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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please

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Speaker 1: your letter live on the air. You hear that, just

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Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now.

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Speaker 1: You never know, it could be yours. You never know.

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Speaker 1: Buckle upot, hold on tight. We got it for you.

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Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry letter. All right, thank enough you

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Speaker 1: subject my friend or my cousin. Dear Stephen Shirley. I

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Speaker 1: would never write into your show, but I'm in need

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Speaker 1: of help. I'm a thirty two year old single man

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Speaker 1: and I have a female best friend. We have been

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Speaker 1: in a platonic relationship for eight years, and we messed

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Speaker 1: all of that up after we started living together. It

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Speaker 1: got too convenient. And although she's a little overweight, she's

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Speaker 1: still a very sexy woman and she knows how to

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Speaker 1: of us because she has a boyfriend that's my first cousin.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't suspect that we would ever mess around because

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Speaker 1: because we want to be alone and walk around naked.

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Speaker 1: I can't get enough of her, and I have taken

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Speaker 1: The only problem is that she is having fun with me,

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Speaker 1: but not taking things as seriously as I am. I

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Speaker 1: she won't. She wants me to first admit that I

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Speaker 1: don't have any issues with her weight. I told her

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Speaker 1: I can't get her to see that I will take

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Speaker 1: thinking of telling my cousin what we've been doing so

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Speaker 1: first if I'm just sprong or if I really want her?

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Speaker 1: Which one is it? Yeah, this is very confusing. You

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Speaker 1: need to know what you're doing here, and I think

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Speaker 1: it's both. I think you're sprong and I think you

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Speaker 1: do really want her. It's proven by the fact that

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Speaker 1: all day. I mean, who does that. You guys live

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Speaker 1: thinking about snitching to her cousin about your relationship with

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Speaker 1: his girl. And who is this dumb boyfriend anyway that

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Speaker 1: he can't see what's going on between you two supposed

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Speaker 1: best friends but really your friends with benefits. You never

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Speaker 1: say why you guys are living together, but we get it.

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Speaker 1: It's the sex and the things that she's doing to

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Speaker 1: you that you mentioned and in the letter. Now you

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Speaker 1: want her to leave her man, your first cousin, and

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Speaker 1: be with you, but you have a condition. You want

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Speaker 1: her to lose weight. You said she's just a little overweight,

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Speaker 1: but you make it sound in a letter like she's

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Speaker 1: being hesitant about this. But you know my question is

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Speaker 1: why should she get serious with you if you do

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Speaker 1: have problems or issues with her size, you can't commit

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Speaker 1: one way or the other. And I think that's pretty

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Speaker 1: shallow of you. So she is a little overweight. You

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Speaker 1: said that, So what it doesn't bother you when you're

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Speaker 1: doing all these things to you. You either want her

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Speaker 1: the way she is right now, with all her thickness,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she'll dump you eventually and make up your

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Speaker 1: be Just come on out and just tell her. Steve, So,

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Speaker 1: just dude right here, boy write no grown ass man,

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Speaker 1: no letter like this like we don't see this here.

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Speaker 1: I would never write into a show. You boy, stop,

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Speaker 1: you're writing into a show. I hate when people do that.

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Speaker 1: I would never write into a show. Yes you would,

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Speaker 1: you're doing it. But I'm in need of help. I'm

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Speaker 1: a female best friend. And told y'all I would have

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Speaker 1: told y'all about to your best friend. I would have

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Speaker 1: told y'all for years. Y'all don't believe me, But here

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Speaker 1: come another damn letter. We've been in a plutonic relationship

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Speaker 1: she knows how to please me. Let's stop this letter here,

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Speaker 1: what brother? Is the reason for the line? She's a

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Speaker 1: little overweight, but she's still a very sexy woman. Boy,

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Speaker 1: that happens all the damn time. You got Instagram, boy,

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Speaker 1: this happens all the time. Stop saying that she a

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Speaker 1: little overweight but she's still sexy. Boy, Boy, one ain't

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Speaker 1: got nothing to do with the other. And you are

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Speaker 1: living proof. Although she's a little overwey, she's still very

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Speaker 1: saying and knows how to please me. Now, how did

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Speaker 1: y'all get to that point? If y'all was in a

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Speaker 1: plutonic relationship, how did you get to this point? Because

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Speaker 1: you're attracted to her? But this is the whole problem

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Speaker 1: in the letter, This boy trying to prove something different.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna show it to you. It's friends will benefit

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Speaker 1: type of situation. For the past year, some nights are

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Speaker 1: sleep in her bed all night. Duh, duh. Ain't you

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Speaker 1: got to get up and go home? You cross the hall, dog,

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Speaker 1: That ain't a big choice. If you didn't want to

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Speaker 1: stay in the bed all night long, all you got

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Speaker 1: to do is walk across the hall. When you get

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Speaker 1: them going the bathroom, just stay on that side. But

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Speaker 1: who you're trying to fool? It ain't like you got

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Speaker 1: to dry across town. You got to walk across the hall. Boy,

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Speaker 1: You in that bed because you like it in there.

