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Speaker 1: From Hollywood.

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Speaker 2: See you, thank you for listening to us. Ryan Air

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Speaker 2: on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. I let me grab

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Speaker 2: Liz real fast here, Liz, good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm good? And Liz, what's happening?

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Speaker 4: I just need some advice.

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Speaker 5: My my brother in law, my husband's younger brother, he

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Speaker 5: he basically took my baby's name for his dog, and

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Speaker 5: like he asked me permission, but he did it in

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Speaker 5: the family chat. So it was like, really, put me

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Speaker 5: on the spot.

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Speaker 6: And she's just stole your baby's name that has not

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Speaker 6: arrived yet for his dog.

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Speaker 5: Right, So, like, I'm not pregnant yet. I do have

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Speaker 5: a little boy, but you know, we are thinking of

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Speaker 5: expanding our family and if I have a little girl someday,

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Speaker 5: like I want it. The name's Piper, Piper Palmer. And

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Speaker 5: he's like, can we name our dog Piper? And I

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Speaker 5: was just uh, like it got super awkward and I.

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Speaker 6: You know, Piper's gonna pick pickles, pick pickles. Liz, did

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Speaker 6: your brother in law know that Piper was on your

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Speaker 6: baby reserve list?

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Speaker 5: Yes, like he asked permission.

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Speaker 2: This is a foul. Yeah, this is a foul.

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Speaker 1: Oh this is.

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Speaker 7: You can't share the names with anybody.

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Speaker 6: You got to use a little bit of common sense

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Speaker 6: judgment here, brother in law, like, when someone picks it

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Speaker 6: for their baby, you can't make it a pet name.

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Speaker 8: And what is his reasoning that you haven't had the

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Speaker 8: baby yet and you're not even pregnant, that it's okay.

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Speaker 5: Right, He's like, you know, it's all hypotheticals, so you know,

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Speaker 5: we might as well have the name in the family.

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Speaker 5: And I'm just like, I.

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Speaker 8: Mean, for all you know, Yeah, he may have a point,

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Speaker 8: like what if your next baby is a boy, would

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Speaker 8: you name him Piper?

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Speaker 9: No?

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Speaker 5: I see it definitely as a girl name.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, how do we get now? We need to

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Speaker 2: get back?

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Speaker 7: No tip for tat here.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'd like for there to be one.

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Speaker 6: I just look, that's a bit rude and I think

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Speaker 6: it's not so thoughtful. And I like it's like when

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Speaker 6: someone tells me their child's name is Georgia. Everything about

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Speaker 6: me wants to scream with excitement to say my dog's

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Speaker 6: name is Georgia, but I bite my tongue.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 3: Like.

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Speaker 6: How many sonnies have you met? It's kids, Tony, right, honestly,

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Speaker 6: not so many.

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Speaker 10: Not somebody.

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Speaker 7: I've met a few Dakota's, so I know what you mean.

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Speaker 6: And you want to go, oh my gosh, my dog

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Speaker 6: is named Dakota. And then and then they're like, oh, thanks, Yeah,

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Speaker 6: this is a strike. This is a strike for your

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Speaker 6: brother in law. Are you going to change the name

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Speaker 6: or are you going to do it? What are you

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Speaker 6: going to what's your move?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 5: I'm just wondering, like, am I a monster if I

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Speaker 5: ask him not to use it now?

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Speaker 2: No? No, please? The dog can relearn.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 5: It's kind of like they've only had it for a

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Speaker 5: couple of weeks now, So I'm just like, okay, maybe

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Speaker 5: I just by the way, dogs.

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Speaker 2: Don't know Piper from diaper, so call the dog diaper.

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Speaker 7: One name is dog diaper. But Liz, what is You's right?

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Speaker 11: We could call Sonny like funny funny and she'll just

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Speaker 11: come yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's it's about the inflection.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: So why did you come up with an alternative lace

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Speaker 2: of names? It rhyme with Piper.

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Speaker 7: I mean, the dog is not going to be around forever.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, dark, But it's true.

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Speaker 8: This happened in my family. So that's why I have

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Speaker 8: a frame of reference.

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Speaker 2: What were the names?

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Speaker 7: Who was it was Riley?

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Speaker 8: And my sister adopted this dog from a family in Boston,

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Speaker 8: and so the dog's name was already Riley.

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Speaker 7: But we have a nephew named Riley.

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Speaker 8: And so when we she got the dog, I was like,

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Speaker 8: were you going to keep the name Riley?

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Speaker 2: And she kept it?

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Speaker 8: And then now the dog's not with us anymore anyways,

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Speaker 8: and we my nephew obviously, but it happened.

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Speaker 2: Well again, this went for a turn. Listen, thank you

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Speaker 2: for calling.

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Speaker 7: I'm just saying nothing to the world.

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Speaker 8: Let him name the dog Piper, and then maybe in

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Speaker 8: five years you have your Piper and it's gonna be

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Speaker 8: all be fine.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 2: What's the pickled thing? What is it?

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Speaker 11: Peter Piper picked a pair of pickle peppers? If Peter

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Speaker 11: Piper picked a pair of pickle peppers, how many pickle

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Speaker 11: peppers it Peter Pepper picks?

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Speaker 9: Whoa?

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Speaker 6: How many times you've been practicing? Never, Like, no one's

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Speaker 6: ever been able to do that so fast on the fly?

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Speaker 7: You do that like Mantra, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: She did, this is her vision board, Mantra. She loves

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Speaker 6: pickles this year. Let me just going to the it's

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Speaker 6: going too the shower for a second. Uh, we're gonna

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Speaker 6: talk about See, we're gonna talk you know, we're about

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Speaker 6: to talk about why are you moaning?

