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<v Speaker 1>from women all the time is why are all the

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<v Speaker 1>good guys always taken, gay or dead. It's interesting that

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<v Speaker 1>they're interested in those dead guys, but I always tell them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hey, don't worry, because statistically speaking, a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of those taken guys are going to get divorced and

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<v Speaker 1>then he'll be down and out and ready for a rebound.

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<v Speaker 1>So just be patient. Oh yeah, well that's what one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Kayley, did. She waited and caught a

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<v Speaker 1>guy at his rock bottom post divorce, and now she's

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<v Speaker 1>emailing us for help. Man. Welcome, Kayley, Hi, guys, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Yeah? You're like the cheetah getting the weekend

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<v Speaker 1>gazelle at the back of the herd, aren't you. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never really kind of thought about it like that, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could kind of say that. Okay, you know, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the name of the wounded gazelle that we're calling today.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Ian. Okay, and how do you know Ian?

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<v Speaker 1>I met him through a friend of a friend. He

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<v Speaker 1>was recently divorced, supposed to be a real quality guy,

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<v Speaker 1>so it sounded like a good idea. Why not have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever dated a divorced guy before? No? I haven't,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah for sure? Yeah why not? If I'm not open today,

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<v Speaker 1>who know, they'll be single forever? Yeah? So did you

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you set the date up through friends

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<v Speaker 1>or did you actually talk to Ian? Well, since we

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<v Speaker 1>had the same friends in common, they gave each other,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, our numbers, so we were able to start

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<v Speaker 1>texting one another. You know, okay, because then, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as we started talking through text we found that we

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<v Speaker 1>had something like really big and common and that's camping. Sweet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love camping. I used to do it a lot

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<v Speaker 1>with my family when I was younger. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>the first time I've met a guy who was just

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<v Speaker 1>into it as much as me. M. I mean, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of guys that say that they're into it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's hard to find one that could actually follow through. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to be into camping us dudes, like you

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<v Speaker 1>have to know how to set up a tent and

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<v Speaker 1>a fire. Well, like I'm scared of camp yeah, responsibility. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you guys actually think of going camping

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<v Speaker 1>on your first day or you were just talking it

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<v Speaker 1>about you are psychic, because that's exactly where we did

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<v Speaker 1>for our first day. We were. Yeah, that's a huge commitment,

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<v Speaker 1>like a whole weekend. Well it wasn't the whole weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>It was much an overnight trip. But it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. Yeah, it is like if you go out

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<v Speaker 1>there and you don't like the guy, you're stuck with

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<v Speaker 1>him or it's the perfect way to get rid of

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<v Speaker 1>him and no one will know what I mean. He's

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<v Speaker 1>taken just as big of a risk as you are,

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<v Speaker 1>so kind of even playing field, I think you're vulnerable. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we did. I made it clear we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>sleep in separate sleeping back, but same tent. You're gonna do,

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<v Speaker 1>same tent, same same tent. So how did it go? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just like we clear, we also took separate

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<v Speaker 1>cars too, and we met at the camping site. So

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<v Speaker 1>when we first got there, we did a hike around

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<v Speaker 1>the area, which went well. I mean, handsome guy hiking

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<v Speaker 1>do the woods and everything. That's a win for me already.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I've also turned on for you. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Yeah, okay. And then when we came back,

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<v Speaker 1>we started setting up camp and he wasn't tried to

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<v Speaker 1>make it a fire, and I was in charge of

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<v Speaker 1>like setting up the tent and everything. And then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't notice it was a bit of band and

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<v Speaker 1>there wasn't many people around us or anything, and it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of started getting dark. And as we're like setting

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<v Speaker 1>things up, we heard sounds in the woods and yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh god, what'd you hear? No, this is why I

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<v Speaker 1>don't go can hear? I mean, it sounded like a bear,

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<v Speaker 1>but it could have been human. Oh my god. That's well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's okay. I mean they're in the wilderness, like

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<v Speaker 1>literally ran to the corner of I mean, it really

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<v Speaker 1>honestly sounded like a bear that was in the heat.

