1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: What's up Y'all's your girl lix peak and it's your 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: girl's ray and the cold and you. 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 2: Are tuned in to another episode of poor Minds, where 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 2: a drunk mind speaks sober. 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 3: We gotta guess Suday, We gott I guess surday out. 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: And look before I introduce you, this is about to 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 1: be a funny because you've already. 8 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 4: Been cutting up. 9 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 5: No, just a little like energy for us. I love 10 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 5: my act accordingly to the company. 11 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 4: I keep right. 12 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 2: We will give you a good boys. 13 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 4: Off top and smell good. Then the motherfucker always. 14 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 2: Let me give you a comment. Your skin is skinny. 15 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 4: Beautiful skin, God is good. 16 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 2: All right, So we got can it Burns in up building? 17 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: First of all, shots carry Look we're still about to 18 00:00:56,360 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: work took. But wait like that, let me say this 19 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: because our listeners the only young sign. 20 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, I love it. But you are a legend. 21 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: Literally, like you know what I'm saying, Like y'all know 22 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: Auntie little season, I know it. Look when they said 23 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: Kenny bron said Kenny Burns v Kenny Burns, you know 24 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: how they got the styllion d Kenny Burns. 25 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:24,639 Speaker 2: Would you know what I'm saying? So for the young people. 26 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 4: Let him know, give me a little rundown originally from Washington, 27 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 4: d C. 28 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 5: Got locked up my senior high school, which I brought 29 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 5: you guys some merch my sons. 30 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 4: Yes, I want to share. 31 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 2: That with Yes, Dag, bring me the shirt. 32 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 4: Why they getting the shirts? 33 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 5: I got locked up at the age of eighteen, and 34 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 5: my cousin came to Atlanta to go to more house. 35 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 5: This is many moons ago, and he told me about 36 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 5: this thing called Freak Nick. Some of y'all mamas was outside. 37 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 5: My mamas was dead, but that's naked. 38 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 2: That was targets in the house. Yeah, but she might 39 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 2: have been at the Capitol Beach party. 40 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 5: She probably was at the warehouse for one twelve or 41 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 5: that was busting over f No. I mean, they was 42 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 5: doing a whole lot of things. But that's me, y'all. 43 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 5: That's me at the age of eighteen. 44 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 4: So you could go, fine, don't make them that fun 45 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 4: no more, thank you. I'm feeling your energy, okay. But anyway, 46 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 4: that was me at eighteen. So that happened at eighteen. 47 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 5: My cousin told me about Freaknick and he said, you 48 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 5: got to come down hand check out Freaknick and so 49 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 5: I got your redemption. I like, we all can come 50 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 5: back from something. 51 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 2: Hello, Okay, now can we talk about why you went 52 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 2: to jail? 53 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 4: Now, we ain't gonna touch Yeah, I sold drugs. I 54 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 4: wanted to be a gangster. You know what I thought. 55 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, what I thought was gangster. Then I understand what 56 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 5: true gangster is, right. But yeah, so I came here 57 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 5: and I just saw a black experience unlike any i'd 58 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 5: ever seen. You know, had the biggest cluster of historically 59 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 5: black colleges in the country. Obviously, I'm from DC with 60 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 5: Howard University is HU. 61 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 4: You know, gotta do that. I gotta do that for Howard. 62 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: See what I'm saying. I thought, See what I'm saying. 63 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: I had a few freeze that went to Howard and 64 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: y'all some proud motherfucker. 65 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 4: Yeah. 66 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 5: Well the Morris Brown, so big, y'all of the newly 67 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 5: reaccredited Morris Brown. 68 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 4: He was the bastard child. 69 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 5: Of the AUC for many moves and still honestly because 70 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 5: of the attendance. 71 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 4: But that's why I went to school for a couple 72 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 4: of weeks. I went for a couple of weeks. 73 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 2: I'm party for the freaknick t. 74 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, Yeah, how did you get involved with Freaknick 75 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: and all that stuff? 76 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I want everybody who thinks that 77 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 5: this documentary has your photo or I d in it, 78 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 5: so it actually, I think centers around the New Thing 79 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 5: come out on Hulu. 80 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 4: I'm actually in it. 81 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 5: They asked me a couple of stories because it was 82 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 5: centered around nineteen ninety four to my understanding, and that's 83 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 5: when I. 84 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 4: Was the party king in college. Right. So we had 85 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 4: the Big Mac promo which was Biggie Smalls and Craig Mac. 86 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 4: Yeah exactly, because you're on the Google. 87 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, Google and then or see me after the show, 88 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 5: show you some pictures. But anyway, I had this promo 89 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 5: and it was like, you know, Craig Mac was actually 90 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 5: bigger than Biggie Small, so notorious big. 91 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 4: He had a song called Flavoring. 92 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 5: So anyway, they came to my club it was the 93 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 5: Warehouse we used to call it Funk Funk Clinic Fridays 94 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 5: and had them there and then we got into this 95 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 5: legendary fight and it was all types of guns and pistols. 96 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 5: And after that we have respect from all in New 97 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 5: York guys. 98 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 4: So you was really outside, No, yeah, we was, you know, 99 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 4: I'm light skinning on blue black on the. 100 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 2: Inside, right, not you light skin but you're still a 101 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: dark man. 102 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, I got all the and it was. 103 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: Me before Draid Okay, period, the original. 104 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, so that happened and that's how my legend started. 105 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 5: But we were party guys and yeah, the rest is literally. 106 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 4: History, literally history. 107 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 2: Okay. 108 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 3: So I want to ask you this though, because I 109 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 3: feel like now promoting parties is so different, like party 110 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 3: promoters used to be themn niggas. I don't know if 111 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 3: y'all know, because look at min when I was in 112 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 3: if you had a party promoter, you was that girl. Yeah, 113 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 3: so talk about the difference between party promoters then and 114 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 3: the party promoter is and. 115 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 5: Now, so party promoters then were a little more selfless, 116 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 5: like you didn't really want to be a star, you 117 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 5: know what I mean, everybody wants to be a star. 118 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 5: Like if you've ever been to a party of hosted 119 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 5: I never said my name on the mic. And this 120 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 5: is decades, like two decades were doing this. I've never said. 121 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 4: My name unless I'm at the super Dome for us 122 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 4: since last year. 123 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 2: Ho though, cause you have that name. 124 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 5: No, but I'm saying even then because it was never 125 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 5: about me. It was about the moment and the thing 126 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 5: about promoters then too, like it was about the women. 127 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 5: You know, we started, you know, I like to take 128 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 5: credit for this, and also we're part of the problem, 129 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 5: but we started all the bottle service and having all 130 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 5: these people in the booth. But back then it was 131 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 5: thirty girls in fifteen dudes. It was evenly proportioned. We 132 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 5: didn't have hookahs tripping everybody up and burning girls on. 133 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 4: The thigh with the cools and shit like it was. 134 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 5: It was some energy, you feel me, Yeah, so it was, 135 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 5: and it was also about like you need to come 136 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 5: here and remember that time you had here. Now I 137 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 5: think it's like, yeah, I'm popping. You got to break 138 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 5: records through me. 139 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 4: If you don't come through me, if you don't do this, nigga, 140 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 4: shut the fuck up. 141 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what social media though, I've been social media 142 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: because like you said, like, oh, y'all created like you know, 143 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: the sections and stuff. 144 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 2: But it wasn't bad when sections. When people first. 145 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 4: Started doing that. It listen, there's nothing wrong with a 146 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 4: little separation. 147 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 148 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 4: It wasn't about like spend your last right. 149 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 5: It was like, nah, I'm doing a little too much 150 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 5: to be in the middle of everything, So I need 151 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 5: my own space, right, So it wasn't like a shan 152 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 5: But you know, you have to have separation sometimes in 153 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 5: a party because things get a little too comfortable. 154 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 4: How many times you've been in. 155 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 2: A booth and the extra girl with everybody? 156 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 5: Right, But how many times you've been in a booth 157 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 5: and people just come step on your toes drum but 158 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 5: not even capitalists, just fun. 159 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 4: Environment? 160 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 2: Right? 161 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: No, I agree, I definitely agree things could get a 162 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: little roady, getting crazy. It definitely need to be some separation. 163 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: I feel like these days that's the problem. It ain't 164 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: no separation, right, Yeah, And I just seen you in 165 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 1: that future cat suit. 166 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 5: You don't want to be in the club with the 167 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 5: wrong coming up to you. Guy, you with a guy 168 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 5: you like, You understand you want you want some type 169 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 5: of elevated experiences in life in general. 170 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 2: That's truly okay. 171 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 3: So talk about how you went from like being a 172 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 3: party promoter to like in the music industry and like 173 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 3: discovering the artists that you discovered and doing all that stuff. 174 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: And you know, we be googling people too, and when 175 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: we google you, it's say lifestyle specially get on them dryer. 176 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: So what exactly is a lifestyle specially? 177 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 5: So I'm an answer that and I'm gonna bring that home. 178 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 5: So I was, you know, throwing parties in Dallas. Austin's brother, 179 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 5: Claude Austin came to me in the parking lot of 180 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 5: one twelve with Dave Gates. Instead, I have an artist 181 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 5: named Monica. Can you help us promote her? Come on now, 182 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 5: stop it, my baby. That's my first artist I ever 183 00:07:59,080 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 5: worked with. 184 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was Monica Cousin. Everybody Monica Cousin. 185 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you probably Monica Cousin too. 186 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 5: She got locked up, but she literally came out with 187 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 5: don't take a personal It didn't work the first time. Yeah, 188 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 5: And so they came to me in the parking lot 189 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 5: of one twelve and asked me could I helped promote 190 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 5: the record? You know, I helped promote the record, ended 191 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 5: up getting her on the Black Expo back in the day. 192 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 5: That ship was like Hochell in the song Yeah you 193 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 5: got on a Black Expo. 194 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 4: He was popping right. 195 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 5: She came back gold and she went on to say 196 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 5: a couple Minion records with her HOUM. So that's how 197 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 5: I got into the music business. Life, you know, talking 198 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 5: about the same time I was helping Jay Z and 199 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 5: Damon Dash, I was going now with the so I 200 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:42,559 Speaker 5: set up their street teams nationally and they used to 201 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 5: pay me through Western Union A little fun. 202 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: Wow. 203 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 3: So you was really like the promoter because you went 204 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 3: from promoting clubs promoting like that's a movement. 205 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 4: Now that's a whole movement. 206 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 5: And I became the lifestyle specialist because I put all 207 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 5: the plays together. When I entered a corporate America around 208 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 5: two thousand and five as a consultant, I just didn't 209 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 5: want to be like known as like they used to 210 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 5: call people experts in this, but I ain't experts. Okay, cool, 211 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 5: But I felt like lifestyle specialists was an embodiment of 212 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 5: I could do several things well right, and so you 213 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 5: know they now have, you know, positions for lifestyle. 214 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 3: Specially they because me Andre talk about this all the time. 215 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 3: There's certain people who just know how to connect. 216 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 4: The dots, no question. 217 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, you either know how to. 218 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 3: Connect the diets, so you don't yeh, facts, you was 219 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,079 Speaker 3: connecting the motherfucking dots. 220 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 4: No question. And that's that's a real superpower. 221 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 5: If people have the ability to like make people feel 222 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,839 Speaker 5: a certain way if you can evoke a certain emotion 223 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 5: of people, and then you can make the place happen 224 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 5: and you can make all the things work and be cohesive. 225 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a check for you. 226 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 3: So what did you feel like? You know, like Freaknick 227 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 3: died down. 228 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:51,959 Speaker 4: Let me move on to this, like freed Nig was 229 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 4: dying down, Like I mean, I came. 230 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: Ninety two didn't last that long. 231 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 4: Frenik lasted so ninety four, which I was telling you 232 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 4: all the Hulu documents supposed to be centered around ninety 233 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 4: five is when they had barbecue pits on the motherfucking freeway. 234 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 4: All that it has got so nice. 235 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 5: But the city of Atlanta did not embrace it. And 236 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 5: they would embrace it just like they did the Olympics 237 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 5: a couple of years later. 238 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:12,959 Speaker 6: All this. 239 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 2: Now, you did not just compare Freaknicks to the Olympics. 240 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 4: Now it was the hood Olympics. 241 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 2: They just throwing the disc because they were throwing coaching. 242 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 4: That's a different. 243 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 5: Listen to them listening exactly. Listen to the money. You 244 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 5: had as many people here for free niggas you have 245 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 5: for the goddamn Olympics. 246 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 4: I feel clearly, probably more for the Olympics, but hotels 247 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 4: making money, restaurants was making money, people's making. 248 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 2: Bringing money to the city. 249 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 4: You feel me to be. 250 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 5: Honest, People alway talking about if you're gonna bring Freaknicks back. 251 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 5: Fuck no, that was an era with no social media. 252 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 4: They can't do it out. 253 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 1: Everything gonna be on the oh my god Instagram. 254 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, which some people would like though, Actually show me. 255 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 2: Okay, my only fans whole video on my only know. 256 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 4: That only fans thing is a whole like. 257 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 2: Points different it is. 258 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 4: I never said, but it's right here. 259 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 2: I see now you know what. 260 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie with the only fans era. There's 261 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 3: certain girls I'm like, yeah, because you know what, if 262 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 3: you're gonna do only fans, go all in and really 263 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 3: do it, Like if if that's what. 264 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 4: You want to do, let me switch my foot for you. 265 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: If you're gonna do it tasting the wrong way, I'm 266 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 1: just saying because I feel like some girls like they 267 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: want to do it, but they don't do it, so 268 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: they be on there like in the bikinis and this 269 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 1: and that, like girl, go get a job you because 270 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 1: you are you trying to act like it's it's like 271 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: it's levels. 272 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 2: It ain't level who it is whole. 273 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 1: Hello, go ahead, Like that's why I love MS be nasty, 274 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 1: because she's gonna go in and go hard, go. 275 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 2: Harder, go home. 276 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 4: Nothing about Yeah, well, she's. 277 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 2: Like a popular I don't want to call her porn star, don't. 278 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,559 Speaker 4: I mean she retive to today's. 279 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean she's she's a sex worker. 280 00:11:58,080 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: Only fans she's a sex worker. 281 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 1: But then her clips always go viral all over like 282 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: Twitter and stuff. 283 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 4: Okay, here's where I take over the interview. So let 284 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 4: me ask you a question. How do you feel about 285 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 4: that sexual energy? 286 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 5: It's like I look at like even your mom and 287 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 5: my mom with that era was like a sexual revolution. 288 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like the. 289 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 5: Parents, like, let's say, my mom's a fifties baby, so 290 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:27,719 Speaker 5: they were like love children, hell of drugs, hallucinogenic shit. 291 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Your mama and then what 292 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 5: your mom was? 293 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 4: Your mom? 294 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 1: And your mammy asked me, my mom is my real 295 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: Mommy's forty five? 296 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, so she's like nineties. You know, nineties was the 297 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 5: last era. I'm sorry with two thousands, early two thousand. 298 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 2: Last grew in the nineties. 299 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 5: Okay, but she understood like the values of the seventies 300 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 5: and the eighties, right, but the nineties ushered and start 301 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 5: the usher in the whole thing. How do y'all feel 302 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 5: about the sexual because it's not a revolution? 303 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 4: This shit is nasty in real real What do y'all think. 304 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 2: Of what's going on today? 