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Speaker 1: from women all the time is why are all the
Speaker 1: good guys always taken, gay or dead. It's interesting that
Speaker 1: they're interested in those dead guys, but I always tell them,
Speaker 1: you know, hey, don't worry, because statistically speaking, a bunch
Speaker 1: of those taken guys are going to get divorced and
Speaker 1: then he'll be down and out and ready for a rebound.
Speaker 1: So just be patient. Oh yeah, well that's what one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Kayley, did. She waited and caught a
Speaker 1: guy at his rock bottom post divorce, and now she's
Speaker 1: emailing us for help. Man. Welcome, Kayley, Hi, guys, how
Speaker 1: are you? Yeah? You're like the cheetah getting the weekend
Speaker 1: gazelle at the back of the herd, aren't you. I've
Speaker 1: never really kind of thought about it like that, but yeah,
Speaker 1: you could kind of say that. Okay, you know, what's
Speaker 1: the name of the wounded gazelle that we're calling today.
Speaker 1: His name is Ian. Okay, and how do you know Ian?
Speaker 1: I met him through a friend of a friend. He
Speaker 1: was recently divorced, supposed to be a real quality guy,
Speaker 1: so it sounded like a good idea. Why not have
Speaker 1: you ever dated a divorced guy before? No? I haven't,
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure? Yeah why not? If I'm not open today,
Speaker 1: who know, they'll be single forever? Yeah? So did you
Speaker 1: I mean, did you set the date up through friends
Speaker 1: or did you actually talk to Ian? Well, since we
Speaker 1: had the same friends in common, they gave each other,
Speaker 1: you know, our numbers, so we were able to start
Speaker 1: texting one another. You know, okay, because then, you know,
Speaker 1: as we started talking through text we found that we
Speaker 1: had something like really big and common and that's camping. Sweet. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love camping. I used to do it a lot
Speaker 1: with my family when I was younger. And this is
Speaker 1: the first time I've met a guy who was just
Speaker 1: into it as much as me. M. I mean, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of guys that say that they're into it,
Speaker 1: but it's hard to find one that could actually follow through. Dude,
Speaker 1: it's hard to be into camping us dudes, like you
Speaker 1: have to know how to set up a tent and
Speaker 1: a fire. Well, like I'm scared of camp yeah, responsibility. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I mean, did you guys actually think of going camping
Speaker 1: on your first day or you were just talking it
Speaker 1: about you are psychic, because that's exactly where we did
Speaker 1: for our first day. We were. Yeah, that's a huge commitment,
Speaker 1: like a whole weekend. Well it wasn't the whole weekend.
Speaker 1: It was much an overnight trip. But it's not a
Speaker 1: big deal. Yeah, it is like if you go out
Speaker 1: there and you don't like the guy, you're stuck with
Speaker 1: him or it's the perfect way to get rid of
Speaker 1: him and no one will know what I mean. He's
Speaker 1: taken just as big of a risk as you are,
Speaker 1: so kind of even playing field, I think you're vulnerable. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean we did. I made it clear we're gonna
Speaker 1: sleep in separate sleeping back, but same tent. You're gonna do,
Speaker 1: same tent, same same tent. So how did it go? Well,
Speaker 1: you know, just like we clear, we also took separate
Speaker 1: cars too, and we met at the camping site. So
Speaker 1: when we first got there, we did a hike around
Speaker 1: the area, which went well. I mean, handsome guy hiking
Speaker 1: do the woods and everything. That's a win for me already.
Speaker 1: You know, I've also turned on for you. Thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, okay. And then when we came back,
Speaker 1: we started setting up camp and he wasn't tried to
Speaker 1: make it a fire, and I was in charge of
Speaker 1: like setting up the tent and everything. And then you know,
Speaker 1: I didn't notice it was a bit of band and
Speaker 1: there wasn't many people around us or anything, and it
Speaker 1: kind of started getting dark. And as we're like setting
Speaker 1: things up, we heard sounds in the woods and yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: oh god, what'd you hear? No, this is why I
Speaker 1: don't go can hear? I mean, it sounded like a bear,
Speaker 1: but it could have been human. Oh my god. That's well,
Speaker 1: it's it's okay. I mean they're in the wilderness, like
Speaker 1: literally ran to the corner of I mean, it really
Speaker 1: honestly sounded like a bear that was in the heat.