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<v Speaker 1>That which makes it kind of funnier, but kind of

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<v Speaker 1>set the mood for us. You know, he knew a

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<v Speaker 1>date was going on, you know, so then you know

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<v Speaker 1>my kind of personality, honestly, I'm the type of person.

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<v Speaker 1>If I hear something, I want to see what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't, you know, even if it's a bear doing

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<v Speaker 1>its thing. I just want to go find out for

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<v Speaker 1>myself and make sure that we're safe. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if that's the smartest move. And then I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to play with their cups, right, That's all I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do. It's very brave, though, thank you. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I took my slashlight and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>go make, you know, take a look. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>asked him if he wanted to come along, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so we could just like go make sure everything's all good,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said no, he'd rather stay back with the

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<v Speaker 1>fire up. Yeah, smart guy, jo, she lived, She's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Guy, Still, why are you putting anyone in

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<v Speaker 1>that scenario? Oh my god? So what was sure? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't know. I don't know if he

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<v Speaker 1>was scared or something, but he stayed behind. So I

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<v Speaker 1>went out there in the woods and I was looking

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<v Speaker 1>around for like ten minutes, but I didn't see a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Just to let you all guys know, like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>see anything. Yeah, So so I came back to Ian

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly, he was acting different, like what do you

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<v Speaker 1>mean by it? He didn't want to talk to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and like a couple of minutes later he said, no,

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<v Speaker 1>actually I want to go what he left? Seriously, he

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<v Speaker 1>packed up everything, so I just followed along. I started

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<v Speaker 1>packing up. We went to the cars, and he peeled off.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think he was just that scared of

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<v Speaker 1>something that was probably just a raccoon? Or he could

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<v Speaker 1>even have been embarrassed. I mean because we didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>think about it. I'm the one that went out to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure we were safe, right, So that may have

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<v Speaker 1>been like emasculating to him, but I mean, some one

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<v Speaker 1>of them have to do it. We're not even sit

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<v Speaker 1>there like docks and get eaten by a bear. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I checked him nothing. I asked some of our friends

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<v Speaker 1>that we had in common, have they heard from him?

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<v Speaker 1>They said they haven't. Here I am, I'm asking help

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<v Speaker 1>from you guys. You have to help me. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>just too embarrassed. Like, but it's so frustrating because he

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<v Speaker 1>obviously liked you enough to agree for an overnight camping trip.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's a big agreement. So he's also missing

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<v Speaker 1>out because of this stupid like stigma that he has

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<v Speaker 1>where he wasn't manly enough or something. If that is

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<v Speaker 1>the case, right, is there a chance that is ex

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<v Speaker 1>wife called Maybe it was a cougar and never know,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're gonna find out. We'll play a song, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back, and we'll call Ian for you and try

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second day at update. Okay, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on if you're just tuning in for the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. We're on the phone with Kaylee, who had

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<v Speaker 1>a run in with a real life bear. O God.

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<v Speaker 1>Normally you find them out in the clubs wearing chaps

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<v Speaker 1>and drinking vodka tonics. Kaylee had an unusual experience because

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<v Speaker 1>she encountered one out in the woods. She was on

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<v Speaker 1>a camping trip with her date named Ian, and she

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<v Speaker 1>heard some weird noises coming from out in the brush

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<v Speaker 1>and went out to explore, thinking it might be a bear,

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<v Speaker 1>and found nothing instead. Though, when she came back to

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<v Speaker 1>the camp site, her date Ian was acting a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit strange and decided that he wanted to leave. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's how the date ended for them. And now

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<v Speaker 1>Kaylee doesn't know what went wrong. Yeah, I have no

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<v Speaker 1>idea what hap then? I really hope I didn't make

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<v Speaker 1>him feel bad. I don't know, you were trying to

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<v Speaker 1>protect him, like, I get that. I know. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>it makes most men feel bad totally, which isn't your fault, Kaylee.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if it comes back and he confesses that

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<v Speaker 1>he actually hates camping, would you still want to date him? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean do you know all the single losers out there? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean she's already stooped to dating like

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<v Speaker 1>a devour. Say, like, what's go I'm kidding, I'm kidding. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>here's what we're gonna do. Let's get Ian on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and figure out what happened. Okay, excellent, Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much. All right, we'll Style's phone number. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Ian? Please? Oh? You got him? Hey? Ian,

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<v Speaker 1>My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. You have a moment to talk with us?

