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Speaker 1: A viral relationship test is making the rounds, and it

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Speaker 1: starts with DoorDash. So, according to a happily married woman,

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Speaker 1: you can supposely right which we got an we gotta

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Speaker 1: specify because just because you're married doesn't mean you're happier, right, Well,

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Speaker 1: so you gotta next time you talk about your man, guessay,

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Speaker 1: I am a happily married woman, not just a married woman,

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Speaker 1: because I don't think that married and happiness are necessarily synonymous.

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Speaker 1: There's still time, Kiki, you don't have to do it, okay.

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Speaker 1: According to a happily married woman, you can supposedly tell

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Speaker 1: if your partner really cares about you by what they

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Speaker 1: do when ordering takeout. Now, this is a game, and

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Speaker 1: I don't like it. Because this is a game, it's

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Speaker 1: a test. I don't like tests. Don't test me, communicate

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Speaker 1: with me, but I want to know. This is the

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Speaker 1: kind of stuff you pull at your house. Eight five

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Speaker 1: five five three five. The moment of truth comes when

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Speaker 1: one person says to you that they are not hungry.

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Speaker 1: So her story, the woman said that her her husband

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Speaker 1: was ordering something.

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Speaker 2: From door Dash.

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Speaker 1: She said she didn't want anything, but when the food arrived,

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Speaker 1: he had ordered her a bean and cheese burrito anyway.

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Speaker 1: Now that's a bold move. I mean, maybe it's her favorite,

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Speaker 1: but like, cancel the rest of my plans for the

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Speaker 1: rest of the night, and like you can sleep in

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Speaker 1: the guest room. I don't know that I'm ordering a

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Speaker 1: bean and cheese burrito for I mean, I might order

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Speaker 1: a more conservative choice because if I'm gonna get well,

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Speaker 1: but I'm saying, if I'm gonna get credit for my kindness,

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Speaker 1: I'm not if you just ate a bean and cheese burrito,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, I'm not not not

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Speaker 1: much it.

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Speaker 2: Going to be happening. I don't thinking.

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Speaker 1: If it is, it's it's risky. But beans farting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they don't do that to me, So I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I think he's the only one on earth. Then,

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know, can anyone else? Can you eat a bean and

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Speaker 1: not have that kind of I can't right right, That's

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Speaker 1: you're on your own there anyway, the bean and cheese burrito,

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Speaker 1: he ordered it because he knew she'd probably want it

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Speaker 1: once the food showed up, and that move apparently proved

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Speaker 1: that he truly understood her.

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Speaker 3: I'm the exact opposite.

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Speaker 2: And their marriage is strong.

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Speaker 4: If you order me something when I say I don't

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Speaker 4: want anything, I get really upset because I have no

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Speaker 4: self control. Jesus, I have zero self control. I truly

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Speaker 4: don't want anything when I say I don't want anything,

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Speaker 4: and if you get it for me, I will eat

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Speaker 4: it and I don't want to eat it.

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Speaker 2: This is why I can't play these games.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that. I can't order you bean burritok.

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to, you know, toot, but you

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Speaker 1: don't toot. And then if I order you something when

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Speaker 1: you say you didn't want it, but I shouldn't have.

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Speaker 2: I really shouldn't have.

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Speaker 1: But then this person's saying, if the lady says I

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Speaker 1: don't want anything, then I got to order you something,

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Speaker 1: because then if I don't, I'm not thoughtful.

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Speaker 2: Look, I'll tell you I'll take my chances. I will

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Speaker 2: take my chances.

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Speaker 1: If I'm in a situation where I'm ordering food and

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Speaker 1: it's just me like and you say you don't want anything,

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Speaker 1: I'll take my chances. I will order you something and

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Speaker 1: either it gets thrown away wasted food. That sucks, but

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Speaker 1: at least I don't get yelled at. But now you

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Speaker 1: say it, I would get yelled at because you told

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Speaker 3: But you know the rule.

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Speaker 4: It's like, if you're in a relationship with me, you

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Speaker 4: know that I genuinely mean it when I say I

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Speaker 4: don't want anything because I have no self control.

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Speaker 3: So I mean, what about you guys?

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Speaker 1: Do you I mean, Paulina, Yes, I love you. If

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Speaker 1: it made it, do a lot of testing on this

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Speaker 1: radio program, Yes, I have you have if Hobby does

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Speaker 1: this and you say, oh, I'm good, you don't mean good.

