:43.600 and so I have to like kind of like cater 0:44:43.719 --> 0:44:45.640 each kid to where they're at because I want them 0:44:45.680 --> 0:44:48.040 to have fun and I want them to not feel 0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:52.239 alienated or isolated and not because I've seen where my 0:44:52.320 --> 0:44:55.080 son played in other sports and the coaches were brutal 0:44:55.560 --> 0:44:58.000 and didn't do the fundamentals, didn't do the basics, And 0:44:58.080 --> 0:44:59.759 that's what pushed me to become a coach. Even though 0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:02.520 I have no free time, I've made it. I've made 0:45:02.560 --> 0:45:04.959 it a point to have free time because. 0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:07.840 Of that, it's good. But I think it's super awesome 0:45:07.880 --> 0:45:10.279 and you sound like a really good coach, especially how 0:45:10.320 --> 0:45:12.760 you're helping each individual person. 0:45:13.160 --> 0:45:15.239 Yeah, and that's really cool. It's really fun. It's cool 0:45:15.320 --> 0:45:18.640 just to see the progress from the first practice to 0:45:18.800 --> 0:45:20.719 the sixth practice and to the first game to the 0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:23.200 fourth and fifth game, Like it's really really really cool 0:45:23.360 --> 0:45:24.680 just to see it. Because at first, I was like, 0:45:24.719 --> 0:45:26.040 how am I going to do this. I've never really 0:45:26.120 --> 0:45:28.800 coached before and never coached baseball, But it's all like 0:45:28.840 --> 0:45:31.319 the basics and he shouldn't to throw badly. I said 0:45:31.920 --> 0:45:33.839 what to do, and so it's just like just keep 0:45:33.920 --> 0:45:37.160 doing that repetition, trying to keep it somewhat fun. The 0:45:37.200 --> 0:45:39.000 games are quick, the three innings, but he meant to 0:45:39.040 --> 0:45:41.080 the first end and they're like, how much time is left? 0:45:41.120 --> 0:45:42.880 And I'm like, we just started to do a. 0:45:43.520 --> 0:45:47.160 Short timespan time attention span tennispan exactly. 0:45:47.160 --> 0:45:49.160 And even my son being really good, he's even had 0:45:49.200 --> 0:45:51.440 meltdowns where like second ending, he starts crying because he's 0:45:51.840 --> 0:45:54.759 he's hungry or he's tired, or someone said something to 0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:56.520 him and he's all pissed off about it. Down I'm 0:45:56.520 --> 0:45:57.799 like dude, chill, hi, it doesn't matter. 0:45:58.280 --> 0:46:01.040 Just get You need to start getting them some big yeah, 0:46:02.120 --> 0:46:05.160 that'll make them all happy. That made me happy. Yeah, 0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:07.640 it made me really happy. After every game, I'd get 0:46:07.680 --> 0:46:09.719 like a laughy taffy and a gatorade and I'm like, 0:46:09.840 --> 0:46:11.359 this is the best day ever. Yeah. 0:46:11.400 --> 0:46:13.120 I haven't done that yet, like the whole snacks or 0:46:13.120 --> 0:46:13.640 bring things. 0:46:13.840 --> 0:46:16.200 Oh hey, you want you want to give them incentive 0:46:16.239 --> 0:46:18.560 to like one come back and to stay the whole 0:46:18.600 --> 0:46:20.520 game snacks at the end of it, but not just 0:46:20.640 --> 0:46:23.160 snacks like a good candy like something that they're like. 0:46:23.800 --> 0:46:25.439 This is awesome, this is cool. Yeah. 0:46:25.560 --> 0:46:27.920 Yeah, not like you know, a fruit snack that they're 0:46:27.960 --> 0:46:28.719 like why why am I? 0:46:28.960 --> 0:46:30.600 Yeah? And then I also was like we live in 0:46:30.680 --> 0:46:32.480 an era and how or there's so many allergies and 0:46:32.560 --> 0:46:34.560 some parents don't allow some things or the other, and 0:46:34.640 --> 0:46:37.920 I'm like, do I even bother doing it because everyone's 0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:39.759 got rules. But then I was like, maybe I'll just 0:46:39.800 --> 0:46:40.600 do it and then if it. 0:46:41.120 --> 0:46:42.640 Yeah, somebody can't have it, then they get a deal 0:46:42.680 --> 0:46:43.359 with their kid in the car. 0:46:43.480 --> 0:46:45.840 True, yeah exactly. But then they hate me because I 0:46:45.880 --> 0:46:47.080 did that, and right now we're all on a good. 0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:49.359 That's true. You could ask him and just say, hey, 0:46:49.600 --> 0:46:51.680 just you know, and see if you could have a 0:46:51.719 --> 0:46:53.560 whole team that doesn't have anything and they're like all 0:46:53.600 --> 0:46:56.200 good and like because some some do have allergies but 0:46:56.239 --> 0:46:58.879 they're able to do or have certain things or whatever. 0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:01.640 Try fair. What is if there is allergies? What can 0:47:01.680 --> 0:47:03.600 I get that is across the board? Works for everybody. 0:47:03.760 --> 0:47:05.560 There's a lot of things to hey, you know, like 0:47:05.920 --> 0:47:10.360 Reese's PC's cups, not Reese's pieces, Cuese's peanut butter grape 0:47:10.840 --> 0:47:13.480 are gluten free. I've learned, so like that's a gluten 0:47:13.520 --> 0:47:14.920 free one. That was a great little candy. 0:47:14.920 --> 0:47:16.360 And then I got one who's got a peanut allergy. 0:47:16.440 --> 0:47:17.840 Then it's like that's true. I'm just kidding. 0:47:17.960 --> 0:47:20.600 But then you got like Skittles everybody, those are gluten 0:47:20.680 --> 0:47:23.160 free and no, you know, so like I can tell you, 0:47:23.640 --> 0:47:24.359 I got your back. 0:47:24.480 --> 0:47:26.640 Yeah, orioles are gluten free, right they have Yep. 0:47:26.520 --> 0:47:27.440 They have a gluten free one. 0:47:27.560 --> 0:47:30.759 If that's like a gluten one, So I got you. 0:47:30.960 --> 0:47:32.360 If you need to find a fun one, like I 0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:36.000 have found the fun snacks that are still you know, 0:47:36.080 --> 0:47:37.160 they work for everyone. 0:47:37.200 --> 0:47:39.000 Okay, Yeah, or I get everyone we talked about earlier. 0:47:39.000 --> 0:47:40.359 I can get them all those quicker out. 0:47:41.040 --> 0:47:46.440 Yeah you're ries cakes. Yeah yeah, that's you got it. 0:47:46.520 --> 0:47:48.239 But that was the best part. You got any other 0:47:48.280 --> 0:47:50.200 life updates besides doing. 0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:54.479 Some coaching, besides the t ball coaching. And we touched 0:47:54.520 --> 0:47:56.880 on a little bit on the show on Friday, the 0:47:57.000 --> 0:47:59.560 vasectomy thing. I'm going, yeah, I have the consultation that 0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:01.719 we're doing. I guess whenever you're listening to this, I'm 0:48:01.719 --> 0:48:04.400 doing it today Friday, after the show, or now we're 0:48:04.400 --> 0:48:07.480 after the show Friday, I'm doing it, coming up, coming out, 0:48:07.560 --> 0:48:09.840 doing the consultation. And then even when I call it, 0:48:09.960 --> 0:48:11.680 like so we usually did the consultation and we go 0:48:11.800 --> 0:48:14.600 right into it. I was like, WHOA, slow your role, 0:48:14.640 --> 0:48:15.680 We're not going right into it. 0:48:15.719 --> 0:48:17.520 I think I would just like to see what this 0:48:17.680 --> 0:48:18.000 is about. 0:48:18.160 --> 0:48:20.160 Yeah, she's gone, ever just does a consultation and that's it. 0:48:20.239 --> 0:48:22.080 I'm like, well, I'm doing the consultation and that's it. 0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:25.320 She's like, Okay, then we'll see you for the concert. 0:48:25.400 --> 0:48:27.360 You know, but the more you keep allowing yourself just 0:48:27.440 --> 0:48:28.840 to think about it, the more it's going to be 0:48:28.880 --> 0:48:31.000 all up in your head. Especially you telling me how 0:48:31.080 --> 0:48:33.520 much of a like in your head person you are. Yeah, 0:48:33.600 --> 0:48:37.600 the more you get information and the more you keep like, yeah, 0:48:37.880 --> 0:48:39.960 you almost just got to like bite the bullet and 0:48:40.719 --> 0:48:41.400 not think about it. 0:48:41.520 --> 0:48:43.480 But then I also have this like weird thing and 0:48:43.480 --> 0:48:44.880 I don't bring up in the show because it goes 0:48:44.960 --> 0:48:46.920 so far of like what if there's some sort of 0:48:47.000 --> 0:48:49.520 like human race problem or something and all the men 0:48:49.600 --> 0:48:52.000 who can't pro create like it killed off or something. 0:48:52.040 --> 0:48:52.360 I don't know. 0:48:52.400 --> 0:48:55.680 It's really weird now there to me is reversible. 0:48:55.280 --> 0:48:58.880 But it's not. It's only like a thirty percent success 0:48:59.080 --> 0:48:59.799 rate of a. 0:49:00.200 --> 0:49:02.760 Okay, but it's still like you you still at that point. 0:49:02.640 --> 0:49:04.719 Still have a chance to have kids, but a very 0:49:04.840 --> 0:49:07.680 slim chance more than if you've broken and damaged. 0:49:08.680 --> 0:49:10.640 Yeah, but yeah, right for that's permanent. 0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:11.680 Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 0:49:11.920 --> 0:49:15.160 So like you, at least in this scenario, say your 0:49:15.239 --> 0:49:19.839 doom scenario happens, you're still able to in some capacity. 0:49:20.480 --> 0:49:21.840 But what if it's like what if it's like some 0:49:21.960 --> 0:49:24.040 sort of like immediate thing, like there's ships that come 0:49:24.160 --> 0:49:25.960 down and they're like, all right, we can only take 0:49:26.000 --> 0:49:27.880 everybody men who can reproduce, and the other ones were 0:49:27.920 --> 0:49:29.560 going to kill off immediately, and I'm like, oh my god, 0:49:30.000 --> 0:49:31.239 this is why I didn't want to do it. 0:49:31.600 --> 0:49:35.960 Scuba. No, no, this is why you can't get in 0:49:36.040 --> 0:49:42.320 your head like you have created an entirely illogical scenario. 0:49:42.560 --> 0:49:43.840 But yeah, it could be logical. 0:49:43.880 --> 0:49:46.400 We don't know one percent logical. We'll give you your 0:49:46.400 --> 0:49:47.120 one percent. 0:49:46.920 --> 0:49:49.680 But there's still a percent that it could happen that 0:49:49.760 --> 0:49:50.959 I'm not a useful human. 0:49:51.800 --> 0:49:55.720 Anything could happen to that, right, anything could happen. 0:49:55.960 --> 0:49:57.719 I want to be on the side of reproduction. Then 0:49:57.800 --> 0:49:58.400 not reproduction. 0:49:58.560 --> 0:49:59.520 You know what could happen with this? 0:50:00.040 --> 0:50:01.800 You get this done, your wife is going to be 0:50:01.840 --> 0:50:02.680 so happy with you. 0:50:03.000 --> 0:50:04.480 You guys are going to have more date nights. 0:50:04.480 --> 0:50:07.240 You guys are gonna have more time together, and everything's 0:50:07.239 --> 0:50:09.759 gonna be happier. That could also happen, and there's a 0:50:09.880 --> 0:50:11.080 ninety nine percent chance of that. 0:50:11.400 --> 0:50:12.080 Yeah that's true. 0:50:12.200 --> 0:50:18.040 Yeah. See see, So like wouldn't you rather live with 0:50:18.239 --> 0:50:22.200 that reality? Then you're one percent alien story that you 0:50:22.320 --> 0:50:26.080 have created in your head. I'm asking which one would 0:50:26.120 --> 0:50:29.080 you rather live with? But one of them, really you 0:50:29.200 --> 0:50:29.879 just answer the question. 0:50:29.960 --> 0:50:33.279 One of them has a really dark, potential life threatening ending. 0:50:33.360 --> 0:50:35.239 Which one would you rather like to live with in 0:50:35.360 --> 0:50:37.480 this moment right now here, in the present. Don't think 0:50:37.480 --> 0:50:38.799 about the teacher, don't think about past. 0:50:39.160 --> 0:50:40.920 About if I'm thinking about the next five minutes, I 0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:43.160 would like to be the one my wife. But I'm 0:50:43.200 --> 0:50:45.120 a long term guy and I'm thinking long term. 0:50:45.320 --> 0:50:47.560 But here's the thing, Yeah, think in present moment. 0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:48.560 I can't. 0:50:49.040 --> 0:50:50.959 You have to exist in present moment. 