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Speaker 1: It's the best Bits of the week with Morgan number two.

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Speaker 1: What's up everybody? Another weekend, which means another best bits

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Speaker 1: and my favorite part this is best Bits. Part one

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Speaker 1: was scoob see you the best best bits, best best

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Speaker 1: bets bits. I can't say that, no chance. Bobby was

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Speaker 1: trying to talk about me and Meghan. He was like, Organ, Megan, Meg,

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Speaker 1: these things going on? Yes, yeah, how are you scuba?

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Speaker 2: I'm busy but doing well.

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Speaker 1: It seems like a fair answer, Like it, well, we're

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Speaker 1: going to dive in because you are busy and we

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Speaker 1: got enough to talk about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we do.

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Speaker 3: Caine Brown is coming in at the number seven spot.

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Speaker 1: He talked to Bobby and cleared up some confusion about

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Speaker 1: that whole boot story that got thrown on stage and

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Speaker 1: crazy fun fact that happened in which time my parents

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Speaker 1: were at that show. Word about it before it ever

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Speaker 1: made TMZ awesome. And we used my mom's photo on

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Speaker 1: the blog because she had taken a picture of Kane

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Speaker 1: Brown's like, I got the inside scoop going on?

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Speaker 2: Did you give her the photo credit? Though?

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Speaker 1: No, Sorry, Mom, you're getting out. I don't think she

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Speaker 1: even knows I got you said it to me for fun. Okay, hey,

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Speaker 1: I can use that.

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Speaker 2: That's a great picture, Mom, thank.

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Speaker 1: You, Yeah, exactly. But we're not talking about Kane Brown.

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Speaker 1: We are going to talk about mysteries that may be

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Speaker 1: going on. And I'm going to tell you why we're

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Speaker 1: talking about this, so you can kind of think maybe

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Speaker 1: there's something that happened and you don't really have all

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Speaker 1: the answers. Okay, I got sent an Amazon package. It

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Speaker 1: showed up on my front porch, very excited about it.

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Speaker 1: I love when I get a package. I'm about to

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Speaker 1: like open it up, rip it open, so excited. Oh

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Speaker 1: there was blood on the package.

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Speaker 2: Well I saw that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, So I posted that and several people

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Speaker 1: wrote me back and were like, if it's blood, pour

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Speaker 1: hydrogen peroxide on an in, it will bubble.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: If it's not, it's like ketchup or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I poured hydrogen peroxide on it and da.

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Speaker 2: Da da it bubbled.

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Speaker 1: Definitely blood. So either my Amazon driver really went through

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Speaker 1: it to deliver me that package, or there is some

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Speaker 1: unsolved mystery out there in the world that my package

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Speaker 1: may have had something.

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Speaker 2: To do with yeah that, or it is like rend

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Speaker 2: me one of those dogs that like is like the

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Speaker 2: Quintessential meets the mailman out front bites him in the butt. No,

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Speaker 2: I didn't think so.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like that's your package mom, definitely coming from

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Speaker 1: the whoever. My delivery driver.

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Speaker 2: Was okay, okay, so that's really weird.

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Speaker 3: And I just threw away. I was like, I don't

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Speaker 3: want to be involved.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to know. Yeah, but you did what happened.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna throw this way and pretend like it

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Speaker 1: din't it. Yeah, but now it's going to forever be

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Speaker 1: an unsolved mystery.

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Speaker 2: That is definitely an unsolved mystery too, do doom boom doom?

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Speaker 1: Well, so that's why, that's why the table anything in

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Speaker 1: your life that's kind of like an unsolved.

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Speaker 2: Mystery, unsolved mystery. Yes, so this is kind of weird

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Speaker 2: and dark and we'll see where this goes.

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Speaker 1: I love when you say that to me.

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Speaker 2: I just popped on my head and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I don't really have it. Oh, I do have one.

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Speaker 2: I've always got one, right, So this was a really

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Speaker 2: long time ago, back when AOL And if we already

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Speaker 2: talked about this, you can stop me. I'll think of

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Speaker 2: another one. But back when AOL was a thing, and

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Speaker 2: all your conversations in a chat room or somewhere always

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Speaker 2: started with ASL and pick question mark. I don't know

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Speaker 1: Okay, the AOL isn't, but the ASL pick thing right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't feel familiar with A is.

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Speaker 2: Age, s is sex, L is location, and pick was

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Speaker 2: send me a pick, so age sex location pick Almost

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Speaker 2: every started almost every chat room. You walked into a

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Speaker 2: get this separate chat that pop up boo, and next

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Speaker 2: you know you're chatting away with whoever this is, which

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Speaker 2: you usually think it was a girl or a guy,

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Speaker 1: Your hope it is who they said they were.

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Speaker 2: You were hoping it was this hot sixteen year old

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Speaker 2: was probably some fifty year old man in his basement

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Speaker 2: male Florida and send like a pick of someone else

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Speaker 2: would you'd find on Google or what it was google?

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Speaker 2: Back then it was like Netscape or some crap. But

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Speaker 2: I fell into this thing, and then I was talking

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Speaker 2: to this girl for a really long time, like months

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Speaker 2: and months and months and months which felt like years,

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Speaker 2: and the conversation was all about all these things.

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Speaker 1: And then oh so you were like really vibing.

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Speaker 2: I was vibing with his girl, and she was send

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Speaker 1: But again also different varieties of pictures, scoob.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing. So the varieties I was getting usually

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Speaker 2: was clothed photos. And then it pivoted into naked shots

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: And at eleven years old, you're like, WHOA, awesome, But

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Speaker 2: because what fifteen year old girl has naked pictures of herself?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And multiple girls in a picture of themselves younger naked children.

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Speaker 2: You're thinking like, oh, my god, was I talking to

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Speaker 2: like a pedo?

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Speaker 3: And you never found out. You never found out who

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Speaker 2: I never found out. And this girl Willy talk to

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Speaker 2: like telling me all these things I'm given. I'm eleven

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Speaker 1: It was also eleven, I was.

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Speaker 2: Eleven, but you would see you were exposed the Internet

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Speaker 2: the unsolved mystery is because then she was soon to

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Speaker 2: I was trying to save myself for you, and something

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Speaker 2: I'm like, which is really weird, and I was, But

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Speaker 2: then at eleven, you're just kind of playing into it

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Speaker 2: and it's cool and like every I couldn't wait to

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Speaker 2: get to my dad's house to log onto America Online

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Speaker 2: and talk to this girl and see what happened or

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Speaker 2: what was what she was doing, or what naked pictures

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Speaker 2: going to send me this weekend, which, mind you, my

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Speaker 2: parents are divorced, so this WI never had my mom's house,

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Speaker 2: she wouldn't allow it. My dad's house, it was like

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Speaker 2: free for all. He didn't give a crap. He was

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Speaker 2: and it was this unsolved mystery.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is absolutely a dude in a basement.

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Speaker 2: Oh for so much.

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Speaker 1: Backstory and so much to that, which is even creepier

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Speaker 1: considering he had those photos.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but like.

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Speaker 3: Just there's too much.

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Speaker 1: Yes, like sixteen, I'm a sixteen year old girl. We

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like.

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Speaker 3: Guys like we don't have a lot to say.

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Speaker 1: And which makes me think it would be either somebody

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Speaker 2: That's exact because even when I would talk to girls

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Speaker 2: there was a conversation. It was never that avenue of conversation.

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Speaker 2: It was about other things, but they would talk. But yes,

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Speaker 2: times they'd be like you go away if it was

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Speaker 2: now you're looking back at it in retrospect, you're like,

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Speaker 2: I was effing weird.

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Speaker 1: Uh Yeah, And especially an older girl talking to a

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Speaker 1: younger boy. Yeah, because she's like sixteen seventeen very often.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, Yeah, yeah, exactly. So really weird the unsolved mystery.

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Speaker 2: And I don't think I ever want to know the

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Speaker 2: answer of that mystery.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think you're ever going to answer.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I really ever get the answer.

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Speaker 3: If I'm placing a bet, it's definitely a man in

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Speaker 3: his basement.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm placing that bet. And I think those

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Speaker 2: the better odds.

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Speaker 1: Dang. Yeah, really, yours is forever. Mine's forever because I

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Speaker 1: threw away the evidence. So we have too genuinely unsolve mysteries.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, totally. And I don't i'd like to know

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Speaker 2: the answer to yours mine. I don't ever want to

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Speaker 2: know because it's just way too weird, creepy and dark

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Speaker 2: and disgusting. But yours, I want to know what the

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Speaker 2: hell happened, Like, how did the blood get on there?

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Speaker 2: What was the steps? Maybe it wasn't even the driver,

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Speaker 2: was what happened between Amazon? Maybe it was a guy

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Speaker 2: at Amazon who's putting together the packages and slice his

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Speaker 2: finger on a machine, and it was this whole thing,

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Speaker 2: and that Amazon's trying to cover it up with.

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Speaker 1: A message to me, were they like in danger and

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Speaker 1: they need the package and.

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Speaker 2: You're supposed to check the DNA and swipe it. Who

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Speaker 2: it was?

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Speaker 1: I never know.

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Speaker 2: There's some sort of like indentured servant in Amazon and

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Speaker 2: Seattle and they're they're like paying twelve real kids and

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Speaker 2: it's a whole illegal operation and they were hoping you'd

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Speaker 2: be the one to break the case.

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Speaker 1: Well, now I feel bad I threw it away. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean fair, But yeah, you would think that McDonald's

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Speaker 2: Well, the problem is love these are owned by It's

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Speaker 2: And Plus, if anyone's closing it down and cleaning out,

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Speaker 2: they're doing something right. They're cleaning it and putting it away.

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Speaker 2: There's no one patrolling them at that time at nine pm.

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Speaker 1: Yes, definitely broken.

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Speaker 3: Money on the table, my guys, it is.

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Speaker 2: But McDonald's makes enough money they're not worried about. That's

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Speaker 2: which is great, but they're doing it way too soon

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Speaker 1: We got your two things, and we got a fixed

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Speaker 2: Yes, and if you for a hack, if you want

439
00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,440
Speaker 2: fresh French fries, tell me you want no salt, because

440
00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:22,760
Speaker 2: that means they have to put them. They're like, ah

441
00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,439
Speaker 2: crap because they because as soon as they make and

442
00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:25,760
Speaker 2: they put them in the in the they take it

443
00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:27,560
Speaker 2: from the vat, they put them in the thing where

444
00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:30,440
Speaker 2: the fries live, and they immediately salt them. So we say,

445
00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:31,399
Speaker 2: you want no salt.

446
00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:33,520
Speaker 1: The salt is what maze is so delicious.

447
00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:35,040
Speaker 2: You can get the salt and put it on yourself.

448
00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,040
Speaker 2: It's the same salt that they give in the packets.

449
00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,679
Speaker 1: You know, you're probably right, but listen, they become.

450
00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:44,080
Speaker 2: All salty, so good, you do yourself that way you get.

451
00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:46,840
Speaker 2: But what's better fresh French fries that you added salt to,

452
00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:48,920
Speaker 2: or soggy gross fries they added salt to. That's out

453
00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:49,879
Speaker 2: there for fifteen minutes, you know.

454
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Speaker 1: I like the mischief, like the little mystery of when

455
00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:54,400
Speaker 1: I order, am I going to get soggy fries?

456
00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:54,600
Speaker 2: Sare?

457
00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:58,520
Speaker 1: Am I get it hot and salty.

458
00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,440
Speaker 2: I don't like playing that game.

459
00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:02,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, we gonna get today.

460
00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,000
Speaker 2: It's a terrible game because the loser is always going

461
00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:06,320
Speaker 2: to be you. It's not damn.

462
00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,400
Speaker 1: I do love a squishy fries sometimes, so you really

463
00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:13,240
Speaker 1: like a squishy fry? Yeah? Sometimes, Oh my gosh, they

464
00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:14,919
Speaker 1: got a lot of salt on them. Don't ask me.

465
00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,320
Speaker 1: I just love fries. I don't discriminate against a fry.

466
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Speaker 2: Okay.

467
00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:20,040
Speaker 1: I even take on fries and I bring them home

468
00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:21,439
Speaker 1: and I heat them up because I love fries.

469
00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:23,000
Speaker 2: You heat themember the microwave, or you put them in

470
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Speaker 2: the oven.

471
00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:24,560
Speaker 1: The microwave microwave.

472
00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,920
Speaker 2: Ooh, it doesn't taste the same for me. It's all rubbery.

473
00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:28,719
Speaker 1: They do a little bit, but then you just if

474
00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:30,359
Speaker 1: you let them like heat up and cool down for

475
00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,359
Speaker 1: a second, then they kind of go back to middle ground. Okay,

476
00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,480
Speaker 1: but I've always been weird for taking my fries home.

477
00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:36,760
Speaker 1: I love fries.

478
00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:40,879
Speaker 2: Crazy.

479
00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:42,600
Speaker 1: I have always said that I am a potato.

480
00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:47,639
Speaker 2: Your innerds are all of a what do they call

481
00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,040
Speaker 2: those gords? Is that a gordon? It's a potato.

482
00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,399
Speaker 1: A potato starches starches.

483
00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:54,800
Speaker 2: That's what starts starches.

484
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Speaker 1: All right, well those are some good ones. But quick

485
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Speaker 1: before we headed to this break, I need to know

486
00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna end on a high note, not a low note.

487
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:04,359
Speaker 2: Okay, high note. Let's do it.

488
00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:06,840
Speaker 1: What's your favorite thing in your pantry right now that

489
00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:08,040
Speaker 1: you're eating that you really love?

490
00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:10,440
Speaker 2: Oh man, I love these things that I get from publics.

491
00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:14,800
Speaker 2: They are these plain rice cakes and the no salt

492
00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,400
Speaker 2: like they have ones where they have like light saw

493
00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,760
Speaker 2: and they got the chatter ones. We buy all those two.

494
00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,600
Speaker 2: But I just love these like really boring ass plain

495
00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,560
Speaker 2: circular disc rice cakes that they're made by the publics

496
00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:28,080
Speaker 2: or that oatmeal guy, that guy with like the hat

497
00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:32,919
Speaker 2: and guy quicker guy. Yeah yeah, yeah, I love those

498
00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:35,800
Speaker 2: by themselves plane And then my son loves them now too.

499
00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,439
Speaker 2: Weaed him together on the way to baseball practice.

500
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Speaker 3: Those are like your version of chips.

501
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly chips. Yeah, yeah. It has nothing to do

502
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Speaker 2: with health. It's just something that I just really like, yeah,

503
00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,200
Speaker 2: conscious about health? Yeah yeah, yeah.

504
00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:46,040
Speaker 1: What's your favorite thing?

505
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:47,320
Speaker 2: That's everything in the pantry?

506
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Speaker 1: Is that?

507
00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,440
Speaker 2: By far? That am my sweet and sour sauce from

508
00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:52,919
Speaker 2: a sweet chili sauce from nine nine Ranch I get

509
00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:54,040
Speaker 2: shipped in from San Francisco.

510
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Speaker 1: I feel like you can put that on the rice cake.

511
00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:57,920
Speaker 2: You probably could. I haven't tried that, but now I will.

512
00:19:58,160 --> 00:19:58,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

513
00:19:58,359 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 3: I feel like that would mix ball together.

514
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a great combination.

515
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,159
Speaker 3: You can't see him right now, but I just lit up.

516
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, with my twitching red eye and eyes lit up.

517
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,439
Speaker 1: That's great, I see. And this is something you can

518
00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:11,359
Speaker 1: also put on your rice cakes. I'm obsessed with it.

519
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 1: My niece and nephew came to town and I had

520
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 1: to get them snacks because they have to be gluten free.

521
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,560
Speaker 1: And there's this peanut butter chocolate spread okay, and it's

522
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,919
Speaker 1: peanuts blended with cocoa and I eat it with like

523
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:26,399
Speaker 1: pretzels and it tastes amazing. It's like peanut butter, but chocolate,

524
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:26,880
Speaker 1: peanut butter.

525
00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 2: Who makes it? What is it?

526
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:29,119
Speaker 3: It's from peanut butter and co.

527
00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:33,119
Speaker 1: Okay, peanut butter and delicious or something. And I'm telling you,

528
00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,160
Speaker 1: like I used to just eat like apples and peanut

529
00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,879
Speaker 1: butter or whatever, pretzels and peanut butter. And this is

530
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,000
Speaker 1: like a little bit healthier form of nutella.

531
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Speaker 2: That's awesome.

532
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it was peanut butter. I found it out Walmart, Okay, Walmart, Yeah,

533
00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:49,800
Speaker 1: oh okay, like buy all the little peanut butter and.

534
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:51,840
Speaker 2: Jelly are okay, yeah.

535
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:55,240
Speaker 1: So peanuts and cocoa, okay, And it's delicious.

536
00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,399
Speaker 2: It's a delicious peanut delicious even know it says the

537
00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 2: vegeta's already in fifty five.

538
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Speaker 3: Oh, we gotta go have a little lunch break. Then

539
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:02,120
Speaker 3: we'll be back.

540
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,680
Speaker 1: Well, you guys have heard our one of our show's

541
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:10,400
Speaker 1: theme songs that was written by a guy named Canine

542
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 1: in Florida. He wrote it just because he wanted to

543
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 1: and send it to us and said we could use

544
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 1: it for the post show. While he finally stopped by

545
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 1: the studio in person to sing the theme song live.

546
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Speaker 3: That happened on the show this week.

547
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 1: But we're not talking Canine, because that's happening on the

548
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 1: bits right here. Scoopa and I are going to talk

549
00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 1: about a concert that him and I both just went

550
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:30,120
Speaker 1: to that was epic.

551
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 2: Which one was that? Luke come, oh yeah.

552
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, You're like, oh dang, I've been to so many concerts.

553
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 1: I was it.

554
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 3: It was Luke Holmb's at Nissan Stadium.

555
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And I want to know your thoughts, like,

556
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: what was your favorite part of it?