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Speaker 7: I just I don't know. That's where my brain goes.

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Speaker 6: We're going to the shower, talk about washing your hair night.

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Speaker 6: When I get in there, I borrow anything anything it's

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Speaker 6: in a shower, even if I'm stay at my mom's house.

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Speaker 6: She's got some Jurgen stuff in there that's been around

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Speaker 6: for years. Multipurpose there since I was a child. And

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Speaker 6: it's a it's a value pack. I mean it's huge,

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Speaker 6: that thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll pop it up and I'll use that.

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Speaker 6: I love to experiment with different secret sauces in the shower,

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Speaker 6: whether it be a razor or some sort of watermelon scented.

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Speaker 7: Usually someone else's razor is next level.

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Speaker 6: What's not someone else's. It's not just a random person

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Speaker 6: with the razor. Still not there's Yeah, but I think

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Speaker 6: that it's safe to use this person's razor. If I

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Speaker 6: were to use this person's razor, you don't use someone

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Speaker 6: know because you have the good.

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Speaker 8: One I have, Yeah, I have mine, but I would

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Speaker 8: be so mad if Michael used my razor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I got in trouble for that one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I clean it really, really clean it really up. Okay,

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Speaker 6: so this is about hair washing. Though you're supposed to

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Speaker 6: wash your hair every couple of days something like that, right,

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Speaker 6: not overdo it, not go too long. But on TikTok

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Speaker 6: they're saying that people are not washing their hair for

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Speaker 6: thirty six days and other people are trying to do this.

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Speaker 2: What why is this even a thing?

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Speaker 8: Why are things on TikTok things? Because this one is

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Speaker 8: called hair training, and basically you increase the time between

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Speaker 8: each wash and if you do this steadily, then your

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Speaker 8: scalp and your hair will look better afterwards. So if

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Speaker 8: you actually can do this, then it'll be beneficial. But

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Speaker 8: I don't think there's any scientific proof to this. It's

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Speaker 8: supposed to leave your hair fuller and shinier, but if

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Speaker 8: you go thirty six days, there are many risks that

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Speaker 8: could be involved.

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Speaker 6: Beehives could be generated inside our hair bee hive.

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Speaker 8: No, he's actually not. Yes, little like little tiny insects

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Speaker 8: or dirt or dust, various pollutants that you're just like

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Speaker 7: I mean, like, look, we live in la not the cleanest.

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Speaker 8: City of all of America, so I would recommend not

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Speaker 8: going thirty six days.

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Speaker 7: But it's crazy that this is a trend on TikTok

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Speaker 7: and it's not.

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Speaker 2: There's all kinds of dumb stuff on.

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Speaker 7: TikTok and a lot of people that do it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So all right, well thanks, So I'm going to

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Speaker 6: skip that thirty six day challenge.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, same name on air with Ryan Seacret.

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Speaker 6: Hello, Stephanie, good morning. How are you doing. Are you

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Speaker 6: in Glendale?

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Speaker 4: I'm in Glendale.

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Speaker 6: Hi, thank you for listening in Glendale. What's going down?

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Speaker 6: You called us about your boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: I am what's up? How can we help listen in everybody?

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Speaker 10: Okay, So me and my boyfriend we've been together for

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Speaker 10: about three years now, and we also do live together.

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Speaker 10: I want to start off by saying I really love

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Speaker 10: him and I support him as much as I can,

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Speaker 10: but right now we have a situation. So a few

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Speaker 10: months ago, he expressed that, you know, he was unhappy

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Speaker 10: with work and asked if I would be willing to

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Speaker 10: help him if if he were to quit, and I said,

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Speaker 10: of course, of course I care about his mental health

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Speaker 10: and as well being. He was starting to lose hair,

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Speaker 10: so it was becoming a bigger problem than we both

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Speaker 10: and he hasn't really been looking, and I've paying all

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Speaker 10: the bills, and I'm just not sure how to go

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Speaker 10: about the situation anymore. I don't know if I should.

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Speaker 10: I don't know how to tell him like he needs

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Speaker 10: to start looking, or if I should just be patient

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Speaker 10: with him until he figures out what his next move

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Speaker 10: will be.

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Speaker 7: Show him the receipts, show him the finances.

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Speaker 10: Okay, but I have shown him. He knows because we

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Speaker 10: work on the finances together. But he hasn't, like, he

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Speaker 10: hasn't really budged.

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Speaker 9: To do anything.

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Speaker 2: So what does he do all day now?

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Speaker 10: Well, he's been good about like taking care of the

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Speaker 10: dogs and cleaning and going and running errands for us,

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Speaker 10: So you know, he's taking on a little.

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Speaker 4: Bit of a more traditional woman.

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Speaker 10: Role right now, I would say, And he's been great.

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Speaker 10: I mean, I think he's just getting too comfortable, and

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Speaker 10: I don't know how to push him without him thinking

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Speaker 10: I'm not being supportive or understanding of a situation.

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Speaker 7: You know, Yeah, that's so tough.

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Speaker 6: There's got to be a way to do it. There's

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Speaker 6: got to be a way to acknowledge both sides of this.

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Speaker 11: Well, I think there's also a way to do it

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Speaker 11: without like what you're saying making him feel a certain

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Speaker 11: type of way. Maybe saying that you can help him

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Speaker 11: look for things. Let's plan a time in a day

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Speaker 11: to look for jobs for you and just kind of

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Speaker 11: help him organize.

