1 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. 2 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: Hey Tom, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you. 3 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 2: Hey, I've been better, but thank you for taking my call. 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: I it's our pleasure. So why have you been better? 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: I assume it's because you think you're being ghosted, and 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: that's what we're here to figure out. So tell me 7 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: about this date that you went on with Mandy. We 8 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: got to know kind of all the background. How did 9 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: you meet, how was the date, how many did you 10 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: go on, and what's happening right now? 11 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 2: For sure, I met Mandy on the apps and we 12 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: talked back and forth for a little bit and then 13 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 2: agreed to go meet up at a restaurant. And I'll 14 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 2: be honest, I wasn't feeling great when when I met her, 15 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:41,319 Speaker 2: but I figured it'd be better than flaking on her, 16 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 2: so I just decided to go. 17 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: You saying to her, and you were like, Hey, I 18 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: don't feel well. That's sort of like maybe a I 19 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 1: don't know, cliche kind of thing, or like an excuse, 20 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: and it wouldn't maybe give the best impression. That's what 21 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: you were worried about. 22 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: Definitely, Yeah, I mean I figured if I did that, 23 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 2: then you know, she wouldn't go out with me, so. 24 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: You went anyway? And how did it go? Yeah? 25 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 2: I mean I really liked her a lot, and I 26 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: thought that she had a lot of fun. But I 27 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: don't know. I haven't heard from. 28 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,839 Speaker 1: Her, okay, And you've texted, you've called all these things 29 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: and no response at all, none whatsoever. Okay, Well that's 30 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: where we come in. We're gonna call this woman, Mandy. 31 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time, and 32 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: hopefully we can get ahold of her and we're gonna 33 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 1: ask some questions and at some point you're welcome to 34 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: jump in on the call. And you know, what we 35 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: want is for her to say, oh, I've been busy 36 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: or something came up, but I do want to go 37 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: out with Tom again. And if that's the case, then 38 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: we'll pay for your next date. All right, awesome, thank you. 39 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 1: I'm gonna play one song and we'll come back in 40 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 1: like two minutes to do this. All right, sounds great? 41 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: Back after Miley Fred Show. He's on in the middle 42 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: of almost an hour of commercial free Fred Show on 43 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: the radio on the iHeartRadio app as well. Search for 44 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Good morning, Hey Tom, Yeah, all right, 45 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: let's call Mandy. You guys, met, you went on a date, 46 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: you had a good time, you felt like you would 47 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: see her again. So you've reached out a couple of times, called, 48 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: texted since the date, and she hasn't rested into you 49 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: at all, and you want to know what's going on? 50 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: I do. Yes, all right, let's call her now. Good luck, Tom, 51 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: Thank you? 52 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 3: Hello? 53 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: Hi is this Mandy? Hi Mandy, good morning. My name 54 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning 55 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: radio show, and I do have to tell you that 56 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:23,839 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I need 57 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can we chat 58 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: for a couple of minutes? 59 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: Oh? 60 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 1: Oh, okay, well, thank you. We're calling on behalf of 61 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: this dude named Tom, who I guess you guys, you 62 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: met and went on a date recently. Do you remember 63 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: going out with Tom? Yeah? 64 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 4: I remember? 65 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so common, you know, it's very typical. It's like, oh, hi, 66 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 1: I'm so excited, and then like the voice changes and 67 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: we bring up the person. So what happened with this guy? 68 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: Because he called us seems like a nice enough guy, 69 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 1: says that he enjoyed meeting you and wanted to see 70 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: you again he's reached out, you're not responding, So are 71 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: you go seeing this guy? It sounds like it why, 72 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I. 73 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 5: Don't know, like ghost it. But the date was very weird, 74 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 5: like Okay, so we go on the date. He's, you know, 75 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 5: perfectly nice and cute and everything, but then he's just 76 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 5: like kept getting up to go to the bathroom. And 77 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 5: it was like every like a few minutes he was 78 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 5: getting us to go to the bathroom, and I started 79 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 5: to get kind of like breaked out, like I was like. 80 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: Is he on drugs? 81 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:19,679 Speaker 4: Like is he sick? 82 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 5: Like what is going on? 83 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 4: And then it was one for like twenty minutes and 84 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,119 Speaker 4: I get a text or from him from the bathroom 85 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 4: and he's like, sorry, Mandy, but things are looking great 86 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 4: in here, like his bothering me and I have terrible diarrhea, 87 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 4: that is what it's said. 88 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: And I was like, what things are? So what did 89 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: he say? Like you like, I'm not going to be 90 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: out of here anytime soon, so you should get going 91 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: kind of thing. 