557
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 2: Well, I like the fact that it was bringing your

558
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 2: parent to a show day because Kevin, who works in

559
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,840
Speaker 2: the show behind the scenes and those twenty five whistles,

560
00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,199
Speaker 2: he brought his dad, and Abby shows up a few

561
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 2: minutes later with her mom, and then Broke, who works

562
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,400
Speaker 2: here in the building for the Big ninety eight, brought

563
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Speaker 2: her mom, and then another guy who works as one

564
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,679
Speaker 2: of our affiliates in San Francisco. He kind of flipped

565
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 2: it and he brought his son. So it was like

566
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 2: a family affair at the show. It was it was

567
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 2: really cool.

568
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 1: You had your wife that a family affair.

569
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Speaker 2: Family a fair who was a mother.

570
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 1: But then there was me with my best friend and.

571
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 2: There's Morgan being Morgan. I also hope you to bring

572
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 2: your mom or your dad or somebody.

573
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been trying to get him come down for

574
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 1: a concert, but always come down for CMA Fest and

575
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 1: that's like five thousand concerts in one exactly.

576
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: And it's coming up in like a few months anyways. Yeah,

577
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:28,920
Speaker 2: less than a few months. A couple of months.

578
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, very soon.

579
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

580
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 1: So your favorite part of Luke Hoombs is not Luke

581
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Speaker 1: Hombs what it was family Day.

582
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Speaker 2: It was. It was really it actually was really cool

583
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,919
Speaker 2: because then you got to meet everyone's parents or whatever

584
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 2: they brought with him. And Kevin's dad is a riot

585
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 2: because it was really weird too because Kevin's from Socoo

586
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 2: and that's how we bonded from living in La and

587
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 2: I lived in La. But his dad comes in, He's

588
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 2: all like, what are you doing? He's all like super

589
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 2: upper h northeast sounding, and I was like, what the hell?

590
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 2: And then I was like, how does soca? And of

591
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 2: course obviously people weren't you know he moved duh, I

592
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,959
Speaker 2: mean just because they sounds like a way as I mean,

593
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 2: that's anyways, so he moved to the West Coast. That's

594
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 2: where you met Kevin's mother, and I'll I'll let him

595
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 2: tell you the story one day.

596
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: But this kid was like telling Kevin's a life story.

597
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 1: Kick off. Kevin, by the way, know him.

598
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:14,920
Speaker 2: But it was cool to talk to him and we Bondedever,

599
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 2: he always coached Kevin's sports teams, and I'm now coaching

600
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 2: my son's t ball team, so it's kind of cool

601
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 2: to talk to him and get some pointers and tips

602
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 2: and things like that. And so I kind of enjoyed

603
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 2: more hanging out with the parents of the of the staff.

604
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 2: I mean, the show was great.

605
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Speaker 1: I feel offended because I didn't have a parent there,

606
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:36,199
Speaker 1: and I am most of the staff, so I go

607
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 1: offended doubly.

608
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 2: I have fun with you for Li Becaus, and you

609
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,200
Speaker 2: helped me and you gave me a gymnastics tip for

610
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 2: my daughter. I did.

611
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: We didn't need a chance to hang out much. But

612
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: I did hang out with your wife. I always hang

613
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 1: out with her for a little bit every time I

614
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Speaker 1: see her.

615
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 2: We bond at Chris Jansen's house, you guys hung out.

616
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: We bonded over our love of sweets, sneaking over to

617
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Speaker 1: the dessert table.

618
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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's I gotta go around. I'm gonna hang out Morgan.

619
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, cool, whatever, I'll hang out with

620
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 2: Kevin and Pitts. But yeah, it was fun. I think

621
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Speaker 2: that that was I mean, the concert was great, it really,

622
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 2: I mean a Nissan Stadium was electric. People were hella

623
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 2: drunk at like four pm before the show even started.

624
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 2: There's a woman who fell on the ground a guy

625
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 2: who was already screaming obscenities, and I was like, the

626
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 2: sun is so up. This thing hasn't even started yet,

627
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 2: and y'all are already twisted.

628
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: Oh Scuba. That was so. I didn't see it at

629
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Speaker 1: Luke Colmbs, but I went to Lady A the night before. Again,

630
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: it was at the Ryman so much nicer, a little

631
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 1: bit you don't expect as rough as an intense crowd there. Yeah, no,

632
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 1: a dude punched another guy. That dude was bleeding from

633
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: his face and he was about to get pushed over

634
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 1: the balcony at Lady A Lady at the Ryman.

635
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Speaker 2: Their music gets played on like Hot a Sea stations

636
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 2: from the eighties, nineties and.

637
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Speaker 1: Today to see his country shows of all time, and

638
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 1: there's a full on fist by happening in the balcony.

639
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 2: That is so odd. I have a question about Lady A.

640
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 2: Were they on time or were they super late?

641
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: Like always what they're always late?

642
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I went to a concert one time

643
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 2: down in Franklin and it was like a couple acts

644
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 2: Nico Moon and a couple Dollers that came on and

645
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: then there was like this like thirty minute there's always

646
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 2: an intermission between Jack they guy switch things out or whatever.

647
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 2: It was supposed to be twenty five thirty minutes. Forty

648
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 2: five minutes goes by, an hour goes by, and they're

649
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 2: still not on, and now it's like nine thirty and

650
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, I got kids at home, and then we're

651
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 2: allway down to Franklin, so we ended up leaving. I've

652
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 2: never seen Lady A live because the two times I've went,

653
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 2: it ended up being an hour plus wait for them

654
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 2: to come on, and I'm like, what the last time

655
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 2: this happened to me was Lady Gaga.

656
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 1: But I was like, I wonder if something happened, because

657
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 1: you know, they went on right, like literally right on time.

658
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Speaker 2: Oh because Kevin said they went on late, like they

659
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:31,239
Speaker 2: were like super late.

660
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 1: Well then left early because he didn't even stay to

661
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: get to the part of them getting on stafe.

662
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 2: Okay, so he left for different reasons.

663
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, because he also saw another fight happen and

664
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: he was like, we're just gonna leave. I was like, okay, whatever,

665
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: because I showed up right after the opener and it

666
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: was like right at that intermission time, and I had

667
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: the times of when everybody was supposed to go on

668
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 1: from the label.

669
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 3: They went all right on time.

670
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, yeah yeah. So that so that seemed like, oh,

671
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 2: must be a reoccurring thing where they're always making everyone wait,

672
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,199
Speaker 2: Like this is sort of like anticipation type thing. They

673
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 2: do this on purpose to make it.

674
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: Now I wonder if something that happened back then or

675
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: there's something going on with touring. But yeah, no, this

676
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,959
Speaker 1: time they were right on time, and it was one

677
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: of the coolest tours that I've seen. Because the way

678
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:12,120
Speaker 1: they did it.

679
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to see their set. I know they're amazing.

680
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 2: I've just never seen it except for our studio. But

681
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 2: that's not like the same.

682
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 1: No, it's experience yea. And this the idea behind the

683
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 1: like the request line was really cool. Like what they

684
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: did was play the voicemails over the speaker and then

685
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: they'd be like, Okay, who's Kara that called in? Yeah,

686
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: and they talked to them. They're like, the song is

687
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: for you. It was this very intimate setting and they

688
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: had so many songs and I knew every single one.

689
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: I was like, this was unexpected for me to love it.

690
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: I knew I was gonna like it. I knew there

691
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: were vocals were going to be awesome. Yeah, but it

692
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: was unexpected for me to love it as much as

693
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:46,880
Speaker 1: I did.

694
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 2: Did did they play Bobby's voicemails or No?

695
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 1: They didn't. It did not happen. I was waiting. I

696
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 1: even have my phone ready to like take a bite,

697
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 1: And because they kept playing them, noe and I stayed

698
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 1: the whole time. I stayed through the encore. No, but

699
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: they did play them and they posted a video with it.

700
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 3: I saw that.

701
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, no, they didn't do it during the show.

702
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 3: They could have done it during the second night at Nashville.

703
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 2: Okay, they had two nights.

704
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 1: Okay, they did, but at the night that I was there, didn't.

705
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: They didn't do it. Okay, that's cool. I know a

706
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: lot of their songs too, just because I've worked in

707
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,679
Speaker 2: other genres of music and they're one of those bands

708
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 2: that has crossed over into like top forty pop, the

709
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 2: hot AC space, So I know all their songs just

710
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,439
Speaker 2: because of that, and then coming here like they're one

711
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 2: of the only bands that comes through, I'm like, oh,

712
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,439
Speaker 2: I know you prior to my country career, Like, this

713
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: is really cool. Oh my god, your lady a. You know,

714
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 2: we've played your songs so many times it is incredible.

715
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: Well, I highly suggest now going to see them, especially

716
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: with like if the request Line tour comes. It's just

717
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 1: such a cool idea and different type of tour than

718
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: I've ever seen before.

719
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 2: Okay cool, And they're just really good. They're really good

720
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 2: performing Oh.

721
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 1: My god, just vocals and Charles got a standing innovation

722
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 1: for his sobriety.

723
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 2: Song Oh so he performed that one he did by.

724
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 1: Himself, him and Dave Ron stage with one of their

725
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: other guitar players, and then they had they had like

726
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: a whole book and they're like, this is seventeen years

727
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: of songs that we've done, damn. And you're just like,

728
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 1: holy crap. And when they go through like all these

729
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: different requests and these are like album cuts and you

730
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: know them all and you just don't realize that you

731
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: know so many of them. So it was really good.

732
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: Like I loved Luke Colmbs and it was rowdy, it

733
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 1: was a great time, like in that weekend, like Lady

734
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:24,360
Speaker 1: A crushed it.

735
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, and then the Ryman's a cool venue for

736
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 2: like that kind of performance.

737
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: Besides the fighting as a w W.

738
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 2: Knight, and that's something that'd be a Nissan stadium. That

739
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: makes more sense obviously if Lanny Wilson performing. And that

740
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 2: was the other good Blannie Wilson's great. Briley Green's pretty cool.

741
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: There's a moment there that kind of was like, Okay,

742
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 2: definitely in the country world, I want to get into that.

743
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, okay, people, there was a moment.

744
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 2: There was a moment it was like I was like,

745
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 2: shut the hell up.

746
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: I am obsessed with Lannie Wilson, though, I'm just obsessed her.

747
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 2: When she came in there for the first time, like

748
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 2: two or three years ago, I got this immediate feeling

749
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 2: the energy that she exudes, the way she carries herself,

750
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: the way she speaks, the way she performs, the way

751
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: she answers sayings. I was like, Oh my god, this

752
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 2: is the next generation of like a Dolly or Ariba

753
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: or somebody of that elk for this next generation just

754
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 2: everything about her. I was like, Wow, this chick is legit.

755
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, like really awesome. That way when we were in

756
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: the like the press room that we had access to

757
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: about that show, and she came in, she saw me

758
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: right away and she gave me a big hut. She's like,

759
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 1: how are you like immediately, and I was just like,

760
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I know that we've her and I have

761
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: had a few moments outside of the show and stuff

762
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: that we've interacted, so we're acquaintances more than we're like

763
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: know each other because of work, you know what I mean.

764
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: Like there's all the levels, but I just adore her,

765
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: like I've just never had a bad interaction with her.

766
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 3: And she's incredibly talented.

767
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 2: She is, yeah, and a great singer.

768
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: I'm just awesome yeah, so we both we both love

769
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: Lanne will.

770
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 2: See Yeah, a hundre percent. We have a huge fan.

771
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: That would probably be my highlight of Luke Comb's like

772
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: I love Luke Combs and I sang my I sang

773
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: my winning song. My friend got a video of me

774
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: like rocking out to my wedding. Yeah, never broke my heart,

775
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: not that it plays all that often. Yeah, still my

776
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: winning song. Yeah, but I did that was like the

777
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: those two were the fun moments. But I did have

778
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: a bad experience at.

779
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: Lucom Okay, what was your bad experience?

780
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: So we were on the pedestrian bridge afterwards, which is

781
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: like a whole experience. Have you ever come to Nashville

782
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: go before?

783
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you guys need to.

784
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: It's like it's something to experience and you'll do it

785
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: once you'll be like, cool, I experienced it.

786
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 2: I'm good, I've seen it. So it's basically a bridge

787
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 2: that connects you from like downtown Nashville over to Nissan Stadium.

788
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 2: It's that's what the purpose of it is, right.

789
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,479
Speaker 1: Yep, and everybody before it's really after either a concert

790
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 1: or a game, and everybody, especially after like a really

791
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: cool moment, like a Hookcomb's concert. Everybody's walking over. Sometimes

792
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: people start singing songs. It's like this whole kind of

793
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 1: fan moment that happens. Yeah, well, everybody's like high on life.

794
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: And I asked my friend to take a picture for me.

795
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: We didn't take any on the way over. And as

796
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm taking a picture, a guy walked by and blew

797
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: smoke in my face. He was smoking a cigarette, blue

798
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: smoke in my face and laughed.

799
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 2: Yes, it wasn't like I did it likely, I'm so sorry.

800
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 2: It was like an unintentional face to me.

801
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: Did it and laughed and then walked away as he

802
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: was laughing.

803
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: And it was a cigarette smoke. Yeah, so it definitely

804
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 2: smelled awful. Then it wasn't. It was like he was

805
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 2: trying to get you high or anything like or No,

806
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 2: there was nothing good about this experience anyway. And you

807
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 2: get the mixture of his like probably beer breath and

808
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: all the gross things he ate all day long.

809
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: I was like so appalled, like I didn't have words

810
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 1: because I just didn't know what happened.

811
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 2: To be I'm disrespectful and disgusting.

812
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, listen, if you won't give me a

813
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: hard time for taking photos cool, whatever, it is what

814
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: it is, But smoke in my face? Yeah? Is that

815
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: really necessary? Yeah? On what level did you believe this

816
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: is a good idea?

817
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 2: Was he with a group of people by himself, He's

818
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: with a woman? Wow? And what was her reaction? Like,

819
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 2: stop that, Darren.

820
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if she was like on something too

821
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: and they're okay, you know, Yeah, she was a giggling

822
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 1: but she was kind of like like awkward.

823
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: Laugh o, kind of like I can if you did that.

824
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: And if I say, something's gonna hit me, that's the

825
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 2: kind of guy that would hit that energy.

826
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

827
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I better not better not say anthing against him,

828
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 2: or I'm gonna be getting beat on the way home.

829
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 2: Gross Haffle, what an awful human being. So start off

830
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: on a high, yeah, and then in a pretty damn low.

831
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just is still walking, you know. Thankfully I

832
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: still don't have my smell, so I really got whiffs

833
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: of the cigarette smoke, but it was just like it

834
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: was all in my face and nothing sucks worse than

835
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: secondhand smoke.

836
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, second smoke is my grandpa used

837
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 2: to drive us to school like in the nineties. This

838
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 2: is like when things just you did, and there were

839
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,959
Speaker 2: any rules, And my grandpa would drive us to school

840
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 2: in the morning. He smoked cigarettes up until a certain

841
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 2: point when he had like a trimble bypass and he

842
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 2: then of course quit. But when we were kids, he'd

843
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 2: drive us to school and he would drive in his

844
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 2: old Buick and be smoking cigarettes in the way to school.

845
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 2: And then he would almost like hot box the car,

846
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 2: you know, like a hot boxes. Yeah, the windows are

847
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 2: rolled up, but they was just cracked like a sliver,

848
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:05,959
Speaker 2: only his window. So he's in the car driving smoking

849
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 2: a cigarette, cracked window. And then we were always like upset,

850
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 2: but we could never talk back because he was the

851
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: old school generation. He just kind of just sat there

852
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 2: and sucked it up. But then one day I remember

853
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 2: my teacher because like she she was like, you guys

854
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 2: smell like like smoke, is everything okay? And I told

855
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 2: the story of my grandpa smoked cigarettes in the car,

856
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 2: and I think she then called my mom and was like,

857
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 2: what's going on here? Because then the next day or

858
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: a couple of whatever had happened for like months, maybe

859
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: a year, and I finally someone called us out and

860
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 2: my mom. We were in the car one day and

861
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 2: then my Grandpa's driving, and he goes, oh, sorry, I

862
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 2: guess I got to crack the window a little bit

863
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 2: more because then I'll get in trouble for da da

864
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 2: da da dada. Like he went on this whole ran

865
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 2: a little bit more. Yeah, and then so he cracked

866
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 2: he went, and then he cracked it just a little

867
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 2: bit more, and then he goes, oh, let me do

868
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 2: your window to Steven. And he thought I like ratting

869
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: him out or something, and I was I didn't, And

870
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 2: I was like, I didn't say anything. He's like, shut

871
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 2: your mouth.

872
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: What a horribly awful story. Yeah.

873
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,120
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, good lord.

874
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's terrible. Well, I mean, I'm glad

875
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: you don't have that experience anymore. And I'm glad a teacher.

876
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: Why can't say that word advocated for you?

877
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 2: Yes, thank you so much, missus Kapelka I think her

878
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 2: name was. You're great.

879
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, shout out to you.

880
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,280
Speaker 2: You saved my life and probably probably instead of shaving

881
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 2: off ten years, you probably saved me ten years not

882
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 2: breathing in that smoke anymore, beautifully.

883
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. So people, just you know, if you decide to

884
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: do that, please don't do it in other people's vicinity.

885
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really I still baffled by that.

886
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a conversation for another day. That that should

887
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: just stop entirely, But yeah we are.

888
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 2: Then I have a question for you, because you like

889
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 2: country music a lot. Lucom's song, I'd never hear the

890
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 2: music and it's I'm usually busy and not really paying

891
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 2: attention to lyrics. The song one call away? Is that

892
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 2: a song about like one number?

893
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: One?

894
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 2: One number?

895
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: Way?

896
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 2: Is it something about Is that like a like because

897
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 2: he writes a lot of his music, right.

898
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: Yes he does.

899
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 2: Is that like an infidelity song?

900
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 1: No? So, and I gotta remember make it seem like.

901
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 2: I guess I'm only one call away from calling my

902
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 2: side check?

903
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,320
Speaker 1: No so, really, what it's It's more like a breakup song. Okay, So,

904
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 1: like the lyrics go, I'm one number away from calling you.