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<v Speaker 1>What radio show man? It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Oh okay, Um, I don't know, but okay, yeah, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>You should listen sometimes. Yeah. I listened to a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of radio shows, just not this one. Sorry, So you

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<v Speaker 1>have taste. I see what you're saying. I see what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying. All right, Well, this radio show does something

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dumb called a second date update, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we're doing with you right now. Second date update. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to us and we'll call them for you

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<v Speaker 1>to try and figure out the reason why. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>what's it all about. So a woman reached out to

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<v Speaker 1>us because you went out with her recently. That woman's

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<v Speaker 1>name is Kaylee. You remember Kaylee? Okay, So she had

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<v Speaker 1>She told us about your date and she said, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were having a really good time and then it

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<v Speaker 1>ended kind of weird and she doesn't know what happened

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<v Speaker 1>she reach you guys. Yeah, man, you gotta understand why

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<v Speaker 1>she'd be confused. I mean she told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to go camping with her. I mean that's a

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<v Speaker 1>big commitment to do on a first date, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you left before like nightfall even really hit. Yea, So

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<v Speaker 1>she told you I left? Okay, what else did she

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<v Speaker 1>tell you? There was a bear? Well, she said she

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<v Speaker 1>heard a noise out in the woods and she went

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<v Speaker 1>to go explore to see what it was, and then

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<v Speaker 1>when she was a yeah, okay, yeah, and then when

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<v Speaker 1>she came back, she said, you were acting a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit different and you wanted to leave immediately. Hey, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, man, if you were scared, that's fine. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>jose was literally is terrified of everything, and and it's

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I'm still I don't know who who is,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, I'm just saying you're in good company

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<v Speaker 1>if it was just too much for you to hear

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<v Speaker 1>something that you thought was a large animal to bro.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what she said about this stuff. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if she's got the right idea here. I don't, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>can you help us get the right idea because she

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<v Speaker 1>has no clue what went wrong? And she really likes you,

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<v Speaker 1>she said that. Yeah, she thinks you're super cool. You

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<v Speaker 1>can tell us anything and we won't judge you too harsh.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are cool. Man. I just startless. So here's

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<v Speaker 1>the deal. I was going to call her back, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I needed more time, Okay, a bit more

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<v Speaker 1>time for what like, since you're divorced. Okay, Wow, she

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<v Speaker 1>did tell you a lot about me, Yeah, but listen,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing to do with the fact that I'm divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have to trust me on that. I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to call her back, so like, here's the deal, Okay, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>she heard this noise and she grabbed the flashlight and

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<v Speaker 1>she says she's going to explore, and I didn't want to,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm waiting for her to get back. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know where she is. It's like fifteen to twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm standing up, I'm looking out into the darkness,

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<v Speaker 1>and I slip into the fire and I badly burned

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<v Speaker 1>my arm. Oh my god, Terble, why wouldn't you just

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<v Speaker 1>tell her that? God? Are you okay? Well, I'm fine now.

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<v Speaker 1>But she came back eventually, and I'm doing everything I

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<v Speaker 1>can in my power to pretend like it's not hurting.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was a little embarrassed, so I just

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<v Speaker 1>kept quiet. But I'm in so much pain, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know I needed medical attention, right, but I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to make a big deal out of so weird. Men

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<v Speaker 1>are so freaking weird, dude, What do you think she

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<v Speaker 1>would have said, like, you burnt your arm, your big baby?