Speaker 1: That which makes it kind of funnier, but kind of
Speaker 1: set the mood for us. You know, he knew a
Speaker 1: date was going on, you know, so then you know
Speaker 1: my kind of personality, honestly, I'm the type of person.
Speaker 1: If I hear something, I want to see what it is.
Speaker 1: I don't, you know, even if it's a bear doing
Speaker 1: its thing. I just want to go find out for
Speaker 1: myself and make sure that we're safe. I don't know
Speaker 1: if that's the smartest move. And then I just wanted
Speaker 1: to play with their cups, right, That's all I want
Speaker 1: to do. It's very brave, though, thank you. You know,
Speaker 1: you know. I took my slashlight and I wanted to
Speaker 1: go make, you know, take a look. And I was
Speaker 1: asked him if he wanted to come along, you know,
Speaker 1: so we could just like go make sure everything's all good,
Speaker 1: and he said no, he'd rather stay back with the
Speaker 1: fire up. Yeah, smart guy, jo, she lived, She's on
Speaker 1: the phone. Guy, Still, why are you putting anyone in
Speaker 1: that scenario? Oh my god? So what was sure? Okay?
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. I don't know if he
Speaker 1: was scared or something, but he stayed behind. So I
Speaker 1: went out there in the woods and I was looking
Speaker 1: around for like ten minutes, but I didn't see a thing.
Speaker 1: Just to let you all guys know, like I didn't
Speaker 1: see anything. Yeah, So so I came back to Ian
Speaker 1: and honestly, he was acting different, like what do you
Speaker 1: mean by it? He didn't want to talk to me,
Speaker 1: and like a couple of minutes later he said, no,
Speaker 1: actually I want to go what he left? Seriously, he
Speaker 1: packed up everything, so I just followed along. I started
Speaker 1: packing up. We went to the cars, and he peeled off.
Speaker 1: What do you think he was just that scared of
Speaker 1: something that was probably just a raccoon? Or he could
Speaker 1: even have been embarrassed. I mean because we didn't really
Speaker 1: think about it. I'm the one that went out to
Speaker 1: make sure we were safe, right, So that may have
Speaker 1: been like emasculating to him, but I mean, some one
Speaker 1: of them have to do it. We're not even sit
Speaker 1: there like docks and get eaten by a bear. You know.
Speaker 1: I checked him nothing. I asked some of our friends
Speaker 1: that we had in common, have they heard from him?
Speaker 1: They said they haven't. Here I am, I'm asking help
Speaker 1: from you guys. You have to help me. So that's
Speaker 1: just too embarrassed. Like, but it's so frustrating because he
Speaker 1: obviously liked you enough to agree for an overnight camping trip.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's a big agreement. So he's also missing
Speaker 1: out because of this stupid like stigma that he has
Speaker 1: where he wasn't manly enough or something. If that is
Speaker 1: the case, right, is there a chance that is ex
Speaker 1: wife called Maybe it was a cougar and never know,
Speaker 1: but we're gonna find out. We'll play a song, we'll
Speaker 1: come back, and we'll call Ian for you and try
Speaker 1: and get your second day at update. Okay, thank you guys.
Speaker 1: Hold on if you're just tuning in for the second
Speaker 1: date update. We're on the phone with Kaylee, who had
Speaker 1: a run in with a real life bear. O God.
Speaker 1: Normally you find them out in the clubs wearing chaps
Speaker 1: and drinking vodka tonics. Kaylee had an unusual experience because
Speaker 1: she encountered one out in the woods. She was on
Speaker 1: a camping trip with her date named Ian, and she
Speaker 1: heard some weird noises coming from out in the brush
Speaker 1: and went out to explore, thinking it might be a bear,
Speaker 1: and found nothing instead. Though, when she came back to
Speaker 1: the camp site, her date Ian was acting a little
Speaker 1: bit strange and decided that he wanted to leave. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's how the date ended for them. And now
Speaker 1: Kaylee doesn't know what went wrong. Yeah, I have no
Speaker 1: idea what hap then? I really hope I didn't make
Speaker 1: him feel bad. I don't know, you were trying to
Speaker 1: protect him, like, I get that. I know. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it makes most men feel bad totally, which isn't your fault, Kaylee.