905
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: I said I was through, but I'm dying inside. Got

906
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: my head in a mess, girl, I confess I lied

907
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 1: what I said. I'm leaving and I'm not coming back.

908
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: So it's like he broke up with somebody and he's

909
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: really dying through the breakup and like wants to go

910
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: back to her, but like doesn't think he can okay, kind.

911
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 2: Of scenario because I was just thinking of someone maybe,

912
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 2: so maybe there was a breakup in his relationship with

913
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 2: his girl or a previous girl. I read into it

914
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,800
Speaker 2: as like, I'm only one call away from calling this

915
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: other girl back because he's in a relationship. And I

916
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 2: only got he's in a relationship with somebody, but he's

917
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 2: almost one caller from calling somebody else back.

918
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 1: Isn't that funny though? How you can interpret the songs? Yeah, differently?

919
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: Is Luke I's cheating on his wife or did cheat

920
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 2: on his wife or fiance girlfriend that at the.

921
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: Time, so one number way. I can't remember if it

922
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: came out before they had started dating, okay, or ride

923
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: about when they started dating. I can't remember, but it

924
00:35:58,680 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: was one of the first few songs of his career,

925
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: so I'm not sure at the timeline of their relationship

926
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: how that lines up.

927
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 3: Okay, but yeah, it's definitely a breakup song or sure.

928
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 2: I feel better about that now because then I was

929
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 2: watching the promos of like their their a Gear of

930
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 2: like Lucombe slash Nicole or whatever, and she did not

931
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 2: look happy in those in those promo shots, she looked

932
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 2: pretty pissed. I was like, Wow, that mostly something going

933
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 2: on here.

934
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 1: I'm reading into a lot kind of been her modeling face, Guba.

935
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 2: It wasn't the modeling face. It was like moments where

936
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 2: he was like trying to kiss her and she'd be

937
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,399
Speaker 2: like this whole like like not wanting to kiss back.

938
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 2: And I was reading into a lot of the body languages,

939
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 2: and I was like, that is something either she was.

940
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 2: It was just you know how couples are. We always

941
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 2: there's like days where you have a great day of

942
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 2: a bad day, especially when kids they're involved. I can

943
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 2: really attest to that. So I wasn't looking at us

944
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 2: like the relationship was falling apart. I was just like

945
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 2: when they did this shoot, she was not happy with

946
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 2: him in that moment. He must have like he must

947
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 2: have been late, or there must have been something that

948
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 2: happened that day or he said something or something or whatever.

949
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 2: But I was like, wow, she is not happy in

950
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 2: that shoot.

951
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to pay attention to the shoot now

952
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 1: because I was not watching because they were playing them.

953
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're playing it on like like a screen like

954
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 2: like in between acts. Oh yeah, I was drinking during

955
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 2: I was watching, and I saw the thing. I was

956
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 2: like oh cool, Like, oh, that's awesome his wife, because

957
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 2: his wife's merch was better than his merch, Like she

958
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 2: made some really cool it was like a collaborative effort

959
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 2: with her, like Chris stuff was really cool. This is

960
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 2: some pretty cool stuff. But then they would get like

961
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 2: a shot with him and her and I was like,

962
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 2: he's happy, but she looks helopist. And it wasn't modeling face,

963
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: it was it was the reactions.

964
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 1: The body language interpreter.

965
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:24,959
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I was like, she's not even My wife

966
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 2: was like whoa. That's like because we were all like,

967
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, I've been there before, like like nothing on

968
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 2: the relationship, but just you have ebbs and flows, especially

969
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 2: when kids are involved. And I was like, she's like

970
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: she's I been there. And I was like, I know,

971
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 2: I feel what he's feeling, and you feel what she's feeling.

972
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh boy that they were not

973
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 2: happy at that.

974
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: Shoot, hey, they made you relate to their photos and

975
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 1: they didn't even know they were doing that.

976
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: It worked. It totally worked. Yeah, So the relationship is fine.

977
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 2: It's just that's how relationships. Sorry, ebs and flows.

978
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: And that song came out early in his career, so

979
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: they weren't even I know they weren't. I don't even

980
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 1: want to say that. I don't think they were married

981
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: at the time.

982
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 2: That that's okay. Now I could be wrong and then

983
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 2: they giving you right stuff though it could be about

984
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 2: it relationship from ten years ago. You know, you write

985
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 2: something and you cut it. Whenever you cut it, you

986
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 2: don't have to cut it the next day.

987
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: But definitely not about a break or not about infidelity.

988
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 3: Infidelity about a breakup.

989
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 2: Y okay, yeah, yeah, okay, gotch I got you listen.

990
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: I got all my Luke Combs and know ledge he's

991
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: my guy.

992
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I asked you and not anyone else

993
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 2: in this building.

994
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 1: I love him well. Speaking of top famous people, you know,

995
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 1: Luke Combs is one of them, even according to Lunchbox,

996
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: which is insane. You know. The fact that Lunchbox even

997
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 1: came to clarity that he knew ten famous people and

998
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: actually got them right was pretty impressive. But he was

999
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: also on the same list.

1000
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 3: That's what I'm talking about.

1001
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. This was his lunchboxes Top twenty five Famous People

1002
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: and Nashville list, and it was updated. A listener wanted

1003
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 1: to know what the latest list was, so he moved

1004
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: up on the list himself, of course, and he shared

1005
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: where everybody else is currently ranking in his brain, so

1006
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: he can check that whole thing out on the best bits,

1007
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 1: just the bits. But I want to talk about some

1008
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 1: big life update because you just mentioned as we were

1009
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: talking about Luke Combs and the whole concert, that you're teaching.

1010
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 3: Well, you're not teaching, you're coaching.

1011
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 1: Teaching.

1012
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, your son's sports team. What's happening.

1013
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 2: Yes, So I am as t ball coach, and it

1014
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 2: is interesting because your T ball is four to five,

1015
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 2: and so the attention span is like negative one thousand,

1016
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 2: and everyone's at different levels, and at that age you're

1017
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 2: not really concerned about I'm not, at least some people

1018
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 2: may be about winning. Winning doesn't mean a thing at

1019
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 2: this point. At this point, it's about teaching the basics,

1020
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 2: making sure they're having fun so that way they want

1021
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 2: to continue on in baseball, you know, later on. And

1022
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 2: then I've seen other coaches and other styles where they're

1023
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:48,919
Speaker 2: so dialed in the winning and winning in far hits

1024
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 2: and da da da. I'm just like they're four or five.

1025
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 2: So my whole philosophy is just teaching the basic right

1026
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 2: now is when you get the ball and you're playing defense,

1027
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 2: where do you throw it to first base? Awesome? And

1028
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 2: when you're hitting the ball, where do you run to

1029
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 2: first base? So if I can get those things down, okay,

1030
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 2: we're golden. And then there's lots of a lot of

1031
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 2: other things. So it was practiced for a while. And

1032
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 2: of course every kid's at a different level as far

1033
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 2: as not playing a little bit of playing, but more

1034
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 2: on the attention span side. Or I'll keep names out

1035
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 2: of it, but like there'd be one kid who like

1036
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: literally is there and he's just kind of like.

1037
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: Uh, there's always that one kid who's playing in the

1038
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:26,760
Speaker 1: dirt exactly.

1039
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 2: His dad wants him to be really good and be

1040
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 2: there and connected, but he is not at all on

1041
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:35,240
Speaker 2: our planet. He's in a galaxy far far far away,

1042
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 2: and you have to constantly rain him back in and

1043
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 2: if you really patient with them, because they are all

1044
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 2: over the place, and like my son is I mean

1045
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 2: not saying usually the coach son is always really good

1046
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 2: one and I see why now, Like my son is

1047
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,319
Speaker 2: just really good, just not I don't haven't really taught

1048
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,879
Speaker 2: him anything. He's just naturally really good at throwing the ball.

1049
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 2: He's already like pitching. I was good at baseball, but

1050
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 2: I didn't have the confidence to play baseball. I was

1051
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 2: my brother's baseball announcer when he played baseball.

1052
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 1: Gotcha. I think we talked about that, and we did

1053
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 1: talk about a point where you said you could hit

1054
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 1: a ball over the Yes.

1055
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very athletic, like I just I'd never had

1056
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: the confidence as a child or a kid to pursue

1057
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 2: it further on because I was always stuck in my

1058
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,240
Speaker 2: head about what people thinking about me and saying stuff.

1059
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 2: But no one was thinking or saying anything. It was

1060
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 2: just in my in my head, and we all live

1061
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 2: in there. And then when I became an adult and

1062
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 2: I became older, I was like, if everyone, I'm just

1063
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 2: gonna do whatever I want to do. But as a kid,

1064
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: I had no confidence, but very athletic, but no confidence.

1065
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, so my kid, I put the confidence in him,

1066
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 2: and he's like all about it. He can hit, he

1067
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:37,479
Speaker 2: can throw, he can pitch. He's five.

1068
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 3: We got a little MLB star on our head.

1069
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's unbelievably really really good. And here's

1070
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 2: a couple of kids that onest team. They're really good.

1071
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 2: And so I always pair them together, and one kid's

1072
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 2: always like, why does your son why does so and

1073
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 2: so throw with so and so. I'm like, oh, don't

1074
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 2: worry about that, which you come here and throw at me,

1075
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 2: because I want them to learn the basics. Where my

1076
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 2: my son, this other kid knows the basics. So ill

1077
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 2: then dial in on on the other kids that really

1078
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 2: need the help. And then some of them are over

1079
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 2: and they're playing in the sand. It's just all over

1080
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 2: the place, and I was like, man, my team is

1081
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 2: like I don't know if they're gonna do well in

1082
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 2: a game because we had a few practices before you

1083
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 2: have the actual game, but I don't know how they're

1084
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 2: gonna do. And then the first game, I was like,

1085
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, all those practices like they really stuck

1086
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,680
Speaker 2: to it and connected because I was watching the other

1087
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 2: team and it was like an absolute s show, like

1088
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,280
Speaker 2: they were all over the place and not paying attention.

1089
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 2: And like even something as simple as when they go

1090
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: up to bat, I always put a marker where their

1091
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 2: feet should be. I was like, okay, put one foot here,

1092
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 2: one foot here, And even though the batting may not

1093
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 2: be the best or they may not hit it far,

1094
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 2: but at least they know where to stand so they

1095
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 2: can at least hit it off the tee. And then

1096
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 2: there's other coaches or like they're players, like looking to

1097
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,320
Speaker 2: the left and looking all over the place.

1098
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 3: And now you've got your team's got the fundamentals.

1099
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 2: Absolute basic fundamentals. They all know to run to first,

1100
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 2: They all know the throw to first. Now do they

1101
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 2: always get to the first the fastest? Do they throw

1102
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 2: the ball all the way to first? No, not always,

1103
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 2: but they at least know that that's where they're heading,

1104
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 2: that's the direction they need to go. And they all

1105
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 2: boys team, it's boys and girls. They got two girls,

1106
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 2: and then I've got five boys, okay, and then one

1107
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 2: of my girls is actually like really really good. The

1108
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 2: other ones like gets it and good too, and it's

1109
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 2: like and some of the boys are like against spacey

1110
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 2: and all over the place. So the stereotype of girls

1111
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 2: are not really good, that's wrong, because my two girls

1112
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 2: are really really good, and they really I think they're

1113
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 2: the ones that had the better attention span and are

1114
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:23,240
Speaker 2: able to really stick with it and understand it, whereas

1115
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 2: some of the other kids are just like how much

1116
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 2: time is left? And I'm like forty five minutes shut

1117
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 2: up and.

1118
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: Keep playing if it makes you feel any better. I

1119
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: did become very like, very skilled and competed hard in softball,

1120
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: but when I played t ball, I was the kid

1121
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 1: that was playing in the dirt.

1122
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 2: Okay.

1123
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: I was very much like, I don't want to do this,

1124
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 1: and then as I got older, it was very much

1125
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: like click it. Really the biggest part is just getting

1126
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: them involved really young so they know that it's an

1127
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 1: option exactly.

1128
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. And then you have some that don't want to play,

1129
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 2: and you're like, okay, if you're not going to play,

1130
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 2: at least and you sit on the bench and be

1131
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 2: a part of the team. They have one kid won't

1132
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 2: put his uniform on. It. We're four games in and

1133
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 2: still won't put his uniform on.

1134
00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:58,879
Speaker 1: He just said there a streak close.

1135
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like the first game he came and then it

1136
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 2: was like hey you good, and it was like a

1137
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 2: crying fast and then left early. And the second the

1138
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 2: second game he came and then he got a little closer,

1139
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: and then then I had time in the third game,

1140
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, dude. I was like, I was like,

1141
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 2: I understand, you want to put the uniform and that's

1142
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 2: totally fine. I was like, but at least want you

1143
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 2: to sit on the bench right here so you're you're

1144
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 2: part of the team. He's like, okay, that's all good.

1145
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 2: And then every time we do the batting rotation, I'm like, hey,

1146
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 2: you want a bat and he'd be like no. And

1147
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 2: then the second time, hey you want to bat and

1148
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 2: he'd be like m no. And the third time he

1149
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 2: had his hat on, like ready to go? Is that

1150
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: you want a bat? And he's like maybe next time.

1151
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 2: So like slowly working towards it, versus like just giving

1152
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 2: up on him and being like go home, I don't

1153
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 2: need you. So, like, every kid's got a different skill set,

1154
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 2: a different attention span, a different level where they're at,

1155
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: and so I have to like kind of like cater

1156
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 2: each kid to where they're at because I want them

1157
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 2: to have fun and I want them to not feel

1158
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: alienated or isolated and not because I've seen where my

1159
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 2: son played in other sports and the coaches were brutal

1160
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 2: and didn't do the fundamentals, didn't do the basics, And

1161
00:44:58,080 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 2: that's what pushed me to become a coach. Even though

1162
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 2: I have no free time, I've made it. I've made

1163
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,959
Speaker 2: it a point to have free time because.

1164
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 1: Of that, it's good. But I think it's super awesome

1165
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: and you sound like a really good coach, especially how

1166
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,760
Speaker 1: you're helping each individual person.

1167
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's really cool. It's really fun. It's cool

1168
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 2: just to see the progress from the first practice to

1169
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 2: the sixth practice and to the first game to the

1170
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 2: fourth and fifth game, Like it's really really really cool

1171
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 2: just to see it. Because at first, I was like,

1172
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 2: how am I going to do this. I've never really

1173
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 2: coached before and never coached baseball, But it's all like

1174
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 2: the basics and he shouldn't to throw badly. I said

1175
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 2: what to do, and so it's just like just keep

1176
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 2: doing that repetition, trying to keep it somewhat fun. The

1177
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 2: games are quick, the three innings, but he meant to

1178
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 2: the first end and they're like, how much time is left?

1179
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 2: And I'm like, we just started to do a.

1180
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: Short timespan time attention span tennispan exactly.

1181
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 2: And even my son being really good, he's even had

1182
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 2: meltdowns where like second ending, he starts crying because he's

1183
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 2: he's hungry or he's tired, or someone said something to

1184
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 2: him and he's all pissed off about it. Down I'm

1185
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 2: like dude, chill, hi, it doesn't matter.

1186
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: Just get You need to start getting them some big yeah,

1187
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: that'll make them all happy. That made me happy. Yeah,

1188
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: it made me really happy. After every game, I'd get

1189
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: like a laughy taffy and a gatorade and I'm like,

1190
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 1: this is the best day ever. Yeah.

1191
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 2: I haven't done that yet, like the whole snacks or

1192
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 2: bring things.

1193
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: Oh hey, you want you want to give them incentive

1194
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 1: to like one come back and to stay the whole

1195
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: game snacks at the end of it, but not just

1196
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: snacks like a good candy like something that they're like.

1197
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:25,439
Speaker 2: This is awesome, this is cool. Yeah.

1198
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, not like you know, a fruit snack that they're

1199
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: like why why am I?

1200
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 2: Yeah? And then I also was like we live in

1201
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 2: an era and how or there's so many allergies and

1202
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: some parents don't allow some things or the other, and

1203
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, do I even bother doing it because everyone's

1204
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 2: got rules. But then I was like, maybe I'll just

1205
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 2: do it and then if it.

1206
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody can't have it, then they get a deal

1207
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 1: with their kid in the car.

1208
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 2: True, yeah exactly. But then they hate me because I

1209
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 2: did that, and right now we're all on a good.

1210
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 1: That's true. You could ask him and just say, hey,

1211
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: just you know, and see if you could have a

1212
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: whole team that doesn't have anything and they're like all

1213
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: good and like because some some do have allergies but

1214
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,879
Speaker 1: they're able to do or have certain things or whatever.

1215
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: Try fair. What is if there is allergies? What can

1216
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 2: I get that is across the board? Works for everybody.

1217
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things to hey, you know, like

1218
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 1: Reese's PC's cups, not Reese's pieces, Cuese's peanut butter grape

1219
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: are gluten free. I've learned, so like that's a gluten

1220
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: free one. That was a great little candy.

1221
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 2: And then I got one who's got a peanut allergy.

1222
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 2: Then it's like that's true. I'm just kidding.

1223
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: But then you got like Skittles everybody, those are gluten

1224
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: free and no, you know, so like I can tell you,

1225
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 1: I got your back.

1226
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, orioles are gluten free, right they have Yep.

1227
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: They have a gluten free one.

1228
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 3: If that's like a gluten one, So I got you.

1229
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 1: If you need to find a fun one, like I

1230
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: have found the fun snacks that are still you know,

1231
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: they work for everyone.

1232
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, or I get everyone we talked about earlier.

1233
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 2: I can get them all those quicker out.

1234
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: Yeah you're ries cakes. Yeah yeah, that's you got it.

1235
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: But that was the best part. You got any other

1236
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: life updates besides doing.

1237
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:54,479
Speaker 2: Some coaching, besides the t ball coaching. And we touched

1238
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 2: on a little bit on the show on Friday, the

1239
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 2: vasectomy thing. I'm going, yeah, I have the consultation that

1240
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 2: we're doing. I guess whenever you're listening to this, I'm

1241
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 2: doing it today Friday, after the show, or now we're

1242
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 2: after the show Friday, I'm doing it, coming up, coming out,

1243
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 2: doing the consultation. And then even when I call it,

1244
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 2: like so we usually did the consultation and we go

1245
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: right into it. I was like, WHOA, slow your role,

1246
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 2: We're not going right into it.

