WEBVTT - Are We All Psychic? Your Intuition, Explained With Medium Laura Lynne Jackson 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:05.840 No one has all the answers, but when we ask 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:10.680 the right questions, we get a little closer, closer to truths, 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:16.560 closer to each other, even closer to ourselves. I'm journalist 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:19.280 Danielle Robe, and each week, my guests and I come 0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:22.800 together to challenge the status quo and our own ways 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:27.360 of thinking by daring to ask what if, why not? 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:29.080 And who says? 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:30.600 So? 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:35.920 Come curious, dig deep, and join the conversation. It's time 0:00:36.280 --> 0:00:37.640 to question everything. 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:41.840 Have you ever asked yourself? Was that a sign? 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:42.599 Or? 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:45.920 Am I just making meaning out of nothing? If you 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:48.120 do it, you're not alone. I do it all of 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:51.000 the time, and so do a lot of other people. 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:55.960 Searches for synchronicity and quote spiritual signs are at an 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:59.720 all time high. Therapists say clients are asking about intuition 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:04.280 more then they're asking about anxiety. Even neuroscientists are studying 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:07.760 deja vus as a potential form of a glitchy memory, 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:11.200 while half of TikTok is convinced its messages from the universe. 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:17.480 We are a culture hungry for direction somewhere between science, spirituality, 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:21.480 and something we don't have a language for yet. Psychology 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:24.560 today just reported that more people than ever believe the 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:29.240 universe communicates through patterns. You think about someone you haven't 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:29.640 seen in. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:32.080 Years, and then they call you. 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:34.240 You're sort of wrestling with a choice, and then a 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:38.280 stranger says the exact sentence you needed. Or maybe a 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:40.880 song comes on at the perfect moment, and it feels 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:44.120 like the universe is djy in your life. Most of 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:46.319 us write it off, or we believe it for ten 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:49.360 seconds and then talk ourselves out of it. Right, But 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:52.920 what if we're not imagining it? What if we're fluent 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:56.400 in a language that no one ever taught us. Before 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:58.160 I share our guest today, I want to give you 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:01.120 a little honest context about my curer around all of this. 0:02:01.800 --> 0:02:04.560 I saw my first psychic in August of twenty twenty one, 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:06.080 and I'm going to be honest. 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:08.160 I had hit a low point in my life. 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:10.680 I was acutely depressed, which I've talked about before on 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:12.360 the pod, And if you have further questions you can 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:15.600 ping me. I'm happy to answer them. But my heart hurt. 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:18.880 I felt lonely. I was spinning my wheels in my 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:22.760 career and people probably didn't know it on the outside, 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.280 but on the inside, I was expending so much time 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:28.560 and energy and money and seeing very little return on 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:31.640 my investment. I went to dinner with someone that I 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:36.000 interviewed on this podcast. Actually she was whip smart, very realistic, 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:40.240 very pragmatic, someone who I respect a ton, and she 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:43.000 told me about the psychic. I kind of giggled and 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:45.680 I was like, you don't believe in psychics, do you? 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:49.359 Really? She smiled at me, and she shared the name 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:51.440 of one. She said, if you email her, she might 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:56.600 not reply, but sometimes she'll reply with very magical emails. 0:02:57.120 --> 0:02:57.840 And there it was. 0:02:58.200 --> 0:03:00.120 I had this woman's email for three months and did 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:04.000 absolutely nothing with it. My dad would have made so 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:06.800 much fun of me. He's not into any of that. 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:10.000 And then one night, around nine pm on a weeknight, 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:12.519 I hopped on my computer and I wrote an email 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:15.240 asking if she had an opening. It was like an 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:18.760 outer body experience. I don't know why. Nothing happened that 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:22.680 made me do it. And I heard my phone ping 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.920 at two am, and I woke up with truly a 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:30.120 magical email. She said stuff about my grandfather that nobody 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:34.720 could have known, wasn't printed anywhere, wasn't in an obituary, nothing. 