0:50:51.239 --> 0:50:54.399 I know, and in this twenty four hours you would 0:50:54.480 --> 0:50:57.560 rather have all that happiness with your wife, yeah, than 0:50:57.640 --> 0:51:00.720 this illogical one percent chance of something terrible happening. 0:51:00.920 --> 0:51:03.279 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I still have to think about it. 0:51:04.000 --> 0:51:06.800 I know. I'm just I'm trying to help you because 0:51:06.840 --> 0:51:08.719 you do seem like a very in your head guy. 0:51:08.760 --> 0:51:10.520 And the only way to get out of your head 0:51:10.960 --> 0:51:13.680 is one to live in present moment, and two is 0:51:13.760 --> 0:51:18.640 to focus on logic, like the genuine logic of a scenario. Okay, 0:51:19.320 --> 0:51:21.800 that's how you get out of your head. Trust me, 0:51:21.840 --> 0:51:24.040 because you're talking to somebody who has learned a lot 0:51:24.080 --> 0:51:26.120 about being in their head. And the only way to 0:51:26.160 --> 0:51:28.839 get out is like very much present moment here and now, 0:51:28.920 --> 0:51:30.440 what can I do to fix this moment? 0:51:30.760 --> 0:51:31.080 Okay? 0:51:32.040 --> 0:51:33.440 So maybe that can help you a little bit. 0:51:33.480 --> 0:51:36.239 Okay, I'll try my very best to get out of 0:51:36.320 --> 0:51:40.839 your crazy theory that you just gave me. I got 0:51:40.920 --> 0:51:42.040 your bag. I'm trying to help you. 0:51:42.160 --> 0:51:44.000 Yeah, I know, I know, and I appreciate it. I'm 0:51:44.040 --> 0:51:44.560 receiving it. 0:51:45.080 --> 0:51:46.360 That's okay. You can receive. 0:51:46.760 --> 0:51:48.319 Yeah, nothing has to be done about it right. 0:51:48.280 --> 0:51:49.359 Now, you can receive. 0:51:49.440 --> 0:51:49.920 Cu cuckoo. 0:51:50.120 --> 0:51:51.600 I'm just helping you when you're in that moment. 0:51:52.480 --> 0:51:53.440 C cuckooouse. 0:51:53.440 --> 0:51:53.920 That's a big thing. 0:51:54.080 --> 0:51:55.759 That's a big thing. It is, yes, trust me, it is. 0:51:55.880 --> 0:52:00.920 Well, speaking of exciting additions to the family. Did not reproduce, 0:52:01.040 --> 0:52:02.279 but I did adopt a cat. 0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:05.200 I saw it was really cool, very cool. Yes, yes, 0:52:05.320 --> 0:52:06.920 somebody else for reproduce it, and you took it. 0:52:07.520 --> 0:52:09.719 Well, I didn't take it. Somebody else did. I'm a 0:52:09.760 --> 0:52:10.479 really bad person. 0:52:10.600 --> 0:52:12.520 And you saved it. Yeah, I think because it was 0:52:12.719 --> 0:52:13.839 you adopted it, right I did. 0:52:13.960 --> 0:52:16.880 Yeah? Yeah, So she crazy like story. I had been 0:52:16.920 --> 0:52:19.200 fostering for about a year, not a year, a month 0:52:19.280 --> 0:52:23.680 and a half, and she came from a horrible, horrible 0:52:23.760 --> 0:52:25.440 hoarding situation in Mississippi. 0:52:25.800 --> 0:52:28.279 There was one hundred and seventy cats found in this house. 0:52:29.040 --> 0:52:30.160 And now I've written seven. 0:52:30.280 --> 0:52:31.600 Yeah, it took you a minute, You're like, wait, what 0:52:32.280 --> 0:52:34.520 whoa yeah, one hundred and she was one of one 0:52:34.600 --> 0:52:35.760 hundred and seventy cats. 0:52:35.800 --> 0:52:37.640 What did that house smell like? 0:52:37.800 --> 0:52:40.239 I do not know. I do not know, and that, 0:52:40.400 --> 0:52:42.400 you know, I like to believe that it was somebody 0:52:42.560 --> 0:52:45.719 very well intentioned. I'm sure, yeah, you know, just wanted 0:52:45.760 --> 0:52:48.719 to save and then it just got out. And I 0:52:48.920 --> 0:52:51.239 think she's eight years old. I don't think she's eight 0:52:51.360 --> 0:52:53.279 years old. I know she's eight years old, but I 0:52:53.360 --> 0:52:55.360 think she was one of the first few cats. My 0:52:55.480 --> 0:52:56.839 theory is that she was one of the first few 0:52:56.880 --> 0:53:00.560 cats in the house and she was already spade okay, 0:53:00.960 --> 0:53:03.879 And so I think she was one, which means she's 0:53:03.920 --> 0:53:06.279 been living in that environment for a long time and 0:53:06.480 --> 0:53:08.680 she just has opened up. She lives her life in 0:53:08.719 --> 0:53:11.919 her cat tower and sunbathing all day, and she loves 0:53:12.000 --> 0:53:14.800 her canned food that she gets to eat. And she 0:53:14.960 --> 0:53:16.960 got her teeth taken care of. She had really bad 0:53:17.040 --> 0:53:18.759 dental disease when she came to a lot of problems. 0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:20.800 Because there's one hundred and seventy cats, how do you 0:53:20.920 --> 0:53:22.399 care for even five of those? 0:53:22.560 --> 0:53:26.040 Yeah, you don't. You just you know, give up. Yeah, 0:53:26.080 --> 0:53:28.200 so that's why the Humane Society of the United States 0:53:28.200 --> 0:53:30.520 stepped in and the Nashville Humane took on thirty of them. 0:53:30.640 --> 0:53:32.120 Okay, and Hazel was one of them. 0:53:32.320 --> 0:53:33.680 So this is in Louisiana. 0:53:33.800 --> 0:53:35.080 She came from Mississippi. 0:53:35.520 --> 0:53:35.719 Okay. 0:53:35.760 --> 0:53:36.719 Yeah, they're right by each other. 0:53:36.840 --> 0:53:37.759 Yeah, they're pretty close. 0:53:38.000 --> 0:53:42.920 Yeah. She's a chocolate seal point Siamese, which is like 0:53:43.400 --> 0:53:46.400 a version of a Siamese. I've had other Siamese growing up, 0:53:46.600 --> 0:53:49.800 and they're like different, different versions of different colors. But 0:53:49.920 --> 0:53:52.000 so she's mostly chocolate, which is why she has cute 0:53:52.000 --> 0:53:53.200 little chocolate boots on her. 0:53:53.480 --> 0:53:55.120 Okay, and it's like mister Jinks. 0:53:55.520 --> 0:53:55.759 Yeah. 0:53:55.800 --> 0:53:56.960 I had a cat just like this too that I 0:53:57.000 --> 0:54:00.560 adopt really from Louisiana during like the whole hurricane thing Katrina, 0:54:01.160 --> 0:54:04.680 all the displaced animals. I hated cats, and I was 0:54:04.680 --> 0:54:06.320 allergic to him mostly, I was like allergic, so I 0:54:06.360 --> 0:54:08.200 didn't like him because of that. And I adopted this 0:54:08.280 --> 0:54:09.799 guy and I called him mister Jinks. And he had 0:54:09.880 --> 0:54:13.200 no claws. They took the declawed him, but it actually 0:54:13.239 --> 0:54:15.000 was great because then he wasn't ruining my house. 0:54:16.000 --> 0:54:17.719 You just got to keep him trimmed I know. 0:54:17.840 --> 0:54:19.759 I know because I saw it as a benefit. I was, Oh, 0:54:19.840 --> 0:54:21.200 this is like a cool this is awesome. He doesn't 0:54:21.200 --> 0:54:22.120 have claus. This is really cool. 0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:24.359 But you didn't do it so all, No, I didn't 0:54:24.360 --> 0:54:24.480 do it. 0:54:24.560 --> 0:54:26.120 No, I adopted him that way. Yeah, And so I 0:54:26.200 --> 0:54:27.520 was like, oh, this is really cool. Like he like 0:54:27.680 --> 0:54:29.879 he would let me take give him baths, he would 0:54:29.920 --> 0:54:33.040 eat strawberries. He was like super cool and chill, and 0:54:33.200 --> 0:54:35.239 he loved me so much. And then I couldn't have 0:54:35.320 --> 0:54:37.279 catsymore because I moved somewhere else, and so I gave 0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:38.520 it to a friend. She took care of him for 0:54:38.520 --> 0:54:40.600 a long time and I think recently passed away, but 0:54:40.719 --> 0:54:43.759 lived a really long life. Oh but yes, I'm looking 0:54:43.800 --> 0:54:46.680 at your ear. Cat and my cat were very similar looking. 0:54:46.680 --> 0:54:50.000 Really Oh yeah yeah, she so her nick. I decided 0:54:50.000 --> 0:54:51.800 to keep the name. The shelter gave her Hazel. 0:54:52.120 --> 0:54:52.480 Hazel. 0:54:52.520 --> 0:54:55.120 Okay, that's cool because the cat that I had before 0:54:55.160 --> 0:54:58.360 her was a Siamese too, and her name was Sapphire 0:54:58.440 --> 0:55:00.759 but short for saffieh that's cool because she had bright 0:55:00.800 --> 0:55:04.000 blue eyes Sapphire And I was like, well, Hazel, she's chocolate. 0:55:04.120 --> 0:55:05.919 So this kind of is like feels like a nod 0:55:06.000 --> 0:55:09.399 to my old cat. And her nickname is Boots. 0:55:09.640 --> 0:55:12.840 Boots a little boot. That's awesome because she has the 0:55:12.880 --> 0:55:13.480 little boots on. 0:55:13.480 --> 0:55:15.120 Her and I really wanted to name her Boots, but 0:55:15.160 --> 0:55:16.759 everybody's like, I think you should keep Hazel. And then 0:55:16.800 --> 0:55:19.400 I kind of like two and two together and I 0:55:19.520 --> 0:55:21.920 kind of started thinking about my old cat and I 0:55:22.040 --> 0:55:24.960 was like, yeah, this feels right. So she's Hazel Boots Heelsman. 0:55:27.440 --> 0:55:29.560 That is the cat that I now, and then you'd 0:55:29.640 --> 0:55:31.359 officially adopt her because she has your last name. 0:55:31.600 --> 0:55:32.800 It felt really weird, let me tell you. 0:55:32.800 --> 0:55:34.719 When I was like signing all of the paperwork and 0:55:34.880 --> 0:55:36.719 getting everything done at the shelter, I was just there 0:55:36.760 --> 0:55:39.160 by myself, and I was just like, this feels like 0:55:39.239 --> 0:55:41.279 a really big moment. I'm signing away. Feels like some 0:55:41.400 --> 0:55:44.680 of my life and like it's just me. I'm just here, 0:55:45.000 --> 0:55:48.080 this is happening. It just felt very like bizarre and 0:55:48.520 --> 0:55:48.960 taking on a. 0:55:48.960 --> 0:55:52.239 Real it's a life. Yeah, like it's buying like a 0:55:52.320 --> 0:55:55.359 sheet of paper, no an animal with my dog. 0:55:55.440 --> 0:55:57.320 When I adopted her, my parents were there, so it 0:55:57.400 --> 0:55:59.640 was kind of like it was all I didn't feel 0:55:59.719 --> 0:56:01.719 like kind of alone in that But in that moment, 0:56:01.760 --> 0:56:04.200 I was like, oh, this is all me is your 0:56:04.280 --> 0:56:04.879 single parent. 0:56:05.600 --> 0:56:07.120 There's no one paying child support or anything. 0:56:07.200 --> 0:56:10.040 Not that I haven't done it with Roomy for eight years. Yeah, 0:56:10.280 --> 0:56:12.479 it just felt it just felt kind of weird. 0:56:12.560 --> 0:56:13.800 It was a big grown up purchase. 0:56:13.920 --> 0:56:16.080 Yeah, Like it was a moment where I was like, Wow, 0:56:16.160 --> 0:56:18.440 I'm really adulting. This feels very bizarre. 0:56:18.680 --> 0:56:20.879 Yeah, you know, very bizarre. Did you get it from 0:56:20.920 --> 0:56:22.920 like one of those like Humane Society shelters or. 0:56:23.200 --> 0:56:24.640 I got it from Nashville Humane Assoia. 0:56:24.680 --> 0:56:27.120 Okay, cool, Yeah, so we do have our bucks or whatever. 0:56:27.520 --> 0:56:29.040 Yeah, I think she was like forty five. I didn't 0:56:29.040 --> 0:56:29.799 even realize I needed. 0:56:31.000 --> 0:56:32.879 When I bought Jinx, he was like ten or twenty 0:56:32.920 --> 0:56:33.319 five bucks. 0:56:33.440 --> 0:56:36.120 Yeah, And I don't care. Honestly, I didn't even think 0:56:36.120 --> 0:56:38.320 about it. I was like, I didn't even ask. I 0:56:38.360 --> 0:56:40.279 don't know how much she is. I don't care, like 0:56:41.040 --> 0:56:43.719 I'm getting her regardless, So it's just whatever whatever I 0:56:43.800 --> 0:56:44.200 have to pay for. 0:56:44.520 --> 0:56:46.520 Were you someone that used to end this I'm speaking 0:56:46.520 --> 0:56:48.840 from personal experience that used to go to humane study 0:56:48.880 --> 0:56:51.360 shelters like frequently and just go look at the animals. 0:56:51.560 --> 0:56:53.480 God knows Scooba. I can't if I go, even when 0:56:53.480 --> 0:56:55.480 I'm in there. Yeah, I was crying over a dog 0:56:55.520 --> 0:56:56.040 that was in there. 0:56:56.120 --> 0:56:57.520 I know because they call the ones they have the 0:56:57.560 --> 0:57:01.480 ones here called star pets, the calm star pets, which 0:57:01.520 --> 0:57:03.200 is a cute way to put it, but they're the 0:57:03.239 --> 0:57:04.600 ones that had been there the longest and like a 0:57:04.640 --> 0:57:07.080 week away from being euthanized. Yeah, and it was always 0:57:07.120 --> 0:57:08.000 like a big old dog. 0:57:08.080 --> 0:57:13.800 Gotten better about that, about that, like rescues shelters, rescues associations, 0:57:14.360 --> 0:57:18.560 and animal control offices have gotten really good about really 0:57:18.640 --> 0:57:20.480 working together to try and help each other. 