1247
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 1: I think I would just like to see what this

1248
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: is about.

1249
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's gone, ever just does a consultation and that's it.

1250
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I'm doing the consultation and that's it.

1251
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,320
Speaker 2: She's like, Okay, then we'll see you for the concert.

1252
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: You know, but the more you keep allowing yourself just

1253
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: to think about it, the more it's going to be

1254
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: all up in your head. Especially you telling me how

1255
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: much of a like in your head person you are. Yeah,

1256
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: the more you get information and the more you keep like, yeah,

1257
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: you almost just got to like bite the bullet and

1258
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 1: not think about it.

1259
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 2: But then I also have this like weird thing and

1260
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 2: I don't bring up in the show because it goes

1261
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 2: so far of like what if there's some sort of

1262
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 2: like human race problem or something and all the men

1263
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 2: who can't pro create like it killed off or something.

1264
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1265
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: It's really weird now there to me is reversible.

1266
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 2: But it's not. It's only like a thirty percent success

1267
00:48:59,080 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 2: rate of a.

1268
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,760
Speaker 3: Okay, but it's still like you you still at that point.

1269
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: Still have a chance to have kids, but a very

1270
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 1: slim chance more than if you've broken and damaged.

1271
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, right for that's permanent.

1272
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

1273
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: So like you, at least in this scenario, say your

1274
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 1: doom scenario happens, you're still able to in some capacity.

1275
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 2: But what if it's like what if it's like some

1276
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 2: sort of like immediate thing, like there's ships that come

1277
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 2: down and they're like, all right, we can only take

1278
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: everybody men who can reproduce, and the other ones were

1279
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 2: going to kill off immediately, and I'm like, oh my god,

1280
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 2: this is why I didn't want to do it.

1281
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 1: Scuba. No, no, this is why you can't get in

1282
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 1: your head like you have created an entirely illogical scenario.

1283
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 2: But yeah, it could be logical.

1284
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: We don't know one percent logical. We'll give you your

1285
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: one percent.

1286
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 2: But there's still a percent that it could happen that

1287
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:50,959
Speaker 2: I'm not a useful human.

1288
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:55,720
Speaker 1: Anything could happen to that, right, anything could happen.

1289
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:57,719
Speaker 2: I want to be on the side of reproduction. Then

1290
00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 2: not reproduction.

1291
00:49:58,560 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 3: You know what could happen with this?

1292
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 1: You get this done, your wife is going to be

1293
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: so happy with you.

1294
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 3: You guys are going to have more date nights.

1295
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,240
Speaker 1: You guys are gonna have more time together, and everything's

1296
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: gonna be happier. That could also happen, and there's a

1297
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: ninety nine percent chance of that.

1298
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah that's true.

1299
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. See see, So like wouldn't you rather live with

1300
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: that reality? Then you're one percent alien story that you

1301
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: have created in your head. I'm asking which one would

1302
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: you rather live with? But one of them, really you

1303
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:29,879
Speaker 1: just answer the question.

1304
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:33,279
Speaker 2: One of them has a really dark, potential life threatening ending.

1305
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: Which one would you rather like to live with in

1306
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 1: this moment right now here, in the present. Don't think

1307
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 1: about the teacher, don't think about past.

1308
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 2: About if I'm thinking about the next five minutes, I

1309
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 2: would like to be the one my wife. But I'm

1310
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 2: a long term guy and I'm thinking long term.

1311
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 3: But here's the thing, Yeah, think in present moment.

1312
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 2: I can't.

1313
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:50,959
Speaker 3: You have to exist in present moment.

1314
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:54,399
Speaker 1: I know, and in this twenty four hours you would

1315
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: rather have all that happiness with your wife, yeah, than

1316
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,720
Speaker 1: this illogical one percent chance of something terrible happening.

1317
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I still have to think about it.

1318
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 1: I know. I'm just I'm trying to help you because

1319
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: you do seem like a very in your head guy.

1320
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 1: And the only way to get out of your head

1321
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 1: is one to live in present moment, and two is

1322
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 1: to focus on logic, like the genuine logic of a scenario. Okay,

1323
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,800
Speaker 1: that's how you get out of your head. Trust me,

1324
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: because you're talking to somebody who has learned a lot

1325
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 1: about being in their head. And the only way to

1326
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,839
Speaker 1: get out is like very much present moment here and now,

1327
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: what can I do to fix this moment?

1328
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 2: Okay?

1329
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 3: So maybe that can help you a little bit.

1330
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll try my very best to get out of

1331
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 1: your crazy theory that you just gave me. I got

1332
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: your bag. I'm trying to help you.

1333
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know, and I appreciate it. I'm

1334
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 2: receiving it.

1335
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 1: That's okay. You can receive.

1336
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, nothing has to be done about it right.

1337
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:49,359
Speaker 1: Now, you can receive.

1338
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 2: Cu cuckoo.

1339
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: I'm just helping you when you're in that moment.

1340
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 2: C cuckooouse.

1341
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 1: That's a big thing.

1342
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:55,759
Speaker 2: That's a big thing. It is, yes, trust me, it is.

1343
00:51:55,880 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: Well, speaking of exciting additions to the family. Did not reproduce,

1344
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 1: but I did adopt a cat.

1345
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 2: I saw it was really cool, very cool. Yes, yes,

1346
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 2: somebody else for reproduce it, and you took it.

1347
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't take it. Somebody else did. I'm a

1348
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:10,479
Speaker 1: really bad person.

1349
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 2: And you saved it. Yeah, I think because it was

1350
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 2: you adopted it, right I did.

1351
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, So she crazy like story. I had been

1352
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: fostering for about a year, not a year, a month

1353
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: and a half, and she came from a horrible, horrible

1354
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: hoarding situation in Mississippi.

1355
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 3: There was one hundred and seventy cats found in this house.

1356
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 2: And now I've written seven.

1357
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it took you a minute, You're like, wait, what

1358
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: whoa yeah, one hundred and she was one of one

1359
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:35,760
Speaker 1: hundred and seventy cats.

1360
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 2: What did that house smell like?

1361
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 1: I do not know. I do not know, and that,

1362
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 1: you know, I like to believe that it was somebody

1363
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 1: very well intentioned. I'm sure, yeah, you know, just wanted

1364
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 1: to save and then it just got out. And I

1365
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 1: think she's eight years old. I don't think she's eight

1366
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: years old. I know she's eight years old, but I

1367
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 1: think she was one of the first few cats. My

1368
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: theory is that she was one of the first few

1369
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 1: cats in the house and she was already spade okay,

1370
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 1: And so I think she was one, which means she's

1371
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 1: been living in that environment for a long time and

1372
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: she just has opened up. She lives her life in

1373
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:11,919
Speaker 1: her cat tower and sunbathing all day, and she loves

1374
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: her canned food that she gets to eat. And she

1375
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: got her teeth taken care of. She had really bad

1376
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 1: dental disease when she came to a lot of problems.

1377
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,800
Speaker 2: Because there's one hundred and seventy cats, how do you

1378
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:22,399
Speaker 2: care for even five of those?

1379
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't. You just you know, give up. Yeah,

1380
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: so that's why the Humane Society of the United States

1381
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 1: stepped in and the Nashville Humane took on thirty of them.

1382
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 3: Okay, and Hazel was one of them.

1383
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: So this is in Louisiana.

1384
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: She came from Mississippi.

1385
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 2: Okay.

1386
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're right by each other.

1387
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're pretty close.

1388
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. She's a chocolate seal point Siamese, which is like

1389
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 1: a version of a Siamese. I've had other Siamese growing up,

1390
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,800
Speaker 1: and they're like different, different versions of different colors. But

1391
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 1: so she's mostly chocolate, which is why she has cute

1392
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: little chocolate boots on her.

1393
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 2: Okay, and it's like mister Jinks.

1394
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1395
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 2: I had a cat just like this too that I

1396
00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 2: adopt really from Louisiana during like the whole hurricane thing Katrina,

1397
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 2: all the displaced animals. I hated cats, and I was

1398
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:06,320
Speaker 2: allergic to him mostly, I was like allergic, so I

1399
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 2: didn't like him because of that. And I adopted this

1400
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 2: guy and I called him mister Jinks. And he had

1401
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 2: no claws. They took the declawed him, but it actually

1402
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 2: was great because then he wasn't ruining my house.

1403
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 1: You just got to keep him trimmed I know.

1404
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 2: I know because I saw it as a benefit. I was, Oh,

1405
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,200
Speaker 2: this is like a cool this is awesome. He doesn't

1406
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 2: have claus. This is really cool.

1407
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 1: But you didn't do it so all, No, I didn't

1408
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: do it.

1409
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 2: No, I adopted him that way. Yeah, And so I

1410
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is really cool. Like he like

1411
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 2: he would let me take give him baths, he would

1412
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 2: eat strawberries. He was like super cool and chill, and

1413
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 2: he loved me so much. And then I couldn't have

1414
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 2: catsymore because I moved somewhere else, and so I gave

1415
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 2: it to a friend. She took care of him for

1416
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 2: a long time and I think recently passed away, but

1417
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 2: lived a really long life. Oh but yes, I'm looking

1418
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 2: at your ear. Cat and my cat were very similar looking.

1419
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 1: Really Oh yeah yeah, she so her nick. I decided

1420
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: to keep the name. The shelter gave her Hazel.

1421
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 2: Hazel.

1422
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: Okay, that's cool because the cat that I had before

1423
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 1: her was a Siamese too, and her name was Sapphire

1424
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 1: but short for saffieh that's cool because she had bright

1425
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: blue eyes Sapphire And I was like, well, Hazel, she's chocolate.

1426
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:05,919
Speaker 3: So this kind of is like feels like a nod

1427
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,399
Speaker 3: to my old cat. And her nickname is Boots.

1428
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,840
Speaker 2: Boots a little boot. That's awesome because she has the

1429
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 2: little boots on.

1430
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: Her and I really wanted to name her Boots, but

1431
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 1: everybody's like, I think you should keep Hazel. And then

1432
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 1: I kind of like two and two together and I

1433
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: kind of started thinking about my old cat and I

1434
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, this feels right. So she's Hazel Boots Heelsman.

1435
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 2: That is the cat that I now, and then you'd

1436
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:31,359
Speaker 2: officially adopt her because she has your last name.

1437
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:32,800
Speaker 3: It felt really weird, let me tell you.

1438
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 1: When I was like signing all of the paperwork and

1439
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 1: getting everything done at the shelter, I was just there

1440
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: by myself, and I was just like, this feels like

1441
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: a really big moment. I'm signing away. Feels like some

1442
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: of my life and like it's just me. I'm just here,

1443
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: this is happening. It just felt very like bizarre and

1444
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: taking on a.

1445
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 2: Real it's a life. Yeah, like it's buying like a

1446
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 2: sheet of paper, no an animal with my dog.

1447
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 1: When I adopted her, my parents were there, so it

1448
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: was kind of like it was all I didn't feel

1449
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: like kind of alone in that But in that moment,

1450
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is all me is your

1451
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:04,879
Speaker 1: single parent.

1452
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 2: There's no one paying child support or anything.

1453
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 1: Not that I haven't done it with Roomy for eight years. Yeah,

1454
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,479
Speaker 1: it just felt it just felt kind of weird.

1455
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:13,800
Speaker 2: It was a big grown up purchase.

1456
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was a moment where I was like, Wow,

1457
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: I'm really adulting. This feels very bizarre.

1458
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:20,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, very bizarre. Did you get it from

1459
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 2: like one of those like Humane Society shelters or.

1460
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 3: I got it from Nashville Humane Assoia.

1461
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Yeah, so we do have our bucks or whatever.

1462
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she was like forty five. I didn't

1463
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 1: even realize I needed.

1464
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:32,879
Speaker 2: When I bought Jinx, he was like ten or twenty

1465
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:33,319
Speaker 2: five bucks.

1466
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't care. Honestly, I didn't even think

1467
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:38,320
Speaker 1: about it. I was like, I didn't even ask. I

1468
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: don't know how much she is. I don't care, like

1469
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: I'm getting her regardless, So it's just whatever whatever I

1470
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: have to pay for.

1471
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 2: Were you someone that used to end this I'm speaking

1472
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:48,840
Speaker 2: from personal experience that used to go to humane study

1473
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,360
Speaker 2: shelters like frequently and just go look at the animals.

1474
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: God knows Scooba. I can't if I go, even when

1475
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: I'm in there. Yeah, I was crying over a dog

1476
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: that was in there.

1477
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 2: I know because they call the ones they have the

1478
00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 2: ones here called star pets, the calm star pets, which

1479
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 2: is a cute way to put it, but they're the

1480
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 2: ones that had been there the longest and like a

1481
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 2: week away from being euthanized. Yeah, and it was always

1482
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: like a big old dog.

1483
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 1: Gotten better about that, about that, like rescues shelters, rescues associations,

1484
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: and animal control offices have gotten really good about really

1485
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 1: working together to try and help each other.

1486
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:20,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1487
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: But the really sad thing right now is they're all

1488
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 1: full and they're all over capacity, which is ya. Then

1489
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: they can't help each other, especially with the pandemic.

1490
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, oh, I want an animal, and then they

1491
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 2: go back to work and I don't want an animal

1492
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 2: anymore because it requires attention. It's an animal, of course,

1493
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 2: it requires attention. You'd be a terrible parent. Hopefully you

1494
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 2: never have kids.

1495
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 1: Yes, there was a dog in there. She was a

1496
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 1: German shepherd. This is the dog I was crying over.

1497
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 1: She had come in and she she wasn't great with

1498
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: small dogs. And she wasn't there's something else she wasn't

1499
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 1: great with, but she was so loving. You'd go up

1500
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: to the window and she just want you to pet her.

1501
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 1: And she wanted all this attention. And she was an

1502
00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: owner surrender. And because they ride it on there, it's like, yeah,

1503
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 1: like Remy came from like the streets of Wichita, like

1504
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: she she got out somehow, but like for this dog,

1505
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: it said owner surrender. And my heart was just breaking

1506
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:08,479
Speaker 1: because this dog and I had seen in a time span.

1507
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: I had to check up with Hazel and then I

1508
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 1: had to go back a week later for her final

1509
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 1: checkup and to hopefully adopt her. Yeah, so I had

1510
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 1: seen the day this dog, the German Shepherd came in

1511
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: and she was so happy and she was so excited

1512
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 1: when and everybody painted to her. A week later, when

1513
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: I came in, she was in the same spot and

1514
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 1: she was so defeated and just so heartbroken. Like when

1515
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 1: I went over there, she didn't even like perk her

1516
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: head up. It was just like I just immediately was

1517
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: crying because I was like, in one week's time, this

1518
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 1: dog had this entire life. Yeah, and then got brought

1519
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: in and now is so sad and doesn't know what

1520
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 1: it did wrong.

1521
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:43,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm sure it's hearing other dogs being like, yo, dude,

1522
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 2: this is not a good place. So you're gonna be

1523
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 2: stuck here until someone finds you again, and then you

1524
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 2: can even come back again because that person doesn't want you.

1525
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 2: And then you're brought back again and again and again

1526
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 2: and again. Oh it's terrible. The energy of that place

1527
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 2: is super say.

1528
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 1: So to answer your question, I can't every literally when

1529
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: I went and I started volunteering at Kansas Humane two

1530
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 1: weeks later, ended up with remy one that they do

1531
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: not last.

1532
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 2: You'd be that. So now I know what happened to

1533
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 2: that lady in Mississippi at one hundred and seventy cats.

1534
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 2: She would frequently visit those places and take one home,

1535
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 2: and take another one home, and take another one home

1536
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 2: and take another one home.

1537
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 1: Well that is most of the time with these hoarding situations,

1538
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,160
Speaker 1: is like the intentions are good, yeah, but then you

1539
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: just get overwhelmed and you want to help it because

1540
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: there's so many, so many, you just want to help

1541
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 1: them all.

1542
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 2: It's tough.

1543
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, genuinely, my dream life is me living on

1544
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 1: a farm and me just helping any animal I can

1545
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:31,080
Speaker 1: and when they come in and I'm like, yeah, they

1546
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: can live with me. There's this super cool called Whispering

1547
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 1: Willows that I follow on social media and it's a

1548
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 1: senior sanctuary. So animals that get taken in and their

1549
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: seniors and they got their golden years left and this

1550
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 1: rescue takes them in and lets them live out their lives.

1551
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 2: Well that's cool.

1552
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:47,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1553
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 2: There's one somewhere that in San Francisco called Mutt something

1554
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 2: and they do it's like that, but they but they're

1555
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 2: advocating to adopt and they usually try to find older

1556
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 2: people like fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, not fifties older, but

1557
00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 2: people who are older and don't have kids their kids

1558
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 2: are older, and they look for them to be like, hey,

1559
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 2: will you adopt this dog? It's like nine ten, and

1560
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 2: because they're the ones that are the most difficult to

1561
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 2: get people to adopt because they want they all want

1562
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 2: puppies or whatever, and so their job is to go

1563
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 2: and find these older dogs that were either the owner

1564
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 2: died or they're abandoned or whatever, and they give them

1565
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 2: basically like they give their golden years. And they like

1566
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 2: to get to live out there their next two to

1567
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 2: five or whatever years and like a home that's going

1568
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 2: to be you know, when you get this dog, it's

1569
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 2: not gonna be a long time, but you know that

1570
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 2: you're taking a dog and giving it the final years

1571
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 2: in a good place. And they're such a great organization.

1572
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 2: I was like, man, this is a really cool thing.

1573
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 2: It's like, it's like heartbreaking is that these dogs have

1574
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 2: lived a great life and they either owner died or

1575
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 2: they're abandoned. You're like, oh my god, it's so shitty, Like.

1576
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's okay, it is.

1577
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 3: That's what it is, and it's yeah, it's there, and

1578
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 3: none of their term for it.