305 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 4: No, it's nasty because it's not. There's no mistique with 306 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 4: most women in the public eye anymore. How do you 307 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 4: feel about that? 308 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 2: Oh, I got a lot to say about that. I 309 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 2: think people leave nothing to the imagination anymore. People put 310 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 2: everything out there on the table. 311 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: I personally like to consider myself somebody who I think 312 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,959 Speaker 1: is very un serious. I think people never know what's 313 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 1: going on with me most of the time. People never 314 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 1: really know what I'm thinking. And it's not even that 315 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 1: it's on purpose. I just think I'm naturally that person 316 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 1: because I think that you shouldn't give everything to everybody. 317 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 4: Everybody should. 318 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so like, even when it comes to certain 319 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: sexual acts and different things that people put on display 320 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: on the internet, a lot of the time people will 321 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:47,959 Speaker 1: get offended and be like, Oh, you're sex shaming or 322 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: you slut shaming, or you know, you being a pick 323 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:53,679 Speaker 1: me or you think you better, and it's like, no, 324 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: I don't think I'm better. I just don't think everything 325 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: is for everybody to see. 326 00:13:57,679 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 4: Right, do you think? 327 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: No? And I agree because that's why I said either 328 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: go in or go home. Like so it needs to 329 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 1: be a difference because it'd be some girls that be 330 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 1: like I'm the only fans and be doing X Y 331 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 1: Z A, Like I don't do that, but you're. 332 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 4: Doing it, no question. 333 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 2: Bring back shame, we say, bring back class. 334 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. 335 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 5: Let me tell y'all something. The problem I have with it. 336 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 5: I don't care what your sexual preference is. I don't 337 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 5: care what your sexual appetite is, but y'all influencing people 338 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 5: that don't have the same appetite, you know what I mean, 339 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 5: And they think they're supposed to be doing this right, 340 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 5: So now you got motherfucker's doing things that they can't 341 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 5: come back from. 342 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 4: And what do I mean by that? 343 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 5: I mean you can't come back from a threesome or 344 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 5: foursome if you don't really. 345 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 4: Like pussy, you know. 346 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 5: And then now you're man or whoever THEE got your 347 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 5: you know, got you involved in you now you confused? 348 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 4: So guess what you go to? 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But this is 411 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 2: the one that I have ry if. 412 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 1: You Strawberry, please let me tell you right into the show, 413 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: know you okay? 414 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 5: I want to know she probably is, Yes, what she had, 415 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 5: she had what you got the mysterious but as naked 416 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 5: though and looking at you in your eyes and this 417 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 5: smelled like the Victoria Secret strawberry lotion. 418 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 4: Remember was the. 419 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 5: First spell Hello, I'm sorry, I just had to have 420 00:17:59,680 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 5: a moment. 421 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 3: But no, but this is how I also feel though, 422 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes people make sexuality a little too taboo, 423 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 3: and that's where I feel like me and Drea come 424 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 3: in because I feel like, at the end of the day, 425 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 3: we're all grown, we're all having sex. 426 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 2: It's okay to discuss sexual things. 427 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 3: Like I'm not saying you gotta be online saying oh 428 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 3: I like the I mean, but we can have conversations 429 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 3: without it being like, oh my god, why is she 430 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 3: talking about that? Because I feel like a lot of 431 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 3: times people look at us and they feel some type 432 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 3: of way, but it's like, we're adults. 433 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 4: We have sex. It's okay. 434 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 5: It's not that it is okay, but it's also not 435 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 5: for everybody. 436 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's the right thing. 437 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 5: It's like when you can't can you know really mentally 438 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 5: we talk about mental health all the time. 439 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't really mentally? You know, can can deal 440 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 4: with the choices you've made? What you do? 441 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 5: You suppressed, right, You suppressed drugs, you know, so in alcohol. 442 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 5: So I think at the end of the day, there's 443 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 5: a line that you know, and then the femininity of 444 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 5: it all all that's I get. Appro you could imagine 445 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 5: the levels of proposals I get, you know what I'm 446 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 5: talking about, and back in the day. 447 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 4: A minage is like the Holy Grail. It's like the introduction. 448 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's light work, you. 449 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 4: Know what I'm saying. 450 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 5: But but that's not even what you really want to do, 451 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 5: because you really want me. 452 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 4: You bringing her along because you think because you think. 453 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 2: That's what I want. 454 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 4: Not really. 455 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 5: Talks about that all friendship is going in and I'm 456 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 5: not I'm not saying me and general. I'm just saying, oh, yeah, examples, 457 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 5: but like, but then your friendship ends because y'all can't 458 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 5: really mentally handle what's going on. 459 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, girls, I think women do a lot of things 460 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 1: a lot of the time because they think that that's 461 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: what the men want, and it's not what they want 462 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:42,239 Speaker 1: or it's not what they're interested in. 463 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 2: I'm doing this to appease you. But then the thing 464 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 2: about when you do. 465 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 1: Something to appease somebody else, then you have to keep 466 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: up that facade. If you don't like us, that's why 467 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 1: he like because that's why he liked you, that's why 468 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 1: he started. 469 00:19:55,800 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 2: You'll never really there got no caealousy, no nothing. 470 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 4: My feet and I see none of you got. 471 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 2: A foot now one thing about me? True story. I'm 472 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 2: just saying you are business. She's crazy. 473 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: I mean person, I do be wanting to see people feed, 474 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 1: but I believe you got nice feed though. Yeah, it's 475 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: given nice feet, it's given. 476 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 4: Everything is manicure. 477 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 6: That's right. 478 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: When look, you can't say like that to me because 479 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 1: you say everything, I'll be like. 480 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 4: Everything everything my car matched, my house, my house matched, 481 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 4: my family. Don't play it ain't no you know what 482 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 4: I'm tying. Okay, I just been playing games. 483 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: I don't period, and they do be out here playing 484 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: games they do, and we don't get into that later. 485 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 5: It's bad for y'all, honest, and not in a bad 486 00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 5: like I feel bad for your individuals. I'm talking about 487 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 5: like as a beauty like to me, black women say 488 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 5: the planet. 489 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 2: Okay, I don't say for me, but you mean in general. 490 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 2: She mean period see how you and then she want fight? 491 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 4: She she just was loving me. 492 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 2: I love you down. 493 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 5: What the thing I'm trying to say is like, y'all 494 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:09,640 Speaker 5: generation has it have it way harder than any other generation. 495 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 5: The first time ever you've been put in position of power. 496 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 5: Y'all can have y'all own independent of anything. You think 497 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 5: that you could be here right, I'm saying the money 498 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 5: is different, the pay is different, all the things are different. 499 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 5: But then y'all got these sensitive ass niggas. No you seriously, 500 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:28,640 Speaker 5: and it's not even a thing of being a man, 501 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 5: cure man or having your shit together, but it's about 502 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 5: this sensitive, emotional, you. 503 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 4: Know, leadership. That's the problem I have with today's. 504 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 2: Talk about it. 505 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, the sensitive leadership is the problem I have. It's like, 506 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 5: you know, you can't be in a relationship a woman 507 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 5: if she doesn't see you as a leader. 508 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 4: You can't you can't listen. 509 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 5: There's a structure in DNA, not like what we want 510 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 5: as men and women, but DNA wise, Like I was 511 00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 5: raised to protect my mind, I was raised to take 512 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 5: care of minds. So when I met my wife, it 513 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:04,880 Speaker 5: was almost a thing of like, here's what I want 514 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:05,160 Speaker 5: to do. 515 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 4: All right, She's like, here's what I want to do. 516 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 5: But over time she don't stay the same in the 517 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 5: same position, nor do I her dreams, her goals. They 518 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 5: all grow. So as you grow together. The reason people 519 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 5: break up, by the way, is because y'all don't grow together. 520 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 5: The reason you break up is because y'all grow apart. 521 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 5: This particular situation is what I want to encourage for y'all. 522 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 5: And the reason why I said feel bad, I shouldn't 523 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 5: said feel bad. But I want to encourage you to 524 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 5: make it better. Y'all have to demand certain things from 525 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,360 Speaker 5: these niggas. You know what I'm saying. And it's not 526 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 5: in the thing of like, because I'm watching all these 527 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 5: girls doing the interviews, you think I'm pretty, you know, 528 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 5: or you think would you rate my outfit or whatever 529 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 5: the surface shit is. So, but my thing is like, 530 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 5: how do you think somebody gonna receive you? If you 531 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 5: want asking them how you feel about yourself? How do 532 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 5: you think somebody gonna receive you if you're not coming 533 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 5: with the confidence that you need to be equal in 534 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 5: a relationship. 535 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:58,680 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 536 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 5: And to be honest with you, women bring way more 537 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 5: to the table anyway. There's not been a point in 538 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:06,119 Speaker 5: my life in my relationship where I didn't make my 539 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 5: wife feel like everything was equal, even when I'm making 540 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 5: millions of dollars. You what you do for my family 541 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 5: is equal or better, Like you can have all this. 542 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: You're raising the children of the household, so and that's 543 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 1: that's value. 544 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 4: But I want y'all to see that for y'allselves, and 545 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 4: I think that harder. 546 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, I'm not saying y'all in particular, but 547 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:27,679 Speaker 5: I'm saying as a whole, because a lot of this 548 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:31,640 Speaker 5: shit is disrupted by these visuals we see and by 549 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,160 Speaker 5: this attitude energy we see, not attitude. Many of y'all 550 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 5: have an attitude meaning like y'all don't give a fuck. 551 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,880 Speaker 5: Most people don't. I'm gonna keep it moving. I could 552 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 5: do me without. It's a generational mindset. 553 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 2: It is. 554 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,879 Speaker 1: But I also feel, like we were talking about this earlier. 555 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 1: People make us, especially black women, feel bad if we 556 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: want a man who has like they make us feel 557 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: bad if we want a man who's ambitious or a 558 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 1: man who makes money. Like if we say, like, no, 559 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,399 Speaker 1: I don't want to date a man who you know 560 00:23:58,560 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 1: is making minimum. 561 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,479 Speaker 2: Wage, They're like, oh, well, that's why that's your problem. 562 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 2: You're not looking at people for their heart. 563 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 3: But it's like, why is it a problem as a 564 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 3: woman to want a provider, somebody who can provide and protect. 565 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,920 Speaker 2: I don't really be thinking it's a problem. 566 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: I think sometimes sometimes when icy the backlash, it'd be 567 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 1: more so because of the people that he's coming from. 568 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 2: They be putting in. 569 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,120 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, because I'm not gonna lie 570 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,400 Speaker 1: like I feel like I'm kind. 571 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 2: Of demanding a little bit. Like I definitely feel. 572 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,359 Speaker 1: Like women don't be demanding what they want or what 573 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: they feel like they should have in a relationship. 574 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 2: Or from a man. I feel like I be letting 575 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 2: niggas know. 576 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: I think to the point that something, but I think 577 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: to the point that sometimes it might be like it's 578 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: a little too much, And that's fine. 579 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 2: That's why I be cool with being single the right person. 580 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 5: Versus putting in like place, what you need to have 581 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 5: happened could. 582 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 4: Be two different things too. 583 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: Well, I want to have happened, but yeah, requirements I'm 584 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: not good because you don't have to do it and 585 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: you don't have to be on what you want. 586 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,400 Speaker 5: You just have to maybe fix your approach. But then 587 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,920 Speaker 5: because men like when you have your own something that 588 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:07,919 Speaker 5: don't have what you have will be in tim of that. 589 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,160 Speaker 5: That's just natural, that's natural energy, you know what I'm saying, 590 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 5: Because men do that with men like you. I can't 591 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 5: treat this motherfucker this coind because he got there. So 592 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 5: I gotta be a little bit more for done of that. 593 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:20,040 Speaker 5: Because but we gotta we have to all learn men 594 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 5: and women that we got to show up how we 595 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 5: want to be received, first and foremost. If you show 596 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 5: up how you want to be received, there's no really 597 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 5: dancing around what's on the table. And if you don't 598 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 5: check a person at the door, if you don't check 599 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 5: a person when they're going left of what you deem 600 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 5: to be the commitment and the cohesidens in your relationship, 601 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:38,400 Speaker 5: you gotta muscle move. 602 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:39,679 Speaker 4: And there's nothing wrong with that. 603 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:44,360 Speaker 5: But I just feel like this boss bitch mentality like this, 604 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 5: you know, degrading men to feel self worth, That shit 605 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 5: got to balance out because there's a strength in that 606 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 5: and there's a purpose in that, you know what I mean, 607 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 5: Especially when the word boss. I hate that y'all put 608 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 5: bitch behind it. At the same time, I'm like, you know, 609 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 5: there's some equilibrium, something that's missing in those conversations or 610 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 5: those statements. 611 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: But do you feel like it wasn't that much I 612 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 1: guess boss bitch energy back in the day because women 613 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: didn't have as much opportunity. 614 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,120 Speaker 5: Well, I want to say this, real niggas always treated 615 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 5: women like women and treated like things. 616 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? 617 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 5: You have buckethead dumb motherfucking niggas and what you always 618 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, but you gotta decipher and we 619 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,199 Speaker 5: all know. Listen, we can't shit here and act like 620 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 5: we don't be understanding them feelings or know what those 621 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 5: feelings be when we're dealing with somebody, you know, and 622 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 5: maybe some people don't have. 623 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 4: But I do say that, and people are like, well 624 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 4: I didn't know. 625 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 5: Well, motherfucker, you might need to do some more research. 626 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 5: You might need to do a little more discussion. 627 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 4: You know, y'all detectives, right, y'all are the police. Your 628 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 4: detective skills are unmatched. Hello, I'm gonna find it out, 629 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:53,439 Speaker 4: but you have to. 630 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 2: I don't know these days. 631 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:07,479 Speaker 7: Amazing way, Well, I'm glad you asked because I am 632 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 7: so excited. 633 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,360 Speaker 2: This is my award winning Chick fil. 634 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 7: A Peach Bowl Cocktail of the Year, Perie peach spice 635 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,399 Speaker 7: and everything nice. Of course, it's featuring Uncle Near's eighteen. 636 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 5: Fifty I'm an investor with them. 637 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 4: Anybody want to jump out there like nigga, you don't 638 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,400 Speaker 4: own all, but. 639 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 2: It is black female owned. 640 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 7: He is correct, Pa and Weaver, So we have that 641 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 7: Uncle Nearest eighteen fifty six. We have some Saint George's 642 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 7: pete up, Saint George's pear liqueur, peach juice, lemon juice, 643 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,400 Speaker 7: and then of course you know I make my own syrups. 644 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 7: We have a peach pear maple syrup to finish it off. 645 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, about this good and y'all look, y'all can 646 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 1: give her mixes at somixy dot com. 647 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, you are fabulous. Your braids are everything. 648 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, go back you're about to say, is I just 649 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 1: feel like I hear you? But these days men do 650 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 1: not be wanting women that's equally old. 651 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 4: Well, that's not the man for you. 652 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,439 Speaker 5: Then if you can't have a partner, let me tell 653 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 5: y'all something about relationships. 654 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:19,119 Speaker 1: But I feel like it's hard to find like successful 655 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: men that want a woman that's. 656 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:25,400 Speaker 5: Really define success for yourself. People always put success. 657 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 2: I know what I think when I think of a 658 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 2: Can I break you down real quick? 