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Speaker 1: I'm throwing away five thousand dollars despite my ex husband

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Speaker 1: and make him homeless. Am I the asshole man? That is?

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Speaker 1: That is a lot of commitment there to Yeah, throw

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Speaker 1: away five k you know, just because you hate the

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Speaker 2: Make it juicy, you know how we like it. I'm

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Speaker 2: so impressed that you can remember the number. I can't

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Speaker 2: remember phone numbers or set So first, let me start

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Speaker 2: off by saying I was a complete.

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Speaker 1: Night idiot, come on, which I learned the hard way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we love learning the hard way.

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Speaker 2: I met my ex who was Scottish, fell in love,

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Speaker 2: moved there, got married, and he turned into a complete

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Speaker 2: douche canoe to put it lightly.

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Speaker 1: Amazing.

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Speaker 2: We'd be long distance for about seven years, engaged for

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Speaker 2: five of that, with me doing the majority of traveling

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Speaker 2: and funding at all. I didn't mind because I'd always

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Speaker 2: done pretty well in my field of work and he

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Speaker 2: didn't make as much damn flex. Yeah, I knew he

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Speaker 2: wasn't always faithful during our times apart, but I always

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Speaker 2: forgave him and trying to be understanding of the distance.

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Speaker 1: Honey, No, babe, you know you're just so far away.

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Speaker 1: Like I really, babe. I swear every time I'm hooking

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Speaker 1: up with her, I'm thinking of you. She's just a

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Speaker 1: meatsack to b babe. I've I've even banged you know

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Speaker 1: when we FaceTime that one time I was banging another

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Speaker 1: girl thinking about you the whole time. Every time I'm

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Speaker 1: with her, I just put her face down, take that

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Speaker 1: good old print out, I have it cave into the

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Speaker 1: back of her head and just cry cry thinking of you.

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Speaker 1: I'm such a good man.

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Speaker 2: So he's one of the real nice guys. Yeah, like

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Speaker 2: I said, I was a naive idiot. I'm glad you

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Speaker 2: said it, so we didn't have to. I hope we

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Speaker 2: love you, but that don't are better?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. Shortly after we got married. Ah oh,

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Speaker 1: we bought a flat together, which I paid eighty percent

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Speaker 1: of the down payment for but gave him the money directly. Wait,

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Speaker 1: you paid the money, but he okay, thanks.

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Speaker 2: Moving through this skip ahead not even two years in

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Speaker 2: COVID hits. I lost my job at the time, as

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Speaker 2: I had been working in the service industry while trying

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Speaker 2: to get into my field due to the differences in

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Speaker 2: healthcare field regulations is a bit difficult first. So shortly

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Speaker 2: after that I was able to get a job where

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Speaker 2: I was working a rotating ship, including very long overnights

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Speaker 2: in a hospital about an hour away.

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Speaker 1: That's tough during COVID. During COVIDUF the pay was great,

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Speaker 1: the schedule less so, but we were making it work,

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Speaker 1: or so I thought. Hmmm, oh God.

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Speaker 2: Turns out he never lost his cheating habits and took

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Speaker 2: my working overnights as a free pass.

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Speaker 1: Babe, I capitalized an opportunities babe. Yeah, yeah, you're gone,

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Speaker 1: and so who's going to take care of this? I'm

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Speaker 1: an entrepreneur. I'm looking for new ways to grow my wiener. God,

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Speaker 1: I'm an entrepreneur. Done this.

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Speaker 2: Also during this time, he was working on finishing his

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Speaker 2: degree remotely. He could not handle any of the course,

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Speaker 2: refused to try, and ended up having me do the

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Speaker 2: work and test for him.

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Speaker 1: Oh pee, oh pe bro.

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Speaker 2: Not about answers right about the chat GBT, come on righte.

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Speaker 2: About the time he got his engineering degree, I found

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Speaker 2: out about the cheating pro tip don't leave your messaging

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Speaker 2: to do your coursework. The messages popped up, and so yeah,

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Speaker 2: I read them all and wow. Not only had he

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Speaker 2: half a dozen others and had accounts on various adult

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Speaker 2: websites and an OnlyFans account. He was spending over one

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars a month on Oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I'm always baffled at like the people that pay money

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Speaker 2: from OnlyFans. I'm like, have you heard about the Internet.

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Speaker 2: It's like eighty percent porn and it's free, is it?

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Speaker 2: Do you do you get like messages with it. No,

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Speaker 2: that's like extra, right, that's extra, I think. So it's like,

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Speaker 2: what's the deal. Maybe it's because it's like, ooh, I

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Speaker 2: can't see it unless I and that's how I take

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Speaker 2: these little credit card swipe it.

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Speaker 1: I flipped doubt.

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Speaker 2: He promised he was sorry, claimed he was stressed over

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Speaker 2: work courses and his inability to have kids. What is

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Speaker 2: that litany of excuses, babe? The online degree was so hard.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about all the hard work you were

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Speaker 1: got so stressed, Babe. I didn't needed to believe. I

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Speaker 1: didn't outlet. They meant nothing, Babe. When I said she

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Speaker 1: was my one true love, I was lying to her,

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Speaker 1: not to you. I meant she was this meat sack

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Speaker 1: that I'm just pounding for pleasure again because I'm an idiot.