1579
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 1: It's called fospis. So some people will foss yep, they'll

1580
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 1: be foster's but it's mixing foster and hospice. Okay, so

1581
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: they'll be a foster for the rest of their life.

1582
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: So like, so it's not permanent. They get help from

1583
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: the rescue or shelter or wherever it's coming from, but

1584
01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 1: they are allowed to like live in their home and

1585
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: they take care of them like their their.

1586
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:07,919
Speaker 3: Own for the rest of their life.

1587
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 2: That's really cool.

1588
01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's there's really cool things that shelters and rescues

1589
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 1: and think they have been doing everything they can to

1590
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: make it better, and you know, as humans, we just

1591
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 1: keep making it worse.

1592
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:22,439
Speaker 2: So I know of the problem is the human race. Yeah,

1593
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 2: for a lot of things.

1594
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 1: Well that was the funny thing too, when I was

1595
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 1: adopting Hazel, she's technically a senior cat and it's like

1596
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 1: eight years old. Yeah, when it was riding down there,

1597
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 1: I was like, she's got like at least ten years left. Like, yeah,

1598
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 1: they got a lot of life left. But just seeing

1599
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 1: the senior I was like, that just breaks my heart

1600
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 1: because some people would have just never looked twice at her,

1601
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: being that she's a senior.

1602
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 2: And at a decade if not more.

1603
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 1: And even if I don't like the love is amazing. Yeah,

1604
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 1: that I could be on that tangent all day, and

1605
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 1: I would get on that tangent all day.

1606
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 2: I'm with you.

1607
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 3: We're not going to We're going to head into some

1608
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 3: nine one one stories.

1609
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, because lunch Box called nine one one and

1610
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: we got the audio from the call. Oh we did

1611
01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: in true lunchbox fashion, and we heard the whole thing.

1612
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 1: But have you ever called nine one one before?

1613
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 2: So my mom's called nine on one before and my dad,

1614
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 2: that's a really dark story. Do you want a dark

1615
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 2: story or do you do you want a dark story

1616
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:12,920
Speaker 2: or do you want what's in my head of like

1617
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 2: nine to one one scenarios and like dreams that I have.

1618
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:18,640
Speaker 1: I don't think I want a dark story that feels

1619
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 1: that doesn't even just feel dark, that feels sad.

1620
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 2: It's sad and dark. So mabe, I won't do that.

1621
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 1: That's not that's the story for another day.

1622
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 2: Time doctor pool here. So in my dream, I don't

1623
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 2: know if it's just me, but I always have these

1624
01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 2: dreams in different versions and different like scenarios and different

1625
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:42,920
Speaker 2: things that happen where I try to die on nine

1626
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 2: one one and I can't die on nine one one,

1627
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,440
Speaker 2: Like I'm like I'm picking out the phone and and

1628
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 2: like I can't think of like what it is. Let's

1629
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 2: just say you're being chased or there's a murder or something,

1630
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 2: or you're trying to get down on one and for

1631
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 2: whatever freaking reason, I can't get nine on one dialed,

1632
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 2: or whenever I go to down nine one one, like

1633
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 2: it doesn't go through, or I'm on a loop, or

1634
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:05,560
Speaker 2: it's like a voicemail and it's like me trying to

1635
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:07,480
Speaker 2: do number one and I'm running from whatever is I'm

1636
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 2: running from, and like I'm trying to dial help, but

1637
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 2: I can't dial help. But I need help because this

1638
01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 2: person's trying to kill me. Or I see something happening

1639
01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 2: it's really bad, and I go down nine one one

1640
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 2: and they go to answer it and then it's like

1641
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 2: not a big deal, or or it's like somebody else

1642
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 2: who's like, oh, this is like a it doesn't make

1643
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 2: sense to me as to why whenever I'm trying to

1644
01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 2: down nine one one, I can't get the damn call

1645
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 2: or for the ring and it will never ring, or

1646
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 2: I will never go to a nine one one operator

1647
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 2: you have that it's.

1648
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:38,000
Speaker 1: The same like sensation of when like I have dreams

1649
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 1: that if somebody were to ever come in and I

1650
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:43,919
Speaker 1: can't scream, Yeah, that's that's similar. Like it's like something

1651
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 1: blocks you, Yeah.

1652
01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 2: Something blocks you from it. Yeah, And so I'm sure

1653
01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 2: it's something in my life and it's playing it out

1654
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 2: through this, but I can't don nine one one, Like

1655
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 2: my finger will melt into my phone, the phone will disappear,

1656
01:03:57,920 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 2: or it'll be it'll go to it'll just be like

1657
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 2: a whole music or be.

1658
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 1: A voicemail excuba therapy session probably associated with the thing

1659
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 1: that we are not talking about. If I had to guess, oh,

1660
01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 1: really that most of the time, like our dreams manifest

1661
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: of things and triggers in our life. Right, So, and

1662
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 1: if there is a dark association with nine to one one, yeah,

1663
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 1: it is a possibility for why it's continuing to come

1664
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: up one in your dreams and two that like you

1665
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 1: can't dial. Yeah, it's very possible, like there is a

1666
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:32,360
Speaker 1: connection between the two, which is.

1667
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:34,959
Speaker 2: Weird because I guess in my head of that whole

1668
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 2: part of my dad's life has been almost like I'm

1669
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 2: long done and gone over with it. It's almost become

1670
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 2: like that's just the way it is. Or it's almost

1671
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 2: comedy but like okay, but you sell a comedy.

1672
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 1: Yes, you're probably done in over it. But like the

1673
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 1: whole thing of therapy is like you have to go

1674
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:54,439
Speaker 1: back through it to like truly let go of it. Yeah,

1675
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: So have you ever like truly went back through it

1676
01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: or have you just like tried to forget it?

1677
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 2: Well, I've talked about like many different times of people

1678
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 2: and friends and my mom and all that kind of stuff.

1679
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 2: So it's not like it's that's not like something that

1680
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 2: happened and I'll like bury it deep. Yeah, it's like

1681
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 2: it's already it's like a thing. It's like whatever is

1682
01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 2: what it is.

1683
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it still could be associated with it, like it

1684
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 1: just kind of touches on that and it may never

1685
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 1: go away, Like it may not be something you're able

1686
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 1: to work through.

1687
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 3: It's just like there are just things that you you

1688
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 3: just learn to live with.

1689
01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's yours.

1690
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't dot I'm on one, like.

1691
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 1: Or it's one of your your ghost friends who's really

1692
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 1: messing with you.

1693
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 2: It could be melted. You can't dial it right now,

1694
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 2: it's or yeah, it's just it's so weird and I'll

1695
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:38,200
Speaker 2: wake up from my dream and I'll be like, wow,

1696
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 2: I'm on one again. It's so damn annoying.

1697
01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 1: I hope you're never in a scenario where you have to,

1698
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: but I will be curious if you ever are in

1699
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 1: a scenario where you have to.

1700
01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 2: What happens Yeah, like actually, yeah, when I thought, I'm

1701
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 2: trying to get if I've ever had to dial it

1702
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 2: in a real life, and I don't think I've ever

1703
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,919
Speaker 2: had to, because every scener I've been in and yeah,

1704
01:05:57,160 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 2: I have these two stories.

1705
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:01,000
Speaker 1: I have two stories when I've called nine one one

1706
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 1: and maybe the Okay, So there was one time that

1707
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: was pretty uneventful, but there was a guy that came

1708
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 1: and he was like banging on my door, would not leave.

1709
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 1: It was two o'clock in the morning. I had no

1710
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 1: idea who he was. He was banging on the door.

1711
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 1: He was mumbling a whole lot of things, and I

1712
01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 1: called nine one one cop showed up pretty quickly and

1713
01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 1: they found him like down the street and he was

1714
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 1: pretty messed up on a lot of things. Okay, but

1715
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:26,920
Speaker 1: it was terrifying because it was two am. My dog

1716
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 1: was going crazy. I'm upstairs, there's a strange man on

1717
01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 1: my door pounding on it. That's very scary, terrifying.

1718
01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 2: That's here in Nashville.

1719
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 1: Yep. Oh my gosh, this is like in the last

1720
01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 1: year or so.

1721
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 2: Damn.

1722
01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 1: Okay, wow, terrifying moment, My goodness.

1723
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 2: Okay.

1724
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 3: And thankfully at the.

1725
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 1: Time, my neighbors that I knew were still living next

1726
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 1: to me.

1727
01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 3: So I made him go out. I woke him up.

1728
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 1: I sent like five call that I was like, wake up,

1729
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: and I'm like I need you go outside and figure

1730
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:50,760
Speaker 1: out who this man is and what's happening.

1731
01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:52,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, Hi, I don't know what that was happening.

1732
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:53,440
Speaker 2: Is very scary, so he did.

1733
01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: By the time he got out, he was gone. But

1734
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:56,960
Speaker 1: it was funny because I told the cops. I was like,

1735
01:06:57,120 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 1: this guy's in a red shirt. So I'm watching him

1736
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 1: on my camera, my rain camera. You can see yeah, yeah,

1737
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: and this guy's in a red shirt. Well, my friend

1738
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:07,920
Speaker 1: came out in a red shirt. He didn't realize the

1739
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 1: cops pulled up at like the same time he was

1740
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 1: walking out, and he's like, yes, I'm her friend. She

1741
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 1: told me what's going on, and he had happened to

1742
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 1: bang on a bunch of doors that night. We found

1743
01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 1: out like later one Yeah, no, it was just like his.

1744
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 3: Was pretty apparent on mine.

1745
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 1: But the cop pulled up was like, are you the

1746
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: guy in the red shirt? And my neighbor was like

1747
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 1: what and I was like, oh, sorry, I forgot to

1748
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 1: let you know. So there was almost some confusion and

1749
01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:32,560
Speaker 1: I almost got my friend arrested.

1750
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 2: Good.

1751
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 1: Yes, So that was one of them.

1752
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 2: Okay.

1753
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:38,480
Speaker 3: The other one was even more terrifying.

1754
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 1: My dad and I had been gone at a softball tournament,

1755
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:44,919
Speaker 1: and nobody was at our house. And when we pulled

1756
01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:47,120
Speaker 1: up to our house, the garage door was open and

1757
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:51,760
Speaker 1: the back door was wide open, and nobody was home

1758
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:54,439
Speaker 1: to our knowledge. And so my dad and I pull

1759
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:56,720
Speaker 1: up and he's like, call nine one one now, and

1760
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 1: he grabs the bat out of my bag, goes inside it.

1761
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 3: And I don't hear from my dad for twenty minutes.

1762
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 2: Because he's like checking the house.

1763
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 3: And then you're thinking, and I'm sitting it, I'm talking

1764
01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 3: to nine one one.

1765
01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what's going on. All I

1766
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,360
Speaker 1: know is like, and this had just happened where somebody

1767
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 1: had broken into a house like a few doors down

1768
01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:15,280
Speaker 1: and burned down their house. So like we were on

1769
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:17,919
Speaker 1: high alert that something was going on in the neighborhood.

1770
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 2: So you're already nervous because of that.

1771
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:22,680
Speaker 1: Yes, And so he went in and he came out,

1772
01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:25,479
Speaker 1: and after I'm not kidding you, twenty five minutes he

1773
01:08:25,560 --> 01:08:27,320
Speaker 1: came out and he was like, I think everything's okay.

1774
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: Nobody's hurt in here, and I haven't found anybody. But

1775
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:34,439
Speaker 1: we still to this day do not know what happened.

1776
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 1: Why the garage door was open, why the back door

1777
01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:39,720
Speaker 1: was wide open. We have an alarm system. It was off, Like,

1778
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 1: we have no idea what happened, Like my mom said,

1779
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 1: like they had closed it, everything was fine.

1780
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,880
Speaker 2: Or was your mom being like, crap, I didn't close it.

1781
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:48,639
Speaker 2: I'm sure as hell and not admitting to the fact

1782
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 2: that I didn't close it because my husband will kick

1783
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 2: my ass. Yeah, I don't know what happen. It wasn't me.

1784
01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 1: It could have that could have ended up being something

1785
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:56,880
Speaker 1: that we found out later, but I don't. I don't

1786
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 1: think it was. Like to my knowledge, we.

1787
01:08:58,520 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 3: Still don't know what happened.

1788
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:00,400
Speaker 2: That's creepy and weird.

1789
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 3: After that, we had put a My dad still to

1790
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:06,960
Speaker 3: this day has a wood like you know how you.

1791
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:08,600
Speaker 1: See in movies where they put the wood over the

1792
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 1: door to like block it from somebody coming in like.

1793
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 2: A front door or a sliding door.

1794
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:13,759
Speaker 1: It's a it's a garage door.

1795
01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 2: Door.

1796
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:17,720
Speaker 1: And my dad has like a wood thing that every

1797
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 1: time he moves over and it's like so nobody can

1798
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 1: bust in there even if.

1799
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 2: They, like he props up again said the kind of thing.

1800
01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's straight up like he built in like the

1801
01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 1: little things, and so it's like he just puts it

1802
01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 1: over and it blocks the entire door. So still to

1803
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:33,160
Speaker 1: this day, all clear, but don't know what happened.

1804
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:35,959
Speaker 2: That's pretty scary. The unsolved mysteries.

1805
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, so many unsolved mysteries in my life.

1806
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:39,640
Speaker 1: I know.

1807
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, this whole even in just this episode, we've had

1808
01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 2: a lot of unsolved mysteries.

1809
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:46,840
Speaker 3: I know something about you brings it out of Uscuba.

1810
01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1811
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:51,200
Speaker 2: Oh.

1812
01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:53,639
Speaker 1: We also have Megan Maroney in the studio this week,

1813
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:56,439
Speaker 1: and that was super fun. First time in studio, and

1814
01:09:56,560 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: her songs are awesome. She performed Tennessee Orange and Girl

1815
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 1: in the Mirror, which both are up on YouTube that

1816
01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 1: people can go watch. And I also got to talk

1817
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 1: to her about how her song is My Life, which

1818
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:06,679
Speaker 1: is fun.

1819
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 2: That was pretty cool.

1820
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you like my story?

1821
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, it was.

1822
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: My spilling the tea on my own life in your

1823
01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:14,679
Speaker 1: own life.

1824
01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:16,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, Because we had that plan to do like the

1825
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:19,360
Speaker 2: day before or whatever or whatever this week, and then

1826
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:21,720
Speaker 2: we didn't do it and then ended up working out

1827
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 2: great to go with the Girl in the Mirror who

1828
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 2: sings the song.

1829
01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, it's perfect.

1830
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 3: I don't like that I'm living that song, but it

1831
01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:30,080
Speaker 3: is what it is.

1832
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and if it has to be my life,

1833
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna talk about it exactly.

1834
01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 2: Any better to talk about it with than the girl

1835
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:37,280
Speaker 2: who wrote the song exactly.

1836
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 1: It does baffle me, though, I still I'm just mind

1837
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 1: blown that women at I'm assuming I don't know much

1838
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 1: about these people, but twenty five and later, this is

1839
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 1: still a thing. Yeah, And no capacity of my life

1840
01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:54,679
Speaker 1: have I ever wanted to message and X a new girlfriend,

1841
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 1: a current, a wife, anything on any level have I

1842
01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 1: ever wanted to? Yeah, it baffles me that somebody like

1843
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 1: had in their head like I need to make sure

1844
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:05,679
Speaker 1: I say what I'm saying.

1845
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:08,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really weird. And then I think it was

1846
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:10,880
Speaker 2: her story right where she's like the reason for the

1847
01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 2: song was that some girl when deep in her Instagram

1848
01:11:14,240 --> 01:11:16,639
Speaker 2: feed like twenty sixteen and like the photo or something,

1849
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:17,479
Speaker 2: and you're like what.

1850
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 1: And that you know a little bit more fair, like

1851
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 1: she was doing some troll and she was checking out

1852
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:25,120
Speaker 1: her competition whatever. Yeah, it's not like I've never not

1853
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:25,640
Speaker 1: done that.

1854
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:28,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you had comment, but the comments, Yes, it wasn't

1855
01:11:28,800 --> 01:11:31,680
Speaker 2: like a like and scrolling like if they like outwardly

1856
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 2: went at you.

1857
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:35,680
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, if you want to talk about me,

1858
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 1: talk about me, but yeah, come at me. Well, yeah, why,

1859
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,360
Speaker 1: I'm the ex that didn't do anything exactly.

1860
01:11:41,400 --> 01:11:42,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm literally the person in.

1861
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:44,320
Speaker 1: That relationship that didn't do anything wrong.

1862
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:46,479
Speaker 2: That's why you coming at me, Like, it seems like

1863
01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 2: you've got.

1864
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 1: Bigger problems, And I've learned some insider information about that.

1865
01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:51,439
Speaker 1: There was definitely problems that happened.

1866
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds like he lied to her a little

1867
01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:58,120
Speaker 2: bit about something and compricated some of the story and whatever.

1868
01:11:58,200 --> 01:12:00,639
Speaker 1: Listen, all I'm saying is if those problems are still happening,

1869
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:02,400
Speaker 1: and then I don't know that y'all should be together.

1870
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:03,759
Speaker 1: But that's none of my business.

1871
01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:04,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1872
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's my life.

1873
01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:09,880
Speaker 3: I love it and hated. I don't want to talk

1874
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:10,720
Speaker 3: about it anymore, but I.

1875
01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:13,719
Speaker 1: Do want to ask you something. Okay, I'm obviously dating

1876
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: and you know, hanging out trying to find my person. Yeah,

1877
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 1: how many dates would you think you should give someone

1878
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 1: before you kind of make a decision of like continue

1879
01:12:24,120 --> 01:12:25,800
Speaker 1: dating them or ending it.

1880
01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 2: I would say, in a world we live in now,

1881
01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:32,479
Speaker 2: I would say I would say give someone at least

1882
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 2: three dates, and the three dates have to be completely

1883
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,559
Speaker 2: different kind of dates. It's not like coffee coffee coffee,

1884
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:39,280
Speaker 2: or a dinner din or dinner needs. You need to

1885
01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:41,679
Speaker 2: see them in different elements of their life, like I'll

1886
01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:41,880
Speaker 2: take you.

