1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: Bread and butter wines pair with the life moments you love, 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: offering a rich and jammy Cabernet sauvignon, a silky smooth 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: piano noir, and a buttery Chardonnay. Bread and butter wines 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: are delicious. Find a bread and butter wines in your 5 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: favorite store second data day. You know something you hear 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 1: from women all the time is why are all the 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: good guys always taken, gay or dead. It's interesting that 8 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: they're interested in those dead guys, but I always tell them, 9 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: you know, hey, don't worry, because statistically speaking, a bunch 10 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: of those taken guys are going to get divorced and 11 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: then he'll be down and out and ready for a rebound. 12 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: So just be patient. Oh yeah, well that's what one 13 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: of our listeners, Kayley, did. She waited and caught a 14 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: guy at his rock bottom post divorce, and now she's 15 00:00:55,000 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: emailing us for help. Man. Welcome, Kayley, Hi, guys, how 16 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 1: are you? Yeah? You're like the cheetah getting the weekend 17 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: gazelle at the back of the herd, aren't you. I've 18 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: never really kind of thought about it like that, but yeah, 19 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: you could kind of say that. Okay, you know, what's 20 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: the name of the wounded gazelle that we're calling today. 21 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: His name is Ian. Okay, and how do you know Ian? 22 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: I met him through a friend of a friend. He 23 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: was recently divorced, supposed to be a real quality guy, 24 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: so it sounded like a good idea. Why not have 25 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: you ever dated a divorced guy before? No? I haven't, 26 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 1: Yeah for sure? Yeah why not? If I'm not open today, 27 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: who know, they'll be single forever? Yeah? So did you 28 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:41,919 Speaker 1: I mean, did you set the date up through friends 29 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: or did you actually talk to Ian? Well, since we 30 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: had the same friends in common, they gave each other, 31 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: you know, our numbers, so we were able to start 32 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: texting one another. You know, okay, because then, you know, 33 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: as we started talking through text we found that we 34 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: had something like really big and common and that's camping. Sweet. Yeah, 35 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: I love camping. I used to do it a lot 36 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: with my family when I was younger. And this is 37 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: the first time I've met a guy who was just 38 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: into it as much as me. M. I mean, there's 39 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: a lot of guys that say that they're into it, 40 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 1: but it's hard to find one that could actually follow through. Dude, 41 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: it's hard to be into camping us dudes, like you 42 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: have to know how to set up a tent and 43 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: a fire. Well, like I'm scared of camp yeah, responsibility. Yeah, okay, 44 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: I mean, did you guys actually think of going camping 45 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: on your first day or you were just talking it 46 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: about you are psychic, because that's exactly where we did 47 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: for our first day. We were. Yeah, that's a huge commitment, 48 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: like a whole weekend. Well it wasn't the whole weekend. 49 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: It was much an overnight trip. But it's not a 50 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: big deal. Yeah, it is like if you go out 51 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: there and you don't like the guy, you're stuck with 52 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: him or it's the perfect way to get rid of 53 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: him and no one will know what I mean. He's 54 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 1: taken just as big of a risk as you are, 55 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: so kind of even playing field, I think you're vulnerable. Well, 56 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: I mean we did. I made it clear we're gonna 57 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: sleep in separate sleeping back, but same tent. You're gonna do, 58 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: same tent, same same tent. So how did it go? Well, 59 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: you know, just like we clear, we also took separate 60 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: cars too, and we met at the camping site. So 61 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: when we first got there, we did a hike around 62 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: the area, which went well. I mean, handsome guy hiking 63 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 1: do the woods and everything. That's a win for me already. 64 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: You know, I've also turned on for you. Thank you, 65 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, okay. And then when we came back, 66 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: we started setting up camp and he wasn't tried to 67 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: make it a fire, and I was in charge of 68 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: like setting up the tent and everything. And then you know, 69 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: I didn't notice it was a bit of band and 70 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: there wasn't many people around us or anything, and it 71 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: kind of started getting dark. And as we're like setting 72 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: things up, we heard sounds in the woods and yeah, yeah, 73 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: oh god, what'd you hear? No, this is why I 74 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:06,119 Speaker 1: don't go can hear? I mean, it sounded like a bear, 75 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: but it could have been human. Oh my god. That's well, 76 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: it's it's okay. I mean they're in the wilderness, like 77 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: literally ran to the corner of I mean, it really 78 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: honestly sounded like a bear that was in the heat. 79 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: That which makes it kind of funnier, but kind of 80 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: set the mood for us. You know, he knew a 81 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: date was going on, you know, so then you know 82 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 1: my kind of personality, honestly, I'm the type of person. 