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Speaker 3: It's just my mood changes by the hour. So like,

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Speaker 5: Want to order a six pm and the food comes

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Speaker 5: at seven by seven, I might want something, and that's

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 3: I gotta like deal with that. So what he's done

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Speaker 1: Doc I got it. I got this thing I got

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Speaker 1: at six. I don't want to eat it seven. I

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Speaker 1: want to eat my delivery. Yeah, I mean, what do

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Speaker 1: I do? It takes forty five minutes for the food.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot it do I just get me?

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Speaker 2: Do I get.

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Speaker 5: It shows up exactly and my whole mind, mood, everything changes.

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Speaker 5: So he got smart and he'll do like it's a medium,

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Speaker 5: he'll do a large for example, right because it comes

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Speaker 5: little bigger, so that if I don't for some reason

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Speaker 5: at seven o'clock, I'm like, actually, I'm going to bed,

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Speaker 5: you know, see you later.

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Speaker 3: He can then finish his own meal or just you.

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Speaker 2: Know, a dog whatever. His testing I know, like just

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Speaker 2: do you want it? Yes?

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Speaker 1: No? And then if an hour later you wanted it

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Speaker 1: but he didn't order it, like that's not something to

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Speaker 1: be upset about, because like you, I did what you

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Speaker 1: told me to do now, and then for you to

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Speaker 1: then say, but you're not supposed to do what I

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Speaker 1: tell you to do, well, then how when does that apply?

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Speaker 1: And when doesn't that apply? You know, because there are

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Speaker 1: gonna be other times where you tell me you don't

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Speaker 2: So I'm confused. What about you?

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Speaker 3: I am confusion. I want something all the time, So okay.

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Speaker 1: So you, but will you communicate that or will you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll say, you know what, I'm good. I'm good,

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Speaker 7: But then when his stuff arrives and it's all smelling good,

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Speaker 7: I'm like, let.

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Speaker 2: Me get a little bit.

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Speaker 3: We gotta just tell him what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to know.

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Speaker 3: That I'm saying, I'm honest. When I go from the rooftop,

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Speaker 3: I don't want anything. Let's just be honest. I'm sick

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Speaker 3: of it.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, that's really hard.

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Speaker 2: Too many guessing games, you guys. I just I need

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Speaker 3: You want, what you say, and say what you mean.

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Speaker 1: But then I know there are other times when you

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Speaker 1: want to be surprised or you want someone you want

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Speaker 1: to feel like he was thoughtful. Yes, but then if

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Speaker 1: you can't get angry about the thoughtfulness. Like Caitlin, you know,

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Speaker 1: if somebody gets you something because they really think that

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Speaker 8: I I have an issue with that because I have

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Speaker 8: taken a really long journey to be able to tell

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Speaker 8: that they know better for me, it kind of frustrates

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Speaker 8: me because I'm being one hundred percent honest.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: If someone ordering you to be in a cheese burrito

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Speaker 1: means that they know more than you. I think it's

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Speaker 1: just means like, well, there's a chance that while I'm

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Speaker 1: a left out.

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Speaker 2: All right, hey, Bridget, how you doing.

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Speaker 9: I'm good.

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Speaker 2: It is complicated. I got my molesket diary out.

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Speaker 1: I'm adding notes, you know, to what he is and

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Speaker 1: like what I should and shouldn't do.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, are you married, Bridget? No,

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Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm single.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But if you were with a guy and he's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm ordering food and you're like, I'm not hungry, you

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Speaker 1: kind of want him to order you something anyway, just

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Speaker 3: No, I probably.

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Speaker 6: probably not hungry.

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Speaker 4: Plus, I don't really like playing games.

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Speaker 9: Hell, yeah, I really don't think. I don't think it's

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Speaker 9: a determining factor of someone that's a bad partner.

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Speaker 6: Based on you know, them having an internal fight of

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Speaker 9: Do I not order her food?

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Speaker 6: What if I do and she gets mad? What if

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Speaker 6: I don't and she gets mad? What do I do?

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Speaker 6: What do I do? That's still much anxiety?

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Speaker 2: Man, thank you, you got.

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Speaker 6: Just communicate what you want and then leave it like that.

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Speaker 1: Now, wait a minute, now, do I need to take

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Speaker 2: And if the wind is blowing.