1887
01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: So.

1888
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 2: My first date with my wife was at a bar

1889
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 2: in San Francisco, and I strategically placed a block from

1890
01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:49,080
Speaker 2: my place because I was thinking I was gonna hook

1891
01:12:49,160 --> 01:12:50,719
Speaker 2: up with her, but she had other plans.

1892
01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:53,280
Speaker 1: We stand a queen.

1893
01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:55,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah. We were in a nice part of town.

1894
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 2: I was like, Hey, my apartment's just right up the hill,

1895
01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:58,639
Speaker 2: right over there, and she said that's cool. She said

1896
01:12:58,680 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 2: I'm going to go now, and then a friends pay

1897
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 2: her up and she was gone. I was like oh,

1898
01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 2: and I even got a side hug and I was like, whoa,

1899
01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:07,040
Speaker 2: I want some more of that. I was like hell yeah.

1900
01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:09,680
Speaker 2: And then our second date was Disney on Ice, and

1901
01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:11,720
Speaker 2: it was me testing around to see how she'd be

1902
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:14,760
Speaker 2: like quirky and funny and if she's into Disney and

1903
01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 2: because I was into Disney and still am, but also

1904
01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 2: to see how she'd be as like a potential like mother, like.

1905
01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:24,600
Speaker 1: Oh, you were going straight mom on the second mom,

1906
01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 1: because you're gonna be around a bunch of families and

1907
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 1: which tests your patients.

1908
01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:30,439
Speaker 2: And also to see how she's a Disney because usually

1909
01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 2: people who are who are okay with that are going

1910
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 2: to be somewhat like fun and playful and be lighthearted.

1911
01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:37,680
Speaker 2: And also beginning with kids, because kids love Disney. So

1912
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,479
Speaker 2: I want to see how she was in that whole

1913
01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:42,439
Speaker 2: scenario with Disney and Ice and what she canna think.

1914
01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 2: This is so stupid and lame.

1915
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:45,160
Speaker 1: I just want to point out that I love that

1916
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:46,960
Speaker 1: you went from on the first date, like you know,

1917
01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:49,320
Speaker 1: taking her home, to like second where you're like, is

1918
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:51,679
Speaker 1: she going to be a good mom? Like the floor

1919
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:55,960
Speaker 1: opposite of this too, like she she a hook line

1920
01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:56,960
Speaker 1: and sinkerd you on that?

1921
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,639
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she got me. I was like, good god

1922
01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:02,280
Speaker 2: me for the moment I saw her, the moment she left,

1923
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:03,599
Speaker 2: I was like, literally it was one of those moments

1924
01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:05,639
Speaker 2: where you're just like, what the hell just happened?

1925
01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 3: That is what we call a hook line and seeing.

1926
01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 2: Oh she hooked line and seeing me hard. And then

1927
01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:11,879
Speaker 2: the third day, so we're living in living in San Francisco,

1928
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 2: was just her and I walking all around the city,

1929
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 2: which she came to my apartment and and we just walked.

1930
01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:19,800
Speaker 2: We went to a baseball game, We walked around. We

1931
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:21,680
Speaker 2: just like walked around the city, just talked a lot,

1932
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:24,720
Speaker 2: like at food here, had a drink there, just kind

1933
01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:27,080
Speaker 2: of like just walked and talked, and so that was like, okay.

1934
01:14:27,400 --> 01:14:28,800
Speaker 2: So I got to see her element at a bar,

1935
01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 2: see how she handles herself with alcohol, and also see

1936
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,680
Speaker 2: how she handles herself in general, like what if she

1937
01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 2: did she put out the first aid or does she

1938
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 2: make me wait, which she abviously did. Then I saw

1939
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:38,600
Speaker 2: the family side of her, and then I got to

1940
01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:40,080
Speaker 2: like really really get to know her, know her because

1941
01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 2: we walked around for like four or five hours to

1942
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 2: a baseball game, walking, drinking, eating, hanging out. It was

1943
01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:48,800
Speaker 2: a full on, like everything day. So I was like, Okay.

1944
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 2: After the third day, I was like, holy crap. Like

1945
01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:53,439
Speaker 2: I mean, after the first date, I was like, holy crap,

1946
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:55,720
Speaker 2: I'm loving.

1947
01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:57,880
Speaker 1: This because this is the inside brain of a man,

1948
01:14:57,960 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 1: Like instead of inside baseball, this is the inside brain

1949
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:01,040
Speaker 1: of men, of men.

1950
01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:03,400
Speaker 2: And I don't know all men are are this way,

1951
01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:05,160
Speaker 2: but I was because I had already was I was

1952
01:15:05,200 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 2: already married with the expectation of long term and family

1953
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:13,080
Speaker 2: and kids, and then that obviously came to a screeching

1954
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 2: hole of infidelity and not wanting kids anymore. In fidelity

1955
01:15:16,360 --> 01:15:18,640
Speaker 2: and her part, by the way, folks not me and

1956
01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:21,559
Speaker 2: so so for me, it was like, Okay, I'm already

1957
01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:23,639
Speaker 2: in this game space. If I want family, I want

1958
01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 2: long term. It wasn't like I'm looking for a hookup,

1959
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:27,759
Speaker 2: which I'm not saying every guy is looking for a hookup,

1960
01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 2: but the majority of her than Yeah. Well, especially if

1961
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 2: you're living in a see like Nashville, where it's four

1962
01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:37,200
Speaker 2: girls to one guy. It's almost unfair for a girl

1963
01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:40,240
Speaker 2: in Nashville because there's so many guys. I mean, so

1964
01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 2: many girls, Scooba.

1965
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:44,519
Speaker 1: Let me tell you in the last two days that

1966
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 1: I have gotten three messages from guys that I matched with.

1967
01:15:48,600 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 1: One of them is like, don't hate me if I

1968
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:52,400
Speaker 1: tell you that I'm on an overnight in Nashville tonight.

1969
01:15:52,439 --> 01:15:53,559
Speaker 3: Do you want to get dinner or something?

1970
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:56,599
Speaker 1: He wants to and I said, nope, not my vibe,

1971
01:15:56,840 --> 01:15:58,560
Speaker 1: have a great night, unmatched.

1972
01:15:58,720 --> 01:15:58,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1973
01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 1: Another one was I realized I matched you and I

1974
01:16:02,080 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 1: was flying over in Nashville. Sir, shut up, you were

1975
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:07,639
Speaker 1: not yeah doing that, you did that on purpose.

1976
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:09,719
Speaker 2: And also, no yeah, exactly.

1977
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:11,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then another one came through.

1978
01:16:11,080 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 1: It was like I'm just visiting. I'm on Broadway.

1979
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:16,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, that's great, have a great time, leave me alone,

1980
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:17,360
Speaker 3: go go.

1981
01:16:17,479 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 2: Go some mother girls drunk on Broadway and on vacation yep.

1982
01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:21,479
Speaker 1: And what all three of those want?

1983
01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh of course, yeah. Yeah, they're not looking for

1984
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:29,799
Speaker 2: anything more than that. No, Yeah, So my overall, my advice,

1985
01:16:29,880 --> 01:16:32,040
Speaker 2: you would be at least three to four dates and

1986
01:16:32,200 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 2: every day be something different and in a space that

1987
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:38,200
Speaker 2: like like I did, like I was looking for okay,

1988
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 2: first the fun and then the family and then just

1989
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 2: really getting to know them kind of thing, so kind

1990
01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:44,040
Speaker 2: of do different dates.

1991
01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:47,040
Speaker 1: Well, So I'm just at this point suba where I

1992
01:16:47,120 --> 01:16:51,080
Speaker 1: feel very meh yeah, like I just I don't know

1993
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:53,240
Speaker 1: if it's because so many people have just really messed

1994
01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: with me that I'm just like, man, you better be

1995
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,600
Speaker 1: a fricking unicorn, which is already what I'm looking for.

1996
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:00,879
Speaker 3: I'm already literally looking for a unicorn.

1997
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like you better be a really freaking unicorn

1998
01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:05,280
Speaker 1: if you're going to like take my time and my energy,

1999
01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:09,080
Speaker 1: because I'm tired of what is the there's a meme

2000
01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:11,599
Speaker 1: I'm tired of this grandpa. Do you know what I'm

2001
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:14,519
Speaker 1: talking about. It's in a movie, I believe, But she

2002
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 1: like yells at him and she's like, I'm tired of

2003
01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 1: this grandpa. And he's like, that's too damn bad. That's

2004
01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:22,639
Speaker 1: what I feel like. I feel like I'm the little

2005
01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:25,400
Speaker 1: girl in the dating group and my parents are like, well,

2006
01:17:25,680 --> 01:17:26,960
Speaker 1: this is what you're going to have to do to

2007
01:17:27,040 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 1: find somebody.

2008
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 2: So what is your age range that you usually go after?

2009
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:33,840
Speaker 1: It's either my age or I think I have it

2010
01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:34,800
Speaker 1: till like thirty five.

2011
01:17:35,160 --> 01:17:37,559
Speaker 2: Okay, so maybe maybe it'sart looking for guys that are

2012
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 2: forty or not.

2013
01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if I'm there forty, I don't

2014
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:44,560
Speaker 1: know if i've depth, I've tipped my said, dip my

2015
01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:45,519
Speaker 1: toes into that water.

2016
01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:47,599
Speaker 2: But it's also then you go to that age range

2017
01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:49,040
Speaker 2: and you're like, well, why are you so single at

2018
01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:51,960
Speaker 2: that age? But this age range is this time is

2019
01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:54,599
Speaker 2: different because some people will now have been so career

2020
01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:57,160
Speaker 2: focused for a really long time, and it takes longer

2021
01:17:57,240 --> 01:17:59,599
Speaker 2: to get your career going than it did in the seventies,

2022
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:01,679
Speaker 2: where you you're going out of college and you're already

2023
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:03,040
Speaker 2: making good money. You can buy a house for twenty

2024
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:05,759
Speaker 2: thousand dollars and have a family and be just fine.

2025
01:18:05,920 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 1: Yep.

2026
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 2: So maybe guys and girls are having to find love

2027
01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 2: later in life. So I guess me, you look for

2028
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:12,519
Speaker 2: an older guy, not too old.

2029
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:14,679
Speaker 1: And not like fifty. Well that's what so far. Currently

2030
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 1: I'm looking at least six years older, so okay, super older. Yeah, yeah,

2031
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 1: I got a little bit.

2032
01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:21,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I would say younger, you're probably not.

2033
01:18:21,680 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 1: Not good hard pass on that for me. Yeah, it's

2034
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:27,240
Speaker 1: just unless like they're just unless I meet them naturally.

2035
01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:29,719
Speaker 1: And yeah, like if I'm purposely looking.

2036
01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:30,559
Speaker 3: No, I'm not looking younger.

2037
01:18:30,640 --> 01:18:32,639
Speaker 1: But if I meet someone and they're an amazing, great

2038
01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 1: guy and they're younger, is what it is.

2039
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, and the younger mean like a year or

2040
01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:39,400
Speaker 2: two or three years maybe, yeah, not like ten years

2041
01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 2: a guy ten years child. Yes, I almost had to say,

2042
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:44,880
Speaker 2: I hate to say it's but it's the truth I have.

2043
01:18:45,040 --> 01:18:47,200
Speaker 2: Like a ten year younger guy versus ten year younger

2044
01:18:47,240 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 2: girl could be a whole different kind of person. Oh absolutely,

2045
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:51,679
Speaker 2: I think women mature a little faster and quicker, whereas

2046
01:18:51,720 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 2: guys are like bub boobs.

2047
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but it like the reason I asked you

2048
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:57,840
Speaker 1: because I've I've been on three dates to the guy,

2049
01:18:57,960 --> 01:19:00,840
Speaker 1: and I think he's awesome and we've had great dates,

2050
01:19:01,479 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 1: and I just like, I just don't know if there's

2051
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:05,559
Speaker 1: just this blockage happening to me where I just am like.

2052
01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:09,560
Speaker 3: Something has to happen for like almost.

2053
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:11,439
Speaker 1: To be like unlocked, for me to be like, oh, yay,

2054
01:19:12,080 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 1: you're really awesome.

2055
01:19:13,280 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 2: Well what were your three dates? Like, what were the

2056
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:16,640
Speaker 2: if you don't mind saying like, yeah, did you go the.

2057
01:19:16,680 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 1: First day we did pins, we went and duckfin bowling.

2058
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 2: That's fun, okay, cool gets this fun side.

2059
01:19:20,640 --> 01:19:22,360
Speaker 1: And second date he came to a concert with me,

2060
01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:24,560
Speaker 1: okay cool. And third day we went to dinner. So

2061
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,599
Speaker 1: all variations of dates, I've seen them in different environments

2062
01:19:27,680 --> 01:19:29,719
Speaker 1: and I'm like, there's there's no red flags.

2063
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, And we like had like.

2064
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:34,040
Speaker 1: Intense conversations, especially at dinner. We're like, what's the three

2065
01:19:34,080 --> 01:19:36,559
Speaker 1: things you're not supposed to talk about? Let's talk about them. Okay,

2066
01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 1: here we are, let's get serious. This is gonna work

2067
01:19:40,640 --> 01:19:43,720
Speaker 1: and so and everything like we line up like it's

2068
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:44,639
Speaker 1: a good match.

2069
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 2: Okay, you're a line of what you're looking for a

2070
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:50,280
Speaker 2: long term Yeah, term. So, but I just family family.

2071
01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like as far as everything, like we kind

2072
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:54,680
Speaker 1: of believe in all that, you know, all the very

2073
01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 1: serious aspects of dating, all good and.

2074
01:19:57,280 --> 01:20:00,600
Speaker 2: All the important things are matching up, but there's just

2075
01:20:00,680 --> 01:20:04,240
Speaker 2: no spark or there's no there's no like physical chemistry

2076
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:04,680
Speaker 2: there is.

2077
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,360
Speaker 1: It's like I am excited to talk to him and

2078
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:07,640
Speaker 1: I am excited to go out with him, or I

2079
01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:10,680
Speaker 1: want to cancel by now I know my personality, I'm out.

2080
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:12,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but there's just.

2081
01:20:12,920 --> 01:20:14,680
Speaker 1: Like a part of me that's almost like something is

2082
01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 1: just like turned off, not from him, like genuinely like

2083
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:19,920
Speaker 1: a thing into my brain is straight up turned off.

2084
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:23,640
Speaker 1: And it's like it's just somebody's like knocking on the

2085
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:25,679
Speaker 1: door and it's just not answering. Does that make sense?

2086
01:20:25,880 --> 01:20:29,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, So basically it's not him. It's not him. It's

2087
01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:31,599
Speaker 2: it's because of your experience with dating, you're just turned

2088
01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:32,040
Speaker 2: off in general.

2089
01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so that wouldn't fall him for this then, like, yeah,

2090
01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 1: no I'm not, and I am going to go out

2091
01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:37,240
Speaker 1: with him again. We're gonna hang out again and do

2092
01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:39,280
Speaker 1: like a or chill setting so I can see, like

2093
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:41,680
Speaker 1: do we vibe on like just a very normal, like

2094
01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:43,640
Speaker 1: we've done a lot of cool things. Yeah, do we

2095
01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:45,599
Speaker 1: vibe when there's not something cool happening?

2096
01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:48,280
Speaker 2: Okay, so then have you done? Because my fourth date

2097
01:20:48,640 --> 01:20:51,360
Speaker 2: with my wife was one where it was with like

2098
01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:53,880
Speaker 2: her three or four really good friends and then her

2099
01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 2: brother and her cousin, like like her tribe basically came out.

2100
01:20:57,600 --> 01:20:59,120
Speaker 2: We had like a tribe date.

2101
01:20:59,360 --> 01:21:01,599
Speaker 3: See that would have been for me in like seven dates.

2102
01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:03,680
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't even interest. I don't bring in the

2103
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:06,080
Speaker 1: friends until it's like, okay, I think I might consider

2104
01:21:06,200 --> 01:21:06,519
Speaker 1: this guy.

2105
01:21:06,640 --> 01:21:10,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I think friends matter because it's not family.

2106
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 1: Oh listen, my friends go hard, well.

2107
01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:14,640
Speaker 2: They don't need, but I would have them not go

2108
01:21:14,760 --> 01:21:18,000
Speaker 2: hard will. I would have them be more spectators, so

2109
01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:20,360
Speaker 2: that way they're they're there, they're hanging out, they're talking

2110
01:21:20,800 --> 01:21:23,880
Speaker 2: and almost like listen more than speak, so you can

2111
01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:26,280
Speaker 2: hear how what he's saying and how he's saying it,

2112
01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:31,160
Speaker 2: how he's acting. Don't have them be the interrogating trio,

2113
01:21:31,439 --> 01:21:33,400
Speaker 2: because then it's no fun for anybody, even if he

2114
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:35,880
Speaker 2: the great guy, it's no fun. You almost have to

2115
01:21:35,920 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 2: tell them, hey, we're going to go out and I'm

2116
01:21:38,120 --> 01:21:40,000
Speaker 2: bringing my friends and maybe even have him bring a

2117
01:21:40,040 --> 01:21:42,320
Speaker 2: couple of his friends so then you can see what

2118
01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:44,840
Speaker 2: he is like with his friends. Is he going to

2119
01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:46,640
Speaker 2: be a dick? Is he going to ignore you? Is

2120
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:48,120
Speaker 2: he going to treat you differently? Is he going to

2121
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:50,519
Speaker 2: be my cheesemo type guy, or is he going to

2122
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:52,840
Speaker 2: be really cool still? And also how are his friends

2123
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 2: He's always there, always always gonna be one dick friend.

2124
01:21:55,840 --> 01:21:58,120
Speaker 2: Are all of his friends assholes or all of his

2125
01:21:58,280 --> 01:22:00,679
Speaker 2: friends on a level where you're never we're going to match?

2126
01:22:01,560 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 2: Then I feel like that would be a good one,

2127
01:22:03,160 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 2: especially if you're in a place where you've already dated

2128
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:07,640
Speaker 2: so much and you're you're you're turned off inside, not

2129
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 2: by him, but just by dating in general. Yeah, I

2130
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:10,599
Speaker 2: feel like you just beed it up a little bit.