83 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: If I hear something, I want to see what it is. 84 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: I don't, you know, even if it's a bear doing 85 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: its thing. I just want to go find out for 86 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: myself and make sure that we're safe. I don't know 87 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: if that's the smartest move. And then I just wanted 88 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: to play with their cups, right, That's all I want 89 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: to do. It's very brave, though, thank you. You know, 90 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 1: you know. I took my slashlight and I wanted to 91 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: go make, you know, take a look. And I was 92 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 1: asked him if he wanted to come along, you know, 93 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: so we could just like go make sure everything's all good, 94 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: and he said no, he'd rather stay back with the 95 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: fire up. Yeah, smart guy, jo, she lived, She's on 96 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: the phone. Guy, Still, why are you putting anyone in 97 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: that scenario? Oh my god? So what was sure? Okay? 98 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. I don't know if he 99 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: was scared or something, but he stayed behind. So I 100 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: went out there in the woods and I was looking 101 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: around for like ten minutes, but I didn't see a thing. 102 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: Just to let you all guys know, like I didn't 103 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: see anything. Yeah, So so I came back to Ian 104 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 1: and honestly, he was acting different, like what do you 105 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: mean by it? He didn't want to talk to me, 106 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: and like a couple of minutes later he said, no, 107 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 1: actually I want to go what he left? Seriously, he 108 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: packed up everything, so I just followed along. I started 109 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: packing up. We went to the cars, and he peeled off. 110 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 1: What do you think he was just that scared of 111 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: something that was probably just a raccoon? Or he could 112 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: even have been embarrassed. I mean because we didn't really 113 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: think about it. I'm the one that went out to 114 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: make sure we were safe, right, So that may have 115 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: been like emasculating to him, but I mean, some one 116 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: of them have to do it. We're not even sit 117 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: there like docks and get eaten by a bear. You know. 118 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,679 Speaker 1: I checked him nothing. I asked some of our friends 119 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 1: that we had in common, have they heard from him? 120 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: They said they haven't. Here I am, I'm asking help 121 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: from you guys. You have to help me. So that's 122 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 1: just too embarrassed. Like, but it's so frustrating because he 123 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: obviously liked you enough to agree for an overnight camping trip. 124 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: I mean, that's a big agreement. So he's also missing 125 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: out because of this stupid like stigma that he has 126 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: where he wasn't manly enough or something. If that is 127 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: the case, right, is there a chance that is ex 128 00:06:50,560 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: wife called Maybe it was a cougar and never know, 129 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: but we're gonna find out. We'll play a song, we'll 130 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: come back, and we'll call Ian for you and try 131 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: and get your second day at update. Okay, thank you guys. 132 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: Hold on if you're just tuning in for the second 133 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: date update. We're on the phone with Kaylee, who had 134 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: a run in with a real life bear. O God. 135 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 1: Normally you find them out in the clubs wearing chaps 136 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: and drinking vodka tonics. Kaylee had an unusual experience because 137 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: she encountered one out in the woods. She was on 138 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: a camping trip with her date named Ian, and she 139 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: heard some weird noises coming from out in the brush 140 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: and went out to explore, thinking it might be a bear, 141 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: and found nothing instead. Though, when she came back to 142 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: the camp site, her date Ian was acting a little 143 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: bit strange and decided that he wanted to leave. Yeah, 144 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: so that's how the date ended for them. And now 145 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: Kaylee doesn't know what went wrong. Yeah, I have no 146 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: idea what hap then? I really hope I didn't make 147 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: him feel bad. I don't know, you were trying to 148 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: protect him, like, I get that. I know. Yeah, but 149 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: it makes most men feel bad totally, which isn't your fault, Kaylee. 