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<v Speaker 1>Really say she loved camping so much and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to pretend like I'm a novice at it. I

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<v Speaker 1>like it, but I'm not done it a lot. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's our first date. We're going to spend

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<v Speaker 1>a night together. Who knows what was going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And she could have helped you. She could have gotten

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<v Speaker 1>some ice for you. I understand, dude, that's I to

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<v Speaker 1>get it. Bro Where would she get the ice? I

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<v Speaker 1>assume he brought a cruiser and you're camping. Where else

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to keep your your food? Maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>brought the ice. I didn't know we had any ice. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's why you left, because you would burn your arm. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I needed medical attention. I needed to drive to the hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at my keeps on my phone. There was

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<v Speaker 1>a hospital four miles away, and I got in and look,

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<v Speaker 1>I literally had melted plastic from my jacket burnt into

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<v Speaker 1>my skin. Oh why did you wait to call her?

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<v Speaker 1>Just tell her these things? Well, it took two or

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks for it to heal, and like, I just

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<v Speaker 1>needed more time. And I felt like awkward and embarrassed,

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<v Speaker 1>being that I was recently divorced, not dating for years,

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<v Speaker 1>lying about the camping thing. You're worried that she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to think that you're less less of a man because

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<v Speaker 1>the fire burns you. You know what, I couldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>said it better myself, right, Real men don't get immune, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what? I understand that you're immune. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you're immune to logic is what it sounds like to

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<v Speaker 1>me to fires. Well, I hope I'm not stepping out

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<v Speaker 1>of line here and hurting your feelings anymore. But I

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<v Speaker 1>do have something I need to tell you, ian O good.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to tell you that Kayley's actually been on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and she heard everything that she said.

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<v Speaker 1>No way, Yeah, I don't want not to make you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like any less of a man, but she knows

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<v Speaker 1>it all. Now this just it's like the feeling of

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<v Speaker 1>a fire in my arm, but now it's in my chest. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine. Kisses, booboo. Come on, I'm super embarrassed. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so confused. Why didn't you just say something? I totally

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel bad, but I can't help it

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<v Speaker 1>to laugh a little, like I don't know. I'm new.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a novice camper and I'm a novice dater. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my who we talk to you, and I was really

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<v Speaker 1>I just it's if I can apologize, you get will

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. You could definitely apologize. I just don't. You

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<v Speaker 1>should have said something. Oh god, seriously, you're like leaving

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<v Speaker 1>this woman thinking that she did something horrible or you hater.

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<v Speaker 1>I was over here thinking the whole time that like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I made you feel bad because I was the

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<v Speaker 1>one that went out there to find out what the

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<v Speaker 1>scary sound was, you know, and the fact that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't come, you know, help figure it out. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought maybe I made you feel bad somehow. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. In fact, I thought you were a superhero.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking you know. I was just like I was

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<v Speaker 1>into you, and I was empowering to watch the woman

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<v Speaker 1>go out and like defend us from the big bear

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<v Speaker 1>that I saw. Oh I got you really cute to

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<v Speaker 1>see it. It's a cute. And I mean you should

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<v Speaker 1>have just said, hey, I burned myself, let's go to

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor. I would have went with you to urgent care. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And if you had told her, Kaylee probably would have

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<v Speaker 1>defended you and just punched that fire right in the face,

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<v Speaker 1>defended your honor. Touch my man, Oh my god. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the cutest story ever. Yeah, I mean, Ian, would

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<v Speaker 1>you be up for going out on another date with

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<v Speaker 1>Kaylee because we'll pay for it. One, I mean after

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<v Speaker 1>your burns, heel, but we'd liked you guys to hook

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<v Speaker 1>up again. I'm super excited, and I promise I'll bring

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<v Speaker 1>a blanket to make sure to cover the burns. No,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe maybe a fireproof suit. Yeah, or let's just knock

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<v Speaker 1>go camping. Yeah, let's stick to the city for you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine, that's fine, honey. This sounds awesome, sounds great. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys so much. This is great. Oh I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so excited. Me too. I'm so excited. I just pitched

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<v Speaker 1>a tent. Well, oh my god, camping, camping, guys, you're disgusted.

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<v Speaker 1>Five