2131
01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 2: And the fourth or fifth date should be the meet

2132
01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:16,839
Speaker 2: my friends. And even say, this doesn't mean we're super serious.

2133
01:22:17,160 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 2: This just means I want you to see my friends,

2134
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:20,000
Speaker 2: and I just want to hang out with you and

2135
01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:22,200
Speaker 2: have your friends hang out and we just do like

2136
01:22:22,240 --> 01:22:23,839
Speaker 2: a group thing, just a group.

2137
01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:25,360
Speaker 1: Setting that makes me terrify.

2138
01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:28,599
Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, but it's terrified, But you shouldn't put

2139
01:22:28,640 --> 01:22:31,320
Speaker 2: it in the space to him. And also to you

2140
01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:33,040
Speaker 2: of like, Okay, this means we're gonna get married. Now,

2141
01:22:33,200 --> 01:22:34,960
Speaker 2: that's just me. I'm just curious. I just want to

2142
01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 2: put you in another setting to see how you do

2143
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:38,320
Speaker 2: in this setting and maybe be honest with him, be like, look,

2144
01:22:39,240 --> 01:22:41,360
Speaker 2: dating is weird for me, and I've dated a lot,

2145
01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:43,800
Speaker 2: and maybe you've already talked about this with him, and

2146
01:22:43,920 --> 01:22:44,920
Speaker 2: just say, hey, look, I just want to kind of

2147
01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:46,679
Speaker 2: hang out with some friends. Just do something really chill

2148
01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:48,559
Speaker 2: and then leave it at that, and then your friends

2149
01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:52,439
Speaker 2: will then be really chill and say girls, they.

2150
01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:54,840
Speaker 1: Will, they will, They'll totally do whatever. I'm like. But yeah,

2151
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:56,760
Speaker 1: it's just more that, like I don't know. When I

2152
01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:59,080
Speaker 1: bring people around at this point in my life, it's

2153
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:03,200
Speaker 1: definitely more serious, yeah than it is not. Yeah, but

2154
01:23:03,520 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 1: I just don't know. I'm just in it.

2155
01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:06,600
Speaker 3: I'm in a weird place, I know.

2156
01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:08,880
Speaker 2: But is even someone that you would see yourself being

2157
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:11,560
Speaker 2: serious with based on the things you've talked about? Yeah, Like,

2158
01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:14,040
Speaker 2: like I said, why not, then let's just do it?

2159
01:23:14,200 --> 01:23:16,320
Speaker 1: I know. I just like I'm telling you, just something

2160
01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:19,800
Speaker 1: in me is like yeah, meh. Literally, that's the only

2161
01:23:19,840 --> 01:23:21,400
Speaker 1: word I can use to describe it. As Like I

2162
01:23:21,479 --> 01:23:22,160
Speaker 1: am neh.

2163
01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:24,560
Speaker 2: I know, I know, but it's like if you're but

2164
01:23:24,600 --> 01:23:27,560
Speaker 2: you're always being met until at some point you like,

2165
01:23:27,640 --> 01:23:28,360
Speaker 2: I guess try.

2166
01:23:28,960 --> 01:23:32,840
Speaker 1: And I have noticed too. This is I'm being so honest.

2167
01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:34,800
Speaker 1: And Dad, please stop listening. If you're listening right.

2168
01:23:34,720 --> 01:23:37,280
Speaker 2: Now, he's like, I'm gonna turn it up even louder.

2169
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:43,280
Speaker 1: I have noticed that there is more physical attraction with

2170
01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:45,320
Speaker 1: guys that aren't as nice. And I don't like that.

2171
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:48,080
Speaker 2: Oh that I think it's the problem women in general.

2172
01:23:48,520 --> 01:23:48,840
Speaker 2: I don't.

2173
01:23:48,960 --> 01:23:51,320
Speaker 1: It's not even it's like it's something about it that

2174
01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:52,599
Speaker 1: like the physical attraction.

2175
01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:54,599
Speaker 3: It's not even the bad boy aspect.

2176
01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:58,080
Speaker 1: It's just that like thing. No, Like it's like the

2177
01:23:58,360 --> 01:24:00,400
Speaker 1: the energy that they put out or whatever.

2178
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,600
Speaker 2: I don't they're confident. I don't know, the confident on

2179
01:24:03,640 --> 01:24:04,800
Speaker 2: the outside of the answer. They're not.

2180
01:24:04,960 --> 01:24:07,120
Speaker 1: They're great kissers, Okay, it's really what it.

2181
01:24:07,080 --> 01:24:08,479
Speaker 2: Is because they've been around the block a lot.

2182
01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:10,320
Speaker 1: Like I said, Dad, please stop listening.

2183
01:24:11,280 --> 01:24:13,080
Speaker 2: They don't kiss a tongue, Dad his lips.

2184
01:24:14,640 --> 01:24:17,840
Speaker 1: But it's just like they're yeah, like there's something about

2185
01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:20,400
Speaker 1: it that I've noticed that, like, nicer guys just aren't

2186
01:24:20,439 --> 01:24:23,680
Speaker 1: as I don't know what the word is because the.

2187
01:24:23,760 --> 01:24:25,760
Speaker 2: Nicer guys are the one like I was a nicer

2188
01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:28,160
Speaker 2: guy because I was always afraid to be the one

2189
01:24:28,200 --> 01:24:30,360
Speaker 2: to initiate, because I was always afraid of fear, and

2190
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:32,280
Speaker 2: I was the fear of rejection and all that kind

2191
01:24:32,280 --> 01:24:34,680
Speaker 2: of stuff. A guy who is puts himself out there

2192
01:24:34,760 --> 01:24:37,640
Speaker 2: more isn't afraid of rejection because they because by the

2193
01:24:37,720 --> 01:24:39,120
Speaker 2: time they got the kiss from you, and not saying

2194
01:24:39,120 --> 01:24:42,479
Speaker 2: it's you dad, not you dad, dad, but your daughter dad,

2195
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:45,240
Speaker 2: but because they because before they kissed you, they tried

2196
01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:46,880
Speaker 2: it with nine other girls and then finally you're the

2197
01:24:46,880 --> 01:24:48,639
Speaker 2: one that said yes. And so he's like I already

2198
01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:51,000
Speaker 2: has been said no to nine times and this one works.

2199
01:24:51,040 --> 01:24:54,519
Speaker 2: So so those unfortunate are the guys because they play

2200
01:24:54,560 --> 01:24:56,840
Speaker 2: the odds, and a guy who's nice doesn't play the

2201
01:24:56,840 --> 01:24:59,680
Speaker 2: odds because they're afraid of rejection and they're afraid of

2202
01:24:59,760 --> 01:25:02,240
Speaker 2: what they're off night just rejection, they're also afraid of,

2203
01:25:02,439 --> 01:25:06,160
Speaker 2: like of I think, just afraid, you know.

2204
01:25:06,400 --> 01:25:09,240
Speaker 3: And trust me, I've gone there all that, so like,

2205
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:10,799
Speaker 3: you know, what I'm really looking.

2206
01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 1: For, it's a guy that I like to kiss and

2207
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:15,240
Speaker 1: he's a good guy. Yeah, And that seems impossible to find.

2208
01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:17,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, because the guy that the good guy doesn't like

2209
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:20,320
Speaker 2: to kiss, but he's afraid to kiss, like it took

2210
01:25:20,400 --> 01:25:22,760
Speaker 2: like I didn't kiss my wife until the fourth or

2211
01:25:22,800 --> 01:25:25,200
Speaker 2: fifth date. We didn't kiss. It was because I was

2212
01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:27,120
Speaker 2: also nervous and she let me.

2213
01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:29,439
Speaker 1: Out, cracking me up. The fact that like the first day,

2214
01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:32,840
Speaker 1: you were like ready to take your home, and that's

2215
01:25:32,880 --> 01:25:33,720
Speaker 1: what I probably kissed her.

2216
01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:36,479
Speaker 2: Well honestly, I mean, if they probably even happen, I've

2217
01:25:36,479 --> 01:25:38,280
Speaker 2: probably have been so nervous. I probably wouldn't have even

2218
01:25:38,320 --> 01:25:40,280
Speaker 2: gone back to the place that back to the place.

2219
01:25:40,320 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, it's actually I got something like I

2220
01:25:42,400 --> 01:25:44,720
Speaker 2: got I can't buy. I probab would have left her.

2221
01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:46,479
Speaker 2: I took a big game, but I probably would have

2222
01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:47,479
Speaker 2: never even had the big game.

2223
01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 1: That's fair. So I think you need to get it's hilarious.

2224
01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 1: I just am loving the story of secrets of how

2225
01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:54,840
Speaker 1: it's happening.

2226
01:25:54,760 --> 01:25:57,439
Speaker 2: Total Yeah, because that's yeah. Again, the nicer guy probably

2227
01:25:57,479 --> 01:25:59,240
Speaker 2: would have that intentionip, but never actually do it.

2228
01:25:59,400 --> 01:25:59,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2229
01:25:59,760 --> 01:26:01,200
Speaker 2: I think you almost have to give the nicer guy

2230
01:26:01,240 --> 01:26:03,439
Speaker 2: a chance or maybe you unfortunately want that makes the

2231
01:26:03,479 --> 01:26:05,840
Speaker 2: move and then and then know that the first ten

2232
01:26:05,920 --> 01:26:08,240
Speaker 2: seconds of that kiss are going to be a nervous kiss,

2233
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:12,760
Speaker 2: but then it's eventually going to work itself out and

2234
01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:14,519
Speaker 2: maybe like kiss, I'm.

2235
01:26:14,400 --> 01:26:17,560
Speaker 1: Getting very vulnerable here, and I don't like it. I

2236
01:26:17,640 --> 01:26:20,160
Speaker 1: don't like it. Yeah, that's that's my current dilemma that

2237
01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:23,680
Speaker 1: I and I'm trying to trying to wade through the

2238
01:26:23,760 --> 01:26:26,839
Speaker 1: waters and understand and yeah, have patience.

2239
01:26:26,880 --> 01:26:28,839
Speaker 2: But you're obviously the more confident one in the relationship,

2240
01:26:28,880 --> 01:26:30,840
Speaker 2: Like my wife was always the more confident one. So

2241
01:26:30,960 --> 01:26:32,680
Speaker 2: I feel like you. I feel like that's actually a

2242
01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 2: good thing too, to be the more confident and the

2243
01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:37,640
Speaker 2: stronger and okay, to be on your own and to

2244
01:26:37,720 --> 01:26:40,160
Speaker 2: be with a guy who's nervous and nice.

2245
01:26:40,600 --> 01:26:42,519
Speaker 1: I have always wanted a nerdy guy like that is

2246
01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 1: my vibe.

2247
01:26:43,120 --> 01:26:45,920
Speaker 2: I don't want like Peter, you want Peter Parker, I

2248
01:26:46,120 --> 01:26:46,760
Speaker 2: do or.

2249
01:26:48,040 --> 01:26:51,360
Speaker 1: Crap, what's his name? What's Superman's name? Can I want

2250
01:26:51,360 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 1: a guy who's like nerdy?

2251
01:26:52,320 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 2: You don't want Bruce Wayne Waye an asshole?

2252
01:26:55,000 --> 01:26:57,560
Speaker 1: I need a Clark Kent or to Peter Parker, who's like,

2253
01:26:57,800 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 1: you know, works hard, he's got a nice physique because

2254
01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:06,120
Speaker 1: he secretly loves the gym, but he really loves nerdy things.

2255
01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:08,120
Speaker 2: Yes, and he doesn't go on Instagram taking pictures of

2256
01:27:08,160 --> 01:27:11,840
Speaker 2: his body because he's nervous and he's self conscious about himself.

2257
01:27:11,920 --> 01:27:15,160
Speaker 1: So if Peter Parker Clark can't are listening, I'm looking

2258
01:27:15,200 --> 01:27:15,400
Speaker 1: for you.

2259
01:27:15,840 --> 01:27:17,439
Speaker 2: Was this guy, Peter Parker Clark Ken?

2260
01:27:18,600 --> 01:27:20,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, so far, okay, so far?

2261
01:27:20,640 --> 01:27:22,040
Speaker 2: Okay, Well then I would put him.

2262
01:27:21,960 --> 01:27:25,040
Speaker 1: In that category. So far, okay, We'll not gonna go

2263
01:27:25,120 --> 01:27:26,880
Speaker 1: like a fourth day. Never mind, I take you back,

2264
01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:27,559
Speaker 1: take it all back.

2265
01:27:27,720 --> 01:27:29,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is spamris when to see they have to say,

2266
01:27:30,000 --> 01:27:35,080
Speaker 2: oh yo, oh, it's urgent.

2267
01:27:36,360 --> 01:27:39,000
Speaker 1: This is our final attempt to reach you to qualified.

2268
01:27:39,200 --> 01:27:43,760
Speaker 1: Always oh my gosh, your healts coverage is gonna go away.

2269
01:27:45,560 --> 01:27:50,960
Speaker 2: It's always a final attempt. Calls, there's always a final attempt.

2270
01:27:51,280 --> 01:27:53,360
Speaker 2: It's always something to do with healthcare or Wiener pills.

2271
01:27:54,520 --> 01:27:56,120
Speaker 1: I love how it's automated and then it goes to

2272
01:27:56,200 --> 01:27:56,519
Speaker 1: something and.

2273
01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:58,800
Speaker 2: I know they hear me talking about I said Wiener pills,

2274
01:27:58,800 --> 01:28:01,320
Speaker 2: and they go, no, I did to mess with us.

2275
01:28:01,439 --> 01:28:02,080
Speaker 1: They got on us.

2276
01:28:02,160 --> 01:28:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, they got on it real quick.

2277
01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

2278
01:28:04,160 --> 01:28:05,760
Speaker 3: Okay, well, no, I don't want to.

2279
01:28:05,760 --> 01:28:06,479
Speaker 1: Go into this anymore.

2280
01:28:07,320 --> 01:28:09,040
Speaker 3: I had a therapy session turned back.

2281
01:28:08,960 --> 01:28:12,240
Speaker 2: On exactly, so number one sitting on the couch, you're

2282
01:28:12,280 --> 01:28:12,679
Speaker 2: a chair.

2283
01:28:14,040 --> 01:28:17,240
Speaker 1: Coming in at the number one spot was she got

2284
01:28:19,120 --> 01:28:21,120
Speaker 1: Scuba trying to move forward.

2285
01:28:21,439 --> 01:28:24,680
Speaker 2: Okay, so your dad's listening. Your dad's like, let him

2286
01:28:24,720 --> 01:28:26,479
Speaker 2: talk more. He has great points.

2287
01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:29,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, trust her. You're not saying anything my friends or

2288
01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:34,920
Speaker 1: my family. Amy got mistaken as Caitlyn's mom. Kaitlyn is

2289
01:28:35,000 --> 01:28:38,160
Speaker 1: Bobby's wife, and it was a whole scenario and Amy's

2290
01:28:38,160 --> 01:28:39,080
Speaker 1: still pretty upset by it.

2291
01:28:39,160 --> 01:28:40,960
Speaker 3: But that comes in at the number one spot this week.

2292
01:28:41,000 --> 01:28:43,280
Speaker 1: But I don't got anything else because I have I

2293
01:28:43,360 --> 01:28:44,960
Speaker 1: tried to make Scuba going therapy.

2294
01:28:45,479 --> 01:28:48,400
Speaker 3: I reluctantly came into therapy and now.

2295
01:28:48,320 --> 01:28:48,800
Speaker 1: We are done.

2296
01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:50,680
Speaker 2: Well, My and my thing on the whole Amy thing,

2297
01:28:50,720 --> 01:28:52,880
Speaker 2: and I had an opinion on it was the way

2298
01:28:52,880 --> 01:28:54,439
Speaker 2: I was thinking about it was two things. One neither.

2299
01:28:54,479 --> 01:28:55,880
Speaker 2: The guy was obviously trying to hit an Amy and

2300
01:28:56,280 --> 01:28:57,519
Speaker 2: was like probably trying to be like, oh, you're the

2301
01:28:57,560 --> 01:28:59,640
Speaker 2: older sister and flubbed his words and said Mom was like,

2302
01:29:00,160 --> 01:29:01,760
Speaker 2: I can't go back on it now. But I was

2303
01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:03,400
Speaker 2: even thinking about it could be in the sense of

2304
01:29:04,160 --> 01:29:05,760
Speaker 2: and this is just the way I was thinking about

2305
01:29:05,800 --> 01:29:09,559
Speaker 2: it was Caitlin does look younger than thirty. She's thirty, right,

2306
01:29:09,640 --> 01:29:11,840
Speaker 2: thirty or thirty one, thirty one, thirty one, but she

2307
01:29:12,160 --> 01:29:13,960
Speaker 2: looks younger. And then I took a lot of women

2308
01:29:14,000 --> 01:29:16,559
Speaker 2: who are in that twenty five to thirty range look

2309
01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:19,000
Speaker 2: like they're twenty one, twenty two or whatever. So I

2310
01:29:19,200 --> 01:29:23,640
Speaker 2: saw it as as Amy could be her mother. But

2311
01:29:23,760 --> 01:29:25,640
Speaker 2: Amy is a young mom, like someone who had a

2312
01:29:25,720 --> 01:29:28,960
Speaker 2: kid at fifteen or sixteen, which is very very common.

2313
01:29:29,280 --> 01:29:31,360
Speaker 2: And you see women a lot like there was that

2314
01:29:31,439 --> 01:29:33,519
Speaker 2: one story in the news where some guy was dating

2315
01:29:33,520 --> 01:29:35,960
Speaker 2: a woman who looks like could be a daughter's friend

2316
01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:36,280
Speaker 2: or whatever.

2317
01:29:36,520 --> 01:29:38,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it looks like it's daughter.

2318
01:29:38,560 --> 01:29:39,800
Speaker 2: But I know a lot of people who had kids.