Speaker 1: I mean, if it comes back and he confesses that
Speaker 1: he actually hates camping, would you still want to date him? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean do you know all the single losers out there? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean she's already stooped to dating like
Speaker 1: a devour. Say, like, what's go I'm kidding, I'm kidding. Well,
Speaker 1: here's what we're gonna do. Let's get Ian on the
Speaker 1: phone and figure out what happened. Okay, excellent, Thank you
Speaker 1: so much. All right, we'll Style's phone number. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Ian? Please? Oh? You got him? Hey? Ian,
Speaker 1: My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. You have a moment to talk with us?
Speaker 1: What radio show man? It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Oh okay, Um, I don't know, but okay, yeah, cool.
Speaker 1: You should listen sometimes. Yeah. I listened to a lot
Speaker 1: of radio shows, just not this one. Sorry, So you
Speaker 1: have taste. I see what you're saying. I see what
Speaker 1: you're saying. All right, Well, this radio show does something
Speaker 1: kind of dumb called a second date update, and that's
Speaker 1: what we're doing with you right now. Second date update. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can
Speaker 1: reach out to us and we'll call them for you
Speaker 1: to try and figure out the reason why. Okay, So
Speaker 1: what's it all about. So a woman reached out to
Speaker 1: us because you went out with her recently. That woman's
Speaker 1: name is Kaylee. You remember Kaylee? Okay, So she had
Speaker 1: She told us about your date and she said, you
Speaker 1: guys were having a really good time and then it
Speaker 1: ended kind of weird and she doesn't know what happened
Speaker 1: she reach you guys. Yeah, man, you gotta understand why
Speaker 1: she'd be confused. I mean she told us that you
Speaker 1: agreed to go camping with her. I mean that's a
Speaker 1: big commitment to do on a first date, and then
Speaker 1: you left before like nightfall even really hit. Yea, So
Speaker 1: she told you I left? Okay, what else did she
Speaker 1: tell you? There was a bear? Well, she said she
Speaker 1: heard a noise out in the woods and she went
Speaker 1: to go explore to see what it was, and then
Speaker 1: when she was a yeah, okay, yeah, and then when
Speaker 1: she came back, she said, you were acting a little
Speaker 1: bit different and you wanted to leave immediately. Hey, and
Speaker 1: it's okay, man, if you were scared, that's fine. I mean,
Speaker 1: jose was literally is terrified of everything, and and it's
Speaker 1: all right. I'm still I don't know who who is,
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm just saying you're in good company
Speaker 1: if it was just too much for you to hear
Speaker 1: something that you thought was a large animal to bro.
Speaker 1: I don't know what she said about this stuff. I
Speaker 1: don't know if she's got the right idea here. I don't, Well,
Speaker 1: can you help us get the right idea because she
Speaker 1: has no clue what went wrong? And she really likes you,
Speaker 1: she said that. Yeah, she thinks you're super cool. You
Speaker 1: can tell us anything and we won't judge you too harsh.
Speaker 1: You guys are cool. Man. I just startless. So here's
Speaker 1: the deal. I was going to call her back, Okay,
Speaker 1: I just I needed more time, Okay, a bit more
Speaker 1: time for what like, since you're divorced. Okay, Wow, she
Speaker 1: did tell you a lot about me, Yeah, but listen,
Speaker 1: there's nothing to do with the fact that I'm divorced.
Speaker 1: Do you have to trust me on that. I was
Speaker 1: going to call her back, so like, here's the deal, Okay, Um,
Speaker 1: she heard this noise and she grabbed the flashlight and
Speaker 1: she says she's going to explore, and I didn't want to,
Speaker 1: so I'm waiting for her to get back. I don't
Speaker 1: know where she is. It's like fifteen to twenty minutes.
Speaker 1: So I'm standing up, I'm looking out into the darkness,
Speaker 1: and I slip into the fire and I badly burned
Speaker 1: my arm. Oh my god, Terble, why wouldn't you just
Speaker 1: tell her that? God? Are you okay? Well, I'm fine now.
Speaker 1: But she came back eventually, and I'm doing everything I
Speaker 1: can in my power to pretend like it's not hurting.
Speaker 1: I think I was a little embarrassed, so I just
Speaker 1: kept quiet. But I'm in so much pain, and I
Speaker 1: know I needed medical attention, right, but I didn't want
Speaker 1: to make a big deal out of so weird. Men
Speaker 1: are so freaking weird, dude, What do you think she
Speaker 1: would have said, like, you burnt your arm, your big baby?