0:57:20.720 --> 0:57:20.919 Yeah. 0:57:21.000 --> 0:57:22.720 But the really sad thing right now is they're all 0:57:22.800 --> 0:57:25.040 full and they're all over capacity, which is ya. Then 0:57:25.080 --> 0:57:26.880 they can't help each other, especially with the pandemic. 0:57:26.920 --> 0:57:28.440 Everyone's like, oh, I want an animal, and then they 0:57:28.480 --> 0:57:29.760 go back to work and I don't want an animal 0:57:29.760 --> 0:57:33.000 anymore because it requires attention. It's an animal, of course, 0:57:33.000 --> 0:57:35.880 it requires attention. You'd be a terrible parent. Hopefully you 0:57:36.080 --> 0:57:36.840 never have kids. 0:57:37.360 --> 0:57:39.240 Yes, there was a dog in there. She was a 0:57:39.280 --> 0:57:41.120 German shepherd. This is the dog I was crying over. 0:57:41.520 --> 0:57:43.720 She had come in and she she wasn't great with 0:57:43.840 --> 0:57:46.880 small dogs. And she wasn't there's something else she wasn't 0:57:46.920 --> 0:57:49.040 great with, but she was so loving. You'd go up 0:57:49.040 --> 0:57:50.840 to the window and she just want you to pet her. 0:57:50.880 --> 0:57:53.200 And she wanted all this attention. And she was an 0:57:53.240 --> 0:57:56.040 owner surrender. And because they ride it on there, it's like, yeah, 0:57:56.320 --> 0:57:59.280 like Remy came from like the streets of Wichita, like 0:57:59.520 --> 0:58:03.880 she she got out somehow, but like for this dog, 0:58:03.960 --> 0:58:06.280 it said owner surrender. And my heart was just breaking 0:58:06.280 --> 0:58:08.479 because this dog and I had seen in a time span. 0:58:08.680 --> 0:58:10.560 I had to check up with Hazel and then I 0:58:10.640 --> 0:58:12.080 had to go back a week later for her final 0:58:12.200 --> 0:58:14.320 checkup and to hopefully adopt her. Yeah, so I had 0:58:14.360 --> 0:58:16.400 seen the day this dog, the German Shepherd came in 0:58:16.880 --> 0:58:18.760 and she was so happy and she was so excited 0:58:18.760 --> 0:58:21.160 when and everybody painted to her. A week later, when 0:58:21.200 --> 0:58:24.080 I came in, she was in the same spot and 0:58:24.200 --> 0:58:27.520 she was so defeated and just so heartbroken. Like when 0:58:27.520 --> 0:58:28.960 I went over there, she didn't even like perk her 0:58:29.040 --> 0:58:31.160 head up. It was just like I just immediately was 0:58:31.200 --> 0:58:33.760 crying because I was like, in one week's time, this 0:58:33.960 --> 0:58:37.400 dog had this entire life. Yeah, and then got brought 0:58:37.480 --> 0:58:40.680 in and now is so sad and doesn't know what 0:58:40.760 --> 0:58:41.240 it did wrong. 0:58:41.480 --> 0:58:43.919 Yeah, because I'm sure it's hearing other dogs being like, yo, dude, 0:58:43.920 --> 0:58:45.080 this is not a good place. So you're gonna be 0:58:45.120 --> 0:58:47.000 stuck here until someone finds you again, and then you 0:58:47.040 --> 0:58:48.960 can even come back again because that person doesn't want you. 0:58:49.000 --> 0:58:50.600 And then you're brought back again and again and again 0:58:50.600 --> 0:58:53.520 and again. Oh it's terrible. The energy of that place 0:58:53.640 --> 0:58:54.640 is super say. 0:58:54.880 --> 0:58:57.760 So to answer your question, I can't every literally when 0:58:57.800 --> 0:59:00.280 I went and I started volunteering at Kansas Humane two 0:59:00.320 --> 0:59:03.600 weeks later, ended up with remy one that they do 0:59:03.720 --> 0:59:04.160 not last. 0:59:04.320 --> 0:59:06.080 You'd be that. So now I know what happened to 0:59:06.080 --> 0:59:08.360 that lady in Mississippi at one hundred and seventy cats. 0:59:08.640 --> 0:59:10.600 She would frequently visit those places and take one home, 0:59:10.640 --> 0:59:12.000 and take another one home, and take another one home 0:59:12.040 --> 0:59:12.760 and take another one home. 0:59:12.840 --> 0:59:15.040 Well that is most of the time with these hoarding situations, 0:59:15.200 --> 0:59:18.160 is like the intentions are good, yeah, but then you 0:59:18.320 --> 0:59:20.240 just get overwhelmed and you want to help it because 0:59:20.240 --> 0:59:23.120 there's so many, so many, you just want to help 0:59:23.160 --> 0:59:23.400 them all. 0:59:23.600 --> 0:59:24.000 It's tough. 0:59:24.080 --> 0:59:27.280 Yeah, Like, genuinely, my dream life is me living on 0:59:27.360 --> 0:59:29.360 a farm and me just helping any animal I can 0:59:29.480 --> 0:59:31.080 and when they come in and I'm like, yeah, they 0:59:31.120 --> 0:59:34.000 can live with me. There's this super cool called Whispering 0:59:34.040 --> 0:59:36.120 Willows that I follow on social media and it's a 0:59:36.280 --> 0:59:40.720 senior sanctuary. So animals that get taken in and their 0:59:40.760 --> 0:59:43.720 seniors and they got their golden years left and this 0:59:43.920 --> 0:59:46.080 rescue takes them in and lets them live out their lives. 0:59:46.200 --> 0:59:46.840 Well that's cool. 0:59:46.960 --> 0:59:47.120 Yeah. 0:59:47.120 --> 0:59:49.560 There's one somewhere that in San Francisco called Mutt something 0:59:50.000 --> 0:59:52.160 and they do it's like that, but they but they're 0:59:52.320 --> 0:59:54.520 advocating to adopt and they usually try to find older 0:59:54.600 --> 0:59:58.360 people like fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, not fifties older, but 0:59:58.560 --> 1:00:00.400 people who are older and don't have kids their kids 1:00:00.440 --> 1:00:02.480 are older, and they look for them to be like, hey, 1:00:02.480 --> 1:00:04.600 will you adopt this dog? It's like nine ten, and 1:00:04.840 --> 1:00:06.600 because they're the ones that are the most difficult to 1:00:06.680 --> 1:00:08.520 get people to adopt because they want they all want 1:00:08.560 --> 1:00:11.080 puppies or whatever, and so their job is to go 1:00:11.200 --> 1:00:13.520 and find these older dogs that were either the owner 1:00:13.600 --> 1:00:16.840 died or they're abandoned or whatever, and they give them 1:00:16.880 --> 1:00:19.040 basically like they give their golden years. And they like 1:00:19.120 --> 1:00:20.640 to get to live out there their next two to 1:00:20.760 --> 1:00:23.200 five or whatever years and like a home that's going 1:00:23.280 --> 1:00:24.960 to be you know, when you get this dog, it's 1:00:25.000 --> 1:00:26.280 not gonna be a long time, but you know that 1:00:26.320 --> 1:00:28.600 you're taking a dog and giving it the final years 1:00:28.720 --> 1:00:31.520 in a good place. And they're such a great organization. 1:00:31.560 --> 1:00:32.960 I was like, man, this is a really cool thing. 1:00:33.440 --> 1:00:35.280 It's like, it's like heartbreaking is that these dogs have 1:00:35.400 --> 1:00:37.560 lived a great life and they either owner died or 1:00:37.640 --> 1:00:39.680 they're abandoned. You're like, oh my god, it's so shitty, Like. 1:00:40.800 --> 1:00:42.880 Yeah, it's okay, it is. 1:00:43.440 --> 1:00:46.000 That's what it is, and it's yeah, it's there, and 1:00:46.080 --> 1:00:47.160 none of their term for it. 1:00:47.240 --> 1:00:50.560 It's called fospis. So some people will foss yep, they'll 1:00:50.600 --> 1:00:54.840 be foster's but it's mixing foster and hospice. Okay, so 1:00:55.000 --> 1:00:56.720 they'll be a foster for the rest of their life. 1:00:57.240 --> 1:00:59.480 So like, so it's not permanent. They get help from 1:00:59.480 --> 1:01:02.960 the rescue or shelter or wherever it's coming from, but 1:01:03.080 --> 1:01:04.960 they are allowed to like live in their home and 1:01:05.000 --> 1:01:06.520 they take care of them like their their. 1:01:06.400 --> 1:01:07.919 Own for the rest of their life. 1:01:08.040 --> 1:01:08.680 That's really cool. 1:01:08.840 --> 1:01:11.760 Yeah, there's there's really cool things that shelters and rescues 1:01:11.800 --> 1:01:14.280 and think they have been doing everything they can to 1:01:14.760 --> 1:01:17.600 make it better, and you know, as humans, we just 1:01:17.880 --> 1:01:18.640 keep making it worse. 1:01:18.720 --> 1:01:22.439 So I know of the problem is the human race. Yeah, 1:01:22.480 --> 1:01:23.240 for a lot of things. 1:01:23.520 --> 1:01:24.840 Well that was the funny thing too, when I was 1:01:24.880 --> 1:01:27.680 adopting Hazel, she's technically a senior cat and it's like 1:01:27.680 --> 1:01:29.440 eight years old. Yeah, when it was riding down there, 1:01:29.480 --> 1:01:32.720 I was like, she's got like at least ten years left. Like, yeah, 1:01:32.880 --> 1:01:35.000 they got a lot of life left. But just seeing 1:01:35.040 --> 1:01:36.800 the senior I was like, that just breaks my heart 1:01:36.840 --> 1:01:39.080 because some people would have just never looked twice at her, 1:01:39.680 --> 1:01:40.880 being that she's a senior. 1:01:40.680 --> 1:01:42.800 And at a decade if not more. 1:01:43.320 --> 1:01:46.640 And even if I don't like the love is amazing. Yeah, 1:01:47.160 --> 1:01:48.800 that I could be on that tangent all day, and 1:01:48.920 --> 1:01:50.240 I would get on that tangent all day. 1:01:50.320 --> 1:01:50.680 I'm with you. 1:01:50.880 --> 1:01:52.680 We're not going to We're going to head into some 1:01:52.800 --> 1:01:53.600 nine one one stories. 1:01:53.720 --> 1:01:56.120 Okay, cool, because lunch Box called nine one one and 1:01:56.200 --> 1:01:58.040 we got the audio from the call. Oh we did 1:01:58.240 --> 1:02:01.160 in true lunchbox fashion, and we heard the whole thing. 1:02:01.680 --> 1:02:03.320 But have you ever called nine one one before? 1:02:04.280 --> 1:02:06.280 So my mom's called nine on one before and my dad, 1:02:06.560 --> 1:02:09.160 that's a really dark story. Do you want a dark 1:02:09.200 --> 1:02:11.000 story or do you do you want a dark story 1:02:11.080 --> 1:02:12.920 or do you want what's in my head of like 1:02:13.200 --> 1:02:15.120 nine to one one scenarios and like dreams that I have. 1:02:16.160 --> 1:02:18.640 I don't think I want a dark story that feels 1:02:19.720 --> 1:02:21.680 that doesn't even just feel dark, that feels sad. 1:02:21.880 --> 1:02:23.360 It's sad and dark. So mabe, I won't do that. 1:02:23.680 --> 1:02:25.840 That's not that's the story for another day. 1:02:28.040 --> 1:02:35.160 Time doctor pool here. So in my dream, I don't 1:02:35.160 --> 1:02:36.600 know if it's just me, but I always have these 1:02:36.680 --> 1:02:41.000 dreams in different versions and different like scenarios and different 1:02:41.000 --> 1:02:42.920 things that happen where I try to die on nine 1:02:42.960 --> 1:02:44.680 one one and I can't die on nine one one, 1:02:45.080 --> 1:02:47.440 Like I'm like I'm picking out the phone and and 1:02:47.600 --> 1:02:49.800 like I can't think of like what it is. Let's 1:02:49.800 --> 1:02:52.160 just say you're being chased or there's a murder or something, 1:02:52.280 --> 1:02:53.960 or you're trying to get down on one and for 1:02:54.080 --> 1:02:57.840 whatever freaking reason, I can't get nine on one dialed, 1:02:58.320 --> 1:03:00.320 or whenever I go to down nine one one, like 1:03:00.400 --> 1:03:02.760 it doesn't go through, or I'm on a loop, or 1:03:02.840 --> 1:03:05.560 it's like a voicemail and it's like me trying to 1:03:05.680 --> 1:03:07.480 do number one and I'm running from whatever is I'm 1:03:07.520 --> 1:03:10.040 running from, and like I'm trying to dial help, but 1:03:10.120 --> 1:03:12.360 I can't dial help. But I need help because this 1:03:12.440 --> 1:03:14.720 person's trying to kill me. Or I see something happening 1:03:14.760 --> 1:03:16.760 it's really bad, and I go down nine one one 1:03:16.800 --> 1:03:18.200 and they go to answer it and then it's like 1:03:18.360 --> 1:03:21.040 not a big deal, or or it's like somebody else 1:03:21.080 --> 1:03:24.200 who's like, oh, this is like a it doesn't make 1:03:24.280 --> 1:03:26.280 sense to me as to why whenever I'm trying to 1:03:26.280 --> 1:03:28.000 down nine one one, I can't get the damn call 1:03:28.280 --> 1:03:30.240 or for the ring and it will never ring, or 1:03:30.240 --> 1:03:31.800 I will never