150 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: I mean, if it comes back and he confesses that 151 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: he actually hates camping, would you still want to date him? Yeah? 152 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: I mean do you know all the single losers out there? Yeah? 153 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean she's already stooped to dating like 154 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: a devour. Say, like, what's go I'm kidding, I'm kidding. Well, 155 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 1: here's what we're gonna do. Let's get Ian on the 156 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: phone and figure out what happened. Okay, excellent, Thank you 157 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 1: so much. All right, we'll Style's phone number. Here we go. Hello, Hi, 158 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: can I speak to Ian? Please? Oh? You got him? Hey? Ian, 159 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey 160 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 1: in the Morning. You have a moment to talk with us? 161 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: What radio show man? It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in 162 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: the Morning. Oh okay, Um, I don't know, but okay, yeah, cool. 163 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: You should listen sometimes. Yeah. I listened to a lot 164 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: of radio shows, just not this one. Sorry, So you 165 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 1: have taste. I see what you're saying. I see what 166 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: you're saying. All right, Well, this radio show does something 167 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: kind of dumb called a second date update, and that's 168 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 1: what we're doing with you right now. Second date update. Yes, 169 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 1: that's where if you go out on a date with 170 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can 171 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: reach out to us and we'll call them for you 172 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: to try and figure out the reason why. Okay, So 173 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: what's it all about. So a woman reached out to 174 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: us because you went out with her recently. That woman's 175 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:52,719 Speaker 1: name is Kaylee. You remember Kaylee? Okay, So she had 176 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: She told us about your date and she said, you 177 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: guys were having a really good time and then it 178 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: ended kind of weird and she doesn't know what happened 179 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 1: she reach you guys. Yeah, man, you gotta understand why 180 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: she'd be confused. I mean she told us that you 181 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 1: agreed to go camping with her. I mean that's a 182 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: big commitment to do on a first date, and then 183 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: you left before like nightfall even really hit. Yea, So 184 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: she told you I left? Okay, what else did she 185 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 1: tell you? There was a bear? Well, she said she 186 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 1: heard a noise out in the woods and she went 187 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 1: to go explore to see what it was, and then 188 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 1: when she was a yeah, okay, yeah, and then when 189 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: she came back, she said, you were acting a little 190 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: bit different and you wanted to leave immediately. Hey, and 191 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: it's okay, man, if you were scared, that's fine. I mean, 192 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: jose was literally is terrified of everything, and and it's 193 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: all right. I'm still I don't know who who is, 194 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 1: but you know, I'm just saying you're in good company 195 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: if it was just too much for you to hear 196 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: something that you thought was a large animal to bro. 197 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what she said about this stuff. I 198 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 1: don't know if she's got the right idea here. I don't, Well, 199 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: can you help us get the right idea because she 200 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 1: has no clue what went wrong? And she really likes you, 201 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: she said that. Yeah, she thinks you're super cool. You 202 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: can tell us anything and we won't judge you too harsh. 203 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: You guys are cool. Man. I just startless. So here's 204 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: the deal. I was going to call her back, Okay, 205 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 1: I just I needed more time, Okay, a bit more 206 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:30,439 Speaker 1: time for what like, since you're divorced. Okay, Wow, she 207 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: did tell you a lot about me, Yeah, but listen, 208 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: there's nothing to do with the fact that I'm divorced. 209 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: Do you have to trust me on that. I was 210 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: going to call her back, so like, here's the deal, Okay, Um, 211 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: she heard this noise and she grabbed the flashlight and 212 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 1: she says she's going to explore, and I didn't want to, 213 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 1: so I'm waiting for her to get back. I don't 214 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: know where she is. It's like fifteen to twenty minutes. 215 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:58,199 Speaker 1: So I'm standing up, I'm looking out into the darkness, 216 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 1: and I slip into the fire and I badly burned 217 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 1: my arm. Oh my god, Terble, why wouldn't you just 218 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: tell her that? God? Are you okay? Well, I'm fine now. 219 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: But she came back eventually, and I'm doing everything I 220 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: can in my power to pretend like it's not hurting. 221 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 1: I think I was a little embarrassed, so I just 222 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: kept quiet. But I'm in so much pain, and I 223 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: know I needed medical attention, right, but I didn't want 224 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 1: to make a big deal out of so weird. Men 225 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,560 Speaker 1: are so freaking weird, dude, What do you think she 226 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: would have said, like, you burnt your arm, your big baby? 227 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: Really say she loved camping so much and I didn't 228 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 1: want to pretend like I'm a novice at it. I 229 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: like it, but I'm not done it a lot. And 230 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: you know, it's our first date. We're going to spend 231 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: a night together. Who knows what was going to happen. 