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Speaker 1: Who are we trying to fool? When I come back, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to blow this letter wide open because I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna get y'all ladies and cut the beaks inside the mail.

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Speaker 1: Mind then give y'all the male perspective I know exactly

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Speaker 1: at the point going to stud All right, Steve, hang on,

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Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up Today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters subjects my friend or my cousin will get

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Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter. The subject my friend or my cousin. So,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, what I'm gonna do is, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: read this letter right now. This is my response, and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you as we go along what's wrong

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Speaker 1: with the letter, and then at the end, I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna summon it all of them. Tell you what it is.

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Speaker 1: First of all, just Stephen Shirley, my friend or my cousin.

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Speaker 1: I would never write until your show that's a lie

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Speaker 1: because you just been. But I'm gonna need to help.

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty old, single man. I have a female best

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Speaker 1: friend that's fitting to not be his free in just

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Speaker 1: a second. We've been in a platonic relationship for eight years,

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Speaker 1: and we messed all that up after we started living together.

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Speaker 1: It got too convenient. Although she's a little overweight, she's

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Speaker 1: still a very sexy woman and she knows how to

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Speaker 1: please me. Boy, you can leave off the overweight part

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Speaker 1: because that ain't got nothing to do with this. It

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Speaker 1: really don't. This is you trying to fool us. And

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Speaker 1: when we get to the end to let I'm approving.

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Speaker 1: It's been a friends with benefit type of situation for

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Speaker 1: the past years. Some nights I sleep in her bed

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Speaker 1: all night. Well, yeah, because you want to. Like I

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Speaker 1: said earlier, you don't stay a crosstown You ain't got

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Speaker 1: she has a boyfriend that's my cousin. Has the confusion

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Speaker 1: y'all sleep together and her boyfriend is your cousin. That

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Speaker 1: sounds clear to us. Anybody need clearing on that, So

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Speaker 1: where's the confusion. He doesn't suspect that we would ever

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Speaker 1: got to be joking. Both of y'all got to be joking.

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Speaker 1: He thinks she can't get nobody else causing her weight,

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Speaker 1: and he thinks you don't want her causing her weight,

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Speaker 1: and both of y'all lyne because she didn't got somebody else,

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Speaker 1: and don't neither one of y'all care about her weight. Oh,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, do yo letter boy? She is doing all

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Speaker 1: sees it. Well, we know what that's about. But you

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Speaker 1: know you doing something to her too. I would have

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Speaker 1: keep going, Steve hard. We started to make excuse, we

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Speaker 1: I can't get enough of her. I thought you said

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Speaker 1: she was not you, she was overweight. You can't get

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Speaker 1: enough for her, And I've taken off work just to

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Speaker 1: play house with her all day. You forsaking your money

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Speaker 1: or this girl. You don't care nothing about her weight. Boy.

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Speaker 1: The only problem is that DC's having fun with me

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Speaker 1: but not taking things as seriously as I am. Whole.

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Speaker 1: I thought I was in a plutonical relationship. I thought

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Speaker 1: y'all was having confusion. Oh, now you take it way

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Speaker 1: more serious than she is. I want her to choose

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Speaker 1: between my cousin, and she won't. Why she got both, y'all.

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Speaker 1: She wants me to first admit that I don't have

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Speaker 1: an issue with her weight. I told her that I

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Speaker 1: like it, boy, and you don't sound like kid. Boy.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not going to lie with her because I

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Speaker 1: blow this letter up, y'all. Stay weak. I can't. I

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Speaker 1: can't get her to see that I would take her

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Speaker 1: as she is. Now we've been held up. Dog, Have

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Speaker 1: you been reading the letter that you wrote? I thought

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Speaker 1: you said your issue is with her weight and your

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Speaker 1: she told you she won't pick you over her cousin

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Speaker 1: because you got an issue with her weight, and then

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Speaker 1: and then you just said I would take her as

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Speaker 1: she is now, but I know she could be so

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get when you tell him what y'all been doing.

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Speaker 1: Which one is it? You won't her, but you can't

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Speaker 1: I keep telling y'all, men get the best chick they

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Speaker 1: than this, like I can have something else. No, you can't. Boy,

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