go to a nine one one operator 1:03:32.280 --> 1:03:33.560 you have that it's. 1:03:33.440 --> 1:03:38.000 The same like sensation of when like I have dreams 1:03:38.040 --> 1:03:40.080 that if somebody were to ever come in and I 1:03:40.160 --> 1:03:43.919 can't scream, Yeah, that's that's similar. Like it's like something 1:03:44.040 --> 1:03:45.200 blocks you, Yeah. 1:03:45.080 --> 1:03:47.120 Something blocks you from it. Yeah, And so I'm sure 1:03:47.280 --> 1:03:50.880 it's something in my life and it's playing it out 1:03:50.920 --> 1:03:53.400 through this, but I can't don nine one one, Like 1:03:53.840 --> 1:03:57.360 my finger will melt into my phone, the phone will disappear, 1:03:57.920 --> 1:03:59.480 or it'll be it'll go to it'll just be like 1:03:59.560 --> 1:04:00.880 a whole music or be. 1:04:00.880 --> 1:04:05.280 A voicemail excuba therapy session probably associated with the thing 1:04:05.320 --> 1:04:08.480 that we are not talking about. If I had to guess, oh, 1:04:08.560 --> 1:04:12.920 really that most of the time, like our dreams manifest 1:04:13.160 --> 1:04:16.640 of things and triggers in our life. Right, So, and 1:04:16.760 --> 1:04:21.200 if there is a dark association with nine to one one, yeah, 1:04:21.520 --> 1:04:25.360 it is a possibility for why it's continuing to come 1:04:25.440 --> 1:04:27.720 up one in your dreams and two that like you 1:04:27.840 --> 1:04:31.120 can't dial. Yeah, it's very possible, like there is a 1:04:31.160 --> 1:04:32.360 connection between the two, which is. 1:04:32.320 --> 1:04:34.959 Weird because I guess in my head of that whole 1:04:35.040 --> 1:04:37.320 part of my dad's life has been almost like I'm 1:04:37.800 --> 1:04:40.200 long done and gone over with it. It's almost become 1:04:40.320 --> 1:04:42.800 like that's just the way it is. Or it's almost 1:04:43.520 --> 1:04:45.920 comedy but like okay, but you sell a comedy. 1:04:46.440 --> 1:04:48.680 Yes, you're probably done in over it. But like the 1:04:48.760 --> 1:04:50.720 whole thing of therapy is like you have to go 1:04:50.880 --> 1:04:54.439 back through it to like truly let go of it. Yeah, 1:04:54.720 --> 1:04:56.800 So have you ever like truly went back through it 1:04:57.240 --> 1:04:58.800 or have you just like tried to forget it? 1:04:59.000 --> 1:05:01.280 Well, I've talked about like many different times of people 1:05:01.400 --> 1:05:03.480 and friends and my mom and all that kind of stuff. 1:05:03.480 --> 1:05:05.040 So it's not like it's that's not like something that 1:05:05.240 --> 1:05:07.200 happened and I'll like bury it deep. Yeah, it's like 1:05:07.240 --> 1:05:09.600 it's already it's like a thing. It's like whatever is 1:05:09.640 --> 1:05:09.880 what it is. 1:05:10.040 --> 1:05:12.320 Yeah, it still could be associated with it, like it 1:05:12.480 --> 1:05:14.040 just kind of touches on that and it may never 1:05:14.080 --> 1:05:16.520 go away, Like it may not be something you're able 1:05:16.560 --> 1:05:16.960 to work through. 1:05:16.960 --> 1:05:19.880 It's just like there are just things that you you 1:05:20.000 --> 1:05:20.680 just learn to live with. 1:05:20.920 --> 1:05:22.280 Yeah, and that's yours. 1:05:22.640 --> 1:05:24.160 Yeah, I can't dot I'm on one, like. 1:05:24.840 --> 1:05:27.640 Or it's one of your your ghost friends who's really 1:05:27.680 --> 1:05:28.160 messing with you. 1:05:28.480 --> 1:05:33.680 It could be melted. You can't dial it right now, 1:05:33.720 --> 1:05:36.560 it's or yeah, it's just it's so weird and I'll 1:05:36.560 --> 1:05:38.200 wake up from my dream and I'll be like, wow, 1:05:38.240 --> 1:05:41.080 I'm on one again. It's so damn annoying. 1:05:41.200 --> 1:05:43.200 I hope you're never in a scenario where you have to, 1:05:43.800 --> 1:05:45.880 but I will be curious if you ever are in 1:05:46.000 --> 1:05:47.280 a scenario where you have to. 1:05:47.600 --> 1:05:50.280 What happens Yeah, like actually, yeah, when I thought, I'm 1:05:50.280 --> 1:05:52.280 trying to get if I've ever had to dial it 1:05:52.360 --> 1:05:54.680 in a real life, and I don't think I've ever 1:05:54.760 --> 1:05:56.919 had to, because every scener I've been in and yeah, 1:05:57.160 --> 1:05:59.440 I have these two stories. 1:05:59.440 --> 1:06:01.000 I have two stories when I've called nine one one 1:06:01.000 --> 1:06:04.880 and maybe the Okay, So there was one time that 1:06:05.160 --> 1:06:07.400 was pretty uneventful, but there was a guy that came 1:06:07.520 --> 1:06:09.760 and he was like banging on my door, would not leave. 1:06:09.760 --> 1:06:11.320 It was two o'clock in the morning. I had no 1:06:11.440 --> 1:06:13.760 idea who he was. He was banging on the door. 1:06:13.840 --> 1:06:16.040 He was mumbling a whole lot of things, and I 1:06:16.120 --> 1:06:19.000 called nine one one cop showed up pretty quickly and 1:06:19.120 --> 1:06:21.600 they found him like down the street and he was 1:06:22.280 --> 1:06:24.840 pretty messed up on a lot of things. Okay, but 1:06:24.960 --> 1:06:26.920 it was terrifying because it was two am. My dog 1:06:27.040 --> 1:06:29.120 was going crazy. I'm upstairs, there's a strange man on 1:06:29.200 --> 1:06:32.080 my door pounding on it. That's very scary, terrifying. 1:06:32.200 --> 1:06:33.080 That's here in Nashville. 1:06:33.160 --> 1:06:35.560 Yep. Oh my gosh, this is like in the last 1:06:35.680 --> 1:06:36.040 year or so. 1:06:36.400 --> 1:06:36.600 Damn. 1:06:36.640 --> 1:06:38.840 Okay, wow, terrifying moment, My goodness. 1:06:38.880 --> 1:06:39.120 Okay. 1:06:39.880 --> 1:06:40.640 And thankfully at the. 1:06:40.680 --> 1:06:42.880 Time, my neighbors that I knew were still living next 1:06:42.920 --> 1:06:43.120 to me. 1:06:43.200 --> 1:06:45.040 So I made him go out. I woke him up. 1:06:45.080 --> 1:06:47.080 I sent like five call that I was like, wake up, 1:06:47.360 --> 1:06:49.360 and I'm like I need you go outside and figure 1:06:49.400 --> 1:06:50.760 out who this man is and what's happening. 1:06:50.920 --> 1:06:52.120 I don't know, Hi, I don't know what that was happening. 1:06:52.160 --> 1:06:53.440 Is very scary, so he did. 1:06:53.520 --> 1:06:55.160 By the time he got out, he was gone. But 1:06:55.240 --> 1:06:56.960 it was funny because I told the cops. I was like, 1:06:57.120 --> 1:06:59.000 this guy's in a red shirt. So I'm watching him 1:06:59.040 --> 1:07:01.920 on my camera, my rain camera. You can see yeah, yeah, 1:07:02.200 --> 1:07:04.080 and this guy's in a red shirt. Well, my friend 1:07:04.160 --> 1:07:07.920 came out in a red shirt. He didn't realize the 1:07:08.040 --> 1:07:09.800 cops pulled up at like the same time he was 1:07:09.880 --> 1:07:11.680 walking out, and he's like, yes, I'm her friend. She 1:07:11.760 --> 1:07:14.720 told me what's going on, and he had happened to 1:07:14.760 --> 1:07:16.320 bang on a bunch of doors that night. We found 1:07:16.320 --> 1:07:19.320 out like later one Yeah, no, it was just like his. 1:07:19.480 --> 1:07:20.600 Was pretty apparent on mine. 1:07:21.160 --> 1:07:23.080 But the cop pulled up was like, are you the 1:07:23.120 --> 1:07:25.240 guy in the red shirt? And my neighbor was like 1:07:25.320 --> 1:07:27.000 what and I was like, oh, sorry, I forgot to 1:07:27.080 --> 1:07:31.120 let you know. So there was almost some confusion and 1:07:31.200 --> 1:07:32.560 I almost got my friend arrested. 1:07:34.160 --> 1:07:34.320 Good. 1:07:34.560 --> 1:07:35.880 Yes, So that was one of them. 1:07:35.960 --> 1:07:36.240 Okay. 1:07:36.440 --> 1:07:38.480 The other one was even more terrifying. 1:07:38.760 --> 1:07:42.240 My dad and I had been gone at a softball tournament, 1:07:42.320 --> 1:07:44.919 and nobody was at our house. And when we pulled 1:07:45.000 --> 1:07:47.120 up to our house, the garage door was open and 1:07:47.360 --> 1:07:51.760 the back door was wide open, and nobody was home 1:07:51.880 --> 1:07:54.439 to our knowledge. And so my dad and I pull 1:07:54.560 --> 1:07:56.720 up and he's like, call nine one one now, and 1:07:56.760 --> 1:07:59.880 he grabs the bat out of my bag, goes inside it. 1:08:00.000 --> 1:08:02.960 And I don't hear from my dad for twenty minutes. 1:08:02.760 --> 1:08:03.720 Because he's like checking the house. 1:08:03.720 --> 1:08:05.840 And then you're thinking, and I'm sitting it, I'm talking 1:08:05.880 --> 1:08:06.400 to nine one one. 1:08:06.440 --> 1:08:07.880 I'm like, I don't know what's going on. All I 1:08:07.960 --> 1:08:10.360 know is like, and this had just happened where somebody 1:08:10.400 --> 1:08:12.560 had broken into a house like a few doors down 1:08:12.600 --> 1:08:15.280 and burned down their house. So like we were on 1:08:15.520 --> 1:08:17.919 high alert that something was going on in the neighborhood. 1:08:18.000 --> 1:08:19.240 So you're already nervous because of that. 1:08:19.439 --> 1:08:22.680 Yes, And so he went in and he came out, 1:08:22.760 --> 1:08:25.479 and after I'm not kidding you, twenty five minutes he 1:08:25.560 --> 1:08:27.320 came out and he was like, I think everything's okay. 1:08:27.520 --> 1:08:31.280 Nobody's hurt in here, and I haven't found anybody. But 1:08:31.880 --> 1:08:34.439 we still to this day do not know what happened. 1:08:34.600 --> 1:08:36.439 Why the garage door was open, why the back door 1:08:36.560 --> 1:08:39.720 was wide open. We have an alarm system. It was off, Like, 1:08:39.840 --> 1:08:42.280 we have no idea what happened, Like my mom said, 1:08:42.720 --> 1:08:44.320 like they had closed it, everything was fine. 1:08:44.760 --> 1:08:46.880 Or was your mom being like, crap, I didn't close it. 1:08:46.920 --> 1:08:48.639 I'm sure as hell and not admitting to the fact 1:08:48.640 --> 1:08:50.360 that I didn't close it because my husband will kick 1:08:50.439 --> 1:08:52.720 my ass. Yeah, I don't know what happen. It wasn't me. 1:08:53.120 --> 1:08:55.080 It could have that could have ended up being something 1:08:55.120 --> 1:08:56.880 that we found out later, but I don't. I don't 1:08:56.920 --> 1:08:58.479 think it was. Like to my knowledge, we. 1:08:58.520 --> 1:08:59.439 Still don't know what happened. 1:08:59.439 --> 1:09:00.400 That's creepy and weird. 1:09:01.760 --> 1:09:04.080 After that, we had put a My dad still to 1:09:04.200 --> 1:09:06.960 this day has a wood like you know how you. 1:09:06.960 --> 1:09:08.600 See in movies where they put the wood over the 1:09:08.640 --> 1:09:10.720 door to like block it from somebody coming in like. 1:09:10.760 --> 1:09:12.040 A front door or a sliding door. 1:09:12.200 --> 1:09:13.759 It's a it's a garage door. 1:09:15.080 --> 1:09:15.240 Door. 1:09:15.720 --> 1:09:17.720 And my dad has like a wood thing that every 1:09:17.800 --> 1:09:20.080 time he moves over and it's like so nobody can 1:09:20.120 --> 1:09:21.120 bust in there even if. 1:09:21.000 --> 1:09:23.240 They, like he props up again said the kind of thing. 1:09:23.360 --> 1:09:25.000 Yeah, it's straight up like he built in like the 1:09:25.080 --> 1:09:26.840 little things, and so it's like he just puts it 1:09:26.880 --> 1:09:30.040 over and it blocks the entire door. So still to 1:09:30.160 --> 1:09:33.160 this day, all clear, but don't know what happened. 1:09:33.640 --> 1:09:35.959 That's pretty scary. The unsolved mysteries. 1:09:36.560 --> 1:09:39.320 Yeah, so many unsolved mysteries in my life. 1:09:39.400 --> 1:09:39.640 I know. 1:09:39.880 --> 1:09:43.360 Yeah, this whole even in just this episode, we've had 1:09:43.360 --> 1:09:44.519 a lot of unsolved mysteries. 1:09:44.800 --> 1:09:46.840 I know something about you brings it out of Uscuba. 1:09:46.880 --> 1:09:47.160 I don't know. 1:09:51.120 --> 1:09:51.200 Oh. 1:09:51.240 --> 1:09:53.639 We also have Megan Maroney in the studio this week, 1:09:53.680 --> 1:09:56.439 and that was super fun. First time in studio, and 1:09:56.560 --> 1:10:00.280 her songs are awesome. She performed Tennessee Orange and Girl 1:10:00.320 --> 1:10:02.240 in the Mirror, which both are up on YouTube that 1:10:02.280 --> 1:10:04.360 people can go watch. And I also got to talk 1:10:04.400 --> 1:10:06.280 to her about how her song is My Life, which 1:10:06.400 --> 1:10:06.679 is fun. 1:10:06.760 --> 1:10:07.360 That was pretty cool. 1:10:07.439 --> 1:10:09.080 Yeah, did you like my story? 