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:38.280 I was crying reading it because I was thinking, maybe 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:42.240 my grandparents really could see me here on Earth. Maybe, 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.960 just maybe I was being guided. Despite being somewhat of 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:50.400 a skeptic. When I entered this world several years ago, 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:54.480 I was curious, and the more I experienced, the more 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:58.120 I believed. Since then, I've talked to some of the biggest, best, 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:00.760 most renowned psychics in the world, and you've probably heard 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:01.800 them on this podcast. 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:03.520 They've been on over the years. 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:07.880 Crisa Schumacher, Rebecca Rosen, Laura Day, and today we get 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:12.200 to hear from Laura Lynn Jackson. She is the people's princess. 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:16.320 Never have I ever seen someone so renowned and so beloved. 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:22.600 Laura Lynn Jackson is a world renowned psychic medium and. 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.040 Former high school English teacher. 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:26.760 She's the New York Times bestselling author of The Light 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:31.000 Between Us and Science. Her new book, Guided became an 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:34.440 instant bestseller. It's teaching you not just that the universe 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:38.200 communicates with you, but how to recognize and trust it. 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.599 We are all psychics, and we are all mediums. We 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:45.000 just don't own that gift about ourselves. And that's where 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:48.200 I liked Manna remind us that it's there for each person, 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:51.200 and nobody needs to go to a psychic medium to 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:51.960 access it. 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:54.600 We all have it at its core. 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:56.920 It's a guide to living life in partnership with the 0:04:57.040 --> 0:04:59.599 unseen without outsourcing your power. 0:04:59.720 --> 0:04:59.920 Right. 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.920 Laura's message is simple, when you reconnect to your intuition, 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:08.800 life stops feeling random and starts feeling guided. And in 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.839 this episode we get into what Laura Lyn Jackson things 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:15.880 happens when someone dies, why relationships can actually deepen after 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:22.320 they cross, soul groups, twin flames, soulmates, why some people 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:25.800 feel like you've known them for lifetimes, and how to 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:27.320 spot when a psychic is full of it. 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:28.680 I had to ask. 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:33.200 So the question we're circling today is what if intuition 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.520 isn't mystical? What if it's a skill we've just forgotten 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:40.040 how to use. It's time to question everything with Laura 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:52.560 Lynn Jackson. Now, your job is definitely part teacher to 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.680 show the other side is there. And you say that 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:58.880 it's our job to cultivate those relationships that we don't 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:00.000 actually need you. 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:03.360 That is so wild? Is that true? Like we can 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:05.640 really tap into our spirit guides. 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:08.680 One hundred percenturro We all have these abilities. I think 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:12.159 we just have learned as we were growing up and 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.400 starting formal schooling to retrain the areas of our brain 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:19.080 that we're using and to deny our abilities. There's unseen 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:20.960 energy going on around us at all times, and we 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:24.040 are all intuitive, we are all psychics, and we are 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:27.480 all mediums. We just don't own that gift about ourselves. 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:29.400 And that's where I like to come in and remind 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.400 us that it's there for each person and nobody needs 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:35.440 to go to a psychic medium to access it. We 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:36.000 all have it. 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:38.760 So I was thinking about all of your books because 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:42.880 the Light between Us was definitely geared toward people who 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:46.200 have lost children or pets. It was so gorgeous, and 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.480 I think that Signs was more of like a workshop 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:50.520 or toolbook. 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:51.840 What is guides? 