659 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 4: We just met you? Love love? I feel in your 660 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 4: spirit like if someone. 661 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,120 Speaker 2: Loves you, look at the wrong one. 662 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 4: Really, you don't love the idea of love? 663 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 2: Of course, the idea absolutely like the idea of it. 664 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 5: So until you have experienced it, how can you equate? 665 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 4: Like what success is you never met it. 666 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 5: I mean, clearly, I'm knowing now you've never met a 667 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 5: nigga that knocked you completely off your motherfucking I'm not 668 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 5: talking about digmatized. I'm talking about like, no, yeah, I 669 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 5: know what I'm talking about. Like y'all like us, why 670 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 5: it isn't funny we having a therapy moment? 671 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 2: We are. 672 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 5: But I feel like if you knew what that was, 673 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 5: then your definition of success in that realm would change. 674 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 2: If you knew that would be more willing to exactly agree. 675 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 4: You can't. 676 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 5: You can't expect and this is another thing when it 677 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 5: comes to that, you can't expect to know about something 678 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 5: having not experienced it fully. And that's what I'm saying 679 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 5: about defying success for yourself. Even in business. You know, 680 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 5: we have these lofty goals and all these things we 681 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,479 Speaker 5: want to do, but at the end of the day, 682 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 5: how many people really reach their ultimate dream? And then 683 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 5: you're not appreciating the journey along the way, so you frustrated. 684 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 5: You're not even happy with the incremental success. Right that 685 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 5: goes for relationships. You want the motherfucking home run off 686 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 5: the top, and sometimes it take working relationships. 687 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 3: But we do say that a lot because I feel like, 688 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 3: and we always agree that we kind of maybe had 689 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 3: a little bit of part to do with that, because 690 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 3: in the beginning of our show, it was like, oh, 691 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 3: get you when you get to ask some money, get 692 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 3: this and get that. But it's like now or we 693 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 3: are in our careers in our lives, like I'm not 694 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 3: you don't not have to have fifty million dollars to 695 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 3: be my nigga. 696 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 2: It's not that. 697 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 1: But I want to see, like, Okay, is this a 698 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: person that's really about it. Like it's a difference between 699 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 1: being ambitious and somebody who's really putting action behind it. 700 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 2: A lot of people have like dreams and this and that. 701 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 3: It's a difference between somebody who's gonna wake up and 702 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 3: really get to it. So honestly, that's what I look 703 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 3: for in a partner. Do you do I feel like 704 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 3: that you can ask them, can you teach me something? 705 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 2: How can we make some money together? 706 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 3: How can we I look at that because maybe you 707 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 3: haven't got there yet because I'm not there yet. 708 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 2: But look what I did with my three dollars. So 709 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 2: I took myself from moving to Atlanta with three dollars 710 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 2: to this. 711 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 3: If I see that in you and you've done it 712 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 3: already and we can meet in this part. 713 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 2: I don't mind. 714 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and for me, I just feel like 715 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: those the only type of guys that try to talk 716 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 1: to me like that ain't even an issue no more. 717 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: That's how I know, that's not the problem. Like quote 718 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 1: unquote what I felt like was a successful nigga, what 719 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: I used to think was a successful nigga back in 720 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: the day. Them the only type of niggas that try 721 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: to talk to me now. But it still don't work 722 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: because it's like you got all the financials, you check 723 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,760 Speaker 1: all the boxes when it comes to like the type 724 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: of man on paper that I thought I wanted. 725 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's still a lot of. 726 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 1: You still not gonna work because it's like you can 727 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: give me everything I want. And then even with me 728 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 1: now being a person who has my own bills, my 729 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 1: own business, who's building my own foundation, and I got 730 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: my own set going out, so I don't. 731 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 2: Even care as much anymore about how. 732 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 1: Much money a nigga got, But you're just not a 733 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: good person. 734 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 2: We look good together, we look great on paper. 735 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 4: That's the most important. 736 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the main problem. And I feel like that too, 737 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 3: Like when I talk to the girls and they'd be like, oh, 738 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 3: I'll be. 739 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: Like, honestly, I literally run into these six seven figure 740 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 1: men all the time, all the time, and I'll be like, 741 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 1: where dore y'all at? 742 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 3: But I don't I'm not pressed. Like my last situation 743 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 3: we were talking about like I don't know. 744 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 1: Well, last situation I met a guy in the nail 745 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 1: shawby was real cute. 746 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 2: You know, we ran into each other. 747 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 3: He ended up paying for my nails and my toes 748 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 3: and we ended up talking and it was a cool 749 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 3: lo This is like a three literally a three month situation. 750 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 2: We never slept together. We never slept together. Did you 751 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 2: say that he eat her? But no, he did not. 752 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 2: He did not. 753 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: We never got sections because you know why. 754 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 2: You know why, And now I'm good. It's a good question. 755 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 3: But you know why because I'm in the space where 756 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 3: I don't care how much money you make. 757 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 2: I need to know who you are. 758 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 4: Listen, you note the cookies. 759 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 2: Hello, protect them. 760 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 4: Because that is your superpower. 761 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 5: It is not just because that's what men want, but 762 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 5: you give life. If women would value themselves in that 763 00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 5: in that right, I'm telling you, or be different. 764 00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 4: Different. 765 00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 1: We too was talking about this earlier because I said 766 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 1: a lot of y'all just be freaky for no reason. 767 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 2: On go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. 768 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,120 Speaker 4: How freaky can you be? 769 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 1: No, No, not talking about what your men. I'm not 770 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: talking about with your niggas. 771 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 2: They just freak. I'm just talking about you. Just you 772 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:17,000 Speaker 2: just like big you know. 773 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 5: But that's okay, Yeah, same, same fucking thing I'm about 774 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 5: to say, applies, how freaky can you be? How what 775 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 5: dick is gonna make you? And the listen, there's levels. 776 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,320 Speaker 2: Exactly something really just horny. 777 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 4: No, I'm here, But my thing is like, you get 778 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 4: what from that? 779 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, that's the point I'm thinking exactly, but. 780 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 5: That but I want them to maybe you need an 781 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 5: older nigga here for a long time. 782 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 4: To tell you what do you get from that? What ultimately, 783 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 4: at the end of the day do you get? 784 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 2: You get bodies is what you up? 785 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? 786 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,760 Speaker 1: I agree, But like I was telling her earlier, some 787 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 1: people are just like they're okay with the life they live. 788 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,800 Speaker 1: They're okay being right here as long as they get 789 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: they nut and. 790 00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 2: They can go to their everybody want love. 791 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 4: That's why I said about her and let me tell 792 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 4: you why I'm a genius. Oh, I believe it now 793 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 4: because when I said that, you were like, that's not 794 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 4: the one. I'm like, no, it is she wants to 795 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 4: Her energy is given like to save me from and 796 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,880 Speaker 4: not saved me from. I can't do it by myself, 797 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 4: but I want to be. I don't this rat race 798 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 4: you and it's uncomfortable. 799 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 5: It's not uncomfortable. This is a fucking rat race. Everybody 800 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,160 Speaker 5: in your generation is a hamster wheel. You are chasing 801 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 5: the inevitable. You know what the inevitable is nothing being single? No, 802 00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 5: it's nothing. I'm talking about fulfillment. That's why I keep saying, 803 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 5: define success for yourself. You're chasing this ship that is 804 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 5: never ending. Youth is never you want to stay young 805 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 5: for what. That's why I could not do a little party. 806 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 4: I say little when they oh little such and such 807 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 4: as hope you didn't want you to hold No, I can't. 808 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 4: I got to hear R and B all night. I 809 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 4: might give you thirty five minutes to hip hop and 810 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 4: it got to be some jy z. Heav right. No, 811 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,840 Speaker 4: just because this music and I'm glad I'm bringing this 812 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 4: because we could transcend, you know, transition into. 813 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 2: Don't you Take It Over? The music Kenny Show. 814 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,800 Speaker 3: I love y'all, Ken, this is the Kenny mind, the 815 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 3: Kenny minds. 816 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,399 Speaker 5: I'm happy to be here, No, but I just feel 817 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:14,680 Speaker 5: like there's no there's no admiration or soundtrack to your 818 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 5: lifestyle anymore. Everything now is fuck pussy, dick ops kill 819 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 5: wet in the block up and then when you see 820 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 5: the pretty girl in there with the fake machine guns 821 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 5: and I don't. 822 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 4: Want to I'm sorry, did I say that? It came out, 823 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,880 Speaker 4: but I don't want to see talk about this. 824 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,880 Speaker 3: I said, let's bring back I listen. I say this 825 00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 3: all the time. Life is not meant to be navigated alone. 826 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,399 Speaker 3: And it has been so tiring. Me and this girl 827 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 3: talk every day about our dating life. 828 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:46,840 Speaker 2: And this is really what this show. 829 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 4: Is based on. 830 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,759 Speaker 2: We started dating in Atlanta and it being. 831 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,799 Speaker 3: So tough because at the end of the day, let 832 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:58,359 Speaker 3: me tell you something, she gonna work, We gonna put 833 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 3: that I'm gonna work. Let me tell you something about 834 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 3: me nobody for not working. 835 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:04,439 Speaker 4: That's just what it is. I love it. 836 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 2: So I say all that to say on period. 837 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,839 Speaker 3: So I have all these wonderful women around me out 838 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 3: of it these days, every single one of my friends, 839 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 3: I can honestly say it's on their ship, they getting. 840 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 2: Their shit beautiful circle and it is. 841 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 3: But it's so hard to find a man with that 842 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 3: same energy. 843 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 2: And I don't like playing games. Next thing I know, 844 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 2: I look up me and this nigga playing chess. I 845 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 2: don't wonder that shit on mine. But see, like, yo, 846 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 2: now you should be playing chess. Well, I mean no, 847 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 2: I just I don't want to play games, period. 848 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 4: No, you're too fucking grown. 849 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 5: Exactly, motherfucking exactly. You know how much time is in 850 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 5: the day, twenty four hours, spending six hours between texting, 851 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 5: calling and going through the bullshit you go through with 852 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,240 Speaker 5: the loss of goddamn. 853 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 4: Right half your day, That's what I'm saying. 854 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 5: Agree, And you're not getting no money doing that. You're 855 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,319 Speaker 5: not fucking happiness doing that. You can't even get to 856 00:36:58,360 --> 00:36:58,760 Speaker 5: the toy. 857 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:04,279 Speaker 2: Sorry, the toy. We're gonna skip to the bag. 858 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 4: Hold on, wait, music though, music. I think that's the problem. 859 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:10,359 Speaker 2: I do too. 860 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:12,399 Speaker 3: I talk about this all the time, because you don't 861 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 3: get me wrong, I like a little you know, blicky 862 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 3: shot it up with the block. 863 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 1: No exactly, you know they called Kenny. Do you know 864 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 1: they called me crazy because I said I have a 865 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 1: sex playlist and everybody was like, lex sex me. I 866 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,400 Speaker 1: love that wackless la filk in black streets. 867 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:36,360 Speaker 4: I'm saying it's. 868 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 2: Me in my the remix that the girl was like, 869 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,560 Speaker 2: come he bring that? Okay? 870 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 4: That was New Orleans. Now you bounce an ass a 871 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,840 Speaker 4: little bit. I know she's single. Okay, if I was you, hello, 872 00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,359 Speaker 4: who the girl? I mean? 873 00:37:56,800 --> 00:38:03,080 Speaker 2: You know, but I feel like I'm an R and 874 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 2: B girl. You know what, It's crazy. 875 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:09,160 Speaker 3: Men don't even like admire the female body anymore. 876 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,399 Speaker 4: How How can they whin it to sensitize? They see 877 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 4: it every two minutes, every two minutes. 878 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:18,399 Speaker 2: Because you ain't seen this. You ain't seen this lie, 879 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,800 Speaker 2: but you ain't seen mine exactly. And that's why I said, there's. 880 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 4: The round of applause button for the snap back. We 881 00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 4: got a round. No, I hear you. But but but 882 00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,600 Speaker 4: the problem is you feel that way and most don't. 883 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 4: It's an ass cheek. Now mind your thongs. We love them. 884 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 4: The ship just covered the nipple and the lips. We 885 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 4: love all that. 886 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:41,879 Speaker 2: It's a swim suit. 887 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 4: No listen, no, no, no, no, hold on it's not 888 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:52,520 Speaker 4: just a swimsuit. That's a motherfucking opening to a porn Okay, 889 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,959 Speaker 4: if your whole ass is out, you know Fringer wants 890 00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 4: to spread that ship apart and go up in that. 891 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,719 Speaker 2: You should, but you can only imagine it because you're not. No, 892 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 2: imagine it because it's right there. 893 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:04,440 Speaker 4: But I can. 894 00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,239 Speaker 1: But you're still imagine it because you're not gonna touch me. 895 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,840 Speaker 4: I'm telling you no, see not in point. 896 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,759 Speaker 2: Percent of the men who have ever seen you not 897 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 2: you have to imagine. 898 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,080 Speaker 4: No, you're going to imagine because they're not touching you. 899 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:20,759 Speaker 4: But the point I'm trying to say, if you see 900 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,759 Speaker 4: that over and over and over and over and over, 901 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 4: what did Marshall and then say over and over and 902 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 4: over and over and over and over and over and over. 903 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,879 Speaker 4: Do you not think these niggas disidized? That's probably why 904 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,240 Speaker 4: half these motherfuckers is switching hitting. 905 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,800 Speaker 5: I'm not saying you have to be gay. You're partially 906 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,920 Speaker 5: gay to be gay? Did that make sense? Partially you 907 00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:43,960 Speaker 5: have to be gay to be gay. But the point 908 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 5: I'm trying to make is there's no imagination. You said 909 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:50,960 Speaker 5: it earlier, there's no there's no mistique it's no, it's 910 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:51,600 Speaker 5: no mistique. 911 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,760 Speaker 4: What am I wondering about? 912 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 5: Yes, meeting you in a future catsuit, smelling you walk by, 913 00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,399 Speaker 5: that's an imagination thing. 914 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 4: I don't see no motherfucking throng. I don't see nothing. 915 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,279 Speaker 5: Seeing you fumbled with that motherfucking shirt. I wasn't waiting 916 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 5: for a titty to pop out. I was just imagining 917 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 5: if the titty popped out. It's an illusion. It ain't 918 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 5: a motherfucker you go, my son, I was my son's 919 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 5: I'm like, how are y'all doing? 920 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:26,400 Speaker 4: It's so much titty ass going on? It's so much only. 921 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:29,319 Speaker 2: Things, how you doing, how you're doing it? 922 00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:33,000 Speaker 5: And they both in relationships, by the way, Yeah, but 923 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:35,360 Speaker 5: that's what they see. So I don't know, ch I 924 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 5: just wish you the best, Okay. 925 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 3: So no, I'm not gonna lie, but I do agree 926 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 3: with you. It's hard out here because, like I said, 927 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:41,719 Speaker 3: I feel like. 928 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 1: I'm not competing with no one. Man, I'm not competing 929 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,480 Speaker 1: with the girls. Tell me about myself. 930 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,719 Speaker 5: You're not only fine. You like, have this light? You 931 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying me a light? You know what 932 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,680 Speaker 5: a light is? A light in a skill set, A 933 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:59,200 Speaker 5: light is something God given. It's like you appear and 934 00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 5: things change, but you ain't owning that. 935 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:04,920 Speaker 4: You know why, because you're giving too much of it away. 936 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 4: You ain't learned how to botherance sell it chet, and 937 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:09,919 Speaker 4: you need to learn how to botherance sell that shit. 938 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:10,359 Speaker 4: You know what? 939 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 5: I get paid like a rap or R and B 940 00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:15,920 Speaker 5: singer with fucking hit songs. Yeah, fifty thousand to show up. 941 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,160 Speaker 5: Yes me, nigga. All I do is amplify other people's shit. 942 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 5: It ain't what they're paying for. They paying for the light. 943 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:24,040 Speaker 5: You got that light? 944 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 2: Okay, but let me, but let me. 945 00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,239 Speaker 4: I'm a leo, I'm a scoreyard eat your soul. 946 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 3: Look, I was in a relationship with over three years. 947 00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:37,439 Speaker 3: I'm cool, but I will say this, I'm not gonna 948 00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 3: lie to you. A lot of that has past trauma. 949 00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 2: I was in a relationship. 