1:10:09.560 --> 1:10:10.280 Yes? Yeah, it was. 1:10:12.560 --> 1:10:14.280 My spilling the tea on my own life in your 1:10:14.320 --> 1:10:14.679 own life. 1:10:14.760 --> 1:10:16.479 Yeah, Because we had that plan to do like the 1:10:16.560 --> 1:10:19.360 day before or whatever or whatever this week, and then 1:10:19.520 --> 1:10:21.720 we didn't do it and then ended up working out 1:10:21.760 --> 1:10:24.200 great to go with the Girl in the Mirror who 1:10:24.240 --> 1:10:24.840 sings the song. 1:10:25.040 --> 1:10:26.920 Oh yeah, no, it's perfect. 1:10:27.160 --> 1:10:29.479 I don't like that I'm living that song, but it 1:10:29.640 --> 1:10:30.080 is what it is. 1:10:30.280 --> 1:10:32.160 Yeah. Yeah, and if it has to be my life, 1:10:32.200 --> 1:10:34.120 then I'm gonna talk about it exactly. 1:10:34.640 --> 1:10:36.120 Any better to talk about it with than the girl 1:10:36.120 --> 1:10:37.280 who wrote the song exactly. 1:10:37.680 --> 1:10:40.160 It does baffle me, though, I still I'm just mind 1:10:40.240 --> 1:10:44.320 blown that women at I'm assuming I don't know much 1:10:44.320 --> 1:10:47.240 about these people, but twenty five and later, this is 1:10:47.320 --> 1:10:50.200 still a thing. Yeah, And no capacity of my life 1:10:50.360 --> 1:10:54.679 have I ever wanted to message and X a new girlfriend, 1:10:54.840 --> 1:10:58.280 a current, a wife, anything on any level have I 1:10:58.520 --> 1:11:02.200 ever wanted to? Yeah, it baffles me that somebody like 1:11:02.280 --> 1:11:03.880 had in their head like I need to make sure 1:11:04.720 --> 1:11:05.679 I say what I'm saying. 1:11:06.120 --> 1:11:08.640 Yeah, it's really weird. And then I think it was 1:11:08.720 --> 1:11:10.880 her story right where she's like the reason for the 1:11:11.280 --> 1:11:14.120 song was that some girl when deep in her Instagram 1:11:14.240 --> 1:11:16.639 feed like twenty sixteen and like the photo or something, 1:11:16.640 --> 1:11:17.479 and you're like what. 1:11:18.360 --> 1:11:20.360 And that you know a little bit more fair, like 1:11:20.439 --> 1:11:21.880 she was doing some troll and she was checking out 1:11:21.920 --> 1:11:25.120 her competition whatever. Yeah, it's not like I've never not 1:11:25.320 --> 1:11:25.640 done that. 1:11:25.960 --> 1:11:28.800 Yeah, you had comment, but the comments, Yes, it wasn't 1:11:28.800 --> 1:11:31.680 like a like and scrolling like if they like outwardly 1:11:31.880 --> 1:11:32.439 went at you. 1:11:32.840 --> 1:11:35.680 Yes, I'm like, if you want to talk about me, 1:11:35.800 --> 1:11:38.800 talk about me, but yeah, come at me. Well, yeah, why, 1:11:39.240 --> 1:11:41.360 I'm the ex that didn't do anything exactly. 1:11:41.400 --> 1:11:42.640 Yeah, I'm literally the person in. 1:11:42.680 --> 1:11:44.320 That relationship that didn't do anything wrong. 1:11:44.400 --> 1:11:46.479 That's why you coming at me, Like, it seems like 1:11:46.560 --> 1:11:46.920 you've got. 1:11:46.840 --> 1:11:49.840 Bigger problems, And I've learned some insider information about that. 1:11:49.840 --> 1:11:51.439 There was definitely problems that happened. 1:11:52.880 --> 1:11:55.280 Yeah, that sounds like he lied to her a little 1:11:55.280 --> 1:11:58.120 bit about something and compricated some of the story and whatever. 1:11:58.200 --> 1:12:00.639 Listen, all I'm saying is if those problems are still happening, 1:12:00.680 --> 1:12:02.400 and then I don't know that y'all should be together. 1:12:02.520 --> 1:12:03.759 But that's none of my business. 1:12:04.120 --> 1:12:04.320 Yeah. 1:12:05.080 --> 1:12:06.400 So yeah, that's my life. 1:12:06.800 --> 1:12:09.880 I love it and hated. I don't want to talk 1:12:09.880 --> 1:12:10.720 about it anymore, but I. 1:12:10.760 --> 1:12:13.719 Do want to ask you something. Okay, I'm obviously dating 1:12:13.800 --> 1:12:16.920 and you know, hanging out trying to find my person. Yeah, 1:12:17.000 --> 1:12:20.120 how many dates would you think you should give someone 1:12:20.240 --> 1:12:24.080 before you kind of make a decision of like continue 1:12:24.120 --> 1:12:25.800 dating them or ending it. 1:12:27.400 --> 1:12:30.280 I would say, in a world we live in now, 1:12:30.320 --> 1:12:32.479 I would say I would say give someone at least 1:12:32.560 --> 1:12:35.280 three dates, and the three dates have to be completely 1:12:35.280 --> 1:12:37.559 different kind of dates. It's not like coffee coffee coffee, 1:12:37.640 --> 1:12:39.280 or a dinner din or dinner needs. You need to 1:12:39.320 --> 1:12:41.679 see them in different elements of their life, like I'll 1:12:41.680 --> 1:12:41.880 take you. 1:12:42.080 --> 1:12:42.120 So. 1:12:42.200 --> 1:12:44.200 My first date with my wife was at a bar 1:12:44.520 --> 1:12:47.559 in San Francisco, and I strategically placed a block from 1:12:47.600 --> 1:12:49.080 my place because I was thinking I was gonna hook 1:12:49.160 --> 1:12:50.719 up with her, but she had other plans. 1:12:51.960 --> 1:12:53.280 We stand a queen. 1:12:53.360 --> 1:12:55.080 Oh yeah. We were in a nice part of town. 1:12:55.120 --> 1:12:56.840 I was like, Hey, my apartment's just right up the hill, 1:12:56.960 --> 1:12:58.639 right over there, and she said that's cool. She said 1:12:58.680 --> 1:12:59.960 I'm going to go now, and then a friends pay 1:13:00.080 --> 1:13:02.040 her up and she was gone. I was like oh, 1:13:02.080 --> 1:13:04.400 and I even got a side hug and I was like, whoa, 1:13:05.040 --> 1:13:07.040 I want some more of that. I was like hell yeah. 1:13:07.400 --> 1:13:09.680 And then our second date was Disney on Ice, and 1:13:09.760 --> 1:13:11.720 it was me testing around to see how she'd be 1:13:12.360 --> 1:13:14.760 like quirky and funny and if she's into Disney and 1:13:14.840 --> 1:13:17.320 because I was into Disney and still am, but also 1:13:17.400 --> 1:13:21.120 to see how she'd be as like a potential like mother, like. 1:13:21.720 --> 1:13:24.600 Oh, you were going straight mom on the second mom, 1:13:24.640 --> 1:13:26.280 because you're gonna be around a bunch of families and 1:13:26.400 --> 1:13:27.680 which tests your patients. 1:13:28.080 --> 1:13:30.439 And also to see how she's a Disney because usually 1:13:30.439 --> 1:13:32.240 people who are who are okay with that are going 1:13:32.320 --> 1:13:35.400 to be somewhat like fun and playful and be lighthearted. 1:13:35.439 --> 1:13:37.680 And also beginning with kids, because kids love Disney. So 1:13:37.720 --> 1:13:39.479 I want to see how she was in that whole 1:13:39.520 --> 1:13:42.439 scenario with Disney and Ice and what she canna think. 1:13:42.479 --> 1:13:43.400 This is so stupid and lame. 1:13:43.800 --> 1:13:45.160 I just want to point out that I love that 1:13:45.240 --> 1:13:46.960 you went from on the first date, like you know, 1:13:47.080 --> 1:13:49.320 taking her home, to like second where you're like, is 1:13:49.400 --> 1:13:51.679 she going to be a good mom? Like the floor 1:13:51.880 --> 1:13:55.960 opposite of this too, like she she a hook line 1:13:56.040 --> 1:13:56.960 and sinkerd you on that? 1:13:57.040 --> 1:13:59.639 Oh yeah, she got me. I was like, good god 1:14:00.280 --> 1:14:02.280 me for the moment I saw her, the moment she left, 1:14:02.320 --> 1:14:03.599 I was like, literally it was one of those moments 1:14:03.600 --> 1:14:05.639 where you're just like, what the hell just happened? 1:14:05.800 --> 1:14:07.519 That is what we call a hook line and seeing. 1:14:07.400 --> 1:14:09.360 Oh she hooked line and seeing me hard. And then 1:14:09.400 --> 1:14:11.879 the third day, so we're living in living in San Francisco, 1:14:12.040 --> 1:14:13.840 was just her and I walking all around the city, 1:14:14.080 --> 1:14:17.040 which she came to my apartment and and we just walked. 1:14:17.120 --> 1:14:19.800 We went to a baseball game, We walked around. We 1:14:20.000 --> 1:14:21.680 just like walked around the city, just talked a lot, 1:14:21.840 --> 1:14:24.720 like at food here, had a drink there, just kind 1:14:24.720 --> 1:14:27.080 of like just walked and talked, and so that was like, okay. 1:14:27.400 --> 1:14:28.800 So I got to see her element at a bar, 1:14:28.880 --> 1:14:31.360 see how she handles herself with alcohol, and also see 1:14:31.360 --> 1:14:33.680 how she handles herself in general, like what if she 1:14:33.800 --> 1:14:35.080 did she put out the first aid or does she 1:14:35.200 --> 1:14:37.000 make me wait, which she abviously did. Then I saw 1:14:37.040 --> 1:14:38.600 the family side of her, and then I got to 1:14:38.680 --> 1:14:40.080 like really really get to know her, know her because 1:14:40.120 --> 1:14:41.920 we walked around for like four or five hours to 1:14:42.000 --> 1:14:45.519 a baseball game, walking, drinking, eating, hanging out. It was 1:14:45.560 --> 1:14:48.800 a full on, like everything day. So I was like, Okay. 1:14:49.560 --> 1:14:51.320 After the third day, I was like, holy crap. Like 1:14:51.600 --> 1:14:53.439 I mean, after the first date, I was like, holy crap, 1:14:54.760 --> 1:14:55.720 I'm loving. 1:14:55.520 --> 1:14:57.880 This because this is the inside brain of a man, 1:14:57.960 --> 1:14:59.920 Like instead of inside baseball, this is the inside brain 1:15:00.240 --> 1:15:01.040 of men, of men. 1:15:01.280 --> 1:15:03.400 And I don't know all men are are this way, 1:15:03.479 --> 1:15:05.160 but I was because I had already was I was 1:15:05.200 --> 1:15:09.479 already married with the expectation of long term and family 1:15:09.600 --> 1:15:13.080 and kids, and then that obviously came to a screeching 1:15:13.160 --> 1:15:16.320 hole of infidelity and not wanting kids anymore. In fidelity 1:15:16.360 --> 1:15:18.640 and her part, by the way, folks not me and 1:15:18.760 --> 1:15:21.559 so so for me, it was like, Okay, I'm already 1:15:21.600 --> 1:15:23.639 in this game space. If I want family, I want 1:15:23.720 --> 1:15:25.559 long term. It wasn't like I'm looking for a hookup, 1:15:25.840 --> 1:15:27.759 which I'm not saying every guy is looking for a hookup, 1:15:27.800 --> 1:15:31.439 but the majority of her than Yeah. Well, especially if 1:15:31.439 --> 1:15:33.160 you're living in a see like Nashville, where it's four 1:15:33.200 --> 1:15:37.200 girls to one guy. It's almost unfair for a girl 1:15:37.400 --> 1:15:40.240 in Nashville because there's so many guys. I mean, so 1:15:40.320 --> 1:15:41.439 many girls, Scooba. 1:15:41.560 --> 1:15:44.519 Let me tell you in the last two days that 1:15:45.880 --> 1:15:48.080 I have gotten three messages from guys that I matched with. 1:15:48.600 --> 1:15:50.160 One of them is like, don't hate me if I 1:15:50.280 --> 1:15:52.400 tell you that I'm on an overnight in Nashville tonight. 1:15:52.439 --> 1:15:53.559 Do you want to get dinner or something? 1:15:53.920 --> 1:15:56.599 He wants to and I said, nope, not my vibe, 1:15:56.840 --> 1:15:58.560 have a great night, unmatched. 1:15:58.720 --> 1:15:58.920 Yeah. 1:15:59.240 --> 1:16:01.960 Another one was I realized I matched you and I 1:16:02.080 --> 1:16:05.120 was flying over in Nashville. Sir, shut up, you were 1:16:05.200 --> 1:16:07.639 not yeah doing that, you did that on purpose. 1:16:07.880 --> 1:16:09.719 And also, no yeah, exactly. 1:16:09.840 --> 1:16:11.080 Yeah, and then another one came through. 1:16:11.080 --> 1:16:13.240 It was like I'm just visiting. I'm on Broadway. 1:16:13.240 --> 1:16:16.080 I'm like, that's great, have a great time, leave me alone, 1:16:16.920 --> 1:16:17.360 go go. 1:16:17.479 --> 1:16:20.240 Go some mother girls drunk on Broadway and on vacation yep. 1:16:20.160 --> 1:16:21.479 And what all three of those want? 1:16:21.920 --> 1:16:24.800 Yeah, oh of course, yeah. Yeah, they're not looking for 1:16:24.880 --> 1:16:29.799 anything more than that. No, Yeah, So my overall, my advice, 1:16:29.880 --> 1:16:32.040 you would be at least three to four dates and 1:16:32.200 --> 1:16:35.000 every day be something different and in a space that 1:16:36.360 --> 1:16:38.200 like like I did, like I was looking for okay, 1:16:38.280 --> 1:16:40.800 first the fun and then the family and then just 1:16:40.840 --> 1:16:42.760 really getting to know them kind of thing, so kind 1:16:42.800 --> 1:16:44.040 of do different dates. 