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:54.719 Yeah, So I love that you recognize that about the 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:56.520 book so far. You know, I was a high school 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:58.640 English teacher for almost twenty years, and I feel that 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:01.800 my team of light was actually training me in a 0:07:01.800 --> 0:07:06.520 classroom to understand how to fully teach this to the world. Right. So, 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:08.120 I think one of the things you do as a 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:10.880 teacher is you model what's possible for students and then 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:13.200 you say, now you try it. And you see if 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.240 that becomes your truth. And so I think the light 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:19.120 between us was really about my journey into understanding these 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:21.880 abilities that I have, and in doing that, understanding they 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:24.320 belong to all of us, and kind of modeling what 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:27.760 was possible and showing the beautiful lessons I had learned 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:30.960 along the way. Science is like enough about me, this 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:34.360 is about you. Here's how you can learn to create 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:36.640 a language with your team of light on the other side. 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:38.560 And for me, a team of light is three parts. 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:40.880 Each person has it. It's God energy, which is this 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:43.960 force of love that's part of us and guides us daily. 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:47.440 And then there's spirit guides, which throughout time and history 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.200 different religions will refer to as guardian angels. It's this 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:52.880 concept of an advanced angelic realm that guides its. We 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:56.040 each have spirit guides, very unique individuals nobody we knew 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:57.840 this lifetime. And then the third part of our team 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:01.000 of light is our loved ones who have who guide us, 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:04.120 and our pet who have crossed, and also our ancestors, 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.000 some that we didn't need still watch over and guide us. 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:10.800 And so Signs is all about opening to that language, 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:14.080 that doorway for that is within right and getting this 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:17.760 tangible two way language back and forth so that we 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:22.600 can communicate. Now, Guided is taking a step further because 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:25.520 guided says, Okay, we've gotten over the fear of our 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:28.600 own abilities, right, and we've learned to trust that we 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.480 can connect and communicate it. We've gotten proof of that 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:34.800 through creating this language of signs with our teams of 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:38.000 light on the other side. So that's when the magic happens. 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:41.480 When you have conquered fear and doubt. Right now, I'm 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:44.800 trusting the signs, your whole world opens up and you 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:49.200 can be so incredibly guided onto your highest path. Guided 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:51.920 is really about a state of being. It's about a mindset. 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:54.679 It's about saying, I'm opening my heart and my mind 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:58.200 to realizing I'm not here on this life path myself, 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:01.000 that i am so beloved, i am so supported, and 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:03.400 i am so guided by a team of light on 0:09:03.440 --> 0:09:05.240 the other side, and I'm going to pay attention to that. 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:08.000 I'm going to make sure to create space for that 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:10.160 in my life, because I think when we live a 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:13.360 guided life, we're not just changing our own paths, we 0:09:13.440 --> 0:09:16.400 are affecting countless other people because our lives are all 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:20.679 intertwined so it can be so magical when you embrace that. 0:09:21.000 --> 0:09:23.839 I've heard you talk about this team of light a lot. 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.400 I've heard other people refer to it as soul packs. 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:29.120 If that's how the audience has heard it before. I've 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:30.920 read this in different books. I'd love for you to 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:33.920 sort of clarify for me. I've heard that our spirit 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:37.560 guides are our team of light. We travel from life 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:40.760 to life together. So like my dad could have been 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:43.280 the mayor of my town in a past life. 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:44.280 Is that accurate? 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:47.600 Yeah, So I'll share with you what my team of light, 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:49.760 what the other side has taught me over the many 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:52.559 decades I've been doing this. You know. Let me start 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:55.240 by saying, I was raised Lutheran. So my first concept 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:57.480 of God was a white man with a white beard 0:09:57.520 --> 0:10:00.360 and a white robe, right, being very loving. And I 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:03.679 think that's a very valid understanding and vehicle. But I 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:06.800 think my understanding of how loved and guided and kind 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:10.280 of what God energy is has expanded, and I think 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:12.000 that this is what I've been told. And this is 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.760 going to turn my brain in a pretzel to just 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:18.440 try to explain this, because right now, when we're here 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:21.920 on our school, we're locked into our little monkey minds. 