950 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:46,239 Speaker 3: I was in a relationship where I felt like I 951 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,319 Speaker 3: was always doing too much, and then once I got 952 00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,839 Speaker 3: out of it, I realized, Okay, I wasn't doing too much, 953 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 3: you just weren't doing enough. 954 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:54,880 Speaker 4: So and I'm. 955 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:55,960 Speaker 2: Still healing from that. 956 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,120 Speaker 3: So for me, it's like I'm still learning how to 957 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,759 Speaker 3: be comfortable in my own skin and learning like you. 958 00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 5: No, you're assertive dogs. I see this is the thing. 959 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:05,840 Speaker 5: I don't know your life story, but I'm about to 960 00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 5: try it. 961 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 4: Okay, come on, come on. 962 00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:11,279 Speaker 5: You just have a certain level of like confidence though 963 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 5: where you and I get you masking a few things 964 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,439 Speaker 5: with it. But at the same time, I couldn't tell 965 00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 5: if you ain't tell me, And that's what we do sometime, 966 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,640 Speaker 5: and that's why I'm glad you had this platform, because 967 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,239 Speaker 5: not only can you walk through steps and help you 968 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 5: get past certain things, but one point, you could be 969 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,439 Speaker 5: the motherfucker you were meant to be. Right, you ain't 970 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 5: got it like that ship shouldn't be the kryptonite, you 971 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,919 Speaker 5: know what I mean, to your movement or the thing 972 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,120 Speaker 5: that keeps you in a certain place. You really have 973 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 5: a bright light, like no bullshit I've made I made 974 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 5: my bones in business identifying superstar and my whole life 975 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 5: has been about giving back and I see that in you. 976 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:52,800 Speaker 4: So I'm just giving. No, you're definitely giving energy for sure. 977 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:57,200 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm just saying, you know, y'all niggas is 978 00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:01,880 Speaker 4: getting therapy because speaking of the drinks, I want to 979 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 4: talk about how you got into the liquor industry. 980 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 2: Let's swech. 981 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:07,760 Speaker 4: Professional. 982 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,840 Speaker 2: I really do, because about how you started. 983 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,879 Speaker 3: That is such a lucun because if people don't do nothing, 984 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 3: they gonna drink, they gonna get drunk, they gonna. 985 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:17,240 Speaker 4: Have a good time session proof. 986 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,880 Speaker 3: Yes, So to about your spirit portfolio because it is 987 00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,320 Speaker 3: very extensive. 988 00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,640 Speaker 4: Okay, so Uncle nears which you're drinking? The uncle nears? CONTU? 989 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:27,600 Speaker 4: What is this cocktail? 990 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:27,799 Speaker 2: Again? 991 00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 5: Said out out the peach, spice and everything here you 992 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 5: see hers is almost gone. 993 00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,440 Speaker 4: Bow a new one. 994 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 2: So was this the first one you in the first 995 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:40,640 Speaker 2: liquor you. 996 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 5: Invest I this is the first liquor I invested in 997 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:48,239 Speaker 5: every I was a veteran in the spirits business. I 998 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 5: created influencer programs that all spirit companies use today. 999 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:53,399 Speaker 4: I was the guinea. 1000 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 5: Pig on ambassador programs and so, having done it for 1001 00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:00,640 Speaker 5: other brands for so long, I was at Comb's Spirits. 1002 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 5: I launched Revolt Television with Diddy in twenty thirteen, and 1003 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 5: when I moved to La He in the middle of 1004 00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 5: my residency there asked me to go help him with 1005 00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:14,720 Speaker 5: John comswine and spirits, and I launched Apple Sarak, Mango Sarak. 1006 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,360 Speaker 5: We launched DeLeon tequila, which Uncle Near says, outsold DeLeon 1007 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:25,560 Speaker 5: tequila this year. I see, yeah, but learned the game 1008 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,719 Speaker 5: from Puff. And then when I left two months after 1009 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,520 Speaker 5: me coming back home to Atlanta, I had a mutual 1010 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:36,480 Speaker 5: friend say that he was the VC group investing in 1011 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 5: Uncle Nurs and I shouldn't be Faron Weaver. So I 1012 00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:40,480 Speaker 5: met farn Weaver. The rest is history. Uncle Niss is 1013 00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 5: the fastest growing independently owned American whiskey in US history. 1014 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,000 Speaker 5: It is a black man who taught Uncle. Uncle Nears 1015 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 5: taught Jack Daniels how to make whiskey. I love that 1016 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:54,439 Speaker 5: story absolutely. Since Faarn Weaver resurrected the story, she has 1017 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,640 Speaker 5: not forced, but she has brought the attention to the 1018 00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,080 Speaker 5: world so that Jack Daniels had to acknowledge him as 1019 00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 5: the first massive student on record, obviously the first African Americans. 1020 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,040 Speaker 3: I remember when that happened. It was like everywhere it 1021 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:08,080 Speaker 3: was craziness. 1022 00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, we did one hundred million the first four years. 1023 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,279 Speaker 5: This year along, we're doing two hundred million. I'm gonna 1024 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 5: put that right there. This next investment was my second investment. 1025 00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:19,920 Speaker 2: Now you talking my language, Yeah. 1026 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,120 Speaker 5: Big shots, all my Haitian stop, I say, so, this 1027 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,880 Speaker 5: is a Haitian inspired Kremos recipe in the form of 1028 00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 5: a cream liquor big shot to Mary and Stevens from Haiti. 1029 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,319 Speaker 5: They live in Montreal, though, and Fong called me one day. 1030 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 5: She was like, because we have this fifty million dollar 1031 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 5: fun where we help young black businesses. They might have 1032 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,080 Speaker 5: a great product, they don't know how to you know, 1033 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,799 Speaker 5: get distribution. They might have great juice, don't know how 1034 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:44,840 Speaker 5: to give glass were or whatever. So we try to 1035 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:49,120 Speaker 5: take our super pounds to help them develop their brands. 1036 00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,080 Speaker 5: So she tasted this and she called them what they said, 1037 00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 5: can you like cream? 1038 00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:52,800 Speaker 4: The corps? I said, yeah, I like it. I'm not 1039 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 4: those intolerant though. She said me too. 1040 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 5: Oh Lo high mercer, you said me too. And I 1041 00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,040 Speaker 5: was like, well, you know, why are you asking? She said, well, 1042 00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 5: I tasted this cream. The corn does nothing to my system. 1043 00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:02,719 Speaker 5: I said, will send it to me. In mind, this 1044 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 5: is the beginning of the pandemic, the beginning of the pending. 1045 00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:07,920 Speaker 5: So everybody's holding on to their persons like this, you 1046 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 5: know talking about but this came about and actually put 1047 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,359 Speaker 5: seventy five thousand dollars up for this company for ten 1048 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:18,920 Speaker 5: percent of the company and the family The couple reminded 1049 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:20,600 Speaker 5: me of me and my wife, like, don't you wish 1050 00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,959 Speaker 5: like before you got some change, you wish motherfucker saw 1051 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,279 Speaker 5: you how I'm seeing you right now and said, I'm. 1052 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 4: Gonna just give you. I'm investing your drives. So this 1053 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 4: is a proof positive case with this. 1054 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,560 Speaker 5: And we went in eighteen months up to a twelve 1055 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 5: million dollars evaluation. 1056 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:36,840 Speaker 2: So is it kind of given? Not to compare, but 1057 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:37,480 Speaker 2: is it kind of given? 1058 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 4: Like Bailey's fucking Bailey's up? 1059 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:39,120 Speaker 1: Yes? 1060 00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 2: Is it like these girls? 1061 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 4: Baby? And I bought that so y'all can try that? 1062 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 4: Is it exactly? So I'm trying to big out the bumboo. 1063 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:50,320 Speaker 4: Why would I bring you into it? I mean, I 1064 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:51,160 Speaker 4: don't know. 1065 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 2: Let me let me get some of that. 1066 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,399 Speaker 5: Come on, pop that up before. Yeah, I would not come. 1067 00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:56,240 Speaker 5: I came with gifts. 1068 00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 4: How many people come with gifts? 1069 00:46:58,280 --> 00:46:59,760 Speaker 2: They don't be coming with the touchment. 1070 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:05,680 Speaker 4: Come touch me and then this, this is my latest investment. 1071 00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 2: This is you can give me like a little splash. 1072 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:13,200 Speaker 5: This isaka and baiab Gin vodka is a sugarcane vodka. 1073 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:16,160 Speaker 5: You can touch that and biab Gin is made with 1074 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,360 Speaker 5: the fruit from the tree of life in Africa. 1075 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,080 Speaker 2: Okay, let me ask you this. Let's talk about this gin. 1076 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:22,839 Speaker 2: Leke love vodka. I do. 1077 00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,520 Speaker 1: I'm a vodka girl, so I am gonna try that. 1078 00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 1: I'm a leged I'm gonna be honest. 1079 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,239 Speaker 4: Now you need a refiel. So the gin. 1080 00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,399 Speaker 1: Let's talk about the gin because gin can go a 1081 00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:35,120 Speaker 1: lot of different ways. So what's the cucumber gin that 1082 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:40,880 Speaker 1: everybody drinks. No, what's the gin that people usually make 1083 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 1: with cucumber? 1084 00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 2: Hendrick Hendrix. So that's the only. 1085 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 3: Gin I can drink because it's not it has a 1086 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:49,360 Speaker 3: different kind. 1087 00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 1: Of but foka, I mean from what from what my 1088 00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:55,120 Speaker 1: understanding is, gin is like a more aged vodka. 1089 00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,360 Speaker 4: It's like a it's a more bitter version. 1090 00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:02,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're more. 1091 00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:04,440 Speaker 4: No, you don't get fucked up. No, listen, let me 1092 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:04,879 Speaker 4: tell y'all. 1093 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 5: So all of these products are made with African botanicals 1094 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:13,880 Speaker 5: and from all over the continent. And the vodkas made 1095 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,400 Speaker 5: of sugarcane. Like I said, that's made of the boobab 1096 00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,000 Speaker 5: fruit from the tree of life. But everything's African. There's 1097 00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,400 Speaker 5: never been to watch this. I never knew this. There 1098 00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:25,360 Speaker 5: was never an African owned spirit made by a black 1099 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 5: person Likemarula. I think it's one cream the course delicious, 1100 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,480 Speaker 5: but its own, like all the spirits from Africa are 1101 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,840 Speaker 5: owned by white people, so it's the first black owned brand. 1102 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:37,560 Speaker 4: And that's what I'm doing. 1103 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 5: I'm supporting people's dreams in the industry I've mastered. 1104 00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:42,239 Speaker 2: So let me ask you this. 1105 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,360 Speaker 1: Are you going in as just like an investor or 1106 00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:45,840 Speaker 1: do you really care about the flavor? 1107 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:47,440 Speaker 4: Pro everything's intentional. 1108 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:50,200 Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I'm gonna givet y'all some some some great 1109 00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,839 Speaker 5: news that might not break by the time this comes out. 1110 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 5: But I didn't know Africa was the second largest grow 1111 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,759 Speaker 5: of agave. And you know what, when a gave makes right, 1112 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,640 Speaker 5: come on right. And the only reason it's called tequila's 1113 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,319 Speaker 5: because it's in Mexico. So in twenty four we're coming 1114 00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:05,560 Speaker 5: out with an African agave. 1115 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:07,000 Speaker 4: It's unreal. 1116 00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,759 Speaker 5: Yeah, so you're sipping on that like you like you 1117 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,400 Speaker 5: had a goddamn milkshake with your happiness. 1118 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:13,680 Speaker 2: It's good. This is really good. 1119 00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 1: I have my it's like a little it has a 1120 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,000 Speaker 1: little chocolatey flavor a little bit. 1121 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 2: I taste it. 1122 00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:21,279 Speaker 4: Well, send them int. 1123 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,719 Speaker 2: Okay, maybe that's what it is. This is really good. No, 1124 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 2: it's definitely good. And it tastes like a little maple lee. Yes, 1125 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,200 Speaker 2: that's what it is, the maple and the nutmeg together. Yeah. 1126 00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,160 Speaker 4: But you know what being are you? 1127 00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:31,520 Speaker 2: Okay? 1128 00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:33,319 Speaker 3: So I used to bar team I barchin for a 1129 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:35,400 Speaker 3: long time, and this is what I feel like we 1130 00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,719 Speaker 3: need to do as a community, as black people when 1131 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,520 Speaker 3: we go to establishments, we need to be asking for 1132 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 3: these liquors. 1133 00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:42,640 Speaker 4: We need to be mass air horns. 1134 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:48,479 Speaker 3: Oh you got Jack Dams, let me get uncle, come 1135 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 3: on Dan, instead of the Bailey's. We need to be 1136 00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:54,520 Speaker 3: asking for stuff like this like this when. 1137 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,000 Speaker 2: It tastes delicious. 1138 00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 1: And I love putting Bailey's in my coffee, and I 1139 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 1: feel like that it's un. 1140 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:02,360 Speaker 5: First of all, I fell in love with you today. 1141 00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:05,399 Speaker 5: You just said it. Why aren't we doing that? Why 1142 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:09,040 Speaker 5: aren't people going You know, this whole Black own movement 1143 00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 5: is prevalent as mother, but you staying with the same 1144 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:11,920 Speaker 5: You're still. 1145 00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:17,920 Speaker 2: Drinking bailey I ain't never drinking Bailey's again, word on it. 1146 00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:20,600 Speaker 5: And one thing is for sure, my research just like 1147 00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:23,560 Speaker 5: you said, y'all do y'all research my research on y'all 1148 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,040 Speaker 5: Like at the end of the day, y'all had the 1149 00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:28,480 Speaker 5: power to change that. Y'all have no for real, because 1150 00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,680 Speaker 5: black women in general move the needle. 1151 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:35,160 Speaker 4: Like no other taste makers. I'm telling you we are. 1152 00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,759 Speaker 4: Let me tell you something. Is that what y'all say? 1153 00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, kids say, you know we unt we love this. 1154 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,000 Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, but let me ask you this, so 1155 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,600 Speaker 1: you know, me Andrea, we have to show poor minds 1156 00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:50,000 Speaker 1: and like, Okay, so if we want to get into 1157 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 1: the liquor industry and we want to come out with 1158 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,040 Speaker 1: like a red wine, where would we start. 1159 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:57,839 Speaker 4: I think you should start with your palette. What do 1160 00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:58,600 Speaker 4: you like to drink? 1161 00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:00,200 Speaker 2: I am, I don't like. 1162 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:05,520 Speaker 4: In general, And then I think she'd be ready I want. 1163 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,319 Speaker 5: To get because yeah, no, I think that if you 1164 00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,480 Speaker 5: start with your palette, you can kind of see okay, cool, 1165 00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 5: if I like vodka, if I like cream liquor, if 1166 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,520 Speaker 5: I like whiskey, let me look into the market and 1167 00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:17,720 Speaker 5: see what exists. Then when you can see what exists, 1168 00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,480 Speaker 5: you can see what you know the holes are in 1169 00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,719 Speaker 5: the industries and you can see that by because I 1170 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:24,560 Speaker 5: mean you remember you had you had mentioned the gin, 1171 00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 5: but it was actually f had a vodka. But they 1172 00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,440 Speaker 5: were coming with flavors that Siah didn't have, so they 1173 00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,960 Speaker 5: were penetrating in ways they could, you know. But I 1174 00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:36,560 Speaker 5: feel like history should be involved. I feel like heritage 1175 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,359 Speaker 5: should be involved. Anything we do, like eighteen eighty four 1176 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:43,920 Speaker 5: will be aside Jack Daniels, Johnny Walking, all the legacy 1177 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:45,960 Speaker 5: brands because it's one hundred and sixty year old story. 1178 00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:47,920 Speaker 5: You're not going to find many of those, right. But 1179 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,280 Speaker 5: the Voslovaka, I mean, why not be on the team 1180 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:53,720 Speaker 5: that is, you know, the first black, but the first 1181 00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:57,000 Speaker 5: black owned from the from Africa, the diasporas everywhere. We 1182 00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:01,000 Speaker 5: all are African by descent, right, so the Diaspara and 1183 00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 5: Nigerian is African. 1184 00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:03,200 Speaker 2: I know, it's all saying. 1185 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 4: She knows her her heritage. 1186 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:13,160 Speaker 5: Everybody African ancestry as hell. No, I love it, But 1187 00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,959 Speaker 5: that's that's how I would go about doing it, because 1188 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:17,319 Speaker 5: I think if you believe in something, if you are 1189 00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:21,840 Speaker 5: passionate about something, one you're locked step for step. You 1190 00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,359 Speaker 5: know a lot of people getting things because they think 1191 00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,560 Speaker 5: that's the thing to do, but you're passionate and match your. 1192 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,239 Speaker 1: Purpose the line that we've always wanted to do. We 1193 00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,760 Speaker 1: always say we want to have like our own wine. 1194 00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:33,720 Speaker 4: Your wine is tricky. 1195 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 5: Beer is tricky because there's so much of it, Like 1196 00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,680 Speaker 5: if you go on to Public's hopefully eight million wines. 1197 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:43,040 Speaker 5: But but it's not to say you shouldn't do it. 1198 00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:46,400 Speaker 5: Find your niche as you guys, growing poor Minds becomes 1199 00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 5: I mean, first of all, poor Mind's Wine is lit. 1200 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:51,959 Speaker 2: It's a great name. 1201 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,120 Speaker 3: I feel like, but I'm not gonna lie, like I 1202 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:55,759 Speaker 3: hang on to certain things that people say, and he 1203 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,400 Speaker 3: was like, okay, I was working with Dinny and I 1204 00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:57,959 Speaker 3: got the game. 1205 00:52:58,239 --> 00:52:58,600 Speaker 4: Low key. 1206 00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,839 Speaker 2: We need to like beast like some brand ambassadors and learn. 1207 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:05,720 Speaker 4: I would love to work with y'all. Like in general, Look. 1208 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. I'll no fact. I sell 1209 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,400 Speaker 2: this babies. It's not the Bailey. 1210 00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 1: I'm sorry Bailey's It's called did She just says, you know. 1211 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:21,200 Speaker 2: What I mean. We about to Javier cut it. I 1212 00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:26,160 Speaker 2: sell this LS out. Yeah, I sell this LS out right, man, 1213 00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 2: period for the next time. I love it. 1214 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:34,320 Speaker 4: Go ahead. 1215 00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,560 Speaker 1: I really wanted to talk about self sabotaging when you're 1216 00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,960 Speaker 1: presented with new opportunities. I think that's like a really 1217 00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,120 Speaker 1: good topic to talk about as an entrepreneur. 