1:16:44.439 --> 1:16:47.040 Well, So I'm just at this point suba where I 1:16:47.120 --> 1:16:51.080 feel very meh yeah, like I just I don't know 1:16:51.160 --> 1:16:53.240 if it's because so many people have just really messed 1:16:53.240 --> 1:16:55.439 with me that I'm just like, man, you better be 1:16:56.000 --> 1:16:58.600 a fricking unicorn, which is already what I'm looking for. 1:16:58.680 --> 1:17:00.879 I'm already literally looking for a unicorn. 1:17:01.080 --> 1:17:03.439 Yeah, but like you better be a really freaking unicorn 1:17:03.479 --> 1:17:05.280 if you're going to like take my time and my energy, 1:17:05.360 --> 1:17:09.080 because I'm tired of what is the there's a meme 1:17:09.320 --> 1:17:11.599 I'm tired of this grandpa. Do you know what I'm 1:17:11.600 --> 1:17:14.519 talking about. It's in a movie, I believe, But she 1:17:14.640 --> 1:17:16.439 like yells at him and she's like, I'm tired of 1:17:16.520 --> 1:17:21.000 this grandpa. And he's like, that's too damn bad. That's 1:17:21.040 --> 1:17:22.639 what I feel like. I feel like I'm the little 1:17:22.720 --> 1:17:25.400 girl in the dating group and my parents are like, well, 1:17:25.680 --> 1:17:26.960 this is what you're going to have to do to 1:17:27.040 --> 1:17:27.559 find somebody. 1:17:27.800 --> 1:17:30.120 So what is your age range that you usually go after? 1:17:30.960 --> 1:17:33.840 It's either my age or I think I have it 1:17:33.960 --> 1:17:34.800 till like thirty five. 1:17:35.160 --> 1:17:37.559 Okay, so maybe maybe it'sart looking for guys that are 1:17:37.600 --> 1:17:38.080 forty or not. 1:17:38.840 --> 1:17:41.000 Yeah, I don't know if I'm there forty, I don't 1:17:41.000 --> 1:17:44.560 know if i've depth, I've tipped my said, dip my 1:17:44.640 --> 1:17:45.519 toes into that water. 1:17:45.760 --> 1:17:47.599 But it's also then you go to that age range 1:17:47.640 --> 1:17:49.040 and you're like, well, why are you so single at 1:17:49.040 --> 1:17:51.960 that age? But this age range is this time is 1:17:52.040 --> 1:17:54.599 different because some people will now have been so career 1:17:54.720 --> 1:17:57.160 focused for a really long time, and it takes longer 1:17:57.240 --> 1:17:59.599 to get your career going than it did in the seventies, 1:17:59.640 --> 1:18:01.679 where you you're going out of college and you're already 1:18:01.680 --> 1:18:03.040 making good money. You can buy a house for twenty 1:18:03.080 --> 1:18:05.759 thousand dollars and have a family and be just fine. 1:18:05.920 --> 1:18:06.120 Yep. 1:18:06.640 --> 1:18:09.800 So maybe guys and girls are having to find love 1:18:09.880 --> 1:18:11.400 later in life. So I guess me, you look for 1:18:11.439 --> 1:18:12.519 an older guy, not too old. 1:18:12.360 --> 1:18:14.679 And not like fifty. Well that's what so far. Currently 1:18:14.760 --> 1:18:18.280 I'm looking at least six years older, so okay, super older. Yeah, yeah, 1:18:18.280 --> 1:18:18.920 I got a little bit. 1:18:19.040 --> 1:18:21.160 Yeah, because I would say younger, you're probably not. 1:18:21.680 --> 1:18:24.000 Not good hard pass on that for me. Yeah, it's 1:18:24.120 --> 1:18:27.240 just unless like they're just unless I meet them naturally. 1:18:27.439 --> 1:18:29.719 And yeah, like if I'm purposely looking. 1:18:29.600 --> 1:18:30.559 No, I'm not looking younger. 1:18:30.640 --> 1:18:32.639 But if I meet someone and they're an amazing, great 1:18:32.680 --> 1:18:34.960 guy and they're younger, is what it is. 1:18:35.240 --> 1:18:37.080 Yes, yeah, and the younger mean like a year or 1:18:37.120 --> 1:18:39.400 two or three years maybe, yeah, not like ten years 1:18:40.360 --> 1:18:43.280 a guy ten years child. Yes, I almost had to say, 1:18:43.320 --> 1:18:44.880 I hate to say it's but it's the truth I have. 1:18:45.040 --> 1:18:47.200 Like a ten year younger guy versus ten year younger 1:18:47.240 --> 1:18:49.280 girl could be a whole different kind of person. Oh absolutely, 1:18:49.320 --> 1:18:51.679 I think women mature a little faster and quicker, whereas 1:18:51.720 --> 1:18:53.200 guys are like bub boobs. 1:18:53.320 --> 1:18:56.040 Yeah yeah, but it like the reason I asked you 1:18:56.120 --> 1:18:57.840 because I've I've been on three dates to the guy, 1:18:57.960 --> 1:19:00.840 and I think he's awesome and we've had great dates, 1:19:01.479 --> 1:19:03.240 and I just like, I just don't know if there's 1:19:03.280 --> 1:19:05.559 just this blockage happening to me where I just am like. 1:19:07.320 --> 1:19:09.560 Something has to happen for like almost. 1:19:09.320 --> 1:19:11.439 To be like unlocked, for me to be like, oh, yay, 1:19:12.080 --> 1:19:12.920 you're really awesome. 1:19:13.280 --> 1:19:14.880 Well what were your three dates? Like, what were the 1:19:15.000 --> 1:19:16.640 if you don't mind saying like, yeah, did you go the. 1:19:16.680 --> 1:19:18.639 First day we did pins, we went and duckfin bowling. 1:19:18.840 --> 1:19:20.519 That's fun, okay, cool gets this fun side. 1:19:20.640 --> 1:19:22.360 And second date he came to a concert with me, 1:19:22.560 --> 1:19:24.560 okay cool. And third day we went to dinner. So 1:19:24.760 --> 1:19:27.599 all variations of dates, I've seen them in different environments 1:19:27.680 --> 1:19:29.719 and I'm like, there's there's no red flags. 1:19:29.920 --> 1:19:31.200 Yeah, And we like had like. 1:19:31.360 --> 1:19:34.040 Intense conversations, especially at dinner. We're like, what's the three 1:19:34.080 --> 1:19:36.559 things you're not supposed to talk about? Let's talk about them. Okay, 1:19:37.439 --> 1:19:40.080 here we are, let's get serious. This is gonna work 1:19:40.640 --> 1:19:43.720 and so and everything like we line up like it's 1:19:43.800 --> 1:19:44.639 a good match. 1:19:44.720 --> 1:19:46.320 Okay, you're a line of what you're looking for a 1:19:46.400 --> 1:19:50.280 long term Yeah, term. So, but I just family family. 1:19:50.520 --> 1:19:53.000 Yeah, and like as far as everything, like we kind 1:19:53.040 --> 1:19:54.680 of believe in all that, you know, all the very 1:19:54.800 --> 1:19:57.240 serious aspects of dating, all good and. 1:19:57.280 --> 1:20:00.600 All the important things are matching up, but there's just 1:20:00.680 --> 1:20:04.240 no spark or there's no there's no like physical chemistry 1:20:04.400 --> 1:20:04.680 there is. 1:20:04.800 --> 1:20:06.360 It's like I am excited to talk to him and 1:20:06.360 --> 1:20:07.640 I am excited to go out with him, or I 1:20:07.680 --> 1:20:10.680 want to cancel by now I know my personality, I'm out. 1:20:10.840 --> 1:20:12.880 Yeah, yeah, but there's just. 1:20:12.920 --> 1:20:14.680 Like a part of me that's almost like something is 1:20:14.760 --> 1:20:17.519 just like turned off, not from him, like genuinely like 1:20:17.760 --> 1:20:19.920 a thing into my brain is straight up turned off. 1:20:20.040 --> 1:20:23.640 And it's like it's just somebody's like knocking on the 1:20:23.680 --> 1:20:25.679 door and it's just not answering. Does that make sense? 1:20:25.880 --> 1:20:29.040 Yeah, So basically it's not him. It's not him. It's 1:20:29.360 --> 1:20:31.599 it's because of your experience with dating, you're just turned 1:20:31.600 --> 1:20:32.040 off in general. 1:20:32.080 --> 1:20:34.240 Okay, so that wouldn't fall him for this then, like, yeah, 1:20:34.320 --> 1:20:35.599 no I'm not, and I am going to go out 1:20:35.600 --> 1:20:37.240 with him again. We're gonna hang out again and do 1:20:37.439 --> 1:20:39.280 like a or chill setting so I can see, like 1:20:39.360 --> 1:20:41.680 do we vibe on like just a very normal, like 1:20:41.760 --> 1:20:43.640 we've done a lot of cool things. Yeah, do we 1:20:43.840 --> 1:20:45.599 vibe when there's not something cool happening? 1:20:45.960 --> 1:20:48.280 Okay, so then have you done? Because my fourth date 1:20:48.640 --> 1:20:51.360 with my wife was one where it was with like 1:20:51.439 --> 1:20:53.880 her three or four really good friends and then her 1:20:53.960 --> 1:20:57.280 brother and her cousin, like like her tribe basically came out. 1:20:57.600 --> 1:20:59.120 We had like a tribe date. 1:20:59.360 --> 1:21:01.599 See that would have been for me in like seven dates. 1:21:01.720 --> 1:21:03.680 Okay, I don't even interest. I don't bring in the 1:21:03.760 --> 1:21:06.080 friends until it's like, okay, I think I might consider 1:21:06.200 --> 1:21:06.519 this guy. 1:21:06.640 --> 1:21:10.639 Yeah, because I think friends matter because it's not family. 1:21:10.920 --> 1:21:13.120 Oh listen, my friends go hard, well. 1:21:13.080 --> 1:21:14.640 They don't need, but I would have them not go 1:21:14.760 --> 1:21:18.000 hard will. I would have them be more spectators, so 1:21:18.160 --> 1:21:20.360 that way they're they're there, they're hanging out, they're talking 1:21:20.800 --> 1:21:23.880 and almost like listen more than speak, so you can 1:21:24.000 --> 1:21:26.280 hear how what he's saying and how he's saying it, 1:21:26.640 --> 1:21:31.160 how he's acting. Don't have them be the interrogating trio, 1:21:31.439 --> 1:21:33.400 because then it's no fun for anybody, even if he 1:21:33.520 --> 1:21:35.880 the great guy, it's no fun. You almost have to 1:21:35.920 --> 1:21:38.120 tell them, hey, we're going to go out and I'm 1:21:38.120 --> 1:21:40.000 bringing my friends and maybe even have him bring a 1:21:40.040 --> 1:21:42.320 couple of his friends so then you can see what 1:21:42.680 --> 1:21:44.840 he is like with his friends. Is he going to 1:21:44.880 --> 1:21:46.640 be a dick? Is he going to ignore you? Is 1:21:46.680 --> 1:21:48.120 he going to treat you differently? Is he going to 1:21:48.160 --> 1:21:50.519 be my cheesemo type guy, or is he going to 1:21:50.560 --> 1:21:52.840 be really cool still? And also how are his friends 1:21:53.080 --> 1:21:55.040 He's always there, always always gonna be one dick friend. 1:21:55.840 --> 1:21:58.120 Are all of his friends assholes or all of his 1:21:58.280 --> 1:22:00.679 friends on a level where you're never we're going to match? 1:22:01.560 --> 1:22:03.120 Then I feel like that would be a good one, 1:22:03.160 --> 1:22:04.720 especially if you're in a place where you've already dated 1:22:04.760 --> 1:22:07.640 so much and you're you're you're turned off inside, not 1:22:07.720 --> 1:22:09.360 by him, but just by dating in general. Yeah, I 1:22:09.400 --> 1:22:10.599 feel like you just beed it up a little bit. 1:22:10.720 --> 1:22:13.120 And the fourth or fifth date should be the meet 1:22:13.200 --> 1:22:16.839 my friends. And even say, this doesn't mean we're super serious. 1:22:17.160 --> 1:22:19.000 This just means I want you to see my friends, 1:22:19.040 --> 1:22:20.000 and I just want to hang out with you and 1:22:20.160 --> 1:22:22.200 have your friends hang out and we just do like 1:22:22.240 --> 1:22:23.839 a group thing, just a group. 1:22:23.720 --> 1:22:25.360 Setting that makes me terrify. 1:22:25.600 --> 1:22:28.599 But yeah, yeah, but it's terrified, But you shouldn't put 1:22:28.640 --> 1:22:31.320 it in the space to him. And also to you 1:22:31.439 --> 1:22:33.040 of like, Okay, this means we're gonna get married. Now, 1:22:33.200 --> 1:22:34.960 that's just me. I'm just curious. I just want to 1:22:34.960 --> 1:22:36.320 put you in another setting to see how you do 1:22:36.400 --> 1:22:38.320 in this setting and maybe be honest with him, be like, look, 1:22:39.240 --> 1:22:41.360 dating is weird for me, and I've dated a lot, 1:22:41.439 --> 1:22:43.800 and maybe you've already talked about this with him, and 1:22:43.920 --> 1:22:44.920 just say, hey, look, I just want to kind of 1:22:44.920 --> 1:22:46.679 hang out with some friends. Just do something really chill 1:22:47.000 --> 1:22:48.559 and then leave it at that, and then your friends 1:22:48.600 --> 1:22:52.439 will then be really chill and say girls, they. 1:22:52.320 --> 1:22:54.840 Will, they will, They'll totally do whatever. I'm like. But yeah, 1:22:54.920 --> 1:22:56.760 it's just more that, like I don't know. When I 1:22:56.880 --> 1:22:59.080 bring people around at this point in my life, it's 1:22:59.080 --> 1:23:03.200 definitely more serious, yeah than it is not. Yeah, but 1:23:03.520 --> 1:23:05.240 I just don't know. I'm just in it. 1:23:05.280 --> 1:23:06.600 I'm in a weird place, I know. 1:23:06.680 --> 1:23:08.880 But is even someone that you would see yourself being 1:23:08.960 --> 1:23:11.560 serious with based on the things you've talked about? Yeah, Like, 1:23:11.960 --> 1:23:14.040 like I said, why not, then let's just do it? 1:23:14.200 --> 1:23:16.320 I know. I just like I'm telling you, just something 1:23:16.439 --> 1:23:19.800 in me is like yeah, meh. Literally, that's the only 1:23:19.840 --> 1:23:21.400 word I can use to describe it. As Like I 1:23:21.479 --> 1:23:22.160 am neh. 1:23:22.680 --> 1:23:24.560 I know, I know, but it's like if you're but 1:23:24.600 --> 1:23:27.560 you're always being met until at some point you like, 1:23:27.640 --> 1:23:28.360 I guess try. 1:23:28.960 --> 1:23:32.840 And I have noticed too. This is I'm being so honest. 