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:24.680 It's this frontal lobe that meditation teachers call the monkey 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:27.400 mind that chatters, right, But that frontal lobe's in charge 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:30.880 of analytical thinking, critical thinking, math, language skills, all the 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:33.000 day to day stuff you need. We start to get 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:35.840 locked in it between age five and seven, like kindergarten, 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:38.080 first grade, second grade, which is why we distance ourselves 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.679 from our abilities. But what it also does is it 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:43.440 teaches us to just pay attention to, like the materialistic 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:46.439 paradigm of belief. Right, So we're kind of stuck in that. 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:48.880 What I'm about to explain is a little hard to 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:51.360 process in that part of our brains, right. But what 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:55.160 they've told me is this everything is really happening all 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:58.480 at once, that our existence is here on our school. 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:01.320 It's a collective lesson and in love, and so we're 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:04.000 always intertwined with other people's paths. And when you're like, 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:05.880 how could this happen? How does this make sense? The 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:10.360 answer is always about love. It's about helping grow love, 0:11:10.559 --> 0:11:13.440 or helping people access love or challenge themselves to be 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:15.959 more loving, whatever that might be. And that's why when 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:18.160 we look at our own lives, right, it's really hard 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:21.439 to assess our failures or what we see as successes, 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:24.319 because there might be a whole other spiritual context for that. 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.160 What we're deeming a failure was like our soul's greatest 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:31.640 success here. So there's that, right, But everything's all at once. Now. 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:34.240 They do tell me that we come in soul groups. 0:11:34.400 --> 0:11:37.360 So have you ever met someone and you're like, I know, 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:40.400 I just met you, but like I know you, you 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:45.120 have this familiarity, Like that's soul group recognition, right, And 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:48.360 our little dunce capt brains are keeping us from remembering, 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:51.400 like our soul connection, that the other side is our 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:54.320 true home, that you know, this is really a school 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:56.920 for souls. Like we think we're separate from one another, 0:11:57.000 --> 0:12:00.360 we're not, right. So I do feel that we come 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:03.520 here in different lifetimes as well, but it's all at once, 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:05.760 and we look at time as linear here, you know, 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:08.840 like almost as a canvas that progresses. But that's not 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:12.760 what quantum physics seems to say when it does its test. Like, 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:14.720 if you really want to go on a deep dive, 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:17.439 look up the theory of retro causality, and what you're 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:21.359 going to find is that it unequivocally proves in a scientific, 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:25.240 well studied way that yes, we know the past affects 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:28.320 the future, but it proves that the future actually affects 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:31.360 the past. How does that make sense? Right? If time 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:33.760 is linear, it can't make sense. If everything is all 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:37.280 at once, it can. There's some really fascinating studies around 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:40.240 that too. So I think we come back in soul groups. 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:42.360 I think we can play different roles for each other. 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:45.160 And here's the truth that I feel, we're always really 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:47.160 on the other side. Have you ever done a virtual 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:50.240 reality like with the goggles and like that whole setup. 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:53.520 It feels like you're really there experiencing it, but you're 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:56.360 really not. You're standing somewhere else. And I feel like 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.280 what they've shown me is we're never separate from those 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:01.719 we love because our soul essence is always on the 0:13:01.800 --> 0:13:03.760 other side together. And then we've beamed down in these 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:08.360 you know, virtual reality lives to learn lessons in collective love. 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:11.800 So I think that one of the falsehoods that our 0:13:11.800 --> 0:13:14.440 brain tricks us into thinking is that we're separate. 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:16.959 I could be misinterpreting what you said, but it kind 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:18.480 of sounds like you feel like we're here in a 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:21.079 simulation a little bit the way Elon Musk does. 