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Speaker 2: I tried to work on things, O peebe, mostly because

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Speaker 2: I didn't have a right to stay in the country

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Speaker 2: until we had been married for five years.

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Speaker 1: Oh green card marriage. Damn.

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Speaker 2: We were at year three. I convinced myself I could

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Speaker 2: suffer through it. Oh and then the abuse started. Oh No,

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Speaker 2: he'd been getting progressively meaner since I moved over and

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Speaker 2: would constantly berate me for stupid things. Meanwhile, I was

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Speaker 2: supporting him his hobbies, running the household, all of it.

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Speaker 2: When he started getting physical, he claimed he was just

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Speaker 2: so depressed because get this, he lost out on being

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Speaker 2: with his one true love, this girl that he'd been

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Speaker 2: talking to sal gem of a guy. And this is

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Speaker 2: like a hard situation because like she kind of still

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Speaker 1: Literally just for the citizenship and the residency, which like

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Speaker 1: is not a good thing either. Like you shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: with someone just because you want their want citizenship. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like the best thing for you to do, oh, he

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Speaker 1: would be to leave, But I understand you want that's yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's complicated, complicated, But I think like she's staying in

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Speaker 1: a situation that's bad for her because she wants a

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Speaker 1: moved into separate bedrooms. A year later, he shoved me

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Speaker 1: then he'd probably kill me. He was arrested, but then

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Speaker 1: the chargers were lowered because he had a crazy story

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Speaker 1: about me threatening him. For the record, he's a six

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Speaker 1: to three boxer and I'm all of five to six.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even bother pursuing charges at that point because

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Speaker 1: it was so low a charge that it wouldn't qualify

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Speaker 1: me for a stay on my visa due to domestic abuse.

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Speaker 2: I moved back to the US, right because she's in Scotland.

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Speaker 2: Right sucked. I got a basic job. I waited, so

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Speaker 2: I mean, op, good on you for leaving.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it'd made the right decision. He made the right

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Speaker 1: decision one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: I think I waited, as you have to be separated

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Speaker 2: at least a year in Scotland before you can file

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Speaker 2: for divorce. As soon as I could, I found a

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Speaker 2: lawyer and started the process. He argued a lot over

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Speaker 2: terms of a separation agreement that I only signed under duress,

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Speaker 2: as it was that or leave the country. Then finally

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Speaker 2: got him to agree to buying me out of the

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Speaker 2: flat for half the equity minus two K. Crappy, But

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Speaker 2: as I had given him the money for the deposit,

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Speaker 2: mostly in cash and had no record, and I'd signed

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Speaker 2: an agreement, I couldn't do much else. Today I finally

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Speaker 2: got the valuation of the flat and I was shocked.

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Speaker 2: I had lost five thousand dollars in value from when

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Speaker 2: we had bought it, when are other identical flats on

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Speaker 2: the same block had gone up between fifteen and twenty

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Speaker 2: five percent. I'd redone, both bedrooms, painted, replace the carpet,

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Speaker 2: redone the garden, and there were notes on the valuation state.

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Speaker 2: It said ruined floors, damage to the plaster walls, damage

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Speaker 2: to doors, and garden completely overgrown.

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Speaker 1: Basically, he ruined it. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: All he had to do was sit on it where

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Speaker 2: it was when I left, and it would have been

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Speaker 2: worth at least twenty five thousand dollars more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I would say fifteen to twenty percent, that's

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Speaker 1: like a lot for a house.

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Speaker 2: So he was expecting to get to keep the flat

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Speaker 2: and pay me pennies. Oh, so he ruined it so

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Speaker 2: he wouldn't have to pay her. Oh my god. I

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Speaker 2: immediately emailed my lawyer back and told her the deal

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Speaker 2: sale of the flat. I had no idea how he

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Speaker 2: was going to buy me out, as he doesn't make

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Speaker 2: much and had a significant nose candy issue. From what

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Speaker 2: I'd been told, I knew without a doubt he would

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Speaker 2: not be able to buy a place on his own

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Speaker 2: and would struggle to rent alone, as renting the area

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Speaker 2: now was quite a bit higher than what the mortgage

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Speaker 2: payment is. He will be out on his butt with

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Speaker 2: just a few thousand dollars to his name. I will

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Speaker 2: break even after a lawyer fees, and I don't care

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Speaker 2: my new job that I got a few months ago,

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Speaker 2: I make more than twice what I was in the UK,

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Speaker 2: so about fifty thousand dollars more than him. I would

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Speaker 2: rather walk away from the maybe five K I'd get

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Speaker 2: in letting him buy me out, just to make him

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Speaker 2: actually face the consequences of his actions. For once I

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Speaker 2: be out on his butt and likely out of a

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Speaker 2: did all his.