1:23:32.920 --> 1:23:34.800 And Dad, please stop listening. If you're listening right. 1:23:34.720 --> 1:23:37.280 Now, he's like, I'm gonna turn it up even louder. 1:23:39.000 --> 1:23:43.280 I have noticed that there is more physical attraction with 1:23:43.400 --> 1:23:45.320 guys that aren't as nice. And I don't like that. 1:23:46.160 --> 1:23:48.080 Oh that I think it's the problem women in general. 1:23:48.520 --> 1:23:48.840 I don't. 1:23:48.960 --> 1:23:51.320 It's not even it's like it's something about it that 1:23:51.520 --> 1:23:52.599 like the physical attraction. 1:23:53.160 --> 1:23:54.599 It's not even the bad boy aspect. 1:23:54.640 --> 1:23:58.080 It's just that like thing. No, Like it's like the 1:23:58.360 --> 1:24:00.400 the energy that they put out or whatever. 1:24:00.600 --> 1:24:03.600 I don't they're confident. I don't know, the confident on 1:24:03.640 --> 1:24:04.800 the outside of the answer. They're not. 1:24:04.960 --> 1:24:07.120 They're great kissers, Okay, it's really what it. 1:24:07.080 --> 1:24:08.479 Is because they've been around the block a lot. 1:24:08.720 --> 1:24:10.320 Like I said, Dad, please stop listening. 1:24:11.280 --> 1:24:13.080 They don't kiss a tongue, Dad his lips. 1:24:14.640 --> 1:24:17.840 But it's just like they're yeah, like there's something about 1:24:17.840 --> 1:24:20.400 it that I've noticed that, like, nicer guys just aren't 1:24:20.439 --> 1:24:23.680 as I don't know what the word is because the. 1:24:23.760 --> 1:24:25.760 Nicer guys are the one like I was a nicer 1:24:25.800 --> 1:24:28.160 guy because I was always afraid to be the one 1:24:28.200 --> 1:24:30.360 to initiate, because I was always afraid of fear, and 1:24:30.479 --> 1:24:32.280 I was the fear of rejection and all that kind 1:24:32.280 --> 1:24:34.680 of stuff. A guy who is puts himself out there 1:24:34.760 --> 1:24:37.640 more isn't afraid of rejection because they because by the 1:24:37.720 --> 1:24:39.120 time they got the kiss from you, and not saying 1:24:39.120 --> 1:24:42.479 it's you dad, not you dad, dad, but your daughter dad, 1:24:42.880 --> 1:24:45.240 but because they because before they kissed you, they tried 1:24:45.240 --> 1:24:46.880 it with nine other girls and then finally you're the 1:24:46.880 --> 1:24:48.639 one that said yes. And so he's like I already 1:24:48.680 --> 1:24:51.000 has been said no to nine times and this one works. 1:24:51.040 --> 1:24:54.519 So so those unfortunate are the guys because they play 1:24:54.560 --> 1:24:56.840 the odds, and a guy who's nice doesn't play the 1:24:56.840 --> 1:24:59.680 odds because they're afraid of rejection and they're afraid of 1:24:59.760 --> 1:25:02.240 what they're off night just rejection, they're also afraid of, 1:25:02.439 --> 1:25:06.160 like of I think, just afraid, you know. 1:25:06.400 --> 1:25:09.240 And trust me, I've gone there all that, so like, 1:25:09.439 --> 1:25:10.799 you know, what I'm really looking. 1:25:10.600 --> 1:25:12.040 For, it's a guy that I like to kiss and 1:25:12.080 --> 1:25:15.240 he's a good guy. Yeah, And that seems impossible to find. 1:25:15.400 --> 1:25:17.760 Yeah, because the guy that the good guy doesn't like 1:25:17.880 --> 1:25:20.320 to kiss, but he's afraid to kiss, like it took 1:25:20.400 --> 1:25:22.760 like I didn't kiss my wife until the fourth or 1:25:22.800 --> 1:25:25.200 fifth date. We didn't kiss. It was because I was 1:25:25.240 --> 1:25:27.120 also nervous and she let me. 1:25:27.400 --> 1:25:29.439 Out, cracking me up. The fact that like the first day, 1:25:29.439 --> 1:25:32.840 you were like ready to take your home, and that's 1:25:32.880 --> 1:25:33.720 what I probably kissed her. 1:25:34.200 --> 1:25:36.479 Well honestly, I mean, if they probably even happen, I've 1:25:36.479 --> 1:25:38.280 probably have been so nervous. I probably wouldn't have even 1:25:38.320 --> 1:25:40.280 gone back to the place that back to the place. 1:25:40.320 --> 1:25:42.360 I'm like, no, it's actually I got something like I 1:25:42.400 --> 1:25:44.720 got I can't buy. I probab would have left her. 1:25:44.960 --> 1:25:46.479 I took a big game, but I probably would have 1:25:46.479 --> 1:25:47.479 never even had the big game. 1:25:48.200 --> 1:25:50.439 That's fair. So I think you need to get it's hilarious. 1:25:50.479 --> 1:25:54.000 I just am loving the story of secrets of how 1:25:54.000 --> 1:25:54.840 it's happening. 1:25:54.760 --> 1:25:57.439 Total Yeah, because that's yeah. Again, the nicer guy probably 1:25:57.479 --> 1:25:59.240 would have that intentionip, but never actually do it. 1:25:59.400 --> 1:25:59.599 Yeah. 1:25:59.760 --> 1:26:01.200 I think you almost have to give the nicer guy 1:26:01.240 --> 1:26:03.439 a chance or maybe you unfortunately want that makes the 1:26:03.479 --> 1:26:05.840 move and then and then know that the first ten 1:26:05.920 --> 1:26:08.240 seconds of that kiss are going to be a nervous kiss, 1:26:08.600 --> 1:26:12.760 but then it's eventually going to work itself out and 1:26:12.800 --> 1:26:14.519 maybe like kiss, I'm. 1:26:14.400 --> 1:26:17.560 Getting very vulnerable here, and I don't like it. I 1:26:17.640 --> 1:26:20.160 don't like it. Yeah, that's that's my current dilemma that 1:26:20.240 --> 1:26:23.680 I and I'm trying to trying to wade through the 1:26:23.760 --> 1:26:26.839 waters and understand and yeah, have patience. 1:26:26.880 --> 1:26:28.839 But you're obviously the more confident one in the relationship, 1:26:28.880 --> 1:26:30.840 Like my wife was always the more confident one. So 1:26:30.960 --> 1:26:32.680 I feel like you. I feel like that's actually a 1:26:32.760 --> 1:26:35.240 good thing too, to be the more confident and the 1:26:35.360 --> 1:26:37.640 stronger and okay, to be on your own and to 1:26:37.720 --> 1:26:40.160 be with a guy who's nervous and nice. 1:26:40.600 --> 1:26:42.519 I have always wanted a nerdy guy like that is 1:26:42.600 --> 1:26:43.040 my vibe. 1:26:43.120 --> 1:26:45.920 I don't want like Peter, you want Peter Parker, I 1:26:46.120 --> 1:26:46.760 do or. 1:26:48.040 --> 1:26:51.360 Crap, what's his name? What's Superman's name? Can I want 1:26:51.360 --> 1:26:52.280 a guy who's like nerdy? 1:26:52.320 --> 1:26:54.320 You don't want Bruce Wayne Waye an asshole? 1:26:55.000 --> 1:26:57.560 I need a Clark Kent or to Peter Parker, who's like, 1:26:57.800 --> 1:27:01.360 you know, works hard, he's got a nice physique because 1:27:01.400 --> 1:27:06.120 he secretly loves the gym, but he really loves nerdy things. 1:27:06.320 --> 1:27:08.120 Yes, and he doesn't go on Instagram taking pictures of 1:27:08.160 --> 1:27:11.840 his body because he's nervous and he's self conscious about himself. 1:27:11.920 --> 1:27:15.160 So if Peter Parker Clark can't are listening, I'm looking 1:27:15.200 --> 1:27:15.400 for you. 1:27:15.840 --> 1:27:17.439 Was this guy, Peter Parker Clark Ken? 1:27:18.600 --> 1:27:20.360 Yeah, so far, okay, so far? 1:27:20.640 --> 1:27:22.040 Okay, Well then I would put him. 1:27:21.960 --> 1:27:25.040 In that category. So far, okay, We'll not gonna go 1:27:25.120 --> 1:27:26.880 like a fourth day. Never mind, I take you back, 1:27:27.000 --> 1:27:27.559 take it all back. 1:27:27.720 --> 1:27:29.680 Yeah, this is spamris when to see they have to say, 1:27:30.000 --> 1:27:35.080 oh yo, oh, it's urgent. 1:27:36.360 --> 1:27:39.000 This is our final attempt to reach you to qualified. 1:27:39.200 --> 1:27:43.760 Always oh my gosh, your healts coverage is gonna go away. 1:27:45.560 --> 1:27:50.960 It's always a final attempt. Calls, there's always a final attempt. 1:27:51.280 --> 1:27:53.360 It's always something to do with healthcare or Wiener pills. 1:27:54.520 --> 1:27:56.120 I love how it's automated and then it goes to 1:27:56.200 --> 1:27:56.519 something and. 1:27:56.560 --> 1:27:58.800 I know they hear me talking about I said Wiener pills, 1:27:58.800 --> 1:28:01.320 and they go, no, I did to mess with us. 1:28:01.439 --> 1:28:02.080 They got on us. 1:28:02.160 --> 1:28:03.360 Yeah, they got on it real quick. 1:28:03.439 --> 1:28:04.080 Oh my god. 1:28:04.160 --> 1:28:05.760 Okay, well, no, I don't want to. 1:28:05.760 --> 1:28:06.479 Go into this anymore. 1:28:07.320 --> 1:28:09.040 I had a therapy session turned back. 1:28:08.960 --> 1:28:12.240 On exactly, so number one sitting on the couch, you're 1:28:12.280 --> 1:28:12.679 a chair. 1:28:14.040 --> 1:28:17.240 Coming in at the number one spot was she got 1:28:19.120 --> 1:28:21.120 Scuba trying to move forward. 1:28:21.439 --> 1:28:24.680 Okay, so your dad's listening. Your dad's like, let him 1:28:24.720 --> 1:28:26.479 talk more. He has great points. 1:28:27.320 --> 1:28:29.600 Yeah, trust her. You're not saying anything my friends or 1:28:29.640 --> 1:28:34.920 my family. Amy got mistaken as Caitlyn's mom. Kaitlyn is 1:28:35.000 --> 1:28:38.160 Bobby's wife, and it was a whole scenario and Amy's 1:28:38.160 --> 1:28:39.080 still pretty upset by it. 1:28:39.160 --> 1:28:40.960 But that comes in at the number one spot this week. 1:28:41.000 --> 1:28:43.280 But I don't got anything else because I have I 1:28:43.360 --> 1:28:44.960 tried to make Scuba going therapy. 1:28:45.479 --> 1:28:48.400 I reluctantly came into therapy and now. 1:28:48.320 --> 1:28:48.800 We are done. 1:28:49.000 --> 1:28:50.680 Well, My and my thing on the whole Amy thing, 1:28:50.720 --> 1:28:52.880 and I had an opinion on it was the way 1:28:52.880 --> 1:28:54.439 I was thinking about it was two things. One neither. 1:28:54.479 --> 1:28:55.880 The guy was obviously trying to hit an Amy and 1:28:56.280 --> 1:28:57.519 was like probably trying to be like, oh, you're the 1:28:57.560 --> 1:28:59.640 older sister and flubbed his words and said Mom was like, 1:29:00.160 --> 1:29:01.760 I can't go back on it now. But I was 1:29:01.840 --> 1:29:03.400 even thinking about it could be in the sense of 1:29:04.160 --> 1:29:05.760 and this is just the way I was thinking about 1:29:05.800 --> 1:29:09.559 it was Caitlin does look younger than thirty. She's thirty, right, 1:29:09.640 --> 1:29:11.840 thirty or thirty one, thirty one, thirty one, but she 1:29:12.160 --> 1:29:13.960 looks younger. And then I took a lot of women 1:29:14.000 --> 1:29:16.559 who are in that twenty five to thirty range look 1:29:16.640 --> 1:29:19.000 like they're twenty one, twenty two or whatever. So I 1:29:19.200 --> 1:29:23.640 saw it as as Amy could be her mother. But 1:29:23.760 --> 1:29:25.640 Amy is a young mom, like someone who had a 1:29:25.720 --> 1:29:28.960 kid at fifteen or sixteen, which is very very common. 1:29:29.280 --> 1:29:31.360 And you see women a lot like there was that 1:29:31.439 --> 1:29:33.519 one story in the news where some guy was dating 1:29:33.520 --> 1:29:35.960 a woman who looks like could be a daughter's friend 1:29:36.000 --> 1:29:36.280 or whatever. 1:29:36.520 --> 1:29:38.519 Yeah, no, it looks like it's daughter. 