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Speaker 8: Right, Or if you have a friend who knows a

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Speaker 8: recruiter or anything along those lines, but you pressuring him

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Speaker 8: to get a job that he doesn't like or is

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Speaker 8: happy with, then he's going to have resentment towards you.

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Speaker 2: That's all bad.

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Speaker 6: So I like Tanya's idea of encouraging some segmented, full

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Speaker 6: court press for looking for that kind of job that

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Speaker 6: would work for him, and you've sort of been supportive

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Speaker 6: with that search.

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Speaker 2: What do you think.

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Speaker 2: So I don't hate it.

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Speaker 6: Art is in Orange County Art. Good morning, Thank you

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Speaker 12: Good morning, Brian, Good how are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing well? Thank you, buddy. What's going down?

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Speaker 13: That might just work?

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Speaker 12: I have a trucking business.

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Speaker 6: So you're running that thing early. I could appreciate that,

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Speaker 12: Indeed. Then one of my thinking was you grab a

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Speaker 6: It's a good idea because I've seen this at where

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Speaker 7: Actually, probably make that for you well, and.

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Speaker 6: Listen to this art. This is the actual grinderies in

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Speaker 12: Now, I'm sure you can get rid of all that noise.

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Speaker 12: I'm married and I have a wonderful three kids and

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Speaker 2: What are your give me the family's name while we're here.

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Speaker 6: Yes, sir, thank you for listening to us while you're

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Speaker 6: It's a great idea of building a housing to protect

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Speaker 2: Appreciate you art.

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Speaker 12: Been listening to you guys over thirty years now.

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Speaker 8: We gotta start going back into the parking lots and

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Speaker 7: Yeah, to go into the parking lots and give out tickets.

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Speaker 2: Let's get back out.

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Speaker 2: All right, Art, we love you, buddy, big love to

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Speaker 7: Tanya's tickets.

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Speaker 6: Tanya's tickets brought to you by Ford from the Ford.

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Speaker 6: What for are you driving around the Broncos Sport. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: It sounds pretty good. And Art could help you out.

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Speaker 6: He's got trucks. He could give us some trucks. We've

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Speaker 7: We got a hugger. We got a Stage five code H.

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Speaker 8: I definitely did between my kids. Yeah, I thinks good

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Speaker 6: That in our own lives as code to somebody's driving

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Speaker 2: Oh, treasured co hosts of course real.

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Speaker 6: No nice time for Ryan's Roses this morning one of

449
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Speaker 6: two point seven Kiss FM. Let's get Maya and Sherman Oaks.

450
00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,720
Speaker 6: If you come to Ryan's Roses, this is the moment.

451
00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 6: Sherman Oak says. On Sunday, my husband took a call

452
00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,080
Speaker 6: on his phone and didn't realize it was still looked

453
00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 6: up to a bluetooth speaker in the backyard.

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Speaker 2: What did you hear, Maya? And why are you here?

455
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Speaker 4: Oh my god, thank you. So we had this thing

456
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:22,879
Speaker 4: with some other families in our backyard on Sunday. It

457
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 4: was nice and my husband was playing music on a

458
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 4: bluetooth speaker connected to his phone. So we were cleaning

459
00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:31,720
Speaker 4: up and he went inside. For whatever reason, his phone

460
00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 4: rang on the speaker and then he apparently answered because

461
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,280
Speaker 4: we heard a woman's voice, so we couldn't hear him.

462
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:42,120
Speaker 4: We could only hear her voice, and she said, hey, baby,

463
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 4: I was hoping to hear from you, and I guess

464
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 4: she couldn't hear him respond because she was all like

465
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 4: hello and a super flirty voice, so maybe he hung

466
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,160
Speaker 4: up for whatever, and music came back on, and other

467
00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,199
Speaker 4: moms looked at me with so much pity in their

468
00:20:59,200 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 4: eyes because.

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Speaker 2: They knew at yeah embarrassing.

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00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my god, super embarrassing.

471
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Speaker 2: So did you recognize the voice?

472
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,239
Speaker 4: No? No, I didn't, And he came back and like

473
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 4: acted like everything was fine when everyone laughed and I

474
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 4: asked him he called and he was like, oh, it

475
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 4: was a wrong number, so you know that. I checked

476
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 4: his phone and whoever called at seventeen, he deleted the

477
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 4: call from his log.

478
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,199
Speaker 2: That's really aspect.

479
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, we're making the call right now.

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Speaker 2: We just met Maya.

481
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Speaker 6: She heard her husband's phone connected to a speaker, and

482
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Speaker 6: in front of all of these people, a flirty voice

483
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 6: came on.

484
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 2: And said, uh, hey babe, hope to hear.

485
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 6: From you soon or something like that. Right, I haven't

486
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 6: heard from yet, hey babe? All right? And then this guy,

487
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 6: her husband goes back and deletes that call coming in.

488
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,439
Speaker 6: So he's deleting phone calls on the log. And then

489
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 6: a hey baby call comes in that wasn't supposed to

490
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 6: be heard by everybody, including our friend. So it's embarrassing.

491
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 6: So Maya, how long you've been married.

492
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 4: It's been like ten years.

493
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 6: Now, be very quiet. We're gonna call him now. We're

494
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Speaker 6: going to see what we can find out. Who he

495
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 6: sends roses to, who's top of mind? Okay, I need

496
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,919
Speaker 6: you to say Ryan, you have my permission to call,

497
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 6: and then his name on Kiss FM.

498
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 4: Go ahead, Okay, Ryan, you have my permission to call

499
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Speaker 4: on Kiss FM.