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Speaker 1: Engineering course work for him. Literally.

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Speaker 2: I told a friend about it and she said I

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Speaker 2: was being a petty asshole and just as bad as him.

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Speaker 1: CAW.

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Speaker 2: I talked to his mother, who I still get on

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Speaker 2: with well, and she asked me to reconsider, as she

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Speaker 2: is afraid he will want to move him back with her.

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Speaker 2: He is in his late thirties for what it's worth.

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Speaker 2: I do feel bad for my husband's mom. She's a

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Speaker 2: lovely person and I hate to see her suffer. But

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Speaker 2: she can always turn him down or he can move

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Speaker 2: in with his latest girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Of the day. Don't care. Am I the asshole for

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Speaker 1: being so petty? TLDR.

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Speaker 2: I'm throwing away about five thousand dollars despite my ex

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Speaker 2: husband who tried his hardest to ruin my life, just

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Speaker 2: to see him finally suffer for a shitty, abusive behavior.

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Speaker 1: So am I the asshole? John? What do you think?

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Speaker 2: I want to know what everyone else thinks, so put

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Speaker 2: your answers in the comments. But John, what are your thoughts?

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Speaker 1: Resounding answer? Absolutely not the a hole and round of

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Speaker 1: applause for you know, giving it to him, sticking it

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Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, freaking d deserves it.

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Speaker 2: And it's also not like she's really sticking it to him.

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Speaker 2: What is really happening is she's like getting the best

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Speaker 1: they love me more. Am I the a hole? I mean,

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Speaker 1: You go. Grandma's a little angel. May baby can give

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Speaker 1: spank me with that deed. Granny, granny, step granny, granny. Hey, shitty,

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Speaker 1: I recently interviewed my grandpa. You should listen to it.

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Speaker 1: he's like, all right, tomin o'clock for you start, all right,

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Speaker 2: Brah bra Bro I think it's I think the grandparents

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Speaker 1: WHOA, that might be the formula right there, right, I

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Speaker 1: All of you get a calculator, like my grandparents do that,

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Speaker 2: Wow, this is where the evil step mother comes from.

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Speaker 1: She is, she is, she's rising, she's awoken. I spent

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Speaker 2: I love that Op knows that this is like an

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Speaker 1: Come on now, yeah, my grandparents picked up on his slack.

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Speaker 1: We spend summers learning how to make baskets, gardening, camping,

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Speaker 1: about that part. Don't do that to me now. Damn

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Speaker 1: And my grandparents home was a second home to me.

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Speaker 2: Oh, because the dad and stepmom are worried that the

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Speaker 1: Why okay, Like I don't understand this about the evil

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Speaker 1: not everyone has to be friends, yo. Can't just shove

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Speaker 1: They declined, because my stepsister was a thief. Oh my god, bro,

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Speaker 1: And that's when I created my plan. We missed their

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Speaker 1: And the hip replacements in the nineties were like they

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Speaker 1: There's an old saying that time heals all wounds, but

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Speaker 1: This is when it all comes out time to reckon

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Speaker 1: be sweet. This is where they're gonna have their come up,

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Speaker 1: baby is getting hot. I'm smelling it. I'm smelling it.

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Speaker 1: He is retired military and has no savings. Right fucks,

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Speaker 1: that's cool. I put his stuff and what was owed

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Speaker 1: After learning this, he's been furious. My step siblings keep

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Speaker 2: That's that's like saying, like, all right, your grandparents sell

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Speaker 1: I'm like, we bought this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know who you are, Like bruh, And

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Speaker 1: Opie can do whatever the hell she wants with it.

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Speaker 1: That's right, baby. He called, crying, and I coldly told

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Speaker 1: also told him that he should have treated his parents

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Speaker 1: about it. The estate is almost settled, and what land

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Speaker 1: he does get will also have my name on the deed.

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Speaker 1: So I guess maybe he gets some percentage of it,

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Speaker 1: but like Ope owns the deed of the house. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would rather share my childhood home with my daughter

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Speaker 1: if my dad ends up homeless. Dang, that is the

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Speaker 1: biggest come up. And so we've had in a while.

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Speaker 1: That was a sweet, sweet just desern And.

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Speaker 2: I think, like, you know, I love how the will

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Speaker 2: just like shows you how these like like who treated

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Speaker 2: like the will is really revealing in that way.

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Speaker 1: One hundred percent. And like the Opie's dad had so

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Speaker 1: many changes, like twenty, so many chances, twenty years of

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Speaker 1: chances and did thirty Yeah there's Op's thirty years old. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he had all this time to try and rectify, to

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Speaker 1: be a better father, to reconnect with making the wrong choices,

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Speaker 1: kept making the wrong choices. Maah, but you know it's

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Speaker 1: always the right choice. What is Sam your story to

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Speaker 1: right now, John, what's the number? Four four zero, five,

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Speaker 2: So if you like, submit this story, we might call

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Speaker 2: you back and interview you on the show. So definitely

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Speaker 2: submit it to us. And you know what else we're

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