1:29:38.560 --> 1:29:39.800 But I know a lot of people who had kids. 1:29:39.880 --> 1:29:42.240 One of my cousins had a kid at fourteen, and 1:29:42.720 --> 1:29:45.120 she had it and then now she's, you know, older, 1:29:45.439 --> 1:29:47.960 she's thirty five to forty range, and a lot of 1:29:48.000 --> 1:29:52.559 times people will assume that that that's like her friend 1:29:53.160 --> 1:29:55.800 or how am I trying to say? Now, I'm actually 1:29:55.880 --> 1:29:57.519 trying to be very cautious because I don't want to 1:29:57.520 --> 1:29:59.600 piss anyone off. But I guess I'll just get to 1:29:59.640 --> 1:30:02.360 the doing you leika, or give us the meat Scooba 1:30:02.360 --> 1:30:05.840 me is. Basically my point is that Amy could look 1:30:05.920 --> 1:30:08.519 like her mother but had her at a very young age. 1:30:09.040 --> 1:30:12.840 And Amy looks young and the daughter looks younger, and 1:30:12.920 --> 1:30:14.360 so it could be like, oh, this is your daughter, 1:30:14.400 --> 1:30:15.800 but you had her when you were younger and you're 1:30:15.880 --> 1:30:20.400 now forty and she's twenty five. And because Kate looks 1:30:20.400 --> 1:30:22.400 like she could be twenty five and Amy, you know, 1:30:22.520 --> 1:30:24.120 could look like she's you know, mid thirties. 1:30:24.400 --> 1:30:24.519 You know. 1:30:24.840 --> 1:30:27.000 My other theory too is that they had her son 1:30:27.120 --> 1:30:29.080 with them. Stevenson was with them. 1:30:29.320 --> 1:30:33.920 Yeah, And sometimes people just see a group of people 1:30:34.200 --> 1:30:36.479 and if there's two kids, they're like, Okay, who looks the. 1:30:37.080 --> 1:30:39.559 Just the oldest of that group. Yeah, and they're like, oh, 1:30:39.600 --> 1:30:40.080 that's the mom. 1:30:40.160 --> 1:30:42.360 And they don't think twice about ages, they don't think 1:30:42.400 --> 1:30:45.600 twice about anything. It's just a generalization, yeah, that I 1:30:45.720 --> 1:30:49.519 feel might have happened, and it wasn't like because then, honestly, 1:30:49.600 --> 1:30:51.360 most of the time, like they were doing, they were 1:30:51.400 --> 1:30:54.120 running errands and sometimes you don't see like girls running 1:30:54.200 --> 1:30:56.760 errands together. My friends and I do, and like some 1:30:56.920 --> 1:30:59.880 people do, but it's just not maybe not as often 1:31:00.040 --> 1:31:02.439 for this guy that he sees that happen. Yeah, and 1:31:02.560 --> 1:31:04.120 so he was just like, ah, it's their mom and 1:31:04.120 --> 1:31:06.840 her kids totally yeah, and didn't even like look at them. 1:31:07.040 --> 1:31:09.400 It was just like generalization of people. 1:31:09.840 --> 1:31:11.120 Yes, if that makes sense, it does. 1:31:11.240 --> 1:31:11.400 Yeah. 1:31:11.400 --> 1:31:13.120 And we also live in the South where everyone you 1:31:13.200 --> 1:31:14.920 go to the you go to Walmart, and everyone's like, hey, 1:31:15.320 --> 1:31:17.120 how are you, and like I've never seen in my life, 1:31:17.280 --> 1:31:20.280 everyone's very outspoken and just talks and tries to make conversation, 1:31:20.720 --> 1:31:22.760 whereas like on the West Coast, people keep their heads 1:31:22.760 --> 1:31:24.439 on their phones or don't even look at people and 1:31:25.080 --> 1:31:27.600 go on her day. I ain't talking to her like that, 1:31:27.960 --> 1:31:30.160 my daughter, I don't know. I don't cares. Next, Yeah, 1:31:30.160 --> 1:31:32.280 and then Amy being hard on herself. She looks amazing. 1:31:32.520 --> 1:31:33.439 Oh, she looks awesome. 1:31:33.479 --> 1:31:34.800 My god, looks like. 1:31:35.439 --> 1:31:38.920 Yeah, if I look like her, I'd be like, I'm 1:31:39.000 --> 1:31:40.120 killing it exactly. 1:31:40.600 --> 1:31:42.240 Oh my god. For her to have any sort of 1:31:42.320 --> 1:31:45.479 doubt on what she looks like, it baffles me. I'm like, 1:31:45.479 --> 1:31:47.600 I don't get it. She looks amazing, not even just 1:31:47.680 --> 1:31:50.479 for age. She looks amazing. So it's like I wouldn't 1:31:50.920 --> 1:31:52.800 I'm just talking to the sky right now, But I don't. 1:31:52.920 --> 1:31:56.160 She shouldn't have any worry about anything, no appearance or whatever. 1:31:56.320 --> 1:31:59.559 It's just when people say something and yeah, especially if 1:31:59.560 --> 1:32:04.800 somebody says something that highlights and insecurity you already have. Yeah, yeah, 1:32:04.920 --> 1:32:05.519 is when it's bad. 1:32:05.840 --> 1:32:06.040 Yeah. 1:32:06.160 --> 1:32:08.080 If it's not an insecurity you already have, you can 1:32:08.120 --> 1:32:10.519 typically brush it off pretty good and be like whatever, 1:32:10.720 --> 1:32:12.599 I don't know who you are. But if it's something 1:32:12.640 --> 1:32:16.120 you're already insecure about yourself, and for a women's society 1:32:16.160 --> 1:32:18.599 has taught us to be insecure about getting older. Yeah, 1:32:19.640 --> 1:32:22.120 so that's probably something even if it's just in the 1:32:22.160 --> 1:32:23.240 back of your mind and then. 1:32:23.160 --> 1:32:24.880 It highlighted that triggered. 1:32:25.160 --> 1:32:27.040 Yeah, yeah, I feel so, I. 1:32:27.120 --> 1:32:29.120 Have a feeling that's what it is, which just makes 1:32:29.200 --> 1:32:29.559 you sad. 1:32:29.640 --> 1:32:33.000 But yeah, part of part of being a woman. 1:32:32.920 --> 1:32:35.240 Part of a woman, Yeah, exactly. It's very tough. Fortunately, 1:32:35.320 --> 1:32:36.680 Oh my god, you guys have it really tough. 1:32:37.439 --> 1:32:39.800 Thanks. We're going to end the podcast on that, you know, 1:32:40.040 --> 1:32:41.240 because that's a prazy one. 1:32:41.400 --> 1:32:44.000 You You guys have it tough. 1:32:44.240 --> 1:32:44.800 Thank you well. 1:32:44.840 --> 1:32:46.560 Scooba telling people where they can find you. 1:32:49.600 --> 1:32:52.680 Did your haird like you're a sixties woman from New York. 1:32:54.120 --> 1:32:56.400 I do that my trainer a lot he tells me 1:32:56.520 --> 1:33:01.240 did something like no, it's like a swat I find you. 1:33:01.280 --> 1:33:04.400 Can find me on Instagram and Twitter, And I say anything, 1:33:04.400 --> 1:33:07.439 do I have anything? I have a Vine account, it's 1:33:07.479 --> 1:33:09.280 fine even open still, like I still have it on 1:33:09.360 --> 1:33:12.240 my You are a mess, Like whatever happened to Vine? 1:33:12.240 --> 1:33:13.200 Like why did they get rid of Vine? 1:33:13.200 --> 1:33:14.120 And I got deleted? 1:33:14.280 --> 1:33:15.960 And then five years ago they brought up TikTok and 1:33:16.000 --> 1:33:17.920 it's the same damn thing. It's like, why would you 1:33:17.920 --> 1:33:19.719 get rid of Vine when it was better than TikTok? 1:33:20.280 --> 1:33:20.719 Was amazing? 1:33:20.920 --> 1:33:23.280 Love Vine was awesome. Vine is gone now so longer. Oh, 1:33:23.400 --> 1:33:24.960 here it is, It's Vine, but now I have to 1:33:24.960 --> 1:33:29.120 download it again and it's called Vine. Vine to point 1:33:29.200 --> 1:33:31.400 Vine camera, unable to install Vine camera. 1:33:31.760 --> 1:33:34.280 Oh, it's probably not real. It's probably like they forgot 1:33:34.320 --> 1:33:36.240 to like totally inactivate it because for a. 1:33:36.200 --> 1:33:38.200 While theer when I got rid of Vine, it was 1:33:38.240 --> 1:33:40.200 still an app for a minute, and then they took 1:33:40.280 --> 1:33:43.280 Vine and they turned into a camera feature thing. And 1:33:43.360 --> 1:33:44.880 I had a lot of followers on Vine, like I 1:33:45.000 --> 1:33:47.160 was killing it in Vine and I did really well, 1:33:47.200 --> 1:33:48.320 and go kill it on TikTok? 1:33:48.360 --> 1:33:49.000 What are you doing? Ell? 1:33:49.040 --> 1:33:50.040 And I ain't going on TikTok. 1:33:50.800 --> 1:33:54.360 TikTok is so my Instagram post? What on Instagram you're 1:33:54.439 --> 1:33:55.320 vine that you would have done? 1:33:55.640 --> 1:33:56.800 I know, well, they're all my they're all of my 1:33:56.880 --> 1:33:58.400 old phones. I gotta I have to take off and 1:33:58.439 --> 1:34:01.400 put on there. But that'd be Actually that's a great idea. 1:34:01.640 --> 1:34:03.840 You're welcome, thank you, But I'm not the digital director 1:34:03.880 --> 1:34:04.360 for a reason. 1:34:10.400 --> 1:34:12.439 Ohe means like when people take their TikTok about the Instagram, 1:34:12.479 --> 1:34:13.519 mus to do anything to put a vine on there, 1:34:13.920 --> 1:34:17.400 check on my MySpace videos on their idea. Well, okay, cool, 1:34:17.680 --> 1:34:19.599 all right, interesting you can. 1:34:19.560 --> 1:34:21.000 Find That's what I'm paid for. 1:34:21.640 --> 1:34:25.120 Sometimes that's how you make your salary. Sometimes you even 1:34:25.240 --> 1:34:27.760 I have a periscope account here. Does this para periscope 1:34:27.800 --> 1:34:28.240 still a thing? 1:34:28.760 --> 1:34:28.880 Uh? 1:34:28.960 --> 1:34:32.880 Yeah, No, it was for a really long time. 1:34:32.960 --> 1:34:35.320 And then I think, yeah, when all this stuff happened 1:34:35.360 --> 1:34:37.719 with Twitter, it got deleted and it was a Twitter 1:34:38.600 --> 1:34:39.559 associated brand. 1:34:39.680 --> 1:34:41.840 It was, Yeah, And I used to have iHeartRadio's periscope 1:34:41.880 --> 1:34:43.920 login for the whole company because we used to do 1:34:43.960 --> 1:34:45.240 it once a week. We used to do bits in 1:34:45.280 --> 1:34:48.200 San Francisco where they gave us like the platform because 1:34:48.240 --> 1:34:49.680 they saw what we were doing on our social and 1:34:49.720 --> 1:34:51.599 they're like, like, we want you guys to go live 1:34:51.680 --> 1:34:53.360 with your with your bits because we were doing like 1:34:53.400 --> 1:34:58.120 these crazy, like unbelievably real live things on our show 1:34:58.400 --> 1:35:00.439 and they're like, holy crap, the tracks we were getting. 1:35:00.439 --> 1:35:02.240 What's remember the guy's name that used to used to 1:35:02.320 --> 1:35:03.439 run it all? I don't know if he's still there 1:35:03.520 --> 1:35:05.000 or not. He was like, dude, can you can I 1:35:05.040 --> 1:35:06.519 give you access to that heart I Heart radio? Is 1:35:06.520 --> 1:35:08.000 that you want to give me access to the iHeart 1:35:08.120 --> 1:35:10.439 radio account? He's like, yeah, dude, I had to log 1:35:10.479 --> 1:35:12.080 in and everything. We used to log in once a 1:35:12.080 --> 1:35:14.200 week and do live periscopes from the studio or from 1:35:14.240 --> 1:35:16.360 where we were doing things on our show, but out 1:35:16.400 --> 1:35:18.519 out and about in the streets. But yeah, anyways, I 1:35:18.560 --> 1:35:19.320 have periscope still on. 1:35:19.439 --> 1:35:22.559 But okay, well periscope is not a thing that's going 1:35:22.600 --> 1:35:24.519 to put his vines on Instagram, so go follow him 1:35:24.560 --> 1:35:25.160 on Instagram. 1:35:25.280 --> 1:35:27.360 So all I have on here that functions and works 1:35:27.760 --> 1:35:30.760 is my Twitter and my Instagram, and you can find 1:35:30.840 --> 1:35:35.320 me at Scuba Steve Radio, s b A S TV 1:35:35.479 --> 1:35:36.080 or Radio. 1:35:36.560 --> 1:35:40.080 That Hurt My Brain. You can also follow this show 1:35:40.240 --> 1:35:42.680 at Bobby Bone Show. On all the things, and of 1:35:42.800 --> 1:35:45.000 course you can come hang out with me on all 1:35:45.040 --> 1:35:49.719 the things that scoobas Eve is definitely not on TikTok, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram. 1:35:50.600 --> 1:35:53.400 I'm trying to get into Lemonade. That's a new one, Lemonade, 1:35:53.760 --> 1:35:57.880 Lemon eight, lemon eight Pinterest. Oh I'm still on be 1:35:57.960 --> 1:35:59.679 real it would be real so thing or is that fading? 1:36:00.120 --> 1:36:00.880 No, it's still there. 1:36:01.200 --> 1:36:02.840 Okay, I just don't. I just forget to do it. 1:36:02.920 --> 1:36:03.840 Sometunds like it's fading. 1:36:03.880 --> 1:36:06.080 Then it's not fading. It's just I'm not There's so 1:36:06.200 --> 1:36:08.080 many things that I can't keep track of, especially on 1:36:08.120 --> 1:36:09.519 top of keeping track of the show stuff. 1:36:09.560 --> 1:36:11.439 So some of that that's why we need to dial 1:36:11.520 --> 1:36:13.439 down these damn apps and just have a top three 1:36:13.520 --> 1:36:14.280 and call to day. 1:36:14.840 --> 1:36:15.400 But I'm. 1:36:17.720 --> 1:36:19.640 All right everyone, Thanks for hanging all of us. Have 1:36:19.800 --> 1:36:20.479 a great weekend. 1:36:20.920 --> 1:36:24.080 Scuba Steve Radio, web girl Morgan. You can follow us 1:36:24.160 --> 1:36:27.160 and you can see more antics on mine hopefully on. 1:36:27.200 --> 1:36:29.720 Scubas too, and if he'll just post his vines, yeah 1:36:30.200 --> 1:36:30.640 that is off. 1:36:30.800 --> 1:36:33.800 Bye y'all. Show