1218 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,239 Speaker 4: You're good and good. 1219 00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:48,720 Speaker 1: Thank you, I think that that's a really good topic 1220 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:50,960 Speaker 1: to talk about as an entrepreneur because I think that 1221 00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,839 Speaker 1: everybody has been guilty of doing it at some point 1222 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,040 Speaker 1: or another. And if you haven't, you ain't been an 1223 00:53:57,080 --> 00:54:03,200 Speaker 1: entrepreneur long enough, because sometimes you just afraid. People never talk. 1224 00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,520 Speaker 1: Everybody talks about wanting to make it to these new 1225 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,759 Speaker 1: levels and wanting to be successful, and they have all 1226 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:10,440 Speaker 1: of these ideas and all of these things that they 1227 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:11,719 Speaker 1: want to do, and all of these things that they 1228 00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:13,719 Speaker 1: want to execute. But what do you do when you 1229 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:15,520 Speaker 1: get in position to where you can make all this 1230 00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:19,120 Speaker 1: shit happen? But then you still not going as hard 1231 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 1: or going fullard through out all the way you could 1232 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 1: because you're really afraid to get to that next point 1233 00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:26,000 Speaker 1: or to get to that next liberl in life. So 1234 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:30,400 Speaker 1: you really self sabotaging yourself and you not doing what 1235 00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:30,960 Speaker 1: you need to do. 1236 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:35,959 Speaker 4: Right, you are one million trillion billion whatever. 1237 00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:42,320 Speaker 2: That uncle ners getting nearror be getting there. 1238 00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:46,920 Speaker 5: Right, I couldn't think of that past trillion kazilion. 1239 00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:48,920 Speaker 2: Their uncle ners right there. 1240 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:57,000 Speaker 4: Biggas where I need no But but you're right, because. 1241 00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,360 Speaker 2: I love this horn that hobby guys, So now you. 1242 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,360 Speaker 4: Got to use it I do so, y'all. 1243 00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:07,799 Speaker 5: I wholeheartedly agree because self sabotage has everything to do 1244 00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,480 Speaker 5: with ego, everything to do with ego. 1245 00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:11,520 Speaker 4: When you have. 1246 00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,200 Speaker 5: I do in business, you know, when you and you 1247 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,000 Speaker 5: guys have learned that you can continue to grow and 1248 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 5: actually have brands, that she sucks everything out of her 1249 00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:20,799 Speaker 5: glass through this show. 1250 00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:22,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I wasn't even about to play with that, Ellis. 1251 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:26,759 Speaker 2: I had to put it. Yeah, wanted a bottle Kenny. 1252 00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 2: But that shit is good. I'm going to finish this. 1253 00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:30,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1254 00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,279 Speaker 5: But the point I'm trying to make is you you 1255 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,520 Speaker 5: go into these situations with the idea of who you 1256 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:37,840 Speaker 5: want to be in it, right, But that's not the gag. 1257 00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:39,239 Speaker 4: The gag is who you. 1258 00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 5: Need to be in it, not who you want to 1259 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:46,000 Speaker 5: be in it. Partnerships are made for contribution. Partnerships are 1260 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 5: made for people and their expertise to come together and 1261 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:50,279 Speaker 5: make the best plan of action. 1262 00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:52,800 Speaker 4: And that's what happens sometimes. 1263 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:55,200 Speaker 5: When we get this notoriety and we you know, I 1264 00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,560 Speaker 5: remember I asked for ten percent of Uncle Nigg's when 1265 00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:00,640 Speaker 5: I first met, for and Weaver ten percent? 1266 00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:01,400 Speaker 4: What I do? 1267 00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:02,960 Speaker 5: She said, I don't want to deal with nothing you 1268 00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 5: do she said, I want you and your relationships in 1269 00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:07,800 Speaker 5: the way that you are respected in Black America. 1270 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:10,439 Speaker 4: She had a plan and I hit the plan. 1271 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,719 Speaker 5: So I had to get outside my motherfucking ego, you know, 1272 00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,080 Speaker 5: not knowing this was gonna be the fastest growing whiskey 1273 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,680 Speaker 5: in American history, I started thing me fuck y'all up. 1274 00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:22,279 Speaker 5: I started seventy five cents a share that she is 1275 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,040 Speaker 5: almost twenty five dollars a shear, I got a couple 1276 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:27,440 Speaker 5: hundred thousand ships. Do the math now, But that also 1277 00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:31,480 Speaker 5: led me to the mad I just did exactly that, 1278 00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,839 Speaker 5: but that that led me to the next opportunity. Until 1279 00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:36,960 Speaker 5: your point of self sabotage, I was never gonna do 1280 00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:39,160 Speaker 5: that again. And I'm glad it didn't happen with that 1281 00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,799 Speaker 5: because I said I want tempercent the company. Somebody else 1282 00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,239 Speaker 5: could have been like, oh fuck this, nigga, Ain't you 1283 00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:46,479 Speaker 5: know what I mean? So my point is you got 1284 00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 5: to have one what you can bring to the table 1285 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,480 Speaker 5: before you go to the meeting, right right, And that's 1286 00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:51,920 Speaker 5: what I did. 1287 00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:53,040 Speaker 4: So I stayed in play. 1288 00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:55,960 Speaker 5: But I also knew where to stop asking, like in 1289 00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:59,240 Speaker 5: negotiation right, self sabotage could have been like, well, nah, 1290 00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:01,480 Speaker 5: I'm kidding, Burns, I'm outside. 1291 00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,640 Speaker 1: You know, but I'm glad that you said that because 1292 00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:05,239 Speaker 1: me and Dred because like even though like you know, 1293 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,520 Speaker 1: obviously we're on a smaller scale, but we talk about 1294 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,319 Speaker 1: ego all the time because we've seen so many people 1295 00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,360 Speaker 1: because don't get it twisted, poor minds. This is a 1296 00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 1: million dollar brain, multi and multi, it's all of that. 1297 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:24,000 Speaker 1: So what I say is, sometimes when you know we 1298 00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,400 Speaker 1: work with people or things have happened and it. 1299 00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:27,960 Speaker 2: Be it be an ego thing. 1300 00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:29,080 Speaker 4: It always is. 1301 00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:32,760 Speaker 2: Ego is gonna because you know what about me, I don't. 1302 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:34,600 Speaker 4: Give a damn no question, and you shouldn't give it. 1303 00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 2: Always gonna mess. 1304 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:37,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, break. 1305 00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:41,440 Speaker 3: And that's why I say our business works together because 1306 00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 3: when me and Dred, when it comes to this ship, 1307 00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:43,520 Speaker 3: we ain't got no ego. 1308 00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:46,840 Speaker 5: Listen, you should keep the energy. You should also keep 1309 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:50,840 Speaker 5: the energy of keeping it business unless it fulfills your 1310 00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,640 Speaker 5: goals and your journey, because a lot of industry ship 1311 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 5: is fake, like these people show up as different motherfuckers 1312 00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:59,600 Speaker 5: according to the moment. And y'all as long as y'all 1313 00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,320 Speaker 5: stay on authentic, as long as y'all stay y'all selves 1314 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,920 Speaker 5: can't nobody. I was sitting with Earn your Leisure the 1315 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,520 Speaker 5: other day. 1316 00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:08,880 Speaker 4: I just did there. 1317 00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,800 Speaker 5: I did it for the second time, but I literally 1318 00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:13,360 Speaker 5: was talking because I was so proud, like I'm a 1319 00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:15,560 Speaker 5: big brother, Like after this, you'll see how I play 1320 00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:18,000 Speaker 5: a part in your lives, right, just because we connected 1321 00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,360 Speaker 5: and we have a rhythm. But with them, like I 1322 00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,840 Speaker 5: told them, episode I think forty I did. I just 1323 00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,240 Speaker 5: did two hundred and whatever it was, but episode forty 1324 00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,040 Speaker 5: I did, and I was like, yo, show up how 1325 00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:30,560 Speaker 5: you want to be received, but more on, Poni, hold 1326 00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:34,360 Speaker 5: these people responsible. And before my episode, I was hearing 1327 00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:37,200 Speaker 5: Rashad talk and I was so proud on some big 1328 00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:40,600 Speaker 5: brothership because like, yeah, nah, we bringing something that is 1329 00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 5: culturally necessary, something that helps our people. And I can't 1330 00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:48,840 Speaker 5: let people think because we have celebrity interviews or that 1331 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,800 Speaker 5: we mingle in the world that we do and we're 1332 00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 5: still financial literacy advisors, Like let that be disturbed by 1333 00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:56,600 Speaker 5: this industry shit. 1334 00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:59,160 Speaker 4: No, you guys got to play. We're paying you. He 1335 00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,080 Speaker 4: had said something to like, we pay you. You got 1336 00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:02,160 Speaker 4: to be on time. You can't be to all. 1337 00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:04,560 Speaker 5: This ain't no hip hop show, but you gotta you 1338 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,480 Speaker 5: have to demand that too out of your partners, you know, 1339 00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,280 Speaker 5: because these times for y'all are defining. 1340 00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:11,120 Speaker 2: Oh for sure. 1341 00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,560 Speaker 5: We said, this is a defining moment for y'all, you 1342 00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:17,000 Speaker 5: know what I mean, the caliber guests, the conversations you have, 1343 00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:19,800 Speaker 5: and yes you interview celebrities and notables, but it needs 1344 00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:22,600 Speaker 5: to be about y'all because y'all like and y'all energy 1345 00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:23,800 Speaker 5: is gonna make this sure. 1346 00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:27,040 Speaker 1: And we always say to you know, like our goal 1347 00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,520 Speaker 1: with Poor Minds has always been for it to be 1348 00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:33,320 Speaker 1: bigger than a podcast. I feel like pop a podcast 1349 00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:35,760 Speaker 1: is cool, but we always wanted to have like a 1350 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,320 Speaker 1: talk show. We want to have sitcoms, and we want 1351 00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:40,200 Speaker 1: to have sheep from like. 1352 00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,560 Speaker 4: Our real life. The show literally our journey. 1353 00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:43,320 Speaker 2: We'll have a. 1354 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:46,160 Speaker 3: Sex specialist on, and then we'll have somebody like we 1355 00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:46,880 Speaker 3: had e y on. 1356 00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:51,240 Speaker 2: We can literally from there to there, yep. 1357 00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:55,480 Speaker 5: Talk to and keep that energy y'all, And it's always possible. 1358 00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:58,080 Speaker 5: Know that whatever you want to do, add on wise, 1359 00:59:58,200 --> 00:59:58,959 Speaker 5: and I ain't gonna lite. 1360 00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:00,760 Speaker 4: You gotta be very honest, come on ahead. 1361 01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,880 Speaker 5: So when I first heard about the podcast, I went 1362 01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:05,680 Speaker 5: to see y'all right, and I was like, I would 1363 01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,240 Speaker 5: love to hang out with them, like like hang out, No, 1364 01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:10,720 Speaker 5: but like hang out but not necessarily do the podcast. 1365 01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,120 Speaker 2: I hang out like Kiki because I. 1366 01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,560 Speaker 5: Think that we would have like what I do you feel? 1367 01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 5: But then I saw the power that you guys have 1368 01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:24,880 Speaker 5: and can have, And that's what made me show up today, 1369 01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,800 Speaker 5: like I really wanted to like empower y'all because I 1370 01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:30,520 Speaker 5: just feel like there's not enough female voices in this 1371 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,840 Speaker 5: space that are moving the needle, the cultural needle. 1372 01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:35,120 Speaker 4: We need to redefined culture too. 1373 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,360 Speaker 3: By the way, But I'm glad I know you know 1374 01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:38,280 Speaker 3: he's right about that. 1375 01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:40,360 Speaker 1: I'm glad he said that too, though, because I feel 1376 01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:41,960 Speaker 1: like that's what people always think about it. 1377 01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:43,800 Speaker 2: But I feel like people playing on our top. Can 1378 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,720 Speaker 2: he tell him, canny they be playing on time? Yeah, 1379 01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:48,280 Speaker 2: but late to the game. 1380 01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:50,160 Speaker 4: But it's not even being late. I think it's I think. 1381 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 2: It's the presentation. 1382 01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 5: Exactly, give the gun, she needs the gun shot. That's 1383 01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:00,000 Speaker 5: exactly what I said earlier. 1384 01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:04,080 Speaker 4: Yes, nigga, you better find the fucking sounds. 1385 01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:06,320 Speaker 2: Let's go see. 1386 01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 4: But that's when the team around ain't going nowhere. That's 1387 01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,000 Speaker 4: go to the next level. But you said it, and 1388 01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:15,120 Speaker 4: y'all have to stand on that and I. 1389 01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:16,720 Speaker 1: Feel like, but I feel like one thing about me, 1390 01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,640 Speaker 1: I'm a very awad person. I feel me And one 1391 01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:21,919 Speaker 1: of my best feriends was having this conversation earlier today 1392 01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:23,680 Speaker 1: because I was saying, I feel like most people that 1393 01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:26,320 Speaker 1: I come in contact with on a daily basis are delusional. 1394 01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:31,040 Speaker 1: Like most people don't operate. Most people don't operate. 1395 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:35,919 Speaker 2: Don't take it too far now, right, take it too 1396 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:40,800 Speaker 2: far now? Most people don't operate in reality. I feel 1397 01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:45,240 Speaker 2: like they're delusion about whats going who they are. 1398 01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:48,200 Speaker 1: They delusional about how people perceive them. One thing I 1399 01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:52,960 Speaker 1: can say about myself, I am very aware of how 1400 01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,600 Speaker 1: people might perceive me sometimes, but I know that I'm 1401 01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:57,920 Speaker 1: one hundred percent different from whatever you perceive me as. 1402 01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:00,960 Speaker 1: It doesn't really bother me because I know if you 1403 01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:03,440 Speaker 1: meet me all that she gonna go out the windows 1404 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 1: and yeah, I know. 1405 01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:10,320 Speaker 4: The value of people wrong they see. 1406 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:12,560 Speaker 1: And I feel like I've been proving people wrong my 1407 01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:14,600 Speaker 1: whole life, so none of that ship bothers me. 1408 01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:16,760 Speaker 2: It's like you won't think what you won't think. I 1409 01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:17,640 Speaker 2: know who I am though. 1410 01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:19,680 Speaker 1: That's why I love when we can have those episodes 1411 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,880 Speaker 1: like we had with eyl and like we had with 1412 01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 1: Ian done lab and like even these conversations that we 1413 01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:26,520 Speaker 1: haven't with you because I think he's feeling it. 1414 01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:28,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, he gets to show a different side. 1415 01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:31,680 Speaker 4: That I think some point you're feeling the transferable energy. 1416 01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:35,560 Speaker 1: Of course I'm big on energy, always feel I'm having 1417 01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:39,520 Speaker 1: avoid Yeah, but yeah, so I said that to say, 1418 01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,160 Speaker 1: we have a lot of other things that we want 1419 01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,080 Speaker 1: to do. But I'm also very aware that in the 1420 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:46,280 Speaker 1: beginning the presentation. 1421 01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:52,120 Speaker 4: Very important, was it? But yeah, but listen, that's the thing, 1422 01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:53,480 Speaker 4: the growth. 1423 01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:58,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, man, No, listen, you you came with who you were, honestly, obviously, 1424 01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:00,800 Speaker 5: we all have the opportunity to be the ultimate version 1425 01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,200 Speaker 5: of ourselves. And that's where y'all are growing, right, and 1426 01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:05,080 Speaker 5: we're growing with you. 1427 01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:07,400 Speaker 1: And that's what I love because I feel like some 1428 01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,640 Speaker 1: listeners probably be like, oh, well they used to do the. 1429 01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:10,040 Speaker 2: X y Z. 1430 01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 3: But it's like if you don't want to see us grow, 1431 01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:14,840 Speaker 3: But people do that to musicians, They do that to everybody. 1432 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:18,960 Speaker 2: People don't like growth, They don't like growth. But thought 1433 01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:21,040 Speaker 2: that he wanted to start doing rock music. 1434 01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:25,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, everyone absolutely and did that artist? You know, you 1435 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:26,680 Speaker 5: know what, I'm gonna tell you all this and this 1436 01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:30,360 Speaker 5: is from experience. You know, we all start somewhere, it's 1437 01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:32,880 Speaker 5: when we finish that that ultimately counts. Like how do 1438 01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:36,040 Speaker 5: you carry the message you ultimately grow into because we 1439 01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:36,760 Speaker 5: all are growing. 1440 01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:39,040 Speaker 4: Y'all are young, y'all are in it. 1441 01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:41,880 Speaker 5: Y'all outside, so y'all have an opportunity to tell what's 1442 01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:43,720 Speaker 5: going on, and then you also have an opportunity to 1443 01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:46,000 Speaker 5: tell where you want to go and take them with you. 1444 01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:48,960 Speaker 3: And I think the good thing about like I always 1445 01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:53,120 Speaker 3: brag Andrea so much like when people meet me see me, 1446 01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:56,680 Speaker 3: I'll be like, because I take pride of us both 1447 01:03:56,720 --> 01:03:57,880 Speaker 3: being complex people. 1448 01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, so we have learned because it to be. Even 1449 01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:01,640 Speaker 2: when we first started the show, we. 1450 01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:04,160 Speaker 1: Was giving everybody everything, all our business, all our team. 1451 01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 1: And it's like, yad know what I was saying is no, 1452 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:09,720 Speaker 1: I ain't never. 1453 01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:11,560 Speaker 2: Gave him everything. No, not everything. 1454 01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:13,440 Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like we used to sit 1455 01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,600 Speaker 3: in your living room and just be just we didn't 1456 01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:17,560 Speaker 3: know what we was doing. That's what I mean, Like 1457 01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:20,440 Speaker 3: we were just giving it are all like just talking 1458 01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:21,040 Speaker 3: and trying to. 1459 01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:21,720 Speaker 2: Figure it out. 1460 01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:25,040 Speaker 1: But like you said, you have like a certain thing 1461 01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:27,760 Speaker 1: about yourself, and you was like, I'm very aware. She 1462 01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:29,680 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, maybe we should go this way with 1463 01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:31,880 Speaker 1: the show. And I was like, okay, you know what 1464 01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:32,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 1465 01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:34,280 Speaker 2: And we are very complex people. 