500
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Speaker 2: We are going to call him now. Here we go,

501
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:31,120
Speaker 2: good luck.

502
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 1: Thanks, Hello, Hi is this Brian.

503
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Speaker 13: This is Brian.

504
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Speaker 8: Hi, my name is Jen. I'm calling from Valley Flowers.

505
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Speaker 8: How are you doing this morning? I'm good, I'm great,

506
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Speaker 8: Thank you for asking. We're actually a flowers shop on

507
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Speaker 8: Ventura near the Pavilions in Sherman, Oak And today we're

508
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 8: offering local residents of promotion a three dozen red roses

509
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 8: that you can send to anybody that you'd like.

510
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 7: Is that something you'd be interested in.

511
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Speaker 13: I'm getting a lot of spam calls.

512
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Speaker 7: Honestly, this is not This is not going to cost

513
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,360
Speaker 7: you anything. They're absolutely free.

514
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 8: We would just need the name of the person you

515
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 8: want to send them to and a note. They can

516
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 8: get them by lunchtime today or a different day if

517
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 8: that's more convenient for you.

518
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 7: Just trying to promote our business.

519
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 13: Wait, I'm sorry, what's the offer now?

520
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,199
Speaker 8: A three dozen red roses. I don't need cash, I

521
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 8: don't need credit card info from you. I don't need

522
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 8: anything like that. We're just trying to promote our business.

523
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 8: Like I said, we're right here in the valley.

524
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Speaker 13: Free flowers, No catch, no catch.

525
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Speaker 7: We can start with the name of the person you

526
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Speaker 7: want to send them to.

527
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Speaker 13: All right, fine, I can do some flowers. Her name

528
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Speaker 13: is Claudia?

529
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Speaker 7: Okay? And what would you like to put on the card?

530
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Speaker 13: If you could just put L O L as in

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Speaker 13: lots of love and then love?

532
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Speaker 2: Brian, Brian, your voice is being broadcast on the radio.

533
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Speaker 6: My name is Ryan. I've got sisty and tiny with me.

534
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 6: Is Claudia your wife?

535
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:17,160
Speaker 9: Wait?

536
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 13: You saying I'm on the radio? Now?

537
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 2: Yes, sir? Is Claudia your Is Claudia your wife?

538
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 13: No? What's going on?

539
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 6: I'm less shure, that's that's the question. You took the

540
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Speaker 6: words out of my mouth? What is going on? Is

541
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Speaker 6: Claudia the woman you love? Is she your wife?

542
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 13: No? Claudia is not my wife.

543
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 7: Who's Claudia?

544
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 13: Who's this?

545
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 2: That's his? Any? I'm Ryan, there's Tanya. Who's Claudia?

546
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 13: Come on?

547
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 2: Why are you there?

548
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 3: Oh?

549
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 4: I'm here?

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00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 13: What's going on? You want to know what? Who's Claudia?

551
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 2: You're asking all the questions that on our mind.

552
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,959
Speaker 1: Claudia is what's going on?

553
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 2: And you're asking me?

554
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 13: Glad it here? Right now?

555
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:08,400
Speaker 2: That's right? No, that's right.

556
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 13: Are you going to pretend you don't know who Claudia is?

557
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 4: Maya, I don't know who she is?

558
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 13: Okay? Right? Well, did you tell them on the radio

559
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 13: about our agreement.

560
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I never agreed to that.

561
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: Look what are you guys talking about? Please? What are

562
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 2: you talking about? Your agreement?

563
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,199
Speaker 13: You may be regretting it now, my dear, but you

564
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 13: did agree to it. You know you agreed to it.

565
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 2: What is it?

566
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 7: What are you talking about?

567
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: Maya?

568
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 4: A while back he asked me for an open relationship.

569
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 13: And you agreed to it.

570
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 4: I did not.

571
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 13: Come on, Maya, you did agree to it. I agreed

572
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 13: to spare you the details, and you agree to look

573
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 13: the other way that we talked about it.

574
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,120
Speaker 4: That's not how I remember it.

575
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 2: Come on, did you have this conversation at all?

576
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 13: Maya?

577
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 8: We did?

578
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 2: I just and did you? How do you see it?

579
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: How do you remember?

580
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 4: I didn't really think it was going to be something.

581
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 4: I didn't think it'd be something that would be in

582
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:29,239
Speaker 4: any way in my radar, my orbit. And I mean,

583
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 4: she's wanted us some flowers to somebody.

584
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 6: Well, I was also saying love. He's saying lots of love, love, love, love.

585
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 6: I'm sure love was in part of this conversation. But listen,

586
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 6: this is a slippery slope. You opened the door. If

587
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 6: you have this conversation open the door. Then these are

588
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 6: the things that can happen.

589
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 13: So I don't and that, and that's what happened.

590
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 6: I mean, Brian, you developed feelings and love for this

591
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 6: other woman, Claudia. Clearly you just sent the roses. So

592
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 6: we got that checkbox. Maya, you opened the door. It

593
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 6: sounds like with the conversation to engage in an open relationship.

594
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 2: Is that true or is that not true?

595
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 4: That's just not how I remember it.

596
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 2: But I mean, that's the problem once you open this door.

597
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just don't want this agreement anymore.

598
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 7: Well, then that's a conversation you need to have with

599
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 7: your husband.

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00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: What's going on, Brian, you think you know what's going on.

601
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 2: What's going on?

602
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 13: We did have this agreement, but something happened over the

603
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 13: weekend and some of our friends, your friends kind of

604
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 13: got wind of what was going on with our agreement.