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Speaker 1: From the east, correct, you know, then that definitely means

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Speaker 6: I think also you have to kind of know your

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Speaker 6: not interested in food, and then every time you get

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Speaker 3: Then you know that you have.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is true. Thank you, Bridget. I appreciate a

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Speaker 1: lot of wisdom. Here, have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, bye, okay, good Yeah, this is why I'm single.

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Speaker 1: Guys, I just I don't know if I try to

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Speaker 1: thought that, I'm out.

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Speaker 2: I'm moving out. I'm moving out.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm calling I'm calling the two Fred guys and

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Speaker 1: those two guys in their truck and I'm just like

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Speaker 1: you're yelling at me for being thoughtful. I'm taking the couch.

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Speaker 1: I'm taking the couch. It's fine. Ever been left waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey Case, good morning, welcome to

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Speaker 2: the program. How are you? I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 1: Okay, just all right, that's honest. Because you're upset about

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Speaker 1: this woman named Molly. How did you meet Molly? I

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Speaker 1: want to know about any dates you've been on, and

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Speaker 1: then where things are now.

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Speaker 6: Well, so just to turn everything, I'm staying at well,

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Speaker 6: I'm staying at in my mom's basement while my pleasures avated.

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Speaker 2: She knew that, you know, before before we went on

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Speaker 1: Let me decode this. So you met online, You've been

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Speaker 1: well this should be good. We're going to play a song.

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Speaker 1: The hope is that we can figure out what's going on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's amazing.

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Hey, Case, Yes, all right, man, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: So you met Molly on a dating app, as many

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Speaker 1: let's call Molly right now. Good luck, Case, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Hi is Molly, Hey Molly, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 2: I guess so, well, thank you for much.

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Speaker 1: No, you're a little white, You're a little leg What

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out? Why is this happening to you? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right away. We're calling on behalf

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Speaker 2: Do you remember Case?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 6: I do?

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Speaker 2: How could you forget? So what happened with him?

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Speaker 1: Because we just talked to him and he was telling

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Speaker 6: Oh wow, okay, sure. So basically, well, he told me

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Speaker 6: Yeah, which like totally fine, that's that's fine. But he

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he was trying to lure you back to

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like it wouldn't be like a whole whole like

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Speaker 9: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 6: And she like barged into his room when I'm still

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Speaker 6: Straight up, m m okay. It was like trying to

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Speaker 7: Like, did you guys make it past first base?

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Speaker 2: Looking looking like it's going pretty good?

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Speaker 2: If you'd get the heck out get a girl in

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Speaker 9: Right, he was like she was like she's like, okay,

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Speaker 9: well you're in the door in the bathroom. Like was

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Like okay, first of all, so look, she's just she

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Speaker 7: She's not like saying she's one of those cool moms.

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Speaker 2: She's just like that's just our family dynamic cool for me,

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Speaker 7: It's not what you think, like, I just don't get like,

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Speaker 7: I guess your second she's too nice, she's too.

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Speaker 1: I think she's upset because you were laying in bed

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Speaker 2: I think I'm pretty stressed. What she's upset about?

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Speaker 2: Is that not what happened it It wasn't like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what got her to leave the bedroom?

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Speaker 1: This is your birth mom, right, This isn't like a

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Speaker 2: Okay, well I'm just just making cause that makes it even.

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Speaker 1: I mean it would be weird either way, your birth

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Speaker 7: No. She even made a joke about how like she

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Speaker 2: It is weird, Like why are we talking about this?

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Speaker 6: And then she invited me on their family vacation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well she's being nice.

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Speaker 6: She made you breakfast, so yeah, she invited you to

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Speaker 2: I mean, a romantic getaway with mom, like I.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it wouldn't be like that. You know, we'd

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Speaker 2: Well that's that's good. Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure they would connect, though some mom could

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Speaker 1: It's one thing for your parents to be nice. It's

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he'll move back into his house where mom's you know,

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Speaker 1: not there. I'm sure she has a key, but you know,

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Speaker 6: Oh man, I mean that's very sweet. I just think

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Speaker 6: on a second date, I'm going out with his mom too, yeah,

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Speaker 6: or we're going like doing doubles swinging.

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Speaker 1: Perhaps, Yeah, it's weird. Okay, all right, look Case, I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry it's not going to work out. Mollie, thank you

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