1466 01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:35,600 Speaker 4: Well talk good. 1467 01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:39,040 Speaker 5: It takes great humans to see other great humans. It 1468 01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:42,520 Speaker 5: takes good intention, right other good intention. I think that's 1469 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,200 Speaker 5: y'all dynamic too, Like you want to see each other 1470 01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:48,760 Speaker 5: when individually and you because of that, and so you 1471 01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:53,320 Speaker 5: keep that, keep that holding of responsibility going, because you 1472 01:04:53,360 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 5: do have a responsibility. Now, the more success you get 1473 01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:59,600 Speaker 5: in this podcast space, the more you turn it into 1474 01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:02,480 Speaker 5: skits and all the things you want to become, make 1475 01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,200 Speaker 5: sure that you hold yourself and you and listen, you 1476 01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,160 Speaker 5: do have a responsibility. It's not what you want to 1477 01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,800 Speaker 5: do all the time, and sometimes what you need to do. 1478 01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:14,880 Speaker 5: People need your advice, they need your direction. People are lost, 1479 01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,920 Speaker 5: people need direct they need energy from. 1480 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:20,760 Speaker 3: The need and a call world. I'll be telling her. 1481 01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:22,960 Speaker 3: People be looking for approval from Drea. 1482 01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:30,240 Speaker 5: Sometimes you definitely got some like dominatrid ship going on 1483 01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:34,240 Speaker 5: in the world, whipping No no, no, no, not that, 1484 01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:36,120 Speaker 5: let's let's let's think bigger. 1485 01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:37,680 Speaker 4: But you have some like. 1486 01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:43,840 Speaker 5: You got some like real strong like qualities about you 1487 01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,400 Speaker 5: and but you need to own it and whatever that is. 1488 01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:50,360 Speaker 4: Like, listen, y'all have a place where you can be 1489 01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:52,520 Speaker 4: exactly who you want to be. 1490 01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:54,880 Speaker 5: There's no producer telling you to be a certain way, 1491 01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:58,000 Speaker 5: there's no topical conversations you're giving. You can but it's 1492 01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:01,200 Speaker 5: what you feel you want people to have. And I 1493 01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,000 Speaker 5: like the fact that you said that you never give 1494 01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,720 Speaker 5: everything because niggas being in front of you, like, I 1495 01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:07,080 Speaker 5: don't want know what she gonna, motherfucker say. 1496 01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:08,640 Speaker 4: This ship is crazy, what's going on? 1497 01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:11,280 Speaker 2: And they be trying to figure out what girls like 1498 01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:11,720 Speaker 2: I don't. 1499 01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:14,400 Speaker 5: Even know this in her head was okay, but I 1500 01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 5: want to buy what she was her toes, she got 1501 01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,760 Speaker 5: the right friend fanw thing going on at the end 1502 01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:20,720 Speaker 5: of the day, they really paying attention. 1503 01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:22,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I feel like it's always giving. 1504 01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:28,560 Speaker 4: Give this nigga. Here is a rap video you it's giving. 1505 01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:29,920 Speaker 2: It's giving. 1506 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:32,680 Speaker 4: I'm showing up and you're gonna take me how I 1507 01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:33,480 Speaker 4: give it to a year. 1508 01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:33,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1509 01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:35,680 Speaker 1: But and that's why I said that goes with like 1510 01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:39,720 Speaker 1: that's really a balance because people look at her like 1511 01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:43,640 Speaker 1: this way. But Drea's fucking hilarious as fuck too, Like, 1512 01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:46,479 Speaker 1: don't get it twisted. Everybody be like, oh, let man, 1513 01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:49,240 Speaker 1: I could literally if I'm having a bad day. You 1514 01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,720 Speaker 1: know why this is my business partner, This is Michael, 1515 01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:52,760 Speaker 1: Because if I'm having. 1516 01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:53,840 Speaker 2: A bad day, guess what I get to do. 1517 01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:54,680 Speaker 4: I can sit here. 1518 01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:55,640 Speaker 2: She can carry the show. 1519 01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,600 Speaker 4: That's dope and you need that though. We need that 1520 01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:00,800 Speaker 4: as from my friends like. 1521 01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:02,800 Speaker 2: A movie. 1522 01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:05,920 Speaker 1: Okay, so we don't look Kenny, you don't the Kenned 1523 01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:07,080 Speaker 1: mind show. 1524 01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:15,320 Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into the big boot 1525 01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:16,160 Speaker 2: was a square. 1526 01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:17,720 Speaker 4: You got your booty poked out. 1527 01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,640 Speaker 2: And you got your let me go an introduction. 1528 01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,360 Speaker 3: Come on, if you're trying to get into the bed 1529 01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:25,400 Speaker 3: and you need a late night cap, are yo? 1530 01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:29,880 Speaker 4: Ls were on the way I got you bam. 1531 01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:34,000 Speaker 3: Ron for what ram is when niggas try to be 1532 01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:36,919 Speaker 3: too smooth and too playing, we're talking that real ship. 1533 01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:39,040 Speaker 2: I'm telling you how I feel from the dome nigga. 1534 01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,800 Speaker 4: She said, when it's time to go to bed and 1535 01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:43,040 Speaker 4: you're trying to fuck. 1536 01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:46,040 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm trying to full what Juicy said. 1537 01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:50,160 Speaker 1: All right, all right around, Okay, so far the bed 1538 01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:52,600 Speaker 1: topic this week. Now you mentioned earlier you have been 1539 01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:57,200 Speaker 1: married for what twenty years? Twenty four years? Which is 1540 01:07:57,240 --> 01:07:59,360 Speaker 1: a blessing. We love a black. 1541 01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:00,840 Speaker 4: Get the horn? Can I get the horn? I get 1542 01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:06,200 Speaker 4: the horn? So black love, black love. 1543 01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:09,280 Speaker 1: But we did talk a little bit about you know, 1544 01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:12,920 Speaker 1: your freaking nick day. So is it important to have 1545 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,160 Speaker 1: a whole phase before marriage or. 1546 01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:16,200 Speaker 2: Is that just like bullshit? 1547 01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,200 Speaker 4: It goes back to defining success for yourself? What makes 1548 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:20,599 Speaker 4: you happy? What do you? You know what I mean? 1549 01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:23,080 Speaker 5: Like, I think there's a fantasy that plays in all 1550 01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:25,960 Speaker 5: of our minds from we think we want you know, 1551 01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:30,240 Speaker 5: but after you have minage, is it really that serious anymore? 1552 01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:30,519 Speaker 6: You know? 1553 01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:34,639 Speaker 4: What? Did you find yourself fighting over each other in bed? 1554 01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:35,040 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? 1555 01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:37,240 Speaker 5: Some people will reach certain phases and they realize like, 1556 01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:39,720 Speaker 5: oh shit, I was never meant to do that. I 1557 01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:42,200 Speaker 5: was supposed to be this person sexually, you know what 1558 01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:45,799 Speaker 5: I mean. So I don't know if a whole phase 1559 01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:46,320 Speaker 5: is the word. 1560 01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:46,639 Speaker 4: I think. 1561 01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:48,559 Speaker 5: Definitely get out of your system whatever you need to 1562 01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:49,920 Speaker 5: before you commit to somebody. 1563 01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:53,559 Speaker 4: Okay, but sex, you know, is mental. 1564 01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,679 Speaker 5: I don't think really people I don't think they give 1565 01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:59,600 Speaker 5: enough credit. You know, I mean, you have your preferences 1566 01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:06,080 Speaker 5: in side and tightness, and you know, wetness and skin texture, 1567 01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:08,360 Speaker 5: and I'm about to go into a whole nother vibe. 1568 01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:10,080 Speaker 5: But the point I'm trying to make is like you 1569 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:12,960 Speaker 5: can have you all right over there. 1570 01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:14,479 Speaker 4: I'm just listening. 1571 01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:15,920 Speaker 2: Let's lose. 1572 01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:19,880 Speaker 4: That's that, I think. 1573 01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:26,800 Speaker 5: Oh the al stands for I don't everybody calmed down, alright, 1574 01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:29,960 Speaker 5: but I feel like, you know, it's it's all preference, 1575 01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,160 Speaker 5: like you know, get out of your system when you 1576 01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:34,160 Speaker 5: need to get out of your system, but be be 1577 01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:36,080 Speaker 5: mentally into your partner, you know what I mean. 1578 01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:37,559 Speaker 3: And I'm glad you said that because, like I do 1579 01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:39,880 Speaker 3: agree because I feel like in my twenties, like sex 1580 01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:42,559 Speaker 3: was definitely more of like a physical thing. 1581 01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:45,040 Speaker 4: Oh he fine, Oh he got a big, big. 1582 01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:47,599 Speaker 3: This and this, And I did get that out of 1583 01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:51,080 Speaker 3: my system because now, like I said, the last guy 1584 01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:53,280 Speaker 3: was dating, I didn't even have sex with him because 1585 01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:57,639 Speaker 3: I wasn't stimulated mentally. I wasn't like, if you can't 1586 01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:00,160 Speaker 3: make me feel some type of way mentally. 1587 01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:03,400 Speaker 2: She's not getting wet, she's not rarely, she's not current. 1588 01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:06,720 Speaker 2: The LS is not gonna make me go listen. And 1589 01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:08,760 Speaker 2: when I used to host, no, the L list might 1590 01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:09,240 Speaker 2: make you go. 1591 01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:12,479 Speaker 4: Points were made, right. 1592 01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:14,040 Speaker 5: I felt like when I was in the club, like 1593 01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:16,760 Speaker 5: I used to say all types of like should I 1594 01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:19,680 Speaker 5: felt honestly in my spirit, like I'll eat your soul, 1595 01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:23,800 Speaker 5: or things touch yourself, like things that while people were 1596 01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:26,000 Speaker 5: engaged and having a good time. Of course, at the 1597 01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:27,400 Speaker 5: end of the night, when it gets to be one 1598 01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:29,880 Speaker 5: thirty two o'clock, you're thinking about my fucking is this? 1599 01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:32,559 Speaker 5: I'm with somebody, you know whatever? The thing is, right, 1600 01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,639 Speaker 5: I used to give people the energy to go want 1601 01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:37,439 Speaker 5: to do that, and then I used to play slow songs, 1602 01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:39,080 Speaker 5: and I want to take credit for this and all 1603 01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,640 Speaker 5: you motherfuckers across the world that play slow songs in 1604 01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:45,960 Speaker 5: the turn up, in the middle of the turn up 1605 01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:48,519 Speaker 5: because you see the fight about to happen, or you 1606 01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:51,200 Speaker 5: see all the inconsistency when this is a party and 1607 01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:52,280 Speaker 5: we're supposed to be having fun. 1608 01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:54,800 Speaker 4: That was me. Okay, but that's what I used to do. 1609 01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:57,960 Speaker 4: And you know, but you gotta put people. 1610 01:10:57,680 --> 01:10:59,880 Speaker 2: In the middle enough to be up in your club. 1611 01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:01,639 Speaker 2: I'm real mad. 1612 01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:02,280 Speaker 4: I host. 1613 01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:06,960 Speaker 5: I host all the big black tempole events across I'm 1614 01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:09,479 Speaker 5: doing Strength of a Woman next week, so please be 1615 01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:10,040 Speaker 5: my guest. 1616 01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:11,120 Speaker 2: Of course. 1617 01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:13,519 Speaker 4: I see you got tickets right now? 1618 01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:16,719 Speaker 2: Okay, so we got the next one because. 1619 01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:20,080 Speaker 4: We got something sha today and if you know, because 1620 01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:21,080 Speaker 4: they have a whole. 1621 01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:24,680 Speaker 2: I got something. 1622 01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:26,040 Speaker 4: I'm that guy. 1623 01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:29,120 Speaker 2: You don't got to tell me. I know who you are. 1624 01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:30,280 Speaker 5: I want you all to come to that and then 1625 01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:32,840 Speaker 5: I want you all to see like the experience because 1626 01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:37,960 Speaker 5: that I'm I'm actually doing Jill Scott this Saturday. Okay, yeah, 1627 01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:40,680 Speaker 5: so I do all the big black superheroes. 1628 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:42,240 Speaker 2: Yes, but I. 1629 01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:46,720 Speaker 3: Love that you're so forward with the black progressiveness. Like 1630 01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:49,559 Speaker 3: that's one thing I feel like a lot of times 1631 01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:51,479 Speaker 3: people feel like people get in the industry and they 1632 01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:53,519 Speaker 3: get deep in the industry and sell out. And that's 1633 01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:55,320 Speaker 3: one thing I can really say I love about you, 1634 01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:56,680 Speaker 3: because Drey is. 1635 01:11:56,640 --> 01:12:00,240 Speaker 2: One thing about me. I'm very like I'll try, I 1636 01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:02,360 Speaker 2: try to be as woke as I possibly can. I 1637 01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:04,439 Speaker 2: really be wanting better for us. 1638 01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:07,040 Speaker 3: So the fact that you've been in this game this 1639 01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:10,360 Speaker 3: long and you're still like for the betterment of black 1640 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:13,720 Speaker 3: people is just because people they don't move like that. 1641 01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:14,720 Speaker 4: I truly believe it. 1642 01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:16,559 Speaker 5: We all we got is one of my sayings, Like, 1643 01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:18,519 Speaker 5: and I truly believe that, you know what I mean. 1644 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:20,200 Speaker 4: This was before it was popular to say it. 1645 01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:22,360 Speaker 2: Right. I mean, I can honestly say that's one of 1646 01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:22,799 Speaker 2: the reasons. 1647 01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:25,400 Speaker 3: Like we were really like when eighty five approached like 1648 01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:27,040 Speaker 3: to sign us, we were like we walked in, it 1649 01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:28,120 Speaker 3: was like everybody was black. 1650 01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:29,880 Speaker 4: It was like, well except for Ryan. 1651 01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:35,920 Speaker 3: Sorry, Ryan, Sorry, Ryan, shut out to Ryan, shut out 1652 01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:36,400 Speaker 3: to Ryan. 1653 01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:39,479 Speaker 2: But yeah, gotta have that diversity. 1654 01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:44,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, Ryan is our diverse That's that's so funny when 1655 01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:46,160 Speaker 4: you got to say you gotta put a white person 1656 01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:53,320 Speaker 4: in the max to have diversity, and he. 1657 01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:54,920 Speaker 2: Represents a few different coaches. 1658 01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:59,240 Speaker 5: Why Asian we listen, we all got to go to 1659 01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:02,200 Speaker 5: black our bloodline. Because I'm sure it's a lot of 1660 01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:04,200 Speaker 5: mixed up things. 1661 01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:06,320 Speaker 1: It's a lot of shit going on period. But yes, 1662 01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:08,519 Speaker 1: I think that that was a really good point though 1663 01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:10,720 Speaker 1: that you made. I don't know, I don't necessarily think 1664 01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:13,040 Speaker 1: it's good to have a whole phase, but I think 1665 01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:14,720 Speaker 1: you just need to get to know the experience. 1666 01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:15,920 Speaker 4: You know what you like, and you. 1667 01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:18,040 Speaker 5: Can do You can do everything sexually you want to 1668 01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:19,840 Speaker 5: do with one person. You ain't got to go through 1669 01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:22,520 Speaker 5: eight hundred motherfuckers to really get into your sexuality. 1670 01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:25,000 Speaker 1: Because I was gonna say to what if you find 1671 01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:28,040 Speaker 1: the right person what if you find the right person 1672 01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:32,120 Speaker 1: and you're like, Okay, this is my person, Like, but 1673 01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:35,080 Speaker 1: then you want to have your whole phase. Yeah, and 1674 01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:37,000 Speaker 1: then you end up missing out because, like say, you 1675 01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:39,080 Speaker 1: end up missing out on that person two three years later, 1676 01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:40,960 Speaker 1: you finally ready to settle down. 1677 01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:43,840 Speaker 4: The question you have to ask yourself did you really want? 1678 01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:44,679 Speaker 2: Now she married? 1679 01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:46,719 Speaker 4: The question you need to ask. 1680 01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:49,360 Speaker 5: Yourself is did you really want them? Because if you 1681 01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:53,439 Speaker 5: really wanted the money, it ain't gonna want the phase. 1682 01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:57,439 Speaker 5: I wish your motherfucker put this motherfucker dick game, tongue 1683 01:13:57,479 --> 01:13:59,720 Speaker 5: game down and all this goddamn gangs and ship that 1684 01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:02,000 Speaker 5: I got off, And then you want to act like 1685 01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 5: you know what I'm. 1686 01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:04,840 Speaker 8: Saying, see why you was involved in it. I can't 1687 01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:06,440 Speaker 8: wait to watch this documentary. 1688 01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:10,120 Speaker 5: Oh I ain't get sexual in that documentary when you 1689 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:14,080 Speaker 5: was ready to get me married. I didn't have a 1690 01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:17,200 Speaker 5: family growing up, you know, I didn't. I had the 1691 01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:19,599 Speaker 5: idea of what it looked like, but I didn't have it. 1692 01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:21,640 Speaker 5: So and then I knew it was out here. I 1693 01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:24,040 Speaker 5: mean I was outside at like sixteen year clubs and 1694 01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:25,680 Speaker 5: we yeah. 1695 01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:31,000 Speaker 4: We said not the little one like I had. I 1696 01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:33,360 Speaker 4: have a real fun story. I can tell y'all we 1697 01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:33,800 Speaker 4: got time. 1698 01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:36,000 Speaker 5: It's actually kind of like I think I'm gonna get 1699 01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:38,519 Speaker 5: in trouble for saying it. But my mama friends used 1700 01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:39,960 Speaker 5: to hit on me all the time to tell my 1701 01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:43,240 Speaker 5: mama that I you know, she wanted she wanted to 1702 01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:45,559 Speaker 5: have me. You know I'm talking about. So she lived 1703 01:14:45,600 --> 01:14:48,479 Speaker 5: in two B. We lived in three A. So every 1704 01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:50,880 Speaker 5: night I was sixteen years old, going to club getting 1705 01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:52,800 Speaker 5: it in, coming home drunk. You know what I'm talking, 1706 01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:55,760 Speaker 5: And I knocked the door down. 1707 01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:57,759 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 1708 01:14:57,960 --> 01:14:59,840 Speaker 5: But my point to y'all is I had I had 1709 01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:01,840 Speaker 5: that early. So you answer your question. By the time 1710 01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:05,559 Speaker 5: I was in the field, the fields Molde with Jessica, 1711 01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:06,799 Speaker 5: You was that nigga. 1712 01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:07,479 Speaker 4: I was ready. 1713 01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:09,519 Speaker 2: How old were you when you got married? 1714 01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:13,840 Speaker 5: Twenty seven? I just turned twenty seven, was about to 1715 01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:17,400 Speaker 5: turn twenty seven same month. She's three years younger than 1716 01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:21,439 Speaker 5: two years younger than yeah, and I think she knew. 1717 01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:23,320 Speaker 5: My wife told me, she said I fell in love 1718 01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:25,080 Speaker 5: with They all would fall in love with. Just don't 1719 01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:26,519 Speaker 5: bring that shit to my house. I was like, oh, 1720 01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:28,120 Speaker 5: you are gangster, Like what are you saying? 1721 01:15:28,160 --> 01:15:30,240 Speaker 4: Like? This is like this is like some a Nika. 1722 01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:32,120 Speaker 4: You know what I'm talking. 1723 01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:34,600 Speaker 5: But I want to say this too, big shock to 1724 01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:37,040 Speaker 5: my father and my mind, Prince that it started when 1725 01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:38,479 Speaker 5: I was like twelve years old when I saw a 1726 01:15:38,479 --> 01:15:41,400 Speaker 5: purple rain. The way he touched Apollonia with that red 1727 01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:44,040 Speaker 5: little thing. He just so gent he just so gently, 1728 01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:45,280 Speaker 5: just you know, and I was like. 1729 01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:47,599 Speaker 4: That's how you touch a woman. Yeah, so yeah, I've 1730 01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:51,240 Speaker 4: been advanced really that I like. 1731 01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:53,880 Speaker 3: That though, Like I feel like you were still like 1732 01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:56,160 Speaker 3: people on the streets fucked with you, but you like 1733 01:15:56,320 --> 01:15:58,599 Speaker 3: you make your woman feel like, oh. 1734 01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:00,000 Speaker 4: No, I sell fancy for a living. I make him. 1735 01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,599 Speaker 4: Nigga had me when I was in the club, not now, 1736 01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:03,599 Speaker 4: I mean stage. 