1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Meela, and it's twenty twenty, bitch. Hey, 3 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: we wanted to enter into twenty twenty very zen, very intentional, 4 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 2: and you know, reflecting on twenty nineteen, but just also 5 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: honoring and gearing up for this amazing year that's about 6 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 2: to happen. So we figured but better way than to 7 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 2: do it with a Good Mom's Guided Meditation. So if 8 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 2: you are at home or in your office, cubicle, the bank, 9 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: get comfort your car, try to go somewhere where you're 10 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 2: comfortable right now, wherever you are, and we hope you 11 00:00:49,640 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: enjoy this Good Mom's Guided Meditation. Welcome to Good Moms. 12 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 2: Let that shit go visualization meditation. Please take a moment 13 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 2: to get comfortable wherever you're seated. Let's begin together, taking 14 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: three deep breaths as you inhale, think about the stresses 15 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: of the day, traffic, children, relationships, money, Then exhale and 16 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 2: slowly release every negative thought and distraction. 17 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 3: Shit. 18 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 2: Go now inhale again this time, take a moment to 19 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: reflect on your year. What's gotten in your way? Hurt, 20 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 2: you fucked up your bag? Maybe it's you and that's Okay, exhale, 21 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 2: release that shit, feel those feelings and forgive. Now inhale again, 22 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 2: and think about the accomplishments you've made this year, the 23 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 2: obstacles you've overcome, lessons you've learned. 24 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 3: Give thanks and release. 25 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: Now let's journey inside of our physical and spiritual selves. 26 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: Take a moment to scan your body. Identify where you 27 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: hold tension, starting at the top of your head. Relax 28 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: your forehead, release the tension from your brows. Unclench your jaw, 29 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: relax your tongue. Now continue to scan. Take your time, 30 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: every joint, every muscle, until you reach your feet. Listen 31 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: to the sound of our voice. Forget the person beside you, 32 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: the things you didn't get done today or this week, 33 00:03:53,240 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: None of that matters. All that matters is you. What 34 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: do you see for yourself in twenty twenty. Take this 35 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: time not only to visualize how that looks, but also 36 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: how that feels. 37 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 2: Imagine yourself walking into an elevator, but not just any elevator. 38 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: This lift was designed to take you to twenty twenty. 39 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: As you look out into the empty lobby, the door's 40 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 2: shut and you begin to rise. As the elevator stops, 41 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: the doors slowly open. You see yourself at the beginning 42 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 2: of this year. How do you feel? Who's with you? 43 00:04:53,920 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: How do they make you feel? Loved, triggered, fulfilled, empty? 44 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 3: Are you alone? 45 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 2: If not, who in the room brings you joy? As 46 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 2: the doors begin to close, take a mental note of 47 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 2: your attachments again. You begin to rise. You feel the 48 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: soft pull of the space around you, elevating you to 49 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 2: the next floor. The elevator doors open again. You see 50 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 2: the goals you set but may not have completed, or 51 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 2: the goals you haven't even begun. You can see the fear, distractions, 52 00:05:56,480 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 2: and uncertainty that prevented you from doing so. And as 53 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: the elevator begins to close again, forgive yourself and release 54 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: any guilt or disappointment. 55 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: Take a moment. If your mind has wandered, it's okay. 56 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: Gently refocus your attention back to this present moment. 57 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 3: Take a deep breath. 58 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: You're rising higher, releasing and being more gentle with yourself. 59 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: As you rise, your body is feeling lighter and lighter. 60 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: Each floor you elevate, you feel the light and love 61 00:06:56,279 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 1: consume you. 62 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: You notice the light shining through. As the elevator lifts, 63 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 2: the light becomes brighter, the walls that surround you are 64 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 2: now all glass, and the sky is clear and the 65 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 2: sun is shining below you. You leave the bullshit, tension, 66 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 2: and bad choices. Take this time to consciously transform your 67 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 2: heart to a constant state of gratitude. Commit to only 68 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 2: accepting the best for you and from you. 69 00:07:45,560 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: You're healing. 70 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 2: When you change the way you think. Everything changes. Emotions 71 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 2: and feelings moved to a higher level. Your personal relationships 72 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 2: move to a higher level. There is greater power of intention, 73 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 2: and everything you intend becomes much more powerful. There is 74 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 2: freedom of choice, more creativity. We also find ourselves experiencing 75 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: love and kindness, compassion, joy, peace of mind. 76 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: As you reach the top floor, step into the you 77 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: that has an abundance of love, an abundance of money, 78 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: an abundance of gratitude. You are bad, motherfucker. You've done 79 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: the work. 80 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 2: You were healing. 81 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: You were healthy, self aware, and fulfilled. Your cup is full. 82 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: Feel the abundance now, slowly, come back, Hear the sounds 83 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 1: of the room, Come back to your breath. Wiggle your fingers, 84 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: wigle your toes, Blink your eyes, open