605
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 13: And now I think you're embarrassed and having second thoughts,

606
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 13: which is totally understandable. I get that. I totally get that.

607
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 13: I knew this wasn't going to be an easy thing,

608
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 13: but that doesn't change the fact that we agreed to it.

609
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 6: All right, So, Brian and Maya, this is a conversation

610
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 6: with the two of you directly. This is an area

611
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 6: you guys. Sounds like you agreed to open up and

612
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 6: now we got it into a mess. And Brian, you're

613
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 6: sending I Love you flowers to another woman while you're married.

614
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 6: Was that part of the deal? I guess you guys

615
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 6: need to talk about it, all right, and.

616
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: Thank you very much.

617
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 4: I never wanted this in the first place. He talked

618
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 4: me into it and made it happen, and so Brian, then.

619
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Speaker 6: She doesn't want it, so you got to stop. Brian,

620
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 6: are you Are you willing to do that?

621
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 13: I'm willing to have a talk about this with her

622
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 13: and come up with another agreement. I'm not sure if.

623
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 6: The agreement is your married all right? Well, my gosh,

624
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 6: good luck to you both.

625
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 2: Good luck.

626
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 6: That is a So that door got opened, it got messy,

627
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 6: and he now thinks everything's an additional agreement. There's a

628
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,959
Speaker 6: side letter to the contract now in his mind for

629
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 6: the rest of the marriage.

630
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 2: Is the problem.

631
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 6: We didn't know this one made the call, but Maya

632
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 6: and Brian made some sort of agreement to open the

633
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 6: door to other people in their relationship. Now, Maya says,

634
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 6: I don't recall all of this, but it sounds like

635
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 6: something happened right, like this was addressed. So Brian goes

636
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 6: off and he sees another woman, but then he sends

637
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Speaker 6: I love you flowers, which I definitely wasn't part of

638
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 6: the agreement.

639
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 7: No, he developed feelings.

640
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 2: Well, okay, that's my question.

641
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 6: Let's say you get to a point where you say,

642
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 6: you know what, I'm going to.

643
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: Open the door.

644
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 6: Does that ever? Does it if two people decide to

645
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 6: do that open the door in a relationship? Does that

646
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 6: ever not at some point go to the place of feelings, hurt,

647
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 6: jealousy and a fight, argument, split, break up.

648
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 7: I don't under this is what happened with Aurora Coppo.

649
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 7: I was thinking about that. Actually she was.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, so yeah, she was married and they had an

651
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 11: agreement kind of that he could once a.

652
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 7: Year kind of.

653
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 2: Advantage of that.

654
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 11: No, he didn't take advantage of it. She outgrew it.

655
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 11: She was like, I'm actually going to do this anymore.

656
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he wanted to keep doing it.

657
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: Correct.

658
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Speaker 6: That's my point. Once you open the door, do you

659
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 6: ever get it back? I don't think you do, and

660
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Speaker 6: I know for sure, for sure, I was hypnotized and

661
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:01,959
Speaker 6: answered yes to that.

662
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: I follow everybody. I'd follow everybody.

663
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Speaker 7: Oh, you'd be.

664
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'd be so like you'd be looking over your

665
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 6: shoulder all the time. Yeah, it'd be so you'd be

666
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 6: like what what what? When would what and just be.

667
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 8: Able to relax. I wouldn't be able to trust your partner.

668
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 6: No, I wouldn't even look at you guys the same

669
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 6: right right, Like everything would just look different.

670
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Speaker 7: Or anybody else in your life, just your part.

671
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Speaker 2: You'd be distracted by that. It is such an distraction.

672
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Speaker 6: So yeah, that's I'm not surprised by the way. My

673
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 6: I didn't tell us that when we made the call,

674
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 6: but I'm not surprised it's ending this way because they

675
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 6: had some sort of an agreement to open up the relationship.

676
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 2: Emily, good morning, go ahead, and the Fontana.

677
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 3: Good morning.

678
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 4: How are you well?

679
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 2: We're fine. What do you think about Ryan's Roses call?

680
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 4: Well?

681
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 3: Wow, First of all, the fact that he acted as

682
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 3: if he did nothing wrong, that he carried he did

683
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 3: nothing wrong, But the fact that he deleted the call

684
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 3: shows that he was guilty, that he knew he was

685
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 3: guilty of doing something wrong. Because if it was something

686
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 3: that they agreed upon and and it was.

687
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 2: Okay, then why would he erase the calls?

688
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 3: Right, he wouldn't need to hide anything from her.

689
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 6: I also think like he feels first of all, he'd

690
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 6: he's sending a love letter, which is not part of

691
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 6: the deal's and he feels like there there can't just

692
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 6: be the contract of their marriage, the relationship, their agreement

693
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 6: in their marriage. There has to be something else. He's like, well,

694
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 6: we'll think of another deal. Well, too bad, deal's over?

695
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 6: Deal or no deal? No deal?

696
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 3: No, he shouldn't. He shouldn't be married period, It shouldn't

697
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 3: be together.

698
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 6: No.

699
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 3: But and also the fact that you know, he did

700
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 3: that narcissistic thing where he turned it around and made

701
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 3: her look like the bad one, like she was like

702
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 3: she was the crazy one, and he didn't do anything.

703
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 2: It was texting text narcy.

704
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 3: But but here's the funny part. Did he really think

705
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 3: LOL meant lots of love?

706
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 7: That's what I was getting?

707
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 2: What does it mean?

708
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 3: Laugh?

709
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 7: Laugh out loud?