1737 01:16:03,600 --> 01:16:07,200 Speaker 1: You know, you know it's I love you know how 1738 01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:07,639 Speaker 1: I move. 1739 01:16:07,720 --> 01:16:08,920 Speaker 2: This is how I've always feel like. 1740 01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:13,559 Speaker 1: My nigga right now, the smooth oh man, smooth all right. 1741 01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:14,840 Speaker 4: So this is. 1742 01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:19,120 Speaker 1: This is my real. 1743 01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:23,720 Speaker 3: When I think about like my career, I always say this, 1744 01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:26,599 Speaker 3: I want to be the girl that the guys want 1745 01:16:26,760 --> 01:16:27,920 Speaker 3: and that the girls want to be. 1746 01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:30,840 Speaker 4: You give yourself around the clause on that. 1747 01:16:30,720 --> 01:16:34,759 Speaker 1: One, Nigga, I'd be like, Okay, the girl like everybody, 1748 01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:38,560 Speaker 1: you know, what's funny to me. Everybody think they're hilarious 1749 01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:44,960 Speaker 1: until you meet a real funny bit. Every girl she's 1750 01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:48,960 Speaker 1: almost laugh over nothing. 1751 01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:52,120 Speaker 4: She got me to meet a real funny bit. 1752 01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:52,920 Speaker 1: You know. 1753 01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:55,040 Speaker 2: But this is and like I said, I like to have. Like, 1754 01:16:55,120 --> 01:16:55,680 Speaker 2: I love the. 1755 01:16:55,640 --> 01:16:58,360 Speaker 3: Fact that my man gets to see aside of me 1756 01:16:58,439 --> 01:16:59,679 Speaker 3: that nobody else sees. 1757 01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:01,600 Speaker 2: I don't care if you think I'm sixty or not, 1758 01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:03,840 Speaker 2: but guess what, he gets to see it, and it's 1759 01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:04,800 Speaker 2: a fucking time. 1760 01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:08,519 Speaker 5: So I feel like probably sucked the skin off his body. 1761 01:17:09,080 --> 01:17:12,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, nigga, don't know what you he calling me right now. 1762 01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:17,280 Speaker 5: It just came out, you know. Just that's my sister. Everything, 1763 01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:18,519 Speaker 5: these my sisters, all right. 1764 01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:23,839 Speaker 2: You know, scorpio. But no, but now I do feel 1765 01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:25,200 Speaker 2: like that. I feel like that's the. 1766 01:17:28,360 --> 01:17:32,840 Speaker 1: That's the Jimmy period shirt. 1767 01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:37,920 Speaker 2: Okay. So now we're gonna get into the bop, the 1768 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:42,920 Speaker 2: bob the bow bow. So the bop is like the 1769 01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:44,599 Speaker 2: music that we've been jamming this week. 1770 01:17:45,360 --> 01:17:50,360 Speaker 3: Music the music so I was recently put on this song. 1771 01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:54,479 Speaker 2: It is called Tampa. 1772 01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:55,400 Speaker 4: Tample by p. 1773 01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:58,439 Speaker 5: Now, usually, like I said, here we go shoot the 1774 01:17:58,479 --> 01:17:59,840 Speaker 5: motherfucker kill to put it in. 1775 01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:04,559 Speaker 4: Fucking nigga, up in this pitch hole. She loved music. 1776 01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:07,160 Speaker 4: I know music. I can feel it. 1777 01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:08,920 Speaker 2: But everybody knows that. 1778 01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,320 Speaker 3: Watch the show. Ninety percent of the time. My songs 1779 01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:13,120 Speaker 3: be R and B. I just tried to switch it 1780 01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:13,360 Speaker 3: up a. 1781 01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:14,040 Speaker 2: Little bit everything. 1782 01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:16,920 Speaker 4: Why would you pick a drill music song. It's not music. 1783 01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:17,800 Speaker 4: We'll come on with. 1784 01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:21,320 Speaker 1: It, is what one that was singing real music exactly like. 1785 01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:23,439 Speaker 5: No, it wasn't. I was about to smack your finger 1786 01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:28,800 Speaker 5: with my finger. Not see it again, do it again. 1787 01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:30,520 Speaker 5: I'm not scared of none of you, motherfuckers. 1788 01:18:30,520 --> 01:18:31,760 Speaker 4: I ain't scared of you much. 1789 01:18:31,960 --> 01:18:34,599 Speaker 1: You're in the face, Okay, So anyway, Yeah, my bop 1790 01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:36,519 Speaker 1: of the week is called Tampa by c cop He 1791 01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:37,240 Speaker 1: from Florida. 1792 01:18:37,360 --> 01:18:38,280 Speaker 2: It's like a little vibe. 1793 01:18:38,320 --> 01:18:39,360 Speaker 4: It's like that ship. 1794 01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:42,800 Speaker 2: We can't play. We don't get flagged. Really, yeah, you 1795 01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:43,240 Speaker 2: can't do it. 1796 01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:45,160 Speaker 4: Why are you talking about it? You a copella? 1797 01:18:45,320 --> 01:18:46,040 Speaker 2: No we're not. 1798 01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:47,880 Speaker 3: We're just talking about it. They're gonna download it, dam 1799 01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:51,960 Speaker 3: download they know what good? And then I have another 1800 01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:54,519 Speaker 3: bop of the week. It's called a Bag of You 1801 01:18:54,600 --> 01:18:55,600 Speaker 3: by Mahelia. 1802 01:18:55,720 --> 01:18:56,599 Speaker 2: I hope I said that name. 1803 01:18:56,760 --> 01:19:00,639 Speaker 4: Mahelia Mahela as in Jackson she's gonna down. 1804 01:19:01,280 --> 01:19:02,200 Speaker 2: She gonna sing you down. 1805 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:05,280 Speaker 4: She got the name Mahela and some fun facts on history. 1806 01:19:05,439 --> 01:19:07,759 Speaker 4: She would need to be able to sing because Mahela 1807 01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:09,040 Speaker 4: Jackson was a mother sucker. 1808 01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:11,880 Speaker 3: Oh, she sings down and she's just basically talking about, 1809 01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:14,720 Speaker 3: you know, being obsessed and you know she wants the 1810 01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:16,000 Speaker 3: bag of you perd. 1811 01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:19,400 Speaker 2: Like that late night hike. Yes, so it was my 1812 01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:20,440 Speaker 2: bob so. 1813 01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:22,360 Speaker 4: She could play this shit, dissect the lyrics. 1814 01:19:22,880 --> 01:19:25,280 Speaker 2: That's why the show was coming. That's why the show 1815 01:19:25,400 --> 01:19:25,840 Speaker 2: is coming. 1816 01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:27,640 Speaker 1: And we actually used to have a segment on the 1817 01:19:27,680 --> 01:19:30,880 Speaker 1: show that we stopped doing where we would like break 1818 01:19:30,920 --> 01:19:32,240 Speaker 1: down song lyrics. 1819 01:19:32,040 --> 01:19:38,200 Speaker 9: Lyrics and dedicated again you have to I want to 1820 01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:41,200 Speaker 9: dedicate one little song to Y'all's called It's called a 1821 01:19:41,320 --> 01:19:44,240 Speaker 9: Door by Prince and he has a lyric that goes 1822 01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:45,559 Speaker 9: until the end of time. 1823 01:19:45,880 --> 01:19:49,519 Speaker 5: I'll be there for you. You own my heart and mind. 1824 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:53,519 Speaker 5: I truly adore you. If God one day struck me 1825 01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:57,760 Speaker 5: blind your beauty, I still see. Love is too weak 1826 01:19:57,880 --> 01:20:02,000 Speaker 5: to define just what you mean to me. 1827 01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:03,320 Speaker 4: From the first moment, you know, talking. 1828 01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:05,519 Speaker 2: About miss getting miss burn. 1829 01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:10,920 Speaker 5: Play that song for your ladies fast, okay, and then penetrate. 1830 01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:16,479 Speaker 1: Okay, nigga that will wear some ass, chat will be 1831 01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:18,240 Speaker 1: He'll be fine. 1832 01:20:18,280 --> 01:20:20,120 Speaker 4: It's confidence. It's confidence. 1833 01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:23,240 Speaker 2: I don't care like I loved him down. 1834 01:20:23,320 --> 01:20:26,160 Speaker 5: He has some of the baddest ever. All you hating 1835 01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:27,080 Speaker 5: asks niggas out there that. 1836 01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:29,080 Speaker 4: This right. 1837 01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:32,240 Speaker 2: Pleased to meet you. I still won't sing my name. 1838 01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,679 Speaker 2: Don't you believe in mister reed? You want to play 1839 01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:38,439 Speaker 2: my game. I'm looking on a man in love, man 1840 01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:41,920 Speaker 2: like another man love it for look a man that 1841 01:20:41,960 --> 01:20:43,479 Speaker 2: can do it the n l even. 1842 01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:49,280 Speaker 4: Why are you trying to get me hip? We're going 1843 01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:51,960 Speaker 4: to the club, we're hanging out. 1844 01:20:52,040 --> 01:20:58,080 Speaker 1: Okay, what's your also a woman? We're outside, we'll pay. 1845 01:20:58,360 --> 01:21:04,800 Speaker 1: So watching this show on Nettles, I think I told 1846 01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:05,280 Speaker 1: you about it. 1847 01:21:05,360 --> 01:21:06,160 Speaker 2: I am Georgina. 1848 01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:07,519 Speaker 4: Yes you did tell me about it. 1849 01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:11,719 Speaker 1: Which is Christiano Ronaldo's white Yes, one of the top 1850 01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:12,960 Speaker 1: soccer players in the world. 1851 01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:19,839 Speaker 4: I love she's spinning that bag. Definitely period. 1852 01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:25,000 Speaker 1: So obviously they're Spanish and so they play a lot 1853 01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:27,680 Speaker 1: of like Spanish music and stuff on the show. 1854 01:21:34,360 --> 01:21:36,599 Speaker 4: Yeah, so it was this. 1855 01:21:37,040 --> 01:21:40,599 Speaker 1: So it's this artist called Rosalia. Her name is Rosalia. 1856 01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:43,800 Speaker 1: What you got from La Fama. 1857 01:21:45,240 --> 01:21:47,559 Speaker 2: To the weekend? 1858 01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:55,000 Speaker 1: Come on that's my culture, queen. I was like, I 1859 01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:57,479 Speaker 1: don't and listens. Why had to add it to my playlist? 1860 01:21:57,520 --> 01:22:00,280 Speaker 1: And now I got like a y'all not had a 1861 01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:02,920 Speaker 1: whole fucking playlist of songs. 1862 01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:04,920 Speaker 2: I'm saying, a whole bunch of Spanish music. 1863 01:22:05,120 --> 01:22:09,760 Speaker 1: I like Romeo Santos and you know, we go way 1864 01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:10,519 Speaker 1: back with Romeo. 1865 01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:12,760 Speaker 4: Yo. Can I just get y'all? 1866 01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:16,360 Speaker 2: That was when we seen that time we went you gotta. 1867 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:18,680 Speaker 4: Go back to. 1868 01:22:18,120 --> 01:22:24,600 Speaker 2: Norwhere that was it? Yes it was Frankie j redid it, 1869 01:22:25,200 --> 01:22:26,479 Speaker 2: but that was in. 1870 01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:27,680 Speaker 4: My field. 1871 01:22:29,640 --> 01:22:30,400 Speaker 2: Doing role. 1872 01:22:32,240 --> 01:22:36,759 Speaker 4: Come on now why no? 1873 01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:39,559 Speaker 2: Oh my god? 1874 01:22:40,080 --> 01:22:40,760 Speaker 4: Yeah no more. 1875 01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:47,519 Speaker 8: Look absolutely we get Mark Anthony to l Viva La Vita. 1876 01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:50,000 Speaker 4: I mean there's so if y'all want to play list, 1877 01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:50,679 Speaker 4: I'll say, y'all. 1878 01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:51,680 Speaker 2: Send me a playlist. 1879 01:22:52,280 --> 01:22:55,040 Speaker 1: So, y'all, I'm not gonna lie like I'm a row 1880 01:22:56,000 --> 01:22:57,200 Speaker 1: because I listened to that song. 1881 01:22:57,240 --> 01:22:58,840 Speaker 2: I listened to a few of the songs that she had. 1882 01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:02,720 Speaker 1: Spotcha his song I how to make sure the Latinas 1883 01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:06,360 Speaker 1: is about to drama. 1884 01:23:09,640 --> 01:23:18,280 Speaker 2: She got the hits besclse you hey, k okay, okay, y'all. 1885 01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:21,920 Speaker 3: So now we're gonna get into our favorite segment of 1886 01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:24,240 Speaker 3: the week, it's look, I don't got I don't relaxed. 1887 01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:34,559 Speaker 2: Let's no, I'm not gonna lie. You can before we 1888 01:23:34,600 --> 01:23:35,599 Speaker 2: get onto the next segment. 1889 01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:39,280 Speaker 3: I was totally unsure about this episode and what was 1890 01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:41,800 Speaker 3: gonna happen because I'm old, Okay. 1891 01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:43,960 Speaker 2: I'm Auntie. I've been knowing who you were for a 1892 01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:44,280 Speaker 2: long time. 1893 01:23:44,360 --> 01:23:46,320 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, you know, let me but you 1894 01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:51,040 Speaker 3: have been an amazing guest and I've had a time today, but. 1895 01:23:51,240 --> 01:23:53,800 Speaker 2: You didn't even let me finish breaking down LII month okay, 1896 01:23:55,240 --> 01:23:56,400 Speaker 2: so breaking down. 1897 01:23:56,439 --> 01:23:58,679 Speaker 1: I had to really think about it, just not like them. 1898 01:23:58,760 --> 01:24:00,479 Speaker 1: I ain't even say wow, I like this. So it's 1899 01:24:00,520 --> 01:24:03,120 Speaker 1: a good song, so you know, it's obviously in Spanish, 1900 01:24:03,160 --> 01:24:07,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1901 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:07,240 Speaker 4: But when you listen to Spanish you feel like you 1902 01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:07,600 Speaker 4: know it. 1903 01:24:08,240 --> 01:24:08,679 Speaker 2: You do. 1904 01:24:08,920 --> 01:24:11,400 Speaker 1: But I was like, oh, this is so good, like 1905 01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:14,720 Speaker 1: I like this. Let me look up the lyrics. So 1906 01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:18,760 Speaker 1: I looked up the lyrics and it basically was just 1907 01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:22,280 Speaker 1: saying like it was talking about fame, like how fame 1908 01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:24,439 Speaker 1: is the beach, like you want it real bad but 1909 01:24:24,479 --> 01:24:26,519 Speaker 1: then you never get enough of you can never quench. 1910 01:24:26,600 --> 01:24:35,360 Speaker 2: The third it was given like the Lady Gaga. 1911 01:24:33,240 --> 01:24:35,600 Speaker 4: Impressing me. I'm sick, you're impressing me. 1912 01:24:35,880 --> 01:24:40,160 Speaker 3: My playlists will literally go from Dolly Party to gun. 1913 01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:45,320 Speaker 4: I'm down, back go to Apple. 1914 01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:49,479 Speaker 3: I got so okay, So it's given about the fame 1915 01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:50,160 Speaker 3: and the sickness. 1916 01:24:50,240 --> 01:24:52,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just saying how you just never get 1917 01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:54,519 Speaker 1: enough and then you love it, but you hate it 1918 01:24:54,560 --> 01:24:57,679 Speaker 1: because even once you feel like you've quenched the thirst 1919 01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:02,040 Speaker 1: and you've gotten what you wanted, you still want more. Yes, 1920 01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:06,120 Speaker 1: come on, she's a selfish, jealous lover. 1921 01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:12,720 Speaker 4: He is selfish jealous lover too jealous. 1922 01:25:14,240 --> 01:25:19,719 Speaker 2: Selfhieh, Hell yeah, I want mine. I'm not sharing sp 1923 01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:22,280 Speaker 2: I'm not sharing more niggas. I'm not doing that. 1924 01:25:22,760 --> 01:25:24,759 Speaker 4: Are you trying? Okay? What's what's the okay? 1925 01:25:24,760 --> 01:25:33,200 Speaker 2: So our favorite? If you want your question. I couldnot 1926 01:25:33,240 --> 01:25:35,040 Speaker 2: wait to see these complaining I'm playing. 1927 01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:37,080 Speaker 3: This is gonna be the first episode in a long 1928 01:25:37,080 --> 01:25:38,759 Speaker 3: time where I'm actually gonna read the comments. 1929 01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:40,160 Speaker 4: Oh no, you're gonna get more hits on this and 1930 01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:42,360 Speaker 4: your celebrity and share. 1931 01:25:42,840 --> 01:25:44,439 Speaker 1: I will really put this out there though for real, 1932 01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:46,320 Speaker 1: I was just playing, you cannot share it on nigga. 1933 01:25:46,760 --> 01:25:47,519 Speaker 2: It's just nice. 1934 01:25:47,680 --> 01:25:50,880 Speaker 4: No, don't take that. The last piece correct. It depends 1935 01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:52,400 Speaker 4: on which nigga. Nah don't. 1936 01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:57,000 Speaker 5: I'm gonna throw the shirt against look at me. That's 1937 01:25:57,040 --> 01:25:59,759 Speaker 5: the first time you went back on your word today. 1938 01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:01,840 Speaker 2: I went back on it because I was lying. 1939 01:26:02,080 --> 01:26:02,840 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not. 1940 01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:06,720 Speaker 2: I can't like I'm crazy the niggas she got right 1941 01:26:06,720 --> 01:26:08,639 Speaker 2: out this bitch a' shre and that's. 1942 01:26:08,439 --> 01:26:12,519 Speaker 4: Why that's why she was back on her word. What 1943 01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:16,240 Speaker 4: is his name? He won't say it. Okay, we'll call. 1944 01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:21,160 Speaker 2: That's what she called him, Mike. I call him naddy. 1945 01:26:21,400 --> 01:26:23,880 Speaker 2: Oh so I called my new nigga daddy. 1946 01:26:24,240 --> 01:26:30,200 Speaker 5: You niggas ladies, thank you for the. 1947 01:26:31,439 --> 01:26:34,000 Speaker 2: B call that bitch beyond say. 1948 01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:36,000 Speaker 4: We couldn't up turn. 1949 01:26:36,160 --> 01:26:38,280 Speaker 2: Why did you do this? Kenny? 1950 01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:40,880 Speaker 4: It was not my fault. It's real. 1951 01:26:41,720 --> 01:26:44,240 Speaker 2: So make sure you email us ad ask poor Minds 1952 01:26:44,240 --> 01:26:46,400 Speaker 2: at gmail dot com if you want your question answered 1953 01:26:46,439 --> 01:26:47,840 Speaker 2: on the show. If you are a. 1954 01:26:47,800 --> 01:26:49,599 Speaker 3: Patrear, remember make sure you put that in the heading 1955 01:26:49,640 --> 01:26:50,839 Speaker 3: and you get to skip the line. 1956 01:26:51,439 --> 01:26:54,040 Speaker 2: Okay, I think I have the murder out question. Okay, 1957 01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:55,080 Speaker 2: so it says. 1958 01:26:54,840 --> 01:26:56,760 Speaker 3: Now you got to give your advice, Kenny, give me 1959 01:26:56,840 --> 01:26:57,719 Speaker 3: giving us good advice. 1960 01:26:57,800 --> 01:26:59,200 Speaker 4: All that here for the people. 1961 01:26:59,400 --> 01:27:02,439 Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, it's this guy I've been talking to for 1962 01:27:02,600 --> 01:27:05,000 Speaker 3: five months and he asked me to be his girlfriend 1963 01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:07,799 Speaker 3: and I said yes. Now he wants me to post 1964 01:27:07,880 --> 01:27:09,639 Speaker 3: him and I'm a very private person. 1965 01:27:10,120 --> 01:27:14,080 Speaker 4: But that's not ooh, y'all red flag. 1966 01:27:14,439 --> 01:27:17,639 Speaker 2: But that's not all. I have a boyfriend of three 1967 01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:20,200 Speaker 2: years still I am. 1968 01:27:20,360 --> 01:27:21,599 Speaker 4: She's dating a nigga for five months. 1969 01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:22,880 Speaker 2: Yes, that's her boyfriend. 1970 01:27:23,360 --> 01:27:26,439 Speaker 1: I am a single until married type of girl, so 1971 01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:29,720 Speaker 1: I keep my men in rotation. Wait, I love my 1972 01:27:29,840 --> 01:27:33,200 Speaker 1: boyfriend number one, but the dick is bad. But he's 1973 01:27:33,240 --> 01:27:36,760 Speaker 1: a bad b which is a big, big baller New 1974 01:27:36,840 --> 01:27:39,160 Speaker 1: Bay Dick is amazing. I don't want to post him, 1975 01:27:39,200 --> 01:27:43,240 Speaker 1: but he's saying it's girlfriend duties and I want. 1976 01:27:43,000 --> 01:27:47,800 Speaker 4: To do it. But what do I do? Uh? 1977 01:27:48,000 --> 01:27:52,320 Speaker 5: Now you are in the world of yon meanery boy, 1978 01:27:52,560 --> 01:27:55,000 Speaker 5: Yeah meanery. That should just keep going? 1979 01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:55,760 Speaker 2: Oh lot? 1980 01:27:55,920 --> 01:28:00,160 Speaker 5: I mean, I feel though, baby, you have to make 1981 01:28:00,200 --> 01:28:00,679 Speaker 5: a choice. 1982 01:28:00,800 --> 01:28:02,160 Speaker 4: Yeah you can't. 1983 01:28:02,520 --> 01:28:04,519 Speaker 5: You know, you can kind of teach people how to 1984 01:28:04,800 --> 01:28:08,240 Speaker 5: fuck you and treat you on some levels, but the 1985 01:28:08,320 --> 01:28:10,479 Speaker 5: relationship for three years versus five months, you can't get 1986 01:28:10,479 --> 01:28:12,479 Speaker 5: that three years back. And I don't think you're gonna 1987 01:28:12,479 --> 01:28:14,360 Speaker 5: see it in another person because what's happening is you 1988 01:28:14,439 --> 01:28:19,719 Speaker 5: gonna end up regretting your current relationship having bust the move. 1989 01:28:20,080 --> 01:28:23,080 Speaker 5: In my personal opinion, three years is a clip. Three 1990 01:28:23,160 --> 01:28:25,680 Speaker 5: years ain't no little bit of time. Then people know 1991 01:28:25,760 --> 01:28:27,680 Speaker 5: what type of medicine, your own type shit, you know 1992 01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:30,160 Speaker 5: what I'm talkingbo, They know what you like and can't 1993 01:28:30,200 --> 01:28:30,760 Speaker 5: eat type. 1994 01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:33,519 Speaker 2: But three years to be with somebody and they have 1995 01:28:33,600 --> 01:28:34,799 Speaker 2: bad dick like girls. 1996 01:28:34,880 --> 01:28:36,519 Speaker 4: But she just said he was a bad What you. 1997 01:28:38,280 --> 01:28:39,800 Speaker 2: He just got money girl? Move around? 1998 01:28:39,880 --> 01:28:44,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, and everybody calm down. He has money. He has 1999 01:28:44,640 --> 01:28:49,240 Speaker 5: enough to feed the needy, right. But what she just said, 2000 01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:52,120 Speaker 5: Okay whatever, I'm not trying to talk about Dix. But 2001 01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:54,120 Speaker 5: what I am trying to say, at the end of 2002 01:28:54,160 --> 01:28:56,719 Speaker 5: the day, if you if you could teach a nigga 2003 01:28:56,760 --> 01:28:59,800 Speaker 5: what you like, ladies, y'all know it's certain. Y'all got 2004 01:28:59,800 --> 01:29:02,680 Speaker 5: to get into the come and don't act like a 2005 01:29:02,760 --> 01:29:05,720 Speaker 5: nigga just gonna pop in and do whatever. You know 2006 01:29:05,720 --> 01:29:07,920 Speaker 5: what I mean, to satisfy. He has to learn your body, 2007 01:29:08,120 --> 01:29:10,160 Speaker 5: He has to learn your rhythm. There's things that you 2008 01:29:10,240 --> 01:29:11,880 Speaker 5: gotta you know what I'm saying. Learn, So why can't 2009 01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:14,880 Speaker 5: they learn that after three years? But but Okay, well, 2010 01:29:14,920 --> 01:29:15,280 Speaker 5: you know what. 2011 01:29:15,320 --> 01:29:16,080 Speaker 2: That's a long time. 2012 01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:19,840 Speaker 4: That's a long time. I listen. 2013 01:29:19,960 --> 01:29:22,559 Speaker 5: But but sex comes and goals in relationships, so you 2014 01:29:22,600 --> 01:29:24,479 Speaker 5: need to identify what that relationship means. 2015 01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:24,800 Speaker 4: To your baby. 2016 01:29:25,920 --> 01:29:27,760 Speaker 3: All she said that was good about him was that 2017 01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:29,719 Speaker 3: he was a BDB And to me, that's not enough 2018 01:29:30,320 --> 01:29:31,880 Speaker 3: because if she really loves him, she would have been 2019 01:29:31,880 --> 01:29:33,639 Speaker 3: like he he does this for me, he. 2020 01:29:33,600 --> 01:29:35,160 Speaker 4: Does find success for yourself. 2021 01:29:35,200 --> 01:29:38,360 Speaker 5: Baby, If it ain't working and you can't fix it 2022 01:29:38,400 --> 01:29:40,040 Speaker 5: and teaching what you need him to know, then you 2023 01:29:40,120 --> 01:29:41,000 Speaker 5: might need to bust some move. 2024 01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:43,920 Speaker 1: That's why I like talking to mirror people because he said, six, 2025 01:29:44,000 --> 01:29:47,559 Speaker 1: come and go it does I just thought, you find 2026 01:29:47,600 --> 01:29:48,839 Speaker 1: somebody who got good? 2027 01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:49,599 Speaker 2: You got good? 2028 01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:54,040 Speaker 4: I ask you. That's what I'm sorry. Can I tell 2029 01:29:54,040 --> 01:29:56,439 Speaker 4: you something, at the end of the day, when you 2030 01:29:56,520 --> 01:30:00,519 Speaker 4: got mortgages, houses, your kid, get your kids. No no, no, 2031 01:30:00,400 --> 01:30:02,440 Speaker 4: no no, let's just put it in perspective. 2032 01:30:02,720 --> 01:30:06,479 Speaker 5: Sex is always great, but when you can find time 2033 01:30:06,520 --> 01:30:08,639 Speaker 5: to have sex, it varies. 2034 01:30:08,800 --> 01:30:11,679 Speaker 4: Little kids are demand that you fall a sleep sitting 2035 01:30:11,720 --> 01:30:15,200 Speaker 4: with your shit on. With babies in four and five 2036 01:30:15,280 --> 01:30:16,160 Speaker 4: two years, you know what I mean. 2037 01:30:16,600 --> 01:30:18,280 Speaker 5: But then when they get the grown too, you're also 2038 01:30:18,360 --> 01:30:20,600 Speaker 5: dealing with the fact that they just basically told you 2039 01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:23,840 Speaker 5: they fucking can't stand you, you know, whatever the case 2040 01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:26,080 Speaker 5: may be. So you're dealing with the emotional trauma while 2041 01:30:26,120 --> 01:30:28,559 Speaker 5: your kid that you loved all your life. So there's 2042 01:30:28,560 --> 01:30:33,320 Speaker 5: so many variables to being a partner with kids, with finances, 2043 01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:36,640 Speaker 5: with properties, with things, So you gotta be committed to 2044 01:30:36,680 --> 01:30:37,520 Speaker 5: the partnership. 