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:23.880 Yeah, I do think it, But I also think, like, 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.040 who's to say what a simulation is. If you think 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:28.920 about these physical bodies we have, right, it's kind of 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:30.920 like getting in a car and driving somewhere, getting to 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:33.680 a destination, getting out, you leave the car there, you're 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:36.480 still very much present. So I think what I'm really 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:39.640 saying is that we are spirits, We are souls in 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:42.920 physical bodies right now having this human experience, and it's 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:45.520 not just for our own learning about love, it's to 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:49.120 also foster and help other people. So yeah, I do 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:51.720 think that this is kind of like a virtual reality 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:53.120 experience in that same way. 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:56.120 Yeah, So what are these guides guiding us towards? Is 0:13:56.120 --> 0:14:00.240 it our own inclinations and wants or are they able 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:01.680 to see sort of the bigger plan. 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:05.000 It's a much bigger plan. And I think sometimes here 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:08.160 on Earth we have such a myopic view and we 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:11.320 might be like saying, please make this happen for me, please, 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:13.640 But our guides know that if they make that happen 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:16.360 for us, like something awful will happen on our path 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:18.880 four months later and they have to avoid that roadblock 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:20.600 that's coming. So they're like Oh, it's gonna be really 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:22.520 disappointed about this one, but we've got to block it, 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:24.440 and we're none the wiser, and then we get upset 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:26.440 and we feel like the universe has forgotten about us 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:29.040 or whatever. Like what I do know and what has 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:31.120 been driven home for me is whatever is happening to 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:33.360 you is happening for you. And I think that could 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:36.040 be really hard to understand when it comes to loss 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:38.600 or grief or things like that. But I can only 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:40.360 tell you what the other side tells me, which is 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:43.960 it's all about love. And truly, the only lessons we're 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:46.240 meant to learn here is any opportunity we have to 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:49.960 give love or receive it. That's it. And our true 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:55.400 currency is supposed to be like kindness, empathy, forgiveness, gratitude, 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:59.480 and love. If you are living by those standards, if 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:02.240 that's what you're doing in your daily life, no matter 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:05.440 how small you might think your little world is or 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:09.000 how large you're acing your time here, you just are. 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:12.400 And so our guides are always trying to help us 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:16.200 get on our highest paths. Sometimes they'll put thoughts in 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.160 our mind, like don't go that way home, take the 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:20.720 longer way. A lot of times it'll be counterintuitively, be like, 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:22.520 why would I do that only to find out if 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:24.600 we had gone the other way home there was an 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:28.000 accident or the road was closed. They are constantly trying 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:30.720 to help us. I will also say it's the least 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:33.560 complicated relationship any of us will ever have, because if 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:36.160 we ignore our spirit guides, they don't get offended. They 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:38.080 just circle back and try again. They're just there to 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:40.800 support and love. There's like nothing we need to do. 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:43.480 I think they love when we're more open to the guidance. 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:45.560 I think they love when we pay attention to our 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:48.440 own psychic and intuitive ability. As I'm always talking about 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:50.360 the four players that we all come here with, right, 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:52.920 so when we open to those, they can communicate more 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:54.600 clearly with us. They can help us get on our 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:57.720 highest path in a much easier way. They can help 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:00.880 us sometimes glimpse the bigger picture that we were failing 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:12.760 to say. 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:15.840 When I posted that I was going to interview you, 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:20.320 I got so many interesting questions from people, but one 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:23.480 that came over and over again were the signs that 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:24.440 you just mentioned. 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:26.520 People really want clarity on. 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:29.280 How to ask for the signs, what the signs are, 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:32.240 and also is there ever a sign that is too 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:35.320 small or feels like a coincidence. For instance, you're shaking 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:37.760 your head. No, But I'll just give an example. There's 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:40.840 been moments in my life where I'm not even really 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:41.800 asking for a sign. 