92 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I just lost some cash on the table 93 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 4: and went home. 94 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: I mean yeah he did, he said, And then he 95 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: wanted to go on the date anyway because he didn't 96 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: want to cancel on you, Tom. I forgot to mention 97 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: that Tom is here. I mean, what do you do? 98 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: I guess that's all you can do. You know you're 99 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: gonna be in there for a while, better than have 100 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: her just sit there. Maybe you didn't have to be 101 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: so specific. Maybe you could have been like, hey, I'm 102 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: really not feeling well. I'm in the bathroom, like, you know, 103 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: can we rain check? I don't know what do you 104 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: do if that happens? You gotta go right, I mean, 105 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: you can't avoid the bath. 106 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 5: It was just so gross way that he said it, 107 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 5: Like I would have rather have been like, oh, I'm 108 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 5: feeling under the weather, or like I'm worried getting sick. 109 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 4: I don't want to get you sick, Like maybe you 110 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 4: should go home, but. 111 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 3: Not like I'm an upside down volcano in here, like. 112 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: The emoji or the what is it? The meaning he 113 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: said was probably the how you get that wrecked prolapse home? 114 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 4: Me. 115 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: I'm telling you we're talking about a situation you know 116 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: where that could happen if you know, you know Tom, 117 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: Tom is here? What what kind of what was your 118 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: thought process? 119 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 2: Maybe you had told me not to worry about it. 120 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 5: I I mean, what did you want me? 121 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 6: Like, I wasn't. It's not your fault that you were 122 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 6: a stick. 123 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 5: It was just like so go close and I couldn't. 124 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 5: Like I was turned off by that. 125 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: Hey, everybody poops, Mandy, everybody poops, and he was honest, 126 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: this is life. I mean, did you like him up 127 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: until the point where he you know, told you about 128 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: his situation. 129 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 6: I get I did. 130 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 5: I was just yeah, I was just really crossed off 131 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 5: and like grews. 132 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 6: Out and like turn off and like I just kind 133 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 6: of wish you would have like a more discreet way 134 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 6: to like, yeah, it was the first dage, Like it's 135 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:35,600 Speaker 6: not like we're in a relations you know, we've been 136 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 6: together like five years then yeah obviously like oh you're. 137 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 4: Gonna say stuff like that, But this is the first 138 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 4: gage to come out with diarrhea on the first day. 139 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: Is I can see why. I mean, if somebody texted 140 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 1: me for the bathroom and was like, I'm gonna be 141 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: in here for a while, like, it would be hard 142 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: for me to get that out of my mind. You 143 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: know when in other situations, I mean, I know people 144 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: who've been in relation for a long time, we don't 145 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: really discuss that kind of stuff. At the same time, 146 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: you don't know him well enough to know that he 147 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: didn't just walk out of the restaurant, So I guess 148 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 1: I don't know exactly what he was supposed to do. Mandy. 149 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,799 Speaker 3: Oh, I mean, I just wish it would have liked 150 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 3: said like something just like a little more like polite, 151 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 3: like oh I'm I'm a little under the weather, or 152 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 3: like ye, or just canceled, just rescheduled the date, like 153 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 3: if you know your sick, just just reschedule it from 154 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 3: the beginning, Like don't like as too as you start 155 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 3: to feel sick. 156 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 2: We like what. 157 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 7: Bubble guts, like it happens everyone. I mean, right, this 158 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 7: is you guys, get together. This is a story to 159 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 7: tell your grandkids. You know what I'm saying, Like our 160 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 7: first date, your grandpa had the bubble guts. 161 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: And he texted me a picture of it because he 162 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: was afraid I wouldn't believe. I mean, I see where 163 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: he's coming from. And not canceling because I think, you know, 164 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 1: people in general are very flaky, especially on the dating 165 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: apps and you know, first dates and in general. But 166 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: I mean, at the same time, I don't know, Look, 167 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: so you're not going to give this guy another chance. 168 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, do it. You said you liked 169 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: him up until the point where you knew that he was, 170 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: you know, gonna be there for a while. 171 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 4: And I do honestly apprecure that he was like honest 172 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 4: and didn't like I want me to think that he 173 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 4: just laughed or he wasn't interested. 174 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 6: So that is nice. 175 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: Well, I mean you give them another shot. You want 176 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: to go on another day with that? Do it? 177 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 178 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: Nice? Mammodium with you or something, you know, bring a 179 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: little first aid kid, Tom, you never know what might happen. 180 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 4: We can go out for some peppermint tea and helpers. 181 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: Well this is great, Tom looks. So she's going to 182 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: give you another chance, as I think she should, and 183 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: you guys are going to go out again, and we're 184 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: gonna pay for it because we have plenty of money 185 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: to do that, because we'd never have to do that. 186 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: So good luck to you guys. 187 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. 188 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: I promise I'm not going to be sick.