710
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 6: Ho? Who knows that? Guys like it can be very

711
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 6: confusing all of the world. Thank you, Emily. No, I

712
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 6: think what do you use l for's? Laugh out loud?

713
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 6: That's right, I might not know he said lots of

714
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 6: love of he's he needs, he needs to regroup and

715
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 6: restart and they need to not be together.

716
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 4: On air with Ryan.

717
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 6: Ryan Sea christ with you. Thanks for listening to us.

718
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 6: I got Marissa on the phone, Sistey and Tanya here. Marissa,

719
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 6: good morning, How you doing?

720
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 3: Good morning? I'm good.

721
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 2: How are you great? So you're calling about a wedding?

722
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 2: Is that right?

723
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 3: That is correct?

724
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 2: All right?

725
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 6: How can we help everybody in on this? I think

726
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 6: we need a little advice to be given.

727
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 2: Go ahead, Marissa, Thank you.

728
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 3: So my friend to ask me to be the maid

729
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 3: of honor at her wedding, and I do you know,

730
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 3: I do feel honored about that. I just I was

731
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 3: a little surprised that I was asked, So I kind

732
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 3: of think that things there's like an ulterior motive for

733
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 3: why I was asked. And the main thing is another

734
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 3: friend of hers is the matron of honor, and this

735
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 3: person is like her very best friend and was the

736
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 3: obvious choice for maid of honor. But this woman is pregnant.

737
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 3: So I've realized that because of this, she won't be

738
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 3: able to work on or like attend a lot of

739
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 3: the wedding events leading up to the wedding because she'll

740
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 3: be about to give birth, like around the bachelorette party,

741
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: which will which like most likely will be used to

742
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 3: know if that means she'll be taking care of a

743
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 3: newborn when it comes to the shower, but she will

744
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 3: be able to attend the wedding because it's a little

745
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 3: bit later down the line. But I'm just pretty sure

746
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 3: that I was asked to be the maid of honor

747
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 3: because that means there's someone who can do all of

748
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 3: the event planning while her matron of honor is busy

749
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 3: with a baby thing. So I just don't know how

750
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 3: I feel about that, and I'm not sure if I

751
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 3: can bring this up to my friend. What do you think?

752
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 6: Well, I'm going to conveniently defer, Tanya, what do you

753
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 6: think you look on your faces.

754
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 7: I've been in the situation before.

755
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 8: I've been the matron of honor, uh, and we had

756
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 8: a mative honor and you just split the work like

757
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 8: it doesn't have to be.

758
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 2: The difference I.

759
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 7: Usually married versus non marriage.

760
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, And I think it's it doesn't have to be

761
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 8: one or the other. And I think if you just

762
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 8: go in with that mentality and not necessarily like this

763
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 8: hostile mentality of like why you know, like I think

764
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,839
Speaker 8: just kind of go with that and you're you're gonna

765
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 8: be fine.

766
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 6: He's like, I'm bummed for you already. Yeah, you're already

767
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 6: going into it, bummed about why you're going into it.

768
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 8: So I'm sort of like, unless you want to back

769
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 8: out now and just be like, hey, I just I

770
00:34:58,680 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 8: have too much of my.

771
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 7: Plate work is too much.

772
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 8: I don't think I'm going to be able to fulfill

773
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 8: what you need as maid of honor, Like I maybe

774
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 8: you need somebody else, Like maybe you back out now

775
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 8: versus and you go with that approach, but I otherwise

776
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 8: you need to talk to the matron of honor and

777
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 8: just be like we need to be able to split

778
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 8: everything now down the lade.

779
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 2: Isn't there a dark cloud over the spirit of all this?

780
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, You're right, like there is.

781
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 11: I feel like there's this this feeling of negativity, like.

782
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 7: It sounds like you don't even want to be here.

783
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,839
Speaker 3: I mean, I just like wasn't expecting it, and I

784
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 3: know how much work it is because I've been one before,

785
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 3: and I'm just like, you're not into it, Like.

786
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 7: She's not into it?

787
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:40,320
Speaker 2: So how close are you to the bride?

788
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 7: Well, so I mean that answers that.

789
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 2: Makes me. No.

790
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 3: I like the bride a lot, but the bride is

791
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 3: getting married to one of my very good friends, So

792
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, like I would totally have her as

793
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 3: my bride if I was getting married too.

794
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 6: But but do you not love her the bride for

795
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 6: your dear friend as much as you wish you did.

796
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 3: I don't dislike her.

797
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 4: I just know this is.

798
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 9: Bad.

799
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 2: There's something like, did you have any relationship with the guy?

800
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:23,879
Speaker 8: No?

801
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 3: We just grew up together and he's like my brother.

802
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 3: And I just feel.

803
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,479
Speaker 2: Like, do you feel like that she's not the right

804
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 2: person for him?

805
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:32,399
Speaker 9: No?

806
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 3: I think she is mar What are you not telling?

807
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 3: I don't know her well enough, that's the thing. I

808
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 3: just I'm like, as long as he's happy, she might

809
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: be like a little bit of a girly girl for him.

810
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 3: She's kind of like, I don't know, she's a little

811
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,280
Speaker 3: high maintenance and that way just just very girly.

812
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:00,959
Speaker 2: You cannot.

813
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 11: If you ask her to get another also like two

814
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 11: maids of honor.

815
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 4: She already has to the matron.

816
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 11: And then you and then one more so that you

817
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 11: can say, I have a lot on my plate and

818
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 11: i'd love it if we could just have one more

819
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 11: so we can share it.