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:44.960 Something will happen and then a song. 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:48.200 On the radio comes on and the same word I 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:50.520 was thinking about is in that song, like in a 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:53.680 repetitive way. Yes, that could have been a coincidence or 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:55.720 it could have been a sign. And I'm always a 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:58.800 little speculative, and so i don't know what to make 0:16:58.880 --> 0:16:59.240 of it. 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:01.160 Can you share what your thoughts are? 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.920 That's such a great question to explore here. So just 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:07.119 the example you gave, right, you're thinking something and the 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:10.359 exact lines the words come in a song. What that 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:12.639 would really be showing you is how in sync and 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:14.919 in flow of light of the universe you are, that 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:16.879 you're not separate and on your own, that there is 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:19.720 a team listening and with you and showing up and 0:17:19.800 --> 0:17:22.440 showing you there present. So here's what I always say. 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:25.600 If you have this moment in your thoughts where you're like, 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:29.720 I think that was a sign, it is. Here's why 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:34.480 we're always getting trapped with this little monkey mind. It chatters, 0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:37.239 and it's only based in like tangible like if you 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:39.439 can't see it, touch it, taste, I feel it, it 0:17:39.520 --> 0:17:42.399 doesn't exist. It doesn't want to talk about unseen energy. 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:45.200 It doesn't want to talk about the connections between all things. Right, 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:48.760 So if we get this little moment where we're able 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:51.440 to like jail break our monkey mind for a brief 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:53.480 second and be like, I think that was a sign 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:56.800 pay careful attention, because if you're able to do that, 0:17:56.800 --> 0:18:00.240 that means you're recognizing the spiritual. Now, what happened when 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:04.480 we have spiritual experiences is oftentimes our monkey mind will 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:08.439 like slam them down. It'll say it's a coincidence. Stop 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:11.520 being foolish, don't tell anyone about this. Then you'll be 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:13.880 laughed at. Right, he tells you all sorts of really 0:18:13.920 --> 0:18:16.840 mean things, and why it's trying to control the narrative 0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:19.600 and not let you access that part of yourselves. I 0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:23.280 think also because ninety eight percent of our brain weigh 0:18:23.320 --> 0:18:27.439 activity in our waking hours takes place exclusively in that 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:30.840 frontal lobe, so we're really stuck in it during waking hours. 0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:33.680 It's interesting to talk about sleep too, and like dream visitations, 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.480 by people on the other side and like why that happens, 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:38.560 and precognitive dreams and all of that. Do you know, 0:18:38.640 --> 0:18:41.760 like the scientists who were working on how to save 0:18:41.800 --> 0:18:45.240 people with diabetes dreamt about insulin like they got that 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:48.439 answer in a dream. Famous musicians have woken up with 0:18:48.880 --> 0:18:51.600 songs that became so famous and helped and healed so 0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:54.280 many people playing in their minds, Like we go somewhere 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:56.120 else when we dream, but in our waking hours we're 0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:59.400 stuck here. Right, So let's talk about how to really 0:19:00.080 --> 0:19:02.880 open our minds and hearts to recognize the signs. You 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:05.920 did when you have that moment in the car, you're like, oh, 0:19:05.960 --> 0:19:08.560 that's odd, I think that could be a sign. What 0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:10.720 should happen right after that is your monkey mind should 0:19:10.720 --> 0:19:12.399 tell you it's not because there's always going to be 0:19:12.440 --> 0:19:14.480 a wrestling match. But what you do is you just 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:17.359 like surrender the experience and own it. You tell your 0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:19.639 monkey mind to sit down and be quiet. What I 0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:21.879 love to teach people to do, though, is if you 0:19:21.920 --> 0:19:23.280 have a moment where you're like, I think that was 0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:25.840 a sign? Was it? Get more specific? Ask the other 0:19:25.880 --> 0:19:28.520 side to show you louder or show you more so 0:19:28.600 --> 0:19:30.359 let's talk a little bit about the signs that the 0:19:30.359 --> 0:19:32.720 other side sends you without you asking, what I call 0:19:32.800 --> 0:19:35.919 default signs, and then a way that you can co 0:19:36.040 --> 0:19:40.040 create this language. So I think what's really important for 0:19:40.080 --> 0:19:42.399 our loved ones when they cross or our guides or 0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:45.159 God energy to let us know their present is to 0:19:45.200 --> 0:19:48.199 get our attention. So I have found that there are 0:19:48.240 --> 0:19:50.639 certain default signs that they will use to get our 0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:52.879 attention to jail break our little monkey mind for a 0:19:52.880 --> 0:19:55.280 moment and go wait, there's something much more magical going 0:19:55.320 --> 0:19:57.520