Speaker 1: Really say she loved camping so much and I didn't
Speaker 1: want to pretend like I'm a novice at it. I
Speaker 1: like it, but I'm not done it a lot. And
Speaker 1: you know, it's our first date. We're going to spend
Speaker 1: a night together. Who knows what was going to happen.
Speaker 1: And she could have helped you. She could have gotten
Speaker 1: some ice for you. I understand, dude, that's I to
Speaker 1: get it. Bro Where would she get the ice? I
Speaker 1: assume he brought a cruiser and you're camping. Where else
Speaker 1: are you going to keep your your food? Maybe she
Speaker 1: brought the ice. I didn't know we had any ice. Okay,
Speaker 1: so that's why you left, because you would burn your arm. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I needed medical attention. I needed to drive to the hospital.
Speaker 1: I looked at my keeps on my phone. There was
Speaker 1: a hospital four miles away, and I got in and look,
Speaker 1: I literally had melted plastic from my jacket burnt into
Speaker 1: my skin. Oh why did you wait to call her?
Speaker 1: Just tell her these things? Well, it took two or
Speaker 1: three weeks for it to heal, and like, I just
Speaker 1: needed more time. And I felt like awkward and embarrassed,
Speaker 1: being that I was recently divorced, not dating for years,
Speaker 1: lying about the camping thing. You're worried that she's going
Speaker 1: to think that you're less less of a man because
Speaker 1: the fire burns you. You know what, I couldn't have
Speaker 1: said it better myself, right, Real men don't get immune, right,
Speaker 1: you know what? I understand that you're immune. I mean
Speaker 1: you're immune to logic is what it sounds like to
Speaker 1: me to fires. Well, I hope I'm not stepping out
Speaker 1: of line here and hurting your feelings anymore. But I
Speaker 1: do have something I need to tell you, ian O good.
Speaker 1: I need to tell you that Kayley's actually been on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and she heard everything that she said.
Speaker 1: No way, Yeah, I don't want not to make you
Speaker 1: feel like any less of a man, but she knows
Speaker 1: it all. Now this just it's like the feeling of
Speaker 1: a fire in my arm, but now it's in my chest. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's fine. Kisses, booboo. Come on, I'm super embarrassed. I'm
Speaker 1: so confused. Why didn't you just say something? I totally
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel bad, but I can't help it
Speaker 1: to laugh a little, like I don't know. I'm new.
Speaker 1: I'm a novice camper and I'm a novice dater. Oh
Speaker 1: my who we talk to you, and I was really
Speaker 1: I just it's if I can apologize, you get will
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You could definitely apologize. I just don't. You
Speaker 1: should have said something. Oh god, seriously, you're like leaving
Speaker 1: this woman thinking that she did something horrible or you hater.
Speaker 1: I was over here thinking the whole time that like,
Speaker 1: maybe I made you feel bad because I was the
Speaker 1: one that went out there to find out what the
Speaker 1: scary sound was, you know, and the fact that you
Speaker 1: didn't come, you know, help figure it out. You know,
Speaker 1: I thought maybe I made you feel bad somehow. No,
Speaker 1: not at all. In fact, I thought you were a superhero.
Speaker 1: I'm looking you know. I was just like I was
Speaker 1: into you, and I was empowering to watch the woman
Speaker 1: go out and like defend us from the big bear
Speaker 1: that I saw. Oh I got you really cute to
Speaker 1: see it. It's a cute. And I mean you should
Speaker 1: have just said, hey, I burned myself, let's go to
Speaker 1: the doctor. I would have went with you to urgent care. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And if you had told her, Kaylee probably would have
Speaker 1: defended you and just punched that fire right in the face,
Speaker 1: defended your honor. Touch my man, Oh my god. This
Speaker 1: is the cutest story ever. Yeah, I mean, Ian, would
Speaker 1: you be up for going out on another date with
Speaker 1: Kaylee because we'll pay for it. One, I mean after
Speaker 1: your burns, heel, but we'd liked you guys to hook
Speaker 1: up again. I'm super excited, and I promise I'll bring
Speaker 1: a blanket to make sure to cover the burns. No,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe a fireproof suit. Yeah, or let's just knock
Speaker 1: go camping. Yeah, let's stick to the city for you.
Speaker 1: That's fine, that's fine, honey. This sounds awesome, sounds great. Yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you guys so much. This is great. Oh I'm
Speaker 1: so excited. Me too. I'm so excited. I just pitched
Speaker 1: a tent. Well, oh my god, camping, camping, guys, you're disgusted.
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