820
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 6: I think she needs to not be that involved with

821
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 6: the project here. You do not need to be a

822
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 6: maid of honor to somebody that you really don't love.

823
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 2: And clearly you do not.

824
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 6: This has been a four minute conversation about how much

825
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 6: you don't love her.

826
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,320
Speaker 7: I would be like her.

827
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 10: I like her, I love shuts are going.

828
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 6: Up to your ears when you say I like her,

829
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 6: My shoulders are on my ears too.

830
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:42,879
Speaker 7: I like everybody. I don't like her enough to spend

831
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 7: it thousands of dollars on her.

832
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 2: And time's coming down to pass, all right.

833
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 7: Because that's where it really is.

834
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 8: You've made it very clear you spend thousands of dollars

835
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 8: when you're the maid of honor. It's going to be

836
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 8: thousands of dollars.

837
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 6: Good luck Finesse in this one, Maria, thanks for con

838
00:37:58,520 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 6: I don't know that we loved her.

839
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 2: She did help her. She totally does not want that role.

840
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 2: She's not close to the bride, and she really like

841
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 2: the bride.

842
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 6: She likes the groom a lot because you're up together,

843
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 6: and something's not right with her feeling about the bride

844
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 6: for the room. Something I don't know what it is,

845
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 6: but something the way of that I get it.

846
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 11: That would make me so sad if my maid of

847
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 11: honor responded I liked Tanya.

848
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 6: My gosh, that's exactly. That's worse than saying I don't

849
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 6: like her.

850
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, that is.

851
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 2: Like saying I don't like her. How do you feel

852
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 2: about Tanya? Well, I like her.

853
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 6: My maid of honor at a wedding. I cannot No,

854
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 6: it's all bad, all right, sistening. So what's going on

855
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:49,800
Speaker 6: with your flowers being stolen?

856
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 7: Well, there is.

857
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 8: And I mean I don't know her name. Even if

858
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 8: I did, I don't think I would say it. But

859
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 8: there is a woman in my neighborhood. She seems like

860
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 8: a very nice woman. And I have seen her on

861
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 8: a walk. I see her walks all the time. But

862
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 8: you know, like with all the rain, we've gotten so

863
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 8: many flowers, yes, yes, and they're blooming everywhere, and they

864
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 8: look so beautiful, vibrant, vibrant.

865
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 7: Everyone's lawns look so nice.

866
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 8: And so I noticed the other day that she was

867
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 8: on her walk and she had a bunch of like

868
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 8: she was holding a bunch of flowers like in her hand.

869
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 7: And I didn't think anything of it.

870
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 8: Then the next day, or maybe it was a few

871
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 8: days later, I saw her again on her walk and

872
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 8: actually saw her clipping.

873
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 7: Flowers with a clipper with a clip her scissors.

874
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 2: She premeditated the clip, yes.

875
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 8: And then I saw it again on my camera, like

876
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 8: my ring camera.

877
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 7: She actually clipped them from my She took some.

878
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 8: Lavender from my front lawn abundant, and it's.

879
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 7: You know, it's fine, it is.

880
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 6: It is what principal. So I mean, let's just talk

881
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 6: principle here. She's taking your beauty, your your flowers, your garden,

882
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 6: your landscaping. Like what if it were your tomatoes, I'd

883
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 6: beat like, whoa, I don't get so many tomatoes all

884
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 6: the time, so it can't take my tomatoes laughing are

885
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:07,760
Speaker 6: really no different?

886
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 8: Fine, I know, but I just think it's like it's essentially.

887
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 7: It's yeah, trespassing and stealing. I just feel like I

888
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 7: think she's doing what we.

889
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 8: All have thought of wanting to do, because I'm almost

890
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 8: like Yolo else me either not on their own.

891
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 7: You all thought about it.

892
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 6: No, I've thought about going into people's bathrooms and ping.

893
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 6: But I don't.

894
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 8: But I don't, but I know, I you know, I

895
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 8: drive the same path to go pick up the kids

896
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 8: from school every day, and I passed by.

897
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: It always step into their yard.

898
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 8: But I passed by so many overflown bushes onto what

899
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 8: is street? You know, would they would they really miss

900
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 8: all these hydranges. I'm like, no, I could go there

901
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 8: and just clip a few. And I'm like, I'm kind

902
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 8: of thinking this lady's got a good.

903
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 6: But to this lady who's seemingly nice, all you had

904
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 6: to do is knock on Systney's door and she would

905
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 6: more than likely give you a.

906
00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 2: Pair of clippers in a bat.

907
00:40:58,840 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 7: I want to be bothered.

908
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 6: No one wants to knock, no for anything, because you're

909
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 6: a knock you think somebody's wrong, Like yeah, I'd be

910
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 6: like you're knocking, hit the floor and hide.

911
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I I.

912
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 8: Don't really care because like the lavender is like kind

913
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 8: of like at the bottom, but like I have a

914
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 8: rose bush that's kind of closer to my front doors,

915
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 8: Like what's going to stop her from coming?

916
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 6: Like, oh my, I think we should make a sign

917
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,479
Speaker 6: that says no trespassing and put it everywhere and she'll

918
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 6: know who she is no trespassing or clipping herbs.

919
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: I just think it was kind of funny.

920
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 6: I think it is trespassing, but uh, now I know

921
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 6: not to knock on your door for something. Anybody knock

922
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 6: on your door recently? No, nobody knocks on the door,

923
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 6: knocks on the doors anymore? No, no, all right, Well

924
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 6: to a woman listening. If it is serendipitous, Systey's the

925
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 6: home right now, so clip so, Jenna, thank you for calling.