232 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: And she could have helped you. She could have gotten 233 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 1: some ice for you. I understand, dude, that's I to 234 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:55,680 Speaker 1: get it. Bro Where would she get the ice? I 235 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: assume he brought a cruiser and you're camping. Where else 236 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: are you going to keep your your food? Maybe she 237 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: brought the ice. I didn't know we had any ice. Okay, 238 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: so that's why you left, because you would burn your arm. Well, yeah, 239 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: I needed medical attention. I needed to drive to the hospital. 240 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: I looked at my keeps on my phone. There was 241 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: a hospital four miles away, and I got in and look, 242 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: I literally had melted plastic from my jacket burnt into 243 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: my skin. Oh why did you wait to call her? 244 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: Just tell her these things? Well, it took two or 245 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: three weeks for it to heal, and like, I just 246 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: needed more time. And I felt like awkward and embarrassed, 247 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 1: being that I was recently divorced, not dating for years, 248 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: lying about the camping thing. You're worried that she's going 249 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 1: to think that you're less less of a man because 250 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 1: the fire burns you. You know what, I couldn't have 251 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 1: said it better myself, right, Real men don't get immune, right, 252 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: you know what? I understand that you're immune. I mean 253 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: you're immune to logic is what it sounds like to 254 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: me to fires. Well, I hope I'm not stepping out 255 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: of line here and hurting your feelings anymore. But I 256 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: do have something I need to tell you, ian O good. 257 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 1: I need to tell you that Kayley's actually been on 258 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: the other line listening and she heard everything that she said. 259 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: No way, Yeah, I don't want not to make you 260 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: feel like any less of a man, but she knows 261 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: it all. Now this just it's like the feeling of 262 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: a fire in my arm, but now it's in my chest. Yeah, 263 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: it's fine. Kisses, booboo. Come on, I'm super embarrassed. I'm 264 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 1: so confused. Why didn't you just say something? I totally 265 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel bad, but I can't help it 266 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: to laugh a little, like I don't know. I'm new. 267 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: I'm a novice camper and I'm a novice dater. Oh 268 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: my who we talk to you, and I was really 269 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: I just it's if I can apologize, you get will 270 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You could definitely apologize. I just don't. You 271 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: should have said something. Oh god, seriously, you're like leaving 272 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: this woman thinking that she did something horrible or you hater. 273 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: I was over here thinking the whole time that like, 274 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: maybe I made you feel bad because I was the 275 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: one that went out there to find out what the 276 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: scary sound was, you know, and the fact that you 277 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 1: didn't come, you know, help figure it out. You know, 278 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: I thought maybe I made you feel bad somehow. No, 279 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: not at all. In fact, I thought you were a superhero. 280 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: I'm looking you know. I was just like I was 281 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: into you, and I was empowering to watch the woman 282 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: go out and like defend us from the big bear 283 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: that I saw. Oh I got you really cute to 284 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: see it. It's a cute. And I mean you should 285 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 1: have just said, hey, I burned myself, let's go to 286 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 1: the doctor. I would have went with you to urgent care. Yeah, 287 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: And if you had told her, Kaylee probably would have 288 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: defended you and just punched that fire right in the face, 289 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 1: defended your honor. Touch my man, Oh my god. This 290 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: is the cutest story ever. Yeah, I mean, Ian, would 291 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: you be up for going out on another date with 292 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: Kaylee because we'll pay for it. One, I mean after 293 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: your burns, heel, but we'd liked you guys to hook 294 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: up again. I'm super excited, and I promise I'll bring 295 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: a blanket to make sure to cover the burns. No, 296 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: maybe maybe a fireproof suit. Yeah, or let's just knock 297 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: go camping. Yeah, let's stick to the city for you. 298 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: That's fine, that's fine, honey. This sounds awesome, sounds great. Yeah, 299 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: thank you guys so much. This is great. Oh I'm 300 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 1: so excited. Me too. I'm so excited. I just pitched 301 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: a tent. Well, oh my god, camping, camping, guys, you're disgusted. 302 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: Five