2045 01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:40,000 Speaker 4: I like you. I want to be around you, nigga. 2046 01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:43,519 Speaker 4: You funny as shit. Oh you know what to say? 2047 01:30:43,680 --> 01:30:45,559 Speaker 5: You know what I can't eat and I can't even 2048 01:30:45,760 --> 01:30:48,400 Speaker 5: It's things that you appreciate about people that you would 2049 01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:49,960 Speaker 5: never think about when you start dating. 2050 01:30:51,040 --> 01:30:52,240 Speaker 4: Pussy good dick, come and go. 2051 01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:55,519 Speaker 1: Now that's a fact, because you got to think about it. 2052 01:30:55,640 --> 01:30:57,080 Speaker 1: Can you be around this person? 2053 01:30:57,320 --> 01:30:59,759 Speaker 4: I like that talk this way with y'all. Me talking 2054 01:30:59,800 --> 01:31:01,280 Speaker 4: like this takes me back to my youth. 2055 01:31:02,080 --> 01:31:05,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you, right, But you're right because I'm 2056 01:31:05,640 --> 01:31:07,960 Speaker 1: telling you and I be thinking about that type of stuff, 2057 01:31:07,960 --> 01:31:08,599 Speaker 1: and I just be like. 2058 01:31:08,600 --> 01:31:12,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, like sex is so important, right, No, but. 2059 01:31:12,479 --> 01:31:14,479 Speaker 4: It's important the beginning. 2060 01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:17,080 Speaker 2: But but again, I've never been married. 2061 01:31:17,320 --> 01:31:19,960 Speaker 1: I've never been in a relationship that's longer than like 2062 01:31:20,520 --> 01:31:24,760 Speaker 1: two three years, those clips are too small. The way yeah, 2063 01:31:24,800 --> 01:31:26,920 Speaker 1: so the way that you're explaining it to me, in 2064 01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:28,920 Speaker 1: a way that you're giving it to me, I never 2065 01:31:28,960 --> 01:31:31,160 Speaker 1: thought about it like that. I haven't I don't have 2066 01:31:31,280 --> 01:31:33,640 Speaker 1: kids with nobody. I haven't had to go through like 2067 01:31:34,960 --> 01:31:36,040 Speaker 1: our child together. 2068 01:31:36,080 --> 01:31:38,599 Speaker 2: And I'm tired. It's fuck and you probably want some pussy. 2069 01:31:38,640 --> 01:31:41,320 Speaker 1: But I'm like, nigga, I've been fucking trying to put 2070 01:31:41,360 --> 01:31:42,880 Speaker 1: this baby to sleep for five hours. 2071 01:31:42,920 --> 01:31:44,280 Speaker 2: I can't even give it to you. 2072 01:31:44,320 --> 01:31:45,960 Speaker 5: But even now, you do that to the nigga not 2073 01:31:46,360 --> 01:31:49,439 Speaker 5: knowing you doing it because you've been working all week, 2074 01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:50,519 Speaker 5: just not you know what I mean. 2075 01:31:50,640 --> 01:31:53,720 Speaker 4: Or I'm coming on my period. It ain't on yet, nigga. 2076 01:31:53,600 --> 01:31:55,160 Speaker 5: But you're talking about you coming on your period. You 2077 01:31:55,200 --> 01:31:56,439 Speaker 5: can give me a pussy if you want to give 2078 01:31:56,520 --> 01:31:57,599 Speaker 5: us a pussy right now. 2079 01:31:57,720 --> 01:31:59,880 Speaker 2: But you're talking about it's about to come, you feel. 2080 01:32:00,280 --> 01:32:01,599 Speaker 5: But my point is at the end of the day too, 2081 01:32:01,640 --> 01:32:05,280 Speaker 5: you gotta realize that you gotta like the motherfucker. Yeah, 2082 01:32:06,920 --> 01:32:09,600 Speaker 5: you know, I like the green teeth from fucking Starbucks 2083 01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:10,360 Speaker 5: with the hot. 2084 01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:13,720 Speaker 4: You know what I'm talking about, just cuz or I 2085 01:32:13,840 --> 01:32:14,200 Speaker 4: like that. 2086 01:32:14,120 --> 01:32:16,479 Speaker 5: Impossible sandwich in the morning because I just finished working out. 2087 01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:17,840 Speaker 4: I ain't got time to eat before. 2088 01:32:18,120 --> 01:32:20,240 Speaker 5: It's the little thing and that's the one thing that 2089 01:32:20,280 --> 01:32:22,599 Speaker 5: we got to realize that. And baby girl, I hope 2090 01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:25,080 Speaker 5: we answered your question, but you gotta dig into what 2091 01:32:25,120 --> 01:32:27,519 Speaker 5: you love about the three year relationship and what you 2092 01:32:27,600 --> 01:32:30,040 Speaker 5: are winning the sacrifice for the fire and pick. 2093 01:32:30,479 --> 01:32:32,240 Speaker 2: And pickge like you said to be. 2094 01:32:32,600 --> 01:32:35,760 Speaker 3: You need to make a decision because you while are Bookie. 2095 01:32:36,040 --> 01:32:38,280 Speaker 5: I love the way we give our perspective because the 2096 01:32:38,320 --> 01:32:40,600 Speaker 5: ship be variables. 2097 01:32:40,720 --> 01:32:46,000 Speaker 1: But it's like the different levels. 2098 01:32:46,120 --> 01:32:49,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, go ahead, question number her second drink. 2099 01:32:49,280 --> 01:32:51,160 Speaker 5: You better let me get that nigga name out you 2100 01:32:51,240 --> 01:32:56,320 Speaker 5: today We're about to taking pictures going on my Instagram, like. 2101 01:32:56,280 --> 01:33:03,879 Speaker 2: Who's that the baddest Hi ladies. 2102 01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:06,439 Speaker 1: I'm twenty six years old and I live in Richmond, Virginia. 2103 01:33:06,800 --> 01:33:10,000 Speaker 1: I'm Afro Latina, and I'm not whitewashed or an uncle 2104 01:33:10,040 --> 01:33:13,120 Speaker 1: Tom at all. But for some reason, I had found 2105 01:33:13,120 --> 01:33:16,240 Speaker 1: it hard to make black girlfriends. From twenty twenty to 2106 01:33:16,280 --> 01:33:18,879 Speaker 1: twenty twenty one, I had a solid group of black friends, 2107 01:33:19,160 --> 01:33:21,640 Speaker 1: but late ends to twenty twenty one, all three of 2108 01:33:21,680 --> 01:33:22,880 Speaker 1: them moved away for work. 2109 01:33:23,240 --> 01:33:25,479 Speaker 2: We're still close, but I wish they were closer. 2110 01:33:26,280 --> 01:33:28,200 Speaker 1: I thought I had found two black girls I could 2111 01:33:28,240 --> 01:33:30,880 Speaker 1: become friends with last year, but when I tried to 2112 01:33:30,920 --> 01:33:33,280 Speaker 1: make plans with them, they were flaky and ended up 2113 01:33:33,280 --> 01:33:35,920 Speaker 1: ghosting me, and it kind of discouraged me from making 2114 01:33:35,920 --> 01:33:39,760 Speaker 1: new friends. Currently, my closest friends are white, with the 2115 01:33:39,800 --> 01:33:43,080 Speaker 1: exception of a few Latinas and a few Indian women. 2116 01:33:43,520 --> 01:33:45,800 Speaker 1: The lack of black women in my life upsets me, 2117 01:33:45,880 --> 01:33:48,040 Speaker 1: and honestly, I find it really embarrassing. 2118 01:33:48,479 --> 01:33:50,960 Speaker 2: I only date black men, and more than. 2119 01:33:50,880 --> 01:33:53,599 Speaker 1: A few of them have commented on how I hang 2120 01:33:53,640 --> 01:33:57,880 Speaker 1: out with white women. Do you think there's any way 2121 01:33:57,920 --> 01:34:00,559 Speaker 1: that I could fix this? I'm very outgone. I have 2122 01:34:00,680 --> 01:34:05,680 Speaker 1: all kinds of interests, like regularly traveling, exercising, daily concerts, 2123 01:34:05,760 --> 01:34:09,200 Speaker 1: hair makeup, going out in all things a typical young 2124 01:34:09,240 --> 01:34:10,200 Speaker 1: woman would enjoy. 2125 01:34:10,800 --> 01:34:13,680 Speaker 2: There is a black population in Richmond. 2126 01:34:13,240 --> 01:34:15,599 Speaker 1: But most of the time I find myself the only 2127 01:34:15,680 --> 01:34:17,280 Speaker 1: woman of color in the room. 2128 01:34:17,840 --> 01:34:22,400 Speaker 5: Wow, big shot of two lat two nails here in Atlanta. 2129 01:34:22,640 --> 01:34:25,480 Speaker 5: They from Richmond. They moved to when I first. 2130 01:34:25,200 --> 01:34:26,280 Speaker 2: Moved to Shout out to y'all. 2131 01:34:26,479 --> 01:34:29,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, They've been doing my nails since twenty seventy twenty 2132 01:34:29,280 --> 01:34:31,480 Speaker 5: four five years. 2133 01:34:31,640 --> 01:34:34,320 Speaker 4: No, you gotta go see Sabrina Black. 2134 01:34:34,360 --> 01:34:36,519 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, what a song because i just took my 2135 01:34:36,600 --> 01:34:38,400 Speaker 3: nails off today because I'm giving my nails a rest. 2136 01:34:38,439 --> 01:34:40,760 Speaker 4: Okay, at least you got nails, because oh I. 2137 01:34:40,680 --> 01:34:41,840 Speaker 2: Got everything edges on the all. 2138 01:34:41,920 --> 01:34:43,599 Speaker 4: But go ahead talk that talk. 2139 01:34:44,120 --> 01:34:46,880 Speaker 5: All is falling like every time you talk, I swear 2140 01:34:46,920 --> 01:34:49,120 Speaker 5: have got But I want to talk to the lady 2141 01:34:49,520 --> 01:34:53,640 Speaker 5: from Richmond, my sister, big Shot to Robin Line. She 2142 01:34:53,640 --> 01:34:57,040 Speaker 5: owns Baller Alert and back in the day when she 2143 01:34:57,120 --> 01:35:00,360 Speaker 5: was getting her her her business to star art, you 2144 01:35:00,360 --> 01:35:02,280 Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, like moving away, she wanted to 2145 01:35:02,880 --> 01:35:04,880 Speaker 5: She was like, this is the era of Kim Kardashian, 2146 01:35:04,920 --> 01:35:09,160 Speaker 5: them coming and taking all the attributes that black women owned. 2147 01:35:09,840 --> 01:35:13,440 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Ass is the right proportion? 2148 01:35:13,640 --> 01:35:14,200 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? This? 2149 01:35:14,240 --> 01:35:17,960 Speaker 5: That and the third And I think because you're Afro Latina, 2150 01:35:18,040 --> 01:35:21,680 Speaker 5: you get judged sadly enough, right she's she's you know, 2151 01:35:21,920 --> 01:35:27,040 Speaker 5: Spanish girls and you know Arabic all the what is 2152 01:35:27,120 --> 01:35:30,280 Speaker 5: Kim Kardashian and then what's the National Armeni and all 2153 01:35:30,320 --> 01:35:33,479 Speaker 5: the others get like this energy from black men. 2154 01:35:33,560 --> 01:35:34,160 Speaker 4: It's the truth. 2155 01:35:34,720 --> 01:35:36,680 Speaker 5: And I say, tell my sister, all the time, like 2156 01:35:36,720 --> 01:35:38,400 Speaker 5: why are you doing that? Like maybe they just like 2157 01:35:38,439 --> 01:35:40,800 Speaker 5: the motherfuckers. No, it's a fucking fad. And then now 2158 01:35:40,840 --> 01:35:45,559 Speaker 5: you see today everybody's cookie cutting black women's bodies or 2159 01:35:45,560 --> 01:35:49,840 Speaker 5: cookie cutting black people's Black women's bodies. So I just 2160 01:35:49,880 --> 01:35:51,400 Speaker 5: want to tell you, and I don't know how you look, 2161 01:35:51,760 --> 01:35:58,120 Speaker 5: but I'm assuming the latina is prevalent in your features. Yeah, 2162 01:35:58,120 --> 01:36:00,800 Speaker 5: so if latina is prevalent in your feature, I would say, 2163 01:36:00,840 --> 01:36:01,479 Speaker 5: continue to be you. 2164 01:36:01,560 --> 01:36:02,960 Speaker 4: If nobody you know, if you're. 2165 01:36:02,760 --> 01:36:05,720 Speaker 5: Not connecting with a certain race, I don't think that 2166 01:36:05,760 --> 01:36:06,559 Speaker 5: should be your goal. 2167 01:36:06,960 --> 01:36:07,479 Speaker 2: That's what I was. 2168 01:36:08,080 --> 01:36:09,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I kind of want to break that down 2169 01:36:09,439 --> 01:36:11,640 Speaker 5: because I feel it's important and my sister probably is 2170 01:36:11,640 --> 01:36:13,960 Speaker 5: gonna shoot me in my pinky toe, but I had 2171 01:36:14,000 --> 01:36:15,760 Speaker 5: to say that because that's how black women felt for 2172 01:36:15,800 --> 01:36:17,600 Speaker 5: a long time. A lot of black women felt like 2173 01:36:17,680 --> 01:36:20,080 Speaker 5: y'all going for these these women who are. 2174 01:36:19,960 --> 01:36:22,479 Speaker 4: Trying to look like us. And I get that, I 2175 01:36:22,520 --> 01:36:23,120 Speaker 4: get that, you. 2176 01:36:23,080 --> 01:36:24,800 Speaker 5: Know what I mean, That's a very important thing to 2177 01:36:24,800 --> 01:36:28,280 Speaker 5: discuss community wise, because you know, they having babies and 2178 01:36:28,400 --> 01:36:30,200 Speaker 5: doing all these things with people that they really don't love. 2179 01:36:30,240 --> 01:36:31,800 Speaker 5: It's more of a fad than it is I'm into 2180 01:36:31,840 --> 01:36:34,080 Speaker 5: this person, but I want to encourage you to find 2181 01:36:34,120 --> 01:36:34,799 Speaker 5: real friends. 2182 01:36:35,280 --> 01:36:38,599 Speaker 4: I don't want you to depend. Yeah, Like, it was so. 2183 01:36:38,560 --> 01:36:40,439 Speaker 2: Much emphasis on like I want black. 2184 01:36:40,200 --> 01:36:44,280 Speaker 5: Friends, but that almost seems intrusive in itself. 2185 01:36:44,280 --> 01:36:46,960 Speaker 4: That almost seems not genuine in itself. You know what 2186 01:36:46,960 --> 01:36:47,400 Speaker 4: I'm saying. 2187 01:36:47,479 --> 01:36:49,360 Speaker 2: So so I tell the story also, not. 2188 01:36:49,320 --> 01:36:51,760 Speaker 4: That you are. I'm just saying how people will look 2189 01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:53,360 Speaker 4: at it. That's why I wanted to start the conversation 2190 01:36:53,439 --> 01:36:53,880 Speaker 4: with what I. 2191 01:36:53,800 --> 01:36:56,559 Speaker 3: Said, because I mean, everybody that listens to like, I 2192 01:36:56,560 --> 01:36:58,479 Speaker 3: went to an all white school growing up, so whenever 2193 01:36:58,520 --> 01:37:00,400 Speaker 3: I moved to Houston, that's when I was giving you 2194 01:37:00,560 --> 01:37:01,519 Speaker 3: a black girl in the room. 2195 01:37:01,800 --> 01:37:05,800 Speaker 1: I was definitely the black girl in the room. Given 2196 01:37:06,600 --> 01:37:09,800 Speaker 1: that is given, I got a lot to say to you. 2197 01:37:10,240 --> 01:37:11,720 Speaker 4: That's what it was given. 2198 01:37:11,880 --> 01:37:14,519 Speaker 3: So but honestly, when I moved to Houston and I 2199 01:37:14,560 --> 01:37:16,479 Speaker 3: was around black people, it was so weird to me 2200 01:37:16,560 --> 01:37:19,000 Speaker 3: that I met black people that were like, I need 2201 01:37:19,040 --> 01:37:22,280 Speaker 3: white friends. I'm I want some white friends. I thought 2202 01:37:22,280 --> 01:37:24,160 Speaker 3: that was so weird. Because I grew up in the country. 2203 01:37:24,200 --> 01:37:25,760 Speaker 3: We didn't hang out with each other because of this. 2204 01:37:25,960 --> 01:37:27,840 Speaker 3: We hang out with each other because we liked each other, 2205 01:37:28,200 --> 01:37:30,240 Speaker 3: so When I hear people say things like I want 2206 01:37:30,280 --> 01:37:34,360 Speaker 3: black friends or I want white friends, it's always strange 2207 01:37:34,400 --> 01:37:38,000 Speaker 3: to me. You're gonna attract what you attract. I don't 2208 01:37:38,080 --> 01:37:41,599 Speaker 3: put race on if you're my friend or not. I've 2209 01:37:41,640 --> 01:37:46,840 Speaker 3: had the same close best friend for over twenty five years, 2210 01:37:46,880 --> 01:37:50,639 Speaker 3: my best friend Lindsey. You talked to Lindsay and she's white. 2211 01:37:50,680 --> 01:37:52,559 Speaker 3: We've been friends since fourth grade. 2212 01:37:52,920 --> 01:37:56,200 Speaker 2: It don't fucking matter. We just attracted to each other 2213 01:37:56,240 --> 01:37:57,080 Speaker 2: and this is how it is. 2214 01:37:57,120 --> 01:37:59,600 Speaker 3: So maybe if you didn't put so much emphasis on 2215 01:37:59,640 --> 01:38:02,680 Speaker 3: like I want black friends, girl, enjoy your time with 2216 01:38:02,720 --> 01:38:04,160 Speaker 3: your friends a track what you attracted. 2217 01:38:04,360 --> 01:38:06,280 Speaker 2: Just you need to have friends. 2218 01:38:06,479 --> 01:38:09,120 Speaker 1: I think you need to have friends that align, and 2219 01:38:09,160 --> 01:38:11,519 Speaker 1: I think you need to have friends from different walks 2220 01:38:11,520 --> 01:38:14,919 Speaker 1: of life, right, But that doesn't necessarily mean race facts. 2221 01:38:15,200 --> 01:38:18,720 Speaker 4: They shouldn't even play a part in your Yeah. 2222 01:38:18,680 --> 01:38:20,479 Speaker 2: It shouldn't have anything to do with race. 2223 01:38:21,040 --> 01:38:23,639 Speaker 1: I think that you should become friends with people who 2224 01:38:23,720 --> 01:38:25,360 Speaker 1: are different from you. 2225 01:38:25,280 --> 01:38:28,599 Speaker 4: And good humans. Yeah, good people, good people. 2226 01:38:29,320 --> 01:38:31,559 Speaker 1: But also like that's a giving but it's not you 2227 01:38:31,640 --> 01:38:33,800 Speaker 1: and a person shouldn't be friends and y'all shouldn't be 2228 01:38:33,840 --> 01:38:34,160 Speaker 1: around you. 2229 01:38:34,520 --> 01:38:39,000 Speaker 4: Literally y'all, she literally sent you a message. 2230 01:38:40,479 --> 01:38:46,080 Speaker 1: Black friend, nothing about I need somebody who couldn't listen 2231 01:38:46,120 --> 01:38:49,920 Speaker 1: to me. I need some faring but as like, please 2232 01:38:50,080 --> 01:38:52,720 Speaker 1: give me because she want to be outside with the girls. 2233 01:38:52,880 --> 01:38:53,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, but but that's cool. 2234 01:38:54,000 --> 01:38:57,120 Speaker 5: But also too is that And people always talk about 2235 01:38:57,160 --> 01:38:59,439 Speaker 5: what they call it culture vultures and people that want 2236 01:38:59,479 --> 01:39:03,320 Speaker 5: to infiltrate our magic. You know, but I don't want 2237 01:39:03,320 --> 01:39:06,880 Speaker 5: you to have get that energy, baby, girls, would people 2238 01:39:06,920 --> 01:39:08,920 Speaker 5: and people that love you for you and want to 2239 01:39:08,920 --> 01:39:11,200 Speaker 5: be around you that you think you. 2240 01:39:11,160 --> 01:39:15,720 Speaker 4: Should be around exactly black folks too. 2241 01:39:16,240 --> 01:39:19,480 Speaker 1: Hello, stop begging people to hang out with you. 2242 01:39:20,600 --> 01:39:22,960 Speaker 2: We used to get about that when I was younger. 2243 01:39:23,880 --> 01:39:25,360 Speaker 1: But she used to always be like, you need to 2244 01:39:25,400 --> 01:39:27,280 Speaker 1: have friends that ain't like you need to have some 2245 01:39:27,320 --> 01:39:28,400 Speaker 1: more friends that ain't black. 2246 01:39:28,439 --> 01:39:30,479 Speaker 5: And I'll be like, mom, but it always comes with 2247 01:39:30,600 --> 01:39:32,880 Speaker 5: time to so as you grow and you hear other music. 2248 01:39:32,720 --> 01:39:37,400 Speaker 4: Or you friend, my mom was so happy. It doesn't matter. 2249 01:39:38,360 --> 01:39:40,799 Speaker 5: It doesn't matter, but it does matter in the system 2250 01:39:40,840 --> 01:39:44,639 Speaker 5: of your growth. Right, Culture, culture is understanding cultures. Culture 2251 01:39:44,800 --> 01:39:47,559 Speaker 5: is I don't just eat you know, eat limon pepper 2252 01:39:47,600 --> 01:39:50,720 Speaker 5: wings like I'm still a French fry guy, Like we 2253 01:39:50,800 --> 01:39:51,240 Speaker 5: eat meat. 2254 01:39:52,600 --> 01:39:55,200 Speaker 4: I don't even know, but you feel what. 2255 01:39:55,120 --> 01:39:58,080 Speaker 2: I'm saying, and we like impossible, Yeah we do. 2256 01:39:58,200 --> 01:40:03,120 Speaker 3: Like Okay, now y'all know we got the voicemail segments 2257 01:40:04,320 --> 01:40:07,600 Speaker 3: shot line. Yeah, we got the shot line going. So 2258 01:40:07,680 --> 01:40:09,720 Speaker 3: if you want to leave your voicemail memory, this is 2259 01:40:09,760 --> 01:40:12,479 Speaker 3: not advice. This is just getting something off your chest, 2260 01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:15,719 Speaker 3: telling you telling us how you feel. The number is below. 2261 01:40:15,840 --> 01:40:18,679 Speaker 3: Make sure y'all call it, leave us a voicemail. Please 2262 01:40:18,720 --> 01:40:20,240 Speaker 3: make it less than a minute. We don't want to 2263 01:40:20,240 --> 01:40:23,439 Speaker 3: be on here too long. So yeah, this is our 2264 01:40:23,760 --> 01:40:25,240 Speaker 3: shot line of the day. 2265 01:40:25,800 --> 01:40:26,439 Speaker 2: Let's go there. 2266 01:40:30,479 --> 01:40:33,719 Speaker 6: Hey guys, So I'm sitting here watching episode two thirty three, 2267 01:40:34,560 --> 01:40:40,679 Speaker 6: and you know what, I am so tired of niggas 2268 01:40:40,720 --> 01:40:46,520 Speaker 6: that drive pickup trucks like the most little deep assholes 2269 01:40:47,000 --> 01:40:49,920 Speaker 6: in the world. Like everybody that driving pickup truck literally 2270 01:40:49,960 --> 01:40:53,760 Speaker 6: can just go to hell, like they die for with 2271 01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:58,000 Speaker 6: beech hips and got the worst attitudes. Like niggas that 2272 01:40:58,160 --> 01:40:59,439 Speaker 6: drive pickup trucks go to hell. 2273 01:41:01,120 --> 01:41:03,400 Speaker 2: You know what, it's crazy, say five to four. 2274 01:41:04,080 --> 01:41:07,000 Speaker 3: You know what's crazy that I learned they don't let 2275 01:41:07,080 --> 01:41:10,439 Speaker 3: men donate sperm if they're under five five. I didn't 2276 01:41:10,479 --> 01:41:13,760 Speaker 3: know that they don't let men donate sperm that under 2277 01:41:13,800 --> 01:41:14,240 Speaker 3: five five? 2278 01:41:14,520 --> 01:41:14,840 Speaker 2: Crazy? 2279 01:41:15,200 --> 01:41:17,559 Speaker 4: Yeah, where's the prerequisitting her questionnaire? 2280 01:41:17,600 --> 01:41:19,360 Speaker 1: Though when she's oh no, that's not a question, it's 2281 01:41:19,400 --> 01:41:20,519 Speaker 1: just things to get off their chair. 2282 01:41:21,400 --> 01:41:23,519 Speaker 5: But I'm saying for her, like, if she keeps experiencing 2283 01:41:23,600 --> 01:41:25,680 Speaker 5: these type of men, where's the disconnect? 2284 01:41:25,720 --> 01:41:28,080 Speaker 3: Cause I never ran into a five four nigga with 2285 01:41:28,120 --> 01:41:29,280 Speaker 3: thick hips in the pickup truck. 2286 01:41:29,320 --> 01:41:31,880 Speaker 4: Now when she said five she might be an orange, 2287 01:41:33,080 --> 01:41:34,080 Speaker 4: she might be orange. 2288 01:41:34,560 --> 01:41:37,120 Speaker 2: I don't run into the niggas in Atlanta in pickup. True, 2289 01:41:37,200 --> 01:41:38,760 Speaker 2: I ain't see the pickup, but you know what, she 2290 01:41:38,880 --> 01:41:39,880 Speaker 2: might need truck drivers. 2291 01:41:39,920 --> 01:41:43,240 Speaker 4: Though I'm not gonna lie when I like the truck truck. 2292 01:41:43,320 --> 01:41:45,559 Speaker 2: I want a big ass like no facts. 2293 01:41:45,640 --> 01:41:47,680 Speaker 1: But it's the difference between the nigga who driving an 2294 01:41:47,840 --> 01:41:50,479 Speaker 1: F one fifty got an eighteen wink, But. 2295 01:41:50,479 --> 01:41:53,559 Speaker 5: Who's driving the F one fifty outside of hauling track 2296 01:41:53,720 --> 01:41:55,320 Speaker 5: like nouse, No, you. 2297 01:41:55,360 --> 01:41:57,960 Speaker 2: Got some niggas that got them at five fifties. 2298 01:41:57,520 --> 01:42:03,040 Speaker 5: That clearly like preference vehicle. But I'm talking about is 2299 01:42:03,080 --> 01:42:11,960 Speaker 5: she referred as a business or just like okay, well yeah, 2300 01:42:12,040 --> 01:42:14,880 Speaker 5: sorry baby, what you stop looking at niggas and trucks? 2301 01:42:15,000 --> 01:42:18,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's five Thorne, all right, Kenny, I don't like. 2302 01:42:19,120 --> 01:42:22,560 Speaker 1: Let us go where what you got coming up, what 2303 01:42:22,680 --> 01:42:24,680 Speaker 1: you got going on, where they can buy everything that 2304 01:42:24,840 --> 01:42:27,200 Speaker 1: you got, where they can find you and follow you at. 2305 01:42:27,080 --> 01:42:30,600 Speaker 5: All that good year at Kenny Burns on all platforms. 2306 01:42:31,000 --> 01:42:35,280 Speaker 5: You can support my portfolio spirits by going to at 2307 01:42:35,400 --> 01:42:41,000 Speaker 5: baiab Jen, at Vosovaka, at Uncle Nearest and at LS 2308 01:42:41,080 --> 01:42:44,920 Speaker 5: cream Licore on Instagram. I'm at Kenny Burns h my 2309 01:42:45,040 --> 01:42:46,839 Speaker 5: sons and I and my wife. We have a clothing 2310 01:42:46,880 --> 01:42:50,440 Speaker 5: brand called Beyonds Lifestyle at BYRNS Lifestyle. 2311 01:42:51,680 --> 01:42:53,360 Speaker 4: Maybe by the time you see this will be sold 2312 01:42:53,360 --> 01:42:54,439 Speaker 4: out because we said a lot quick. 2313 01:42:54,520 --> 01:42:55,040 Speaker 2: It's all. 2314 01:42:56,520 --> 01:42:59,640 Speaker 5: They have their pieces because I was thoughtful, I was 2315 01:42:59,640 --> 01:43:01,640 Speaker 5: coming to see some black women that could you know 2316 01:43:01,680 --> 01:43:02,920 Speaker 5: what I'm saying, amplify. 2317 01:43:02,560 --> 01:43:05,559 Speaker 2: My shoes and I'm gonna wear my shoes off. Had 2318 01:43:05,600 --> 01:43:07,360 Speaker 2: the modified into a crop sip. 2319 01:43:07,960 --> 01:43:10,360 Speaker 1: We're gonna put a little one too, please, but I'm 2320 01:43:10,400 --> 01:43:13,280 Speaker 1: gonna weird though I appreciate it all right. 2321 01:43:15,479 --> 01:43:18,360 Speaker 5: Hopefully hold on, Hopefully, Hopefully you're a new guy that 2322 01:43:18,439 --> 01:43:20,920 Speaker 5: I don't know. His name doesn't say anything about you 2323 01:43:21,040 --> 01:43:23,280 Speaker 5: wearing my eighteen year old self. 2324 01:43:23,160 --> 01:43:27,439 Speaker 4: On your chest. I don't know you man, he like you. 2325 01:43:28,240 --> 01:43:35,519 Speaker 4: Oh that's what's up? What's up? Were going out on 2326 01:43:35,600 --> 01:43:39,560 Speaker 4: the said kid, my nigga were going out bringing the 2327 01:43:39,560 --> 01:43:44,040 Speaker 4: strength of woman. This is what staying Drea Cole because 2328 01:43:44,080 --> 01:43:45,280 Speaker 4: she did the pre she did. 2329 01:43:45,360 --> 01:43:47,120 Speaker 2: I don't got to bring him, he gotta bring me. 2330 01:43:47,600 --> 01:43:49,679 Speaker 4: Okay. The point is she's been drinking. 2331 01:43:51,320 --> 01:43:52,719 Speaker 2: She asked her missed. 2332 01:43:53,400 --> 01:43:54,960 Speaker 4: She didn't ask for a mission, but she told her 2333 01:43:55,040 --> 01:43:56,600 Speaker 4: man who she was about to interview, just so he 2334 01:43:56,680 --> 01:43:59,879 Speaker 4: would be comfortable because he probably knows that I'm a scorpion. 2335 01:44:00,000 --> 01:44:01,760 Speaker 1: But you said that's why I'm single though. Remember you 2336 01:44:01,800 --> 01:44:03,960 Speaker 1: said at the beginning of the episode. 2337 01:44:05,040 --> 01:44:09,000 Speaker 3: We'll see y'all next week we get into karaokee. All right, BRB, 2338 01:44:09,400 --> 01:44:12,840 Speaker 3: I have what's up, y'all. It's your girl, LEXP and 2339 01:44:13,040 --> 01:44:16,479 Speaker 3: I have a very special announcement. Well I already announced it, 2340 01:44:16,520 --> 01:44:18,479 Speaker 3: but I'm gonna let y'all know again. We are going 2341 01:44:18,600 --> 01:44:22,320 Speaker 3: on tour. It's starting in June, y'all. Look, we announcing 2342 01:44:22,360 --> 01:44:23,120 Speaker 3: it extra early, so. 2343 01:44:23,200 --> 01:44:25,440 Speaker 2: Y'all got time to get your tickets. No excuses. 2344 01:44:25,640 --> 01:44:30,560 Speaker 1: We got La Philly, Chicago, Atlanta, Houston. Now listen to 2345 01:44:30,640 --> 01:44:32,880 Speaker 1: me because I know how y'all get. We are still 2346 01:44:33,080 --> 01:44:36,519 Speaker 1: adding dates. I repeat, we are still adding dates. But 2347 01:44:36,920 --> 01:44:39,920 Speaker 1: if you see your city right now, go ahead. 2348 01:44:39,600 --> 01:44:41,599 Speaker 2: And get your tickets. If you don't see your city, 2349 01:44:42,120 --> 01:44:42,679 Speaker 2: don't worry. 2350 01:44:42,800 --> 01:44:46,000 Speaker 1: We still coming, okay, So make sure y'all go to www. 2351 01:44:46,439 --> 01:44:49,360 Speaker 1: Dot poor minds dot com and get y'all v irp 2352 01:44:49,560 --> 01:44:50,120 Speaker 1: meet and greets. 2353 01:44:50,160 --> 01:44:55,040 Speaker 4: We on Sorry, pool, I want to make see I 2354 01:44:55,240 --> 01:44:58,639 Speaker 4: really don't care if people stand. 2355 01:45:00,080 --> 01:45:05,760 Speaker 2: Sometimes I think I'm dreaming. Yeah, I pitched myself just 2356 01:45:05,880 --> 01:45:07,800 Speaker 2: to see if I'm awake or not. 2357 01:45:08,320 --> 01:45:08,960 Speaker 4: Easy me. 2358 01:45:10,800 --> 01:45:11,679 Speaker 6: What I feel? 2359 01:45:11,920 --> 01:45:16,120 Speaker 4: Could it be you and me until the and. 2360 01:45:17,720 --> 01:45:18,000 Speaker 1: Time? 2361 01:45:19,560 --> 01:45:20,519 Speaker 2: Take my heart? 2362 01:45:20,680 --> 01:45:22,839 Speaker 4: Hold it tied you love. 2363 01:45:25,320 --> 01:45:25,920 Speaker 2: Gotta be. 2364 01:45:26,280 --> 01:45:31,000 Speaker 4: I gotta be the one your touch, baby. I gotta 2365 01:45:31,040 --> 01:45:31,360 Speaker 4: be no. 2366 01:45:31,520 --> 01:45:34,280 Speaker 2: One you love. Hold on. 2367 01:45:34,920 --> 01:45:39,719 Speaker 4: I gotta be no one you be. And I gotta 2368 01:45:39,800 --> 01:45:43,320 Speaker 4: be the one to fill your life with sunshine. 2369 01:45:43,600 --> 01:45:52,840 Speaker 2: I gotta be no one you know. So I gotta 2370 01:45:52,920 --> 01:45:54,160 Speaker 2: be no one you need. 2371 01:45:56,640 --> 01:46:01,040 Speaker 4: I'm just telling you that I gotta be. 2372 01:46:02,760 --> 01:46:06,439 Speaker 1: Oh, we missed the bar starting our lives to get 2373 01:46:07,280 --> 01:46:07,799 Speaker 1: your boy. 2374 01:46:07,880 --> 01:46:11,360 Speaker 2: Could be Let's tell this about the. 2375 01:46:11,439 --> 01:46:17,160 Speaker 4: Loved one another. Make this thing the reality? 2376 01:46:20,680 --> 01:46:21,599 Speaker 2: What I feel? 2377 01:46:21,800 --> 01:46:25,360 Speaker 4: You to be? You and me until the. 2378 01:46:27,479 --> 01:46:27,759 Speaker 8: Time. 2379 01:46:35,320 --> 01:46:38,360 Speaker 1: First of all, get into it the big candy, not 2380 01:46:38,600 --> 01:46:39,280 Speaker 1: the little one. 2381 01:46:39,600 --> 01:46:42,760 Speaker 2: Kenny Burns, stop playing with him. He is not one 2382 01:46:42,800 --> 01:46:43,799 Speaker 2: of them pers