2319
01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:42,240
Speaker 2: One of my cousins had a kid at fourteen, and

2320
01:29:42,720 --> 01:29:45,120
Speaker 2: she had it and then now she's, you know, older,

2321
01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:47,960
Speaker 2: she's thirty five to forty range, and a lot of

2322
01:29:48,000 --> 01:29:52,559
Speaker 2: times people will assume that that that's like her friend

2323
01:29:53,160 --> 01:29:55,800
Speaker 2: or how am I trying to say? Now, I'm actually

2324
01:29:55,880 --> 01:29:57,519
Speaker 2: trying to be very cautious because I don't want to

2325
01:29:57,520 --> 01:29:59,600
Speaker 2: piss anyone off. But I guess I'll just get to

2326
01:29:59,640 --> 01:30:02,360
Speaker 2: the doing you leika, or give us the meat Scooba

2327
01:30:02,360 --> 01:30:05,840
Speaker 2: me is. Basically my point is that Amy could look

2328
01:30:05,920 --> 01:30:08,519
Speaker 2: like her mother but had her at a very young age.

2329
01:30:09,040 --> 01:30:12,840
Speaker 2: And Amy looks young and the daughter looks younger, and

2330
01:30:12,920 --> 01:30:14,360
Speaker 2: so it could be like, oh, this is your daughter,

2331
01:30:14,400 --> 01:30:15,800
Speaker 2: but you had her when you were younger and you're

2332
01:30:15,880 --> 01:30:20,400
Speaker 2: now forty and she's twenty five. And because Kate looks

2333
01:30:20,400 --> 01:30:22,400
Speaker 2: like she could be twenty five and Amy, you know,

2334
01:30:22,520 --> 01:30:24,120
Speaker 2: could look like she's you know, mid thirties.

2335
01:30:24,400 --> 01:30:24,519
Speaker 1: You know.

2336
01:30:24,840 --> 01:30:27,000
Speaker 3: My other theory too is that they had her son

2337
01:30:27,120 --> 01:30:29,080
Speaker 3: with them. Stevenson was with them.

2338
01:30:29,320 --> 01:30:33,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, And sometimes people just see a group of people

2339
01:30:34,200 --> 01:30:36,479
Speaker 1: and if there's two kids, they're like, Okay, who looks the.

2340
01:30:37,080 --> 01:30:39,559
Speaker 3: Just the oldest of that group. Yeah, and they're like, oh,

2341
01:30:39,600 --> 01:30:40,080
Speaker 3: that's the mom.

2342
01:30:40,160 --> 01:30:42,360
Speaker 1: And they don't think twice about ages, they don't think

2343
01:30:42,400 --> 01:30:45,600
Speaker 1: twice about anything. It's just a generalization, yeah, that I

2344
01:30:45,720 --> 01:30:49,519
Speaker 1: feel might have happened, and it wasn't like because then, honestly,

2345
01:30:49,600 --> 01:30:51,360
Speaker 1: most of the time, like they were doing, they were

2346
01:30:51,400 --> 01:30:54,120
Speaker 1: running errands and sometimes you don't see like girls running

2347
01:30:54,200 --> 01:30:56,760
Speaker 1: errands together. My friends and I do, and like some

2348
01:30:56,920 --> 01:30:59,880
Speaker 1: people do, but it's just not maybe not as often

2349
01:31:00,040 --> 01:31:02,439
Speaker 1: for this guy that he sees that happen. Yeah, and

2350
01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:04,120
Speaker 1: so he was just like, ah, it's their mom and

2351
01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:06,840
Speaker 1: her kids totally yeah, and didn't even like look at them.

2352
01:31:07,040 --> 01:31:09,400
Speaker 1: It was just like generalization of people.

2353
01:31:09,840 --> 01:31:11,120
Speaker 2: Yes, if that makes sense, it does.

2354
01:31:11,240 --> 01:31:11,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2355
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:13,120
Speaker 2: And we also live in the South where everyone you

2356
01:31:13,200 --> 01:31:14,920
Speaker 2: go to the you go to Walmart, and everyone's like, hey,

2357
01:31:15,320 --> 01:31:17,120
Speaker 2: how are you, and like I've never seen in my life,

2358
01:31:17,280 --> 01:31:20,280
Speaker 2: everyone's very outspoken and just talks and tries to make conversation,

2359
01:31:20,720 --> 01:31:22,760
Speaker 2: whereas like on the West Coast, people keep their heads

2360
01:31:22,760 --> 01:31:24,439
Speaker 2: on their phones or don't even look at people and

2361
01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:27,600
Speaker 2: go on her day. I ain't talking to her like that,

2362
01:31:27,960 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 2: my daughter, I don't know. I don't cares. Next, Yeah,

2363
01:31:30,160 --> 01:31:32,280
Speaker 2: and then Amy being hard on herself. She looks amazing.

2364
01:31:32,520 --> 01:31:33,439
Speaker 3: Oh, she looks awesome.

2365
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:34,800
Speaker 2: My god, looks like.

2366
01:31:35,439 --> 01:31:38,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, if I look like her, I'd be like, I'm

2367
01:31:39,000 --> 01:31:40,120
Speaker 1: killing it exactly.

2368
01:31:40,600 --> 01:31:42,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god. For her to have any sort of

2369
01:31:42,320 --> 01:31:45,479
Speaker 2: doubt on what she looks like, it baffles me. I'm like,

2370
01:31:45,479 --> 01:31:47,600
Speaker 2: I don't get it. She looks amazing, not even just

2371
01:31:47,680 --> 01:31:50,479
Speaker 2: for age. She looks amazing. So it's like I wouldn't

2372
01:31:50,920 --> 01:31:52,800
Speaker 2: I'm just talking to the sky right now, But I don't.

2373
01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:56,160
Speaker 2: She shouldn't have any worry about anything, no appearance or whatever.

2374
01:31:56,320 --> 01:31:59,559
Speaker 1: It's just when people say something and yeah, especially if

2375
01:31:59,560 --> 01:32:04,800
Speaker 1: somebody says something that highlights and insecurity you already have. Yeah, yeah,

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01:32:04,920 --> 01:32:05,519
Speaker 1: is when it's bad.

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01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:06,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:32:06,160 --> 01:32:08,080
Speaker 1: If it's not an insecurity you already have, you can

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01:32:08,120 --> 01:32:10,519
Speaker 1: typically brush it off pretty good and be like whatever,

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01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:12,599
Speaker 1: I don't know who you are. But if it's something

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01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:16,120
Speaker 1: you're already insecure about yourself, and for a women's society

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01:32:16,160 --> 01:32:18,599
Speaker 1: has taught us to be insecure about getting older. Yeah,

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01:32:19,640 --> 01:32:22,120
Speaker 1: so that's probably something even if it's just in the

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01:32:22,160 --> 01:32:23,240
Speaker 1: back of your mind and then.

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01:32:23,160 --> 01:32:24,880
Speaker 3: It highlighted that triggered.

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01:32:25,160 --> 01:32:27,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel so, I.

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01:32:27,120 --> 01:32:29,120
Speaker 1: Have a feeling that's what it is, which just makes

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01:32:29,200 --> 01:32:29,559
Speaker 1: you sad.

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01:32:29,640 --> 01:32:33,000
Speaker 3: But yeah, part of part of being a woman.

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01:32:32,920 --> 01:32:35,240
Speaker 2: Part of a woman, Yeah, exactly. It's very tough. Fortunately,

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01:32:35,320 --> 01:32:36,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you guys have it really tough.

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01:32:37,439 --> 01:32:39,800
Speaker 1: Thanks. We're going to end the podcast on that, you know,

2393
01:32:40,040 --> 01:32:41,240
Speaker 1: because that's a prazy one.

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01:32:41,400 --> 01:32:44,000
Speaker 2: You You guys have it tough.

2395
01:32:44,240 --> 01:32:44,800
Speaker 1: Thank you well.

2396
01:32:44,840 --> 01:32:46,560
Speaker 3: Scooba telling people where they can find you.

2397
01:32:49,600 --> 01:32:52,680
Speaker 2: Did your haird like you're a sixties woman from New York.

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01:32:54,120 --> 01:32:56,400
Speaker 1: I do that my trainer a lot he tells me

2399
01:32:56,520 --> 01:33:01,240
Speaker 1: did something like no, it's like a swat I find you.

2400
01:33:01,280 --> 01:33:04,400
Speaker 2: Can find me on Instagram and Twitter, And I say anything,

2401
01:33:04,400 --> 01:33:07,439
Speaker 2: do I have anything? I have a Vine account, it's

2402
01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:09,280
Speaker 2: fine even open still, like I still have it on

2403
01:33:09,360 --> 01:33:12,240
Speaker 2: my You are a mess, Like whatever happened to Vine?

2404
01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:13,200
Speaker 2: Like why did they get rid of Vine?

2405
01:33:13,200 --> 01:33:14,120
Speaker 1: And I got deleted?

2406
01:33:14,280 --> 01:33:15,960
Speaker 2: And then five years ago they brought up TikTok and

2407
01:33:16,000 --> 01:33:17,920
Speaker 2: it's the same damn thing. It's like, why would you

2408
01:33:17,920 --> 01:33:19,719
Speaker 2: get rid of Vine when it was better than TikTok?

2409
01:33:20,280 --> 01:33:20,719
Speaker 1: Was amazing?

2410
01:33:20,920 --> 01:33:23,280
Speaker 2: Love Vine was awesome. Vine is gone now so longer. Oh,

2411
01:33:23,400 --> 01:33:24,960
Speaker 2: here it is, It's Vine, but now I have to

2412
01:33:24,960 --> 01:33:29,120
Speaker 2: download it again and it's called Vine. Vine to point

2413
01:33:29,200 --> 01:33:31,400
Speaker 2: Vine camera, unable to install Vine camera.

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01:33:31,760 --> 01:33:34,280
Speaker 1: Oh, it's probably not real. It's probably like they forgot

2415
01:33:34,320 --> 01:33:36,240
Speaker 1: to like totally inactivate it because for a.

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01:33:36,200 --> 01:33:38,200
Speaker 2: While theer when I got rid of Vine, it was

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01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:40,200
Speaker 2: still an app for a minute, and then they took

2418
01:33:40,280 --> 01:33:43,280
Speaker 2: Vine and they turned into a camera feature thing. And

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01:33:43,360 --> 01:33:44,880
Speaker 2: I had a lot of followers on Vine, like I

2420
01:33:45,000 --> 01:33:47,160
Speaker 2: was killing it in Vine and I did really well,

2421
01:33:47,200 --> 01:33:48,320
Speaker 2: and go kill it on TikTok?

2422
01:33:48,360 --> 01:33:49,000
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Ell?

2423
01:33:49,040 --> 01:33:50,040
Speaker 2: And I ain't going on TikTok.

2424
01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:54,360
Speaker 1: TikTok is so my Instagram post? What on Instagram you're

2425
01:33:54,439 --> 01:33:55,320
Speaker 1: vine that you would have done?

2426
01:33:55,640 --> 01:33:56,800
Speaker 2: I know, well, they're all my they're all of my

2427
01:33:56,880 --> 01:33:58,400
Speaker 2: old phones. I gotta I have to take off and

2428
01:33:58,439 --> 01:34:01,400
Speaker 2: put on there. But that'd be Actually that's a great idea.

2429
01:34:01,640 --> 01:34:03,840
Speaker 1: You're welcome, thank you, But I'm not the digital director

2430
01:34:03,880 --> 01:34:04,360
Speaker 1: for a reason.

2431
01:34:10,400 --> 01:34:12,439
Speaker 2: Ohe means like when people take their TikTok about the Instagram,

2432
01:34:12,479 --> 01:34:13,519
Speaker 2: mus to do anything to put a vine on there,

2433
01:34:13,920 --> 01:34:17,400
Speaker 2: check on my MySpace videos on their idea. Well, okay, cool,

2434
01:34:17,680 --> 01:34:19,599
Speaker 2: all right, interesting you can.

2435
01:34:19,560 --> 01:34:21,000
Speaker 1: Find That's what I'm paid for.

2436
01:34:21,640 --> 01:34:25,120
Speaker 2: Sometimes that's how you make your salary. Sometimes you even

2437
01:34:25,240 --> 01:34:27,760
Speaker 2: I have a periscope account here. Does this para periscope

2438
01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:28,240
Speaker 2: still a thing?

2439
01:34:28,760 --> 01:34:28,880
Speaker 1: Uh?

2440
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:32,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, it was for a really long time.

2441
01:34:32,960 --> 01:34:35,320
Speaker 1: And then I think, yeah, when all this stuff happened

2442
01:34:35,360 --> 01:34:37,719
Speaker 1: with Twitter, it got deleted and it was a Twitter

2443
01:34:38,600 --> 01:34:39,559
Speaker 1: associated brand.

2444
01:34:39,680 --> 01:34:41,840
Speaker 2: It was, Yeah, And I used to have iHeartRadio's periscope

2445
01:34:41,880 --> 01:34:43,920
Speaker 2: login for the whole company because we used to do

2446
01:34:43,960 --> 01:34:45,240
Speaker 2: it once a week. We used to do bits in

2447
01:34:45,280 --> 01:34:48,200
Speaker 2: San Francisco where they gave us like the platform because

2448
01:34:48,240 --> 01:34:49,680
Speaker 2: they saw what we were doing on our social and

2449
01:34:49,720 --> 01:34:51,599
Speaker 2: they're like, like, we want you guys to go live

2450
01:34:51,680 --> 01:34:53,360
Speaker 2: with your with your bits because we were doing like

2451
01:34:53,400 --> 01:34:58,120
Speaker 2: these crazy, like unbelievably real live things on our show

2452
01:34:58,400 --> 01:35:00,439
Speaker 2: and they're like, holy crap, the tracks we were getting.

2453
01:35:00,439 --> 01:35:02,240
Speaker 2: What's remember the guy's name that used to used to

2454
01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:03,439
Speaker 2: run it all? I don't know if he's still there

2455
01:35:03,520 --> 01:35:05,000
Speaker 2: or not. He was like, dude, can you can I

2456
01:35:05,040 --> 01:35:06,519
Speaker 2: give you access to that heart I Heart radio? Is

2457
01:35:06,520 --> 01:35:08,000
Speaker 2: that you want to give me access to the iHeart

2458
01:35:08,120 --> 01:35:10,439
Speaker 2: radio account? He's like, yeah, dude, I had to log

2459
01:35:10,479 --> 01:35:12,080
Speaker 2: in and everything. We used to log in once a

2460
01:35:12,080 --> 01:35:14,200
Speaker 2: week and do live periscopes from the studio or from

2461
01:35:14,240 --> 01:35:16,360
Speaker 2: where we were doing things on our show, but out

2462
01:35:16,400 --> 01:35:18,519
Speaker 2: out and about in the streets. But yeah, anyways, I

2463
01:35:18,560 --> 01:35:19,320
Speaker 2: have periscope still on.

2464
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:22,559
Speaker 1: But okay, well periscope is not a thing that's going

2465
01:35:22,600 --> 01:35:24,519
Speaker 1: to put his vines on Instagram, so go follow him

2466
01:35:24,560 --> 01:35:25,160
Speaker 1: on Instagram.

2467
01:35:25,280 --> 01:35:27,360
Speaker 2: So all I have on here that functions and works

2468
01:35:27,760 --> 01:35:30,760
Speaker 2: is my Twitter and my Instagram, and you can find

2469
01:35:30,840 --> 01:35:35,320
Speaker 2: me at Scuba Steve Radio, s b A S TV

2470
01:35:35,479 --> 01:35:36,080
Speaker 2: or Radio.

2471
01:35:36,560 --> 01:35:40,080
Speaker 1: That Hurt My Brain. You can also follow this show

2472
01:35:40,240 --> 01:35:42,680
Speaker 1: at Bobby Bone Show. On all the things, and of

2473
01:35:42,800 --> 01:35:45,000
Speaker 1: course you can come hang out with me on all

2474
01:35:45,040 --> 01:35:49,719
Speaker 1: the things that scoobas Eve is definitely not on TikTok, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram.

2475
01:35:50,600 --> 01:35:53,400
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get into Lemonade. That's a new one, Lemonade,

2476
01:35:53,760 --> 01:35:57,880
Speaker 1: Lemon eight, lemon eight Pinterest. Oh I'm still on be

2477
01:35:57,960 --> 01:35:59,679
Speaker 1: real it would be real so thing or is that fading?

2478
01:36:00,120 --> 01:36:00,880
Speaker 3: No, it's still there.

2479
01:36:01,200 --> 01:36:02,840
Speaker 1: Okay, I just don't. I just forget to do it.

2480
01:36:02,920 --> 01:36:03,840
Speaker 2: Sometunds like it's fading.

2481
01:36:03,880 --> 01:36:06,080
Speaker 1: Then it's not fading. It's just I'm not There's so

2482
01:36:06,200 --> 01:36:08,080
Speaker 1: many things that I can't keep track of, especially on

2483
01:36:08,120 --> 01:36:09,519
Speaker 1: top of keeping track of the show stuff.

2484
01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:11,439
Speaker 2: So some of that that's why we need to dial

2485
01:36:11,520 --> 01:36:13,439
Speaker 2: down these damn apps and just have a top three

2486
01:36:13,520 --> 01:36:14,280
Speaker 2: and call to day.

2487
01:36:14,840 --> 01:36:15,400
Speaker 1: But I'm.

2488
01:36:17,720 --> 01:36:19,640
Speaker 3: All right everyone, Thanks for hanging all of us. Have

2489
01:36:19,800 --> 01:36:20,479
Speaker 3: a great weekend.

2490
01:36:20,920 --> 01:36:24,080
Speaker 1: Scuba Steve Radio, web girl Morgan. You can follow us

2491
01:36:24,160 --> 01:36:27,160
Speaker 1: and you can see more antics on mine hopefully on.

2492
01:36:27,200 --> 01:36:29,720
Speaker 3: Scubas too, and if he'll just post his vines, yeah

2493
01:36:30,200 --> 01:36:30,640
Speaker 3: that is off.

2494
01:36:30,800 --> 01:36:33,800
Speaker 1: Bye y'all. Show