926
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 6: What we know is that you're going on a work

927
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 6: conference and you have an issue. What's the issue.

928
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,439
Speaker 9: My issue is that I interviewed with a company that's

929
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 9: going to be at the conference, and obviously, when you're interviewing,

930
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 9: you don't tell your current off or current company. And

931
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 9: unbeknownst to me, the company I interviewed with asked for

932
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 9: a meeting with my current boss that I have to attend.

933
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 9: So I'm basically coming face to face with the person

934
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 9: who interviewed me, and I'm not sure what to do.

935
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 6: Can someone explained to me one more time the dynamic here?

936
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 6: So you're interviewing with another company and you're going to

937
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 6: be in a meeting with your boss and that yeah,

938
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,919
Speaker 6: and your interviewer, Yes, what's that meeting about?

939
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,919
Speaker 9: They're trying to sell us some kind of service and

940
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 9: I didn't end up getting the job with the person

941
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 9: I interviewed with, So it's going to be a very

942
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 9: awkward dynamic.

943
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 6: Is that person's going to say nice to see you again,

944
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 6: sorry didn't get the job, and you were.

945
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,760
Speaker 8: Like, well, maybe you can shoot them a quick email

946
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 8: before the meeting to be like, hey, I would really

947
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 8: appreciate it if you just didn't mention that seems But.

948
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 7: They're not going to mention it. They're not going to

949
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 7: do that to.

950
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 6: You when they say nice to see you again, Sorry

951
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 6: didn't work out, and then you're gonna be put in

952
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 6: a bad position.

953
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 2: Is that what you're thinking, Try.

954
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 7: And nip it in the bud before.

955
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 2: Right, or just forming with your current boss this boss?

956
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, imagine you can't say, look, I was looking at

957
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 6: other opportunities.

958
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 7: You know, I should have put her foot in the

959
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 7: mouth if she doesn't.

960
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 6: Have to get in front of it.

961
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 11: Du How would you feel if one of us did

962
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 11: that to you then he would always hold that grudge forever.

963
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:30,399
Speaker 7: Yeah, you wouldn't like that. I don't want to try you.

964
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 6: H Oh, this makes my tummy go upside down, Jenna.

965
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 8: I think you just shoot him a quick email before

966
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 8: the meeting the other guy the other guy and just

967
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 8: say like, hey, you know, in the off chance that

968
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 8: that gets brought up, just.

969
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 6: Please really appreciate it. If we just move on, Yeah,

970
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 6: maybe the only way to handle it.

971
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 11: I think they're going to I think you are making it.

972
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 11: You're preparing for the worst. But I don't think somebody

973
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 11: that didn't give you a job is gonna say, hey,

974
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 11: sorry that didn't work out.

975
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:58,439
Speaker 8: No, I don't think they're gonna say them. But maybe

976
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 8: it's just a quick like I don't know.

977
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:01,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think, Jenna.

978
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 9: I think I'm going to send a quick email that's

979
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 9: a great plan and just say I'm looking forward to

980
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 9: seeing you, and then maybe see how they react from that. Yeah,

981
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,399
Speaker 9: because I don't know.

982
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think that that's I think you made that

983
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 6: big of an impression where they actually are going to

984
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 6: remember you.

985
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:25,879
Speaker 9: No offense, I no, no, no offent's taken. I do

986
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 9: because I was in the final round of interviews, so

987
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 9: it was between me and one other person, so they're

988
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 9: definitely going to know me, and they know the company

989
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 9: I work for, so I'm kind of surprised they asked

990
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 9: for this meeting, But.

991
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 6: All right, Well, good luck with this. It's a big decision.

992
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 6: You'll make the right one. Take care.

993
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 7: Uh great advice.

994
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 6: Right, Well, I mean there's only two paths we can

995
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 6: go in circles. Either she avoids it or she addressed

996
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 6: it with the email.

997
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 7: Are you yelling at me?

998
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 6: Got to make a choice because you guys went by

999
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 6: my back and apply for a job.

1000
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 14: Apparently they're not okay, I'm sure from the show this morning.

1001
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 14: Basically feeling it this morning. Okay, maybe I gave a lot.

1002
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 7: You gotta do some more plates.

1003
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, the way you notice kits are not sweating today,

1004
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 6: it should have been a prime Pitt sweat show shirt.

1005
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 7: A little sweaty on Friday, I noticed, why.

1006
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 6: Don't you tell me?

1007
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 2: Well, fine, why don't you say something?

1008
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 7: Why say something? I feel like that.

1009
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 2: Bring you down?

1010
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 7: You notice if it's you?

1011
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 10: Right?

1012
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: But why do we have it?

1013
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 6: I think I talked about this is it what we

1014
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 6: eat or what is it like what you've eaten the

1015
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 6: day before? Or I find maybe when I exercise and

1016
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:38,760
Speaker 6: I come and do the show?

1017
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 7: Oh like right, because your inner inside.

1018
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 2: Is I want that inner?

1019
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 6: I say, it's good burning calories, and honestly, I'm trying to. Yeah,

1020
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 6: thanks everybody.

1021
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 2: That was fun.

1022
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Speaker 7: Yeah.

1023
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 2: The good news about this.

1024
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 6: Every time I get to this point, it's like it

1025
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 6: didn't even matter because we've got a whole bunch of

1026
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 6: hours again to.

1027
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 2: Do it tomorrow. That's right, is it going to do it?

1028
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 2: Start from scratch.

1029
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 7: I can't wait to see you guys tomorrow.

1030
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 2: All right, kids, we're out. Thanks for listening to On

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